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The Messed Up Counsellor, 100 episodes.

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Episode 23: Self-care/Self compassion

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Episode 14: Creating more committed and connected relationships.

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Interruption with videos

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Episode 13: Feeling not good enough (Imposter Syndrome)

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Episode 129 The critic within

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Episode 128 When illness strikes and how can we manage that

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Episode 127 Support for our work

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Episode 126 Looking for love,

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Episode 125 Outside influences in our primary relationships.

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Episode 124 The maze of clinical diagnosis what’s our role.

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Episode 123 Exams the stresses and strains

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Episode 122 Working environments and how different models relate to different Clients

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Episode 121 Self-disclosure is it any good and how far do we go

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Episode 120 Climate change and our personal reaction to it.

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Episode 119 Self-employed how do we manage it and make it work

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Episode 118 Is it me or is it the Client Transference and us.

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Episode 117 Counselling in another country and things to think about keeping us and the Client safe.

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Episode116 Facing a possible death and living through it

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Episode 115 Looking forward to the summer

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114 Action reaction using the clock face.

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Episode 113 Power and control in our work and relationships

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Episode 112 Teenagers and CYP getting them to open up

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Episode 110 Riggers of being the authentic you

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Episode 109 Feeling misunderstood:

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Episode 110 What role we play in the Clients world

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Episode 109 Request for information discussion points

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Episode 108 Trust and damaging relationships:

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Episode 107 Annoying friends and colleagues

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Episode 106 The downside of being a counsellor,

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Episode 105 Family and social traditions are they helpful:

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Episode 104 The ending of relationships and becoming the leper:

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Episode 103 Giving gifts and receiving attention:

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Episode 102 Are teenagers lazy or we disrespecting their growth.

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Episode 101 The process so far in this podcast Journey:

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Episode 100 How to stop being the middle person:

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Episode 99 Becoming you a journey of discovery:

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Episode 98 Rejection and love:

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Episode 97 Breaking down the communication bubble:

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Episode 96 Aging and the work ethic

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Episode 95 Commitment what does it really do

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Episode 94 New Year resolutions

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Episode 93 Christmas and New Year

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Episode 92: Feeling Misunderstood

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Episode 91 Diagnosis of an illness

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Episode 90 Demands for assurance from others

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Episode 89 Action/reaction the somatic experience

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Episode 88 Suicide and the Grief process,

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Episode 87 The sub conscious and conscious

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Episode 86 Being the Comic

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Episode 85: Family systems and the family roles we play and own.

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Episode 84: The period monthly cycle and the loss process.

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Episode 7: Guilt and the dynamics of Shame

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The Messed Up Counsellor Ep1: Are they really friends?

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Episode 83: Reconnection to Others

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Episode 82: What helps us feel safe

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Episode 81: Positive aspects of change

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Episode 80: Getting Advice From Others

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Episode 79: Isolation and alienation

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Episode 78: Acceptance of relationships you can’t change or control

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Episode 77: From being a partner to becoming a carer

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Episode 76: Working With Timelines

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Episode 75: Psychosomatic illness

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Episode 74: Long Distance Relationships

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Episode 73: Hoarding and keeping us safe

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Episode 72: Erectile Dysfunction

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Episode 71: Anniversary Reactions

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Episode 70: Dyslexia he benefits not the negatives

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Episode 68: Gender

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Episode 67: Connect To Your Younger Self

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Epsiode 66: Time To Find Yourself

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Episode 65: Self destruct behaviour and the drives to make your world secure.

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Episode 64: Living with conflict and keeping yourself emotionally safe

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Episode 63: Manipulation and why people derive pleasure from creating pain

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Episode 62: Molly and the Challenges of being a freelancer

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Episode 61: Intergenerational communication

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Episode 60: Focussing on the things we can’t do or be.

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Episode 59: Pulled from pillar to post

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Episode 58: Are we or can we ever be in control?

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Episode 57: A bit about me.

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Episode 56: New year the promises we keep, or not.

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Episode 55: Christmas and families

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Episode 54: What is this word perfect?

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Episode 53: Anxiety with Alistair Gladstone

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Episode 52: Ella from Open Country

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Episode 51: Anxiety

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Episode 50: Why do we do that, and what do we do about it?

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Episode 49: Sex and Intimacy

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Episode 48: Loss

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Episode 47: The horrors of online stalking

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Episode 46: Do you ever feel invisible?

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Episode 45: Growing through the pain of teenage years

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Episode 44: Parenting and reliving our past

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Episode 43: People watching

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Episode 42: Motivation and challenging boundaries.

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Episode 41: Skills and abilities

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Episode 40: Warning signs of toxic relationships.

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Episode 39: I feel dreadful

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Episode 38: Anger

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Episode 37: Does therapy work?

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Episode 36: Painting pictures and losing the content.