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The Place We Find Ourselves — 84 episodes

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96 Engaging With Someone Who Has Harmed You Part 4

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95 Engaging With Someone Who Has Harmed You Part 3

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94 Engaging With Someone Who Has Harmed You Part 2

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93 Engaging With Someone Who Has Harmed You Part 1

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92 Your Story, Your Suffering, and Kindness with Dan Allender

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91 How Healing Happens: Revisiting The U Diagram

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90 The Cursing of the Body and Racial Trauma

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89 Spiritual Abuse

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88 When Trust Is Violated

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87 How To Engage Your Story In A Way That Brings Healing (Bonus Episode)

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86 How Attachment Affects Your Relationship With God

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85 When Abuse Binds Your Heart To Another

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84 Parenting: How Your Story Is Affecting Your Relationship With Your Children Part 2

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82 Parenting: How Your Story Is Affecting Your Relationship With Your Children Part 1

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81 How To Get Your Life Back with John Eldredge

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72 Judging Others: Is It Okay To Judge Those Who Have Harmed Me?

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71 What If I Don't Remember Much Of My Childhood?

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70 What's Actually Happening When You Interact With Someone?

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69 How Trauma Affects Your Voice

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67 Your Story, Your Body, and Ritual

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66 How Your Body Can Help Heal Your Trauma Part 2

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65 How Your Body Can Help Heal Your Trauma

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64 Emotions: Writing Your Own Psalm

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63 Emotions: Praying the Psalms

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62 When Suffering Lingers

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60 Warfare Part 9: Soul Ties

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59 Warfare Part 8: Curses, Agreements, and Vows

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58 Healing From Trauma: Your Posture Toward Yourself

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57 How To Know If You Have Experienced Trauma

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56 Affect Regulation: How Mindfulness Can Help Integrate (Heal) Your Brain

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54 Warfare Part 7: The Modern Screwtape Letters

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53 Why Family of Origin Triangulation Is Such A Big Deal

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52 How Your Story Leads to Your Style of Relating to Others with Becky Allender

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51 Having Conversations with God with Sam Williamson

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50 Struggling with Sexuality Part 2: How Understanding Your Story Can (Surprisingly) Help with Jay Stringer

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49 Struggling with Sexuality: How Understanding Your Story Can (Surprisingly) Help with Jay Stringer

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48 You Need More Than God with Sam Jolman

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47 Warfare Part 6: Breaking Agreements

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46 Warfare Part 5 : Addressing Accusations

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45 Warfare Part 4: Your Authority

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44 How Stories of Harm Lead to Agreements That Bind Us

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43 Warfare Part 3: Agreements

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42 Warfare Part 2: Accusation

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41 Warfare Part 1: The Reality of a War Against Your Heart

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40 Love and War: Attachment and Intimate Relationships

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39 Engaging the Younger Parts of Your Heart

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38 The Process of Learning to Hear from God

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37 Covert Sexual Abuse: When Subtlety Equates to Severity

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36 How A Story From Kindergarten Can Change Your Brain For Decades

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35 Narcissism: What It Is and Why It's So Toxic with Chuck DeGroat

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34 Your Kingdom: The Purpose of Counseling

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33 What It Means to Engage Your Story with Curiosity with Blaine Hogan

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32 How Life Can Come From Death with Christy Bauman

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31 Trauma and the Enneagram Part 2

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30 Trauma and the Enneagram Part 1

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29 Forgiveness: What It Is

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28 Forgiveness: What It's Not

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27 God Made Our Brain To Need Others with KJ Ramsey

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26 How Healing Happens Part 3

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25 How Healing Happens Part 2

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24 How Healing Happens Part 1

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23 How to Engage a Parent Who Has Harmed You with Autumn

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22 Why the Practice of Awareness Heals Your Brain with Terry Bohn

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21 From Shattered to Whole: Reclaiming Innocence, Beauty, and Hope with Laurie

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20 Affect Regulation: Why It's Critical For Everyday Life

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19 The Path To Healing: Why It's So Important To Find Kindness For The Younger You

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18 Why Your Story Makes It Hard To Hope

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17 What It Looks Like To Actually Grieve Your Wounds

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16 Why Lament (Surprisingly) Leads to Life and Freedom

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15 Choosing Kindness: Engaging Stories of Shame with Andrew Bauman

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14 How to Overcome the Shame of Sexual Abuse with Scott

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13 Your Wounds and the Path to Healing

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12 Why Trauma Makes It Hard to Trust Your Gut with Janet

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11 Implicit Memory: The Thing That's Running Your Life

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10 The Trauma of Abandonment with Gary B

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9 Why Engaging Your Story Requires Anger at God

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8 When Your Story of Sexual Abuse Is Not Believed

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7 How Your Attachment Style Affects The Way You Relate To Other People

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6 When Your Femininity Is Assaulted with Tracy

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5 Attachment: What It Is and Why It Matters So Much

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4 The Trauma of Being Unprotected with Gary

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3 The Trauma of School Shaming with Mandy

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2 Why Your Family of Origin Impacts Your Life More Than Anything Else

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1 Why Engaging Your Story Is The Best Thing You Can Do For Your Brain