All Episodes

384: What Looks Like a Flaw Is Actually a Strategy

Why Your Bad Moods Are Never Random

Perfect on Paper, But Not for Me - Mate Value, Attraction, and the Disagreeable Personality

When the Marriage Is Over, but the Mortgage Isn't

380: You're Not Overreacting About Your Partner (Here's why)

379: Why Your Partner Stopped Trying (It's Not What You Think)

378: All's Fair in Love, War, AI, and the Marketplace

377: Dr. Lisle ESCAPES Dubai … to talk about Acceptance/Commitment therapy

376: He wants the physical, She wants the emotional

375: Am I Still Hot? The OCD-Like Anxiety of Aging

374: Gloat Therapy: What to Do with a Defiant Child

373: I was in a Traumatic Relationship – How to Recover?

372: Love, Lust, Lies & Lost Motivation

371: Evo Psych Didn't Ruin Anything, You're Just Focused on the Scary Part

370: Chasing vs. Coasting: Why the Dynamics Change for Both Sexes

369: Love - The Glue Between Anxious Women and Wandering Men

368: Great Romance vs. Great Regret… PLUS: Can the "Least Attractive" Still Be Happy?

367: Emotional Affairs: A Modern Problem in an Ancient Brain

366: Closing an Open Loop – Friend Disappeared 17 years ago

365: Hustle Culture, Burnout, and the Evolution of Self Esteem

364: Marriage: Nature's Most Optimistic Mistake?

363: Too Anxious to Relax, Too Average to Admire?

362: Esteem, Friendship, and Finding Your People

361: Lingering Loyalties, Distant Intimacies

360: Affairs, Flares, and Fantasy Matches

359: When They Stop Caring: Hygiene, Hope & His Libido

358: Pretty Girls, Cold Feet, and Estrogen Dreams

357: Loving the Irrational, Living with the Stuck, Losing the One

356: You Want Them to Change—But Will They? Suicide, Marijuana, and Sobriety

355: I Married Him to Have Kids... Now He Doesn't Want Them!

354: Can't Lower Your Standards? That's Not a Flaw – It's Your Biology.

353: Wife hired an escort while I was working, Going to grad school to find a rich husband, Strategies for getting revenge

352: My son is demoralized! I married for money 25 years ago, now what? I love my partner, but I want some comparison

351: What is Transference and Counter-transference in a Psycho-therapeutic relationshiop? Is this Freudian concept out-dated?

350: Are women delusional,humble, or just right about how hot they are? What is "the Magic 10%"? Listener wants to know why she fantasizes about women while with boyfriend, Listener is puzzled by choices of family member with aggressive cancer

349: "Going crazy" after cheating on husband, Are there limitations to Personality or Intelligence tests? Are problematic/disagreeable co-workers less estrogenized? Follow-up question from E347

348: Dr. Lisle's Book Update, Friend acting unbothered following his wife's death

347: Do husbands just want sex and food? Are good looking people the only ones that can find love?

346: Applied Evolutionary Psychology, Young woman dating wealthy man, Dietary disagreement in raising child, Women may feel secure when mate is right more often

UPDATE: Our Last Episode, BYG is Moving on...to X

345: Psychologist, Doug Lisle, PhD, weights in on the US Election… What is Morality?

344 (343 Pt 2) How can Gay Genes stay in the population without offspring?

343 Pt 1: Can you breed higher Intelligence into society?

342: The EGO TRAP – when expectations are too high, motivation suffers

341: Evolutionary MISMATCH is everywhere – work, academia, retirement

340: The TRUTH about Social Anxiety – are extroverts really the outliers?

339: Disagreeable people blame trauma for their circumstances.

338: A MARRIED man tried to KISS me! Wanting to Fall in Love AGAIN – What's my mind telling me?

337: I'm RICH but I DIDN'T EARN it – Can I EVER be HAPPY? Should I be CONCERNED about all the NEGATIVITY in the news?

336: Having SECOND THOUGHTs about fiancé – Should I marry anyway? Is waiting until MARRIAGE a TRAP?

335: I find ALL MEN my age REPULSIVE, Will 10 paid dates WARD OFF the casual daters?

334: Some sad news...Remembering Dr. John McDougall

333: Great marriage but romance FADING? How do our traits OVERLAP? Are PSYCH meds EVER worth it?

332: OCD relief, Estranged parent-child relationships, Long-term relationship considerations

331: Do Narcissists Hide their Intentions more than Most? Impact of Upbringing on Future Preferences

330: Is Life ALL ABOUT making money OR can you Beat Your Genes and feel happier?

329: Is there Valid Critique of Twin Studies and Behavioral Genetics?

328: Frustrated about Lower Income degree, Helping child increase confidence

327: Is Pseudoscience in Psychology CAUSED by Academia?

326: Priest broke confession seal and told husband I cheated

325: Prove-'em-wrong Motivation, Managing child's outbursts, Aunt is very disagreeable

324: Is Attachment Theory WRONG? Do parents owe you support?

323: Can everyone be happy? Does online dating change the cost-benefit?

322: Love him when he's here, but hate him when he's away, Solving social anxiety? Are SJW's really more noble?

321: Processed stimulation - How social media competes for our attention

320: Diet considerations, Disease-reversal, Losing weight, Metabolism Dynamic, Cram circuit

319: Free will vs. decision making, Best political system aligned with human nature

318: Jen Howk on Buddhism, Philosophy, The Matrix, Simulations, and Sentience

317: When Nobody Else Gets It! Could my Cost-benefit calculator be faulty? Do men love their children like moms do?

316: Buddhism & Evolutionary Psychology, Is Evo Psych only controversial to other Psychologists? Corporal punishment

315: Does wealth reduce IQ? Can emotions be unresolved? If able, would men pair bond with two women?

314: Are men right more often than women? Own personality distortions, Getting flustered in arguments, Do children's personality evolve through adulthood?

313: Dr. Lisle & Nate: Why are people snobby? Why doesn't my spouse want to improve their health? Can you sleep train an infant? Single by choice but lonely

312: Fraud in Lancet journal, Should I stay in an unhappy or sub-par relationship?

311: Can you screw up a good relationship? Finding the courage to break up.

310: Do women dangle sex? Maintaining friends when income becomes disparate, Are Modern-day office jobs feminized? Does society prefer sons?

309: Resentful of Cheating Dad, Do Men Prefer to Earn More than Spouse, Moving In with Partner but Marriage is Off the Table

308: Dumped but then he came back, Can't eat healthy unless I live in the woods, Do introverts need to socialize more

307: Where Does Evolutionary Psychology Evidence Come From?

306: Romance novel villains, Boyfriend admits he kissed an ex, Socially awkward or self-preservation, Is population getting dumber & flakier?

305: AI Fears, Frustrated Serial monogamist - Am I a whore? Daughter is wasting life living with me, Looking for your hometown

304: Information Overload, Do Humans procreate for help later in life?, How much does income/status matter for a woman?

303: Awakening a Dormant Circuit, Social Climbing vs. Meaningful relationships

302: Abused/Battered women, Obsessed with a competitor, Overpopulation & Mental health

Episode 300

301: Genetics,BPD, Getting Your Health on Track,Group performance,Nosy Neighbors

299:Eugenics & EvoPsych, Child threatens suicide, Bad child blaming good parents

298: Depression in the modern world vs. Stone Age

295: Nothing satisfies, Euthanasia, Tragedies, Adrenaline junkies, Homophobia

297: It's the End of the... Year 2022

294: Cultural appropriation/Oppression Olympics, Mate choice, Finding dream job

296: Do minorities have low self-esteem, Interrupting, Neuroplasticity

293: Child behavior problems, Do men cope by retreating?

292: Ditzy girls, Gratitude, Quality of your internal audience, Empathy

291: Is addiction more likely in sad people, Evo Psych in classrooms

290: Need to understand, How BYG started, Childless, Bad Childhood & depression

289: Ideal exercise, Resentment, Frustrated with dating, Getting better tips

288: Anti-depressant news, Ruined by dating a hot guy, Finding a dream job

287: Dr. Howk on Current Events

286: Pair bond must-haves, Spirituality & EvoPsych, Creating an alter ego

285: Roe v Wade, Body Positivity in Women, Blank Slate model appeal

284: Dropout daughter, Autism, Social connections, Rethinking 10 paid dates?

283: Attachment styles, Confidence, Impostor Syndrome

282: Do women avoid direct help? Career confusion, Sister needs bone marrow

280: Lazy husband, Painful sex, Bf might wander, High T & agreeable?

279: BF's career, Women abusing men, Video games, Afraid to talk, gender theory

278: Sexual disgust, Meaningful and authentic esteem dynamic in a pair bond

277: Do ppl marry out of necessity, Assessing happiness, Contribution Anxiety

276: Jealousy & Possessive behavior, Crystal Clear, Deception in dating

275: Sex frequency issue, Cheating on Horace, Current Events

274: Can therapy trigger a victim mentality? Impulsive shopping, Lesbian dating

273: Falling for promiscuous women, Does my BF treat me bad or he just high T?

272: Work evaluation, Abandonment/Rejection issues, Life after psych meds

271: Raising children, Obese Psych, Sleep, Disagreeable distance, Abortion, Paranoia

270: Polyamory, Unvaxxed dating, Sharing mate with needy sibling, and more..

269: Where Do Epiphanies Come From, Acting different w different people, Self-destructive behavior

268: Evo Psych Diet, Retiring Early, Stressed in the Stone Age, Covid Tantrums

267: Sentimental objects, Birth control, Getting over the victim mentality

266: Getting over small slights in a LTR, Going mad, nervous breakdowns

265: Porn in a relationship, GF has a past, Is a marriage contract natural?

264: Current Events

(Replay) Food vs drugs, Longevity, Dating market while aging, Is Lust a trap?

263: Diff views in EP, Does Rooster Settle the Hens? Avoiding Cancel Culture

(Replay): Leaving an unhappy marriage, Flirting, Toxic parents, Needy friends

262: High ambition but mediocre action, Kid blames mom for low self-esteem

261: Current events (July 2021)

(Replay) Earning attraction, IQ discrepancy, Market-limiting cues in dating

260: Shaking the Jimmy Gene, Less Productive after Securing a Mate?

259: Standoff w Son, Partner Won't Move Out, Mean Son, Problems w MIL

(Replay) Myelin sheath/child development,Are private ppl missing out, Genes

258: Current Events

257: Current Events May 2021

(Replay)Calibrating to the market, Showing off genes in the cold, Finding a mate

256: Placebo effect, Frustrated at societal costs, Living with distortions

(Replay) Depression, Why does mad girlfriend ignore, 25 year relationship no sex

255: Perceptions meet reality, Where does 'sense of awe' come from?

254: Economics, Cryptocurrency, and Job Searching

(Replay)Moderation vs. fanaticism in life pursuits,Social media as pleasure trap

253: Vaccine passports, Libertarian principles, Social credit system

(Replay) Do emotions trigger relapses? How to prevent/minimize addictive relapse

252: State of the Unions in a relationship, Pair bonds, Disingenuous friend

(Replay) Being a therapist, Overcoming fears & anxieties

251: Am I with Mr. Right for the Wrong Reasons?

250: Owing parents,Child's junk affects Mom's health,Too sensitive?, Half effort

(Replay) Neuroticism and IQ, Creating habits, Saving a post-affair marriage

249: Washed Up Jimmy is Offended, Do Friends & Business mix?

(Replay) Minimizing distortions, Worth it to disagree?

248: Earning esteem, feeling pride, and self-improvement

(Replay) Stuck in a stagnant rut, Mirror emotions, More detail on agreeableness

247: Govt & Pleasure Trap, Avoiding ego trap as a celeb, Evo Psych over 60

246: 2020 Year in Review

245: Maximizing freedom, Are pets supernormal family stimuli?

244: Washed up Jimmy, Lazy millennials, Covid mandates/New normal?

243: Erectile Dysfunction, Pleasure Trap/Ego Trap: Blaming the wrong things

(Replay) Is effective health care possible? Sharing health info w sick friends

242: Dr. Howk & Dr. Lisle analysis of the 2020 US Presidential Election

(Replay): Pleasure Trap, Making yourself proud, Social cost of eating healthy

241: Spouse is Great but Unhealthy, Blamed for Child's Behavior, Feel vs act

(Replay) Group therapy, Plomian curse, Enlightenment trap, Being less critical

240: Dealing with Narcissism, Small Talk vs Discussing Unconventional views

(Replay) Impostor Syndrome, Parenting a mischievous son, BF went to stripclub

239: Down arrow, Education policy, Epigenetics, Trauma induced behavioral change

(Replay) Couchsurfing as a woman, Resilience vs coddling, Jealousy after breakup

238:Calorie budget,Baby v Adult talk,Russian women,Heritability,Corporate jargon

237: Desire to change others, Sibling concerns, Step-dad harsh with stepson

236: Read receipts, Low sex desire, Weight, High school skills, Silly animals

235: Underdogs, Lazy husband, Genetic politics,Disagreeable vs confrontational

234: Covid Update, Psychology of War, Why High Expectations?

233: Helping friends, Aliens, PMS, Anger management, Reducing anxiety

232: Sugar babies, Appearance & personality, Unconditional love, Homelessness

231: Post-corona dating calibration, Pushing our kids, Controlling others

230: Repeat Exposure, Scrambled Eggs, Pair bond dating success, Online dating

229: Changing political views, Dealing with grief, Current division in the world

228: Selfish Gene & Blueprint, Faking orgasms, Low mood stay at home mom

227: Genes for disease vs. personality, Parental influence, Environmental genes

226: Irritated compliance, Getting ppl to listen, Break ups, Marriage hesitation

225: AGE's,Evolution & diet, Self-esteem during recovery, Finding YOUR coalition

224:Current events,Growth mindset v Genes,Corona-virus compliance, Inheritance

223: Food vs drugs, Longevity, Dating market while aging, Is Lust a trap?

222: Stats Update Coronavirus

221: Lockdown changes & annoyance, Dealing w Burn out, How to Help a friend

220: Tension w friends, Dealing with conflict, Mass hysteria, Self-esteem

219: Increasing your self-esteem & escaping the pleasure trap during Lockdown

218: New data, Coronarivus Part 6

217: Coronavirus Part 5, Math clarification

216: Coronavirus Loneliness, Economy, Revolution, Bell Curves & Stereotypes

215: Coronavirus with Dr. Lisle and Dr. Howk

214: Coronavirus 2020 Part 2

213: Coronavirus 2020

212: Being a therapist, Overcoming fears & anxieties

211: Neuroticism and IQ, Creating habits, Saving a post-affair marriage

210: Well-meaning organization getting off-course, Personality cancer

209: Susceptibility to addiction, Dealing w family bullies,Attraction C/B

208: Arrogant/cocky people, Epidemic of anxiety, Evo psych of suicide

207: Calibrating to the market, Showing off genes in the cold, Finding a mate

206: Depression, Why does mad girlfriend ignore, 25 year relationship no sex

205: Moderation vs. fanaticism in life pursuits, Social media as pleasure trap

204: Do emotions trigger relapses? How to prevent/minimize addictive relapse?

203: New Year's resolutions, Pleasure Trap, Health questions

202: Leaving an unhappy marriage, Flirting, Toxic parents, Needy friends

201: Accessing the subconscious, Depression from illness, Brain maturity

200: Episode 200

199: Attraction tiers, Bluffing conscientiousness, Jimmy the guitar player

198: Earning attraction, IQ discrepancy,Market-limiting cues in dating profiles

197: Myelin sheath/child development,Are private ppl missing out,Measuring genes

196: Attraction patterns, 'Control freak', 'Emotional blackmail'

195: Pleasure Trap, Making yourself proud, Social cost of eating healthy

194: Evo psych of punishment & revenge, Fairness in male/female dynamics & more

193: On-Air session: Dealing with a Micromanaging Boss (replay)

192: Group therapy, Plomian curse, Enlightenment trap, Being less critical

191:Impostor Syndrome, Parenting a mischievous son, Boyfriend went to stripclub

190: Minimizing distortions, Worth it to disagree?

189: Introducing Dr. Jen Howk

188: Couchsurfing as a woman, Resilience vs coddling, Jealousy after a break-up

187: Stuck in a stagnant rut, Mirror emotions, More detail on agreeableness

186: Male/Female dynamics Part 2 with Drs. Doug Lisle and Jen Howk

185: Is effective health care possible? Sharing health info w sick friends

184: Male/Female Dynamics with Dr. Lisle & Dr. Jen Howk

183: Do rewards improve motivation? Can parents 'toughen' up their kids?

182: Enlightenment/Ego Trap, Trading w a Toddler, Keeping kids innocent? & more

181: Showing weakness, Dominance Hierarchy, Sharing Evopsych, Ego Trap?

180: Subjective experiences, Downsides of overshooting evolutionary advantage

179: Money & Esteem, Casual mating friends, Communication manipulation, LDR's

178: Stress of decision-making, Esteem choices

177: Does seeking validation hinder happiness? Role of evolutionary mismatch

176: Behavioral Genetics, Hiding w status loss, getting ignored in class

175:Ben Franklin effect, Burying feelings, Bottling up emotions, Internet trolls

174: Does casual mating doom pair bond chances? Evo psych & spiritual experience

173: Being cheap, Loaning money, Alcoholic husband, Influencing others

172: Dating a Salesman: Why Relentless Pursuit Isn't Proof He's the One | On Air Session

171: Advice for an indecisive man, Advice for a teacher, Delusional friends

170: Is knitting a sexual display? Is sexual inexperience a turn off?

169: Finding a dream job, Drama at work, Helping parents find happiness

168: Why do we get manipulated? Are emotions contagious?

167: Epigenetics, Stress and health, ego-centric bias while dating

166: Where does guilt come from, where do 'body issues' come from, etc...

165: Dating down vs. up, Do we embarrass to assess mate value? etc...

164: What if kid doesn't want college? Is there anti-10 paid dates culture?

163: Expectations vs performance, politics questions, business partner conflict

162: Explaining the Ego Trap 2 of 2

161: Explaining the Ego Trap 1 of 2

160: Special Episode - Broadcasting on Facebook Live

159: Internal audience, public speaking, Hot/cold lovers,Getting over a breakup

158:Are women harder on themselves, Stuttering, Marriage problems, Is there a limit to esteem

157: Free time, Pseudo esteem

156: Keeping attention in class, When authority is altruistic, autism, war

155: Dilated eyes, Friendships, Romantic excitement, Live caller

154: Female ambition psychology, Messy roommate, roots of privacy

153: Falling out of love, Cultural shifts, Faced w food temptations

152: Anger in relationships, Falling in love w a monk, Food cravings

151: 10 paid dates from a man's perspective, Open-loops from casual flings

150: How to deal with a micro-managing boss - an on-air session (replay)

149: Shy vs bold men, Getting away from a narcissist, Is there a utopia?

148: Forgiving and letting go, Lonely older single women, Shy vs bold men

147: Effects of long-term marijuana, Spousal abuse, can severe OCD be beaten?

146: Broccoli Binges, Mate Value, and the Mathematization of Misery | Live caller

145: It's Always an Esteem Problem: Dr. Lisle on Holiday Food Fights, Ego Traps, and Family Estrangement | Live caller

144: Gaining your edge in life (replay)

143: Restriction/binges? Healthy mom pushing health on family, 2 callers

142: Why do boys pick on girls, giving gifts, people you dislike

141: Facial cues, Guess the personality, non-food potential pleasure traps

140: Anorexia, Paternity testing, Selecting for pair bonds on a dating profile

139: Radical Honesty, Genes vs Environment, Reconnecting w an old friend

138: Older vs younger generations, applying Evo Psych, genes vs environment

137: The Psychology of Humor (replay)

136: Why we feel unhappy sometimes, The meaning of life, What is intuition?

135: Finding the Source of Depression: An On-Air Session

134: Nostalgia, Studying for MCAT, Getting asked health questions

133: Empathy, Brains vs. Beauty:Trade-off? Male confused on a date

132: Being productive, Escaping the ego trap

131: Health questions. What to say when friend asks if she's overweight? Are there cultural shifts

130: Internal audience judgment, anorexia, why do people interrupt each other?

129: Cheapskates, Hoarders, Energy vampires, Marriage trouble

128: 6 "Romantic" Gestures That Are MAJOR Red Flags

127: Do men judge more than looks, keeping peace in the family, pop psychology

126: Delaying sex? Does a woman's self-esteem increase with age?

125:Committing to goals, displaying confidence, soulmates

124: Stress in the modern world vs. stone-age

123: Placebo effect, Stockholm syndrome, Listener's son having mental breakdown

122: Aren't humans omnivores? Stanford Experiment, Placebo effect, Stockholm

121: Dating after appearance change, Disagreeable Doug, Flooding the Circuits, Managing anger

120: A novel approach to cravings for junk, Personality differences & dislikes

119: How does our personality change? With circumstance? With age?

118: Hamilton's Rule, Altruism, Kin selection

117: Cost/benefit of displays, directing esteem cues, evo psych of economics, internet trolls, and

116: Beauty standards for women, Prostitution, and Emotional Intelligence

115: Depression, Psychedelics

114: Evo Psych in academia, advertising, music

113: Why Good Men Hesitate: Fear of Commitment, Pinball Personalities, and Parametric Dating | Live Callers

112: Intervention overconfidence, Caller question, Alcoholism, Evo Psych in academia, advertising,

111: Evolution of language, Emotional first-aid, helping a friend

110:Co-dependency, child attachment styles, advice on losing a child

109: What can our behavior signal to a romantic partner?

108: Punishing children, advice to psychology students, cynical from evo psych..

107: Bullying, Job satisfaction, Changing careers

106: Dreams, Meditation, Listener calls in

105: Personality traits of 'alpha' males, advice to women dating 'alpha' males

104: Why Some Families Push You Out and Never Let You Back In | Live Callers

103: On Air Session: My Family Turned Against Me

102: Relationships, Time in Womb, Free Will, Evo Psych of Bad Teeth

101: Neoteny, Why do women stay w men who don't love them, Asexuality

100: Special Episode: Getting Personal with Dr. Doug Lisle

99: Introvert socializing, happiness triggers, Kid is flunking, Nature fallacy

98: Evolutionary psychology in 2018

97: On-air session - Daughter is having health problems, what do we do?

96: 10 paid dates-what now? Societal expectations of parents, future of race

95: OCD, Jealousy, Over-working, and advice for a naturopath

94: Dating on a diet, Painful memories, jealousy, working long hours

93: Relocating, Sexual Harassment current events, Dating on a diet, and more...

92: What will the future look like?

91: Live Callers: The Hill Climbing Trap, the Ego Trap, and What Your 20s Are Actually For

90: Saying sorry, Borderline personality, Multiple personality, politics

89: Ex-husband & father of my kids is a sociopath. On-air session

88: Quitting vices: One by one or altogether? Helping your SO with their vices

87: Psych of Halloween costumes, talking to yourself, modern technology

86: What is a middle-of-the-bell-curve person like, braces, alcohol addiction .

85:Is online dating worth it, qualifying for your spouse..

84: Building a community, Getting over an ex's past, non-sexual fetishes, & more

83: Q &A

82: Overcoming height/weight/financial differences while dating

81: Questions for Dr. Lisle

80: On-Air Session: Road Rage, Flaky Clients, and the Neighbor Who Scammed You

79: Doing good, Overbearing parents, Does birth order matter, facing death

78: Google's memo controversy

77: Child prodigies, Cat-fishing, Being born w a deformity

76: Dating mind-games, Binge-eating

75: Helping friends/family, self-confidence vs. self-esteem

74: Millenials

73: Parenting styles, Millenials, Bringing back purpose

72: Confidence, Intolerance, finding your purpose

71: Hard-wired: Nature vs. Nurture

70: How to Discover Who You Are: An On-Air Session

69: Animal haters, Porn in LTR, Being a nicer person, Decision fatigue & Netflix

68: Explaining enablers, dating with psychiatric disorders, and having grit

67: About Dr. Lisle Part 2, Myths of Moderation when making health changes

66: About Dr. Doug Lisle

65: Finding your edge in life

64: Dealing with a Micromanager - An On-Air session with Dr. Lisle

63: Marital jealousy, Distancing yourself, Self-limiting beliefs,and more...

62: Making it to Date #2, Political Correctness, Self-Limiting Beliefs

61: Marxism, Affairs, Video Games, Tattoo signaling

60: What if your mate rival drives a Porsche, Succeeding at job interviews

59: How different do we act when we're being watched?

58: Mate-choice copying, The Milgram Experiment, Trans athletes, Darwin Awards

57: Listener emails, questions

56: How to deal with flaky/lazy children & flaky friends

55: Discussion about vicious cycles, listener emails, callers welcome

54: Repairing a strained relationship: On-air session with Olivia & Dr. Lisle

53: Flakes, gays, and cougars

52: Listener questions, emails, and comments

51: How to feel good, how to succceed at life improvement

50: What's your personality?

49:Overthinking, Reading ppl, family embarrasment, & what to do if you're 'ugly'

48: What's the point of psychotherapy, how to influence others

47: Free will, Basis of EvoPsych, Positive/Negative Reinforcement

46: Listener emails & questions

45: Willpower & Change Part 2

44: Willpower and Change

43: Inside the Criminal Mind

42: Listener questions, comments, and emails. Callers welcome!

41: Why is academia so left wing?

40: Sexual Abuse/Trauma

39: Procrastination

38: More listener questions/comments

37: Election 2016- Psychology of Trump, Clinton and the rest of politics

36: Dealing with Grief, Loss, and Sadness

35: Keys to a Successful First Date (for Women)

34: Keys to a successful 1st date (for Men)

33: Stress Management

32: Listener emails & questions

31: Psychology of Humor

30: Listener questions

29: Grudges, Sports, and Rivalry

28: Why Your Friendships Feel Unsatisfying, Who Men and Women Are Really Choosing, and the Real Reason Modern Life Feels Meaningless

27: How to Make Great Friends

26: What He Says vs. What He Means

25: What she says vs. What she means

24: Keys to a Successful Relationship

23: Do opposites attract?

22: More real life examples of relationship conflict

21: Real life examples of relationship conflict

20: Common Relationship Problems & how to solve them

19: Common Dating Traps & how to avoid them

18: Which men and women "hook up" the most

17: Dr. Lisle on Polyamory, Pair Bonds, and Love | Live Caller

16: How much should you spend on first date?

14: The Evolution of Relations in the Human Species

13: Making Yourself More Date-able Part 2

12: Making Yourself More Date-able

11: Love, Sex, Dating, Relationships Part 3

10: Biological Clock, Sexual Variety, Settling Down, & Male Groupies

09: Love, Sex, Dating, Relationships

08: How to Get Along Without Going Along

07: Understanding your Personality

06: Why Men and Women Are Wired to Want Different Things: The Psychology of Gender Differences

05: Psychology of Politics: Why Liberals and Conservatives Disagree

04: Staying with a Man Who's Not Right For You

03: High Cost of High Expectations

02: Stepping Stones to Self-Esteem

01: Happiness vs. Pleasure : What is the goal of life?