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Strategies for Living

Strategies for Living began in 1992 as a daily radio program on KEEL Radio in Shreveport, Louisiana focusing on Healthy Living in Body, Mind, Spirit, and Relationships. Strategies for Living continues to run Sunday-Friday on KEEL and also now runs weekly on HealthyLife.net hosted by its originator David McMillian, Ph.D. and joined by Psychotherapist Lauren Leon McMillian, M.S. (the two also happen to be married). Strategies for Living refers to guests as LIFE STRATEGISTS. Through the years, Life Strategists have included Don Miguel Ruiz, Neale Donald Walsch, Gary Zukav, Dr. David R. Hawkins, Raymond Moody, Dr. Bruce Lipton, Dr. Eben Alexander, Amit Goswami, Kenny Loggins, Dr. William Glasser, Dr. John Diamond, Dr. Brian Weiss, Claudia Black, Dr. C. Norm Shealey, Julia Cameron, Roger Callahan (TFT), Gary Craig (EFT), Dr. Francine

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    Your Body Is Talking: What Stress Is Really Trying to Tell You

    Stress isn't just in your head; it affects your entire nervous system, body, and emotional health. In this episode of Strategies for Living, David and Lauren McMillian welcome Dr. Stacie Slabaugh of Restore Healing to explore how chronic stress impacts the body, why physical symptoms are often messages rather than problems, and practical ways to calm your nervous system, restore balance, and support natural healing. Discover why your body may be asking one simple question: Am I safe? www.restorehealing.coOriginal Airdate: 7/16/2026

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    Reincarnation, Soul Evolution, & Finding Your Life's Purpose with Kevin Ryerson

    Can exploring reincarnation help you better understand your purpose in this life? In this thought-provoking episode of Strategies for Living, David and Lauren McMillian, Gary Tiemann, and renowned intuitive and author Kevin Ryerson discuss reincarnation as a tool for personal growth, soul evolution, spiritual development, and self-discovery. Learn how past-life exploration, consciousness, karma, dharma, and spiritual technology may deepen self-awareness and unlock hidden potential.Find out more at: reincarnationresearch.comTo join Kevin's seminar: https://www.kryerson.com/Original Airdate: 7/16/2026

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    If You're Not in Therapy, You Still Need to Know These Psychological Truths

    You don't have to be in therapy to benefit from psychological insight. In this episode of Strategies for Living, David and Lauren McMillian explore essential mental health truths everyone should understand—from childhood conditioning and emotional safety to boundaries, trauma, nervous system responses, overthinking, vulnerability, and healing. Learn why high-functioning people can still struggle, how unresolved emotions shape your life, and practical mindset shifts that foster emotional resilience, healthier relationships, and lasting personal growth. Origina; Airdate: 7/14/2026

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    7 Laws of Human Psychology That Can Change Your Relationships and Your Life

    What if understanding a few simple principles of human psychology could transform your relationships, communication, and daily decisions? In this episode of Strategies for Living, Dr. David McMillan and psychotherapist Lauren Leon McMillan explore seven powerful laws of human psychology—including mirroring, reciprocity, social proof, attraction, commitment, scarcity, and authority. Discover how these timeless psychological patterns influence the way we connect, build trust, make choices, and grow into more conscious, authentic people. Whether you're interested in personal development, emotional intelligence, counseling, or simply becoming a better communicator, this conversation offers practical insights you can apply immediately.Original Airdate: 7/13/2026

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    Pendulum Healing and Intuition: Can Anyone Learn to Access Inner Wisdom? with Joan Rose Staffen

    Explore the fascinating world of pendulum healing, intuitive dowsing, and spiritual self-discovery with author and psychic healer Joan Rose Staffin. In this episode of Strategies for Living, David and Lauren McMillian discuss how pendulums can be used as tools for healing, decision-making, meditation, and personal growth. Learn about intuitive charts, Spiritual Response Therapy, energy clearing, developing intuition, and Joan's upcoming Divine Pendulum Oracle deck. Whether you're curious about pendulum dowsing or looking to deepen your spiritual practice, this conversation offers practical insights into mind-body-spirit healing and inner guidance.Original airdate: 7/9/2026

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    Why You Feel Stuck (And the Small Shifts That Change Everything)

    Feeling stuck is one of the most common human experiences, but what if you're never truly stuck at all? In this episode of Strategies for Living, Dr. David McMillian and psychotherapist Lauren Leon McMillian explore why we feel trapped, from overthinking and comparison to fear of failure, comfort zones, lack of direction, and inconsistency. Learn how perception shapes reality, why small daily changes create lasting transformation, and practical ways to reconnect with your inner compass and move forward with confidence. If you're ready to break free from feeling stuck and create meaningful change, this episode offers timeless psychological and spiritual insights.Original Airddate:7/3/2026

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    The Freedom Formula: Responsibility + Capacity + Honesty

    What does true freedom really mean? As America celebrates 250 years of independence, David and Lauren McMillian explore a deeper definition of freedom that goes beyond rights and choices. Discover the powerful "Freedom Formula"—responsibility, capacity, and honesty—and learn how these three principles work together to create genuine empowerment, healthier relationships, emotional resilience, and lasting personal growth. Drawing on psychology, Viktor Frankl's Man's Search for Meaning, and real-life counseling insights, this episode offers practical strategies for living with greater clarity, self-awareness, and purpose.Original Airdate 7/2/2026

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    Restore Healing: Moving Beyond Symptom Management to True Whole-Person Wellness

    What if healing isn't about treating symptoms, but restoring the body's natural ability to heal itself? This episode of Strategies for Living, Dr. David McMillian and Lauren Leon McMillian welcome Dr. Stacie Slabaugh to announce the evolution of Balance Life Wellness into Restore Healing. Together they explore chronic stress, nervous system regulation, inflammation, root-cause healing, holistic wellness, biofield tuning, peptides, physician-guided supplementation, and why lasting health requires caring for the whole person—body, mind, and spirit. Discover how restoration may be the missing link in your journey toward lasting wellness.Check it out at www.restorehealing.coOriginal Airdate: 7/1/2026

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    All God's Children Got Patterns: How Hidden Behaviors Shape Your Life

    Why do you keep reacting the same way, even when you want to change? In this episode of Strategies for Living, Dr. David McMillian and Lauren Leon McMillian explore the unconscious patterns that shape our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors. Learn how childhood conditioning creates patterns like the pleaser, controller, avoider, performer, and defender, and discover practical tools for recognizing these automatic responses so you can experience greater freedom, healing, mindfulness, and authentic living. Original Airdate 6/30/2026

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    How to Live So You Can Die Without Fear: The Hidden Gift of Mortality

    What if facing death could teach us how to live more fully? This week on Strategies for Living, David and Lauren McMillian welcome conscious dying pioneer Ram Dev Dale Borglum, author of How to Live So You Can Die Without Fear. Together they explore the connection between healing, mindfulness, compassion, grief, caregiving, and the deeper questions of meaning and mortality. Drawing from psychology, spirituality, Buddhism, Christianity, and decades of end-of-life work, Dale shares practical wisdom for reducing fear, embracing life, and cultivating a greater sense of wholeness. Whether you're supporting a loved one, navigating loss, or simply seeking a more meaningful life, this conversation offers powerful insights for living with greater presence, courage, and peace.Original Airdate: 6/24/2026

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    Life Through a New Lens: Where Reason, Faith, and Spiritual Experience Meet

    What happens when a lifelong skeptic begins asking different questions? This week on Strategies for Living, David and Lauren McMillian welcome author Gary Meisner to discuss his powerful new book, Life Through a New Lens: Finding God Where Reason and Faith Meet. Once a committed agnostic with a passion for science and mathematics, Gary shares the unexpected experiences that transformed his worldview and led him on a decades-long spiritual journey.Together, they explore the relationship between reason and faith, the search for meaning, spiritual awakening, the Sermon on the Mount, divine encounters, the Golden Ratio, and how life can change when we become open to a deeper reality. Whether you're a believer, skeptic, seeker, or somewhere in between, this conversation offers thoughtful insights into purpose, spirituality, and personal transformation.Original Airdate: 6/23/2026

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    The Voice of a Community: Radio, Relationships, and a Remarkable Life

    Today on Strategies for Living, David and Lauren welcome broadcasting icon and Louisiana Hall of Fame radio legend "Lovable" Larry Ryan for a heartfelt conversation about radio, leadership, community, and a life spent serving others. Larry shares stories from more than six decades behind the microphone, the history of Shreveport-Bossier broadcasting, lessons learned from building successful radio stations, and the relationships that made it all worthwhile. From local radio history and Mardi Gras traditions to reflections on retirement, purpose, and the importance of loving where you live, this is a memorable conversation with one of the most influential voices ever to grace the airwaves.Original airdate: 6/19/2026

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    Epic Parenting: Why Children Need Both Love and Limits

    What do children really need to thrive? In this episode of Strategies for Living, David and Lauren McMillian welcome life strategist Larry Valmore to discuss the foundations of emotionally healthy parenting. Drawing from his Epic Parenting framework, Larry explains why children crave structure, discipline, and clear boundaries just as much as they need love and affection. Learn the difference between discipline and punishment, why calm leadership helps children feel safe, and how parents can raise emotionally intelligent, resilient, and confident kids. Whether you're parenting a toddler, a teenager, or healing your own inner child, this conversation offers practical tools for creating stronger families and healthier relationships.Find out more at www.epicchildren.comOriginal Airdate: 6/18/2026

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    It Can Be Both: Holding Opposing Feelings Without Losing Yourself

    In this thought-provoking episode of Strategies for Living, David and Lauren McMillian explore one of life's most important emotional truths: many feelings can exist at the same time. You can be tired and still keep going. You can feel lonely and still enjoy your own company. You can experience fear and still move forward with courage. Through personal stories, psychological insights, and practical wisdom, they discuss emotional complexity, self-worth, resilience, uncertainty, authenticity, and the power of embracing both-and thinking instead of either-or thinking. Discover how holding seemingly opposite emotions can lead to greater peace, growth, and emotional freedom. Original Airdate: 6/17/2026

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    The Essenes Then and Now: Ancient Wisdom, Healing, and the Evolution of Consciousness

    Join David and Lauren McMillian, Gary Tiemann, and special guest Patrick Walsh for a fascinating exploration of the Essenes—an ancient spiritual community often associated with healing, meditation, the Dead Sea Scrolls, and preparation for the coming of the Messiah. Drawing from the work of Edgar Cayce, reincarnation research, and historical discoveries such as Qumran and the Dead Sea Scrolls, this conversation examines the Essenes' teachings on holistic healing, consciousness, prayer, meditation, and what their legacy may mean for humanity today. A thought-provoking discussion on spirituality, personal growth, and the evolution of human awareness. Original Airdate: 6/16/2026

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    Spiritual Hygiene, Part 2: Protecting Your Energy, Attention, and Soul

    In Part 2 of our Spiritual Hygiene series, David and Lauren McMillian continue exploring the daily practices that protect your energy, strengthen self-trust, and support spiritual well-being. Learn why what you consume affects your soul, how your morning routine shapes your day, why fear and haste often lead us astray, and how honoring your deeper commitments can create greater peace and clarity. Discover practical strategies for releasing what no longer serves you and ending each day with intention rather than distraction. If you're seeking emotional balance, spiritual growth, mindfulness, and a healthier relationship with yourself, this episode offers powerful tools for everyday life.Original Airdate: 6/11/2026

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    Spiritual Hygiene: Protecting Your Energy, Honoring Your Inner Voice, and Caring for the Whole Self

    What if self-care goes beyond diet, exercise, and mental health? In this thought-provoking episode of Strategies for Living, David and Lauren McMillian explore the often-overlooked practice of spiritual hygiene—the intentional care of your energy, attention, inner voice, and emotional well-being.Drawing from psychology, spirituality, personal growth, and everyday life, they discuss how honoring the connection between mind, body, and spirit can lead to greater peace, healthier boundaries, stronger intuition, and a deeper sense of purpose. Learn practical ways to protect your energy, cleanse your field of attention, stop seeking approval, and embody the love and wisdom already within you.If you've ever felt emotionally drained, overwhelmed by negativity, or disconnected from yourself, this conversation offers powerful insights for restoring balance and becoming a better steward of your life.Original Airdate: 6/10/2026

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    Sugar, Carbs, & Addiction: What If It's More Than Willpower?

    Could your cravings be more than a lack of willpower?On this episode of Strategies for Living, David and Lauren McMillian, Jay Murrell, and addiction recovery expert Dr. Jeff Sandoz explore the growing recognition of sugar and carbohydrate addiction and its impact on physical health, mental well-being, and quality of life.Dr. Sandoz discusses Sugar & Carb Addicts Anonymous (SCAA), the science behind dopamine pathways and addictive behaviors, the surprising parallels between sugar addiction and substance addiction, and why so many people struggle to break free from cravings. The conversation also examines neurotransmitters, inflammation, chronic health conditions, and the role that awareness, sacrifice, and recovery play in creating lasting change.If you've ever wondered why certain foods seem impossible to resist, or why your health may be sending warning signals, this thought-provoking conversation offers insight, hope, and practical next steps.Topics include: sugar addiction, carb addiction, addiction recovery, neurotransmitters, dopamine, holistic mental health, 12-step recovery, weight loss, inflammation, chronic illness, quality of life, and behavioral change.Original Airdate: 6/9/2026

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    Healing Career Wounds: Workplace Trauma, Burnout & Finding Your Authentic Path with Mandy Tang

    Career coach and holistic healer Mandy Tang joins David and Lauren to explore the hidden impact of workplace trauma, burnout, imposter syndrome, toxic leadership, and career dissatisfaction. Drawing from her new book, Heal Your Career Wounds, Mandy shares practical tools for recognizing career wounds, rebuilding confidence, reconnecting with purpose, and navigating an evolving job market. Discover how workplace challenges can become opportunities for personal growth, resilience, and creating a career aligned with your authentic self. Original Airdate: 6/5/2026

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    Zen Caregiving: How to Care for Others Without Losing Yourself

    How do you care for someone you love without losing yourself in the process? In this powerful episode of Strategies for Living, David and Lauren McMillian welcome educator, hospice caregiver, and author Roy Remer to discuss his new book, Zen Caregiving. Together, they explore mindfulness, grief, emotional resilience, compassion fatigue, self-care, and the deeper meaning of caregiving. Whether you're currently caring for a loved one, have been a caregiver in the past, or may become one in the future, this conversation offers practical tools and profound wisdom for navigating one of life's most meaningful roles.Original Airdate: 6/3/2026

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    Epic Parenting: Raising Resilient, Confident, and Emotionally Secure Children

    In this episode of Strategies for Living, David, and Lauren McMillian welcome parenting coach and social worker Larry Valmore, creator of Epic Parenting and founder of Epic Children. Together, they explore practical parenting strategies that help children feel secure, develop emotional intelligence, and build resilience for life. Larry shares why discipline is not punishment, how consistency reduces childhood anxiety, the importance of structure and consequences, and his powerful "Rule of Three" approach to parenting. Discover how extraordinary parents can raise confident, capable, and emotionally healthy children prepared to navigate life's challenges.Find out more at www.epicchildren.comOriginal airdate: 6/2/2026

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    The Stories We Live By: How Storytelling Shapes Our Reality, Business, and Future with Gavin McMahon

    In a world increasingly shaped by AI, what does it mean to be human? On this episode of Strategies for Living, David and Lauren McMillian sit down with author and business strategist Gavin McMahon to explore the extraordinary power of storytelling. Discover how stories influence culture, leadership, business, personal growth, and even the way we see ourselves. Learn why the stories we tell—and the stories we believe—can shape our reality, drive change, and transform our lives. Inspired by Gavin's new book, Story Business: Why Stories Rule the World and How They Can Reinvent Your Business.Original Airdate: 6/1/2026

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    Beyond Blue and White: Hidden Histories, Women, and the Stories Objects Carry with Genevieve Wheeler Brown

    What can a centuries-old blue and white ceramic teach us about history, identity, craftsmanship, and the human need for connection? 🎙️On this episode of Strategies for Living, David and Lauren McMillian welcome decorative arts advisor, Antiques Roadshow appraiser, and author Genevieve Wheeler Brown to discuss her fascinating new book, Beyond Blue and White: The Hidden History of Delftware and the Women Behind the Iconic Ceramic.Together, they explore the surprising stories hidden behind Delftware pottery, the overlooked women who shaped its history, the emotional resonance objects can carry across generations, and how art, craftsmanship, and storytelling connect us to one another through time. From global trade and cultural exchange to memory, meaning, and human creativity, this conversation reveals how ordinary objects can hold extraordinary stories.If you love history, antiques, art, women’s history, emotional storytelling, or discovering the deeper meaning behind everyday things, this episode offers a thoughtful and inspiring conversation you won’t want to miss.Original Airdate: 5/28/2026

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    Relationship Selling, Authenticity, & the Power of Human Connection with Damian Boudreaux

    On this episode of Strategies for Living, David and Lauren McMillian welcome renowned sales trainer and speaker Damian Boudreaux for a powerful conversation about relationship selling, authenticity, mindset, trauma, energy, and personal growth. More than a discussion about sales techniques, this episode explores how trust, emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and genuine human connection can transform both business and life. Damian shares insights on leadership, community, overcoming limiting beliefs, and why success begins with becoming fully yourself. For more information on the event at LSU-S call Scott Tarkowski at (318)-393-5219Original Airdate: 5/27/2026

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    Climate Changed: Hope, Sustainability, and the Power of Collective Action

    David and Lauren welcome environmental engineer, professor, scientist, and author Dr. Pablo Ribeiro Dias to Strategies for Living for a powerful conversation about climate change, sustainability, and the real solutions available to us today. Together, they explore the science behind greenhouse gases, fossil fuels, recycling, net zero, and environmental responsibility, while also addressing the guilt, overwhelm, and division many people feel around climate issues. Dr. Diaz shares practical strategies, hopeful insights, and the importance of collective action in creating meaningful environmental change. Discover how small daily choices, community involvement, and systemic solutions can help build a healthier, more sustainable future for generations to come. Original Airdate 5/26/2026

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    Healing Beyond the Surface: Mind, Body, Spirit, Exhale with Dr. Stacie Slabaugh

    On this episode of Strategies for Living, David and Lauren McMillian welcome Stacie Slabaugh, DHM, of the thebalancedlife.us⁠ for a fascinating conversation about biofield tuning, energetic healing, nervous system regulation, and the connection between mind, body, and spirit. Discover how relaxation, frequency, and holistic wellness approaches may help reduce stress, ease pain, and restore balance in everyday life. A thoughtful discussion on healing, consciousness, emotional well-being, and the power of simply learning to exhale. Original airdate: 5/22/2026

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    Money Is Weird: The Psychology, Anxiety, & Healing Behind Our Relationship with Money

    On this episode of Strategies for Living, David and Lauren McMillian welcome financial advisor and author Lev Mandel to explore the deeply emotional and psychological relationship we have with money. Inspired by his workbook Money Is Weird, the conversation dives into financial anxiety, childhood money beliefs, avoidance, gratitude, social media comparison, and how curiosity and awareness can help us create a healthier relationship with money. Discover practical insights into financial healing, emotional spending, money stress, and aligning finances with what truly matters in life.Original Airdate: 5/21/2026

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    Recovery Is More Than Quitting: Understanding the Hidden Layers of Addiction

    On this episode of Strategies for Living, Dr. David McMillian, Lauren Leon McMillian, and Jay Murrell explore the deeper realities of addiction recovery and why healing is about far more than simply “stopping.” Together, they unpack the emotional wounds, trauma, shame, family dynamics, and nervous system dysregulation that often fuel addiction. The conversation also highlights the power of group support, emotional regulation, curiosity over condemnation, and the long-term process of rebuilding identity and connection. Whether you’re personally struggling, supporting someone in recovery, or simply seeking greater understanding, this episode offers compassionate insight into the complex journey of healing.Original airdate: 5/20/2026

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    Edgar Cayce’s Timeless Health Secrets: Holistic Healing, Alkaline Balance & Mind-Body Wellness

    This episode of Strategies for Living explores the timeless wisdom of Edgar Cayce with special guest Henry Bieryla. Discover Cayce’s powerful insights on holistic healing, alkaline diets, inflammation, gut health, emotional wellness, gratitude, and the mind-body-spirit connection. Learn practical health strategies for modern living, including natural healing approaches, food balance, cleansing practices, and why Edgar Cayce’s teachings remain deeply relevant today. Original Airdate: 5/19/2026

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    The Many Lives of Anne Frank: Identity, Hope, and the Power of Telling Our Story

    Award-winning author Ruth Franklin joins Strategies for Living to explore the enduring legacy of Anne Frank beyond the familiar history. This moving conversation examines identity, journaling, resilience, faith, adolescence, and the power of preserving our inner life during times of fear and uncertainty. David and Lauren discuss how Anne Frank’s diary became both a deeply personal document and a universal symbol of hope, humanity, and the importance of telling our own story. Original Airdate: 5/18/2026

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    Dispatches from Grief: Navigating Loss, Love, and the Unthinkable with Danielle Crittenden

    IOn this deeply moving episode of Strategies for Living, Dr. David McMillian and Lauren Leon McMillian sit down with author and journalist Danielle Crittenden to discuss her powerful new book, Dispatches from Grief: A Mother’s Journey Through the Unthinkable. Danielle opens up about the devastating loss of her daughter Miranda, the physical and emotional realities of grief, trauma, healing, EMDR therapy, family dynamics after loss, spiritual questions surrounding death, and how we can better support those who are grieving. This honest conversation explores maternal grief, resilience, existential meaning, and the enduring power of love and remembrance. Original Airdate: 5/15/2026

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    Triggered? How to Challenge Negative Thoughts and Reclaim Your Power

    On this episode of Strategies for Living, David McMillian and Lauren Leon McMillian explore the hidden power behind emotional triggers and negative thinking patterns. Why do certain situations create such intense emotional reactions? And how can we challenge the thoughts that fuel anxiety, fear, anger, and self-doubt?Drawing from cognitive therapy, mindfulness, meditation, Byron Katie’s The Work, and practical psychological strategies, David and Lauren discuss how self-awareness, breathing, compassion, and conscious thinking can help us move from automatic reactions to intentional living. Learn how cognitive distortions like all-or-nothing thinking, overgeneralization, and “should” thinking keep us stuck—and how to reclaim your emotional power one thought at a time. Original Airdate: 5/13/2026

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    The Sacred Paradox: Holding Two Truths at Once

    On this episode of Strategies for Living, David and Lauren Leon McMillian explore the spiritual power of paradox and how healing and hurting, faith and fear, softness and boundaries can all coexist. Together, they unpack the deeper meaning of spiritual growth, triggers, transformation, nervous system healing, intuition, generational patterns, and the messy beauty of becoming fully human. Discover how embracing paradox can lead to greater self-awareness, compassion, authenticity, and inner peace.Orginal Airdate: 5/12/2026

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    Epic Parenting: Raising Emotionally Strong & “Invincible” Children with Larry Valmore

    On this episode of Strategies for Living, David and Lauren McMillian welcome life strategist Larry Valmore to discuss Epic Parenting: Extraordinary Parents, Invincible Children. Together, they explore how emotional regulation, consistency, discipline, and self-esteem shape healthy child development. Larry shares practical parenting strategies—including his “Rule of Three”—to help parents create calmer homes, build trust, and raise emotionally resilient children prepared to thrive in today’s world.Reach out for a consultation with Larry: (303)-204-4481 [email protected] Airdate: 5/8/2026

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    Unexpected Awakening:: Emotional Abuse, Meditation, & Finding Yourself Again

    In this deeply moving episode of Strategies for Living, David and Lauren McMillian welcome author and wellness advocate Laurie S. Jacobson to discuss her powerful memoir, Unexpected Awakening: 22 Days at a Buddhist Monastery Freed Me from Abuse. Together, they explore emotional abuse, psychological healing, Buddhist teachings, meditation, compassion, self-love, and the journey of reclaiming your identity after trauma. Laurie shares how silence, mindfulness, loving kindness, and spiritual awakening helped her break free from an emotionally abusive marriage and rediscover hope, resilience, and inner peace. This inspiring conversation offers insight for anyone seeking healing, personal growth, emotional recovery, or spiritual transformation.Original Airdate: 5/7/2026

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    The Malnourished Marriage: Emotional Nutrients Every Relationship Needs

    On this episode of Strategies for Living, Dr. David McMillian and Lauren Leon McMillian welcome former divorce attorney and author Nancy Perpall to discuss her powerful book The Malnourished Marriage. Together, they explore the emotional “nutrients” every healthy relationship needs—including communication, trust, laughter, intimacy, attachment styles, and compassion. Learn how relationship “fog” develops, how core wounds impact connection, and practical ways couples can reignite emotional and physical intimacy in long-term relationships. A thoughtful conversation on healing, communication, marriage health, and building deeper connection in stressful times.Original Airdate: 5/6/2026

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    Getting Your Life Back on Track: The First 4 Steps to Freedom (12 Steps for Everyone)

    What if the path to healing, clarity, and personal transformation wasn’t just for addiction—but for all of us?In this powerful episode of Strategies for Living, Dr. David McMillian, Lauren Leon McMillian, and Jay Murrell explore the profound wisdom of the first four steps of the 12 Steps—revealing them as a universal roadmap for growth, surrender, and self-discovery.Together, they unpack how admitting powerlessness, embracing faith in something greater, and taking a fearless moral inventory can help us move from denial and disconnection into truth, healing, and authentic living. Whether you’re navigating addiction, stress, control, or simply feeling stuck, these principles offer practical and spiritual strategies to reclaim your life.This episode is a reminder: transformation begins with honesty, connection, and the willingness to take the first step.Original Airdate: 5/5/2026

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    Brutal Life Lessons That Set You Free (If You Let Them)

    What if the hardest truths about life are actually the ones that set you free?In this episode of Strategies for Living, David and Lauren explore powerful “brutal life lessons” that challenge how we think about fairness, success, freedom, and self-worth. From accepting that life is unfair to realizing that true freedom comes from within, this conversation reframes discomfort as a path to growth.You’ll hear insights on why no one owes you a chance, how being “busy” can hold you back, why critics are often the loudest from the sidelines, and how success and failure are only temporary states—not identities.If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or caught in comparison, this episode offers a mindset shift: it’s not you vs. them—it’s you vs. you. And the real work begins there.Listen in for a grounded, honest conversation that turns life’s toughest lessons into practical strategies for clarity, resilience, and personal freedom. Original Airdate: 5/4/2026

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    Thick Skin, Soft Heart: How to Build Emotional Resilience Without Losing Your Sensitivity

    What does it really mean to “have thicker skin”—and can you build it without becoming hardened or closed off?In this episode of Strategies for Living, David McMillian and Lauren Leon McMillian explore the powerful reframe: thick skin isn’t about shutting down—it’s about strengthening your inner foundation so you can live with a softer, more open heart.Together, they unpack practical, real-life strategies to help you stop taking things personally, manage criticism, and build emotional intelligence. From understanding the source of feedback and challenging the “spotlight effect,” to pausing before reacting and learning to laugh at life, this episode offers tools you can apply immediately.If you’ve ever felt easily triggered, overly self-critical, or drained by others’ opinions, this conversation will help you reclaim your energy, strengthen your sense of self, and move through the world with greater confidence and compassion.✨ Because when you build a stronger center within, you don’t just survive life—you engage with it more fully.Original Airdeate: 4/30/2026

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    Why Good People Do Bad Things: The Hidden Psychology Behind Human Behavior

    Why do good people sometimes act in harmful, confusing, or even destructive ways? In this thought-provoking episode of Strategies for Living, David McMillian and Lauren Leon McMillian explore the deeper psychology behind human behavior—moving beyond labels of “good” and “bad” to understand what truly drives our actions.Drawing from trauma, attachment patterns, survival instincts, and the need to belong, they unpack how past experiences, emotional triggers, and nervous system responses can override our values in the moment. From unresolved trauma and societal pressure to self-awareness gaps and the desire for control, this episode reveals why behavior is often a signal—not a definition—of who we are.You’ll also discover practical strategies for increasing emotional awareness, regulating your nervous system, and creating the “sacred pause” that allows you to respond rather than react. If you’ve ever wondered how to make sense of your own behavior—or someone else’s—this conversation offers insight, compassion, and real tools for growth.🎙️ Tune in for your daily dose of radio rehab and learn how understanding human behavior can lead to greater empathy, healing, and personal transformation.Original Airdate: 4/29/2026

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    The Power of Listening: Therapy, the 12 Steps, and Becoming Who You Truly Are

    What truly creates change in therapy—and in life? In this episode of Strategies for Living, David McMillian, Lauren Leon McMillian, and guest Jay Murrell explore the transformative power of active listening, the therapeutic relationship, and the surprising truth that clients often already hold their own answers.Drawing from real-world counseling experience, addiction recovery work, and the wisdom of Carl Jung and the 12-step model, this conversation dives into self-awareness, spiritual growth, and the lifelong journey of becoming your authentic self.From group therapy dynamics to personal breakthroughs, this episode offers insight into emotional healing, addiction recovery, and the deep human need to be seen, heard, and understood.If you’ve ever wondered how real change happens—or how to better understand yourself—this episode delivers powerful, practical wisdom you can apply today.Original Airdate: 4/28/2026

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    Codependency Uncovered: How to Stop Losing Yourself in Relationships

    What does codependency really look like—and how do you know if you’re stuck in it?In this episode of Strategies for Living, David McMillian and Lauren Leon McMillian break down the often-misunderstood concept of codependency, moving beyond buzzwords to reveal the real-life behaviors that quietly shape our relationships.From people-pleasing and fear of rejection to difficulty setting boundaries and losing your sense of self, they explore how codependency develops—and how it can keep you disconnected from your own identity. You’ll also learn the difference between unhealthy dependency and healthy interdependence, and why true love never requires you to disappear.✨ If you’ve ever struggled with over-giving, avoiding conflict, or defining yourself through others, this episode offers insight, clarity, and a path back to yourself.Original Airdate: 4/27/2026

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    The Sacred Pause: Self-Soothing Skills to Reclaim Your Power

    In a fast-paced, reactive world, the ability to pause may be the most powerful skill we can develop. In this episode of Strategies for Living, David McMillian and Lauren Leon McMillian explore the art and science of self-soothing—practical techniques that help you regulate your nervous system, reduce stress, and respond instead of react.From the “sacred pause” to simple, effective tools like breathwork, grounding, bilateral stimulation (butterfly tapping), and cognitive reframing, this episode offers accessible strategies you can use anytime, anywhere. You’ll also learn the difference between healthy self-soothing and avoidance behaviors like scrolling or numbing—and why true regulation is about staying present with yourself, not escaping.Whether you’re navigating stress at work, conflict in relationships, or internal overwhelm, these tools can help you return to center, reclaim your power, and build deeper trust within yourself.✨ Because self-soothing isn’t about getting rid of your emotions—it’s about learning how to stay with yourself through them.Original Airdate: 4/23/2026

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    Viral Theories That Actually Change Your Life (Simple Shifts That Work)

    What if the simplest ideas could create the biggest shifts in your life? In this episode of Strategies for Living, we explore viral theories that have taken the internet by storm—not because they’re trendy, but because they actually work.From the powerful “Let Them” theory to the brain-resetting “10 Minute Reset,” these bite-sized strategies help you reclaim your energy, regulate your nervous system, and realign with who you truly are. Discover practical tools like the “brain dump,” “sunlight reset,” “name it to tame it,” and “future you is watching” to reduce stress, increase clarity, and create meaningful change—without overwhelm.If you’re looking for simple, effective ways to feel better, think clearer, and live more intentionally, this episode offers real-life strategies you can start using today. Original Airdate: 4/22/2026

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    Who’s Sitting at Your Table? Not Everyone Deserves a Seat

    Who do you allow into your life—and why? In this powerful episode of Strategies for Living, we explore the idea that not everyone deserves a seat at your table. Your table represents your energy, your time, your thoughts, and your emotional space—and who you invite in directly shapes your well-being and growth.Using the acronym TABLE (Trust, Acceptance, Balance/Boundaries, Love, and Evolution), we unpack how to evaluate your relationships with clarity and intention. Learn how to recognize energy-draining dynamics, set healthy boundaries, and create space for relationships that truly support who you are—and who you’re becoming.If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, drained, or misaligned in your relationships, this episode offers a transformative framework to help you reclaim your space and realign your life.👉 Your life is shaped by who you sit with—so who’s at your table?Original Airdate: 4/21/2026

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    Boundaries Build Connection: The Truth About Limits, Love, and Real Relationships

    What if everything you’ve believed about boundaries is backwards?In this episode of Strategies for Living, David McMillian and Lauren Leon McMillian explore a powerful paradox: boundaries don’t separate us—they create the conditions for deeper connection.Together, they unpack how healthy boundaries reduce resentment, build emotional safety, and strengthen trust in relationships. You’ll learn why boundaries are not about controlling others, but about honoring your own limits—and how that shift can transform the way you show up in every area of life.From preventing emotional burnout to building self-trust and authenticity, this episode offers practical insight into creating relationships that feel grounded, honest, and truly connected.If you’ve ever struggled with people-pleasing, overextending, or fearing that boundaries might push others away—this conversation will reframe everything.👉 Because real connection doesn’t come from losing yourself… It comes from finally bringing your full self into the relationship.Original Airdate: 4/20/2026

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    Practicing Joy: Ancient Monastic Habits for Modern Peace

    What if the secret to lasting joy isn’t found in more—but in less?In this episode of Strategies for Living, David McMillian and Lauren Leon McMillian explore the surprising practices of monks, nuns, and devoted communities who radiate a deep, grounded joy that many spend their lives chasing.From structured daily rhythms and intentional pauses… to silence, simplicity, shared ritual, and even scheduled joy—we unpack timeless habits that regulate the nervous system, reduce overwhelm, and reconnect us to meaning.You don’t need a monastery to feel more peaceful. You just need a few intentional shifts.Discover how to:Break free from autopilot livingReduce anxiety through rhythm and presenceTurn everyday tasks into meaningful ritualsCreate deeper connection without performancePractice joy instead of waiting for it👉 “They don’t have more joy because they have less—they have more joy because they want less.”Tune in for your daily dose of radio rehab and learn how to bring more peace, purpose, and presence into your everyday life.Original Airdate: 4/17/2026

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    The Power of Words: How Your Inner Language Shapes Your Life

    What if the words you speak—especially the ones you say to yourself—are shaping your entire reality?In this episode of Strategies for Living, David McMillian and Lauren Leon McMillian explore the powerful connection between language, identity, and emotional experience. From the labels we unconsciously adopt to the stories we repeat daily, our words can either trap us in cycles of anxiety, grief, and limitation—or open the door to healing, growth, and freedom.You’ll discover how shifting from “I am” statements to more mindful awareness can transform your relationship with emotions, why negative feelings aren’t meant to define you, and how small changes in language can create massive changes in your life.If you’ve ever felt stuck in a pattern of thinking or overwhelmed by your emotions, this episode offers practical strategies to help you reclaim your power—one word at a time.🎧 Your thoughts aren’t just describing your life… they’re creating it.Original Airdate: 4/16/2026

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    Are You Living or Reacting? The Power of Intentionality

    Are you truly living your life—or simply reacting to it? In this powerful episode of Strategies for Living, Dr. David McMillian and Lauren Leon McMillian explore the transformative power of intentionality.Discover how most people operate on autopilot—driven by unconscious patterns, emotional reactivity, and inherited beliefs—and how intentional living allows you to reclaim authorship of your life. Learn why intentionality is more than goal-setting; it’s “active prayer,” conscious creation, and the ability to pause, choose, and align your thoughts, emotions, and actions.This episode breaks down practical strategies to interrupt autopilot living, reduce emotional triggers, and cultivate daily intention. You’ll gain tools to move from reaction to response, from drifting to directing, and from existing to truly living.If you’re ready to step into your power, align with your purpose, and consciously create your life—this episode is for you.Original Airdate: 4/15/2026

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    10 Uncomfortable Questions That Could Change Your Life

    What if the questions you’ve been avoiding are the very ones that could transform your life?In this episode of Strategies for Living, Dr. David McMillian and Lauren Leon McMillian explore 10 powerful—and often uncomfortable—questions designed to spark deep self-reflection and real personal growth. From examining your daily habits and routines to confronting fear, avoidance, and the cost of staying the same, this conversation invites you into the “learning space” where true change begins.Discover how small shifts in awareness, energy, and intention can realign you with your values, your purpose, and your future self. These aren’t just questions—they’re catalysts for living more consciously, authentically, and without regret.✨ Are you ready to ask yourself what really matters?Original Airdate: 4/14/26

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Strategies for Living began in 1992 as a daily radio program on KEEL Radio in Shreveport, Louisiana focusing on Healthy Living in Body, Mind, Spirit, and Relationships. Strategies for Living continues to run Sunday-Friday on KEEL and also now runs weekly on HealthyLife.net hosted by its originator David McMillian, Ph.D. and joined by Psychotherapist Lauren Leon McMillian, M.S. (the two also happen to be married). Strategies for Living refers to guests as LIFE STRATEGISTS. Through the years, Life Strategists have included Don Miguel Ruiz, Neale Donald Walsch, Gary Zukav, Dr. David R. Hawkins, Raymond Moody, Dr. Bruce Lipton, Dr. Eben Alexander, Amit Goswami, Kenny Loggins, Dr. William Glasser, Dr. John Diamond, Dr. Brian Weiss, Claudia Black, Dr. C. Norm Shealey, Julia Cameron, Roger Callahan (TFT), Gary Craig (EFT), Dr. Francine

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David C. McMillian, Ph.D. and Lauren Leon McMillian, M.S.

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