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The Self-Confidence Project — 287 episodes

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Ep#286 - Do This Before You Date After Divorce

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Ep#285 - The Truth About Attracting a High Quality Woman

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Ep#284 - 5 Signs She Wants to Date You (and Keep Dating You)

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Ep#283 - What to Do If You've Hit a Rut in Dating

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Ep#282 - 4 Tips to Get a Date (Yes, This Is the Video You've Been Waiting For)

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Ep#281 - 5 Unseen Habits That Make You Irresistible to Women (Part 2)

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Ep#280 - 4 Dating Mistakes Keeping You Stuck

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Ep#279 - Signs She's Not Ready For a Real Relationship (Her Dating Profile Will Tell You!)

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Ep#278 - Signs You Have An Attractive Personality to Women

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Ep#277 - What It Means When She Takes Hours To Reply

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Ep#276 - Signs She Likes You But Doesn't Trust You Yet

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Ep#275 - 5 Reasons Dating Is Harder Than It's Ever Been

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Ep#274 - She Seems Amazing — Until You See This

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Ep#273 - Why High-Achieving Men Miss Red Flags in Relationships (And How It Affects Dating After Divorce)

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Ep#272 - She Was Interested — Then You Did This and Killed It

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Ep#271 - What Women Actually Want from Men

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Ep#270 - How to Vet a Woman You're Dating (And Do It Right)

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Ep#269 - 5 Ways Women Unconsciously Test Men (And What Your Reactions Reveal)

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Ep#268 - Six Dating Mistakes for Widowed Men (Who Want Love)

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Ep#267 - This Is What's Making You So Anxious (And How To Stop)

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Ep#266 - Why Men Over-Invest Too Early (And Fall in Love With Potential)

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Ep#265 - What Actually Makes Women Feel Sexual Desire (It’s Not What You Think)

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Ep#264 - You’re Not Chasing Love — You’re Chasing Validation

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Ep#263 - You're Not in Love — You're Just Anxious

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Ep#262 - 4 Ways Men Age Themselves Out of the Dating Pool

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Ep#261 - Why Smart Engineer-Minded Men Struggle With Women (& How to Fix It)

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Ep#260 - Why Your Dating App Conversations Go Nowhere — And How to Fix It

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Ep#259 - Stop Confusing Intensity With Intimacy (How to Stop Making Painful Dating Decisions)

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Ep#258 - Signs She Wants You To Ask Her Out

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Ep#257 - Divorced Men: This Is Why You Feel So Alone (And How To Regain Yourself)

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Ep#256 - How To Create That "Spark!" (Must Listen For Men)

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Ep#255 - Good Men Are Making This Dating Mistake — And It’s Costing You Everything

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Ep#254 - This One Trait is Harming Your Romantic Relationships (A Must-Listen For Men Dating)

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Ep#253- Why ‘Nice Guys’ Don’t Create Chemistry — The Truth About Leadership and Attraction

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Ep#252 - Why Peaceful Men Attract Chaotic Women (and How to Break the Cycle)

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Ep#251 - Modern Women Are Failing Men — And Here’s How to Fix It

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Ep#250 - 5 Tips to Have Better First Dates (That Actually Lead to Connection)

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Ep#249 - The Biggest Turn-Offs Women Notice Instantly

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Ep#248 - 3 Reasons Women Don't Seem Impressed By You

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Ep#247 - The Silent Fear That Keeps Divorced Men Single

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Ep#246 - Why Good Men Struggle in Dating (And How to Fix It)

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Ep#245 - 5 Unseen Habits That Make Men Irresistible to Women

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Ep#244 - How to Talk to Women With Confidence, Charm & Charisma

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Ep#243 - The Secret Hack Divorced Men Know About Dating - Do You?

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Ep#242 - How To Spot Emotional Immaturity - quickly!

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Ep#241 - 4 Ways Women Are Flirting With You (Don't Miss These Signs!)

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Ep#240 - 5 Women To Avoid Dating - No Matter How Hot She is 🔥

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Ep#239 - Beyond the First Date: Decoding Mixed Signals

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Ep#238 - Want to Attract Younger Women? Fix This One Mindset First

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Ep#237 - Why You Might Feel Invisible to Women (And What to Do About It)

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Ep#236 - High-Value Men Know THIS Dating Secret

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Ep#235 - What Nietzche Would Say About Your Dating Life (And Dating Advice From 4 Other Philosophers)

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Ep#234 - The Dark Side of AI in Dating: Why It’s Ruining Real Connection

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Ep#233 - Why Women Don’t Respond to Cold Approaches (and What Works Way Better)

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Ep#232 - The Worst Dating Advice Men Still Follow (Are You Guilty?)

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Ep#231 - Modern Male Dating Mistake: When Stoicism Becomes Self-Sabotage

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Ep#230 - This Psychological Hack Keeps Women Hooked (Backed by Science)

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Ep#229 - How to Build Lasting Connection and Pleasure with Women—Insights from a Somatic Sex Expert

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Ep#228 - Dating After Divorce in Your 50s, 60s and 70s (Real Talk For Men Who Want Love)

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Ep#227 - She Stopped Wanting Sex? Here’s the Real Reason (and how to get it back!)

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Ep#226 - Modern Women Only See Men in 2 Ways - And Most Men Are in the Wrong Category

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Ep#225 - Why You’re Getting Ghosted — And What to Do Instead

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Ep#224 - 5 Things Women Say That Actually Mean “I’m Not Into You”

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Ep#223 - What Do Women Really Want!? Alpha Male | High Value Man

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Ep#222 - Why Some Women Chase Emotionally Unavailable Men (And How to Avoid Wasting Your Time)

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Ep#221 - How To Keep Your Sexual Attraction Thriving 🔥

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Ep#220- Dating After Divorce? Here’s Why Younger Women Are Interested in Older Men

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Ep#219 - Navigating Love and Healing with Relationship Expert Mark Groves

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Ep#218 - Flirting Secrets Women WISH You Knew! (Master The Art in 30 Minutes!)

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Ep#217 - Are You Ready for a New Relationship—Or Just Lonely?

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Ep#216 - How to Tell if She’s The One in the Bedroom: 5 Signs of True Intimacy

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Ep#215 - The #1 Trait Women Find Sexy in a Man (It's Not What You Think)

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Ep#214 - Mastering Men's Style: The Three A's for Authentic Fashion

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Ep#213 - Why You Keep Attracting The Same Women On Repeat (And How To Fix

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Ep#212 - Overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome with Dr. Robert Glover - Full Interview

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Ep#211 - The Wrong Woman Will Have These 4 Traits

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Ep#210 - 5 Must-Know Tips for Dating in 2025 (Post-Divorce)

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Ep#209 - How To Spot A Woman Who Values Physical Intimacy (5 Signs To Watch For)

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Ep#208 - 4 Reasons Educated Men Struggle in Modern Dating

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Ep#207 - Divorced and Dating? These 3 Mistakes Will Break Your Heart All Over Again

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Ep#206 - How To Have Your Best Intimacy After Divorce

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Ep#205 - How To Create Natural Sexual Chemistry With Women

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Ep#204 - Identifying Red Flags in Modern Women: When to Walk Away

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Ep#203 - How to Overcome Fear of Dating Rejection (Especially Post Break-Up)

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Ep#202 - 3 Lies About Dating After Divorce (That Keep You Stuck)

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Ep#201 - Want to Invite Her Home? Do This to Avoid Being Creepy

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Ep#200 - Why Is She Pulling Away? (And What You Can Do About It)

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Ep#199 - 3 Genuine Reasons You’re Not Getting Women

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Ep#198 - Why She’s Not Responding to Your Texts

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Ep#197 - Does She Want You or Just Your Attention?

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Ep#196 - 4 Reasons Women Will Have Sex With You

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Ep#195 - 3 Steps To Attract Your Dream Woman

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Ep#194 - How To Reduce Your Texting Anxiety

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Ep#193 - 9 Signs She's Sexually Attracted To You

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Ep#192 - Is Love Truly Blind?

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Ep#191 - Is Shame Hurting Your Dating Life?

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Ep#190 - 5 Suprising Turn-Ons For Women Beyond The Bedroom

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Ep#189- Why Men Put Women on Pedestals and How to Stop

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Ep#188 - Is She Interested Or Just Being Polite?

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Ep#187 - Why You're Attracting The Wrong Types of Women

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Ep#186 - Why Women Find Neediness So Unattractive

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Ep#185 - Hinge 2024 Update: Mastering the New Features for Men

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Ep#184 - Why You Can't Rush A Date or Connection

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Ep#183 - Letting Go Of Your Past for a Better Future

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Ep#182 - How Do You Know You're In The Right Relationship?

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Ep#181 - You Need This Skill For Dating Success

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Ep#180 - Exploring Dark Personality Traits in Men and Women

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Ep#179 - Why is Dating so Frustrating?

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Ep#178 - Need To Know Advice if You're Dating After Divorce or a Long-Term Breakup

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Ep#177 - Do You Get Mixed Signals When Dating?

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Ep#176 - Happy Holiday Intentions

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Ep#175 - How To Become More Assertive

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Ep#174 - Why Women Are Struggling in Dating (And Things Men Should Know!)

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Ep#173 - Understanding Masculine and Feminine Energies

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Ep#172 - Am I Single? And Other Questions You've Asked Me

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Ep#171 - What Motivates Women To Have Sex?

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Ep#170 - Emotional Dysfunction And Its Cost On Your Relationships

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Ep#169 - Two Must Have Skills For a Long-Term Relationship

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Ep#168 - Why 6 Out of 10 Men Are Choosing To Be Single

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Ep#167 - Why Sex Doesn't Always Lead to Intimacy

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Ep#166 - The Issues We Face In Dating Today

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Ep#165 - Dealing with Dating Anxiety

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Ep#164 - The Harmful Consequences Of Feminism On Romantic Relationships

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Ep#163 - Connection Codes with Dr Glenn & Phyllis Hill

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Ep#162 - How Do I Know If She's Right For Me?

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Ep#161 - When Should You Break Up?

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Ep#160 - Overcoming Performance Anxiety with New Women

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Ep#159 - When It's Not Okay To Be Vulnerable

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Ep#158 - How To Know If She's Interested In You or Being Polite?

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Ep#157 - Are You Jealous?

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Ep#156 - How To Keep The Spark Alive Long-Term

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Ep#155 - Do You Struggle With This Dynamic In Your Relationship?

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Ep#154 Are You The Toxic One?

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Ep#153 The One Skill You Need For A Long-Term Loving Relationship

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Ep#152 How To Deepen Your Relationship Connection w/ Ben Redmond

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Ep#151 Your Ultimate Guide To Flirting Successfully

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Ep#150 All Women Should Have These 8 Skills

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Ep#149 All Men Should Have These 8 Skills

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Ep#148 Mixed Signals Women Give When Dating You

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Ep#147 Dating Successfully When You're Introverted

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Ep#146 The Psychology of Attraction

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Ep#145 Relearning About Yoga with Yogi Aaron

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Ep#144 What Women Really Mean When They Say They Want An Ambitious Man

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Ep143 What is Gaslighting?

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Ep#142 Ten Questions You Must Ask Yourself Before You Commit

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Ep#141 The Psychology of Love

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Ep#140 Why Are So Many Men in the USA Single?

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Ep#139 Get Out Of That Situationship!

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Ep#138 Why Is The Dating Pool So Toxic And Are You Toxic To?

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Ep#137 How Single Men Can Build a Dating Life They Are Proud Of

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Ep#136 Why We're Seeing A Rise in Single Lonely Men

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Ep#135 - 5 Dating Perspectives All Men Should Know

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Ep#134 Stop Letting Your Emotions Dictate Your Dating Life

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Ep#133 Why She Doesn't Feel The Spark or Connection

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Ep#132 Dating After Separation, Not Divorce

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Ep#131 What's To Come in 2023 For Daters

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Ep#130 Setting Important Emotional Boundaries While Dating

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Ep#129 3 Reminders For Single Men During The Holidays

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Ep#128 Holiday Gift Suggestions For Each Stage of Dating

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Ep#127 Do You Put Women On A Pedestal?

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Ep#126 Four Dating Mistakes You Might Be Making After Divorce (Or A Long-Term Relationship)

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Ep#125 Are You Suffering With a Low Sex Drive?

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Ep#124 Dating With Confidence This Holiday Season

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Ep#123 Love is Blind - Is It Real or Fake?

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Ep#122 Are You Lowering Your Standards When Dating?

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Ep#121 Your Dating and Relationship Questions Answered by Me

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Ep#120 The 10 Principles of Life with David Edwards

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Ep#119 My Favorite Hinge Dating Prompts for Men and Why

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Ep#118 Sovereign, Shameless & Near Death Experiences with Devin Fredericksen

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Ep#117 Becoming a Private Chef with Alex Lavroff

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Ep#116 Gaining Sexual Mastery w/ Adult Actor Erik Everhard

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Ep#116 10 Things You Should Be Expecting From Your Relationship

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Ep#115 Managing a Long-Distance Relationship

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Ep#114 Maintaining Your Identity In A Relationship

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Ep#113 Why You Should Strength Train with Matt Reynolds

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Ep#112 The 3 Stages of Dating

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Ep#111 Stop Letting Your Emotions Control You

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Ep#110 The Anxious Attachment Style

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Ep#109 Why You Need Regular Meetings in Your Relationship

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Ep#108 Why You Need Boundaries To Survive A Relationship

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Ep#107 Expectations vs. Reality with Special Guest Bruno Guévremont

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Ep#106 The Biggest Issues with Dating Today

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Ep#105 Where To Make New Connections in 2022

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Ep#104 How To Avoid Online Dating Burnout

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Ep#103 Red Flags Of Abuse with Shawn & Amanda from Touchy Subjects

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Ep#102 Dating with Sexual Limitations with Anna Leonarda

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Ep#101 The 8-Tank Framework for a Healthy Relationship w/ Sammi Jaeger

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Ep#100 Should You Give Your Partner an Ultimatum?

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Ep#99 Dating Someone With Depression

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Ep#98 Dating When You're Overweight

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Ep#97 Should You Date A Younger Woman?

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Ep#96 Becoming A Better Dad with Curt Storring

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Ep#95 Man Talks & The Shadow Self with Connor Beaton

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Ep#94 Fatherhood, Divorce & Dealing with ADHD with Ben Redmond

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Ep#93 Exploring Sex, Pleasure and Sex Toys with Dr. Christopher Ryan

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Ep#92 Mindfulness with former Buddhist Monk Dr William Jackson

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Ep#91 Talking Men's Style & Fashion with Tanner Guzy

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Ep#90 Talking to God with Dr. Joe Martin

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Ep#89 The Best Dating Advice with Shane Kohler

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Ep#88 Arrogance and Redefining Alpha and Kevin Aillaud

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Ep#87 Learning Your Truth & Tarot with Tiffany Nguyen

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Ep#86 Talking About Sex with Dr. Jennifer Litner

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Ep#85 Crafting Conscious Relationships with Chris Wilson

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Ep#84 Understanding Trauma And Its Impact on Relationships with Lea Morrison

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Ep#83 Expressing Your Emotions and Breathwork with Chris Marhefka

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Ep#82 Tips to Survive The Holidays If You're Single

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Ep#81 Life Force Activation with Steffo Shambo

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Ep#80 Should I Date During The Holidays?

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Ep#79 Getting To Zero with Relationship Expert Jayson Gaddis

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Ep #78 Reclaiming Sexual Pleasure in Your Relationship with Dr. Holly Richmond

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Ep#77 5 Dating Tips for Introverted Men

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Ep#76 How To Date After Divorce (4 Helpful Tips for Men)

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Ep #75 What Men Are Needing Today with Traver Boehm

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Ep#74: How Do I Know If This Is The Right Person For Me?

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Ep#73: Should Men Initiate In Dating?

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Ep#72 Dealing with Divorce with Jude Sandvall

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Ep#71 Is Masturbation Helping or Hindering You? with Devon Walker

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Ep#70 Is Tinder Ruining Dating for Men?

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Ep#69 Are You Going Through A Break Up? With David Glaser

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Ep#68 5 Tips to Pick Up Women (The Non-Sleazy Way!)

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Ep#67 Understanding Polarity in Relationships with Tim Neal

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Ep#66 Are You Way Too Picky When Dating?

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Ep#65 Overcome The Fear of Rejection

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Ep#64 How To Reduce Texting Anxiety

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Ep#63 Cults, Ceremonies & Masculinity w/ Brandon Archer

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Ep #62 Getting Out of Your Pandemic Funk w/Stephen Dube

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Ep#61 What's Your Small Healthy Challenge? w/ Tommy Geary

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Ep #60: Overcoming Avoidant Attachment w/ Diego Groisman

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Ep #59: Emotional Availability and More w/ Terry Seehra

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Ep #58: Psychedelic Experiences w/ Daniel Moody

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Ep #57: Masculinity, Nature and Fatherhood w/ Dan Doty

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Episode 56: Changing Your Narrative w/ Corey McCarthy

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Episode 55: Let's Talk About First Impressions

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Episode 54: Healing After Sexual Assault w/ Tim Mousseau

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Episode 53: Why Is Love So Hard?

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Episode 52: Is This Love or Infatuation?

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Episode 51: What Women Really Want From You

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Episode 50: 5 Ways to Prevent Dating Burnout

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Episode 49: 5 Toxic Relationship Beliefs

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Episode 48: How You Can Heal Avoidant Attachment

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Episode 47: How You Can Heal Anxious Attachment

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Episode 46: These 4 Things Attract Women To You

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Episode 45: How To Have A Better Dating Experience

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Episode 44: What is Healthy Masculinity?

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Episode 43: 5 Things Women of Value Want You To Know

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Episode 42: This One Thing Will Set You Up For Success with Guest Bruno Guevremont

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Episode 41: How Do I Build My Confidence with Guest Jonny Pardoe

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Episode 40: Are Your Beliefs Supporting or Hurting Your Relationships?

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Episode 39: Why You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Partners

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Episode 38: Is There A Perfect Partner Out There For Me?

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Episode 37: 6 Signs You're Settling in Your Relationship

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Episode 36: 5 Signs She's Not The One For You

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Episode 35: Interview w/ Jeremie Drainville

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Episode 34: Why You Might Struggle with Dating

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Episode 33: Let's Talk About Ghosting

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Episode 32: The Shadow Sides of Being a People Pleaser

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Episode 31: Four Reasons You Struggle To Have a Healthy Relationship

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Episode 30: How To Beat The Winter Blues with 6 Tips

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Episode 29: 9 Signs You're Dating the Right Person

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Episode 28: Here's A Few Mindfulness Techniques

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Episode 27: How To Know Your Relationship is Over

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Episode 26: [With Guest Trentamus Briggs] What is Self-Care for Men?

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Episode 25: Are You Emotionally Ready for a Relationship?

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Episode 24: Do You Suffer From a Victim Mindset?

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Episode 23: Are You a Blamer? Placater? Computer? Distractor?

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Episode 22: 10 Signs You're Emotionally Unavailable

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Episode 21: Emotions Are Not The Problem

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Episode 20: Two Terms We Have To Stop Misusing

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Episode 19: Three Habits That Make You Insecure in Love

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Episode 18: 6 Signs You and Your Partner Are Competing

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Episode 17: What Are We Arguing About?

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Episode 16: How To Reduce Relationship Anxiety

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Episode 15: How To Break Unhealthy Relationship Patterns

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Episode 14: Is Defensiveness Hurting Our Relationships?

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Episode 13: Using Mindfulness In Your Relationships

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Episode 12: The Most Important Element for Having a Successful Relationship

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Episode 11: Are You Emotionally Cheating?

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Episode 10: Do you have The Relationship Ick?

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Episode 9: Defining Our Relationship Needs

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Episode 8: How To Get Over Our Ex Partners

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Episode 7: Learning to Forgive

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Episode 6: Let's Talk About Codependency

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Episode 5: The Four Attachment Styles - Which One Are You?

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Episode 4: Gentleman, The Four Red Flags You Shouldn't Be Ignoring On Your Dates

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Episode 3: The Four Antidotes to Conflict in Your Relationships

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Episode 2: The Four "Scientifically Proven" Reasons Why Your Relationship May Fail

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Episode 1: Will We See a Rise in Breakups Post-Covid?