Cord of Three Podcast

On this episode of the CO3 Podcast, Lisa and I sit down to talk about my recent trip to Nepal where I had the opportunity to coach pastors and take the gospel into some unreached parts of the world on a 4-day trekking experience in the Himalayas. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey friends! Spencer here.Ladies... do ever catch yourself thinking, "Help... my husband is not housebroken?" After 31+ years together, here's the shift that changed everything for Lisa Breedlove and me: It's not my job (or hers) to "train" the other person. We're called to be true partners and helpmates. Start with real respect and admiration (John Eldredge nailed it in Wild at Heart), mix in open communication, loving service, and actually sharing the load... and frustration turns into teamwork.This fits right into our C.O.R.D. values:Courage to pick respect instead of criticismOwnership of my own attitude and actionsRespect that wins hearts quietly (straight out of 1 Peter 3)Determination to keep showing up every dayNew episode is live with the full story + Scripture encouragement. How has choosing respect shifted things in your marriage? #CordOfThree #MarriageMatters #CORDvaluesA cord of three strands is not easily broken. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey friends, we just dropped Episode 126—the very first of 2026—and Lisa and I are so excited to share it with you. We dove into something that hits close to home for so many marriages: how harbored anger can quietly clog up the beautiful flow of love and intimacy we’re meant to enjoy. We picture marriage (and our hearts) as safe harbors—places of peace and refuge—but when we store up resentment, it’s like debris blocking the water, choking off warmth and connection.I shared a funny-but-real story from this week: while I was out of town, our HVAC filter got completely clogged and the system couldn’t push out the heat we needed. That’s exactly what unaddressed anger does in a relationship. We tied it to Psalm 103 and God’s incredible mercy that heals and restores.The heart of the episode? Forgiveness unclogs everything. It frees us to harbor love instead of bitterness and lets trust and closeness flow again. Lisa broke it down so practically: forgive first (take the step), forgive fast (don’t let it sit), forgive fully (let it go completely), and forgive freely (extend grace with no strings).We also gave quick updates on our 40 Day Prayer Challenge, our words for the year—FOCUS (Family, Others, Community, Understanding, Self) and OUTDO from 2 Corinthians 8:7—and yeah, we’re still adjusting from sandy St. Maarten back to snowy reality!If this resonates, grab the episode, share it with someone who needs it, and come connect with us on Facebook (Cord Of Three Coaching), Instagram (@cordofthreecoaching), or cordofthreecoaching.com. As always, remember: two are better than one, and a cord of three strands is not easily broken. Grateful for you all—here’s to healthier hearts and stronger marriages in 2026. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this episode of the Cord of Three Podcast, Lisa and I celebrate our milestone of 31 years of marriage by sharing 31 meaningful lessons and practical wisdom drawn from our journey together. We hope the reflections in EP123 honor the journey of marriage, and blend practical lessons with faith-based encouragement for every listener celebrating their own milestones.Stay connected with us and continue the conversation! You can find us on:•Facebook: Cord Of Three Coaching•Instagram: @cordofthreecoaching•Web: cordofthreecoaching.comPlease share this episode with your friends and leave us a review. We are thankful for your support and look forward to bringing you more content next week. In the meantime… …Always Remember, that TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE AND A CORD OF THREE STRANDS IS NOT EASILY BROKEN. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Spencer and Lisa center the conversation on simple, repeatable habits that deepen connection, strengthen trust, and build teamwork in marriage: talk, listen, and love with intention. Here are the 9 best practices they share:•Give full attention: remove distractions, make eye contact, and be present when a spouse is speaking.•Praise each other often: notice strengths and speak sincere encouragement regularly.•Use assertiveness and “I” statements: share needs and feelings clearly without blame (e.g., “I feel…”).•Avoid criticism: it erodes trust; raise concerns without put-downs.•Balance critique with positivity: pair any necessary feedback with a positive to keep it constructive.•Listen to understand, not to judge: pursue empathy before defense or correction.•Practice active listening: summarize what was heard before responding to build clarity and trust.•Avoid blame; collaborate on solutions: face problems as a team and co-create next steps.•Use structured conflict resolution: when stuck, get help—marriage coaching provides tools and guardrails.Stay connected with us and continue the conversation! You can find us on:•Facebook: Cord Of Three Coaching•Instagram: @cordofthreecoaching•Web: cordofthreecoaching.comPlease share this episode with your friends and leave us a review. We are thankful for your support and look forward to bringing you more content next week. In the meantime… …Always Remember, that TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE AND A CORD OF THREE STRANDS IS NOT EASILY BROKEN. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This episode focuses on the theme of “Busting the Back-to-School Butterflies,” offering practical encouragement for parents navigating the anxieties of a new school year. Whether you’re sending a child to kindergarten, college, or facing an empty nest, this episode aims to ignite and empower courageous growth through meaningful conversation.Connect with us:www.cordofthreecoaching.comYou can find us on Instagram and Facebook too... @cordofthreecoaching Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Cord of Three Podcast — Episode 120 SummaryIn Episode 120, Spencer and Lisa explore the powerful theme of Harmony vs Balance in Life and Work, drawing inspiration from the Lead Every Day Podcast with Randy Gravitt and Mark Miller. They share that a fulfilling life isn’t about choosing between balance and harmony—you actually need both. (LISA referenced The Balance Blueprint Episode)Balance is described as a pie chart, representing the intentional and wise management of your time and energy across critical life areas: work, family, health, personal growth, spirituality, and rest. The Breedloves explain that the aim isn’t equal distribution but ensuring no essential area is consistently neglected. Living with balance enables you to “make the most of your time,” referencing Ephesians 5:16 and 1 Chronicles 29:28.Harmony is likened to a symphony—a state where your actions, values, priorities, and relationships flow together. Lisa unpacks the analogy, highlighting that if balance is about where your energy goes, harmony is about how those areas interact and support one another, creating life’s music.To create harmony, Spencer and Lisa recommend:- Clarifying your values and vision- Practicing self-care and presence- Setting healthy boundaries- Expressing gratitude daily- Investing in energizing relationships- Living authenticallyUpcoming Events- ROUNDUP: Aug 16, 2025 at Crossroads Baptist Church (Social Circle)- AMPLIFY Workshop: Sept 18 & Oct 7, 2025 — Interactive, one-day public speaking/communication experience. For more information and to register: AMPLIFY WORKSHOP- REFUEL Couples Conference: Oct 18, 2025, Honeysuckle Drive/Amy Bowdoin at Whispering Pines at Beck Farms (Graham, AL) -- TICKETS -- FACEBOOK EVENTConnect with Spencer, Lisa, and the Cord of Three Coaching community on Facebook, Instagram (@cordofthreecoaching) or at www.cordofthreecoaching.com.Always Remember: “TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE, AND A CORD OF THREE STRANDS IS NOT EASILY BROKEN.”* Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode 119 of the Cord of Three podcast, “Death and Devotion,” hosted by Spencer and Lisa Breedlove, draws deeply from John Eldredge’s book Resilient and the “30 Days to Resilient” program available through the PAUSE app. The episode unpacks Jesus’ admonition, “Remember Lot’s Wife” from Luke 17, using it as a lens to examine the divided allegiances and unconverted places in our hearts that hinder true resilience and wholehearted devotion to God.Spencer and Lisa explore Eldredge’s central themes: in turbulent times, many try to fit a bit of God around the edges of their busy lives, but the invitation is to reverse this—start with God at the center and let everything else flow outward. They challenge listeners to reflect on where their hearts are divided, what is competing for their allegiance, and what God may be asking them to lay down. Drawing from Eldredge’s model, the episode emphasizes that resilience is cultivated by moving from a fragmented spirituality to a life where union with God IS the epicenter.Listeners are encouraged to use the practical tools found in the PAUSE app’s 30-day journey, which offers daily prayers and guided practices designed to help restore weary souls, heal from trauma, and build spiritual and emotional resilience through small, consistent steps. The Breedlove's guide you to embrace wholehearted devotion to God in their life to be the source of true strength and hope in this life and the next.LINKS:Our Home Church | Night of Worship | Wed. July 9 at 6:30PMGratis Church3200 Perry Smith RdMonroe, GA 30656Brock Toole -- Satisfied Food CoJohn EldredgeJohn Eldredge | ResilientPAUSE APPSpeaking Events:ROUND UP: August 16, 2025Crossroads Baptist Church (Social Circle)AMPLIFY Communication WorkshopSeptember and October -- dates coming soonREFUEL Marriage Conference: October 18, 2025@ Whispering Pines at Beck FarmsHosted by: Amy Bowdoin & Honeysuckle Drive 2.0 (Follow on Facebook)Connect with Cord of Three CoachingFacebookInstagramwww.cordofthreecoaching.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of the Cord of Three Podcast, Spencer and Lisa Breedlove present The Balance Blueprint, a practical guide for finding the right balance between life and work. Drawing from their extensive coaching experience and personal journey, the Breedlove's outline four foundational cornerstones that help others create a firm foundation in their daily lives:Knowing Your Purpose: Spencer and Lisa emphasize that true balance begins with a clear understanding of your deeper purpose. This clarity helps you align your actions and decisions with what truly matters most.Deciding What Gets Your Yes: By being selective about what you commit to, you protect your time and energy for the priorities that align with your purpose and values.Clarifying Your Values: Core values serve as a compass, guiding your choices and helping you navigate the competing demands of work and life.Healthy Relationships: Finally, Spencer and Lisa highlight the critical role of nurturing healthy relationships. Supportive connections provide accountability, encouragement, and resilience as you pursue balance.Throughout the conversation, Spencer and Lisa weave in spiritual insights and practical strategies, empowering listeners to take courageous steps toward meaningful growth. Their heartfelt approach reflects the mission of Cord of Three Coaching: to ignite and empower courageous growth through meaningful conversation.Thank you for tuning in and being a part of our community. We hope you found this weeks’ conversation meaningful and insightful. Stay connected with us and continue the conversation! You can find us on:•Facebook: Cord Of Three Coaching•Instagram: @cordofthreecoaching•Web: cordofthreecoaching.comPlease share this episode with your friends and leave us a review. We are thankful for your support and look forward to bringing you more content next week. In the meantime… …Always Remember, that TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE AND A CORD OF THREE STRANDS IS NOT EASILY BROKEN. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to the 117th episode of the Cord of Three Podcast, a special edition recorded live at Gratis Church on Father’s Day. In this heartfelt conversation, Lisa and I come together to explore the profound themes of Loss, Legacy, and Love as they relate to the fathers in our lives.As we gather in the spirit of Father’s Day, we reflect on the unique journeys we’ve experienced with our fathers—celebrating the legacies they’ve left, honoring the love they’ve given, and acknowledging the losses that have shaped us. Whether you’re remembering a father who’s passed, cherishing the presence of a father figure, or navigating the complexities of fatherhood yourself, this episode is for you.Join us as we share personal stories, meaningful insights, and practical encouragement designed to inspire courageous growth and deeper connection within your own family and community. Let’s dive into this special conversation on Loss, Legacy, and Love—recorded in the heart of our faith community, and dedicated to all the fathers who have impacted our lives.Stay connected with us and continue the conversation! You can find us on:•Facebook: Cord Of Three Coaching•Instagram: @cordofthreecoaching•Web: cordofthreecoaching.comPlease share this episode with your friends and leave us a review. We are thankful for your support and look forward to bringing you more content next week. In the meantime… …Always Remember, that TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE AND A CORD OF THREE STRANDS IS NOT EASILY BROKEN. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episode Summary: Scripture FoundationThe episode centers on Hebrews 12:5-11, emphasizing that God’s discipline is an expression of love and a sign of true relationship, much like a father’s correction of his children. The hosts highlight that discipline, though often uncomfortable, is designed for our good, producing the “peaceful fruit of righteousness” in those who accept it and are trained by it.Big Idea: Discipline is Rooted in Relationships•Relationship with Self:•Relationship with Others:•Relationship with God:Being a disciple means being a learner, held accountable for one’s actions, referencing Jesus’s call to self-denial and following Him (Matthew 16:24-27). Discipline from God is not merely punitive but redemptive, shaping us for holiness and eternal reward.Key Insights and Facts•Discipline is temporary, but learning is a lifelong journey.•Growth does not happen in comfort; discipline challenges us.•Accountability is essential to true discipline.•Discipline is about applying what is learned, not just receiving correction.•Habits are the building blocks of discipline.•In healthy relationships, discipline is elevated above mere behavior modification—it’s about transformation.•The ultimate fruit of discipline includes righteousness, growth, maturity, and character development. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this episode of the CO3 Podcast, Spencer and Lisa explore the concept of marriage as a “shock absorber,” drawing on Tim Keller’s insights from The Meaning of Marriage. Keller describes marriage as a stabilizing force that helps couples weather life’s storms—disappointments, illnesses, and hardships—by providing a foundation of support and resilience. The episode uses the metaphor of “air shocks” on a vehicle to illustrate how a marriage, especially one grounded in a threefold cord (the couple plus God), can absorb life’s bumps and keep partners moving forward together.Key Takeaways•A Cord of Three: Hard Work, Good WorkMarriage is described as a partnership that requires effort but yields substantial rewards. The principle “Two is ONE. One is NONE.” underscores the importance of unity and teamwork. Keller’s research highlights that married men tend to earn 10–40% more than their single counterparts, and couples who stay married accumulate significantly more wealth. This is attributed to the mutual discipline, accountability, and support that marriage fosters.•Helping Each Other in TroubleThe episode references the biblical idea that “if either of them falls, the one will lift up his companion,” emphasizing the practical and emotional support spouses provide. The story of climbers Alex Honnold and Tommy Caldwell illustrates how partnership and mutual aid are essential for overcoming challenges, both in extreme adventures and in everyday life.•Comforting Each Other in NeedMarriage offers comfort during times of pain and heartache. The discussion asks listeners to reflect on who is present to offer warmth and reassurance when life gets cold and difficult, reinforcing the value of not facing struggles alone.•Protecting Each Other Against DangerThe episode concludes with the message that a “cord of three strands is not quickly torn apart,” highlighting the protective strength found in unity. Whether facing external threats or internal struggles, the support system within marriage—especially when centered on faith—provides resilience and security.Closing ThoughtsMarriage, when built as a “cord of three,” becomes more than a partnership; it transforms into a resilient, supportive, and empowering bond that helps individuals and couples thrive through adversity. This episode encourages listeners to view marriage not just as a relationship, but as a vital shock absorber that enables courageous growth and enduring connection.Stay connected with us and continue the conversation! You can find us on:•Facebook: Cord Of Three Coaching•Instagram: @cordofthreecoaching•Web: cordofthreecoaching.comPlease share this episode with your friends and leave us a review. We are thankful for your support and look forward to bringing you more content next week. In the meantime… …Always Remember, that TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE AND A CORD OF THREE STRANDS IS NOT EASILY BROKEN. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this heartfelt episode of the Cord of Three Podcast, Lisa and Spencer reflect on the profound influence their grandmothers had on their lives. Through stories both humorous and touching, they share the timeless lessons these remarkable women imparted.Lisa recalls learning the importance of slowing down and savoring life’s moments-whether it’s sitting and talking without rushing, embracing childlike fun, or simply soaking up the sun at the beach. Her grandmothers' wisdom reminds us all to find joy in the present and make room for leisure and laughter.Spencer’s memories highlight the enduring strength of family and faith. He learned that families serve one another selflessly, even to the end. His grandmother showed him how to find humor in unexpected places (like dentures!), live fearlessly, and cherish the simple act of reading Scripture. She also instilled in him a love for the Atlanta Braves, a deep devotion to the Lord, and even practical skills-like killing snakes when necessary.Together, Lisa and Spencer celebrate the legacy of their grandmothers, whose lives modeled devotion, joy, and resilience. Their stories encourage listeners to honor the wisdom of previous generations and carry those lessons forward with gratitude and courage.Stay connected with us and continue the conversation! You can find us on:•Facebook: Cord Of Three Coaching•Instagram: @cordofthreecoaching•Web: cordofthreecoaching.comPlease share this episode with your friends and leave us a review. We are thankful for your support and look forward to bringing you more content next week. In the meantime… …Always Remember, that TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE AND A CORD OF THREE STRANDS IS NOT EASILY BROKEN. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Last weekend, Lisa and Spencer traveled to Kentucky to speak at the Building Stronger Marriages Conference held at Camp Nathanael in Emmalena, KY. While there, Spencer was asked to jump on a podcast interview to talk about what Lisa and I do with Cord of Three Coaching.Episode 113 features Spencer being interviewed by Stephen Bell and Lee Sharp, hosts of the Voice of Camp Nathanael Podcast.Connect with Camp Nathanael:480 Camp Nathanael Road, Emmalena, KY 41740Phone: 606-251-3231Email: [email protected]: campnathanael.orgConnect with Cord of Three Coaching:Email: [email protected]: @cordofthreecoachingFacebook: @cordofthreecoachingWebsite: cordofthreecoaching.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Podcast Episode Summary: The Difference Between Appreciation & AffirmationIn this episode, Lisa and I unpack the crucial difference between appreciation and affirmation—two powerful tools that can transform every relationship, from the workplace to your closest connections.Appreciation is all about recognizing and expressing gratitude for what someone does. When you thank a colleague for their hard work or acknowledge a friend’s kindness, you’re communicating appreciation. These words motivate, reinforce positive behavior, and strengthen both personal and professional bonds. Appreciation is typically a response to someone’s actions—think, “Thank you for cooking today’s Easter meal.”Affirmation, on the other hand, goes deeper. It’s not just about what someone does, but who they are. Words of affirmation communicate love, respect, encouragement, and emotional support. They make people feel valued, understood, and secure, especially for those whose primary love language is affirmation. For example, instead of just saying thank you, you might say, “Lisa, you live and love to serve your family. You are selfless, and that was demonstrated in your preparation and the meal you prepared.”“Appreciation motivates. Affirmation validates.”Practical Ways to Cultivate a Culture of Appreciation and Affirmation:•Consistently offer authentic, life-giving affirmations that validate others’ qualities and encourage them.•Show appreciation through thoughtful actions—helping with tasks, running errands, or small surprises.•Send handwritten thank-you notes or recognize achievements with small rewards, like a gift card for going the extra mile at work.•Remember, simple gratitude is powerful, but intentional affirmation can be life-changing.We close with inspiration from 1 Thessalonians 5:9-11:9 For God has not destined us for wrath, but to obtain salvation through our Lord Jesus Christ, 10 who died for us so that whether we are awake or asleep we might live with him. 11 Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing. Thank you for tuning in and being a part of our community. We hope you found this weeks’ conversation meaningful and insightful. Stay connected with us and continue the conversation! You can find us on:•Facebook: Cord Of Three Coaching•Instagram: @cordofthreecoaching•Web: cordofthreecoaching.comPlease share this episode with your friends and leave us a review. We are thankful for your support and look forward to bringing you more content next week. In the meantime… TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE AND A CORD OF THREE STRANDS IS NOT EASILY BROKEN. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week is Holy Week...a time for Christians to reflect on Jesus’ sacrifice, death, and resurrection, marking the transition from Lent to Easter and celebrating the core of Christian salvation. And HOLY WEEK has a lot to say about the hope and direction of your marriage!About 60% of marriages are still together, but that doesn’t mean they are thriving.For the remaining 40% of marriages, they have spent the cash, filed for divorce, and are most likely having custody issues over the kids. Divorce is vicious.A few stats…in 2022… there were over 674K divorces in America (https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/marriage-divorce.htm) There is a decline in the divorce rate to where 40% of all marriages in the US end in divorce because Millennials are contributing to the decline by marrying later and staying married longer. (https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/)How would you describe your marriage? Is it thriving?Do you feel like your marriage is on it’s last breath? Has it “flatlined”? Is it in the GRAVE? Are you ready to give up?There’s still hope… and the resurrection of Jesus proves it…[Eph 5:25-28 NIV][25] Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her [26] to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, [27] and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. [28] In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 3 essential perspectives that Scripture gives us to have realistic expectations for our marriage — (RE: Paul David Tripp book | What Did You Expect: Redeeming the Realities of Marriage)You are conducting your marriage in a fallen world.You are a SINNER married to a SINNERGod is faithful, powerful and willingStay connected with us and continue the conversation! You can find us on:•Facebook: Cord Of Three Coaching•Instagram: @cordofthreecoaching•Web: cordofthreecoaching.comPlease share this episode with your friends and leave us a review. We are thankful for your support and look forward to bringing you more content next week. In the meantime… HAPPY EASTER …Always Remember, that TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE AND A CORD OF THREE STRANDS IS NOT EASILY BROKEN. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Lisa and I launched CO3 Coaching in September of last year to live out our purpose of investing and nurturing others to live life to the fullest in their leadership, generosity, and faith. We work with married couples, PARENTS, engaged couples, and businesses to facilitate growth through meaningful conversations and accountability.Our podcast is one vertical of our coaching services. We offer this as a free resource to create conversations in your life and help facilitate the continual growth you are experiencing.since this is NCAA Basketball’s March Madness, we have been talking about March Mindness. What are we going to talk about this week HAVING THE SAME MINDSET AS JESUSHow do you THINK LIKE JESUS?SET your mind (focus)— Col 3:2Colossians 3:2 (NIV) Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.Phroneo / mind / affectionRENEW your mind (growth)- Rom 12:2Romans 12:2 (NIV) Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is--his good, pleasing and perfect will.GIRD your loins / mind (protect)- 1 Pe 1:131 Peter 1:13 (KJV) — Wherefore gird up the loins of your mind, be sober, and hope to the end for the grace that is to be brought unto you at the revelation of Jesus Christ;TIGHTEN YOUR BELTPREPARE FOR ACTIONReadiness / ResolveStay connected with us and continue the conversation! You can find us on:•Facebook: Cord Of Three Coaching•Instagram: @cordofthreecoaching•Web: cordofthreecoaching.comPlease share this episode with your friends and leave us a review. We are thankful for your support and look forward to bringing you more content next week. In the meantime… …Always Remember, that TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE AND A CORD OF THREE STRANDS IS NOT EASILY BROKEN. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We all wrestle with those NEGATIVE NARRATIVES that hold us back, whether they whisper doubts about our abilities or amplify fears of failure. But here’s the good news—those narratives don’t have to define us. This week, Lisa and I to discuss how to RECOGNIZE and REWRITE those negative scripts so we can step into and live out the abundant-life Jesus gives. Thank you for tuning in and being a part of our community. We hope you found today’s conversation meaningful and insightful. Stay connected with us and continue the conversation! You can find us on:•Facebook: Cord Of Three Coaching•Instagram: @cordofthreecoaching•Web: cordofthreecoaching.comPlease share this episode with your friends and leave us a review. We are thankful for your support and look forward to bringing you more content next week. In the meantime… …Always Remember, that TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE AND A CORD OF THREE STRANDS IS NOT EASILY BROKEN. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's episode, Lisa and I sit down for a little March Mindness conversation to discuss how you can change your marriage by changing the way you think.BIG IDEA: What you think about your spouse is how you will ultimately treat your spouse.Leverage the 4:8 Filter: Philippians 4:8 gives us a filter by which we can use to shift our thinking."Don't let the things that DON'T matter, matter in your marriage." Ted Lowe"Happy couples THINK in a way UNHAPPY couples don't." Marcus BuckinghamYou can change your marriage by changing the way you think. (Romans 12:2)[2] Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is--his good, pleasing and perfect will. [Rom 12:2 NIV]Connect with us(FB) Cord Of Three Coaching (IG) cord of three coachingweb: cordofthreecoaching.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

If you want to change your life…change your mind. The mind is the battleground for the war that rages over your soul. This war generates arresting anxiety, negative narratives, & debilitating doubt. It is a war that is not fought against flesh and blood but against the powers of this dark world & the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. What’s the Word say?Philippians 4:6-8 (NIV) 6 Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. 8 Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things.How am I supposed to fight?Fight the battle in your mind with PRAYER (acrostic) PAUSEREFLECT ASKYIELDFight the battle in your mind with Gratitude You can either have a gratitude or a saditudeFight the battle in your mind with the Peace of GodFight the battle in your mind by changing the way you think“whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--think about such things.”Connect with us - (FB) Cord Of Three Coaching (IG) cordofthreecoachingweb: www.cordofthreecoaching.comThank you for listening to this episode of the CO3 podcast. Please share…and leave a review! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this episode of the CO3 Podcast, Lisa and I talk about HOW to LOVE DEEPLY, specifically in the context of marriage. Still, you can apply this truth to other relationships as well.TRUTH/SCRIPTURE— 1 Peter 1:22 (NIV) ….love one another DEEPLY, from the HEART.To love deeply you first need to be loved deeply Loving deeply is supernatural and begins with KNOWING GOD—God IS love and empowers us to love 1 John 4:7-9 (NIV) 7 Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. 8 Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. 9 This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him.To love deeply is to forgive freely1 Peter 4:8 (NIV) Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins. To love deeply is to give generously —John 3:16 (NIV) For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.To love deeply is to die daily— Ephesians 5:25 (NIV)Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for herEphesians 5:28 (NIV)In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.Wrap UpLOVING DEEPLY…from the heart…begins with being LOVED DEEPLY by God. How can you connect with us?Subscribe to the Podcast on Apple or Spotify. We would appreciate your review.Facebook: @CordOfThreePodcastInsta: @cordofthreecoachingWeb: www.cordofthreecoaching.comEmail: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's episode of the CO3 Podcast, Lisa and I talk about the HEART is a TREASURE…where you STORE UP TREASURE…and answer the question, WHAT AM I PUTTING INTO MY HEART?There is a direct correlation between what I say and what I think about in my heart and mind.Jesus said, “out of the overflow of the heart the mouth speaks.”The Psalmist — King David said, “Let the WORDS of my MOUTH And the MEDITATIONS of my HEART be ACCEPTABLE in Your sight, O Lord, my rock and my redeemer.” (Ps. 19:14)(BIG IDEA) What you STORE UP in your heart will be SPOKEN OUT from your mouth and FLESHED OUT in your actions.Garbage in, Garbage OutWhat are you storing up? —> What are you THINKING about?what you store up replaces what DOES NOT need to be in your heart and it reinforces what DOES…. the end result is PEACE and a COURAGEOUS HEART.Truth — replaces lies & reinforces TRUEWisdom — replaces foolishness & reinforces UNDERSTANDINGHonorable — replaces dishonor & reinforces respectJust — replaces injustice & reinforces righteousnessPure — replaces impurity & reinforces holiness Lovely — replaces unlovely & reinforces purityCommendable — replaces conduct unbecoming & reinforces honestyExcellent — replaces mediocrity & reinforces integrityPraiseworthy — replaces selfishness & reinforces the value of God’s creationPractice THESE things and the God of Peace will be with you. (Phil 4:8-10)CONNECT WITH US:[email protected]: @cordofthreecoachingFB: @cordofthreepodcastWEB: www.cordofthreecoaching.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

WELCOME TO EP 104 of THE CORD OF THREE PODCAST — brought to you by Cord Of Three CoachingWhether In your marriage, your family, or your work…we hope the things we talk about here will COACH the HEART and PROTECT the SOUL…We do that by IGNITING and EMPOWERING COURAGEOUS GROWTH in your life THROUGH MEANINGFUL CONVERSATIONS.we are grateful to have you a part of the CO3 Community! Lisa and I launched CO3 Coaching in September of last year to fulfill our purpose of investing and nurturing others to live life to the fullest in their leadership, generosity and faith. We work with married couples, PARENTS, engaged couples, and businesses to facilitate growth through meaningful conversations and accountability.Our podcast is one vertical of our coaching services. We offer this a free resource to create conversations in your life as well as help facilitate the continual growth you are experiencing.The work of perseverance Perseverance has a job! an outcome — growth and maturity in you!James 1:4 “Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”What requires perseverance?“any kind of trial” — a test; an affliction; a trying; a “putting to the proof”Why is perseverance required?because NOTHING grows in comfort.What is perseverance?it is the characteristic of a man who is unswerved from his deliberate purpose and his loyalty to faith by even the greatest trials and sufferingsWhat is the outcome of perseverance?Growth / Maturity / NOT LACKING ANYTHINGWhat can you do if you’re facing a trial?Don’t quit!Endure!Embrace the suck and just keep moving. Learn - write down your lessonsStay humbleEmail Us: [email protected]: @cordofthreecoachingWeb: www.cordofthreecoaching.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The Cord of Three Podcast exists to ignite meaningful and transformational conversations in the lives of our listeners. This week on the podcast, Lisa and I leverage the beautiful colors of the RED, WHITE and BLUE and how those values can help us to respond to the chaos with Readiness, Purity and Perseverance. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

The wisest person who ever lived said... ABOVE ALL ELSE, guard your heart, for EVERYTHING you do flows from it. (Prov. 4:23)On this 102nd episode of the podcast, Lisa and I talk about how to guard your heart to protect your soul. There are FOUR defenses you can place around you that will surely guard your heart. Build these in your life and you will thrive.Connect with Spencer and Cord of Three Coaching at [email protected] with us on the gram @cordofthreecoachingVisit us online at www.cordofthreecoaching.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What can you do when the faithful wound… Acknowledge the hurt. It’s real.Understand that HURT people….HURT people. (Under pressure/stress/bad spot)Practice ForgivenessCultivate a heavenly perspective… ”set your sights on things above where Christ is seated” (Col 3:1-2) & “fix your eyes on Jesus, the author and perfector of your faith.” (Heb 12:2)Cord of Three Coachingwww.cordofthreecoaching.comspencer@cordofthreecoaching.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

“You settle for good. You strive for best.”What is Best? comes down to wise decisions — what do you say yes to; often hard; usually impacts more than 1 person; can affect entire organizations; applies in hiring & firing; applies in finance; applies in relationships; applies in health (life/death)What gets in the way of what is best?Enabling leadershipPeople pleasingSelfishnessHiding from accountability or coachingTrying to do it on your own. To be your best, you need the best people around you.Lack of disciplineLack of convictionNOT PRE-DECIDING…Contact Spencer Cord of Three [email protected]: @cordofthreecoaching or @spencer.breedloveFB: @CordofThreePodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Lisa and Spencer talk about the fourth value of Cord of Three Coaching: Determination: YOU are never out of the fight!Determination requires [GFE]:GRIT (indomitable spirit) FOCUS (undistracted; clarity of purpose) & EFFORT (mindset)Personal Stories:First year of marriage - 3jobs + schoolLisa 14 years of Teaching Adopting LissieDepressionRight now / seeking the lord takes determination/ working 3 jobs takes determination /  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this episode of the podcast, Lisa and I dive into our third CORD Value... RESPECT.Respect definedto consider worthy of high regard: esteem. to refrain from interfering with. Is Respect GIVEN or EARNED?How do you RESPECT yourself?How can you LOSE respect?How can you DEEPEN respect? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Practicing ownership involves taking POSSESSION of several key areas of life:FIRST: Take possession of the Personal: Own your actions, decisions, and growth. JOCKO - “If you don’t own it, you can’t change it.” Acknowledge mistakes and learn from them to improve continuouslyYour Top 5%MarriageParentingFinancesSpiritualHealthSECOND Take possession of the Professional: If you aren’t learning….you aren’t leading. In the workplace, take responsibility for both successes and failures. ACTION ITEMS:Lead by example, (“It’s not what you preach, it’s what you tolerate.” JOCKO)prioritize tasks, and execute plans effectivelyTHIRD Take possession of YOUR RelationshipsI heard Jeff Henderson say, “Your network determines your networth.” Foster trust and accountability by taking responsibility for your role in your network of personal and professional relationships. Do you want to be rich? Do this... LOVE DEEPLYSERVE ONE ANOTHERSTAY HUMBLESURROUND YOURSELF WITH WISE VOICESFORTH Take possession of the Leadership: As a leader, ensure team success by accepting responsibility for the PROCESS, coaching your team, and fostering a culture of accountability.ACTION ITEMS:Focus more on the process…you can’t control the outcomes Coach your team to create not only accountability but ENGAGEMENT. ENGAGEMENT in the workplace is absent and I believe is the root cause of discontentment, turn-over, low-level performance and the underdevelopment of leadership Accountability reinforces cultureContact Us...We would love to be your coach!Email: [email protected]: @cordofthreecoaching & @spencer.breedloveFB: @cordofthreepodcast & @spencer.breedloveWEB: www.cordofthreecoaching.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

WHERE DO YOU NEED TO BE COURAGEOUS?Now that you have identified where you need to be courageous, here are some words of encouragement for you…Growth Comes from DiscomfortCourage often requires stepping outside of your comfort zone. It’s in these moments of discomfort that you discover your true potential. Learn from your SetbacksEvery setback is an opportunity for growth. Don’t be discouraged by failures; instead, view them as valuable lessons that will guide you toward success. Resilience is built through overcoming obstacles.Practice GraceBe kind to yourself throughout this process. Understand that everyone experiences fear and doubt; it’s part of being human. Treat yourself with the same compassion you would offer a friend facing similar challenges.Surround Yourself with Wise PeopleSeek out supportive people who uplift and encourage you. Surrounding yourself with wise people can reinforce your courage and remind you that you are not alone in your journey.CelebrateTake time to celebrate your wins, no matter how small. Each victory is a testament to your courage and determination. Recognizing your progress fuels motivation for the next steps.Lisa and I would love to be on your journey of courage. Cord of Three Coaching exists to Coach the Heart and Protect the Soul. We do that by igniting and empowering courageous growth through meaningful conversations. You can find us online at cordofthreecoaching.com or on our Instagram @cordofthreecoaching. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this episode of the podcast, Lisa and I talk about Lessons from a Fig Tree and the size of your faith. It's an unscripted "bible study" between us as we wrestle with the truth of how the size of our faith determines in the impact from your faith..Connect with Cord of Three Coaching:IG: @cordofthreecoachingEmail: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

WELCOME TO THE CORD OF THREE PODCAST Whether In your marriage, your family, or your work…we hope the things we talk about here will COACH the HEART and PROTECT the SOUL…and we do that by IGNITING and EMPOWERING COURAGEOUS GROWTH in your life THROUGH MEANINGFUL CONVERSATIONS.This week on the Cord of Three Podcast, Lisa and Spencer talk about the Gravitational Pull in relationships.BIG IDEA: Gravity keeps us grounded.Stay Grounded by being in the right orbit.Stay Grounded by surrounding yourself with the right people.Stay Grounded by making smart decisions that have High Value and High Impact.Are you interested in a gifted coaching session with Cord of Three Coaching? Send us an email with the word, "GIFT" in the subject line to set up a call.Connect with us:Email: [email protected]: @cordofthreecoachingFacebook: @cordofthreepodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to the Cord of Three Podcast! Lisa and I are back for a new season after navigating life over the last five months. Speaking of new seasons...we are smack dab in the middle of one. It has felt like the dead of summer with heat beating you down, and at the same time, the dead of winter where you are cold to the bone without a fire. Now we are in spring, and it's a new day. To be honest... to sum it up... it's been HARD. But hard is good... because nothing grows in comfort. HospitalsJob LossManaging budgetTrusting GodFamily ChallengesSick parentsWe just celebrated 30 years of marriage in August. We started a life coaching business. Spencer is back on staff at a church after 6-yrs. Check out our new church right here in the heart of Gratis, GA -- Gratis ChurchCord of Three Coaching MISSIONIgnite and empower courageous growth through meaningful conversation. Cord of Three Coaching VISION See people live life to the fullest through transformational coaching. C.O.R.D. — VALUES* Courage ❤️The ability to face challenges without fear* Ownership ✍🏼Taking responsibility for one's actions and outcomes. * Respect 🫡 Recognizing and honoring the inherent worth and dignity of every individual…INCLUDING yourSELF.* Determination 🏃🏼‍♂️‍➡️  * Knowing your current reality….and Being resolute and unwaveringCord of Three Coaching SERVICES * Premarital Coaching (SYMBIS)* Marriage Coaching* Business Coaching (specifically through WORKING GENIUS)* Life CoachingDo you want to be coached? I want to gift you a 45-minute coaching session. To accept this offer, email me at [email protected] and put in the subject line "GIFT" and I'll send you a link to schedule your coaching session.Follow us on IG: @cordofthreecoachingFollow us on Facebook: @cordof3podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this episode of the podcast, Lisa and I talk about keeping your trails from turning into ruts.Connect with us:IG: @cord_of_3Email: [email protected]: @CordofThreePodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's episode of the CO3 Podcast, Lisa and I talk about King David's Great I Will statements and how they apply in life."I will give thanks to the Lord with my whole heart; I will recount all of Your wonderful deeds.I will be glad and exult in You; I will sing praise to Your Name, O Most High." -- Psalm 9:1-2Connect with [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's Masters Week. The week when the entire golfing world has its eyes on the Augusta National in Augusta, GA, In the spirit of Masters Week, on this week's episode of the podcast, Lisa and I are going to talk about Mastering Your Marriage -- working on your long game, short game, and scoring game.If Lisa and I can help you in your parenting or marriage, please feel free to reach out to us at [email protected] or on Instagram at @cord_of_3.Have a great week! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this episode of the podcast, Lisa and I talk about the Two Types of Pain: The Pain of Disappointment and The Pain of Discipline. Temporary discomfort from discipline is much lighter than the lasting pain of not reaching your potential due to lack of discipline.Hebrews 12:11 says, "No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been TRAINED by it.""We must all suffer from one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. The difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons." --Jim RohnPursue Discomfort.Embrace the Suck.Do Hard Things.Contact us at [email protected] or on Instagram at @cord_of_3 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It may not be the most romantic way to visualize it, but marriage can have its own grimy corners that need some “detailing”.Here are THREE ways to clean out the grime:Air things outDeclutter and ReorganizeWeatherproofSource: Prepare/Enrich Blog March 27, 2024Connect with us:Email: [email protected]: @cord_of_3 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this episode of the podcast, Lisa and I talk about The Trust Factor and the Six Principles of Trust.Books I am reading & reviewing:Uncommon Greatness by Mark Millertake less. do more. by Glen Van PeskiTrust defined:Trust IS the reliance on the integrity, strength, ability, & surety of a person; CONFIDENCE. Principles of trust:When you have the trust of another, you have been entrusted with something that has immeasurable value…steward it well. Trust STRIVES towards clarity and includes HEALTHY conflictTrust is diminished when we over-promise and under-deliver. Trust is built on TRUTH and EXECUTION… it is both transformative and transactional.THE STRONGER THE TRUST…doubt dissipates …the more agile we become…selflessness and others first is forefront…decisions are supportedTHE WEAKER THE TRUST……doubt lingers like a cloud…we get stuck & inflexible…decisions are questioned…self is at the forefront and protectedAPPLY ITBe careful what you place your trust inFIGHT FOR TRUSTTrust the LordPsalm 20:7 (ESV)Some trust in chariots and some in horses, but we trust in the name of the LORD our God.Psalm 37:3 (ESV)Trust in the LORD, and do good; dwell in the land and befriend faithfulness.Psalm 40:4 (ESV)Blessed is the man who makes the LORD his trust, who does not turn to the proud, to those who go astray after a lie!Psalm 44:6 (ESV)For not in my bow do I trust, nor can my sword save me.Psalm 52:8 (ESV)But I am like a green olive tree in the house of God. I trust in the steadfast love of God forever and ever.Psalm 56:3 (ESV)When I am afraid, I put my trust in you.Psalm 62:10 (ESV)Put no trust in extortion; set no vain hopes on robbery; if riches increase, set not your heart on them.Proverbs 3:5 (ESV)Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding.Proverbs 21:22 (ESV)A wise man scales the city of the mighty and brings down the stronghold in which they trust.Isaiah 26:4 (ESV)Trust in the LORD forever, for the LORD GOD is an everlasting rock.Isaiah 31:1 (ESV)Woe to those who go down to Egypt for help and rely on horses, who trust in chariots because they are many and in horsemen because they are very strong, but do not look to the Holy One of Israel or consult the LORD!Connect with us:IG: @cord_of_3Email: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this episode of the Cord of Three Podcast, Lisa and I talk about the areas of our lives where diligence matters and how slothfulness keeps us from experiencing God's blessing.Contact us at [email protected] or on IG at @cord_of_3Have a great week! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's episode, Lisa and I talk about praying for your kiddos.Num 6:27 - you put the name of the Lord on those you blessPray FOR themChildren are a heritage FROM the LordChildren are like arrows in the hands of a warrior — let’s shoot them in the right direction Pray they would KNOW God personallyIf they are Christ Followers already… pray for them to remain FAITHFUL and continue to seek truth and Love God with all their heart soul mind and strengthIf they are not walking with God…Keep your mouth shut, the welcome mat out and PRAY continually Pray WITH themModel prayerACTSHelp them understand that they can communicate with the Father in HeavenIt’s connecting the spiritual dots It’s reinforcing their childlike faithPray OVER themLay your hands on their heads and hearts and pray that they would be filled with the peace of God guards their hearts and mindsPray BLESSING over themPray COURAGE in themPray KINDNESS out of them IG: @cord_of_3Email: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's episode, Lisa and I take a few minutes to encourage parents to EMPOWER their children rather than ENABLE them.To enable is to make easy. To empower is to GIVE power. Your children will not be given power if life is made easy for them.Connect with us via email or IG:[email protected]@cord_of_3 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This episode of the CO3 Podcast is based on the Renovaré Article: The Six Streams“Whoever believes in me, as the Scripture has said, ‘Out of his heart will flow rivers of living water.’”John 7:38 (ESV)Nothing less than life in the steps of Christ is adequate to the human soul or the needs of our world.—Dallas WillardAt the end of the podcast, Lisa challenged us to read the article and identify, of the six streams, a growth area in your life or your married life, and then discuss it with your spouse. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this episode of the CO3 Podcast, Lisa and I talk about forgiveness and the Prepare/Enrich article, "The Complexities of Forgiveness".Lisa's Rant = Idiot TicketsConnect with Us:IG: @cord_of_3Email: [email protected] you for leaving us a review wherever you listen to podcasts. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's episode, Lisa and I talk about the #1 complaint in marriage and how to overcome it. It is not money. It’s not kids. It’s not sex. It’s not bad habits. It’s not expectations. It’s communication. Communication and the lack of it IS that is the #1 issue in marriage. Leverage the FIVE built in moments of your day that give you prime opportunities to strengthen your communication.Good MorningGood ByeChecking InHello...There you are.Good NightConnect with us:IG: @cord_of_3Email: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

On this week's episode, Lisa and I talk about Parent Projected Anxiety and offer tools and suggestions as to how to attack anxiety head on. Connect with us:Email: [email protected]: @cord_of_3Spencer mentioned the following resource to assist in attacking anxiety.www.abide.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What do you want to be true in your life a year from now that’s not true today?This was a question a friend and mentor of mine asked me in 2022 while I was on a sabbatical from my work and contemplating what was next for Lisa and myself. I did not have a clear picture at that time and that one question helped me to get clarity on what was next. There is no doubt it will for you too.Why is this a question everyone should ask?It gives you a lens through which to clarify your vision.It pushes you to think ahead.It places you in a position to REFLECT and ADJUST What worked?What didn’t?Adjustprioritize and execute.Hope is NOT a strategy.five areas in which to ask this question:FaithFamilyFriendsFinancesFitnessThink standards…not resolutions.YOUR NEXT STEPTake this week — 30 mins a day — and answer the question… WHAT DO I WANT TO BE TRUE IN MY LIFE A YEAR FROM NOW THAT IS NOT TRUE TODAY?WRITE IT DOWN.PRIORITIZE your PLANEXECUTE SHARE WITH SOMEONEEMAIL: [email protected]: @cord_of_3RESOURCES & LINKSwww.leadeveryday.com www.integreatleadership.comhttps://jockofuel.com/pages/def-reset Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of the podcast, Lisa and I talk about King Herod the Great and his evil decision to kill all the male children two years old and younger to answer the question, "Why talk about evil at such a precious time of the year?"[Mat 2:1-12, 16-20 ESV] 1 Now after Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judea in the days of Herod the king, behold, wise men from the east came to Jerusalem, 2 saying, "Where is he who has been born king of the Jews? For we saw his star when it rose and have come to worship him." 3 When Herod the king heard this, he was troubled, and all Jerusalem with him; 4 and assembling all the chief priests and scribes of the people, he inquired of them where the Christ was to be born. 5 They told him, "In Bethlehem of Judea, for so it is written by the prophet: 6 "'And you, O Bethlehem, in the land of Judah, are by no means least among the rulers of Judah; for from you shall come a ruler who will shepherd my people Israel.'" 7 Then Herod summoned the wise men secretly and ascertained from them what time the star had appeared. 8 And he sent them to Bethlehem, saying, "Go and search diligently for the child, and when you have found him, bring me word, that I too may come and worship him." 9 After listening to the king, they went on their way. And behold, the star that they had seen when it rose went before them until it came to rest over the place where the child was. 10 When they saw the star, they rejoiced exceedingly with great joy. 11 And going into the house, they saw the child with Mary his mother, and they fell down and worshiped him. Then, opening their treasures, they offered him gifts, gold and frankincense and myrrh. 12 And being warned in a dream not to return to Herod, they departed to their own country by another way. ... 16 Then Herod, when he saw that he had been tricked by the wise men, became furious, and he sent and killed all the male children in Bethlehem and in all that region who were two years old or under, according to the time that he had ascertained from the wise men. 17 Then was fulfilled what was spoken by the prophet Jeremiah: 18 "A voice was heard in Ramah, weeping and loud lamentation, Rachel weeping for her children; she refused to be comforted, because they are no more." 19 But when Herod died, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared in a dream to Joseph in Egypt, 20 saying, "Rise, take the child and his mother and go to the land of Israel, for those who sought the child's life are dead."Connect with us:IG: @cord_of_3Email: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Lisa and I start our Christmas conversations about Elizabeth and Zechariah -- John the Baptist's parents -- and how they handled the news from the angel Gabriel that they were going to have a child in their advanced years.BIG IDEA: It can be easy to go through the motions of faith until we are faced with the impossible. Luke 1:5-25 (ESV) 5 In the days of Herod, king of Judea, there was a priest named Zechariah, of the division of Abijah. And he had a wife from the daughters of Aaron, and her name was Elizabeth. 6 And they were both righteous before God, walking blamelessly in all the commandments and statutes of the Lord. 7 But they had no child, because Elizabeth was barren, and both were advanced in years. 8 Now while he was serving as priest before God when his division was on duty, 9 according to the custom of the priesthood, he was chosen by lot to enter the temple of the Lord and burn incense. 10 And the whole multitude of the people were praying outside at the hour of incense. 11 And there appeared to him an angel of the Lord standing on the right side of the altar of incense. 12 And Zechariah was troubled when he saw him, and fear fell upon him. 13 But the angel said to him, “Do not be afraid, Zechariah, for your prayer has been heard, and your wife Elizabeth will bear you a son, and you shall call his name John. 14 And you will have joy and gladness, and many will rejoice at his birth, 15 for he will be great before the Lord. And he must not drink wine or strong drink, and he will be filled with the Holy Spirit, even from his mother’s womb. 16 And he will turn many of the children of Israel to the Lord their God, 17 and he will go before him in the spirit and power of Elijah, but to turn the hearts of the fathers to the children, and the disobedient to the wisdom of the just, to make ready for the Lord a people prepared.” 18 And Zechariah said to the angel, “How shall I know this? For I am an old man, and my wife is advanced in years.” 19 And the angel answered him, “I am Gabriel. I stand in the presence of God, and I was sent to speak to you and to bring you this good news. 20 And behold, you will be silent and unable to speak until the day that these things take place, because you did not believe my words, which will be fulfilled in their time.” 21 And the people were waiting for Zechariah, and they were wondering at his delay in the temple. 22 And when he came out, he was unable to speak to them, and they realized that he had seen a vision in the temple. And he kept making signs to them and remained mute. 23 And when his time of service was ended, he went to his home. 24 After these days his wife Elizabeth conceived, and for five months she kept herself hidden, saying, 25 “Thus the Lord has done for me in the days when he looked on me, to take away my reproach among people.”Contact Us:IG: @cord_of_3Email: [email protected] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.