"T" Time with Dr. Tarver

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"T" Time with Dr. Tarver

When thoughts or behaviors aren't helpful, a good goal to work toward is replacing them with things that are helpful. It is my hope that theinformation shared on this podcast will help you understand more about the patterns and beliefs that may be causing you to be stuck in unhealthy cycles. This podcast is not intended to be a substitute for a relationship with a licensed professional. Remember that we all have our own journeys, so we will progress in different ways. Be kind to yourself and others and share the knowledge--Dolores Tarver, Ph.D., PC, Licensed Psychologist

  1. 282

    The Song that's on Repeat

    It's Mental Health Awareness Month. Do you find yourself on this repetitive loop that's like a song on repeat. You want to change the station, but you feel like you can't. In this episode, Dr. Tarver gives five tips to "change the station."#mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthawarenessmonth #mentalhealth #mentalwellness

  2. 281

    Under Construction

    Tarver! Where have you been? I've been under construction, friend. #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthawarenessmonth #consistency #criticalexamination #conservation #challengeyourself #youcandoallthingsthroughChrist

  3. 280

    Declutter Your Space

    April is National Stress Awareness Month. A great way to decrease stress is by purging. In this episode Dr. Tarver provides recommendations for decluttering your space.#stressawarenessmonth #declutter #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealth #mentalwellness

  4. 279

    Kindness Cost You Nothing

    It’s Women’s History Month, so March episodes of “T” Time with Dr. Tarver are focusing on the phenomenal characteristics of women that are often associated with effective leadership. I’m calling it the “Wise Women” series that is influenced by values, experiences, education, courage, intentionality, reflection, and faith. Join me each week as we delve into hope, accountability, kindness, finding and using your voice, and justice. In this episode I discuss the importance of kindness.

  5. 278

    Finding Your Voice

    It’s Women’s History Month, so March episodes of “T” Time with Dr. Tarver are focusing on the phenomenal characteristics of women that are often associated with effectiveleadership. I’m calling it the “Wise Women” series that is influenced by values, experiences, education, courage, intentionality, reflection, and faith. Join me each week as we delve into hope, accountability, kindness, and justice.In this episode I discuss the importance of finding your voice.

  6. 277

    Accountability is an Action Word

    It’s Women’s History Month, so March episodes of “T” Time with Dr. Tarver are focusing on the phenomenal characteristics of women that are often associated with effectiveleadership. I’m calling it the “Wise Women” series that is influenced by values, experiences, education, courage, intentionality, reflection, and faith. Join me each week as we delve into hope, accountability, kindness, and justice.In this episode I discuss the necessity of accountability.

  7. 276

    Justice and Mental Health

    It’s Women’s History Month, so March episodes of “T” Time with Dr. Tarver are focusing on the phenomenal characteristics of women that are often associated with effective leadership. I’m calling it the “Wise Women” series that is influenced byvalues, experiences, education, courage, intentionality, reflection, and faith. Join me each week as we delve into hope, accountability, kindness, and justice. In this episode I discuss the components of justice.

  8. 275

    The Psychology of Sacrifice: Practical Life Lessons

    In the final installment of the "Sacrifice Series" Dr. Dolores Tarver is joined by Dr. Sean Cook who will be discussing "The Psychology of Sacrifice: Practical Life Lessons." Dr. Cooks breaks down the cognitive components of sacrifice and our view of it which may be impeding our progress. #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthmoments #lent #lentenmeditation

  9. 274

    The Wisdom of Hope

    It’s Women’s History Month, so March episodes of “T” Time with Dr. Tarver are focusing on the phenomenal characteristics of women that are often associated with effective leadership. I’m calling it the “Wise Women” series that is influenced by values, experiences, education, courage, intentionality, reflection, and faith. Join me each week as we delve into hope, accountability, kindness, and justice. In this episode I discuss the wisdom of hope. #hope #hopeinchrist #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthmoments

  10. 273

    Sacrifice vs. Struggle: Striking Balance in Romantic Relationships

    The theme for the February episodes of "T" Time with Dr. Tarver is the "Sacrifice Series." Week 3 Dr. Tarver welcomed Elder Carlene Ingram who discussed the difference between struggle and balance in relationships and addressed myths associated with partnership. #relationship #relationshipgoals #mentalhealthawareness #healthyrelationships

  11. 272

    Mindful Meditation: Living with Intention in Sacrificial Moments

    As we progress toward Lent, in week 2 of the Sacrifice Series, Dr. Dolores Tarver is joined by Ebony Young. Licensed Professional Counselor. In this episode entitled Mindful Meditation: Living with Intention in Sacrificial Moments, Ebony dispels myths association with mindfulness and how the pillars can assist people in their sacrificial journeys. #mindfulness #mindfulliving #mindfulnessmeditation

  12. 271

    Leaning into Lent: Spirituality and Sacrifice

    Live episodes of "T" Time with Dr. Tarver are back! February kicks of the "Sacrifice Series." In the first episode Dr. Dolores Tarver welcomes Rev. Dr. Antoine Shyne, Pastor, Holsey Chapel CME Church to discuss "Leaning into Lent: Spirituality and Sacrifice." Rev. Shyne provides information about Lent and fasting including misperceptions, being intentional, and life after Lent.

  13. 270

    Not Progressing? It May be Time for a Social Media Fast.

    It's time to check in on your goals. How are you progressing? If you find that you are stalled, it may be time to evaluate your social media habits and take a break. #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthmatters #mentalhealthmoments #socialmediabreak

  14. 269

    Compassion vs. Complacency

    Welcome to 2026! You may not be making a New Year’s resolution but it’s a great time for reflection. In this episode, Dr. Tarver is discussing recognizing the difference between giving yourself compassion vs. being complacent as you attempt to reach your goals. #MentalHealthMoments #mentalhealthawareness #MentalHealthMatters #newyearnewme

  15. 268

    What are You Planting in Preparation for Harvest

    Welcome to 2026! You may not be making a New Year’s resolution but it’s a great time for reflection. In this episode, Dr. Tarver is discussing making preparation for yielding a fruitful harvest this year. #MentalHealthMoments #mentalhealthawareness #MentalHealthMatters #newyear

  16. 267

    Does Your Identity Match Your Purpose?

    As we close out the "T" Time with Dr. Tarver series for 2025, take some time and reflect on if your identity matches your purpose of if your behaviors are reflective of what is comfortable and convenient. As you navigate this season and your next seasons, Dr. Tarver suggests it may be helpful to examine how you see yourself. #identity #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthmoments #mentalhealthmatters #mentalhealth #purpose

  17. 266

    When the Guest List Makes Me Sick: Surviving the Holidays

    Many people experience grief, trauma, depression, isolation, or anxiety around this time of year.  This series has been focused on navigating those challenges. Today’s episode focuses on understanding trauma responses andguidelines for holiday preparation when there may be a potential perpetrator at the holiday gathering. #MentalHealthMoments #mentalhealthawareness #MentalHealthMatters #holidaysurvival

  18. 265

    Oh, Give Thanks: Navigating Thanksgiving When You're Alone

    Fall has hit us pretty hard, so November and December episodes will focus on navigating some of those challenges. In this episode, Dr. Tarver explores options for being intentional about Thanksgiving when you are grieving, alone, or disconnected from family.#alonefortheholidays#mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthmoments

  19. 264

    Tis the Season for Avoidance

    Fall has hit us pretty hard, so November and December episodes will focus on navigating some of those challenges. In this episode, Dr. Tarver explores avoidance-based behaviors that may show up during periods of distress. #hidingunderthecovers#headinthesand#ignoringthemail#mentalwellness#mentalhealthawareness

  20. 263

    Updating Your Contact List for the Fall Season

    Fall has hit us pretty hard, so episodes will focus on navigating some of those challenges. In this episode, Dr. Tarver explores “no contact” versus “limited, or intentional contact.#nocontact#limitedcontact#mentalhealthawareness

  21. 262

    Trauma Transitions with Tiffany Luke, Licensed Professional Counselor

    Social media can be confusing. What is trauma? What are triggers? What are the treatments for trauma? Is EMDR and trauma-based yoga demonic? What if I want to keep my current therapist but want to try different trauma treatment options? You asked and we've answered. Dr. Dolores Tarver joins Tiffany Luke, LPC who is certified in holistic therapy, EMDR, and trauma conscious yoga to provide you a wealth ofinformation to assist you in learning to more effectively navigate transitions in your body's response to trauma.#traumatransitions#collaborative providers#mentalwellness

  22. 261

    Navigating Uncertainty with Transitions

    I will be turning 50, and as I reflect on all the comes with aging, I thought it fitting that I focus on transitions in this series. So, we’ll be discussing different types of transitions for the next couple of months. Given that it feels like we are receiving confusing information and there is increased anxiety, in this episode, Dr. Tarver discusses navigating uncertainty during periods of transitions. #transitions #uncertaintimes

  23. 260

    Suicide Awareness and Prevention

    Trigger warning. In this episode Dr. Tarver discusses risk factors for suicide, suicide prevention, and death by suicide. Resources include calling 988, 800-273-8255, National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI), text HOME to 741741, and SpeakingofSuicide.com#suicidepreventionmonth #suicideawareness

  24. 259

    Navigating Multiple Life Transitions

    In October I will be turning 50, and as I reflect on all the comes with aging, I thought it fitting that I focus on transitions in this series. So, we’ll be discussing different types of transitions up through my birthday. In this episode, Dr. Tarver is joined by Louis York, National Certified Counselor, who discusses navigating multiple life transitions.

  25. 258

    Therapy Transitions: How to Grow and When to Go

    In about 2 months I will be turning 50, and as I reflect on all the comes with aging, I thought it fitting that I focus on transitions in this series. So, we’ll be discussing different types of transitions for the next couple of months. In this episode, Dr. Tarver explores transitions and mental healthcounseling.

  26. 257

    Feeling Lost During Periods of Transition

    You've probably heard the expression "lost in translation." Well today we are going to discuss feeling lost in transition. During periods of transition we may feel lost and confused which can lead to unhealthy patterns of coping. In this episode Dr. Tarver discusses healthy options for coping when feeling overwhelmed during a period of transition. #transitions #lost #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #mentalwellness

  27. 256

    Transitions Make You Cry Sometimes

    In about 2 months I will be turning 50, and as I reflect on all the comes with aging, I thought it fitting that I focus on transitions in this series. So, we’ll be discussing different types of transitions for the next couple of months. In this episode, Dr. Tarver explores the transition process.

  28. 255

    Let's Talk Trans (Women)

    June is Men's Mental Health and Wellness and Pride months. In this episode, Dr. Tarver discusses Black trans women. #mentalhealthawareness#mensmentalhealthawarenessmonth #pridemonth #letstalktrans

  29. 254

    The Effects of Incarceration on Men

    June is Men’s Mental Health Awareness Month and Dr. Tarver addresses factors thataffect men’s mental wellness. In this episode, she discusses the effects of incarceration Black men’s wellness.  #mentalhealthawareness #mensmentalhealthawarenessmonth#longtermeffects #criminaljusticesystem

  30. 253

    You're a Good Good Father

    June is Men’s Mental Health Awareness Month and Dr. Tarver is addressing factors that affect men’s mental wellness. In this episode, she discusses characteristics of healthy fathers. #mentalhealthawareness #mensmentalhealthawarenessmonth #fatherslove #fatherhood #fathersday

  31. 252

    Heal Brother—Even When the Space is Not Given

    June is Men’s Mental Health Awareness Month and Dr. Tarver addresses factors that affect men’s mental wellness. In this episode, she discusses why Black men may not feel they are given space to address their needs.  #mentalhealthawareness #mensmentalhealthawarenessmonth#safespaces #healing

  32. 251

    Feeling Trapped in our Patterns

    May is Mental Health Awareness Month and Dr. Tarver is addressing factors thataffect our mental wellness. In this episode, she discusses the ways we may be maintainingunhealthy patterns that interfere with our wellness. #mentalhealthawareness #itsme #destructivepatterns#makingmyselfsick

  33. 250

    We are Our Parents Children: Are We Passing Down Mental Illness

    May is Mental Health Awareness Month and Dr. Tarver is addressing factors thataffect our mental wellness. In this episode, she discusses the impact of geneticson our mental health. #mentalhealthawareness #familytraits #itsinourgenes

  34. 249

    Overextending Yourself

    May is Mental Health Awareness Month and Dr. Tarver is addressing factors that affect our mental wellness. In this episode, she discusses the impact ofoverextending ourselves to others. #mentalhealthawareness#teamtoomuch#selfcare

  35. 248

    I Don't Want to Deal With It

    May is Mental Health Awareness Month and Dr. Tarver is addressing factors that affect our mental wellness. In this episode, she highlights common reasons people struggle with addressing their mental wellness and the affects of not attending to mental health. #mentalhealthawareness #avoidance #selfcare

  36. 247

    Finding a Purposeful Career Path

    It’s April and the work stress is REAL! Whether it is transitioning from remote to working in the office, layoffs, budget cuts, production stress, or changingwork values and priorities, it is clear that employee wellness is not the priority for some employers. This month will be focused on topics related to workplace stress. In this episode, Dr. Tarver discusses the stress associated withfinding a career path that provides passion and purpose. #MentalHealthMoments#mentalhealthawareness #MentalHealthMatters #purposeandpassion #findingacareerpath

  37. 246

    Decreasing Self-Employment Stress

    It’s April and the work stress is REAL! Whether it is transitioning from remote to working in the office, layoffs, budget cuts, production stress, or changingwork values and priorities, it is clear that employee wellness is not the priority for some employers. This month will be focused on topics related to workplace stress. In this episode, Dr. Tarver discusses decreasing self-employment stress. #MentalHealthMoments #mentalhealthawareness#MentalHealthMatters #navigatingworkdemands #selfemploymentworkbalance #setupforsuccess

  38. 245

    Navigating Increasing Work Demands

    It’s April and the work stress is REAL! Whether it is transitioning from remote to working in the office, layoffs, budget cuts, production stress, or changing work values and priorities, it is clear that employee wellness is not thepriority for some employers. This month will be focused on topics related to workplace stress. In this episode, Dr. Tarver addresses creating a career wellness plan to address how you can better navigate fewer employees, fewerresources, increased productivity stress, and changing retirement dynamics.#MentalHealthMoments #mentalhealthawareness #MentalHealthMatters #returningtowork#navigatingtheoffice

  39. 244

    Managing Layoffs and Budget Cuts

    It’s April and the work stress is REAL! Whether it is transitioning from remote to working in the office, layoffs, budget cuts, production stress, or changing work values and priorities, it is clear that employee wellness is not thepriority for some employers. This month will be focused on topics related to workplace stress. In this episode, Dr. Tarver addresses the challenges related to layoffs strategies to manage them. #MentalHealthMoments#mentalhealthawareness #MentalHealthMatters #budgetcuts #layoffs #terminationanxiety

  40. 243

    Managing Returning to Work Stress

    It’s April and the work stress is REAL! Whether it is transitioning from remote to working in the office, layoffs, budget cuts, production stress, or changingwork values and priorities, it is clear that employee wellness is not the priority for some employers. This month will be focused on topics related to workplacestress. In this episode, Dr. Tarver addresses the challenges related to returning to work and strategies to manage them. #MentalHealthMoments#mentalhealthawareness #MentalHealthMatters #returningtowork#navigatingtheoffice

  41. 242

    Check that Attitude Sis: Managing Mood Swings

    Whew! Welcome to March!! It is Women’s History Month, and we are tired!!! We are also going to take good care of ourselves, keep up the good work, and know where ourhelp comes from. This month, I am addressing topics related to women and offering strategies to help us navigate these winding byways and highways. In this episode, Dr. Tarver addresses common causes of mood swings and strategiesto manage them. #MentalHealthMoments #mentalhealthawareness#MentalHealthMatters #womenswellness #moodswings

  42. 241

    Brain Fog has Bested Me

    Whew! Welcome to March!! It is Women’s History Month, and we are tired!!! We are also going to take good care of ourselves, keep up the good work, and know where ourhelp comes from. This month, I am addressing topics related to women and offering strategies to help us navigate these winding byways and highways. In this episode, Dr. Tarver addresses common causes of brain fog and strategies tomanage it. #MentalHealthMoments #mentalhealthawareness #MentalHealthMatters #womenswellness#brainfog

  43. 240

    Managing the Transitions: the Team Approach to Self-Care

    Whew! Welcome to March!! It is Women’s History Month and we are tired!!! We are also going to take good care of ourselves, keep up the good work, and know where ourhelp comes from. This month, I am addressing topics related to women and offering strategies to help us navigate these winding byways and highways. In this episode, Dr. Tarver addresses some of the changes that women may beexperiencing as we enter into different phases of life. #MentalHealthMoments#mentalhealthawareness #MentalHealthMatters #womenswellness #changesgonecome

  44. 239

    Laying the Foundation for Partnership and Parenting

    Dr. Dolores Tarver is joined by Dr. Sean Cook for the Designing the Relationships You Deserve Series. In this episode Dr. Cook addresses components of healthy parenting relationships, investing in children, and balancing relationships and parenting.

  45. 238

    Setting the Goalposts in Dating and Debunking Marriage Myths

    Happy February! This month is dedicated to heart health, honoring the legacy of Black history (while simultaneously recognizing the value of African American's contributions year-round), and loving relationships. As I’ve shared before, “all things relationships” is my most requested topic. So, this month, I’m happy to bring back live episodes of “T” Time with Dr. Tarver. In this episode, I'm joined by guests Rev. Amarylis West and Ebony Young, LPC as we discuss dating and marriage myths and creating healthy foundations for loving relationships.#MentalHealthMoments #mentalhealthawareness#MentalHealthMatters #redefiningrelationships #relationshipgoals

  46. 237

    Laying the Foundation for Fostering the Relationships You Deserve

    Happy February! This month is dedicated to heart health, honoring the legacy of Black history (while simultaneously recognizing the value of African American's contributions year-round), and loving relationships. As I’ve shared before, “all things relationships” is my most requested topic. So, this month, I’m happy to bring back live episodes of “T” Time with Dr. Tarver. I will be joined by Louis York, LPC on February 11th, Rev. Amarylis West and Ebony Young, LPC on February 18th, and Dr. Sean Cook on February 25th. So, today, I thought it fitting to lay the foundation for the live conversations and give people an opportunity to pose questions. Today’s episode features laying the foundation for fostering the relationships you deserve. #MentalHealthMoments #mentalhealthawareness #MentalHealthMatters #redefiningrelationships

  47. 236

    What You Practice Affects How You Perform

    Welcome to 2025! Do you want to break the cycle of new year and old habits? You are not alone and episodes in this January series are going to focus on “Strategies to Save Us from Sabotage.” In this episode, Dr. Tarver discusses how what we practice affects how we perform. #MentalHealthMoments #mentalhealthawareness #MentalHealthMatters #newyearnewme #creatinghabits

  48. 235

    Ain’t Nobody Got Time for That

    Welcome to 2025! Do you want to break the cycle of new year and old habits? You are not alone and episodes in this January series are going to focus on “Strategies to Save Us from Sabotage.” In this episode, Dr. Tarver discusses some of the reasons we have difficulty investing in ourselves. #MentalHealthMoments #mentalhealthawareness #MentalHealthMatters #newyearnewme #investmentstrategies

  49. 234

    You Can’t Tell Me What to Do

    Welcome to 2025! Do you want to break the cycle of new year and old habits? You are not alone and episodes in this January series are going to focus on “Strategies to Save Us from Sabotage.” In this episode, Dr. Tarver discusses the impact of not wanting to be told what to do. #MentalHealthMoments #mentalhealthawareness #MentalHealthMatters #newyearnewme #youcanttellmewhattodo

  50. 233

    The Greatest of these is Love

    This time of year can be tough for a variety of reasons and a lot of people are still processing the experience and results of this election cycle. During the months of November and December, Dr. Dolores Tarver will be presenting the "Hope in Humanity" series. Today’s episode focuses on types of loving relationships. #MentalHealthMoments #mentalhealthawareness #MentalHealthMatters #lovingrelationships #loveisanactionword

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When thoughts or behaviors aren't helpful, a good goal to work toward is replacing them with things that are helpful. It is my hope that theinformation shared on this podcast will help you understand more about the patterns and beliefs that may be causing you to be stuck in unhealthy cycles. This podcast is not intended to be a substitute for a relationship with a licensed professional. Remember that we all have our own journeys, so we will progress in different ways. Be kind to yourself and others and share the knowledge--Dolores Tarver, Ph.D., PC, Licensed Psychologist

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