The Family Business with The Alessis: A Christian Parenting and Marriage Podcast

If you are grieving after losing a spouse, you may feel like there's no way to ever feel joy again. But there is hope. And you'll get a picture of that hope from our guest, Ann Alessi, mother of Steve Alessi. With faith and family grounding her, she found a path to healing after losing her husband, who had been by her side for 65 years. In this emotional episode, Pastor Ann opens up about becoming a widow at 85, what helped (and what hurt) in early grief, how to support someone who lost a loved one, and why joy can still come after loss — without forgetting the person you love.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:How to grieve in a healthy, faith-filled way after losing a husband, wife or loved oneWhat NOT to say to a grieving spouse or widow — and what to say insteadHow to handle fear, loneliness, and the holidays after lossWhy you shouldn't make major life decisions in the first year after losing a spouseHow family and community support healing after griefHow to find joy again while honoring your loved one's memoryABOUT OUR GUESTPastor Ann Alessi was married to Pastor John Alessi for over 65 years before his passing in October 2020. Now in her eighties, she shares wisdom from six decades of ministry and marriage on navigating widowhood, leaning on God, and embracing new roles as mother, grandmother and great-grandmother.Whether you are a widow, widower, or supporting someone grieving a spouse, this episode offers practical, Christian encouragement for navigating grief, healing, and finding joy again.The Family Business with The Alessis is a multi-generational podcast where a pastor's family says what they can't say on Sundays — with honest conversations about faith, family, marriage, grief and loss.NEXT STEPSIf this helped you, please share it with someone walking through loss. Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Why is it so hard to have a healthy and loving relationship with your siblings? Especially if you have to work right alongside them? In this flashback episode from Season 2, Steve Alessi sits down with his son, Chris Alessi, to discuss how they manage the challenges of serving with talented family members and how they avoid the dangers of sibling conflict in adulthood.  In their business of ministry, the four Alessi children - Christopher, Stephanie, Lauren and Gaby - have had to learn how to navigate the day-to-day responsibilities and relational bumps in the road that can happen in an office environment. Press play and discover how the lessons they've learned can help you stay in step with your brothers and sisters, no matter where you interact. Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

In this flashback episode, you'll discover 7 practical ways to support your spouse through life's challenges and crises. Whether you are facing health scares, job loss, emotional struggles, or major life transitions in your marriage, this video shows you how to be there for your partner when you really can't figure out how to help. Steve and Mary Alessi dive into their own story of surviving a heart attack (the subject of Steve Alessi's debut book "Forty-Two") and other difficult seasons...and share the secrets that helped them survive and thrive despite facing situations that could have made their relationship crumble under the pressure. You'll learn:The importance of empathy, patience, and understanding in marriageWhy stepping up as your spouse’s primary support is essential (not your kids, parents, or friends)How to be "Team Spouse" even when you don’t fully understand what they’re going throughThe difference between supporting and enabling, and why timing and grace matterHow being a truly present spouse —trustworthy, present, and prayerful—can deepen your bondWith honest examples from their 35+ years together, Steve and Mary offer encouragement, practical advice, and a blueprint for handling marital storms with unity and strength.Listen now to strengthen your marriage, grow as a couple, and become the support your spouse needs through thick and thin! Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

It's time to celebrate...America is turning 250, and so is our podcast! In our final episode of season 8, Steve and Mary Alessi mark our 250th episode by sharing how faithfulness and consistency lead to success, whether you're starting a podcast or raising a family. From wrangling toddlers and tackling teens’ screen time battles to managing mistakes and arguments with grace (even after missing the mark), they unpack why showing up—imperfectly but persistently—matters most.They'll share our audience's family stories that reveal how The Family Business has impacted families like yours for the past 5 years, and we'll go down memory lane by replaying some surprising moments from the past 8 seasons. This season finale has everything you've grown to love about these conversations with the Alessis -  hilarious confessions, back-and-forth banter about parenting, marriage, and even wardrobe choices - all proving that laughter, honesty and humility are key ingredients to a strong home. Get ready for real talk, relatable stories, and practical encouragement you can start using today as we get ready for the next season! Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Ever wonder what first-time moms truly wish someone would tell them about pregnancy, birth, and becoming a mom?In this transparent and often heartfelt episode, sisters Stephanie Alessi Muiña and Gaby Alessi Calatayud, who are both expecting, get real about the unspoken struggles, surprises, and joys of motherhood. You'll learn why comparing yourself to Instagram-perfect moms can set up unrealistic expectations, and how to handle the endless opinions thrown at you during each stage of pregnancy.You’ll hear how surrounding yourself with other moms, asking for help, and leaning on faith can make all the difference—from managing fear and anxiety about the unknown, to handling postpartum blues with honesty and support.With practical advice on navigating medical choices, labor anxiety, and the importance of community, Gaby and Stephanie show that you don’t have to figure it all out alone. Get ready for comforting honesty, relatable laughs, and heartfelt encouragement for new moms (or anyone who loves one).Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

When every other headline claims that the truth is being hidden from you...who can you REALLY trust? In this fascinating and timely conversation, Lauren Alessi Burgos and and her long-time friend Dania Montejo dive headfirst into the world of conspiracies—from the French presidency and Michael Jackson’s controversies to UFOs and cloud-manipulating chemtrails. Together, they unpack how curiosity, group chats, and modern journalism fuel these conversations, but also how exposing yourself to these constant debates can impact your mental health.Find out why asking questions and staying open-minded matters, how to spot when a “good story” crosses into unhealthy territory, and where to set healthy boundaries—especially for your kids. With laughter, lived experience, and practical wisdom, Lauren and Dania  encourage you to enjoy digging into the unknown—without letting fear and mistrust run your life. Plus, they offer tips for handling heated family debates and staying calm when the truth feels stranger than fiction.Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Good things come to those who wait - and sometimes, to those who wait at the YMCA! In this incredible episode, you'll be introduced to the final son-in-law in the Alessi family, Daniel Burgos. His journey to meeting and eventually marrying Steve and Mary Alessi's daughter, Lauren, is as surprising and miraculous as you can imagine - a winding road that started in his native Columbia and ended at the altar in Miami with the love of his life. Daniel sits down with his father-in-law Steve, and brother in law Chris Alessi, to share how God led him to make the decisions that would result in marriage and a new home. You'll hear how the entire family had to make adjustments and open their hearts to a new relationships in the midst of several other major events in the family. And you'll be inspired and motivated to see how having faith and being open to change can bring beautiful blessings into your life. Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

What happens when a young couple has to shift from talking about dream dates, honeymoons and wedding bells, to discussing bills and bank accounts? In this transparent and real-life talk, Gaby Alessi Calatayud and her husband Christian share their experience of learning to manage their finances together—without losing their unity or peace of mind. They share why they are doing their best to learn wise strategies from the beginning - from balancing individual spending habits and setting up budgets to tackling debt and resisting the pressure to “look rich” on social media.You’ll hear honest reflections on learning to merge money personalities, create open communication about spending, and keep generosity and teamwork at the core - no matter how long (or shortly) you've been married. With actionable advice and plenty of relatable moments, discover how putting trust, grace, and shared goals above the numbers on your bank account can transform how you handle money—and your marriage.If you enjoyed this episode, here's another great TFB episode on managing money and family! Money Matters S4 E10Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Are your kids talking back to you? Ignoring your directions? Giving you attitude? Every child has a way of making their parents feel rejected and disrespected. But how do you know when it's getting out of hand? What are the signs that a child's behavior is crossing the line from misbehavior to a total rejection of your parental authority?In this episode, Steve and Mary Alessi unpack what rebellion really looks like in kids and teens. You'll hear candid stories from their own parenting journey, as they share why every child has a seed of rebellion that must be handled early, with wisdom and love—not fear or anger. You’ll see how bad behavior often hides deeper issues, from sibling jealousy to struggles with identity, and hear practical strategies for setting loving boundaries that restore, not just punish. Steve and Mary get honest about tattoos, piercings, and cultural pressures, challenging you to look past appearances and connect with what’s happening in your child’s heart.Get ready to rethink discipline, communication, and why being proactive today sets your family up for a healthier tomorrow.Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Can moms love their sons too much? No mother wants to hinder their son from becoming a man, but the mother-son dynamic can create major headaches for the entire family if not handled properly. In this flashback episode from Season 6, we delve into the intricate dynamics of the mother-son relationship and the valuable roles both parents fill in their young man's life. From discussing the differences in parental roles to highlighting the importance of respect and clear communication, Steve and Mary Alessi sit down with their son Chris to offer insightful perspectives on family relationships and the impactful roles of mothers and fathers in shaping a son's development. Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Are you at your wit's end with a child who just won't listen? Does it mean that you're a bad parent - or are disobedience and emotional meltdowns just a natural part of a child's development? In this episode, Stephanie Alessi Muina and her husband Chris sit down with their mom, Mary Alessi,  to get some advice and help on the chaotic journey of raising young kids—giving you valuable strategies to use when when your child is pushing the limits and rejecting your authority.  We'll discuss why age-appropriate behavior isn’t the same as permissive parenting, and how proactive, loving discipline builds character (for both kids and parents).You’ll hear practical wisdom on balancing different parenting styles, avoiding the trap of passive parenting, and the importance of showing kids grace—while never shying away from holding the line. This episode will encourage you to stay committed to your family's values, and raise kids that will thank you for giving them healthy and strong boundaries! Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Who really comes first in a man’s life—his wife, his mother, or his daughter?Step into the heart of family life with Steve and Mary Alessi as they pull back the curtain on the “priority puzzle” every husband and father faces. They share honest, sometimes emotional reflections on balancing love and loyalty between these key women, drawing from personal stories of raising daughters, caring for aging parents, and watching children marry.You’ll hear why putting your spouse first isn’t just biblical or psychological wisdom—it’s the glue that holds everything together, setting the tone for peace and security at home. The Alessis discuss common pitfalls, like letting guilt or ego steer your decisions, and offer practical tips for resetting family order in a way that honors everyone.Find out how clarity in family roles can bring freedom, unity, and lasting joy to everyone under your roof.Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

How can today's young women handle the pressure to conform to the world's standards of beauty and self-worth?In this episode, sisters Gaby and Stephanie dive deep into how Instagram, TikTok, and influencer culture impact confidence, modesty, and purity—especially for girls and young women.You'll discover why the pursuit of "being pretty” can lead to insecurity, how social media poses and trends influence even the youngest girls, and why real-life character, kindness, and confidence matter more than online perfection. These two sisters get real about their personal battles with body image, comparison, and the lure of online validation, offering actionable advice for building self-esteem and authentic relationships.Whether you're a mom, daughter, or mentor, this conversation arms you with tools to set boundaries, foster confidence, and help the next generation find their value in their character and personality —not in their online image. If you want practical guidance on parenting through the pressures of social media, or encouragement for your own journey to true confidence, this episode is for you.Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Ever feel stuck in life’s waiting room, wondering when your "next" will finally arrive?In this flashback to Season 3, Lauren Alessi and Mary Alessi dive into real talk about the messy, in-between seasons—whether you’re waiting for a new relationship, career move, or just something to change. Drawing from their own journeys, they break down why it’s normal to feel agitated in these pauses—and how it can actually mean you’re gearing up for growth.The fun fact behind this flashback?  Lauren is now officially done with her single season! Lauren married the love of her life, Daniel Burgos, in April 2026, and soon she'll tell you what it's like on the OTHER side of this waiting season. With laughter, transparency, and some tear-jerking moments, this conversation challenges you to embrace the season you’re in—and take real ownership of your attitude along the way.Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

What's it REALLY like to grow up with an identical twin? In today’s special cross-over episode, we have some exciting news: our podcast family is growing, and you are getting a first look! Not only has the Alessi family now branched into three different podcasts — including the lively “The Mary and Martha Show” with Mary Alessi and her twin sister, Martha Munizzi—but this episode features a sneak peek at one of their favorite twin-themed conversations.You'll hear Mary and Martha as they hilariously recount childhood adventures, the reality of growing up as identical twins, and how their unique bond shaped their lives. From switching places at school and testing the limits of high school mischief, to reflecting on their journey in ministry and friendship, this episode is packed with nostalgic stories, laughter, and a fresh perspective on faith, family, and finding your own path.Want to hear more from The Mary and Martha Show? Pick your favorite app and subscribe here! YouTubeApple PodcastsSpotify Other AppsText the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Feeling unsure about how to respond to the headlines about Israel, Iran, and the Middle East conflict? In this episode, the Alessis take a pastoral perspective and break down the real story behind the chaos—examining not just politics, but the spiritual and humanitarian battles at play. They pull back the curtain on how Israel is surrounded by enemies and outnumbered by billions, yet persists against the odds.Drawing from their personal trips to Israel and firsthand encounters, Steve and Mary will show you how Christians can support Israel without guilt, how media narratives can twist your viewpoint, and what it means to see this land through the lens of God's Word instead of headlines. Get ready to rethink everything you thought you knew about the Middle East conflict—and discover why prayer and perspective matter now more than ever.Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Should preachers address political issues from the pulpit? In this episode, Steve and Mary Alessi pull back the curtain on the tension pastors face when faith, politics, and cultural issues collide as they answer this controversial question.You'll learn how political pressure has ramped up since COVID, and what it really means to preach truth without dividing a congregation. Sharing their own convictions, the Alessis reveal why speaking up on certain principles—not just staying silent—matters for the health of both the church and the nation.You'll find out where they draw the line between biblical values and political activism, how they guide their church through heated social debates, and why listening to the right voices (and turning off the wrong ones) is a must for healthy spiritual growth. Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Is it possible that your greatest blessings - your spouse and your children - could also drain your spirit and prevent you from pursuing the hobbies and interests that give you joy? Parents often find themselves struggling to grow as individuals when their family responsibilities take over their lives - but finding the balance between personal growth and focusing on your marriage and parenting can be really difficult. In this episode, Stephanie Alessi Muina and her husband Chris take a honest look at how they are maintaining a sense of self-worth and identity while also giving their children - and their marriage - the best chance at success. You'll find a ton of effective and practical strategies that you can apply to your own life as you grow as a person, a parent and a spouse.IF YOU LIKED THIS: Remember to subscribe to hear from ALL of the Alessi family members - we have different hosts from the family every week who give you multiple perspectives on parenting, marriage, family dynamics, and building a legacy that lasts! Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Ever wonder if God’s still in your corner when your dreams seem stalled?In this transparent episode, Stephanie Alessi Muiña and her husband Christopher Muiña dig into what it really means to trust God during slow seasons of growth—whether you’re wrestling with closed doors, struggling with burnout, or navigating tricky family relationships. You'll hear firsthand experiences from marriage, parenting, business, and ministry, revealing how the timing of God isn’t always what you expect, but His process shapes your perspective and aligns your heart.Through these stories of perseverance and decisions between pushing doors open versus simply waiting, you’ll find encouragement to embrace your season of “development.”You'll get clarity and understanding on how adjusting your viewpoint can turn frustration into gratitude, and how joy often grows through the discomfort.Get ready for honest conversation and real talk on letting God guide your growth—at His pace, not yours.Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Marriage is definitely worth the wait - but do you know what to focus on while you're preparing to marry the love of your life? In this episode, hosts Gaby Alessi Calatayud and her husband Christian make their debut as a couple on The Family Business and give you an honest, behind-the-scenes view on the first few weeks of newlywed life. Sharing their journey from childhood friends to marriage, you'll hear them reveal  the challenges of waiting for the right timing through dating and engagement, honoring family, and genuinely submitting to God's plan as they try to set the foundation for a blessed marriage. Whether you're dating, engaged, or just starting out in marriage, Gaby and Christian offer encouragement and practical wisdom for every stage. With candid stories, laughter, and lessons learned, this episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking real insights into how to nurture your potential or current marriage partnership. Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

In this episode, you'll discover why your child’s future spouse is more than just a relationship choice—they’re an investment in your family’s future... and how wisdom, clear expectations, and intentional love can help you build strong relationships with your in-laws from the very beginning.Parenting adult children through dating, engagement, and marriage can be both beautiful and complicated. To help you navigate this important season, Steve and Mary Alessi share practical insight on how to recognize healthy relationships, guide your children with wisdom instead of control, and welcome in-laws as true family.Whether you're preparing your children for dating and marriage, or learning how to love your in-laws well, you'll walk away with actionable encouragement that will help you create a beautiful family legacy. Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Are you praying that the person you married becomes more like the person you THOUGHT you married? In this episode, you'll discover why praying "God, please change my wife / husband" may not be the right kind of prayer... and how you can build a thriving marriage by focusing on personal growth, realistic expectations, and true understanding.Marriage can be beautiful, but it comes with some real challenges—especially when the quirks and habits that once seemed cute become real irritants. To help you navigate this common struggle in marriage, Steve and Mary Alessi explore how to identify when a quirk is just that—and when a situation may warrant setting up healthy boundaries. If you're looking for practical, faith-based advice to strengthen your relationship, avoid common pitfalls, and find humor in the journey, this episode is for you. Whether you're newly married or decades in, you'll walk away with actionable insights for building a marriage that lasts.Key topics in this episode:Why praying for your spouse to change may be the wrong approachThe "couch dance": How dating evolves into marriageHandling personality differences and minor irritantsWhen to set boundaries for serious issuesDon't forget to subscribe, leave a comment, and share with friends who need encouragement for their marriage journey. Family is everybody's business!Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Can the things that attracted you to your spouse when you were dating become annoyances when you're married? Perhaps, but if you make the effort, your differences can become the glue that keeps your marriage strong - even when those differences are like night and day. In this episode, recorded just before their 5th wedding anniversary, Chris and Richelle Alessi dive deep into the myth and reality of “opposites attract” in marriage, sharing candid stories from their own journey. From awkward first encounters and hilarious miscommunications to learning how to process conflicts and celebrate opposing personality traits, they reveal how their differences have shaped their relationship—and sometimes challenged it.You'll learn practical tips on effective marriage communication, building trust as a couple, and using personality differences as strengths rather than sources of division. Chris and Richelle open up about:Navigating literal vs. general communication stylesDealing with conflict when one spouse needs time to processHow family and sibling dynamics affect early dating and marriage decisionsLearning to trust and support each other’s strengthsUsing differences to enrich the family, especially when raising kidsWhy personality and communication habits change across seasons of marriageIf you want to strengthen your marriage, build mutual respect, and find fun in the unique ways you and your spouse are wired, this episode is for you!Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

The men had their turn - now the ladies respond. Mary Alessi and her daughters Stephanie Alessi Muiña, Gaby Alessi Calatayud, and daughter-in-law Richelle Alessi dive into the heart of what women really want men to know. Hint: it’s not about solving every problem, but being heard, valued, and understood. You'll hear candid laughs about double standards, quiet moments that actually mean something, and learn why one small effort (think surprise ice cream or a morning coffee) can transform a wife's day.With real-life stories on teamwork, compromise, respect, and the power of feeling safe, these wives break down how deep connection often comes from small, intentional acts—not perfection.Tune in as they spill behind-the-scenes secrets that could help both husbands and wives crack the code on communication, affection, and building a home where everyone feels truly seen.REMINDER: Make sure you hear the men's "What He Said" episode so you get both sides of this conversation! Tap HERE to hear the men's episodeText the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Ever wondered what husbands REALLY think about their wives? Get inside the minds of the men of the Family Business as they candidly unpack what’s going on beneath the surface in their relationships, from why men sometimes go quiet, to what makes them feel truly respected and appreciated. You'll discover how encouragement, shared decision-making, and even small acts of physical affection can have a huge impact on marriage.Steve Alessi, along with his son Chris and sons-in-law Chris Muina and Christian Calatayud, share relatable stories about the pressure to provide and protect, the importance of harmony at home, and how each guy navigates conflict and communicates pride in their spouse.With moments of humor and honest vulnerability, the conversation offers practical wisdom for anyone looking to build stronger relationships. Plus, there’s a twist—the wives will get their chance to respond, promising even more insight to come.Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

"It's only a joke..." but is it really? Humor and sarcasm can be tricky in relationships—sometimes it’s playful, and other times it cuts deeper than intended. In this episode, you'll discover how joking, sarcasm, and humor play vital roles in healthy relationships—and what happens when jokes cross the line and reveal serious communication issues.Drawing from wisdom gained after nearly 40 years of marriage, Steve and Mary Alessi open up about their own approach to humor, how sarcasm shaped their families, and how laughter can create closeness or mask deeper issues. You'll discover why some couples thrive by balancing seriousness and lightheartedness, and how to read the room when humor is (or isn’t) appropriate.Learn how joking can be a sign of trust and intimacy—but also where it may hide unspoken truths, cause pain, or erode safety in marriage, family, or even business teams. If you want stronger connections at home or work, you'll find practical tips for being mindful of your words, knowing when to turn off sarcasm, and embracing moments of seriousness - so you'll know when your partner's feelings are no laughing matter.Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

In this episode, we cover our best strategies for improving communication in marriage -  so that even your arguments can be turned into opportunities to build a stronger relationship with your spouse. Communication challenges are at the heart of most relationship struggles, whether it's disagreements over chores, different ways of processing conflict, or mismatched expectations. Couples often find themselves in arguments that seem to go nowhere, but understanding each other's styles and showing empathy can transform these moments into opportunities for growth.Join Steve and Mary Alessi as they offer practical marriage advice from nearly four decades of experience. They break down common misunderstandings, explain why "repair-rich" marriages thrive despite conflicts, and share ways to express your needs without triggering defensiveness. Learn how simple actions—like genuine apologies, recognizing your partner's strengths, and sharing the responsibility for household tasks—can create a healthier, happier home.Whether you're a newlywed or a seasoned couple, you’ll get valuable tips on handling arguments, managing emotions, and supporting each other's value system.Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Ever feel overwhelmed by the endless decisions you have to make as a parent - not to mention the barrage of advice from experts with ever-changing opinions? In this episode, we get the treat of having two of the next generation Alessi couples in the podcast booth -  Chris Muina and Stephanie Alessi Muina, and Richelle and Christopher Alessi. Together, they are jumping into the raw realities of raising young kids—sharing laughs, struggles, and honest takes on gentle parenting, immunization and trusting your doctors, discipline, and letting go of comparison. You'll discover how friendship, flexibility, and faith help keep balance when every family meal and doctor’s visit brings new choices and opinions.Hear how they navigate the pressure to do everything “right,” wrestle with modern parenting controversies, and find peace by trusting their instincts and holding on to their parental authority. You’ll walk away with fresh perspective on giving yourself grace, trusting your gut, and savoring the everyday chaos—plus get practical encouragement for loving your kids (and yourself) through both wins and mess-ups.Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Are you truly becoming a better person in 2026? Or are you just building things that won't bring you joy long-term? In this episode, you'll discover how to become a better version of yourself in 2026 by developing the right habits, cultivating inner peace, and building meaningful relationships—both at home and in business.Hosts Steve Alessi and Mary Alessi kick off the new year with practical advice on why becoming matters more than what you build. Instead of chasing only achievements, learn how forming healthy habits, seeking peace, and prioritizing character can set the foundation for lasting success and true happiness.You'll hear real stories from the Alessi family’s holiday season, including lessons about handling drama-free gatherings, learning to embrace failures, and the importance of intentional, honest conversations within your family and workplace. Steve Alessi and Mary Alessi also share wisdom from decades in ministry and marriage about preparing your heart and mind for the future, nurturing self-awareness, and stepping into your role as a leader in your home.Whether you're a young couple building a life together, a business owner aiming for growth, or someone seeking health and balance in 2026, this episode provides a roadmap for becoming who you’re meant to be while you reach for your goals.Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

What can you learn about your new brother-in-law while spending hours in a hunting blind? In this episode, we introduce the newest member of the family, Christian Catalayud, as he shares how he's growing a relationship with his new brothers-in-law, Chris Alessi and Chris Muina.Christian married Gaby Alessi in October 2025, and over the first few months of their marriage, Christian has been introduced to the blessed but sometimes topsy-turvy world of being married into ministry.  You'll hear a candid conversation about what it’s like to be welcomed into the Alessi family—especially through marriage and brotherhood. With fresh stories from Thanksgiving hunting trips, heartfelt moments of bonding in hunting blinds and stands, and plenty of laughs, the guys reveal the unique dynamic that unfolds when new members join a tight-knit family.From hilarious hunting adventures to navigating the ups and downs of family traditions, this episode offers real insight into the importance of honor, mutual respect, and intentional connection. Plus, Christian opens up about becoming the newest brother-in-law and what it’s like having your pastor become your father-in-law. Whether you’re part of a big family or just trying to create meaningful relationships, you’ll find plenty to relate to here—because, as always, family is everybody’s business!Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Wondering why your New Year’s resolutions never seem to stick?As we kick off a new year, Chris Alessi teams up with his coach and close friend Chris Hart to break down the real reason that so many people fail to keep their New Year's resolutions —and how to finally build momentum for a powerful year ahead.Together, they share simple strategies for transforming your personal and family life, like starting with prayer, creating a sharp plan, finding the right people for accountability, and locking in your purpose. You'll be inspired by Chris Hart's practical, no-nonsense advice , along with practical family tips that will help you quit excuses and keep the promises you make to yourself.When you recognize that conditioning—not capacity—is the key to living a bigger life, you’ll feel inspired to step boldly into 2026 and make real change for yourself and your family. For more information on Brave Coaches, head to:https://bravecoaches.comText the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Has the medical establishment missed the boat when it comes to women's health? In this important and hard-hitting episode, Mary Alessi and her longtime friend Mory Martinez dive deep into the hidden crisis affecting women from their 20s onward. They unpack the impact of hormones on everything from energy and mood to heart and bone health, sharing personal stories about early menopause, misdiagnoses, and the confusion surrounding hot flashes and migraines.You’ll pick up practical tips on how diet, sugar, sleep, and strength training are major players in hormone harmony—and why starting to pay attention in your 20s or 30s can change your future. Mary Alessi and Mory Martinez serve up the best resources, the doctors and tests you need, plus a dose of hope and encouragement. Take control, advocate for your health, and pass the wisdom along!For more resources mentioned in this episode, visit Metro Life Church's Hormone Harmony Hub.Tap to AccessDisclaimer: This content has been made available for informational and educational purposes only. This episode is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition.Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Are the holidays bringing more emotional chaos than cheer into your life?Join Steve Alessi, Lauren Alessi, and licensed mental health counselor Ryan Landau as they unpack the real challenges of holiday stress, seasonal mood swings, and family drama. You'll get key insights on seasonal affective disorder, financial anxiety, loneliness, and the unique pressures men and women face during this time of year - as well as  practical tips for setting boundaries, finding community, and staying intentional—even when family relationships get tricky. You’ll learn how small shifts like slowing down, budgeting, and focusing on others can dissolve stress and create joyful memories. With candid stories and professional insights, the conversation breaks down why it’s perfectly normal to feel overwhelmed and how to navigate tough moments with more awareness, connection, and self-care.Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

In this episode, Steve and Mary Alessi are diving into a topic every Christian family wrestles with—what should we be watching? When shows like Stranger Things and other popular series are based on dark themes, violence and anti-family values, should we draw the line and protect our families from being influenced?  Steve and Mary Alessi provide some much-needed perspective on how to navigate entertainment choices in a world that's constantly pushing boundaries, so you can tell the difference between being overly religious and being wisely discerning about what to allow into your home. Whether you're a parent trying to set healthy boundaries for your kids, struggling with what's "too much" for your family, or just tired of every show pushing an agenda you don't agree with, this conversation will help you think through how to protect your home while staying grounded in biblical wisdom, not fear.RECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODE Why We Aren't Proud of Pride Month - S5 E20Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Sometimes when you're looking for something - you find out a LOT more about yourself in the process. That's definitely what the Muinas discovered.  In this episode, Stephanie and Christopher Muiña take you behind the scenes of their house hunt, revealing the real struggles, doubts, and faith lessons that come with navigating big life transitions as a family. Through honest stories of dead ends, closed doors, and a nail-biting home purchase, they share how trusting God, making wise plans, and pushing past fear can open the next chapter of your life.You’ll pick up practical encouragement on balancing hard work with faith, finding clarity in decision-making, and building a vision-driven family life—even when things don’t go as planned. With relatable stories about perseverance, finances, and the power of staying aligned to your values, you’ll feel both inspired and equipped to keep going—in your own search for growth and purpose.RECOMMENDED NEXT EPISODEBuy vs. Rent: How To Find a Home In Today's MarketText the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Are you struggling to accept that your family is changing - even when it's for the best? It happens in every family relationship - especially among siblings who are used to relating to each other, until a potential spouse comes into the picture. In this special  episode, Gaby and Lauren Alessi are getting real about navigating marriage season with your siblings. The sisters share hilarious and heartwarming stories about dating, their engagements, and even their early attempt at creating a podcast (RIP "Girls Talking Sports"). They also open up about the realities of embracing God's plan—even when it looks different than your expectations. You'll hear Gaby open up about the guilt she felt about dating and getting engaged before her older sister, while Lauren reveals the conversation she had with her coach that changed the trajectory of her life and put her on the path that led to her future husband. Whether you're dating and thinking about marriage, single and searching, or just wanting to support a loved one as they enter a new season of their life, this episode is packed with hope, honesty, and the reminder that God's timing and plan don't always look like ours, but they always work out for the best!Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Ever have that guilty feeling when you realize you were on your phone during a conversation with a loved one? It's not just a harmless habit. It's a real danger to the mental health and vitality of your family - and it could harm the relationships that matter most to you. In this special guest episode, Chris Alessi sits down with Joey Odom, co-founder of Reclaim Well, for an eye-opening conversation about one of the biggest threats to healthy family relationships—our obsession with our phones. This episode will challenge you to take an honest look at your relationship with technology! Whether you're a parent worried about setting the right example, struggling with phantom vibrations, or just feeling like you're missing life's most important moments, this conversation offers practical hope and actionable steps to break free from the digital distraction epidemic.LEARN MORE ABOUT AROhttps://goaro.comText the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

If the title of this episode made you feel attacked - then you're the person that needs to listen the most. In this episode, Steve and Mary Alessi are tackling one of the biggest relationship killers—defensiveness. You'll hear raw, personal stories from their early life and marriage as they share practical advice—including how to recognize when YOU'RE the defensive one (even if you don't think you are), and how to listen to what people are saying without going into battle mode. If you're tired of always feeling like your walls are up or fighting with a loved one who never listens, this conversation will help you break through the defensive barrier and build stronger, happier relationships.Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Ready or not - the holidays are here......and if you're already feeling the pressure, we're here to help! In this week's episode, Steve and Mary Alessi are getting into the holiday spirit early and sharing their best tips for navigating the most wonderful (and sometimes most stressful) time of the year. They discuss everything from dealing with difficult family members to blending different cultural traditions, and share practical advice on how to plan ahead so you can actually enjoy the holidays, not just survive them. Whether you're juggling new in-laws, missing a loved one who passed away, or trying to figure out how to keep everyone happy, this episode is packed with practical wisdom and hilarious family stories that will have you laughing out loud. Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Ever wondered what really goes on behind the scenes at Christian award shows—and what happens when ministry collides with business and industry? In this episode, we dive deep into the debate around worship music award shows and whether Christian artists should receive recognition for their talents. Plus, we get real about the unspoken rules of honorariums for guest speakers and evangelists—who really deserves to be compensated, and where’s the line between blessing and business?From hilarious outfit shopping in Greece (with a few family secrets spilled!) to hot takes on the true cost of ministry, your hosts Steve and Mary Alessi don’t hold back sharing what actually happens in the business of sharing the faith. Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

What do you do when big blessings come with big problems? In this episode, Chris and Richelle Alessi share some very exciting news while also opening up about navigating one of their most exciting and challenging seasons yet.As you listen, you'll discover how this young couple is learning to handle the pressure of increased responsibilities and grow their capacity without crashing out. From simplifying daily routines to focusing on "just today," they offer practical wisdom on bringing your best even when you feel maxed out, working as a team through hard seasons, and avoiding the comparison trap. Whether you're facing pregnancy challenges, financial pressure, or just feeling overwhelmed by your current load, this episode will remind you that you can handle hard—and that God's grace is always more than enough.Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

When tragedy and controversy hit our country, how do Christian families and church leaders respond with wisdom, love, and truth? In this heartfelt conversation, Steve and Mary Alessi reflect on the recent assassination of Charlie Kirk, sharing their emotional reactions and the challenges of leading their church and family through grief and confusion.You'll hear candid insights into how hate and conspiracy theories spread in the aftermath of a national tragedy, and why it's crucial for parents and leaders to guide their families towards healing, forgiveness, and critical thinking. Steve and Mary discuss the importance of sound biblical principles, slowing down to process events before speaking out, and using family agreement and Christian values to nourish peace and resilience. Whether you're looking for comfort after this specific tragedy, searching for guidance as a parent or pastor, or want to know how Christian families can stand strong amid cultural turmoil, this episode offers practical advice and inspiring perspective rooted in faith and family bonds.Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

New season, new challenges - but family is STILL everybody's business! In this heartfelt premiere of season 8, Steve and Mary open up about major life transitions and the powerful emotions that come with letting go of their youngest daughter as she prepares for marriage. You'll hear the honest emotions being felt during a pivotal week leading up to Gaby and Christian's wedding, as the Alessis reflect on the importance of relationships, honoring family legacy, and navigating those bittersweet moments when adult children step into their own lives.This episode dives deep into the challenges and blessings of moving into new seasons—not just for the podcast, but for their family. The conversation flows from the practicalities of wedding and life planning, to the emotional rollercoaster of seeing kids leave the nest, all while sharing practical advice on how to stay connected and honor the relationships that matter most.Get ready for honest insights, a few laughs, and even some tears, as the Alessis invite listeners to embrace growth, honor their roots, and hold on to the values that truly matter—even as life keeps changing. Whether you’re a parent, part of a family business, or just navigating transitions of your own, you’ll find comfort and encouragement in this candid conversation among family.Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

In this special five-minute update,  Stephanie and Christopher Muiña give you a sneak peek into what’s coming up in season eight, launching this fall. From major family milestones—like Gabby’s upcoming October wedding and exciting new home renovations—to memorable travels in Spain and the joys (and chaos) of raising toddlers, there’s never a dull moment in the Alessi family.The couple also tease some surprises and changes ahead, from stepping into new seasons as a family to potential moves and the ever-present excitement surrounding hunting season (well, for the men anyway)! Send us a text, or leave a comment on our website if there's a topic you would love to hear about or a family situation you'd love the Alessis to dive into this season! Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Ever wondered what it really takes for men to finish well in life—at home and in business? In this powerful throwback episode, Steve Alessi sits down with entrepreneur Aaron Walker to talk about the life-changing impact of brotherhood, the painful lessons from tragedy, and why being vulnerable just might be the key to true success.From mastermind groups to working with family, these stories go deeper than the Sunday morning message and challenge everything you thought about personal growth and priorities. Our guest Aaron Walker, founder of the Iron Sharpens Iron Mastermind Group, has coached hundreds of high-achieving men for decades and built a reputation as a leader of leaders.  With 40+ years as a successful businessman and owner of fourteen lucrative businesses, he uses his experience to help cultivate success and significance. His organization hosts growth-minded community and mastermind groups designed to help the unique challenges of being Godly men, husbands, fathers, and business owners. Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Worried about raising confident kids in a world that seems upside down?It might be time to rethink what it means to lead with conviction as a parent.In this classic episode from our archives, Mary Alessi teams up with her twin sister Martha Munizzi for a candid, relatable conversation that dives into the rollercoaster of working with family, navigating social media’s hypnotic pull, and reinforcing time-honored values—even when culture pushes back. They share laugh-out-loud stories about raising kids in ministry, the tough love moments that matter, and the challenge of holding the line on truth and confidence without getting swept up in guilt or societal expectations.From tackling the pressures of Instagram and parenting in an age of digital confusion, to equipping kids to spot what’s real and what’s not, this chat reveals why family honesty, consistency, and old-fashioned parental gut instincts are more crucial than ever.Stay tuned for a brand new podcast featuring these amazing twin sisters - sign up for our newsletter for updates! https://alessifamilybusiness.com/newsletterText the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Wondering what the Alessis are up to in this pre-season? Here's a quick update on what we're planning on our YouTube channel! Stay tuned for brand new episodes and a upgraded video experience coming soon! Make sure to stay connected to us via our newsletter (https://alessifamilybusiness.com/newsletter) to be notified when Season 8 is going to start! Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Do you have a child that struggles to find their 'place' in your family? Or maybe you're the one who felt like your gifts didn't help the family at all? Join Steve and Lauren Alessi as they peel back the curtain on what it really takes to thrive as the different one in a family of go-getters. You’ll hear Lauren’s honest journey from struggling with shyness to confidently embracing her own gifts—and how her parents, Steve and Mary, leaned in to help her discover a calling in counseling - which is now blossoming into an amazing chapter in her life.Through real family conversations, tough love, and even a dramatic “family intervention,” the Alessis prove that every personality—loud or reserved—serves a vital role. With humor and heart, they dive deep into the pressures of family expectations, the false allure of “what’s good” versus “what’s God,” and how trusting each other opens doors to real purpose.Discover wisdom on navigating differences and supporting each other’s true paths—no matter where you fit in.Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Is “gentle parenting” helping—or hurting—your kids in the long run?You'll find out in this top 10 episode flashback, as Steve and Mary Alessi discuss  the hot topic of discipline versus gentle parenting, tackling everything from kiddie tables to tantrums in public. Together, they pull back the curtain on raising four kids with different personalities, sharing hard-won wisdom (and a few hilarious mishaps) about what really works when it comes to raising confident, secure children.You'll find out why real discipline—and not just keeping the peace—sets your child up for future success and happiness, and how following through on boundaries makes all the difference. The Alessis get honest about guilt, tough seasons, and the temptation to be your child’s “best friend,” all while encouraging modern parents to take back their authority, trust their instincts, and raise kids everyone loves to be around.Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app 

Is dressing modestly just an outdated rule, or actually meaningful for young women today?In this throwback episode from Season 6, you'll hear from Gaby, Lauren, and Stephanie as they dive headfirst into the honest truth about modesty—what it really means, why it matters, and how it shapes self-worth and confidence. Swapping funny stories and real experiences from growing up in Miami’s “unfiltered” culture, they acknowledge the pressure to show off but reveal how true confidence comes from within.You’ll pick up practical tips for navigating fashion trends, social media, and dating with grace, and learn how to set personal standards that honor both your faith and yourself—without sacrificing style. The Alessi sisters show that modesty isn’t about shame, but about knowing your value, protecting it, and presenting your best self to the world—and to God. Empowering, relatable, and refreshingly real, this conversation goes way deeper than clothes.Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app