Perfectly Imperfect Me 365

Fear doesn't always show up in obvious ways. Sometimes it's loud and easy to recognize, and other times it hides behind perfectionism, self-doubt, and the belief that we're not ready yet. In this solo episode of Imperfectly Human, Rachel shares how her fear of the ocean led her to take on a triathlon and eventually complete a Half Ironman. She explores how fear can keep us stuck in our personal lives, careers, and athletic pursuits—and why waiting for everything to be perfect may mean waiting forever. Through personal stories and professional insights, Rachel challenges listeners to identify what's really holding them back and take the first step forward, even when fear is still present. Stay connected with Rachel: LinkedIn, Youtube, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok   ℹ️ The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

In this deeply moving conversation, Rachel Blogg sits down with Holocaust survivor Mary Eckstein to explore a life shaped by loss, resilience, courage, and gratitude. Mary shares her firsthand experiences as a child in Nazi-occupied Hungary, surviving fear, hunger, separation from family, and the uncertainty of war while witnessing extraordinary acts of kindness that helped save lives. As the conversation unfolds, Mary reflects on the heartbreak of losing family members in Auschwitz, the challenges of rebuilding a life after the Holocaust, immigrating to America, and later facing the loss of her son and husband. Through it all, she reveals the mindset that has carried her through decades of hardship: focusing on what remains rather than what was taken away. This episode is a powerful reminder that while we cannot change our past, we can choose how we carry it forward. Mary's wisdom on gratitude, resilience, kindness, and the dangers of hate offers lessons that feel especially relevant today. Stay connected with Rachel: LinkedIn, Youtube, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok ℹ️ The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.  

Rachel Blogg sits down with Dido Balla, CEO of Kindness Matters, for an honest conversation about what kindness actually means and why it has nothing to do with always saying yes. Together they explore the difference between being kind and being nice, why self-kindness is the foundation, and how setting boundaries can be one of the most generous things you do for yourself and others. Dido shares the four guiding beliefs behind Kindness Matters, including the idea that every human being is born with a capacity for good, and explains how negativity bias quietly shapes the way we see the world and raise our kids. From training teachers and parents to taking kindness programs to Cameroon, the work is as practical as it is deeply human. The episode closes with a reminder about gratitude that cuts right to the core: if your heart is beating, you have already hit the jackpot. Whether you are a parent, educator, or someone who has been a little harder on themselves than they deserve, this conversation meets you right where you are. Connect with Dido: LinkedIn, Instagram, Website Stay connected with Rachel: LinkedIn, Youtube, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok   ℹ️ The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.  

In this episode, the podcast enters a new chapter as Perfectly Imperfect Me 365 transitions into Imperfectly Human—a name that reflects the deeper conversations that have naturally unfolded over time. What began as a space for growth, self-awareness, and releasing perfection has evolved into something more focused: understanding strength in its most honest and transferable form. Not the kind of strength that is performative or visible on the outside, but the kind that shows up in how we handle pressure, relationships, identity shifts, and the moments no one else sees. This episode explores a central question that will guide every conversation moving forward: Is your strength working everywhere in your life, or only where it’s rewarded? Through reflections drawn from performance psychology, endurance sports, therapy work, and lived experience, the discussion unpacks why many high performers appear strong in one area of life while quietly struggling in another. It highlights how discipline can sometimes mask emotional avoidance, how success in sport or career doesn’t always translate to connection at home, and why incomplete strength eventually shows its limits. Ultimately, this episode sets the foundation for what Imperfectly Human is becoming—a story-driven space where lessons from sport, relationships, and personal growth intersect. It’s an invitation to rethink strength, not as perfection or constant control, but as something that must be able to transfer across every part of life if it’s going to hold up over time.   Stay connected with Rachel: LinkedIn, Youtube, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok ℹ️ The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

What if your life isn’t defined by your past—but by your decisions? In this solo episode, I challenge the idea that your childhood gets a lifetime vote over your future. This isn’t about blame—it’s about agency, and what you choose to do with what you were given. I talk about how your nervous system is shaped not just by trauma, but by repeated patterns, why insight alone won’t change your life, and the hidden cost of staying loyal to old stories. Healing isn’t a one-time realization—it’s a practice. And if patterns are practiced, they can be changed. The question is: if someone met you today, would your life reflect your past—or your decisions? Stay connected with Rachel: LinkedIn, Youtube, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok   ℹ️ The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

In this episode This is one of those conversations that really stays with you. In this episode, we explore what it truly means to create a life and career that feel aligned—not driven by pressure, burnout, or expectations, but by authenticity and purpose. We talk about the shift away from hustle culture and into a more grounded, honest way of building something meaningful. If you’ve ever felt like there’s more for you—something deeper, more connected to who you really are—this conversation will meet you there. It’s about trusting your evolution, giving yourself permission to grow, and redefining success on your own terms.   Meet my guest Camille Miller is a thought leader, 3x bestselling author, and the founder of the Soul Professional® Movement—a global community supporting impact-driven entrepreneurs around the world. With a background in nonprofit leadership, business strategy, and transformational mentoring, Camille is known for blending practical business design with inner identity work. Her approach helps people bridge the gap between who they are and what they do, creating work that is both successful and deeply fulfilling. Through her writing, speaking, and programs, Camille has helped thousands step into aligned leadership and build meaningful, purpose-driven lives.   Connect with Camille: Website, LinkedIn, YouTube, Movement Stay connected with Rachel: LinkedIn, Youtube, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok ℹ️ The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

Rachel Blogg sits down with board certified health and wellness coach Debbie Roppo for a real conversation about what happens when your body stops whispering and starts demanding your attention. Debbie shares the moment she woke up in excruciating joint pain, the fear that came with a rheumatoid arthritis diagnosis, and why she refused to believe a single prediction about what her future had to look like. They talk through the slow, layered work of healing that goes beyond food. Water and air quality, chemicals in everyday products, stress, relationships, sleep, and the shift from chasing quick fixes to building a lifestyle that actually fits you. Debbie also opens up about the missing link she found after getting 75 percent better and how changing her internal dialogue became part of changing her symptoms. Connect with Debbie LinkedIn, Instagram, Facebook   Stay connected with Rachel: LinkedIn, Youtube, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok ℹ️ The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

If anxiety had a personality, it would be the friend who means well but absolutely cannot chill. In this solo episode, Rachel dives into the real version of anxiety—the one that turns every little thing into an emergency and refuses to wait and see. She breaks down why anxiety feels so loud, why it convinces you that everything is urgent, and why trying to fight it or force calm often makes it louder. Rachel also shares simple, practical strategies that actually help. From naming anxiety for what it is, to calming the body, reducing false urgency, and responding without spiraling, listeners will learn how to regain control without needing to eliminate anxiety entirely. This episode is a reminder that you can feel anxious and still move forward, rest without earning it, and live your life even when things are uncertain. Anxiety can come along for the ride—but it does not get to drive.   Stay connected with Rachel: LinkedIn, Youtube, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok   ℹ️ The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

In this episode We dive into the realities of grief and why it doesn’t follow a timeline, the transformative power of community during life’s most difficult moments, and the importance of advocating for yourself when you feel most vulnerable. Emily shares her story with remarkable honesty, offering both practical guidance and emotional support to anyone facing loss or navigating grief. This episode is raw, real, and deeply human — a conversation about resilience, connection, and finding your way forward even when life feels unbearably hard. Meet my guest Emily Tosoni is a woman who shows up for women in grief, in business, and in the delicate space where the two often intersect. She’s an Instagram and Business Growth Coach by trade, but supporting women has always been the throughline of her life. After losing her son, Emily’s world shifted in ways that are hard to describe — yet she’s used her experience to guide, witness, and remind other women that they are not alone in their hardest seasons. Beyond business, she creates communities that are honest, supportive, and kind, offering a safe space for women navigating infertility, miscarriage, and child loss. Follow Emily’s journey Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/emilytosoni_ Stay connected with Rachel: LinkedIn, Youtube, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok ℹ️ The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

In this solo episode, I’m talking about a kind of loneliness that doesn’t get enough attention — the quiet, confusing kind that shows up even when you’re surrounded by notifications, followers, comments, and growth. The kind where everything looks “successful” on the outside, but internally you feel disconnected, behind, or like it’s still not enough. I open up about my own experience navigating social media as a content creator — watching the numbers rise and fall, hitting milestones, and still battling the comparison trap that whispers, “Why isn’t it more?” We explore how metrics were never meant to be mirrors, yet we often use them to measure our worth. I break down why our nervous systems take social media so personally, how comparison quietly disconnects us from community, and the grief that lives underneath the pressure to constantly perform. Through a DBT-informed lens, I share practical tools to help you separate your identity from your impact, ground yourself in your values, and practice real self-validation. If you’ve ever felt unseen in a hyper-connected world or exhausted from trying to keep up, this episode is a reminder: you’re not behind — you’re human. Connect with Rachel: LinkedIn, Youtube, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

We looked successful. Strong. Disciplined. In control. Behind closed doors? We were at war with food. In this episode, Janine Stella sits down with psychotherapist Rachel Blogg, LCSW, and for the first time, both women speak publicly about their personal battles with bulimia and disordered eating. Not the version you see in after-school specials — the high-functioning version. The “she just works out a lot” version. The food journals, the rigid schedules, the bathroom escapes, the exercise that wasn’t about health but about control...with no REAL control. They talk about shame at seven years old, college diets, exercise bulimia, trauma that never got processed, and the lie that if you look strong on the outside, you must be okay on the inside. Eating disorders don’t always look sick. Sometimes they look successful. Two black sheep. One secret. No more silence. If you’ve ever felt powerful in public and powerless in private, you are not alone. Connect with Rachel: LinkedIn, Youtube, Facebook, Instagram, TikTok Slide into the Black Sheep’s DMs – Janine’s waiting. Email: [email protected] Website: www.stellamix.com Produced by StellaMix The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

Rachel Blogg sits down with motivational music artist and podcast host Brooklyn Boon for a conversation that goes far beyond music. What begins as a discussion about his event in Miami turns into an honest reflection on betrayal, shame, faith, and the kind of forgiveness that does not come easily. After discovering his wife was HIV positive, Brooklyn was forced to confront anger, resentment, and the weight of his own family history with addiction and loss. Instead of walking away, he chose to stay. Together, they talk about what it really means to ask “how are you holding up,” the difference between happiness and joy, and how faith and internal work can transform pain into purpose. This episode is about hard conversations, second chances, and the quiet strength it takes to build a family when it would be easier to run.

In this episode In this episode, I’m talking about a kind of loneliness that doesn’t get enough attention — the quiet, In this powerful and heartfelt conversation, we dive into Tara Hayes’ journey from anxiety and self-doubt to purpose and entrepreneurship. Tara opens up about growing up feeling introverted and unseen, struggling with anxiety and fear of judgment, and choosing a “safe” career in accounting that never truly felt aligned. After being laid off twice, she was forced to reevaluate everything — and that turning point led her to write her first book and ultimately build a business helping others share their stories. We talk about what it really means to live with anxiety — not as something to eliminate, but something to understand. Tara shares how she faced the fear of being visible, navigated entrepreneurship as someone who once avoided the spotlight, and learned to “befriend” her anxiety instead of letting it control her. This episode is an honest reminder that you don’t have to feel fearless to move forward — you just have to be willing.   Meet my guest Tara Hayes is the founder of Tarafied Publishing, where she guides coaches and consultants through the publishing process from idea to finished book. With over six years of experience in the publishing space, Tara provides structured support, practical guidance, and honest feedback to help authors transform their drafts into polished, professional books they’re proud to share. At the core of Tara’s work is the belief that every story matters. Having experienced firsthand the healing power of writing and sharing her own journey with anxiety, she is passionate about helping others find confidence in their voice and clarity in their message. Through her work, she empowers authors to move beyond fear, trust their stories, and step fully into their purpose. Connect with Tara: Email: [email protected] LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tara-m-hayes   The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

In this episode: In this powerful and deeply personal conversation, we dive into the real story behind Division I athletics. Weston shares what it was like to dedicate his life to football from the age of five, compete at the highest collegiate level, and navigate the intense pressure that comes with it. We talk about the physical toll of multiple injuries, the mental battles of rehab and uncertainty, the realities of NIL opportunities, and the courage it takes to advocate for yourself when your body and heart are asking for something different. This episode goes beyond the game. It’s about identity, resilience, mental health, and making one of the hardest decisions of your life — walking away from something you’ve worked for since childhood in order to choose long-term happiness and well-being.   Meet my guest: Weston Wolff is a former Division I football player who competed at the University of Maryland and the University of South Florida. After battling multiple injuries throughout his college career, he demonstrated incredible discipline and perseverance — ultimately earning his degree in accounting while navigating the highs and lows of elite athletics. Now stepping into his next chapter, Weston is passionate about financial literacy for athletes, particularly in the evolving NIL era. His story is one of strength, growth, and maturity — and a powerful reminder that sometimes the bravest move isn’t pushing through, but knowing when it’s time to turn the page.   You can follow Weston’s journey here:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/westonwolff/ Twitter: https://x.com/WesWolff TikTok: @bigggwesss   The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

In this episode In this heartfelt and inspiring episode of Perfectly Imperfect Me 365, I sit down with my longtime friend Laura Reiss for a powerful conversation about kindness, resilience, and what it truly means to be human in today’s world. We explore how kindness goes far beyond being “nice” — it’s a practice, a mindset, and a tool for emotional and mental well-being. Laura shares how intentional acts of kindness, starting with ourselves, can create meaningful change in our homes, relationships, and communities. Together, we talk about the science behind compassion, the importance of self-kindness, and how even the smallest moments — a smile, a text, a moment of gratitude — can have a lasting ripple effect. This episode is grounding, hopeful, and deeply reflective, especially for anyone feeling overwhelmed or disconnected. It’s a reminder that kindness is not passive — it’s powerful.   Meet my guest Laura Reiss is a social entrepreneur, speaker, and the founder of the Kindness Matters Foundation, a global movement rooted in the belief that kindness is an essential human capacity. What began as a small after-school club in Boca Raton has grown into an international initiative supporting children, families, schools, workplaces, and communities through education, service, and connection. Drawing from lived experience and evidence-based insight, Laura’s work focuses on strengthening resilience, deepening empathy, and reconnecting people to our shared humanity — especially during times of change and uncertainty. Through storytelling, service, and community partnership, she empowers people of all ages to live with greater compassion, courage, and purpose from the inside out. Laura is also a TEDx speaker, taking the stage on February 4, 2026, where she will share her powerful message on kindness, resilience, and human connection.   Connect with Laura & Kindness Matters: Website: www.kindnessmatters365.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/laurawaldorfreiss Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/laura.w.reiss The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

In this episode I’m joined by my dear friend and colleague Jill Bershad for an honest conversation about grief, trauma, and resilience. We explore how loss impacts the brain and nervous system, the role of self-compassion and boundaries, and why healing is rarely linear. Jill shares powerful insights and lived experience, offering hope and perspective for anyone navigating grief, trauma, or major life transitions. This episode is a reminder that even after deep pain, growth and meaning are still possible.   Meet my guest Jill Bershad is a licensed psychotherapist and certified addictions professional with specialized training in EMDR, trauma therapy, hypnotherapy, reiki, and sound healing. She is also the host of The Present Moment Project Podcast, where she facilitates thoughtful, grounded conversations centered on healing, presence, and personal growth.   What sets Jill apart is her ability to seamlessly integrate clinical expertise with lived experience. She shows up with warmth, authenticity, and deep compassion, creating a space where people feel seen, understood, and supported. Through her work, Jill helps others reconnect with themselves, build resilience, and move forward with intention—especially after trauma, grief, or significant life transitions.   Learn more about Jill and her work at jillbershad.com   The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.  

In this episode We explore Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) as more than just a clinical approach—it’s a practical framework for navigating emotions, relationships, and the challenges of everyday life. We talk about how DBT skills like self-soothing, mindfulness, and emotion regulation show up outside the therapy room, especially for those living with trauma, emotional overwhelm, or distress intolerance. We also discuss how personal experiences shape professional work, the impact of technology on mental health, and why cultural awareness and human connection are essential in effective therapy. Throughout the conversation, we emphasize that growth and healing are ongoing processes, not destinations, and that learning to stay present with ourselves is a skill that can be practiced and strengthened over time. Meet my guest Dr. Kiki Fehling is a clinical psychologist, author, and Linehan-Board-Certified expert in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). Known for her ability to translate complex psychological concepts into practical, usable tools, Kiki is deeply committed to making evidence-based mental health care accessible and compassionate. Her work focuses on emotion regulation, trauma, suicide prevention, and LGBTQ+ mental health, and she speaks nationally to both medical and community audiences. Beyond her clinical and educational work, Kiki shares evidence-based mental health information with more than 75,000 followers across her social media platforms, helping people apply DBT skills in real, everyday moments.   You can connect with Dr. Kiki here: Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dbtkiki Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dbtkiki   The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

In this episode:   What if the voice in your head didn’t criticize you—but supported you instead? In this solo episode, Rachel Blogg dives into the impact of negative self-talk, self-blame, and self-criticism, exploring how these patterns can quietly block personal growth. Drawing on both therapy insights and her own experiences, Rachel discusses why constantly tearing yourself down doesn’t create lasting change—and how responding to yourself with compassion can completely shift the healing process.   Listeners will learn why creating a safe inner space is essential for growth, how to begin shifting their internal dialogue, and why treating yourself with kindness isn’t a sign of weakness, but a powerful tool for transformation. This episode is a reminder that the way we speak to ourselves matters—and that choosing self-compassion can open the door to real healing and positive change.   The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

In this solo episode, Rachel Blogg explores Depersonalization and Derealization Disorder (DPDR), an experience that leaves many people feeling disconnected from themselves or from the world around them—and often misunderstood by the mental health system. Rachel breaks down what DPDR actually is, including the difference between depersonalization and derealization, and why these symptoms are frequently misdiagnosed or minimized. She explains why DPDR is not a personal failure or a mindset problem, but a nervous system response rooted in trauma and chronic stress.   Rachel also discusses why finding the right support matters so much when it comes to healing. She shares why many therapists are not trained to treat dissociation, what makes trauma-informed care essential, and how approaches like DBT can help regulate symptoms and restore a sense of safety in the body. Throughout the episode, Rachel offers reassurance, clarity, and hope—reminding listeners that they are not crazy, not broken, and not alone, and that healing from DPDR is possible with the right understanding and support.   The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

In this solo episode, Rachel, licensed psychotherapist, dives into the differences between panic attacks and anxiety attacks. She shares her personal experiences and provides clear insights into what’s happening in your mind and body during these intense moments. Listeners will gain a deeper understanding of why these experiences can feel overwhelming and learn how to distinguish one from the other.   Rachel also offers practical strategies to help manage anxiety attacks in real time. From calming breathing techniques to grounding exercises, she equips listeners with tools to regain control and feel more centered when anxiety strikes. This episode is a guide for anyone looking to better understand their mental health, take control of their anxiety, and approach their well-being with compassion and confidence.   The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

In this episode, Rachel speaks from the heart as she reflects on the tragic shooting at a Hanukkah celebration in Bondi Beach, Australia—a place deeply personal to her and now forever marked by heartbreaking loss. What happened hits close to home, and Rachel shares her emotional response to the tragedy while acknowledging the pain felt by so many around the world.   This conversation goes beyond the headlines. Rachel addresses the rise of anti-Semitism and extremism, while emphasizing an essential truth: extremists do not represent entire faiths or communities. She calls for courage over silence, unity over division, and compassion over fear—urging listeners to stand against all forms of discrimination and to support both Jewish and Muslim communities in the shared fight against hate, terrorism, and violence. This episode is a powerful reminder of our shared humanity and a call to choose understanding, solidarity, and peace.   The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.  

In this episode: Marcus Smith II shares his journey from being a first-round NFL Draft pick to quietly battling anxiety, depression, and the loss of identity outside of football. We explore the immense pressure athletes face to perform, the culture of silence around mental health, and how those unspoken struggles nearly cost Marcus his life. Through therapy, vulnerability, and the courage to stop hiding, Marcus began to heal and redefine what success truly means. This conversation is a powerful reminder that mental wellness is not just about surviving, but about reconnecting with who you truly are.   Meet my guest: Marcus Smith II is a former first-round NFL Draft pick who played for the Philadelphia Eagles, Seattle Seahawks, and Washington Commanders. After facing his own mental health challenges, Marcus turned his personal pain into purpose and has become a leading voice in athlete mental wellness. Today, he works with professional sports organizations, college and high school programs, and corporate leaders to promote emotional resilience, mindfulness, and sustainable high performance. Through his work and storytelling, Marcus helps people drop the mask, build self-awareness, and understand that true strength begins with honesty.   You can find more about Marcus’s journey here: https://marcussmithii.com/   If you’re an athlete check out https://www.athletes.org/   If you’re an athlete struggling reach out to: https://apn.com/   Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@rachelwblogg Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSW⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW⁠⁠⁠   The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

In this heartfelt conversation, Rachel speaks with Bryan and Danielle Docobo, a couple who have turned their personal tragedy into a mission of advocacy for rare disease families. Their boys, Liam and Ethan were both diagnosed with a rare genetic condition known as Coats Plus Syndrome by a team at Joe DiMaggio Children's Hospital. They share their journey of navigating grief after the loss of their son Ethan, while also fighting for the health of their other son, Liam.  The couple discusses the importance of community support, spirituality, and finding meaning in their loss as they work to raise awareness and funds for research. Their story is one of resilience, love, and the power of turning grief into action. To learn more about Coats Plus Syndrome and ways you can donate, you can reach out to [email protected]  Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@rachelwblogg Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSW⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW⁠⁠⁠ The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.  

In this episode, Rachel talks about the emotional toll of denying who you are or who you love—and the quiet, often unseen ways it impacts your mental health. This is a gentle, honest conversation about the cost of hiding, the weight of shame, and why living out of alignment with yourself can lead to anxiety, depression, loneliness, and disconnection. Together, we unpack: why authenticity is a core psychological need how chronic hiding creates stress, fear, and hypervigilance the grief that comes from editing parts of yourself to stay accepted what begins to heal when you finally step into your truth This episode isn’t about labels or politics—it’s about humanity, compassion, and the right we all have to live a life that fits. If you’ve ever felt like you couldn’t show up as your full self, or you’ve carried the quiet heaviness of hiding who you love or what you feel, this conversation is for you. You deserve space to breathe. You deserve relationships where you’re seen. You deserve to exist as your whole, unedited self. Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@rachelwblogg Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSW⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW⁠⁠⁠ The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

✨ In this episode, we dive into the science and soul of KINDNESS — how it changes your mood, your relationships, and your entire emotional landscape. I’m also sharing something personal: my Rise & Renew Weekend Retreat, where I spent three days with 12 incredible women who reminded me just how powerful kindness, connection, and community can be. Their presence, honesty, and openness turned the retreat into a space of real healing and renewal. We’ll explore:
💛 How kindness affects your brain and nervous system
💛 Why small acts of compassion can instantly shift your mood
💛 What happens when women show up for one another with honesty and care
💛 How kindness can be a realistic daily practice — not a massive effort
💛 What I learned from witnessing 12 women embrace peace, rest, and renewal Kindness isn’t just something we “do” — it’s something we create, and it changes everything. If you’re overwhelmed, anxious, or craving connection… this episode will feel like a breath you’ve been needing. 🎧 Listen, breathe, receive.
And if this episode resonates, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe. 💛 Check Out https://kindnessmatters365.org/   Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@rachelwblogg Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSW⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW⁠⁠⁠ The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

Ever catch yourself jumping in to fix everyone’s problems… then getting mad when no one changes? Or feeling powerless and wondering why life keeps happening to you? Welcome to the Drama Triangle — where the Victim, Rescuer, and Persecutor take turns running your relationships into the ground. In this episode, I share what my own therapist pointed out to me this week (spoiler: I was deep in the rescuer role 🙃), and we unpack what Diane Zimberoff calls “the victim trap” — the cycle that keeps people stuck, resentful, and disconnected. We’ll talk about: • How each role secretly maintains the chaos • Why rescuing isn’t kindness — it’s control in disguise • How to recognize when you’re sliding into the triangle • Concrete ways to step out and build healthier, more balanced connections If you’ve ever felt drained from “helping,” blamed for everything, or trapped in the same emotional loops — this one’s going to hit. Because the moment you stop rescuing, blaming, or surrendering your power… that’s the moment you actually get it back. Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@rachelwblogg Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSW⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW⁠⁠⁠ The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

The holidays are coming — and with them, a whole storm of emotions, expectations, and family chaos wrapped in shiny paper. In this episode, I’m breaking down why the holidays hit so hard for so many of us (hint: it’s not just the in-laws or the turkey), and how to handle it with real, evidence-based tools that actually work. We’ll talk about: 🎄 Why family dynamics resurface the second you walk through the door 🧠 How anxiety, grief, and guilt show up during “the most wonderful time of the year” 💬 How to set boundaries without drowning in shame ✨ DBT skills like STOPP, DEAR MAN, and Radical Acceptance to keep you grounded ❤️ And most importantly — how to treat yourself with compassion when it all feels too much This isn’t your typical “stay positive” holiday pep talk — it’s an honest, funny, and real conversation about surviving the season with your sanity (and self-respect) intact. If the holidays make you want to hide in your car between family events, this episode’s for you. 🎧 Listen now and get your emotional toolkit ready for the chaos — one deep breath at a time. Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@rachelwblogg Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSW⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW⁠⁠⁠ The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

In this episode, we chat with Kat, a survivor of domestic violence, PTSD, and single motherhood at 16. She opens the doors on trauma and shines the light on the hidden scars of emotional and psychological abuse. She speaks with raw honesty about the lasting impact of trauma, the power of boundaries, and how self-worth plays a critical role in healing. Through her personal story, she challenges audiences to rethink what they know about abusive relationships and foster a deeper understanding of the complexities survivors face. A sought-after speaker for colleges, healthcare professionals, and law enforcement, she equips you with the knowledge to support survivors and create meaningful change. Check her out at www.the-lotus-effect.com and be sure to subscribe to her podcast, Real Chat with Kat on your listening platforms. Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@rachelwblogg Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSW⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW⁠⁠⁠ The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.  

In this episode of Perfectly Imperfect Me 365, Rachel explores the cultural phenomenon of burnout, discussing its origins, impacts, and coping strategies. She emphasizes that burnout is not a personal failure but a societal issue that many face. The conversation delves into the unhealthy coping mechanisms people often resort to and highlights healthier strategies for recovery, including radical acceptance and reconnecting with personal values. Rachel encourages listeners to cultivate awareness of their burnout and take small steps towards recovery. #burnout #culturalphenomenon #copingstrategies #mentalhealth #selfcare #emotionalexhaustion #awareness #recovery #values #DBTskills Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@rachelwblogg Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSW⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW⁠⁠⁠ The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

In this episode of Perfectly Imperfect Me, Rachel discusses the common misconception that motivation is the key to taking action. She explains that motivation is a fleeting feeling rather than a reliable behavior. Instead of waiting for motivation to strike, Rachel offers practical strategies to overcome procrastination and get started on tasks, emphasizing the importance of breaking tasks down into smaller steps, validating oneself, and creating a supportive environment for action. Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@rachelwblogg Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSW⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW⁠⁠⁠ The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional, medical or mental health advice.

In this episode, Rachel explores the cultural discourse surrounding Taylor Swift's latest album, addressing the polarized interpretations of her lyrics. She emphasizes the importance of dialectical thinking, advocating for the ability to hold multiple truths simultaneously rather than succumbing to binary thinking. Rachel critiques the societal tendency to label cultural figures as either conservative or liberal, arguing that this oversimplification stifles meaningful dialogue and understanding. She encourages listeners to embrace complexity and nuance in both music and broader societal issues. Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@rachelwblogg⁠ Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSW⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW⁠⁠⁠⁠ The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice. #TaylorSwift #conservativepipeline #Thelifeofashowgirl

Trigger warning: frank talk about self-harm and suicidal thoughts. In this fast-paced, honest episode I sit with you like a friend and a DBT therapist to explain why people with Borderline Personality Disorder engage in self-harm, how to spot the difference between coping behavior and suicidal intent, and practical, compassionate ways to help—whether you’re the person struggling or someone who loves them. Includes quick DBT tools, a safety-plan script, and clear guidance on when to reach for emergency help. (If you’re in immediate danger, call emergency services or, in the U.S., call/text 988.)The episode concludes with a reminder of the importance of compassion and understanding in addressing mental health issues. takeaways Self-harm is often a misunderstood survival skill. Many believe self-harm is attention-seeking, which is a misconception. Self-harm communicates emotional pain that words cannot express. Offering connection and compassion is more effective than judgment. Grounding techniques can help manage urges to self-harm. DBT is an effective therapy for BPD and self-harm. Self-harm is a temporary coping mechanism, not a sign of being broken. Building a fulfilling life is essential for recovery. Talking about self-harm without shame can lead to change. Support is crucial; individuals do not have to face this alone. 👉 If you’re struggling right now: You are not alone. Please reach out for support — call or text 988 (in the U.S.), or look up your local crisis line. Safety Plan Template: ⁠https://rachelwrites3.gumroad.com/l/telrqj⁠ Grounding Kit Cheat sheet: ⁠https://rachelwrites3.gumroad.com/l/vuwpa⁠ Disclaimer & Terms of Use This resource is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not a substitute for therapy, counseling, medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Downloading or using this material does not establish a therapist-client relationship with the creator. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis or thinking about suicide, please call your local emergency number immediately. In the U.S., you can dial or text 988 for the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline. By downloading this resource, you agree that: You will use it for personal use only and not distribute, modify, or sell it without permission. You understand that the creator assumes no liability for how you choose to use the material. You are responsible for your own safety and well-being, and you should seek professional support when needed. Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@rachelwblogg⁠ Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSW⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW⁠⁠⁠⁠ The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

In this episode, Rachel discusses the phenomenon of religious psychosis and extreme apocalyptic beliefs, particularly in the context of the failed doomsday prediction for September 23rd. She explores the psychological and emotional fallout for families affected by these beliefs, including financial instability, generational trauma, and mental health issues. Rachel also offers coping strategies for those dealing with loved ones in such states, emphasizing the importance of acceptance, boundaries, and support. Takeaways Some people genuinely believed this would be the end of the world. Religious psychosis occurs when faith-based ideas detach from reality. Extreme beliefs can lead to financial chaos and emotional turmoil. Families experience broken trust and fear due to apocalyptic beliefs. The long-term consequences include financial instability and generational trauma. Mental health issues like depression and anxiety can arise from these beliefs. Coping strategies include radical acceptance and setting boundaries. It's important to connect with others for support during crises. Doomsday prophecies often lead to repeated cycles of belief and disappointment. Resilience is key in rebuilding after such experiences. Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@rachelwblogg Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSW⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW⁠⁠⁠ The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

Borderline Personality Disorder is one of the most misunderstood and stigmatized mental health diagnoses out there. In this episode, I’m breaking down the biggest myths—like “people with BPD are manipulative,” “BPD is untreatable,” or “they’re just attention-seeking”—and explaining why these stereotypes are flat-out wrong. As a DBT therapist, I’ll walk you through what’s really going on beneath the surface, how BPD actually shows up, and why recovery is possible. Whether you’re living with BPD, love someone who has it, or just want to better understand the disorder without all the stigma, this episode will give you compassion, clarity, and hope. Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@rachelwblogg Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSW⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW⁠⁠⁠ Florida Borderline Personality Disorder Association Hope for BPD - for families https://www.hopeforbpd.com The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

In today's episode, we're going to unpack the Sadia Khan scandal and use it to discuss a wider problem: when influencer brands borrow clinical language, how does that harm clients and licensed professionals? We'll will give you practical tips for verifying credentials and protecting your mental health online. Rachel is talking about allegations reported in public sources — not claiming any court or regulator has convicted anyone here. 🔗 Show Notes & Resources 📰 News Sources India Times – Sadia Khan dating coach controversy: Viral voice note sparks cheating claims — Coverage of the affair allegations and leaked audio fueling the current drama. Primetimer – Profile on Sadia Khan — Background on her brand, social media following, and positioning as a dating coach. ✅ Verify Credentials (UK & US) HCPC Misuse of Title — Why certain psychology titles are legally protected in the UK. HCPC Register — Search the official UK register to confirm if someone is a practitioner psychologist. British Psychological Society – Protected Titles — Explanation of what titles mean and who can use them. APA Services – State Psychology Licensing Boards — U.S. listeners: find your state board and check licenses. 📊 Research & Guidance on Misinformation APA – How to Address Misinformation About Mental Health — Tools for clinicians and consumers to spot false claims. BMJ Mental Health – Systematic Review of Mental Health Misinformation on Social Media — Evidence on how common and harmful online misinformation is. 🧭 Coaching Industry & Boundaries International Coaching Federation – Ethics & Professional Standards — Shows the limits of regulation in coaching. BPS Division of Coaching Psychology — Guidance on keeping coaching and therapy distinct. 👉 If you want to protect yourself when looking for help online: check the registers, ask for evidence, and don’t confuse charisma with credentials. If this episode helped you think more critically about who you follow for mental-health advice, share it. If you’re a clinician who’s seeing the fallout of influencer misinformation in your practice, DM me — I want to hear your stories for a future episode. Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@rachelwblogg Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSW⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW⁠⁠⁠ The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

Nobody warns you about the chapter of life where the roles flip—when your parent becomes the one who needs you. In this episode, I share my own story of navigating life as an adult child caring for my dad: the late-night hospital calls, the constant “clean up crew” work of canceling scams and subscriptions he never needed, and the emotional rollercoaster of balancing his independence with his safety. It’s raw, messy, and sometimes even a little funny—because if you don’t laugh about being on hold with customer service for the fifth time this week, you’ll cry. If you’ve ever felt the weight of parenting your parent, this episode will remind you that you’re not alone, you’re not failing, and it’s okay to admit that this is one of the hardest parts of adulthood. Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@rachelwblogg⁠⁠ Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSW⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW⁠⁠⁠⁠ The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

We’ve all heard people say, “I’m so OCD about my closet” or “I’m OCD about my desk.” But here’s the truth: liking things neat is a preference, not a disorder. In this episode, I break down the real difference between enjoying organization and living with obsessive-compulsive disorder. We’ll talk about what OCD actually is — the cycle of intrusive thoughts and compulsions — and how it can seriously interfere with daily life, relationships, and even something as simple as leaving the house. And we’ll look at why casually using “OCD” as shorthand for tidiness waters down the reality of a serious, often painful mental health condition. If you’ve ever wondered where the line is between quirks and a disorder, this episode will set the record straight. Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support: Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw⁠⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@yourusername⁠⁠⁠ Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSW⁠⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW⁠⁠ The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

What happens when you’re the friend who stays home while everyone else leaves for college? This episode dives into the quiet heartbreak of watching your best friends live out their “college dream” while you’re still in your childhood bedroom. We’ll talk about the grief no one acknowledges, the loneliness of feeling left behind, and why staying home doesn’t mean you’re falling behind. If you’ve ever scrolled through your friends’ highlight reels and wondered, “Am I missing out on life?”—this one’s for you. Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support: Instagram: ⁠⁠https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw⁠⁠ TikTok: ⁠⁠https://tiktok.com/@yourusername⁠⁠ Facebook: ⁠⁠https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSW⁠⁠ YouTube: ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW⁠ The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice.

A real-time mental health crisis is unfolding on TikTok, and the internet can’t look away. In this episode, I break down the viral Kendra saga—her multi-part story about falling in love with her psychiatrist, the sudden involvement of AI “Henry,” and the signs that point to a possible psychotic episode happening in public view. We’ll talk about why watching these breakdowns as “entertainment” is dangerous, how social media algorithms reward the spiral, and the very real harm that comes from enabling someone in crisis—whether you mean to or not. Most importantly, I’ll share what we can actually do as a community when we see something like this online. This isn’t tea. This is someone’s mental health on display. And we have to start handling it differently. Resources mentioned in this episode: 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline (U.S.): Call or text 988 Find other crisis lines worldwide: https://findahelpline.com

In this episode of Perfectly Imperfect Me 365, Rachel shares her personal journey with postpartum depression, discussing the confusion, shame, and isolation she felt after the birth of her first son. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing the signs of postpartum depression, seeking help, and taking small steps towards recovery. Rachel also highlights the significance of support systems and the duality of motherhood, acknowledging that it is possible to love your child while also feeling overwhelmed and lost. The episode serves as a reminder that new mothers are not alone in their struggles and encourages them to be gentle with themselves. Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support: Instagram: ⁠https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw⁠ TikTok: ⁠https://tiktok.com/@yourusername⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSW⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW The podcast content is intended for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical or mental health advice. It's crucial to emphasize that the information provided is not a replacement for the services of a trained therapist, doctor, or other health professional.  #postpartumdepression #mentalhealth #motherhood #support #therapy #moms

Ryn Sloane is a Certified Integrative Healing and Cancer Resilience Guide, and a breast cancer survivor who understands firsthand the invisible battle that begins after treatment ends. She specializes in guiding cancer survivors through the emotional, mental, and spiritual Aftermath of their diagnosis, helping them reclaim their power, identity, and achieve profound wholeness. Through her signature Sloane Healing Method™, Ryn's soul-led approach blends trauma-informed coaching with practical tools for emotional processing and deep self-reclamation, providing a roadmap for living unapologetically beyond cancer. She empowers individuals to move past feeling lost in their bodies and unsure of their future, towards an unshakeable sense of self and purpose. You can find Ryn's work, including her free community Ashes of Courage and her high-impact coaching programs, at https://www.sloanehealing.com.

We all mess up—but what really matters is how we handle it. In this episode, we dive into the power of accountability and how taking responsibility strengthens our relationships, builds trust, and fuels personal growth. We’ll break down why avoiding accountability leads to broken trust, common mistakes when apologizing (yes, we’re looking at those “I’m sorry if” apologies), and how to make real amends. Ready to own up and level up? Let’s talk about it! 🎧 Tune in now & let’s chat—DM me your thoughts on Instagram or Tik Tok!

Borderline Personality Disorder gets a lot of hate—and most of it is based on myths, misunderstandings, and TikTok diagnosis drama. In this episode, I’m breaking down what BPD actually is, why people with it are not manipulative monsters, and how to support someone you love who struggles with emotional intensity and fear of abandonment. Whether you’ve got BPD, love someone who does, or just want to stop saying “toxic” every time someone has big feelings—this one's for you. Don't forget to subscribe, follow and rate this episode! Oh yeah, don't forget to share this with someone who really would benefit from listening to it. Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/RachelBloggLCSW/ YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW

What happens when the house gets quiet... too quiet? When the kids are grown, the schedule slows down, and you’re left wondering, “Who even am I now?” In this episode, I’m talking from both my mom heart and therapist brain about the identity shift that happens when you become an empty nester. We’ll explore the grief, the guilt, the weird freedom — and how to gently rediscover the you underneath it all. Whether you’re in the thick of it or just peeking around the corner at this next chapter, this one’s for you. Come sit with me. Let’s talk about how to make space for your next becoming. Visit me at @rachelblogglcsw and drop the word RESET and I'll give you a special surprise

Ever try to explain how maxed out you feel—and your partner just doesn’t get it? Maybe they hit you with “Just ask for help!” or “Why didn’t you say anything?” and suddenly you’re fantasizing about throwing a sock at their head. This episode is for every mom who feels emotionally invisible, mentally overloaded, and like she’s carrying 97 tabs open in her brain at all times. In this episode, Rachel is breaking down: Why your partner doesn’t see what you’re carrying How to communicate your overwhelm without sounding like you're blaming What to say that actually lands (no sarcasm translator required) How to advocate for yourself without the guilt Because you deserve to feel seen, supported, and not like you're silently drowning while your partner asks where the ketchup is. 🎧 Listen now, and then send it to your partner as a gentle nudge 😉

Feel like you're failing even when you're trying your absolute best? That’s mom guilt talking—and in this episode, I'm calling it out. I'm diving into where mom guilt actually comes from (hint: it’s not your fault), how to spot when it’s taking over, and therapist-approved ways to quiet that inner critic so you can breathe, reset, and show up as the imperfect-but-awesome mom you already are. You don’t need to be everything to everyone. You just need to hear this. 👉 Follow me for more real, relatable mental health support: Instagram: https://instagram.com/rachelblogglcsw TikTok: https://facebook.com/rachelbloggLCSW YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@RachelBlogg-LCSW 🧠 Want more no-BS mental health tools? Hit follow, leave a review, and share this episode with another mom who needs to know she's not alone.

In this episode, we’re unpacking the sneaky ways social media messes with your mental health—from comparison spirals and perfectionism to dopamine addiction and fake connection. Rachel breaks down the brain science, throws in some truth bombs, and gives you no-BS tools to take your power back. You don’t need to quit cold turkey—but you do need to log off before you lose yourself in the scroll. Ready to unplug (just a little)? Let’s go.

Ever shared something you’re working on in therapy—only to have it thrown back at you later? In this quick, powerful episode, Rachel dives into why people weaponize your healing, how it impacts you, and how to respond when it happens. You’ll learn boundary-setting scripts, mindset shifts, and how to protect your peace without shutting down your growth. Healing is sacred—you deserve to keep it safe.

In this powerful episode, I’m joined by the incredible Sabrina Victoria, who opens up about how she found herself in a narcissistic abusive relationship, the emotional and mental toll it took on her, and—most importantly—how she found the strength to plan her escape and break free. Sabrina shares the raw, unfiltered truth about the red flags she missed, the manipulation she endured, and the moment everything shifted. Today, she’s not just surviving—she’s thriving. She's creator and CEO of Her Nation Global and host of Her Talk Show. Her story is one of resilience, self-discovery, and empowerment. If you've ever struggled in a toxic relationship or know someone who has, this episode is a must-listen. It’s a reminder that healing is possible, and your story isn’t over. 🔗 Tune in now and let Sabrina’s journey inspire your own healing and growth. She can be found at www.sabrinavictoria.com

In this episode, Rachel explores the "Window of Tolerance"—a concept that helps us understand how we respond to stress and regulate our emotions. Learn how to recognize when you're in or out of your window, and discover practical strategies to expand your capacity for resilience. Tune in for insights that can help you navigate life's challenges with greater ease!