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Episode 165: Judgment, Insecurity and Curiosity in the Lifestyle

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Episode 164: Ask Us Anything- Vol. 1

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Episode 163: Managing Menopause in the Lifestyle

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Episode 162: Where Non-monogamy Intersects with Real Life

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Episode 161: How Feelings Make Us Feel

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Episode 160: More Than Monogamy Documentary- An Interview with the Creators

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Episode 159: So You Think You Want to Kink?

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Episode 158: Taking One for the Team

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Episode 157: Erotic Compatibility and Non-Monogamy

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Episode 156: Opening the Circle

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Episode 155: Redefining the Swinging Lifestyle

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Episode 154: Why Comparison is the Thief of Joy

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Episode 153: Your Insecurity is Your Issue

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Episode 152: Managing Anxiety in the Lifestyle

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Episode 151: The Resort- A Gateway to Ethical Non-Monogamy

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Episode 150: Is the Lifestyle Addictive?

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Episode 149: How to Be a Power Couple in the Lifestyle

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Episode 148: Reframing Christian Faith and the Lifestyle

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Episode 147: Safer Sex with STD Hero

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Episode 146: How Relationships Change Over Time

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Episode 145: Ask Us (And Our Friends) Anything

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Episode 144: Lifestyle Coaching in the Aftermath of Loss

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Episode 143: Swinging & Polyamory- Are We More Alike than We Think?

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Episode 142: Catherine's Story- "My Marriage Fell Apart"

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Episode 141: What Newbies Need to Know and Veterans Need to Remember

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Episode 140: Back in the Swing of Things

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Episode 139: Our Enneagram Coaching Session

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Episode 138: Describing the Lifestyle- Respectful, Pervy, Cool-Ass People

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Episode 137: 'The Resort'- A New Concept for Lifestyle Vacationers

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Episode 136: The Enneagram- Know Your Number!

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Episode 135: Origin Story- Going Deeper with Kurt & Vicki

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Episode 134: Facing the "What-ifs" Fears of Non-monogamy

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Episode 133: 10 Attributes of Successful Swingers

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Episode 132: Our Differences Make Us Better

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Episode 131: Finding Your Tribe in the We Gotta Thing Community

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Episode 130: All About 'Swolly' Relationships

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Episode 129: Taming the Voices Inside My Head

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Episode 128: Enough With the Pineapples! How to Make Connections in the Wild

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Episode 127: Trust- What It Is Not

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Episode 126: The Many Flavors of Jealousy

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Episode 125: A Live Celebration of 10 Years Podcasting!

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Episode 124: Handling Rejection in the Lifestyle

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Episode 123: The Many Meanings of 'Connection' in the Lifestyle

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Episode 122: Non-monogamy Takes Work- How Much Are You Willing to Invest?

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Episode 121: Origin Stories- Mark and Beth Canuck

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Episode 120: The Benefits and Challenges of Non-monogamy with Expansive Connection

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Episode 119: The Value of Counseling in the Non-monogamous World

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Episode 118: Desire Riviera Maya and a Life Less Vanilla

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Episode 117: Non-Monogamy is an Adult Activity

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Episode 116: How Vulnerability Enhances Your Lifestyle Journey

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Episode 115: Are You Too Nice?

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Episode 114: Is a Kiss Just a Kiss?

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Episode 113: The Realities of Clothing Optional Resorts

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Episode 112: An Origin Story- Scott & Kelly

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Episode 111: Finding Who You Weren't Looking For

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Episode 110: An Origin Story- Chris and Nancy

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Episode 108: Navigating Vacation Playtime

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Episode 107: Our Temptation Grand Miches Experience

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Episode 106: Navigating Cliques in the Lifestyle

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Episode 105: Origin Stories- "J&B 2.0"

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Episode 104: Choosing a Lifestyle Event with Cate from PCAP

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Episode 103: Facing First-Timer Fears at Desire Resorts

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Episode 102: You Gotta Own Your Own Sh*t

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Episode 101: Deal Breakers

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Episode 100: Are You Willing to Put in the Hard Work?

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Episode 99: Harnessing That New Relationship Energy

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Episode 98: The Need for Lifestyle Community

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Episode 97: Our Thing Might Not Be Your Thing

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Episode 96: Non-Monogamy Coaching by Expansive Connection

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Episode 95: The Lifestyle IS Real Life

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Episode 94: Is it Jealousy or Envy?

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Episode 93: What if We Are Outed?

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Episode 92: Snapshots from Desire Pearl

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Episode 91: Rejected Again- Why Don't They Like Us?

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Episode 90: The Importance of Trust in the Lifestyle

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Episode 89: Enjoying Group Play

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Episode 88: The Art of Avoiding Mistakes

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Episode 87: Normalization by Exposure

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Episode 86: Being Bi-Something in the Lifestyle

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Episode 85: Feels Like the First Time

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Episode 84: The Let Down- Can We Still Be Friends?

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Episode 83: The Struggle is Real

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Episode 82: The Compatibility Conversation

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Episode 81: The Language of the Lifestyle

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Episode 80: Finding True Friends in the Lifestyle

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Episode 79: Can We Afford the Lifestyle?

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Episode 78: How Do I Know She is Interested in Me?

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Episode 77: I Never Imagined I Would Ever...

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Episode 76: Be Authentic- Acknowledging All Facets of You

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Episode 75: Confronting Men's Performance Issues

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Episode 74: Health, Wellness, Hormones and the Lifestyle

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Episode 73: Opposites Attract?

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Episode 72: Voices Inside My Head-Don't Be Your Own C***Blocker

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Episode 71: The Kiss and Tell Dilemma

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Episode 70: Desire 2019- Reflections by the Ladies

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Episode 69: Consent- More Than Words

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Episode 68: The 'Social Sexy' Lifestyle

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Episode 67: Eyes Wide Open- Lifestyle Red Flags

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Episode 66: Discovering Your Lifestyle Tribe

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Episode 65: The Golden Rules of the Lifestyle

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