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You Get to Decide: Mindset Coaching for Driven Women Ready to Go from Stuck to Unstoppable

Allison Gallagher is a life and business coach guiding women to stop spinning in self-doubt and start deciding from clarity, calm, and confidence.Every episode of You Get to Decide is an invitation to come home to yourself, manage your mind, and create a life that feels aligned, fulfilling, and entirely yours.This is where you learn to move from stuck to unstoppable, one decision at a time.Through powerful mindset tools, real coaching insights, and honest stories of transformation, Allison reminds you that everything changes the moment you decide to.You don’t need permission. It’s always just a decision.

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    117. The 4 Words That Can Get You Unstuck

    What if the thing keeping you stuck isn’t your circumstances, your bank account, the food, the person, the failure, or the uncertainty?What if it’s what happens inside of you when you face those things?In this episode, I’m teaching you four words I use constantly in my own life and with my clients:I can hold this.The anxiety.The urge.The disappointment.The uncertainty.The fear of being seen.The judgment.The failure.Even the possibility of receiving everything you want.Because when you learn that you can safely feel an emotion without immediately reacting to it, that emotion begins to lose its power over your decisions.We’ll talk about how to sit with what you’re feeling, calm the body, choose again, and intentionally practice the emotions and beliefs that help you move from fear and stuckness into empowerment.You do not have to wait for your circumstances to change before you feel powerful.You can teach your mind and body:I can hold this. And it is safe for me to move forward.And this is exactly the kind of work I’m teaching inside my I Choose Me Confidence Camp for Girls ages 11–14, starting October 4th in Hammonton, New Jersey.I’m teaching girls how to understand their emotions, process big feelings, work with their inner critic, build real confidence from within, and learn that they can handle what they feel without letting those emotions run the show.This session is also buy one, get one free — $250 total, so your daughter can bring her best friend and they’re just $125 each.Stay in touch about the power project or just to stay connected sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupInstagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagherIf you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall

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    116. The Restrict-Binge Cycle Ends Here

    If you’ve spent years bouncing between “being good,” restricting, overeating, starting over, and promising yourself you’ll do better Monday—this episode is for you.I’m talking about why eating less and fearing food can actually keep the restrict-binge cycle alive, what changed when I stopped making food the enemy, and how I’m losing weight today without starving myself, cutting out entire food groups, or white-knuckling my way through it.We talk about calorie deficits, movement, protein, urges, emotional eating, food freedom, setbacks, and the mindset that has completely changed my relationship with food and my body.Because losing weight is one thing.Learning how to trust yourself around food, take care of your body, and stop making every overeating moment mean you failed—that’s the work that changes everything.And if you want help putting this into practice, I created Beyond the Scale, a free workbook filled with the six shifts that helped me change my relationship with food and my body, plus 45+ of the high-protein, filling recipes I actually eat.If you’d like a copy, email me at [email protected] and I’ll send it over. :)I also invite you to The Power Project started September 1st. Come spend 30 days with me inside our Slack community where I’ll be dropping daily audios to help you stay aligned, move through the thoughts and patterns that derail you, and become the version of you who can create—and hold—the life you want.JOIN THE POWER PROJECT HEREStay in touch about the power project or just to stay connected sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupInstagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagherIf you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall

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    115. The Shortest Way Through The Hard

    What if the fact that it’s hard doesn’t mean anything has gone wrong?We live in a world where the internet gives us access to what’s possible—but it also gives us a front-row seat to everyone else’s results. And sometimes, it can make building a business, changing a pattern, losing weight, healing our relationship with ourselves, or creating a life we’ve never had look a whole lot easier than it actually is.The truth? This shit is hard.But hard doesn’t have to mean you’re failing. Hard doesn’t mean you’re on the wrong path. And hard definitely doesn’t mean you should quit.In this episode, I’m talking about who we become in the hard, why boring consistency matters more than our brains want to believe, and why fighting, doubting, second-guessing, and sabotaging ourselves often takes far more energy than simply doing the thing.You get to decide what you make the hard mean.And you get to decide who you’re going to be in it.Because the shortest way through the hard might not be finding a way to make it easier—it might be learning how to trust yourself enough to keep going.I also invite you to The Power Project started September 1st. Come spend 30 days with me inside our Slack community where I’ll be dropping daily audios to help you stay aligned, move through the thoughts and patterns that derail you, and become the version of you who can create—and hold—the life you want.JOIN THE POWER PROJECT HEREStay in touch about the power project or just to stay connected sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupVia email:[email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free!Instagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagherIf you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall

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    114. Why It’s Taking Longer Than You Thought

    Have you ever thought, I should be farther along by now?We almost always underestimate how much time, effort, repetition, and growth it will take to create something we’ve never created before.But the extra effort isn’t the problem.The problem is when we decide that because it’s taking longer than we thought, something has gone wrong.In this episode, I’m talking about what happens when we start fighting against where we are, why doing MORE isn’t always the answer, and why the most important effort isn’t just in what you’re doing—it’s in who you’re becoming while you do it.Because getting the result and becoming the version of you who can actually hold it are two different things.Maybe you’re not behind. Maybe nothing has gone wrong. Maybe this is simply how long your path takes.I also invite you to The Power Project starts September 1st. Come spend 30 days with me inside our Slack community where I’ll be dropping daily audios to help you stay aligned, move through the thoughts and patterns that derail you, and become the version of you who can create—and hold—the life you want.JOIN THE POWER PROJECT HEREStay in touch about the power project or just to stay connected sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupVia email:[email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free!Instagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagherIf you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall

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    113. Why You Can't Stop Doing the Thing You Hate

    If you keep self-sabotaging.....overeating, overdrinking, scrolling, spending, procrastinating, checking out, or falling into a behavior you swore you wouldn't do again, this episode is for you.We spend so much time trying to stop the behavior that we rarely ask the more important question: What is this doing for me?In this episode, I'm sharing my own experience with compulsive behavior and what I've learned about the protection underneath it. We'll talk about why taking away the behavior doesn't automatically take away what's driving it, the shame cycle that keeps us stuck, and the deeper fear that can live underneath our need to escape, numb, control, or find relief.I'm also giving you five questions to help you get curious about your own compulsive behaviors instead of using them as evidence that there's something wrong with you.Because the behavior isn't who you are.And beating the shit out of yourself for doing it isn't how you change it.And if you want to hear what this actually looks like in real life, come join me for Round 3 of The Power Project.For 30 days, I'm taking you with me through how I actually think, feel, decide + lead myself through my real life—the urges to overeat, the hard days, the moments I don't show up the way I want to, the failures, the spirals, AND the days I'm feeling powerful, creating, selling, making money and going after what I want.You'll hear how I interrupt the patterns in real time, how I talk to myself when things feel hard, and how I access the version of myself I want to be instead of abandoning myself when I'm struggling.We start September 1. It's $49 for all 30 days, and you'll also get access to the previous two rounds of Power Project audios + my masterclass library. Doors close August 28thJOIN THE POWER PROJECT HEREStay in touch about the power project or just to stay connected sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupVia email:[email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free!Instagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagherIf you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall

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    112. What Happens When You Stop Ignoring Yourself: Replay

    What if you are not stuck because you do not know what to do?What if you are stuck because you keep ignoring yourself?Your ideas. Your needs.Your desires. Your goals.Your value. Your time.Your energy. Your pain.Your jealousy. Your regret.In this replay episode, I’m talking about what it really means to take yourself seriously.Not from pressure.Not from perfection.Not from forcing yourself to do more.But from self-respect.Because when you stop ignoring yourself, you start paying attention to the information your life is already giving you.The idea you keep dismissing.The need you keep pretending does not matter.The desire you keep talking yourself out of.The resentment that keeps building.The jealousy that might actually be pointing you toward something you want.This episode is an invitation to stop discounting your own voice and start treating your life, your needs, your goals, and your future like they matter.Because they do.And when you begin taking yourself seriously, you stop waiting for permission to become the person you already know you are meant to be.Stay in touch about the power project or just to stay connected sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupVia email:[email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free!Instagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagherIf you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall

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    111. How All-or-Nothing Thinking Keeps You Stuck: Replay

    I’m bringing this episode back because all-or-nothing thinking is one of the sneakiest ways we keep ourselves stuck. There is always more then one truth at any given time and this episode helps you see that clearly.One hard day becomes “I’m failing.”One setback becomes “nothing is working.”One mistake becomes “maybe I’m not cut out for this.”But that is not the whole truth.In this replay episode, I’m talking about how black-and-white thinking creates so much unnecessary suffering, especially when you’re trying to grow, change, heal, or create a new result in your life.You can be healing and still have hard days.You can be confident and still feel scared.You can be committed and still have a setback.You can be capable and still make mistakes.Both can be true.And when you stop making one moment mean everything, you recover faster, stay connected to yourself, and keep moving forward.Stay in touch about the power project or just to stay connected sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupVia email:[email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free!Instagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagherIf you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall

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    110. If You Think You’re "Too Much", You’ll Stay Stuck and Here’s Why

    If you’ve ever felt like you’re “too much,” this episode will change the way you see yourself—and why you feel stuck.So many women are walking through life believing they’re too emotional, too needy, too loud, too opinionated, or just… too much. But that belief isn’t the truth—it’s something you learned.In this episode, I break down where the “too much” belief actually comes from, how it turns into an identity that quietly runs your life, and why it keeps you stuck in patterns like people-pleasing, over-apologizing, hiding, and holding yourself back. I tell some of my own "too much" stories and what I do today.We’ll also talk about what’s really happening in your nervous system when being fully seen doesn’t feel safe—and why, even when you know what to do, you still can’t seem to move forward.If you’re not setting boundaries, not speaking your truth, not showing up fully, or not going after what you want… this might be the reason why.Because as long as you’re trying not to be too much, you will stay stuck.This episode will help you start to see that nothing is wrong with you—and what it actually takes to feel safe being all of who you are.Stay in touch about the power project or just to stay connected sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupVia email:[email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free!Instagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagherIf you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall

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    109. Why Feeling Stuck Is Really About One Decision

    We all say we're stuck at some point in our lives. Stuck in our business. Stuck in our relationships. Stuck with food. Stuck with money.But what if you're not actually stuck?What if you're standing in front of one decision you've been avoiding because you're afraid of how it will make you feel?In this episode, I unpack why our nervous system convinces us to wait, why "later" feels so believable, and the surprising truth that the feeling you're trying to avoid... you're probably already experiencing.If you've ever thought, "I know what I need to do, but I just can't seem to do it," this episode is for you.JOIN POWER PROJECT HEREStay in touch about the power project or just to stay connected sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupVia email:[email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free!Instagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagherIf you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall

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    108. Why We Push Away The Very Thing We Want

    You finally get close to the thing you've been working for…and then something happens.You procrastinate.You overeat.You pull back.You overspend.You question yourself.You convince yourself it isn't working.Sound familiar?In this episode, I'm unpacking one of the biggest reasons people stay stuck: they know how to chase what they want, but they don't yet feel safe receiving it—or holding onto it.We're talking about the difference between getting, having, and receiving, why your nervous system can reject success, and how to build the capacity to keep the life you've worked so hard to create.If you've ever wondered why you keep recreating the same patterns despite doing "all the right things," this episode might completely change how you see yourself. JOIN POWER PROJECT HEREStay in touch about the power project or just to stay connected sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupVia email:[email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free!Instagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagherIf you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall

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    107. Why We Stay Stuck in Endless Patterns

    If you've ever wondered why you keep ending up in the same place despite trying so hard, this episode is for you.Whether it's your weight, money, relationships, business, or confidence, there are two reasons we stay stuck in endless patterns—and it has nothing to do with laziness or a lack of discipline.Today, I'm breaking down why your brain and nervous system are designed to seek certainty and how that can keep you recreating the same results over and over again.Once you understand what's actually happening, you can finally begin to change it.I also share why I'm bringing back The Power Project started June 22.For 30 days, you'll get daily audio drops showing you exactly how I navigate negative thoughts, overwhelm, anxiety, self-doubt, and staying connected to the most powerful version of myself in real time.You'll also get:30 new daily audiosAccess to the previous 30 Power Project audios20 recorded masterclassesCoaching and guidance inside Voxer45 days of portal accessBecause lasting change doesn't happen from hearing something once.It happens through repetition.The thoughts you repeat become the beliefs you live from, and the beliefs you live from create your life.Maybe you're not stuck at all.Maybe you've just been trying to solve the wrong problem. ????JOIN POWER PROJECT HEREStay in touch about the power project or just to stay connected sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupVia email:[email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free!Instagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagherIf you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall

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    106. The Wrong Problem You've Been Trying to Solve

    What if the reason you've stayed stuck isn't because you're lazy, unmotivated, or lacking discipline?What if you've simply been trying to solve the wrong problem?In this episode, I break down what I've discovered after years of studying my own patterns and coaching women who feel stuck.At the root of almost every form of stuckness is one fear:The belief that something is wrong with us… or the fear that we'll find out there is.When that belief exists, our minds and bodies create protective patterns to keep us safe.Perfectionism.Overthinking.People pleasing.Fear of abandonment.Procrastination.Emotional eating.Self-doubt.These patterns aren't flaws. They're protectors.The problem is they eventually stop protecting us and start blocking us from the very things we want most: connection, love, success, peace, confidence, and freedom.In this episode, I explain:Why we accidentally create the outcomes we fear mostHow protective patterns are formedWhy fear of abandonment isn't actually protecting youWhy trying to fix yourself keeps you stuckWhy nothing is actually wrong with youHow to stop being at war with yourselfI also share why I'm bringing back The Power Project starting June 22.For 30 days, you'll get daily audio drops showing you exactly how I navigate negative thoughts, overwhelm, anxiety, self-doubt, and staying connected to the most powerful version of myself in real time.You'll also get:30 new daily audiosAccess to the previous 30 Power Project audios20 recorded masterclassesCoaching and guidance inside Voxer45 days of portal accessBecause lasting change doesn't happen from hearing something once.It happens through repetition.The thoughts you repeat become the beliefs you live from, and the beliefs you live from create your life.Maybe you're not stuck at all.Maybe you've just been trying to solve the wrong problem. ????JOIN POWER PROJECT HEREStay in touch about the power project or just to stay connected sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupVia email:[email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free!Instagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagherIf you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall

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    105: I Ran an Experiment for 40 Days. Here's What I found.

    Forty days ago, I had an idea.Not a perfect plan.Not a polished strategy.Just an idea.And instead of talking myself out of it, I took myself seriously.I created The Power Project and spent 30 days intentionally connecting to the most powerful version of myself every morning.The results went far beyond money, clients, weight loss, or productivity.What I discovered was that growth isn't about doing more.It's about becoming the person who can hold more.More visibility.More responsibility.More opportunities.More emotion.More success.More of the good things in life.In this episode, I'm sharing what happened during those 40 days, what surprised me most, what I learned about capacity and self-leadership, and why this experiment changed me enough that I'm doing it again.The next Power Project is coming soon, and if you'd like to join me for the next round, reach out in any of the ways listed below and I'll make sure you're the first to know when enrollment opens.If you've been feeling stuck, overwhelmed, disconnected from yourself, or like you're capable of more than you're currently experiencing, this episode will show you a different way forward.The most powerful version of you already exists.The question is:Are you willing to choose them?Stay in touch about the power project or just to stay connected sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupVia email:[email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free!Instagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagherIf you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall

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    104. Where You've Attached Your Power

    In this episode, I share a brand-new visualization that came to me while coaching a client and it completely changed the way I think about stuckness.What if the reason you feel stuck isn't because you're broken, unmotivated, or lacking confidence?What if you're simply attached to things that were never meant to hold your power?Together, we'll explore the invisible strings that keep us tied to struggle, perfectionism, control, achievement, approval, certainty, and even identities we've created ourselves.I'll share how my own attachment to struggle shaped my life, how it led to self sabotage, and why releasing these attachments has been one of the most important parts of my healing and growth.If you've ever felt like you know what you want but can't seem to move forward, this episode will help you see your stuckness through a completely different lens.You are not broken.You may simply be attached to something that is no longer serving you.If you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycallSign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupShop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resourcesAnd don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free!Instagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    103. Every Form of Stuckness Comes From This

    In this episode, I’m breaking down one universal reason for all stuckness and why we stay stuck in patterns that no longer serve us, why your body keeps pulling you back to familiar behaviors, and why your stuckness is not proof that something is wrong with you.Overthinking. Perfectionism. Anxiety. Burnout. Overeating/overdrinking. Fear of being seen. Procrastination. People pleasing.It all LOOKS different.But underneath almost every type of stuckness is often the same root.Here is what I go into:• the hidden fears underneath our patterns• why the body learns protection• how identities are formed• why ease, joy, visibility, success, and peace can actually feel unsafe• why awareness alone usually isn’t enough to change• and the 5 pathways I use with my clients to go from stuck to unstuck in every area of lifeIf you’ve ever felt like:“Why do I keep doing this?”“Why can’t I just move forward?”“Why do I keep repeating the same patterns?”This episode is for you.Also, don’t forget:I’m doing a giveaway for the 100th episode of the podcast.Leave a 5 star review on Apple or Spotify, screenshot it, and email it to [email protected] to enter to win a $150 Target gift card.If you review on BOTH platforms, you get double entries.Winner announced June 1.If you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycallSign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupShop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resources

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    102. The Hidden Identities Running Your Life

    Why do you feel overwhelmed and grateful at the same time?Why do you sabotage yourself when life finally starts getting good?Why does part of you want change while another part wants to hide?In this episode, I’m breaking down the identities, protectors, beliefs, and nervous system patterns running your life behind the scenes.We talk about:• self sabotage• perfectionism• overwhelm• binge eating• procrastination• fear of visibility• victim mentality• emotional regulation• nervous system safety• why ease can feel unsafe• what self leadership actually looks like• how to stop abandoning yourselfThis episode will help you understand why you feel so many conflicting emotions at one time and why healing is not about “fixing” yourself, it’s about coming home to yourself.If you’ve ever felt like:“I know where I want to go, but something keeps pulling me back…”This episode is for you.ALSO…GIVEAWAY HAPPENINGTo celebrate 100 episodes of the You Get to Decide podcast, I’m doing something super FUN.I’m giving away a $150 Target gift cardHere’s how to enter:Leave a 5 star review on Apple or SpotifyScreenshot your reviewEmail it to: [email protected] a double entry?Leave a review on BOTH Apple + SpotifyGiveaway ends May 29thWinner announced June 1st on my social media and podcast Power Project is happening and I am inviting you: 30 days of powerful daily audio drops:• Learn how to access the most powerful version of you• Interrupt overwhelm, spiraling, self doubt, and emotional eating• Daily mindset shifts you can listen to in minutes• Private Voxer community + coaching support from me• 45 days access to my portal of masterclasses and trainings• Support around food, money, confidence, anxiety, mindset, and more• For the person ready to stop surviving and start leading themselves• Starts May 10th, $49 for the monthhere is the link to sign up: https://www.allisongallagher.com/powerprojecteven sign up late cause you can start where you are and jump in anytime between May 10th and June 10thIf you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycallSign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupShop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resourcesAnd don’t forget...the giveaway! send your review to [email protected], you are entered to receive a $150 gift card to Target!Instagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    101. To The Mom Who Forgot She Is The Asset

    So many moms are quietly drowning while still showing up for everyone else.In this episode, I’m talking about support, why so many women struggle to raise their hand, and the belief that we should be able to carry it all alone. I share my own journey with coaching, healing, investing in myself, and the moment I realized that as moms, we are the asset in the family.We talk about:• Why asking for support can feel so hard• The emotional weight women carry in silence• Why doing it alone keeps us stuck• How support creates flow, growth, and healing• What changes when we finally believe we matter tooIf you’ve been overwhelmed, exhausted, anxious, emotionally drowning, or trying to hold everything together for everyone else, this episode is for you.ALSO…GIVEAWAY HAPPENINGTo celebrate 100 episodes of the You Get to Decide podcast, I’m doing something super FUN.I’m giving away a $150 Target gift cardHere’s how to enter:Leave a 5 star review on Apple or SpotifyScreenshot your reviewEmail it to: [email protected] a double entry?Leave a review on BOTH Apple + SpotifyGiveaway ends May 29thWinner announced June 1st on my social media and podcastPower Project is happening and I am inviting you: 30 days of powerful daily audio drops• Learn how to access the most powerful version of you• Interrupt overwhelm, spiraling, self doubt, and emotional eating• Daily mindset shifts you can listen to in minutes• Private Voxer community + coaching support from me• 45 days access to my portal of masterclasses and trainings• Support around food, money, confidence, anxiety, mindset, and more• For the person ready to stop surviving and start leading themselves• Starts May 10th, $49 for the monthhere is the link to sign up:https://www.allisongallagher.com/powerprojecteven sign up late cause you can start where you are and jump in anytime between May 10th and June 10thIf you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycallSign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupShop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resourcesAnd don’t forget...the giveaway! send your review to [email protected], you are entered to receive a $150 gift card to Target!Instagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    100. The Fastest Way to Change Your Life (+ 100th Episode Giveaway!)

    GIVEAWAY ANNOUNCEMENT To celebrate 100 episodes of the You Get to Decide podcast, I’m doing something super FUN.I’m giving away a $150 Target gift cardHere’s how to enter:Leave a 5 star review on Apple or SpotifyScreenshot your reviewEmail it to: [email protected] a double entry?Leave a review on BOTH Apple + SpotifyGiveaway ends May 29thWinner announced June 1st on my social media and podcast100 episodes. Let’s go for 200. ❤️In this episode, I’m walking you through one of the most powerful concepts I’ve ever practiced in my own life and coaching(and a surprise offer at the end)Accessing the most powerful version of YOU.The version of you that:• trusts herself• stops spiraling faster• handles emotions differently• doesn’t need food, overthinking, or numbing to cope• sets boundaries• feels powerful in her own body• keeps going even when fear is presentI share:• how your thoughts create your emotional baseline• why changing how you FEEL changes your results faster than forcing action• how I interrupted patterns of binge eating, anxiety, overwhelm, and scarcity• why most people stay stuck in victim energy without realizing it• real stories from my own life and clients• how to stop letting emotions run your lifeAnd I am doing the Power Project Starting May 10th and I am inviting you: 30 days of powerful daily audio drops• Learn how to access the most powerful version of you• Interrupt overwhelm, spiraling, self doubt, and emotional eating• Daily mindset shifts you can listen to in minutes• Private Voxer community + coaching support from me• 45 days access to my portal of masterclasses and trainings• Support around food, money, confidence, anxiety, mindset, and more• For the person ready to stop surviving and start leading themselves• Starts May 10th, $49 for the monthhere is the link to sign up:https://www.allisongallagher.com/powerprojecteven sign up late cause you can start where you are and jump in anytime between May 10th and June 10thIf you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycallSign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupShop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resourcesAnd don’t forget...the giveaway! send your review to [email protected], you are entered to receive a $150 gift card to Target!Instagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    99. From Drained to Lit Up: Getting Your Energy Back (With Comedian Tracy Locke)

    If you’ve been feeling drained, overwhelmed, or like something just isn’t clicking in your life… this conversation will make a lot of sense. I’m sitting down with my longtime client, comedian and speaker Tracy Locke, and we’re talking about what has actually changed for her over the last few years of doing this work. We talk about: why so many people feel overwhelmed even when life looks “fine” the thought “I should be further along” and how much that one thought creates how she handles situations now that used to completely derail her what it looks like to have your own back in real life and how coaching has actually given her more energy, not taken it away You’ll hear how she went from feeling scattered and reactive… to feeling calmer, more confident, and able to handle things as they come up. This isn’t about having everything figured out. It’s about learning how to think differently so your life actually feels different. Find Tracy and everything she is doing: https://www.tlockecomedy.com FB: https://www.facebook.com/tracy.locke.77 If you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall Sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signup Shop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resources And don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free! Instagram: www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    98. Moms, The Truth About Your Burnout

    If you’re a mom in burnout, I want you to know this episode was made with so much love for you. Because I know what it feels like to be exhausted by your own life. To feel like you’re carrying everything. To feel touched out, emotionally maxed out, mentally drained, and like there is never enough space to breathe. To look at your responsibilities and think, no wonder I feel this way. But in this episode, I’m offering you a truth that might be hard to hear and incredibly freeing at the same time. Burnout is not just your circumstances. It is not simply your kids, your marriage, your schedule, your work, or the number of responsibilities on your plate. Burnout is being created by what you are thinking about those things every single day. We talk about why burnout feels so real in the body, why your brain keeps showing you evidence that everything is too much, and how shame and disempowering thoughts keep you stuck in the same emotional cycle. I walk you through how your thoughts are draining more energy than your to do list, how you may be leaking energy all day long without realizing it, and why changing the way you think can open up solutions you literally could not see before. We also go into motherhood, emotional regulation, and what your kids actually need from you. Not perfection. Not endless running. Not more doing. They need a mother who is present, grounded, and emotionally safe enough to hold space for them without making their emotions mean something is wrong. This is not an episode about blaming moms. It is an episode about giving moms their power back. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, resentful, depleted, or like you’re disappearing inside your own life, start here. This conversation could change the way you see your burnout, your parenting, and yourself. And if you have a daughter, my Confidence Camp is designed to help her build the self-trust, emotional awareness, and confidence so many of us were never taught. email [email protected] for more info If you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall Sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signup Shop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resources And don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free! Instagram: www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    97. How to Be the Parent You Actually Want to Be, Even When You’re Maxed Out

    If you feel like you’re failing as a parent… like you’re snapping, shutting down, or not showing up the way you want to… you’re not failing. You’re maxed out. In this episode, I’m breaking down what’s actually going on when your child comes to you and you can’t hold it… when you minimize, react, or try to fix it instead of being present. This is not about being a perfect parent. This is about capacity. I’m walking you through: why your child’s emotions trigger you what happens when they don’t feel safe coming to you how patterns like shame, overwhelm, and disconnection actually start and how to begin shifting this, no matter how old your child is I’m also sharing pieces of my own story, what I’ve learned through coaching, and what it really looks like to be a regulated parent. Because your kids don’t need you to be perfect. They need you to be present. They need you to be safe. And that starts with you. If this is hitting for you and you’re recognizing how often you’re overwhelmed, numbing, or trying to escape your own emotions with food... I’m teaching this live in my Stop The Food Noise Stop The Binging Masterclass April 16th at 12pm I’m going to walk you through: – the patterns keeping you stuck – the beliefs driving the obsession – and how to actually change your relationship with food ???? Save your spot here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/P7np1CejQXCV6Ci3HI_N5w If you come live, you’ll also get access to a 1-hour coaching session with me so we can apply this directly to your situation. And if you have a daughter, my Confidence Camp is designed to help her build the self-trust, emotional awareness, and confidence so many of us were never taught. email [email protected] for more info This is how we change things. For you. And for them. If you’re ready to stop reacting and start leading… this episode will change the way you see parenting forever. If you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall Sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signup Shop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resources And don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free! Instagram: www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    96. Think You’re Not Capable Of Overcoming Food Obsession? This Episode Is For You.

    If you think food obsession will never go away no matter how hard you try… this episode is for you.If you feel like you’ve tried everythingand you’re still stuck thinking about food all day…going back and forth…starting over again and again…I want to offer you something.It’s not that you can’t change.It’s that there’s something you haven’t done yet.In this episode, I’m walking you through the beliefs that are actually keeping you stuck in food obsession and food noise…Because it’s not the food.It’s what you believe about:– your thoughts– your body– your capabilities– and your relationship with foodYour brain is offering you food all day…and then turning around and beating you up when you listen.Same mind. Both sides.If you don’t learn how to see that and shift what you believe…the cycle continues.But when you do… everything starts to change.I’m teaching this live in my Stop The Food Noise Stop The Binging Masterclass April 16th at 12pmI’m going to walk you through:– the patterns keeping you stuck– the beliefs driving the obsession– and how to actually change your relationship with food???? Save your spot here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/P7np1CejQXCV6Ci3HI_N5wIf you come live, you’ll also get access to a 1-hour coaching session with me so we can apply this directly to your situation.You are not broken.There is just something you haven’t done yet.And this might be it.If you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycallSign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupShop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resourcesAnd don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free!Instagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    95. The Reason You Have Food Noise and Can’t Stop Binging

    If food is constantly on your mind… what to eat, what you ate, what you “shouldn’t” eat… If you keep telling yourself this is the last time and end up right back in the same cycle… This episode is for you. Because this isn’t about discipline. And it’s not because you’re weak or broken. In this episode, I’m breaking down: • what food noise actually is (and why it won’t go away) • why binging has nothing to do with willpower • how your body is driving the urge to eat • why restriction, control, and fear are keeping you stuck • the exact shifts you need to start quieting the noise I also share the real, tactical side of this work — how to eat, how to feel your urges, and how to start creating safety in your body so food stops feeling so loud. Because you don’t need more discipline. You need to learn how to lead yourself. Here is the link to a TDEE calculator: https://tdeecalculator.net/ I’m hosting a live masterclass April 16th 12pm EST: Stop the Food Noise. Stop Binging for Good. This is where I teach you exactly how to do this work step-by-step. You can join us live on Zoom here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/P7np1CejQXCV6Ci3HI_N5w If you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall Sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signup Shop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resources And don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free! Instagram: www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    94.10 Things I’d Want You to Know If Everything Feels Hard

    If you don’t trust things that feel easy…this episode is going to hit. You might just be operating from an identity of struggle… and not even realize it. In this final episode of my 10-part series on hard seasons, I’m breaking down the one pattern that kept me stuck the longest — believing that it had to be hard in order to count. For years, I rejected ease. I overworked, overcomplicated, and created pressure… thinking that’s what success required. It wasn’t. In this episode, I walk you through 10 things you need to understand if you’re tired of struggling, including: Why your brain keeps showing you what’s hard How you might be rejecting ease without realizing it The sneaky ways you create pressure before taking action Why you don’t trust simple… and how it’s slowing you down The belief that hard = valuable (and how it’s keeping you stuck) Why you sabotage things when they start working And how to start building a life that actually feels easier This is about more than mindset. This is about identity. Because struggle is not who you are. It’s just what you’ve practiced. I teach live every Thursday at 12PM EST. This week’s teaching: 5 Ways You Might Be Choosing Struggle (Without Realizing It) Come sit in the room, listen, or get coached live. You can join us live on Zoom here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/P7np1CejQXCV6Ci3HI_N5w If you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall Sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signup Shop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resources And don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free! Instagram: www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    93. The Hidden Cost of Delay

    This is one of my most downloaded episodes… and I’m bringing it back for a reason.Because the message still hits.Because so many tell me they are waiting for the “right time.”Because delay is still the thing that will keep you stuck.In this episode, I break down the lie that there’s a perfect day coming and why waiting is actually creating more pain than just doing the thing.We talk about:Why your brain tells you it’s “not the right time”The real cost of procrastinationHow to use your past and future self as fuelAnd what it looks like to actually decide and moveIf you’ve been overthinking, delaying, or telling yourself you’ll start “soon”… this is your reminder.There is no perfect day.You get to decide when it is.If you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycallSign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupShop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resourcesAnd don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free!Instagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    92. The 10 Things I’d Tell You If You Think You’re Failing

    I’m in the middle of my 10 hard seasons series...if you think you’re failing, want you to hear this: your brain is wired to show you what isn’t working. That does not mean nothing is working. In this episode, I’m sharing the 10 things I would want you to know if you feel like you’re failing in your business, your parenting, your goals, your habits, your marriage, or just in life. This is for the high achiever whose brain keeps offering, “you’re behind,” “it’s not working,” or “maybe this means you should quit.” I talk about why your brain on factory settings will always try to fail ahead of time, why people who care deeply are the ones most likely to think they’re failing, why comparison is poison, why most people quit in the liminal space, and why failure only becomes final if you decide it does. I also share what I’ve learned through podcasting, building businesses, changing careers, closing things that were no longer aligned, and learning how to separate facts from the story my brain wants to tell. This episode will help you stop using failure as evidence against yourself and start using it as information, data, and direction. If this episode resonated and you want to actually practice this work in real time, I host Teachings & Practice every Thursday. It’s a live space where I teach these concepts, answer questions, and help you apply them to your real life, not just understand them intellectually. You can join us live on Zoom here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/P7np1CejQXCV6Ci3HI_N5w If you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall Sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signup Shop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resources And don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free! Instagram: www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    91. 10 Things I Want You to Know If Money Makes You Anxious

    If money makes you anxious, I made this episode for you AND you're not alone. There are so many people especially women walking around functioning, working, raising kids, building businesses, taking care of everyone… while silently panicking about money. The kind of panic that lives in the chest. The kind that makes you avoid your bank app. The kind that makes you feel like you’re behind, failing, or one step away from everything falling apart. This episode is me telling you the truth: money can be a trigger, but it’s rarely the root. The root is what your nervous system learned about safety, support, control, receiving, and worth. In this episode I share the 10 things I want you to know if money feels heavy, scary, or shameful. I talk about how we use money the same way we use food sometimes, as a regulator. I talk about why “more money” doesn’t automatically create peace, and why some people have plenty and still live in fear. And I talk about how you can rewire this relationship so you can look at your numbers without collapsing into shame. Because the goal isn’t perfection. The goal is leadership. The goal is being the kind of woman who can face the truth, stay steady, and make empowered decisions even when it’s uncomfortable. If this episode resonated and you want to actually practice this work in real time, I host Teachings & Practice every Thursday. It’s a live space where I teach these concepts, answer questions, and help you apply them to your real life, not just understand them intellectually. You can join us live on Zoom here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/P7np1CejQXCV6Ci3HI_N5w If you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall Sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signup Shop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resources And don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free! Instagram: www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    90. How to Get Out of Your Own Way, and Stay There (Live Talk)

    Stop trying to fix yourself. You’re solving for the wrong thing.Most people can get out of their own way for a day. The problem is staying there.In this live talk, I break down why so many capable people feel anxious, overwhelmed, stuck, or one step away from burnout, even when they’re doing “all the right things.”This isn’t a motivation speech. It’s a leadership conversation.You’ll learn:Why identity is your default leadership, not your personalityHow protectors like the inner critic, perfectionist, procrastinator, victim, and scarcity show up under pressureWhy burnout doesn’t come from your circumstances, it comes from the identity leading inside the circumstanceThe simple framework I use to shift from factory settings to intentional self leadershipHow to create emotional safety in your body, so your mind gets quiet and you can move forward with clarityIf you’ve ever felt like you want to go one direction but your body pulls you another, this episode will explain exactly why, and what to do about it.Want support?If this episode resonated and you want to actually practice this work in real time, I host Teachings & Practice every Thursday.It’s a live space where I teach these concepts, answer questions, and help you apply them to your real life, not just understand them intellectually.You can join us live on Zoom here:https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/P7np1CejQXCV6Ci3HI_N5wIf you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycallSign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupShop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resourcesAnd don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free!Instagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    89. 10+ Things That Became Possible When I Stopped Running From My Emotions

    What if the thing you’re avoiding is the doorway to your power? In this episode of the You Get to Decide podcast, I share the 10 powerful shifts that happened when I stopped running from my emotions and started building emotional capacity instead. This is not about being emotional. This is about becoming unshakeable. I talk about: • Becoming a safer parent • Healing my eating disorder by feeling urges instead of numbing • Making friends with shame • Becoming nearly impossible to trigger • Building self-trust in uncertainty • Expanding my identity without collapsing • Why peace became my baseline If you’re a high achiever who feels stuck, overwhelmed, rushing to achieve, burnt out, or constantly triggered, this episode will show you why. Your emotions are not here to destroy you. They are messengers. And when you stop running, you become powerful. If you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall Sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signup Shop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resources And don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free! Instagram: www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    88. 10 Things I’d Want You to Know If You’re Ready to Quit on Yourself

    Hard seasons don’t mean you’re failing.They mean something inside you is being asked to lead differently.In this episode, I walk you through 10 things I’d want you to know if you’re ready to quit on yourself—based on the seasons where I wanted to quit and didn’t.You’ll hear exactly:What’s actually happening internally when quitting feels temptingWhy fear and protection often masquerade as logicHow I stopped letting emotions dictate my decisionsWhy staying present changed my energy, clarity, and confidenceWhat it looks like to stay self-led without certaintyThis is for anyone who knows they’re meant for more and refuses to walk away from themselves.And if you know deep down that you’re meant for more, but you keep starting, stopping, and losing momentum, I created a 3-day live training just for that.Meant for More is happening February 17–19.This is not motivation.This is not mindset fluff.This is self-leadership.Over three days, I’ll teach you how to stop letting old identities run the show, how to bring safety back online in your body, and how to move forward without forcing, fixing, or abandoning yourself.You can register here:https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/lqucsKibSnS6H3pdABSSSwYou don’t need to become someone new.You need to return to yourself and what's been true all along.If this episode resonated and you want to actually practice this work in real time, I host Teachings & Practice every Thursday.It’s a live space where I teach these concepts, answer questions, and help you apply them to your real life, not just understand them intellectually.You can join us live on Zoom here:https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/P7np1CejQXCV6Ci3HI_N5wIf you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycallSign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupShop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resourcesAnd don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free!Instagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    87. 10 Things I Learned as a Lifelong Addict (and How I Changed My Relationship With It)

    Addiction is not about the substance.It’s about relief.In this episode, I share the 10 most important things I learned during my hardest season living in addiction, specifically food addiction, but this conversation goes far beyond food.If you’ve ever felt trapped in a pattern you “should be past,”If you’ve carried shame about behaviors you don’t understand,If you’ve tried control, discipline, or willpower and still felt stuck,this episode will change how you see yourself.I break down why addiction is a nervous system pattern, not a character flaw, why shame fuels compulsive behavior, and why control only tightens the grip. I also share what I never learned in recovery rooms, how identity and self-leadership actually heal patterns, and why your body has never been sabotaging you, only protecting you.This is not a recovery conversation rooted in fear or scarcity.This is a self-leadership conversation rooted in safety, identity, and choice.If you’ve been reaching for food, work, money, approval, productivity, scrolling, or control to feel okay inside your body, this episode is for you.You are not broken.You are not powerless.And nothing is wrong with you.If this episode resonated and you want to actually practice this work in real time, I host Teachings & Practice every Thursday.It’s a live space where I teach these concepts, answer questions, and help you apply them to your real life, not just understand them intellectually.You can join us live on Zoom here:https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/P7np1CejQXCV6Ci3HI_N5wAnd if you know deep down that you’re meant for more, but you keep starting, stopping, and losing momentum, I created a 3-day live training just for that.Meant for More is happening February 17–19.This is not motivation.This is not mindset fluff.This is self-leadership.Over three days, I’ll teach you how to stop letting old identities run the show, how to bring safety back online in your body, and how to move forward without forcing, fixing, or abandoning yourself.You can register here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/lqucsKibSnS6H3pdABSSSwYou don’t need to become someone new.You need to return to yourself and what's been true all along.If you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycallSign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupShop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resourcesAnd don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free!Instagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    86. 10 Things I Learned When I Stopped Letting My Mind Run the Show

    For a long time, I thought the work was fixing my mind. Or just shutting it up. What I eventually learned was this my mind didn’t need fixing it needed leadership. In this episode, I’m sharing 10 things I learned when I stopped letting my mind run the show, after coming out of one of the longest and hardest seasons of my life. Because your brain on factory settings will always choose safety and smallness over truth and what’s actually possible. It pulls from the past to predict the future. It defaults to familiar patterns and energy conservation even when those patterns are costing you your body, your business, your confidence, or your peace. I walk you through how thoughts actually create results, why awareness alone doesn’t change behavior, how the brain and body work together to keep you stuck, and what it really looks like to interrupt self-sabotage in real time especially around money, food, visibility, boundaries, and ambition. I also share what I do when those factory settings try to take the lead and how to step into your power and stay there. This episode is about reclaiming the authority you handed over to fear, urges, conditioning, and old identities. You’ll hear how I stopped negotiating with my mind, learned to separate thoughts from decisions, and trained my nervous system to hold both ease and challenge as I stepped into bigger goals and higher-quality problems. If you’ve been doing the work, building awareness, and still feel like you gain momentum and then hide, this episode will show you why. And if you want support applying this in your own life: I’m hosting MEANT FOR MORE, a free 3-day live training February 17–19 at noon EST, where I teach why your mind defaults to smallness and how to lead yourself from your most powerful identity instead. Register here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/lqucsKibSnS6H3pdABSSSw You Get To Decide: Teachings + Practice Room: Live weekly teaching and practice every Thursday at 12:00 PM Eastern, based on that week’s podcast episode. This is a space to learn, practice, and integrate the work in real time. Come to get coached or just listen Register once to attend any session: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/P7np1CejQXCV6Ci3HI_N5w If you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall Sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signup Shop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resources And don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free! Instagram: www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    85. 10 Things I Learned After Years of Chronic Anxiety and Worry

    Anxiety isn’t a flaw. It isn’t weakness. And it isn’t something you’re destined to live with forever. In this episode, I share 10 of the most important things I learned after living for years with chronic anxiety and worry, in my body, in my mind, and in my daily life. We talk about: Why anxiety is a messenger, not the enemy How worry becomes a false form of control The real reason your nervous system craves certainty Why safety doesn’t happen in your thoughts, it happens in your body How leadership, not avoidance, changes anxiety What happens when you stop abandoning yourself Why identity work was the deepest healing layer for me And how presence and slowness calm what urgency fuels This episode is not just about “getting rid” of anxiety. It’s about understanding it, leading it, and creating safety from the inside out. So when it does pop up you have the tools to "get rid of it" If anxiety has been running your life, this conversation will help you understand it differently, and show you what’s actually possible. If you want to learn in a live setting this is for you: You Get To Decide: Teachings + Practice Room: I am hosting a live weekly teaching and practice every Thursday at 12:00 PM Eastern, based on that week’s podcast episode. This is a space to learn, practice, and integrate the work in real time. You can participate, get coached, or simply listen. Register once to attend any session: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/P7np1CejQXCV6Ci3HI_N5w If you want to take this work deeper with my 1:1 support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall Sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signup Shop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resources And don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free! Instagram: www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    84. 10 Things I Learned About Shame and the Spirals It Creates

    Shame is one of the most powerful forces keeping us stuck, small, and disconnected from who we really are. In this episode, Allison breaks down the facts about shame, what a shame spiral actually is, how it forms in the body before the mind ever gets involved, and why shame feels so true, urgent, and necessary even when it isn’t factual. You’ll learn why some people collapse inward while others project outward, how shame disconnects you from your highest-level thinking, and why most shame spirals don’t actually resolve, they just get interrupted. Most importantly, Allison shares The Return of You™ method, the process she uses personally and with clients to neutralize shame, restore safety in the body, and return to aligned action without fixing, forcing, or abandoning yourself. This episode is for anyone who knows they are capable of more, but keeps getting pulled off course by patterns they don’t fully understand yet. You Get To Decide: Teachings + Practice Room: Starting January 8th, I’ll be hosting a live weekly teaching and practice every Thursday at 12:00 PM Eastern, based on that week’s podcast episode. This is a space to learn, practice, and integrate the work in real time. You can participate, get coached, or simply listen. Register once to attend any session: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/P7np1CejQXCV6Ci3HI_N5w If you want to take this work deeper with my support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall Sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signup Shop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resources And don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free! Instagram: www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    83. 10 Things I Learned in the Hard Seasons (an overview)

    Welcome to the first episode of a 10-week series on the You Get to Decide podcast.This season is called 10 Things I Learned in My Hard Seasons, and over the next 10 weeks, I’m sharing 100 lessons pulled directly from the hardest seasons of my life.Real lived truth.In this first episode, I lay the groundwork for the entire series.I share what I learned after years of anxiety, shame spirals, binge eating, self-sabotage, chronic self-doubt, survival mode, and believing there was something wrong with me.What I learned is this:You were never brokenYou were never behindAnd you were never aloneHard seasons don’t mean you’re failing.They mean something real is being revealed.In this episode, I walk you through the core truths that changed everything for me, including• Why I stayed in hard seasons longer than I needed to• How shame and self-judgment prolong suffering• Why desire is not a flaw but a guide• How compassion moves you forward faster than force• Why you never needed fixing, only understanding• How returning to yourself is the most linear path there isThis episode is for you if-You feel like life has been harder than it should beYou’ve questioned your capabilityYou’ve wondered if something is wrong with youYou’re exhausted from trying to fix yourselfYou know you’re meant for more but don’t know how to get thereThis season is a reminderEvery road leads back to you.You Get To Decide: Teachings + Practice Room:Starting January 8th, I’ll be hosting a live weekly teaching and practice every Thursday at 12:00 PM Eastern, based on that week’s podcast episode. This is a space to learn, practice, and integrate the work in real time. You can participate, get coached, or simply listen.Register once to attend any session:https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/P7np1CejQXCV6Ci3HI_N5wIf you want to take this work deeper with my support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycallSign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupShop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resourcesAnd don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free!Instagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    82. Self-Forgiveness: Putting Down the Past and Walking Into the New Year Clean

    This is the final episode of the year, and I’m sharing it from a place of deep gratitude, honesty, and real life.In this episode, I talk about what it actually looks like to end a year without dragging shame, regret, or old identities into the next one. I share how self-forgiveness has been the fastest path to healing in my own life and why being harder on yourself has never been the thing that creates change.If you’ve struggled this week with rest, routine, motivation, or the emotional aftermath of the holidays, you’re not alone. I share openly about my own challenges during this in-between time and how I’m learning to meet myself with compassion instead of judgment.You’ll be guided through a powerful reflection I use in my own life and with my clientsWhat workedWhat didn’t workWhat I’ll do differentlyNot from shame, but from curiosity, wisdom, and growth.We’ll also talk about forgiveness in a new way, not as something you force, but as something you give back. Letting go of old beliefs, past choices, and identities that no longer belong to you so you can walk into the new year lighter, clearer, and more grounded.This episode is an invitation to close the year with grace, put down what no longer serves you, and step forward with intention.You Get To Decide: Teachings + Practice Room:Starting January 8th, I’ll be hosting a live weekly teaching and practice every Thursday at 12:00 PM Eastern, based on that week’s podcast episode. This is a space to learn, practice, and integrate the work in real time. You can participate, get coached, or simply listen.Register once to attend any session:https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/P7np1CejQXCV6Ci3HI_N5wIf you want to take this work deeper with my support, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycallSign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupShop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resourcesAnd don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free!Instagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    81. Why Rest, Ease, and Slowness Are the Answer (Not Just During the Holidays)

    In this episode, I’m talking about why rest, ease, and slowness aren’t something you earn. They’re the foundation for a sustainable, aligned life. And not just during the holiday season... Letting go of hustle felt irresponsible to me for a long time. Slowing down felt unsafe. But what I’ve learned is that pushing harder isn’t what creates more. Capacity does. This episode is about what changed for me when I stopped forcing, why rest actually creates clarity, creativity, and presence, and how slowing down has made my life and work feel lighter and more sustainable. If you’re tired of rushing, proving, or pushing yourself to the edge, this episode is for you. You Get To Decide: Teachings + Practice Room Starting January 8th, I’ll be hosting a live weekly teaching and practice every Thursday at 12:00 PM Eastern, based on that week’s podcast episode. This is a space to learn, practice, and integrate the work in real time. You can participate, get coached, or simply listen. Register once to attend any session: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/P7np1CejQXCV6Ci3HI_N5w If you want support applying this work to your specific patterns in real time, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall Sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signup Shop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resources And don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free! Instagram: www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    80. The End Of Searching

    This episode completes The Return of You™ Method by bringing all five pathways together into one embodied truth: nothing you’ve been chasing outside of yourself was ever the answer. If you’ve been stuck in cycles of anxiety, control, self-sabotage, emotional eating, overworking, people-pleasing, or constantly second-guessing yourself, this episode explains why those patterns exist and how they dissolve when you learn to return to yourself instead of abandoning yourself. You’ll hear what it means to “close the loop,” how safety and enoughness in the body change everything, and why real transformation doesn’t come from fixing, forcing, or hustling harder. This is the work of integration, where awareness turns into self-trust, self-trust becomes grounded action, and old triggers lose their power because you know how to come home to yourself again and again. This episode is for anyone if you know you are meant for more or are tired of searching for the missing piece, tired of outsourcing their power, and ready to live from clarity, calm, and deep inner trust. If you want support applying this work to your specific patterns in real time, you can book a consultation HERE: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall Sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signup Shop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resources And don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free! Instagram: www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    79. The Truth Beneath All Your Stuckness

    In this episode we’re going straight to the root of transformation: identity.If you’ve ever felt like you should be further along…If you’ve ever wondered why you’re powerful in one part of your life and terrified in another…If you’ve ever felt confused, broken, or frustrated by your patterns…This episode is for you.I’m sharing the deeper truth beneath your stuckness: the identities that your nervous system created to keep you safe.These identities shape what you believe you can have, how you show up, how you cope, how you protect yourself, and what you allow yourself to receive.And they are the reason you can want something with your mind…but not feel safe having it in your body.This is the core of Pathway Four in the Return of You™ Method — Leading From Truth.Truth is who you are beneath fear, beneath perfectionism, beneath addiction, beneath struggle, beneath the stories that were handed to you or built through survival.Inside this episode, I walk you through:• How identities form• How they keep you stuck• How to know which one is running the show• How to step into the identity that can hold your dreams• Why safety creates every result you want• And what it means to finally return home to yourselfThis is the episode where everything clicks.Where the stuckness finally makes sense.Where you see that nothing is wrong with you — you simply haven’t been leading from your truth… yet.Sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupShop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resourcesSchedule a free consult call: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycallAnd don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free!Instagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    78. Do Your Beliefs Match the Life You Are Working For?

    In this episode, we step into Pathway 3 of The Return of You™: Belief Reclamation and explore a question most people never ask: Do your beliefs actually match the life you’re working for? Because you can work hard, push, hustle, self-develop, or manifest your heart out… but if your beliefs were shaped in fear, survival, or old protective patterns, your nervous system will pull you back toward the identity that feels safer — not the identity that feels better. Inside this conversation, I walk you through: The Belief Loop from the workbook and why your identity can’t outgrow the beliefs underneath it Why you have multiple “pattern identities” and how they were created through protection, not truth What “coming home to yourself” actually means — not building a new identity, but returning to the one beneath the fear How the Return Path Belief Tool helps you separate truth from protection and reclaim the beliefs that match the life you’re working for Why belief comes last, not first, and why safety makes belief possible What Belief Reclamation really is — a remembering, not a performance How to distinguish truth (quiet, steady, relieving) from protection (loud, urgent, dramatic) How inner knowing and intuition work together to reveal who you’ve always been At the end of the episode, I guide you through five powerful identity questions that help you hear the truth underneath fear, shame, and old conditioning — so you can finally see whether your beliefs match the life you’re working for. This episode is a homecoming. A reclamation. A remembering of who you’ve always been beneath the patterns. Sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signup Shop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resources To learn more about what working together looks like: www.allisongallagher.com And don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free! Instagram: www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    77. Why Your Nervous System Is The Gatekeeper Of The Life You Want

    In this episode, we go deep into Pathway 2 of The Return of You™ Method — the pathway that determines whether your growth feels expansive or impossible. We talk about what actually happens inside your mind and body when you want something… but can’t seem to move toward it. Why you shut down even when you’re motivated. Why you procrastinate, spiral, avoid, or disconnect. And why none of this means you’re broken — it means your nervous system doesn’t feel safe yet. I walk you through what dysregulation really feels like in the body, so you can recognize it in real time… and stop making it mean something about your worth. We explore inner child work and parts work — especially the younger versions of you who learned that slowing down, being seen, receiving, or trying again wasn’t safe. These parts still live inside you, and they’re the ones hitting the brakes when your adult self is trying to accelerate. Then we move into the heart of Pathway 2: feeling your feelings. Not thinking about them. Not bypassing them. Actually feeling them. You’ll learn how to build emotional fluency, how to practice feelings on purpose, and the daily tools to reconnect to your body so you can expand your capacity for the life you’re trying to create. And I share exactly why this work matters for the rest of the method. Why you can’t shift beliefs (Pathway 3), build a new identity (Pathway 4), or return to your truth (Pathway 5) without first building safety in your body. This is the episode that changes how you see yourself — and the limits you thought you had. If you’ve ever wondered why you feel stuck, shut down, or inconsistent… this episode will make everything make sense. Sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signup Shop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resources To learn more about what working together looks like: www.allisongallagher.com And don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free! Instagram: www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    76. The Two D’s That Will Hijack the Life You’re Striving For Every Time

    Every single one of us has big desires — the identity we want to step into, the results we’re working toward, the life we know we’re meant for. And yet… we keep getting pulled off our path. We know what we want. We feel the potential inside us. We try to show up differently. But something inside hijacks us — again and again. In this episode, I’m breaking down the Two D’s that derail you every single time if you’re not aware of them: Dysregulation and Disconnection. These two forces — happening inside your body and mind — are the real reason you: procrastinate overeat numb shut down avoid scroll hide lose momentum sabotage your progress and step out of the identity you want to live in This is what’s been hijacking the life you’re striving for — without you even realizing it. You’ll learn: Why your nervous system reacts before you can think How old beliefs and memories stored in your body get triggered today Why the brain pulls you away from your truth when things get “unsafe” Why survival mode feels more familiar than success Why you abandon yourself even when you don’t want to How to finally lead your nervous system instead of being led by it This is the missing awareness most people never get. And without it, the nervous system will run your life — not your truth. This episode takes you right to the beginning of the work: Understanding the forces pulling you away from who you want to be… and learning how to return to yourself instead.  Sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signup Shop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resources To learn more about what working together looks like: www.allisongallagher.com And don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free! Instagram: www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    75. You Are the Pathway to the True You: A Method Is Born.

    In this episode, I’m breaking down what identity actually is — and why it stops so many of us from rising into the next level of our lives. Most people think they’re stuck because they're unmotivated, undisciplined, or “not ready yet.” But the truth is simpler: Your brain is wired for external safety… but transformation requires internal safety. Your current identity was built to protect you. It knows how to survive, stay hidden, avoid threat, and operate from old patterns. So when you reach for more — more success, more visibility, more money, more confidence — your brain creates disconnection. Not because you’re broken, but because it’s trying to keep you safe in the only ways it knows how. And that’s exactly where this new work was born. Over the past seven days, the names for each stage of my method revealed themselves. I watched myself move through situations that would’ve shut me down in the past… and instead, I moved through them with clarity and speed. I noticed where my brain wanted to slip into shame, collapse, or old identity — and I returned to myself instead. That’s when I realized: these are the 5 pathways every human must walk to come home to who they truly are. This is The Return of You™ Method. In this episode, I share: What identity actually is Why your brain disconnects when you try to grow Why internal safety is the foundation for becoming the next version of yourself How the 5 Pathways revealed themselves in real time as I moved through my own triggers How I used them to return to my truth instead of staying stuck Why these pathways now define my entire coaching philosophy I am, fully and finally, stepping into what I am meant to teach: I am an identity coach. I help your nervous system feel at home in the identity you want to show up as — so you can go from stuck to unstoppable. Inside my world, you either become the version of you that you already know is inside you… or, if you don’t know her yet, she’ll be revealed through this process. And yes — there’s now a workbook that goes along with this work. It’s not homework. It’s an enhancement. A way to deepen the experience, if you choose, of coming home to yourself. If you’re ready to understand why you get stuck… and how to return to the real you again and again… This episode is the beginning. Sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signup Shop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resources To learn more about what working together looks like: www.allisongallagher.com And don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free! Instagram: www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    74. The 5 Pillar Framework That Reveals Your Most Unstoppable You

    This episode is your roadmap to the real inner work that leads to lasting transformation. I break down the Stuck to Unstoppable framework—a 5-pillar journey designed to help you uncover subconscious patterns, feel safe in your emotions, create beliefs on purpose, activate your next-level identity, step into grounded self-leadership, and move through failure with self-trust. This is the work that builds the version of you who gets results—and feels good doing it. If you’ve been spinning in self-doubt, shame, fear, or paralysis, this episode is your invitation to reclaim your power. I go deep into how we disconnect from ourselves—either by running from the uncomfortable feelings we think we shouldn’t have, or by silencing our truth under the weight of doubt, fear, and anxious noise the brain uses to keep us small. Working with me is a powerful return to the woman you were always meant to be—the one who owns her truth, leads with clarity and confidence, and feels at ease in her body, life, business, and bank account. Want to go deeper with me this is where your first step starts -www.allisongallagher.com Want to join me in person at the Becoming Unstoppable Mini Retreat on November 13: https://www.allisongallagher.com/unstoppable Sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signup Shop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resources And don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free! Instagram: www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    73.The Last Thing You Need to Do If You’re Not Leveling Up

    If you’ve been “doing all the right things” but still feel like your next level just won’t click—this episode is the missing piece.I take you behind the scenes of what I'm currently practicing myself: identity shifting—the inner transformation that must happen before outer success can follow.You’ll learn:What an identity shift actually is (and why 75% of growth depends on it)The three stages of lasting transformation: awareness, activation, and embodimentHow to create your identity declaration—a statement that lights up your body and guides every decisionWhy setbacks aren’t a sign of failure but proof that your old identity is fadingHow to hold the frequency of your next level—before you see itI share my own examples of evolution, how I help clients move from stuck to unstoppable, and how to make this process feel grounded, real, and repeatable.If you’ve ever said, “I’m doing the work—why isn’t it working yet?” this episode will show you the energetic and emotional shift that changes everything.Want to go deeper?Join her Becoming Unstoppable Mini Retreat — happening November 13th, 10AM–2PM in South Jersey. You’ll leave with your own Identity Declaration fully embodied. Early bird pricing ends this Friday —https://www.allisongallagher.com/unstoppableWork with me 1:1 to fast-track your own identity shift at AllisonGallagher.com — book your free consult to uncover why you’re stuck and what to do next. Learn more here: www.allisongallagher.comSign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signupShop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resourcesTo learn more about what working together looks like:www.allisongallagher.comAnd don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free!Instagram:www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    72. What Happens When You Think You’re the Problem

    Today I bust the quiet belief that you are a problem to be fixed. I show you why shame and perfectionism show up, why they keep you stuck, and how your survival brain prioritizes familiar over growth. What you learn: Why the survival brain creates perfectionism, avoidance, overeating, overworking, and people pleasing as protection How shame keeps you from looking at your patterns, and how awareness opens choice and peace The difference between fixing yourself and understanding yourself, and why that shift creates momentum Why, when you think you are the problem shame is the driver which causes you to feel like you have to run from yourself. I go into detail why running towards yourself is the answer. YOU ARE THE SOLUTION. If you want to take this deeper this is what my Becoming Unstoppable Retreat is going to teach in depth. www.allisongallagher.com/unstoppable Sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signup Shop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resources To learn more about what working together looks like: www.allisongallagher.com And don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free! Instagram: www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    71. Working With Your Mind (Not Against It)

    If you’ve ever felt like something’s wrong with you because you’re overwhelmed, anxious, procrastinating, or doubting yourself — this episode will change how you see everything. Your brain is wired for safety, not success. So when you go to change, rise, or create something new… your brain pulls the emergency brake. In this powerful episode, I walk you through: What’s actually happening when your brain offers you overwhelm, confusion, frustration, self-doubt, or fear Why your brain repeats the same sabotaging loops (even after all the books, podcasts, and therapy) How shame, procrastination, perfectionism, and avoidance are symptoms of a deeper identity your brain’s trying to protect How to spot your personal protection pattern and disrupt it Why loving yourself through the pattern (instead of judging it) is what actually breaks it The real difference between working with your mind vs. working against it You’ll walk away with language to describe your own patterns, tools to override them, and a powerful perspective shift that puts you back in charge. This isn’t mindset fluff. I t’s how you stop being stuck and start becoming who you know you’re meant to be. Learn more about the Becoming Unstoppable In-person Mini Retreat Nov 13th: https://www.allisongallagher.com/unstoppable And don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free! Sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signup Shop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resources To schedule a consult call with allison: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall Instagram: www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    70. The Power of Leadership Energy: Becoming the Leader of Your Own Life

    Leadership isn’t just about titles, teams, or business goals, it’s about how you lead yourself every single day. It’s the energy behind your choices, the tone you set for your life, and the presence you bring to every room you walk into. In this episode,I explore what it really means to embody leadership energy, especially when things feel uncertain or heavy. I share how to lead from intention instead of reaction, how to recognize when you’re leaking energy in areas that need your leadership most, and how to reclaim your power to move forward with clarity, confidence, and calm. I also talk about my mini retreat, where women are coming together to practice this work in real time — releasing the old patterns of overwhelm, perfectionism, and self-doubt FOR GOOD and stepping into the leader their life has been waiting for. Because when you learn to lead your own life first, everything else begins to follow. Learn more about the Becoming Unstoppable In-person Mini Retreat Nov 13th: https://www.allisongallagher.com/unstoppable And don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free! Sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signup Shop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resources To schedule a consult call with allison: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall Instagram: www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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    69. The Hidden Reason You’re Not Gaining Traction

    You can take all the right actions—post the content, send the email, check off the to-do list—and still feel stuck, burnt out, or like nothing’s working. Why? Because how you feel when you act matters more than the actions themselves. In this episode, I share why your energy, your beliefs, and your feelings are the foundation of every result you create, and how shifting them changes everything. If you want to take this work deeper and figure out where you are going wrong, I have a couple of ways we can work together. From Confusion to Clarity (2-Hour Intensive): In just two hours, we’ll uncover the thoughts and beliefs driving your frustration and create a clear plan you can take with you to start making lasting changes. Sign up here: https://connect.intuit.com/pay/AllisonGallagherminis/scs-v1-5530cf8fb8e24b4f82db3ec87363b84fd63e492bd27643ecad2bba86ea7f3096461d317fd81d4776ad33afbd492eac0e?locale=EN_US From Unclear to Unstoppable (6-Month Private Coaching Package): This is where we dig into the core of why you do what you do, why you feel what you feel, and why you think what you think. Over six months, we’ll rebuild your internal system so your actions come from confidence, joy, and enoughness—not self-sabotage or burnout. We’ll start with a free consult to map out exactly what we’ll work on together. https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall Anxiety Meditation (Bonus Gift): I created a step-by-step audio guide that’s been life-changing for me and my clients. It’s available in my resources, but if you love this podcast and leave a review, just email me a screenshot to [email protected] and I’ll send it to you for free. I’m so grateful for every listener, every review, and the chance to connect with you here. Sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signup Shop the store here: https://www.allisongallagher.com/resources

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    68. What Does It Mean To Have A Managed Mind?

    Let’s talk about what managing your mind actually is, because it’s more than a buzzword, and it’s not just positive thinking. This week, I’m breaking down what it really means to manage your mind vs. letting your mind run the show—and how it’s quietly affecting everything: your body image, your business, your parenting, your money, your confidence. You’ll hear: • Why your brain isn’t built for growth—and what to do about it • How unmanaged thoughts lead to sabotage, perfectionism, and people-pleasing • Real-life examples of what it sounds like when your inner child is driving • How to pause, question, and choose thoughts that move you toward peace, power, and the version of you you're becoming This episode is here for you whenever you feel stuck, ashamed, overwhelmed, or triggered. Come back to it. Let it walk you home. And don’t forget...if you send a screenshot of your podcast review to [email protected], I’ll gift you my powerful Anxiousness Meditation for free! Sign up for my newsletter here: https://allisongallagher.myflodesk.com/signup To schedule a consult call with allison: https://calendly.com/allisongschedule/claritycall Questions? Comments? You can connect with me: https://www.allisongallagher.com/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/yourcoachallisongallagher

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Allison Gallagher is a life and business coach guiding women to stop spinning in self-doubt and start deciding from clarity, calm, and confidence.Every episode of You Get to Decide is an invitation to come home to yourself, manage your mind, and create a life that feels aligned, fulfilling, and entirely yours.This is where you learn to move from stuck to unstoppable, one decision at a time.Through powerful mindset tools, real coaching insights, and honest stories of transformation, Allison reminds you that everything changes the moment you decide to.You don’t need permission. It’s always just a decision.

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Allison Caracciolo Gallagher

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