Saving Married Sex , Stephen Snyder

Wow. Our erotic selves are so young... treat each other with kindness as our erotic selves desire to be selfishly connected like a young child... touch, feel, don't criticize differences, honor truths, celebrate pleasure, allow alone time without taking it personally. These and SO MANY other wise (and hysterical) truths unfolded in this time with the amazing Dr. Snyder about his book Love Worth Making. We agree that our mission in relationships is NOT to take care of each other or we'll end up depleted, resentful etc... our mission is to tell the truth, have pleasure in our pleasure for each other, that arousal doesn't mean obligation, to connect regularly and feel each other's bodies, smell each other's necks, feel connection and let that keep you alive while cocreating not just what she wants, or just what he wants... but a cocreation of what would work for both... that the ebbs and flows and separations can be erotic... that a woman simply being happy is highly underrated! AHHH! So much delicious simple yet profound content in this interview! SAVOR this and get his book. I'm getting it on audible for my next drive... xox