Writing Your Resilience: Building Resilience, Embracing Trauma and Healing Through Writing

Send us Fan MailWhat does it really take to build a writing career out of your hardest story and stay whole while doing it? In this episode, I sit down with author Tia Levings, whose memoir A Well-Trained Wife has become an increasingly timely reckoning with religious trauma, patriarchy, and survival. With her second book I Belong to Me just hitting shelves, Tia pulls back the curtain on navigating back-to-back book launches, genre-hopping with intention, and growing a 110,000-follower platform without burning out or exploiting your own pain. If you've ever wondered how to turn a cooked story into a sustainable career, this conversation is for you.Episode Highlights:05:23 When Your Story Becomes the Work13:11 The Cost of Visibility and Finding Regulation24:25 Where Memoir and Self-Help Meet35:12 Doing the Work Without Getting Stuck in ItResources for this Episode: Order I Belong To MeGet Your Free Human Design Report Register for Build an Author Platform that Aligns with Your Design and Nervous SystemDitch Your Inner Critic Now Tia’s Bio: Tia Levings is The New York Times Bestselling author of A Well-Trained Wife, her memoir of escape from Christian Patriarchy. She writes about the realities of religious trauma, evangelical patriarchy, and the Trad wife life, decoding the fundamentalist influences in our news and culture. Her work and quotes have appeared in Teen Vogue, Salon, Newsweek, and the HuffingtonPost. She also appeared in the hit Amazon docu-series, Shiny Happy People. Based in Raleigh, North Carolina, she is mom to four incredible adults and likes to travel, hike, paint, and daydream. Find her on social media @TiaLevingsWriter. Her second book, I Belong to Me, releases May 5, 2026.Connect with Tia: Read Tia Levings, Writer on Substack]Instagram: ⁠@tialevingswriter⁠⁠⁠TikTok: @tialevingswriter⁠⁠Connect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailWhat does it really take to get into a state of creative flow and what pulls us out of it? In this Editor's Round Table episode, I’m joined by fellow editors Sarah Chauncey and Lynn Shattuck to explore the Law of Increasing Flow: a framework built on presence, strategic rest, and stopping before you hit empty. Together we dig into the problem of tech distraction, the power of the subconscious mind, and why percolation–not pushing–is where so much of the real writing happens. If you've ever wondered why flow feels so elusive, this episode will leave you with both the insight and the practical tools to invite more of it into your life.Resources for this Episode: “The Critic, Cookies and a (Cautionary) Colonoscopy” by Lynn Shattuck“To Write More, Better and Faster, Do This One Thing” by Sarah ChaunceyCreative Intuition: The Skill That Makes Life and Work EasierIt’s not Your Money by Tosha SilverThe Walk for PeaceGet Your Free Human Design ReportDitch Your Inner Critic NowEpisode Highlights4:54 Constricted Writing Stories6:19 Law Of Increasing Flow8:46 Productivity Versus Creativity23:35 Nervous System PracticesConnect with Lynn: Website: www.lossofalifetime.comWebsite: www.lynnlshattuck.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100064888772287Instagram: @lynn_shattuckConnect with Sarah: Substack: https://sarahchauncey.substack.com/Counterintuitive Guide: https://counterintuitiveguide.substack.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sarahkchauncey/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sarah.k.chaunceyLynn Shattuck writes on topics like grief, parenting, and mental health. She was a columnist at Elephant Journal for ten years, where several of her essays on the topic of grief and sibling loss, and parenting went viral. Lynn co-founded the website lossofalifetime.com, a hub of resources and community for those who’ve experienced sibling loss. She co-edited the essay collection, The Loss of a Lifetime: Grieving Siblings Share Stories of Love, Loss, and Hope, which was released in June 2025.Sarah Chauncey is a nonfiction writer, developmental editor, and writing coach. Over her decades of experience, she’s written more than 100 articles for a variety of outlets, including Writer's Digest, Jane Friedman, Tiny Buddha, Lion’s Roar, and Modern Loss. Sarah is the author of P.S. I Love You More Than Tuna, the first gift book for adults grieving the loss of a pet. She also writes the Substacks “ResonaConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailAbout this episode: Have you ever come to a point in your life where giving up was the way forward? If so, how was that different from defeat?  In this episode, I unpack what healthy surrender really means, how it can actually strengthen rather than diminish your sovereignty, and how to practice it in both the big and small moments of your life. If the word "surrender" has ever felt triggering or like defeat, this episode will change the way you see it.Resources for this Episode: Healing Ancestral Trauma: How Family Constellations Free You from Inherited StoriesGet Your Free Human Design Report Register for Find and Refine Your Memoir’s Narrative ArcDitch Your Inner Critic Now Episode Highlights00:00 Surrender Is Not Giving Up01:58 What It Really Means to Surrender17:10 A Daily Practice of Letting Go23:46 Holding Boundaries with CompassionLisa’s Bio: Lisa Cooper Ellison is an author, speaker, trauma-informed writing coach, and host of the Writing Your Resilience podcast. Working at the powerful intersection of storytelling and healing, she blends her writing expertise, clinical training, and soul-centered practices—including Akashic Records work and Human Design—to help writers turn their hardest experiences into art. Her essays—on sibling loss, grief, trauma healing, and the craft of writing—have appeared in The New York Times, HuffPost, and The Loss of a Lifetime: Grieving Siblings Share Stories of Love, Loss, and Hope, among others. Connect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast ProductionConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailAbout this episode: This week, I’m joined by Jeannine Ouellette, author of The Part that Burns and a writing instructor whose deepest passion is using writing to connect us with our humanity. She sees the craft of writing as so much more than the words on the page, and I couldn’t agree more. We talk about how writing is a practice that helps you show up more fully in your own life, and how you can do this by finding your writing voice, writing close to the lived experience, and exploring from a place of discomfort. And you won’t want to miss our conversation about our shared obsession with a particular punctuation mark that we are absolutely claiming regardless of what anyone else thinks.Resources for this Episode: Voice First: A Writer’s Manifesto by Sonya HuberAcetylene Torch Songs by Sue William SilvermanInnocence & Experience: Voice in Creative Nonfiction by Sue William SilvermanFinding Your Voice and Crafting Stories that Ignite the Soul with Sue William SilvermanWriting Hard Stories: Celebrated Memoirists Who Shaped Art from Trauma“The Fourth State of Matter” by Jo Ann BeardGet Your Free Human Design Report Register for Find and Refine Your Memoir’s Narrative ArcDitch Your Inner Critic Now Episode Highlights00:00 The Question That Opens Everything04:33 On Voice (and Finding Yours)15:27 Writing as a Living Practice29:33 The Quiet Work of Finding Joy Again32:57 Craft as a Way of BeingJeannine’s Bio: Jeannine Ouellette’s lyric memoir, The Part That Burns, was a Kirkus Best Indie Book and a finalist for the Next Generation Indie Book Award in Women’s Literature. Her other books include Mama Moon and The Good Caregiver with Robert Kane, M.D. Her essays and short fiction have appeared widely in journals and anthologies, including Narrative, North American Review, Los Angeles Review of Books, Masters Review and more. Her bestselling Substack, Writing in the Dark, explores writing as a metaphor for life and attention as a pathway to becoming. She teaches writing at the Minnesota Prison Writing Workshop and the University of Minnesota and her craft book, One Word at a Time: A Creative Practice for Transforming Your Writing and Your Life, is forthcoming from Penguin.Connect with Jeannine: Substack: https://writinginthedark.substack.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeannine.ouellette.7Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/msjeannineouellette/?hl=enConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your FConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailIn this Ask Me Anything session, writer and advocate Meagan Justus brings two questions that so many writers are quietly wrestling with. 1st: when you keep circling the core of your story without being able to reach it, do you shape what you have or keep writing until you get there? And 2nd: when your story involves people or institutions with power, how do you protect yourself while still telling the truth? Together, we dig into why writers circle their stories, how changing names doesn't protect you legally, what the vetting process actually looks like, and what the unfolding controversy around Amy Griffin's memoir The Tell can teach us about the publishing process. Resources:The "but/therefore" principleThe Queen’s PathThe Beat Sheet Another Bullshit Night in Suck City by Nick FlynnSome Ether by Nick FlynnThe Ticking Is the Bomb by Nick FlynnThe Liar's Club by Mary KarrCherry by Mary KarrLit by Mary Karr https://authorsguild.org/How Can I Avoid Lawsuits When Writing Memoir?Legal Vetting for Manuscripts to Manage RiskThe Billionaire, The Psychedelics, and the Bestselling Memoir by Katherine Rosman & Elisabeth EganLawsuit Accuses Writer of Using Classmate’s Story in Best-Selling Memoir by Katherine Rosman & Elisabeth EganExamples of Hermit Crab Essays  Get Your Free Human Design Report Find and Refine Your Memoir’s Narrative ArcDitch Your Inner Critic Now Connect with Meagan: https://www.creativelyvisible.com/https://substack.com/@creativelyvisibleMeagan Justus is a writer and advocate exploring the messy middle of chronic illness, disability, and trauma. Through essays and storytelling, she works to make invisible struggles visible and a little less lonely. Her writing blends honesty, humor, and the occasional chocolate metaphor to explore resilience, self-advocacy, and the stories we discover while living through life’s hardest chapters.Connect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailWhat if the stories we tell about ourselves aren't really ours,  and what if we could finally trace them back to where they began? This is something I’ve been asking myself for years, and today I’m excited to share a few ways you can answer those questions for yourself through Family Constellations work. This week’s guest, Tania Gonzalez-Ortega, is a Family Constellations practitioner with twenty-five years of experience in energy work. During our conversation, we explore the benefits and challenges of the dark night of the soul, how some of what we experience during the dark night isn’t ours, and how we can work with those connections in ways that allow us to live our fullest, most empowered lives.Episode Highlights07:31 The Lessons Inside the Dark Night11:37 The Trauma That Was Never Yours17:16 What Happens in a Constellation Session22:43 When Writing Becomes Healing28:25 The Ripple Effect of Healing Your LineageResources from this Episode: Story Alchemy with Lisa Cooper Ellison on the New Earth Consciousness PodcastWaldorf Education ModelWhat is Family Constellations TherapyThe Dark Night of the Soul, poem by St. John of the CrossDark Night of the Soul by St. John of the CrossGet Your Free Human Design Report Sign up for Find and Refine Your Memoir’s Narrative ArcDitch Your Inner Critic Now Tania’s Bio: Tania Gonzalez-Ortega has been practicing energy work for over 25 years. Her background spans ancestral healing, nervous system regulation, and deep emotional integration. She’s studied in India and the United States and guided hundreds of clients through profound personal transformation. Tania is also a financial educator who helps women and families build real wealth in a balanced, ethical way. Her work bridges two worlds most people keep separate: Inner transformation and financial structure. Yet true sovereignty requires both. She lives in the mountains of Washington State with her husband and son on 64 acres of land that constantly reminds her that stability and growth can coexist.Connect with Tania: Facebook: facebook.com/taniamamaInstagram: instagram.com/@newearthconsciousnessYouTube: youtube.com/@newearthconsciousnessConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailWhat if the key to unlocking your creativity wasn't about doing more but about finally understanding who you are? In this episode, trauma therapist Jessica Eure and I explore how Human Design is transforming the way we work, create, and heal. From decoding your body graph to learning why you say yes when you mean no, this conversation is a masterclass in radical self-acceptance. Whether you are a trauma survivor trying to reclaim your creative life or a writer searching for more energy and focus, this episode will give you a new map for understanding yourself as well as the practical tools to use it.Episode Highlights00:00 Why Human Design Isn’t What You Think05:10 The Moment You Start Trusting Yourself Again16:45 Where You’re Still Operating from Conditioning21:52 How Human Design Changes Your RelationshipsResources for this Episode:Toward a postmaterialist psychology: Theory, research, and applicationsNeurofeedbackGet Your Free Human Design Report Register for Find and Refine Your Memoir’s Narrative ArcDitch Your Inner Critic Now Connect with Jessica: Websites: www.jessicaeure.comwww.virginianeurofeedback.comEmail: [email protected]’s Bio: Jessica Eure is a mental health counselor and educator working at the intersection of nervous system repair and consciousness. She is the co-founder of Virginia Center for Neurofeedback, where she integrates QEEG-guided neurofeedback and trauma-informed psychotherapeutic approaches to support regulation, resilience, and deep healing. Alongside her clinical work, Jessica has spent 25+ years studying reiki, chakra systems, tarot, astrology, contemplative traditions, and more recently, Human Design, weaving these frameworks into her understanding of identity, purpose, and personal transformation.Connect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailResources for this Episode: Get Your Free Human Design Report Ditch Your Inner Critic Now Do you feel aligned, or are you burning out? It’s a question we must ask ourselves repeatedly during the year of the fire horse. In today’s episode I share the simple Human Design tool you already have at your disposal that can help you stay in alignment as you live your life’s purpose whether you’re wrestling with the big issues or daily decisions. Episode Highlights02:00 The “Am I On Track?” Question04:30 Why Alignment Prevents Burnout06:30 Using Emotions as Your Compass11:00 My People-Pleasing Pattern (Real Story)19:10 Satisfaction vs. Excitement (What Actually Matters)Lisa’s Bio: Lisa Cooper Ellison is an author, speaker, trauma-informed writing coach, and host of the Writing Your Resilience podcast. Working at the powerful intersection of storytelling and healing, she blends her writing expertise, clinical training, and soul-centered practices—including Akashic Records work and Human Design—to help writers turn their hardest experiences into art. Her essays—on sibling loss, grief, trauma healing, and the craft of writing—have appeared in The New York Times, HuffPost, and The Loss of a Lifetime: Grieving Siblings Share Stories of Love, Loss, and Hope, among others.Connect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailWhat if the condition that made your life unmanageable was also the source of your greatest gifts? In this episode, I sit down with Atash Yaghmaian, a therapist, activist, and author of My Name Means Fire, to explore how writing became the bridge between her many parts, her trauma, and ultimately her freedom. Atash lives with dissociative identity disorder (DID), and shares what that means: not as something to be feared, but as a brilliant survival mechanism that carried her through war, revolution, and abuse in her native Iran. We explore the power of writing from your parts, how reading can be an act of solidarity, and why inner harmony makes you a better human, writer, and friend to the world.Episode Chapters03:02 Coming Out With Dissociative Identity Disorder11:10 Writing a Memoir With Multiple Voices21:25 From the Iranian Revolution to Finding Freedom37:09 Healing the Inner Child Through Writing42:14 DID as Protection, Healing, and ActivismResources for this Episode: Books to Read on IranA Different Side of the Self: On Finding Freedom By Telling My Story in English by Atash YaghmaianFind and Refine Your Memoir’s Narrative ArcDitch Your Inner Critic Now Atash’s Bio:  Atash Yaghmaian is the author of “My Name Means Fire.” She is a writer and a psychotherapist whose stories and articles about mental health and Iran have appeared in LitHub, Ms. Magazine, The New York Daily News, The Mighty, and Thrive Global, among others. Born in Tehran, Atash migrated to the United States alone at the age of 19, fleeing war, trauma, and abuse. She blogs at atashyaghmaian.com.Connect with Atash: Website: www.atashyaghmaian.comInstagram: @ayhealingYouTube: @AtashYaghmaianConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailWould you like to know when to say yes or no, how to tell which piece of feedback is right for you or your book, or how to proceed with greater ease? If you’re working on a book, would you like to spend more time having your characters tell you what to write and less time trying to figure it out? Find out how your intuition can do all of these things and how connecting with it is easier than you think. Episode Highlights01:42 The Voice You Keep Ignoring02:57 What Intuition Actually Is (and Isn’t)05:27 That Quiet Whisper You Can’t Shake07:12 Gut Feeling or Fear? How to Tell11:32 Get Out of Your Head, Into Your Body15:27 Stop Forcing It, Let Answers Come17:10 Journaling That Builds Self-Trust18:53 The Dream That Changed Everything22:16 Signs… or Coincidence?25:36 Test Your Intuition Today27:46 Follow What Feels Alive30:19 A Practice to Come Back to YourselfResources for this Episode: Intuition 101: Developing Your ClairsensesDitch Your Inner Critic Now Lisa’s Bio: Lisa Cooper Ellison is an author, speaker, trauma-informed writing coach, and host of the Writing Your Resilience podcast. Working at the powerful intersection of storytelling and healing, she blends her writing expertise, clinical training, and soul-centered practices—including Akashic Records work and Human Design—to help writers turn their hardest experiences into art. Her essays—on sibling loss, grief, trauma healing, and the craft of writing—have appeared in The New York Times, HuffPost, and The Loss of a Lifetime: Grieving Siblings Share Stories of Love, Loss, and Hope, among others.Connect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailHow do you keep the faith when your nervous system is fried, your heart is tired, and the world feels like too much? In this editors’ roundtable episode, I’m  joined by Kristin Sancken and Lynn Shattuck for an honest conversation about what actually helps when times are tough. Together, they share personal stories of losing faith in creative projects, the hidden cost of valuing product over process, and the gentle, sustainable strategies they use to care for themselves during hard seasons. This episode explores how to honor the season you’re in, lean into community, and choose care in a culture that tells us to go it alone.Episode Highlights01:57 When It All Falls Apart: The “Empire Strikes Back” Season03:54 Kristen’s Season of Care and Surrender05:56 When the Story Goes Quiet: Lynn’s Memoir Pause07:47 Lisa’s Dark Night of the Soul12:36 Holding Onto Faith When It Feels Slippery13:30 The Power of DadderDays25:24 How Laying an Egg Can Return You To Your Body27:31 Trusting the Cycles We’re In31:36 Journal Prompts + Voices from the CommunityResources for this Episode:Functional Anatomy of the Female PerineumCan You Trust Your Memories? What Neuroscience Reveals About Trauma, Story & Healing |Stacey SimmonsDitch Your Inner Critic NowKristin’s Bio: Kristin Thomas Sancken was born in Panama, raised in Mexico, and came of age in Minnesota before settling in Charlottesville, Virginia, where she lives with her husband, two children, and an exuberant Golden Retriever. Her writing has earned numerous awards and appeared in publications including The Guardian, HuffPost, and Columbia Journal. You can find more of her writing at her Substack, Sanctuary of the Holy Others.Lynn’s Bio: Lynn Shattuck writes on topics like grief, parenting and mental health. She was a columnist at Elephant Journal for ten years, where several of her essays on the topic of grief and sibling loss and parenting went viral. Lynn co-founded the website lossofalifetime.com, a hub of resources and community for those who’ve experienced sibling loss. She co-edited the essay collection, The Loss of a Lifetime: Grieving Siblings Share Stories of Love, Loss, and Hope, which was released in June of 2025.Connect with Kristin:Website: http://www.sancken.com/Instagram: @ktsancken_writerThreads: @ktsancken_writerConnect with Lynn: Website: www.lossofalifetime.comWebsite: www.lynnlshattuck.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100064888772287Instagram: @lynn_shattuckConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailWhat do you do when the memory you need most for your memoir is the one you can’t quite reach? You listen to this week’s guest, Sue William Silverman. Sue is the award-winning author of nine works of nonfiction and poetry and co-chair of the MFA in Writing program at Vermont College of Fine Arts. She joined me for a deeply honest, craft conversation about what to do when you can’t remember, how to work with fragmented memory, how to use structure, voice, and sensory detail to tell the emotional truth of your story, and how to trust yourself even when certainty is impossible. If you’ve ever felt stalled by memory gaps, afraid of getting it “wrong,” or unsure how to write what you can’t fully recall, this episode will give you both permission and practical tools to keep going. Let’s dive in.Episode Highlights04:48 Writing Memoir When Memory Feels Unstable05:48 From Bad Fiction to Honest Storytelling07:13 The Five Senses Trick for Unlocking Memories09:38 Emotional Truth vs. Perfect Facts20:29 Writing the Gaps: What You Don’t Fully Remember27:30 What You Cut (and Why It Matters Later)30:55 You Don’t Have to Fit Your Whole Life in One Book33:47 Finding the Voice That Can Tell the StoryResources for this Episode: Books by Sue William Silverman: Selected Misdemeanors: Essays at the Mercy of the ReaderBecause I Remember Terror Father, I Remember YouAcetylene Torch Songs: Writing True Stories to Ignite the SoulLove SickHow to Survive Death and Other InconveniencesWriting Hard Stories: Celebrated Memoirists Who Shaped Art from Trauma by Melanie BrooksThe Part That Burns by Jeannine OuellettePlaying with Dynamite by Sharon HarriganThe Queen’s Path by Stacey SimmonsFinding Your Voice and Crafting Stories that Ignite the Soul with Sue William SilvermanCan You Trust Your Memories? with Stacey SimmonsDitch Your Inner Critic Now Sue’s Bio: Sue William Silverman is an award-winning author of nine works of nonfiction and poetry. Her new book, "Selected Misdemeanors: Essays at the Mercy of the Reader," is longlisted for the 2026 PEN/Diamonstein-Spielvogel Award for the Art of the Essay. Sue has appeared on such programs as The View, Anderson Cooper 360, and PBS Books. She’s co-chair of the MFA in Writing program at Vermont College of Fine Arts.Connect with Sue: Website: https://www.suewilliamsilverman.com/Facebook: @SueWilliamSilvermanInstagram: @suewilliamsilvermanConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailListeners, do you ever wonder if your memories are real? Are you writing a memoir and struggling to remember something—or worrying that what you’re sharing might not be “the truth”? Today on Writing Your Resilience, I’m joined by psychotherapist and neuroscience nerd Stacy Simmons for a powerful conversation about memory, trauma, and storytelling. We explore why memory isn’t a recording device, how traumatic memories get fragmented in the brain, what “reconstituted memories” really are, and how writers can work with their memories in ways that heal rather than re-traumatize. Get ready to dive into a conversation that reveals why memory is fragile, not like a flower but like a bomb. Episode Highlights: 4:34: The Types of Memories Memoirists Need to Know12:16: Can Your Bodies Be In Your Memories? The Limitations of Science19:48: What to Do with Trauma Memories and How to Keep from Retraumatizing Yourself  27:33: Navigating Your Conscious Memories35:41: Trusting Early Memories Resources from This Episode: What If You’re Not Meant to Be the Hero with Stacey SimmonsThe Adverse Childhood Experience Survey TestMushroom Pharmacy: A Practical Guide to Psychedelic Mushrooms by Stacey SimmonsWhat Happened to You by Oprah Winfrey and Dr. Bruce PerryHysterical PodcastMcMartin Preschool CaseThe Debate on Repressed Memories Identify Your Memoir’s Essential QuestionDitch Your Inner Critic NowStacey’s Bio: Stacey Simmons is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Psychedelic Therapist. She is a clinical supervisor at Hope Therapy Center in Burbank, California. Her practice focuses on creative professionals, where she works primarily with writers, directors, actors, and musicians. Her research focuses on creativity, archetypes, psychedelic psychotherapy, neuroscience, and consciousness research. She is a volunteer researcher with the Semel Institute of Neuroscience at UCLA, as well as a researcher with the Trance Science Research Institute in Paris, France. She holds a PhD from the University of New Orleans, and a Masters degree from Pacifica Graduate Institute in Santa Barbara, California.Connect with Stacey:Website: https://staceysimmonsphd.comFacebook: @staceysimmonsphdInstagram: @staceysimmonsphdTikTok: @staceysimmonsphdConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan Mail Writers, are you writing about trauma and wondering how detailed to get or how to connect the dots when your story feels scattered? The solution might be a memoir in essays that allows you to write about powerful discreet moments that are loosely connected by associations. If that's you, you are in for a treat because this week on the Writing and Resilience Podcast, I'm joined by Melissa Fraterrigo, author of the Perils of Girlhood, named one of literary hub's, 100 notable small press books of 2025.During our conversation, we explore the differences between memoir and memoir and essays, how to use memory as a portal to story, and how learning to trust your reader can help you decide what to share and what to leave out. Let's dive in.  Episode Highlights6:24: The Drivers of Self-Esteem We’re Not Discussing  9:53: Understanding Memoirs in Essay versus Traditional Memoirs17:00: How to Use Memory as a Portal to Story22:15: The Secret to Treating All Characters Well24:40: Tips for Navigating Traumatic Material in Your Essay34:35: The One Unexpected Gift Writing Gives YouResources for this Episode: Identify Your Memoir’s Essential QuestionDitch Your Inner Critic Now Melissa’s Bio: Melissa Fraterrigo’s memoir, The Perils of Girlhood was published by the University of Nebraska Press in Fall 2025, and named by Literary Hub as one of “100 Notable Small Press Books of 2025.” She is also the author of the novel Glory Days (University of Nebraska Press), and the story collection The Longest Pregnancy (Livingston Press). She teaches creative writing at Purdue University and is the founder of the Lafayette Writers’ Studio in Lafayette, Indiana. Please visit melissafraterrigo.com and lafayettewritersstudio.com.Connect with Melissa: Website: melissafraterrigo.com@melissafraterrigoFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/melissa.fraterrigoSubstack: https://substack.com/@melissafraterrigoLafayette Writers Studio: lafayettewritersstudio.comConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailThis week, I’m joined by Wendy Dale, the author of The Memoir Engineering System, for a conversation that will change the way you think about structure, scenes, and what actually makes a memoir work. We talk about why “this happened, then this happened” isn’t a story, how connected events create momentum, and why your job as a memoirist isn’t just to show—but to transport your reader. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the messy middle, overwhelmed by pages, or unsure how to shape your lived experience into a compelling narrative, this episode is for you.Episode Highlights03:04 Wendy's Background05:50 The "This Happened Then This Happened Problem09:37 What Makes a Good Memoir12:07 The Secret to Becoming a Great Writer16:26 The Most Important Elements a Writer Must Consider26:03 What Readers Really Want 33:15 The Real Work Scenes Must DoResources for this Episode: Story Cure: A Book Doctor's Pain-Free Guide to Finishing Your Novel or Memoir by Dinty MooreSurvival Math: Notes on an All-American Family by Mitchell JacksonWhat My Bones Know by Stephanie FooIdentify Your Memoir’s Essential QuestionDitch Your Inner Critic Now Wendy’s Bio: Wendy Dale is the founder of Memoir Writing for Geniuses. She offers coaching and classes for newbies and professionals to write their memoirs using principles instead of a process of trial and error. Her memoir Avoiding Prison and Other Noble Vacation Goals was published by Three Rivers Press, a division of Penguin Random House. She is also the author of the book The Memoir Engineering System, the result of 15 years of research, which details a six-step process that allows writers to craft their memoirs from the ground up with no structural errors. Her motto is “Make your first draft your final draft.”Connect with Wendy:Website: www.geniusmemoirwriting.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@memoirwritingforgeniusesSign up for Revise Your Memoir series: https://bit.ly/4ooLTDiConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailAs we step into 2026, many writers feel ready to begin—yet remain stalled or exhausted from the year before. In this episode, I show you how to reclaim momentum through creative alignment and the one thing you must do to harness your success. We explore the three essential things every writer must do: shed limiting beliefs, build supportive habits, and set boundaries that honor who you’re becoming—so you can step into the year with clarity, sovereignty, and authentic momentum.Episode Highlights1:53: Why Your Momentum is Flagging or Lagging6:09: Shedding Unhelpful Beliefs12:33: Modifying Your Habits16:34: Evaluating Your Relationships28:10: The Most Important Practice to Cultivate in 2026Resources for this Episode: What’s Up with the Year of the Fire HorseWelcome to the Year of Fire Horse 2026: Exploring Chinese Zodiac Horse's Cultural Meanings & TraditionsWhat Are You Ready to ShedIdentify Your Memoir’s Essential QuestionDitch Your Inner Critic Now Lisa’s Bio: Lisa Cooper Ellison is an author, speaker, trauma-informed writing coach, and host of the Writing Your Resilience podcast. Working at the powerful intersection of storytelling and healing, she blends her writing expertise, clinical training, and soul-centered practices—including Akashic Records work and Human Design—to help writers turn their hardest experiences into art. Her essays—on sibling loss, grief, trauma healing, and the craft of writing—have appeared in The New York Times, HuffPost, and The Loss of a Lifetime: Grieving Siblings Share Stories of Love, Loss, and Hope, among others.Sign up for Revise Your Memoir series:  https://bit.ly/4ooLTDiGet a taste of the series by signing up for Identify Your Memoir’s Essential QuestionConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailIn this encore conversation, author and teacher Melanie Brooks and I explore the lifelong impact of silence—within our families, our communities, and our writing lives. Drawing from her memoir, A Hard Silence, Melanie shares how unspoken truths shaped her understanding of grief, identity, and faith, and what it took to finally claim her voice on the page. Together, we discuss how silence keeps writers stuck, the power of finishing the stories that haunt us, and how narrative medicine helped her weave two complex narratives into one.Episode Highlights2:55: The pain of living with secrets5:54: Navigating anticipatory grief15:45: The transformative power of finishing your story20:00 The magic of timing and the stories we tell ourselves26:00 The influence of narrative medicine on Melanie’s story30:00 Marrying two stories into one37:00 Melanie’s best writing adviceResources for this Episode: My Family Kept My Dad's Secret For Years. I Wasn't Prepared For What Telling The Truth Would Mean.Interrogating the Cost of Silence and Finding My VoiceDitch Your Inner Critic Now Melanie’s Bio: Melanie Brooks is the author of A Hard Silence: One Daughter Remaps Family, Grief, and Faith When HIV/AIDS Changes It All (Vine Leaves Press, September 2023) and Writing Hard Stories: Celebrated Memoirists Who Shaped Art from Trauma (Beacon Press, 2017). She teaches professional writing at Northeastern University and creative nonfiction in the MFA program at Bay Path University in Massachusetts. She holds an MFA in Creative Nonfiction from the University of Southern Maine’s Stonecoast writing program. She recently completed a Certificate of Narrative Medicine at Columbia University. Her work has appeared in Psychology Today, the HuffPost, Yankee Magazine, the Washington Post, Ms. Magazine, Creative Nonfiction, and other notable publications. She lives in New Hampshire with her husband, two children (when they are home from college), and two Labs.Connect with Melanie:Website: melaniebrooks.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/melanie.brooks.1690Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/melaniejmbrookswriterX: https://twitter.com/MelanieJMBrooksLinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/melanie-brooks-504826121Book: https://bookshop.org/p/books/a-hard-silence-one-daughter-remaps-family-grief-and-faith-when-hiv-aids-changes-it-all-melanie-brooks/20151761?ean=9783988320209Connect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailJoin me and Pushcart Nominee, TedX Speaker, and multi-passionate creative, Acamea Deadwiler for this encore episode where we talk about normalized violence, how our attachment styles can influence the way we approach our memoirs, and the importance of connecting with your inner compass. During our conversation, you’ll also learn what transcendental meditation is and how Acamea used her TM practice while writing her memoir, Daddy’s Little Stranger.Acamea’s bio: Acamea Deadwiler is a Pushcart Prize nominated memoirist and essayist who received praise from Publishers Weekly and authored the memoir, Daddy’s Little Stranger. Her work has appeared in Bellevue Literary Review, North American Review, and Beyond Words Literary Magazine, among other publications. Acamea’s media features include the New York Post, Cosmopolitan, Bustle, and the FOX television network. She is also a TEDx speaker. Currently residing in Nevada, Acamea is an Indiana native. She is a fellow in the MFA program at Randolph College.Resources Mentioned During This Episode:How Different Attachment Styles Affect RelationshipsWhat is Transcendental MeditationDitch Your Inner Critic NowSign Up for Revise Your Memoir Episode Highlights1:00 The Stories We Carry7:00 Dealing with Normalized Violence11:29 Choosing the Right Moments When Trauma Is High15:30 Writing About Abandonment18:00 Attachment Styles and Storytelling24:12: Essay Collections vs Memoir28:00 Writing About Bad Behavior35:19 Transcendental Meditation and Writing41:50 Connecting With Your Inner Compass43:00 Acamea’s Best Writing AdviceConnect with Acamea: Instagram - @acameaTwitter - @acamealdWebsite - acameadeadwiler.comBook - Daddyslittlestranger.comConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailJoin me and Andrea Firth for this encore episode of the writing your resilience podcast where we explore what personal essays are, how writers can uncover their essay’s aboutness, and how to develop resilient editing practices. As an added bonus, learn the inside scoop on how to get published on the Brevity Blog. Episode Highlights4:00 The Difference Between Memoir and Personal Essay7:00 Exploring the Inciting Incident for Your Essays14:00 Common Struggles Essayists Have: Aboutness21:00 The Power of the Braided Essay25:00 Resilient Editing and Workshopping34:00 Submitting to the Brevity BlogResources Mentioned During This Episode: The Beauty of a Busted Fruit by Natalie DiazSecret Words by Andrea FirthBroken Glass by Andrea FirthOld John by Andrea FirthBrevity Blog Submission GuidelinesSnot-Bubble-Cry Dance Parties that Boost Your Creativity by Lisa Cooper EllisonLooking at an Eclipse: A Braided Essay About Braided Essays by Lilly DancygerDitch Your Inner Critic Now Andrea’s Bio: Andrea A. Firth is a writer, editor and educator living in the San Francisco Bay Area. She is an Editor at Brevity Blog and cofounder of Diablo Writers’ Workshop where she teaches creative writing and provides developmental editing. Andrea has an MFA in Creative Nonfiction from Saint Mary’s College of California. She was a finalist for The Missouri Review's 2021 Perkoff Prize in nonfiction, and her work has appeared in Dorothy Parker’s Ashes, Allium, The Coachella Review among others. Learn more about her and read her recent work at www.andreaafirth.com.Connect with Andrea: Website: https://www.andreaafirth.com/Substack: Everything Essay! with Andrea FirthInstagram: @andreaafwriterFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/andrea.firth.58LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/andreafirth/Connect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailJoin me and Hannah Sward, author of Strip: A Memoir, for an encore episode where we go behind the scenes of her writing process—how she wrote her first draft by hand, in one long, unfiltered sentence; how she found the courage to put her full truth on the page; and how she distilled years of experience into a memoir that moves with incredible precision and power. You’ll also learn transcription tricks, sex scene-writing tips, the unexpected doors publishing your book can open, and some somatic techniques for navigating your vulnerability.Episode Highlights4:46 Hannah’s memoir writing process10:16 Transcription tips17:47 Somatic strategies for writing vulnerable scenes, including sex scenes23:35: Placing insights into your book24:37 Tricks for writing concisely 28:57 The post-publication life of your book 34:39 Writing what’s next Resources for this Episode: “My life after meth: Learning to open and close the curtains” by Hannah Sward“The Sharp Edge of A Shell” by Hannah Sward“Making Even The Smallest Mistake Filled Me With Terror. Then 2 Little Words Changed My Life.” by Lisa Cooper EllisonDitch Your Inner Critic Now Hannah’s Bio: Hannah Sward, daughter of the late poet Robert Sward, is the IPPY Gold winning author of Strip: A Memoir. For the past 25 years, Sward’s work has been widely published in literary journals in the US, Canada, and the UK. Her most recent work can be read in the LA Times, HuffPost, The NY Times (Tiny Love Stories) and The Rumpus (Voices on Addiction). Sward is on the board at Right to Write Press, a nonprofit that supports emerging incarcerated writers. She believes strongly in good literary citizenship and is actively involved in the literary community. She lives in Los Angeles where she is working on her next book. Learn more at hannahsward.comConnect with Hannah: Website: hannahsward.comIG: @hannahswardauthorThreads: @hannahswardauthorBlueSky: summerjar.bsky.socialConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailWhat happens when you commit to showing up—again and again—for your writing life? In this special bonus recording in celebration of my 100th episode,, I reflect on ten years of creative work and the ten lessons I learned about growth, resilience, rest, and trusting your own process. If you’re questioning your path, feeling stuck, or wondering whether your effort matters, this episode will remind you why it does.Episode Highlights2:48: The Most Important Thing to Know6:04: Failing Up versus Floundering9:03: The Counterintuitive Nature of ProgressResources for this Episode: Quantity Leads to QualityGratitude Leads to GreatnessDitch Your Inner CriticRevise Your MemoirLisa’s Bio: Lisa Cooper Ellison is an author, speaker, trauma-informed writing coach, and host of the Writing Your Resilience podcast. Working at the powerful intersection of storytelling and healing, she blends her writing expertise, clinical training, and soul-centered practices—including Akashic Records work and Human Design—to help writers turn their hardest experiences into art. Her essays—on sibling loss, grief, trauma healing, and the craft of writing—have appeared in The New York Times, HuffPost, and The Loss of a Lifetime: Grieving Siblings Share Stories of Love, Loss, and Hope, among others.Connect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailHave you been trying to fit your life story into the hero’s journey and find it’s just not working? What if it doesn’t fit the mold because you were never meant to be the hero, but rather you were meant to be the queen? In this 100th episode of Writing Your Resilience, I’m joined by Stacey Simmons, a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Psychedelic Therapist, and author of The Queen’s Path. Together, we explore sovereignty, archetypes, and why so many women’s stories end before they ever claim their full power.Episode Highlights4:35: Understanding Sovereignty9:25: The Hero’s and Heroine’s Journey15:30: Blindness and Entering the Divide22:05: Our Curses and Marks25:15: The Dangers of the Queen’s Path31:20: Exercise: MIPEs, MISORs, and Our Commitments38:33: Sovereignty Is for Everyone41:52: Psychedelics and SovereigntyResources for this Episode: The 5 Elements of Dramatic Structure: Understanding Freytag’s PyramidDefinition of an ArchetypeStacey’s  Bio: Stacey Simmons is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Certified Psychedelic Therapist. She is a clinical supervisor at Hope Therapy Center in Burbank, California. Her practice focuses on creative professionals, where she works primarily with writers, directors, actors, and musicians. Her research focuses on creativity, archetypes, psychedelic psychotherapy, neuroscience and consciousness research. She is a volunteer researcher with the Semel Institute of Neuroscience at UCLA, as well as a researcher with the Trance Science Research Institute in Paris, France. She holds a PhD from the University of New Orleans, and a Masters degree from Pacifica Graduate Institute in Santa Barbara, California.Connect with Stacey: Website: https://staceysimmonsphd.com/Facebook: @staceysimmonsphdInstagram: @staceysimmonsphdTikTok: @staceysimmonsphdConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailWhat if the pressure to “find the silver lining” is actually keeping you from healing?In this episode, Dr. Risa Riger and I unpack the subtle—and sometimes harmful—ways toxic optimism, avoidance, and “bouncing back” culture disconnect us from our own truth. Together, we explore what real resilience looks like, why honesty must come before hope, and how trusting your capacity to be with discomfort can transform the way you meet your life.Episode Highlights2:13: The Self-Owned Mindset3:50: The Problem with Silver Linings7:44: The Fallacy that Everything Happens for a Reason12:15: Building Self-Literacy19:11: The Unsustainability of Bouncing Back26:10: Cultivating Self-Trust Resources for this Episode: Disruptive Conversation with Acamea Deadwiler Disruptive Conversation with Dana Cohen M.D. Disrupting the Inner Critic: Writing Change and the Self-Owned Mindset with Dr. Risa RygerWriting to Heal with Laura DavisSign Up for Revise Your Memoir Dr. Ryger’s Bio: Dr. Risa Ryger is a Clinical Psychologist, International Speaker, Author, Founder of 93% Consulting, and the Creator of The Self-Owned Mindset(TM). As an Expert in Change, she knows that positive change can happen at any point. Her goal is to help women build confidence and self-trust to powerfully step forward into their lives through developing their Self-Owned Mindset.” Dr. Ryger has held clinical appointments including Professional Associate of Psychiatry at New York-Presbyterian Hospital and Clinical Instructor of Psychology in Psychiatry at Cornell University Medical College. She has served as a Consulting Psychologist for Victim Services NYC and on the Advisory Council of Mindfulness Without Borders. She has presented to Microsoft, Mastercard, CitiBank, United Bonds UAE, National Alliance on Mental Illness, and Her Justice. She is a contributing author for Mind Body Green, Thrive Global, and The Female Quotient. She hosts a weekly Instagram Live Series, Disruptive Conversations with Dr. Risa Ryger, to highlight female disruptors in their fields. Her debut book on The Disruptive Self-Ownership Process(TM) is set to launch in early 2026. Dr. Ryger earned her Master of Science, Master of Philosophy, and Doctorate from Columbia University. She is the proud mother of two amazing daughters and lives in NY with her husband and two dogs, Penelope and Sammy – the dog who smiles.Connect with Dr. Ryger:  Instagram: www.instagram.com/dr.risarygerWebsite: https://www.drrisaryger.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-risa-ryger-69a47a21/Connect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailMany writers find themselves wrestling with experiences that fall outside linear time, logic, or the way stories are “supposed” to unfold. In this final Ask Me Anything episode of 2025, I sit down with my student Linda to talk about how to weave the spiritual, the uncanny, and the beyond-belief into memoir with clarity, groundedness, and literary intention. From magical realism to lyric memoir, we explore the craft choices that honor your truth while still guiding your readers. Episode Highlights2:24: Writing About the Spiritual and Mystical6:12: Magical Realism in Memoir11:11: Tackling the Mystical Through the Lyric MemoirResources for this Episode: Ditch Your Inner Critic NowTelling the Truth: Memoir, Myth and Magical Realism10 Lyrical Memoirs That Will Enchant YouBeloved by Toni Morrison (novel)The Warrior Woman by Maxine Hong Kingston (memoir)On Earth We’re Briefly Gorgeous by Ocean Vuong (autofiction)Craving Spring by Anne Batchelder (memoir)We The Animals by Justin Torres (autofiction)Be with Me Always by Randon Billings Noble (lyric memoir/essay collection)The Men We Reaped by Jesmyn Ward (lyric memoir)The Chronology of Water by Lidia Yuknavitch (lyric memoir)My Name Means Fire by Atash Yaghmaian (memoir)The Queen’s Path by Stacey SimmonsLinda McKittrick’s bio: Linda is an avid rancher and gardener, former HIV/AIDS, and hospice social worker, living in the Sonoran Desert. She is currently working on a memoir. When she is not writing she enjoys seed saving, creating in the kitchen, and participating in citizen science projects for bats and fireflies.Connect with Linda: Email: [email protected] with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailHolidays can bring out the best—and the hardest—parts of being human. In this special Thanksgiving episode of Writing Your Resilience, I share stories from joyful celebrations and heartbreakingly difficult years to remind you that whatever you’re feeling today—gratitude, grief, or something in between—it’s all welcome. Together, we’ll explore how art can help us hold the complexity of the season, find meaning in the dark, and transform our experiences into something beautiful.Episode Highlights1:30: Thanksgiving Reflections: The Highs and Lows04:15: Embracing Your Feelings5:10: The Power of Art: Frida Kahlo's Inspiration7:00: Practical Advice for a Challenging Thanksgiving8:14: Gratitude and ResilienceResources for this Episode: Ditch Your Inner Critic NowFrida Kahlo’s ArtworkLisa’s Bio: Lisa Cooper Ellison is an author, speaker, trauma-informed writing coach, and host of the Writing Your Resilience podcast. Working at the powerful intersection of storytelling and healing, she blends her writing expertise, clinical training, and soul-centered practices—including Akashic Records work and Human Design—to help writers turn their hardest experiences into art. Her essays—on sibling loss, grief, trauma healing, and the craft of writing—have appeared in The New York Times, HuffPost, and The Loss of a Lifetime: Grieving Siblings Share Stories of Love, Loss, and Hope, among others.Connect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailListeners, have you been struggling to pick yourself up after experiencing one—or maybe many—rejections of your work? It’s an experience that can make you feel so alone, but I want to be the first to say that we’ve all experienced the self-doubts and even shame a big rejection can create. In this week’s episode, Lynn Shattuck, Kristin Sancken and I share our personal rejection experiences, how to reframe the “no’s” you’ve received, and how to pick yourself back up when the writing life feels tough.Episode Highlights:3:12: Writing Rejection Stories12:06: Understanding the Tier of Rejection19:53: Capturing the Joy of Writing22:09: Navigating Our Disappointments36:11 What If The Work That’s Been Rejected Is Still a Yes for YouResources:Ditch Your Inner Critic NowThe Art of Intimacy: Crafting Connection in Memoir and Essay with Lilly Dancyger Giving Up on Giving UpHow To Read Between The Lines of Your RejectionsWhat Is Polyvagal TheoryThe Emotional Freedom TechniqueThe Loss of a Lifetime: Grieving Siblings Share Stories of Love, Loss, and Hope, edited by Lynn Shattuck and Alyson Shelton“Half-Life” by Lisa Cooper Ellison, published in The Kenyon ReviewKristin’s Bio: Kristin Thomas Sancken was born in Panama, raised in Mexico, and came of age in Minnesota before settling in Charlottesville, Virginia, where she lives with her husband, two children, and an exuberant Golden Retriever. Her writing has earned numerous awards and appeared in publications including The Guardian, HuffPost, and Columbia Journal. Lynn’s Bio: Lynn Shattuck writes on topics like grief, parenting and mental health. She was a columnist at Elephant Journal for ten years, where several of her essays on the topic of grief and sibling loss and parenting went viral. Lynn co-founded the website lossofalifetime.com, a hub of resources and community for those who’ve experienced sibling loss. She co-edited the essay collection, The Loss of a Lifetime: Grieving Siblings Share Stories of Love, Loss, and Hope, which was released in June of 2025.Connect with Kristin: http://www.sancken.com/Instagram & Threads: @ktsancken_writerConnect with Lynn: www.lossofalifetime.com, www.lynnlshattuck.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100064888772287Instagram: @lynn_shattuckConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailIf you’ve ever sat down to meditate—especially at a writing retreat—and thought, “I suck at this,” this episode is for you. In this solo conversation, I unpack five common myths about meditation that leave writers feeling frustrated, ashamed, or “bad” at being still. From the belief that you must stop thinking to the idea that meditation has to happen on a cushion with your eyes closed, I gently dismantle the misconceptions keeping you from finding your calm–including the fact that sometimes meditation isn’t good for you. Episode Highlights3:15: What Meditation Really Is6:54: Why You’ve Been Told to Meditate8:48: Two Reasons We Believe We Suck at Meditation9:14: Myth One: The Goal of Meditation is to Stop Thinking13:12: Myth Two: Meditation Takes a Long Time16:36: Myth Three: I Have to Do Something Special17:51: Myth Four: You Have to Sit to Mediate20:24: Myth Five: Meditation is Always Good for YouResources for this Episode: The Power of Writing RitualsSoles of the Feet MeditationVipassana meditationPeace Is Every Step by Thich Nhat HanhInsight TimerLisa’s Bio: Lisa Cooper Ellison is an author, speaker, trauma-informed writing coach, and host of the Writing Your Resilience podcast. Working at the powerful intersection of storytelling and healing, she blends her writing expertise, clinical training, and soul-centered practices—including Akashic Records work and Human Design—to help writers turn their hardest experiences into art. Her essays—on sibling loss, grief, trauma healing, and the craft of writing—have appeared in The New York Times, HuffPost, and The Loss of a Lifetime: Grieving Siblings Share Stories of Love, Loss, and Hope, among others.Connect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailListeners, what role does the body play in your book? Is it something you use to show the story—or is it the portal to the story itself? In this episode, I talk with Nina Lichtenstein, author of Body, My Life in Parts, a memoir in essays that uses the body as both structure and storyteller. Together, Nina and I explore how writing through the body can deepen our understanding of self, belonging, and resilience. As we prepare for this enlivening conversation, I invite you to take a deep breath, wiggle your toes and get ready for a conversation about what it means to write—and live—in a body. Let’s jump in.Episode Highlights2:00: The Power of Writing in Response to Body Parts8:15: Tips for Crafting a Strong Live Reading9:53: The Skin We Have in Our Stories13:48: Navigating Time and Revelation in Essay Writing21:29: Dealing with Tender Material28:25: Navigating a Book LaunchResources for this Episode: Lucille Clifton’s poem “Homage to My Hips”“On Blurbs That Matter and How I Did It.” by Nina Lichtenstein“Skin in the Game” by Nina LichtensteinNina’s Bio: Nina is a native of Oslo, Norway, now living in Maine. She holds a PhD in French literature from UCONN, an MFA in Creative Writing from the University of Southern Maine, and is a “recovering academic.” Her writing has appeared in Tablet Magazine, Kveller, Brevity Blog, Lilith Magazine, The Washington Post, HuffPost, and AARP, among other places. She has blogged as The Viking Jewess (since 2014) now on Substack. Her work has been anthologized and her book, Sephardic Women's Voices: Out of North Africa was published in 2017. Nina is the founder and director of Maine Writers Studio and co-founder/co-editor of In a Flash Literary Magazine. She has three grown Viking Jew sons, all over 6'4" tall with the middle names Thor, Balder, and Odin. She has gleefully discovered pickleball, loves to kayak and hike, and does yoga to calm her monkey mind.Connect with Nina: https://www.mainewritersstudio.com/https://www.ninalichtenstein.com/https://ninablichtenstein.substack.com/https://www.instagram.com/vikingjewess/https://www.facebook.com/ninalich/https://inaflashlitmag.substack.com/Connect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailHave you ever wondered how a single moment—a glance, a mistake, a shimmering flash of memory—can hold the power of an entire story? Or how the smallest details of an ordinary life can reveal something vast about who we are and what we long for? In this episode, I talk with award-winning author Sue William Silverman about her newest book, Selected Misdemeanors: Essays at the Mercy of the Reader. Together, we explore the art of flash nonfiction—those short, revelatory pieces that illuminate our obsessions and turn ordinary moments into profound reflections on love, loss, and self-forgiveness.Episode Highlights3:35: Why Title This Selected Misdemeanors6:36:Playing with Unifying Devices in Your Books 11:18: Understanding Flash Nonfiction16:20: Creating Alternative Essay Constructions 22:10: Finding Specificity and Moving Away from Abstraction 30:43: Sue’s Writing Advice for Surviving 2025 and BeyondResources for this Episode: About Finding Your Voice and Crafting Stories that Ignite the Soul with Sue William SilvermanAcetylene Torch Songs: Writing True Stories to Ignite the Soul by Sue William SilvermanSue’s Bio: Sue William Silverman is an award-winning author of nine works of nonfiction and poetry. Her new book, "Selected Misdemeanors: Essays at the Mercy of the Reader," is a collection of flash essays. Her book on the craft of writing, "Acetylene Torch Songs: Writing True Stories to Ignite the Soul," won the 2024 IPPY Silver Award. Her memoir-in-essays collection, "How to Survive Death and Other Inconveniences," won the gold star in Foreword Reviews INDIE Book of the Year Award. Other works include "Love Sick: One Woman’s Journey through Sexual Addiction," made into a Lifetime TV movie; "Because I Remember Terror, Father, I Remember You," which won the AWP Award; and "The Pat Boone Fan Club: My Life as a White Anglo-Saxon Jew." She’s co-chair of the MFA in Writing program at Vermont College of Fine Arts. Her media appearances include The View, Anderson Cooper-360, and PBS Books.Connect with Sue: Website: www.SueWilliamSilverman.comFacebook: @SueWilliamSilvermanInstagram: @suewilliamsilvermanConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailToday, we’re diving into a topic that trips up so many writers—vulnerability. How much should you share? When does honest writing become oversharing? And why does your most powerful work sometimes feel like it completely sucks? If you’ve ever been told your story isn’t raw enough—or that it’s too raw—you’re not alone. In this episode, I’ll break down the two extremes writers fall into, share a framework for finding the right kind of vulnerability, and show you how to use uncertainty, risk, and emotional exposure to create stories that feel true, resonant, and safe for both you and your readers.Episode Highlights2:32: Defining Vulnerability3:54: Uncertainty, Risk and Emotional Exposure in Storytelling5:24: When Your Work Isn’t Vulnerable Enough7:03: Crafting Compelling Scenes 8:15 When Your Writing Is Too Raw 10:56: What Do Your Readers Really Want15:00: The Most Important Question to Ask Yourself 18:11: The Secret Reason You Think Your Writing SucksResources for this Episode: The Fawning Trauma Response with Ingrid Clayton Connect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailThis week, we’re kicking off a new Editors’ Roundtable segment on the podcast, where I dig into key writing issues with the two trauma-informed editors I’m training—Kristin Sancken and Lynn Shattuck. In our first conversation, we explore metaphors—what they are, how to craft them, and how to recognize the ones that truly sing on the page. Let’s dive in.Episode Highlights5:23: What Is a Metaphor7:15: Exercises For Creating Metaphors9:40: Metaphors We Love (or Hate)18:00: Our Writing Strategies23:57: Discovering What Works32:00 Navigating the Metaphor of HomeResources for this Episode: Sanctuary of the Holy Others Substack by Kristin SanckenOxygen: A Parlor Trick by Kristin Sancken (see page 19)Loss of a Lifetime: Grieving Siblings Share Stories of Love, Loss, and Hope edited by Lynn L. Shattuck and Alyson SheltonWhy I Rang the Cancer Bell by Lynn ShattuckThe Lion Women of Tehran by Marjan KamaliGroup: How One Therapist and A Circle of Strangers Saved My Life by Christie TateOur Double Time by Michael O’SiadhailEssay on Creating Hermit Crab Essays by Randon Billings NobleDitch Your Inner Critic Now MasterclassKristin’s Bio: Kristin Thomas Sancken was born in Panama, raised in Mexico, and came of age in Minnesota before settling in Charlottesville, Virginia, where she lives with her husband, two children, and an exuberant Golden Retriever. Her writing has earned numerous awards and appeared in publications including The Guardian, HuffPost, and Columbia Journal. You can find more of her writing at her Substack, Sanctuary of the Holy Others.Lynn’s Bio: Lynn Shattuck writes on topics like grief, parenting and mental health. She was a columnist at Elephant Journal for ten years, where several of her essays on the topic of grief and sibling loss and parenting went viral. Lynn co-founded the website lossofalifetime.com, a hub of resources and community for those who’ve experienced sibling loss. She co-edited the essay collection, The Loss of a Lifetime: Grieving Siblings Share Stories of Love, Loss, and Hope, which was released in June of 2025.Connect with Kristin: http://www.sancken.com/Instagram: @ktsancken_writerThreads: @ktsancken_writerConnect with Lynn: www.lossofalifetime.comwww.lynnlshattuck.com Connect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailWhich memories shimmer inside you? Which ones refuse to let you go? Those luminous, haunting moments are often the raw ingredients of the story you’re truly meant to tell. In this episode of Writing Your Resilience, I sit down with newsletter follower and memoirist Marianna Marlowe, author of A Portrait of a Feminist as she shares how she used shimmering memories to craft her memoir-in-essays that explores memory and identity through a feminist lens. Together, we talk about her writing process, what feminism really means, how to write from a feminist perspective, and the surprising ways feminist self-care shows up in a writer’s life.Episode Highlights2:20: Writing as Both Pleasure and Contribution 11:17: Constructing a Memoir-in-Essays Through a Feminist Lens15:21: The Role of Identity in Storytelling17:58: The Power of the Gaze23:00: The Difference Between Memoir and Academic Writing 28:37: Feminist Self-Care Resources for this Episode: Safekeeping by Abigail ThomasShimmering Images: A Handy Little Guide to Writing Memoir by Lisa Dale NortonWhat They Don’t Tell You About Menopause with Dr. Mary Claire Haver on The Marie Forleo podcast Buy Portrait of a FeministMarianna’s Bio: Marianna Marlowe is a Latina writer who lives in the San Francisco Bay Area. After devoting years to academic writing, her focus now is creative nonfiction that explores issues of gender identity, feminism, cultural hybridity, intersectionality, and more Her short memoir has been published in Narrative, Hippocampus, The Woven Tale Press, Eclectica, Sukoon, and The Acentos Review, among others. She’s the author of Portrait of a Feminist and Portrait of a Mestiza, which will be published in March, 2026.Connect with Marianna: Facebook: marianna.marloweInstagram: mariannamarlowe_memoirWebsite: mariannamarlowe.comConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailHave you ever wondered what it really means to grieve a friend—someone dazzling, flawed, and deeply loved? Or how laughter, silence, and even text messages can become part of the story we tell about those we’ve lost?In today’s episode of Writing Your Resilience, I talk with writer Eirinie Carson about her breathtaking debut memoir The Dead Are Gods and her forthcoming novel Bloodfire, Baby. Together, we explore how writing can both preserve and transform our grief, why it’s so important to show loved ones in their full humanity, and what it means to let go of a story that once felt like holding on to the person themselves. Plus, Eirinie will share one of the most surprising things she learned about how we structure a book and the conversations it encourages as well as what gets silenced. Episode Highlights2:50: The Power of Capturing Your Memories4:15: Writing for an Audience8:30: Holding Space for Your Experiences11:26: The Challenges of Releasing a Grief Memoir 21:00: The Relationship Between Laughter and Grief 25:00: How Your Book’s Structure Impacts the Way You Market It Resources for this Episode: Preorder Bloodfire, BabySkunk AnansieEirinie’s Bio: Eirinie Carson is a Black British writer living in California. She is a mother of two children and sits on the board of The Writers Grotto in San Francisco. Her work has appeared in LitHub, Mother Magazine, The Notre Dame Review, Mortal Mag, Electric Literature, The Sonora Review and others.  She was the NEA Distinguished Fellow at the Hambidge Center, and she and her work have been supported by Mesa Refuge, Hedgebrook and the Virginia Center for the Creative Arts. Eirinie's first book, The Dead Are Gods (Melville House, 2023), was critically acclaimed by Oprah Daily, Nylon Magazine, Shondaland and The Washington Post as well as winning a Zibby Award. It was also named one of Kirkus Reviews Best Books of 2023.Connect with Eirinie:Website: www.eiriniecarson.comInstagram: @eirinieeeeBluesky: @eirinieee.bsky.socialTiktok: @eirinieeeeConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailHave you ever wondered if what you’re doing is truly aligned with your soul’s purpose? Or maybe you’ve had that nagging feeling that something’s off—that you’re not quite on the right track. How do you know when it’s time to stay the course, and when it’s time to pivot so you can do more of what you love and let go of what no longer serves you? In today’s very personal episode of Writing Your Resilience, I’m taking you behind the scenes of my own writing and business life to share the pivot strategy to better align my business and claim more of my writing time.  Episode Highlights3:00: Heeding Your Inner Call8:00: Identifying Your Guiding Principles 18:54: Crafting Your Symbol and Tagline 21:54: Clarifying Your Why and How33:00: Conquering Your (My) Greatest Fear Resources for this Episode: Check Out My New Website“3 Ways I’m Gently Reinventing My Work Right Now” on Off the Grid with Amelia HrubyBuy Your Attention Is Sacred Except On Social MediaBuilding a Writing Career Without Social Media with Amelia HrubyUsing Human Design to Break Through Writing Blocks with Maha MamishLeaning into the Mystery of Our Stories with Brett Will TaylorThe Legend of the PhoenixMindy at Fairy Tale Social A Well-Trained Wife by Tia Levings The Part that Burns by Jeannine Ouellette Connect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailThis week, we’re talking about something our culture often dismisses but your writing life desperately needs: rest. In this episode, I’ll share why rest matters, how you can create more of it—even when life feels full—and the surprising lessons I learned during my own summer break. Grab your pen and notebook and get ready to explore the radical power of doing less.Episode Highlights1:26: Why I Decided to Take a Month Off5:30: Connecting with Your Inner Compass10:23: The 3 S’s of Rest 15:23: Why Doing Less Can Lead to More 18:15: My Biggest Takeaways21:44 Three Ways to Capture Your Best Ideas Resources for this Episode: Learn about Marie ForleoTips for Improving Your Sleep HygieneJulia Cameron on the Benefit of Morning Pages Do You Need a Rest Before You Rest by Tia LevingsConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailHave you been told you’re a people pleaser or found yourself saying yes when you meant no, without even thinking about it? Have a friend who struggles to express their feelings or share their preferences? If so, you might have encountered the fawning trauma response. Join me and Ingrid Clayton, author of Fawning, and the memoir Believing Me, as we unpack the misconceptions regarding this trauma response, share our experience, strength, and hope, and show you how to join the unfawning revolution she’s spearheading with her new book. Episode Highlights1:30: The Fawning Trauma Response5:51: The Problem of Co-dependence10:04: Complex Trauma’s Impact on Our Nervous Systems12:50: Fawning’s Influence on Writing 22:29: The Energetic Signature of Your Book28:45: The Unfawning Process43:45: The Role of Tears Resources for this Episode: What is the Fawning Trauma Response by Ingrid Clayton How to Stop Gaslighting Yourself with Ingrid ClaytonBelieving Me by Ingrid ClaytonIngrid’s Bio: While Ingrid has a clinical background, she believes there is no theory, diagnosis, or therapy that can replace the power of shared experience. Her memoir, Believing Me, is written from the heart, where all our hurt lives—so it speaks the same language. In addition to raising her beautiful son, Ingrid believes that gaining the courage to write Believing Me is her greatest achievement to date. Her latest book, Fawning, addresses an often-overlooked piece of the fight-flight-freeze reaction to trauma—explaining what it is, why it happens, and how to help survivors regain their voice and sense of self. Connect with Ingrid: Website: https://www.ingridclayton.com/Instagram and YouTube: @IngridClaytonPhDGet a free copy of her PDF on the fawning response: https://www.ingridclayton.com/fawningtraumaresponseGet a copy of Believing Me: https://www.ingridclayton.com/booksOrder your copy of Fawning now: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/779579/fawning-by-dr-ingrid-clayton/ Connect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailDo you struggle to see yourself as creative? Or have you ever wondered where your creativity comes from, and how to maximize it? This week, I’m joined by Jacob Nordby, founder of A Writing Room Collective and author of Blessed are the Weird: A Manifesto for Creatives, and The Creative Cure, a powerful guide to reconnecting with your creative self. In this week’s episode, Jacob and I dive deep into the healing power of creativity, trauma, and the inner wisdom we all carry within us. Grab your pen, open your heart, and join us as we discuss how to nurture your creative intuition, overcome the obstacles of comparison and fear, and how creativity can be the bridge back to feeling truly alive.Episode HighlightsThe Authentic Work of CreativityThe Trifecta of Rejection, Trauma, and SocializationPolyvagal Theory and the Creative ProcessThe Role of Intuition in CreativityConnecting with Your Body’s WisdomRecovering Our Connection to Our True NatureResources Mentioned During this Episode:www.creativecurebook.comwww.creativeselfjournal.comThe ACES TestPolyvagal Theory and the Ventral Vagal StateThe Seven ChakrasHuman DesignWriting Rituals with Natalie BusterWriting Down Your Soul by Janet ConnerSeeking Wisdom by Julia CameronJacob Nordby is a co-founder of A Writing Room Collective, Heal + Create, The Institute for Creative Living Foundation 501(c)3,  and the author of several books, including Blessed Are the Weird – A Manifesto for Creatives and The Creative Cure. He previously worked as the marketing director for a traditional publishing house and oversaw the launch of many bestselling books. A working author and creative guide, he has a passion for helping writers solve their challenges and enjoy the satisfaction of sharing their work with the world.Connect with Jacob:Website: https://www.jacobnordby.com/The Creative Cure book page: www.creativecurebook.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/jacobnordby/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jacobnordby/Creative Self Journal Gift: https://www.jacobnordby.com/creative-self-journal-gift/Connect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailHow do you dive into the marrow of an experience we’ll all one day share, yet so many of us struggle to talk about? And how do you write into a topic so widely covered that it feels impossible to say something new? Today, I’m joined by Amy Lin, author of the stunning micro memoir Here After, as we tackle these questions head-on. Together, we’ll explore the raw realities of grief, how Amy’s memoir acts as a powerful container for this universal experience, the magic of the micro-form, and what it takes to create something experimental. Plus, I’ll share a transformative tool to expand how you see your stories—and uncover the truths hiding within them.Amy’s Bio: Amy Lin lives in Calgary, Canada where there are two seasons: winter and road construction. She completed her MFA at Warren Wilson College and holds BAs in English Literature and Education. Her work has been published in places such as Ploughshares and she has been awarded residencies from Yaddo and Casa Comala. Here After is her first book.Resources Mentioned During This Episode:The Unseen Shore (Part One) by Amy LinYi Shun Lai’s Post “People’s Names Are Important”Lily Be “The Donas of Humbolt Park” More about Lily BeIt’s Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People with Dr. Ramani DurvasulaEpisode HighlightsThe Container of Grief The “Good Signs” of GriefPerformative Grief versus the Reality of Grief The Five Stages of Grief DebunkedThe Power of Micro Memoir The Story Neighborhood Exercise The Marrow of Living Amy’s Best Writing Advice Connect with Amy: Substack: https://atthebottomofeverything.substack.com/Website: amydawnlin.comInstagram: @literaryamyTikTok: @literaryamyConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailAuthor Laura Cathcart Robbins shares book marketing tips she learned while promoting her memoir Stash: My Life in Hiding, and how recovery helped her cultivate the honesty needed to write her memoir. Laura’s Bio: Laura Cathcart Robbins is the best-selling author of the Atria/Simon & Schuster memoir, Stash, My Life In Hiding, and host of the popular podcast, The Only One In The Room. She has been active for many years as a speaker and school trustee and is credited for creating The Buckley School’s nationally recognized committee on Diversity, Equity, Inclusion, and Justice. Her recent articles on the subjects of race, recovery, and divorce have garnered her worldwide acclaim. She is a 2022 TEDx Speaker, and LA Moth StorySlam winner. Currently, she sits on the advisory boards of the San Diego Writer’s Festival and the Outliers HQ podcast Festival. Resources Mentioned in This EpisodeI Was the Only Black Person at Elizabeth Gilbert and Cheryl Strayed’s ‘Brave’ Magic Retreat by Laura Cathcart Robbins“A White Woman Told Me She Doesn’t Think of Me as Black. Here’s How I Reacted.” by Laura Cathcart RobbinsBook Review for Stash: My Life in Hiding by Lisa Cooper EllisonAuthor Platform Is Not a Requirement to Sell Your Novel or Children’s Book by Jane FriedmanOfficial TranscriptEpisode HighlightsThe Response to StashThe Power of HonestyThe Link Between Recovery and HonestyChanneling Your Energy in a Specific DirectionMarketing Your Book and YourselfCaring For Yourself As You Market Your BookYear Two and Working with Book ClubsHow Honesty Builds ResilienceConnect with LauraWebsite: https://lauracathcartrobbins.com/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lauracathcartrobbinsInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lauracathcartrobbinsTiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@mscathcartrobbinsX: https://twitter.com/lauracrobbinsConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailWriting can be a powerful tool for healing, but when writing the tough stuff, it’s easy to get triggered and relive the experiences you’re writing about. If you’re wondering what to do about this, join me and somatic experiencing practitioner Kirby Moore as we explore how the nervous system works and how to care for it and your writing life. Plus, Kirby will teach you a powerful tool you can use right now to calm your nervous system. While you can listen to this on any platform, if you’re a visual learner, this is a great episode to watch on YouTube. Now, let’s get to my conversation with Kirby Moore.Kirby’s bio: Kirby brings a unique and potent blend of modalities to his healing facilitation sessions. He has been very fortunate to study with some masterful SE faculty members, with Tibetan Buddhist heart teachers, and one of the pioneers in the field of Birth Process Work. All this training, plus 20 years as a practicing Astrologer, means that Kirby offers exceptional somatic process work – both in-person and online.In 2019, Kirby developed Trauma Informed Astrology, which is a very ambitious blend of Western Astrology, nervous system repair and theory, and embodiment tools. He loves offering courses, mentoring students, and offering clients rare insights into their process.Resources Mentioned During This Episode:Kirby’s Course: Liberating the Space ElementUse the Code Podcast30 to save 30% off this courseSouls of the Feet MeditationHeart Coherence MeditationDr. Kay Tye: The Biology of Social Interactions and EmotionsEpisode HighlightsBiodynamic Cranial Sacral TherapyWhat is Somatic ExperiencingHealthy and Unhealthy Checking OutThe Consequences of DissociationReciprocals: A Powerful Somatic ToolWhy Meditation Can Harm Trauma SurvivorsDealing with Writing TriggersSomatic Advice on WritingConnect with KirbyWebsite: www.traumainformedastrology.comWebsite: www.mkirbymoore.comWebsite: https://astrodharma.meInstagram: @traumainformedastrologyEmail: [email protected] Your Writing Voice, Fuel Your Motivation is a 12-week course designed to help you reconnect with the creative spark that brought you to the page in the first place. https://lisacooperellison.com/free-your-writing-voice-find-your-motivation/Connect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailImagine working tirelessly for years to publish your first novel—only to have the moment of celebration collide with the collapse of your country. Imagine being forced to flee, leaving behind everything you’ve ever known, and yet… still finding your voice through poetry, storytelling, and advocacy.Today, I have the honor of speaking with Samman Akbarzada—a poet, novelist, refugee, and fierce advocate for human rights. Her novel, Life is a Movie, tells the story of a working child in Afghanistan, while her poetry collection, A Glimmer in the Dark, captures the heartbreak of exile and the enduring hope of survival. Join us as we discuss the power of storytelling, the resilience of the human spirit, and how writing can bear witness to both personal and collective grief.Episode HighlightsPublishing in a War ZoneThe Impact of Crisis and Loss on Our Writing LivesGiving a Voice to Someone Who’s GoneHow Helping Others Empowers YouListening to the HowlWriting as an Act of ServiceSamman’s Best Writing AdviceResources for this Episode: Afghan refugees head to Washington asking special visas be issued for familiesAfghan refugee pleads for resettlement support on Capitol HillVolunteer Information: https://www.volunteermatch.org/Volunteer Organizations in Charlottesville: https://soundjusticelab.org/cville-tulipshttps://www.charlottesvilleunited.org/https://www.virginiaequitycenter.org/Watch the Trailer for LimboSamman Akbarzada is an Afghan refugee and the author of two books: A Glimmer in the Dark, her poetry collection, and Life is a Movie, her debut novel. A second-year student at the University of Virginia, she is committed to working with NGOs and advocating for the rights of underserved communities. Her words capture the suffering, heartbreak, gratitude, and redemption that mark a life lived on the blade of conflict, with love and empathy as her constant guiding light.Connect with SammanWebsite: https://www.amazon.com/author/samman-akbarzadaInstagram.com/sammanwritesLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/samman-akbarzada-9359792a0Samman’s books: https://bookshop.org/p/books/life-is-a-movie-samman-akbarzada/Free Your Writing Voice, Fuel Your Motivation is a 12-week course designed to help you reconnect with the creative spark that brought you to the page in the first placeConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailLennie Echterling joins the Writing Your Resilience podcast to talk about the lessons he learned from landmine survivors, the difference between empathy and toxic positivity, the importance of fostering your posttraumatic growth, and how to use writing to build your resilience. Lennie’s Bio: Lennie Echterling, Ph.D., is a Professor Emeritus at James Madison University with more than 40 years of experience in promoting resilience, particularly during crises and disasters. He has served as crisis counselor, consultant, and trainer following many traumatic stress events, including tornadoes and floods throughout the United States, Hurricanes Katrina and Rita, the tsunami in India, the 9/11 attacks at the Pentagon, the shootings at Virginia Tech, and landmine explosions in the Middle East. His awards include JMU’s Distinguished Faculty Award, Virginia Counselors Association’s Humanitarian Award, Virginia’s Outstanding Faculty Award, Virginia Counselors Career Service Award among many others. Resources mentioned during this episode: The Paradox of Empathy: When Empathy HurtsThriving in a Time of CrisisThe Book of Forgiving: The Four-Fold Path Four Healing Ourselves and Our World by Desmond Tutu and Mpho TutuWriting to Heal with Laura DavisGood Night Jung by Lennie Echterling Episode HighlightsLessons from Landmine Survivors  Triggers for ResilienceDefining Posttraumatic GrowthThe Problem of Toxic PositivityThe Power of Being with Another Person’s StoryThe Struggle to TrustEmbracing and Exploring the Chaos StoryThe Role of Neuroplasticity in StorytellingLessons Learned from Final ConversationsMaking Every Day Valentine’s DayThe Power of Expressing Gratitude  Lennie’s Best Writing AdviceLennie’s Resilience PracticeConnect with Lennie: Email: [email protected] with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailIf you have a complicated relationship with someone, how do you write about them? Should you craft a linear memoir that reads more like a journey or write something that mirrors your experience? Join me and Lara Lillibridge, author of Girlish, Mama, Mama, Only Mama, and The Truth of Unringing Phones, as we explore the impact of estrangement on the memoir writing process, how to protect your heart as you write about painful experiences, the power of publishing your story, as well as the a-ha Lara had about which part of the writing process actually heals you.Lara’s Bio: Lara Lillibridge (she/they) is the author of The Truth About Unringing Phones: Essays on Yearning; Mama, Mama, Only Mama: An Irreverent Guide for the Newly Single Parent, and Girlish: Growing Up in a Lesbian Home,. Lara is a Creative Nonfiction Editor for HeartWood Literary Magazine. She holds an MFA from West Virginia Wesleyan College and is a mentor for AWP’s Writer to Writer.In this episode: When can non-linear storytelling play a role in writing about fragmented relationships?Advice for balancing dark and light moments in memoir writing to present a full picture of the relationship.The importance of audience connection and feedback as a source of resilience during the book launch period.The healing power of revision.Tips for organizing and structuring non-linear memoirs.Resources Mentioned During This Episode:The True Meaning of Success with Courtney MaumWhere Rivers Part: A Story of My Mother’s Life by Kao Kalia YangNew York Times article on Consent by Jill CementEpisode HighlightsCOVID’s Impact on Our CreativityStructuring an Estrangement StoryCrafting a Nonlinear MemoirProtecting Your Heart as You WriteHow Estrangement Impacts UsThe Healing Power of Publishing Your StoryLara’s Best Writing AdviceConnect with LaraWebsite: http://laralillibridge.com/Twitter: https://x.com/Only_MamaFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/lara.lillibridgeInstagram/Threads: https://www.instagram.com/LaraLillibridgeConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailTia Levings joins the Writing Your Resilience Podcast to discuss her experience as a debut author, writing to heal without retraumatizing yourself, the gaslighting that happens in religion, and getting things off your chest and onto the page to educate others with your writing.As you listen to this episode, consider the following questions:  What would you need to do to claim your story? What would tell you it has legs? What would you need to do to see it from a wider lens? If it is a really tough story, how would you care for yourself as you work on it?Tia is an author and guest expert who exposes the abuses in Christian Fundamentalism. She’s been quoted in Salon, the Huffington Post, and the New York Times and appeared in the hit Amazon docu-series, Shiny Happy People. Her memoir, A Well-Trained Wife, will be published August, 6, 2024 by St. Martin's Press. Online, Tia connects our current news headlines with high-control religious roots.Episode Highlights:Signals Your Project Has LegsHow Writing HealsGaslighting and ReligionFinding the Wider LensUnderstanding Your BoundariesWriting Without Retraumatizing YourselfClaiming Your StoryCaring for the Soft Animal of Your BodyItems mentioned in this episode: The  Best Way to Deal with End-of_year Angst  (Blog post on writing in a vacuum) Welcome to The Anti-FundamentalistShiny Happy People where to find itShitty First Drafts by Anne LamottDr. Ramani On GaslightingPlotting Your Novel with The Plot ClockDeep Work by Cal NewportConnect with Tia: Website: https://tialevings.comTia’s Book: https://tialevings.com/bookInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/TiaLevingsWriterFacebook: https://facebook.com/TiaLevingsWriterSubstack: https://tialevings.substack.comConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailKatie Rose Guest Pryal joins the Writing Your Resilience Podcast to take a deep dive into what neurodiversity is and how it impacts writers.Here are a few questions to ponder as you listen to this episode: What do you know about neurodiversity? Do you consider yourself to be neurodivergent? If you are, how does that impact the way you set up your writing life, what you write about, and how you see the world?Katie Rose Guest Pryal, J.D., Ph.D., is a bipolar-autistic author, keynote speaker, law professor, and expert in mental health and neurodiversity. Her books include Life of the Mind Interrupted: Essays on Mental Health and Disability in Higher Education, the IPPY-Gold-winning Even If You’re Broken: Bodies, Boundaries, and Mental Health, and A Light in the Tower: A New Reckoning with Mental Health in Higher Education. She writes frequently for national magazines and speaks around the country about mental health and neurodiversity. She lives in Chapel Hill, North Carolina.Episode HighlightsDefining NeurodiversityThe Power of a DiagnosisThe Problem of OverwhelmReclaiming the Word SelfishLearn to CopeFitting into the Narrow Band of “Normal”Writing and Neurodiversity Items mentioned during this episode: Katie’s post about overwhelm: https://www.instagram.com/p/CzbTVgJgc5L/Compton Cowboys: https://www.instagram.com/comptoncowboys/Contact Katie: Substack: https://krgpryal.substack.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/krgpryal/Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/krgpryal/Twitter: https://twitter.com/krgpryalConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailDr. Ramani Durvasula, author of It’s Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People, shares her insights into narcissism, how narcissistic abuse survivors can heal, how to get support, and how to care for yourself when writing and promoting a book on tough topics.Dr. Ramani’s Bio: Ramani Durvasula, Ph.D. is a licensed clinical psychologist in California, the founder and CEO of LUNA Education, Training and Consulting, and professor emerita of psychology at California State University Los Angeles. She is the New York Times bestselling author of It’s Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People. She is also the author of multiple other books including Don’t You Know Who I Am: How to Stay Sane in the Era of Narcissism, Entitlement and Incivility and Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist. She has lectured and trained therapists around the world on best practices on working with clients experiencing narcissistic abuse and has developed a 36-hour virtual training and certification program in conjunction with PESI to train clinicians on how to use an Antagonism-Informed approach with clients experiencing narcissistic relationships. Dr. Durvasula hosts a popular YouTube channel with over 1.6 million subscribers, hosted the critically acclaimed podcast Navigating Narcissism, and is a featured expert on the digital media platform MedCircle. She has also been widely involved in the governance of the American Psychological Association, including the APA Leadership Institute for Women in Psychology and the APA Minority Fellowship Program. Resources Mentioned During This Episode:Dr. Ramani’s Healing ProgramHealing from Gaslighting CourseCourse on Narcissistic Abuse for TherapistsDr. Ramani NetworkConnect with Dr. RamaniWebsite: https://doctor-ramani.com/ YouTube: @DoctorRamaniInstagram: @DoctorRamaniX@DoctorRamaniTikTok: @DoctorRamaniConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailWhat does it mean to write the truth when your story includes trauma—and how do you do it without retraumatizing yourself or your readers?That’s what I’ll explore with this week’s guest, Beth Docherty—a trauma-informed healthcare educator, musician, and emerging memoirist—as she shares her journey from research chemist to advocate for safer, more compassionate care. Together, we dive into one of the most important questions memoirists ask: How do we write about hard truths in ways that are honest, responsible, and healing? Get your notebook, open your heart, and get ready to explore nervous system regulation while writing, what your readers really need from you, and how to know when your story is ready for the world.Episode Highlights2:19: Balancing Truth and Care for the Reader4:45: Understanding Your Window of Tolerance8:31: Attending to Your Audience’s Needs 16:06: Making Sense of Your Story18:00: Preventing Overexposure20:46: Author and Speaker Self-CareResources Mentioned During this Episode:Beth's Essay: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/doctor-trauma-informed-health-care-septic_n_686af8dde4b0762f74e11c1e?eyo#The MothThe Power of Writing Rituals | Building a Resilient Writing Practice (Pt 1)Managing Your Creative Energy | How to Write What Matters Every Day (Pt 2)Working with Your Inner Critic | How to Make It Your Creative Ally (Pt 3)Finish Strong & Plan Your Next Writing Session | Building a Resilient Writing Practice (Pt 4)Beth’s Bio: Beth Docherty is a chemist, musician, writer, and a passionate advocate. She is the Principal of The TRUST Project, a research and outreach initiative dedicated to educating medical professionals and students about the connections between trauma, health, and well-being. Beth lectures nationally at universities, conferences, medical facilities and public events, speaking on the importance of trauma-informed care. She is an active member of the Physical and Behavioral Health Action Team of the HEAL PA initiative, which aims to implement trauma-informed practices across Pennsylvania. Beth has also testified in legislative hearings to advocate for the rights of sexual assault and crime survivors. She is currently writing her first memoir, which explores her personal journey through sexual violence and trauma, how it impacted her healthcare, and why trauma-informed care is Connect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailThis is the 75th episode of the Writing and Resilience Podcast, and I would not have made it this far without your generous support of this podcast and my work. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.Now, about today’s episode. What if the key to writing through pain isn't pushing harder, but rather being radically kinder to yourself? That's what I'll explore with Dr. Risa Ryger, clinical psychologist, international speaker and founder of 93% Consulting. We explore what it really means to change and write through pain, not from a place of brutal self-judgment, but from a place of self-trust, curiosity, and compassion. If you're navigating trauma in your writing, wrestling with your inner critic, or wondering how to begin without overwhelming yourself, this conversation is here to support you. Get ready to feel seen, affirmed, and gently challenged. Episode Highlights2:11: Starting from the Place of Not Knowing4:31: Disruption Isn’t Destruction5:55: Pain in the Change Process14:22: Don’t Get Stuck in the Binary18:24: The Self-Owned Mindset Resources Mentioned During this Episode: Disruptive Conversation with Tia LevingsDisruptive Conversation with Lisa Cooper EllisonDisruptive Conversation with Madonna WilliamsHow to Stop Gaslighting Yourself with Ingrid ClaytonDr. Ryger’s Bio: Dr. Risa Ryger is a Clinical Psychologist, International Speaker, Author, Founder of 93% Consulting, and the Creator of The Disruptive Self-Ownership ProcessTM who served as a consultant psychologist for victim services. She is the host of the weekly Instagram Live series: Disruptive Conversations with Dr. Risa Ryger and she earned her Master of Science, Master of Philosophy, and Doctorate from Columbia University. Creator of the Self-Owned Mindset, she is an excerpt on change whose goal is to help women stop playing small and have the confidence and self-trust to powerfully step forward into their lives and say, I’ve got this.” Dr. Ryger is the proud mother of 2 amazing daughters and lives in NY with her husband and two dogs, Penelope and Sammy – the dog who smiles. Connect with Dr. Ryger:  Website: https://www.drrisaryger.com/Instagram: www.instagram.com/dr.risarygerLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-risa-ryger-69a47a21/Connect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailHave you ever felt like your creativity is blocked—but you know the problem isn’t your ideas, your schedule, or even your writing practice? What if your nervous system holds the key to unlocking the stories inside you?In this episode, I’m joined by Jay DeMaio, a trauma-aware Internal Martial Arts teacher based in Charlottesville, Virginia. Together, we explore how Qigong—a gentle, meditative movement practice—can enhance creativity, help regulate your nervous system, and bring your body into deeper harmony so your writing can flow more freely. We also dig into my struggles with rest and boredom when doing things I know are good for me. Grab your pen, open your heart, and discover why slowing down might be the medicine your writing life truly needs.Episode Highlights0:47: What is QiGong5:03 How QiGong Changed Jay15:00: The Impact of Grief and Fear on Our Energy 17:00 Qi Resourcing Exercise 32:00 The Somatic Writing Process34:00 Boredom and the Fallow State41:00 Bringing Curiosity to Our Discomfort44:00 Capitalizing on Summer EnergyResources Mentioned During this Episode: QiGong: What You Need to KnowMore on QiGong and Its Benefits Jay’s Bio: Jay DeMaio is a trauma-aware Internal Martial Arts Teacher based in Charlottesville, VA. Jay holds a five-year certification in QiGong, Qi Healing and Internal Alchemy Meditation from Blue Willow World Healing Center. He has been training for over 15 years via direct transmission from Daoist QiGong Masters from the Dragon Gate Lineage School and the Mt EMei Lineage School. Through his online classes and in-person workshops, Jay guides gentle, empowering QiGong practices that connect the body to its innate healing wisdom and inner medicine. His therapeutic approach is informed by 5 Element Chinese Medicine and psychosomatic science while staying rooted in trauma awareness, deep presence, and compassion.Connect with Jay:  Website: www.jaydemaio.comInstagram and X: @ altar_native_medicineConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, I reconnect with the brilliant and multifaceted Sean Murphy—poet, fiction writer, founder of 1455 Literary Arts, director of the Center for Story at Shenandoah University, and host of the podcast Some Things Considered. Together, we explore what it means to create during challenging times, why writing is a long game built on endurance, and how generosity—both to others and to your own process—can sustain your creative spirit. We talk about literary citizenship, artistic joy, and the mindset shifts that help us keep going when the road feels steep. We also tackle one of my most persistent writing problems—something I know I’m not alone in: how to capture all those great ideas that come to me when I’m shampooing my hair. Episode Highlights2:57: Juggling the Hardships and Hopes of the Writing Life5:29: Differentiating Writing from Publishing7:34: The Process is the Reward12:33: Writing While Wearing Many Hats18:45: Developing a Creative Mindset30:34: Why You Must be a Good Literary CitizenResources Mentioned During this Episode: Some Things Considered: Karen E. Bender & Robert Anthony Siegel | How to Adapt & Thrive as a WriterInformation on the connection between dopamine and our endeavors: Dr. Kay Tye: The Biology of Social Interactions and EmotionsWriting to Heal with Laura DavisHow to Navigate the Business of Writing and Publishing: Expert Advice from Jane FriedmanSean’s Bio: Sean Murphy is founder of the non-profit 1455 Lit Arts, and directs the Center for Story at Shenandoah University. He has appeared on NPR's All Things Considered and been quoted in USA Today, The New York Times, The Huffington Post, and AdAge. A long-time columnist for PopMatters, his work has also appeared in Salon, The Village Voice, Washington City Paper, The Good Men Project, Writer’s Digest, and others. His chapbook, The Blackened Blues, was published by Finishing Line Press in 2021. His second collection of poems, Rhapsodies in Blue was published by Kelsay Books in 2023. His third collection, Kinds of Blue, and This Kind of Man, his first collection of short fiction, published in 2024. He has been nominated four times for the Pushcart Prize, twice for Best of Net, and his book Please Talk about Me When I'm Gone was the winner of Memoir Magazine's 2022 Memoir Prize. To learn more, and read his published short fiction, poetry, and criticism, please visit seanmurphy.net/ and @bullmurph. Connect with Sean:  Website: https://www.seanmurphy.net/Instagram @bullmurphFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/AuthorSeanMurphyInstagram: https://www.insConnect with your host, Lisa:Get Your Free Copy of Ditch Your Inner Critic: https://lisacooperellison.com/subscribe/Website | Instagram | YouTube | Facebook | LinkedInProduced by Espresso Podcast Production