Unforgettable Presentations

Can coaching make a big difference, especially if you are fairly accomplished and experienced?  In this episode, Mark and Darren get answers from four clients who participated in a recent OWN THE STAGE 3-DAY presentation coaching workshop. Bernadette, Glenn, Elaine, and Beth share their experiences, offer their perspective, and explain the benefits. They prove that qualified coaching can help any presenter to become unforgettable.   SNIPPETS: • Evokes your humanity • Forces you to humble yourself   • Uncovers humor   • Provides AHAs   • Makes speeches light-years better   • Helps you learn to discern   • Trains your ear   • Builds confidence in your material   • Provides a 360° experience   • Evokes conversational style   • Gets you unstuck   • Provides a great roadmap   • Helps you live impactful moments   • Gets you past your mess   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

Ep. 354  DO YOU HAVE IT? People crave the 'it factor'…presence, confidence, charisma, and eloquence.  Today, Darren and Mark discuss another 'it'…courage. From their experience, they share the type of courage every speaker needs, to be unforgettable.   SNIPPETS: • Have the courage to be coached • Be courageous enough to get coached in public, in the company of strangers   • Be vulnerable   • Invest in your growth   • Be bold enough to think differently   • Commit to the process   • Don't be afraid to push back on feedback   • Be flexible and adapt   • Look for different ways to improve   • Be willing to break it so you can fix it   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

As presenters, we want to be our best on the platform. Many of us attend workshops and seminars, purchase and devour resources, and practice diligently. However, something might be missing. Today, Mark and Darren discuss specific actions that some speaker's won't take, the reasons for avoiding those actions, and the benefits of taking those actions…all if which can help any presenter to be unforgettable.   SNIPPETS: • Go beyond stage time • Record presentations   • Watch and listen from the audience's perspective   • Review old recordings, compare them with latest version, track your growth   • Look for the 'WELL DONE' and the 'WORK ON'   • Identify what resonated unexpectedly   • Recordings help you become more audience-aware   • Research and customize   • Show your client that you're not delivering a 'back-pocket' speech   • Apply a personal touch   • Get qualified coaching   • Solicit help in all aspects of the speaking business   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

"I'm a keynote speaker. I'm a solopreneur. I'm building MY brand. Won't collaboration dilute my brand?" This is a valid concern, and in this episode, Darren and Mark discuss the 'ups and downs' of collaboration. Sharing their experiences, they show the significant benefits of collaboration and offer advice on choosing the right collaborators for you.   SNIPPETS: • Choose your collaborators carefully • Collaborate with partners with complementary skills and strengths   • Combining strengths makes both collaborators stronger   • Don't think selfishly   • Think of the best way you can serve your audience   • Find out what people need   • Collaborate with the person best qualified to meet your clients' needs   • Collaborate with people who go all-in   • Consider who else you could serve whom you wouldn't serve well alone   • Create a win-win-win   • Seek compatible collaborations   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

Much has been said about having the right mindset before a presentation. Today, Mark and Darren discuss the right HEARTSET, and they share both how and why the right heartset can help to make you unforgettable.   SNIPPETS: • Heartset heavily focuses on audience outcomes • Be in the moment   • Hiccups happen, don't get flustered   • Your heartset impacts your brand   • Go all in   • Bring your entire being to every presentation   • Heartset shows up before your presentation   • Heartset asks, "What's best for the EVENT?"   • Heartset wants the audience to have fun   • Heartset overrides technical issues   • Heartset shows when things go wrong     Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

It's important to keep your audience engaged, and the key to doing so lies in a simple but powerful concept. Today Darren and Mark define and discuss PACE ELEMENTS, sharing how they can help you to deliver an unforgettable presentation.   SNIPPETS:   • Engagement is important • Keeping your audience engaged during a virtual presentation is critical   • Pace Elements engage the brain in different ways   • Change Pace Elements every 2-3 minutes   1. Talking Head (Back and forth with your co-presenter) 2. Well-told stories (About you, your clients or case studies) 3. Slide shares (Keynote slides, PowerPoint slides, screen shots) 4. Short & meaningful video clips 5. Audio clips (Recorded phone message, podcast clip, or sound effects) 6. "Type in…" (Chat prompted by your question) 7. "Raise your hand if…" 8. Polls (Before hand or on the fly) 9. Custom captivating visuals (Including branded infographics) 10.Hot seats (VIPs or promote to panelist) 11.Breakout rooms 12.A shared experience (Done individually by simultaneous) 13.Check in (Leave no attendee behind!) 14.Ed-ergizer (Brief, but designed to get the blood pumping) 15.Q & A done right! 16.Whiteboard (Physical or virtual) 17.Illustrations 18.Phone share (Holding phone up to camera) 19.Live screen share web search 20. 'B' button (Blank out screen) 21.Keepers (A powerful way to recap, get engagement & see what sticks) Which will you use?  Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com  

You're in the audience, listening the speaker before you, and you hear them make a point, tell an anecdote, or use language that makes you think, "I was gonna say that!" How do you respond? Can you avoid this? In today's episode, Mark and Darren answer these questions and more as they share recent experiences and offer solutions.   SNIPPETS: • Don't panic • Be unique   • Avoid 'stock' material from the Internet or AI   • Avoid plagiarism   • Research the previous speaker's material if possible   • Collaborate with the previous speaker if possible   • Share your own perspective   • Be flexible and adapt   • Use improv techniques   • Call back to the reference if necessary   • Edify the previous speaker Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

It's not unusual for presenters to 'move on' from past presentations. Toastmasters is a good example. Today, Darren and Mark encourage you to 'go back to the well' and revisit old presentations. They may hold new value today.   SNIPPETS: • Maintain a story folder; an old story may have new significance • Don't discard/delete 'old' material   • "Unearth the old, uncover the GOLD" – Mark Brown   • Revisit old presentations   • Look for new value in old presentations   • Review, revise, rework, reinvent   • Enlist your list to learn what has resonated over time   • New experiences can enhance old material   • Apply newly gained wisdom, insight, and perspective to older presentations     Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com    

Can you ever truly know the full impact of your presentations? Today, Mark and Darren provide the answer by sharing anecdotes, experiences, and insight gained from their combined 60 years on the platform.   SNIPPETS: • The vast majority of your audience will never tell us how we impacted them • You get only one shot at that audience   • Seek to grow continually   • When competing, focus more on your message than on the trophy   • Dollars follow impact   • Go all-in on your message   • Strive for more   • Have a meaningful 'heartset;' focus on serving your audience   • Think about how your audience will apply your message   • When you're told you had impact, ask HOW   • If helpful, revise your presentation based on the impact   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

Speakers must exude confidence to inform, inspire, and influence. However, EGO and SELF-DOUBT can have a significant impact on us and our audiences. Darren and Mark offer advice on how to effectively manage both and serve our audiences well.     SNIPPETS: • Don't undervalue your experiences   • "You are uniquely qualified to serve the person you once were." - Rory Vaden   • "One man's mundane is another man's magnificent.' – Mark Brown   • Your life story can inspire and give hope   • Someone in your audience will relate to your emotions and experience   • Check your ego at the door   • Be coachable   • Crave qualified feedback   • Don't let ego hinder future opportunities   • Look for value in every evaluation   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

Our messages must serve our audiences, and two words are most helpful in achieving that goal. Darren and Mark expound on the power and value of the words 'YOU' and 'YOUR,' as well as their unforgettable impact on our audiences.     SNIPPETS: • 'YOU' and 'YOUR' are enormously powerful words   • Examine your 'I/YOU Ratio'   • These words draw audiences in   • Usage makes our content relatable and relevant   • They engage people's brains   • Put your audience in your story   • Change 'I' to 'YOU' in stories with "IMAGINE:"   • Replace 'I' with 'YOU' with "PICTURE THIS:"   • Avoid "You guys"   • Replace "How many of you have…" with "Have you…"

The concept of relationship selling is not uncommon, but today, Mark and Darren go beyond selling to explore the greater value of building relationships.     SNIPPETS: • Build relationships beyond the booking   • Use relationships to recommend others   • Relationships provide opportunities to serve   • A relationship may not bear fruit immediately   • Seek to give before seeking to get   • Bring you and your personality to every assignment   • Ask yourself: What do others think of you   • A 'no' can be beneficial when you maintain a relationship   • Be the client's favorite   • Show genuine interest in your client beyond the business relationship   • Analyze your 'failures;' a lack of success may have led to success

There's a story behind every booking. Today Mark and Darren examine how  our 'booking stories' can reveal what is necessary to get more bookings now.   SNIPPETS: • Go back to the well   • Revisit the decisions that led to previous bookings   • Trace the full path of the booking   • Identify people who could help lead to your next booking   • Ask: "What was I doing back then, that I need to start doing again?"   • Recover abandoned tools, tips, and techniques   • Apply new technology to 'old school' principles   • Go back to the principle of relationship-building   • Reconnect with prospects who said 'No'   • A 'No' could be a 'Not now"   • Analyze your 'failures;' a lack of success may have led to success     Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

Feeling nervous before a presentation or feeling insecure when facing an intimidating audience can be positive. That may seem counterintuitive, but Mark and Darren clarify in today's episode. Drawing on their combined 60+ years of lessons learned, they provide advice and specific techniques for using nervousness to your advantage.     SNIPPETS: • Being a little nervous can be a good thing   • Use nervous energy to fuel additional preparation   • Let no one out-prepare you   • Research: get more than you need, to give what they need   • Get over yourself, and into your audience   • "Skillset without mindset leaves your audience upset" – Craig Valentine   • Before each presentation ask FOUR QUESTIONS:   • WHAT IS MY INTENT   • AM I PRESENT ("Don't be perfect; be PRESENT" – Darren)   • WILL I HAVE FUN   • HOW WOULD I GIVE THIS PRESENTATION IF I KNEW IT WAS MY LAST   • If the character doesn't change, there is no story   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

Stories can transform presentations, and when certain essentials are met, a story can be unforgettable. Today's episode is the second of a two-part conversation about five story essentials…tools which, when used effectively,  will make your story unforgettable. This is PART 2 of 2.     SNIPPETS: • Identify a GUIDE/GURU, a source of wisdom, insight, guidance, and help   • The guide need not be a human   • Letters, pets, or inanimate objects could be guides   • The guide may say very little but still be very effective   • You cannot be your own guide/guru   • The hero must undergo a TRANSFORMATION   • The audience must clearly see the hero BEFORE and AFTER   • The audience must witness the change take place   • If the character doesn't change, there is no story   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

Everyone enjoys a good story, and unforgettable stories contain certain essentials.  In this episode, Mark and Darren expound upon three of their five story essentials, showing not only how they work, but why. This is PART 1 of 2.     SNIPPETS:   • STORY is a FORCE MULTIPLIER   • Define the HERO/protagonist/main character   • Help your audience to SEE the character   • Give the audience a reason to identify with the character   • Give one physical and one emotional characteristic   • Consider giving a character name   • Be very clear on the hero's DESIRE; declare what they want   • Get to the depth of desire…WHY they have the desire   • Listeners lean in to the WHY   • Establish the CONFLICT, the challenge, the obstacle   • Escalate the conflict, and escalate it even more   • Show the INTERNAL and EXTERNAL conflict   • Use inner dialogue, the voice inside a character's head   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

How are writing and producing films connected to delivering presentations and storytelling? Mark and Darren get answers from award-winning filmmaker/director/producer/actress Susie Singer Carter as she shares her perspective on telling powerful stories. Her insight provides tools for telling memorable stories that resonate with any audience.     SNIPPETS:   • Avoid being preachy   • You can confront and entertain in a seamless manner   • Balance your message without being too heavy   • Resonate with as many people as possible   • Let your audience shift their perspective and see themselves in your story   • Find the memorable moments in your story   • Don't be married to any part of your story; editing is key   • Uncover organic humor   • Give your audience permission to laugh   • Your title should be like a book cover, and your content must support it   • Tell your story from the heart   • Leave a call to action that galvanizes   LINKS TO HER FILMS:   My Mom and the Girl   No Country For Old People; a Nursing Home Exposé   http://nocountryforoldpeople.com'   https://www.roar4ltc.org/   Susie's YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@Susiesingercarter   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

Every once in a while, speakers encounter circumstances that they didn't see coming. How can you handle them and make the best use of them in the future? Today, Darren and Mark share their experiences and offer meaningful suggestions for handling situations that you don't see coming.     SNIPPETS:   • Situations occur that will keep you in check   • You never know when your misfortune can serve others   • Anticipate the unanticipated   • Ask: What can go wrong   • Cover all your bases   • Leave a good buffer of time before you present   • Arrive a day early   • Contact event planner with challenges immediately   • If you get a gut feeling, follow it   • Have a back-pocket Plan B   • Don't be afraid to over-communicate   • Learn from experiences that you didn't see coming   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

  Emerging presenters and professional speakers want to know best practices and proven processes for running a successful speaking business. You would be hard-pressed to find a more reliable source than business growth innovator and Hall of Fame speaker, Ford Saeks, co-founder of the Million Dollar Speakers Group. In today's conversation with co-hosts Mark and Darren, he reveals five insider secrets that will help you build an unforgettable speaking business.     SNIPPETS: • Be great on stage, on screen, and on demand   • Hit your audience's key targets   • Share data, information, knowledge, wisdom, and tactics   • Have a clear value proposition   • Identify the problem you solve that people will pay you to eliminate   • Establish your revenue model   • Create a menu of services   • Display your menu clearly on your website   • Don't tie your identity to a delivery method   • Maintain an active digital footprint   • Develop a coherent, lifestyle-friendly sales and marketing playbook   • Use social media tools, a blog, podcasts, etc.   • Apply the 'Create, Borrow, Buy' technique     Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

What does it take to create maximum impact while serving your audience? To find out, Mark and Darren chat with business growth innovator and Hall of Fame speaker, Ford Saeks. Ford clearly lays out principles, practices, and perspectives that presenters must embrace to create maximum impact and become unforgettable.     SNIPPETS:   • Your impact depends on your intent and your audience's reception   • Always provide high value   • Your keynote is judged by its description   • Your description and bio should be benefit-driven and compelling   • You must be coachable, open-minded, proactive, and accountable   • When using AI, never lose the human loop   • Use AI wisely and strategically   • Don't get seduced by technology   • Always offer ways for clients to learn more from you   • Future-cast and be a guide   • You're responsible TO clients, not FOR them   • It's not what you know; it's what you do   • EXECUTE Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

Anyone can give a presentation, but what does it take to truly OWN the stage? Calling back to a recent OWN THE STAGE 3-day workshop, Darren and Mark provide some key insights and principles that will help any presenter to own the stage and deliver an unforgettable presentation.     SNIPPETS: • Care more about being world class that delivering one good presentation   • Structure is important; the order matters   • Great speeches aren't written; they are re-written   • Be willing to experiment   • Let your audience picture the scene and characters   • Reactions tell the story   • Use the stage as a prop   • People often see the result, not the work   • World-class doesn't happen alone   • Your audience helps you write your speech   • With effort and help, anyone can own the stage   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

To meet customer demand, organizations take inventory, then replenish and upgrade their offerings. As a presenter, it's wise to take inventory of your speech…and everything that surrounds it.   Today, Mark and Darren focus on your Speech Skills Inventory and offer suggestions for upgrading your speech over the next 12 months     SNIPPETS: • Upgrade your speech   • Decide how you want to improve each facet of your speech in 12 months   • Your speech title is your unique identifier   • Craft an unforgettable Foundational Phrase   • Tell better stories, and tell stories better   • Transform case studies into case stories   • Improve laugh lines   • Rewrite your introduction   • Consider a video introduction   • Work on your open and close   • Use Toastmasters as a practice ground   • Let audiences give you their perspective   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

Audience members can have different experiences depending on where they sit in a meeting venue. Darren and Mark explain and give some sage advice on how the meeting space can maximize your audience's experience.     SNIPPETS: • Arrive at the venue at least a day early if possible   • Sit in the four 'worst' seats in the house   • See what the audience sees   • If necessary, reset the angle of large screens in conference rooms   • Be aware of distracting sounds from neighboring breakout rooms   • Ask: "What is the audience HEARING?"   • Move the platform lectern to the side and back if feasible   • Educate meeting/event planners about logistical concerns   • Make the environment conducive to learning   • Ask: "What adjustments can I make to facilitate learning?"   • Make it a habit to connect with the four corners of the room   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

Last week Darren and Mark shared effective ways to embody characters physically. Today, they share the impact that we can have when we do the same with vocal techniques.     SNIPPETS: • Selectively use dialogue instead of narration   • Vary your vocal volume   • Volume variances depict emotion   • Energy and intensity do not have to be loud   • Modify vocal pitch appropriately   • Different speaking rates can show demeanor and state of mind   • Use congruent facial expressions   • Attitude and posture can say a lot about a character   • Body language will show emotion   • Stress, fatigue, pain, and illness can be portrayed with body language   • Employ an accent when comfortable, competent, and confident   • Be careful not to offend when using accents   • Use age-appropriate vocal characterizations   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

Our stories are more vivid when we embody the characters, and today, Mark and Darren explore simple yet effective ways to embody characters physically. With these techniques, characters are easily identifiable without a word.      SNIPPETS:   • Use their gait and walk as the character would walk   • Identify and portray mannerisms   • Observe family members to show character quirks – 'QUIRKOLOGY'   • Suspend quirky movements to show emotional change   • Look for your own mannerisms by recording and watching yourself on video   • Use congruent facial expressions   • Attitude and posture can say a lot about a character   • Body language will show emotion   • Stress, fatigue, pain, and illness can be portrayed with body language   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

It's always helpful to know your audience's pain points. However, your pain points can be an avenue to building a relationship with them. Today, Darren and Mark share how to do just that, with ideas that can help you be unforgettable.     SNIPPETS:   • Explore your pain points   • Pain points are connectors   • Give your audience the gift of your story   • Capture your pain points and the lessons learned   • Find common pain points in travel stories   • Uncover the joy in your pain   • Your pain can change their perspective   • There is power in your pain   • Your pain story can trigger your audience's memories and experiences   • Ask yourself: "What was my worst (fill in the blank)   • Ask friends and family about frustrations and pet peeves   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

Once in a while, an audience is less emotive than most, leaving a speaker to wonder, "Are they listening?" Mark and Darren discuss that question today while providing perspective, context, and solid suggestions for presenting well in those circumstances.     SNIPPETS:   • Always be present   • Bring your 'A GAME'   • Don't let a stoic audience affect your mission   • External factors may affect audience response   • Not every audience emotes   • Create an environment that is conducive to listening   • Be aware of the atmosphere and read the room   • Consider the context of the event   • Look for the audience member who is ALL-IN   • Feed the audience members who feed you   • Find a way to eliminate a center aisle when possible   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

"I just need…" is a phrase that eager speakers often use when asking for advice. Oftentimes it's followed by "a few tweaks," "a punch-up," "to add humor," "a little polish," or something similar.   Today, Darren and Mark analyze this simple phrase and offer a perspective that will inspire you to examine it more closely. This episode will help you identify what you REALLY need, to be unforgettable.   SNIPPETS:   • You don't know what you don't know   • Don't just add a little humor; uncover it   • Your NEED could only be a WANT   • You may need much more than you think you do   • Learn what you need by watching yourself on video   • Consult pros and experts   • Change "I just need" to "What do I need?"   • Set ego aside   • Determine what's best for your audience   • Leave no stone unturned as you strive to serve your audience   • Seek ways to improve on every presentation     Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

There is a popular adage that says, "If you don't ask, the answer is always 'No'." In this episode, Mark and Darren talk about the benefits of asking for guidance, and how to respond, regardless of the answer. Asking can be your game-changer.   SNIPPETS:   • The answer is in the asking   • When you ask, you can become a mentor magnet   • Ask humbly, sincerely, honestly, and respectfully   • Learn all you can during your client pre-event call   • Ask more than one person/expert   • Be coachable and take their advice   • Respect their time and expertise   • Clarify your intent behind your ask   • Don't ask another question until you've followed the previous instructions   • Be understanding when the answer is 'No.'   • Don't take 'No' personally   • If the answer is 'No', ask for a referral or another resource   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

One way to increase audience buy-in is to customize your presentation.  Today, Darren and Mark dive into the why and how of customization. Applying these ideas will help any presenter to be unforgettable.   SNIPPETS:   • Customizing isn't just using the company's logo and name on your slides   • Do some homework and conduct research on your client   • Get permission to speak with 10 significant audience members beforehand   • Learn all you can during your client pre-event call   • Two weeks in advance, find out what's top-of-mind for your audience   • Arrive at the event at least a day early   • Attend mixers and social gatherings at the event   • Pay attention to hallway conversations   • Connect your material to their world   • Be flexible enough to make adjustments in the moment   • Use the Fripp Speech Model; it is easily customizable   • Replace one of your stories/examples with one from your client   • Take photos and video at the event and insert them into your presentation   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

To truly win your audience, you must identify and address their pain points.  In this episode, Mark and Darren discuss the importance of understanding them and offer suggestions for uncovering them.   SNIPPETS: • Pain points are triggers   • Learn your audience's pet peeves, pain points, and frustrations   • Identify what's top-of-mind to your audience   • Our responsibility is to connect our content to their pain   • Understanding pain points shows that you care   • To connect, you must first understand   • Understanding pain points can help you build community   • Research and confirm their pain points   • ASK about their pain points   • Stories from your life will connect to your audience's experience   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University:

The business of speaking can bring myriad complications and stressors.  But in the midst of all that, Darren and Mark offer a reminder to enjoy the privilege of the speaking experience. Remaining joyful despite all that comes our way, will help those around us to see us as unforgettable.   SNIPPETS: • Choose to find the fun…and the funny   • Remember your WHY   • Accept the challenges that come in the industry   • Relax. Breathe. Focus   • Use your frustrations as speech material   • Never lose perspective   • Don't forget the privilege   • Be thankful for the opportunity

It's easy to present principles, practices, and procedures, but the value is diminished when the speaker lacks experience. Today, Mark and Darren talk about the significance of bringing the lessons learned from your own successes and failure…the lessons that give you credibility and help make you unforgettable.    SNIPPETS: • Bring YOU to every presentation   • No one pays for regurgitated wisdom   • Transfer value from your own experience   • Share lessons from the life you live   • Credibility has an impact on your reputation   • Get experience in the area of your focus   • Let your passion drive you to do research   • Use your personal stories   • Live it, then give it   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

Speakers often open a speech with a greeting, a story, a strong statement, or a question. However, comedians use a technique that many speakers haven't mastered. Humorist, Hollywood producer, and Stage Time faculty member Chris McGuire sits down with Darren and Mark to expand on this technique and shows how any presenter can find gold mines that can make you unforgettable.    SNIPPETS:   • Do what comedians do   • It's all about connecting first   • Use a 'warm open'; don't jump right in or use small talk.   • "Before we get started…"   • Establish Commonality through Incongruity   • Uncover the Gold Mines like the humble surroundings   • Address the elephants in the room   • Talk about what you have in common with the audience   • Respect and connect   • Your audience should feel that you wrote your speech just for them   • Use callbacks   • Sharpen your Humor Detector   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

Would you be willing to face an international audience of thousands with a clear message about personal faith?   Today, Mark and Darren talk with a man who did just that in the 2025 World Championship of Public Speaking. Taylor Candella shares his path to the final and the conviction that drove him to take a significant risk. Taking a risk can make you unforgettable.   SNIPPETS: • Don't listen to negative voices   • Commit to your promise   • Take a risk   • Push yourself to compete   • Select your test audience   • Feel the room in advance   • If speaking first in competition, set the tone   • Get ready with your 'race day ritual'   • The reward should outweigh the risk   • Deliver your risky message respectfully   • Speak with CONVICTION   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

Imagine a life-threatening tragedy, a miraculous fight for recovery, later speaking to more than 2,700 global audiences, and then the international release of a major motion picture about your life.   That's the story of today's guest as Mark and Darren have a heart-to-heart chat with John O'Leary, subject of the 2025 film SOUL ON FIRE. John shares his journey and offers firm yet loving advice on professional speaking. He also dispenses wisdom and encouragement on living a meaningful life, from a perspective that will help any presenter to become unforgettable.   SNIPPETS:   • Don't run from your scars   • Don't seek an average life   • Say "Yes!"   • Love your life even when it's ugly   • Your life: What  GIFT   • You're invited to become a hero   • Remind others what courage looks like amidst pain   • You must step through the process of building your presentation   • Become better at building your business   • Tell the truth   • Be wide open to feedback   • Seek bigger impact; bigger stages and bigger paychecks will follow   • Focus on your craft and be humble   Check it out: https://soulonfiremovie.com/  

Perhaps you've heard a speaker say something like, "Excuse my slide!" Today Darren and Mark talk frankly about why speakers make excuses for poor slides and offer firm suggestions for preparing and presenting effective, professional slides.   SNIPPETS: • One slide, one point   • If you have  a lot of detail, put it in a handout   • You must be able to defend your slides   • Think of what the audience sees   • What does the audience need to know?   • Simplify your slides   • Use fewer words on the slide, then explain as you present   • Magnify the point you wish to make   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com  

What does it take to win the National Speakers Association's LAST STORY STANDING competition?   Today, Mark and Darren get answers from the 2025 winner, Michelle Hutchings-Medina. She shares her journey, her process, and the lessons she learned along the way. Her wisdom will help any presenter on their path to delivering an unforgettable presentation.   SNIPPETS: • Rethink how you use your voice   • Marry your creativity to your desire to have an impactful message   • Spend an hour every day working on your speaking   • Do your best around your intention and let go of the outcome   • Sometimes your message isn't for a particular audience   • Much of the exposition in your stories is not relevant   • In rehearsals, ask for specific feedback   • Your story is like having a conversation with the audience   • Stay in touch with yourself, your values, and your why   • On contest day, get rest, do vocal exercises, pray/meditate   • For contests/timed talks, factor in beats for gasps and laughs   • Speak to let the audience feel something different Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com  

The use of AI has become prevalent, but how much should you use AI to develop and present your speech?   Today, Mark and Darren are joined by their fellow World Champion and Certified Speaking Professional, Ed Tate, as they discuss ways to ethically use AI as you create your unforgettable presentation.   SNIPPETS:   • AI can be relied on too heavily   • There always has to be a human in the middle   • Be committed to YOUR content   • Be connected to YOUR content   • Use AI as an intern   • Let AI help, but don't rely on it   • Use YOUR voice   • Own your speech   • Don't be lazy   • Bring your personality to every presentation   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com  

Darren freely admits that early in his career, he resisted writing out his presentations because he always spoke from the heart. In this brief episode, he and Mark discuss the value of speaking from the heart, and the additional benefit of doing so with the right preparation and structure.    SNIPPETS: • Speaking from the heart is good, but passion doesn't equal effectiveness   • The heart isn't the best editor   • You can't edit what isn't written   • What's in your mind doesn't always come out of your mouth   • Speak in a way that the audience can absorb the message   • Speak from your heart into a device/app that can transcribe it   • Edit your transcript, use a proper structure, and prepare to present   • Words prepared from the heart, spoken from the heart, will land on the heart   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

When is it too late to start a speaking career? Today Mark and Darren discuss this question with Julia Nicholson and Maria Garaitonandia, both mature presenters, at the beginning of their speaking careers. They talk about their concerns, their plans, and their process for achieving success later in life. Darren and Mark cite examples of well-known speakers who became professionals after the age of 40, and their guests also offer encouragement to anyone who wants to start their speaking journey during their later years.    SNIPPETS:   • Follow your purpose   • Use your experience to shorten your learning curve   • Investigate what it takes   • Join Toastmasters for the art   • Join NSA for the business   • An NSA Academy program is a good investment   • Avoid naysayers and keep the wind beneath your wings   • Connect with pros and build a network   • Have fun and enjoy the journey   • ** Greats like Zig Ziglar and Les Brown began their careers after 40 **     ** SOURCE: ChatGPT

"Can't I just add a couple of exercises to my keynote and create a killer training program?" Over the past two decades, Darren and Mark have heard that question numerous times, and the short answer is "No."   Today, they get comprehensive answers from their fellow World Champion and Certified Speaking Professional, Ed Tate...the trainer's trainer. Not only do they discuss the differences between speaking and training, but they also delve into the mindset and methods that will help you deliver unforgettable training.   SNIPPETS:   • Speaking and training are different   • Keynotes contain a higher level of abstraction   • Keynotes affect thinking, training affects behavior   • Audience engagement is key   • Make ideas actionable   • Instructions have various levels   • Provide content in digestible pieces   • Serve different learning styles   • Repetition is your friend   • Give content in different modalities   • Debrief activities   Check out Train-the-Trainer Workshop: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/workshops/train-the-trainer/

Well-chosen quotations, song lyrics, poetry and statistics can enhance any presentation. However, it's important to attribute the sources and let our audiences know the sources for validation. If we don't attribute, we might become unforgettable…for the wrong reason.   SNIPPETS:   • Provide the sources for polls, studies, statistics, and research findings   • "Studies show", "research proves," "a recent poll reveals" isn't enough   • Attribute lyrics, quotations poetry etc. to their source   • Quote accurately; someone always spots errors   • Misquoting can negatively affect your credibility   • Do your due diligence and verify quotations and sources   • Verify using more than one source   • Don't use too many quotations/lyrics/statistics, etc.   • Use AI wisely and verify the results that AI provides   • Never plagiarize; you will harm your reputation   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

Jim Rohn is often quoted as saying, "You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with." Today Mark and Darren speak with Julia Nicholson, a former executive who finds value in Jim's words. She is passionate about spending time with world-class communicators, and she shares lessons that she is learning along her journey to becoming unforgettable   SNIPPETS: • Find your purpose and LIVE your purpose   • Success fills your schedule, significance fills your soul   • Know where you are in your speaker process   • Develop your craft   • Lean in and learn   • There's no substitute for getting on stage   • Find the coach who is the right fit for you   • You're more effective when you're DRIVEN, not COMPELLED   • Don't just create a speech, create an unforgettable speech

In this second and final conversation about RHETORICAL DEVICES, Mark and Darren once again review Mark's winning Toastmasters speech, identifying ways that RHETORICAL DEVICES enhanced his presentation. THIS IS PART TWO OF TWO.   SNIPPETS: • Rhetorical devices multiply your message   • A rhetorical device can help to personify inanimate objects   • Rhythmic rhetorical devices make your message more sticky   • Rhetorical questions provide moments of introspection   • Rhetorical devices can provide a frame of reference   • Employ these devices to help your audience to 'see' characters and situations   How to Write Your Own Introduction: https://markbrownspeaks.com/set-up-your-success-with-your-introduction/   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

RHETORICAL DEVICES are language tools that help presenters to be more compelling and memorable…and there are more than forty such devices.   Darren examines Mark's Toastmasters World Championship-winning speech, and together they discuss how Mark used some of them effectively. By applying rhetorical techniques, you can elevate the impact of your presentation.   SNIPPETS: • Use rhetorical devices to connect emotionally   • Elevate your audience's experience   • Tools like HYERBOLE can elicit humor when used well   • Rhetorical devices add rhythm to a story and make it memorable   • Couple rhetorical devices with body language   • Combine delivery and rhetorical devices to bring your audience into the scene   How to Write Your Own Introduction: https://markbrownspeaks.com/set-up-your-success-with-your-introduction/   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com  

You've worked hard on your presentation and it's time to rehearse for readiness. In this episode in the series on their book DELIVER UNFORGETTABBLE PRESENTATIONS, Mark & Darren share tips for adding the final touches before taking the stage. This episode covers Step #7: OWN YOUR STAGE.   SNIPPETS: • Use your script to indicate emotions, stage movement, pauses, and more   • Create a stage plan   • How you use your stage will enhance your audience's experience   • Don't memorize your talk; internalize it   • Your audience wants you to be present, not perfect   • Walk through your presentation   • Rehearse for a live audience and CRAVE FEEDBACK   • Use slides as guides   • Well-chosen props and illustrations clarify, solidify, and edify your message   • Get a qualified coach   How to Write Your Own Introduction: https://markbrownspeaks.com/set-up-your-success-with-your-introduction/   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

Impactful presentations are memorable, and today Darren and Mark share techniques for adding this final touch to your presentation before taking it to the platform. This episode covers Step #6: MAKE IT UNFORGETTABLE.   SNIPPETS:   • The more complex your topic, the more you need a simple structure   • Make your points digestible   • Use a proven story structure   • The 'THEN/NOW' model is a powerful option   • Show a day in the life of the main character   • Introduce a challenge   • You must have a guru, guide, source of wisdom   • The character must experience a change   • Your Foundational Phrase will make your message memorable   • Cater to different learning styles (See podcast episodes 70, 71 & 72)   How to Write Your Own Introduction: https://markbrownspeaks.com/set-up-your-success-with-your-introduction/   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

A weak presentation closing can dilute your message and at worst, nullify your impact. In Part 4 of this series, Mark and Darren explore both principles for a solid closing, and mistakes that inexperienced presenters tend to make. This episode covers Step #5: CREATE YOUR COMPELLING CLOSE.   SNIPPETS:   • Your close should reinforce your premise   • There are several closing options   • Select the most appropriate closing for your specific presentation   • The DIALOG CLOSE is a flexible and easy option   • A compelling close is an opportunity to repeat and reinforce a guru's wisdom   • Internalize your closing; know it cold   • Prepare your closing and opening like choosing slices of bread for a sandwich   • Avoid the common mistake of delivering multiple closings   • Use Q & A to set up your closing   • NEVER end on Q & A; leave one final point that inspires your audience   How to Write Your Own Introduction: https://markbrownspeaks.com/set-up-your-success-with-your-introduction/   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com

"Open STRONG!" This is Darren's advice in Part 3 of this series as he and Mark explain the 'WHY' and the 'HOW' behind an unforgettable presentation's opening. This episode covers Step #4: CREATE YOUR STRONG OPENING   SNIPPETS:   • Set the stage with your introduction   • Your opening sets up your premise   • The opening sets the trajectory of the listeners' experience   • Open strong   • Explore various opening options   • Use effective opening words   • Be concise and precise   • Avoid platitudes until after your strong opening   • Choose opening words carefully and deliberately   • Internalize your opening; know it by heart   How to Write Your Own Introduction: https://markbrownspeaks.com/set-up-your-success-with-your-introduction/   Work with Mark and Darren: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com/get-a-speaking-coach/   Check Out Stage Time University: https://www.stagetimeuniversity.com