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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast — 419 episodes
3 Conflict Hacks Every Couple Should Know! Couples Therapy with Levi and Sabrina
Stop Putting Kids Before Marriage: Couples Therapy with Letty and Lenny
Is this Boundaries or Control? Couples Therapy with Curt and Lindsey
Singles Series: Redefining Spiritual Leadership (Meet Brittany)
Singles Series: I'm in a YES Season (Meet Paaton)
Singles Series: In Vegas But Not of Vegas (Meet Rob)
Singles Series: The “Not My Husband” List (Meet Leah)
Singles Series: From Heartbreak to Healing (Meet Malachi)
Singles Series: I Love My People (Meet Lauren)
Singles Series: Embracing Hard Conversations (Meet Devon)
Singles Series: I’m Learning Myself (Meet Amanda)
Singles Series: Faith Over Everything (Meet Pedro)
Is This Burnout or Menopause?
My Parents Show No Interest In Me
I Don’t Know What’s Next For Me
Facing My Own Prison with Jermaine Wilson
My Adult Child Went No Contact
I Have Major Anger Issues
Vulnerability Means You Go First with Tim Ross
Healing My Mother Wounds with Kirby Kelly
Looking for Love in the Wrong Places with Christian Bevere
The Stress of the Sandwich Generation with Joel Muddamalle
My Spouse Is Addicted to Their Phone
When a Friendship Ends Without Warning with Alex Seeley
People Skills Don’t Come Naturally To Me with Kendall Mariah
How Do I Deal with Difficult or Toxic People? With Gary Thomas
I Keep Getting Hurt By Friends
Dealing with Church Trauma
How Do I Feel Secure Standing Alone?
Do I Have Friendship Triggers?
I’m Done Being Passive
How Do I Trust Again?
Dealing with Wounds of Friendship Betrayal
No One Knew How Bad My Anxiety Was with Shawn Johnson
I’m a Recovering People Pleaser with Judah Smith
I Feel Offended by God with Alexandra Hoover
Giving Too Much in a Relationship with Lysa Terkeurst
I Just Want To Be Accepted with Max Lucado
I Thought Boundaries Were Selfish with Bianca Olthoff
Jesus Saved Me From Porn with Joshua Broome
Letting Go of Self-Sufficiency with Demi Leigh Tebow
Childhood Wounds: On-Air Counseling Session with Matt Chandler
Overcoming People Pleasing with Candace Cameron Bure
My Radical Transformation From Darkness with Cristina Baker
Healing from Abuse with Anne Beiler (Auntie Anne)
How To Parent A Perfectionist Child
What To Do When My Spouse Isn't Parenting Well
Does My Son Play Too Many Video Games?
How Do I Deal With My Kid's Big Emotions?
Raising Kids Who Love Jesus with the Jeremy and Adie Camp
Emotionally Healthy Families - A Conversation with my Daughter Ella!
Parenting Advice For Every Age and Stage with Levi and Jennie Lusko
No Topic is Off Limits with Gabe and Rebekah Lyons
How Parenting Makes You Better with Ben and Kirsten Watson
Tips to Connect With Your Kids with Chris and Tina Reed
When Life is Tough with Tim Timberlake
How I Lost Over 200 lbs with Leah Hope Health
How Do I Heal My Mother Wounds? (with Larinda)
We're Struggling with Physical Boundaries in Dating (with Bri)
What If My Trauma DIDN'T Affect Me? (with Sandy)
I'm Dating But Not Feeling It (with Allison)
How Do I Interact with My Emotionally Unavailable Mother? (with Melissa)
Freedom from Porn and Lust (with Mason)
Healing after Divorce with Toni Collier
Mid-Life Crisis: On-Air Counseling with Levi Lusko
The Emotionally Disconnected Marriage: Gabe and Rebekah Lyons
I’m A Recovering Alcoholic with Ian Cron
On-Air Counseling Session with Jinger Dugger Vuolo
I'm Struggling with My Self-Worth and Inner Critic
I Have a Hard Time Saying No
It’s Not All On Me with Haven Weits
Am I Emotionally Healthy?
I Don’t Know How To Rest
Forgiving The Unforgivable with Davey Blackburn
I Have Anger Issues
This is Harder Than I Thought It Would Be with Stephanie May Wilson
When is it Time to Take Medication for Depression & Anxiety?
I Say Yes When I Should Say No
What Do I Do With These Hard Emotions? with Annie Downs
Attracted To Emotionally Unavailable Men
Healing From a Relationship I Made Up in My Mind
Second Guessing the Break Up
Struggling with Singleness with Anthony O'Neal
She Keeps Triggering Me with Brooke and Wiley
We're In a Stressful Season with Jimmy and Irene Rollins
Why Do We Keep Having the SAME Fight?
Newlywed Struggles with Kait and JJ Tomlin
Reset from Body Shame
RESET from Too Much Screen Time
Reset from Unhealthy Relationships
Reset from Worst Case Scenario Thinking
Baggage in Our Marriage with Dave & Ann Wilson
Why Can’t I Ask For What I Need?
Do I Have Dad Wounds? with Jonathan Pokluda
Am I Healed Enough To Date?
Rejection Wounds with Alexandra Hoover
Trusting God vs. Taking Control
Avoiding Burnout in Ministry with Tim Timberlake
Rest - Kayla from Oklahoma
Tune In - Lindsi from Kentucky
People Pleasers - Candace Cameron Bure
How to Savor Life
Savoring Through Suffering
The Theology of SELF-CARE with Joel Muddamalle
I'm Awful at Boundaries in Ministry
I Thought Boundaries Were Selfish - PROTECT with Bianca Olthoff
Do I Even Need Friends?
I Had Followers but Not Friends - CONNECT with Carlos Whitaker
How Full do You Feel? + Soul Care Special Reading with Debra Fileta!
Can You Take Caring For Your Body Too Far?
Why I Neglected My Body with Jasmine Mays
Why Am I Always So Burnt Out?
Letting Go of Self-Sufficiency with Demi-Leigh Tebow
Leaving the Adult Industry with Brittni De La Mora
How Do I Find Community In A New Place?
When Ministry is REALLY Hard with Matt Brown
Dealing with Heartbreak After Heartbreak with Jeanine Amapola Ward
I Need Help with Dating Decisions!
Rejection Wounds with Alexandra Hoover
When You Feel Like You Don't Fit In with Brian Tome
How Do You Date After Loss?
Baggage in Our Marriage with Dave & Ann Wilson
Why Can’t I Ask For What I Need?
Do I Have Dad Wounds? with Jonathan Pokluda
When Old Trauma Spills Into New Relationships
When There Seems To Be No Hope with Katherine Wolf
Trusting God vs. Taking Control
Struggling With Singleness: A Conversation with Mandisa
Single With Married Friends & Struggling
Why Do Some Traumas Take Longer To Heal Than Others?
Am I Healed Enough To Date?
I’m An Emotional Over-Reactor
How to Have Emotional Safety in Marriage
Anxiety in Dating
Am I Over My Divorce?
My Unhealthy Marriage
I Have Trust Issues: Dealing with Mental Illness & Repeated Infidelity (with Amanda and Tim)
I’m Addicted to Affairs (with Tim and Kathy Bush)
Is It Boundaries? Or Is It Control? (with Cristy and Nick)
Porn Problems (with Dave and Ashley Willis)
I Blame Myself (with Faith Eury Cho)
Admitting I Needed Help (with Havilah Cunningham)
Enmeshed with My Unhealthy Mother (with Anh Lin)
From Porn Star to Child of God (with Joshua Broome)
Dealing with the Pressure (with Madison Prewett Troutt)
Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast (Trailer)
Tips For The First Years of Marriage: Porn, Honesty, and Forgiveness
Happy Wife = Happy Life (and other bad relationship advice)
Married Couples Need A Weekly Date Night Out (and other bad relationship advice)
Marriage Should Make You Happy (and other bad relationship advice) with Gary Thomas
Time = Love: A Conversation with My Husband (Part 3)
Boundaries With The Opposite Sex: A Conversation with My Husband (Part 2)
Emotional Connection in Marriage: A Conversation With My Husband (Part 1)
Perspective and Mindset
Identity
Conflict in Marriage
Boundaries
The Myth of The One
Clutter and Hoarding
The Imposter Syndrome
Understanding Attachment Styles
Friendships As An Adult
Dysfunctional Family: Is There Hope for Me to Have a Future Healthy Family?
Enjoying Singleness vs. Wanting Marriage
8 Ways To Pray For Love (Even Before You Have A Relationship)
How To Guard Your Heart Without Being Too Guarded
Faith & Romance: Attracted to a Non-Christian
Biblical Dating: Camels, Arranged Marriage, and Starbucks.
Single in my 30s- How To Hold On To Hope
10 Girls You Shouldn’t Date
10 Guys You Shouldn’t Date: How Can I Avoid Dating The Bad Boys?
Am I Going To Be Single Forever? Trusting God With The Unknowns
Struggling With Singleness: A Conversation with Mandisa
Can A Woman Make The First Move?
You Don’t Have To Like Being Single: 10 Ways To Survive Singleness
Walking Away From Toxic Relationships: With Gary Thomas
The Reality Check of Marriage (with Addie and Jeremy Camp)
When Life Doesn’t Go As Planned: Grief, Loss & Remarriage w/ Daniel and Brittany Price Brooker
Birth Order & Your Love Life: How Birth Order Impacts Your Relationships
Communication In Marriage: How To Stop The Drift (with Dr. Kim Kimberling)
RESET from Worst Case Scenario Thinking (an on-air session with Roosevelt)
RESET from a Hopeless Marriage (with Out of the Dust Music)
RESET from Trauma (with Toni Collier)
RESET from Insecurity (an on-air session with Nanette)
RESET from Negative Thinking (with Christine Caine)
RESET from Grief (an on-air session with Sabrina)
RESET from Bad Marriage Advice (with the Lusko’s)
RESET from Negative Thinking (an on-air session with Josh)
RESET From Porn (a conversation with Matt and Sathiya)
RESET from Toxic Optimism
RESET from Addiction (with Irene Rollins)
RESET My Relationship with Food (on-air session with Erin)
RESET Your View of God (with Alex Seely)
RESET!! Exclusive BOOK LAUNCH Bonus Episode with Debra
RESET from Unhealthy Relationships (on-air Session with Felix)
It’s Time for RESET! (Audiobook Sneak Peek!)
Don’t Take It Out On Me. Couples Therapy with Abigail and Daniel.
Childhood Wounds. Couples Therapy with Nikki and Russel. Part 2
The Disconnected Marriage. Couples Therapy with Nikki and Russel. Part 1
My Needs, Your Needs. Couples Therapy with Ben and Mary
Physical Health: Eat, Sleep, Move – Repeat
Mental Health: It’s Not a Character Issue, It’s a Chemistry Issue
Spiritual Health: Taking Our Hurts Out on God
Emotional Health: Don’t Assume You Have It
You’re Not As Healthy As You Think You Are
The One-Sided Relationship
Top 10 Relationship Killers: Small Things That Cause Big Damage
Junk Food Relationships: Convenient but not Healthy
Questions You’ve Always Wanted To Ask The Opposite Sex [Singles Panel Part 3]
Where are the Singles? Places To Meet Christian Singles. [Singles Panel Part 2]
What’s Your Dating Mentality? What You Think Effects How You Date [Singles Panel Part 1]
Breaking Free From Porn
Signs You Need to Deal With Your Trauma
Biggest Mistakes Couples Make In Conflict
How Do I Let Go of “What Ifs” From Past Relationships?
Relationship Blind Spots: How To See What You’re Not Seeing
A Couple in Crisis
How Do I Get Over Rejection?
#1 Most Downloaded: Don’t Always Believe Your Feelings- Emotional Health
#2 Most Downloaded: Couples Therapy with Justin and Tracy
#3 Most Downloaded: Sex Tips and Tricks for Newlyweds (or Not-So-Newlyweds)
#4 Most Downloaded: Just Not That Into You – 10 Signs
#5 Most Downloaded: Compatibility – How To Know If You’re A Good Match
Body Image: Learning to Love It
Physical Health: How to Keep Your Body Strong!
Enneagram and Relationships
Christians, Anxiety, and OCD Behaviors
Dealing with Your Past
Stop Freaking Out About Dating
Avoiding Burnout (w/co-host Christy Wright)
Attachment Styles: With Krispin Mayfield
Afraid to Feel: On-Air Counseling with Mike Todd
Codependent Relationships: On-Air Counseling with Toni Collier
Overcoming Childhood Trauma: On-Air Counseling with Lisa Bevere
The Hole of Depression: On-Air Counseling with Louie Giglio
Claustrophobia: On-Air Counseling with Rebekah Lyons
From National TV To a Psychiatric Hospital: On-Air Counseling with Sheila Walsh
Letting Myself Feel The Pain: On-Air Counseling Session with Bianca Olthoff
Emotional Sprains: On-Air Counseling with Anthony Evans
Rebuilding After Trauma: On-Air Counseling with Jonathan Pitts
Debilitating Panic Attacks: On-Air Counseling Session with Jeremy Camp
Trapped In Grief: On-Air Counseling with Levi Lusko
Rejection, Loss, and Abandonment: On-Air Counseling Session with Christine Caine
Childhood Wounds: On-Air Counseling Session with Matt Chandler
Suicide in the Church: On-Air Counseling Session with Kayla Stoecklein
Anti-Depressants and Prayer: On-Air Counseling Session with Natalie Grant
Anxiety Overload: On-Air Counseling Session with JP Pokluda
Culture Clash: Couples Therapy with Carlos and Ashley
Triggers Are Everywhere: Couples Therapy with Ben and Kelsey (Part 3)
The Emotional Affairs: Couples Therapy with Ben and Kelsey (Part 2)
Couples Therapy with Ben and Kelsey: Infidelity and Intimacy
Couples Therapy with Eric and Ashley: Dealing with Sexual Baggage
Couples Therapy with Justin and Tracy: Wounds from the Past
Body, Burnout, and Boundaries: Physical Health
How’s Your Spiritual Health? (It’s not what you think)
Thought Change = Life Change: Mental Health
Don’t Always Believe Your Feelings: Emotional Health
Just Not That Into You: 10 Signs To Look For
Secrets to Good Communication: The Art of Conversation
Am I Toxic? What If I’m the Unhealthy One in the Relationship
Compatibility: How to Know if You’re a Good Match
Oversharing in Relationships: 10 Things Not To Talk About Too Soon
Trust Issues: Is the Problem You, or Your Relationship?
Single In Your 30s: How to Hold on to Hope!
Helping Your Kids Establish a Healthy Identity
Considering Marriage: Majors and Minors (with Pastor Cal)
Moving Forward After Purity Culture
Oral Sex: When One of You Doesn’t Like it.
How Do I Help My Wife Get Turned On?
Quickie Sex or Not-So-Quickie Sex
Keeping Sex Fun When You’re Trying to Get Pregnant
Is It Wrong to Want to Try Something I’ve Seen in Porn?
Sex Tips & Tricks For Newlyweds (or not so Newlyweds)
Sexless in a Sex-Filled World
NFL & Mental Health w/ Rashad Johnson
Mind over Matter: Mental Health and The Olympics w/ Trenten Merrill
#1 Most Downloaded: How Identity Impacts Relationships w/ Christine Caine
#2 Most Downloaded: Am I Too Picky? with Ben Stuart
#3 Most Downloaded: What a Godly Man Wants in a Woman w/Chad Johnson
#4 Most Downloaded: Should A Woman Initiate? One Man’s Perspective with Chad Johnson
#5 Most Downloaded: Enjoying Singleness vs. Wanting Marriage
Anxiety in High Performance, High Functioning People
How To Deal With Stress (In 3 Steps)
When Life Brings You Down: Overcoming Severe Depression with Ben Courson
Avoiding the Comparison Trap with Jamie Ivey
Insomnia: How To Get Better Sleep
Are You Really OK? My On-Air Session with Jonathan Pitts
Are You Really OK? My On-Air Session with Jeremy Camp
My On-Air Session Levi Lusko
Are You Really OK? My On-Air Session with Christine Caine
Are You Really OK? My On-Air Session with Matt Chandler
Are You Really OK? My On-Air Session with Kayla Stoecklein
Are You Really OK? My On-Air Session with Natalie Grant
Are You Really OK? My On-Air Counseling Session with JP Pokluda
LISTEN NOW!! Are You Really OK? AUDIOBOOK INTRODUCTION!
Getting Married Young with Dave and Ashley Willis
Getting Married Older with Sabrina and Levi
How Do I Get Over Someone I Was NEVER With?
How Do You Handle Feedback After a BreakUp?
Opposite Sex Friendships: Do I Have Too Many?
Loving After Hurt
Sharing About Your Past: How Much Is Too Much?
Sexting, Sex Appeal, and The Hook-Up Culture
3 Ways To Avoid Valentines Disappointment (For Every Relationship Status)
Long Distance Relationships: How Much Is Too Much?
The Toxic Relationship with Chrystal Evans Hurst
Respectful Ways To Turn Someone Down
Long Distance Red Flags
Spiritual Intimacy in Dating: How Much is Too Much?
Getting Healthy Standing Alone with Michelle Williams
Don’t Let Singleness Stop You From Living Your Life: With Bethany Anne
The Break Up Text
How Porn Kills Relationships (with Jonathan Pokluda)
Dealing with Conflict in Relationships (Especially During COVID!!)
MORE Relationship Questions (Q&A w/ Debra Fileta and Chad Johnson)
Your Relationship Questions!! (Q&A w/ Debra Fileta and Chad Johnson)
I’m Waiting For Sex, and Proud of It.
Am I Too Picky? (With Ben Stuart)
When Should You Say I Love You?
I’m Struggling with My Partner’s Sexual History
Healing After Divorce with Eryn Eddy
Am I toxic? What If I’m the unhealthy one in the relationship?
Enjoying Singleness vs. Wanting Marriage
Dealing With Controversial Topics in Dating
Engaged During Covid with Emma Mae Jenkins
How Do You Know You’ve Healed From the Past?
Should A Woman Initiate? One Man’s Perspective with Chad Johnson
What a Godly Man Wants in a Woman (With Chad Johnson)
Jealousy in a Relationship: Is It Ever Good?
Your Identity Impacts Relationships w/Christine Caine
Physical Boundaries: We’re Saving Sex For Marriage
#1 MOST Downloaded: How Important Is Sexual & Physical Attraction. A Candid Conversation with Christian Men
#2 Most Downloaded: Casual Dating. What’s too casual?
#3 Most Downloaded: Sex Drive & Singleness: Controlling Your Lust Before It Controls You
#4 Most Downloaded: Healthy Dating with Ben Stuart
#5 Most Downloaded: How Far is Too Far? Physical Touch Before Marriage
The Reality Check of Marriage w/ Addie and Jeremy Camp
Dealing with Anxiety with Ashley Willis
Tips For The First Years of Marriage: Porn, Honesty, and Forgiveness.
Fighting to Flourish in Hard Times with Jennie Lusko
Hope For Heartbreak (with Ben Courson)
Struggling With Singleness: A Conversation with Mandisa
Play Hard To Get (and other bad relationship advice)
Marriage Should Make You Happy (and other bad relationship advice) with Gary Thomas
You’ll Just Know When You Meet The Right Person (and other bad relationship advice)
Women Should Not Initiate (and other bad relationship advice)
Happy Wife = Happy Life (and other bad relationship advice)
A Single’s Guide To Thriving In Quarantine
Just Wait on God (and other bad relationship advice)
Married Couples Need A Weekly Date Night Out (and other bad relationship advice)
Quarantine Ep. 5: Managing Conflict in Close Quarters
Quarantine Ep. 4: “Social Distancing” from Toxic People with Gary Thomas
Quarantine Ep. 3: Hand Washing and Heart Washing
Quarantine Ep 2: 10 Self Care Tips For Mental and Emotional Health (Part 2)
Quarantine Ep 1: 10 Self Care Tips for Mental and Emotional Health (Part 1)
Taking a Break In a Relationship: How To Do It Well
The On Again Off Again Relationship
8 Ways To Pray For Love (Even Before You Have a Relationship)
10 Places To Meet Christian Singles
12 Signs Your Marriage Needs Help
Valentines Day BONUS Episode! DO THIS TODAY!
3 Ways To Avoid Valentines Day Disappointment (No Matter Your Relationship Status)
Should I Marry Him/Her? 5 Signs You Shouldn’t.
Winter: The Frost of Apathy (and how to deal with it).
Colors of Fall: Questions To ASK Your Partner Not ASSUME
Summer is When Things Get HOT: On Intimacy in Relationships
Spring: Is Your Relationship Growing?
How to Make 2020 The Year of Better Relationships!
Dating Someone Who Is Divorced
Leadership, Submission and Headship in Marriage with Tim + Anne
15 Get To Know You Questions
3 Ways To Show Her You’re Interested
3 Ways You To Show Him You’re Interested
Is It Possible To Fall In Love With the Wrong Person?
Walking Away From Toxic Relationships: With Gary Thomas
Compatibility in Relationships: How To Know You’re A Good Match
Should Obesity Be a Deal Breaker in Dating?
Healthy Dating Looks Like This: With Ben Stuart
Time = Love: A Conversation with My Husband (Part 3)
Boundaries With The Opposite Sex: A Conversation With My Husband (Part 2)
Our Secret Sauce To Marriage: A Conversation With My Husband!
Casual Dating: How casual is too casual?
Spiritual Warfare & Relationships: Is it a relationship problem or a spiritual attack?
How To Guard Your Heart Without Being Too Guarded
Just Say NO: How Doing Less Is More w/ Jeff Bethke.
Faith & Romance: Attracted to a Non Christian
5 Differences That Add STRESS To Marriage
Biblical Dating: Camels, Arranged Marriage, and Starbucks.
Ready to Wed: When you’re ready to marry but your parents say no.
Me, You, and Jesus: What A Christ Centered Relationship Really Means.
Let’s Talk About SEX Drive In Marriage: Dealing With The Ups and Downs of Drive
Single in Your 30s: How To Hold On To Hope
Practical Oneness in Marriage: The Reality of Two Becoming One
10 Girls You Shouldn’t Date: How To Avoid Heart Break
10 Guys You Shouldn’t Date: How Can I Avoid Dating The Bad Boys?
Birth Order & Your Love Life: How Birth Order Impacts Your Relationships
Break Up Advice: 10 Ways To Heal After A Break Up
Communication In Marriage: How To Stop The Drift
5 Ways To Build Trust In A Relationship
Am I Going To Be Single Forever? Trusting God With The Unknowns
The Only Three Dating Rules You Need: Know Your Reds, Greens, and Yellows.
Can A Woman Make The First Move? On Women Initiating
Top 10 Relationship Killers: Small Things That Cause Big Relationship Problems
Oversharing in Relationships: 10 Things NOT To Talk About Too Soon
Does God Have One Person Out There For Me To Marry? 3 Things You Need To Know About The One
How Far Is Too Far? Physical Touch Before Marriage
You Don’t Have To Like Being Single: 10 Ways To Survive Singleness
The Ultimate Date: Date Ideas From First Dates to Married Dates
Sex Drive & The Single Life: Controlling Your Lust Before It Controls You
No More Pretending: Depression, Suicide, & The Church w/Jarrid Wilson
How Important Is Sexual & Physical Attraction: A Candid Conversation with Christian Men
When Life Doesn’t Go As Planned: Grief, Loss & Remarriage w/ Daniel and Brittany Price Brooker
The Art of Conversation: Secrets to Good Communication
Junk Food Relationships: Healthy Relationships AREN’T Convenient
Online Dating Tips: Up Your Odds of Finding A Good Match
The One Sided Relationship: What It Tells Me About You
90% of Couples Who Got a Divorce Had This One Issue
Just Not That Into You: 10 Signs To Look For
Trust Issues: Is the problem in your relationship or is the problem in you?