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Just Listen To Me, 54 episodes.

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Deborah & Ava- When Connection Feels Like a Threat: Attachment Lessons from Hacks

2

“My AI Understands Me Better Than You Do” - AI, Love & Attachment

3

When Individual Therapy Has Made Couples Therapy Harder

4

When the Pursuer Withdraws: Will You Come After Me?

5

Learning to Trust After Trauma: Attachment Lessons from Stranger Things

6

Liked, Followed, Triggered: Social Media & Relationships

7

The Blaming Partner: What They’re Really Protecting

8

When You Stop Chasing and They Start Pursuing

9

Maeve & Otis — When Love Isn’t Enough: Attachment Lessons from Sex Education

10

Matched, Ghosted, Triggered: Dating Apps & Attachment

11

Are You Working Harder Than Your Client?

12

When the Pursuer Finally Gives Up: The Cycle of Shame

13

The Affair Without Sex: Understanding Emotional Infidelity

14

When One Partner Won't Engage: Now What?

15

Reactive Withdrawers: When Withdrawal Looks Like Anger

16

Are Piper & Alex A Trauma Bond? Attachment Lessons from Orange Is the New Black

17

Pornography: When Fantasy Becomes an Attachment Substitute

18

Beneath the Surface: Jungian Psychology and Attachment

19

When the Pursuer Gives Up: Understanding Pursuer Burnout

20

What Makes Us Human? Attachment Lessons from Resident Alien

21

Why We Stay In Situationships: The Attachment Perspective

22

The Biggest Mistake Couples Therapists Make: Treating Content Instead of Process

23

Weaponised Generational Trauma: When Pain Prevents Change

24

Texting Anxiety in Relationships: The Real Issue

25

It's Your Fault: Why We Blame Our Partner in Our Relationship

26

Generational Trauma: When the Past Lives in Our Relationships

27

When Couples Therapy Isn't Safe: Recognising Coercive Control in the Therapy Room

28

Coercive Control: The Abuse That Doesn't Leave Bruises

29

Autism in Relationships: When Love Speaks Different Languages

30

When Addiction Enters the Relationship: Trust, Betrayal and Attachment Wounds

31

Why Love Feels Hard When the Nervous System Is Struggling

32

What Safe Therapy Actually Feels Like

33

Not All Therapy That Feels Powerful Is Emotionally Safe

34

Why Trauma Bonds Happen: Attachment, Trauma & The Nervous System

35

Trauma Bonds: When Love and Fear Become Entangled

36

Not All Therapists Are Safe

37

When ADHD Affects Love: Understanding the Imbalance

38

How to Choose a Couples Counsellor (And What Most People Miss)

39

When He Chases: The Hidden Pain of Male Pursuers

40

When Women Withdraw: The Pattern Nobody Talks About

41

You’re Not Too Much: The Truth About Pursuers in Relationships

42

Why They Pull Away (It’s Not What You Think)

43

The Pattern You Keep Repeating? It's Trying to Heal You

44

The Relationship Pattern You Can't Escape

45

The Pattern Making You Both Feel Alone in Your Relationship

46

Your Family System Is Sabotaging Your Relationships - Here's Why

47

Time Doesn't Heal This Relationship Injury

48

Sexual Rejection Has Nothing to Do With Attraction

49

Trauma or Abuse? Why the Difference Saves Your Relationship

50

The Family Pattern Destroying Your Relationships

51

Hypervigilance After Infidelity: The Nervous System Trap You're Stuck In

52

Attachment Wounds: The Pattern Underneath Your Pain

53

The Real Enemy Isn't Your Partner — It's This Pattern

54

Breaking the Negative Cycle That Took Over Your Relationship