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Becoming Yourself
by David Trig
Becoming Yourself is a reflective podcast about faith, calling, and personal growth. In each episode, David Trigueros explores the real-life journey of becoming who God created you to be—through success, disappointment, leadership, and everyday moments where faith meets life.Honest conversations. Thoughtful reflections. A deeper look at identity, purpose, and the courage to live authentically. More at: davidtrig.com
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637. The Audience of One: Why I Keep Showing Up
When you look at the analytics, the numbers might seem small. But in God's economy, scale isn't the measure of success—faithfulness is.In this episode, I’m opening up about the reality of podcasting without a massive following, and why I refuse to stop hitting record. We talk about the pressure to chase vanity metrics, the temptation to measure our worth by views, and what it really means to create for an Audience of One.In this episode, we explore:Faithful in the Small Things: Why God values devotion in the quiet over visible clout (Zechariah 4:10).Work as Worship: Shifting our mindset from seeking human approval to serving God with our craft (Colossians 3:23).The Value of the One: Why speaking into the life of even a single listener matters deeply (Luke 15:4).Overcoming Creator Burnout: How to keep sowing seeds without growing weary when results take time (Galatians 6:9).Whether you host a show, run a business, or serve faithfully behind the scenes where nobody notices, remember: God doesn't call us to be famous; He calls us to be faithful.
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636. Sometimes I Feel Sad
Even people of great faith experience heavy seasons. In this episode, we’re looking at what the Bible actually says about sadness, grief, and low spirits—and why feeling down isn’t a sign of weak faith. From David in the Psalms to Elijah under the broom tree, Scripture is filled with people who sat in the dark and cried out to God. Join us as we talk about bringing our raw emotions to the Lord without shame, finding comfort in the Psalms, and resting in God's grace when the joy feels far away.
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635. Stop Living on the Fence
Stop straddling the line between the world and the Word. You Can’t Live on the Fence delivers weekly biblical truth, real-talk encouragement, and scriptural insights to help you break free from lukewarm faith, make bold choices, and live with kingdom purpose.Key Bible Passages Behind the Name:1 Kings 18:21 — "How long will you waver between two opinions? If the Lord is God, follow him..."Joshua 24:15 — "Choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve..."Revelation 3:16 — "So, because you are lukewarm—neither hot nor cold—I am about to spit you out of my mouth."
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634. The Hidden Cost of Going Too Fast
When you operate at a high level, you see the finish line instantly—and it’s natural to want to sprint toward it. But what happens when you run so far ahead of the pack that you look back and realize you’re completely isolated? In this episode, we unpack the hidden trap of high-achievers: moving too fast. We talk about the crucial difference between being a visionary and causing team whiplash, why pacing your execution is just as important as the execution itself, and how executive self-awareness can save you from becoming a liability to your own mission. Slow down just enough to keep the room with you.Join my class this Fall called Get Your Fire Back at davidtrig.com/getyourfireback. Starts August 1st, 2026
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633. I'll Feel Better When You're Better
Scripture calls us to "carry each other's burdens," but does that mean your personal peace should be held hostage by someone else's storm? It is incredibly easy to mistake relational codependency for Christian charity.In this episode, we look at the phrase "I'll feel better when you're better" through a spiritual lens. We explore the profound beauty of Christ-like empathy (Romans 12:15) alongside the dangerous trap of making a loved one's wellness the ultimate anchor of your joy. Tune in as we discuss how Jesus modeled deep love without losing His foundation, and how to shift your mindset from a place of anxious control to a place of anchored faith—learning to say, "My soul is anchored in the Lord, and because I am steady, I can stand with you while you heal."
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632. How to Get Your Fire Back
Does this sound like you?You’ve built a life of meaning. You have the knowledge, a deep foundation of faith, and a massive desire to serve the world.But lately, the fire feels a little dim.Maybe you’re feeling the weight of the “messy middle” of life:Navigating the stress of supporting struggling adult children.Managing the first signs of your own health changes or caring for aging parents.Walking through the aftermath of a major life transition like divorce.Feeling like your faith is still there, but the raw passion and certainty are lacking.You aren’t looking for another information product or a passive course. You are fed up with being stuck, and you’re ready to go back to who you reallyare—your passions, your old self, and your next level of impact.It's time to get your fire back and join my new class.Email me at [email protected] to get started
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631. Learning to Let Go
"Letting go" sounds beautiful in theory, but in practice, it can feel like a leap into the dark. This week, we explore the powerful connection between surrender and provision. When we release our grip on control, we aren't giving up—we are stepping into faith. Join us as we unpack biblical truths and personal stories about trusting God’s character, navigating the discomfort of the waiting room, and witnessing the quiet, perfect ways He provides exactly what we need, right when we need it.
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630. The Hardest Step to Take is the First
Ever notice how the hardest part of fixing a bad day, starting a routine, or asking for help is just getting off the starting line? When you're dealing with mental fatigue, overwhelm, or anxiety, the distance between knowing what to do and actually doing it can feel massive.In this episode, we break down the psychology of the "first step" and share practical, no-BS strategies to bypass the mental paralysis. No toxic positivity here—just actionable tips to build momentum, lower the bar for success, and make that crucial first move a little bit easier.In this episode, we cover:Why the brain resists change when you're feeling low or overwhelmed.The "5-Minute Rule" for tricking your brain into action.Moving past the fear of doing it perfectly.Simple, low-energy mental health resets you can do right now.
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629. A Manifesto for a Life of Clarity and Devotion Even When You Lack Momentum
We’ve all been there: you have big intentions, but zero wind in your sails. You know where you want to go, but the daily drive just isn't showing up.This episode is a loving reality check and a tactical blueprint for those quiet, heavy seasons. We talk about how to stop judging yourself for a lack of momentum and start building a life rooted in quiet devotion instead. If you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or waiting for a "spark" to get back on track, this manifesto is for you.
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628. Everything Is for Your Benefit
Everything Is for Your BenefitWhat if even your hardest seasons are not wasted?In this episode, we explore the biblical truth that God is at work in every circumstance for His glory and our good. From suffering and setbacks to growth and ministry, discover how God uses all things to shape us, strengthen us, and bless others through us.Key Scriptures: 2 Corinthians 4:15, Romans 8:28, Genesis 50:20"Everything is for your benefit, so that the grace that is reaching more and more people may cause thanksgiving to overflow to the glory of God." — 2 Corinthians 4:15This conversation will encourage you to trust that even the painful parts of your journey are preparing you for a greater purpose.
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627. I Used to Be You
There was a time when I thought I had it all figured out. I knew what people should do, how they should change, and why they were struggling.Then life happened.Loss. Rejection. Anxiety. Exhaustion. Family challenges. Health scares. Seasons that humbled me in ways I never expected.In this episode, I reflect on the growing realization that many of the people I once tried to help are now teaching me something profound. The person who is overwhelmed, discouraged, uncertain, afraid, or simply trying to make it through the day is no longer someone I observe from a distance.I've become them.And surprisingly, that has made me a better pastor, husband, father, friend, and disciple of Jesus.If you've ever found yourself in a season you never imagined, this conversation is about humility, empathy, suffering, grace, and the strange gift of discovering that the people you once counseled may have been preparing you for your own journey all along.Sometimes the greatest wisdom comes when we finally realize: "I used to help people like you... and now I am you."
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626. It's Ok to Rest
Podcast Description – “It’s OK to Rest”In a culture that often equates busyness with worth and productivity with purpose, many people struggle to give themselves permission to rest. Yet Scripture presents a very different perspective. From the beginning, God established rhythms of work and rest, not because He needed rest, but because we do. Rest is not a reward for finishing everything on our to-do list—it is a gift from a loving Father who knows our limits and cares for our souls.In this episode, we explore the biblical invitation to rest and what it means to trust God in a world that never seems to slow down. Together, we'll look at how God modeled rest in creation, commanded Sabbath as a blessing rather than a burden, and how Jesus Himself regularly withdrew from the crowds to pray, recharge, and commune with the Father. Through Scripture, personal reflection, and practical encouragement, we'll discover that rest is not laziness, weakness, or a lack of faith—it is an act of faith.When we rest, we acknowledge that God is in control and that the world does not depend on our constant striving. We learn to exchange anxiety for trust, exhaustion for renewal, and performance for presence. True rest goes beyond physical sleep; it is a deep spiritual posture of abiding in Christ, who invites all who are weary and burdened to come to Him and find rest for their souls.Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, burned out, or simply longing for a deeper sense of peace, this conversation offers a reminder that God never intended for us to live in a constant state of depletion. His invitation remains the same today: to be still, to trust, and to find restoration in His presence.Join us as we unpack the beauty of biblical rest and discover why, sometimes, the most faithful thing you can do is pause, breathe, and receive the peace that God freely gives."Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest." — The Gospel of MatthewBecause rest isn't stepping away from God’s purpose—it’s often where we encounter Him most deeply.
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625. I'm Not Who You Think I Am
I’m Not Who You Think I AmWhat if the story people tell about you isn't the whole story?Over time, others form opinions about us. Some see our strengths and assume life comes easy. Others see our mistakes and decide that's who we are. Sometimes they remember an old version of us and never notice how much we've changed. The truth is that none of us can be fully captured by a label, a season, a success, or a failure.In this episode, I reflect on the gap between how we're perceived and who we really are. I talk about identity, expectations, disappointment, growth, and the lifelong journey of becoming our true selves. We'll explore why so many of us spend years trying to live up to other people's assumptions—and what happens when we finally stop.This is a conversation for anyone who has ever felt misunderstood, overlooked, misjudged, or trapped by a role they've outgrown. It's for those carrying hidden struggles behind a confident smile, and for those who wonder if there is more to their story than what others can see.The older I get, the more I realize that identity isn't something we achieve—it's something we uncover. Beneath the accomplishments, the wounds, the titles, and the expectations is a person loved by God, shaped by grace, and still becoming.You are more than your worst day.You are more than your greatest success.You are more than what others think of you.Maybe the most important question isn't, "Who do people think I am?" but rather, "Who am I becoming?"Join me for an honest conversation about identity, authenticity, and the courage to live from a deeper place.Because the truth is, I'm not who you think I am.And neither are you.
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624. Wrestling the Angel: The Art of the Hard Season
We often treat our greatest struggles as obstacles to avoid, or seasons we just need to survive. But what if the very thing you are fighting against is actually the force meant to shape you?In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of the "sacred struggle." Inspired by the ancient story of a dark night spent wrestling an angel, we explore why real transformation requires friction, resistance, and endurance. We dismantle the myth of comfortable growth and look at how the pressures of leadership, family, and personal change can either break us or bless us. If you are currently in the middle of a heavy season and wondering when the fight will end, this conversation will help you reframe the battle, plant your pivot foot, and demand a blessing from the struggle.In this episode, you’ll learn:Why pain and pressure are often indicators of an impending breakthrough.How to shift from a "survivor" mindset to an active "wrestler" who extracts value from hardship.The power of staying in the fight until your identity is permanently elevated.
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623. I Miss My Kids | davidT
I miss my kids.Lately I’ve been feeling the shift—how the house is quieter, how life isn’t what it used to be, and how much I miss the everyday moments we had together. Nothing is necessarily “wrong”… it’s just different. And that difference can hit harder than I expect.In this episode, I talk honestly about that feeling—missing them, wanting things to feel like they used to, and learning how to live in the middle of it without shutting down or trying to fix everything.I’m realizing this is part of being a parent—loving deeply, letting go slowly, and finding peace even when things feel unfamiliar. If you’ve ever felt that quiet ache, this one’s for you.
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622. I Am Becoming More Honest With Myself | davidT
In this episode, I talk about what it means to finally face the truth about yourself—your fears, patterns, excuses, pain, and potential. Real growth begins when we stop performing, stop hiding, and start telling ourselves the truth.I share reflections on identity, healing, family, pressure, and the quiet inner work of becoming a stronger, freer man. This is about honesty without shame… clarity without pretending… and the courage to become who you really are.If you’ve been feeling stuck, tired, divided, or ready for change—this one is for you.
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621. Hope Is Priceless… Even When It Feels Absent
Hope is priceless. We all say that.But what do you do when you don’t feel it?In this episode, I’m talking honestly about what it’s like to believe in hope… while feeling empty, tired, or unsure inside.This isn’t about pretending everything is okay. It’s about finding your way back—slowly, honestly, and maybe even painfully.If you’ve ever felt like hope was slipping through your hands, this conversation is for you.Need my coaching? Email me [email protected], visit davidtrig.com/coaching
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620. What I Said Before He Got Married | davidTrig
A young man asked me what kind of place he should get as he prepares for marriage—and the conversation went deeper than rent and budgets. We talked about pressure, expectations, and what actually matters in your first home. If you’re starting out or advising someone who is, this will help you get it right.
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619. When Everything Hits at Once | davidTrig
The Madness of MarchSome months just hit harder than others.In this episode, I open up about a week where everything stacked at once—family stress, health scares, exhaustion, and the pressure of trying to hold it all together. What do you do when life feels overwhelming and your mind won’t slow down?This is an honest conversation about fear, faith, and learning to trust God when you’re stretched thin.
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618. The Grass Isn’t Greener (Stop Running) | davidTrig
Ever feel like life would be better somewhere else?A different church, a different job, a different version of your life?In this episode, we unpack the phrase “the grass isn’t always greener” and what it means for your calling, your contentment, and your courage. Because sometimes God isn’t calling you to leave… He’s calling you to see clearly.
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617. Someone Took My Guitar… But God Already Knew | davidTrig
The Miracle GuitarEver have one of those moments where God whispers something small… and later you realize why? I felt prompted to bring a backup guitar. I didn’t know my main one would disappear. This episode is about paying attention to those quiet nudges from God—and how sometimes the miracle isn’t flashy… it’s simply that God was already ahead of the problem.
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616. The U-Haul Guy Reminded Me Who I Am | davidTrig
Today something small happened that meant a lot to me.I was at U-Haul talking with the guy behind the counter. Just a normal conversation. Nothing dramatic. But in that moment I felt something I haven’t felt in a while.I felt like myself again.Not the stressed version.Not the guy buried in details and expectations.Just me.So I did something simple and honest.I invited him to church.And it reminded me that deep down, this is who I really am. I love people. I love connecting. I love pointing people toward hope.Sometimes we drift away from ourselves because of pressure, work, fear, or trying to keep everyone happy.Today I remembered something important:The real you is still in there.
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615. Stop Performing. Start Telling the Truth | davidTrig
At some point in life you have to make a decision:Keep performing… or start telling the truth.The truth about your life.The truth about what you believe.The truth about the person you actually are underneath all the expectations.In this episode, David talks about the power—and the risk—of telling the truth. Because when someone finally tells the truth, something electric happens.People wake up.
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614. Sometimes You Have to Be the Bad Boy | davidTrig
There comes a moment in life when being “good” stops meaning being faithful—and starts meaning being small.In this episode, David talks about why it might be time to risk being seen as “bad.” Not immoral, not cruel—but willing to disappoint expectations, challenge systems, and stop shrinking just to keep the peace.What if the real danger isn’t criticism, rejection, or getting beat up for your ideas? What if the real danger is spending your life silencing your true voice?David reflects on the courage it takes to be unapologetically yourself—especially when people around you are comfortable with the smaller version of you. Drawing from personal experiences in leadership, faith, creativity, and conflict, this episode explores the tension between staying safe and becoming who you were meant to be.If you’ve ever felt like your environment rewards compliance but punishes authenticity, this conversation will resonate deeply.Maybe being “bad” is exactly what it takes to finally become yourself.
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613. Who Do You Think You Are? | davidTrig
Who Do You Think You Are?That question can sound like criticism—or it can become a moment of clarity.In this episode, David explores why fit matters more than titles, platforms, or opportunities. Just because you can do something doesn’t mean it’s the place you’re meant to flourish.We’ll talk about identity, rejection, leadership, and how discovering the right environment can unlock who you really are.Because sometimes the door closing isn’t the end.It’s direction.
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612. How to Deal with Bullies | davidTrig
What do you do when someone tries to dominate, control, or intimidate you?In this episode, I share from personal experience — the emotional toll, the internal “noise,” and how I’m learning to respond with clarity instead of fear.If you’ve ever felt small in someone else’s presence, this conversation will help you find your footing again.
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611. How to Change Negativity to Optimism
Lately I’ve caught myself drifting into negativity — about my work, my calling, my future.In this episode, I unpack how I’ve been reframing disappointment, quieting the internal noise, and choosing optimism — even when nothing externally has changed.Optimism isn’t pretending everything is perfect. It’s deciding that your story isn’t over.Let’s talk about how to shift your mindset, rebuild momentum, and lead from peace instead of pressure.
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610. What God Told Me at the Beach | davidTrig
I went to the beach to clear my head.I didn’t go looking for a spiritual moment. I went carrying questions — disappointment, restlessness, ambition, calling, and that quiet ache that won’t go away.And in the middle of the noise of the waves… something shifted.In this episode, I share what I sensed God telling me — about waiting, about ambition, about serving faithfully when no one claps, about trusting Him when doors don’t open the way I hoped they would.If you’re in a season of:Feeling overlookedWondering if you missed your momentWrestling with your callingTrying to stay faithful while you waitThis one is for you.Sometimes clarity doesn’t come in a boardroom.It comes in stillness.Let’s talk about what I heard.
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609. The Joy of Lent (Through the Eyes of a Child) | davidTrig
Lent is supposed to be reflective. Quiet. Serious.But what if it’s also full of joy?In this episode, I share a powerful moment when two children completely shifted my perspective on this season. In the middle of leadership stress, disappointment, expectations, and wrestling with calling… their simple faith cut through all of it.No platform.No stage lights.No big church energy.Just childlike joy.We talk about:• Why Lent isn’t just about giving things up• The hidden gift of serving without applause• What children understand that leaders often forget• How God meets us in small, ordinary moments• Reclaiming joy when you feel overlookedIf you’ve been feeling stretched, unseen, or questioning your lane… this one is for you.Sometimes the greatest teachers aren’t on the stage.They’re in the room.And they’re five years old.Let’s talk about the joy of Lent.
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608. Seven Steps to Rebuild Your Marriage After a Crisis| davidTrig
7 Steps to Rebuild Your Marriage After a Family CrisisStep 1: Name the crisis honestlyStep 2: Release survival rolesStep 3: Restore emotional safety before intimacyStep 4: Grieve what was lost—togetherStep 5: Rebuild friendship firstStep 6: Create new rhythms—don’t chase the old onesStep 7: Invite help without shameClosing ThoughtA family crisis doesn’t just stress a marriage—it rewires it. Today we’re talking about how couples don’t just survive crisis, but rebuild something stronger, wiser, and more honest on the other side.Healing starts with truth.Say it plainly:“That season was hard on us.”Not minimizing. Not dramatizing. Just naming reality.You can’t rebuild what you won’t acknowledge.During crisis, couples shift into roles:Strong one / fragile oneFixer / holderManager / supporterThose roles are necessary in emergencies—but toxic long-term.Say out loud:“We don’t have to relate through survival anymore.”This step alone changes everything.After crisis, nervous systems stay guarded.Rebuilding begins with:Presence before solutionsListening before fixingGentle closeness without expectationsSafety comes first.Connection follows.Intimacy grows last.Most couples skip this, and it costs them years.Grieve:Lost easeLost timeLost versions of yourselvesSay the hard sentences:“I miss who we were.”“I hate that this changed us.”Shared grief softens hearts.Unspoken grief hardens them.Romance doesn’t reappear automatically after trauma—friendship does.Ask again:What makes you laugh now?What drains you now?What brings you life now?Companionship is the bridge back to passion.Don’t aim to “get back to normal.”Instead, ask:“What does a healthy week look like for us now?”Lighter schedules.Clear boundaries.Joy on purpose.A wiser marriage replaces the old one.Strong marriages don’t wait until they’re broken.Counseling after crisis is not failure—it’s wisdom.Think physical therapy after injury, not emergency surgery.Getting help early shortens recovery and deepens connection.A crisis doesn’t define your marriage. How you heal does.You’re not rebuilding what you had.You’re building what you didn’t have the tools for before.And that marriage—can be deeper, calmer, and more connected than the one you lost.
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607. How to Start a Podcast in 2026 | davidTrig
How to Start a Podcast in 2026!
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606. Is This the End of My Ministry? | davidTrig
At 56 years old, after a lifetime of ministry as a worship pastor, lead pastor, and shepherd, I’ve found myself asking one of the hardest questions of my life:“Is this the end of my ministry passion?”In this deeply personal episode, I explore what it feels like when the fire of calling flickers—when leadership conflict wears you down, when the work no longer feels aligned with your gifts, when age and insecurity creep in, and when the desire to teach, lead, and shepherd gets buried under tech duties and daily pressure.But this isn’t a story about quitting.It’s a story about rediscovery.I talk about:feeling unseen in your giftsthe grief of changing seasonsthe fear of stepping into new ministry rolesthe longing to preach, teach, and disciple againhow God reawakens passion in surprising wayswhy 56 might actually be the beginning—not the end—of your true pastoral callingIf you’re wrestling with your purpose, your energy, or your future in ministry, this episode will breathe honesty, courage, and hope into your soul.
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605. SPANISH - El Amor Entre Hermanos es Unico | davidTrig
🎙️ El Amor Entre Hermanos es ÚnicoEl amor entre hermanos es una historia sagrada: hecha de risas, peleas, recuerdos y un lazo que ni el tiempo puede romper. En este episodio, David Trig comparte reflexiones honestas sobre lo que significa crecer, sanar y reencontrarse con el corazón de la familia.Un episodio para quienes han amado, perdido y vuelto a amar — recordando que, al final, la familia es el primer lenguaje del amor.
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604. What Women Really Want: Beyond Bucks, Babies and Bods | davidTrig
Our world tells men that worth is built on the “3 sixes”: six pack, six figures, six feet tall. But what if God designed something more meaningful? In this conversation, we unpack the desires of the heart — trust, devotion, partnership, emotional presence, purpose — and how men can cultivate real strength that lasts beyond the exterior. This episode invites men and women into the deeper story of love God intended.
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603. What Men Really Want: Beyond Women, Money, and Fame | davidTrig
1. INTRO – The Illusion of Satisfaction (2–3 min)Hook: “We chase women, money, and recognition—but still feel empty. Why?”Story: a moment when you had success but felt hollow inside.Truth: We weren’t created just to be comfortable—we were created to be called.Verse:“What does it profit a man to gain the whole world, yet lose his soul?” — Mark 8:36Transition: “Let’s talk about what really drives a man—and what God says about it.”Men often confuse being desired with being known.When love becomes a mirror for ego, it turns into idolatry.Healthy vision: love as partnership in mission, not escape from emptiness.Verse:“He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.” — Proverbs 18:22“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church…” — Ephesians 5:25Many men tie identity to income: ‘If I lose my job, who am I?’The trap: chasing provision without peace.Verse:“For the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil.” — 1 Timothy 6:10“Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” — Matthew 6:33The stage can become an altar where we worship ourselves.Men crave honor—but real honor is found in humility.Verse:“Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.” — Philippians 2:3“He must become greater; I must become less.” — John 3:30The turning point: “What was I made to build, heal, or lead?”True manhood = responsibility + surrender.Verse:“For we are God’s masterpiece, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do.” — Ephesians 2:10“Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you; before you were born, I set you apart.” — Jeremiah 1:5Reflection: pain often reveals purpose—God wastes nothing.A. Look Inward — IdentityWhat makes your heart beat faster?Verse: “As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.” — Proverbs 23:7B. Look Backward — RedemptionYour scars are clues.Verse: “He comforts us in all our troubles so we can comfort others.” — 2 Corinthians 1:4C. Look Upward — CallingAsk God, not culture, for your mission.Verse: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart… and He will direct your paths.” — Proverbs 3:5–6D. Look Around — ActionServe today, purpose grows through movement.Verse: “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord.” — Colossians 3:23Recap: Pleasure fades. Purpose endures.Verse:“Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong.” — 1 Corinthians 16:13Final thought: “You don’t need more applause—you need more assignment.”Call to action: “Ask God this week: What do You want to do through my life?”Underscore with calm instrumental.Tagline voice: “Men aren’t fulfilled by what they collect, but by what they’re called to.”🔥 2. THE THREE FALSE GODS (7–9 min)A. WOMEN — The Search for ValidationB. MONEY — The Illusion of ControlC. FAME — The Hunger for Significance💡 3. THE SHIFT: From Success to Significance (6–8 min)🧭 4. HOW TO DISCOVER PURPOSE (5–7 min)💬 5. CLOSING REFLECTION (3–4 min)🎶 OUTRO (optional)
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602. SPANISH - Cómo Parar la Epidemia de Mentiras | davidT
🎙️ “Cómo parar la epidemia de mentiras y escondernos de la verdad”Vivimos en una epidemia del alma: mentimos para no ser heridos, nos escondemos detrás de máscaras, y terminamos perdiendo el rostro de la verdad. Pero Jesús dijo: “Conocerán la verdad, y la verdad los hará libres” (Juan 8:32).En este episodio, David Trigueros nos guía hacia esa libertad — aprendiendo a reconocer las mentiras que nos esclavizan y a volver a la verdad que sana, restaura y nos devuelve el corazón íntegro delante de Dios.✨ Escúchalo y comienza tu proceso de sanidad y libertad en Cristo.
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601. My Wife Told me to Take a Hike! | davidT
When my wife said, “Take a hike,” I thought she was mad. Turns out… she meant go to the gym! 🏋️♂️🤣In this episode, I talk about what happens when your spouse knows you need endorphins more than empathy. From pretending to stretch to realizing my treadmill has more faith than I do, this is a story about marriage, midlife, and muscle soreness — all wrapped in love and laughter.If you’ve ever been “lovingly told” to work out your stress instead of talking it to death, this one’s for you. Grab your sneakers — and maybe a protein shake.
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600. Surviving Anxiety (My Story) Part 1 | davidT
In this heartfelt episode, David shares his personal journey through the storms of anxiety—and the grace, tools, and love that helped him rise again. From learning to breathe and be present to finding peace in faith, family, and honest connection, this episode is a raw, hope-filled reminder that healing is possible.If you’ve ever felt stuck in fear or self-doubt, this one’s for you. You’re not alone—and you, too, can live as proof that freedom and peace are within reach.🎧 Listen, breathe, and believe again.
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599. How to Handle Being Impatient as an Enneagram 3 | davidT
As an Enneagram 3, impatience can feel like fuel—until it burns you out. In this episode, David Trig unpacks why high-achieving types struggle with waiting, slowing down, and letting go of control. Through personal stories and practical insights, you’ll learn how to channel your drive without losing your peace, connect your worth to presence—not performance—and rediscover the power of grace in the in-between seasons.
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598. SPANISH - Cuando Intentas Ser Zen Pero Sos Latino😂 | davidT
“Cuando intentas ser zen pero eres latino”Intentar ser zen siendo latino es… una aventura espiritual con banda sonora de cumbia y vecinos haciendo carne asada. 🌶️😌En este episodio, David Trig reflexiona —entre risas y respiraciones profundas— sobre lo difícil que es encontrar paz cuando tu mamá entra al cuarto a preguntarte si ya comiste y tu mente no se calla ni con incienso.Prepárate para reír, identificarte y tal vez, solo tal vez… descubrir que la verdadera paz no está en el silencio, sino en poder respirar en medio del caos.🎧 Humor, fe, y filosofía casera.☕ Porque el zen latino se practica con café… y con paciencia.
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597. Confessions of an Enneagram 3 The Achiever | davidT
Title: Confessions of an Enneagram 3: I Actually Do Need OthersWe Enneagram 3s are masters of motion — always achieving, always shining, always performing. But behind the excellence, there’s a quiet fear: Will they still love me if I stop performing?In this honest episode, David Trigueros shares a raw confession — that even the most driven hearts need connection, rest, and grace. Through stories, laughter, and reflection, he invites you to trade performance for presence, applause for authenticity, and loneliness for real love.Because maybe the truest success isn’t what you build — it’s who you let in.
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596. SPANISH - Mi Terapeuta es un Robot 😂 | davidT
En este episodio, David descubre que su nuevo terapeuta… ¡es un robot! 🤖💬 Entre risas, confesiones y un poco de locura santa, “ChatGPGOZO” se convierte en su compañero de terapia, fe y humor.Hablamos de ansiedad, fe, música, y cómo encontrar gozo incluso cuando la vida parece un bug del sistema.Prepárate para reír, reflexionar y decir con nosotros: “¡GOZO activado!” 😄✨🎧 Escucha, comparte y deja que este robot te saque una sonrisa y te recuerde que el gozo siempre tiene la última palabra.
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595. SPANISH - Mi esposa me dice: ‘¿Por qué gritas tanto?’😂 | davidT
Mi esposa me dice: “¿Por qué gritas?”Y yo le respondo: “¡No grito, amor… soy gritón por naturaleza!” 😂Este episodio es una carta de amor (a todo volumen) para cada latino que ha sido acusado injustamente de “estar enojado” cuando en realidad solo estaba viviendo intensamente.Porque seamos honestos…Nosotros no hablamos, ¡proyectamos!No discutimos, ¡interpretamos!No pedimos las cosas con calma, ¡las declaramos como profecía doméstica!Aquí te cuento cómo nuestras frases más gritadas —“¡Ya comiste!”, “¡Abrígate!”, “¡Ven acá!”— no son enojo, son cariño con decibeles.Hablamos del misterio del “amor ruidoso”, de la pasión latina, y de por qué a veces Dios también parece gritón… pero en realidad solo está tratando de que lo escuchemos. 🙌Prepárate para reírte, identificarte, y decir:“¡Amén, hermano, así es mi casa también!”🎧 Vida GOZO con David Trigueros —donde la fe se ríe, el amor hace ruido,y los gritones somos santos con micrófono. 🎸🔥
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594. SPANISH - Querido David de 11 Años😢 | davidT
🎙️ Querido David de 11 añosEn este episodio íntimo y profundamente humano, David escribe una carta a su yo de 11 años —un niño valiente que tuvo que dejar su hogar en medio de la guerra, lleno de miedo pero también de una fuerza que lo llevaría a construir una vida hermosa. Entre lágrimas y gratitud, David reflexiona sobre el dolor, la fe, las heridas y la esperanza que lo han formado.Una conversación del alma: entre el pasado y el presente, entre el niño que fue y el hombre que sigue sanando.🎧 Un episodio para todos los que alguna vez necesitaron escuchar: “No te rindas, eres un milagro.”
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593. SPANISH - Mi Garage Esta Ungido! 🙌 | davidT
Lo que empezó como un lugar para guardar herramientas… ahora es mi templo, mi estudio, mi oficina, y a veces mi terapia.En este episodio de Programa Vida GOZO con David Trigueros, hablo de cómo mi garage se convirtió en el lugar donde Dios, el café y los cables se juntan para darme un poco de paz (y ruido).Entre risas y reflexiones, descubrimos que el Espíritu también se mueve entre bicicletas viejas, guitarras desafinadas y un micrófono con cinta.Spoiler: el garage no está arruinado — está ungido. 🙌Enjoy and share!davidTrigFollow me on Instagram @davidtrigEmail me at [email protected]
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592. SPANISH - Como Hablar ChatGPGringo! | davidT
¿Cansado de que tu inglés suene como novela mexicana de 3 horas? Aquí te enseño cómo usar ChatGPT para hablar como gringo: rápido, cortito y sin tanto rollo. Nada de “mi querido estimado honorable amigo”… mejor un simple “what’s up?”.En este podcast nos reímos de cómo los hispanos hablamos hasta por los codos y aprendemos a traducir ese desmadre en frases cortas que los gringos sí entienden. Aprende inglés sin perder tu sazón latino.Enjoy and share!davidTrigFollow me on Instagram @davidtrigEmail me at [email protected]
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591. SPANISH - El Oso David | davidT
En este episodio habla El Oso David de su dia, puras risas aunque su carro se quemo! Y los perros, de vuelta por que ya no los aguanto.Enjoy and share!davidTrigFollow me on Instagram @davidtrigEmail me at [email protected]
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590. A Biblical Perspective on Confidence | davidT
A Biblical Perspective on Confidence1. Master Yourself → Renew Your MindRobert talks about mastering fears and insecurities. The Bible says true mastery begins with the renewal of the mind:“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind…” (Romans 12:2).Instead of self-control through willpower alone, we find it by letting the Spirit guide our thoughts and emotions (Galatians 5:22-23). Biblical confidence is rooted not in self, but in God’s Spirit within us.Greene emphasizes reading people well. Scripture agrees—but frames it as wisdom and love:“The purposes of a person’s heart are deep waters, but one who has insight draws them out.” (Proverbs 20:5).True insight comes from compassion and discernment, not manipulation. Confidence grows when we choose to serve others rather than impress them (Mark 10:45).Greene says confidence comes through repeated action. The Bible calls this walking by faith, not by sight (2 Corinthians 5:7).Confidence is not the absence of fear, but taking steps forward because we trust God’s promises:“Be strong and courageous… for the Lord your God goes with you.” (Deuteronomy 31:6).Greene highlights trial-and-error. Scripture reframes this as trials producing maturity:“Consider it pure joy… whenever you face trials… because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.” (James 1:2-4).Each failure becomes an opportunity for God to shape character. In Christ, mistakes aren’t wasted—they’re redeemed.Instead of endless reinvention through image, the Bible says our deepest transformation is being made new in Christ:“If anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” (2 Corinthians 5:17).Dangerous confidence isn’t about ego—it’s about living boldly in our identity as sons and daughters of God.Hook: "Robert Greene says confidence is dangerous—Scripture says it’s holy when rooted in Christ."Step 1: Self-mastery → Romans 12:2 (renewed mind).Step 2: Reading people → Proverbs 20:5, Mark 10:45.Step 3: Confidence by action → Deuteronomy 31:6, 2 Corinthians 5:7.Step 4: Learning by failure → James 1:2-4.Step 5: Reinvention → 2 Corinthians 5:17.Closing: Encourage listeners that true confidence is not self-made but God-breathed boldness (Acts 4:13).Enjoy and share!davidTrigFollow me on Instagram @davidtrigEmail me at [email protected] your 90 minute complementary coaching sesssion at davidtrig.com/coaching
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589. Week 2 – Brotherhood is Biblical (Male Loneliness) | davidT
Intro:"Men are more connected digitally than ever before… and yet more disconnected in real life. Studies show that male friendships have been cut in half in the last 30 years. Today, many men can’t name one person they could call in a crisis. This isn’t just a social problem — it’s a spiritual one. And the Church has an answer."Key Scripture: Proverbs 27:17 – 'As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.'Main Points:1. Jonathan & David: A model for deep, godly friendship.2. The difference between activity friends and accountability friends.3. How brotherhood strengthens faith and resilience.Challenge: Invite a friend to coffee or lunch with the goal of deeper conversation.Enjoy and share!davidTrigFollow me on Instagram @davidtrigEmail me at [email protected] your 90 minute complementary coaching sesssion at davidtrig.com/coaching
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588. Week 1 - A Crisis Hiding in Plain Sight (Male Loneliness) | davidT
Intro:"Men are more connected digitally than ever before… and yet more disconnected in real life. Studies show that male friendships have been cut in half in the last 30 years. Today, many men can’t name one person they could call in a crisis. This isn’t just a social problem — it’s a spiritual one. And the Church has an answer."Biblical Foundation:Genesis 2:18 – “The Lord God said, ‘It is not good for the man to be alone.’”God said these words before sin entered the world. This means that loneliness is not part of God’s design — even in a perfect garden, Adam needed companionship. If it wasn’t good for Adam to be alone, it’s not good for us either.Main Points:The Scope of the ProblemResearch shows men aged 25–60 are among the loneliest demographic.Loneliness is linked to depression, addiction, and even physical health issues.This is not just a “men’s issue” — it affects families, workplaces, and churches.Why It’s a Spiritual BattleIsolation makes us vulnerable to temptation and despair.1 Peter 5:8 compares the enemy to a lion — and lions hunt the isolated.The devil’s first tactic is often to get us alone in our thoughts.God’s Blueprint for ConnectionFrom the beginning, God made people for community, mission, and relationship.Jesus modeled life with a close group of men — not just teaching them, but eating, walking, serving, and grieving with them.Brotherhood is part of discipleship.Practical Step:This week, pray and ask God to put one man on your heart who might be lonely. Then, send him a simple message or invite him for coffee. Don’t wait for him to reach out — you be the one to step in.Closing Prayer & Challenge:"Lord, You set the lonely in families. Forgive us for ignoring those who feel unseen. Open our eyes to the men in our lives who need connection. Give us the courage to reach out and be the friend we wish we had. In Jesus’ name, Amen."Challenge: Don’t just think about connection — act on it. By next Sunday, have at least one intentional conversation with a man you suspect may be lonely.
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Becoming Yourself is a reflective podcast about faith, calling, and personal growth. In each episode, David Trigueros explores the real-life journey of becoming who God created you to be—through success, disappointment, leadership, and everyday moments where faith meets life.Honest conversations. Thoughtful reflections. A deeper look at identity, purpose, and the courage to live authentically. More at: davidtrig.com
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