All Episodes

Burdens of the Family

Is Using ChatGPT Hurting My Relationship?

You Slept With My Best Friend

My Hero Complex

20 Years Later, Esther Revisits Mating in Captivity

In This Relationship What Is "I" and What is "We"?

Are You Abandoning Me or Am I Suffocating You?

Love in the Time of AI with Kashmir Hill

To Make Room for My Brother I Learned to Disappear

My Parents Got Divorced, So Why Am I Still in the Middle?

How To Start (Even When You Don't Know Where You're Going)

Is This the Person I'm Meant to Be With?

Wedding Woes About My Mom

Should I Have Another Baby?

When I'm Manic I Cheat

Love, Loneliness, and AI: Where Should We Begin? Live with Esther Perel and Spike Jonze

My AI Loves Me Better Than Anyone Ever Could

Am I Letting My Jealousy Ruin This?

Can We Repair After a 25 Year Affair?

Trapped In Their Own Story

What if Dating Isn't For Me?

I Have a Crush on a Coworker

Our Sex Life is a Disaster

I Told My Friend I Was in Love with Her, Then She Told Everyone

It's Very Hard to Live with a Saint

Was I Used for a Visa?

Can Our Love Survive Our Differences?

He Loves Her, His Family Rejects Her

The Permission to Be and Not Just the Pressure to Do

Love in War - Where Are They Now?

Mothering My Mother Into Mothering Me

You Need Help to Help Her

One Relationship. Two Truths.

The One Who Stays and the One Who Goes

In Loving You, I Learned to Love Myself

I Accidentally Dated An OnlyFans Star

The Chronic Philanderer

He Doesn't Believe in Marriage, But I Can't Let Go of the Hope

Is It Our ADHD, OCD, and PTSD? Or Is It Us?

Breaking News Has Broken Us

Will This Heartbreak Ever End?

I’m Afraid of Losing More Than Just the Business

A Secret I Can't Even Tell My Therapist

Still Single at 40

Grief Begins With Love With Julia Samuel

Friendship - My Reliable Gift

I Fell For My Best Friend

Stuck in the Middle

Two Conversations Esther Wants You To Hear From Sessions Live

Can Our College Friendship Survive Adulthood?

What Now? with Trevor Noah - Meet Esther Perel - One of My Favorite People

Never Been In a Long Term Relationship, Scared I Don't Know How To Do This

Esther says "Run!"

I Want To Fit In, But I Don't Want To Fit In

First He Loved Bombed Me And Then It Was Over

Terms & Conditions May Apply: What We All Need to Know About Modern Dating

I Took My Boss to Therapy

I Waited for You to be Ready but Now I’m 40 and Childless

I Leave First So You Can't Abandon Me

Stuck Between My Daughter and My Husband

I Can't Love You the Way You Want Me To

Do You Love Me for Me or For What I Do for You?

To Forgive My Ex-Husband I Need to Forgive Myself First

You are Vocal on the Criticism But Silent on the Compliments

Esther Perel Invites Us to Imagine Our Preferred Future

No Longer Daddy's Little Girl

I Can Break up with Him But I'm Still Stuck With Myself

When the Turn On Becomes a Turn Off

I'm Keeping the Baby...Now What?

Is This Worth a Second Chance?

Are We Just Not Sexually Compatible? Part Two

Are We Just Not Sexually Compatible?

Did I Get Ghosted or Is He Just Not That Into Me?

I Don't Want to Turn Into My Mother

Grief is Like a Fingerprint

Say More - Esther Perel on Fantasy with Gillian Anderson

How Many Times Can I Forgive You?

Finding Love Would Mean Letting Go of Who I Am

You Are So Not Invited to My Wedding

Love the Child, Not the Father

Best Friends Don't Make For the Best Bosses

Say More - Miranda July and Esther Perel on The Rebirth of Desire

Why Can't I Find Someone? Is it Me?

We Had Boundaries and He Crossed Them

You Keep Planning A Future Without Me

Four Affairs, Four Divorces. Why Do I Keep Doing This?

What If I Break Up With My Dad?

It Feels Like My Siblings Abandoned Me

Does Growing Up Mean Growing Apart?

My Mom Should Have Set a Different Example

Love is a Trap

I Think I Married the Wrong Person

My Exes Exes Keep Ruining My Relationships

Esther Perel on New AI - Artificial Intimacy

My Husband, His Other Wife, and Me

Sex, Comedy and Context: A Live Conversation with Trevor Noah

If He's A "High Value Man", What Am I?

I Love You One Day, I Hate You The Next

Say More - Ira Glass on Is This It?

I Trust You to Always Tell Me When I'm Wrong

I Lost Him, But I Lost Myself Too

He Wants it Everyday, She Wants it Never

As They Like Me More, I Like Myself Less

Part of Me Wants to Cheat Part Two

Part of Me Wants to Cheat Part One

Now That I Have A Girlfriend, I Never Want To Leave My Wife

Am I Just Your Placeholder?

Non-Negotiables in the New Year | From Ten Percent Happier with Dan Harris

Say More - Neil Patrick Harris on Friendship

My Emotional Inheritance

Is This Survivor's Guilt?

She's Out, He's Still In.

Depleted Mothers Club

A Marriage Organized Around Trauma

A Hospital Divided

I Left. Now I Want My Wife Back.

Self Love Isn't Something I Grew Up With

How's Work? - The Preacher's Wife Part Two

How's Work? - The Preacher's Wife

My Brother's Wife Ruined Our Relationship

I Want Her to Like Me Less

I Crossed a Line I Never Thought I Would Cross

Long Distance and Lost

Am I Being Gaslit?

Donor Daddy

Love In War with Esther Perel: Ukraine

I Need Her to See Me

We Started As An Affair

I Deserve to Be a Mother

Having Needs Doesn't Make You Needy

My Orgasm Is Not Just For Me

Twice Married, To Each Other

Will He Make The Space For Me

It's a Matter of Pride

I Can Be Strong and Be Taken Care Of

I Don't Mean to Be Mean, But...

An Intimate Evening with Esther Perel

Before We Got Together I Identified As Gay

Where Are They Now - A Romantic Revival

Losing My Best Friend

My Partner's Privilege

If I Quit, What Will People Say? | How's Work?

Couples Under Lockdown: Lagos, Nigeria

Couples Under Lockdown: New York, New York

Couples Under Lockdown: Bavaria, Germany

Couples Under Lockdown: Sicily, Italy

Prologue