All Episodes
We Gotta Thing - A Swinger Podcast — 157 episodes
Episode 157: Erotic Compatibility and Non-Monogamy
Episode 156: Opening the Circle
Episode 155: Redefining the Swinging Lifestyle
Episode 154: Why Comparison is the Thief of Joy
Episode 153: Your Insecurity is Your Issue
Episode 152: Managing Anxiety in the Lifestyle
Episode 151: The Resort- A Gateway to Ethical Non-Monogamy
Episode 150: Is the Lifestyle Addictive?
Episode 149: How to Be a Power Couple in the Lifestyle
Episode 148: Reframing Christian Faith and the Lifestyle
Episode 147: Safer Sex with STD Hero
Episode 146: How Relationships Change Over Time
Episode 145: Ask Us (And Our Friends) Anything
Episode 144: Lifestyle Coaching in the Aftermath of Loss
Episode 143: Swinging & Polyamory- Are We More Alike than We Think?
Episode 142: Catherine's Story- "My Marriage Fell Apart"
Episode 141: What Newbies Need to Know and Veterans Need to Remember
Episode 140: Back in the Swing of Things
Episode 139: Our Enneagram Coaching Session
Episode 138: Describing the Lifestyle- Respectful, Pervy, Cool-Ass People
Episode 137: 'The Resort'- A New Concept for Lifestyle Vacationers
Episode 136: The Enneagram- Know Your Number!
Episode 135: Origin Story- Going Deeper with Kurt & Vicki
Episode 134: Facing the "What-ifs" Fears of Non-monogamy
Episode 133: 10 Attributes of Successful Swingers
Episode 132: Our Differences Make Us Better
Episode 131: Finding Your Tribe in the We Gotta Thing Community
Episode 130: All About 'Swolly' Relationships
Episode 129: Taming the Voices Inside My Head
Episode 128: Enough With the Pineapples! How to Make Connections in the Wild
Episode 127: Trust- What It Is Not
Episode 126: The Many Flavors of Jealousy
Episode 125: A Live Celebration of 10 Years Podcasting!
Episode 124: Handling Rejection in the Lifestyle
Episode 123: The Many Meanings of 'Connection' in the Lifestyle
Episode 122: Non-monogamy Takes Work- How Much Are You Willing to Invest?
Episode 121: Origin Stories- Mark and Beth Canuck
Episode 120: The Benefits and Challenges of Non-monogamy with Expansive Connection
Episode 119: The Value of Counseling in the Non-monogamous World
Episode 118: Desire Riviera Maya and a Life Less Vanilla
Episode 117: Non-Monogamy is an Adult Activity
Episode 116: How Vulnerability Enhances Your Lifestyle Journey
Episode 115: Are You Too Nice?
Episode 114: Is a Kiss Just a Kiss?
Episode 113: The Realities of Clothing Optional Resorts
Episode 112: An Origin Story- Scott & Kelly
Episode 111: Finding Who You Weren't Looking For
Episode 110: An Origin Story- Chris and Nancy
Episode 108: Navigating Vacation Playtime
Episode 107: Our Temptation Grand Miches Experience
Episode 106: Navigating Cliques in the Lifestyle
Episode 105: Origin Stories- "J&B 2.0"
Episode 104: Choosing a Lifestyle Event with Cate from PCAP
Episode 103: Facing First-Timer Fears at Desire Resorts
Episode 102: You Gotta Own Your Own Sh*t
Episode 101: Deal Breakers
Episode 100: Are You Willing to Put in the Hard Work?
Episode 99: Harnessing That New Relationship Energy
Episode 98: The Need for Lifestyle Community
Episode 97: Our Thing Might Not Be Your Thing
Episode 96: Non-Monogamy Coaching by Expansive Connection
Episode 95: The Lifestyle IS Real Life
Episode 94: Is it Jealousy or Envy?
Episode 93: What if We Are Outed?
Episode 92: Snapshots from Desire Pearl
Episode 91: Rejected Again- Why Don't They Like Us?
Episode 90: The Importance of Trust in the Lifestyle
Episode 89: Enjoying Group Play
Episode 88: The Art of Avoiding Mistakes
Episode 87: Normalization by Exposure
Episode 86: Being Bi-Something in the Lifestyle
Episode 85: Feels Like the First Time
Episode 84: The Let Down- Can We Still Be Friends?
Episode 83: The Struggle is Real
Episode 82: The Compatibility Conversation
Episode 81: The Language of the Lifestyle
Episode 80: Finding True Friends in the Lifestyle
Episode 79: Can We Afford the Lifestyle?
Episode 78: How Do I Know She is Interested in Me?
Episode 77: I Never Imagined I Would Ever...
Episode 76: Be Authentic- Acknowledging All Facets of You
Episode 75: Confronting Men's Performance Issues
Episode 74: Health, Wellness, Hormones and the Lifestyle
Episode 73: Opposites Attract?
Episode 72: Voices Inside My Head-Don't Be Your Own C***Blocker
Episode 71: The Kiss and Tell Dilemma
Episode 70: Desire 2019- Reflections by the Ladies
Episode 69: Consent- More Than Words
Episode 68: The 'Social Sexy' Lifestyle
Episode 67: Eyes Wide Open- Lifestyle Red Flags
Episode 66: Discovering Your Lifestyle Tribe
Episode 65: The Golden Rules of the Lifestyle
Episode 64: Race in the Lifestyle
Episode 63: Lifestyle Chemistry 101
Episode 62: Putting Yourself Out There- Lifestyle Profiles 2.0
BONUS Episode 61: Do You Know George?
Episode 60: What's Age Got to Do with It?
Episode 59: Judgment in the Lifestyle
Episode 58: Out of Your Comfort Zone and into Paradise
Episode 57: Lifestyle Goals- What is Your Why?
Episode 56: Seven Habits of Highly Successful Swingers
Episode 55: Finding Our Happy Place in the Lifestyle
Episode 54: Drama in the Lifestyle
Episode 53: The Discretion Dilemma
Episode 52: Play Preferences- Newbies or Veterans?
Episode 51: Awkward Lifestyle Encounters
Episode 50: Reflecting on Our Lifestyle Journey
BONUS Episode 49: Mrs Jones & Cate- What Men Need to Know About the Swinging Lifestyle
Episode 48: Which Comes First? Confidence and Courage in the Lifestyle
Episode 47: Real Life Meets the Swinging Lifestyle
Episode 46: Staying Connected During Play
Episode 45: Closing the Deal- Transitioning to Playtime
Episode 44: The Evolution of the Lifestyle
Episode 43: Seven Sexy Swinger Sins
Episode 42: (Not So) Great Expectations- Avoiding Disappointment
Episode 41: A Licensed Counselor (and Swinger) Breaks Down Jealousy
Episode 40: Myth Busting Clothing Optional Resorts- Desire Pearl 2017
Episode 39: Finding Your Flirt in the Lifestyle
Episode 38: Finding that Elusive Four-way Connection
Episode 37: Our Worlds Collide- Outed as Lifestyle Podcasters
Episode 36: Friends With Benefits- The Real Lifestyle Unicorn?
Episode 35: Keepin' It Real- Developing a Healthy Approach to the Lifestyle
Episode 34: Mr Jones and Me- A Guy's Perspective on the Lifestyle
Episode 33: How Deep is Your Love?- How the Lifestyle Strengthens Our Relationship
Episode 32: Swinger Fails- Learning From Those Inevitable Mistakes
Episode 31: You Are So Beautiful...to Me- Attractiveness in the Lifestyle
BONUS Episode 30: Performance Anxiety in the Lifestyle- Our Conversation with Jay and Kay
Episode 29: Lifestyle Rules and Boundaries- When to Mak'em and When to Break'em
Episode 28: Desire Pearl 2016- No Explanation is Possible
BONUS Episode 27: Diversity in the Lifestyle- An Origin Story to Remember
Episode 26: Hosting a House Party
Episode 25: Hot Days and Naughty Nights in N'awlins
Episode 24: The Newbie Whisperers
BONUS Episode 23: We Gotta Single Guy- Our Conversation with "Tony"
Episode 22: Setting the Stage- How to Talk to Your Partner About Swinging
Episode 21: Living the Lifestyle!
Episode 20: Eyes Wide Open: Lifestyle Risks and Rewards
Episode 19: Miami Heat: Life(style) in the Fast Lane
Episode 18: So You Wanna Be a Swinger: Making the Fantasy a Reality
Episode 17: With This Ring, I Thee Swing- Reconciling Our Faith with Our Lifestyle
Episode 16: You Belong to Me....Mister
Episode 15: If We Only Knew Then...
Episode 14: Mrs. Jones on the Hot Seat!
BONUS Episode 13: We Gotta Swinger Diary- Part 2
BONUS Episode 13: We Gotta Swinger Diary- Part 1
Episode 12: Hot, Steamy, Sexy and Naughty in N'awlins!
Episode 11: Desire Pearl 2015- Sex Forts and Power Washers
Episode 10: We've Come "Full" Circle
Episode 9: Who the F*** are You?
Episode 8: Six-some is the New Foursome!
Episode 7: Everybody is 50 Shades of Something
BONUS Episode 6: Our Conversation with Cooper Beckett
Episode 5- Soft Swap or Full? That...is The Question
Episode 4- New Year-- New Friends!
Episode 3- Jealousy? What's Up with That?
Episode 2: Desire Pearl: We've Been Duped!
Episode 1: Me & Mrs Jones