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The Switchbacks of the Valley (Why Healing Feels Repetitive) Have you ever thought, "Lord, why are we talking about this again?" You thought you had forgiven. You thought you had healed. You thought you had moved forward. And then, suddenly, an old wound, fear, memory, or trigger appears again. Welcome to the switchbacks of the valley. In this episode, Dana shares a humorous hiking story from the mountains of the Pacific Northwest and reveals how the Lord often uses switchbacks in our healing journey after divorce. Although these seasons may feel repetitive, they are often God's way of strengthening our faith, building endurance, protecting our hearts, and preparing us for the next stage of the journey. The Shepherd knows the trail—even when we don't. In this episode, we'll discuss: Why healing is rarely a straight path Why God sometimes revisits old wounds The purpose of spiritual switchbacks How God builds endurance and stamina Why the long way is sometimes the safest way How to trust the Shepherd when the trail doesn't make sense Scriptures in this episode Psalm 23:3 Psalm 119:35 Psalm 121:1–2 Isaiah 55:12 Habakkuk 3:19 Remember, friend, you are not going backward. You are going higher. We are the fragrance of Christ, Dana   If this ministry has blessed you, you can buy me coffee through Ko-Fi: BUY ME COFFEE LINK: https://ko-fi.com/ribuymecoffeedonations   LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/   An encouraging word article: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/02/19/a-word-of-encouragement-for-you/   Embracing Christ's Design: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/03/26/embracing-christs-design-amid-divorce/   SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   Free ebook: Who Am I After Divorce? Contact [email protected]. Are you a divorced Christian needing encouragement? Do you struggle with how to see yourself since your divorce? This free ebook will encourage you and remind you who and WHOSE you are!   Amazon: Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST:   APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce   Guest Scheduling https://redeemed-identity.com/scheduling/ Redeemed Identity After Divorce is the podcast that helps you re-remember who you are after your divorce. After all, divorce is a sandstorm, and we all need goggles. #ChristianDivorce #DivorceRecovery #HealingAfterDivorce #ChristianPodcast #FaithAfterDivorce #Psalm23 #SpiritualHealing #IdentityInChrist    

Trust is not a feeling. Trust is choosing to follow the next trail marker—even when you can't see the entire path. After the feast in the presence of our enemies, the Shepherd tells us it’s time to get up and keep walking. But that’s often when doubt and fear show up again—especially when betrayal, abandonment, and loss have taught us to be cautious about trusting. So how do we learn to trust God again when we can't see where He's taking us? In this episode, we follow five trail markers for learning to trust the Shepherd: Remember His character. God is good, merciful, and faithful. Follow today's instructions. God's Word is a lamp for our feet—not a stadium floodlight for the entire journey. Stop demanding a map. We may want explanations and blueprints, but God offers us His presence. Remember previous rescues. Your past testimonies of God's faithfulness become trail markers for the next part of the journey. Learn to trust His pace. Healing doesn't have to happen on someone else's timeline. As the Shepherd reminds us, "Limping is still moving." Then comes a mini pep talk for anyone who is afraid to trust again—to hope again, love again, serve again, or dream again. Because the Shepherd doesn't merely know the way. The Shepherd IS the way. You aren't following a map. You're following a Person. And when the trail suddenly turns into a switchback, remember: God never promised us a straight path. He promised to walk it with us. IT IS WRITTEN When doubt shows up, reach into your backpack and remind yourself: I may not know the path, but I know my Shepherd. — John 10:14 He goes before me. — Deuteronomy 31:8 He directs my steps. — Proverbs 3:5–6 He will never leave me. — Hebrews 13:5 He who began a good work in me will complete it. — Philippians 1:6 Goodness and mercy are following me. — Psalm 23:6 Trail Mix for the Journey Three things to keep in your spiritual backpack: Scripture. Gratitude. Remembrance. Because when doubt comes, you can reach into your pack and say: "The Shepherd fed me here once before. He'll feed me again." And somewhere in heaven, the Shepherd smiles and says, "Good thing I packed leftovers." 😊 Scripture Mentioned Psalm 100:5 Psalm 119:105 1 Samuel 17:37 Isaiah 40:31 John 10:14 Deuteronomy 31:8 Proverbs 3:5–6 Hebrews 13:5 Philippians 1:6 Psalm 23:6 If this episode encouraged you, please follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with someone who may be struggling to trust God after divorce. Your engagement helps us reach other hurting people who need to know they haven't been forgotten. And remember… D is a S. Microdermabrasion is cheaper. I only know because I keep checking the prices. SIGH. 😂 Join me next time as we explore the switchbacks of the VOSOD—why they're there and how God can use them in our healing journey.   We are the fragrance of Christ, Dana   If this ministry has blessed you, you can buy me coffee through Ko-Fi: BUY ME COFFEE LINK: https://ko-fi.com/ribuymecoffeedonations   LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/ An encouraging word article: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/02/19/a-word-of-encouragement-for-you/   Embracing Christ's Design: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/03/26/embracing-christs-design-amid-divorce/   SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS: Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   Free ebook: Who Am I After Divorce? Contact [email protected]. Are you a divorced Christian needing encouragement? Do you struggle with how to see yourself since your divorce? This free ebook will encourage you and remind you who and WHOSE you are!     Amazon: Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW: PODCAST:   APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce   Guest Scheduling https://redeemed-identity.com/scheduling/ #RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce #ChristianDivorceRecovery #HealingAfterDivorce #TrustGod #TrustingGod #DivorceRecovery #ChristianHealing #FaithAfterDivorce #SpiritualHealing #GodsFaithfulness

Psalm 23:5 "You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup runs over." Why doesn't God simply remove our enemies? Why doesn't He silence the accusations, erase the pain, and close the mouths of the people who wounded us? Instead, He does something completely unexpected. He sets the table. In this episode of Redeemed Identity After Divorce, we continue our journey through the Valley of the Shadow of Divorce (VOSOD) and explore one of the most beautiful and surprising images in all of Scripture. Together, we'll uncover the rich Hebrew meanings behind the words shulchan (table), tsarar  (enemies), dishan (anoint), shemen (oil), kos (cup), and revayah (overflowing). We'll discover that God isn't waiting for the valley to end before He cares for us. He is offering peace, honor, protection, healing, and abundance right in the middle of it. After all, the Shepherd has become the Host. In this episode, we'll discuss: Why God prepares a table instead of removing the battle The cultural significance of hospitality in the ancient Near East What the Hebrew word tsarar teaches us about our enemies Why shame, fear, rejection, and regret are often our greatest adversaries The significance of anointing oil in Scripture The meaning behind an overflowing cup The beautiful picture of the shepherd preparing the tablelands before the sheep arrive Why your enemies may watch, but they are not allowed to sit at the table Truth Bombs 💥 Your seat at God's table was purchased by Jesus, not approved by people. 💥 God is not merely tolerating you after your divorce. He is restoring, healing, and honoring you. Identity Checks ❤️ Are you living as someone invited to God's table, or are you standing outside the tent because shame told you that you don't belong there? ❤️ What if the valley isn't evidence that God has abandoned you? What if it's the very place where He intends to reveal your true identity? Homework Assignment #1: Pull Up a Chair Place an empty chair at your kitchen table. Spend ten minutes talking with the Lord as though you were sitting at His table. Write down what you believe He would say to you. Assignment #2: Identify the Tsarar or the Enemies Make a list of everything that has been squeezing, restricting, binding, or distressing you. Then write these words at the bottom of the page: "You may watch, but you may not sit at my table." Assignment #3: Overflow Journal Every evening, write down three ways God provided for you that day. Remember this: God did not abandon you in the valley. He did not forget you in the valley. And He certainly did not leave you hungry there. The King has prepared a table. Your name is on the invitation. All you have to do is pull up a chair.   We are the fragrance of Christ, Dana   If this ministry has blessed you, you can buy me coffee through Ko-Fi: BUY ME COFFEE LINK: https://ko-fi.com/ribuymecoffeedonations   LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/   An encouraging word article: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/02/19/a-word-of-encouragement-for-you/   Embracing Christ's Design: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/03/26/embracing-christs-design-amid-divorce/   SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   Free ebook: Who Am I After Divorce? Contact [email protected]. Are you a divorced Christian needing encouragement? Do you struggle with how to see yourself since your divorce? This free ebook will encourage you and remind you who and WHOSE you are!   Amazon: Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW: PODCAST:   APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce   Guest Scheduling https://redeemed-identity.com/scheduling/

You've survived the bandits, endured the echoes, wrestled with silence, discovered mercy in the cave, and surrendered everything God never intended you to carry. Now it's time to shoulder your backpack and leave the valley. In this episode of Redeemed Identity After Divorce, we're talking about what happens when healing becomes movement. The valley may have changed you, but it was never meant to define you. Together, we'll explore: Why the cave was meant to be a refuge, not a permanent residence The rocks of control, fear, shame, bitterness, and resentment that must be left behind The gifts God quietly places in our backpacks along the journey Why empty hands are often the beginning of God's greatest work How the Shepherd's rod, God's whispers, discernment, mercy, and His Word prepare us for the road ahead Why God gives us the next step instead of the entire map How Joshua's story reminds us that courage is discovered while walking in obedience If you've been camping in the Valley of the Shadow of Divorce, this episode is your invitation to stand up, shoulder your backpack, and take the next faithful step. Because the valley was never your destination. Identity Check "I am no longer defined by where I hid. I am defined by the One who called me out." Scriptures referenced: Psalm 23 1 Samuel 22 (The Cave of Adullam) Joshua 1 Psalm 119:105 Practical challenge: Don't try to conquer the next five years. Find your next trail marker. Take one faithful step. Remember, friend, divorce is a sandstorm ... and the map is upside down. But the Shepherd still knows the way. If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs hope today. Blessings,   Dana   BUY ME COFFEE LINK:   If this podcast has encouraged you, you can support my work here ☕💛 It truly helps me keep creating episodes for people healing after divorce. https://ko-fi.com/ribuymecoffeedonations   WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com   LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/     SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   Amazon: Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW: PODCAST:   APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce  

not to take with you? In this episode of the Valley of Divorce series, we're standing at the edge of the Valley and asking one life-changing question: What are you willing to leave behind? Divorce often leaves us carrying far more than grief. We pick up fear, shame, bitterness, false identities, unhealthy patterns, and the exhausting need to control what we were never meant to carry. But before God leads us into the next season, He lovingly invites us to lay those burdens down. Drawing from John 12, Romans 8 and 12, and the lives of Joseph, Jonah, David, and Jesus, we'll discover that the Valley isn't just a place of survival—it's a place of surrender and transformation. In this episode you'll discover: Why a seed must "break open" before it bears fruit. The surprising burden God asked me to surrender after my divorce. Why truth matters—but why you don't have to spend your life serving on the jury of your own case. How the Valley whispers false identities—and why God's Word has the final say. Why God doesn't waste valleys... He uses them to prepare us for what's next. Reflection Homework: Grab a backpack and a few rocks. This simple visual exercise may become one of the most powerful moments in your healing journey as you identify what God is asking you to leave in the Valley. Remember... You are not what happened to you. You are who Christ says you are. "It is written." Next time, we'll stop talking about what to leave behind and discover what God wants you to carry out of the Valley. Scriptures in this episode: John 12:20-26 Romans 8:28-29 Romans 12:2 Hebrews 13:5 Ephesians 1:4 2 Corinthians 5:17 Psalm 23 Romans 11:29 Luke 4:1-14 Blessings, Dana   Amazon:   Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp     WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST:   APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce

After divorce, it's natural to want to hide. Maybe you've pulled away from friends, stopped serving, or found yourself retreating into what feels like an emotional cave. If so, you're not alone—and you may be surprised to discover that God has a purpose for caves. In this episode of Redeemed Identity After Divorce, we're continuing our Valley of the Shadow of Divorce series by exploring how God often uses hidden places to protect us, restore us, and prepare us for what's next. Throughout Scripture, caves were places of refuge. David found shelter in the Cave of Adullam. Elijah encountered God's gentle voice in a cave. These weren't places of defeat—they were places of transformation. But there's also an important warning. The cave that once protected you can become the place that keeps you stuck. God never intended the cave to become your permanent address. If you've been hiding, healing, or wondering whether it's time to step back into life again, this episode is for you. In this episode, you'll discover: Why God sometimes leads us into seasons of hiddenness What David's Cave of Adullam teaches us about healing after divorce The difference between resting and hiding How God's provision can become our prison if we're not careful Practical steps for recognizing when it's time to leave the cave and continue your journey with the Shepherd Key Scripture 1 Samuel 22:1–2 Psalm 57 Romans 8:29 1 Kings 19 Truth Bombs 💣 God hides people He intends to heal—not people He intends to abandon. 💣 Resting in the cave is healthy. Building a house there is not. 💣 The Shepherd never calls you to stay where He only intended you to recover. If this episode encouraged you, please follow the podcast, leave a five-star review on Apple Podcasts, and share it with someone who may be walking through their own valley. Your review helps other hurting Christians discover hope and healing.   We are the fragrance of Christ, Dana   If this ministry has blessed you, you can buy me coffee through Ko-Fi: BUY ME COFFEE LINK: https://ko-fi.com/ribuymecoffeedonations   LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/   An encouraging word article: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/02/19/a-word-of-encouragement-for-you/   Embracing Christ's Design: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/03/26/embracing-christs-design-amid-divorce/   SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   Free ebook: Who Am I After Divorce? Contact [email protected]. Are you a divorced Christian needing encouragement? Do you struggle with how to see yourself since your divorce? This free ebook will encourage you and remind you who and WHOSE you are!   Amazon: Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   WHERE YOU CAN FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST: APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce   Guest Scheduling https://redeemed-identity.com/scheduling/

Divorce can feel like a walk through the Valley of the Shadow of Death. Not because you have physically died, but because so much of life as you knew it has. Dreams. Plans. Identity. Security. Relationships. The future you thought you would have. In this powerful episode of Redeemed Identity After Divorce, we explore the famous words of Psalm 23 and uncover what the "Valley of the Shadow of Death" meant to those living in biblical times. We'll look at why valleys were places of danger, uncertainty, and vulnerability—and how those same realities often mirror the experience of divorce. If you've ever felt lost, abandoned, overwhelmed, or unsure how you'll make it through another day, this episode is for you. You'll discover: ✔️ What the Valley of the Shadow of Death represented in biblical culture ✔️ Why divorce often feels like a journey through a dark valley ✔️ The difference between living in a valley and getting stuck there ✔️ How God's presence changes everything, even when your circumstances haven't changed ✔️ Practical encouragement for navigating grief, loss, fear, and uncertainty ✔️ Why your valley is not your final destination The valley may be dark, but it is not permanent. The Good Shepherd never abandons His sheep, and He is with you every step of the journey. If you're walking through one of the hardest seasons of your life, this episode will remind you that God is still leading, still protecting, and still writing your story. Key Scripture: Psalm 23:4 "Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me." Resources Mentioned: 📖 Amazon:   Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp Dana Connect with Redeemed Identity After Divorce: 🎙 Podcast: Redeemed Identity After Divorce 📺 YouTube: Redeemed Identity After Divorce 🌐 Website: Redeemed-Identity.com Enjoying the podcast? Please follow, rate, and review the show on Apple Podcasts. Your review helps other divorced Christians find hope, healing, and biblical encouragement during one of life's most difficult journeys. #ChristianDivorce #DivorceRecovery #Psalm23 #ValleyOfTheShadowOfDeath #HealingAfterDivorce #FaithAfterDivorce #ChristianPodcast #RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce #BiblicalHealing #DivorceSupport #ChristianEncouragement #HopeAfterDivorce #Psalm23Study #GodsPresence #EmotionalHealing  

Have you ever prayed for your marriage, your healing, or your future... only to be met with silence?   If you've wondered whether God has stopped listening—or worse, stopped caring—you're not alone.   In this episode of Redeemed Identity After Divorce, Dana continues the Valley of the Shadow of Divorce series by looking at the story of Elijah in 1 Kings 19. After one of the greatest victories of his life, Elijah found himself exhausted, afraid, isolated, and convinced he was alone. Yet it was in the quiet of the cave that God met him—not with wind, fire, or an earthquake, but with a gentle whisper.   Discover why God's silence is never the same as His absence, how fear distorts what faith once believed, and why your divorce has not canceled your calling. If you're walking through a season where Heaven feels quiet, this episode will remind you that the Good Shepherd never leaves the valley. In This Episode Why fear tries to distort what faith just realized How isolation magnifies emotional pain after divorce The importance of allowing God to restore you before redirecting you Why honest conversations with God deepen intimacy What Elijah's cave teaches us about hearing God's voice How God reframes our story and gives us a new assignment Practical steps for trusting God when He feels silent Key Scriptures 1 Kings 19:1–21 Psalm 46:10 Psalm 56:3–4 Psalm 62:8 Psalm 23:2–3 Matthew 11:28–30 John 10:27 2 Timothy 1:7 Hebrews 4:15–16 Hebrews 10:24–25 1 Peter 5:8–9 Jeremiah 29:11 Philippians 1:6 Truth to Remember "God's silence is not God's absence." "Fear tells you what might happen. Faith remembers what God already did." "God isn't writing your obituary. He's writing your next assignment."   Identity Check The valley may change where you're walking, but it never changes whose you are. Your identity is not defined by divorce—it is rooted in Christ. If this episode encouraged you, please follow the podcast, leave a rating and written review on Apple Podcasts, and share this episode with someone who needs hope today. Your review helps more hurting hearts discover that healing and purpose are still possible after divorce.   We are the fragrance of Christ, Dana   If this ministry has blessed you, you can buy me coffee through Ko-Fi: BUY ME COFFEE LINK: https://ko-fi.com/ribuymecoffeedonations   LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/ An encouraging word article: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/02/19/a-word-of-encouragement-for-you/   Embracing Christ's Design: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/03/26/embracing-christs-design-amid-divorce/     SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS: Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   Free ebook: Who Am I After Divorce? Contact [email protected]. Are you a divorced Christian needing encouragement? Do you struggle with how to see yourself since your divorce? This free ebook will encourage you and remind you who and WHOSE you are!   Amazon:   Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST: APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce

There are bandits hiding in the valley of divorce—and they're after more than your marriage.   Fear whispers that your future is over. Shame tells you you'll never recover. Guilt keeps replaying yesterday, and lies slowly begin to sound like truth.   In this episode of Redeemed Identity After Divorce, we're continuing our Valley of the Shadow of Death series by exposing the spiritual bandits that try to steal your identity while you're walking through one of life's deepest valleys. Psalm 23 reminds us that God never intended for us to build a home in the valley. We are called to walk through it—with the Good Shepherd leading every step.   Together we'll uncover: • Why divorce often feels like walking through the valley of the shadow of death • The four "bandits" that try to rob you of hope after divorce • How fear, shame, guilt, and lies work together to redefine your identity • What Scripture says about who you really are • Practical prayers to help you keep moving forward • How to stop camping in the valley and begin walking toward healing   No matter what you've lost, your identity has never been determined by your divorce. It has always been determined by Christ.   If you've been feeling trapped in the cave, discouraged by the journey, or wondering if you'll ever feel like yourself again, this episode is for you.   Scriptures Mentioned: • Psalm 23 • Psalm 27:1 • Isaiah 43:2 • Romans 8:1 • Ephesians 1   Resources Healing After Divorce: 35 Prayers Rooted in God's Word for Divorced Christians   If this episode encouraged you, would you take a moment to follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs hope today? Every share helps another hurting heart discover that healing—and identity—can be found in Christ.   We are the fragrance of Christ, Dana   If this ministry has blessed you, you can buy me coffee through Ko-Fi:   BUY ME COFFEE LINK: https://ko-fi.com/ribuymecoffeedonations   LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/ An encouraging word article: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/02/19/a-word-of-encouragement-for-you/   Embracing Christ's Design: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/03/26/embracing-christs-design-amid-divorce/   SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS: Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   Are you a divorced Christian needing encouragement? Do you struggle with how to see yourself since your divorce? This free ebook will encourage you and remind you who and WHOSE you are!   Amazon: Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST: APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce   Guest Scheduling https://redeemed-identity.com/scheduling/   FOR MUSIC "SMILE": Music I use: Bensound.com Funny Song License code: DM5CQOZKF0EUTN1L   Hashtags: #divorcedlife, #christiandivorce, #divorce, #divorcedchristian

The divorce may be over, but the voices often remain. In this episode, Dana explores one of the most overlooked realities of life after divorce: the echoes that linger long after the event itself has ended. Old accusations, painful memories, labels, rejection, shame, and fear can continue to reverberate through our minds, influencing how we see ourselves and our future. Drawing from Psalm 23 and the ongoing Valley of the Shadow of Death of Divorce (VOSOD) series, you'll discover why echoes are so powerful, how they shape identity, and how to recognize the difference between the voices of the past and the voice of the Shepherd. If you've ever found yourself replaying old conversations, reliving painful moments, or struggling to silence the accusations that follow relational loss, this episode is for you. In This Episode: Why the valley of divorce has echoes How old wounds continue speaking into the present The difference between an echo and the voice of truth Recognizing the lies that shape identity Learning to hear the Shepherd above the noise Identity Check: What voices from your past still influence how you see yourself? Are you listening to an echo or to truth? What labels have you accepted that God never gave you? Whose voice has the greatest authority in your life today? Key Scripture: Psalm 23 The valley may contain echoes, but the Shepherd's voice is still greater. Blessings, Dana   BUY ME COFFEE LINK: If this ministry has blessed you, you can buy me coffee through Ko-Fi: BUY ME COFFEE LINK: https://ko-fi.com/ribuymecoffeedonations   WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/   SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS: Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/# Amazon: Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR     WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST:   APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce  

When the Valley of Death Becomes Home After Divorce, The danger of camping in grief and unhealed pain. Have you ever felt like you've been stuck in the same painful place for years after divorce? Maybe you've survived the crisis, signed the papers, rebuilt parts of your life, and yet something still feels heavy. The grief lingers. The joy feels distant. The darkness keeps pulling you back. In this episode, Dana shares a deeply personal story about her own struggle with depression seven years after her divorce and the surprising revelation the Holy Spirit gave her: stale grief. Drawing from Psalm 9:9-10 and Hebrews 4:15-16, we'll explore what happens when we stop walking through the Valley of the Shadow of Death and unintentionally make a home there. We'll talk about the caves we hide in—grief, bitterness, anger, unforgiveness, trauma—and how God lovingly calls us back into the healing journey. If you've ever wondered why you're still carrying pain from your divorce, this episode offers hope, practical insight, and a powerful healing exercise to help you identify areas of unprocessed grief. In This Episode: What "stale grief" is and how it can affect your healing • Why unresolved pain often turns into depression, hopelessness, or emotional stagnation • The dangers of camping in the caves of anger, bitterness, trauma, and unforgiveness • Why real faith includes honest conversations with God • Lessons Dana learned during her own "cavern season" of healing • A practical journaling exercise to uncover hidden grief and begin processing it with the Holy Spirit • Truth Bombs for navigating the Valley of Divorce with purpose and hope Key Scriptures: 📖 Psalm 9:9-10 📖 Hebrews 4:15-16 📖 Philippians 3:13-14 Homework Challenge: Create a timeline of the significant losses, disappointments, betrayals, and painful experiences in your life. Then ask the Holy Spirit to reveal any areas where grief remains unfinished and invite Him into the healing process. Remember: Divorce is a sandstorm... and there are days it will feel like someone stole your umbrella. But Jesus has you covered. ❤️ Resources: 🌐 Website: https://redeemed-identity.com 📧 Email Dana: [email protected] Connect With Redeemed Identity After Divorce If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who may be walking through their own valley.   We are the fragrance of Christ, Dana     LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/ An encouraging word article: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/02/19/a-word-of-encouragement-for-you/ Embracing Christ's Design: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/03/26/embracing-christs-design-amid-divorce/   SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   Free ebook: Who Am I After Divorce? Contact [email protected]. Are you a divorced Christian needing encouragement? Do you struggle with how to see yourself since your divorce? This free ebook will encourage you and remind you who and WHOSE you are! Amazon: Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW: PODCAST: APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce   Guest Scheduling https://redeemed-identity.com/scheduling/   FOR MUSIC "SMILE": Music I use: Bensound.com Funny Song License code: DM5CQOZKF0EUTN1L   Hashtags: #divorcedlife, #christiandivorce, #divorce, #divorcedchristian

Welcome to a very special milestone episode of Redeemed Identity After Divorce! One hundred episodes ago, I started this podcast with a simple desire: to help divorced Christians find healing, hope, and their identity in Christ. What I didn't realize was that God would use this journey to transform me as well. In this episode, I'm reflecting on where I was when this ministry began, the fears I had, the lessons I've learned through divorce and healing, and the incredible ways God has shown His faithfulness along the way. You'll also hear some encouragement for your own healing journey, a few truths that changed my perspective after divorce, and a special Healing with Humor segment to celebrate episode 100. If you've ever wondered whether God can redeem your pain, restore your identity, or use your story for His glory, this episode is for you. 💜 In This Episode: • Where I was emotionally before starting the podcast • What God taught me through healing after divorce • Lessons learned from 100 episodes and countless conversations • Why your divorce does not define your identity • How God redeems pain and restores purpose • A special Healing with Humor anniversary segment 📖 Scripture Mentioned: • Romans 11:29 • Isaiah 61:3 • Psalm 34:18 🎧 Resources: Visit www. Redeemed-Identity.com for books, podcast episodes, articles, and encouragement for your healing journey.   ⭐ If this podcast has encouraged you, please consider following, rating, and reviewing the show. Your support helps more divorced Christians discover hope, healing, and their redeemed identity in Christ. Remember: Your divorce is part of your story, but it is not your identity.   Blessings,  Dana   BUY ME COFFEE LINK: If this podcast has encouraged you, you can support my work here ☕💛 It truly helps me keep creating episodes for people healing after divorce. https://ko-fi.com/ribuymecoffeedonations   WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/ SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/# Amazon: Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW: PODCAST: APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce

Unforgiveness doesn’t just affect your emotions — it affects your mind, body, and spirit. In this episode, we talk honestly about the hidden exhaustion that comes from carrying bitterness, replaying betrayal, and holding onto wounds from divorce, rejection, or deep hurt. Forgiveness is not pretending it didn’t happen. It’s not excusing abuse or giving someone access to hurt you again. It’s releasing the burden so your soul can finally breathe again. If you’ve been feeling emotionally drained, spiritually stuck, anxious, angry, or unable to move forward after divorce, this episode is for you. We’ll talk about: Why unforgiveness keeps your nervous system in survival mode The spiritual consequences of bitterness Why forgiveness does NOT mean reconciliation How trauma and resentment affect the body The difference between forgiveness and trust How the Holy Spirit helps us forgive daily Why letting go is part of healing Scriptures referenced: Matthew 11:28-30 Ephesians 4:31-32 Matthew 6:14-15 Colossians 3:13 Philippians 4:13 Luke 23:34 If this episode encouraged you, please leave a review and share it with someone who may need healing and freedom today.   We are the fragrance of Christ, Dana   BUY ME COFFEE LINK:   If this podcast has encouraged you, you can support my work here ☕💛 It truly helps me keep creating episodes for people healing after divorce. https://ko-fi.com/ribuymecoffeedonations   WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/   SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   Amazon: Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST: APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE:   https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce

Forgiveness can feel impossible after betrayal, abuse, rejection, or divorce. In this deeply personal episode, Dana shares her journey through unforgiveness, bitterness, healing, and the powerful moment God changed her perspective forever. If you’ve struggled with questions like: “How do I forgive someone who never apologized?” “Does forgiveness mean reconciliation?” “Can I forgive someone and still have boundaries?” “Why does forgiveness feel so unfair?” …this episode is for you. Dana shares a moving story from her own healing journey, including the moment God showed her the wounded little boy behind the man who hurt her — and how that revelation became the beginning of true freedom. This episode also unpacks: What forgiveness IS and what it is NOT Why bitterness keeps us emotionally tied to pain The difference between forgiveness, trust, and reconciliation How boundaries can coexist with forgiveness Why healing after divorce takes time The prayer that changed everything: “Lord, help me become willing.” If you’ve been carrying deep pain from divorce, betrayal, childhood wounds, or broken relationships, this conversation will encourage you to take one small step toward healing and freedom. Scriptures Mentioned: Ephesians 4:31-32 Colossians 3:13 Matthew 6:14-15 Mark 11:25 Romans 12:19 Deuteronomy 32:35 2 Thessalonians 1:6 Favorite Quotes from This Episode: “Forgiveness is not permission. It is release.” “You can forgive someone and still have boundaries.” “Sometimes your first step isn’t forgiveness yet. It’s simply praying, ‘Lord, help me become willing.’” “You do not have to build your permanent home inside your pain.” 🎙️ If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone walking through healing after divorce.   We are the fragrance of Christ, Dana   BUY ME COFFEE LINK: If this podcast has encouraged you, you can support my work here ☕💛 It truly helps me keep creating episodes for people healing after divorce. https://ko-fi.com/ribuymecoffeedonations   WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/ SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   Amazon:   Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST: APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce #ChristianPodcast #DivorceRecovery #Forgiveness #HealingAfterDivorce #ChristianHealing #TraumaHealing #RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce

Have you ever felt rejected… even when nobody actually rejected you?   In his deeply personal episode of Redeemed Identity After Divorce, Dana opens up about her battle with perceived rejection, obsessive thoughts, loneliness, and the painful identity wounds that often follow divorce, betrayal, abuse, abandonment, and childhood trauma. Through raw vulnerability and powerful biblical insight from Ezekiel 16, this episode explores: the psychological root of rejection how rejection becomes attached to identity self-rejection and people-pleasing emotional hyper-vigilance after divorce soul ties connected to rejection and validation healing childhood attachment wounds breaking agreement with lies renewing the mind with God’s truth covenant identity in Christ Dana shares how the Holy Spirit exposed deep internal narratives of “not enough,” and how God began healing those wounds through truth, prayer, and identity restoration. If you’ve struggled with: fear of rejection loneliness after divorce insecurity overthinking relationships feeling unwanted or unseen rejection sensitivity emotional triggers seeking validation from others …this episode will minister deeply to your heart. 💛 Remember: Rejection may be part of your story, but it is not your identity. 📖 Featured Scripture: Ezekiel 16:6-14 📚 Resource: Healing From Divorce: 35 Prayers Rooted in the Word of God for Divorced Christians 🎧 Subscribe to Redeemed Identity After Divorce and share this episode with someone walking through healing. #ChristianDivorceRecovery #HealingAfterDivorce #RejectionWounds #ChristianPodcast #IdentityInChrist #DivorceHealing #EmotionalHealing #SoulTies #FaithAfterDivorce #RedeemedIdentity   YOUTUBE Video: https://youtu.be/QiD2sOML-yY   Blessings, Dana   BUY ME COFFEE LINK: If this podcast has encouraged you, you can support my work here ☕💛 It truly helps me keep creating episodes for people healing after divorce. https://ko-fi.com/ribuymecoffeedonations     WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/   SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS: Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#     Amazon:   Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR     WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST:   APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce

Do you feel constantly on edge after divorce… even when life has technically “settled”? Maybe your mind won’t stop replaying conversations. Maybe you struggle to relax. Or maybe you feel “fine”… but not truly at peace. In this episode of Redeemed Identity After Divorce, we’re talking about something many people experience but don’t always understand: fight-or-flight after divorce. You’ll learn: What the fight-or-flight response actually is Why divorce can leave your nervous system stuck in survival mode How hypervigilance and control keep you feeling “tired but wired” What Scripture says about fear, peace, and trust Simple, practical ways to retrain your body and mind toward safety God is not asking you to pretend you’re okay—He’s inviting you into real peace.   📖 Key Scriptures Psalm 56:3 – “When I am afraid, I will trust in You.” Isaiah 26:3 – “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are stayed on You…”   🧠 What You’ll Hear in This Episode Why your body is still scanning for danger How emotional trauma rewires your sense of safety The connection between control and anxiety How to shift from survival mode to peace   🗣️ DECLARATIONS (Speak This Out Loud) My body is not stuck in survival mode. I am safe in God’s presence. I do not have to scan for danger to feel secure. Peace is my portion according to the Word of God. God is steady even when I feel unsettled.   🙏 Prayer Lord, we ask You to calm what has been on alert for too long. Teach our bodies what peace feels like again. Anchor our thoughts in Your truth and restore safety in Your presence. In Jesus’ name, amen.   📚 Resource for Your Healing Journey If you’re walking through life after divorce and want biblical, practical encouragement, check out my book: “Healing From Divorce: 35 Prayers Rooted in the Word of God for Divorced Christians.” This book will help you: Rebuild your identity in Christ Find peace in the middle of emotional overwhelm Pray Scripture when you don’t have the words Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   💬 Let’s Stay Connected If this episode spoke to you, share it with a friend who needs peace today. And don’t forget to follow Redeemed Identity After Divorce so you never miss an episode.   Blessings, Dana BUY ME COFFEE LINK:   If this podcast has encouraged you, you can support my work here ☕💛 It truly helps me keep creating episodes for people healing after divorce. https://ko-fi.com/ribuymecoffeedonations       WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com   LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/     SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#     Amazon:   Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR     WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST:   APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce

Overthinking after divorce can feel like mental exhaustion you can’t shut off—replaying conversations, rewriting stories, and analyzing every detail until your mind won’t rest. In this episode of Redeemed Identity After Divorce, we’re breaking down what overthinking really is, why it intensifies after divorce, and how to finally break free from the spiral. You’ll learn how fear fuels overthinking, why your brain tries to create “control” through constant analysis, and what it looks like to take every thought captive in a practical, biblical way. We also explore the emotional, relational, and physical effects of chronic overthinking—including anxiety, fatigue, insomnia, and decision paralysis—and how to replace mental chaos with God’s truth and peace. If your mind feels like it never clocks out, this conversation will help you recognize the pattern and step into clarity, rest, and renewed trust in God’s plan for your future.   In this episode, we cover: Why overthinking intensifies after divorce The connection between fear and mental spiraling How overthinking distorts truth and fuels anxiety What Scripture means by “taking every thought captive” (2 Corinthians 10:5) The physical effects of chronic overthinking (stress, insomnia, fatigue) How to replace racing thoughts with biblical truth and peace Practical declarations to quiet your mind and restore trust in God   Key Scripture 2 Corinthians 10:5 — Taking every thought captive to obey Christ   Takeaway Truth Overthinking is not wisdom—it’s fear trying to take control. Peace comes not from figuring everything out, but from trusting the One who already has.   If this episode spoke to you… You’re not alone in the mental noise. Healing is possible, and your mind can learn peace again. Share this episode with someone who’s been stuck in their thoughts lately, and don’t forget to follow Redeemed Identity After Divorce for more encouragement and truth for your healing journey.   We are the fragrance of Christ, Dana   BUY ME COFFEE LINK: If this podcast has encouraged you, you can support my work here ☕💛 It truly helps me keep creating episodes for people healing after divorce. https://ko-fi.com/ribuymecoffeedonations WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/   SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/# Amazon: Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST: APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce

Fear after divorce doesn’t always show up loud—but it shows up everywhere. In this episode of Redeemed Identity After Divorce, we’re talking about the kind of fear that creeps in during quiet moments… the overthinking, the “what ifs,” and the anxiety that makes your future feel uncertain. If your mind won’t slow down… if fear has been sitting heavy on your chest… this episode is for you. We’re not ignoring fear—we’re putting it in its proper place. Inside this episode, you’ll find: A powerful devotional prayer to reset your mind and spirit Biblical truth to combat fear and anxiety Real talk about overthinking and fear-based thinking after divorce Encouragement to help you trust God again—even when life feels unstable Practical reflection questions to help you process your healing This episode is a reminder that fear may be present—but it does not have authority in your life. Scriptures referenced: Isaiah 41:10 Psalm 23:4 Psalm 46:1 John 14:27 Key Takeaways: Fear thrives in uncertainty—but truth brings peace Overthinking is not protection—it’s fear in disguise God’s peace is not fragile—it’s unshakable You don’t have to manage fear—you can surrender it   Reflection Questions: What specific fears are you facing right now? Name them honestly. When life feels chaotic, where do you run first? What is one step you can take this week to choose faith over fear?   Speak This Truth: You are not abandoned. You are not unprotected. And you are not alone.   Call to Action: If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who may be silently battling fear right now. Make sure to follow Redeemed Identity After Divorce so you don’t miss upcoming episodes focused on healing, faith, and rebuilding your life after divorce. And if this podcast has supported your journey, you can support the ministry through the “Buy Me a Coffee” link in the show notes. Closing Line (Brand Anchor): Divorce may feel like a sandstorm… but your new beginning is still under construction.   Blessings, Dana   BUY ME COFFEE LINK:   If this podcast has encouraged you, you can support my work here ☕💛 It truly helps me keep creating episodes for people healing after divorce. https://ko-fi.com/ribuymecoffeedonations   WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/   SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS: Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/# Amazon:   Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST:   APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce   To Watch THIS video, go to: https://youtu.be/EZPQ0HUK_rQ

Have you ever felt like God was distant… quiet… or maybe even absent? Not just hurt by people—but wondering, “God, where are You in this?” In this episode of Redeemed Identity After Divorce, Dana Williams slows things down for a Bible study-style conversation about what it truly means to feel forsaken—and what Scripture says about it. We explore passages from Deuteronomy 31:6, Psalm 9:10, Psalm 94:14, Matthew 28:20, and Psalm 147:3, uncovering how God has faithfully walked with His people through fear, uncertainty, and brokenness. You’ll discover: The difference between feeling afraid and being abandoned How God reassures us in moments of personal loss or divorce Why His presence and healing are more than just comforting ideas—they’re reality Encouragement to trust God even when your emotions haven’t caught up yet Whether you’re navigating divorce, grief, or just feeling alone, this episode will help you anchor your hope in God’s unshakable faithfulness. 🙏 Scripture-Based Prayer Included: Walk through a prayer grounded in God’s promises to remind you that you are never truly forsaken. 🎧 Key Takeaways: God doesn’t promise a life without fear—but He does promise He won’t leave you. (Deuteronomy 31:6) Trust grows through experience: David reminds us that God has never forsaken those who seek Him. (Psalm 9:10) God’s care isn’t conditional—He protects and sustains His people even in the midst of injustice. (Psalm 94:14) Jesus’ presence is constant; it’s not just when life makes sense, but always. (Matthew 28:20) God not only stays with the brokenhearted—He actively restores and heals. (Psalm 147:3) 💛 Encouragement: You may have been forsaken by people—but you have never been forsaken by God. He is with you, He is faithful, and He is actively working to heal and restore your heart. 🎯 Ideal For: Anyone navigating divorce, loss, or feelings of abandonment Listeners craving Bible-based encouragement for emotional and spiritual pain Those seeking hope in God’s presence and promises We are the fragrance of Christ,   Dana   🔗 Connect with Redeemed Identity After Divorce: WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/ SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS: Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   Amazon: Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR   WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST: APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce

Is purity still relevant after divorce—or is it something reserved for the never-married?   In this honest and thought-provoking episode, we dive into what Scripture actually says about sexual purity, sanctification, and honoring God with your body after divorce. Looking at passages like 1 Thessalonians 4, Romans 7, and 1 Corinthians 6, we unpack the tension between flesh and Spirit, the cultural lies surrounding sexuality, and the deeper purpose behind God’s call to holiness.   This episode isn’t about shame—it’s about alignment, healing, and walking in freedom.   KEY TAKEAWAYS: What “sanctification” (hagiasmos) really means Why purity is not limited to the unmarried or inexperienced The truth about porneia and God’s design for sexuality How sexual choices impact emotional and spiritual healing The difference between struggling and surrendering Why purity protects your future—not just your present SCRIPTURE REFERENCES: 1 Thessalonians 4:3–8 1 Corinthians 6:13–20 Romans 7:21–25 SHOWS REFERENCED: Episode 58 Episode 67 Episode 68 CALL TO ACTION: If this episode encouraged or challenged you, share it with someone who needs truth and hope. Be sure to follow Redeemed Identity After Divorce for more faith-based healing, real conversations, and practical steps forward.   We are the fragrance of Christ,   Dana   WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/ SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   Amazon:   Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR   WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce  

Pornography can quietly take control of a man’s life, heart, and relationships—and yet few speak honestly about it. In this final episode of our series on pornography, a men’s ministry leader shares his real story: how it started, how it escalated, the damage it caused, and how he finally found lasting freedom. We cover: How pornography first entered his life and why it escalated The emotional, spiritual, and relational damage he experienced What true repentance and accountability look like How he achieved freedom and maintains it today Advice for men struggling in silence and those supporting them Disclaimer: This episode discusses pornography and addiction. It is intended for awareness, hope, and biblical guidance—not to shame or condemn.   Whether you’re personally affected, supporting someone, or seeking understanding, this conversation offers honesty, insight, and practical hope for freedom and restoration.   To watch on YouTube and engage with our audience there, go to https://youtu.be/us8aCF2Kg58   We are the fragrance of Christ, Dana WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/ SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   Amazon: Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR   WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW: PODCAST:   APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce  

⚠️ Disclaimer This episode discusses pornography, sexual immorality, betrayal trauma, and marital restoration. While no explicit details are shared, the themes may be emotionally triggering. Listen with care and step away if needed.   Episode Summary Pornography is one of the quietest home-wreckers in Christian marriages—not because people don’t care, but because they’re afraid to talk about it. In this episode, we sit down with Pastor Ben Brinkman of Canvas Church to unpack the spiritual, emotional, and relational impact of pornography from a pastoral perspective. We talk honestly about betrayal, repentance, biblical grounds for divorce, and the hidden damage that ongoing pornography use can cause. Whether you’re the one struggling or the spouse carrying the weight of secrecy and lies, this conversation offers clarity, hope, and a path toward healing. 👤 Guest: Pastor Ben Brinkman, Canvas Church – San Diego Pastor Ben and his wife Katie have been in ministry since 1999 and are passionate about helping people grow in faith and experience real transformation. Known for his humor, biblical clarity, and practical teaching, Pastor Ben brings a grounded, grace-filled perspective to this difficult conversation.   🗣️ What We Discuss in This Episode Why pornography is often a hidden root issue in struggling marriages Whether pornography use qualifies as a form of infidelity How betrayal trauma impacts the heart and mind of the wounded spouse Where pornography fits within Jesus’ teaching on sexual immorality in Matthew 19 The emotional and spiritual fallout of repeated lying, gaslighting, or secrecy What true repentance looks like—and when someone needs professional help How pastors and churches can better support BOTH spouses without pressure or shame Why “just reconcile” can be harmful when safety and emotional well-being are ignored What someone should know if they’re realizing, "This is my marriage..."   💛 Listener Reflection (Outro) Before you close this episode, take a breath. Whatever came up—grief, conviction, anger, clarity—those feelings matter. If you’re struggling with pornography, freedom begins with honesty, not hiding. If you’ve been betrayed, you’re allowed to seek safety, healing, and truth. You are not weak or unspiritual for needing support beyond prayer. Jesus’ teaching on sexual immorality is meant to protect hearts, not shame them. Sit with this conversation, pray through it, and reach out to safe, wise support if needed. Pastor Ben closes us with a powerful prayer for all listeners walking this road.   RESOURCES   Episode on Betrayal Trauma On YouTube: https://youtu.be/C1e1ZWziB7E   Ted Roberts, Pure Desire:   Covenant Eyes:   YouTube Version: https:  //youtu.be/M6MGb3pMz4E       🔗 Connect with Redeemed Identity After Divorce WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/ SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS: Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   Amazon:   Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR     WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST:   APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce

What actually happens in the brain when someone becomes addicted to pornography—and why is it so hard to stop? In this episode, a retired marriage and family therapist explains the neuroscience behind porn addiction, escalation, and the real path toward healing.Keywords: Divorce counseling, porn addiction recovery, therapist advice, emotional healing, betrayal trauma Pornography addiction is often misunderstood—but its impact on the brain, relationships, and personal identity can be profound. In this episode, I’m joined by retired marriage and family therapist Jeff Herring to explore what pornography actually does to the brain and why breaking free can be so difficult. Jeff explains the neurological cycle behind addiction, why porn use often escalates over time, and how secrecy and betrayal can deeply affect relationships and trust. We also talk about hope—because healing and recovery are possible with the right support, accountability, and renewal of the mind. If you’ve ever wondered why porn addiction feels so powerful or how real recovery happens, this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and practical insight. In This Episode How pornography affects dopamine and neural pathways in the brain The addiction cycle: euphoria → normal → pain. Why pornography use often escalates over time. The hidden impact pornography can have on relationship. The role of accountability and support in recovery. Renewing the mind and rebuilding trust after addiction. Why recovery is not a quick fix—but a lifelong journey toward healing Resources Mentioned Renew Program – https://northpoint.org/renew Neuroplasticity Explained – https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/neuroplasticity Jeff Herring – https://creatorrescue.com Connect with Jeff Herring Website: https://creatorrescue.com Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/jeffherring Listen to More Episodes If this episode encouraged you, be sure to follow, rate, and review the podcast. Your review helps other people navigating life after divorce find hope and healing. We are the fragrance of Christ, Dana     WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com   LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/   An encouraging word article: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/02/19/a-word-of-encouragement-for-you/   Embracing Christ's Design: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/03/26/embracing-christs-design-amid-divorce/     SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   Free ebook: Who Am I After Divorce? Contact [email protected]. Are you a divorced Christian needing encouragement? Do you struggle with how to see yourself since your divorce? This free ebook will encourage you and remind you who and WHOSE you are!     Amazon:   Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR     WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST:   APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce   Guest Scheduling https://redeemed-identity.com/scheduling/   FOR MUSIC "SMILE": Music I use: Bensound.com Funny Song License code: DM5CQOZKF0EUTN1L   For country music: Music by: https://www.bensound.com License code: B11SABINWV4BESSF   Hashtags: #divorcedlife, #christiandivorce, #divorce, #divorcedchristian

Listener Discretion Advised This episode discusses pornography, sexual immorality, betrayal trauma, addiction, and divorce from a biblical perspective. While no explicit content is shared, the topic may be emotionally sensitive for some listeners. Please listen with care and seek support if needed. Pornography isn’t just a private issue—it quietly damages marriages, fuels divorce, and erodes intimacy. In this episode of Rise and Reclaim After Divorce, we break the silence on the hidden effects of porn, explore the emotional and spiritual fallout, and discuss practical ways to heal and restore relationships. Whether you’re navigating post-divorce healing or trying to save your marriage, this episode offers clarity, hope, and actionable guidance grounded in faith. Keywords / SEO: porn, pornography, marriage, divorce, Christian marriage counseling, sexual immorality, healing after divorce, intimacy issues, marital restoration In This Episode, We Discuss: The history of porneia and sexual immorality in Scripture How pornography changes brain chemistry and fuels addiction Why pornography is linked to 56–60% of divorces The difference between lust, adultery of the heart, and covenant faithfulness Matthew 5 and Matthew 19: what Jesus actually taught Two major Christian perspectives on pornography and divorce Betrayal trauma and its impact on spouses Healing for both the betrayed and the addicted Repentance, accountability, and the role of community Why secrecy keeps people stuck—and truth brings freedom Resources Mentioned Books The Porn Trap – Wendy & Larry Maltz https://www.christianbook.com/the-porn-trap-wendy-maltz/9780061231872/pd/231872 Intimate Deception – Sherri Keffer https://www.amazon.com/Intimate-Deception-Healing-Wounds-Betrayal/dp/0800729129 Articles & Research Verily Magazine – Pornography & Divorce Statistics American Sociological Association – Porn Use & Divorce Risk Manhood Journey – Porn and Marriage https://manhoodjourney.org/porn-and-marriage/ Recovery & Education Covenant Eyes – Pornography, Recovery, and Theology https://www.covenanteyes.com/blog/books-on-porn-addiction/   We are the fragrance of Christ, Dana WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/ An encouraging word article: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/02/19/a-word-of-encouragement-for-you/   Embracing Christ's Design: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/03/26/embracing-christs-design-amid-divorce/   SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS: Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/# Free ebook: Who Am I After Divorce? Contact [email protected]. Are you a divorced Christian needing encouragement? Do you struggle with how to see yourself since your divorce? This free ebook will encourage you and remind you who and WHOSE you are!   Amazon: Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR   WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW: PODCAST:   APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce Guest Scheduling https://redeemed-identity.com/scheduling/   FOR MUSIC "SMILE": Music I use: Bensound.com Funny Song License code: DM5CQOZKF0EUTN1L   For country music: Music by: https://www.bensound.com License code: B11SABINWV4BESSF   Hashtags: #porn, #pornaddiction, #sexaddiction, #divorcedlife, #christiandivorce, #divorce, #divorcedchristian      

“There’s a moment after divorce when the title is gone, the future feels blurry, and you’re left asking, Who am I now?—and today, we’re talking about that moment.” In this episode, Dana sits down with Nefertiti Wade, author, speaker, and founder of Crowned with Purpose, to explore the journey of reclaiming identity, healing emotional wounds, and rebuilding life after loss. Drawing from her book Reclaiming Your Crown, Nefertiti shares how unaddressed emotional baggage can hold us back, how pain can become purpose, and why learning to love yourself again is a crucial part of healing. We also talk about setting healthy standards and boundaries while stepping into a new season with clarity and confidence. This conversation is honest, encouraging, and for anyone navigating life after divorce and learning how to rise—stronger, wiser, and more grounded than before.   To contact Nefertiti: Instagram:@nefwade Facebook: Nefertiti Wade LinkedIn: Nefertiti Wade YouTube: Reclaiming Your Crown   You can also purchase an autographed copy of Reclaiming Your Crown: Getting Your Identity Back After Divorce along with other empowering items directly from my personal website. The book is also available on Amazon for those who prefer that option: https://a.co/d/0c4AmWKX Autograph Copy Website:  https://reclaimingyourcrownbook.com/   To watch the YouTuber version, go to:  https://youtu.be/48fl7wfAIko

In part 2 of this emotional conversation, we’re finish our talk  about betrayal trauma—what it really is, how it impacts your nervous system, your faith, and your ability to trust yourself again, and why healing often takes longer than we expect. More importantly, we explore what actually helps when fear, grief, and overwhelm feel paralyzing. This isn’t about rushing your healing or slapping spiritual clichés on deep wounds. It’s about understanding what’s happening beneath the surface and taking grounded, compassionate steps forward. In this episode, we discuss: What betrayal trauma is and why it’s different from ordinary heartbreak Common emotional and physical signs you may still be living with trauma after divorce Why restoring a sense of safety is the foundation of healing Questions you can ask yourself to help break out of the “stuck” cycle How to move through paralyzing fear during major life transitions Rebuilding trust with yourself after betrayal Navigating faith and spiritual confusion after relational trauma Practical tools and rhythms that support real, lasting healing If you’re navigating life after betrayal and wondering whether healing is even possible, this conversation will remind you: you’re not broken—you’re healing. 💛 Encouragement Healing from betrayal trauma doesn’t mean going backward or failing to “move on.” It means learning how to feel safe again, trust yourself again, and take the next right step—at your pace.   YouTube for Part 2: https://youtu.be/C1e1ZWziB7E   TO CONTACT DENISE STIFFLER: See her Link Tree here: https://linktr.ee/denise.lifecoach7  For her weary heart prayer guide, go to her website:  https://www.fromrundowntorenewed.com/d5be2d9c     DANA’S CONTACT INFORMATION: WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com   LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/   SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   To receive the free ebook, email me at [email protected] and I will send you a PDF.   Amazon:   Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR   WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST:   APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce  

Betrayal doesn’t just break a relationship—it can leave you feeling frozen long after the divorce papers are signed. If you’ve ever wondered Why am I still stuck? Why does this still hurt? Why can’t I just move on?—this episode is for you. In this deep conversation, we’re talking about betrayal trauma—what it really is, how it impacts your nervous system, your faith, and your ability to trust yourself again, and why healing often takes longer than we expect. More importantly, we explore what actually helps when fear, grief, and overwhelm feel paralyzing. This isn’t about rushing your healing or slapping spiritual clichés on deep wounds. It’s about understanding what’s happening beneath the surface and taking grounded, compassionate steps forward. In this episode, we discuss: What betrayal trauma is and why it’s different from ordinary heartbreak Common emotional and physical signs you may still be living with trauma after divorce Why restoring a sense of safety is the foundation of healing Questions you can ask yourself to help break out of the “stuck” cycle How to move through paralyzing fear during major life transitions Rebuilding trust with yourself after betrayal Navigating faith and spiritual confusion after relational trauma Practical tools and rhythms that support real, lasting healing If you’re navigating life after betrayal and wondering whether healing is even possible, this conversation will remind you: you’re not broken—you’re healing.   💛 Encouragement Healing from betrayal trauma doesn’t mean going backward or failing to “move on.” It means learning how to feel safe again, trust yourself again, and take the next right step—at your pace.   To watch this episode on Youtube, go to: https://youtu.be/VxuUdQJNBjQ   TO CONTACT DENISE STIFFLER: See her Link Tree here: https://linktr.ee/denise.lifecoach7  For her weary heart prayer guide, go to her website:  https://www.fromrundowntorenewed.com/d5be2d9c     DANA’S CONTACT INFORMATION: WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com   LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/   SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   To receive the free ebook, email me at [email protected] and I will send you a PDF.   Amazon:   Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR   WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST: APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447 YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce  

Guest Appearance Spotlight: From Run Down to Renewed This past week, I had the honor of joining Mackenzi and Denise on their podcast, From Run Down to Renewed. With their permission, I’m sharing this conversation with the Redeemed Identity After Divorce community. This episode originally aired on Wednesday, February 4, 2026, and it’s one of those conversations that feels more like an exhale than a teaching. This Episode Is for You If: You feel tired, worn down, or emotionally drained You’ve walked through loss, divorce, trauma, or a painful life transition You’re longing for healing but don’t know where to begin You desire to live abundantly—but not the world’s definition of abundance This conversation is an invitation to pause, breathe, and remember a powerful truth: God is your source—not your circumstances. We talk about how abundance isn’t about having more—it’s about living from fullness instead of emptiness. Together, we explore how healing begins when you: Shift from striving to trusting God Allow Him to fill what life has drained Root your identity in Christ—not outcomes, roles, or relationship status 👉 WATCH the full conversation on YouTube here: https://www.youtube.com/post/UgkxCdy9WggE-Q5g9-t6UVx6MTXu9i9hE6L_ Stay Connected with From Run Down to Renewed Website & Socials: 👉 www.fromrundowntorenewed.com 🎓 Upcoming Webinar – February 28 👉 https://www.fromrundowntorenewed.com/… Stay Connected with Dana Website: www.redeemed-identity.com YouTube: @redeemedidentityafterdivorce Apple Podcasts: Redeemed Identity After Divorce  

Divorce is exhausting—emotionally, spiritually, and physically. And yet, rest is often the first thing we sacrifice while trying to “hold it all together.”   In this episode, Dana sits down with life and leadership coach Misty Hughes to talk about why rest isn’t optional during or after divorce—it’s essential for healing. Misty shares her personal journey through divorce, motherhood, and rebuilding her life, along with practical wisdom for women who feel overwhelmed, depleted, or stuck in survival mode. Together, they unpack what real rest looks like (hint: it’s more than sleep), why grief requires personalized rhythms, and how trust, community, and reflection play a vital role in emotional recovery. This conversation is honest, grounding, and permission-giving—especially if you’ve been pushing yourself to “be strong” while quietly running on empty. If you’re exhausted after divorce and wondering why healing feels so hard, this episode may help you exhale and reset.   In This Episode, We Finish with Misty and discuss: Why rest is critical during and after divorce The difference between collapsing and intentional rest How grief and healing look different for everyone Creating life rhythms that support peace and stability The role of trust in emotional recovery Why community support accelerates healing Journaling and reflection as tools for processing pain Making space for joy and fun for yourself and your family How coaching can provide clarity and support during hard seasons.   Misty's Contact Information:   Misty Hughes, Transformational Speaker, Podcast Host, Gratitude Guide, Celebration Coach P: 816-297-9919 E: [email protected] lead-herministries.com mom2mommentoring.com      

Divorce is exhausting—emotionally, spiritually, and physically. And yet, rest is often the first thing we sacrifice while trying to “hold it all together.”   In this episode, Dana sits down with life and leadership coach Misty Hughes to talk about why rest isn’t optional during or after divorce—it’s essential for healing. Misty shares her personal journey through divorce, motherhood, and rebuilding her life, along with practical wisdom for women who feel overwhelmed, depleted, or stuck in survival mode. Together, they unpack what real rest looks like (hint: it’s more than sleep), why grief requires personalized rhythms, and how trust, community, and reflection play a vital role in emotional recovery. This conversation is honest, grounding, and permission-giving—especially if you’ve been pushing yourself to “be strong” while quietly running on empty. If you’re exhausted after divorce and wondering why healing feels so hard, this episode may help you exhale and reset.   In This Episode, We Cover: Why rest is critical during and after divorce The difference between collapsing and intentional rest How grief and healing look different for everyone Creating life rhythms that support peace and stability The role of trust in emotional recovery Why community support accelerates healing Journaling and reflection as tools for processing pain Making space for joy and fun for yourself and your family How coaching can provide clarity and support during hard seasons   Memorable Quotes: “You can’t tell me I’m a bad mom.” “I had to fight to believe the truth.” 🎧 Listen now and discover why rest may be the missing piece in your healing journey.   Misty's Contact Information:   Misty Hughes, Transformational Speaker, Podcast Host, Gratitude Guide, Celebration Coach P: 816-297-9919 E: [email protected] lead-herministries.com mom2mommentoring.com    

Healing after divorce can feel like a nonstop fight—emotionally, spiritually, and mentally. You’re doing your best to stay strong, pray harder, and keep moving forward… yet you still feel exhausted and overwhelmed. In this episode, we look at 2 Chronicles 20 and the powerful story of King Jehoshaphat—a leader who faced an impossible battle and discovered that victory doesn’t always come from fighting harder. Sometimes, it comes from trusting God in a completely different way. We talk about the importance of prayer, worship, honesty with God, and community while healing from divorce—and why isolation, silence, and self-reliance can actually slow your healing. If you’re feeling outnumbered in this season, this conversation will help reframe the battle and remind you that God meets us in the middle of the fight. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: Why healing after divorce feels like spiritual warfare What 2 Chronicles 20 teaches us about prayer and worship The danger of isolating while trying to heal Why honesty with God matters more than “perfect” prayers How worship shifts the battle—even when circumstances don’t change What it looks like to trust God when you don’t know what to do   Reflection Questions: Where do you feel most overwhelmed or outnumbered right now? Why is it hard to be completely honest with God in prayer? What does worship look like in your daily life—passive or active? Are your prayers rooted in fear, frustration, or trust?   Homework (Yes, Really): Find a prayer partner and commit to praying together Practice honest, unfiltered prayer Spend intentional time in praise and worship Pray Scripture over your situation instead of rehearsing the problem   Scripture Referenced: 2 Chronicles 20:1–30 (NIV)   Keywords: healing after divorce, Christian divorce recovery, worship and prayer, divorce healing, spiritual warfare, biblical healing, Christian encouragement, faith after divorce   We are the fragrance of Christ, Dana     FREE EBOOK:   https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf   Are you a divorced Christian needing encouragement? Do you struggle with how to see yourself since your divorce? This free ebook will encourage you and remind you who and WHOSE you are!     WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com   LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/   An encouraging word article: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/02/19/a-word-of-encouragement-for-you/   Embracing Christ's Design: https://redeemed-identity.com/2024/03/26/embracing-christs-design-amid-divorce/     SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#     Book Funnel: Who AM I After Divorce: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf   Amazon:   Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR     WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST:   APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce To watch this episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/KjDTU8d7j5I   Guest Scheduling https://redeemed-identity.com/scheduling/   FOR MUSIC "SMILE": Music I use: Bensound.com Funny Song License code: DM5CQOZKF0EUTN1L   For country music: Music by: https://www.bensound.com License code: B11SABINWV4BESSF         Hashtags:   #divorcedlife, #christiandivorce, #divorce, #divorcedchristian

In this episode of Rise and Reclaim After Divorce, we unpack the biblical purpose of fasting and why it can be a powerful spiritual reset after heartbreak. Drawing from Isaiah 58 and 2 Chronicles 7:14, we explore how fasting brings clarity, humility, healing, and deeper intimacy with God. You’ll learn what fasting actually is (and what it’s not), how to fast safely, and why fasting isn’t about earning God’s attention—but realigning your heart with His. Whether you’re navigating emotional exhaustion, spiritual fog, or longing for renewal, this episode offers practical guidance and hope for your healing journey. In This Episode, We Cover: What fasting really means according to Scripture Why fasting is especially powerful after divorce How fasting brings clarity, healing, and spiritual breakthrough The connection between fasting, prayer, and humility Different types of fasts and how to begin safely How fasting helps realign your heart with God’s will Scripture References: Isaiah 58 2 Chronicles 7:14 Daniel 10:2–3 Keywords (Apple SEO): fasting after divorce, Christian fasting, healing after divorce, prayer and fasting, spiritual disciplines, biblical fasting, Christian healing, divorce recovery, spiritual renewal Call to Action: If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs hope and healing after divorce. 📖 Isaiah 58 (NKJV) https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Isaiah+58&version=NKJV 📖 2 Chronicles 7:14 https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=2+Chronicles+7%3A14&version=NKJV 📘 Practical Guide to Biblical Fasting – Cru https://www.cru.org/us/en/train-and-grow/spiritual-growth/fasting.html 🩺 Health Considerations for Fasting – Cleveland Clinic https://health.clevelandclinic.org/intermittent-fasting   We are the fragrance of Christ, Dana   WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/ SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS: Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   Book Funnel: Who AM I After Divorce: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf   Amazon: Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW: PODCAST APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce https://youtu.be/6tUVXQoGd5k

Pain has a way of reshaping how we see the world—especially after divorce. In this episode, we explore how living from pain instead of God’s truth can quietly delay healing, purpose, and forward movement. Using Matthew 28 and the story of the women at the tomb, we unpack how grief distorted their expectations—and how we often do the same thing when we’ve been wounded. They came prepared to bury what they believed was dead, unaware that resurrection had already happened. If you’ve been navigating life with a broken compass—led by emotions, fear, or past experiences—this episode will help reorient you back to true north: the Word of God. This is a call to stop carrying spices for what God has already promised to raise, to trust that the stone has already been rolled away, and to step into healing with faith instead of fear. In This Episode, You’ll Hear: The difference between your truth and God’s truth Why pain can distort perspective and delay purpose How the women at the tomb forgot Jesus’ promise—and how we often do the same What it means to stop praying only from pain and start praying with expectation Why emotions make a terrible compass after divorce How God is already working on obstacles you’re still worrying about The danger of carrying “grave clothes” into your future How to leave the past at the foot of the cross and press forward Key Scriptures Referenced: Matthew 28:1–8 – The women at the tomb and the rolled-away stone Hebrews 11:1 – Faith as the substance of things hoped for Isaiah 65:24 – God answering before we even call Philippians 3:13–14 – Forgetting what is behind and pressing forward Psalm 91:1 – Dwelling in the shelter of the Most High Psalm 34:18 – The Lord is near to the brokenhearted Hebrews 13:5 – God will never leave or forsake you Reflection Questions: Are you living by God’s truth—or by pain-shaped emotions? What are you still carrying spices for that God has already promised to raise? Are you focused on past hurt so much that you’re missing future purpose? What truth will you take into your next season? Call to Action: If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who may be stuck between pain and purpose. And remember—resurrection isn’t something you earn. It’s something you receive when you trust His truth over yours.   We are the fragrance of Christ, Dana This video on YouTube: https://youtu.be/5qvBdlbTsyk WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/   SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS: Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   Book Funnel: Who AM I After Divorce: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf   Amazon: Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST: APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce

In response to the aftermath of a situation involving a recent guest, Redeemed-Identity Ministries and Redeemed Identity After Divorce needs to make a public statement: " At Redeemed-Identity Ministries and on the Redeemed Identity After Divorce podcast and YouTube channel, we want to be very clear about our heart and values. We do not support racism, violence, or harm of any kind toward another person. Period. This platform exists to host faith-based conversations focused on healing, growth, and redemption after divorce. While we occasionally welcome guests to share their stories or perspectives, we are not involved in — nor are we commenting on — any personal, legal, or interpersonal matters involving our guests outside of the conversations that take place on our platform. We also want to state clearly that harassment, threats, or hateful behavior toward anyone connected to our ministry will not be tolerated. We remain committed to creating a space rooted in faith, truth, and dignity for all people. This platform and all associated platforms are here to educate, encourage and bring healing to those wounded by divorce." In Service, Dana

Guest: Mrs. Janis (J.D.) Denis Book: Stories From the Heart, Vol. 1   Episode Overview Have you ever been mad at God in the middle of—or after—your divorce? Have you wrestled with forgiveness and wondered why it feels so painfully hard? If so, this episode is for you. ☕ Grab your favorite beverage and settle in for a raw, honest, and deeply healing conversation. In Episode 76 of Rise & Reclaim After Divorce, Dana sits down with author, speaker, and worship leader Mrs. Janis Denis to talk about real faith for real pain. Janis doesn’t sugarcoat the journey—she shares honestly about anger toward God, feeling abandoned after divorce, and the long road toward forgiveness and freedom. About Today’s Guest Mrs. Janis Denis (often known as J.D. Denis) is the author of Stories From the Heart, Vol. 1. She is a powerful speaker, worship leader, and storyteller who uses real language to talk about real-life heartbreak—and the radical love of God that meets us right there. Dana introduces Janis by reading the back of her book because, honestly, you can’t improve on perfection. What We Cover in This Episode Conversation Highlights Radically Loved by God Janis shares when she first truly “got it”—the moment she realized just how radically loved she is by God. The Story Behind the Words (Pages 8–9) Dana reads a powerful section from the book and Janis opens up about the deep, personal story behind those words. A special focus on the closing paragraph of the chapter (page 11) and why it matters so much. “Sometimes I Get Mad at God” (Chapter 3, Page 13) Janis speaks candidly about the aftermath of her divorce—feeling abandoned, unattractive, useless, and worthless—and being angry with God. How she rose above that season What helped her rebuild her faith and identity Why Forgiveness Is So Freaking Hard (Chapter 12) Dana reads a powerful excerpt that many listeners will deeply relate to. What prompted Janis to write this devotional How forgiveness became a process—not a performance Finding real freedom after deep betrayal Key Takeaways God can handle your anger, questions, and tears Feeling broken doesn’t mean you’re faithless Forgiveness is hard—but freedom is possible Healing begins when we stop pretending and start telling the truth Where you can connect with Janis and her book: Website: https://linktr.ee/jdennis8?utm_source=linktree_profile_share Book on Amazon: https://a.co/d/hwmKXok YouTube Link: https://youtu.be/kSwQFCNAfdE   Listen & Watch 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and all major podcast platforms 📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/kSwQFCNAfdE If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who needs hope today. About the Podcast Rise & Reclaim After Divorce helps you re-member who you are after divorce—faith, identity, healing, and hope included. In His Service,   Dana Want to connect with Dana? WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/   SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS: Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/# Book Funnel: Who AM I After Divorce: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf   Amazon: Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR

The holidays can stir up all kinds of emotions after divorce — loneliness, pressure, old memories, and moments that hit way harder than expected. In this episode, Dana gets real about what this season can feel like… and how God meets us right in the middle of it. She walks you through the “rebuilding bricks” God gave her over the last few years, how those words held her steady when circumstances didn’t, and why intentionally redirecting the mind is a powerful part of healing. You’ll also hear how the valley of dry bones in Ezekiel isn’t just a dramatic Bible moment — it’s a picture of what happens when we speak God’s truth over situations that look completely lifeless. Dana also shares new research on gratitude and how it literally transforms the brain — from boosting dopamine and serotonin to calming emotional triggers and helping you shift your perspective. It’s wild how God designed us to heal from the inside out. If you remember Episode 33, this episode builds on that foundation of praying Scripture out loud and watching the atmosphere change. Dana ties it all together for this holiday season, reminding you that you don’t have to pretend things aren’t hard — but you can choose what you cling to. In this episode, you’ll learn: Why redirecting your thoughts is both simple and hard — and why it matters How gratitude rewires your brain (yes, literally) What Ezekiel’s dry bones teach us about speaking life over impossible situations How the Word of God becomes your anchor when emotions try to run the show Ways to prepare your heart for the holidays after divorce without shutting down emotionally Listen in if you need: Hope for the holiday season A reminder of God’s faithfulness Practical tools to calm your mind and emotions A nudge to speak life over the places that feel dry or heavy Encouragement to believe again — even in a tough season Resources Mentioned: Episode 33: How Praying the Word Shifts Your Atmosphere Free ebook: Who Am I After Divorce — available on Dana’s website Scriptures: Ezekiel 37:4–5, Hebrews 4:12 If this episode encourages you, share it with a friend who’s navigating a hard holiday season. You never know who needs a reminder that God rebuilds, restores, and breathes life into what feels lost.   In Service to Him, Dana   WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/   SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   Book Funnel: Who AM I After Divorce: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf   Amazon: Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR   WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST:   APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce

In today’s episode, we’re talking about something simple, steady, and powerful: how to build a prayer focus after divorce, one word at a time—just like laying bricks on a wall. For years, the Lord has given me one or two “focus words” each year, along with scriptures that anchor my prayers. What I didn’t realize until recently was how each word built on the last… and how God was quietly rebuilding my life brick by brick. In this episode, I’m walking you through my yearly “bricks” from 2020 to now—Hope, Endurance, Rebuilding, Transition, Focus, Shepherding, Obedience, and more—and showing you how this simple practice became a blueprint for healing after divorce. Inside this episode: Why we’re seeing so much shaking in the world—and why righteousness comes before revival How yearly “focus words” create a stable prayer foundation The scriptures God used to rebuild me over the last five years How to receive your own word for the coming year A prayer over your healing and your future In His Service, Dana Mentioned in this episode: 🎥 Redeemed Identity After Divorce on YouTube 🌐 www.redeemed-identity.com 📩 Email: [email protected] LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/ SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/# Book Funnel: Who AM I After Divorce: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf   Amazon: Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce   If this episode blessed you, please leave a review—it helps other divorced believers find hope, community, and restoration.

Have you ever realized that the pain you carry might be protecting you—but also holding you back? In this episode, Dana dives into how unresolved hurt can become armor, keeping us from fully embracing God’s love and grace. Drawing from personal experiences with judgment, gossip, and navigating post-divorce relationships, Dana shares how the Lord revealed hidden wounds, guided her to Isaiah 50:4-7, and showed her how to replace painful armor with a banner of His love. Learn practical ways to: Recognize where pain has become a defense mechanism in your life. Release offense and judgment from others. Stand strong in God’s grace and truth, even when others’ words sting. Cover yourself and others with God’s love instead of armor. If you’ve been carrying pain as a shield, this episode is a gentle, powerful reminder that God’s love heals, restores, and transforms. We are the fragrance of Christ, Dana Scriptures Referenced: Isaiah 50:4-7 2 Timothy 2 Song of Solomon 2:4 Psalm 139:23-24 1 Peter 4:8 CONTACT US: WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/   SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/# BOOKS AND RESOURCES:   Book Funnel: Who AM I After Divorce: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf   Amazon: Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR   WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST: APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE https://youtu.be/tqUNjN_olHY  

Keywords: healing after divorce, rejection and faith, identity in Christ, overcoming rejection, redeemed identity, Christian encouragement Rejection stings. It makes you question your worth, your calling, even your place in God’s story. But what if the feelings of rejection and abandonment aren’t who you are — because that version of you died with Christ? In this episode of Rise & Reclaim After Divorce, Dana unpacks the truth that Jesus didn’t just purchase your salvation — He purchased your identity. The cross wasn’t only about forgiveness; it was about freedom. Through powerful scripture (Galatians 2:20, 1 Corinthians 7:23, and more) and a deeply personal revelation, Dana reminds you that your name was written on that cross. Every lie of rejection and insecurity was nailed there too. It’s time to stop living from rejection and start living from redemption. You are chosen. You are enough. You are His. 🎧 Listen now to rediscover your worth and walk in the identity Jesus already paid for.   We are the Fragrance of Christ, Dana   👉WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com LINK TREE: https://redeemed-identity.com/links/   SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS: Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   BOOKS AND RESOURCES: Book Funnel: Who AM I After Divorce: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf   Amazon: Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR   WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW: APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447   YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce

Have you ever been blindsided by rejection or loneliness long after you thought you’d healed? In this vulnerable episode of Rise and Reclaim After Divorce, Dana shares a deeply personal story about how an unexpected moment reopened old wounds — and how God used His Word to bring lasting comfort and truth. You’ll hear how Psalm 73 became a lifeline, why rejection and loneliness often resurface even years after divorce, and how to anchor your identity in Christ when human validation falls short. If you’ve struggled with loneliness, singleness, or feeling forgotten, this episode will help you remember who truly holds your heart. Key Topics: Healing from rejection and loneliness after divorce Finding encouragement in God’s Word (Psalm 73:23–26) Understanding emotional roots through faith Restoring identity and confidence in Christ Christian encouragement for divorced and single believers Keywords: Christian encouragement, divorce recovery, overcoming rejection, healing after divorce, loneliness and faith, identity in Christ, Christian podcast, emotional healing, spiritual growth, Psalm 73, Redeemed Identity, Rise and Reclaim After Divorce   WEBSITE: www.redeemed-identity.com SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS:   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   BOOKS AND RESOURCES:   Book Funnel: Who AM I After Divorce: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf   Amazon: Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST: APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447 YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce

In part 2 of The Hidden Power of Soul Ties, Dana Williams continues with Pastor Darius Good, author of Soul Ties: How to Detox from Toxic Relationships, to unpack one of the most misunderstood topics in relationships and healing — soul ties. Pastor Good explains what soul ties are, how they form, and why they can be both God-designed and destructive. Together they explore the four levels of intimacy, how emotional and spiritual bonds are created, and the importance of breaking toxic soul ties that keep you stuck in pain after divorce or heartbreak. You’ll learn how to recant words spoken in past relationships, why letting go of physical reminders matters, and how to find true freedom and peace through God’s healing process. If you’ve ever felt connected to someone long after the relationship ended, this episode will help you understand why—and show you how to break free. Connect with Pastor Darius: www.dariusgood.com Get his book on Amazon! https://a.co/d/7wlbr3F   Connect with Dana Website: www.redeemed-identity.com   SOCIAL MEDIA LINKS: Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   BOOKS AND RESOURCES: Book Funnel: Who AM I After Divorce: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf Amazon:   Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR   Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   WHERE CAN YOU FIND THE SHOW:   PODCAST:   APPLE: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/redeemed-identity-after-divorce-christian-divorce-encouragement/id1752761447 YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce

to Detox from Toxic Relationships, to unpack one of the most misunderstood topics in relationships and healing — soul ties. Pastor Good explains what soul ties are, how they form, and why they can be both God-designed and destructive. Together they explore the four levels of intimacy, how emotional and spiritual bonds are created, and the importance of breaking toxic soul ties that keep you stuck in pain after divorce or heartbreak. You’ll learn how to recant words spoken in past relationships, why letting go of physical reminders matters, and how to find true freedom and peace through God’s healing process. If you’ve ever felt connected to someone long after the relationship ended, this episode will help you understand why—and show you how to break free.   Blessings, Dana   Pastor Darius Good's book Soul Ties: https://a.co/d/67di5Nu Pastor Darius Good website: www.dariusgood.com   Dana's Contact Info: Website: www.redeemed-identity.com Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/# Book Funnel: Who AM I After Divorce: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf   Amazon: Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   PODCAST:   APPLE: REDEEMED IDENTITY AFTER DIVORCE YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce   LINK TREE:   https://redeemed-identity.com/links/?preview_id=237571&preview_nonce=5aa82207fa&_thumbnail_id=-1&preview=true   Keywords: soul ties, intimacy, toxic relationships, emotional healing after divorce, breaking soul ties, divorce recovery, spiritual connections, counseling, divorced christian

This year isn’t just another turn of the calendar — it’s a prophetic season full of meaning for your healing journey after divorce. In this episode, Dana unpacks what the Hebrew year 5786 reveals and how it can impact your faith, your words, and your future. 👉 Here’s what you’ll discover in this episode: Why 5786 is called the “year of the mouth” and how your words can shape your reality. What the number 6 (Vav) represents and why it’s about connection, establishment, and linking heaven to earth. How to break free from negative words spoken by your ex, your past, or even yourself. The rise of “voice wars” in our culture and how to guard your heart and worship. A powerful declaration from Ezekiel 37 to bring dry bones — and dry seasons — back to life. Practical ways to forgive, release idols, and step boldly into God’s promises. If you’re walking through divorce recovery and wondering how God is speaking in this season, this episode will encourage you to rise up, speak truth, and establish a new future in Christ. 📖 Scriptures referenced: Proverbs 18:21 Isaiah 45:8 Ezekiel 37:1–14 Joel 2:25 Psalm 118:17 💬 Let’s Connect: Website: www.redeemed-identity.com   Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@redeemedidentity Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redeemedidentityafterdivorce/#   Book Funnel: Who AM I After Divorce: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf   Amazon: Healing After Divorce ebook https://a.co/d/etcpVyR Healing After Divorce Paperback: https://a.co/d/8mjG6dp   PODCAST: APPLE: REDEEMED IDENTITY AFTER DIVORCE YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@RedeemedIdentityAfterDivorce If this episode encouraged you, please subscribe, rate, and share it with someone who needs hope after divorce.

In this episode, Dana announces a significant shift: Rise and Reclaim After Divorce is becoming Redeemed Identity After Divorce. This isn’t just a name change—it’s a reflection of what God is doing in this ministry and in your life. Tied to the Hebrew calendar year 5785—known as the Year of Pei (the mouth)—this episode explores the spiritual significance of speech, declaration, and reclaiming your voice after divorce. Dana shares what’s coming next, including a move to YouTube, a heartfelt prayer request, and a bold encouragement to speak life over your story, your healing, and your future. 💬 What You'll Hear: ✨ The prophetic meaning behind the Hebrew year 5785 and the letter Pei 🎙️ Why the podcast is now called Redeemed Identity After Divorce 📹 A sneak peek at the upcoming YouTube launch 🙏 A personal prayer request from Dana 💡 How this season is about declaring who you REALLY are: not a divorcee, but a redeemed daughter of God 🔑 Key Verses & Themes: Proverbs 18:21 – “Death and life are in the power of the tongue.” The power of declaring truth over trauma Stepping into your redeemed identity after brokenness Crossing over into a new beginning with grace and purpose 📣 Call to Action: Sign up for updates and free resources at Redeemed-Identity.com Pray for Dana and this ministry during this transition Follow on social media to stay connected and hear when the first YouTube video drops Share this episode with a friend who needs to be reminded: You are more than a divorce We are the fragrance of Christ, Dana   🙌 Let’s Stay Connected: 💻 Website: www.redeemed-identity.com 📧 Subscribe to the newsletter for updates & encouragement 🎥 YouTube channel coming soon – keep an eye out! Find me on Social Media: https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ https://www.instagram.com/redeemidentity My Free ebook, "Who Am I After Divorce?" can be downloaded here: https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf Website and Blog link: https://redeemed-identity.com/blog/

🎙️ Episode #63 – Spiritual Warfare After Divorce: Can We Do Warfare From a Place of Rest? In this last episode of our Spiritual Warfare After Divorce series, we take a deep dive into what it means to engage in spiritual warfare from a place of rest—especially after the intense emotional and spiritual toll of divorce. Host Dana unpacks the truth about spiritual authority, warfare fatigue, and the importance of understanding your jurisdiction, identity, and the weapons of warfare available to you as a believer. 🔥 Episode Highlights: 💣 Can warfare be restful? Why striving and shouting may not be the answer. 🧠 Understanding identity: Why knowing who you are in Christ is your first and strongest weapon. 💍 Post-divorce boundaries: Should you do warfare for your ex? Where does your spiritual jurisdiction end? 🕊️ From curses to blessings: Learn how breaking spoken curses (even your own words!) can shift atmospheres. 💡 Idolatry exposed: Is your desire for a future spouse, ministry, or dream job becoming a stronghold? 🛡️ Wield your weapons: Prayer, the Word, and Praise as your resting-position warfare strategy. 🧭 3 Ways to War from Rest: Stand in your identity Declare the Word Praise as a powerful spiritual weapon 📚 SCRIPTURES REFERENCED: 2 Corinthians 10:1–5 Colossians 1:16 Galatians 3:13–14 Ephesians 6:10–18 Jude 8–10 Romans 15:4 🔄 RELATED EPISODE: 🎧 Episode #58 – Breaking Soul Ties to Find Freedom Before jumping into spiritual warfare, it's critical to sever any lingering soul ties. Dana breaks this down with wisdom and care in Episode 58—make sure you catch that one too!   ✨ SUMMER BOOK LAUNCH Coming Soon: "Healing After Divorce – 35 Healing Prayers Rooted in God’s Word" This summer, get ready for a powerful collection of guided prayers to help you rise, reclaim, and walk boldly in your healing. Pre-order details coming soon! 📩 Have Questions? Got feedback or want to weigh in on the idea of post-divorce jurisdiction? Dana would love to hear from you! Email: [email protected] 🛠️ Homework Challenge: Take time this week to ask the Lord: Are there any idols in my heart? Have I spoken words over my former spouse or myself that need to be repented of or broken? Am I trying to war from a place of striving or resting in Christ? Then, dive into Ephesians 6:10–18 and let the Word of God be your strength. 🙌 Ready to Rest in Victory? You don’t need to strive in the spirit to win. The battle is the Lord’s—and you’re already standing on a finished work. Let praise rise, let love lead, and let rest be your position of power. 🔔 Subscribe so you don’t miss next week’s episode where we continue this Spiritual Warfare After Divorce series! We are Christ's epistle,   Dana #divorce #christiandivorce #healingfromdivorce #spiritualwarfare #divorcedchristian

Episode 62- Spiritual Warfare After Divorce – Protecting Your Children with Barbara De Simon, Part 2   In this powerful two-part series, I sit down with Barbara De Simon, author and spiritual mentor, to discuss how parents—especially those navigating life after divorce—can protect their children through spiritual warfare and prayer.   🔑 What We Cover: 🙏 How to stand in the gap for your children during and after divorce. 📖 Why Psalm 91 is a vital weapon of protection—and how to claim its promises daily. 🔄 The role of repentance in spiritual warfare and how it clears the path for God's protection. 👀 Barbara reveals the Top 5 demonic spirits targeting our children today—and #5 will surprise you! ⚔️ How to prepare yourself for battle on behalf of your children—and why your spiritual life matters. 🧼 What it means to “cleanse your spiritual house”—and practical steps to do it. 😲 One surprising thing to pray over your children that you probably haven’t thought of.   Whether you're a single parent, stepparent, or grandparent, this conversation is packed with wisdom, prayer strategies, and biblical truths to help you stand firm and protect the next generation.   📚 Grab Barbara's Book: Spiritual Protection and Deliverance for Your Children on Amazon   📌 Want more in this series? Be sure to check out the other episodes in our Spiritual Warfare After Divorce series: 🎧 Episode 57: Is Spiritual Warfare Important After Divorce? 🎧 Episode 58: Breaking Soul Ties to Find Freedom 🎧 Episode 59: Your Identity in Christ: The Key to Victory 🎧 Episode 60: What Are the Weapons of Our Warfare?   📘 Coming This Summer   Don't miss my upcoming book: “Healing After Divorce: 35 Prayers Rooted in God’s Word for Divorced Christians”   It’s your guide to praying, healing, and reclaiming your identity in Christ—stay tuned for updates!   We are Christ's epistle,   Dana   📲 Let’s Connect Follow along for daily encouragement, spiritual warfare strategies, and ministry updates: 🔵 Facebook: Redeemed Identity 📸 Instagram: @redeemidentity   💬 If these episodes blessed you, share them with another parent, and don’t forget to leave a review!   #SpiritualWarfare #DivorcedMoms #ChristianParenting #BarbaraDeSimon #RedeemedIdentity #RiseAndReclaim #Psalm91 #Deliverance #ProtectYourChildren #HealingAfterDivorce

Episode 61- Spiritual Warfare After Divorce – Protecting Your Children with Barbara De Simon, Part 1   In this powerful two-part series, I sit down with Barbara De Simon, author and spiritual mentor, to discuss how parents—especially those navigating life after divorce—can protect their children through spiritual warfare and prayer.   🔑 What We Cover: 🙏 How to stand in the gap for your children during and after divorce. 📖 Why Psalm 91 is a vital weapon of protection—and how to claim its promises daily. 🔄 The role of repentance in spiritual warfare and how it clears the path for God's protection. 👀 Barbara reveals the Top 5 demonic spirits targeting our children today—and #5 will surprise you! ⚔️ How to prepare yourself for battle on behalf of your children—and why your spiritual life matters. 🧼 What it means to “cleanse your spiritual house”—and practical steps to do it. 😲 One surprising thing to pray over your children that you probably haven’t thought of.   Whether you're a single parent, stepparent, or grandparent, this conversation is packed with wisdom, prayer strategies, and biblical truths to help you stand firm and protect the next generation.   📚 Grab Barbara's Book: Spiritual Protection and Deliverance for Your Children on Amazon   📌 Want more in this series? Be sure to check out the other episodes in our Spiritual Warfare After Divorce series: 🎧 Episode 57: Is Spiritual Warfare Important After Divorce? 🎧 Episode 58: Breaking Soul Ties to Find Freedom 🎧 Episode 59: Your Identity in Christ: The Key to Victory 🎧 Episode 60: What Are the Weapons of Our Warfare?   📘 Coming This Summer   Don't miss my upcoming book: “Healing After Divorce: 35 Prayers Rooted in God’s Word for Divorced Christians”   It’s your guide to praying, healing, and reclaiming your identity in Christ—stay tuned for updates!   We are Christ's epistle,   Dana   📲 Let’s Connect Follow along for daily encouragement, spiritual warfare strategies, and ministry updates: 🔵 Facebook: Redeemed Identity 📸 Instagram: @redeemidentity   💬 If these episodes blessed you, share them with another parent, and don’t forget to leave a review!   #SpiritualWarfare #DivorcedMoms #ChristianParenting #BarbaraDeSimon #RedeemedIdentity #RiseAndReclaim #Psalm91 #Deliverance #ProtectYourChildren #HealingAfterDivorce

Description: In this Info-packed episode, Dana explores the spiritual weapons God has given us to stand strong after divorce and reclaim what the enemy tried to steal. Based on 2 Corinthians 10:3–5, this teaching walks through the essential tools every believer needs to fight back against lies, shame, and spiritual oppression. Whether you're in a valley or on the climb out, you’re not defenseless. You are armed, anointed, and backed by heaven.   🔑 Key Takeaways: You are in a spiritual war, not just a natural one. Your weapons are not carnal—they are mighty through God to pull down strongholds. Salvation is more than a prayer; it’s transformation. Knowing your identity in Christ is a powerful defense against the enemy’s lies. The Word of God is your offensive weapon—learn to use it like a sword. The blood of Jesus offers protection, cleansing, and authority. The name of Jesus carries power over every demonic force. Praise and worship shift the atmosphere and set ambushes against the enemy. Repentance isn’t a one-time act—it’s a lifestyle of surrender. Humility and a teachable spirit keep you aligned and protected. 📖 Scripture References: 2 Corinthians 10:3–5 – Our foundational passage on spiritual warfare Ephesians 6:17 – The helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit Romans 8:37 – More than conquerors through Christ Revelation 12:11 – Overcoming by the blood and the word of our testimony Philippians 2:9–11 – Every knee bows at the name of Jesus 2 Chronicles 20:22 – Praise sets ambushes James 4:6 – God gives grace to the humble 🔗 Resources: Coming Soon! Dana’s upcoming book: Healing After Divorce: 35 Healing Prayers Rooted in God's Word for Divorced Christians Join our private Facebook community for divorced Christians We are the fragrance of Christ, Dana   Find me on Social Media: https://www.facebook.com/redeemidentity/ https://www.instagram.com/redeemidentity   My Free ebook, "Who Am I After Divorce?" can be downloaded here:https://dl.bookfunnel.com/4k769kpebf   Website and Blog link: https://redeemed-identity.com/blog/ 🔔 Subscribe & Share: If this episode blessed you, don’t keep it to yourself. 👉 Share it with a friend, leave a review, and hit subscribe so you never miss an episode.  

Divorce doesn’t just impact your circumstances—it shakes your identity. In today’s powerful episode, Dana Williams uncovers how spiritual warfare often targets your sense of worth, calling, and identity in Christ. But the good news? You’re not who the enemy says you are. You’re who God says you are—and you’ve been equipped to stand strong, rise up, and reclaim your rightful place as His beloved. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: Why your identity is your first line of defense in spiritual warfare How to fight back when the enemy uses shame, guilt, or rejection after divorce What scripture says about who you are in Christ (even in your brokenness) How to resist old patterns and step into new authority How dying to self becomes your secret weapon Key Scriptures Mentioned: 2 Corinthians 5:17–21 – You are a new creation in Christ John 17:11–18 – You are in the world, not of it John 1:12–13; Galatians 3:26 – You are a child of God Matthew 5:13–16 – You are salt and light Matthew 5:3–12 – You are blessed beyond measure 1 Peter 1:14–16 – You are holy as God is holy 2 Corinthians 4:7–12 – You die to self so Christ can live through you James 4:7–8; Luke 10:19; Romans 8:16; 2 Timothy 1:7; Psalm 91 – You have authority, power, and covering 🎧 Missed Part 1? Go back and listen to: 👉 Episode 58 – Spiritual Warfare After Divorce: Breaking Soul Ties to Find Freedom Want More Encouragement? 📬 Sign up for the Rise and Reclaim Newsletter for spiritual tools, exclusive podcast insights, and healing resources: www.redeemed-identity.com   📖 COMING SOON! Dana’s upcoming book: Healing After Divorce: 35 Prayers Rooted in God’s Word for Divorced Christians Rate & Review If this episode encouraged you, leave a review on Apple or Spotify—it helps more people find healing and hope!   We are the fragrance of Christ, Dana  

In this information-packed episode, we dive deep into the hidden spiritual realities that often remain after a divorce—specifically, the soul ties that may still be binding you to your former spouse. Even after signing the divorce papers, spiritual connections can leave doors open for demonic harassment, emotional pain, and delayed healing. We explore: ✅ What soul ties are and how they form ✅ How adultery, occult involvement, and emotional entanglements affect soul ties ✅ Why spiritual warfare is necessary even after legal divorce ✅ How to break ungodly soul ties and shut the door on the enemy ✅ A 5-step Biblical process to renounce, repent, and rebuild Whether you’ve experienced betrayal, emotional trauma, or just feel “stuck” after divorce, this episode is for you.   🧠 Key Takeaways: Soul ties are deep, spiritual bonds that can be both godly and ungodly. Just because a marriage is legally over doesn’t mean the spiritual connection is broken. Unrighteous soul ties can create legal ground for the enemy in your life. You must pray, repent, renounce, break, and declare to truly be free. 📖 Scripture References: Matthew 19:5 (NKJV): “For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” Mark 10:8 (NKJV): “…and the two shall become one flesh; so then they are no longer two, but one flesh.” 1 Corinthians 6:16 (NKJV): “Do you not know that he who is joined to a harlot is one body with her? For ‘the two,’ He says, ‘shall become one flesh.’” Matthew 12:43-45 (NKJV): “When an unclean spirit goes out of a man… he says, ‘I will return to my house...’ and takes with him seven other spirits…” Galatians 2:20 (NKJV): “I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me...” 1 Corinthians 3:13 (NKJV): “…each one’s work will become clear; for the Day will declare it, because it will be revealed by fire…”   📚 Featured Resource: 📖 Book Recommendation: Soul Ties: The Truth About Soul Ties and How to Break Free by Pastor Darius Good 🛒 Get it on Amazon This book is filled with biblical insights and practical strategies to help you recognize, evaluate, and break unhealthy soul ties. A must-read if you’re serious about healing after divorce.   🔥 Don't Miss: ✔️ Learn how soul ties are formed (and it’s more than just sex!) ✔️ Understand how abuse, addiction, pornography, and occult involvement create spiritual access points ✔️ Use Dana’s 5-Step Breakthrough Method to close demonic doors ✔️ A powerful prayer of release to walk in freedom and destiny   🙏 Prayer Declaration from the Episode: “Lord, we want to build on a foundation that is free and clear from any soul ties that are keeping us back from our projected destiny. Show us where our soul ties lie. Give us the strength to do the work to break them and walk free…”   💥 Subscribe + Share this episode with a friend who needs breakthrough! 🎧 Available on all platforms – don’t forget to leave a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review!   📲 Follow us on Instagram @riseandreclaimafterdivorce 🌐 Visit our website for healing resources: www.redeemed-identity.com