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In Episode 229 of the Say It Skillfully® podcast, Molly welcomes chemical engineer, researcher, and Cornell University professor Lynden Archer. A leader in the field of biomaterials and sustainable energy innovation, Lynden shares insights from his groundbreaking work developing environmentally responsible materials that could transform industries ranging from plastics to batteries. In this inspiring conversation, Lynden reflects on the pivotal role of mentors in his life and how he found his way from growing up in Guyana to graduate school and a distinguished academic career. He shares the experiences and influences that helped shape his path and the lessons he learned along the way about perseverance, curiosity, and staying open to opportunity. Filled with insights on innovation, leadership, and scientific discovery, this episode offers listeners a compelling look at finding your north star and how bold thinking and collaboration can drive meaningful change.

In Episode 228 of the Say It Skillfully® podcast, Molly welcomes back storyteller, entrepreneur, and founder of Tell My Story, Jason Reid. After the tragic loss of his 14-year-old son Ryan to suicide in 2018, Jason transformed unimaginable grief into a mission to help families better understand youth mental health and create spaces where young people feel seen, valued, and supported. In this powerful and deeply human conversation, Jason shares the inspiration behind his new film Shift: Do What Moves You, which highlights how purpose, passion, and personal interests can help young people rise above depression and anxiety. The discussion explores the importance of creating safe conversations around mental health, the role of parents in supporting their children’s emotional wellbeing, and why having a hobby or passion outside of work or school can be life-changing. Jason also reflects on personal growth, the power of curiosity, and why learning about emerging technologies like AI is essential in a rapidly changing world. From parenting insights to leadership lessons, this episode is filled with practical wisdom for anyone seeking to live more intentionally and help others do the same. Jason’s message is both hopeful and practical: finding what moves you—and encouraging others to do the same—can create profound change in both individual lives and communities. Chapters 00:00 Introduction – Molly welcomes Jason Reid 01:04 Jason on intentional living and personal growth 03:55 Why lifelong learning matters in a rapidly changing world 04:50 Jason’s focus on understanding AI and future technologies 06:09 Navigating political division and understanding different perspectives 08:44 Why everyone should start learning about AI now 09:01 Podcast recommendations for understanding AI 10:39 The origin of Tell My Story after the loss of Jason’s son Ryan 12:40 How parents can start conversations about mental health with kids 15:47 The importance of asking direct questions about suicide 18:52 Why medication alone doesn’t solve mental health struggles 20:20 The inspiration behind the film Shift: Do What Moves You 21:48 Why everyone needs a passion or purpose beyond work 24:32 Jason on hobbies, creativity, and trying new things 26:50 Expanding your life through curiosity and interests 30:05 Finding your aptitudes and creative outlets 32:35 Helping kids discover hobbies and passions 35:14 Self-care and support for adults struggling with mental health 37:06 Therapy, support networks, and unexpected help from AI 39:00 Jason’s advice for aspiring filmmakers and creators 40:57 The impact of Jason’s work and films 41:55 What Jason is most proud of as a leader 43:31 Jason’s final advice: Find what excites you in life 44:16 Closing thoughts and takeaway on AI and the future

What does it take to lead when the stakes are life-and-death, failure is inevitable, and doubt never fully disappears? In this episode of Say It Skillfully®, Molly sits down with Lieutenant Colonel Riel Erickson — one of Canada’s first female fighter pilots, senior Royal Canadian Air Force officer, instructor, and leadership mentor. Riel shares her extraordinary journey from farm life to the cockpit, revealing the internal battles behind elite performance: self-doubt, fear, identity, and resilience. She explains why embracing failure is essential to growth, how leaders create psychological safety, and what it really means to move from doing the work… to leading people… to shaping institutions. This conversation is a masterclass in grounded leadership, courage under pressure, and using humanity — not perfection — as your greatest strength. You’ll learn: • Why failure can be freeing • How to manage fear instead of eliminating it • The hidden cost of masking to fit in • What great mentors actually do • How leaders scale impact through others If you’ve ever questioned whether you belong in the room, this episode is for you. 00:00 — Introduction: Leadership Where Stakes Are High 00:01 — Riel’s Background & Breaking Barriers 02:09 — International Women’s Forum & Finding Belonging 05:57 — Early Life & Choosing the Military Path 09:17 — Culture Shock of Military Training 11:13 — Hating Pilot Training… at First 12:57 — The Freedom of Detaching Identity from Success 14:16 — “Embrace Failure” as a Life Mantra 15:18 — Discovering Love for Flying & Challenge 16:27 — Family Support & Sacrifice 19:17 — Overcoming Self-Doubt 22:29 — Managing Fear Under Pressure 26:15 — Career Path: From Pilot to Instructor to Leader 29:06 — Being the Only Woman in the Room 32:12 — Leadership & Psychological Safety 34:16 — Moving from Doing → Teaching → Leading Systems 35:32 — Work-Life Integration, Not Balance 40:07 — Mentorship That Changes Careers 44:55 — Why Mentoring Others Matters 47:10 — The Moment She Realized Her Visibility Matters

In this episode of the Say It Skillfully Podcast, Molly sits down with Darcy Verhun — a rare kind of leader who builds companies by putting people first, not as a strategy, but as a way of being. From growing up between city life and the farm in Alberta, to becoming a management consultant for 25 years, to scaling a business to a $2B market cap, Darcy shares the values, habits, and leadership mindset that shaped his journey. Darcy also opens up about leading through culture change inside Canada Diagnostic Centres, why “smiling” became a serious leadership priority, and how small daily behaviors can transform an organization from the inside out. They close with a powerful “say it skillfully” moment: the one question Darcy asks at the end of meetings that can completely change outcomes — and create space for people to finally use their voice. If you’re a leader, coach, or someone trying to build a culture where people feel safe, seen, and motivated to grow — this one’s worth your time. Chapters 00:00 Intro: A leader who builds by putting people first 01:18 How Darcy and Molly met (Marshall Goldsmith connection) 02:39 Darcy’s upbringing: farm life, work ethic, and humility 06:12 The reading rule that became Darcy’s “superpower” 07:03 Sports, skiing, and coaching elite athletes 08:38 Why Darcy’s coaching style is built on stories 10:00 What Darcy learned early: honesty, caring for others, open home 12:13 Mentors and the professor who still challenges him today 14:17 MBA + the unexpected path into consulting 15:21 25 years in consulting: leadership, culture, and hard problems 16:13 The shift from advising to owning the mission 17:13 Purpose as a decision-making compass (“enhancing life”) 20:39 A defining leadership moment: doing the right thing, not the textbook thing 25:43 Entering healthcare: culture challenges + rebuilding trust 29:13 The “CDC” framework: Culture, Deliver Care, Operational Excellence 31:59 “Culture change doesn’t take years—it starts with me” 32:57 Why Darcy focused on smiling first (and why it matters) 35:03 The “High Five” habit: leaders connecting with their teams 37:14 Measuring what matters: Clinic Excellence Index 40:17 Daily Questions: Darcy’s personal growth habit 42:29 Investing in health to lead better (getting back on the bike) 43:37 The best meeting question: “Is there something you’re thinking or feeling you haven’t said?” 45:11 Reading, mountain biking, and being an introvert leader 46:09 The “candy cheat” for connecting with people 46:51 A surprising fun fact: loving winter driving 47:20 Regret: investing more in learning earlier 48:23 Proud moments: family + the people he’s worked with 49:06 Rapid fire: artist life, “Tarzan,” fries + ice cream 50:04 Final takeaway: be yourself and don’t be afraid 51:19 Closing quote + wrap

In this episode of Say It Skillfully®, host Molly Tschang engages in a deeply human, candid, and inspiring conversation with Ron Carucci — bestselling author, executive coach, and co-founder of Navalent. Together, they trace Ron’s extraordinary journey from a chaotic Long Island childhood to becoming one of the most trusted voices in leadership, organizational transformation, and personal growth. Ron opens up about the trauma and humor of growing up in a loud Italian household, discovering his love for the arts, navigating early career pivots, and finding purpose in helping leaders use their voices to serve the greater good. He shares vulnerable insights about therapy, impostor syndrome, mental health, parenting, marriage, failure, and what it means to truly “play big.” This episode offers profound lessons in honesty, self-compassion, resilience, and leading with integrity. Ron’s wisdom — centered on the belief that “nothing in life is irrevocable except death” — invites listeners to rethink how they show up in their work, relationships, and inner lives. A powerful celebration of growth, shared humanity, and the courage to become who you are meant to be. 00:00 Introduction to Ron Carucci 01:00 Growing Up in a Loud Italian Family 02:51 Childhood Dynamics, Bullying & Identity 04:36 Juilliard, Early Dreams & Family Expectations 05:44 Pivoting from the Arts to Purpose-Driven Work 06:29 A Transformational Moment with a Young Soldier 07:10 Discovering the Power of Story 07:47 Sibling Relationships & Processing Trauma 09:36 Therapy, Internal Parts & Self-Understanding 11:10 Entering the Corporate World & Early Lessons 12:24 Learning the Language of Leadership Development 13:03 Navigating Marriage, Partnership & Life on the Road 14:05 Long-Distance Love & Building a Family 15:36 Early Career Ambition & Realizations 20:12 The PepsiCo Chapter — Politics, Ego & Hard Lessons 23:09 Imposter Syndrome & Speaking Truth to Power 25:26 Struggles with Diplomacy & Authenticity 26:58 Parenting, Repair, and Generational Healing 29:15 Mentorship & the Legendary Toby 31:19 Writing as Validation, Craft, and Inner Work 34:16 Wrestling with the Mental Health of Book Writing 35:06 Tennis: Self-Care, Mental Health & Mastery 38:31 What Tennis Reveals About the Self 38:57 Symbolism in Collecting Keys, Doorknobs & Mugs 40:57 Identity, Introversion & Misconceptions 42:13 Career Do-Overs & Lessons Learned 43:44 His Proudest Accomplishment: Fatherhood 44:28 Rapid-Fire Questions 45:28 Top Takeaways & Ron’s Life Philosophy 46:36 Final Reflections & Closing

In this episode of Say It Skillfully, host Molly engages in a profound conversation with Mini’imah Shaheed, an inspiring leader in education. They explore Mini’imah’s journey from her roots in East Oakland to her impactful work in founding a school based on love and community. The discussion delves into the challenges faced in the education system, the importance of resilience, and the vision for empowering women leaders. Mini’imah shares her personal experiences, including her battle with cancer, and emphasizes the need for grace and self-compassion in leadership. This episode is a celebration of growth, community, and the transformative power of education. Chapters00:00 Introduction to Manaima Shaheed’s Journey03:03 Growing Up in East Oakland05:50 Navigating College Life at UPenn08:48 Teach for America Experience11:57 Teaching and Leadership in Atlanta14:32 Challenges in Education and Systemic Barriers17:38 Resilience and Personal Growth20:46 Influences and Role Models23:40 Starting a School and Educational Innovations31:28 The Power of Love in Education34:37 Leadership as a Labor of Love37:29 Navigating Difficult Conversations41:10 Exploring Hobbies and Personal Growth43:07 Understanding Introversion and Stoicism44:11 Reflections on Regrets and Do-Overs45:35 Future Aspirations and Legacy Projects48:20 Empowering Women Leaders50:27 Celebrating Personal Accomplishments52:08 Rapid Fire Questions and Fun Insights54:31 Final Reflections and Takeaways

In this inspiring episode, Molly welcomes Jeff Greenwald — world-class coach, bestselling author, and founder of Fearless Tennis and Mental Edge Sports. Jeff shares his remarkable journey from rising junior player at the legendary IMG Academy to competing on the pro tour, and ultimately transforming setbacks into a career helping athletes master the mental side of performance. 00:00 – Intro: The Mental Game of TennisMolly introduces Jeff Greenwald, bestselling author, world-class coach, and founder of Fearless Tennis and Mental Edge Sports, framing the conversation around performance, mindset, and authenticity. 01:16 – Jeff’s Early JourneyJeff shares how he fell in love with tennis, from choosing the sport at age 12 to training at IMG Academy and playing on the pro tour. 03:40 – Struggles on the CourtJeff opens up about being a hothead, battling frustration, and learning hard lessons after being suspended from competition — experiences that planted the seeds for his later work. 05:27 – Discovering Sports PsychologyHow reflection, journaling, and a deep curiosity about mind-body connection shifted Jeff’s approach to competition and eventually led him to sports psychology. 10:03 – Family Influence & Choosing TennisJeff reflects on his family’s role in shaping his drive, resilience, and perfectionism, and why he chose tennis over team sports. 13:09 – Life at the AcademyStories from his intense training days, the pressures of competition, and the early lessons about discipline and self-reliance. 17:14 – Contemplating Quitting the TourJeff recalls moments of burnout, the challenges of constant travel, and how curiosity ultimately pulled him toward coaching and psychology. 20:03 – Coaching in Germany & A Defining MatchHow his time coaching abroad — and one match where he dropped fully into the “zone” — revealed new possibilities and sparked his shift into mindset training. 23:12 – Building Fearless Tennis & Mental Edge SportsJeff describes the evolution of his work, blending his personal experience with research to help athletes of all ages trust themselves under pressure. 26:43 – Playing Loose & Finding PerspectivePractical insights on setting match intentions, letting go of perfectionism, and why gratitude and perspective are as important as technique. 33:16 – Handling Pressure & Negative ThoughtsJeff shares how even sports psychologists face nerves — and the tools he uses to reset and refocus in high-stakes matches. 34:42 – Writing The Mental Edge for Young AthletesWhy Jeff wrote his latest book, how it helps kids, parents, and coaches, and his belief that sports can be a powerful teacher for life. 39:10 – Parenting Lessons from SportsCandid stories about guiding his own children through sports and the balance between supporting and over-coaching. 44:07 – Reflections & AccomplishmentsJeff shares his biggest “do over,” his proudest achievements, and the importance of curiosity and authenticity in his ongoing journey. 46:23 – Closing ThoughtsMolly and Jeff wrap up, reflecting on the energy of the conversation and the message of embracing the process, authenticity, and “incremental becoming exponential.” Jeff opens up about his own struggles with frustration and self-doubt, and how reflection, journaling, and psychology shaped his ability to play with freedom under pressure. He discusses the importance of perspective, gratitude, and resilience — lessons that extend far beyond the court. Molly and Jeff also dive into his latest book, The Mental Edge for Young Athletes, offering practical tools for kids, parents, and coaches to navigate the challenges of competition while enjoying the journey. Whether you’re an athlete, a parent, or simply striving for your personal best, Jeff’s insights on mindset, curiosity, and “incremental becoming exponential” will leave you inspired to embrace the process and show up authentically in every area of life. 

In this inspiring episode of Say It Skillfully, host Molly Tschang sits down with Vicky Serany, founder and president of Southern Studio, to explore her unexpected path from architect to business owner. Vicky shares how her passion for design became a mission to create joyful spaces and build a company where people love to work. Through real-life lessons in entrepreneurship, leadership, and personal growth, Vicky opens up about the power of letting go of control, leading with empathy, and navigating tough conversations with grace. She and Molly talk candidly about the challenges of running a business, finding your voice, and living a life aligned with your values—both in the office and at home. Whether you're a creative professional, business owner, or just someone striving to lead with heart, this episode offers rich insights and practical wisdom you won’t want to miss. Topics Covered: • Designing a business that puts people first • Building a values-based culture • Leading with authenticity and vulnerability • The intersection of work, family, and fulfillment • Tips for skillful conversations as a leader 00:00 – Intro: Designing for Joy & LeadershipMolly introduces Vicky Serany, founder of Southern Studio, and frames the conversation around leadership, values, and personal growth.02:45 – Vicky’s Journey: From Architect to EntrepreneurVicky shares how she unexpectedly became a business owner and the evolution of her design career.08:10 – Creating a Joyful Work CultureDiscussion around building a company where people genuinely love to work, and why joy is at the center of her leadership philosophy.13:20 – Letting Go of ControlVicky reflects on how releasing the need to control every detail has been key to growth, both personally and professionally.17:45 – Leading with Empathy & VulnerabilityThey explore how empathy, especially in tough conversations, builds trust and emotional safety in teams.23:15 – Designing with Heart: Purpose-Driven WorkVicky explains how her firm uses design to create environments that uplift and support clients’ lives and values.29:40 – Finding Fulfillment Beyond WorkA candid look at how Vicky navigates the balance between running a business and nurturing her personal life.34:55 – Advice for Future LeadersVicky offers insights for aspiring leaders on building something meaningful without sacrificing their values.38:40 – Rapid-Fire ReflectionsFun, fast-paced questions about leadership, learning, and what Vicky’s most proud of.41:15 – Closing Thoughts from MollyMolly wraps up the episode with a reflection on skillful leadership and living fully.

In this inspiring episode of Say It Skillfully, Nat Ware—Rhodes Scholar, social entrepreneur, and founder of Forte and 180 Degrees Consulting—shares his journey from a modest upbringing in Sydney to building global systems that unlock human potential. Nat breaks down his revolutionary Forte model, which funds education and healthcare without cost to individuals or governments, by leveraging future tax revenue from increased employment. He also reflects on resilience, happiness, and the mindset that’s fueled his impact—including surviving a gunshot wound the night before Forte’s first launch. A must-listen for anyone passionate about creating scalable, sustainable change. Learn more at: www.sayitskillfully.com00:00Introduction to Nat Ware's Journey02:55Childhood and Family Background05:48Academic Influences and Early Interests08:42First Steps into Philanthropy11:40Transition to Global Awareness14:38Founding 180 Degrees Consulting20:32Pursuing Higher Education and PhD23:50Introducing the Forte Model29:51Impact Stories and Future Vision33:59Unlocking Human Potential through Education Financing37:56Scaling the Model Globally41:07Innovative Approaches to Education Quality42:43Resilience in Entrepreneurship46:19The Importance of Partnerships47:53Understanding Happiness and Expectations53:31Living a Life with No Regrets01:00:13Reflections on Personal Growth and Future Aspirations

Molly is joined by Dan Berger, an Israeli-American entrepreneur whose life experiences shaped his understanding of identity, belonging, and resilience. Dan shares his journey from being an orphan to creating spaces for connection through his ventures, including Social Tables and Assemble Hospitality.00:00 Introduction to Dan's Journey01:51 Trauma and Belonging: A Personal Narrative06:10 Life in Israel: Early Memories and Identity11:51 Navigating Adolescence: Moving to America20:07 Understanding Bipolar Disorder and Its Impact23:50 The Role of Entrepreneurship in Healing29:58 The Transition from Social Tables to Assemble Hospitality31:38 The Journey of Selling a Company34:20 Exploring New Ventures and Personal Growth36:01 Understanding Belonging: A Personal Perspective39:45 The Four Belonging Personas41:22 Lessons Learned Through Research and Self-Discovery43:55 Navigating Tough Conversations47:22 Hobbies and Personal Interests49:25 Reflections on Life and Accomplishments50:43 Future Aspirations and Passions53:17 The Importance of Addressing Men's Issues

From military missions to life lessons, Steveo Bermudez brings the real talk in this week’s Say It Skillfully! His journey is one of resilience, leadership, and the power of showing up for others. Whether navigating deployments, balancing family, or owning mistakes, Steve-o shares the hard-earned wisdom that has shaped his success. You’ll laugh, reflect, and walk away with insights to level up in work and life.Stay tuned—this is one episode you won’t want to miss!00:00 Introduction to Steve-o's Journey04:04 From Military Brat to Air Force Veteran10:48 Leadership Lessons from Family Dynamics14:03 Understanding Military Deployments18:04 Success in Military vs. Civilian Life21:07 Receiving Feedback and Personal Growth24:44 Navigating Ambiguity in Leadership27:17 Dealing with Difficult Team Dynamics31:35 Balancing Work and Family Life37:47 Navigating Home Life After Deployment42:01 The Importance of Communication in Relationships45:59 Overcoming Insecurities and Building Confidence50:00 The Meaning of Service and Selflessness55:51 Personal Insights and Hobbies01:00:38 Transformative Relationships and Personal Growth01:01:20 Reflections on Sharing Life Experiences

Molly is joined by Ayse Birsel, a renowned industrial designer, as they explore her unique journey from Izmir, Turkey, to becoming a leading figure in design. The conversation delves into her educational journey, the challenges of adapting to life in New York, and the significance of imagination and creativity in both design and personal growth.Show Notes00:00 Introduction to Ayse and Her Journey06:04 Ayse's Early Life and Influences11:59 The Impact of Family and Culture17:57 Moving to New York and Adapting23:47 The Design School Experience30:06 Understanding Industrial Design35:48 Empathy in Design and Ayse's Philosophy39:03 Navigating Self-Doubt and Optimism41:36 The Journey of Starting a Design Firm43:20 Love and Partnership in the Design World48:15 Balancing Motherhood and Career53:49 Overcoming Challenges in Business56:01 The Joy of Designing for Better Living58:45 Redesigning Life Through Design Principles01:01:44 The Art of Skillful Communication01:03:20 Rapid Fire Insights and Reflections 

In this episode of the Say It Skillfully Podcast, Molly has a conversation with Rachel Ziering, the Founding Executive Director of Muddy Paws Rescue. Rachel shares her journey from a musical upbringing to her passion for dog rescue, detailing her experiences and the challenges she faced while building her nonprofit organization. The conversation highlights the importance of following one's passion, the lessons learned from both music and nonprofit work, and the impact of community outreach in animal welfare. In this conversation, Rachael shares her experiences and insights from leading a nonprofit organization focused on animal rescue. She discusses the importance of managing volunteers, the challenges of nonprofit leadership, and her motivation to continue her work. She also talks about the vital role of fostering in animal rescue, the strategies for fundraising, and how she handles criticism and online reviews. 

Trisha Cunningham, President and CEO of the North Texas Food Bank, joins Molly Tschang on the Say It Skillfully podcast to share her inspiring journey from corporate leadership to nonprofit work, emphasizing the importance of adaptability, self-discovery, and mission-driven leadership. Trisha discusses her early life challenges, the importance of education, and the pivotal moments that shaped her leadership style. She talks about her work at the North Texas Food Bank, highlighting the need for strong governance and effective practices to serve the community better. Trisha reflects on her personal growth, the significance of listening as a leader, and the impact of her experiences on her current role. 

Ganesh Iyer, CEO of Etnyre International, joins Molly on the Say It Skillfully podcast to share his inspiring journey from a humble upbringing in India to navigating the corporate world and becoming a CEO. He discusses the importance of putting people first in business, the challenges of leadership, and the philosophy of optimizing profit while improving lives. Ganesh reflects on his experiences, the lessons learned from mistakes, and the significance of work-life integration. The conversation emphasizes the value of kindness, adaptability, and the pursuit of meaningful work.

Molly is joined on the Say It Skillfully Podcast by the design director for the elite sportswear company designing for the best athletes in the world, including the women's Olympic gymnastic team, Jeanne Diaz.One of the creative geniuses behind the stunning women's patriotic blinged out leotards from this year's Olympics, Jeanne joins the show to share her story, including how she chose to follow her passion, navigating and building a career in the fashion industry, and recently working with amazing athletes like Simone Biles while designing Olympic sportswear.

Since leading fashion designer Robby Geller moved to LA from Germany at a young age, he has never stopped learning. He discusses the array of learning curves he has faced throughout his personal and professional journey- whether that be at age five or 35, with language and even fashion. Most importantly, he emphasizes the need of active contribution to get things done.Hear about the not-so common path of a world renowned fashion designer and how contributing to the conversation can be fully life changing.

Unexpected social media sensation David Lorimer joins Molly for this episode of the Say It Skillfully podcast and delves into the "behind-the-scenes" of his @today.iam.grateful Instagram page. David authentically shares his journey, from his childhood in Iowa and Kentucky through his adult life, telling tales of his career, relationships, and finding himself.He further tells us the duality between joy and true fulfillment. David goes beyond his everyday work life and dives into balancing it with the intricacies of parenting and mental health.Finally, he teaches us how intentional gratitude and personal reflection are the greatest shields against mental health issues.

Total Leadership CEO, Stew Friedman, joins Molly on today’s episode of Say it Skillfully. Ranging from topics of favorite bands to leadership to the purpose of life. The enriching conversation spans from topics of favorite bands to leadership to the meaning of life. Stew exemplifies the idea the you don’t need to know where you are going to end up in the right place.Visit https://www.totalleadership.org/ for free videos, book chapters, articles including the 50+ that he's written for Harvard Business Review and more from Stew. Also, follow Stew on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stewfriedman/

Molly Tschang sits down for a conversation on the Say It Skillfully podcast with former WD-40 CEO, Garry Ridge. The conversation revolves around personal and professional growth, cultural understanding in international business, and the importance of authenticity and purpose in leadership. Garry shares his experiences and insights on how to navigate life's journey with clarity, speed, and self-compassion. He emphasizes the significance of values, people-first mindset, and effective communication in achieving success. Garry gives personal anecdotes from his career and life, and mentions key factors in building positive relationships and gaining respect in international business.

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. Episode 209 is the 41st monthly feature of “Our Voices,” intended to accelerate social change that levels the playing field—helping everyone live to their full potential. The aim is for you to see a bit of yourself in these journeys, and embrace—we’re more similar than not. In this episode, Molly is joined by Evan Wolfson, who founded and led the Freedom to Marry campaign; winning marriage equality in the U.S. after a 30+ year battle. Sharing Evan’s world-changing movement wraps four years with VoiceAmerica. Thank you for the amazing opportunity to amplify so many amazing voices! Evan joins the show to share the story of his long battle for marriage rights, dating back to his time in college, where he wrote his thesis on same-sex marriage long before it was in the national conversation. He’d move on to appear before the supreme court, write a book on “Why Marriage Matters”, and found Freedom to Marry. As a kid, Evan saw law as a means to politics, government and shaping history—hear his career path to literally doing so. Many gems from his fight for marriage, and his mentality when faced with setbacks and feeling like the world is against him. Don’t miss Evan’s thoughts on what being an activist means, as well as how he felt when the battle for same-sex marriage rights was won with similar reasoning to his 1983 thesis. Then, we talk a bit about what’s next in the fight for a better world. Evan inspires us to know no boundaries and to commit to taking action so that all can be safe, seen and heard, and our true best selves. Molly’s thought for the week from renowned meditation teacher, Shinzen Young: “Untangle and be free.”

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. Here is Episode 208 for you, featuring Paul Lambdin, owner of North Carolina staple Cary Car Care. Paul joins the show to share his story, from a struggle-filled childhood that had him and his brothers in a constant battle with his alcoholic father, to becoming an entrepreneur with a success story that will leave you inspired. Tune in to hear key moments and turning points from Paul’s come-up, as well as lessons he learned along the way on teamwork, self-belief and communication. Don’t miss Paul’s reflections on his journey, including an inside look on building a successful small business, how he is raising his family differently than he was raised, and how he finally let go of anger he’d been holding inside for a long time. Paul inspires us to know no boundaries and to commit to taking action so that all can be safe, seen and heard, and our true best selves. Molly’s thought for the week: The gap between knowing what you want and going after it is where fear thrives. You don’t need enough courage for the entire journey. You only need courage for the next step.

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. Here is Episode 207 for you, featuring Top 100 Most Influential Yoga Teacher Alison West. Alison joins the show for a conversation about what she’s done, how she got there, and her biggest epiphanies along the way. She’s studied in almost every major yogic lineage including in India with the Iyengars and with Sri K. Pattabhi Jois. She’s taught since the 80s and more recently founded “Yoga Union”, a premier NYC studio, as well as Yoga Union Backcare & Scoliosis Center. Don’t miss hearing the ups and downs of Alison’s journey, including an in depth look at moments of spiritual awakening, the process of learning and re-learning when it comes to different yoga lineages, and how she was drawn to yoga after originally being invested into ballet. Alison inspires us to know no boundaries and to commit to taking action so that all can be safe, seen and heard, and our true best selves. Molly’s thought for the week: “Increase the peace.”

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. Here is Episode 206 for you – respected Canadian Armed Forces Officer Kelly Williamson’s unlikely journey inspires us to live up to our own potential. Kelly joins the show to share her story, starting with the massive change of scenery brought about by joining a military college after graduating from a performing arts high school. Hear captivating stories and insights from her journey throughout the process of attending military school and becoming an officer for the Canadian Armed Forces. She shares first-hand accounts of assisting with humanitarian aid in Afghanistan in 2011, Haiti in 2010, and Nepal in 2015. Don’t miss hearing lessons that Kelly learned along her amazing career, including the necessity of not being too proud to ask for help, and accepting that you might not “fit the mold.” Molly’s thought for the week (Thanks, Kelly): “Be kind, be brave, be you.”

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. Episode 205 features successful professionals and what’s top of mind for them. Molly’s first caller, Kris, is facing a situation that’s challenging emotionally and a significant new responsibility as he steps in to handle his grandmother’s finances. The bureaucracy, change of financial advisors, lack of responsiveness, and errors are extremely frustrating, yet he’s got to make it work. He and Molly talk about ways to reset his own mindset, so that Kris can create a productive relationship with the new advisor. Hear him reflect on his tendencies and embrace taking a step back to create space to move forward in a better way. Next Onwar, who is early in career, opens up about a defining career moment! He is in an apprentice program and being considered for a permanent position (which would be a gamechanger in his ability to support his family). He shares his non-traditional path into software engineering, as the college route proved not to be a fit for him, and learnings in navigating the corporate workplace. He and Molly talk about his strategy to understand the evaluation process and how best to position himself. And don’t miss Onwar’s openness to new ideas for how to reach out to his boss’ boss (16:15). Then Hugi is keen to reach out for paid board and consulting assignments and utilize his risk, automation and multicultural expertise. Molly suggests informational interviewing as a way to get to know organizations and building relationships to have an internal sponsor. With Latino heritage Hugi also asks about diversity as a dimension he brings. Molly offers thoughts for him in considering how an organization values diversity in the broadest sense and to be specific about the ways he can be value add (37:10). Tune in and learn how to navigate work and life while being invaluable and true to yourself! Molly’s thought for the week: “You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.” And—she invites you to check out her 1st LinkedIn Learning course, “Leadership Communication in the Flow of Work.” In this post, click on the LinkedIn Learning logo under the video (on the left) to access free for 24 hours. https://www.linkedin.com/posts/mollytschang_sayitskillfully-communicationskills-passion-activity-7099873982077657088-L-qC?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. Here is Episode 204 for you – don’t miss the brilliant Bob Roth, widely considered one of the leading experts on Transcendental Meditation. Molly and Bob sit down and go over what meditation is, and how it can work for anyone, regardless of whether or not you believe in it. Hear all about Focus, Open Monitoring, and Self-Transcending, the three main branches of meditation. Bob explains he came to meditation in 1969, a time when those who practiced were “certifiably weird,” and even though he was “a practical sort of guy,” he had so much trust in and respect for his teacher, that he opened himself up to learning. Now, in 2023, he has devoted his life to bringing Transcendental Meditation to a million and counting children. Bob says his journey started as a way to lessen his stress and has ended up as “a tool to help make a big difference in the world.” Don’t miss Bob reminiscing on the 60s and 70s, reflecting on how meditation became a widespread movement back then, and maybe even saved his generation. The cultural uproar Bob remembers will help you fully understand why meditation going mainstream came at the perfect moment. Bob talks about how inspiring Maharishi Mahesh Yogi was to him because while everyone else fixated on his working with The Beatles, and that level of star-power could have gotten to his head, Maharishi Mahesh Yogi stayed completely focused on researching how meditation was beneficial to physical and mental health. Bob expands on what these health benefits are, explaining how he has helped establish forums for top medical researchers to look into the correlation between meditation and better health. Bob wraps up this episode by sharing his two keys to success in all areas of life. Tune in to hear what they are! Don’t miss this wisdom-filled episode of Say It Skillfully®! Molly’s thought for the week: Your body hears everything your mind says — Naomi Judd P.S. Bob leads to his full potential by communication to influence and inspire! To help you do the same, I created my 1st LinkedIn Learning course, “Leadership Communication in the Flow of Work.” Here’s the link for free 24-hour access bit.ly/3sETIgg

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. Here is Episode 203 for you – don’t miss the inspiring economist, Jeremy Bess, whose journey to success reminds us all to never give up, regardless of the adversities we may face. Jeremy reflects on his challenging teenage years, when he was functionally homeless and dependent on friends and his brother for a place to sleep. His decision to study economics at the University of Tampa was motivated by these years of uncertainty. This choice brought him to advising Fortune 500 companies starting when he was just 24 years old. Often facing push back for being so young in rooms full of older C-suite level executives, Jeremy now tries to lend a hand to the next generation interested in economics. Listen as Jeremy looks back and reflects on periods of stress and self-doubt. Today, he says, “I felt confident that if I just kept going that it would slowly figure itself out, which it kind of did.” Putting faith in yourself and luck has paid off big time! Tune in to hear Jeremy reflect on the philosophies of economics and how they affect your everyday life. His conversation with Molly developed into discussing how COVID was a shock, not just to him, but to the global economy. He tells how he thinks it changed the game, and how we are still feeling effects from this hit today. He offers advice on how to grow your business in a way that can last. Don’t miss this inspiring episode! Jeremy empowers us all to trust in ourselves and work hard. Molly’s thought for the week (Thank you Jeremy): Just work really, really hard. Keep going. P.S. Jeremy leads to his full potential by communication to influence and inspire! To help you do the same, I created my 1st LinkedIn Learning course, “Leadership Communication in the Flow of Work.” Here’s the link for free 24-hour access bit.ly/3sETIgg

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. Episode 202 is the 40th monthly feature of “Our Voices,” intended to accelerate social change that levels the playing field—helping everyone live to their full potential. The aim is for you to see a bit of yourself in these journeys, and embrace—we’re more similar than not. In this episode, Molly is joined by Nozipho Tshabalala, a conversation strategist and global moderator. Nozi reflects on growing up in South Africa under Nelson Mandela, and how she inherited her parents’ strident work ethic. Their dedication to her education helped Nozi always set the highest bar for herself, fueled by “failing was not an option for me.” You’ll be surprised by how she picked her major! Her inner confidence stems from what her parents instilled: “I am smart, but I am capable, and I’m teachable.” Hear Nozi’s unlikely foray into one of the world’s biggest conglomerates, Tata Group (from none other than its chairman)! This led to unexpectedly shooting a documentary for CNBC Africa. She was on screen for only 15 seconds, but those 15 seconds changed her life. Only two weeks after the documentary aired, she was offered a news anchor position with CNBC Africa, covering development and finance (compelling her to delve into topics she knew zero about). Nozi knew the first time she moderated live that it was her calling. “Conversations are the birthplace of action, and in the absence of conversation, we absolutely get nothing done.” Today, family reigns supreme for Nozi. She has an intellectual match in her husband and a gift of a son. With her hard-earned stability, she paid for her mother to return to and graduate college as a newly certified teacher. Balancing motherhood on top of her constant travel for business is one of Nozi’s self-described top accomplishments. Don’t miss this inspiring episode. Nozi empowers us all to aim high and land high. Learn more at: http://www.theconversationstrategist.com/ and follow @therealnozi Molly’s thought for the week – a lyric that inspires Nozi, from Whitney Houston and Mariah Carey: “We were moving mountains long before we knew could.” P.S. Nozi leads to her full potential by communication to influence and inspire! To help you do the same, Molly created a 1st LinkedIn Learning course, “Leadership Communication in the Flow of Work.” Here’s the link for free 24-hour access bit.ly/3sETIgg

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. Episode 201 features successful professionals and what’s top of mind for them. Listen to the full episode— Say It Skillfully: https://www.sayitskillfully.com/podcasts Laura from Connecticut (not NY...) calls in first for a new approach to a team member who delivers the sales numbers, BUT also over-delivers on negativity. This is not helping the team dynamic. Laura sees the person trying but the 2 steps forward and 3 back isn’t cutting it. Hear a few new strategies, including clarifying consequences for behavior that don’t serve the greater good.. Then Sean, after a fulfilling career in the military, opens up about his transition to private sector. He’s mindful of the culture shift and keen not to communicate in ways that may come across as “harsh.” He and Molly talk about the positives of experiencing a very different environment and embracing it so that the organization fully benefits from Sean being new and seeing things differently (13:35) Finally, Sophie shares her struggles in figuring out the appropriate approach to negotiating total compensation in start-up environments. An experienced COO, she reflects on the early days of leaving way too much on the table, as well as pivoting to the other extreme. Don’t miss a lively chat on making the most of comp discussions, including gaining key information around the people and culture fit that are crucial to assessing if an opportunity is right for you (33:35). Tune in and learn how to navigate work and life while being invaluable and true to yourself. Molly’s thought for the week: “Make a choice to build a life you don’t regularly need to escape from.” —Venus Williams And—Molly invites you to check out her 1st LinkedIn Learning course, “Leadership Communication in the Flow of Work.” In this post, click on the LinkedIn Learning logo under the video (on the left) to access free for 24 hours. https://www.linkedin.com/posts/mollytschang_sayitskillfully-communicationskills-passion-activity-7099873982077657088-L-qC?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop

Say It Skillfully® is the show where Molly Tschang expertly guides you in how to honestly speak your mind at work in the most positive and productive manner. In milestone Episode 200, Molly’s guest is her mentor, Marshall Goldsmith. An executive coach to some of the biggest CEOs in the world and an author and editor to 55 books with over 3-million copies sold, Marshall shares his wisdom inspired by his Buddhist practice. One of the earliest believers in Say It Skillfully®, Marshall says Molly’s dedication to effective communication stuck with him. Saying what you mean is the key to making a positive difference. Marshall talks about finding long-term happiness and using his Buddhist principles as a guiding star. Molly gets some live coaching from Marshall on the importance of happiness in the moment. He says people have to choose to be happy every day. Marshall speaks on how his Buddhist beliefs have impacted his coaching process, influencing his clients to “let go of the past, develop adaptability, and find joy in the present moment.” Molly and Marshall wrap up by talking about making a positive impact on other people’s lives and personal legacy! Tune in to hear about MarshallBot, and how Marshall Goldsmith envisions his technological alter-ego will live on. Molly’s thought for the week ( the 1st thing she learned from Marshall) Let it go.

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. Episode 199 features successful professionals and what’s top of mind for them. Chris kicks the show off, and Molly is thrilled to hear his growth from when he first joined her on January 7, 2020! He’s upfront about where he was—obsessing about the “title” before the person was getting inside his own head and holding him back. He opens up about his journey to greater self-awareness, and one of his challenges now, getting buy-in from team members. As he’s in project management, leading and navigating change is a constant, and Molly shares some tips. Next Kiera raises a common question, “How exactly do I know when to say something vs. just keep quiet because it’s not so big of a deal?” Molly and Kiera unpack a situation many can relate to—how to handle roommates with varying ideas of what “neat, clean and tidy” are! Kiera shares her learnings in considering others are “just like me” and offers how greater kindness toward herself helps her be more kind to others. “Transparency is your friend” is one of her top takeaways (19:15). Then Yody (thanks for taking Molly’s LinkedIn course!) is keen to push her boss, but not seem pushy! She is eager to build her technical skill, though an outreach to her boss for additional development has been unanswered. She and Molly consider different lenses for Jyoti to see the situation through, including how she can see herself differently. And she’s game on to actually record herself in order to gain awareness for how others might perceive her (36:45)! Tune in to these courageous human beings and learn how to navigate work and life while being invaluable and true to yourself.

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. In Episode 198, Molly is joined by her friend Jason Castano, a shining example of a young person who took the bull by the horns, found his passions and never stopped believing in what was possible. For Jason’s parents the only way to leave Colombia with hope of America was entrusting a total stranger with their lives and life savings to fly to Mexico, swim across a river at night with their young daughter, fly to California, and then to New York. His father made $3/hour washing dishes and his mother was a maid. Jason overwhelmingly recalls gratitude for their “hard work” and a happy childhood, always having what he needed. Admittedly shy, skinny and insecure as a child, Jason talks about being bullied and then transformed by being part of a karate fight team. He reflects about the opportunity to be top 8 out of 300 as the first time he really wanted something. The good fortune of joining a military program for high schoolers completed his metamorphosis to a self-confident, strong youth with a new lease on life. Hear how Jason played the long game in boldly embarking on his first career as a physical trainer, which took him on private jets and a chance to see the world. Living his core values with his clients, endless work ethic and penchant to always exceed expectations helped him break through. And in 2015 when a client offered him an opportunity to move into real estate, Jason found his “dream job” as portfolio asset manager and agent for River 2 River Realty. Hear how he now supports family members to immigrate and make better lives for themselves. Many nuggets to be gleaned from Jason’s journey! Don’t miss how he was “chest up, shoulders back” and always grateful when people entrusted him. Jason inspires us to be the very best versions of ourselves. Molly’s thought for the week – a quote from his uncle that keeps Jason alive and motivated, “Be a creature of progression”. p.s. Jason is on his way to leading with his full potential. To help you do the same, check out Molly’s 1st LinkedIn Learning course, “Leadership Communication in the Flow of Work.” Here’s the link for free 24-hr access bit.ly/3sETIgg

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. Episode 197 is the 39th monthly feature of “Our Voices,” intended to accelerate social change that levels the playing field—helping everyone live to their full potential. The aim is for you to see a bit of yourself in these journeys, and embrace—we’re more similar than not. In this episode, Molly is joined by global humanitarian volunteer, Alison Thompson, whose journey inspires us to serve our community and world in ways we may never have imagined! Growing up in Australia, her father a preacher, Alison moved frequently in a missionary lifestyle and she found herself most comfortable in her early habitats of developing world and jungle.. She recalls her parents’ unconditional love and beaming love into the eyes of those in need, though she thought she’d grow up, have a candy store and four kids, vs. immerse herself in helping people in refugee camps! Along her way to her dream role, Alison’s career took her to nursing, math teacher, investment banker and film school. She implores, “Don’t be scared to take a new path!” On September 11th, 2001 Alison lost 64 friends and that day changed her life trajectory. She worked for 9 months as a first responder at Ground Zero and shares how she managed to cope and then to thrive after something so senseless. In founding “Third Wave Volunteers”—30,000 medical and non-medical volunteers on the ground responding to disasters globally—Alison takes you through mistakes, learnings and the highs and lows. Hear how each of us can make a difference! She shares her experience with large aid organizations and the power of a hug that doesn’t let go. Hers is a love story (and how she met the love of life—hear how they make their relationship work). No surprise, Alison believes that the secret to happiness is service to others. Don’t miss this moving episode. She inspires us all to know no boundaries and to commit to taking action so that all can be safe, seen and heard, and our true best selves. Learn more and support here: https://thirdwavevolunteers.com/ (including her award-winning documentary “The Third Wave” that chronicles her volunteering in Sri Lanka after the tsunami and book). Molly’s thought for the week—Thank you Alison! “It’s easy to be in the wrong place at the wrong time, but it’s leadership to be at the wrong place at the right time. P.S. Alison leads to her full potential by communicating to influence and inspire! To help you do the same, I created my 1st LinkedIn Learning course, “Leadership Communication in the Flow of Work.” Here’s the link for free 24-hr access bit.ly/3sETIgg

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. In Episode 196, Molly is joined by one of the world’s greatest leaders, Alan Mulally, who led Boeing to the global leader of commercial airplanes and Ford to the #1 automotive brand in the USA. Alan shares his leadership journey and his “Working Together” System, honed as he’s led hundreds of thousands of people in creating value for all the stakeholders and the greater good. We dedicate this episode to the indomitable Frances Hesselbein, who taught us: “Work is love made visible.” “Who you are as a person is going to have more to do with your leadership, service and contribution than anything else.” The foundation of Alan’s life of service started at home in Lawrence, Kansas. He reminisces about the daily words impressed upon him by his parents, not least of which included: “Remember Alan, to serve is to live.” “Seek to understand before you seek to be understood.” “It's nice to be important. But it's more important to be nice.” If you don’t hear it for yourself, it may be hard to believe Alan’s career path… He recounts an early epiphany as bag checker at the grocery store—from humble beginnings and struggling to fit in, to the very top echelons of business Alan was always guided by humility, love and service. He delves into how being grounded in your authentic self is the key to saying it skillfully (authenticity = alignment between your beliefs, values and behaviors). And Alan offers how being who you are and developing an integrated life (vs. balancing work and life) has made all the difference! Don’t miss learning about Alan’s Working Together Strategic, Operational and Stakeholder-center System, which has underpinned his and his organizations’ success. Reference materials will be available on Molly’s LinkedIn post https://www.linkedin.com/in/mollytschang/ for you to follow along and help you put the system into practice. Join Alan and Molly in being the change you want to see in our world! Be a “Working Together” Leader—I to we and me to service! Molly’s thought for the week (Thank you Alan’s Mom): The purpose of life: love and be loved—in that order! P.S. To help you in “Working Together”, amp up how you communicate as a leader! Take Molly’s 1st LinkedIn Learning course, “Leadership Communication in the Flow of Work.” Here’s the link for free 24-hr access bit.ly/3sETIgg

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. Episode 195 is another edition of “Top Talks from the Top”. Do yourself a big favor and take in the many, many gems that Harry Kraemer generously shares, not least of which is tapping into the power of self-reflection. Over a 23-year career at Baxter International, he went from finance whiz literally to Chairman & CEO. The eldest of 5, Harry recalls moving every few years as his dad was a salesman and growing up “fairly religious.” His Uncle Francis was a priest, which was his first career choice (that didn’t exactly manifest). Harry shares the pivotal moment with his to-be father-in-law that set him on a trajectory he’d never imagined! Young Harry learned how silence can be a pretty good thing, such that for the past 4+ decades, he self-reflects for 15 minutes every single day. It’s made all the difference as he doesn’t suffer from “worry, fear, anxiety, pressure, and stress!” Harry talks openly about how to be when things are going well, AND to consider the inevitability of when things go downhill. He’s all about “no surprises”. He walks the walk of truly valuing people and relationships and recollects fondly the opportunity to be constantly meeting people and learning from them in the 140 countries Baxter operated in. I’ve never known anyone to thrive as much in relating human to human! Don’t be surprised how Harry’s people focus contributed to his ascent at Baxter (something he NEVER envisioned). And his values-based leadership made any “tough talks” less so! Hear how he embraced his privilege and responsibility to set an example of what a good person to his 55,000 team members. You’ll be better for tuning into this refreshing conversation. Harry inspires us all to know no boundaries and to commit to taking action so that all can be safe, seen and heard, and our true and very best selves! And no time like the present to amp up your leadership communications, a core component to Harry’s sustained success in all his endeavors. Don’t miss taking Molly’s 1st LinkedIn Learning course, “Leadership Communication in the Flow of Work.” Here’s a link for free 24-hr access https://www.linkedin.com/posts/mollytschang_sayitskillfully-communicationskills-passion-activity-7099873982077657088-L-qC?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop Hope it helps you lead to your full potential. Happy learning!

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. Episode 194 features callers earlier in their professional careers and what’s top of mind for them. My first caller, Henry, is right out of college and into his first ever full-time job! He’s wondering about approaching superiors and peers, how to bring up new ideas, find ways to shine and add in a meaningful way to the culture. Hear the incredible maturity of someone new to the workforce (and enjoy a hit of optimism for the future of work). Henry also shares tips for how organizations ensure they don’t miss out on top talent! Then Robert, who’s been working about nine years, opens up about leaving a company when he realized he wasn’t perceived or treated the way he wanted to be (after attempting to turn things around). Should he have tried harder to change groups vs. change jobs? Did he leave in the right way? We revisit his experience and talk about what he might have considered and what to take into his new role (26:45). Tune in and hear what’s top of mind for early-in-career professionals—learn how to navigate work while being invaluable and true to yourself. Molly’s thought for the week: Do or do not. There is no try. —Yoda And for leaders, please don’t miss taking Molly’s 1st LinkedIn Learning course, “Leadership Communication in the Flow of Work.” Here’s a link for free 24-hr access https://www.linkedin.com/posts/mollytschang_sayitskillfully-communicationskills-passion-activity-7099873982077657088-L-qC?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop Hope it helps you to lead to your full potential. Happy learning!

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. In Episode 193 Molly’s guest is Nashville Hall of Fame singer-songwriter, Tony Arata, and his unexpected journey to the limelight of his craft, without that ever being his intention. Being “last of the litter” with 4 older siblings, Tony shares, “my parents were the best role models ever… mom with a 5th, and dad, a 3rd grade education.” Pivotal moments are a theme—a chance gift of a $50 guitar from his brother with a treasure trove of all his siblings’ albums are what ignited Tony’s musical interest and “fancying to be songwriter.” Hear how Aretha Franklin’s R-E-S-P-E-C-T and 11th grade English teacher Sally Scott putting Steinbeck’s Grapes of Wrath in his hands were pivotal in his epiphany: “Songs come from people, not the radio or albums.” Moving from Columbia, SC to Tybee, GA in 11th grade, Tony recalls, “I had no friends in Tybee; my guitar and music were my friends.” He learned by voraciously listening to music and reading lyrics. Chuckle as you hear how Tony (journalism major in college) lied his way to his first job as writer… about buses. And the rest is history. A few of many gems: True peace is found when doing what you enjoy for no other reason than it helps define you and brings you peace That kid learning to play guitar at Tybee island is the same old man amazed by the 12 notes and 26 letters. This world of music is an ever evolving process….Nobody says, “I’ve arrived”. Music is my peace, my outlet – I never had to ask permission from anyone (to write music) … do it regardless of fame—no hollow pursuit—waiting on validation to come from somewhere else. Tony gives insight into his creative process: “Write for the best idea, best song you can at the time.” And watching a lot of people “break the rules” made all the difference. He talks about his cherished family, including wife Jaymi’s game-changing role. Hear about his Tony Bennett encounter and a “do over” if he had the chance. Finally, Garth Brooks has recorded, to date, 7 of Tony’s songs. Here’s what Garth said about Tony, “He has to be one of my favorite songwriters. He’s a cat who doesn’t care about appearances. He doesn’t care about money. He cares about his children, his wife & his music. That’s neat.” Don’t miss the inspiration of Tony pursuing his craft without an end in sight… no ulterior motive, and staying true to himself as #1 songs, #1 albums and Grammy nominations manifested. Learn about succeeding in and navigating life on your terms. Molly’s thought for the week: Nobody can do everything, but everybody can do something. —Tony Arata

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. Episode 192 is proof our passions in life can come seemingly out of nowhere. Molly’s friend Mark Axelowitz takes us behind the scenes of his life journey—making his way to and excelling in a Wall Street career and then (when least expected) a surprise acting career, starring opposite none other than Robert De Niro three times! When Mark was 9, his father lost the entire family savings in the stock market. All 4 kids had no choice but to work. Mark delivered newspapers and caddied, and it was his flourishing landscaping business over a decade that covered his clothes, cars and saving for college. He recalls the deep embarrassment—worst house, worst car, having almost no furniture. While his father, who lived until 101, said losing everything was the best thing that could have happened because he had 4 children who weren’t spoiled, Mark learned at a young age the necessity of making money. Staying home for college was the only option, taking 3 jobs: mowing lawns, packing trucks for UPS and working in the Hofstra computer center. Hear Mark recount his early roles and never looking back after his brash foray onto Wall Street. He became a top financial advisor, working with many of the most successful hedge funds, private equity funds and key players in entertainment. I won’t spoil how Mark’s 2nd career in acting transpired—you have to hear it to believe it. Don’t miss how Mark epitomizes leaning into discomfort (a.k.a. freakin’ out) as the path to growth. Married 34 years, in business with a partner he’s known 43, relationships have been Mark’s bedrock, as has serving his community. Mark shares (while not his intention) “100%—I owe my success to giving back … without philanthropy I’d never have met Ray Dalio, Bill Ackman, … or been an actor.” The moral of Mark’s amazing journey: “helping others is the best way to help yourself.” Tune in for his many inspiring learnings to succeed on your terms and learn how to navigate life while being invaluable and true to yourself. And be on the lookout for Mark in the release of Wise Guys February 2024 (bit.ly/3qkXtXr) Molly’s thought for the week (a favorite of Mark’s) The true measure of a man is not by how many servants he has but how many men he serves.” —D.L. Moody

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. Episode 191 is a juicy one: handling when leaders bad mouth one another and won’t embrace change in themselves, and a candid conversation re: big corporate communication blunders—is the pendulum on inclusion swinging too far … anything the rank and file might do? Molly’s first caller Mary is a clear example of “being part of the solution”. Prioritizing creating 1:1 connections, no surprise she’s trusted by folks senior and junior—they tell it like it is to her. She shares her frustration with the authoritative/directive style of a leader (that’s not serving him or the team), and flagrant “bad behaviors” of leaders that everyone knows don’t get along! Molly offers options to take this head on. Then Phyllis calls in with how she can approach her CEO and co-founder, who unapologetically treats junior staff in ways where they don’t feel respected. She and Molly discuss how to ascertain what drives the CEO, enabling Phyllis to confront the situation and serve both the organization’s culture and its ability to deliver both financial results and social impact (23:50). Next Gary bravely raises the elephant on the table—when a big corporate campaign intended to advocate for greater inclusion falls completely flat, so much so that the fall-out results in very bad PR, brand damage and plummeting sales. The conversation turns to how such “catastrophes” happen and what brave souls can do to potentially avoid such impending train crashes. They get real about understandable fear “white males” have about using their voices and how to settle the pendulum swing to perhaps less extremes (33:50). Molly’s thought for the week: You will continue to suffer if you have an emotional reaction to everything that is said to you. True power is sitting back and observing things with logic. True power is restraint. If words control you that means everyone else can control you. Breathe and allow things to pass. —Warren Buffet (Thanks to the culture coach, the brilliant Garry Ridge, for sharing)

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. Episode 190 professionals who know their boundaries call in with how they’re willing to “say no” when something is not ok and to make career transitions to stay true to themselves! Working in IT, Alex calls in about a dodgy situation in which his boss and boss’s boss are at odds—with Alex in the middle (sigh). “Transparency is our friend” proves again to be the answer. Hear how transparency of both bosses’ “radio silence” also helped Alex make a brave, and right, call to leave a culture that wasn’t consistent with his values. Hear how he let one door close to open an unexpected new one, and has not looked back! Then Mary, who has worked in many aspects of healthcare, takes us through her own epiphany working for an executive who seemed to have two very different personalities (warm and harsh). Crediting her foray into studying (and teaching) mindfulness, she shares how she was able to deliberately step back—with an open heart— and pivot her approach with this leader to create a dramatically different relationship, both 1:1 and in group meetings. Mary also shares how she made the call to leave a “bad boss” (22:40). Finally, Tony, who works in the public sector, opens up about his own journey as he’s a “leader of leaders” and developing what that looks like. He’s candid about his areas of growth—ceding control, setting expectations and engendering trust. In building Tony’s team, he and Molly talk about vulnerability as a must for trust, and connecting as human beings (all with strengths and weaknesses) to support each other’s success. “Measuring” our degree of connection/relationship also came up, and Molly offers ways to consider this both quantitatively and qualitatively (39:20). Enjoy these thought-provoking conversations—learn how to navigate work while being invaluable and true to yourself. Molly’s thought for the week: “Mindset is everything. The way you look at the world is the way it appears. Telling yourself you are capable, confident and going to crush the day with kindness not only lets you change your world but the world of everyone around you..” —Garry Ridge

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. Episode 189 is the 38th monthly feature of “Our Voices,” intended to accelerate social change that levels the playing field—helping everyone live to their full potential. In hearing the life journeys of people you might not otherwise encounter, you’ll gain empathetic understanding for what may be a very different experience of what it means to grow up, go to school, struggle, work and live in our world. The aim is for you to see a bit of yourself in these journeys, and embrace—we’re more similar than not. In this episode, Molly is joined by Abeer Abu Ghaith, a champion in social activism and creating economic opportunities for her fellow Palestinians and people in the MENA region through her entrepreneurial ventures and technological knowledge. Abeer joins the show to share her story, living in a refugee camp until age 12 and being in a conflict zone the majority of her life. She opens up about personal struggles and the ups and downs of being the “first high-tech women entrepreneur” in Palestine. Don’t miss insights from a bright soul who sees doors where others see walls. Abeer inspires us to know no boundaries and to commit to taking action so that all can be safe, seen and heard.

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. In Episode 188, Molly’s long-time friend and former Cisco colleague Larry McManus shares how he made a mid-career change from big corporate life to running his own show, and has never looked back! As a youth, Larry learned work ethos and drive to chart his own path. His dad, growing up poor in NYC and trained as a doctor through the US Army, was very hard on him and 3 siblings; his mom provided business sense as the firm household manager. Moving 5 times in just 7-½ years, Larry learned adapting and starting over. This was also reinforced by a pivotal time in 7th grade. Partners of his father’s medical practice reneged on their promise to make him partner. At that point, his parents chose to control their destiny—to leave Columbia, SC for the town of Newbury and start a private practice. Struggling in school with the prospect of a nightmare 8th grade, Larry made the ask to be in Newbury before the rest of the family joined. He recounts fondly of being roommates with his dad. They lived just above the office and Larry did the cooking! Entrepreneurship was part of growing up. Larry and his brother always had money-making schemes, like collecting aluminum cans out of golf course trash cans or selling golf balls, and learned first-hand about financing a business as their parents signed a 13% note! Following his father’s footsteps, Larry opens up about facing that medicine was NOT going to be his thing, and how to tell his dad. Thanks to cultivating strong mentors, Larry got his real estate license during college. Don’t miss his remarkable ascent from intern to managing his mentors’ firm at age 20—the power of speaking up! More twists and turns led Larry to international real estate and then into mergers and acquisitions! Always, his keen business sense, practical problem-solving, and strong people skills opened new doors. Larry talks about the reality in balancing family and work and one of his hardest life decisions, to leave corporate life at Cisco and embark on his own investment advisory firm (which in hindsight he was purpose-built to do). Tune in for many inspiring learnings to succeed on his terms and learn how to navigate life while being invaluable and true to yourself. Molly’s thought for the week: Mistakes are the portals of discovery –James Joyce Listen to the full episode here: *Say It Skillfully: https://www.sayitskillfully.com/podcast *Spotify: bit.ly/44kVotr *Apple: bit.ly/3XRBrYO *Audible: bit.ly/3rsskBB And learn more about Larry and his firm’s financial planning and investment management! https://lfmwm.com/

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. Episode 187 is the 37th monthly feature of “Our Voices,” intended to accelerate social change that levels the playing field—helping everyone live to their full potential. The aim is for you to see a bit of yourself in these journeys, and embrace—we’re more similar than not. In this episode, Molly is joined by Farhana Hasan, a technology and data specialist who was a senior leader in global aviation for almost 20 years. At Delta Air Lines she led the technology implementation for partnership development, responsible for technology implementation with 23 different airlines around the world. She joins the show to talk about her journey and give an inside look at HerWILL, which she founded to highlight and elevate talented women for better opportunities. Don’t miss insights from a long-time leader and advocate for women. Farhana inspires us all to know no boundaries and to commit to taking action so that all can be safe, seen and heard, and our true best selves. Molly’s thought for the week: When there’s a WILL, there’s a way.

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. Episode 186 features Brian Requarth, who joins the show to share his rollercoaster entrepreneurial journey, including the ups and downs of co-founding Viva Real, which faced early fundraising problems, saw Brian step down as CEO to be more present in his family life, and eventually sold for over $600 million. He also talks about what he’s up to nowadays, such as how he enables other entrepreneurs to succeed. Don’t miss insights from his long career, including the importance of being comfortable with rejection (which he learned from working a telemarketer job), how necessity forces creative solutions, and the power of vulnerability and transparency as an entrepreneur. Brian inspires us all to know no boundaries and to commit to taking action so that all can be safe, seen and heard, and our true best selves. Molly’s thought for the week: If you want money, ask for advice; if you want advice, ask for money. We don’t get there alone.

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. Episode 185 features callers from around the world unpacking their challenging conversations with Molly. First, Grace rejoins the show after two years, having earned her PhD, which included time in Los Angeles and South Africa. She compares and contrasts her experiences as a Chinese academic professional. While her US education was primarily with white men and women, she gained greater appreciation for how diverse the US is compared to her time in Africa. Then Natalie, who hails from Malta and currently lives in Qatar, shares her myriad transitions in supporting her husband’s career moves—a bounty of learnings in earning two master degrees, numerous career shifts and raising two boys. She talks about the power of self-reflection in her journey, struggles to prioritize her own self-care, and how service and philanthropy have ultimately given her more than she feels she’s given to others (16:05). And Roger exudes gratitude for finally landing his dream job in academia, which includes creating opportunities to support underrepresented youths and create on ramps to higher education. Many unexpected twists, turns and disappointments along the way to his latest triumph. In his latest move, while being the lone male on a team with 11 women might not seem so easy, hear what presented the most challenge for Roger in taking on his latest role (30:30)! The show wraps with everyone’s thoughts on how diversity is a win-win. Indeed we best “serve the whole” by learning to embrace our differences and gain empathy for each other’s human experience. Enjoy these thought-provoking conversations.—learn how to navigate work while being invaluable and true to yourself. Molly’s thought for the week: “Energy flows from commitment.” —George Leonard

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. Episode 184 features the inspiring Dave Clark. Dave joins the show to share a healthy dose of inspiration with his story of overcoming the odds. He was diagnosed with Polio at 10 months old but didn’t let that stop him from dreaming AND doing. Through hard work and dedication, Dave proved himself worthy of a shot in the minor leagues where he had a 17 year playing career, finding success as the only player in professional sports history to pitch from crutches. Don’t miss insights and stories from Dave’s journey, including his mindset as a child with Polio, how he found brotherhood in his teammates after being just “tolerated” to start, and what went down in his career highlight game. Dave inspires us all to know no boundaries and to commit to taking action so that all can be safe, seen and heard, and our true best selves.

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. Episode 183 features callers from around the world unpacking their challenging conversations with Molly. Amanda calls in first, and her company has thrived the past few years by embracing change and continues to be in high growth mode. She’s excited about change, though has team members who seem averse to it. Amanda and Molly talk through how to understand the root of the disagreement, and the difference between all “agreeing” vs “aligning” on change. They also review key conditions for successful change. Next Ray, who works in government and leads a high-performing team, is charged up about innovating around feedback, including introducing a way to solicit 360 input from stakeholders across the organization. He’s mindful though, of not overstepping as has been in his new role for a year. Ray and Molly start with his own attitude on performance conversations, including worries, and how “transparency is our friend.” They also offer the aspirational opportunity of feedforward (Thank you Marshall Goldsmith!). (12:05) Then, Staci, who realized college wasn’t for her, and entered the trades inquiries about “climbing the corporate ladder” in a male-dominated profession without a college degree. Staci and Molly talk about her self-confidence and willingness to take the bull by the horn as tremendous assets. Keen to have her ideas taken seriously and feel heard, we go through what and how to communicate in ways where this comes through (34:10)! Don’t miss these top-of-mind conversations on all career phases—learn how to navigate work while being invaluable and true to yourself. Molly’s thought for the week: “Obstacles do not block the path, they are the path.” —Anonymous

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. In Episode 182 Molly talks with entrepreneur, executive and early-stage investor Naveed Lalani. He joins the show to share his story, starting his entrepreneurial ventures at just 10 years old after moving to the US from Pakistan. Don’t miss a heartwarming account of how Naveed took risks in pursuit of the American dream and found his own path to success. He inspires us to know no boundaries and to commit to taking action so that all can be safe, seen and heard, and our true best selves.

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. In Episode 181, Molly talks with Jason Reid, a successful leader, entrepreneur and CEO coach who became an activist on a mission to end teen suicide after the tragic loss of his 14-year-old son. He’s an amazing advocate for owning our kid’s mental health and will share what he’s learned about himself and others through his organization, “Tell My Story”. Don’t miss an inside look at an emotional journey that will leave you inspired to know no boundaries and to commit to taking action so that all can be safe, seen and heard, and our true best selves. For more about Tell My Story, visit https://www.chooselife.org/home.

Say It Skillfully® is a show that helps you to benefit from Molly Tschang’s expert guidance on the best possible ways to speak your mind at work in a positive and productive manner. Episode 180 is the 36th monthly feature of “Our Voices,” intended to accelerate social change that levels the playing field—helping everyone live to their full potential. The aim is for you to see a bit of yourself in these journeys, and embrace—we’re more similar than not. In this episode, Molly is joined by Grace Francisco. Grace is a sought-after speaker, CMO and Head of Developer Relations at Pangea and was previously the VP of Developer Strategy at Cisco. Grace joins the show to share her journey, opening up about her struggle with making friends in her early years—crediting American TV as her human connection. Don’t miss her inspiring evolution of going from “painfully shy” to speaking to thousands of people on center stage. Grace includes her tips on being comfortable in your own skin, as well as insights from her leadership roles throughout the years. She inspires us all to know no boundaries and to commit to taking action so that all can be safe, seen and heard, and our true best selves. Sharing my thought for the week, on embracing diversity, from President Martha Pollack at Cornell University (Thank you Robert Glazer for sharing!): “Learning to engage with difficult and challenging ideas is a core part of a university education: essential to our students’ intellectual growth, and to their future ability to lead and thrive in a diverse society. As such, permitting our students to opt out of all such encounters, across any course or topic, would have a deleterious impact both on the education of the individual student and on the academic distinction of a Cornell degree.”