Kelly Oliver Dougall

What happens when a 17-year marriage is cast aside for affirmation? In this video, I react to a Reddit thread where a husband and sister-in-law go behind a mother's back to facilitate a child's transition.As a counsellor specialising in Ambiguous Loss and Relational Trauma, I see this dynamic all too often. When you are silenced in your own home and treated like the bully for seeing the truth, the psychological toll is immense.In this video, I discuss:The trauma of family collusion and ganging up.Why Sarah isn't transphobic—she’s grieving a son.How secret HRT deals destroy the marital foundation.Are you living this story?You don't have to navigate this slow-motion family death alone. I provide a safe, confidential space for women who have been silenced or bullied by gender ideology in their own homes.Website: https://kellyoliverdougall.co.ukGet the 4 F's Survival Toolkit for free now https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/youre-not-a-bigot-youre-grieving/I help women work through the issues I talk about on my channel through my counselling private practice.You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counselling

"I would definitely have died some other way."In this incredibly raw and unfiltered conversation, Susan Universe shares a life story that sounds like a movie script. From a feral childhood in North Shields and being ghosted by her own family, to the reckless years that led to her being detained in a Spanish prison at just 22 years old—Susan has seen the darkest corners of life.But here is the shock: Susan says prison saved her life.We talk about:The Spanish Prison Experience: What it’s really like to be locked up in a foreign country with no language, no money, and no windows.Sisterhood in the Shadows: Meeting the "most dangerous woman in Spain" and finding humanity in the most unlikely places.The Breaking Point: A midnight encounter with the North Sea at Tynemouth that changed everything.The Return: Coming home to Newcastle and the long road from "scruffy kid" to High Priestess and transformational coach.Susan’s journey is a testament to the fact that shame dies when stories are told. If you feel stuck, silenced, or like your past defines you, this episode is for you.Connect with Susan:Instagram: @SusanUniverseFacebook: Susan UniverseYouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@UC2w8sfa8Dwox4-dzqvoJykQ YouTube podcast episode where Susan talks about her experience in prison: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1OY5zZiHSDo#PrisonToPurpose #SusanUniverse #Transformation #Sisterhood #NorthShields #GeordieStories #HealingJourney Get the 4 F's Survival Toolkit for free now https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/youre-not-a-bigot-youre-grieving/I help women work through the issues I talk about on my channel through my counselling private practice.You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counselling

Navigating Betrayal and the Passion ParadoxIn this episode, I’m joined by US-based psychologist and author Bruce Chalmer to discuss the deep mechanics of betrayal, intimacy, and the Passion Paradox. We dive into what happens when a partner transitions, why society forbids women from feeling betrayed, and how to tell the difference between ideas and ideology.We discuss:The 7-Word Formula: Why "Be Kind, Don’t Panic, and Have Faith" is the foundation of successful relationships.Betrayal vs. Hurt: Why a betrayal makes you doubt your own sanity and judgment.The Stability/Intimacy Paradox: Why the very things that make a marriage stable can often kill the intimacy.Ideology as a Mind-Killer: How gender ideology (and religious ideology) turns humane ideas into oppressive caricatures.Sexual Peaks in your 70s? Why maturity is more important than hormones for deep connection.Find Bruce Chalmer here: https://brucechalmer.com/Bruce’s Books: Betrayal and Forgiveness, The Passion Paradox.Get the 4 F's Survival Toolkit for free now https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/youre-not-a-bigot-youre-grieving/I help women work through the issues I talk about on my channel through my counselling private practice.You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counselling

Are you dealing with a high-conflict divorce or a narcissistic co-parent?In this episode, Kelly Oliver Dougall sits down with clinical psychologist Dr. David Marcus, who has spent over 40 years helping families under extreme stress. Dr. Marcus pulls back the curtain on how narcissistic parents operate in the courtroom and, more importantly, how their behaviour forces children into roles (like the pleaser or mediator) that prevent them from developing their true selves.In this interview, we discuss:The Narcissistic Window: Why they draw you in only to push you away.The Child's Burden: Why kids take on the Not Me role to keep their parents okay.Courtroom Reality: Why traditional therapy often fails with narcissists and why Dr. Marcus insisted on having teeth in the legal system.The Empty Depression: How childhood roles impact adult relationships.Parent Rx: Strategies for communication and becoming a "soothing presence" for your children.Connect with Dr. David Marcus:Website: parentrx.orgBook: Parent RX: Prescriptive Wisdom, Tips and Strategies for Communication with Your ChildEmail: [email protected] the 4 F's Survival Toolkit for free now https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/youre-not-a-bigot-youre-grieving/I help women work through the issues I talk about on my channel through my counselling private practice.You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counselling

The Hidden Reality of the Care SectorAfter avoiding the topic to protect my business, I’m finally speaking out about the systemic issues facing social care in the UK. From the razor-thin margins and recruitment crises to the reality of why male carers are sometimes deployed, it’s time for a honest conversation about a sector that society often ignores.In this live stream, I discuss:The Recruitment Crisis: Why the push for university degrees and the removal of visas has left care with a massive staff shortage.The blame culture: Why providers are the scapegoats for a system underfunded by local authorities.The Human Cost: The importance of intergenerational contact and why we need to value our elderly.Why Men in Care? Addressing the concerns of the Gender Critical community regarding male carers in women’s homes.The Bureaucracy Trap: Dealing with the CQC and the pathway culture of the NHS.#SocialCare #CareCrisis #CQC #KellyOliverDougall #WomensVoices #UKCareSystem

I’m back! Taking it slow, battling the brain fog, and bringing some serious updates.After a much-needed break, I’m relaunching the channel with a lot to get off my chest. In this stream, I dive into the reality of managing ADHD and menopause while navigating high-stakes legal and professional battles.In this episode:The Helen Webberley Dynamite: I share a major update regarding a new GMC complaint filed by a colleague (Paul) challenging her use of the title Doctor and the pseudoscience being promoted.NCPS Court Case: Why I am taking the National Counselling & Psychotherapy Society to Small Claims Court over a failed Subject Access Request (SAR) and hidden emails.The Secret Complainants: I reveal more about the people who tried to denounce me to my professional body for stating that sex is a biological reality.Life Update: From a wedding in Mauritius to CQC challenges and why my executive function has officially left the building.It’s been a heavy road, but I’m battling on. Thanks for the support and for sticking with me while I find my feet again.

10 Years of Marriage, a Cancer Diagnosis, and a Secret LifeIn this episode, we are joined by Amanda from Australia, who shares her harrowing experience as a trans widow. After a decade of what seemed like a happy, stable relationship, Amanda’s world was turned upside down.While Amanda was fighting breast cancer and grieving her terminally ill father, her partner made a shocking announcement: he was transitioning to live as a woman and had been secretly taking HRT for 10 months.In this interview, Amanda discusses:The subtle signs she missed (from shaving his beard to painted nails).The typical bloke behaviour that turned out to be a massive secret.Why she chose to end the relationship immediately and set firm boundaries.The de-transition offer and why trust can never be rebuilt.Finding support in the Gender Critical community when traditional counselling failed.Amanda’s story is one of incredible resilience in the face of triple trauma: illness, grief, and total betrayal.#TransWidow #BreastCancerSurvivor #GenderIdeology #AmandaStory #RelationshipBetrayal #AustraliaGet the 4 F's Survival Toolkit for free now https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/youre-not-a-bigot-youre-grieving/I help women work through the issues I talk about on my channel through my counselling private practice.You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counselling

I’m back from my trip to Mauritius and straight back into the thick of it. In this live stream, I share a major update regarding my situation with the NCPS (National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society). Despite my suspension being overturned, they are refusing to release my data and claim they have "no records" of the meetings where my suspension was decided.What I cover in this video:The NCPS Lawsuit: Why I have issued a Letter Before Action and why I am prepared to take them to court over my data rights.The "Social Media" Complaint: How my gender-critical beliefs led to a targeted attack and the subsequent failure of the NCPS complaints process.The Helen Webberley Connection: Updates on the complaints made against me and why practitioners are being targeted for speaking the truth about sex and gender.Mauritius Travel Log: The 12-hour flight, the Mauritian heat, and my top tip for mosquito bites (it involves Vicks!).The Current Political Landscape: My thoughts on Reform, Restore, and the ongoing debate about the Equality Act 2010.Resources & Support:If you are a woman being silenced or bullied for your beliefs, or if you have a family member identifying as trans, I offer a safe space for counselling.Book a Discovery Call: kellyoliverdougall.co.uk

The conversation covers the legal consequences of self-defense, including unjust incarceration and gender bias in the legal system. It also highlights the inhumane treatment in detention, discrimination, and inadequate facilities. The release to the perpetrator and the fear and vulnerability experienced are also discussed, along with the desperate need for escape.TakeawaysSelf-defense consequencesInjustice in the legal systemChapters00:00 Legal Consequences of Self-Defense

In this follow-up interview, I reunite with Katrina and Di to examine the sobering reality of gender ideology in New Zealand. From recent court cases like the Caitlin Spice matter to the implications of the Harmful Digital Communications Act (HDCA), we discuss how the legal system is being used to silence women.As we explore the "Reverse Midas Touch" of these policies, we ask the hard questions: Why are women and children always the price? And how can we find solid ground when the process is the punishment?Key Takeaways:"You cannot force sincerity.""Womanhood has been reduced to a dress.""If the family's running well, that spreads out to the next layer."Support & Resources: If you are navigating these issues in your own home and feel silenced or "cancelled," you don't have to carry it alone. I provide specialist counselling for women with trans-identifying family members. 🌐 Book a Session: https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/ 🧘Get the 4 F's Survival Toolkit for free now https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/youre-not-a-bigot-youre-grieving/I help women work through the issues I talk about on my channel through my counselling private practice.You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counselling

The conversation delves into the use of language and terminology in relation to gender identity, highlighting the impact of language on perception and understanding. It also explores the influence of indoctrination and the comparison of trans ideology to religion.TakeawaysLanguage shapes perceptionIndoctrination and trans ideologyChapters00:00 Influence of Indoctrination and Trans Ideology

If you feel like you are disappearing in the shadow of a family member's transition, you aren't alone. I hear from women every day who feel silenced, exhausted, and stuck in a state of Red Alert.Download the Free 4 F’s Survival Toolkit here: https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/youre-not-a-bigot-youre-grieving/In this video, I explore:The reality of Ambiguous Loss.Why you feel like you're walking on eggshells at home.How to identify if you are in a state of Fawn, Freeze, Fight, or Flight.Practical steps to find your 'Solid Ground' againI help women work through the issues I talk about on my channel through my counselling private practice.You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counselling

"My husband's counsellor said I was a lesbian."When Tracy Shannon’s husband began to transition, she didn't just lose her marriage—she lost her right to her own reality. In this raw and unfiltered interview, Tracy discusses the "professional" gaslighting she faced and the erasure of her identity as a wife.Are you walking on eggshells at home? Most mainstream counsellors will tell you that you must 'affirm' your partner’s new identity, even if it feels like a betrayal of your truth. I do not work that way. I provide a safe, private, and non-affirming space for women to speak their truth and process their grief without being called a bigot.In this interview, we discuss:The shocking labels placed on wives of trans-identifying men.How "professionals" often prioritise ideology over the family unit.The reality of ambiguous loss and the search for solid ground.BOOK A PRIVATE SESSION: If you need a counsellor who understands the unique pain of the trans widow experience, visit my website: kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counselling#TransWidow #TracyShannon #CounsellingUK #WomenSilenced #genderideology Where to find Tracy Shannon (:X (Twitter): @MadMommaBear2 Website: MassResistance.org Substack: can be found by searching for Tracy Shannon or MadMommaBear.Get the 4 F's Survival Toolkit for free now https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/youre-not-a-bigot-youre-grieving/I help women work through the issues I talk about on my channel through my counselling private practice.You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counselling

Where you can find Michael - X https://x.com/Michaelwk20 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@UCQPu3IG782FM9azIZ26ADsg Summary In this conversation, Michael, a detransitioner from Scotland, shares his journey through transition and the challenges he faced within the medical system. He discusses the mental health struggles, societal pressures, and the complexities of navigating gender identity. Michael emphasizes the need for better support systems for detransitioners and advocates for awareness and understanding of their experiences. He reflects on the impact of hormonal treatments and the importance of community in the journey of self-discovery and acceptance. Takeaways Michael is a 33-year-old detransitioner from Scotland. Transitioning can lead to significant mental health challenges. The medical system often lacks adequate support for detransitioners. Social pressures can heavily influence one's gender identity journey. Workplace dynamics can complicate the experience of transitioning individuals. Accessible spaces are crucial for those navigating gender identity. Hormonal treatments can have unexpected and distressing effects. Detransitioning is a complex decision that requires careful consideration. Legal and medical challenges persist for detransitioners seeking support. Advocacy for detransitioners is essential for raising awareness and improving support systems. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Detransitioning Perspectives 03:00 The Journey of Detransitioning 05:41 Navigating Mental Health and Support Systems 08:30 Experiences in the Workplace and Identity 11:07 The Impact of Social Influences on Gender Identity 13:58 Medical Experiences and Informed Consent 16:47 Long-term Effects of Hormonal Treatment 19:29 Accessible Spaces and Gender Identity 25:21 Navigating Hormone Therapy: A Personal Journey 31:56 The Emotional Rollercoaster of Transitioning 37:12 The Complex Path to Surgery 43:56 Confronting Addiction and Seeking Change 47:42 Reevaluating Identity and Activism 48:19 The Internal Conflicts of the Trans Community 50:34 Navigating Relationships and Personal Struggles 52:44 The Journey of Detransitioning 57:29 Medical Support and the Challenges of Detransitioning 01:03:08 The Need for Advocacy and Support for Detransitioners If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling. You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk

Summary In this conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall and Una Jane Winfield discuss the ongoing struggles and advocacy efforts of trans widows, highlighting the challenges they face in society and the legal system. They explore the impact of media representation, personal experiences, and the psychological effects of gender identity issues. The discussion emphasizes the importance of community engagement, open dialogue, and continued activism to address these pressing concerns. Takeaways Trans widows feel their voices are often unheard. There is a need for more representation in media. Legal battles in the NHS highlight systemic issues. Personal experiences reveal the psychological impact of gender identity. Activism is crucial for advocating for justice. Community engagement can foster understanding and support. Public meetings often shut down important questions. The ideology surrounding gender identity affects societal norms. Youth are particularly vulnerable to these issues. Support networks are essential for those affected. If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling. You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk

Summary The conversation delves into the tragic events at Bondi Beach, focusing on the experiences of those affected, particularly women. It highlights stories of heroism amidst the chaos, the community's response to grief, and the need to address cultural clashes. The speaker also offers support to women who have faced trauma, emphasizing the importance of collective healing and dialogue. Takeaways The tragedy at Bondi Beach was a targeted attack. Heroic actions emerged from ordinary people during the attack. Community support is vital in times of grief. Cultural clashes can lead to violence and misunderstanding. Women affected by trauma need support and understanding. Collective grief can unite communities. It's important to talk about the issues affecting society. Positive responses can arise from tragic events. Support systems are crucial for healing. Counselling can help those in pain. If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling. You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk

Summary The conversation delves into the controversial case of Sandie Peggie, a nurse who faced discrimination for her gender critical beliefs in the context of a tribunal ruling regarding her employer, NHS Fife. The discussion highlights the complexities of gender identity, the implications of the tribunal's judgment, and the broader societal impact on women's rights. Legal experts weigh in on the compatibility of the ruling with existing laws, while reactions from unions and advocates underscore the ongoing debate surrounding gender and sex in public spaces. Takeaways Sandie Peggie's case highlights the tension between gender identity and women's rights. The tribunal's judgment has been criticized for its implications on women's safety. Legal experts argue that the ruling contradicts previous Supreme Court decisions. The concept of gender identity remains contentious and poorly defined in legal contexts. There is a growing concern about the impact of transgender ideology on women's rights. The ruling suggests new criteria for access to female-only spaces based on appearance and transition status. Many believe that the judgment places the burden of objection on women in compromising situations. The conversation reflects a broader societal debate about sex, gender, and rights. Support for Sandie Peggie is strong among various unions and advocates for women's rights. The discussion calls for more awareness and dialogue about the implications of transgender policies. If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling. You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk

Summary The conversation delves into the Peggy vs NHS case, exploring the tribunal's findings, public reactions, and the broader implications for women's rights and healthcare. It highlights the contentious nature of the case, the financial burden on NHS Fife, and the cultural impact of the ruling on women's rights Takeaways The tribunal upheld four of Peggy's claims against NHS. The ruling suggests a balance of rights between trans women and biological women. NHS Fife has spent significant public funds on the case. Public opinion is deeply divided on the issue. The case has broader implications for gender rights in the UK. Critics argue the ruling is muddled and unclear. The cultural impact of the case is significant and ongoing. There are calls for clearer guidance from Westminster. The case has become a focal point for discussions on women's rights. The conversation reflects a growing tension in society regarding gender identity.

summary In this conversation, Amita Sharma discusses the often-overlooked topic of hormonal transitions in women, particularly focusing on menopause and perimenopause. She highlights the lack of understanding and resources available for women experiencing these changes and emphasizes the importance of diet and lifestyle in managing symptoms. Amita introduces her app, Nourish Talk, designed to provide holistic wellness support for women navigating these transitions, and advocates for better education and awareness around women's health issues. Takeaways Most women are unaware of the symptoms of menopause. Chronic conditions are prevalent among women over 60. Diet and lifestyle changes can mitigate menopause symptoms. Personal experiences with perimenopause are often shocking. Women need better resources for hormonal transitions. Menopause education is lacking in medical training. Women can still contribute significantly in their 40s and beyond. The stigma around menopause needs to be addressed. Holistic approaches to health are essential for women. Women should have access to credible health information. If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling. You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.uk

Featuring @UteHeggenTranswidowHeals Originally posted on 6th August 2025 - this version is less edited as feedback was that the original was "jumpy". Takeaways Ute Heggen shares her experience as a trans widow. The psychological impact of cross-dressing on relationships is profound. Therapists often affirm gender identity without addressing underlying issues. Childhood trauma can significantly influence gender identity. Custody battles can be complicated by a partner's gender transition. Post-traumatic stress can arise from relationship challenges. Social contagion plays a role in the rise of gender identity issues. Cognitive behavioural therapy can help in managing negative thought patterns. The ethics of gender affirmation in therapy is a contentious issue. Nature and gardening can be therapeutic for mental health. Children are burdened by societal lies. Physical activity can aid mental health. Healing requires addressing trauma. Family relationships are impacted by social dynamics. Self-protection is essential in changing times. Nature can provide solace and joy. Education plays a crucial role in development. Motherhood is a complex journey. Family dynamics can be complicated. Finding joy in community is vital. Summary In this conversation, Ute Heggen shares her journey as a trans widow, discussing the profound psychological impact of her ex-husband's cross-dressing on their relationship. She explores the role of therapy in gender identity, the influence of childhood trauma, and the complexities of custody battles. Ute emphasizes the importance of cognitive behavioural therapy and the healing power of nature and gardening, while also addressing the ethical considerations surrounding gender affirmation in therapy. In this conversation, Ute Heggen and Kelly Oliver Dougall explore the complexities of parenting, trauma, and the impact of societal changes on family dynamics. They discuss the burden of lies that children face, the importance of physical and mental well-being, and the strategies for healing from trauma. The dialogue emphasizes the significance of self-protection, the joy found in nature and community, and the role of education in child development. Ute shares personal anecdotes about motherhood, the challenges of family relationships, and the journey of self-discovery and acceptance. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Ute Heggen and Her Journey 02:06 The Impact of Cross-Dressing on Relationships 05:16 Exploring the Role of Therapists in Gender Identity 09:28 Childhood Trauma and Its Effects on Gender Ideation 13:34 Navigating Custody Battles and Parenting Challenges 18:08 The Development of PTSD and Healing Journey 24:59 The Role of Nature in Healing and Recovery 28:23 Challenges in Mental Health and Therapy Practices 35:49 Understanding Biological Sex and Gender Identity 38:04 Navigating Professional Challenges and Activism 41:13 Mental Health and the Impact of Detransitioning 45:40 The Role of Therapy and Support for Trans Widows 49:15 Finding Balance Through Nature and Wellness 54:14 The Burden of Lies and Family Dynamics 58:29 Physical Health and Mental Well-being 01:02:28 Coping with Trauma and Building Resilience 01:08:58 Navigating Family Dynamics in a Changing World 01:11:44 The Impact of Social Media and Online Trolls 01:14:58 Protecting Oneself: Legal and Emotional Strategies 01:17:43 Finding Community and Normalcy 01:18:33 Child Development and Gender Identity 01:23:59 Reflections on Parenting and Life Lessons 01:29:19 The Importance of Sharing Stories and Experiences 01:42:49 May 2025 YouTube Intro m.mp4 Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counselling

Send us a textIf this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling.You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.ukFind Nonika here - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100095728833512SummaryThe conversation explores the true essence of feminism, challenging traditional perceptions that equate it with weakness. Nonika emphasizes the strength inherent in femininity, highlighting the resilience women display in their daily lives, particularly in the face of physical challenges like menstruation. The discussion aims to redefine feminism as a powerful force rather than a gentle one.TakeawaysFeminism is often misunderstood as weakness.True femininity encompasses strength and resilience.Women endure significant challenges daily without recognition.The conversation challenges stereotypes about femininity.Feminism should be seen as a powerful force.Experiencing pain does not equate to weakness.Strength can be found in vulnerability.Redefining feminism can empower women.Acknowledging women's struggles is crucial for equality.Feminism is about embracing all aspects of womanhood.Support the show

Send us a textIf this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling.You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.ukSummaryIn this conversation, the speaker delves into the complexities of truth and perception, emphasizing how our understanding is often clouded by our emotions and reflections of one another. The discussion highlights the transient nature of truth and the challenges in truly seeing and understanding each other.TakeawaysThe truth is elusive and constantly changing.Our feelings are often tied to moments that have already passed.We judge each other based on our limited perceptions.True understanding requires deeper connection beyond surface reflections.Emotions can cloud our perception of reality.Human connections are often based on reflections of ourselves.Seeing someone truly involves more than just visual perception.The concept of truth is subjective and personal.Loss can create a lingering sense of absence in our lives.Understanding each other requires empathy and openness.Support the show

Send us a textIf this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling.You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.ukYou can find Angeline here https://letsbreakthesilence.com/unlockevent?fbclid=IwY2xjawNkR0RleHRuA2FlbQIxMABicmlkETF6dEc1S1pEb0NkVEd1bVZBAR5U54MWgvL6SummaryIn this conversation, Angeline Constantinou shares her personal journey through a marriage that initially seemed perfect but soon revealed underlying issues of jealousy and emotional abuse. She reflects on the signs she overlooked and the decisions she made, leading to her eventual self-discovery and growth.TakeawaysI used to be married to whom I thought was the love of my life.He earned six-figure income in New York City.You wouldn't think that didn't see any signs of abuse.I made a decision because I thought there was a lot there.He started to exhibit jealousy, resentment.Support the show

Send us a textSummaryIn this conversation, Shari Rash and Kelly Oliver Dougall delve into the emotional aspects of money management, exploring how childhood experiences shape financial attitudes. They discuss the limitations of traditional budgeting, the importance of understanding needs versus wants, and the necessity of compromise in financial discussions, especially in relationships. The conversation also highlights gender differences in financial perspectives and offers practical strategies for effective money management.TakeawaysThe emotional side of money is often more challenging than the technical aspects.Childhood money memories significantly influence adult financial behaviour.Budgeting fails for a large percentage of people because it doesn't account for life's randomness.Creating a spending strategy that includes needs, wants, and savings is crucial.Compromise in financial discussions can lead to healthier relationships.Women often make most household purchasing decisions, yet their financial needs are overlooked.It's important to teach children about budgeting and money management from a young age.Automating savings can help ensure financial security for the future.Understanding the difference between needs and wants can improve financial decision-making.Money conversations should be more open and frequent to reduce stigma and misunderstanding.If this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling.You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.ukSupport the show

Send us a textIf this resonates with you, I help women work through these issues in counselling.You can book a free consultation with me at kellyoliverdougall.co.ukIf you would like to support Janet to raise money so she can publish her book, Please Don't Share My Name you can donate here - https://buymeacoffee.com/janetmurraySummaryIn this conversation, Janet Murray shares her personal journey through the challenges of cancel culture, including her experiences with breast cancer and the impact of speaking out on women's rights. She discusses the dynamics of the creative industry, the difficulty of changing minds, and the role of media in shaping narratives. Janet also talks about her plans to write a book to share untold stories of women affected by these issues, emphasizing the importance of women's spaces and the need for evidence in discussions about gender ideology.TakeawaysJanet discusses her journey through cancellation and personal challenges.The impact of cancel culture on women's voices is significant.Creative industries often face backlash for differing opinions.Navigating professional backlash can be daunting for many.Changing minds is difficult, especially in polarized discussions.Evidence and personal experiences shape beliefs over time.Personal experiences with gender ideology can be eye-opening.The consequences of speaking out can be severe for women.Media plays a crucial role in shaping public narratives.Writing a book can be a way to share untold stories.Support the show

Send us a textIn this conversation, Angie Jones, a prominent gender critical feminist, discusses her experiences and activism surrounding women's rights in Australia. She reflects on the Melbourne event, the challenges faced by activists, and the impact of media representation on public perception. Angie emphasizes the importance of grassroots activism, citizen journalism, and community support in the fight for women's rights. The conversation also touches on cultural and social issues, mental health, and the ongoing political challenges faced by activists in Australia.TakeawaysAngie Jones is a prominent gender critical feminist known for her activism on Twitter.The Melbourne event highlighted the clash between women's rights activists and trans activists.Grassroots activism is essential for raising awareness about women's rights issues.Media representation often mischaracterizes the intentions of women's rights activists.The aftermath of the Melbourne event had significant personal impacts on the activists involved.Citizen journalism plays a crucial role in countering mainstream media narratives.The current political climate presents challenges for women's rights activists in Australia.Cultural and social issues, including immigration, are affecting public sentiment in Australia.Mental health is a significant concern for activists facing public backlash.Community building and support networks are vital for sustaining activism.https://x.com/angijonesSupport the show

Send us a textIn this conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall interviews Emily Brearley, a development economist with extensive experience in the global South. They discuss Emily's new book, which critiques the failures of international aid and the World Bank, while also addressing the impact of gender ideology on development work. Emily emphasizes the need for humility and realistic approaches in aid, advocating for empowerment and local expertise over paternalistic interventions. The conversation also touches on class issues, the importance of education, and the challenges of speaking out against prevailing ideologies.You can buy Emily's book here - https://amzn.eu/d/70ZDjjl Be My Guest - Do you have an experience that you would like to share on my YouTube channel? Book now - https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/be-my-guest/Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counsellingFind calm, clarity, and inner strength with my guided meditations—download them here: https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/guided-meditations/Support the show

Send us a textIn this conversation, Lisa Morgan shares her journey as a feminist, hypnotist, and political activist. She discusses her early experiences in the feminist movement, her insights into hypnosis and its influence on politics, and her reactions to contemporary gender ideology. Lisa reflects on the backlash she faced for her views, the importance of community support, and her perspectives on the future of society. The conversation delves into the themes of identity, propaganda, and the need for a return to local communities as a means of fostering change. You can find Lisa and her book "The Big Lie" here https://www.lisa-morgan.co.uk/First released on 24th October 2024Be My Guest - Do you have an experience that you would like to share on my YouTube channel? Book now - https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/be-my-guest/Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counsellingFind calm, clarity, and inner strength with my guided meditations—download them here: https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/guided-meditations/Support the show

Send us a textSummaryIn this conversation, Risa Selph shares her harrowing experience as a mother advocating for her son’s health after a misdiagnosis led to severe medical complications. She discusses the importance of trusting one's instincts in healthcare, the challenges of navigating the medical system, and the ongoing fight for accountability and legislative change. Risa emphasizes the need for parents to be proactive advocates for their children’s health and the long-term impacts of medical negligence.TakeawaysAdvocacy in healthcare is crucial for families.Trust your instincts when it comes to your child's health.Medical negligence can have severe long-term consequences.Legal battles can be necessary to seek justice.Parents should ask questions and demand answers from healthcare providers.The healthcare system often protects its own, making accountability difficult.Empowering other parents is a key part of the healing process.Legislative change is needed to improve patient rights.Mom guilt can be overwhelming but should not deter advocacy.Building a support network can help navigate healthcare challenges.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Advocacy in Healthcare02:33 A Mother's Journey Through Medical Crisis05:06 The Impact of Medical Negligence07:29 Fighting for Accountability and Change10:23 Navigating the Aftermath of a Health Crisis12:40 Lessons Learned and Advice for Other Parents15:17 The Ongoing Legal Battle18:13 Conclusion and Future AspirationsSupport the show

Send us a textJoy shares her journey as a trans widow, reflecting on the challenges and emotional turmoil she faced. From the initial shock to navigating societal perceptions, Joy opens up about her experiences, the impact on her family, and the importance of speaking out. Join Joy and Kelly Oliver Dougall as they delve into the complexities of identity, relationships, and resilience. Support the show

Send us a textI am very excited to welcome  @KellieJayKeen onto my channel, a year on from starting my podcast. From attending my first Let Women Speak event in January 2023 to running as a candidate in the General election for Party of Women, it was quite wonderful to welcome KJK - the woman who made all of that happen. Join Kellie-Jay and Kelly Oliver Dougall as they dive into a compelling conversation about women's rights, activism, and personal experiences. Discover the stories behind the Let Women Speak movement and the Party of Women, and explore the challenges and triumphs faced by women advocating for change. This episode is a must-watch for anyone interested in understanding the dynamics of modern activism and the power of women's voices. Don't miss out on this insightful discussion!Support the show

Send us a textIn this conversation, Michaela Cox shares her profound journey through life, marked by personal challenges including legal blindness, a divorce, and the unexpected loss of her husband. She discusses the complexities of navigating disability, the importance of self-advocacy, and the impact of grief on her life. Michaela emphasizes the significance of choices in overcoming adversity and highlights her writing journey, which serves as a means of empowerment and healing. Through her experiences, she aims to inspire others to find grace in their struggles and to advocate for themselves.Be My Guest - Do you have an experience that you would like to share on my YouTube channel? Book now - https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/be-my-guest/Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counsellingFind calm, clarity, and inner strength with my guided meditations—download them here: https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/guided-meditations/Support the show

Send us a textIn this conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall speaks with Jennifer Kimmel, a trans widow, who shares her personal experiences and insights regarding the complexities of gender identity, abuse, and the societal implications surrounding these issues. Jennifer discusses the emotional and legal challenges she faced, the impact on her children, and the importance of community and activism in navigating her situation. She emphasizes the need for women to trust their instincts and protect themselves while advocating for recognition and support for those in similar circumstances.TakeawaysJennifer is a trans widow, sharing her unique perspective.She highlights the manipulative tactics used by some men in relationships.The conversation addresses the emotional and legal challenges faced by trans widows.Jennifer emphasizes the importance of community support and activism.She discusses the impact of her ex-husband's actions on their children.The need for women to trust their instincts is a recurring theme.Jennifer reflects on her personal growth and resilience throughout her experiences.She advocates for the recognition of women's voices in discussions about gender identity.The conversation sheds light on the societal implications of gender identity issues.Jennifer encourages women to protect themselves and seek help when needed.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Trans Widowhood02:51 Understanding the Motivations Behind Transitioning05:23 Personal Experiences of a Trans Widow08:17 Legal and Social Implications of Transitioning10:47 Impact on Children and Family Dynamics13:45 Navigating Support Systems and Mental Health16:19 The Struggle for Women's Voices19:04 Confronting Societal Norms and Expectations21:35 Reflections on Healing and Community Support29:11 The Dynamics of Local Narratives32:40 Community Reactions and Pride Parades35:23 The Struggle for Understanding and Acceptance37:53 Navigating Relationships and Boundaries41:26 The Role of Activism and Public Speaking45:03 The Complexity of Gender and Violence48:25 Finding Support and Community51:51 The Importance of Speaking Out55:44 august 2025 YouTube Intro.mp4Be My Guest - Do you have an experience that you would like to share on my YouTube channel? Book now - https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/be-my-guest/Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counsellingFind calm, clarity, and inner strength with my guided meditations—download them here: https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/guided-meditations/Support the show

Send us a textJoin us for an engaging conversation with Penny Dee, an author, radio presenter, and business owner, as she shares her insights on the power of speaking the truth. In this episode, Penny discusses the importance of dialogue, the value of understanding different perspectives, and the courage it takes to stand up for what you believe in. Dive into topics ranging from gender ideology to the significance of embracing one's identity. Don't miss this thought-provoking discussion that encourages you to use your voice and be proud of who you are.Be My Guest - Do you have an experience that you would like to share on my YouTube channel? Book now - https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/be-my-guest/Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counsellingFind calm, clarity, and inner strength with my guided meditations—download them here: https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/guided-meditations/Support the show

Send us a textTakeawaysUte Heggen shares her experience as a trans widow.The psychological impact of cross-dressing on relationships is profound.Therapists often affirm gender identity without addressing underlying issues.Childhood trauma can significantly influence gender identity.Custody battles can be complicated by a partner's gender transition.Post-traumatic stress can arise from relationship challenges.Social contagion plays a role in the rise of gender identity issues.Cognitive behavioural therapy can help in managing negative thought patterns.The ethics of gender affirmation in therapy is a contentious issue.Nature and gardening can be therapeutic for mental health. Children are burdened by societal lies.Physical activity can aid mental health.Healing requires addressing trauma.Family relationships are impacted by social dynamics.Self-protection is essential in changing times.Nature can provide solace and joy.Education plays a crucial role in development.Motherhood is a complex journey.Family dynamics can be complicated.Finding joy in community is vital.SummaryIn this conversation, Ute Heggen shares her journey as a trans widow, discussing the profound psychological impact of her ex-husband's cross-dressing on their relationship. She explores the role of therapy in gender identity, the influence of childhood trauma, and the complexities of custody battles. Ute emphasizes the importance of cognitive behavioural therapy and the healing power of nature and gardening, while also addressing the ethical considerations surrounding gender affirmation in therapy. In this conversation, Ute Heggen and Kelly Oliver Dougall explore the complexities of parenting, trauma, and the impact of societal changes on family dynamics. They discuss the burden of lies that children face, the importance of physical and mental well-being, and the strategies for healing from trauma. The dialogue emphasizes the significance of self-protection, the joy found in nature and community, and the role of education in child development. Ute shares personal anecdotes about motherhood, the challenges of family relationships, and the journey of self-discovery and acceptance.Be My Guest - Do you have an experience that you would like to share on my YouTube channel? Book now - https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/be-my-guest/Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counsellingSupport the show

Send us a textYou can support Jasmine by donating to her crowdfunder here - https://www.hrla.org.au/stand-with-jasmine?utm_campaign=2507_eappeal_3&utm_medium=email&utm_source=hrlaSummaryIn this conversation, Jasmine Sussex shares her experiences as a breastfeeding counsellor and the challenges she faced regarding men breastfeeding and the push for gender-neutral language within the Australian Breastfeeding Association. She discusses the implications of these changes on motherhood, the importance of maintaining a mother-centric approach in breastfeeding support, and the legal battles she has encountered as a result of her advocacy. The conversation highlights the ongoing struggle for women's voices in the context of motherhood and public health.TakeawaysJasmine Sussex is a mother of three and a breastfeeding counselor.She encountered a controversial discussion about a four-year-old transitioning.The Australian Breastfeeding Association is facing pressure to adopt gender-neutral language.Jasmine believes that breastfeeding should center around mothers, not gender identity.There is a significant pushback against pediatric transitioning in Australia.Jasmine faced disciplinary actions for her views on transitioning children.The media has taken an interest in the controversies surrounding the ABA.Legal challenges are ongoing regarding her advocacy for mothers' rights.The conversation emphasizes the importance of mother-child relationships in early development.Jasmine calls for solidarity among women to address these issues. Chapters00:00Introduction to Jasmine Sussex01:15The Controversy of Early Gender Transition04:13Personal Experiences and Professional Conflicts11:38The Impact of Gender Identity on Women's Health15:47The Push for Gender Neutral Language21:04The Fallout from the ABA's Policies26:09Navigating Complaints and Activism in Breastfeeding Support30:57Media Exposure and Internal Conflicts34:21The Challenge of Sisterly Solidarity37:03The Impact of Language on Motherhood42:22Safeguarding and Controversial Conversations48:16Legal Battles and Advocacy for Mothers53:40Defending the Rights of Mothers and Babies56:55Sisterhood and Support in Challenging Times59:05Navigating Conflict and Online Harassment01:01:36The Importance of Standing Your Ground01:05:10Legal Battles and the Fight for Women's Rights01:07:41The Biological Reality of Motherhood01:11:12Revisiting Parenting Norms and Societal ExpectationsBe My Guest - Do you have an experience that you would like to share on my YouTube channel? Book now - https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/be-my-guest/Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counsellingSupport the show

Send us a textIf you would like to learn more about Heeral's White Paper, you can find her on Linkedin here - https://www.linkedin.com/in/heeralgudka/SummaryIn this conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall and Heeral discuss the complexities and challenges surrounding Equality, Diversity, and Inclusion (EDI) in modern workplaces. They explore the pushback against EDI initiatives, the importance of diverse perspectives, and the risks of echo chambers and ideological bias. Heeral emphasizes the need for impartiality in HR practices and the dangers of virtue signaling on social media. The discussion also touches on the erosion of free speech and the implications for democracy, concluding with a call for a more nuanced understanding of identity and class in EDI work.TakeawaysEDI is facing significant pushback due to ideological biases.Employers must manage people risks that have become public.Echo chambers can distort perceptions of EDI work.Free speech is essential for democracy and debate.EDI should not be tied to political ideologies.Impartiality in HR is crucial for fair practices.Virtue signaling can undermine genuine EDI efforts.Class and identity are complex and cannot be simplified.Awareness of different experiences is vital in EDI work.The future of EDI requires a balance between inclusion and free expression.TitlesNavigating the Complexities of EDIThe Pushback Against EDI InitiativesSound bites"EDI is facing so much pushback.""EDI has become a progressive ideology.""We need to wind our necks in a bit."Chapters00:00 Introduction to EDI and Personal Background03:01 The Challenges in EDI Sector05:26 Echo Chambers and Free Speech08:01 The Impact of EDI on Workplace Dynamics10:53 Understanding Diverse Experiences in Transition13:17 Political Ideologies in EDI15:55 The Role of HR in EDI18:35 Virtue Signaling vs. Genuine Inclusion21:00 The Dangers of Social Media Activism23:49 The Complexity of Social Issues in the Workplace26:27 Legal Implications of EDI Practices29:10 Concluding Thoughts on EDI and Society30:52 Freedom of Expression and Its Challenges35:17 The Erosion of Rights and Trust in Governance39:50 The Evolution of Equality, Diversity, and Inclusion (EDI) Practices48:31 Navigating Class and Workplace Dynamics52:52 The Future of EDI and Content Relevance56:37 May 2025 YouTube Intro m.mp4Be My Guest - Do you have an experience that you would like to share on my YouTube channel? Book now - https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/be-my-guest/Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counsellingSupport the show

Send us a textFind Una's website here - https://www.transwidows.com/index.php/transwidows/The Daily Mail recently ran this story - https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14897421/I-overjoyed-marry-handsome-love-life-Paul-22-years-dropped-bombshell-shattered-family-living-double-life-trans-woman-named-Elizabeth-happened-next.htmlKeywordstrans widow, emotional manipulation, autogynephilia, divorce, mental health, gender identity, narcissism, family dynamics, gaslighting, societal issuesTakeawaysUna shares her experience as a trans widow.Paul's gradual changes were difficult to notice at first.Autogynephilia is linked to narcissistic behavior.The impact of withdrawal on family dynamics is profound.Financial manipulation was a significant issue during the divorce.Gaslighting was a common tactic used by Paul.The emotional toll on children is often overlooked.The inquest into Paul's death raised many questions.Mental health issues are often misunderstood in society.Support networks are crucial for those in similar situations.SummaryIn this conversation, Una shares her harrowing experience as a trans widow, detailing the gradual changes in her husband Paul, his eventual transition, and the emotional and financial turmoil that ensued. She discusses the complexities of gaslighting, the impact on their children, and the societal implications of gender identity. Through her story, Una emphasizes the importance of support networks for those facing similar challenges and calls for a deeper understanding of mental health issues related to gender identity.TitlesNavigating Life as a Trans WidowThe Hidden Struggles of a Trans WidowSound bites"He wanted complete control.""This is the most appalling shock.""I wanted to pull him back."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Una's Story01:41 The Gradual Change in Paul05:02 Understanding Autogynephilia and Narcissism08:13 Financial Manipulations and Control11:00 The Discovery of Paul's Secret Life14:25 The Shock of Paul's Revelation17:24 The Impact of Paul's Behavior on Relationships20:29 The Police Encounter and Wrongful Conviction34:43 The Investigation Dilemma39:06 Finding Support and Community43:39 Legislative Concerns and Gender Recognition Act48:28 The Impact of Medical Interventions54:42 Navigating Family Dynamics01:00:32 Advice for Others in Similar Situations01:12:20 May 2025 YouTube Intro m.mp4Be My Guest - Do you have an experience that you would like to share on my YouTube channel? Book now - https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/be-my-guest/Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counsellingSupport the show

Send us a textFeaturing  @PiecesOfMissMini  My guest Padmini Pandya talked about dating in your 40's, how tricky it is when you lose your ex husband and how people don't know how to respond to that, how healing water is for our bodies and minds and growing businesses and how challenging and fulfilling it is. SummaryIn this engaging conversation, Padmini Pandya shares her eclectic life experiences as a fourth-generation East African, British, Indian, and her journey from being an organizational psychologist to a content creator. She discusses the complexities of relationships, the impact of grief, and the lessons learned from her life stories. Padmini also delves into her experiences with dating after divorce, the evolution of dating apps, and the challenges of building a business while navigating personal growth. Throughout the conversation, she emphasizes the importance of friendship, support, and the healing power of nature.TakeawaysPadmini shares her eclectic background and life experiences.Living an adventurous life comes with both joy and heartbreak.Grief can complicate relationships and requires time to process.Support from unexpected friends can be invaluable during tough times.Traveling and living in different countries enriches one's perspective.Dating after divorce presents unique challenges and opportunities.Dating apps can lead to meaningful friendships, not just romantic connections.Building a business requires understanding one's strengths and weaknesses.Navigating personal growth often involves taking calculated risks.The ocean symbolizes healing and connection to the earth.KeywordsPadmini Pandya, life lessons, grief, relationships, dating, personal stories, business growth, content creation, friendship dynamics, international livingSound bites"It's a complicated situation.""You can't measure chemistry.""I can turn around businesses."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Padmini's Journey01:45 The Power of Personal Stories03:37 Navigating Grief and Complicated Relationships07:27 The Complexity of Modern Mourning12:08 Reflections on Friendship and Integrity13:04 Life After Loss: Growth and New Connections14:28 Exploring Global Living Experiences17:09 The Healing Power of Nature21:30 Dating in a New Era25:56 The Evolution of Dating Apps26:39 The Intangibility of Compatibility29:26 Navigating the Dating App Landscape30:21 Awkward Date Stories33:27 Friendships from Dating Apps35:03 Career Transitions and Explorations36:36 Building a Home Care Business38:31 Overcoming Early Business Challenges41:33 Learning from Mistakes in Business45:05 Freelancing and Business Models46:32 Podcasting for Connection and Promotion48:08 May 2025 YouTube Intro m.mp4Be My Guest - Do you have an experience that you would like to share on my YouTube channel? Book now - https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/be-my-guest/Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counsellingSupport the show

Send us a textJennifer Gligoric had a rough start in life when she became pregnant and homeless at the same time. But adversity creates resilience and decades later she is now a successful business owner and leader supporting entrepreneurs to grow their businesses and succeed. We talk about shared experiences of homelessness, periods when living on the streets, free speech and the erosion of trust in our society. KeywordsJennifer Gligoric, Asgardia, digital nation, leadership, homelessness, problem solving, technology, free speech, media trust, business innovationSummaryIn this conversation, Jennifer Gligoric shares her journey from being homeless to becoming a leader in the Digital Nation of Asgardia. She discusses the importance of dreaming big, navigating cultural differences, and the challenges of free speech in today's society. Jennifer emphasizes the role of adversity in shaping resilience and problem-solving skills, and highlights the impact of technology on business and community support. The conversation concludes with a call to action for listeners to question everything and champion the causes they believe in.TakeawaysJennifer Gligoric is a podcast host and Minister of Equity for Asgardia.Asgardia aims to create a peaceful digital nation in space.Cultural differences can pose challenges in leadership and communication.Personal experiences of homelessness can shape resilience and problem-solving skills.Adversity can lead to personal empowerment and success.Technology has a significant impact on society and business.Free speech is essential for a healthy democracy.Trust in media and institutions is declining.Business innovation requires continuous problem-solving and adaptation.Community support is vital for addressing social issues.TitlesFrom Homelessness to Leadership: Jennifer Gligoric's JourneyBuilding a Digital Nation: The Vision of AsgardiaSound bites"It's a race to the bottom.""You have to be willing to speak.""You have to question everything."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Jennifer Gligoric and Asgardia02:53 The Vision of a Digital Nation05:36 Navigating Cultural Differences in Leadership08:24 Overcoming Personal Challenges and Homelessness11:06 The Importance of Problem Solving in Business13:53 The Impact of Adversity on Personal Growth16:55 The Role of Wisdom and Experience in Society19:23 Empathy and Support for the Homeless22:20 Balancing Business Growth and Personal Well-being32:07 Resilience Through Adversity34:18 Creative Problem Solving in Business36:17 The Importance of Differentiation in Business37:59 The Rise of Small Businesses on Social Media40:01 The Power of Citizen Journalism40:57 The Impact of AI on Perception43:39 The Necessity of Free Speech46:34 Trust in Institutions and Media50:32 Championing Change in SocietySupport the show

Send us a textI recently joined a platform to help me find more guests for my podcast, called Podmatch. One of the first people to approach me on there was this woman, who claims to be an expert in DEI but fails to understand what a trans widow is and hasn't considered the impact of trans ideology on children, women's sports or women's rights. At one point she compared double mastectomies to liposuction. Dr V has subsequently deleted her Podmatch account and it is highly likely that she joined for the sole purpose of being my guest..... This episode is not to be missed. Be My Guest - Do you have an experience that you would like to share on my YouTube channel? Book now - https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/be-my-guest/Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counsellingSupport the show

Send us a textRuth Lewis (along with other women) was cancelled from a breastfeeding support organisation because she raised safeguarding concerns about the expansion of their policy to support men to chest feed babies with chemically induced milk. https://momab.org.uk/Keywordsbreastfeeding, MoMA, lactation, support, mothers, male breastfeeding, language, community, women, healthSummaryIn this conversation, Ruth Lewis, a breastfeeding counsellor and director of MoMA, discusses the importance of mother-to-mother breastfeeding support, the challenges faced by breastfeeding organizations, and the impact of language on breastfeeding support. She emphasizes the unique role of mothers in breastfeeding and the need for clear communication in support services. The discussion also touches on the controversial topic of male breastfeeding and the formation of MoMA as a response to the changing landscape of breastfeeding support.TakeawaysRuth Lewis is a breastfeeding counsellor and director of MoMA.MoMA aims to provide mother-to-mother breastfeeding support.The organization was formed after being excluded from another breastfeeding group.There is confusion around the support of male breastfeeding.Breastfeeding is not just about feeding; it's about bonding and maternal health.Language used in breastfeeding support can impact accessibility and understanding.Mothers play a crucial role in breastfeeding and nurturing.The formation of MoMA was a response to safeguarding concerns.Community support is vital for breastfeeding mothers.Funding and sustainability are ongoing challenges for MoMA.TitlesThe Future of Breastfeeding SupportNavigating the Controversies of LactationSound bites"Men chest feeding is not about the baby.""It's not kind to far more people.""We were kicked out eventually."Chapters00:00 Introduction to MoMA Breastfeeding and Its Mission04:17 The Controversy of Male Breastfeeding08:37 Safeguarding Concerns in Breastfeeding Support12:59 The Formation of MoMA Breastfeeding17:27 Community Support and Future Aspirations23:56 Establishing a New Support Organization27:56 The Philosophy of Mothering and Breastfeeding34:17 The Importance of Language in Breastfeeding Support40:19 Building Community and Support Networks44:59 Funding and Future Plans for MOMABe My Guest - Do you have an experience that you would like to share on my YouTube channel? Book now - https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/be-my-guest/Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counsellingSupport the show

Send us a textKeywordswomen in finance, financial independence, money management, mindset, entrepreneurship, financial literacy, self-ownership, emotional connection to money, community support, gratitudeSummaryIn this enlightening conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall and Monica Kaufman discuss the importance of financial literacy and independence for women. They explore the barriers women face in managing money, the changing landscape of financial roles, and the significance of mindset in achieving financial success. Monica shares personal stories and insights on overcoming challenges, the emotional connection to money, and the necessity of community support. The discussion emphasizes the need for women to take ownership of their financial futures and the importance of gratitude and self-care in the journey towards financial independence.TakeawaysWomen often face barriers in financial management.Money should be viewed as a tool, not a source of stress.Taking ownership of finances is crucial for independence.Financial independence allows for freedom in life choices.Mindset plays a significant role in financial success.Community support is essential for overcoming financial challenges.Celebrating small wins can boost motivation and resilience.Understanding the emotional connection to money is vital.Creating systems can help manage financial habits effectively.Gratitude and self-care are important in financial journeys.TitlesEmpowering Women in FinanceOvercoming Financial BarriersSound bites"Women often don't think about money.""Money is just a tool in your hands.""You need permission to dream."Chapters00:00 Empowering Women in Finance02:34 Overcoming Financial Barriers05:36 The Changing Landscape of Women's Financial Independence08:03 Mindset and Money Management10:52 Building Resilience and Financial Literacy13:52 The Journey of Entrepreneurship16:36 The Importance of Community and Support19:24 Radical Self-Ownership and Financial Decisions22:20 Defining Financial Independence25:01 The Emotional Connection to Money28:05 Navigating Work and Life Changes30:56 The Role of Women in Financial Advisory33:46 Shifting Perspectives on Gratitude and Self-Care36:34 Creating Positive Mindsets39:14 Strategies for Financial Awareness42:13 The Power of Systems in Financial ManagementBe My Guest - Do you have an experience that you would like to share on my YouTube channel? Book now - https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/be-my-guest/Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counsellingSupport the show

Send us a textJoin me as I chat with Annie  @astitchinthesky - we touch on women's rights, abuse, and we were disturbed a few times  once by a cat and then by a wasp! Keywordswomen's rights, activism, personal stories, feminism, motherhood, cultural perspectives, Let Women Speak, historical abuse, community, women's safetyTakeawaysAnnie's journey into activism began with her research on personality disorders.Attending Let Women Speak events helped Annie connect with like-minded individuals.Speaking at events can be empowering and therapeutic for survivors of abuse.Annie's experience with historical abuse shaped her perspective on women's rights.The normalization of women returning to work shortly after childbirth is concerning.Community support is crucial for women navigating motherhood and employment.Cultural differences impact perceptions of gender and safety.The media plays a significant role in shaping public perception of women's issues.Annie believes that activism is essential for the future of women's rights.The importance of sharing personal stories to inspire others and create change.SummaryIn this conversation, Annie Astitchinthesky shares her journey into activism, highlighting her personal experiences with abuse and the importance of speaking out. She discusses the challenges women face in balancing motherhood and employment, the cultural perspectives on gender and safety, and the role of community in supporting women's rights. The conversation also touches on the impact of historical abuse, the normalization of women's issues in media, and the future of women's activism.TitlesEmpowering Voices: Annie's Journey in ActivismFrom Silence to Strength: The Power of Speaking OutSound bites"My story is positive now.""I held the power then.""It's not normal, really, is it?"Chapters00:00 Introduction and Background02:39 Personal Experiences and Activism05:29 Speaking Out: The Sheffield Experience07:53 The Impact of Historical Abuse10:20 Women’s Rights and Societal Expectations13:09 Balancing Work and Family Life15:54 Cultural Reflections and Personal Stories18:28 Confronting Fear and Reporting Abuse21:08 The Importance of Speaking Up24:03 Reflections on Race and Community26:37 Denial and the Complexity of Abuse30:14 Facing the Courtroom: A Personal Journey32:49 Empowering Women: Let Women Speak Events36:37 The Impact of Activism: Voices of Change41:20 Navigating Controversy: Gender and Rights Discussions45:42 Historical Inquiries: Addressing Past InjusticesBe My Guest - Do you have an experience that you would like to share on my YouTube channel? Book now - https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/be-my-guest/Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counsellingSupport the show

Send us a text Keywordsstep-parenting, personal development, family dynamics, conflict resolution, communication, household responsibilities, leisure time, boundaries, self-discovery, blended familiesSummaryIn this conversation, Amy Stone discusses her experiences as a step-parent and the challenges that come with blending families. She emphasizes the importance of communication, setting boundaries, and recognizing the unique dynamics within families. Amy also shares insights on personal development and the need for self-discovery amidst the demands of family life. The discussion covers various topics, including conflict resolution, household responsibilities, and the significance of creating a supportive community for personal growth.TakeawaysStep-parenting can be an intense transition with unique challenges.Understanding family dynamics is crucial for building relationships.Communication is key in navigating blended family situations.Setting boundaries helps manage expectations within the family.Conflict resolution skills are essential for maintaining harmony.Recognizing manipulative behaviours can improve family interactions.Leisure time can be unevenly distributed among parents and caregivers.The division of domestic labour often leads to conflict in families.Meal times can be a source of tension in blended families.Self-discovery is important for personal fulfilment and family balance.TitlesNavigating the Complexities of Step-ParentingBuilding Relationships in Blended FamiliesSound bites"Living with people is hard""I want to build a community""It's a huge amount of work"Chapters00:00 Introduction to Step-Parenting Challenges02:49 The Unique Dynamics of Blended Families05:40 Navigating Relationships in Blended Families08:28 Building a Community for Personal Development11:15 Conflict Resolution and Communication13:55 Household Dynamics and Shared Responsibilities16:41 Meal Times and Family Traditions23:57 Navigating Domestic Responsibilities27:48 The Division of Labor in Families30:25 Addressing Manipulative Behaviors35:02 The Leisure Gap in Parenting39:52 Rediscovering Personal Identity44:29 The Importance of Family NeedsBe My Guest - Do you have an experience that you would like to share on my YouTube channel? Book now - https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/be-my-guest/Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counselling Support the show

Send us a textJoin me as I talk to my husband, Ian Dougall about the state of the world and how we can use history to predict what might happen next.keywordshistory, Roman Empire, capitalism, immigration, media, virtue signalling, racism, women's rights, open discussion, trust in institutionssummaryIn this conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall and Ianardo delve into the significance of history in understanding contemporary issues, drawing parallels between the fall of the Roman Empire and modern societal challenges. They discuss the impact of mass immigration, the benefits of capitalism, and the role of media in shaping public perception. The conversation also touches on the importance of open dialogue, the erosion of trust in institutions, and the complexities surrounding racism and intersectionality. Ultimately, they emphasize the need for critical thinking and the evaluation of truth in an age of information saturation.takeawaysHistory provides patterns that help us understand the present.The fall of the Roman Empire offers valuable lessons for today.Media saturation can lead to virtue signalling rather than action.Capitalism has improved living standards compared to other systems.Mass immigration poses challenges to societal cohesion.Cultural integration is essential for a stable society.Racism is often based on superficial categorizations.Open discussion is crucial for addressing societal issues.Trust in institutions is eroding due to perceived failures.Critical thinking is necessary to navigate information overload.titlesHistory's Lessons for Today's SocietyThe Roman Empire: A Mirror for Modern TimesSound Bites"The increasing signs of degeneracy.""Businesses are there to make a profit.""We need to talk more, not less."Chapters00:00Exploring Historical Relevance03:18The Distortion of History06:03Parallels with the Fall of the Roman Empire09:18Degeneracy in Modern Society12:11The Role of Media and Symbolism15:09The Critique of Capitalism18:13Immigration and Its Impacts21:10Cultural Integration vs. Multiculturalism23:58Racism and Intersectionality26:58Islam and Societal Fears38:54The Impact of Violence and Fear in Society40:14The Dangers of Suppressing Open Discussion41:53Statistics and Misrepresentation in Crime Reporting45:34Trust Erosion in Institutions48:21The Role of Experience in Governance50:22Challenges in the Judicial System for Women54:16The Influence of Lies and Disinformation57:37Questioning the Media and Its Reliability01:04:30Support the show

Send us a textSummaryDarian, a landlord in Pittsburgh, shares her tumultuous experience with her neighbours, which escalated into a legal battle involving harassment charges and a crowdfunding campaign to support her appeal. The conversation delves into the complexities of neighbourhood conflicts, First Amendment rights, and the challenges of navigating the legal system while dealing with personal and financial stress.TakeawaysDarian has been a landlord in Pittsburgh for 17 years.She faced harassment charges after a sign war with her neighbours.The conflict began over differing views on trans rights.Darian claims her neighbours initiated the sign war.She incurred significant financial losses due to the conflict.Darian had a pending lawsuit against local police officers.The harassment charge was ultimately dropped after a year.Darian is crowdfunding to appeal her case.She believes her First Amendment rights were violated.The situation has caused her immense stress and financial strain.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Darian's Story02:32 The Sign War Begins04:47 Escalation of Conflict with Neighbours07:33 Legal Troubles and Police Involvement09:52 The Impact of Harassment Charges12:00 The Crowdfunding Journey14:40 The Appeal Process and Legal Challenges17:02 Reflections on the Experience19:24 Conclusion and Call to ActionKeywordslandlord, harassment, First Amendment, crowdfunding, legal battle, neighbourhood conflict, trans rights, community issues, social media, activismBe My Guest - Do you have an experience that you would like to share on my YouTube channel? Book now - https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/be-my-guest/Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counsellingSupport the show

Send us a textSummaryJoBeth Polley shares her profound journey through grief after losing her husband to glioblastoma. She discusses her struggles with infertility, the challenges of navigating life as a widow, and the steps she took to rebuild her life. JoBeth emphasizes the importance of self-care, community support, and the role of faith in her healing process. She also shares her experience of remarriage and the lessons learned about love and partnership after loss. JoBeth now works as a grief coach, helping others navigate their own journeys of healing.TakeawaysJoBeth emphasizes the importance of community support during grief.She believes in the power of self-care and intentional healing.JoBeth's faith played a crucial role in her recovery process.She learned to embrace her grief rather than avoid it.Finding joy again is possible, even after deep loss.JoBeth highlights the importance of life insurance for financial security.She encourages others to ask for help when needed.JoBeth made a list of non-negotiables for her next relationship.She shares the empowering experience of learning new skills post-loss.JoBeth's journey illustrates that love can be found again after loss.Keywordsgrief, healing, loss, remarriage, community support, self-care, empowerment, life insurance, mental health, adoptionSound bites"I wanted to be somebody who thrived.""I had to learn how to drive a tractor.""I didn't want to ask for help."Chapters00:00 Introduction and Personal Journey02:32 Navigating Grief and Loss05:20 Rebuilding Life After Loss07:54 Intentional Healing and Self-Care10:48 Facing Fears and Gaining Independence13:21 Empowerment Through New Skills15:37 Finding Community Support18:14 Reflections on Grief and Moving Forward28:23 Navigating Gun Culture and Personal Safety30:38 Team Dynamics in Relationships32:33 The Importance of Asking for Help35:06 Financial Planning and Life Insurance38:12 Coping with Illness and Decision-Making40:00 Unexpected Paths to New Relationships47:17 Grief, Love, and Moving Forward50:39 Supporting Others Through GriefBe My Guest - Do you have an experience that you would like to share on my YouTube channel? Book now - https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/be-my-guest/Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/counsellingSupport the show

Send us a textLink to a tweet made by billboard Chris - https://x.com/BillboardChris/status/1703129361770303717?t=DCpfZ4PKTT46g2gDw8TXcg&s=19A blog by Canadian Rad Fems about what happened to Tatiana - https://radfems.blogspot.com/with pictures of her bruising and the man who did this to her. SummaryIn this conversation, Tatiana shares her journey from being an artist on Vancouver Island to becoming an activist focused on issues surrounding abuse, cults, and the trans movement. She discusses her personal experiences, including an assault incident at a rally, her courtroom experience, and the challenges of navigating societal perceptions and justice. The conversation highlights the importance of community, the impact of social media, and the need for activism in addressing these pressing issues.TakeawaysTatiana is an artist living on Vancouver Island.Her interest in trans issues stems from personal experiences with abuse.She became aware of the complexities surrounding the trans movement through online education.Rallies and protests have shown her the stark divide in public opinion.The assault incident she experienced at a rally was a pivotal moment in her activism.Her courtroom experience revealed the challenges of seeking justice.She emphasizes the importance of community and support among women.Social media plays a significant role in shaping public perception.Tatiana aims to collect stories and evidence of harm related to trans issues.She believes in the need for a more compassionate and just society. KeywordsTatiana, trans issues, abuse, cults, activism, Vancouver Island, court experience, social media, community, justiceSound bites"I just love making art.""It's very rural, actually.""I got really interested in cults."Chapters00:00 Introduction to Tatiana02:37 Journey into Understanding Abuse and Cults05:21 Experiences with Trans Issues and Personal Encounters08:04 The Impact of Online Education and Activism10:39 Rally Experiences and Observations13:14 The Assault Incident and Its Aftermath16:04 Courtroom Experience and Legal Proceedings18:38 Reflections on Society and Justice21:12 The Role of Social Media and Public Perception23:43 Personal Growth and Community Building26:23 Concluding Thoughts on Activism and Future GoalsBe My Guest - Do you have an experience that you would like to share on my YouTube channel? Book now - https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/be-my-guest/Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - https://unisus.org.uk/wellbeing/counselling/Support the show

Send us a textsummaryIn this conversation, Kelly Oliver Dougall and Julie Dee discuss their experiences during the lockdowns, the impact of social media, and the challenges of navigating personal beliefs in a polarized society. They explore the complexities of gender identity, the influence of media and culture, and the importance of open dialogue in addressing women's rights and feminist issues. The discussion highlights the need for compassion and understanding while advocating for truth and free expression.takeawaysSocial media became a vital platform for expressing dissent during lockdowns.Cancel culture has significant repercussions for individuals speaking out.It's crucial to maintain open dialogue about differing opinions.Gender identity discussions are reshaping societal norms and expectations.Political activism can stem from personal experiences and community engagement.The media plays a powerful role in shaping perceptions of gender and identity.Women’s rights are increasingly challenged in the context of gender ideology.Compassionate discourse is essential in navigating complex social issues.Personal beliefs should be expressed without fear of backlash.Understanding different perspectives can lead to more productive conversations.titlesNavigating the New Normal: Social Media and LockdownsThe Power of Voice: Speaking Out in a Cancel CultureSound Bites"I knew something was off from day one.""We need to build bridges, not walls.""We must be in tune with who we are."Chapters00:00Introduction and Background02:50The Impact of Social Media During Lockdowns05:27Cancel Culture and Its Effects08:13Navigating Personal Beliefs and Public Discourse11:02The Role of Gender Identity in Society13:41The Intersection of Feminism and Gender Ideology16:13Political Activism and Community Engagement19:00The Challenges of Speaking Out21:32The Importance of Open Dialogue24:22Personal Experiences with Gender Discussions27:12The Influence of Media and Culture29:58Conversations Around Women's Rights32:37The Future of Gender Discussions35:20Conclusion and Final Thoughtskeywordssocial media, cancel culture, gender identity, feminism, political activism, open dialogue, women's rights, community engagement, personal beliefs, media influenceBe My Guest - Do you have an experience that you would like to share on my YouTube channel? Book now - https://kellyoliverdougall.co.uk/be-my-guest/Work with me - If you have an experience that you would like some help with, I am a counsellor and I would love to support you. You can book a free no obligation consultation here - https://unisus.org.uk/wellbeing/counselling/Support the show