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SOLITA: Notes on Tears & Chaos — 52 episodes

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52. Cheaters, Cheating, & Being Cheated On (Story Time)

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51. The Paradox of Time, Choice, & Possibilities

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50. Therapy is Actually Really Hard

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49. Media in Foreign Languages: Kdramas & Korean Men

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48. Xmas Haul & a Healing New Year!

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47. Surprise! I'm Not Dead (Yet...)

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46. Emotions vs. Intelligence & a Little Bit of Politics

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45. Making Adult Friendships & Social Anxiety

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44. Growing Up, Growing Older, & the Passing of Time

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43. Feeling Like a Piece of S***: Rejection, Perfectionism, & Failure

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42. The Grief of Letting Go

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41. Returning to Yourself: Do What You Love & Remember That Feeling

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40. How to Build Trust in Yourself: The Life You've Always Wanted

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39. Healing a Broken Heart & Loving Deeply

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38. What is True Self-Awareness?: Holding on to the Past & Addiction to Shame

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37. I Think I Want to Disappear

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36. Fear of Adulting: Stuck in a Subjective Age

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35. Overconsumption: You Have to Start Thinking for Yourself

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34. One Year of the SOLITA Podcast: Passion Projects and The "Right Time" to Start

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33. End of the Year Exhaustion: The Need to Reset

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32. Growing Up Ugly: The Long-Term Effects of Developmental Years

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31. Turning Negativity into Growth: Decision-Making & Moving Forward

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30. Speaking Out in Times of Crisis

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29. Unscripted: A Little Talk About Depression & ED's

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28. Not Wanting to Be Perceived

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27. Goodbye 22: Confronting My Toxic Traits & Leaving the Past Behind

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26. Fear of Being Alone: Abandonment Issues & Facing Discomfort

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25. Closure Doesn't Exist: Cutting Ties & Staying Friends With Your Ex

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24. Quitting Too Soon: Discipline & the Freedom to Explore

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23. Invest in Yourself: Taking Risks & Becoming Obsessed With What You Want

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22. How to Be Selfish: Rebranding & Self Love

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21. Why Sh**ty Things Happen to Us: Existentialism & The Butterfly Effect

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20. Unscripted: People-Pleasing, Identity Crisis, & Other Heartbroken Rants

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19. I Didn't Deserve What They Put Me Through

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18. Nothing Is Forever: Living Recklessly & Without Guilt

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17. Recognizing My Safe Spaces

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16. Expressing Gratitude in the Face of Chaos

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15. Oh Brother, I'm Depressed: Self-Esteem & Hopelessness

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14. Unhealthy Attachments: Why You Keep Going Back to Your Ex

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13. Change: Fear, Loss, & Unfamiliarity

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12. I Don't Know Who I am: Reminiscing the Person I Used to Be

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Being a Hater to My Core: Jealousy & Resentment

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The Feminine Experience: How I Love Being a Woman!

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I Feel Like I'm Running Out of Time

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Overthinking: toxic habits & intrusive thoughts

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Sense & Sensuality, or Romanticizing Your Life

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Not Fitting In: imposter syndrome & the pressure to belong

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Lurking Too Close to the Sun: internet stalking & the digital footprint

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Loving After Heartbreak

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I Am Allowed to Make Mistakes

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I Need a Job for My Sanity

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In My Depressive Flop Era

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