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Struggling to hold boundaries isn’t a weakness— it’s a strategy your system learned to keep you safe.But when your identity is built around being the one who “has it handled,” saying no doesn’t feel like a choice: it feels like a threat.Ready to stop performing and start living a life that actually feels like yours? Join Get Fucking Free.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

If you’re burned out and doing everything alone, this might be why.Inside the trap of people-pleasing and self-sufficiency: the very strategies you use to stay connected are the ones that push people away.Ready to feel supported instead of responsible for everything? Join Get Fucking Free.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

Your self-sufficiency isn’t strength. It’s a safety strategy that’s quietly shrinking your life.In this episode, Rosa explores the hidden cost of being the one who “has it handled”—how avoiding your own needs cuts you off from connection, support, and better solutions than you could ever create alone.If you’re tired of doing everything alone, this is exactly the work we do inside Get Fucking Free—where you learn to feel safe having needs, taking up space, and letting life support you.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

If pleasure and responsibility feel like opposites in your life, something’s off.A lot of what we call “being responsible” is actually self-abandonment with good PR.In this episode, we look at how overriding your needs gets rewarded—and why it’s costing you more than you think.Because pleasure isn’t what happens after your life is handled -- It’s how your life gets handled—and that’s exactly what we build inside Get Fucking Free.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

Your problem isn’t that you’re not playful—it’s that you think being serious is what makes you legitimate.And that identity is killing your capacity for pleasure.In this episode, we break down why play isn’t optional—it’s what makes a good-feeling life sustainable.If you’re ready to loosen the identity, come join us in Get Fucking Free.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

And if you need to escape it to feel good, that’s not pleasure—that’s numbing.In this episode, we break down how “feeling good” becomes a strategy for not telling the truth.Because the doorway to a better-feeling life often starts with discomfort.If you’re ready to stop circling and actually move, come join us in Get Fucking Free.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

If it feels good now but screws you later… that’s not pleasure. It’s relief.Pleasure isn’t about what’s easiest in the moment—it’s about who you are on the other side.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

Missing the mark isn’t the problem.Ghosting or abusing yourself afterward is.In this episode, I explore the pattern and offer a path to a more trust-building way to show up for yourself.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

You don’t quit because you lack discipline.You quit because it’s not yours.In this episode, we explore why “should” creates resistance—and what actually makes you stay.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

You might think the goal is to make hard things easier.But what if that’s not the move?In this episode, Rosa explores why doing hard things feels so uncomfortable—and the subtle shift that can change your experience of it completely.If you’ve ever found yourself resisting growth you actually want… this one is for you.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

You know what to do… so why do you keep doing the opposite?In this episode, we look at the real reason awareness isn’t enough to create change—and why trying to fix your behavior keeps you stuck in the same patterns.If you’re ready to stop repeating the same patterns and start showing up like the person you know you could be—this is the work I do with my clients in 1:1 coaching.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

You think guilt is what keeps you good.But what if it’s actually the thing keeping you stuck?In this episode, I share a moment where I hurt someone—and the decade it took to fully see it. Not to punish myself, but to understand what actually happened underneath it.Because self-trust isn’t built by getting everything right. It’s built by becoming someone who can stay with themselves—even when it’s messy.If you’re ready to stop holding yourself hostage and start showing up like the person you want to be—someone you can actually trust—I offer 1:1 coaching to help you build that from the inside out.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

Feeling good is a guidance system—but only if you can stay with yourself long enough to follow it.In this episode, we explore what it actually looks like to stay present with your experience instead of distracting, avoiding, or overriding it.Because self-trust isn’t built by getting it right; it’s built by not abandoning yourself when it’s hard.Join the Self Trust Reset to bring this shift into your life in real time.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

Feeling good doesn’t mean avoiding hard emotions.This episode explores why what we call “feeling bad” is often less about the emotion itself—and more about the story we attach to it.Real self-trust isn’t built by avoiding discomfort— it’s built by staying with yourself through all of it.Join the Self Trust Reset to go deeper.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

If feeling good is a signal… why don’t you follow it?This episode explores why you keep choosing things that make you feel worse—and why it’s not a discipline problem.And how to start working with yourself instead of against yourself.This is the shift that builds real self-trust.Join the Self Trust Reset to go deeper.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

There was a time when you liked yourself.Before the shaping that taught you it wasn’t safe to be fully you.This episode explores: The real role of shame (and why it’s not what you think)  How your nervous system signals alignment through feeling good  And how to start building a life where you don’t have to abandon yourself to belong Stop fighting yourself— and start following what feels true.Join the Self Trust Reset to go deeper.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

The moment you stop overriding yourself everything starts to change.This episode explores how one small decision shifted how I lead myself, relate to others, and experience freedom in real time.For those who are done abandoning yourself to be liked, this is the work we’re doing inside the Self Trust Reset.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

Self-trust is built every moment you pause instead of pushing through.This episode shows you what that looks like and how to start.Join me for the 5-day Self-Trust Reset starting April 27.Email me at [email protected] to explore coaching or other partnerships.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

You can see the pattern… and still find yourself doing it.In this episode, I explore why awareness alone doesn’t change self-abandonment and what actually does begin to shift it.Stick around! We’re getting to the part where this starts to change.And here's a link to the Delete Your Defaults episode I mentioned!I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

This episode explores how self-abandonment is often an attempt to stay safe— and why it makes so much sense that these patterns show up everywhere.Stay with me this week.We’re going to start rebuilding self-trust from the ground up.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

Most people think they struggle with discipline.But what if the real pattern is this: You’re leaving yourself right when something starts to matter.In this episode, I share what “ghosting yourself” actually looks like— and the moment where self-trust quietly breaks.I’ll be sharing more this week about self-trust— and how we start to rebuild it in real, everyday moments.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

Something starts to change when you stop accommodating yourself—and start letting yourself care. In this episode, I share what I’m noticing shift in real time as I stay with discomfort, lean into tenderness, and create from a more honest place.Get Free is open. Questions or 1:1 inquiries can be sent to [email protected] always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

The pattern doesn’t break in big decisions—it breaks in tiny moments. This episode explores what it feels like to catch yourself right before you adjust, soften, or override your truth—and what happens when you don’t.Get Free is open. If you’re ready to stop overriding yourself and start living in alignment, you can learn more in the show notes.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

What if the real pattern isn’t perfectionism—but shape-shifting to keep others comfortable? A real-time look at how this shows up, and where to start seeing it in yourself.CTA: Get Free is open. If you feel the pull, you know where to find me.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

What if following your truth becomes another way to push yourself? This episode explores how real self-trust is built through relationship, not force—and why sustainability requires enjoyment, flexibility, and care. You don’t have to override yourself to grow—you get to bring yourself with you.This is the work of becoming someone who trusts themselves—consistently, sustainably, and with care. If that’s what you’re ready for, explore Get Free or email me at [email protected] always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

What if the loudest voice in your head isn’t your truth? This episode explores the moment where fear and inner knowing arise together, how conditioning misinterprets that activation as danger, and why self-trust is built through practice—not perfection. The edge isn’t something to avoid—it’s how you learn what’s true.If this conversation is stirring something in you, this is the kind of work I support people with in one-on-one coaching — learning how to meet yourself differently in these moments so your life can open instead of contract.You can email me directly at [email protected] if you want to explore working together.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

Freedom doesn’t just feel expansive—it often feels edgy, uncomfortable, and a little like “oh shit.” This episode explores why that clench in your body is actually a doorway, how control strategies keep you stuck, and how to start choosing yourself in small, sustainable ways that build real freedom over time.If you want to deepen this practice, join April’s Full Moon Visioning Ritual and connect with the version of you who already knows how to live this way.You can email me directly at [email protected] to explore working together.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

What if the version of you that “fits” isn’t actually who you are—but who you learned to be? This episode explores the invisible contract you never signed (but still live by), how it shows up as hesitation and self-doubt in your body, and how breaking it—moment by moment—is how you reclaim your magic. Freedom doesn’t come from getting it right—it comes from choosing what’s true, even when it feels edgy.If this conversation is stirring something in you, this is the kind of work I support people with in one-on-one coaching — learning how to meet yourself differently in these moments so your life can open instead of contract.You can email me directly at [email protected] if you want to explore working together.And if you want a place to experience this work in community,you’re warmly invited to join the upcoming free, donation-based Full Moon visioning ritual.It’s a space to reconnect with what’s possible for you— and begin closing the gap between where you are and where you want to be.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

“Follow the fun” can liberate you—or quietly derail you. This episode gets precise about the difference between nourishing delight and numbing escape, meaningful responsibility and empty obligation—and how to weave them together into a way of living that actually works. If this exploration is speaking to you, this is the kind of work I support people with in one-on-one coaching — learning how to meet yourself differently in these moments so your life can open instead of contract.You can email me directly at [email protected] if you want to explore working together.And if you want a place to experience this work in community,you’re warmly invited to join the upcoming free, donation-based Full Moon visioning ritual.It’s a space to reconnect with what’s possible for you— and begin closing the gap between where you are and where you want to be.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

What if delight isn’t a distraction—but a way of relating to life that changes everything? This episode explores how both denial-based delight and rigid responsibility keep us stuck, and how weaving aliveness into how we meet each moment becomes a powerful act of disruption. When you shift your allegiance from obligation to aliveness, you don’t just feel different—you begin to live and lead in an entirely new way.If this conversation is stirring something in you, this is the kind of work I support people with in one-on-one coaching — learning how to meet yourself differently in these moments so your life can open instead of contract.You can email me directly at [email protected] to explore working together.And if you want a place to experience this work in community,you’re warmly invited to join the upcoming free, donation-based Full Moon visioning ritual.It’s a space to reconnect with what’s possible for you— and begin closing the gap between where you are and where you want to be.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

Why does choosing what feels good so often come with a wave of guilt? This episode explores the “guilt threshold”—the moment where joy and aliveness collide with conditioning around duty, productivity, and worth. When you learn to stay with yourself in that moment instead of immediately overriding it, you unlock a powerful pathway to freedom, self-trust, and a more alive way of living.If this conversation is stirring something in you, this is the kind of work I support people with in one-on-one coaching — learning how to meet yourself differently in these moments so your life can open instead of contract.You can email me directly at [email protected] if you want to explore working together.And if you want a place to experience this work in community,you’re warmly invited to join the upcoming free, donation-based Full Moon visioning ritual.It’s a space to reconnect with what’s possible for you— and begin closing the gap between where you are and where you want to be.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

What if what feels fun, light, or alive isn’t a distraction—but a form of guidance? This episode deepens yesterday's theme of how we’ve been conditioned to equate heaviness with importance, and opens the door to how reconnecting with joy and aliveness can transform not just how we feel, but how we move through effort and purpose. When we begin to trust what lights us up, we don’t just change our own lives—we become harder to control and more powerful in shaping a world rooted in connection, creativity, and collective thriving.If this conversation is stirring something in you, this is the kind of work I support people with in one-on-one coaching — learning how to meet yourself differently in these moments so your life can open instead of contract.You can email me directly at [email protected] if you want to explore working together.And if you want a place to experience this work in community, you’re warmly invited to join the upcoming free, donation-based Full Moon visioning ritual.It’s a space to reconnect with what’s possible for you— and begin closing the gap between where you are and where you want to be.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

What if the heaviness in your life isn’t a sign that it matters—but a sign of conditioning? This episode explores how we often learn to equate seriousness with worth, building lives that look right but don’t feel good to live. By naming this pattern, we begin to question it—and open the door to something more alive.Email me at [email protected] with questions or for 1:1 coaching opportunities.Join April's free Full Moon visioning ritual by registering here.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

Why do we avoid the very things we say we want? This episode explores how the resistance you feel at the edge of change isn’t a sign to stop—it’s your nervous system encountering the unfamiliar. When we learn to meet that edge with curiosity and compassion, it becomes a doorway to greater freedom, aliveness, and possibility—not just for ourselves, but for the world we’re creating together.Email me at [email protected] with questions or for 1:1 coaching opportunities.Join April's free Full Moon visioning ritual by registering here.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

What if the rules shaping your life aren’t as fixed as they seem? This episode explores how invisible constraints—ideas about what’s “responsible,” “realistic,” or expected—can keep us feeling stuck, even in lives we’ve carefully built. By asking liberating questions, we begin to see beyond those walls and open the door to new choices, new paths, and new ways of living.Email me at [email protected] with questions or for 1:1 coaching opportunities.Join April's free Full Moon visioning ritual by registering here.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

What if feeling trapped in your life isn’t a personal failure, but a sign that something deeper is ready to change? We explore how we’re taught to take individual responsibility for collective problems—and how that keeps us stuck in cycles of self-blame. By shifting into curiosity and asking a new question—what more is possible?—we open the door to greater freedom, creativity, and alignment.Email me at [email protected] with questions or for 1:1 coaching opportunities.Join April's free Full Moon visioning ritual by registering here.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

It's not an accident that we aren't taught the skills of healthy conflict or repair after rupture. Developing these skills is always available, though, and embodying them means embodying possibility and the pathway to the New Earth.Email me at [email protected] with questions or for 1:1 coaching opportunities.Join April's free Full Moon visioning ritual by registering here.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

In conflict, the mind often rushes toward certainty — deciding who’s right and who’s wrong. But that certainty can actually block the curiosity and openness that make repair possible. In this episode, I explore why the mind would rather be right than happy, and how learning to tolerate uncertainty can open the door to deeper connection and repair.Get more information about Wild Seed here.Email me at [email protected] with questions or for 1:1 coaching opportunities.Join April's free Full Moon visioning ritual by registering here.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

Blame can feel so good, while blocking us from our creative aliveness.Register for April's free Full Moon Visioning Circle here.Email me at [email protected] for 1:1 coaching opportunities.Download this free Creative Power Activation.Or download a guided Tonglen or Emotional Inquiry meditation from my website.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

Blame is tempting but it separates you from your power and agency. Today's episode offers a new perspective and an experiment to shift your relationship to your personal power and possibility.Join Witch Church to practice embodying self love in community!Email me at [email protected] for 1:1 coaching opportunities.Download this free Creative Power Activation.Or download a guided Tonglen or Emotional Inquiry meditation from my website.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

What if it's all no big deal? Today's theme gives a big hat tip to Reverend angel Kyodo williams, who created the no big deal sit. If you'd like to practice in Rev's space, the upcoming half-day sit on March 28 is a great opportunity.Email me at [email protected] for 1:1 coaching opportunities.Join Witch Church to invest in embodied transformation through self love.Download this free Creative Power Activation.Or download a guided Tonglen or Emotional Inquiry meditation from my website.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

Playfulness is aliveness and it's a valuable energy for these times. It breaks up stuck patterns and opens the doors to possibility. Playfulness is self love.Email me at [email protected] for 1:1 coaching opportunities.Join Witch Church to invest in embodied transformation through self love.Download this free Creative Power Activation.Or download a guided Tonglen or Emotional Inquiry meditation from my website.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

Our social conditioning trains us to conflate duty and responsibility, and this is what leads to an enormous amount of self-sabotage and burnout. Today, we explore this theme and how to shift it.Email me at [email protected] for 1:1 coaching opportunities.Join Witch Church to invest in embodied transformation through self love.Download this free Creative Power Activation.Or download a guided Tonglen or Emotional Inquiry meditation from my website.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

In a society that trains us to blame everyone else, we fall into default disempowerment. Loving ourselves means owning our power and agency. Email me at [email protected] for 1:1 coaching opportunities.Join Witch Church to invest in embodied transformation through self love.Download this free Creative Power Activation.Or download a guided Tonglen or Emotional Inquiry meditation from my website.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

What if loving yourself means letting go of identifying with your personality so you can allow yourself to change and grow?Email me at [email protected] for 1:1 coaching opportunities.Join Witch Church to invest in embodied transformation through self love.Download this free Creative Power Activation.Or download a guided Tonglen or Emotional Inquiry meditation from my website.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

Choosing yourself. It sounds easy, but it's actually a real challenge for a nervous system trained to create safety through being impressive and accommodating those around us.Email me at [email protected] for 1:1 coaching opportunities.Download this free Creative Power Activation.Or download a guided Tonglen or Emotional Inquiry meditation from my website.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

Real embodied self love is disruptive of any pattern than harms you. Today's episode explores this theme.Email me at [email protected] for 1:1 coaching opportunities.Download this free Creative Power Activation.Or download a guided Tonglen or Emotional Inquiry meditation from my website.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

Fear is a cage we keep ourselves in. Break free from fear so you can find out who you really are.Join Witch Church to practice embodying self love in community!Email me at [email protected] for 1:1 coaching opportunities.Download this free Creative Power Activation.Or download a guided Tonglen or Emotional Inquiry meditation from my website.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

Kicking off a series of episodes on developing inclusive self love so you can do right by yourself and your whole life.Join Witch Church to practice embodying self love in community!Email me at [email protected] for 1:1 coaching opportunities.Download this free Creative Power Activation.Or download a guided Tonglen or Emotional Inquiry meditation from my website.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique

Our bodies are indicators of the unsustainability of our current ways as much as the environmental crises we see all around us. Today's episode shares a practice to embody change right where you are.Join Witch Church to practice embodying change in community as March is Body Month.Email me at [email protected] for 1:1 coaching opportunities.Download this free Creative Power Activation.Or download a guided Tonglen or Emotional Inquiry meditation from my website.I always love hearing from you -- send me a text!Support the showEmail me at [email protected] to explore 1:1 and other partnerships.You can find me on TikTok and IG: @therosatechnique