All Episodes
The Messed Up Counsellor — 117 episodes
Episode 125 Outside influences in our primary relationships.
Episode 124 The maze of clinical diagnosis what’s our role.
Episode 123 Exams the stresses and strains
Episode 122 Working environments and how different models relate to different Clients
Episode 121 Self-disclosure is it any good and how far do we go
Episode 120 Climate change and our personal reaction to it.
Episode 119 Self-employed how do we manage it and make it work
Episode 118 Is it me or is it the Client Transference and us.
Episode 117 Counselling in another country and things to think about keeping us and the Client safe.
Episode116 Facing a possible death and living through it
Episode 115 Looking forward to the summer
114 Action reaction using the clock face.
Episode 113 Power and control in our work and relationships
Episode 112 Teenagers and CYP getting them to open up
Episode 110 Riggers of being the authentic you
Episode 109 Feeling misunderstood:
Episode 110 What role we play in the Clients world
Episode 108 Trust and damaging relationships:
Episode 107 Annoying friends and colleagues
Episode 106 The downside of being a counsellor,
Episode 105 Family and social traditions are they helpful:
Episode 104 The ending of relationships and becoming the leper:
Episode 103 Giving gifts and receiving attention:
Episode 102 Are teenagers lazy or we disrespecting their growth.
Episode 101 The process so far in this podcast Journey:
Episode 100 How to stop being the middle person:
Episode 99 Becoming you a journey of discovery:
Episode 98 Rejection and love:
Episode 97 Breaking down the communication bubble:
Episode 96 Aging and the work ethic
Episode 95 Commitment what does it really do
Episode 94 New Year resolutions
Episode 93 Christmas and New Year
Episode 92: Feeling Misunderstood
Episode 91 Diagnosis of an illness
Episode 90 Demands for assurance from others
Episode 89 Action/reaction the somatic experience
Episode 88 Suicide and the Grief process,
Episode 87 The sub conscious and conscious
Episode 86 Being the Comic
Episode 85: Family systems and the family roles we play and own.
Episode 84: The period monthly cycle and the loss process.
Episode 83: Reconnection to Others
Episode 82: What helps us feel safe
Episode 81: Positive aspects of change
Episode 80: Getting Advice From Others
Episode 79: Isolation and alienation
Episode 78: Acceptance of relationships you can’t change or control
Episode 77: From being a partner to becoming a carer
Episode 76: Working With Timelines
Episode 75: Psychosomatic illness
Episode 74: Long Distance Relationships
Episode 73: Hoarding and keeping us safe
Episode 72: Erectile Dysfunction
Episode 71: Anniversary Reactions
Episode 70: Dyslexia he benefits not the negatives
Episode 68: Gender
Episode 67: Connect To Your Younger Self
Epsiode 66: Time To Find Yourself
Episode 65: Self destruct behaviour and the drives to make your world secure.
Episode 64: Living with conflict and keeping yourself emotionally safe
Episode 63: Manipulation and why people derive pleasure from creating pain
Episode 62: Molly and the Challenges of being a freelancer
Episode 61: Intergenerational communication
Episode 60: Focussing on the things we can’t do or be.
Episode 59: Pulled from pillar to post
Episode 58: Are we or can we ever be in control?
Episode 57: A bit about me.
Episode 56: New year the promises we keep, or not.
Episode 55: Christmas and families
Episode 54: What is this word perfect?
Episode 53: Anxiety with Alistair Gladstone
Episode 52: Ella from Open Country
Episode 51: Anxiety
Episode 50: Why do we do that, and what do we do about it?
Episode 49: Sex and Intimacy
Episode 48: Loss
Episode 47: The horrors of online stalking
Episode 46: Do you ever feel invisible?
Episode 45: Growing through the pain of teenage years
Episode 44: Parenting and reliving our past
Episode 43: People watching
Episode 42: Motivation and challenging boundaries.
Episode 41: Skills and abilities
Episode 40: Warning signs of toxic relationships.
Episode 39: I feel dreadful
Episode 38: Anger
Episode 37: Does therapy work?
Episode 36: Painting pictures and losing the content.
Episode 35: Consequences: Is it me, or you, or us?
Episode 34: Systems: Growing the losses and the gains
Episode 33: Mature ageing; its positives and negatives.
Episode 32: Becoming a podcaster
Episode 31: Becoming a Counsellor Therapi
Episode 30: Dyslexia
Episode 29: Insecurity and growing up.
Episode 28: Sensate focusing & getting it on.
Episode 27: The things young people tell me.
Episode 26: Choices and decisions
Episode 25: You can’t change them.
Episode 24: Supporting children- Identity & Sexuality
Episode 23: Self-care/Self compassion
Episode 22: What is trauma?
Episode 21: How do we create space for personal growth?
Episode 20: Manipulation and Control
Episode 19: Sexual relationships and intimacy
Episode 18: Abuse
Episode 17: Addiction
Episode 16: Affairs and trust.
Episode 15: Grief and loss, change and moving on.
Episode 14: Creating more committed and connected relationships.
Episode 13: Feeling not good enough (Imposter Syndrome)
Episode 12: Diversity and difference.
Episode 11: Relationships and communication.
Episode 10: Insecurity: It’s all about me.
Episode 9: Why do we do that?
Episode 8: Care or Control? (Which is it)