Better Than Bitter™ Divorce Podcast

Are you considering dating before your divorce is finalized? This episode dives into essential legal, emotional, and parenting considerations to help you navigate this tricky territory responsibly and with clarity. Key Topics:The legal ramifications of dating during divorce, including asset dissipation, alimony, and custody implicationsThe importance of understanding your personal motivations ("the raw truth of your why") for wanting to start dating earlyPractical advice on how to date discreetly, avoid legal pitfalls, and protect your children’s emotional well-beingThe significance of knowing your state laws regarding adultery and how they may impact property and supportHow to approach new relationships with full transparency, without trauma bonding or rushing into intimacyThe child-centered approach: safeguarding your children’s stability, avoiding their perception of favoritism, and respecting their emotional processTimestamps: 00:00 - Why dating before divorce is final can be risky 00:21 - Introduction to season two and episode overview 01:07 - Why consider dating during divorce? Common reasons and emotional drivers 02:07 - How dating can complicate legal and financial matters 03:02 - The risks of spending marital assets on a new relationship 03:50 - Effects of cohabitation on alimony and custody 04:20 - Impact of introducing new partners on child custody and stability 05:16 - Legal considerations around adultery and fault states 06:12 - The importance of understanding your true motivations for dating 07:07 - Personal reasons for early dating and potential emotional benefits 08:07 - How to date smartly: financial boundaries and social discretion 09:00 - The importance of legal awareness and consulting professionals 10:05 - Strategies for transparent communication and avoiding trauma bonds 11:12 - Recognizing the infatuation phase and its distinction from real love 12:28 - Buffering pain with new relationships while focusing on healing 13:04 - Protecting your children: the child-centered approach 14:12 - How children perceive new partners and the importance of empathy 15:06 - The emotional impact of new partners on children’s perception 16:07 - Practical rules: timing for introducing partners and social media boundaries 17:17 - Continual check-ins with children and maintaining their stability 18:14 - Recap: key takeaways on legal, emotional, and parental considerations 18:43 - Final encouragement: navigating your divorce journey with clarity and careResources & Links: Better Than Bitter Podcast – Join live coaching sessionsChild-Centered Method – Protecting children’s emotional well-beingApply to get FREE COACHING by being a guest on our podcast to be coached LIVE, schedule your free consult here: www.betterthanbitter.coach/applicationJoin our Better Than Bitter community for $1 a Month!Remember: Your journey through divorce is unique. Educate yourself, set clear boundaries, and always prioritize your children's well-being to move forward with confidence and peace.

Discover the exciting new features of the second season of the Better Than Bitter podcast, including live coaching sessions, an active support community, and expert guidance for those navigating divorce. Main topics:Launch of live coaching sessions on the podcastHow listeners can apply to be coached and share their storiesCreation of the Better Than Bitter Community for ongoing supportResources, virtual events, and expert Q&A sectionsEmphasis on hope, healing, and positive forward movement after divorceIn this episode:Introduction to live coaching opportunities and how to applyOverview of the new Better Than Bitter Community and its purposeDetails on community features such as support circles, resource library, and live groupsMembership options and the importance of small, intentional investmentsHow the community aims to foster hope, courage, and amicable divorce journeysTimestamps:00:00 - Welcome to season two and the new focus on live coaching 00:28 - How to apply for live coaching sessions on the podcast 00:56 - Introducing the Better Than Bitter Community and its purpose 01:23 - Community features: support circles, resources, and events 02:15 - Membership options and community goals for hope and healing 02:45 - Joining instructions and URL overview 03:14 - Closing remarks and encouraging ongoing support Resources & Links:Apply for Live CoachingBetter Than Bitter CommunityBetter Than Bitter WebsiteConnect with Tanya Leichliter:WebsiteInstagram

Episode 60: You May Be Divorcing a Narcissist, Here’s How to TellGuest: Jeff WrightJeff Wright is a performance coach, speaker, and someone I’m grateful to call a friend and mentor. He runs a global insurance firm and has built tremendous success professionally — but what really defines Jeff is his commitment to helping people change their lives. He’s the ultimate change-maker, and he genuinely does this work because it matters to him. His perspective on narcissism isn’t just professional — it’s personal. Jeff grew up with a father who struggled with alcoholism and narcissistic behavior, so he understands these dynamics firsthand. Through his coaching and his Instagram platform, @therealjeffwright, he breaks down narcissistic traits, high-conflict behavior, and the difference between patterns and personality disorders with clarity and depth. I’m excited for you to hear this conversation.Website: Jeff's WebsiteConnect with Jeff Wright Here:@therealjeffwright on InstagramJeff on YouTubeSPECIAL OFFER:For $1, get a month's access to our Divorce Companion Community. This includes tools tailored to your divorce stage, a self-paced course, and a supportive community of relatable individuals.Coupon code: BTBCOMPANION2026Click here to JOINSummaryIn this episode, Jeff and Tania explore narcissistic traits, their impact on relationships, especially during divorce, and practical strategies for managing interactions with narcissists. They discuss passive-aggressive behaviors, active listening, and maintaining emotional control to protect oneself.Keywordsnarcissism, relationships, divorce, passive-aggressive, emotional intelligence, communication strategies, narcissistic traits, conflict resolution, co-parenting, emotional controlKey TopicsNarcissistic traits and behaviorsImpact of narcissism on relationships and divorceStrategies for effective communication and emotional controlTakeawaysMost people have some narcissistic traits, but only a small percentage have narcissistic personality disorder.Passive-aggressive behavior often overlaps with narcissistic traits and can be used to manipulate or criticize subtly.Active listening and staying neutral, brief, and factual can disarm narcissistic attacks and reduce conflict.Controlling your emotional reactions is crucial; emotional reactions feed narcissistic behavior.Consistently applying the same communication strategies is necessary to prevent narcissists from reverting to old behaviors.Avoiding conflict and not speaking badly about your ex to children helps protect their emotional well-being.Modeling healthy behavior and maintaining high-road communication influences children positively.TitlesUnderstanding Narcissistic Traits in Divorce: Practical StrategiesHow to Manage Narcissistic Behaviors During Co-ParentingSound Bites"Everybody has a little bit of narcissism in them.""Model healthy behavior to influence children positively.""Avoid avoiding conflict; it only makes problems worse."Chapters00:00 Understanding Narcissism in Today's Society02:39 Traits of Narcissistic Behavior04:45 Identifying Narcissistic Responses07:44 The Importance of Active Listening10:29 Managing Emotions in Conversations13:33 Effective Communication Strategies16:08 Conflict Avoidance vs. Conflict Efficiency22:31 The Burden of Unspoken Words24:38 Choosing Your Battles in Relationships27:06 The Ripple Effect of Family Dynamics31:27 Recognizing Narcissistic Behaviors31:57 The Role of Parents in Shaping Narcissism32:56 Navigating Co-Parenting with a Narcissist34:49 The Importance of Taking the High Road36:01 Modeling Behavior for Future Generations44:15 Introduction to Amicable Divorce45:37 Resources for Support and GrowthOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 59: Child-Centered Divorce: Part 2 - How To Make Your Life NOT Suck During Divorce(Child Centered Divorce Part 2: Throwing Away the WHY!)For $1, get a month's access to our Divorce Companion Community. This includes tools tailored to your divorce stage, a self-paced course, and a supportive community of relatable individuals.Coupon code: BTBCOMPANION2026Click here to JOINSummaryIn this episode, Tania Leichliter discusses how to move beyond dwelling on the past in divorce by 'throwing away the why.' She offers practical strategies to release emotional baggage, reframe thoughts, and focus on creating a brighter future, emphasizing emotional accountability and self-care.Keywordsdivorce, emotional regulation, mental health, self-care, future focus, mental reframe, emotional baggage, healing, child-centered divorceKey TopicsThe importance of releasing the 'why' in divorceStrategies to reframe negative thoughtsFocusing on future goals and emotional accountabilityTitlesThrow Away the Why: Moving Forward in DivorceReframe Your Past: A Guide to Child-Centered DivorceSound Bites"Throw away the why to stop living in the past.""Healing comes from direction, not explanations.""Separate others' choices from your self-worth."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Child-Centered Divorce01:28 The Importance of Emotional Accountability02:19 Letting Go of the Why03:50 Creating Space for the Future04:35 Exercises to Evict the Why07:19 Healing Through Future Focus08:20 Conclusion and Next Steps08:55 Introduction to Amicable Divorce10:18 Resources for Support and GrowthOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 58: Child Centered Divorce-Be Bigger Than YourselfFor $1, get a month's access to our Divorce Companion Community. This includes tools tailored to your divorce stage, a self-paced course, and a supportive community of relatable individuals.Coupon code: BTBCOMPANION2026Click here to JOINSummaryIn this conversation, Tania Leichliter discusses the concept of a child-centered divorce, emphasizing the importance of emotional regulation and personal responsibility. She introduces the Four Rs method (retract, regroup, re-script, respond) to help individuals navigate their emotions during divorce. The conversation highlights the impact of one's actions on children and the importance of modeling positive behavior. Tania encourages listeners to align their actions with their values and to choose resilience and self-compassion throughout the divorce process.TakeawaysA child-centered divorce begins with personal responsibility.Emotional regulation is key to navigating divorce.The Four Rs method helps manage emotional responses.Your actions impact not just you, but your children.Self-compassion is crucial during difficult times.You have the power to choose how you feel.Align your actions with your core values.Evaluate the impact of your behaviors on others.Resilience is essential in overcoming challenges.Join supportive communities for guidance and resources.TitlesNavigating Divorce with a Child-Centered ApproachEmotional Regulation in Divorce: The Four RsSound bites"It begins with you.""Who is watching you?""You get to choose."Keywordschild-centered divorce, emotional regulation, four Rs, parenting, divorce support, self-compassion, personal responsibility, emotional maturity, resilience, co-parentingOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 57: High-Achieving Women Who Want to Break the Cycle of Struggling In RelationshipsGuest Info:Johana JimenezJohana Jimenez, LPC, is a Dallas‑based therapist who helps high‑achieving adults and couples navigate anxiety, depression, identity shifts, and relationship struggles with compassion and evidence‑informed care. Using EMDR, somatic, and Gottman‑aligned approaches, she helps clients move from survival mode into emotional safety, authentic connection, and meaningful living.Johana's WebsiteGuest's Social Media Profile:Johana's Facebook page@thephoenixineveryhumanbeing on InstagramJohana on YouTubeKeywordsdivorce, emotional healing, high achievers, resilience, child-centered approach, therapy, acceptance, relationships, self-worth, personal growthSummaryIn this conversation, Tania Leichliter and Johana Jimenez explore the emotional complexities of divorce, particularly for high-achieving individuals. They discuss the feelings of failure and shame that often accompany divorce, the importance of acceptance, and the need to focus on personal growth and resilience. The conversation emphasizes the significance of a child-centered approach to divorce, ensuring that children's well-being is prioritized. They also highlight the importance of emotional awareness, naming feelings, and recognizing one's self-worth. Ultimately, the discussion encourages listeners to take control of their narratives and strive for a better future post-divorce.TakeawaysDivorce often brings feelings of failure and shame.Acceptance is crucial in navigating divorce.High achievers may struggle with emotional expression.Modeling resilience can help children cope with divorce.A child-centered approach is essential for amicable divorces.Naming emotions is the first step to healing.You are lovable regardless of relationship outcomes.Focus on personal growth and self-worth post-divorce.Understanding past relationship patterns can prevent future mistakes.You have the power to control your reactions and choices.Sound Bites"Divorce is a loss.""You need to throw away the why.""You can only control yourself."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Healing Post-Divorce01:13 Navigating Feelings of Failure and Shame03:15 Acceptance and Moving Forward04:58 Exploring Patterns in Relationships07:05 Understanding Lovability and Self-Worth09:01 Compartmentalizing Emotions vs. Processing Them10:52 Modeling Resilience for Children14:09 Breaking Negative Mindsets in Children16:51 Creating a Child-Centered Divorce19:21 The Circle of Control22:24 Rethinking Emotions and Responses26:08 Tools for High Achievers in Therapy37:17 Introduction to Amicable Divorce38:46 Resources for Support and GrowthOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 56: Gray Divorce: Am I Losing My Mind, Body, and Sanity?Our guest for this episode: Paula Brown, MAIOPFounder, Konenki Menopause SolutionsPaula Brown holds a Bachelor’s in Human Resources Management and a Master’s in Industrial and Organizational Psychology, blending nonprofit and corporate expertise. A learning and development leader, she excels in designing impactful training programs and fostering inclusivity through strong communication and facilitation skills. Resilient and committed to helping others overcome challenges, Paula drives organizational growth with a focus on continuous learning.Paula is the creator of Rita’s Labyrinth in Holliston, MA, offering mindfulness and spiritual practices inspired by diverse traditions, especially the divine feminine. She is also a facilitator of The Artist’s Way, creating spaces for exploration and growth, integrating her professional and spiritual passions to inspire lasting positive change.Paula Brown's WebsiteKonenki Menopause Facebook PageKonenki Menopause InstagramSummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter podcast, Tania Leichliter and Paula Brown discuss the intersection of divorce and menopause, exploring the challenges women face during this transitional period. They share personal stories of struggle, resilience, and the importance of support networks. The conversation highlights the impact of hormonal changes on mental health, relationships, and personal reinvention, emphasizing that menopause is a natural life transition rather than a crisis. Listeners are encouraged to seek help and find hope in their journeys.Keywordsdivorce, menopause, women empowerment, mental health, hormone therapy, personal stories, resilience, support networks, life transitions, relationship dynamicsTakeawaysDivorce can be navigated amicably with the right support.Menopause brings significant physiological changes that can affect mental health.Personal stories of struggle can inspire resilience in others.Hormonal changes during menopause can lead to brain fog and other symptoms.Support networks are crucial for women going through divorce and menopause.Reinventing oneself post-divorce is possible and empowering.Menopause is a natural life transition, not a crisis.Open communication with partners about menopause is essential.There are professionals available to help women navigate menopause.Hope exists for maintaining intimacy and connection in relationships. TitlesNavigating Divorce and Menopause: A Journey of ResiliencePersonal Stories of Struggle: Finding Strength in TransitionSound Bites"It's life-changing.""I thought I had a brain tumor.""I was fired from two jobs."Chapters00:00 Navigating Menopause and Divorce02:28 Personal Journeys Through Menopause09:11 The Role of Support Networks16:37 Coping with Stress and Brain Fog18:17 Impact of Menopause on Relationships28:45 Rekindling Passion and Libido33:38 Finding Hope and Support38:36 Introduction to Amicable Divorce40:05 Resources for Support and GrowthOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 55: The Co-Parenting Secret. It's Not About YOU! Our guest for this episode:Jon Bassford, JD, MBA, CAEAbout our guest: He has written a book called "The Co-Parenting Secret: It's not about you”.  Jon is actually a consultant.Link to book on Amazon: https://a.co/d/6gR0ucXHe heads up operations for startups and nonprofits, but he has written this book based on his own personal story. His friends, his family, and people were amazed by him and his wife and how well they were able to co-parent. And they were like, you should write a book. And John's like, huh, maybe I should write a book. Keywordsco-parenting, divorce, family dynamics, intentional parenting, emotional well-being, communication, relationships, parenting strategies, self-reflection, family supportSummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter podcast, Tania Leichliter speaks with Jon Bassford about his book, 'The Co-Parenting Secret: It's Not About You.' They discuss the challenges of co-parenting, the importance of intentionality, and how to navigate new relationships while keeping the children's best interests at heart. John shares his personal experiences and insights on creating a supportive environment for children post-divorce, emphasizing the need for effective communication and emotional well-being.TakeawaysCo-parenting requires intentionality and focus on the children.It's essential to communicate effectively for the sake of the kids.Divorce doesn't have to be a negative experience for children.Maintaining relationships with extended family is crucial.Emotional well-being of parents directly affects the children.Letting go of animosity can improve co-parenting dynamics.Children benefit from having multiple loving adults in their lives.Being open to new relationships can be healthy for everyone involved.Self-reflection is key to personal growth post-divorce.Creating a supportive environment helps children thrive. TitlesNavigating the Co-Parenting JourneyIntentional Co-Parenting StrategiesSound Bites"It's not about you.""You have to be very intentional.""Let go of the animosity."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Co-Parenting Dynamics03:17 The Journey of Writing a Co-Parenting Book05:42 Navigating Co-Parenting with Young Children08:09 Intentionality in Co-Parenting Relationships11:07 Humanizing Divorce and Co-Parenting13:32 Building a Supportive Co-Parenting Village16:19 Handling New Relationships and Dating18:51 Communication as a Pillar of Co-Parenting21:45 Teaching Children About Relationships24:22 Focusing on Self-Improvement26:53 Letting Go of Control and Embracing Flexibility29:44 Creating a Loving Environment for Children36:02 Introduction to Amicable Divorce37:31 Resources for Support and GrowthOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 54: Tis' The Season To Rebuild Your Life with Purpose, Passion, & IntentKeywordsdivorce, amicable resolution, emotional resilience, purpose, passion, intentions, holidays, self-discovery, personal growth, coachingSummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter Podcast, Tania Leichliter discusses the emotional complexities of navigating divorce, especially during the holiday season. She emphasizes the importance of rebuilding one's life with purpose, passion, and intention. Tania shares personal stories and insights on finding gratitude, setting intentions for the future, and rediscovering one's identity and passions post-divorce. The episode concludes with a three-step rebuilding framework and guided reflection exercises to help listeners move forward positively.TakeawaysDivorce can be navigated amicably with the right mindset.Holidays can trigger complex emotions during and after divorce.Setting intentions is more effective than traditional resolutions.Divorce presents opportunities for personal growth and new beginnings.Engaging in passions can help alleviate feelings of loneliness.Finding purpose post-divorce is crucial for emotional well-being.Rediscovering lost passions can reignite one's identity.Intentions shape how we approach challenges and opportunities.A three-step framework can guide the rebuilding process after divorce.Reflection exercises can help clarify goals and intentions for the future.TitlesRebuilding Life After Divorce: A New PerspectiveNavigating Holidays with Grace Post-DivorceSound Bites"Thanksgiving is a season of gratitude.""Divorce creates opportunity for us.""Find your purpose post-divorce."Chapters00:00 Rebuilding with Purpose and Passion09:53 Finding Your Purpose After Divorce17:43 Reawakening Passion and Intent21:11 The Three-Step Rebuilding Framework25:09 Introduction to Amicable Divorce26:38 Resources for Support and GrowthOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 53: Love Wars: Clash of The ParentsGuest for this episode: Matthew TowerBio: Matthew A. Tower is an author, art director, audiobook narrator, and entrepreneur. He first saw Star Wars in theaters at age three. Love Wars: Clash of The Parents, A True Divorce Story is his debut work of literature.Previously, he was the founder and CEO of Versus Books, and published more than 50 gaming strategy guides for hits like The Legend of Zelda, selling over 5 million copies.Book Link:Love Wars: Clash of The ParentsKeywordsdivorce, amicable resolution, custody battles, parenting, emotional resilience, high conflict, memoir, Better Than Bitter, Love Wars, parenting strategiesSummaryIn this episode, Tania Leichliter interviews Matthew A. Tower, author of 'Love Wars: Clash of The Parents.' They discuss the challenges of navigating divorce, particularly focusing on the impact of high-conflict situations on children. Matthew shares his personal experiences growing up in a custody battle and emphasizes the importance of amicable resolutions for the sake of children. The conversation highlights the dynamics of victim vs. victor, the role of supportive adults, and the necessity of emotional resilience in the face of divorce.TakeawaysMatthew's memoir offers a unique perspective on divorce from a child's viewpoint.High-conflict divorces can have lasting negative effects on children.The importance of putting children first during divorce proceedings.Parents should strive for amicable resolutions to avoid emotional trauma for kids.The victim vs. victor dynamic is crucial in navigating divorce.Supportive adults can play a significant role in de-escalating conflict.Mindset is key in managing divorce-related challenges.Flexibility in parenting plans is essential for co-parenting success.Children internalize negative comments about their parents, affecting their self-esteem.The concept of the 'de-escalator' can help parents manage conflict better.TitlesNavigating Divorce: Insights from Love WarsThe Child's Perspective on DivorceSound Bites"It's all about mindset.""You must be 50% bad.""You can't control other people."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Love Wars02:27 Matthew's Unique Perspective on Divorce06:40 The Impact of High-Conflict Divorces14:14 The Role of Mindset in Divorce18:34 Understanding High-Conflict Personalities26:40 The Importance of De-escalation33:42 Finding Hope and Support in Difficult Times47:36 Introduction to Amicable Divorce49:05 Resources for Support and GrowthOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 52: Limited Beliefs. Are you Ruminating?Keywordsdivorce, coaching, emotional healing, resilience, personal growth, limiting beliefs, gratitude, empowerment, relationships, self-discoverySummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter Divorce Podcast, host Tania Leichliter discusses the journey of navigating divorce with a focus on empowerment, emotional healing, and personal growth. She emphasizes the importance of reclaiming one's power, challenging limiting beliefs, and adopting a perspective of gratitude. Through practical exercises and insights, listeners are encouraged to shift their narratives and embrace the opportunities that come with change, ultimately leading to a more amicable divorce resolution.TakeawaysDivorce can be approached amicably with the right mindset.Reclaiming power is essential for personal growth.Emotional impacts of divorce are often rooted in societal beliefs.Resilience is built by navigating challenges rather than avoiding them.Gratitude practices can shift focus from negativity to positivity.Children will be okay if they receive unconditional love.You have the power to control your reactions and emotions.Shifting blame to others gives them power over your feelings.Challenging limiting beliefs can reshape your future.Every ending is a new beginning, a chance to rewrite your story.TitlesNavigating Divorce with EmpowermentReclaiming Your Power Post-DivorceSound Bites"We want to reclaim our power.""Focus on what you can control.""Look for the good in everyone."Chapters00:00 Understanding Limited Beliefs in Divorce09:48 Reclaiming Power and Responsibility14:15 Introduction to Amicable Divorce15:44 Resources for Support and Growth

Episode 51: Divorce and Menopause. It's A Thing!SummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter podcast, Tania Leichliter discusses the intersection of menopause and divorce, exploring how the physiological and emotional changes women experience during menopause can impact their relationships. She emphasizes the importance of self-care, support, and taking ownership of one's feelings during this challenging time. Tania encourages listeners to embrace new beginnings and to seek community support as they navigate these life transitions.TakeawaysMenopause significantly impacts relationships, especially during divorce.Emotional changes during menopause can lead to feelings of disconnection.It's essential to understand the physiological changes occurring during menopause.Women often face identity crises during midlife, affecting their relationships.Support from partners is crucial during the menopausal transition.Self-care and community support are vital for navigating divorce and menopause.Taking ownership of one's feelings can empower individuals during this time.Rediscovering one's authentic self is a key part of the midlife awakening.Menopause and divorce can be seen as opportunities for growth.It's important to communicate openly about the challenges faced during menopause.TitlesNavigating Menopause and Divorce: A Journey of Self-DiscoveryThe Emotional Landscape of Menopause and Its Impact on RelationshipsSound Bites"You need to support yourself.""You are at that crossroads.""You have a brighter future."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Menopause and Relationships04:09 The Impact of Menopause on Partnerships07:08 Navigating Emotional Changes During Menopause09:33 Understanding Divorce in the Context of Menopause12:12 The Emotional Equation of Midlife Changes14:31 Creating a New Identity Post-Divorce17:08 Transforming Menopause into Opportunity20:13 Building Supportive Communities22:39 Embracing New Beginnings25:40 Reclaiming Power and Peace31:19 Introduction to Amicable Divorce32:48 Resources for Support and GrowthOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 50: I am Divorcing A Narcissist- Communication Techniques To Save Your Money and SanityKeywordsamicable divorce, narcissism, divorce coaching, BIFF method, communication strategies, boundary setting, emotional health, co-parenting, divorce support, conflict resolutionSummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter podcast, Tania Leichliter discusses the complexities of navigating divorce, particularly when dealing with narcissistic behaviors. She introduces the BIFF method as a communication strategy to manage high-conflict situations effectively. The episode emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and maintaining emotional health during the divorce process, providing listeners with practical tools and insights to achieve an amicable resolution.TakeawaysAn amicable divorce is achievable with the right mindset.Understanding narcissistic behaviors can help in communication.The BIFF method is a practical tool for conflict resolution.Setting boundaries is crucial for emotional health during divorce.Communication should be brief, informative, friendly, and firm.It's important to regroup before responding to high-conflict individuals.Tracking communication can help maintain clarity and organization.You should feel okay with the decisions you make during divorce.Revisiting settled items can create unnecessary conflict.Support groups can provide valuable resources and community during divorce.TitlesNavigating Divorce with Narcissistic BehaviorsThe Power of the BIFF Method in DivorceSound Bites"Divorce doesn't have to be a battleground.""You don't need to reply right away.""An amicable divorce is possible."Chapters00:00 Understanding Narcissism in Divorce05:09 The BIF Method for Effective Communication15:56 Setting Boundaries During Divorce24:31 Support and Resources for Navigating Divorce26:12 Introduction to Amicable Divorce27:41 Resources for Support and GrowthOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 49: Dating 101 - Are You Emotionally Ready?SummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter Divorce Podcast, host Tania Leichliter discusses the concept of emotional readiness for dating after divorce. She emphasizes that emotional readiness is not merely about feeling lonely or wanting companionship, but rather involves self-reflection, understanding one's motivations, and being grounded in one's identity. Tania outlines common traps that individuals may fall into when dating post-divorce and provides insights on how to approach dating with intention and awareness. The episode encourages listeners to focus on their emotional state and readiness rather than societal pressures or timelines.Keywordsdivorce, emotional readiness, dating after divorce, amicable resolution, self-reflection, relationship dynamics, personal growth, dating tips, Better Than Bitter, support groupTakeawaysEmotional readiness is about self-awareness, not just loneliness.Grieving the divorce is essential before dating.Avoid dating to distract from pain; seek genuine connection.Common traps include rebound dating and seeking validation.Focus on how dating feels rather than what it gives you.You don't need to be fully healed to start dating.There is no deadline for when to start dating again.Reflect on your fears around love and trust.Your desire for connection should come from wholeness, not woundedness.Dating is about coming back home to yourself first.TitlesNavigating Emotional Readiness After DivorceUnderstanding Your Readiness for DatingSound Bites"Common traps people fall into.""Focus on how dating might feel.""You get to go at your pace."Chapters00:00 Understanding Emotional Readiness After Divorce03:47 Redefining Readiness: Signs You're Prepared to Date04:46 Common Traps and Misconceptions in Dating05:54 Introduction to Amicable Divorce07:23 Resources for Support and GrowthOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 48: Tania Leichliter's Untold Story Behind Better Than Bitter: Helping Individuals Towards More Amicable Divorce ResolutionsSummaryIn this conversation, Tania Leichliter shares her journey from being a business owner to becoming a life coach, specifically focusing on divorce coaching. She discusses the importance of changing the narrative around divorce, emphasizing the potential for amicable resolutions and the emotional well-being of those involved. Tania introduces her initiative, Better Than Bitter, aimed at empowering individuals going through divorce and reducing the stigma associated with it. She highlights the skills and techniques that can help individuals navigate the challenges of divorce while maintaining a positive outlook and fostering healthy relationships, especially for the sake of children.TakeawaysI was a business owner for many years.I decided to start life coaching classes.I wanted to help people at the very beginning stages.Divorce empowerment coaching is a growing field.It's important to change the divorce dialogue.Children of divorce should not feel shame.An amicable resolution is possible even in conflict.You can control your reaction during divorce.We teach a method called BIF for communication.Believing in a positive outcome is crucial.TitlesTransforming Divorce: From Bitter to BetterEmpowering Through Divorce CoachingSound Bites"I see it as a movement.""You can control your reaction.""We teach a method called BIF."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Better Than Bitter02:45 The Journey to Divorce Coaching06:06 Mindset Mastery and Self-Love09:54 The Importance of Education in Divorce11:35 Techniques for Amicable Resolutions14:20 NEWCHAPTER15:18 Introduction to Amicable Divorce16:47 Resources for Support and GrowthOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 47: The Other WomanSummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter podcast, host Tania Leichliter discusses the journey towards an amicable divorce, emphasizing the importance of letting go of bitterness and resentment. She shares personal stories and insights on how to embrace new relationships, create a comfortable environment for children, and maintain family connections post-divorce. Tania encourages listeners to focus on acceptance and the positive impact of fostering good relationships for the sake of their children.TakeawaysDivorce can be navigated amicably with the right mindset.Holding onto bitterness only harms yourself.Acceptance is crucial in the divorce process.Creating a comfortable environment for children is essential.Embracing new relationships can benefit everyone involved.Children thrive in a loving environment with multiple role models.Letting go of resentment leads to personal peace.You have the power to set the tone for family interactions.Maintaining family connections is important for children's well-being.Support and resources are available for those going through divorce.TitlesNavigating Amicable DivorceLetting Go: The Key to HealingSound bites"The only person that suffers is you.""You can evolve into a new partnership.""You have a responsibility to try."Chapters00:00 Navigating Divorce and New Relationships04:15 The Importance of Letting Go06:41 Building Amicable Relationships for the Kids09:24 Creating a Supportive Family Environment12:32 Introduction to Amicable Divorce14:01 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsamicable divorce, letting go, co-parenting, family relationships, divorce support, emotional healing, acceptance, new beginnings, positive parenting, divorce coachingOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

EPISODE 46: LIVING UNDER THE SAME ROOF! TRANSITION PLANNING.SummaryThis conversation delves into effective communication strategies during challenging discussions, particularly in the context of divorce and parenting transitions. It emphasizes the importance of clarity, active listening, and understanding the emotional dynamics at play. The discussion also covers practical approaches to parenting during transitions and the significance of being well-prepared for mediation sessions to ensure a productive outcome.TakeawaysUnderstanding communication barriers is crucial in conflict resolution.Active listening can prevent misunderstandings and promote clarity.Transition planning is essential for effective co-parenting.Creating a safe environment for children is a priority during transitions.On-duty and off-duty parenting schedules can provide necessary space.Preparation for mediation can significantly impact outcomes.Having a clear plan for asset division is vital in divorce.Emotional health should be prioritized during family transitions.Collaborative efforts in parenting can ease the transition for children.Being overly prepared can give you an advantage in mediation.TitlesMastering Communication in DivorceNavigating Parenting Transitions EffectivelySound Bites"Your situation right now is very toxic.""Think about a transition plan.""It's just a waste of your money."Chapters00:00 Introduction and Technical Difficulties01:17 Future-Focused Teamwork Program01:17 Personal Challenges and Mediation Preparation05:49 Active Listening Techniques09:09 Protecting Children in a Toxic Environment09:40 Transition Planning for Custody14:42 Preparing for Mediation and Financial Planning19:38 Navigating Financial Transparency in Relationships22:02 The Emotional Impact of Divorce on Families24:13 Accountability and Healing in Relationships24:14 Introduction to Amicable Divorce25:43 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordscommunication, parenting, mediation, transition planning, active listening, divorce, custody, emotional health, conflict resolution, family dynamicsOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 45: Bring It On!SummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter podcast, Tania Leichliter shares her personal journey through divorce and life transitions, emphasizing the importance of adopting a victor mindset rather than a victim mentality. She discusses the challenges faced during her divorce, including job changes and personal growth, and encourages listeners to embrace solutions, let go of resentment, and believe in a brighter future. Tania's message is one of empowerment, resilience, and the belief that amicable resolutions are possible even in difficult circumstances.TakeawaysDivorce can be a challenging journey, but it doesn't have to be a battleground.Adopting a victor mindset is crucial for personal growth.It's important to take responsibility for your feelings and actions.Forgiveness is essential for moving forward and finding peace.Letting go of resentment benefits both you and your children.Focus on solutions rather than problems to navigate challenges.Personal growth often comes from facing difficult life transitions.Believing in a brighter future is key to overcoming adversity.You have the power to make choices that lead to a better life.Support and resources are available to help you through the divorce process.TitlesEmbracing Change: The Better Than Bitter JourneyFrom Victim to Victor: A Divorce StorySound bites"You are going to be okay.""Bring it on. I've got this.""Choose to put my kids first."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Better Than Bitter Podcast01:54 Facing Divorce and Life Transitions08:02 Choosing to be a Victor, Not a Victim09:48 Letting Go of Resentment and Anger12:08 Embracing Solutions and New BeginningsKeywordsdivorce, amicable resolution, life coaching, personal growth, victim mentality, empowerment, resilience, forgiveness, Better Than Bitter, Tania LeichliterOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 44: Considering Nesting? Success Stories RevealedSummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter Podcast, host Tania Leichliter discusses the concept of amicable divorce with a guest who shares her personal experience with nesting. The conversation explores the benefits of nesting for children, financial considerations, establishing boundaries, and the importance of positive co-parenting dynamics. Tania emphasizes the need for flexibility, support, and open communication between co-parents to ensure a healthy environment for their children during and after the divorce process.TakeawaysNesting can provide a stable environment for children during divorce.Financial considerations should include the costs of two residences.Flexibility and adjustment are key in co-parenting arrangements.Establishing clear boundaries is essential in a nesting situation.Positive reinforcement can improve co-parenting dynamics.Disparaging an ex can harm children emotionally.Open communication is vital for successful co-parenting.Nesting can lead to a smoother transition for children.Support each other to foster a healthy co-parenting relationship.Planning and organization can ease the challenges of co-parenting.TitlesNavigating Divorce with GraceThe Benefits of Nesting in DivorceSound Bites"You can try nesting and how great it can be.""You need a place with a room for the kids.""Packing is kind of an art."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Nesting02:58 The Journey of Nesting09:48 Navigating Finances in Nesting13:38 Establishing Boundaries in the Nesting Home21:02 Navigating Finances and Self-Doubt21:12 Growth Mindset in Parenting22:37 Supporting Each Other as Co-Parents23:43 Encouragement Over Competition26:27 The Impact of Disparaging Remarks28:38 Nesting: A Cooperative Approach30:43 Financial Dynamics in Co-Parenting32:21 Unique Financial Arrangements32:22 Top Tips for Successful Co-Parenting36:21 Introduction to Amicable Divorce37:50 Resources for Support and GrowthOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 43: What If Your EX Continues To Want To Change Custody Schedule?SummaryThis conversation focuses on navigating the complexities of divorce with compassion and effective communication. Tania Leichliter emphasizes the importance of flexibility in co-parenting and setting clear rules of engagement to foster amicable relationships between ex-spouses. The discussion provides practical strategies for managing emotional responses and ensuring that the needs of children are prioritized throughout the divorce process.TakeawaysDivorce can be navigated without conflict.Effective communication is crucial during divorce.Flexibility is key in co-parenting arrangements.Check your emotional state before reacting.Changes in schedules may require renegotiation.Children's needs should always come first.Setting rules of engagement can improve communication.Being open to change benefits everyone involved.Documenting agreements helps maintain clarity.Believe in a positive future post-divorce.TitlesNavigating Divorce with CompassionEffective Communication in DivorceSound Bites"Believe in your brighter future.""Your kids are the key.""Be flexible, be open."Chapters00:00 Navigating Co-Parenting Challenges06:39 Introduction to Amicable Divorce08:08 Resources for Support and GrowthOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 42: How To Communicate To Get What You Want In DivorceSummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter Divorce Podcast, host Tania Leichliter discusses the essential communication strategies for achieving an amicable divorce. She emphasizes the importance of vulnerability, compassion, mindfulness, and assertiveness in navigating the emotional challenges of divorce and co-parenting. Tania provides practical techniques for effective negotiation and conflict resolution, encouraging listeners to focus on solutions rather than problems. The episode also includes role-playing scenarios to help listeners practice these communication skills in real-life situations.TakeawaysYou can't control the other person, only your reactions.Being an asshole is counterproductive in negotiations.Vulnerability can lead to better communication outcomes.Self-compassion is crucial during the divorce process.Understanding the 'why' behind requests is essential.Focus on solutions, not problems, during mediation.Appreciation can foster a more cooperative environment.Setting rules for mediation is important for effective communication.Role-playing can help practice communication techniques.Emotional awareness is key to managing conflict. TitlesMastering Communication for an Amicable DivorceNavigating Divorce: The Power of VulnerabilitySound Bites"You can't control the other person.""The why is a really important question.""You want to feel appreciated too."Chapters00:00 Navigating Divorce Communication11:43 The Power of Vulnerability20:52 Compassion and Understanding in Negotiation24:55 Mindfulness and Assertiveness30:57 Introduction to Amicable Divorce32:26 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsamicable divorce, communication, co-parenting, negotiation, mindfulness, vulnerability, compassion, assertiveness, appreciation, mediation+On our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 41: Dating Part 3: Don't Date For the Wrong Reasons During or Post Divorce! Intentional Dating 101Our Guest for This Episode:Susan Trotter Susan Trotter, Ph.D. is a Relationship Coach who is passionate about helping people to feel confident and empowered in their lives. She has expertise in dating, relationships and divorce, with a special interest in the areas of mindset and communication. Connect with the guest:Susan's Website Susan's Facebook page @susantrotterphd on Instagram SummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter Podcast, Tania Leichliter and Dr. Susan Trotter discuss the importance of intentional dating during and after divorce. They explore how to prepare for life post-divorce, the significance of understanding one's intentions in dating, and the challenges of navigating relationships after betrayal. The conversation emphasizes effective communication strategies, the impact of narcissism, and the necessity of building self-trust and independence. Key takeaways include the importance of clarity in intentions, the value of positive reinforcement, and the need for personal growth before entering new relationships.TakeawaysStart thinking about your post-divorce life before you get there.Clarity around your intentions in dating is crucial.Every experience has lessons that can inform future relationships.You can't control what others do, only how you respond.Effective communication is key to healthy relationships.Positive reinforcement encourages good behavior in others.Narcissism exists on a spectrum; be aware of it in relationships.Pay attention to behavior over time to understand a partner.Building self-trust is essential after a divorce.You must do the hard work on yourself before dating again.TitlesNavigating Intentional Dating After DivorceBuilding a Brighter Future Post-DivorceSound Bites"Don't date for the wrong reasons.""Every experience has lessons for us.""Narcissism is a continuum."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Intentional Dating02:38 Preparing for Life After Divorce05:05 Understanding Intentions in Dating08:43 Learning from Past Relationships10:54 Navigating Betrayal and Trust Issues11:45 Regaining Power After Betrayal13:57 Effective Communication Strategies17:59 Building a Foundation of Goodwill19:43 Leading with Positivity in Communication20:06 Understanding Narcissism and Its Impact21:15 Navigating Relationships with Narcissistic Individuals23:04 Recognizing Patterns in Dating After Divorce25:02 The Importance of Observing Behavior Over Time27:46 Building Independence and Trusting Yourself31:50 Intentional Dating and Clarity of Purpose37:09 Introduction to Amicable Divorce38:38 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsintentional dating, divorce recovery, relationship coaching, self-awareness, communication skills, trust rebuilding, narcissism, emotional healing, dating after divorce, personal growthOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 40: Dating Part 2: Are You Dating Because You're Lonely or Because You're Really Ready For Something?SummaryIn this conversation, Tania Leichliter discusses the complexities of dating and relationships after divorce. She emphasizes the importance of self-love, independence, and rebuilding one's authentic self before entering new relationships. Tania also highlights the significance of having a support system and resources available for those navigating dating during or after divorce.TakeawaysThe importance of self-reliance after a marriage.Rebuilding your authentic self is crucial for future relationships.Passion for oneself is foundational for healthy relationships.Finding hobbies and friends is essential for independence.A partner should complement your independence, not define it.Building intimacy requires vulnerability and trust.Support groups can provide valuable resources during transitions.Success in relationships is measured by what we give, not get.It's important to change the narrative around divorce.Dating can be approached with courage and self-compassion.TitlesNavigating Love After Divorce: A New PerspectiveRebuilding Yourself: The Key to Healthy RelationshipsSound Bites"You can have something.""You can lean on each other.""You should join our support group."Chapters00:00 Navigating Post-Divorce Relationships03:19 Building Independence and Self-Discovery07:07 Introduction to Amicable Divorce08:36 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsdivorce, dating, relationships, self-love, independence, support group, rebuilding, intimacy, partnership, personal growthOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 39: Dating Part 1 Am I ReadySummaryIn this conversation, Tania Leichliter discusses the importance of self-love and emotional readiness in the context of dating, especially after divorce. She emphasizes the need to understand one's intentions behind dating, the significance of healing from past trauma, and the role of validation in relationships. Tania also highlights the importance of authenticity in online dating and encourages self-reflection through journaling prompts. Ultimately, she advocates for finding fulfillment in various aspects of life rather than relying solely on romantic relationships.TakeawaysSelf-love is crucial before entering new relationships.Dating can be a means of escape if not approached mindfully.Understanding emotional baggage is key to healthy dating.Intentions behind dating should be clear and honest.Loneliness and being alone are different experiences.Healing from past trauma is essential before dating again.Validation should come from within, not just from others.Authenticity in online dating is important for genuine connections.Self-reflection through journaling can aid in understanding dating motivations.Fulfillment should come from multiple sources, not just romantic partners.TitlesNavigating Love After DivorceThe Importance of Self-Love in DatingSound Bites"Love yourself before you love others.""Are you dating as an escape?""Make sure your personality shines through."Chapters00:00 Embracing Change: New Beginnings in Life and Work01:20 The Journey of Self-Discovery: Healing and Moving Forward01:32 Dating After Divorce: Readiness and Intentions11:37 The Role of Validation: Seeking Connection vs. Authenticity15:52 Navigating Friendships and Relationships17:41 Understanding Emotional Drivers in Dating18:23 Patterns in Relationships and Friendships19:21 Intentions and Emotional Check-ins20:09 Community and Connection in Dating20:14 Planning for Future Connections20:14 Introduction to Amicable Divorce21:43 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsself-love, dating, divorce, emotional baggage, intentions, loneliness, healing, validation, authenticity, fulfillmentOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 38: To Start Dating or Focus on HealingOur Guest for This Episode: Robyn Vogel Recognized as one of the top teachers of the Heart in her community, Robyn Vogel, founder of Come Back To Love® is known for providing trauma-informed, heart-centered solutions that are designed to ignite a sense of love, expand the spirit, and heal the past. In a time of fleeting social media interactions, one-hour coffee dates, and a world that looks like it’s falling apart, Robyn offers hope, genuine human connection, and inner transformation. Participants are enveloped in a warm transmission of Divine Love, absorbing heart-healing wisdom shared by Robyn. Seemingly stuck patterns and wounds from the past can find resolution and peace. Participants will gain a renewed sense of love, connection, and intimacy in their lives and witness the activation of their own intuitive heart. Guest's Website:Robyn's Website Visit Her Social Media Accounts:Robyn's Facebook page @comebacktolove_robynvogel on Instagram Robyn on YouTube SummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter Podcast, Tania Leichliter and Robyn Vogel discuss the intricate relationship between healing from divorce and the journey of dating. They explore the importance of self-compassion, recognizing patterns in past relationships, and the necessity of healing before entering new romantic connections. The conversation emphasizes that while dating can be a part of the healing process, it is crucial to focus on personal growth and emotional well-being. Robyn shares insights from her trauma-informed coaching practice and the significance of community support in healing. The episode concludes with a discussion on retreats that combine personal development with community connection.TakeawaysDivorce can be navigated amicably with hope.Healing is essential before dating again.Recognizing patterns in past relationships is crucial.Self-compassion plays a key role in healing.Emotions are like waves; they will pass.Community support enhances the healing process.You can heal and date simultaneously, but balance is key.Identifying your worthiness of love is vital.Engaging in retreats can foster deep healing.The journey of healing is ongoing and requires patience.TitlesNavigating Divorce with HopeThe Journey of Healing and DatingSound Bites"Stop dating and start healing.""You are lovable just the way you are.""Self-compassion is key to healing."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Healing and Dating02:05 Understanding the Healing Process08:28 Dating While Healing: Is It Possible?13:40 Recognizing Patterns in Relationships15:14 Exercises for Self-Discovery and Healing21:13 Daily Practices for Self-Compassion21:34 Mindfulness and Self-Awareness22:33 Neuroscience of Thought Patterns23:58 Rewiring Negative Beliefs26:02 Challenging Limiting Beliefs28:12 Emotional Healing and Regulation30:29 Compartmentalization and Emotional Processing32:52 Retreats and Community Healing43:19 Introduction to Amicable Divorce44:48 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsdivorce, healing, dating, trauma-informed coaching, emotional resilience, self-compassion, relationship patterns, personal growth, intimacy, community supportOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 37: Be Solutions Oriented. Stop Ruminating Over The ProblemSummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter Podcast, Tania Leichliter discusses the importance of being solutions-oriented during the divorce process. She emphasizes the need to focus on solutions rather than problems, particularly when navigating physical separation, emotional challenges, and financial uncertainties. Tania shares practical strategies for creating a healthy co-parenting schedule and highlights the value of support systems and resources available for individuals going through divorce. The episode encourages listeners to take charge of their emotions and invest in their independence as they transition through this challenging time.TakeawaysFocus on solutions, not problems.Empower yourself by finding solutions.Physical separation can be managed creatively.Financial clarity is essential during divorce.Invest in your independence and skills.Stop blaming others for your feelings.Create a co-parenting schedule that works for everyone.Utilize support systems and resources available.Communicate solutions effectively with your ex.Join supportive communities for guidance and encouragement.TitlesBe Solutions-Oriented in DivorceNavigating Divorce with a Positive MindsetSound Bites"Be solutions-oriented.""Invest in your independence.""Take back your power."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Solutions Orientation03:46 Transition Planning in Divorce10:37 Financial Clarity and Support13:58 Empowerment Through Solutions19:56 Creating a Supportive Environment22:59 Introduction to Amicable Divorce24:28 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsdivorce, solutions-oriented, co-parenting, financial clarity, emotional empowerment, amicable resolution, support systems, communication, transition planning, Better Than BitterOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 36: Should You Sell or Should You Stay? The Divorce Dilemma Around Selling of the Family Home.Our guest for this episode:Amy Plate, a Real Estate ExpertSummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter podcast, host Tania Leichliter discusses the emotional and financial complexities of selling the family home during a divorce. Joined by real estate expert Amy Plante, they explore the importance of professional guidance, the emotional weight of decisions surrounding the family home, and the necessity of financial planning to ensure a secure future post-divorce. The conversation emphasizes the need for compassion, understanding, and strategic planning to navigate this challenging life transition.TakeawaysSelling the family home is one of the most emotional decisions during a divorce.It's crucial to involve divorce experts early in the process.Children's feelings and needs should be prioritized when making housing decisions.Financial planning is essential to understand the implications of selling or keeping the home.Professional guidance can help navigate the complexities of real estate during divorce.Understanding the condition of the home is vital before making decisions.Emotional attachments to the home can cloud judgment.Renting can be a viable option post-divorce, contrary to common beliefs.Communication with children about changes is important for their emotional well-being.Having a support system, including coaches and financial advisors, is crucial during this transition.TitlesNavigating Divorce: The Emotional Dilemma of Selling the Family HomeThe Importance of Professional Guidance in DivorceSound Bites"You have to worry about the house.""You have a lot of options.""This is an emotional decision."Chapters00:00 Navigating Divorce Decisions: The Emotional Dilemma05:02 The Impact of Community and Stability on Children08:41 Simplifying Life Post-Divorce: A New Perspective12:29 Financial Considerations in Divorce: Understanding Your Assets14:38 The Importance of Home Inspections During Divorce17:15 Expert Guidance: Navigating Divorce with Professionals18:50 Navigating Real Estate During Divorce22:36 Emotional Challenges of Divorce23:14 Impact of Parental Divorce on Children25:43 Finding Purpose in Helping Others30:01 Financial Planning for Post-Divorce Life33:26 Key Takeaways for Navigating Divorce37:34 Introduction to Amicable Divorce39:03 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsdivorce, family home, real estate, emotional decisions, financial planning, amicable divorce, divorce coaching, home selling, parenting, supportOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 35: Divorcing Dads Struggles: Fatherhood, Dating, & New ResponsibilitiesOur Guest:Matteo Bavaro Matteo Bavaro is a life coach, author, and founder of Divorce Dads Help, a coaching platform dedicated to helping fathers rediscover their best selves after divorce. With nearly 30 years of experience as a private investigator and now serving as Director of Client Engagement at Schultz & Associates — a law firm focused on men’s and fathers’ rights — Matteo brings professional and personal insight into the journey of fatherhood after divorce. Having gone through two divorces himself, he now empowers men to reconnect with their children, overcome limiting beliefs, and build a purpose-driven life. His mission aligns perfectly with the Better Than Bitter Podcast — helping men grow stronger, not resentful. Visit Matteo Bavaro's Website:Matteo's Website SummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter Podcast, Tania Leichliter and Matteo Bavaro discuss the challenges faced by fathers navigating divorce. They explore themes of co-parenting, emotional growth, and the importance of self-awareness and mindfulness. Matteo shares his personal experiences and insights on how to reconnect with children and manage the complexities of post-divorce life. The conversation emphasizes the significance of aligning values, practicing self-love, and fostering emotional vulnerability among men.TakeawaysDivorce can lead to personal growth and self-discovery.Men often struggle with co-parenting and dating after divorce.Negative gatekeeping can harm the parent-child relationship.Controlling your reactions is key to effective co-parenting.Morning routines can significantly impact mental health.Accountability in coaching helps men stay on track.Aligning personal values is crucial for relationship success.Men are increasingly opening up about their emotions.Vulnerability is becoming more accepted in modern society.Self-love practices can enhance overall well-being.TitlesNavigating Divorce: A Father's JourneyThe Emotional Landscape of DivorceSound Bites"Divorce isn't about failure.""Love yourself first.""I love you, high five!"Chapters00:00 Introduction to Divorce Dads Help03:51 Navigating Fatherhood After Divorce06:01 The Challenges of Co-Parenting07:51 Understanding Negative Gatekeeping09:51 The Importance of Self-Control and Reactions11:40 Morning Rituals for Personal Growth13:58 Tools for Dads: Aligning Values16:15 Self-Realization and Mindfulness18:41 Accountability in Coaching20:54 The Shift in Men's Emotional Awareness23:25 Key Takeaways and Closing Thoughts37:56 Introduction to Amicable Divorce39:25 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsdivorce, fatherhood, co-parenting, emotional growth, mindfulness, accountability, self-awareness, negative gatekeeping, life coaching, personal developmentOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 34: Financial Healing In Divorce & Beyond - Change IS ComingOur Guest for this episode:Tom Shepard Tom Shepard, Author of “Money isn’t Everything – Everything is Money” and a Certified Financial Planner and Investment Advisor, has been helping people understand their relationship with money for 30 years. Using a personal assessment tool called Find Your Financial NatureTM Tom will help you discover your genetic predisposition to money! This is the language your mind and body go to when thinking about trading Time, Energy, and Money to create the Relationship with life you dream of. You can take the assessment at https://www.Currencycamp.com and click on Find Your Financial Nature and take the assessment. Who am I? may be the most important question we ever ask ourselves and the most important information we share with the people in our lives Visit Tom Shephard's Website:Tom's Website SummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter Divorce Podcast, Tania Leichliter and Tom Shepard discuss the complexities of financial healing during and after divorce. They explore the common fears surrounding financial stability, the importance of acceptance in navigating change, and the empowerment that comes from understanding one's economic situation. The conversation emphasizes the need for a proactive approach to financial negotiations and the shift from a victim mentality to a victor mentality, encouraging listeners to embrace change as an opportunity for growth and improvement.TakeawaysDivorce can be a time of significant financial fear.Acceptance of change is crucial for moving forward.Financial independence empowers individuals post-divorce.Negotiation is key in financial settlements during divorce.The victim mentality can hinder progress and healing.Creating a vision for your financial future is essential.Change can lead to better opportunities and growth.Understanding your financial situation is empowering.Support from financial advisors can alleviate fears.Embracing change can lead to a more fulfilling life.TitlesNavigating Financial Healing in DivorceEmbracing Change: A Path to Financial IndependenceSound Bites"You can negotiate your financial future.""Change can lead to better opportunities.""You can lay everything out on the table."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Financial Healing03:59 Understanding Financial Fear During Divorce05:21 Acceptance and Change in Financial Circumstances07:13 Navigating Financial Negotiations09:43 Empowerment Through Financial Independence11:39 The Role of Financial Planning in Healing14:23 Overcoming Victim Mentality16:55 Creating a Vision for the Future19:27 Embracing Change as an Opportunity21:58 Conclusion: Moving Forward with Confidence35:26 Introduction to Amicable Divorce36:55 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsdivorce, financial healing, financial fear, acceptance, empowerment, victim mentality, negotiation, change, financial independence, amicable divorceOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 33: Do I Stay Or Do I Go? Contemplating DivorceOur Guest for this Episode: Carrie Mead Carrie Mead, MS, LCPC, is a licensed mental health therapist in the states of Maryland and South Carolina. Carrie has a particular interest in working with families going through the divorce process, and she recognizes that the process is long, confusing, exhausting, and overwhelming. For the past 4 years, Carrie has been running psychotherapy groups for women contemplating divorce and for women in divorce recovery. The divorce contemplation groups have allowed many women to come together to discern if it is best for them to stay in the marriage or if it is best for them to peacefully end their marriage. This process of discernment is unique to each person and is based on their life experiences and the personal circumstances of their marriage. Carrie strives to help her clients find the path that honors their own understanding of themselves and their relationship. Visit Her Website: Carrie's Website Follow Her on These Platforms:Carrie's Facebook page @marylandtherapycarrie on Instagram SummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter Podcast, Tania Leichliter and Carrie Mead discuss the complexities of divorce, focusing on discernment counseling as a tool for individuals contemplating separation. They explore the importance of self-discovery, the impact of family backgrounds on divorce decisions, and the need for open communication in relationships. The conversation emphasizes reframing divorce as an opportunity for personal growth and authenticity, while also addressing the emotional challenges that come with the process. Listeners are encouraged to seek support and consider the benefits of discernment counseling to navigate their unique situations.TakeawaysDiscernment counseling helps individuals assess their relationship goals.Self-discovery is crucial in understanding one's needs in a marriage.Toxic relationships can have collateral damage on children and others.Divorce should not be viewed as a failure but as a chance for growth.Authenticity in relationships allows individuals to be their true selves.Recognizing patterns in relationships can lead to better decision-making.Family of origin influences can impact divorce fears and decisions.Many individuals contemplate divorce for years before taking action.Building courage and hope is essential for those considering divorce.Communication and flexibility are key components of a healthy marriage.TitlesNavigating the Divorce DilemmaThe Power of Discernment in RelationshipsSound Bites"Do I stay or do I go?""It's okay to be apart.""Divorce is not a failure."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Divorce Dilemma03:44 Understanding Discernment Counseling06:58 Authenticity in Relationships09:38 Reframing Divorce as Growth12:56 The Process of Discernment15:38 Family Background and Divorce Fears17:08 Statistics on Marriage and Divorce18:32 Overcoming Fear in Divorce20:13 Flexibility and Communication in Marriage24:40 Understanding Emotional Abuse and Therapy Dynamics27:32 The Role of Coaching vs. Therapy31:49 Exploring Discernment Counseling35:54 Rethinking Marriage Contracts42:14 Top Tips for Navigating Divorce46:08 Introduction to Amicable Divorce47:37 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsdivorce, discernment counseling, self-discovery, toxic relationships, authenticity, marriage contracts, personal growth, communication, support groups, emotional healthOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 32: Does Money = HappinessOur Guest For This Episode: Tom Shepard Tom Shepard, Author of “Money isn’t Everything – Everything is Money” and a Certified Financial Planner and Investment Advisor, has been helping people understand their relationship with money for 30 years. Using a personal assessment tool called Find Your Financial NatureTM Tom will help you discover your genetic predisposition to money! This is the language your mind and body go to when thinking about trading Time, Energy, and Money to create the Relationship with life you dream of. You can take the assessment at https://www.Currencycamp.com and click on Find Your Financial Nature and take the assessment. Who am I? may be the most important question we ever ask ourselves and the most important information we share with the people in our lives Tom Shepard's WebsiteTom's Website SummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter Podcast, Tania Leichliter and Tom Shepard explore the intricate relationship between money and happiness, especially in the context of divorce. They discuss how to navigate financial negotiations during difficult times, the importance of understanding one's financial nature, and the empowerment that comes from taking control of one's finances. The conversation emphasizes the need to reframe beliefs about money and happiness, encouraging listeners to focus on the bigger picture and engage in positive self-talk.TakeawaysMoney does not equal happiness, but understanding its role is crucial.Life is inherently difficult, and acceptance can lead to peace.Pressing the pause button during emotional negotiations is essential.Focusing on the bigger picture can ease financial negotiations.Understanding your financial nature helps in managing money effectively.Post-divorce, individuals must learn to manage and protect their finances.Empowerment comes from taking responsibility for financial decisions.Reframing negative beliefs about money can lead to positive changes.Self-talk influences financial behavior and outcomes.It's important to recognize discomfort as a part of growth. TitlesDoes Money Equal Happiness?Navigating Financial Challenges in DivorceSound Bites"Does money equal happiness?""You can do it and you will.""Word, action, belief."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Money and Happiness04:08 Defining Happiness in Difficult Times13:00 Navigating Divorce and Financial Negotiations21:35 Understanding Financial Natures31:22 Empowerment Through Financial Management40:05 Reframing Beliefs About Money and Happiness48:44 Introduction to Amicable Divorce50:13 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsmoney, happiness, divorce, financial planning, emotional well-being, negotiation, self-empowerment, financial nature, relationships, personal growthOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 31: What's Your Financial Identity? Finding Your Financial SelfOur Guest for this Episode:Tom Shepard Tom Shepard, Author of “Money isn’t Everything – Everything is Money” and a Certified Financial Planner and Investment Advisor, has been helping people understand their relationship with money for 30 years. Using a personal assessment tool called Find Your Financial NatureTM Tom will help you discover your genetic predisposition to money! This is the language your mind and body go to when thinking about trading Time, Energy, and Money to create the Relationship with life you dream of. You can take the assessment at https://www.Currencycamp.com and click on Find Your Financial Nature and take the assessment. Who am I? may be the most important question we ever ask ourselves and the most important information we share with the people in our lives Visit Tom Shephard's WebsiteTom's Website SummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter podcast, host Tania Leichliter speaks with financial expert Tom Shepard about the concept of financial identity and how it impacts relationships, particularly during divorce. They explore the idea of financial nature, which refers to the innate predispositions individuals have towards money management and financial decision-making. Tom introduces a system that categorizes people into seven financial natures, helping listeners understand their own financial behaviors and how to navigate financial discussions with partners and co-parents. The conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing these differences to foster healthier relationships and amicable resolutions during and after divorce.TakeawaysUnderstanding your financial identity is crucial for healthy relationships.Financial nature can be innate or learned, impacting how we manage money.There are seven financial natures: spender, saver, investor, lever, giver, and earner.Recognizing financial differences can help prevent conflicts in relationships.Investing in emotional processing can save money in legal fees during divorce.Communication about financial values is essential for co-parenting success.Using assessments can help individuals understand their financial behaviors better.Financial discussions should be approached with empathy and openness.Understanding motivations behind financial decisions can improve relationship dynamics.It takes a community to support individuals in their financial journeys.TitlesDiscovering Your Financial IdentityThe Role of Financial Nature in RelationshipsSound Bites"What's your financial identity?""Divorce doesn't have to be bitter.""It's about how we value money."Chapters00:00 Understanding Financial Identity03:45 The Genetic Nature of Money06:14 Exploring Financial Patterns10:01 The Seven Financial Natures13:23 Leveraging Money for Better Relationships15:54 Investing in Emotional Health During Divorce18:43 The Importance of Understanding Financial Differences24:44 Cultural Perspectives on Money26:38 Case Study: Navigating Financial Disagreements31:00 Understanding Motivations in Relationships33:53 Navigating Differences in Relationship Dynamics37:38 The Importance of Intent in Financial Decisions41:42 Pursuing Happiness Through Different Lenses45:17 The Role of Open-Mindedness in Relationships52:22 Key Takeaways for Building Healthy Relationships57:54 Introduction to Amicable Divorce59:23 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsfinancial identity, financial nature, divorce, money management, financial relationships, co-parenting, financial assessment, financial planning, emotional divorce, amicable divorceOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 30: Financial Fear? Get Prepped & Prepared For Your Financial DivorceOur Guest For This Episode:Michael Conticelli Michael Conticelli, CFS, CDFA®, is a seasoned Certified Divorce Financial Analyst with over 20 years of experience helping individuals navigate the financial complexities of divorce. With a background as a financial planner and former divorce mediator, Michael brings clarity, strategy, and compassion to his work—empowering clients to make informed decisions about their financial future. He specializes in property division, tax implications, and long-term planning, offering a collaborative, solution-focused approach for equitable outcomes. Visit Michael Conticelli's Facebook PageMichael's Facebook page SummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter podcast, host Tania Leichliter speaks with Michael Conticelli, a certified divorce financial analyst, about the complexities of navigating divorce from a financial perspective. They discuss the importance of mediation, the role of a CDFA, and strategies for equitable asset division. Michael emphasizes the need for emotional support during the divorce process and provides insights on when to engage a financial analyst. The conversation highlights the significance of starting early, staying organized, and approaching negotiations reasonably to achieve amicable resolutions.TakeawaysStart early in the divorce process to understand your financial situation.Everyone can benefit from a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA).There is no winning in divorce; it's about equitable division.Emotional support is crucial during the divorce process.Stay organized and understand your financial starting point.Prepare for life changes after divorce, including financial adjustments.Negotiate reasonably to avoid conflict and ensure fair outcomes.Utilize a CDFA for both immediate divorce needs and future financial planning.Consider the emotional implications of asset division and negotiations.Engage a coach to help process emotions during the divorce.TitlesNavigating Divorce: Financial Insights for a Smooth TransitionThe Importance of Mediation in Divorce Financial PlanningSound Bites"Start early in the divorce process.""Everyone can benefit from a CDFA.""There is no winning in divorce."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Divorce Financial Analysis02:42 The Importance of Mediation in Divorce05:23 Collaborative Divorce Approaches08:36 Gender Dynamics in Divorce Support12:05 The Role of a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst13:27 When to Engage a CDFA16:24 Pricing Strategies for Divorce Financial Services17:58 Understanding Financial Changes Post-Divorce22:30 Different Roles of a CDFA25:21 Asset Division Strategies in Divorce27:22 Understanding Settlement Options in Divorce29:27 Personal Experiences with Asset Division31:53 Navigating Financial Decisions Post-Divorce34:12 Emotional Challenges in Dividing Assets35:19 The Importance of Reasonable Negotiation40:27 Changing Perspectives on Fairness44:39 Compassionate Communication in Divorce47:57 Key Takeaways for a Successful Divorce Process51:30 Introduction to Amicable Divorce52:59 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsdivorce, financial analyst, mediation, collaborative divorce, asset division, emotional support, divorce coaching, amicable resolution, financial planning, divorce processOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 29: The Apology That Never Came: Finding Closure Without ItOur Guest for this Episode:Gary McClain Dr. Gary McClain is a psychotherapist with a practice in New York City. The focus of his practice is adults in transition – romantic and family relationships, health and caregiving, work and career, and loss and grief. Effective interpersonal communication, difficult conversations, and closure are topics that he frequently explores with his clients. Visit Dr. Gary McClain's FB PageGary's Facebook page Visit Dr. Gary McClain's WebsiteGary's Website SummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter podcast, Tania Leichliter and Dr. Gary McClain discuss the complexities of navigating divorce, focusing on the importance of closure, emotional healing, and the role of pain in the process. They explore how to embrace life after divorce, the significance of connection and support, and the challenges of loneliness. The conversation also touches on financial independence post-divorce and the empowerment that comes from self-forgiveness and courage. Key takeaways include the need to let go of the desire for apologies and the importance of effective communication in relationships.TakeawaysDivorce is a grief process that requires closure.Pain is a natural part of healing and must be acknowledged.Embracing life after divorce involves reconnecting with oneself.Loneliness can be alleviated by recognizing one's support system.Financial independence is crucial for post-divorce stability.Courage is essential for moving forward after a divorce.Self-forgiveness is key to emotional healing.Letting go of the need for apologies empowers individuals.Effective communication is vital for amicable resolutions.Closure is about accepting the past and moving forward. TitlesNavigating Divorce with HopeUnderstanding Closure in RelationshipsSound Bites"You can't control how others behave.""Loneliness is a feeling, not a reality.""You have a choice in how you feel."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Closure in Divorce04:15 Understanding the Need for Closure07:06 Sitting with Pain and Acceptance10:11 Embracing Life After Divorce13:06 The Role of Loneliness and Connection16:06 Financial Fears and New Beginnings19:14 The Power of Courage and Resilience29:52 Taking Control of Your Emotions33:10 The Need for Closure38:09 Understanding Gaslighting42:53 The Importance of Active Listening46:17 Top Tips for Finding Closure50:50 Introduction to Amicable Divorce52:19 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsdivorce, closure, healing, loneliness, empowerment, financial independence, relationships, psychotherapy, self-forgiveness, emotional healingOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 28: Earning Capacity! I Have Been A Stay At Home Parent, How Am I Going To Support Myself?Our Guest:John May John May has worked as a vocational rehabilitation counselor since 1993. He has a Master’s degree program in Rehabilitation Counseling. As a Fellow of the American Board of Vocational Experts, John May has worked as a vocational expert since 2005. He has testified as a forensic vocational expert in litigation and hearings in several states. Visit John May's WebsiteJohn's Website SummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter podcast, Tania Leichliter interviews John May, a vocational rehabilitation counselor, about the role of vocational forensics in divorce. They discuss how understanding earning capacity and employability can empower individuals going through divorce, especially those who have been out of the workforce. John shares insights on balancing childcare responsibilities with career opportunities and provides real-life success stories of clients who have benefited from vocational counseling. The conversation emphasizes the importance of viewing vocational evaluations as a means of empowerment rather than punishment, ultimately guiding individuals towards a more amicable divorce resolution.TakeawaysVocational forensics can provide clarity in divorce proceedings.Understanding earning capacity is crucial for both spouses.Employability and placeability are key concepts in vocational assessments.Childcare responsibilities can complicate career reentry.Vocational counseling can empower individuals to upskill.Fear of returning to work is common but can be addressed.Skills developed at home are valuable in the job market.Mediation can be enhanced with vocational evaluations.Real-life success stories illustrate the benefits of vocational support.Divorce can lead to new opportunities for personal growth.TitlesEmpowering Divorce Through Vocational SupportNavigating Earning Capacity in DivorceSound Bites"Divorce doesn't have to be a battleground.""Fear of returning to work is common.""You can build a life that works."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Vocational Forensics03:36 New Chapter03:38 Understanding Earning Capacity in Divorce03:41 New Chapter 207:11 Employability vs. Placeability11:05 Navigating Childcare and Employment14:15 Empowerment Through Vocational Counseling17:13 Real-Life Success Stories24:50 Overcoming Barriers to Employment28:25 Conclusion and Key Takeaways32:44 Introduction to Amicable Divorce34:13 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsamicable divorce, vocational forensics, earning capacity, employability, divorce coaching, financial fear, mediation, vocational counseling, upskilling, divorce resolutionOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 27: Help! My Co-Parent Is So Combative! I’m Desperate to Not Have A Judge Decide What We Do With Our Kids!Our Guest for Today's Episode:Michael Sallustio Michael Sallustio is a former attorney and entrepreneur. After practicing law for five years, he pursued his passion for health and nutrition and owned and operated several related businesses. After going through his own divorce and custody battle, he was called to pursue the practice of mediation, specializing in child access cases. In addition to volunteering in the District Court ADR program, he is on several Circuit Court rosters throughout the state and runs a private practice as both a Mediator and Parenting Coordinator. He specializes in high-conflict custody matters. Michael also has personal experience with and specialized training in working with families of children with Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE’s) and neurodivergent issues. Visit Micheal's Website: Michael's Website Visit Micheal's Facebook Page:Michael's Facebook page Learn More about our Support Group Membership Program CLICK HERE!We offer 1 month Free if you Sign Up for Our Membership Today! Weekly Support Group & Divorce Educational Resources & Self-Help Workshops.SIGN UP NOW AND GET A FREE MONTH OF WEEKLY SUPPORT GROUPS AND EDUCATIONAL RESOURCES!Our membership includes the full 5-Day Challenge Video Replays and the accompanying 5-Day Challenge Workbook....and many more workshops, mini-courses, articles, special offers, and more!SummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter podcast, host Tania Leichliter speaks with Michael Sallustio, a former attorney turned mediator, about navigating the complexities of divorce and custody battles. They discuss the importance of amicable resolutions, the impact of divorce on children, and strategies for effective mediation. Michael shares his personal experiences and insights on how to prioritize the well-being of children during the divorce process, emphasizing the need for empathy and cooperation between parents. The conversation highlights the significance of preparing for mediation, understanding financial implications, and maintaining a focus on the child's needs throughout the process.TakeawaysDivorce can be navigated amicably with the right approach.Children are deeply affected by their parents' divorce.Mediation is a valuable tool for resolving custody disputes.Empathy and understanding are crucial in mediation.Parents should prioritize their children's well-being over personal grievances.Neutrality is essential for effective mediation.Reality testing helps parents see the bigger picture.Co-parenting requires collaboration and communication.Negative comments about the other parent harm the child.Preparation is key for successful mediation outcomes.TitlesNavigating Divorce with EmpathyThe Power of Mediation in Custody BattlesSound Bites"It's about what's best for your child.""You can't weaponize your children.""Empathy is key in mediation."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Mediation and Personal Journey02:53 Navigating Divorce and Custody Battles05:14 The Impact of High Conflict on Children08:16 Addressing Infidelity in Mediation10:43 Building Trust and Cooperation13:27 The Role of Neutrality in Mediation15:42 Encouraging Co-Parenting Success18:55 The Importance of Self-Work in Parenting20:34 Controlling Reactions and Outcomes21:56 Exploring Truth and Perception23:09 The Role of Mediation in Conflict Resolution25:13 Empathy in Co-Parenting26:36 The Importance of Healthy Communication29:49 Preparing for Mediation34:08 Navigating Custody and Financial Concerns37:28 Final Thoughts and Key Takeaways40:50 riverside_final_50% off promo tania _ mar 28, 2025 001_better_than bitter (1).mp442:42 Introduction to Amicable Divorce44:11 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsdivorce, mediation, custody, co-parenting, amicable divorce, child welfare, divorce coaching, family law, emotional healing, parenting strategiesOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 26: Different Types of Divorce: Choosing the Best Path for a Peaceful ResolutionLearn More about our Support Group Membership Program CLICK HERE!We offer 1 month Free if you Sign Up for Our Membership Today! Weekly Support Group & Divorce Educational Resources & Self-Help Workshops.SIGN UP NOW AND GET A FREE MONTH OF WEEKLY SUPPORT GROUPS AND EDUCATIONAL RESOURCES!Our membership includes the full 5-Day Challenge Video Replays and the accompanying 5-Day Challenge Workbook....and many more workshops, mini-courses, articles, special offers, and more!SummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter Divorce Podcast, Tania Leichliter discusses the various types of divorce, emphasizing the importance of amicable resolutions. She explains the differences between contested and uncontested divorces, explores alternative dispute resolution methods like mediation and collaborative divorce, and highlights the significance of emotional preparation. Tania also shares insights on the benefits of an amicable divorce for both individuals and their children, and the role of divorce coaching in navigating the process. The episode concludes with resources for support and empowerment during the divorce journey.TakeawaysDivorce can be amicable and doesn't have to be a battleground.Understanding the types of divorce is crucial for a smoother process.Emotional preparation is key to achieving an uncontested divorce.Mediation and collaborative divorce can save time and costs.An amicable divorce benefits children's wellbeing and future relationships.Self-love and self-compassion are essential during divorce.Divorce coaching can provide necessary support and guidance.Alternative dispute resolution methods focus on communication and cooperation.You can do parts of the divorce process yourself to save money.Focusing on outcomes helps in moving towards a brighter future.TitlesNavigating Divorce: A Path to AmicabilityThe Power of Uncontested DivorceSound Bites"You can have an uncontested divorce.""Mediation involves structured sessions.""Our five-step game plan empowers you."Chapters00:00 Understanding Divorce Types03:44 Contested vs. Uncontested Divorce06:44 Navigating Uncontested Divorce09:23 Alternative Dispute Resolution Methods12:19 The Importance of Amicable Divorce14:51 Emotional Preparation for Divorce17:41 Benefits of Alternative Dispute Resolution20:45 Conclusion and Resources25:23 Introduction to Amicable Divorce26:52 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsdivorce, amicable divorce, contested divorce, uncontested divorce, alternative dispute resolution, divorce coaching, emotional preparation, co-parenting, mediation, collaborative divorceOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So, let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereIf you want to connect with a Divorce Concierge, contact Vesta Divorce Concierge here!

Episode 25: DAY 5: MANIFEST of the 5-Day Challenge: Time to Thrive - Manifesting Your Desired Outcome in DivorceLearn More about our Support Group Membership Program CLICK HERE!We offer 1 month Free if you Sign Up for Our Membership Today! Weekly Support Group & Divorce Educational Resources & Self-Help Workshops.SIGN UP NOW AND GET A FREE MONTH OF WEEKLY SUPPORT GROUPS AND EDUCATIONAL RESOURCES!Our membership includes the full 5-Day Challenge Video Replays and the accompanying 5-Day Challenge Workbook....and many more workshops, mini-courses, articles, special offers, and more!SummaryThis conversation focuses on the process of manifesting desired outcomes during and after divorce. Tania Leichliter guides listeners through understanding their goals, recognizing limiting beliefs, and taking intentional steps towards a fulfilling post-divorce life. The discussion emphasizes the importance of clarity, self-awareness, and empowerment in navigating the challenges of divorce, while also providing practical strategies for personal growth and emotional healing.TakeawaysManifestation involves aligning thoughts and actions with desired outcomes.Recognizing old patterns and mental blocks is crucial for transformation.Clarity on what you want is the first step towards achieving it.Identifying values and priorities helps in making informed decisions during divorce.Taking intentional steps can lead to a more empowered future.Understanding emotional triggers can aid in breaking self-sabotaging habits.Small, deliberate actions build momentum towards achieving goals.Commitment to personal growth is essential for thriving post-divorce.Support groups can provide valuable guidance and accountability.You have the power to shape your future and create a fulfilling life.TitlesManifesting Your Post-Divorce LifeEmpowerment Through ClaritySound Bites"It's time to thrive.""Manifestation is not magic.""Clarity brings confidence."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Amicable Divorce Resolutions01:44 Manifesting Your Desired Outcome in Divorce04:08 Clarity and Vision for Post-Divorce Life07:09 Identifying Priorities and Non-Negotiables09:47 Breaking Old Patterns and Limiting Beliefs11:50 Emotional Triggers and Self-Sabotage14:06 Taking Deliberate Action Towards Change25:47 Taking Bold Steps Towards Your Future30:13 Exploring New Opportunities Post-Divorce33:24 Committing to Daily Micro Actions34:17 Empowerment Through Clarity and Action36:22 Creating a Vision Board for Your Future41:19 Final Thoughts and Next Steps41:28 Introduction to Amicable Divorce42:57 Resources for Support and GrowthOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to Know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click Here

Episode 24: DAY 4: EMBRACE of the 5-Day Challenge: Opportunity to – Embrace The NEW YOU!Learn More about our Support Group Membership Program CLICK HERE!We offer 1 month Free if you Sign Up for Our Membership Today! Weekly Support Group & Divorce Educational Resources & Self-Help Workshops.SIGN UP NOW AND GET A FREE MONTH OF WEEKLY SUPPORT GROUPS AND EDUCATIONAL RESOURCES!Our membership includes the full 5-Day Challenge Video Replays and the accompanying 5-Day Challenge Workbook....and many more workshops, mini-courses, articles, special offers, and more!SummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter Divorce Podcast, Tania Leichliter guides listeners through the journey of navigating an amicable divorce. She emphasizes the importance of reclaiming personal power, understanding and overcoming limiting beliefs, and shifting perspectives on divorce as a path to growth. Tania encourages listeners to take responsibility for their emotions, learn from adversity, and create a new identity post-divorce. The episode concludes with actionable steps to empower oneself and move forward with clarity and purpose.TakeawaysDivorce can be a pathway to personal growth.Reclaiming power is essential in the divorce process.Limiting beliefs can hinder emotional recovery.Shifting perspectives can help redefine the narrative of divorce.Taking responsibility for emotions leads to empowerment.Learning from adversity fosters resilience.Creating a new identity is crucial after divorce.Reflection helps in understanding personal growth.Moving forward requires clarity and intention.Empowerment comes from ownership and accountability.TitlesNavigating Amicable Divorce: A Path to EmpowermentReclaiming Your Power After DivorceSound Bites"You only can show up for yourself.""Shift from victim to victor.""You get to define who you are."Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Challenge03:12 Releasing Limiting Beliefs05:45 Reflecting on Lessons Learned08:22 Taking Responsibility for Emotions10:59 Empowerment through Personal Responsibility13:35 Reclaiming Your Power15:48 Shifting from Victim to Victor17:38 Cultivating Joy and Responsibility20:27 Closing Thoughts and Next Steps33:38 Introduction to Amicable Divorce35:07 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsamicable divorce, divorce coaching, personal growth, emotional empowerment, limiting beliefs, self-discovery, resilience, personal responsibility, mindset shift, reclaiming powerOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to Know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click Here

Episode 23: DAY 3: MANIFEST of the 5-Day Challenge: Recalibrating Towards Results & Growth Embracing Abundance and AuthenticityLearn More about our Support Group Membership Program CLICK HERE!We offer 1 month Free if you Sign Up for Our Membership Today! Weekly Support Group & Divorce Educational Resources & Self-Help Workshops.SIGN UP NOW AND GET A FREE MONTH OF WEEKLY SUPPORT GROUPS AND EDUCATIONAL RESOURCES!Our membership includes the full 5-Day Challenge Video Replays and the accompanying 5-Day Challenge Workbook....and many more workshops, mini-courses, articles, special offers, and more!SummaryIn this episode, Tania Leichliter explores the journey from surviving to thriving during and after divorce. They emphasize the importance of mindset, particularly the shift from a scarcity mindset to an abundance mindset. The discussion covers understanding personal truths versus objective truths, the significance of emotional anchoring, self-compassion, and setting intentions for personal growth. They also highlight the importance of celebrating small wins and practicing gratitude as essential components of healing and moving forward positively in life post-divorce.TakeawaysSurviving to thriving is a journey that requires mindset shifts.A scarcity mindset focuses on limitations, while an abundance mindset opens up possibilities.Forgiveness is primarily for oneself, not for others.Recognizing your truth versus the objective truth is crucial for emotional clarity.Self-compassion involves treating yourself with kindness and understanding.Setting clear intentions can guide your actions towards growth.Celebrating small wins fosters motivation and confidence.Gratitude can shift your emotional state and promote healing.Every small step taken is a step towards personal growth.Reflecting on past experiences can provide valuable lessons for the future.TitlesFrom Surviving to Thriving: A Divorce JourneyMindset Matters: Scarcity vs. AbundanceSound Bites"Surviving to thriving, reclaiming during divorce.""Focus on progress rather than perfection.""Every small step is towards growth."Chapters00:00 Recalibrating Mindsets: From Scarcity to Abundance18:36 Emotional Growth and Anchoring in Truth24:33 Breaking Free from Negative Loops28:23 Visualizing Abundance and Thriving33:10 Setting Intentions for Growth39:51 The Power of Gratitude44:15 Reflecting on Progress and Mindset Shift45:47 Introduction to Amicable Divorce47:16 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsdivorce, mindset, abundance, self-compassion, emotional growth, intentions, gratitude, thriving, personal development, healingOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to Know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click Here

Episode 22: DAY 2: ENDURE of the 5-Day Challenge From Surviving To Thriving - Cleaning Out The Clutter to Make Way For Your Guiding LightLearn More about our Support Group Membership Program CLICK HERE!We offer 1 month Free if you Sign Up for Our Membership Today! Weekly Support Group & Divorce Educational Resources & Self-Help Workshops.SIGN UP NOW AND GET A FREE MONTH OF WEEKLY SUPPORT GROUPS AND EDUCATIONAL RESOURCES!Our membership includes the full 5 Day Challenge Video Replays and the accompanying 5 Day Challenge Workbook....and many more workshops, mini courses, articles, special offers, and more!SummaryThis podcast episode focuses on the emotional journey of navigating divorce and personal growth. The hosts discuss the importance of recognizing emotional clutter, mastering one's mindset, and building a positive outlook through affirmations and visualization techniques. They introduce the concept of discovering a 'word of the year' to guide personal development and decision-making during challenging times.TakeawaysDivorce creates emotional clutter that can hinder decision-making.Visualizing your emotional space can help identify clutter.Your thoughts are stories, not facts; challenge them.Rethinking your beliefs can lead to emotional clarity.Building an 'I can' and 'I will' mindset is crucial.Self-compassion is key to overcoming negative self-talk.Discovering a word of the year can guide your actions.Focus on what you have and who you are.Healing is a process that takes time and effort.You are not alone; many share similar struggles.TitlesNavigating Divorce: A Journey to Self-DiscoveryEmotional Clutter: Clearing the Path to HealingSound Bites"You are not alone in this process.""Rethink, re-feel, and act differently.""Recognize what's taking up your space."Chapters00:00 Introduction to the Challenge03:46 Understanding Emotional Clutter08:58 Visualizing Your Emotional State18:08 Building a Positive Mindset24:32 Discovering Your Word of the Year31:12 Conclusion and Next Steps35:30 Introduction to the Five-Day Challenge35:30 Introduction to the Five-Day Challenge35:54 Overview of Support Group Membership37:08 Conclusion and Next StepsOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to Know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click Here

Episode 21: DAY 1: RECONNECT of the 5-Day Challenge: Reflection & Reconnection Redefining Your Authentic SelfLearn More about our Support Group Membership Program CLICK HERE!We offer 1 month Free if you Sign Up for Our Membership Today! Weekly Support Group & Divorce Educational Resources & Self-Help Workshops.SIGN UP NOW AND GET A FREE MONTH OF WEEKLY SUPPORT GROUPS AND EDUCATIONAL RESOURCES!Our membership includes the full 5 Day Challenge Video Replays and the accompanying 5 Day Challenge Workbook....and many more workshops, mini courses, articles, special offers, and more!SummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter Divorce Podcast, host Tania Leichliter introduces the concept of amicable divorce and the importance of emotional healing during this challenging transition. The conversation covers a five-day challenge aimed at helping individuals reconnect with their authentic selves, emotionally divorce from their marriage personas, and reclaim their identities post-divorce. Tanya emphasizes the significance of self-awareness, mindset shifts, and the 5 Vs framework for re-establishing happiness and creating a roadmap for a fulfilling future after divorce.TakeawaysDivorce can be a transformative opportunity for self-discovery.An amicable divorce is possible with the right mindset.Understanding your narrative is crucial for emotional healing.Self-awareness helps in reclaiming your identity post-divorce.The 5 Vs framework aids in re-establishing happiness.Reflecting on your past can guide your future decisions.You have the power to rewrite your story and create a new narrative.Emotional healing is essential before starting the legal process of divorce.Creating a vision for your future is key to moving forward.Support groups can provide valuable community during the divorce process.Sound Bites"Rediscover who you truly are.""You have the power to rewrite your story.""Happiness isn't just about bouncing back.""An amicable resolution is possible.""It's time to be better than bitter."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Amicable Divorce01:11 The Five-Day Challenge: From Surviving to Thriving02:03 Reflection and Reconnection: Rediscovering Your Authentic Self07:49 Emotionally Divorcing Your Marriage Persona14:26 Reclaiming Your Identity Post-Divorce18:01 Re-establishing Happiness with the 5 Vs Framework25:50 Conclusion and Next StepsKeywordsamicable divorce, divorce coaching, personal growth, emotional healing, self-discovery, divorce support, Better Than Bitter, divorce resolution, mindset shift, happiness frameworkOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to Know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click Here

Episode 20: Children First! Selling The Home or Not?Our guest for this episode:Renee Guidaboni A sought-after mortgage financing expert, Renee consults with consumers and their advisors to help them make the best decision for their financial needs for their particular stage of life. Her mantra: dispel the myths; get the facts. As a Certified Divorce Lending Professional (CDLP), she focuses her divorce work on helping homeowners make a more informed decision regarding their home equity solutions and the divorce team identifies any potential conflicts between the divorce settlement, the mortgage, and the real property. Divorce Mortgage Planning is a holistic approach to the process of evaluating mortgage options in the context of the overall financial objectives as they relate to divorcing situations. As someone who went through a divorce herself, Renee understands the emotions at play and the confusion of the economic aspects. Visit her website here:Renee's Website Join the 5-Day Challenge on March 2-6, 7:30 PM ESTREGISTER HEREJoin Our Facebook Group To Join The 5-Day Challenge for FREEBetter Than Bitter: Navigating Amicable Separation & Divorce SupportSummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter podcast, host Tania Leichliter speaks with divorce mortgage expert Renee Coleman about her experience with an amicable divorce. They discuss the importance of prioritizing children during the divorce process, the stages of transitioning to co-parenting, and how to create a supportive environment for children. Renee shares insights on navigating divorce mortgage planning and the nuances of mortgage assumptions, emphasizing the need for open communication and collaboration between co-parents. The conversation highlights that divorce can be approached in a way that minimizes conflict and focuses on the well-being of children.TakeawaysAmicable divorce is possible with the right mindset.Prioritizing children is crucial during separation.Avoiding child support and alimony can simplify finances.Transitioning to co-parenting takes time and planning.Open communication is key to successful co-parenting.Embracing new family dynamics can benefit children.Understanding mortgage options is essential during divorce.Mortgage assumptions can help maintain favorable loan terms.Persistence is important when dealing with lenders.Forgiveness and acceptance can lead to a healthier post-divorce life.Sound Bites"Life is short, I guess.""You don't know what you don't know.""Keep pushing it, keep pushing it."Chapters00:00 Navigating Amicable Divorce: A Personal Journey11:20 Co-Parenting Dynamics: Strategies for Success21:12 Embracing New Relationships: The Role of Stepparents31:13 Financial Insights: Divorce and Mortgage Planning38:19 Introduction to Amicable Divorce39:48 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsamicable divorce, co-parenting, divorce mortgage expert, family dynamics, divorce planning, child support, financial strategies, divorce resolution, parenting after divorce, divorce coachingOn our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to Know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click Here

Episode 19: From Surviving to Thriving: 5-Day Challenge To Reclaim YOU Through Divorce and Beyond OverviewSummaryIn this episode of Better Than Bitter, host Tania Leichliter shares her personal journey through divorce and offers insights on how to navigate the emotional challenges that come with it. She emphasizes the importance of finding support, reclaiming one's identity, and transforming the experience from one of survival to thriving. Through her coaching and resources, Tania aims to help individuals achieve amicable resolutions and empower them to embrace their new lives post-divorce.TakeawaysDivorce can be navigated amicably with the right support.Emotional challenges are a significant part of the divorce journey.It's possible to reclaim your identity after a divorce.Support systems, like coaching, can facilitate healing.Transforming pain into empowerment is key to moving forward.The journey from surviving to thriving is achievable.Finding courage and clarity is essential in redefining your future.Engaging in community support can alleviate feelings of isolation.Mindset shifts are crucial for personal growth during divorce.Taking actionable steps can lead to a brighter future.Sound Bites"Clear your emotional clutter.""Reconnect with your authentic self.""Believe in your brighter future."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Better Than Bitter02:36 The Five-Day Challenge Overview03:59 VIP Program and Additional Offerings05:13 Introduction to Amicable Divorce06:42 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsdivorce, amicable resolution, emotional support, personal growth, coaching, transformationThanks for tuning in to Better Than Bitter™, navigating an amicable divorce. Whether you are at the beginning of your divorce journey, midway through, or even done, we want the stories from our guests to give you hope that an amicable resolution is possible. If you'd like to dive deeper into today's episode, check out our show notes for a full transcript, reflections, and links to learn more about Better Than Bitter's coaching courses, and how to connect with our fabulous guests. If you're ready for more support, you can head over to betterthanbitter.coach . On our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to Know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click Here

Episode 18: Redefining Love: A New Approach to Valentine's DayFREE PDF DOWNLOAD :Redefine Valentine Party Ideas PDFSummaryIn this episode of Better Than Bitter, host Tania Leichliter discusses how to navigate Valentine's Day during and after a divorce. She emphasizes the importance of self-love and redefining the holiday to celebrate friendships and new beginnings. Tania shares five creative ideas for celebrating Valentine's Day that focus on self-care, gratitude, and joy, encouraging listeners to embrace positive experiences instead of feeling lonely or bitter.TakeawaysValentine's Day can be redefined to focus on self-love.It's important to celebrate friendships, not just romantic relationships.Self-care activities can enhance personal well-being.Gratitude gatherings foster deeper connections among friends.Creating new traditions can help in moving forward after a breakup.Engaging in fun activities can alleviate feelings of loneliness.Letting go of past hurts is crucial for new beginnings.Joy can be found in sensory experiences like food and friendship.Celebrating with others can create a supportive community.Amicable divorce is possible and can lead to a brighter future.Sound Bites"We need to flip the script.""Self-love soiree is about self-care.""Joy comes in so many different ways."Chapters00:00 Redefining Valentine's Day: A New Perspective04:17 Celebrating Self-Love and Friendship07:05 Embracing New Beginnings and Joyful Gatherings07:27 Introduction to Amicable Divorce08:56 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsamicable divorce, Valentine's Day, self-love, friendship, new beginnings, gratitude, celebration, divorce coachingThanks for tuning in to Better Than Bitter™, navigating an amicable divorce. Whether you are at the beginning of your divorce journey, midway through, or even done, we want the stories from our guests to give you hope that an amicable resolution is possible. If you'd like to dive deeper into today's episode, check out our show notes for a full transcript, reflections, and links to learn more about Better Than Bitter's coaching courses, and how to connect with our fabulous guests. If you're ready for more support, you can head over to betterthanbitter.coach . On our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to Know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click Here

Episode 17: Divorcing A Narcissist? Finding Freedom and Peace of MindSummaryIn this conversation, Tania Leichliter discusses the challenges and healing process involved in divorcing a narcissist. She emphasizes the importance of understanding narcissistic behavior, detaching from blame, processing grief, rebuilding identity, setting boundaries, and embracing resilience. Tania provides actionable tips for listeners to reclaim their sense of self and move forward with clarity and confidence after a difficult relationship.TakeawaysUnderstanding narcissistic behavior is crucial for healing.Detaching from blame helps regain self-worth.Grieving the loss of self is a vital step in healing.Rediscovering passions can lead to joy and fulfillment.Setting boundaries is essential for personal well-being.Forgiveness is about freeing yourself from emotional burdens.Resilience is key to navigating challenges post-divorce.Practicing self-reflection helps identify personal needs.Seeking support from groups can aid in the healing process.You can achieve an amicable resolution even with a narcissist.Sound Bites"You are lovable just the way you are.""Boundaries will protect your energy.""You can control your reactions to them."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Healing from Narcissistic Divorce01:35 Understanding Narcissistic Behavior05:30 Detaching from Blame and the Fixer Mentality10:31 Processing Grief and Rediscovering Self15:48 Reclaiming Identity and Setting Boundaries20:25 Forgiveness and Defining Your Narrative23:45 Embracing Resilience and Moving Forward29:34 Conclusion: Your Journey to Freedom and PeaceKeywordsnarcissist, divorce, healing, self-worth, boundaries, grief, resilience, support, empowerment, personal growthThanks for tuning in to Better Than Bitter™, navigating an amicable divorce. Whether you are at the beginning of your divorce journey, midway through, or even done, we want the stories from our guests to give you hope that an amicable resolution is possible. If you'd like to dive deeper into today's episode, check out our show notes for a full transcript, reflections, and links to learn more about Better Than Bitter's coaching courses, and how to connect with our fabulous guests. If you're ready for more support, you can head over to betterthanbitter.coach . On our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to Know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereLearn more about How To Work With US- Click Here Watch Our Free Webinars- Click here

Episode 16: Carolyn Laredo- From Childhood Pain to Professional Purpose: Changing the Divorce NarrativeOur Guest for Today's Episode:Carolyn Laredo Joining us today is Carolyn Laredo, owner of Law & Mediation, PLLC, with over 25 years of experience as an Administrative Law Judge, arbitrator, collaborative lawyer, mediator, and trainer. Carolyn is known for her exceptional ability to guide families toward collaborative divorce resolutions. Her passion for this work stems from her own experience growing up in the midst of her parents’ bitter divorce and the lasting silence that followed. Carolyn turned that challenging chapter into a mission: to help families prioritize healing, collaboration, and their children’s well-being during divorce. In this episode, she shares her journey, insights, and practical tools for navigating divorce with grace and compassion. Whether you’re a parent, co-parent, or simply looking for a healthier approach to divorce, this conversation offers a fresh perspective and valuable guidance. Let’s get started!" Connect with here:Carolyn's Website SummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter Podcast, host Tania Leichliter speaks with Carolyn Laredo, a seasoned mediator and attorney, about the importance of amicable divorce resolutions. They discuss the collaborative mediation approach, the impact of personal experiences on professional practices, and key strategies for navigating divorce with grace and compassion. The conversation emphasizes the significance of prioritizing children's well-being, maintaining open communication, and the transformative potential of divorce as a path to personal growth.TakeawaysAmicable divorce is possible and beneficial for families.Collaborative mediation can lead to better outcomes than litigation.Understanding the difference between uncontested and contested divorce is crucial.Having both male and female mediators can enhance communication.Nesting arrangements require clear boundaries and communication.Emotional readiness is key to successful mediation.Seek professional advice tailored to your unique situation.Divorce can be a transformative experience if approached positively.Open communication can prevent misunderstandings and conflicts.Divorce is not a failure, but an opportunity for growth.Sound Bites"We measure success by what we give.""You can always ask for a refund.""You will get there, I promise."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Collaborative Divorce06:29 Understanding Uncontested vs. Contested Divorce12:26 The Concept of Nesting in Divorce20:09 Carolyn's Personal Journey and Motivation33:59 Top Tips for a Successful Divorce Process39:13 Introduction to Amicable Divorce40:42 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsamicable divorce, mediation, collaborative approach, divorce coaching, family well-being, legal advice, co-parenting, emotional growth, divorce resolution, personal transformationThanks for tuning in to Better Than Bitter™, navigating an amicable divorce. Whether you are at the beginning of your divorce journey, midway through, or even done, we want the stories from our guests to give you hope that an amicable resolution is possible. If you'd like to dive deeper into today's episode, check out our show notes for a full transcript, reflections, and links to learn more about Better Than Bitter's coaching courses, and how to connect with our fabulous guests. If you're ready for more support, you can head over to betterthanbitter.coach . On our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to Know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereLearn more about How To Work With US- Click Here Watch Our Free Webinars- Click here

Episode 15: Rachel Pedersen: Avoiding the Mistakes That Hurt Kids Most & Supporting Yourself Post-DivorceOur guest for today's episode:Rachel Pedersen Rachel Pedersen is a Social Media and Digital Marketing Strategist who partners with entrepreneurs to create disruptive, creative campaigns that generate exponential returns. Pedersen overcame the statistical odds as a college dropout, alcoholic, and single mother in poverty and has dedicated herself to creating life-changing business growth that emulates the radical change in her personal life. The reason that Rachel has been invited today is based on her story of her parents divorce, and how her parents contentious divorce was what took her down the path of self-destruction - so what can we learn from this? What has she learned from this? What is her message to my audience? Believe what IS possible. Connect with Rachel here:Rachel's Website Rachel's Facebook page Rachel on YouTube @themrspedersen on Instagram SummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter Podcast, Tania Leichliter interviews Rachel Pedersen, a social media strategist who shares her journey from a tumultuous childhood marked by her parents' divorce to becoming a successful entrepreneur. The conversation covers essential topics such as the importance of communicating with children during a divorce, the long-term effects of divorce on children, and practical tips for managing relationships and finances during and after divorce. Rachel emphasizes the need for self-empowerment and the potential for personal growth, even after significant life challenges.TakeawaysDeliver divorce news to children together as parents.Divorce can have lasting effects on children's mental health.Trust your instincts when choosing a partner.Complacency can lead to relationship breakdowns.Open communication is key in family discussions.Divorce can be financially devastating for families.Learning new skills can empower individuals post-divorce.Networking can lead to unexpected job opportunities.Embrace change and adapt in relationships.Monetizing skills online is a viable option for many.Sound Bites"Sometimes divorce might be the right choice.""Relationships die because of complacency.""Do not add rebuttals in conversations."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Rachel Peterson's Journey09:42 Lessons from Divorce: Awareness and Patterns20:42 From College Dropout to Entrepreneur: Rachel's Rise29:35 Monetizing Skills: Tips for Content CreatorsKeywordsdivorce, communication, children, relationships, financial stability, personal growth, social media, entrepreneurship, parenting, mental healthThanks for tuning in to Better Than Bitter™, navigating an amicable divorce. Whether you are at the beginning of your divorce journey, midway through, or even done, we want the stories from our guests to give you hope that an amicable resolution is possible. If you'd like to dive deeper into today's episode, check out our show notes for a full transcript, reflections, and links to learn more about Better Than Bitter's coaching courses, and how to connect with our fabulous guests. If you're ready for more support, you can head over to betterthanbitter.coach . On our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to Know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereLearn more about How To Work With US- Click Here Watch Our Free Webinars- Click here

Episode 14: Keeping Kids at the Center: The Importance of Consistent Childcare Post-DivorceOur guest for today's episode:Brynn Ungerleider babysitting so I could afford to buy CDs at the mall—talk about aging myself! What began as a fun way to earn cash soon turned into a 20+ year career in nannying and household management. I realized nannying is about providing enrichment, coaching children, and supporting families through life’s ups and downs. I help kids recognize their potential, often reminding them, ‘Where there’s a will, there’s a way,’ while also guiding parents to stay grounded when challenges arise. Helping others has always been my purpose. From my first babysitting gig to working with families across the country, I’ve supported parents through both the joys and the chaos of home life. With over two decades of experience, I created this agency with career-driven mothers, divorced families, and everyone in-between in mind. Someday, I too hope the love and support I’ve given will come full circle when I juggle motherhood and my career. Visit Brynn's website and connect with her:Brynn's Website Visit Brynn's Facebook Page:Brynn's Facebook page SummaryIn this episode of the Better Than Bitter Podcast, host Tania Leichliter speaks with Brynn Ungerleider, founder of Premier Nanny Network, about navigating amicable divorce and the impact it has on children. They discuss personal experiences with divorce, the importance of communication in co-parenting, and how nannies can provide stability and support for children during this challenging time. The conversation emphasizes the need for parents to prioritize their children's emotional well-being and to foster a cooperative environment for co-parenting.TakeawaysDivorce can be navigated amicably with the right support.Children are deeply affected by their parents' divorce.Communication is crucial when informing children about divorce.Nannies can play a vital role in providing stability for children.It's important to avoid disparaging the other parent in front of children.Parents should work together to create a consistent environment for their kids.Healing and forgiveness are essential for parents post-divorce.Children need to feel loved and supported during transitions.Co-parenting requires effort and understanding from both parents.Creating a family re-envisioned can help children adjust to divorce.Sound Bites"Take care of yourselves during divorce.""Communication is key in co-parenting.""You are 50% your parents."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Brynn and Her Journey02:47 Navigating Divorce: Personal Experiences13:21 The Impact of Divorce on Children18:53 Lessons Learned from Personal Experiences26:24 The Role of Nannies in Divorce Situations33:48 Key Takeaways and Final Thoughts39:24 Introduction to Amicable Divorce40:53 Resources for Support and GrowthKeywordsamicable divorce, co-parenting, divorce communication, nanny support, child stability, divorce impact, family dynamics, divorce resolution, parenting after divorce, emotional supportThanks for tuning in to Better Than Bitter™, navigating an amicable divorce. Whether you are at the beginning of your divorce journey, midway through, or even done, we want the stories from our guests to give you hope that an amicable resolution is possible. If you'd like to dive deeper into today's episode, check out our show notes for a full transcript, reflections, and links to learn more about Better Than Bitter's coaching courses, and how to connect with our fabulous guests. If you're ready for more support, you can head over to betterthanbitter.coach . On our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to Know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereLearn more about How To Work With US- Click Here Watch Our Free Webinars- Click here

Episode 13: Bonus Parents, Not Rivals: Embracing Your Ex's New Partner for Your Children's BenefitOur Guest for Today's Episode:Pam Dennis Pamela has worked with amazing leaders in global Fortune 100 firms like GE, Merck, JP Morgan, CNN and General Motors as well as small, closely held companies helping them to lead important transitions in the life cycle of their organizations. She knows the challenges of mobilizing commitment to change -- building acceptance, managing resistance and fear, and dealing with ambiguity. (Not unlike some of the transitions we face in divorce!) In her own life, following a divorce, Pamela built and led an international consulting business that received recognition for its growth and impact: “Mercury 100 Fastest Growing Colorado Companies”; “Boulder Top 25 Women Owned Companies” She sold her company after nearly 20 years. She also holds a PhD from Univ CO. Pam's Website SummaryIn this conversation, Tania Leichliter and Pamela Dennis explore the complexities of navigating family dynamics during and after divorce. They discuss the importance of communication, the role of a bonus parent, and how to create a family of affection that transcends traditional labels. The conversation emphasizes the need for amicable relationships and offers practical tips for co-parenting effectively, breaking the cycle of animosity, and fostering a supportive environment for children.TakeawaysNavigating divorce requires open communication and understanding.It's essential to address fears and concerns in family dynamics.Creating a family of affection can help ease transitions after divorce.Amicable relationships take effort from all parties involved.Children often feel caught in the middle of parental conflicts.Facilitating conversations can lead to better outcomes for families.Divorce doesn't have to mean the end of family connections.Breaking the cycle of animosity is crucial for future generations.Parents should model healthy relationships for their children.Every family can redefine their dynamics post-divorce. Sound Bites"What feels right?""You have to break the cycle.""How do we de-stigmatize divorce?"Chapters00:00 Navigating Family Dynamics and Amicable Divorce03:03 The Importance of Communication in Co-Parenting06:59 Mindset Shifts for Amicable Resolutions09:55 Rethinking Our Inner Dialogue14:24 Navigating Stepparent Dynamics17:28 Creating Amicable Relationships Post-Divorce21:44 The Importance of Family of Affection25:58 Breaking the Cycle of Conflict30:33 Top Tips for Amicable Co-ParentingKeywordsdivorce, co-parenting, family dynamics, communication, blended families, amicable relationships, family of affection, parenting tips, emotional health, relationship adviceThanks for tuning in to Better Than Bitter™, navigating an amicable divorce. Whether you are at the beginning of your divorce journey, midway through, or even done, we want the stories from our guests to give you hope that an amicable resolution is possible. If you'd like to dive deeper into today's episode, check out our show notes for a full transcript, reflections, and links to learn more about Better Than Bitter's coaching courses, and how to connect with our fabulous guests. If you're ready for more support, you can head over to betterthanbitter.coach . On our website you'll find details and additional information on our 5-Step Gameplan multimedia course, our different types of coaching methods, monthly memberships, events and retreats, and a whole lot more. Plus, we've got a ton of free resources, like our monthly newsletter, our private Facebook group, our Instagram channel, and a library of articles and free webinars to help you along the way. When you go to our website, you'll be able to schedule a free 45-minute breakthrough call. Remember, we're here to help you reach an amicable resolution. Find your courage and believe in your brighter future because you know what? It is possible.At Better Than Bitter™, we measure success by what we give and not by what we get. So let's change the divorce dialogue together. It's time to be better than bitter.Do you want to Know if We Can Help You? Book A Free 1:1 Breakthrough Call Now! Click HereLearn more about How To Work With US- Click Here Watch Our Free Webinars- Click here