031: about time (2013), somebody feed phil, & finding joy in everyday life

This episode dives into two unexpected tearjerkers: Richard Curtis's beloved time-travel romance About Time (2013) and Netflix's food and travel series Somebody Feed Phil. Nins revisits About Time and reflects on its powerful message about grief, parent-child relationships, time, mortality, and learning to appreciate ordinary moments before they're gone. From Bill Nighy and Domhnall Gleeson's unforgettable father-son scenes to the film's moving lesson on happiness, this conversation explores why About Time remains one of the most emotional movies ever made. Meanwhile, Arns heads to Manila through an episode of Somebody Feed Phil, exploring Filipino food, culture, family traditions, music, resilience, and the idea that food is one of the purest expressions of love. From childhood folk songs like "Bahay Kubo" to unforgettable meals, this discussion celebrates the joy of gathering around a table with the people who matter most. If you've ever wished you could relive a memory, hold onto a loved one a little longer, or share one more meal with family, this one's for you. Topics discussed: About Time movie analysis, Richard Curtis films, Bill Nighy, Rachel McAdams, Somebody Feed Phil, Filipino culture, Filipino food, Manila travel, grief, nostalgia, family relationships, food as love, happiness, mindfulness, emotional movies, travel shows, crying, healing, and finding joy in everyday life. Content warning: grief 0:00 - Intro 2:37 - Announcement: new format! 7:38 - Nins: About Time 29:38 - Arns: Somebody Feed Phil 53:09 - Outro Referenced in this episode: About Time About Time clip: The Secret Formula for Happiness About Time clip: The Last Time With Dad "Somebody Feed Phil" season 8, episode 7: Manila "‘Somebody Feed Phil’ Star Phil Rosenthal on the Perils of Filming a Food Show: ‘If You Saw My Cholesterol Levels Right Now…’" by Brent Lang for Variety Join the brb crying community—a heartfelt, cozy comedy podcast about friendship, vulnerability, emotional storytelling, and all the movies, books, music, and life experiences that leave us in tears. Follow us: » Instagram: @brbcrying.podcast » TikTok: @brbcrying.podcast » YouTube: @brbcrying.podcast Want episode recaps, behind-the-scenes/community updates, and occasional emotional damage delivered straight to your inbox? Sign up for our newsletter at brbcryingpodcast.com. Have a sob story or cry recommendation that absolutely wrecked you? We'd love to be wrecked, too. Submit your story at brbcryingpodcast.com or email us at [email protected]. brb crying—hosted by longtime best friends Nins & Arns—is a podcast where we explore the songs, books, TV shows, films, pop culture moments, and personal stories that help us laugh, cry, heal, and feel a little less alone. Crying is our superpower, and by sharing what makes us cry in a way that makes us laugh, we show how crying helps us connect with ourselves and each other.