All Episodes
The Messed Up Counsellor — 102 episodes
Episode 109 Feeling misunderstood:
Episode 110 What role we play in the Clients world
Episode 108 Trust and damaging relationships:
Episode 107 Annoying friends and colleagues
Episode 106 The downside of being a counsellor,
Episode 105 Family and social traditions are they helpful:
Episode 104 The ending of relationships and becoming the leper:
Episode 103 Giving gifts and receiving attention:
Episode 102 Are teenagers lazy or we disrespecting their growth.
Episode 101 The process so far in this podcast Journey:
Episode 100 How to stop being the middle person:
Episode 99 Becoming you a journey of discovery:
Episode 98 Rejection and love:
Episode 97 Breaking down the communication bubble:
Episode 96 Aging and the work ethic
Episode 95 Commitment what does it really do
Episode 94 New Year resolutions
Episode 93 Christmas and New Year
Episode 92: Feeling Misunderstood
Episode 91 Diagnosis of an illness
Episode 90 Demands for assurance from others
Episode 89 Action/reaction the somatic experience
Episode 88 Suicide and the Grief process,
Episode 87 The sub conscious and conscious
Episode 86 Being the Comic
Episode 85: Family systems and the family roles we play and own.
Episode 84: The period monthly cycle and the loss process.
Episode 83: Reconnection to Others
Episode 82: What helps us feel safe
Episode 81: Positive aspects of change
Episode 80: Getting Advice From Others
Episode 79: Isolation and alienation
Episode 78: Acceptance of relationships you can’t change or control
Episode 77: From being a partner to becoming a carer
Episode 76: Working With Timelines
Episode 75: Psychosomatic illness
Episode 74: Long Distance Relationships
Episode 73: Hoarding and keeping us safe
Episode 72: Erectile Dysfunction
Episode 71: Anniversary Reactions
Episode 70: Dyslexia he benefits not the negatives
Episode 68: Gender
Episode 67: Connect To Your Younger Self
Epsiode 66: Time To Find Yourself
Episode 65: Self destruct behaviour and the drives to make your world secure.
Episode 64: Living with conflict and keeping yourself emotionally safe
Episode 63: Manipulation and why people derive pleasure from creating pain
Episode 62: Molly and the Challenges of being a freelancer
Episode 61: Intergenerational communication
Episode 60: Focussing on the things we can’t do or be.
Episode 59: Pulled from pillar to post
Episode 58: Are we or can we ever be in control?
Episode 57: A bit about me.
Episode 56: New year the promises we keep, or not.
Episode 55: Christmas and families
Episode 54: What is this word perfect?
Episode 53: Anxiety with Alistair Gladstone
Episode 52: Ella from Open Country
Episode 51: Anxiety
Episode 50: Why do we do that, and what do we do about it?
Episode 49: Sex and Intimacy
Episode 48: Loss
Episode 47: The horrors of online stalking
Episode 46: Do you ever feel invisible?
Episode 45: Growing through the pain of teenage years
Episode 44: Parenting and reliving our past
Episode 43: People watching
Episode 42: Motivation and challenging boundaries.
Episode 41: Skills and abilities
Episode 40: Warning signs of toxic relationships.
Episode 39: I feel dreadful
Episode 38: Anger
Episode 37: Does therapy work?
Episode 36: Painting pictures and losing the content.
Episode 35: Consequences: Is it me, or you, or us?
Episode 34: Systems: Growing the losses and the gains
Episode 33: Mature ageing; its positives and negatives.
Episode 32: Becoming a podcaster
Episode 31: Becoming a Counsellor Therapi
Episode 30: Dyslexia
Episode 29: Insecurity and growing up.
Episode 28: Sensate focusing & getting it on.
Episode 27: The things young people tell me.
Episode 26: Choices and decisions
Episode 25: You can’t change them.
Episode 24: Supporting children- Identity & Sexuality
Episode 23: Self-care/Self compassion
Episode 22: What is trauma?
Episode 21: How do we create space for personal growth?
Episode 20: Manipulation and Control
Episode 19: Sexual relationships and intimacy
Episode 18: Abuse
Episode 17: Addiction
Episode 16: Affairs and trust.
Episode 15: Grief and loss, change and moving on.
Episode 14: Creating more committed and connected relationships.
Episode 13: Feeling not good enough (Imposter Syndrome)
Episode 12: Diversity and difference.
Episode 11: Relationships and communication.
Episode 10: Insecurity: It’s all about me.
Episode 9: Why do we do that?
Episode 8: Care or Control? (Which is it)