Phoenix Rising With Dr Z: Conversations About Grief and Loss

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Phoenix Rising With Dr Z: Conversations About Grief and Loss

In life. we so often avoid the experience of grief, and that avoidance makes it hard to talk about in our everyday lives. Yet it is a natural and almost universal experience- one that is complex and personal.In this podcast, we will be deconstructing and zooming in on the component parts of grief, and talking about the different ways we can process and heal through loss. About Your HostDr Christina Zampitella- is a Dr of Clinical Psychology and a Fellow of Thanatology, with the Association for Death Education and Counseling and the founder of the Center For Grief and Trauma Therapy in Wilmington Delaware.

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    0066: Linking Objects in Grief: Finding Comfort and Continued Bonds with Mimi Rayl (Part 2)

    Linking Objects in Grief: What to Keep, What to Let Go & How Memories Live On | Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z   Dr. Christina Zampitella hosts a conversation on “linking objects” and how personal items can comfort or overwhelm after loss. The guest shares that individual objects usually evoke positive memories, but the sheer volume of an estate can create resentment, burden, and anger—especially when handling a parent’s possessions alone and under time pressure. Dr. Z describes clearing her parents’ home after two deaths close together, the pain of choosing what to keep, and the distress of an insensitive estate-sale experience. They discuss how attachment to items can change over time, how to differentiate what mattered to the deceased versus what matters to the survivor, and how donating can be meaningful when intentional. They note linking objects should feel grounding and comforting, and that people, shared stories, and personal “imprints” can also serve as powerful links.   00:00 Welcome to Phoenix Rising 00:30 Do Objects Trigger Pain 01:36 Overwhelmed by the Estate 03:30 Dr Z Estate Sale Story 09:13 Keeping Rooms Intact 12:32 Which Items Truly Link 13:40 Mom’s Books and Connection 14:51 Jack’s Shoes and Timing 17:33 Dad’s Furniture Expectations 20:49 Defining Linking Objects 24:33 Beyond Things People Imprints 25:43 Closing Thanks and Callouts

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    0066: Linking Objects in Grief: Finding Comfort and Continued Bonds with Mimi Rayl (Part 1)

    Linking Objects in Grief: Finding Comfort and Continued Bonds with Mimi Rayl | Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z   Dr. Christina Zampitella hosts Mimi Rayl on Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z to explain “linking objects,” physical items that help maintain a healthy continued bond with someone who has died while allowing a person to move forward rather than “move on.” Mimi shares losses including her partner Jack (died in 2020 during COVID), her father (complications of dementia), her mother (2002), and other close losses, and describes how specific items anchor and comfort her: a painted portrait of Jack near a shared chair, a stuffed bear gifted by Jack that provides tactile comfort, and jewelry tied to shared experiences. She also shows Inuit bear sculptures connected to her father and a crystal cat linked to her mother, noting these artifacts reconnect her to positive memories and reduce loneliness and feeling unmoored.   00:00 Welcome to Phoenix Rising 01:17 Meet Mimi Rayl 02:47 What Are Linking Objects 05:17 Jack and the Home 06:13 Portrait That Keeps Him Close 08:29 Bear the Comfort Anchor 12:06 Jewelry as Connection 15:57 How Linking Objects Help Grief 18:12 Moving Forward Not Moving On 25:53 Dad Bear and Inuit Carvings 28:41 Mom Sadie and Reconnection 30:31 Artifacts and Mixed Emotions

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    0065: Supporting Student Athletes After Suicide Loss with Chris Warren (Part 2)

    Supporting Student Athletes After Suicide Loss with Chris Warren (Part 2)   In this episode of Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, Dr. Christina Zampitella continues her conversation with Chris Warren, exploring the ongoing impact of losing student athletes to suicide. This part of the conversation focuses on what happens after the initial loss and how grief is processed in groups, the role of community in healing, and the lasting effects of navigating tragedy both within and outside of that support system. Chris shares his experience of losing a second student athlete while being physically removed from his team, highlighting the isolation, guilt, and coping challenges that followed. Together, they discuss the importance of connection, the impact of stigma, and why avoiding conversations about suicide can make healing more difficult. This episode also explores: The role of group support in traumatic grief The impact of stigma and silence around suicide The difference between grieving with support vs. alone And the importance of self-care for those in helping roles     ************ If you or someone you know is struggling with thoughts of suicide, you are not alone. Support is available. You can call or text 988 in the United States to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org for chat support. If you are outside the U.S., please reach out to local emergency services or a trusted support resource in your area.   Timestamps 00:00 – Introduction  00:45 – Group Grief and Shared Experience  02:00 – The Power of “Me Too” in Healing  03:15 – Team Dynamics and Collective Grief  04:30 – How Students Supported Each Other  05:30 – School Response and Gaps in Support  06:45 – Memorialization and Controversy  08:00 – Stigma and Fear Around Suicide  09:15 – Changes After a Second Loss  10:30 – Losing a Second Student Athlete  11:45 – Grieving Without a Support System  13:00 – Isolation and Distance from the Team  13:45 – Coping Alone and Turning to Numbing  15:00 – The Importance of Community in Grief  16:15 – Guilt and Feeling Like You Left  17:30 – Helping Others While Running on Empty  18:30 – The Challenge of Self-Care in Caretaking Roles  19:45 – When Self-Care Feels Selfish  20:45 – Reconnecting with Personal Identity  22:00 – Finding Regulation and Stability  23:15 – Why Group Support Matters  24:30 – The Impact of Stigma on Healing  25:30 – Why We Avoid Talking About Suicide  26:30 – The Importance of Open Conversations  27:30 – Suicide Prevention and Awareness  28:30 – Final Reflections on Grief and Healing    

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    0065: Supporting Student Athletes After Suicide Loss with Chris Warren (Part 1)

    Supporting Student Athletes After Suicide Loss with Chris Warren (Part 1)   In this episode of Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, Dr. Christina Zampitella sits down with Chris Warren, LPCMH (Licensed Professional Counselor at the Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy) to talk about the loss of student athletes to suicide and the impact of that loss from the perspective of a coach and mentor. Chris shares his experience working closely with two high school athletes who died by suicide, and what it was like to receive that news, support other students through the loss, and navigate his own grief at the same time. This conversation explores the complexity of grief in leadership roles, including: • Supporting adolescents after a peer’s death • The pressure to “hold it together” while grieving • The loss of control that comes with suicide • And the weight of “what if” and “if only” thoughts that can follow This episode offers an honest look at grief, responsibility, and the lasting impact of loss — both personally and professionally.   This is part 1 of a two-part series. Tune in next week for part 2. **********   If you or someone you know is struggling with thoughts of suicide, you are not alone. Support is available. You can call or text 988 in the United States to reach the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, or visit 988lifeline.org for chat support. If you are outside the U.S., please reach out to local emergency services or a trusted support resource in your area. Chapters / Timestamps 00:00 – Introduction 00:40 – Meet Chris Warren 01:30 – Coaching and Mentorship Background 02:30 – First Loss: Gabby’s Story 03:30 – Learning About the Loss 05:30 – Receiving the News 07:00 – Shock, Disbelief, and Emotional Response 08:30 – Immediate Reactions and Coping 10:00 – Problem-Solving Mode vs. Grief 11:30 – Navigating Uncertainty and Lack of Protocol 12:45 – Supporting Student Athletes 13:45 – Creating Space for Grief in a Team Setting 15:00 – The Role of Choice and Autonomy 16:30 – Coaching Skills in Crisis 18:00 – Individual vs. Group Grief 19:30 – Identity and Loss in Adolescence 21:00 – Impact on Teammates 22:30 – Difficulty Talking About Suicide 23:30 – Loss of Control 24:30 – Prior Conversations About Mental Health 25:30 – “I Missed Something” 26:30 – Guilt and Responsibility 27:30 – Navigating “If Only” Thoughts 28:30 – Self-Forgiveness and Reflection 29:30 – Understanding Grief Over Time

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    0064: Becoming a Widow: Kelsey Jagger on Trauma, Faith, and Looking for the Light (Part 2)

    In this episode, Dr. Christina Zampitella continues her conversation with grief coach, author, and widow Kelci Jager. While Part 1 focused on the story of loss, this episode explores what comes after — the reality of living as a widow and navigating life after everything changes. Kelci shares what it has been like to continue forward after her husband’s death, including parenting, rebuilding daily life, and learning how to live with grief rather than trying to move past it. This conversation also dives into how grief evolves over time, why it isn’t linear, and what it actually means to “carry” loss. They also discuss common misconceptions about grief, the difference between grief and depression, and practical ways to process emotions without avoiding them. From learning how to sit with pain to finding moments of connection and meaning, this episode offers a deeper understanding of what healing can look like after profound loss. Learn more about Kelci and Rise With Grief: https://risewithgrief.com/ Purchase a copy of her book: https://www.amazon.com/Million-Miracles-That-Never-Came/dp/1068683848    

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    0064: Becoming a Widow: Kelsey Jagger on Trauma, Faith, and Looking for the Light (Part 1)

    Becoming a Widow: Kelsey Jagger on Trauma, Faith, and Looking for the Light   Dr. Christina Zampitella introduces Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z and interviews grief coach and author Kelci Jager, founder of Rise With Grief, about becoming a widow after her husband Colin died of acute lymphoblastic leukemia in July 2022. Kelci shares a series of traumatic events after moving to Florida, including a 2020 car accident involving her two oldest sons that led to the discovery and successful removal of a benign brain tumor, followed by her husband’s sudden hospitalization and leukemia diagnosis in early 2021 during COVID. She describes severe shock, despair, and a crisis of faith, then shifting to self-compassion and a practice of “looking for the light” while caregiving through 559 days of illness. Kelsey recounts recognizing the end was near, bringing Colin home from the ICU, his peaceful death in her arms, and experiencing both devastation and peace afterward.   00:00 Show Intro 00:33 Meet Kelci Jager 02:04 Life Before Loss 02:52 Boys Crash Discovery 04:49 Tumor Surgery Recovery 06:18 New Year New Crisis 06:38 Leukemia Diagnosis Shock 08:39 Faith Despair Trauma 12:38 Finding Hope Compassion 17:45 Parenting Through Illness 20:30 Kids See The Struggle 22:23 Control What You Can 23:15 Looking for the Light 25:13 Duality Not Positivity 26:02 Colin’s Optimism Practice 28:37 Caregiver Grief in Private 31:53 The Chemo Rollercoaster 33:50 Day 557 Realization 35:00 Beach Break and Knowing 37:46 ICU Validation and Goodbye 38:56 Home for Final Hours 40:10 Relief and Devastation 42:24 Signs of Life After    

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    0063: The Impact of Loss on Couples and Families

    The Impact of Loss on Couples and Families | Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z ft. Perlyn Severe   Dr. Christina Zampitella hosts Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z and welcomes Perlyn Severe, a licensed marriage and family therapist at the Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy with advanced substance abuse certification, to discuss how grief and trauma impact couples and family systems. Sever shares her background and explains how loss can intensify existing relationship patterns, from closeness that becomes insular and ruminative to distance, imbalance, resentment, and conflict, including how codependency and enabling can emerge when substances are involved. They describe signs that outside support may be needed when problems surface through work, children’s behavior, or worsening functioning. The conversation also highlights healthy grieving in families—open communication, flexibility, and tolerance for each other’s pain—and notes differences in grieving styles, including intuitive versus instrumental grieving, and how expanding emotional vocabulary and coping skills can help couples adapt.   00:00 Welcome to Phoenix Rising 00:41 Meet the Guest Therapist 01:33 Why Grief Hits Couples 03:36 Training in Family Therapy 04:35 Family Trauma and Attachment 06:05 Career Shift to Addiction Work 07:41 Personal Path to Grief Work 09:56 How Loss Exposes Patterns 12:11 Cocooning and Rumination 15:01 Secure Team vs Us Against World 15:54 Codependency After Trauma 16:56 Couple Culture and Systems 17:48 What Enabling Provides 18:37 Gendered Protection Patterns 20:26 Grief Creates Imbalance 22:12 Resentment and Distancing 23:30 Healthy Family Grieving 23:57 Flexibility and Tolerance 25:28 Building Resilience in Therapy 27:53 Different Grieving Styles 29:16 Expanding Coping Repertoire

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    0062: Chronic Illness in Limbo: Autoimmune Disease, Lymphoma, and Finding Control (Part 2)

    Healing Through Grief, Trauma & Chronic Illness: Support Systems, Agency, and Finding Meaning | Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z Dr. Christina Zampitella hosts a Phoenix Rising conversation focused on healing from grief, trauma, and chronic or life-threatening illness. The discussion emphasizes the necessity of healthy social support and the harm of “problematic” support that minimizes illness, and suggests alternatives such as therapy, peer support groups (including diagnosis- or loss-specific groups), social workers, and online resources that are often free and more accessible. They describe how peer communities can provide practical patient-to-patient guidance and reduce isolation, and stress advocating for oneself in the medical system by seeking specialists and teaching hospitals, getting second opinions, and finding providers who are trustworthy and able to pivot care. The speakers acknowledge systemic barriers and inequities, including the impact of race, privilege, socioeconomic factors, language, distrust of medical systems, and misogyny in healthcare and research. Personal experiences are shared involving leukemia treatment and maintenance therapy, epilepsy, and multiple sudden losses (a son, father, mother, and a dog), including the trauma and logistical strain of traveling for infusions and caregiving, and the concept of anticipatory grief for caregivers. The conversation explores coping traits like optimism, catastrophizing, and resiliency; the role of information and agency; accommodations and boundaries; identity shifts and secondary losses; and the importance of basics such as sleep, mental health, nutrition, and manageable movement. They also critically examine the concept of post-traumatic growth, cautioning against placing a burden on survivors to find a silver lining or transformation. The episode closes with an invitation for viewer comments and a reminder that challenge can awaken the power to heal. 00:00 Phoenix Rising Intro: Healing Through Grief & Trauma 00:28 Must-Dos vs Wanna-Dos: Making Accommodations for Illness 00:46 The Power (and Pitfalls) of Social Support During Treatment 02:21 When Support Is Missing: Therapy as a Lifeline 03:19 Peer Support That Fits: Finding the Right Grief/Illness Community 06:21 Resources, Online Groups & the Financial Reality of Chronic Illness 07:04 Specialists, Trust & Hard Medical Decisions (Leukemia Care) 07:40 Double Loss While in Treatment: Dad’s Death, Then Mom’s 17:25 Caretakers’ Burden: Partners, Parents & Anticipatory Grief 19:31 Resilience Toolkit: Optimism, Information, Agency & Self-Advocacy 25:40 Hunting for Help: Providers, Social Workers, and Not Taking No 28:45 When to Pivot: Trust Your Gut & Find the Right Doctor 30:04 Privilege, Race, and Access: Who Gets Heard in Healthcare 30:55 Women’s Pain, Misogyny, and the Gender Data Gap in Medicine 33:26 Go to the Specialists: Why Teaching Hospitals Can Change Everything 35:55 The Weird Spotlight of Illness: Attention, Validation, and Need 37:44 Making Meaning & Identity Shifts After Diagnosis and Loss 39:52 Coping Tools: Self-Compassion, Joy, and the “And” Mindset 43:13 The Four Pillars: Sleep, Movement, Food, and Mental Health 45:07 Secondary Losses & Grief Beyond Death (and the Possibility of Growth) 47:12 Challenging “Post-Traumatic Growth”: Pressure, Disenfranchisement, and Change 54:05 Closing Thoughts, Thanks, and How to Join the Conversation

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    0062: Chronic Illness in Limbo: Autoimmune Disease, Lymphoma, and Finding Control (Part 1)

    Chronic Illness in Limbo: Autoimmune Disease, Lymphoma, and Finding Control   Dr. Christina Zampitella hosts Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, a podcast focused on healing through grief and trauma, and introduces an episode on chronic and life-threatening illness featuring guest Annika. Annika shares a broad overview of her medical history, starting with Graves disease diagnosed at 17 after her dentist urged a thyroid check, followed by surgery that helped for 15 years and later radioiodine treatment in graduate school, leaving her without a thyroid and managed on Synthroid. About 20 years later, she developed multiple autoimmune diagnoses, which she lists as Graves disease, Raynaud’s, MGUS (a precursor condition that can precede multiple myeloma), and Sjögren’s disease (described as an attack on moisture-producing organs causing severe dry eyes, no saliva, chronic dehydration, loss of taste and smell, and significant dental problems). She also describes an incidental lung nodule discovered during a COVID-era ER visit for severe gastrointestinal illness and fainting; after seeking second opinions and care at Sloan Kettering, a needle biopsy confirmed low-grade B-cell lymphoma currently managed with watch-and-wait, though a later growth of the nodule shifted concern. Annika discusses the practical and emotional burdens of chronic illness—fatigue, exercise intolerance, unpredictable symptoms, and repeated insurance barriers (including $12,000 scleral lenses for dry eyes). She emphasizes the necessity of self-advocacy, tracking medical information, building a responsive care team, and traveling to specialty centers like Johns Hopkins and Sloan Kettering, while acknowledging the privilege required to do so. Annika describes participating in longitudinal research studies (including NIH and a CP3 cancer study) as empowering and meaningful, tying this to benefit-finding and meaning-making. Dr. Z and Annika explore how chronic illness and traumatic grief both involve loss of control, and how control and advocacy can support later meaning-making. Annika connects her illness experience to prior traumatic loss—the overdose death of her son—and describes waking daily to an unchanging reality of loss, while illness adds uncertainty and limbo. They discuss anger, “why me,” feelings of betrayal by the body, invisible illness, and relationship strain, alongside resilience and coping through pragmatic adaptation, boundaries, and oscillating between emotion and daily responsibilities. The conversation closes on adapting to limitations to preserve quality of life, with examples like modifying exercise and food choices to prevent symptom flares and choking.   00:00 Welcome to Phoenix Rising: Healing Through Grief & Trauma 00:30 Today’s Topic: Chronic & Life-Threatening Illness + Meet Annika 02:02 Annika’s First Diagnosis: Graves Disease at 17 (and the Early Warning Signs) 03:23 Autoimmune Conditions ‘Travel in Clumps’: Listing the Diagnoses 05:40 Daily Impact: Fatigue, Exercise Intolerance, Dry Eyes/Teeth & the Cost of Care 06:24 Becoming Your Own Advocate: Specialists, Travel, and Building a Care Team 07:40 Giving Back Through Research: Clinical Trials, Longitudinal Studies & Meaning-Making 09:52 Control vs. Chaos: Coping with Chronic Illness and the Loss of Control 10:54 Timeline Deep-Dive: Thyroid Surgery, Grad School Stress, and the Long Gap to the Next Diagnosis 14:58 Menopause, Overlapping Symptoms & When ‘Manageable’ Becomes Life-Altering 19:54 COVID-Era ER Visit to Lung Nodules: Second Opinions and a Lymphoma Diagnosis 23:05 Watch-and-Wait to Treatment: Rituximab and the Immune System Trade-Off 24:37 Rituximab’s Uncertainty: Help, Harm, and Infection Risk 25:02 “Why Me?” Anger, Trauma, and Finding Resilience Anyway 27:52 Invisible Illness & Being Misread: Looking “Fine” While Struggling 30:37 Body Betrayal & Life Restrictions: Travel Triggers, Chemo Days, and Self-Compassion 35:20 The Hidden Losses: Losing Taste & Smell—and the Joy of Brief Breakthroughs 39:43 Adapting to Limits: Boundaries, Pragmatism, and Building Quality of Life 43:40 When People Don’t Adapt: Fear Spirals, Closed Worlds, and Choosing Quality of Life

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    0061: Rising from Chronic Illness (Part 2)

    Rising from Chronic Illness In this episode of Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, Dr. Christina Zampitella hosts an in-depth conversation with Samantha about overcoming the challenges of living with Multiple Sclerosis (MS) and other chronic illnesses. The discussion covers their personal experiences, the emotional and physical impacts, as well as navigating the healthcare system and finding the right treatment. Samantha also shares her journey through different phases of her illness, the emotional struggles, and how it has reshaped her life and outlook. This episode provides valuable insights and resources for anyone dealing with chronic illness and highlights the importance of empathy and support.   00:00 Introduction to Phoenix Rising 00:28 Personal Experiences with Medical Diagnosis 02:02 Navigating Treatment Options 02:57 Challenges with Insurance and Healthcare 04:41 Understanding MS and Its Impact 09:30 Coping Mechanisms and Support Systems 15:28 Medication and Lifestyle Adjustments 18:20 Experiencing Intrusive Thoughts and Panic 19:55 Misdiagnosis and Discovery of Migraines 23:37 The Emotional Impact of Chronic Illness 31:00 Grieving and Acceptance 33:48 Living with Intention and Seeking Help 35:07 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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    0061: Rising from Chronic Illness (Part 1)

    Rising from Chronic Illness: Dr. Samantha Sanderson Brown's MS Journey In this episode of Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, host Dr. Christina Za Patella engages in a heartfelt conversation with Dr. Samantha Sanderson Brown. Dr. Samantha shares her personal journey and experiences of being diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis (MS) in 2017. They discuss the early symptoms, the challenges in getting a diagnosis, and how her life has been altered since. Samantha talks about her athletic background, the impact of chronic illness on her daily life, and her professional focus on helping athletes transition from sport using grief theory. This episode offers a deep insight into the silent struggles of chronic illness and the journey towards healing and acceptance. 00:00 Introduction to Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z 00:47 Meet Dr. Samantha Sanderson Brown 01:56 Samantha's Background and Journey 02:47 Living with a Chronic Illness 05:32 Early Symptoms and Initial Diagnosis 14:35 Navigating Life with MS 20:52 Internship at Mount Sinai 22:02 First Symptoms Appear 23:39 Seeking Medical Help 26:19 Misdiagnosis and Frustration 29:53 Comprehensive Testing 34:42 Diagnosis Confirmed

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    0060: Losing A Grandparent (Part 2)

    Losing A Grandparent (Part 2) Navigating Grief and Family Bonds: A Conversation on Loss and Healing In this episode of Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, host Dr. Christina Za Patella sits down to discuss the intricacies of grieving the loss of grandparents and the restorative love within family dynamics. The conversation covers personal stories of grief, the importance of maintaining family bonds, and how to navigate the complexities of mourning in healthy ways. Dr. Z emphasizes the need to give oneself space and grace to grieve while maintaining connections through shared stories and traditions. This heartfelt discussion offers a holistic view on coping with loss and the impact of generational ties.   00:00 Introduction to Phoenix Rising 00:28 Family Dynamics and Caregiving 01:26 Impact of Loss on Family 02:15 Grandparents and Their Legacy 02:52 Coping with Grief and Memories 11:42 Selling the Family Home 14:57 Reflecting on Grandparent Relationships 24:38 Reflecting on Mortality and Loss 25:40 Grandma's Final Moments 27:57 The Role of Food in Family Traditions 33:49 Nurturing Family Relationships 37:36 Dealing with Ambivalent Relationships 41:28 The Importance of Grieving 43:54 Concluding Thoughts and Farewell

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    0060: Losing A Grandparent (Part 1)

    In this two-part episode, Dr. Christina Zampitella sits down with licensed marriage and family therapist Marcus Scarfo for an open and heartfelt conversation about what it’s like to grieve the loss of a grandparent — particularly when that grandparent played a central, stabilizing role in the family. Marcus shares the story of his grandfather’s death and how it quietly unraveled parts of his identity, relationships, and sense of emotional safety. Together, they explore how grief shows up in adult grandchildren, how family systems shift after a loss, and why the death of a grandparent is often underestimated or overlooked. This episode invites reflection on the layers of grief, the importance of rituals, and the subtle ways we search for emotional grounding when we lose someone who once provided it. Chapters 00:00 – Welcome and episode overview  01:02 – Introducing guest: Marcus Scarfo, LMFT  02:25 – What made Marcus’s grandfather so special  04:20 – How grief hit differently as an adult  06:10 – Recognizing secondary losses after death  08:40 – Family roles and dynamics shifting  10:50 – The emotional undercurrent of stability and safety  13:30 – Disenfranchised grief around grandparents  15:00 – The complexity of letting go of family traditions  17:25 – Navigating grief as a therapist  19:00 – How Marcus’s grief impacted his work and relationships  21:12 – Closing reflections and what’s coming in Part 2 💬 Have you ever felt the ripple effects of losing a grandparent?  Share your experience in the comments or tag someone who might relate. 🔔 Subscribe to catch Part 2 next week, where Dr. Z and Marcus go deeper into the healing process, internalized messages around masculinity and grief, and how to keep someone’s legacy alive. #PhoenixRisingPodcast #GriefSupport #GrandparentLoss #FamilyGrief #TherapistPerspective #GriefHealing #MentalHealthAwareness #GriefPodcast #DrZampitella #MarcusScarfo #NewEpisode

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    0059: The Anniversary of My Cancer Diagnosis

    The Anniversary of My Cancer Diagnosis In this deeply personal solo episode, Dr. Christina Zampitella opens up about the emotional weight of the two-year anniversary of her leukemia diagnosis. From lingering fears and disrupted sleep to a powerful reminder that grief and trauma don’t follow a linear timeline, Dr. Z shares how even after healing begins, the body and mind continue to carry echoes of the past. Whether you're a survivor, a caregiver, or someone supporting a loved one through illness, this short but powerful reflection reminds us of the importance of compassion — especially toward ourselves.   CHAPTERS 00:00 – Introduction  00:49 – Remembering the gap in podcast episodes  01:10 – Cancer diagnosis, multiple losses, and memory triggers  02:00 – Signs of emotional and physical distress around the anniversary  03:00 – Lingering fear of symptoms returning  04:00 – Practicing self-compassion and facing mortality  04:52 – Reflection on hair loss, visual comparisons, and milestones  05:45 – Sharing as a way to heal  06:20 – Final thoughts: Navigating anniversaries with honesty and hope   💬 Let’s Talk Has an anniversary ever hit you harder than expected? Do you feel your body remembering even before your mind catches up? Drop your thoughts or questions in the comments — we’d would love to hear from you. #PhoenixRising #CancerAnniversary #GriefSupport #TraumaHealing #Survivorship #MentalHealthAwareness #DrZ #PodcastForHealing #SelfCompassion

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    0058: Unanticipated Loss with Jennifer Levin, FT (Part 2)

    Unanticipated Loss with Jennifer Levin, FT – Part 2 Grieving the unimaginable takes more than time — it takes validation, stabilization, and the space to be fully human. In Part 2 of this deeply moving conversation, Dr. Christina Zampitella continues her discussion with grief and trauma expert Dr. Jennifer Levin, diving into what it really means to navigate unanticipated loss. This episode offers a rare and honest look at: The internal and external experiences of traumatic grief How the body carries the weight of sudden loss What it means to "resource" someone before they’re ready to process How grief shows up in real life — not just theory The dangers of toxic positivity and forced timelines for healing How to find the right kind of therapeutic support for traumatic grief Whether you're grieving or supporting someone who is, this episode is filled with insight, warmth, and clarity.   ⏱️ CHAPTERS: 00:00 – Welcome back & setting the stage  01:10 – Why trauma work doesn’t begin right away  04:50 – Stabilization and building a therapeutic alliance  06:00 – Moving the trauma out of the center of the grief  08:30 – Resourcing clients: what it means and why it matters  12:00 – When your way of grieving makes others uncomfortable  14:45 – The power of group support and shared grief  17:20 – How unanticipated loss can reshape who we are  21:10 – The body keeps the score — even in grief  23:30 – Why avoidance can feel protective (but isn’t sustainable)  25:30 – Oscillation in grief: approach and withdraw  27:00 – Advice for people navigating unanticipated loss  28:30 – The pain of losing a child and the depth of guilt  30:00 – What not to say to someone grieving  32:00 – Finding the right therapist for traumatic grief  35:00 – The need for trauma-informed grief care  36:00 – Dr. Levin’s resources and closing reflections

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    058: Unanticipated Loss with Dr. Jennifer Levin (Part 1)

    Unanticipated Loss with Dr. Jennifer Levin (Part 1): Unanticipated loss can shake the very core of who we are — leaving us not only grieving but questioning, searching, and trying to make sense of the senseless. In this special two-part episode, Dr. Christina Zampitella sits down with Dr. Jennifer Levin, a nationally recognized expert in traumatic grief, to explore what makes these sudden losses so different — and why the healing process often looks unlike anything else. Together, they explore: The distinction between traumatic and non-traumatic grief How rumination and the need for a cohesive narrative impact healing The emotional fallout of ambiguous or unexpected loss Why grief isn't something to "fix" but rather something to companion Whether you’ve experienced a sudden loss or support others who have, this episode offers insight, compassion, and powerful validation for anyone navigating the unthinkable. Part 2 drops next week, so stay tuned! ⏱️ Chapters: 00:00 – Welcome + Intro to Dr. Jennifer Levin  02:00 – How Jennifer got into traumatic grief work  08:30 – The difference between anticipated and unanticipated loss  13:45 – Why sudden loss is uniquely disorienting  18:15 – “Unexpected but not surprising” vs. “sudden and shocking” deaths  23:20 – The emotional and psychological aftermath of traumatic loss  25:00 – Rumination, narrative gaps, and meaning-making  29:30 – The addiction model of grief: Is rumination a form of coping?  32:00 – The long arc of healing and why it takes time

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    057: Chronic Illness and Grief with Angela Dean (Part 2)

    In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, Dr. Christina Zampitella and Angela Dean continue exploring the complex emotional landscape of chronic illness. From rebuilding identity after diagnosis to understanding the nuances of grief in long-term illness, this episode dives deep into what it means to live fully — even when your body won’t cooperate. Whether you're navigating illness yourself or supporting a loved one, this episode offers insight, compassion, and validation for the many ways grief shows up when chronic illness changes everything.   Chapters 0:00 – Intro: Picking up where we left off 1:45 – How relationships shift after illness 6:10 – Parenting while managing chronic illness 9:40 – The grief of changed routines and abilities 12:30 – Fear of being a burden 15:18 – “Who am I now?” – identity grief and self-worth 19:55 – The trauma of medical care and being dismissed 24:12 – Reclaiming agency and reframing the narrative 28:30 – Creating space for both joy and grief 32:00 – Final thoughts and what helps in the hard moments

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    057: Chronic Illness and Grief with Angela Dean (Part 1)

    Description: In this two-part series, Dr. Z sits down with psychologist Dr. Angela Dean for a powerful, candid conversation about chronic illness and its impact on mental health, relationships, identity, and grief. Drawing from their personal and professional experiences, they unpack the uncertainty, systemic barriers, and invisible losses that come with chronic conditions — as well as the deeply emotional work of advocating for yourself (or someone you love) in a complex and often disconnected medical system. Whether you’re living with a chronic illness, supporting someone who is, or working in the healthcare or mental health space, this conversation offers a validating look into the human side of chronic care. Stay tuned for part 2 dropping 11/25. Chapters  0:00 – Welcome & Intro to the Episode  1:25 – Meet Dr. Angela Dean  4:10 – From Set Design to Psychology  7:00 – Why Chronic Illness & Grief Matter  10:00 – Defining Chronic vs. Terminal Illness  12:45 – The Weight of Medical Uncertainty  17:20 – The Grief of Not Knowing  20:45 – Advocacy, Coordination, & the Healthcare Maze  24:30 – The Emotional Toll of Managing Chronic Illness  27:15 – Identity and Illness: “I have” vs. “I am”  33:00 – Shifting Language & Reclaiming Identity  35:30 – Medication Compliance & Psychological Resistance  41:00 – The Cost of Care: Financial Strain & Systemic Barriers  44:15 – Secondary Losses (Relationships, Intimacy, Self-Worth)  51:30 – Wrap Up & What’s Coming in Part 2  Be sure to subscribe and turn on notifications so you never miss a conversation.  If this episode resonates, please leave a review or share with someone who might need it.

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    056: Understanding and Helping Grieving Children with Jacey Ludlam, M.S. (Part 2)

    Understanding and Helping Grieving Children with Jacey Ludlam, M.S. (Part 2) In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, Dr. Christina Zampitella and licensed counselor Jacey Ludlam continue exploring how grief shows up in children — and how caregivers, teachers, and clinicians can recognize the signs, respond with compassion, and support healing over time. From behavioral shifts to developmental impacts, Jacey unpacks how grief manifests across different ages — including misdiagnoses like ADHD, internalized shame, and dissociation. The episode also offers practical insights for caregivers: how to talk to kids about death, what art and play can reveal, and when it’s time to seek professional help. Whether you're a parent, therapist, or someone who supports children, this episode offers grounded, trauma-informed guidance you can use right now.   Chapters: 00:00 – Intro  01:00 – How grief shows up in children’s play, art, and behavior  03:45 – Misdiagnosis: Grief vs. ADHD  07:00 – The role of trauma in overlapping mental health conditions  10:00 – Judgment, shame & guilt in 7–9 year olds  12:00 – Using art to process grief  14:00 – Giving children safe choices when expressing emotions  17:00 – Signs of healing in grieving children  20:00 – Why grief resurfaces across developmental stages  23:00 – 3 key ways to support a grieving child  25:00 – How to answer difficult questions about death  28:00 – Age-appropriate language & metaphors  30:00 – Should kids attend funerals or viewings?  33:00 – The danger of leaving kids in the dark  36:00 – Creative expression & storytelling as tools for healing  38:00 – Why peer groups matter for grieving kids  40:00 – When is professional help necessary?  44:00 – The long-term effects of dissociation  46:00 – What happens when a child’s self-concept breaks down  47:30 – How serious illness changes a child’s understanding of death  49:00 – Closing thoughts & what’s coming next  

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    056: Understanding and Helping Grieving Children (Part 1)

    Understanding and Helping Grieving Children Grief doesn’t skip over children — but it often gets overlooked or misunderstood. In this episode, Dr. Z is joined by childhood bereavement expert Jacey Ludlam, M.S. from the Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy to talk about what grief looks like at different developmental stages, how to spot the signs in children who “seem fine,” and how adults can offer the kind of support that truly helps. Whether you're a parent, caregiver, educator, or clinician, this conversation offers compassionate, practical insights into how to show up for grieving kids — without overwhelming them or shutting them down. Chapters 00:00 – Welcome & Episode Overview  01:48 – How Cindy got into grief work  04:30 – Do children really understand death?  07:02 – Developmental stages of childhood grief  09:45 – Signs of grief in younger kids vs. teens  13:15 – What children often fear but won’t say  15:40 – Why honesty matters (and how to do it right)  19:22 – Common mistakes adults make with grieving children  23:10 – Using rituals and legacy items to support healing  25:55 – Grieving in schools: what teachers should know  29:15 – How to keep the door open for hard conversations  32:40 – When to consider therapy for a grieving child  35:20 – Final thoughts & practical takeaways

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    055: Why NOT The 5 Stages of Grief? with Dr. Rebecca Morse

    Denial. Anger. Bargaining. Depression. Acceptance. These are the “stages of grief”. Does this really describe the whole experience of grief and bereavement? What are some better ways to think about and navigate grief? About Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe, and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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    054: Navigating Traumatic Loss with Dr. Ted Rynearson

    Navigating Traumatic Loss with Dr. Ted Rynearson | Phoenix Rising with Dr. Christina Zampitella   In this episode of Phoenix Rising, Dr. Christina Zampitella dives deep into the themes of grief and trauma with Dr. Ted Rynearson, a retired psychiatrist with extensive experience in sudden unnatural deaths. Dr. Rynearson shares his personal story of loss and the importance of resilience and early support in coping with grief. The conversation touches on the impact of violent deaths, the significance of imagery in processing trauma, and the role of group therapy in healing. Dr. Z and Dr. Rynearson also explore the need for community-based peer support groups to address the gap in mental health resources. Join us for an insightful discussion on finding meaning and healing in the wake of traumatic loss.   00:00 Introduction to Phoenix Rising 00:28 Meet Dr. Ted Rynearson 01:36 Personal Story of Loss and Resilience 03:00 Understanding Unnatural Deaths 03:58 Historical Perspectives on Grief 07:01 The Dual Narratives of Violent Death 08:13 The Role of Imagery in Processing Trauma 16:10 Group Therapy and Resilience 20:16 Personal Reflections and Coping Strategies 22:55 The Importance of Support Systems 27:43 Challenges and Misunderstandings in Grief Therapy 38:49 Creating Peer-Led Support Groups 44:03 Conclusion and Future Plans 46:53 Closing Remarks

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    053: The Loss of a Sibling: A Journey Through Grief, Suicide, and Family with Nicole Jamison (Part 2)

    053: The Loss of a Sibling: A Journey Through Grief, Suicide, and Family with Nicole Jamison (Part 2)   Join Dr. Christina Zampitella on Phoenix Rising as she delves into the heart-wrenching journey of surviving the loss of a loved one to suicide. In this emotional and insightful episode, Dr. Z interviews a guest who intimately shares her experiences, from the initial moments of discovering her sister's suicide to the challenges of supporting her niece and nephew. Listen as they discuss the profound impact of multiple losses, the importance of acknowledging and expressing emotions, and the critical need for community and professional support. They also emphasize the significance of open dialogues about mental health and suicide, aiming to dismantle the stigma and foster understanding. This episode provides a compassionate guide for anyone navigating the complexities of grief, trauma, and healing.   00:00 Introduction to Phoenix Rising 00:28 Discussing Suicide and Its Complexities 01:17 A Personal Story of Loss 05:01 The Aftermath and Family Impact 09:03 Coping Mechanisms and Community Support 21:22 Navigating Multiple Losses 37:18 Upcoming Podcast Plans 37:50 Emotional Reactions to Suicide 38:51 Stigma and Secrecy Around Suicide 41:01 Recognizing Risk Factors 42:38 Finding Support and Healing 51:38 The Importance of Open Dialogue 54:44 Growing Through Grief 01:06:07 Final Thoughts and Resource

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    053: The Loss of a Sibling: A Journey Through Grief, Suicide, and Family with Nicole Jamison (Part 1)

    The Loss of a Sibling: A Journey Through Grief, Suicide, and Family with Nicole Jamison (Part 1)   In this heartfelt episode of 'Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z,' Dr. Christina Zampitella sits down with Nicole Jamison to discuss the sensitive and challenging topic of suicide. Nicole shares her personal story, opening up about the complexities of her sister Maria's life, which included adoption, bullying, divorce, and multiple traumas. Nicole recounts the highs and lows of their childhood, the impacts of their father's accident, and their mother's cancer diagnosis. She delves into Maria's battle with mental health, her use of anti-anxiety medication, and ultimately, the events leading up to her tragic passing. This raw and emotional episode aims to shed light on the multifaceted nature of grief and trauma, offering understanding and hope to those navigating similar paths.   00:00 Introduction to Phoenix Rising 00:28 Discussing Suicide with Nicole Jamison 02:47 Nicole's Early Life and Family Background 06:06 Adolescence and Early Struggles 09:03 High School and Family Crisis 11:50 College Years and Early Adulthood 13:29 Marriage, Motherhood, and More Challenges 16:21 Mental Health Struggles and Seeking Help 24:31 Compounding Family Tragedies 30:04 Maria's Final Struggles and Tragic End

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    052: Overcoming Unimaginable Loss: Dr. Z's Journey Through Grief and Cancer

    In this powerful episode of Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, Dr. Christina Zampitella breaks her silence after a year and a half hiatus to share her deeply personal journey. From a knee replacement and a sudden leukemia diagnosis, to the tragic loss of her beloved dog and both of her parents within a week of each other, Dr. Z has been through a tumultuous period of intense grief and trauma.   She discusses her battle with cancer, including the grueling treatments and emotional toll it took on her, as well as the critical support systems that helped her persevere.   As Dr. Z prepares to relaunch her podcast, she invites listeners to submit topics and share their own stories of loss and healing. This episode is a raw, unfiltered look at resilience and the human spirit's capacity to rise from the ashes of profound loss.

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    051: Q&A with Christina Part 2

    In this episode, Christina Zampitella sits down for a Q&A session. Christina is a distinguished expert from the Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy. Join us as we delve into a thought-provoking dialogue that covers a range of topics from viewers like you. __________ About Phoenix Rising In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. __________ If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe,  and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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    050: Q&A with Christina Part 1

    In this episode, Christina Zampitella sits down for a Q&A session. Christina is a distinguished expert from the Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy. Join us as we delve into a thought-provoking dialogue that covers a range of topics from viewers like you. __________ About Phoenix Rising In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. __________ If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe,  and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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    049: Drug Overdose Part 2 with Laura Vargas

    In this episode, we delve into a pressing issue that affects communities worldwide: the current drug overdose epidemic. We aim to shed light on the factors contributing to the drug overdose epidemic and its far-reaching impact. This episode explores the significance of addressing addiction, promoting mental health, and providing support to those affected by substance abuse. __________ About Phoenix Rising In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. __________ If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe,  and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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    048: Drug Overdose Part 1 with Laura Vargas

    In this episode, we delve into a pressing issue that affects communities worldwide: the current drug overdose epidemic. We aim to shed light on the factors contributing to the drug overdose epidemic and its far-reaching impact. This episode explores the significance of addressing addiction, promoting mental health, and providing support to those affected by substance abuse. __________ About Phoenix Rising In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. __________ If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe,  and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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    047: Hospice Part 2 with Samantha Gambale

    In this episode, we embark on a journey to understand the profound significance of hospice care. Join us as we delve into the world of end-of-life care, uncovering the compassionate approach that hospice provides for individuals and their families during life's final chapters. __________ About Phoenix Rising In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. __________ If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe,  and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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    046: Hospice Part 1 with Samantha Gambale

    In this episode, we embark on a journey to understand the profound significance of hospice care. Join us as we delve into the world of end-of-life care, uncovering the compassionate approach that hospice provides for individuals and their families during life's final chapters. __________ About Phoenix Rising In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. __________ If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe,  and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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    045: Caregivers Part 2 with Samantha Gambale

    In this episode, we dive deep into the often-overlooked world of caregivers and the immense impact their role can have. We aim to create an empathetic space where listeners can gain a deeper understanding of the caregiver experience. Caregiving comes with unique demands, and this episode aims to acknowledge and validate the complexities of this role. Join us as we shed light on the emotional, physical, and mental challenges that caregivers face, and uncover the importance of understanding and supporting these unsung heroes. __________ About Phoenix Rising In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. __________ If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe,  and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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    044: Caregivers Part 1 with Samantha Gambale

    In this episode, we dive deep into the often-overlooked world of caregivers and the immense impact their role can have. We aim to create an empathetic space where listeners can gain a deeper understanding of the caregiver experience. Caregiving comes with unique demands, and this episode aims to acknowledge and validate the complexities of this role. Join us as we shed light on the emotional, physical, and mental challenges that caregivers face, and uncover the importance of understanding and supporting these unsung heroes. __________ About Phoenix Rising In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. __________ If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe,  and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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    043: Pet Loss Part 2 with Dr. Rebecca Morse (former ADEC president)

    Losing a beloved pet is a profound and often underestimated source of grief. In this episode, we delve into the emotional journey of dealing with the loss of a furry friend. Join us as we explore the complexities of pet loss, offering comfort, understanding, and insights for those who are navigating this unique form of grief. We aim to create a space where listeners can find solace and connection. Losing a pet can evoke powerful emotions, and our episode aims to validate these feelings. __________ About Phoenix Rising In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. __________ If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe,  and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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    042: Pet Loss Part 1 with Dr. Rebecca Morse (former ADEC president)

    Losing a beloved pet is a profound and often underestimated source of grief. In this episode, we delve into the emotional journey of dealing with the loss of a furry friend. Join us as we explore the complexities of pet loss, offering comfort, understanding, and insights for those who are navigating this unique form of grief. We aim to create a space where listeners can find solace and connection. Losing a pet can evoke powerful emotions, and our episode aims to validate these feelings. __________ About Phoenix Rising In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. __________ If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe,  and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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    041: Loss of Child Story

    In this episode, we share Christie's courageous story of navigating the painful journey of losing a child. Join us as we listen to Christie's heartfelt narrative, filled with raw emotions, moments of strength, and the challenges of healing after the loss of a beloved child. Through this episode, we aim to create a space of empathy, understanding, and connection for those who have experienced similar loss. Christie's story serves as a powerful reminder that grief is a unique journey for each individual, yet shared experiences can provide solace and hope. __________ About Phoenix Rising In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. __________ If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe,  and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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    040: Life Coaching Part 2

    Life coaching isn't just about setting goals and achieving personal growth. In this episode, we delve into the transformative power of life coaching in the context of grief and trauma. We explore the tools and strategies that life coaching offers to support the healing process. Join us as we explore how life coaching techniques can provide valuable support and guidance for those navigating the complexities of grief and trauma. __________ About Phoenix Rising In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. __________ If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe,  and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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    039: Life Coaching Part 1

    Life coaching isn't just about setting goals and achieving personal growth. In this episode, we delve into the transformative power of life coaching in the context of grief and trauma. We explore the tools and strategies that life coaching offers to support the healing process. Join us as we explore how life coaching techniques can provide valuable support and guidance for those navigating the complexities of grief and trauma. __________ About Phoenix Rising In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. __________ If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe,  and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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    036: Suicide Loss Part 2 with Dr. Nikki Carden

    Dealing with the grief and loss of a loved one to suicide is a deeply personal and complex journey. Join us as we embark on a compassionate exploration of grief and loss from suicide, aiming to shed light on the unique challenges and emotions that accompany this painful experience.  __________ About Phoenix Rising In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. __________ If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe,  and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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    035: Suicide Loss Part 1 with Dr. Nikki Carden

    Dealing with the grief and loss of a loved one to suicide is a deeply personal and complex journey. Join us as we embark on a compassionate exploration of grief and loss from suicide, aiming to shed light on the unique challenges and emotions that accompany this painful experience.  __________ About Phoenix Rising In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. __________ If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe,  and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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    034: Coping skills for Grief Part 2

    Grief and trauma are powerful emotional experiences that can leave us feeling overwhelmed and disconnected. In this episode, we delve into the symbiotic relationship between nature and healing, exploring the profound impact of intentional rituals in natural settings. __________ About Phoenix Rising In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. __________ If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe,  and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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    033: Coping Skills for Grief Part 1

    Grief and trauma are powerful emotional experiences that can leave us feeling overwhelmed and disconnected. In this episode, we delve into the symbiotic relationship between nature and healing, exploring the profound impact of intentional rituals in natural settings. __________ About Phoenix Rising In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. __________ If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe,  and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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    032: Using Nature to Cope

    Grief and loss are natural and inevitable aspects of the human experience, but finding solace and healing in the midst of these emotions can be a challenging journey. In this episode, we embark on a soul-soothing exploration of how the wonders of nature can serve as a profound source of comfort and resilience during times of grief. Nature has a unique way of providing solace, renewal, and a sense of connection that can help us find strength even in our darkest hours. __________ About Phoenix Rising In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. __________ If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe,  and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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    031: EMDR Therapy Part 2 with Dr. Elizabeth Mikolajczyk and Marcus Scarfo

    Grief and loss are profound emotional experiences that can leave us feeling overwhelmed, stuck, and unable to move forward. In this enlightening episode, we delve into the world of Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy—a transformative approach that has shown remarkable success in helping individuals navigate the complex terrain of grief. __________ About Phoenix Rising In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. __________ If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe,  and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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    030: EMDR Therapy Part 1 with Dr. Elizabeth Mikolajczyk and Marcus Scarfo

    Grief and loss are profound emotional experiences that can leave us feeling overwhelmed, stuck, and unable to move forward. In this enlightening episode, we delve into the world of Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) therapy—a transformative approach that has shown remarkable success in helping individuals navigate the complex terrain of grief. __________ About Phoenix Rising In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. __________ If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe,  and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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    029: Dealing With Religious Trauma with Dr. Elizabeth Mikolajczyk

    Religion can be a source of comfort, guidance, and community for many individuals. However, for some, religious experiences can also result in trauma and deeply rooted emotional wounds. In podcast, we delve into the sensitive and often unspoken topic of religious trauma, offering support, validation, and insights for those who are navigating their healing journey. __________ About Phoenix Rising In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. __________ If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe,  and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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    028: Working With First Responders with Dr. Elizabeth Mikolajczyk

    First responders are the unsung heroes who selflessly protect and serve our communities every day. However, their brave and demanding work often exposes them to traumatic events that can take a toll on their mental and emotional well-being. In this episode, we delve into the topic of grief among first responders, shedding light on the unique challenges they face and offering support and resources for their healing journey. __________ About Phoenix Rising In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. __________ If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe,  and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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    027: Loss of a Lifelong Friend Part 02

    Losing a lifelong friend is a deeply personal and heart-wrenching experience that can leave a profound impact on our lives. In this episode, we explore the complex emotions and challenges that arise when we grieve the loss of someone who has been an integral part of our journey. __________ About Phoenix Rising In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. __________ If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe,  and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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    026: Loss of a Lifelong Friend Part 01

    Losing a lifelong friend is a deeply personal and heart-wrenching experience that can leave a profound impact on our lives. In this episode, we explore the complex emotions and challenges that arise when we grieve the loss of someone who has been an integral part of our journey. __________ About Phoenix Rising In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. __________ If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe,  and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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    025: Immigration and Grief with Michele Turley

    Immigration can be a complex and emotionally charged process. It creates a unique set of challenges for individuals and families. We delve into the intersection of immigration and grief, exploring the profound impact it has on individuals who are navigating a new and unfamiliar environment. __________ About Phoenix Rising In life, we so often avoid the complex and personal expression of grief. The avoidance makes it difficult to explore and share our grief in our everyday lives. Yet, it is a natural and universal human experience. In Phoenix Rising with Dr. Z, we will be deconstructing and highlighting the different aspects of grief and loss. __________ If you found this podcast helpful please share it, subscribe,  and leave a rating or review wherever you get your podcasts. We want to be a resource for anyone who is experiencing loss and this is a simple way you can help us spread the word. If you are struggling with grief and need some professional help we encourage you to find a licensed therapist, and if you can, one who specializes in trauma, death, loss, and grief. If you are in Delaware you can reach out to The Center for Grief and Trauma Therapy at www.CenterForGriefTherapy.com, or by calling (302) 635-0505

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

In life. we so often avoid the experience of grief, and that avoidance makes it hard to talk about in our everyday lives. Yet it is a natural and almost universal experience- one that is complex and personal.In this podcast, we will be deconstructing and zooming in on the component parts of grief, and talking about the different ways we can process and heal through loss. About Your HostDr Christina Zampitella- is a Dr of Clinical Psychology and a Fellow of Thanatology, with the Association for Death Education and Counseling and the founder of the Center For Grief and Trauma Therapy in Wilmington Delaware.

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