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3AM Reset : Intimacy After Porn
by Elisha Kolade | Christ - Centered Recovery Coach, Intimacy Expert
The 3AM Reset Podcast is your guide to permanently overcoming porn addiction. Hosted by Elisha Kolade, who fought this battle for over 13 years, this show fuses Christian wisdom, neuroscience, and coaching to reveal how your brain gets hijacked and how to reclaim control. Each episode delivers practical steps to break free from compulsive behaviors and rewire your mind for success in work, relationships, and life. With over 200 episodes, discover actionable strategies to become your best self. Join the journey to lasting recovery.
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222 - The ONE MISTAKE That RUINS Porn Recovery (Dating Too Soon)
Should I be dating during recovery?" Drawing from his personal recovery journey, Elisha reveals the intense challenges he faced – including persistent wet dreams featuring porn stars and severe cognitive impairment. He explains why recovery is an inherently "selfish" time focused on rediscovering identity and healing childhood trauma. Elisha ultimately advises against dating during active recovery, emphasizing that the goal should be becoming a complete, healed person before entering a relationship
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221 - When Your Child Says 'I'm Attracted To Same Sex' A Christian Mom's Guide
In this Spirit-led conversation, Melinda Patrick shares her journey as a Christian parent whose daughter walked away from biblical teaching by embracing an LGBT identity. She offers scripture-based wisdom gained through her own painful mistakes and God's faithful guidance. Melinda delivers a biblical critique of popular pastor Andy Stanley's compromising stance, while emphasizing how parents can maintain their biblical convictions without losing relationship with their children. Throughout the discussion, she balances God's unchanging truth with Christ-like compassion, reminding Christian parents that God is sovereign even in their most difficult parenting seasons, and providing practical, Scripture-rooted guidance for responding in a way that honors both God and their children.Connect With Melinda: Website : https://melindapatrick.org/the-bridge-between-us/Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/melindahpatrick/Youtube : https://www.youtube.com/@melindapatrick9775Comments on Andy Stanley : An LGBTQ Mom Responds to Andy Stanley (w/ Melinda Patrick) - Ep. 77The Daring Rescue : https://melindapatrick.org/the-daring-rescue/
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220 - How To Know When To LEAVE Your Church: A Pastor's Honest Advice
In this raw and unfiltered conversation, Pastor Tunde Cole of The Transformers Church shares his journey from experiencing spiritual abuse in church leadership to founding his own ministry focused on truth and freedom. He discusses how to recognize toxic church environments, navigate spiritual abuse, and practical steps for leaving unhealthy church situations. Pastor Cole also opens up about personal struggles with pornography, revealing how unresolved pain and unforgiveness created a pathway for addiction. Throughout the interview, he emphasizes the importance of prioritizing authentic relationship with Jesus over religious performance, and offers candid insights about the challenges of pastoral ministry and maintaining healthy boundaries with church members.00:00: Introduction to Pastor Tunde Cole00:59: Who is Tunde Cole: "A guy who loves truth and freedom"01:56: The vision behind Transformers Church05:21: Advice for Christians suffering abuse from church leadership06:11: Understanding your spiritual freedom: "No one owns your life"10:32: Practical steps for leaving an abusive church12:42: Pastor Tunde's personal experience with church abuse15:04: Avoiding church leadership "ambush" situations17:35: Why you shouldn't enter an ambush: "It may take only God's grace to recover"19:27: The importance of forgiveness in spiritual healing20:02: The danger of remaining in toxic environments24:26: Finding true identity in Christ26:30: Using interactive teaching to transform lives28:31: The problem with Christians wanting pastors to do everything31:04: Leading with vulnerability: "Netflix was programming my mind"34:11: Being honest about struggles as a pastor39:10: Pastor Tunde's journey with pornography41:10: The connection between pain and addiction: "Pain and hurt could be a breeding ground"42:55: Fighting spiritual battles: "The force left me and my head was pounding"46:16: The Holy Spirit's role in identifying root issues47:24: Allowing the Holy Spirit to guide you to freedom48:41: Closing thoughts on finding freedom in Christ
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219 - I Was Raped By A Demon: My Journey From Sex Addiction to Freedom
In this powerful interview, fashion designer and ministry leader Bobbi Kumari shares her extraordinary journey from sexual brokenness to freedom. She discusses her background in Hinduism, childhood sexual abuse, and her descent into addiction and promiscuity before a supernatural encounter with a demonic entity changed everything.00:00: Introduction to Bobbi Kumari00:56: Why the Passion for Sacred Sexuality?03:43: Bobbi's Background: Hindu Home, Molestation & Finding Jesus07:12: The Backsliding Years: Hedonism, Drug Use & Rock Bottom09:36: The Demonic Attack: "This Spirit Hates You"11:22: Understanding Sex Demons & Spiritual Soul Ties14:06: Instant Deliverance vs. Mind Renewal: The Process of Freedom17:09: Soul Ties Explained: The Covenant Nature of Sex21:07: Breaking Soul Ties: The Practical Steps23:34: Addressing the Root Causes of Sexual Sin26:34: Sex as a Blood Covenant: Why It's Sacred31:31: True Repentance: The First Step to Freedom34:17: Breaking 300+ Soul Ties: The Process40:32: Healing from Sexual Abuse & Trauma46:55: What Men Are Really Looking For: Beyond Physical Needs49:45: Dealing With Ongoing Sexual Desires55:52: The Intimacy Question: "Father, How Are You Today?"57:14: About Bobbi's Conferences: Sexpose & More59:32: Celebrating Your Sex Drive: A Final Encouragement
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218: WHY Journaling Is Your Secret Weapon Against Porn Addiction
Struggling with pornography addiction often feels like fighting an invisible enemy. But what if one of your most powerful weapons is simply a pen and paper?In this eye-opening episode , I reveal WHY journaling is not just helpful but essential for breaking free from porn addiction.Discover how this simple daily practice targets the root causes of addictive behavior by:Bringing hidden triggers and emotional patterns into the lightCreating a personal accountability system that actually worksTransforming negative thought cycles that lead to relapseBuilding self-awareness that medication and willpower alone cannot provide
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217 - How To Forgive Yourself
o you know that many Christians silently battle with shame and guilt after watching porn? In this powerful episode, I share my personal journey of self-forgiveness and why it's crucial for your spiritual healing and relationship with God. Learn biblical principles and practical techniques to release self-blame, embrace God's forgiveness, and move forward without the weight of past mistakes.Discover how forgiving yourself isn't just permitted but actually essential for Christians struggling with porn addiction. Join me to start your path towards self-acceptance through Christ's redemptive love and find freedom from the cycle of shame and addiction
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216 - How To Kill Lust And Stay Focused
In todays' episode I speak on why and how I struggled with lust and ways to beat it. So to all my brothers who are in that season or struggle like I was, Grab your pen and paper. Because this one has too many gems.
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215 - 3 Reason Why Christians Struggle With Porn
Are you struggling to break free from porn addiction as a Christian? You're not alone. Many believers face this battle daily, feeling trapped between their faith and persistent temptations.In this powerful episode, host Elisha Kolade shares his personal journey and the three essential parameters that can lead to lasting freedom. Drawing from his own experiences and biblical principles, Elisha reveals how understanding your identity in Christ, transforming your mind, and presenting your body as a living sacrifice creates the foundation for victory.Whether you're a new Christian or have been walking with God for years while secretly battling this addiction, this episode offers practical, spiritually-grounded guidance without judgment or condemnation. Discover how to navigate today's sexually charged society while maintaining your faith and finding true freedom.Join Elisha for this transformative conversation that addresses one of the most common yet least discussed struggles in the Christian community
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214 - How To Actually Break Bad Habit and Negative Thoughts
Have you ever felt trapped in a cycle of procrastination, watching your potential slip away day after day? Many of us were never taught how to build sustainable habits, and as a result, we fall into patterns that limit our growth rather than nurture it. Establishing good habits isn't about perfection—it's about creating systems that work with your natural tendencies, not against them.Whether it's with our morning routines, our health practices, or our work habits, consistent patterns are the foundation for transformation. But in order to build them effectively, we need to understand the key factors that shape successful habits—what truly motivates us, our personal capacity for change, and the reality that sometimes, building a new habit means letting go of comfortable old ones.In this episode, I share my journey from chronic procrastinator to productive early riser, offering practical insights on identifying areas for improvement, navigating common pitfalls, and experiencing the remarkable ripple effect that even small habit changes can create across all aspects of life.
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213 - How I Break 13 Years Porn Addiction (How You To Can)
Struggling with porn addiction? This podcast reveals my 13-year battle and complete recovery plan. Learn effective strategies to overcome PIED, regain confidence, and rebuild intimacy. Discover practical NoFap techniques, addiction recovery tools, and brain rewiring methods that worked when nothing else did. Find hope, accountability, and step-by-step guidance for your own freedom journey from pornography dependence and masturbation habits. Real solutions for lasting recovery.
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212 - The Hidden Influence of Pornography on Sexuality
SummaryThis conversation explores the profound impact of explicit content, particularly pornography, on sexual preferences and behaviors. Elisha discusses how exposure to such content during formative years can shape perceptions and relationships, often leading to behavioral changes that individuals may not consciously recognize. He emphasizes the importance of understanding these influences and the need for intentional reflection and renewal of the mind to counteract negative effects.
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211 - The 3 Hidden Dimensions of Sex: A Spiritual Warning You Can't Ignore
SummaryIn this conversation, Elisha explores the multifaceted nature of sex, emphasizing its spiritual dimensions and the profound impact it has on individuals' lives. He discusses the importance of understanding the three dimensions of human existence—spiritual, soulish, and physical—and how these dimensions interact during sexual encounters. Kolade warns about the potential dangers of engaging in sexual relationships without awareness of the spiritual implications and the emotional consequences that can arise from such interactions. He encourages listeners to reflect on the spiritual connections they form through sex and to consider the kind of spirits they are engaging with.
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210 - Pride Before Relapse: 4 Critical Signs You're Sabotaging Your Recovery
In this conversation, Elisha discusses the relationship between pride and relapse, particularly in the context of addiction recovery. He emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and humility in maintaining recovery, sharing personal experiences and insights. The discussion highlights the subtle dangers of pride, the characteristics to watch for, and the need for a strong foundation in faith and community support to sustain healing.
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209 - How To Deal With Suicidal Thoughts
In this powerful episode, Elisha addresses the struggles of contemplating life and the search for purpose. He emphasizes the importance of understanding that the battle against suicidal thoughts is fought in the mind and is a spiritual warfare. Drawing from his personal experiences with addiction and despair, he provides insights on reclaiming control over one's thoughts and life. Elisha introduces the concept of the 'sword of the spirit' as a tool for empowerment and encourages listeners to engage actively in their mental battles through spiritual practices and daily strategies.
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208 - The Power of Mindset in Recovery
SummaryIn this conversation, Elisha Kolade discusses two distinct mindsets that influence recovery from pornography addiction: the Grasshopper mindset and the Lion mindset. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing these mindsets and choosing to adopt the Lion mindset, which embodies strength, empowerment, and the ability to overcome challenges.Through personal anecdotes and biblical references, Kolade encourages listeners to reflect on their self-perception and commit to a transformative journey towards recovery, suggesting a 90-day challenge as a pathway to achieving lasting change.
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207 - How Masturbating To Porn Will Ruin Your Brain
In this episode, Elisha Kolade explores the profound impact of imagination on personal experiences, particularly in relation to early exposure to pornography and masturbation. He shares his own journey, detailing how these experiences shaped his identity and behavior. Elisha emphasizes the importance of making a conscious decision to change, providing practical steps to reconfigure one's imagination and break free from unhealthy habits. The conversation encourages self-reflection and evaluation of personal choices, ultimately aiming for transformation and growth. Chapters 00:00 The Impact of Imagination on Reality 07:40 Deciding to Change: The First Step 10:39 Intentionality in Reconfiguring Imagination 11:42 Strengthening New Neural Pathways
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206 - How To Conquer the Night: A Journey to Empowerment
In this episode, Elisha Kolade addresses the struggles many face during the night season, particularly regarding sleep and the temptation to consume pornography. He shares his personal experiences and emphasizes the importance of transforming the night into a productive time for personal development and spiritual growth. Elisha discusses the significance of preparation and self-awareness in overcoming these challenges, encouraging listeners to take ownership of their night season and approach it with a mindset of empowerment. Chapters 00:00 Understanding the Night Struggle 02:49 Transforming the Night into Power Hours 05:59 The Importance of Preparation for Night Challenges 11:57 Taking Ownership of Your Night Season
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205 : How To Quit Watching Porn : Trigger Elimination
Summary In this conversation, Elisha Kolade discusses the three forces that contribute to porn addiction: the environment, the body, and the brain. He emphasizes the importance of self-awareness in overcoming these forces and breaking the cycle of addiction. Elisha encourages listeners to reflect on their habits and triggers, and to cultivate self-awareness as a crucial skill for personal growth and recovery in 2025. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the Three Forces 02:57 The Importance of Self-Awareness 04:36 Breaking the Convergence of Forces 10:54 Empowering Yourself for 2025
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204 - How To Quit Watching Porn in 2025
Breaking free from pornography addiction can feel like an endless cycle of trying and relapsing. In this powerful episode, the host shares insights gained from 15 years of recovery, introducing the "Triple Threat Point" (TTP) - the crucial intersection of body, mind, and environment that drives addictive behavior. Through clear examples and practical guidance, you'll discover how understanding these three forces creates a path to lasting freedom. Rather than relying solely on willpower or quick fixes, you'll learn how to become a careful observer of your own patterns and develop strategies that address all components of the TTP framework. Whether you're just starting your recovery journey or have tried multiple times before, this episode offers both hope and concrete tools for building a pornography-free life in 2025.
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203 - How to Tell Your Wife About Your Porn Addiction: A Step-by-Step Guide
Are you hiding your porn addiction from your wife? Living with the constant fear of being discovered? In this crucial episode, we provide a proven blueprint for men who are ready to take the courageous step of disclosing their porn struggle to their partner. Research shows that 80% of marriages can be rebuilt when porn addiction is disclosed voluntarily rather than discovered accidentally. We'll walk you through: The critical difference between your wife discovering your porn use vs. you choosing to tell her How to mentally prepare yourself for this life-changing conversation A tested framework for disclosure that prioritizes honesty and respect What to expect and how to handle the first 24 hours after telling her Specific strategies to handle her questions and reactions Common mistakes to avoid when discussing your porn struggles How to present your recovery plan and rebuild trust This isn't just about confession - it's about taking the first step toward freedom from porn addiction and rebuilding a stronger, more honest relationship with your wife. While this may be the hardest conversation you'll ever have, it could also be the most important one for your marriage.
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202 - Breaking the Chains: Why 2025 Must Be Your Year of Freedom
Standing at rock bottom on New Year's Eve 2005, your host made a choice that changed everything. Now, as 2024 ends, he reveals the raw truth about breaking free from addiction and shares the exact roadmap for your own transformation in 2025. No more empty resolutions – discover the proven four-valley protocol that turns desire for change into lasting freedom. If you're ready to break the chains, this is your wake-up call.
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201 : Destroying Shame: The Hidden Key to Breaking Free
🔴 MUST WATCH: The Biblical secret that's helping men break free from shame - without years of therapy Tired of hiding? Ashamed of your struggles? This episode reveals the forgotten truth from Romans 8:1 that's setting men free from shame's prison. No more self-condemnation. No more hiding. No more shame. You'll discover: Why shame keeps you trapped in the cycle The identity shift that changes everything How to access true freedom without endless therapy The exact scripture that broke my chains 📢 WARNING: This episode contains powerful truths that will challenge everything you believe about your struggles with P*rn and shame.
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200 - The Christian's SECRET WEAPON Against Porn (that nobody talks about)
If you're fighting porn with willpower, you're fighting with the wrong weapon. Here's what 99% of Christians miss about Romans 8:13. TRUTH BOMB: You're not a human trying to be spiritual. You're a SPIRIT BEING having a human experience. This one shift transformed my decade-long battle
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199 - The Hidden Epidemic Destroying Young Men
🚨 Age 9. That's when it starts now - not 13, not 16. By high school, 35% of young men are already trapped in a hidden epidemic that's destroying their ability to connect, perform, and build real relationships. In this raw, data-driven episode, we expose the accelerating crisis decimating Gen-Z: earlier exposure, faster addiction, younger victims. Learn: Why exposure age dropped from 13 to 9 in just 6 years The 7-year timeline from first click to complete dysfunction Warning signs every parent, teacher & friend needs to know Why 85% recover with early intervention, but only 45% later This isn't just another addiction story. This is about saving our next generation before they hit their first kiss. Whether you're struggling yourself, worried about someone, or want to understand what's really happening to young men today - this episode breaks down the crisis no one's talking about. This hard-hitting conversation combines shocking statistics with actionable solutions. Learn how to spot the signs, understand the timeline, and access the support systems that make the difference between recovery and regret. Watch now to understand the hidden epidemic that's silently destroying young men's lives - and learn how to fight back before it's too late.
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198 - Create In Me A Clean Heart Jesus
Create In Me A Clean Heart Jesus - In this powerful episode, we examine King David's darkest moment - his affair with Bathsheba and the murder of her husband Uriah. After being confronted by the prophet Nathan, David's heartfelt plea in Psalm 51 reveals a broken man seeking divine cleansing. Join us as we explore how even the greatest biblical heroes faced moral failures, and discover timeless lessons about repentance, God's forgiveness, and the importance of maintaining spiritual heart health. What can David's journey from sin to restoration teach us about examining our own hearts today
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197 - What I learnt In 18 years of Quitting Masturbating To Porn
You don't have to make the same mistake I made. I am not proud of my past, but at the same time I thank God I can use my past to equip the next generation of men.
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196 - Do I Need Deliverance From Porn (Series 2)
Many Christians believe they need a special deliverance service or the laying on of hands to break free from pornography. But is this really what Scripture teaches? In this eye-opening episode, we challenge this common misconception and explore how God has already given us everything we need for victory through His Word and the power of the Holy Spirit. We'll discuss why waiting for someone to 'cast out' a porn addiction might actually delay your freedom, and how the daily renewal of your mind through Scripture, prayer, and faith in Christ is the biblical pathway to transformation. Discover how you can start walking in freedom today without waiting for a special service or ceremony.
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195 - Do I Need Deliverance From Watching Porn (Series 1) ?
Many Christians believe they need a special deliverance service or the laying on of hands to break free from pornography. But is this really what Scripture teaches? In this eye-opening episode, we challenge this common misconception and explore how God has already given us everything we need for victory through His Word and the power of the Holy Spirit. We'll discuss why waiting for someone to 'cast out' a porn addiction might actually delay your freedom, and how the daily renewal of your mind through Scripture, prayer, and faith in Christ is the biblical pathway to transformation. Discover how you can start walking in freedom today without waiting for a special service or ceremony.
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194 - NoFap (FAQ) Frequently Asked Question : Should I Abstain From Sex During NoFap
In this episode, I'm tackling the most common questions I've received about NoFap throughout my recovery journey. As someone who battled a 14-year porn addiction, I've been where you are, asking these same questions and searching for answers. We'll dive into queries like "How long does it take to see benefits?", "What about wet dreams?", and "Is it normal to feel worse before feeling better?". I'll share my personal experiences and insights, but remember - your journey is unique. My goal is to provide you with the information I wish I had when I started, helping you navigate your own path with more confidence. Whether you're just starting NoFap or you're well into your journey, this FAQ episode aims to clear up common confusions and provide practical, experience-based answers to your burning questions.
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193 - NoFap Flatline: How To Maximize This Crucial Phase Of Recovery
In this episode, we're tackling a topic that might be hitting close to home for you right now: the NoFap flatline. I remember how confused and worried I was when I first experienced this phase during my own recovery journey. Drawing from my personal battle with a 14-year porn addiction, I'll walk you through what the flatline is and why it's actually a crucial part of your healing process. We'll explore strategies I used to not just survive, but maximize this challenging period. From dealing with low libido to managing mood swings, I'll share the techniques that worked for me. Keep in mind, my experience might not mirror yours exactly, but I hope my insights can help you navigate this important phase of your NoFap journey. Remember, you're not alone in this, and the flatline, though tough, can be a springboard for tremendous personal growth.
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192 - 5 Benefits of Developing Self Awareness
In this episode, I'm diving into the 5 key benefits of developing self-awareness, a skill that's been crucial in my own recovery journey. You'll hear how becoming more self-aware has transformed my life, from helping me understand my triggers to improving my relationships. I'll share personal stories of how each benefit played out in my own struggle with porn addiction and recovery. Whether you're just starting to explore self-awareness or you're looking to deepen your practice, I'll offer practical tips based on my experiences. Remember, this is about my journey - your path might look different, and that's okay. Let's explore how self-awareness could potentially change your life, just as it did mine.
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191 - Can I Masturbate Without Watching Porn ?
In this episode, I tackle the controversial question you might be asking yourself: Can I Masturbate Without Watching Porn? Drawing from my personal experience, including my 14-year struggle with porn addiction, I'll explore this sensitive topic with you, no judgment attached. I'll share the challenges I faced and the insights I gained when separating masturbation from porn use during my recovery journey. Remember, I'm just sharing my story and what worked for me - you're free to make your own informed choices about your sexual health and habits. Let's have an open, honest conversation about this often taboo subject.
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190 - How To Prevent Relapse Post Porn Addiction
In this episode, we delve into the crucial topic of preventing relapse after overcoming a porn addiction. Breaking free from pornography is a significant achievement, but maintaining that freedom requires ongoing effort and vigilance. We'll explore practical tips to identify triggers, build a strong support network, and develop healthy coping mechanisms. This episode offers valuable insights for those at any stage of recovery, helping you strengthen your resolve and continue your journey toward a healthier, more fulfilling life
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189 - 5 Myths About Masturbation Debunked
Join us for an eye-opening episode that tackles one of the most taboo yet universal human experiences. In "5 Myths About Masturbation Debunked," we're breaking down barriers and busting misconceptions about self-pleasure. Whether you're curious, concerned, or just looking to expand your knowledge, this episode promises to challenge your preconceptions and foster a more open dialogue about sexual well-being. Tune in for an honest, respectful, and enlightening conversation that's sure to leave you with new perspectives on this natural and normal aspect of human sexuality.
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188 - How To Cure Delayed Ejaculation
This eye-opening episode tackles the hush-hush topic of delayed ejaculation, breaking down why some guys struggle to cross the finish line in the bedroom. Whether you're dealing with this first hand or just curious, tune in for a frank, funny, and super useful guide to getting your mojo back on track.
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187 - Porn Sex Vs Real Sex ! Are There Any Differences
In this episode, I share how unrealistic portrayals in adult content affected my expectations and behavior in real relationships, particularly after getting married. This episode explores themes of personal growth, the importance of genuine intimacy, and the process of building healthy relationships free from the influence of idealized media depictions."
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186 - 7 steps I took To Quit Masturbating To Pornography
In this candid episode, I share the practical steps I implemented to break free from habitual pornography use and masturbation. I discuss the challenges I faced and the effective tactics that helped me overcome this addictive behaviour.
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185 - Is Your Husband Watching Porn ?
In this eye-opening episode, we dive into the often taboo subject of pornography consumption in marriages. We explore the signs that might indicate your husband is secretly viewing adult content, the potential impacts on your relationship, and expert insights on how to approach this sensitive topic. Whether you're suspicious, concerned, or simply curious, this discussion offers valuable perspectives on trust, intimacy, and the evolving dynamics of modern marriages in the digital age. Join us as we unpack this complex issue and provide guidance for couples navigating this challenging terrain
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184 - What Is NoFap Flatline
In this eye-opening episode, we dive into a phenomenon that's gaining attention in the NoFap community: NoFap flatline. If you've ever wondered why some people experience a sudden drop in libido or mood during their NoFap journey, this episode is for you. We'll break down the concept of NoFap flatline in simple terms, making it accessible to anyone curious about this aspect of abstinence from pornography and masturbation. Drawing from anecdotal reports and discussions within the NoFap community, we'll explore: What exactly is a NoFap flatline? Common symptoms and experiences reported by those going through it The potential reasons behind this phenomenon How long a flatline typically lasts Strategies for coping with and navigating through a flatline Whether you're on your own NoFap journey, supporting someone who is, or simply interested in understanding this aspect of personal development, this episode offers valuable insights
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183 - How to Build a Winning Mindset
In this powerful episode, we dive deep into the essential components of developing a winning mindset. Drawing from personal experiences, success stories, and psychological research, we explore the key tactical steps that can transform your thinking and propel you towards your goals. We'll provide practical exercises and real-world examples to help you implement these strategies in your daily life. Whether you're an entrepreneur, athlete, student, or simply someone looking to achieve more, this episode offers valuable insights to help you develop the mental framework for success. By the end of this episode, you'll have a clear roadmap for building your own winning mindset, empowering you to overcome obstacles and reach new heights in your personal and professional life. Get ready to unlock your full potential and start thinking like a winner!
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182 - 5 Keys Skills Required To Reprogramme Porn Wired Brain
In this powerful episode, I share the 5 key skills I've identified as crucial for reprogramming a porn-wired brain. Drawing from my own transformation and the experiences of thousands of men I've worked with, I break down the essential tools and techniques that have proven effective in overcoming porn addiction. By mastering these skills, listeners can begin the journey of rewiring their brains and breaking free from the grip of porn addiction. This episode offers hope and practical guidance for those seeking to transform their lives and relationships.
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181 - 7 Pitfalls Of NoFap You Must Be On The Look Out For
In this eye-opening episode, I dive into the often-overlooked challenges of the NoFap journey. While many tout the benefits of this practice, there are potential pitfalls that participants should be aware of. Drawing from research and community experiences, I explore 7 critical issues that NoFap practitioners might encounter: Unrealistic expectations Withdrawal symptoms Flatline periods Obsessive thinking about NoFap Neglecting other aspects of personal growth Shame and guilt associated with relapses Potential impact on relationships I'll discuss each of these pitfalls in detail, offering insights on how to recognize and navigate them. This episode aims to provide a balanced view of NoFap, helping listeners approach the practice with realistic expectations and strategies for long-term success. While NoFap can be a transformative journey for many, understanding these potential challenges is crucial for maintaining mental and emotional well-being throughout the process.
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180 - 7 Signs Of Excessive Masturbating You Need To Watch Out For
In this candid episode, I share my journey with masturbation and how a normal habit gradually became excessive. Drawing from my experiences, I discuss 7 key signs that may indicate masturbation has become problematic. These include impacts on daily life, relationships, physical health, and mental well-being. By exploring these warning signs, I aim to help others recognize potential issues and consider seeking support if needed. This episode contains mature themes and is intended for adult listeners.
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179 - How Long Does It Take For Your Brain To Conquer Pornography ?
In this informative episode, I delve into the challenging journey of overcoming pornography addiction, drawing from my own experiences. I explore the neurological aspects of porn addiction and discuss the varying timelines for recovery.
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178 - Porn Addiction Recovery 18 Years Free and Counting
In this candid and insightful episode, I share my personal story of porn addiction recovery and the tools that have kept me free for the last 18 years. Listeners will hear about: My journey to recovery and the moment I decided to break free from porn addiction The specific strategies and tools I've used to maintain my freedom for nearly two decades Challenges I've faced during my post-recovery years and how I've overcome them The positive changes I've experienced in my life since overcoming porn addiction Practical advice based on my long-term recovery experience Whether you're currently struggling with porn addiction or are on your own recovery journey, this episode offers real-world insights from someone who's been there. I'll discuss the realities of long-term recovery and share the methods that have worked for me over the past 18 years. Join me for an honest, hopeful conversation about maintaining freedom from porn addiction in the long term, and discover strategies that might help in your own recovery journey.
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How To Observe Your Thoughts. Epi 177
Discover the transformative power of thought observation in this enlightening podcast episode. As your host, I'll share my personal journey and the life-changing techniques I've developed to master the art of observing thoughts.In this episode, you'll learn:My unique approach to thought observation and how it has impacted my lifePractical techniques to become aware of your thought patternsHow to separate yourself from intrusive or negative thoughtsThe benefits of thought observation in daily life and personal growthThis episode is especially geared towards men seeking powerful tools for personal transformation. Whether you're dealing with stress, looking to boost productivity, or aiming for greater self-awareness, the methods discussed here can help you take control of your mental landscape.Drawing from my own experiences and successes, I'll guide you through the process of implementing these techniques in your own life. Join me to unlock the potential of your mind and embark on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment.Ready to transform your life by mastering your thoughts? This episode is your first step towards a more aware, balanced, and empowered you.
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176 - Erectile Dysfunction from Porn: 3 Key Warning Signs
In this crucial episode, I dive deep into the often-overlooked connection between pornography use and erectile dysfunction. Drawing from personal experience and extensive research, I'll reveal the three key warning signs that could indicate you're developing porn-induced erectile dysfunction (PIED). In this episode, you'll discover: The three critical indicators that your porn habits may be affecting your sexual health My personal insights on recognizing and addressing these warning signs The science behind how excessive porn consumption can lead to erectile issues Practical steps to assess your own situation and take action if needed This episode is particularly relevant for men who are concerned about their sexual performance or have noticed changes in their ability to maintain an erection. Whether you're currently struggling or want to prevent future issues, the information shared here can be a game-changer. I'll share candid details from my own journey and the lessons I've learned, offering a judgment-free space to explore this sensitive topic. By the end of this episode, you'll have a clear understanding of the warning signs and know what steps to take next. Don't let embarrassment or uncertainty hold you back from addressing this important aspect of your health. Tune in to arm yourself with knowledge and take control of your sexual wellbeing.
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175 - How To Keep Your Freedom Post Porn Addiction
In this powerful episode, I share my personal journey of maintaining freedom from addiction for over 18 years. I reveal the essential tools and strategies that have not only helped me stay clean but have also assisted numerous other men in safeguarding their hard-won freedom. Learn practical techniques to build a sustainable, addiction-free life and reinforce your commitment to long-term recovery.
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174 - 5 Steps To Stop Lusting Over Women
In this revealing episode, I share my personal struggle with lustful thoughts and behaviours towards women. I outline five practical steps that helped me overcome this habit and transform my mindset. These powerful tools have not only changed my life but have also positively impacted many other men facing similar challenges. Learn how to develop healthier attitudes and relationships by implementing these practical tools in your own life.
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173 - How to Stop Relapsing: 4 Hidden Habits Keeping You Addicted To Pornography
Struggling to break free from pornography? You're not alone. In this raw and honest episode, we dive into the hidden habits that keep many men trapped in a cycle of relapse. Drawing from personal battles and years of coaching experience, we uncover four sneaky behaviors you might not even realize are sabotaging your recovery. From the late-night scroll that turns into temptation, to the stress-relief excuse we've all used, we'll shine a light on these patterns and show you how to overcome them. Whether you're just starting your journey or have been fighting this battle for years, this episode offers practical, judgment-free advice to help you reclaim your life and relationships. It's time to break the cycle and become the man you're meant to be
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
The 3AM Reset Podcast is your guide to permanently overcoming porn addiction. Hosted by Elisha Kolade, who fought this battle for over 13 years, this show fuses Christian wisdom, neuroscience, and coaching to reveal how your brain gets hijacked and how to reclaim control. Each episode delivers practical steps to break free from compulsive behaviors and rewire your mind for success in work, relationships, and life. With over 200 episodes, discover actionable strategies to become your best self. Join the journey to lasting recovery.
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Elisha Kolade | Christ - Centered Recovery Coach, Intimacy Expert
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