The Neurodivergent Connection / The Curious Storyteller

What If the Life You’re Living Was Never Really Yours?In this episode, I sit down with Shruti Trivedi to talk about purpose, grief, mental health, and the quiet pressure of living by someone else’s script.We explore what happens when life forces you to stop, question everything, and ask, Whose life am I living? Shruti shares how moving from IT into coaching changed the way she sees success, self-care, and what it means to live with peace instead of just performance.We also talk about pregnancy loss, why so many hard experiences stay unspoken, and how small shifts in language can change how we carry pain. Then we turn to something every parent, educator, and caregiver will care about: the life skills kids aren’t always taught, from listening to handling emotions and building real human connection.And just when the conversation seems grounded in the present, we look ahead to AI, the future of work, and what we can’t afford to lose as technology keeps moving faster.If you’ve ever felt stuck, disconnected, or unsure what really matters anymore, this conversation may leave you with a few big questions you didn’t know you needed to ask.About the GuestShruti Trivedi is a former IT professional turned coach who helps people reconnect with purpose, process grief, and create space for more honest, meaningful lives. Her work is shaped by her personal experience with pregnancy loss, therapy, parenting, and mental health advocacy.Timestamps0:03 - I welcome Shruti and we begin with purpose, education, and where humanity may be headed7:35 - Shruti shares the personal experiences that changed her path11:11 - We talk about the “template of life” and what it means to question it13:39 - What Shruti had to unlearn in parenting, work, and relationships15:26 - How her definition of success changed over time17:28 - The life skills schools often miss19:28 - The one skill every child should leave school with22:21 - Why we spend more time learning how to do than how to be27:58 - What excites and worries us about AI and the future35:25 - Shruti’s message for anyone feeling trapped by society’s scriptGet you copy of the Anti-Planner - https://shop.adhddd.com/NEURODIVERGENT_CONNECTION If this episode speaks to you, listen through to the end and share it with someone who may need it. Subscribe for more conversations on mental health, purpose, parenting, education, and human connection.#MentalHealth #Purpose #Parenting #AIandHumanity #LifeSkillsHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

When Neurodivergence, Identity, and Spiritual Sensitivity CollideWhat happens when a diagnosis doesn’t feel big enough to explain your experience of the world? In this episode, I sit down with Alice Dillon to explore that question from a deeply personal and thought-provoking angle.We talk about what it means to live with labels like ADHD and neurodivergent while also feeling that something more personal, intuitive, or hard to name is going on underneath. Along the way, I challenge the role of diagnosis, belonging, masking, and the quiet pressure to fit into a world that often misunderstands difference.Alice shares how she’s made sense of her own experience over time, why some labels help while others can feel limiting, and what she believes gets missed when we explain everything through a clinical lens alone. We also get into a bigger question I think many people in this community carry: What if the very traits we’ve been told to tone down are part of what the world needs most?About the GuestAlice Dylan is an author, teacher, and intuitive guide. She’s the author of Alone in a Sea of Normal and shares her work through Facebook and YouTube as @askalice9999.Key Timestamps0:14 - What it feels like when sensitivity gets a clinical name3:41 - The tension between self-diagnosis, identity, and support11:13 - How Alice understood herself before “neurodivergent” became common16:31 - What belonging looked like without labels23:48 - What “spiritual perception” feels like day to day27:47 - The childhood moment that changed everything30:18 - Holding science, diagnosis, and lived experience at the same time35:41 - What could change if neurodivergent people didn’t have to keep fighting to fit in48:07 - What might sit at the core of these experiences beyond labels51:43 - Where to find Alice and her bookhttps://shop.adhddd.com/NEURODIVERGENT_CONNECTIONIf you’ve ever felt caught between diagnosis, intuition, and the need to be understood, this conversation will give you a lot to think about. Listen in, then tell me what stood out to you most.#Neurodivergent #ADHD #AutismAwareness #MentalHealthPodcast #NeurodiversityHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Why Connection Can Feel So Hard for Autistic Adults—and What Might HelpWhat if the problem isn’t a lack of interest in connection, but years of being misunderstood?In this episode, I sit down with Trista to talk about autism, loneliness, safety, and why finding the right kind of connection can feel so complicated for autistic adults. We explore the gap between being around people and actually feeling known, and we get into the questions many families and professionals still avoid.I’m sharing a conversation about friendship, dating, masking, independence, and the real risks that can come with rejection or manipulation. Trista also explains why she created Capable Hearts, an app designed to help autistic adults meet others in a space built with shared understanding in mind. More importantly, we talk about what true support should look like without taking choice away.If you’ve ever wondered how to support an autistic adult without controlling them, or why “included” doesn’t always mean “connected,” this episode will give you a lot to think about.About the GuestTrista is a BCBA and the creator of Capable Hearts. She has spent years supporting autistic individuals and families, with a strong focus on communication, independence, and meaningful connection.https://shop.adhddd.com/NEURODIVERGENT_CONNECTIONKey Timestamps0:02 - I welcome Trista and ask how she first got into this work4:48 - The person who changed how she understood autism8:34 - Looking beneath behavior instead of judging what’s visible14:53 - Why she felt autistic adults needed a different way to connect20:25 - Why existing apps didn’t feel safe or supportive enough24:15 - Isolation, misunderstanding, and autistic loneliness26:38 - What Trista wanted the app experience to feel like40:00 - Safety, vulnerability, and protecting independence46:27 - How families can talk about relationships without shame53:01 - What she wants autistic people to know after rejectioncheck out the app on the appstore or android storehttps://capablehearts.com/If this conversation speaks to you, listen to the full episode and share it with a parent, educator, caregiver, or autistic adult who may need it.#Autism #Neurodiversity #AutisticAdults #DisabilitySupport #InclusiveRelationshipsHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

How Catherine Hughes Turned a Family Crisis Into Advocacy, Belonging, and HopeWhat happens when a parent asks for help and the system gets it painfully wrong? In this episode, I sit down with Catherine Hughes for a conversation that starts with heartbreak and grows into something every caregiver, educator, and neurodivergent person needs to hear.Catherine shares the moment that changed her life as a young mother, and why that experience pushed her to speak up for families who feel blamed, dismissed, or left to figure it all out alone. Along the way, we talk about autism, advocacy, belonging, caregiver support, and the quiet power of being truly heard.You’ll hear why “fitting in” isn’t the goal, what real belonging can look like at home, in schools, and in the community, and why stories often reach people in ways facts can’t. We also get into something many families carry in silence: the guilt of asking for help.About the GuestCatherine Hughes is an advocate, speaker, author, and leader in behavioral health. She supports caregivers and neurodivergent individuals through her work and through The Caffeinated Advocate, where she helps families find support, voice, and connection.If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, unseen, or unsure where to turn next, I think this conversation will stay with you. Listen through to the end, because Catherine shares a simple question that can change how we support each other.Key Timestamps0:02 - I welcome Catherine Hughes and ask about the life that shaped her0:26 - Catherine shares the early signs she noticed in her son and the dismissal she faced6:05 - The arrest, foster care, and the moment everything changed10:20 - How that crisis led Catherine into advocacy and family support16:25 - Why labels should never decide what someone is capable of23:26 - When Catherine’s personal pain became a clear mission27:36 - Why compassion matters more than compliance in care32:16 - What belonging really means beyond inclusion39:38 - Why public speaking didn’t come naturally, and what changed55:19 - What caregivers need to remember about caring for themselves62:50 - What schools, workplaces, and communities still need to change69:31 - The everyday moments that still give Catherine hopeCatherines Resources:Website:thecaffeinatedadvocate.comEmail:[email protected] this episode speaks to you, listen, share it with someone who needs it, and stay connected for more conversations on neurodiversity, autism, ADHD, caregiving, and belonging.#Neurodiversity #AutismAwareness #CaregiverSupport #Belonging #AdvocacyHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

When Advocacy Starts at Home: What Beth Silver Taught Me About Support, Labels, and Being BraveWhat happens when a parent stops waiting for answers and starts building a way forward for their child?In this episode, I sit down with Beth Silver for a deeply honest conversation about raising neurodivergent children, facing fear in real time, and learning how to ask for help without shame. Beth shares how motherhood pushed her from marketing and PR into advocacy, and why some of the hardest lessons came from school meetings, therapy rooms, and moments when no clear answer was in sight.We talk about the weight parents carry, why the right diagnosis can matter more than people want to admit, and how support can change everything when it finally feels real. Beth also opens up about boundaries, burnout, self-care, and the quiet strength it takes to keep showing up when you’re running on coffee and courage.If you’re parenting a neurodivergent child, supporting one, or trying to understand your own experience, I think this conversation will stay with you. You’ll hear stories that may feel familiar—and a few truths that might shift how you see advocacy, communication, and what being brave really looks like.About the GuestBeth Silver is a marketing consultant, advocate, and trusted support for families raising neurodivergent children. Through her work and community connections, she helps parents find clarity, resources, and a plan when life feels overwhelming.Timestamps0:46 - I welcome Beth Silver and ask who she was before advocacy became part of her life3:12 - The first signs her son was experiencing the world differently6:50 - Fear, school struggles, and learning how to ask for help9:00 - When the hardest part becomes the world’s response13:38 - Why support systems and boundaries matter more than most parents realize16:56 - What survival mode looked like day to day25:16 - How helping other families became part of Beth’s purpose41:12 - How parenting changed the way Beth thinks about communication52:15 - What Beth wants overwhelmed parents to hear right now57:35 - The legacy she hopes her children carry forwardBeth's Resourses:Website: doubetllc.comInstagram: @bethwouldknowIf this episode speaks to you, listen all the way through and share it with someone who needs to hear they’re not alone.#NeurodivergentConnection #AutismSupport #ADHDSupport #ParentAdvocacy #NeurodiversityHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

When Co-Parenting Keeps You on Edge: Finding Peace After Divorce with SolI sat down with Sol for a deeply honest conversation about divorce, co-parenting, healing, and what it takes to stop living in constant reaction mode.In this episode, I explore what life can feel like after a relationship ends, especially when you still have to stay connected as parents. Sal shares how overwhelm, conflict, and self-doubt shaped his early days after divorce, and how he slowly began to rebuild trust in himself. Along the way, we talk about boundaries, isolation, emotional triggers, and the quiet inner work that can change how you show up for your kids and for yourself.What struck me most is how Sol turned a painful personal experience into something practical for other co-parents. I’m sharing how that idea took shape, why emotional distance can matter so much in high-conflict communication, and what many people miss about the real weight of co-parenting.If you’re parenting through separation, supporting someone who is, or trying to understand how healing and neurodivergent traits can intersect with stress, this conversation will give you a lot to think about.About the GuestSol is a creative entrepreneur and co-parent who built Best Interest, an app designed to help reduce conflict in co-parent communication using AI-supported message review.Timestamps0:02 - I welcome Sol and we begin before the divorce2:38 - Sol reflects on having a brain that resists neat labels4:19 - The moment he knew he couldn’t keep living this way8:01 - Parenting young kids through divorce and COVID10:01 - How creativity helped protect both him and his children14:21 - What people don’t understand about co-parenting15:46 - The isolation of high-conflict co-parenting22:12 - The grounding practice that changed his healing27:58 - How lived experience became the Best Interest app36:19 - What feels most different about who he is now41:46 - What Sal hopes others take from his storyIf this episode speaks to you, listen through to the end and share it with someone who needs a little more support around divorce, co-parenting, healing, or neurodivergence.#CoParenting #DivorceHealing #NeurodivergentSupport #ParentingAfterDivorce #MentalHealthHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

What a Late ADHD Diagnosis Can Change About Identity, Belonging, and Self-ForgivenessWhat happens when you spend decades feeling different, and then finally get the words for why? In this conversation, I sit down with Mark Steiner to talk about what shifted for him after receiving an ADHD diagnosis later in life.We talk about the quiet friction so many people carry for years, especially when they’ve learned to cope, create, lead, and keep moving without fully understanding their own minds. Mark shares how that late diagnosis brought relief, but also opened the door to deeper questions about self-worth, past pain, and the stories we tell ourselves.You’ll hear us explore identity, masking, creativity, emotional intensity, and why being different, not less matters so much in neurodiversity conversations. Mark also shares how ADHD shaped his work as a founder and leader, and why self-acceptance changed the way he sees both his success and his past.If you’ve ever wondered whether there’s a reason life has felt harder than it looked from the outside, this episode may leave you with a few important questions of your own.About the GuestMark Steiner is the founder and CEO of GigSalad, a platform that has helped thousands of artists and entertainers connect with opportunities. He’s also a creative, speaker, and late-diagnosed ADHD adult who now speaks openly about identity, belonging, and self-understanding. Find him at thinkupon.com.Timestamps0:53 - I welcome Mark Steiner and ask what life felt like before ADHD had a name6:21 - Mark shares where ADHD helped him thrive and where it made life harder12:20 - We talk about being different, not less16:15 - How Mark’s creative mind shaped his work with artists and entrepreneurs22:15 - The moment of diagnosis and the relief that followed26:25 - How his past began to look different through a new lens28:29 - What changed in the way he saw himself as a leader and creator33:59 - How adoption and neurodivergence intersected in his sense of belonging37:37 - What helps different kinds of minds thrive42:48 - What Mark wants listeners to hear if they’re still searching for answersIf this conversation speaks to you, listen to the full episode and share it with someone who may need it too. Stay curious, stay fearless, and remember: you’re never alone. #ADHD #Neurodiversity #LateDiagnosis #MentalHealth #TheNeurodivergentConnectionHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

What Changes When I Stop Asking “What’s Wrong With Me?”If you’ve ever felt too much, too different, or deeply misunderstood, this conversation will stay with you.In this episode, I sit down with Patricia Stellamares to talk about masking, survival, late-diagnosed AuDHD, and what happens when we stop trying to be easier for other people to understand. We explore the quiet cost of living in self-protection for too long, and the relief that can come when your neurodivergence finally has a name.Patricia shares how childhood shame, trauma, and being told she was “wrong” shaped the way she moved through the world. Then, we get into the shift from surviving to actually living, what being truly seen can do to the nervous system, and why healing often has less to do with “fixing” yourself and more to do with letting go of harmful stories.If you’ve been carrying questions about belonging, self-trust, or what healing can look like after years of exhaustion, I think this episode will give you a lot to sit with.About the GuestPatricia Stellamares is the founder of Invocation Healing Arts. She creates retreats, coaching experiences, and healing spaces that support neurodivergent people, couples, and anyone working through trauma, self-doubt, and identity.Key Timestamps0:02 - I welcome Patricia Stellamares to the show2:49 - When feeling “different” started to feel like being “wrong”5:05 - How long that story followed her8:48 - The first time she felt truly seen and believed16:08 - The moment survival and living stopped feeling like the same thing21:14 - What she wishes people understood about neurodivergent lives22:33 - What autism and AuDHD gave her that she didn’t have before26:59 - Healing from being told you’re wrong29:54 - What she hopes people discover in her retreat work35:43 - How being truly seen changes us40:12 - Her message for anyone who feels aloneIf this episode speaks to you, listen through to the end and share it with someone who needs a little more understanding today. You can also find Patricia at invocationhealingarts.com.#Neurodivergent #AuDHD #AutismAwareness #HealingTrauma #MentalHealthHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

When Co-Parenting Keeps You on Edge: Finding Peace After Divorce with SolI sat down with Sal for a deeply honest conversation about divorce, co-parenting, healing, and what it takes to stop living in constant reaction mode.In this episode, I explore what life can feel like after a relationship ends, especially when you still have to stay connected as parents. Sal shares how overwhelm, conflict, and self-doubt shaped his early days after divorce, and how he slowly began to rebuild trust in himself. Along the way, we talk about boundaries, isolation, emotional triggers, and the quiet inner work that can change how you show up for your kids and for yourself.What struck me most is how Sal turned a painful personal experience into something practical for other co-parents. I’m sharing how that idea took shape, why emotional distance can matter so much in high-conflict communication, and what many people miss about the real weight of co-parenting.If you’re parenting through separation, supporting someone who is, or trying to understand how healing and neurodivergent traits can intersect with stress, this conversation will give you a lot to think about.About the GuestSol is a creative entrepreneur and co-parent who built Best Interest, an app designed to help reduce conflict in co-parent communication using AI-supported message review.Timestamps0:02 - I welcome Sol and we begin before the divorce2:38 - Sol reflects on having a brain that resists neat labels4:19 - The moment he knew he couldn’t keep living this way8:01 - Parenting young kids through divorce and COVID10:01 - How creativity helped protect both him and his children14:21 - What people don’t understand about co-parenting15:46 - The isolation of high-conflict co-parenting22:12 - The grounding practice that changed his healing27:58 - How lived experience became the Best Interest app36:19 - What feels most different about who he is now41:46 - What Sol hopes others take from his storyIf this episode speaks to you, listen through to the end and share it with someone who needs a little more support around divorce, co-parenting, healing, or neurodivergence.#CoParenting #DivorceHealing #NeurodivergentSupport #ParentingAfterDivorce #MentalHealthHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

What Helps Neurodivergent Kids Thrive When School Doesn’t Fit?What happens when a child isn’t failing because they can’t learn, but because the system isn’t built for how they learn? In this conversation, I sit down with Dr. Jeremy Tiegerman to talk about what truly helps neurodivergent students grow.We get into the teachers who change everything, why confidence can matter just as much as accommodations, and what families need to hear when they feel worn down. I also share parts of my own school story, because this topic isn’t abstract for me, it’s personal.You’ll hear why self-advocacy can’t wait until college, what schools still miss about autistic and learning disabled students, and why labels only tell part of the story. Dr. Tiegerman also explains the bigger mission behind his family’s work and the belief that no child should be counted out.If you’re a parent, educator, caregiver, or someone finding your way after a diagnosis, I think this episode will leave you with hope, and maybe a few hard questions worth sitting with.About the GuestDr. Jeremy Tiegerman is a psychologist and Chief Operating Officer of Tiegerman, an organization that supports children and adults with learning, language, and developmental needs. His work spans assessment, education, advocacy, and family support.Timestamps0:02 - I welcome Dr. Jeremy Tiegerman and we start with the human side of his story5:49 - How his family history shaped his work in special education12:38 - Why strengths matter just as much as struggles22:48 - What parents need to know about advocacy and support27:17 - Why self-advocacy becomes critical in college31:35 - When traditional education falls short for neurodivergent students42:16 - What schools still misunderstand about autistic students46:42 - What parents taught him that textbooks never could55:31 - What gives him hope, and what still needs to change63:07 - His message for exhausted parents who are scared about the futureDr. Tiegermen's Resources:Tiegerman website - www.tiegerman.org. Dr. Tegerman shared this as the main place to learn more about the organization and its programs.Tiegerman main phone number - 516-609-2000, extension 100 for the receptionist. He said this is a starting point for being directed to the right person or service.If this conversation speaks to you, listen to the full episode and share it with someone who needs the reminder that they’re not alone.#NeurodivergentConnection #AutismSupport #ADHDAwareness #SpecialEducation #ParentAdvocacyHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

When You’ve Always Felt Different: Marie on Being Seen Beyond LabelsIf you’ve ever felt too sensitive, too different, or too hard to explain, this conversation will likely stay with you.In this episode, I sit down with Marie to talk about what it’s like to move through life without neat labels, while still knowing you don’t fit the mold. We talk about feeling “other” from a young age, the deep relief that comes from being truly seen, and why so many people spend years thinking something is wrong with them when that may not be the full story.Marie shares how she makes sense of the space between psychology, education, spirituality, and lived experience. We also get into what happens when schools and mental health systems don’t know how to support people who think, feel, or process the world differently. Along the way, I explore why validation matters so much, and what it can change when someone finally feels understood.If you’re neurodivergent, newly questioning your experience, or supporting someone who feels outside the usual boxes, you’ll hear ideas here that may raise new questions in the best way.About the GuestMarie has a PhD in health psychology and a long background in education, healing work, and guiding people who feel unseen by traditional systems. Her work blends practical insight with a grounded approach to unusual human experiences.Key Timestamps0:02 - I welcome Marie and we begin with her story1:30 - What feeling different looked like before there were words for it6:23 - How activism, mysticism, and experience shaped her path15:45 - Where psychology helps, and where it falls short21:47 - Living between systems that don’t fully fit27:00 - What people are really searching for when they come to her34:07 - What she listens for beyond someone’s words42:01 - Why education and mental health systems often miss the people who need them most51:20 - What Marie wants you to remember if you’ve never fit the boxesIf this episode speaks to you, listen through to the end and share it with someone who needs the reminder that they’re not broken—they may just need to be seen differently.#Neurodiversity #AutismAwareness #ADHDSupport #MentalHealth #PodcastHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

When AuDHD, Unmasking, and Perimenopause CollideWhat happens when your brain finally makes sense, just as your old coping tools stop working?In this episode, I sit down with Heather Zimmerman for an honest conversation about late discovery, AuDHD, masking, and the very real shift that can happen during perimenopause. We talk about what it’s like to look back at your life through a new lens, why so many women are missed or misread for years, and what changes when you stop trying to fit into spaces that were never built for you.Heather shares her perspective with both personal experience and professional insight, which makes this conversation especially powerful. We also get into overstimulation, literal thinking, burnout, identity, and the quiet relief that can come when you finally understand why life has felt harder than it looked from the outside.Heather Zimmerman has a master’s in psychology and is the founder of Divine Ascension Co. She creates content around neurodivergence, perimenopause, intuition, and self-understanding.If you’ve ever wondered whether masking is costing you more than you realized, or why certain life stages seem to turn the volume up on everything, this episode will give you a lot to think about.Timestamps0:01 - Why AuDHD, unmasking, and perimenopause matter together1:11 - What life felt like before having the language for it10:11 - From “something feels off” to understanding how the brain works13:12 - What perimenopause changed mentally, emotionally, and physically22:10 - How masking showed up and why it became too exhausting25:13 - What overstimulation can really look like in daily life35:27 - What regulation actually means for an AuDHD nervous system48:56 - What Heather wants overwhelmed listeners to hear right nowHeathers Resources:Divine Ascension Co - Heather shared this as the main place to find her work, links, and updates. She said the easiest next step is to visit divineascensionco.com.Facebook: Divine Ascension Co - Heather mentioned her Facebook page as another way to connect with her content. She suggested searching for Divine Ascension Co because her name is common online.YouTube: Divine Ascension Co - Heather said her YouTube channel includes a series on neurodivergence and perimenopause. It was mentioned as a place where she talks more about underdiagnosis and medical gaslighting, especially for women.If this conversation speaks to you, listen to the full episode and share it with someone who needs language for what they’re living through.#AuDHD #Neurodivergent #Perimenopause #AutismAwareness #ADHDSupportHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

How Rhythm Can Calm the Nervous System and Support Neurodivergent BrainsWhat if something as simple as rhythm could help with stress, focus, and regulation in ways many people never expect?In this episode, I sit down with Dori to talk about how drumming became more than music. What started as a childhood love of tapping on everything grew into a science-based wellness tool she now uses with neurodivergent kids, teens, and adults. Along the way, we talk about the moments that almost pulled her away from music, the surprising reason she came back to it at 47, and what she began noticing in both her own brain and the people she supported.You’ll hear how rhythm can help calm the body, support attention, and create space for connection. We also get into a bigger conversation about misunderstood neurodivergent learners, hidden strengths, and why so many kids are judged by what they struggle with instead of what they can do.If you’ve ever felt scattered, overwhelmed, or unsure how to support a neurodivergent person in your life, I think this conversation will stay with you.About the GuestDori Staley is the founder of Next Stage Drumming. She works with children, teens, and adults using drumming-based wellness programs that support focus, stress relief, confidence, and emotional regulation.Key Timestamps0:01 - I welcome Dori and we start with her early love of rhythm0:31 - How childhood tapping turned into a lifelong pull toward music7:14 - What rhythm felt like to Dori and why it helped her settle13:04 - Why she auditioned for a band at 47 with no formal drumming background15:53 - When she realized rhythm was helping neurodivergent brains20:56 - What drumming can support: focus, stress, regulation, and more27:53 - What drumming does to the nervous system47:58 - A simple way to use rhythm even if you don’t have a drum58:04 - Where to learn more about Dori and her workDori's Resource'sNext Stage Drumming - Dori’s main website for her drum therapy and wellness work. It was mentioned as the best place to learn about her programs, sign up for her newsletter, and access a free video. https://nextstagedrumming.comListen in if you want a fresh way to think about neurodiversity, regulation, and the power of meeting people where they are.#Neurodiversity #ADHD #AutismSupport #EmotionalRegulation #DrummingTherapyHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

What It Really Takes to Keep Going When Life Doesn’t Follow the PlanWhat happens when grief, parenting, leadership, and faith all collide in one life story? In this conversation, I sit down with Debbie Simmons to talk about the moments that shaped her most—and the choices that kept her moving when it would’ve been easier to stop.Debbie’s story doesn’t fit into a neat box. She’s a former engineer, the CEO of Anchor Point, an author, a speaker, and a mother of nine adopted children. Yet what stayed with me most was how honestly she talked about loss, courage, health, family, and the weight of building something meant to serve other people.We get into what it means to take the next step when you don’t have the full picture, how vulnerability can make room for real community, and why grit alone isn’t always enough. Debbie also shares a few hard-earned lessons about boundaries, trust, adoption, and the kind of legacy that starts long before the end of your life.If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re strong enough for the chapter you’re in, this episode may leave you thinking about that in a whole new way.About the GuestDebbie Simmons is the CEO of Anchor Point, a nonprofit leader, author, speaker, wife, mother of nine adopted children, and grandmother of fifteen. Her work centers on trust, healing, leadership, and living with intention.Timestamps0:50 - I welcome Debbie Simmons and we begin with the story behind the bio3:27 - Debbie shares the parts of her life that can’t fit into one sentence9:29 - We talk about nonlinear life paths and the value of every chapter12:59 - The painful season that became important later18:49 - How Debbie built a nonprofit one step at a time23:08 - Why she sees herself as a builder, not a maintainer41:28 - How adopting nine children changed her understanding of family48:22 - Where she found her limits and what it cost to ignore them56:30 - We discuss risk, uncertainty, and trusting without full clarity73:31 - Debbie explains what legacy means to her nowDebbie's Resources:anchorpoint.ushttps://thedebbiesimmons.com/Free book, The Heart of Legacy:theheartoflegacy.comIf this conversation speaks to you, listen to the full episode and share it with someone who may need the reminder that tomorrow is a fresh start.#TheCuriousStoryteller #DebbieSimmons #Legacy #Adoption #FaithAndResilienceHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

What Happens to Home, Identity, and Grief When You Build a Life Abroad?What if starting over in a new country doesn’t just change your address, but brings you face to face with who you really are?In this episode, I sit down with Melissa Parks to talk about living abroad, coming home, and the quiet emotional weight that can come with both. We explore what happens when the life you once wanted turns out to be harder than expected, especially for autistic and neurodivergent people trying to make sense of belonging, masking, grief, and identity.Melissa shares how travel, culture, language, and big life transitions shaped the person she became, and why returning home can feel just as disorienting as leaving. Along the way, I also open up about my own experiences studying overseas, traveling alone, and trying to find comfort in unfamiliar places.You’ll hear us unpack the difference between being unhappy and being uprooted, why grief is so often mistaken for failure, and what “home” really means when your heart lives in more than one place.About the GuestMelissa Parks is a writer, coach, and author of A Compassionate Mess. She works with people navigating life across borders, languages, and cultures, with a thoughtful focus on identity, belonging, and emotional well-being.Key Timestamps0:02 - I welcome Melissa Parks and we begin with her early picture of adulthood1:06 - We talk about what “home” meant before life abroad14:44 - Melissa shares when living abroad became real, not temporary16:21 - We compare traveling to actually building a life in another country19:27 - We explore whether living abroad changes us or reveals who we already are27:13 - Melissa explains why people feel guilt when a chosen life feels hard29:40 - We discuss how grief often gets mistaken for failure35:36 - Melissa shares what people misunderstand about coming home49:37 - We talk about her memoir, A Compassionate Mess, and the inner battles behind it53:04 - We end with what “home” means todayMelissa's Resources:Melissaparks.comFind her on all social platforms except TictokIf you’ve ever felt split between places, identities, or versions of yourself, this conversation will stay with you. Listen now, and if it speaks to you, share it with someone who needs the reminder that they’re not alone.#NeurodivergentConnection #AutismAwareness #LivingAbroad #IdentityAndBelonging #NeurodivergentHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

What Burnout, Trust, and Real Support Look Like for Neurodivergent Kids and Their FamiliesIf you’ve ever wondered what real support actually looks like for a neurodivergent child and their family, this conversation will stay with you.In this episode, I sit down with Antoinette Elliott to talk about the things many people miss: parent burnout, the quiet signs behind a child’s behavior, and why feeling understood can change everything. We get honest about what families carry, what trust really takes, and why some childcare spaces help children settle while others make things worse.I’m also sharing a conversation that raises big questions around school fit, foster care, behavior support, and what happens when adults focus on control instead of connection. If you support a child with autism, ADHD, or other disabilities, you’ll hear why the “right” environment matters more than most people think—and what to notice before a crisis hits.About the GuestAntoinette Elliott is the founder of All Our Children and has spent years creating supportive childcare spaces for families, including those raising neurodivergent children and foster children. Her work centers on meeting children where they are and helping families feel seen, safe, and supported.Key Timestamps0:12 - What Antoinette saw families carrying behind closed doors4:33 - What parent burnout looks like in real life8:49 - What adults often miss when a child is struggling15:49 - Why parents shouldn’t hide their child’s needs from schools24:59 - What can change when a child finally feels understood27:15 - The moment trust starts for overwhelmed families29:46 - What an RBT does and why the right fit matters40:05 - Regulation vs. control in childcare settings42:14 - What foster families really need and why it’s rarely talked about54:43 - Antoinette’s message for parents who feel worn down and aloneAntoinette's resources:AOC Elite Childcare - The center’s website, mentioned as the main place to learn more, view events, and schedule a drop-in day. Visit aocelitechildcare.com.If this episode speaks to you, listen through to the end and share it with a parent, educator, or caregiver who needs this reminder: there are people who care, and you’re not alone.#NeurodivergentConnection #AutismSupport #ADHDAwareness #ParentBurnout #InclusiveChildcareHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

When Life Stops You Cold: Andrea’s 101 Days in the Hospital and What Came AfterOne ordinary season turned into a fight for life, and in this conversation, I sit with Andrea as she shares what changed when her body could no longer keep going.I wanted to tell this story with care because it speaks to something many of us carry quietly: the pressure to keep pushing, even when something feels deeply wrong. Andrea opens up about the medical crisis that led to sepsis, a coma, emergency surgery, and 101 days in the hospital. Yet this isn’t only about survival. It’s also about what happens to your mind, your identity, and your view of life when everything familiar falls away.As we talk, you’ll hear how she moved through fear, confusion, grief, and the slow work of recovery. I also explore the quiet shifts that changed how she sees gratitude, vulnerability, and the way she wants to live now. There’s one moment involving sunlight and fresh air that says more than any long speech could.About the GuestAndrea is a life coach and workshop leader who helps people build a life with more meaning, appreciation, and purpose after hard seasons.Timestamps0:03 - I welcome Andrea and we go back to life before the medical emergency4:03 - The moment she knew something was seriously wrong7:52 - How she finally got answers after collapsing far from home9:50 - What 101 days in the hospital did to her mentally and emotionally15:07 - Waking up two weeks later from a coma18:29 - The surprising moment that brought comfort in the ICU22:27 - What helped her keep fighting on the hardest days28:41 - How her relationship with her body changed32:14 - What she had to let go of after surviving40:45 - The message she hopes listeners carry into daily lifeAndres Resources: Website: Life Coaching by AndreaSocial: Life Changing by AndreaIf this conversation speaks to you, listen to the full episode and share it with someone who needs hope, perspective, or a reminder to slow down and pay attention.#SepsisSurvivor #HospitalRecovery #MentalHealth #LifeAfterTrauma #TheCuriousStorytellerHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Are We Seeing Autism Clearly, or Through a Lens That Misses the Whole Person?What if the way I’ve been taught to understand autism is also the thing that keeps me from seeing the full picture?In this conversation, I sit down with Leila Farshchian to talk about a question that doesn’t get asked often enough: when autism is filtered through clinical language, school systems, and service models, what gets lost? We talk about the gap between support on paper and support in real life, why language matters more than many people realize, and what changes when I stop looking at autistic people as a list of needs to manage.You’ll hear us explore why families so often have to carry the weight of advocacy, where schools and care systems still fall short, and why technology may play a bigger role in care than many people expect. We also get into one assumption the field still holds onto that may be doing real harm.About the guest: Leila Farshchian works in autism care with a background in applied behavior analysis and a strong focus on collaboration, access, and practical support for families. She is also connected with Circathera and the Autism Directory, which aim to build stronger connections across the neurodivergent community.If you’ve ever felt like autism support is too fragmented, too clinical, or missing the human side, this episode will give you a lot to think about. Listen in, then share it with someone who needs a better way to see the full person.Timestamps0:02 - Why the usual autism lens can miss the whole child2:50 - How language shapes understanding, care, and identity6:12 - A powerful reminder that every autistic person’s reality is different9:04 - What schools capture well, and where they still fall short12:35 - How education, healthcare, and funding shape real support15:37 - The biggest gap between what professionals know and daily practice16:48 - Why technology may help close the treatment gap19:46 - What I’d change first if autism support centered on understanding21:20 - One assumption about autism the field still needs to question#AutismAwareness #Neurodiversity #AutismSupport #SpecialEducation #DisabilityInclusionHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

When a Diagnosis Changes Everything: Parenting Autism, Finding Support, and Using Your VoiceWhat happens when you know something is different, but you still don’t have answers?In this episode, I sit down with Missy Brown for an honest conversation about parenting a child with autism and ADHD, the fear and confusion that can come before a diagnosis, and what it really feels like when support is thin and judgment is loud.As we talk, I explore the parts many families live through but don’t always say out loud: long waitlists, broken routines, public meltdowns, lost friendships, and the quiet guilt that can follow a hard day. At the same time, Missy shares how clarity changed things for her, why writing became part of her healing, and how advocacy grew out of everyday survival.You’ll hear why trusting your instincts matters, what parents may need more of from professionals, and the small shift that can help when everything feels like too much. There’s also a powerful reminder here: your child is more than a list of challenges, and you are not failing because this is hard.About the GuestMissy Brown is an autism advocate, author of Soaring Over Skepticism, and a parent raising a neurodivergent child. She shares relatable, real-life support for families navigating autism, ADHD, anxiety, and the daily realities of caregiving.Key Timestamps0:25 - When Missy first noticed her child’s path might look different2:45 - The fear, questions, and lack of support after diagnosis7:16 - What she hoped therapy and support systems would provide12:46 - The early surprises, hard moments, and strengths she saw in her child15:41 - Why getting answers brought relief and clarity16:34 - The moment parenting turned into writing and advocacy21:39 - Why writing felt freeing and scary at the same time28:12 - What she had to unlearn as a parent of an autistic child32:41 - When she realized she was finding her voice38:39 - What overwhelmed parents need to hold on to right now41:19 - One small step parents can take this weekMissy's Resources:Missys Book: Soaring Over SkepticismYou can find her on: LinkedIN and Facebookand you can find out more about Circa TheraIf this conversation speaks to you, listen to the full episode and share it with a parent, educator, or caregiver who needs the reminder that they’re not alone.#AutismSupport #ADHDParenting #NeurodivergentFamilies #AutismAdvocacy #NeurodiversityHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

When Life Looks Fine but Feels Empty: How I Talked With Laura Marie About Leaving AutopilotWhat if your life looks successful on paper, but deep down it feels numb, routine, and strangely far from you?In this episode, I sit down with Laura Marie to talk about the quiet kind of disconnection so many people carry for years. We get into what it feels like to keep checking all the right boxes while wondering why joy never seems to stay. If you’ve ever thought, Is this really it?, this conversation will likely hit close to home.I’m sharing a discussion about burnout, people-pleasing, hustle culture, and the hard moment when you realize you can’t keep living by someone else’s script. Laura opens up about losing her job, facing the fear of not having a plan, and slowly building a life that feels more honest and more alive.We also talk about why small acts of awareness matter, what core values can show you when you feel stuck, and why support can make all the difference when you’re trying to change course.About the GuestLaura Marie is a coach who helps women reconnect with who they are beneath expectations, productivity, and survival mode so they can create a life that feels true to them.Timestamps1:24 - What “success” felt like behind the scenes5:24 - The whisper that says, “Is this enough?”8:43 - The signs of living on autopilot14:50 - What to do when you can’t leave the job yet17:35 - How burnout can feel like sleepwalking22:20 - A simple place to start when you don’t know what you want30:05 - The midlife moment that changed everything35:31 - Redefining success as time, space, and freedom44:23 - What society gets wrong about happiness and fulfillment54:29 - What Laura wants you to hear if you feel stuckIf this speaks to where you are right now, listen to the full episode and tell me what part stayed with you most.#TheCuriousStoryteller #PersonalGrowth #BurnoutRecovery #MidlifeAwakening #IntentionalLivingHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief, and Rebuilding Life in Small StepsWhat happens when the person helping others finally realizes the story is also their own?In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Jennifer Dahl to talk about late ADHD diagnosis, masking, grief, trauma, and what it means to rebuild a life when your brain needs a different kind of support. This conversation is honest, practical, and deeply human.We talk about the shock and relief that can come with finally having a name for what you've lived with for years. Then we get into something many people don't say out loud: what it feels like when ADHD overlaps with loss, exhaustion, and major life changes. Dr. Jennifer shares why “trying harder” often misses the point, and why small shifts can make a real difference when big systems fall apart.If you've ever wondered why some advice works for other people but not for you, or how to move forward without pretending you have it all together, this episode will give you a lot to think about.About the GuestDr. Jennifer Dahl has spent more than 25 years supporting students and adults with ADHD. After her own diagnosis, along with experiences of grief, trauma, and brain injury, her work took on an even deeper lived understanding.Timestamps0:02 - I welcome Dr. Jennifer Dahl and we begin with her path to understanding ADHD1:46 - The familiar signs that were hard to name7:45 - Why structure helps until it suddenly disappears11:32 - Her diagnosis, grief, and traumatic brain injury collide16:51 - The mix of relief, grief, and anger after a late diagnosis22:56 - What real support looked like during the hardest season32:44 - Why small shifts can matter more than big plans43:42 - ADHD advice that fails, and what actually helps49:40 - What I hope newly diagnosed listeners hear mostDr Jen's Resources:ADHD Holistically - Dr. Jennifer Dahl’s main website and hub for her work. She shared it as the best place to learn more, join her newsletter, and connect with her resources: adhdholistically.com.Newsletter - Available through ADHD Holistically. Dr. Dall recommended joining it to keep up with her work and updates.Instagram - One of the platforms where Dr. Dall shares ideas and stays in touch with people who follow her work. She invited listeners to follow her there for ongoing support and updates.LinkedIn - Another platform Dr. Dall mentioned for connecting online. She noted that she is posting there more and encouraged people to reach out.If this speaks to you, listen to the full episode and share it with someone who needs to feel seen. #ADHD #Neurodiversity #LateDiagnosis #GriefSupport #MentalHealthHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Late ADHD Diagnosis, Grief, and Rebuilding Life in Small StepsWhat happens when the person helping others finally realizes the story is also their own?In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Jennifer Dahl to talk about late ADHD diagnosis, masking, grief, trauma, and what it means to rebuild a life when your brain needs a different kind of support. This conversation is honest, practical, and deeply human.We talk about the shock and relief that can come with finally having a name for what you've lived with for years. Then we get into something many people don't say out loud: what it feels like when ADHD overlaps with loss, exhaustion, and major life changes. Dr. Jennifer shares why “trying harder” often misses the point, and why small shifts can make a real difference when big systems fall apart.If you've ever wondered why some advice works for other people but not for you, or how to move forward without pretending you have it all together, this episode will give you a lot to think about.About the GuestDr. Jennifer Dahl has spent more than 25 years supporting students and adults with ADHD. After her own diagnosis, along with experiences of grief, trauma, and brain injury, her work took on an even deeper lived understanding.Timestamps0:02 - I welcome Dr. Jennifer Dahl and we begin with her path to understanding ADHD1:46 - The familiar signs that were hard to name7:45 - Why structure helps until it suddenly disappears11:32 - Her diagnosis, grief, and traumatic brain injury collide16:51 - The mix of relief, grief, and anger after a late diagnosis22:56 - What real support looked like during the hardest season32:44 - Why small shifts can matter more than big plans43:42 - ADHD advice that fails, and what actually helps49:40 - What I hope newly diagnosed listeners hear mostIf this speaks to you, listen to the full episode and share it with someone who needs to feel seen. #ADHD #Neurodiversity #LateDiagnosis #GriefSupport #MentalHealthDr. Jens Resources:ADHD Holistically - Dr. Jennifer Dall's main website and hub for her work. She shared it as the best place to learn more, join her newsletter, and connect with her resources: adhdholistically.com.Newsletter - Available through ADHD Holistically. Dr. Dall recommended joining it to keep up with her work and updates.Instagram - One of the platforms where Dr. Dall shares ideas and stays in touch with people who follow her work. She invited listeners to follow her there for ongoing support and updates.LinkedIn - Another platform Dr. Dall mentioned for connecting online. She noted that she is posting there more and encouraged people to reach out.Hosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

When Life Looks Fine on Paper but Feels Empty InsideWhat happens when you do everything “right” and still feel like something is missing? In this conversation, I sit down with Laura Marie to talk about the quiet ache of living on autopilot, chasing productivity, and waking up to the fact that success on paper doesn’t always feel like peace in real life.Laura shares what changed when she hit midlife, lost her job, and finally had to face the question so many people avoid: Is this really the life I want? We talk about burnout, identity, hustle culture, and the small shifts that can help you notice your own life again before it passes in a blur.If you’ve been stuck in routine, feeling numb, or wondering why a “good” life still feels heavy, this episode will give you a lot to think about. I also ask Laura about redefining success, setting better boundaries, and why real joy often looks much simpler than we expect.About the GuestLaura Marie is a coach and guide who helps women question old expectations, reconnect with their values, and build a life that feels more honest, spacious, and fully their own.Key Timestamps0:02 - I welcome Laura Marie and we begin with the hidden emptiness behind a “successful” life2:32 - Laura describes the quiet voice asking, “Is this all there is?”7:31 - The signs she was living on autopilot for years13:38 - What to do when you can’t leave your job but know something needs to change16:24 - What burnout and overwhelm looked like in everyday life21:08 - Why core values matter when you don’t know what you want28:53 - The moment losing her job forced her to question success34:20 - How she began redefining freedom, joy, and fulfillment40:17 - What helped her stay committed when doubt showed up47:07 - Why so many people stay stuck in the hustle cycle53:18 - Laura’s starting point for anyone who feels trapped on autopilotLaura's Resources:www.wildawakewoman.com@livingwildawake on Facebook and InstagramIf this conversation hits close to home, listen all the way through and share it with someone who may need it too. For more conversations on personal growth, burnout, midlife change, and living with intention, follow along and stay connected.#MidlifeAwakening #BurnoutRecovery #IntentionalLiving #PersonalGrowth #LifeOnAutopilotHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

What Changes When a Whole Family Finally Has the Words for Autism and ADHD?What happens when years of chaos, guilt, and confusion finally start to make sense?In this episode, I sit down with Walter and Stephanie Parker for an honest conversation about raising three neurodivergent daughters while also making sense of their own diagnoses. We talk about what life looked like before they had language for autism, ADHD, alexithymia, and rejection sensitivity, and why getting answers changed the way they saw their marriage, parenting, and even themselves.What stayed with me most is how much this episode speaks to families who know something feels different but can’t quite explain it yet. We get into the grief, the relief, the missed signs, and the small shifts that can change everything at home. We also talk about stigma, burnout, masking, and why the right support can mean the difference between surviving and actually feeling understood.Walter and Stephanie are the founders of Divergent by Design, a growing online community focused on neurodivergent support, education, and coaching. Together, they’re helping families feel less alone and more seen.If you’ve ever wondered, Is this what’s been going on in my home all along? this is an episode you’ll want to hear all the way through.Key Timestamps0:26 - What family life looked like before anyone had a diagnosis2:58 - The moment autism started making sense6:00 - How diagnosis changed their marriage and parenting13:31 - Living with alexithymia in a neurodiverse home16:44 - What a typical day looks like with three neurodivergent daughters22:44 - The real impact of stigma at work and in public life28:50 - Why building community is harder than it sounds41:00 - How their family shaped Divergent by Design and Full Spectrum Lender49:07 - The honest conversations people still avoid about autism and ADHD64:10 - What they hope their daughters carry into the worldWalter & Stephanie's Resources:Website:divergentbydesignllc.com — Stephanie’s life coaching and neurodivergence support siteFacebook Group: Divergent by Design — community space for connection, education, and supportFacebook Page: Divergent by Design LLC — updates, content, and resourcesTikTok: Divergent by Design LLC — short-form educational contentInstagram: Divergent by Design LLC — visuals, tips, and community contentBrand Mentioned: Full Spectrum Lender — Walter’s mortgage and real estate lending brandIf this conversation resonates with you, listen to the full episode and share it with someone who needs clearer language, more support, or simply the reminder that they’re not alone.#AutismAwareness #ADHDSupport #NeurodivergentFamilies #Neurodiversity #ParentingSupportHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

What If Your Gut, Brain, and Nervous System Have Been Talking All Along?What if the symptoms you’ve been trying to “fix” are actually messages worth hearing?In this episode, I sit down with Heather Van Tassel to talk about the gut-brain connection, meditation, concussion recovery, and what it means to understand yourself when your mind and body don’t fit neat boxes. We get into the space between science and lived experience, and why that space matters more than most people realize.You’ll hear how Heather’s background in biochemistry, neuroscience, and nutrition shaped the way she thinks about chronic gut issues, nervous system stress, and mental health. We also talk about self-recognition, ADHD traits without a formal diagnosis, and why support doesn’t always start with a label.If you’ve ever felt dismissed, confused by mixed health advice, or unsure where to begin, this conversation will give you a new way to think about healing, regulation, and personalized care. And yes, we talk about one small daily habit that may be quietly making things worse.About the GuestHeather Van Tassel is a gut health coach and nutritionist with a background in biochemistry, neuroscience, and data science. Her work focuses on the connection between the gut, brain, and nervous system, with an emphasis on education and practical support.Key Timestamps0:02 - I welcome Heather and we begin with her early curiosity about the brain and body3:00 - How a concussion changed her identity and deepened her connection to meditation9:41 - The moment she began seeing how much the microbiome shapes health14:14 - How she approaches chronic bloating, IBS, food sensitivities, and root-cause questions19:31 - When science, nutrition, and lived experience stopped feeling separate31:30 - What to remember if you feel stuck between Western care and other approaches43:08 - Why symptoms may be signals to listen to, not just problems to silence49:22 - Heather opens up about ADHD traits, self-awareness, and living without a formal diagnosis58:02 - What most people misunderstand about the gut-brain connection64:29 - A gentle place to begin if all the health advice feels like too much65:50 - How we make meditation feel more accessible for neurodivergent minds82:18 - What a world built with neurodivergent people in mind could look likeHeather's resources:https://datadrivennutritionist.com/If this conversation speaks to you, listen to the full episode and share it with someone who needs a gentler way into understanding mind-body health.#GutBrainConnection #NeurodivergentConnection #MentalHealthAwareness #ADHDSupport #NervousSystemHealthHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Why a Real-Time Train Board Feels So Calming to WatchWhat starts as a story about a train board turns into something much bigger: pattern, comfort, design, and the quiet pull of watching a system move in real time.In this episode, I sit down with Griffin Van Horn, creator of Traintrakr.io, to talk about how a late-night makerspace idea became a product people connect with in ways no one fully expected. We get into the moment the project stopped feeling like an experiment, why simple design can say more than a screen full of data, and what happened when customers began sharing deeply personal reasons they loved it.I also explore something that really stayed with me: why movement, rhythm, and visible patterns can feel so grounding. If you’ve ever wondered why certain objects bring comfort, focus, or connection, this conversation will give you a lot to think about.About my guest: Griffin Van Horn is the creator of Train Tracker, a real-time transit display that turns live train data into a clean, visual experience. His work brings together engineering, design, and a strong respect for community-built ideas.You’ll hear how Train Tracker grew from a handmade prototype into something people use for far more than commute info—and why that matters.Key Timestamps0:03 - I welcome Griffin Van Horn and introduce Train Tracker0:21 - How the idea began in the Cambridge Hackspace9:01 - The surprise behind what they were really building17:57 - The moment the project started feeling real20:36 - What the first version looked like behind the scenes26:02 - What early users taught them about simplicity32:21 - Why people connect with the feeling, not just the data40:12 - The unexpected stories that made the work feel bigger44:11 - Why trains and patterns can feel oddly calming55:05 - Where to learn more about TraintrakrYou can find out more at: Traintrackr.ioIf this episode speaks to you, listen to the full conversation and share it with someone who loves design, transit, or the comfort of patterns in motion.#TrainTrackr #DesignStory #TransitDesign #Makerspace #CuriousStorytellerHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

What a Late ADHD Diagnosis Can Explain, and What It Can ChangeIf you’ve ever thought, “Why does my brain work like this?” this conversation will likely hit close to home.In this episode, I sit down with Jax Crider to talk about what it’s like to live for years without the language for ADHD, and what can happen when that missing piece finally clicks into place. We get into the quiet guilt that can build before diagnosis, the relief that can follow, and why so many adults, especially women, are only now starting to connect the dots.Jax shares honest stories about being “too much,” forgetting everyday tasks, and dealing with the mental snowball that can turn one small moment into a flood of self-doubt. We also talk about something I think more people need to hear: ADHD isn’t only about struggle. There can be real strengths here too, if you know what to look for.About the GuestJax Crider is an entrepreneur, mortgage professional, financial educator, and host of Financial Mastery Simplified. She speaks openly about late-diagnosed ADHD, business, money, and building a life that fits how your brain actually works.If you’re questioning your own ADHD, supporting someone who is, or trying to make sense of a late diagnosis, I think this episode will leave you feeling more seen.Timestamps0:02 - I welcome Jax and we start with life before diagnosis4:39 - Jax explains the “snowball” of ADHD, anxiety, and depression9:56 - A personal story about success, failure, and black-and-white thinking25:30 - What Jax felt when she finally got her ADHD diagnosis33:41 - What ADHD as a “superpower” looks like in real life38:03 - Why AI can be useful for neurodivergent people44:58 - Late diagnosis, guilt, and the question of what might have been57:10 - What still isn’t being said enough about ADHD in adults81:15 - What Jax wants listeners to hear if they’re just starting to figure this outJax's Resources:jaxcridder.comFinancial Mastery Simplified by Jax Rider - PodcastListen in, and if this episode speaks to you, share it with someone who needs that reminder: you’re not broken, and you’re not alone.#ADHD #LateDiagnosis #Neurodivergent #MentalHealth #NeurodiversityHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

What Happens When Neurodivergence, Fatherhood, and Advocacy CollideWhat does it cost to stop masking—and what can happen when you finally let people see the real you?In this episode, I sit down with Dan Roth for an honest conversation about neurodivergence, rejection, work, parenting, and the quiet weight so many of us carry. We talk about what the pandemic changed, why that inner voice can be so hard to settle, and how being openly ADHD shaped the way Dan rebuilt his life when everything felt uncertain.What stayed with me most is how this conversation moves beyond careers. We get into the tension around disclosure, workplace bias, and accommodations, but we also go deeper into what it means to raise autistic children in systems that still miss the mark. Dan shares what shifted for him as a father, advocate, and community builder—and why some of his biggest work started with one simple act of care.If you're neurodivergent, parenting a neurodivergent child, or trying to build a more inclusive school or workplace, this one will likely hit close to home. I think you'll walk away feeling seen, and you may also start asking different questions about what support should really look like.About the GuestDan Roth is a neurodivergent speaker, advocate, and community leader known for his work in hiring, inclusion, and special education support. He’s also a father of autistic daughters and a strong voice for more inclusive schools, workplaces, and communities.Key Timestamps0:02 - I welcome Dan Roth and we set the stage for a deeply personal conversation0:17 - What the pandemic felt like for neurodivergent people2:42 - Why rejection can feel so personal5:02 - Dan opens up about self-doubt and the nonstop inner voice9:26 - The moment social media became a turning point13:49 - What it felt like to share his first public post15:20 - Neurodivergence, job applications, and workplace accommodations21:16 - When advocacy became bigger than employment27:02 - The story behind an inclusive school project that still gives me chills31:02 - How parenting autistic daughters made the mission personal36:00 - What feels broken in hiring systems44:38 - Dan’s message for parents wondering if they’re enoughDans Resources:Dan RothEmail: [email protected]:Breaking the Silence: Voices of Survivors on AmazonIf this episode speaks to you, listen through to the end and share it with someone who needs this reminder: you’re not alone.#Neurodivergent #Autism #ADHD #ParentingSupport #WorkplaceInclusionDansHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

What the Ocean Is Doing Right Now That Most of Us Never SeeWhen I sat down with Helen Czerski, I wanted to ask a simple question: what are we missing when we look at the ocean? What followed changed the way I think about waves, weather, and our place in the world.In this episode, I explore how the ocean shapes far more than coastlines. Helen helps me see why it affects climate, rain, and daily life, even if you never live near the sea. She also shares why calling the ocean a “mystery” may keep us from understanding just how connected we are to it.We also talk about science in a way that feels human. I ask Helen why stories matter so much in science communication, how curiosity starts in ordinary life, and why you do not need a lab coat to think like a scientist. There’s one everyday example she gives that makes this point beautifully.About the guest: Helen Czerski is a physicist, ocean scientist, author, and broadcaster. She studies the physical world and is known for making science clear, vivid, and worth caring about.If you’ve ever looked at the sea and felt something bigger than words, this conversation will give that feeling more shape.Key Timestamps0:02 - Why the ocean is a hidden force shaping our planet2:38 - What Helen sees beneath a breaking wave7:57 - The moment the ocean became real to her as a physical system12:13 - Why people underestimate the ocean’s influence14:30 - Why Helen pushes back on calling the ocean “mysterious”20:52 - Why science needs narrative, not just data29:39 - Why anyone can think like a scientist39:01 - The map that shows the world as one connected oceanListen in, then tell me: after this conversation, will you ever look at the ocean the same way again?#OceanScience #HelenCzerskii #ScienceCommunication #ClimateEducation #CuriousStorytellerHelen's Website: https://www.helenczerski.net/Hosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

What Happens After a Life-Changing Diagnosis? Annie Toro Lopez Shares What Helped Her Find Hope AgainWhat do you do when your body stops feeling safe, and the people around you can’t fully see what you’re carrying? In this conversation, I sit down with Annie Toro Lopez to talk about diagnosis, grief, trauma, food, and the long road back to trusting your body.Annie shares what it was like to be diagnosed with lupus in her early 20s, how years of pain and medical fear shaped her life, and what shifted when she decided her diagnosis would not define her future. We also talk about the emotional weight of loss, the shock of a later celiac diagnosis, and why mindset, nutrition, and self-compassion mattered so much in her healing story.If you or someone you love is facing a new diagnosis, chronic illness, or the quiet exhaustion that comes with being misunderstood, this episode will give you something many people need most: hope without pressure. You’ll hear how Annie rebuilt connection, found her voice, and created support instead of waiting for it to appear.About the GuestAnnie Toro Lopez is a writer, speaker, cookbook author, and community builder who shares from lived experience with lupus, celiac disease, trauma recovery, and healing.Key Timestamps0:03 - I welcome Annie Toro Lopez and begin with her lupus diagnosis story8:56 - The hardest parts of living with autoimmune illness in the early years17:48 - How therapy and mindset changed the way she saw her body and life26:05 - The meaning behind reaching a negative ANA after years of illness31:23 - Grief, celiac diagnosis, and what that season took out of her42:22 - Why Annie wrote Simply Gluten-Free and who it helps53:38 - Her message for anyone facing a hard diagnosis right now57:25 - Where to find Annie’s book, website, and latest workIf this conversation speaks to you, listen to the full episode and share it with someone who needs a little more understanding and a little less fear.#NeurodivergentConnection #ChronicIllness #LupusAwareness #CeliacDisease #HealingJourneyHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

When Your Mind Works Differently: Trauma, Leadership, and Finding What FitsIf you’ve ever felt like your brain doesn’t follow the same map as everyone else’s, this conversation will likely hit close to home.In this episode, I sit down with Blaz Merlot to talk about what it means to move through the world feeling different, and how that can shape the way we lead, work, and understand ourselves. We get into the tension between structure and individuality, why some environments feel calming while others leave us drained, and how trauma can affect the way we think, react, and function day to day.What stood out to me most is how Blaz connects his path from a difficult childhood to West Point, then into business leadership and coaching. We also explore a question many people quietly carry: Is this just how my mind works, or is it connected to what I’ve lived through? That part of the conversation opens up a much bigger one about identity, resilience, burnout, and how to build a life that actually fits your brain.About the GuestBlaz Merlot is a former military officer and West Point graduate who now helps service-based founders build stronger systems, reduce overwhelm, and lead without chaos or burnout.Key Timestamps0:00 - I welcome Blaz and start with his early story3:33 - Why military structure felt meaningful to him5:38 - How West Point changed the way he thought10:48 - What the military taught him about leadership and trust16:31 - How he defines neurodivergence for himself19:39 - The strengths and challenges of a different-thinking brain24:37 - Trauma, brain development, and the questions he still carries36:04 - Why founders get stuck in chaos and burnout43:01 - What healthy leadership looks like now48:30 - What he wants neurodivergent listeners to rememberIf this episode speaks to your experience, listen all the way through and share it with someone who needs a reminder that they’re not broken—they may just work differently. #Neurodivergent #TraumaAndHealing #Leadership #MentalHealth #AutismAndADHDHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Finding Your Voice When the Path Doesn’t Make Sense YetWhat happens when your voice belongs to more than one world? In this conversation, I sit down with Sonia Sohn to talk about art, identity, and the strange in-between space where so many creative lives are built.Sonya is known for her viral performances with Julian the piano player, including the flash mobs that have caught millions of eyes across Europe. But in this episode, I go past the polished videos and into the real story behind the voice.We talk about what it means to feel called to something before you can explain it, why training can help and still get in your way, and how self-doubt can show up even when the talent is obvious. Sonia also shares what it was like growing up between musical worlds, studying opera in Germany, building a pop sound of her own, and learning to live with uncertainty instead of waiting for a perfect plan.If you’ve ever wondered whether you’re allowed to be more than one thing, or how people keep creating when they still don’t have it all figured out, this episode will stay with you.About the GuestSonya aka Sone Sings is a singer and performer with roots in opera, pop, and live viral performance. She has appeared in widely shared musical collaborations across Europe and continues to create music that blends technical skill with personal expression.Key Timestamps0:02 - I welcome Sonia Sohn and introduce her viral music background0:35 - Sonia shares her early life, family influence, and first major performances6:21 - We talk about the emotional feeling of singing opera for the first time7:43 - Sonia explains the hard part of finding her own sound after formal training17:11 - We explore the tension between her trained voice and personal voice24:01 - Sonia reveals what people don’t see behind songwriting and recording32:37 - She reflects on health, growth, and what her younger self would think now41:07 - We revisit the flash mob videos and the moment everything changedIf this conversation speaks to you, listen to the full episode and tell me what part stayed with you most. Subscribe for more conversations on creativity, voice, storytelling, and the messy middle of becoming who you are.#SoneSings #TheCuriousStoryteller #MusicInterview #CreativeProcess #FindingYourVoiceHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

What a Late Autism Diagnosis Can Reveal About ADHD, School, and Self-UnderstandingI sat down with Carly Faye to talk about what happens when a late autism diagnosis suddenly puts years of questions into focus.In this conversation, I explore Carly’s path from educator to functional nutrition practitioner and coach, and how her ADHD and recent autism diagnosis changed the way she sees her past, her work, and herself. We talk about the students she felt drawn to, the school experiences that didn’t quite fit, and the quiet signs that made more sense only later.What stayed with me most is how often neurodivergent people are misunderstood, especially when they look “fine” from the outside. Carly shares what it meant to realize she had support needs all along, why certain advice never fit, and how that awareness is shaping the way she now helps others. There’s also a powerful part of this conversation about grief, relief, identity, and learning to stop treating difference like something that needs fixing.About the GuestCarly Faye is a former educator, functional diagnostic nutrition practitioner, and coach. She supports clients through nutrition, emotional processing, and nervous system-aware care, with a strong understanding of neurodivergence and inclusion.Timestamps0:02 - I welcome Carly Faye and we begin with her background in education1:09 - What her classroom looked like for students who learned differently5:04 - Carly shares her ADHD diagnosis and recent autism diagnosis11:00 - Why tests, language, and “right answers” can feel so complicated20:17 - What led her to explore autism at 4124:16 - What the diagnosis process was really like26:14 - Relief, grief, and making sense of a late diagnosis39:15 - How understanding her neurodivergence changed the way she supports clients43:38 - What schools still miss about neurodivergent kids52:46 - What Carly wants teachers, coaches, and helpers to know if they’re quietly wondering about themselvesCarlys Links:https://www.instagram.com/carlyinfocushttps://www.carlyinfocus.com/If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, overlooked, or unsure why certain things seem harder than they “should,” I think this episode will stay with you. Listen in, and see what clicks for you.#AutismDiagnosis #ADHD #Neurodivergent #LateDiagnosed #InclusionHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

SSI Pitfalls: What No One Tells You About Disability Benefits (with Former SSA Attorney Spencer)Fighting for SSI isn’t simple. I’m exposing the hidden hurdles—and how to avoid costly mistakes that put benefits at risk.I’ve battled Social Security myself, and I know how confusing and exhausting it can feel—especially with autism, ADHD, or other invisible disabilities. In this episode, I sit down with Spencer, a former Social Security attorney who spent 11 years inside the system writing and reviewing disability decisions. Together, we pull back the curtain on why mental health and neurodivergent claims get denied so often, what the law actually weighs, and how to prepare without getting tripped up by technicalities.You’ll discover what really drives denials, the role of vocational experts (and why their “jobs list” isn’t about you), and the key moments in an appeal that can change your outcome. I also ask Spencer the questions I wish I had answers to when I first applied—like what “partial wins” mean, when back pay gets reduced, and why waiting can quietly cost you your case.About the GuestSpencer is a former Social Security attorney who spent 11 years at the agency—seven writing disability decisions and four reviewing appeals. He’s the author of Social Security Disability Revealed and runs https://www.bishinspublishing.com/ where he educates claimants and professionals on the SSDI/SSI process.Timestamps0:02 – Why I call SSI a trap (and my own case)1:33 – Meet Spencer: 11 years writing and reviewing SSA decisions6:57 – The mental health gap: why neurodivergent claims face extra scrutiny10:34 – “It’s not over after approval”: ongoing reviews and common cutoffs13:13 – The $2,000 asset rule and easy mistakes that end benefits25:48 – Denied? Your 60-day appeal window and what most people miss32:53 – Full vs. partial awards and what really affects back pay42:19 – How disability lawyers get paid (and why you still lead your case)53:54 – If you’re just starting: the one thing I want you to know58:32 – When you feel overwhelmed: what to hold onto nextKeywords: Social Security Disability, SSI, SSDI, disability appeal, vocational expert, back pay, autism, ADHD, neurodiversity, mental health, benefits reviewCall to action: If this episode helps, share it with a parent, educator, or friend who’s in the thick of it. Subscribe for more accessible conversations around neurodiversity and practical support. Explore Spencer’sresources at bishenspublishing.com, or request his book at your local library.#Neurodiversity #SSI #DisabilityBenefits #Autism #ADHDHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Late Diagnosis, Grief, and Growth with AuDHD Coach Jenny LucasLate diagnosis can feel like a relief and a gut punch. In this episode, I sit with Jenny Lucas to name both—then move forward.I talk with Jenny about what the world saw versus what was really happening inside, the moment she heard “autistic” and “ADHD,” and the very real grief that followed. You’ll hear how she began unmasking in small, practical ways, what shifted in her marriage and parenting, and why she chose to become the support she couldn’t find. We also explore how AI tools like ChatGPT and Copilot help with tone, clarity, and day-to-day overwhelm.I reveal the questions I ask guests about burnout, people-pleasing, and work boundaries—plus the simple experiments Jenny used to figure out what she actually needed. You’ll discover how she reframed self-worth, how she talks to her AuDHD daughters after school, and the one message she wants every late-diagnosed person to hear tonight.By the end, you’ll be thinking: What can I let go of? Where am I masking without realizing it? And how could small supports change my day this week?About the GuestJenny Lucas is a late-diagnosed autistic ADHDer, mom to two AuDHD daughters, former high school music teacher, and creator of resources for neurodivergent women. She’s the author of “Your No-Guide to Life After Late Diagnosis” and shares accessible support across Instagram, TikTok, Substack, and more.Key Timestamps0:02 – Welcome and Jenny’s story: teacher, burnout, and late diagnosis7:11 – “Why does this feel harder for me?” and the cost of people-pleasing11:14 – The ADHD and autism diagnoses: shock, numbness, validation20:12 – The grief no one warns you about—and why capacity dips22:07 – Mourning old coping skills and rethinking energy24:40 – When the diagnosis started to feel empowering27:12 – Using AI for tone, clarity, and daily support31:22 – Becoming the person she needed when support wasn’t there39:17 – What unmasking actually looked like day to day41:39 – How relationships changed at home and at work43:54 – Parenting two AuDHD daughters with more compassion46:25 – “You’re not broken”: inside Jenny’s book52:03 – What clients say in the first conversation55:45 – A message for anyone late diagnosed or questioning56:37 – Where to find Jenny onlineIf this helped, share it with a parent, educator, or friend who needs real-talk support. Subscribe for more conversations on autism, ADHD, and life after diagnosis.#Neurodiversity #Autism #ADHD #AuDHD #LateDiagnosisHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

When a Dad Chooses to Show Up: Autism, Ego, and the Moment That Changed EverythingWe often hear autism stories from moms—today, I sit with a dad who faced denial, checked his ego, and chose to show up for his child.In this conversation, I open a door many families don’t talk about: what it takes for a father to move from “I’m fine” to “I’m here.” You’ll hear how one moment—unexpected and ordinary—shifted everything. I ask what cracked the armor, how he rebuilt trust at home, and the simple changes that helped him support his child with less friction and more care.You’ll discover the mindset shift that made behaviors easier to read, the quiet routine that steadied their evenings, and the approach he now brings to meetings with teachers and therapists. I also share the questions I use with dads who feel stuck so you can try them at home or in the classroom. Want to know what finally moved him from silence to advocacy—and what he wishes he’d said on day one? That’s in here.If you’re a parent, educator, or caregiver navigating an autism diagnosis, this one will feel honest and practical. Come for real talk, leave with clarity—and a few next steps you can use right away.About the GuestMy guest is a father to an autistic child who has shifted from quiet uncertainty to active support at home and at school. He speaks candidly about identity, partnership, and learning to lead with curiosity.If this helped, subscribe, share it with someone who needs it, and join our community for more conversations on autism, ADHD, and neurodiversity.#AutismAcceptance #Neurodiversity #DadLife #SpecialNeedsParenting #IEPHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

ADHD at Work and at Home: Motivation, Masking, and Real Support with Dr. Saara HaapanenWhat happens when an Olympic-level athlete-turned-psychologist maps ADHD from the inside—and shows us what actually helps?In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Saara Haapanen to explore ADHD beyond stereotypes. You’ll hear how almost making the Olympics, years of elite sport, and a late ADHD diagnosis shaped her work helping individuals and organizations create environments where neurodivergent people can truly perform. I reveal the key questions I ask to shift shame into self-trust, while Sara shares a simple motivation model you can remember and use today.You’ll discover why “just focus” backfires, what looks like laziness but isn’t, and the one feedback change workplaces can make that instantly eases RSD. We also get into perimenopause, parenting through a child’s assessment, and the very real emotional load adults carry—plus the small language tweaks that lower demand and raise follow-through.By the end, you’ll be asking: Which part of motivation do I boost first? How do I request support at work without feeling exposed? And what would change if I spoke to myself like my own best friend?About the GuestDr. Saara Haapanen is a sports and exercise psychology PhD, former elite diver ranked 30th in the world, and founder of Performance Is Haapanen. Since 2013, she’s coached high performers and advised schools, healthcare systems, and companies on neurodiversity, motivation, and well-being.Key Timestamps0:02 – Meet Dr. Saara Haapanen and her path from elite sport to health and performance4:40 – Finland, near-Olympic selection, and the spark that led to sports psychology11:26 – “I know what to do—why am I not doing it?” Motivation without a map16:14 – From her own diagnosis to helping others thrive24:09 – The most common misunderstanding about adult ADHD27:46 – Inside the ADHD brain: floodlight vs. flashlight focus33:35 – What looks like laziness but isn’t35:41 – ADHD in a workplace not built for it: where things break down44:10 – One feedback shift that reduces RSD on the spot48:03 – The FUN.COM motivation model you’ll actually remember53:42 – Do companies get it yet?75:46 – A client story that changed a whole family’s trajectory80:51 – “Nothing’s wrong with you”—what I want you to hear82:27 – What I’d tell my younger self84:38 – Where to find Dr. SaaraIf this helped, share it with a parent, educator, or manager who needs it. Subscribe for more supportive conversations on neurodiversity, and tell me in the comments: Which part of FUN.COM do you need most this week?Keywords: ADHD, neurodivergent, workplace inclusion, motivation, executive function, rejection sensitivity, perimenopause, body doubling, movement, positive psychology#ADHD #Neurodiversity #WorkplaceInclusion #ParentingADHD #ExecutiveFunctionHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Non-Speaking Is Not Non-Understanding: Autism-Affirming Inclusion with Amanda TorenNon-speaking doesn’t mean non-understanding. In this episode, I sit down with Amanda Toren to rethink communication and real inclusion.Amanda is an autism mom, speech and behavioral therapist, clinical autism specialist, and inclusion specialist who runs an inclusive martial arts academy. Together, we get honest about what belonging looks like beyond words—and what schools and programs often miss.You’ll hear how Amanda builds autism-affirming environments where communication is a human right, why regulation comes before compliance, and how small wins add up to big change. I also press into the question so many parents and educators ask: What does success look like for a non-speaking student—and how do we know it’s happening?I reveal the shift that changes outcomes in both the dojo and the classroom, and you’ll discover the first small step any educator can put in place tomorrow. We also talk about the quiet grief parents carry, what to say instead of “I’m sorry,” and the moment a single bow on the mat changed everything.If you’ve wondered how AAC fits into sports, what “autism-affirming” really looks like, or why inclusion isn’t just “sharing a room,” this one’s for you.About the GuestAmanda Toren is an autism mom and a speech and behavioral therapist with 14+ years of experience. She’s a clinical autism specialist and inclusion specialist who owns an inclusive martial arts school focused on AAC, regulation, and strengths-based coaching for neurodivergent kids.Timestamps0:02 – Welcome and who Amanda is1:12 – The early emotions of parenting a non-speaking child3:03 – Behavior as communication and the role of AAC6:31 – Support gaps and what to say instead of “I’m sorry”12:19 – Why martial arts and what it builds beyond kicks and punches16:33 – Honoring communication beyond words18:08 – Autism-affirming inclusion in practice20:29 – What well-meaning programs often get wrong26:37 – Regulation before compliance: the shift29:23 – A small step educators can use tomorrow30:55 – The power of small wins: one student’s breakthrough38:23 – Taking inclusion beyond one academy (Amanda’s e-book)41:46 – Where to find AmandaIf this episode helped you, share it with a parent, teacher, or coach who cares about doing inclusion well.Subscribe for more real conversations on autism, ADHD, AAC, regulation, and creating communities where everyone belongs.#Neurodiversity #AutismAcceptance #AAC #Inclusion #SpecialEducationHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Seeing Ourselves in Fiction: Neurodivergent Characters That Actually Feel Real with Author Luna WestishRepresentation isn’t just about labels—it’s about feeling seen. Today, I sit down with debut author Luna Westish to explore how fiction can shift how we understand Autism, ADHD, anxiety, and ourselves.You’ll hear how Luna wrote a character readers either relate to deeply or find frustrating and why both reactions matter. I reveal the surprising moments that made me rethink labels, we compare “token” characters to fully human ones, and you’ll discover how inner monologue, sensory detail, and own voices storytelling can change empathy without turning pain into plot armor.We also talk about growth that doesn’t erase struggle, the lines between honest depiction and drama, and why reading outside our comfort zones prepares us for real life at home, in classrooms, and in community.If you’ve never seen yourself on the page, this conversation offers a starting point and a few questions that might change what you pick up nextAbout the GuestLuna Westish is the author of Meet Me at the Ruins, a character-driven novel that threads anxiety, relationships, and messy growth with care. She’s also taught business to kids and adults, worked in federal policy, and made jewelry because one lane was never going to cut it.Key Timestamps0:03 – Why fiction can change how we see our own minds2:06 – The first time a character felt “too familiar”6:49 – What representation gets wrong (and what’s finally improving)10:01 – Sensory layers that make characters believable11:22 – Real vs. tokenized: the role of inner life13:07 – Do labels help—or do subtleties matter more?15:19 – Writing Meet Me at the Ruins: when representation found her19:10 – Writing as healing (and why it can feel like therapy)24:27 – Honoring struggle without exploiting it29:04 – Showing growth without minimizing the hard stuff32:50 – Why “just a story” isn’t just a story44:14 – Readers who felt seen—and why that matters51:46 – Where to find Luna’s book and connectResources: lunawestish.com • bookshop.org • Available via libraries on Hoopla and LibbyIf this episode resonated, subscribe, rate, and share it with a parent, educator, caregiver, or friend. Your support helps our community grow.#Neurodiversity #Fiction #MentalHealth #Autism #ADHDHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Executive Function Isn’t Laziness: Rethinking “Motivation,” Shame, and Support with Coach Carrie BonnetExecutive function isn’t laziness—it’s a brain thing. In this episode, I sit with coach Carrie Bonnet to reframe the struggle.If you’ve ever wondered why smart kids (and adults) still miss deadlines, lose steam, or freeze at “start,” this conversation will feel like a breath out. I ask Carrie Bonnet—Executive Function Coach, veteran teacher, and adjunct instructor at the University of Portland—what this actually feels like from the inside and what support looks like when we remove shame and lead with the brain.You’ll hear why paper beats apps when you’re new to planning, how time blindness fuels the last-minute cycle, and the key shift parents and teachers can make that changes everything. We also get into the messy middle: boredom that feels like torture, the myth of “I work best under pressure,” and why “not caring” often isn’t the story at all.I reveal where I’ve struggled too, and Carrie shares simple, sustainable ways we can make the invisible visible—without giving a full step-by-step here. By the end, you’ll be asking different questions and seeing different outcomes.Questions to listen for: What makes task initiation so hard? How does shame sneak in? And what small moves reduce overwhelm today?About the GuestCarrie Bonnet is an Executive Function Coach, veteran middle and high school teacher, and adjunct instructor at the University of Portland. She works with students, families, and early-career teachers. Carrie lives in Oregon and is a mom to two teens.Key Timestamps0:02 – Welcome and who Carrie is2:11 – The sixth grader who changed how we saw “late work”5:10 – When it clicked: not laziness, not a moral failing9:23 – Life skills don’t teach themselves (and why that matters)12:00 – Paper vs. digital calendars: which one first?15:20 – Backward planning a massive project without burning out18:08 – “I work best under pressure”… or do I?19:59 – What executive function challenges feel like from the inside (“borchure”)23:13 – Overwhelm, time blindness, emotional flooding25:16 – Dopamine, tiny wins, and the short timer spark26:41 – Not caring vs. not being able28:13 – The parent shift: replace judgment with curiosity30:35 – No-shame, brain-first: where shame sneaks in34:40 – Why it can take longer to read, grasp, and process36:49 – “Strategy shopping” and the wallet solution47:49 – The missing link in schools50:54 – When the system isn’t a fit for the brain in front of us52:53 – Make the invisible visible: classroom wins55:20 – Why it’s harder for some brains (and what to remember)58:01 – For anyone who feels broken: you’re not58:54 – Where to find Carrie’s resourcesResources: Grab Carrie’s Task Initiation Toolkit: carriebonnet.com/toolkitIf this helped you or someone you love, follow the show, share this episode with a parent or teacher, and leave a quick rating. Your support helps more of our community feel seen.#Neurodiversity #ExecutiveFunction #ADHD #Parenting #EducationHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Late-Diagnosed at 65: Creativity, Compassion, and Coming Home to Yourself with Caroline CareyI sit down with Caroline Carey, a creative, author, and grandmother who was diagnosed with AuDHD in her mid-60s—and everything started to make sense.In this conversation, I open up about my own assessment experience while Caroline shares how a “you’re not depressed, you’re overwhelmed” moment changed her path. You’ll discover how she re-framed decades of school struggle, why dance became her nervous system’s anchor, and the unexpected support that finally let her ask for help in her business.I reveal the questions I ask late-identified adults to spot patterns, while Caroline explains how she now sees rejection sensitivity, travel anxiety, and masking through a new lens. We also tease the spiritual thread that runs through her work—and the book she wrote once she realized what she’d been writing about all along.By the end, you’ll be thinking about overwhelm vs. depression, what real support can look like, and how to tell when you’re “being you” versus blending in. And you might walk away asking: What if the world is finally coming to meet you?About the GuestCaroline Carey is a UK-based creative, author of “The Neurodivergent Soul,” soul cartographer, and longtime movement facilitator. She supports artists, writers, and difference-makers to express their stories with compassion and clarity.Key Timestamps0:02 – Welcome and late diagnosis at 655:08 – “Not depressed—overwhelmed” and the assessment that followed9:21 – Who Caroline was 30 years ago and the dance that kept her steady19:23 – What life felt like on the inside: love, exhaustion, overwhelm23:26 – Masking, people-pleasing, and choosing authenticity27:28 – The moment autism “clicked” and polarity made sense30:32 – Writing “The Neurodivergent Soul” and naming the real story40:12 – Travel anxiety, planning, and why “just relax” doesn’t help53:22 – The UK grant that changed her business support58:57 – Where to find Caroline’s workIf this episode helps you feel seen, share it with a parent, educator, or friend who needs it. Subscribe for more conversations that support our neurodiverse community.Explore Caroline’s work: middleearthmedicine.com#Neurodiversity #Autism #ADHD #AuDHD #LateDiagnosisHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Dana’s journey into the world of parenting a nonverbal autistic child began with a heavy sense of uncertainty, realizing in a little gym class that her daughter wasn’t meeting the same milestones as the other kids. At first, she tried to brush off her worries, chalking it up to first-time parent nerves and hoping her daughter was just a late bloomer. But those feelings of doubt grew stronger as she watched other children play and interact, while her own daughter struggled to sit up or show interest in toys. The weight of not knowing what the future held was overwhelming, but Dana’s love for her daughter pushed her to embrace the unknown. She dove into therapies, from aquatic to horseback riding, and learned to see the world through a new lens—one where every small victory was hard-won and deeply meaningful. Through her daughter’s silence, Dana discovered a voice of determination within herself, vowing to advocate, connect with other families, and transform her own challenges into hope for others.,When Dana first noticed her daughter’s delays, the realization hit her during a simple gym class surrounded by other parents and babies. While everyone else seemed to be moving forward, she felt stuck in a swirl of worry and self-doubt, unsure if she was overreacting or missing something important. The fear of not knowing how to help her child, or what her daughter’s future might look like, weighed on her every day. Yet, instead of shutting down, Dana became fiercely observant and resourceful, trying every therapy she could find and learning to pick up on even the smallest cues from her nonverbal daughter. This experience didn’t just change her parenting—it changed her entire perspective, making her more compassionate, resilient, and determined to build supportive spaces for families like hers. Dana’s story is about finding meaning in the unknown, and letting her daughter’s unique journey inspire her to help others navigate this path with empathy and hope.Dana Garrett offers a unique blend of insight and empathy as both a devoted autism mom and an outspoken advocate for neurodivergent children. Living in South Louisiana, Dana’s journey has been shaped by her experiences raising a nonverbal daughter, which led her to dive deep into therapies like aquatic and sensory integration. She’s not just a parent—she’s also a children’s book author who uses storytelling to foster understanding and acceptance for kids with special needs. Dana’s approachable style and willingness to talk about the hard moments make her relatable to parents feeling overwhelmed or alone. Through her support groups and creative projects, she’s created a real sense of community for families navigating similar challenges, always emphasizing the value of listening, learning, and letting every child shine in their own way.Dana's Resources:Connect with Dana Garrett on Facebook.Connect with Dana Garrett on Instagram.Look for Dana Garrett’s books on IngramSpark for wider store availability.Attend Dana Garrett’s local book signings and sensory night events.Danagarrett.comRarebloomsfoundation.orgHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Support the show via my Patreon https://www.patreon.com/AspergersStudioVicki’s journey into special education advocacy started not from a classroom or office, but right at her own kitchen table as a mom trying to figure out how to help her son, Luke, who was born with an incredibly rare chromosome disorder. Facing a room full of educators and specialists at Luke’s first IEP meeting, she nodded along while feeling completely lost, overwhelmed, and just hoping she was making the right choices. That moment of confusion and worry stuck with her, fueling a deep need to understand the maze of IEPs and special education. Rather than letting fear take over, Vicki educated herself, took courses, and eventually became a lifeline for other parents facing similar situations. Her story is filled with those raw, real moments—like feeling nervous sitting in child-sized chairs surrounded by professionals, or doubting if she was truly advocating enough for her son. It’s this mix of vulnerability and determination that makes her journey so relatable, reminding every parent that it’s okay to feel uncertain, but it’s even more important to keep pushing for your child’s needs.,Vicki’s path to becoming a special education advocate didn’t begin with any grand plan—it started with her simply trying to do right by her sons. When her oldest, Luke, was just three, she faced the intimidating world of IEP meetings for the first time, feeling out of her depth and unsure of what questions to ask or what she was agreeing to. That feeling of being overwhelmed and wanting more for her child sparked something in her. Instead of getting stuck in confusion, she dove headfirst into learning everything she could, enrolling in advocacy courses and later helping other families navigate the same challenges. What makes Vicki’s story stand out is how she turned those early struggles and emotional moments—like crying during meetings or worrying she’d missed something important—into fuel for helping others. Her experience proves that you don’t have to start as an expert; you just need the courage to keep learning, keep asking, and never stop fighting for your child’s right to a fair education.Vicki Christensen brings a wealth of real-life experience to the world of special education advocacy, shaped by her journey as a mom to two neurodivergent sons. After her oldest, Luke, received a rare chromosome disorder diagnosis, she quickly realized that understanding the IEP process was essential—not just for her family, but for others as well. This led her to study special education advocacy at the University of San Diego, work with local nonprofits, and eventually launch Blue Glasses Advocacy to support families all over Southern California. Vicki’s down-to-earth attitude and firsthand knowledge make her relatable, and she’s known for breaking down complicated IEP jargon into language parents can actually use. Her book, “Uniquely Fully Enough: The Neurodivergent Parenting Journey,” weaves together her personal story with practical insights, showing her dedication to empowering parents and helping them feel less alone on the IEP journey.Vicki's Resources:Visit blueglassesadvocacy.com to find out more about Vicki C and contact her directly.Follow Blue Glasses Advocacy on Instagram for updates and resources.Request a copy of the draft IEP three days before your meeting.Write down all your questions and concerns before attending your IEP meeting.Ask for work samples and the data used to measure your child’s progress during IEP meetings.Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

In this episode, you’ll get to hear Laura Zane share her journey as a neurodivergent woman, opening up about what it was like to discover her ADHD later in life and how that shaped her approach to therapy. As someone who’s walked this path herself, Laura really understands the unique challenges you might face with late diagnosis, sensory overload, and anxiety. She talks about how embracing her neurodiversity led her to develop practical, affirming strategies in her work, making her insights super relatable whether you’re seeking support, new ways to handle overwhelm, or just some validation for your experiences. The conversation dives into real-life stories and tips that can help you feel seen, especially if you’ve ever felt like a deep thinker or struggled to find therapy that actually “gets” you. If you’re looking for thoughtful advice and want to hear from someone who truly gets what it’s like to be in your shoes, this episode is definitely worth a listen.,In this episode, Laura Zane shares her personal experience as a neurodivergent woman, discussing her late ADHD diagnosis and how it transformed both her life and her work as a therapist. She dives into the specific challenges neurodivergent women face, touching on topics like sensory overload, anxiety, and the search for support that truly understands their needs. Laura’s story highlights how embracing neurodiversity has shaped her therapeutic approach, leading her to develop practical, affirming strategies that resonate with deep thinkers and those feeling overwhelmed. Through relatable stories and actionable advice, she offers listeners validation and hope, making this conversation a valuable resource for anyone seeking authentic support and a better understanding of themselves. Laura’s expertise and lived experience make her insights especially relevant for those navigating similar journeys.Laura Zane is a licensed mental health counselor based in Florida who brings both professional expertise and lived experience to her work with neurodivergent women. As someone with ADHD, dyscalculia, and a trauma history, Laura gets what it’s like to feel different and misunderstood, especially as a woman navigating a late diagnosis. She’s passionate about supporting clients who are empaths, homeschoolers, or deep thinkers, and she takes a neurodiversity-affirming approach in her practice. Laura’s down-to-earth style comes from years of therapy herself, plus her own journey through school struggles, masking, and finding a sense of belonging. She understands firsthand how tricky it can be to manage anxiety, sensory overload, and the pressure to fit in, which makes her especially relatable to women looking for real empathy and practical strategies.Laura's Resources:Visit Laura Zane’s website at laurazain.com to learn more about her services.Visit sagesynergy.net for information about holistic therapy and Laura’s practice, Sage Synergy.Visit coachingforempaths.com to work with Laura in a coaching capacity, specifically for empaths in business.Contact Laura Zane directly by phone at 941-650-3112 for inquiries or to schedule a session in Florida.Listen to future episodes of the Neurodivergent Connection podcast to stay curious, stay fearless, and remember you’re never alone.Hosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Karyn Whitaker has turned her own journey with ADHD, autism, and dyslexia into a mission to make life easier for others navigating similar paths. As the founder of Try Harder is BS, she’s all about ditching the old advice that just leads to frustration and burnout. Karyn’s style is refreshingly honest and relatable—she’s been through the messy moments and knows that real solutions come from lived experience, not just textbooks. Drawing on years of personal trial and error, she now helps neurodivergent people and their loved ones find straightforward, practical ways to manage daily overwhelm, build confidence, and use tools like AI to make tough days a little easier.Resources:Visit Karyn Whitaker’s website at tryharderisbs.com to learn more about her work and resources.Access Karyn Whitaker’s “Five Prompts to Restart All the HD Brains” via the link provided in the podcast blurb.Use AI tools like ChatGPT, Gemini, or Copilot for support with writing, organization, and executive function tasks.Explore agentic AI solutions to create custom AI agents with specific guardrails for tasks such as sales inquiries or writing assistance.Utilize AI for step-by-step guidance in daily tasks, such as cooking or prioritizing to-dos, by prompting it for micro-steps or logical sorting.Hosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Raising Neurodivergent Kids in a Digital World: What I Wish Every Parent KnewOnline rules are invisible—and for neurodivergent kids, that can be costly. This conversation shows a safer way.I sit down with Dr. Clark and her son, Chris, to talk about the moment a simple post turned into threats, what that did to their family, and how guidance changed everything. We get real about bullying, anxiety, and the hidden risks most parents don’t see—plus the guardrails that would’ve spared years of pain.You’ll hear how they now teach kids to read social cues online, spot grooming tactics, and protect their digital footprint—without shutting them out of the internet entirely. We also talk about the one shift that stops kids from chasing the “top dog” for attention, and the parent habits that make a real difference at home.If you’re a parent, educator, or caregiver, you’ll walk away knowing what to watch for, what to ask, and where to get support. And yes, we talk about the program they built so kids can practice social media safely—with real moderation and teachable moments baked in.What changes when kids learn digital wellness early? How do you teach skills instead of rules? And what’s the first conversation to start tonight? That’s all inside.About the GuestsDr. Clark is an educator, parent advocate, and author who leads a monthly support group for parents of neurodivergent kids. She co-created a monitored social platform and curriculum that prepares kids for real-world social media.Chris is her son, now an adult, who shares his lived experience with online bullying, depression, and how guidance reshaped his posting, mindset, and confidence.Key Timestamps0:28 – Chris’s hardest online moment and the fallout1:22 – A parent’s first response and what changed at home4:10 – “What I wish school taught me” and where the idea started4:53 – Why unspoken social rules online overwhelm neurodivergent kids10:03 – A safe space to practice social media (and how it’s moderated)14:26 – From managing crises to building a solution for families19:24 – When guidance replaced confusion for Chris20:11 – How early digital wellness shapes future adults22:18 – The parent side: tools, monitoring, and what most miss30:07 – Why skills beat rules (and reduce secrecy)34:58 – What parents need to hear right now40:25 – Books, free ebook, and the parent support groupKeywords: neurodivergent, Autism, ADHD, digital wellness, online safety, social media literacy, bullying, digital footprint, parenting, educators, teensCall to Action: Listen now, then share this with one parent or teacher who needs it. Grab Dr. Clark’s free ebook at mothersofexceptionalkids.com and check the monthly MOAC parent group.#Neurodiversity #DigitalWellness #OnlineSafety #Autism #ADHDHosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

AUDHD Is Its Own Thing: Stephanie Lewis on RSD, Sensory Life, and a Therapy That Doesn’t Rely on TalkingStruggling with therapy that asks you to “talk it out” when words won’t come? This one’s for you.In this episode, I sit down with Stephanie Lewis—retired special education teacher, school psychologist, and coach—who discovered her own autism and ADHD in her 60s. We unpack why AUDHD isn’t just “autism + ADHD,” how that shows up day to day, and why so many of us feel unseen in traditional therapy.Stephanie reveals a structured, non-language-based process she created that helps with things like rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD), shutdowns, and overwhelm—without forcing you to label every feeling. You’ll hear how it works with the nervous system, why confidence is a habit you can build, and the subtle shifts clients notice first.By the end, you’ll see new possibilities for relief and self-trust—and you’ll have a simple first step you can try today. But how does this approach reduce RSD episodes? What makes it flexible for different AUDHD profiles? And why do many clients feel “seen” long before they say much at all?About the GuestStephanie Lewis is a retired special education teacher and school psychologist turned coach. After decades supporting neurodivergent folks, she learned she’s autistic with ADHD and now focuses on accessible methods that don’t depend on heavy talk therapy. She also offers free intro sessions to her process on Facebook and Zoom.Key Timestamps0:11 – Meet Stephanie Lewis and her late-in-life diagnosis1:59 – What AUDHD really means (and why it’s not in the DSM…yet)11:49 – The problem Stephanie set out to solve with a non-talking method16:52 – When traditional therapy missed the mark18:27 – “You function”: a simple way to describe the AUDHD experience27:29 – How this structure differs from typical approaches31:52 – Working with the nervous system, not against it33:43 – Handling burnout, shutdowns, and overwhelm in real time42:54 – For the AUDHD listener exhausted by bad therapy44:18 – A quick, calming drawing practice for overwhelmIf this resonated, subscribe and share with someone who needs it. Find Stephanie’s links in the show notes, join our community newsletter, and keep the conversation going with me on socials.Keywords: AUDHD, autism, ADHD, neurodivergent, RSD, rejection sensitive dysphoria, shutdowns, burnout, sensory sensitivity, DSM-5, nonverbal therapy, drawing-based therapy, habit buildingCall to Action: Subscribe for more supportive conversations, grab the links to Stephanie’s free sessions, and send this to a parent, educator, or friend who could use practical, compassionate tools.#AUDHD #Neurodivergent #Autism #ADHD #RSDHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Comedy, Genetics, and Autism: A Real-World Guide with Dr. Sam ShayCan stand-up comedy help autistic adults feel seen—and can genetics make life simpler?In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Sam Shay, an autistic functional medicine practitioner and stand-up comic. We talk about sound sensitivity that feels like a “kidney stone in the skull,” why testing beats guessing when you’re exhausted, and how humor can build shared reality when life has felt isolating.You’ll discover how Dr. Shay uses functional genetics to help autistic adults increase resilience and capacity, what burnout can look like when you still have to “perform,” and the simple way he explains functional medicine to someone already overwhelmed. We also get into masking, blunt honesty, and why learning social “software” from sitcoms actually works.I reveal the questions I ask to spot early overload, and you’ll hear the unexpected reason comedy helped Dr. Shay stop looping on trauma. Plus, there’s a moment about the word “Aspie” you won’t see coming.About the GuestDr. Sam Shay is a functional medicine and genetics educator, clinician, and stand-up comic. He created the YouTube special Neurospicy: Love, Life & Comedy on the Spectrum to bridge understanding between autistic and non-autistic folks.Timestamps0:02 – Welcome and Dr. Shay’s late diagnosis and comedy mission16:08 – How being autistic shaped his clinical lens23:31 – Superpowers, kryptonites, and the “Neuroharmony” model25:57 – Functional medicine in one clear sentence29:37 – Testing vs. guessing: saving time, money, and energy31:49 – Resilience vs. capacity for autistic adults32:45 – Burnout when you still have to show up36:31 – Early signs your system is overloaded56:43 – When humor became a bridge—not a barrier64:09 – What he wants exhausted autistic adults to know71:09 – Where to watch “Neurospicy” and what he hopes you feelWatch the full conversation, then share this with a parent, teacher, or clinician who needs a clearer picture of autistic life. Subscribe for more real talk on autism, ADHD, and building supportive communities. And check the show notes for Dr. Shay’s Neurospicy special on YouTube.#Neurodiversity #Autism #FunctionalMedicine #Genetics #StandUpComedyHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Late-Diagnosed ADHD, Masking at Work, and Real Self-Advocacy with Samantha KellyIf you’ve ever asked “Is it me or my brain?” this one’s for you. I sit down with Samantha Kelly to make sense of late diagnosis, masking, and what true accessibility at work can feel like.In this episode, you’ll hear how Samantha went from a panic attack at the office to becoming a sought-after neurodivergent speaker and coach. We talk about the quiet cost of masking, the myths we carry without knowing, and a simple way to ask for what you need at work without feeling “difficult.” You’ll discover what actually helps (and what accidentally harms) when managers try to be supportive, plus the one change that could reduce burnout more than most policies on paper.I also ask the questions many of us hesitate to say out loud: How do I balance safety with being honest? What if my workplace won’t get it? And how do I practice self-advocacy when I’m already tired?By the end, you’ll see a clearer path to feeling seen—and a few small moves that can create big wins.About the GuestSamantha Kelly is an ADHD entrepreneur, coach, and trainer who helps organizations build neuroinclusive workplaces. She speaks widely on accessibility, accommodations, and practical support for neurodivergent employees. Learn more at beyondnd.com or connect on LinkedIn.Key Timestamps0:16 – Why Samantha speaks up about neurodiversity and who gets missed2:29 – The “human version” of late diagnosis (and what people don’t see)8:34 – When the identity of “neurodivergent coach” clicked10:34 – A moment in a talk that changed everything13:59 – Therapy, stigma, and the comment that led to answers19:03 – The workplace panic attack that became a turning point30:41 – The biggest misunderstanding about neurodivergent employees38:57 – One change that could make accommodations feel humane44:57 – A low-pressure way to start self-advocacy52:58 – Asking for reduced hours: scary ask, real payoff69:08 – What employers miss—and what actually helps72:20 – How embracing difference changed Samantha’s self-viewCall to action: If this episode helped you feel seen, share it with a manager or a friend who needs it. Subscribe for more supportive, practical conversations on ADHD, autism, and accessibility in real life.Keywords: ADHD, autism, neurodivergent, late diagnosis, masking, workplace accessibility, accommodations, therapy, burnout, self-advocacy, inclusive leadership#Neurodiversity #ADHD #AutismAcceptance #InclusiveWorkplaces #SelfAdvocacyHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

From “Not College Material” to Advocate: Katie Shelby on Voice, Belonging, and Real InclusionTold she wasn’t “college material,” Katie Shelby went anyway—and what she learned can change how we support students.In this episode of The Neurodiversion Connection, I sit down with Katie Shelby, a paraprofessional from St. Louis living with a language impairment and learning disabilities. She went from being nonverbal in preschool to earning her degree and supporting students with Autism, Down syndrome, cerebral palsy, and other disabilities. You’ll hear how one conversation in high school shifted everything, why expectations matter more than we think, and the quiet practices that help students build independence and confidence.I reveal the questions I wish more educators and parents asked, Katie shares what she uses today that she never had growing up (and why it matters), and together we push back on systems that still underestimate people. You’ll discover what real inclusion looks like day to day, how to approach self-advocacy without burning out, and a simple way to know you belong in spaces that weren’t built with you in mind.By the end, you’ll be thinking about IEP meetings, AAC, and “college material” in a very different way. What shifted for Katie junior year? How did she turn no into a degree? And what does independence actually look like beyond test scores?About the GuestKatie Shelby is a paraprofessional supporting students across disabilities in St. Louis, MO. She’s written for The Mighty, is working on a book for people with learning disabilities and language impairments, and is known to many as Barney and Fred’s human (two very photogenic dachshunds).Key Timestamps0:00 – Welcome and Katie’s story beyond labels1:58 – “Don’t go to college”: the moment that lit a fire10:18 – The turning point: learning to self-advocate12:51 – Failing forward in math and the worksheet bonfire18:06 – “I belong here”: finding the right program and supports19:51 – From student to para: communication, visuals, and AAC24:00 – What real inclusion looks like in class24:48 – Writing for The Mighty and sharing openly28:08 – The book: who it’s for and why it’s needed29:43 – Where to connect with Katie onlineKeywords: neurodiversity, self-advocacy, special education, inclusion, learning disabilities, language impairment, AAC, Autism, college accessibility, paraprofessionalIf this conversation helped you, share it with a parent, educator, or student who needs to hear it. Subscribe for more real, relatable stories and practical support.Follow Katie on Instagram • Connect on Facebook#Neurodiversity #SelfAdvocacy #SpecialEducation #LearningDisabilities #InclusionHosted by Reid Miles.Conversations unfold naturally — no scripts, no rush.🎧 Subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts🌐 More about the show and past episodes: https://podcast.ausha.co/neurodivergantconnection-thecuriousstroyteller📩 Guest inquiries & media: [email protected] on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.