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Latter Day Struggles — 290 episodes

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BONUS EPISODE: Tired of Feel Stuck, Angry & Alone?

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429: Is the Mormon Church Politically Neutral?

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427: When Normal Growth Feels Like Rebellion

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425: When LDS "Normal" isn't very Normal

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423: If the Ensign Peak Fund isn't Your Donation Destination of Choice...

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BONUS EPISODE: Community Healing: How our Greatest Wounds & our Greatest Healing Happens through Human Relationship Audiobook

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421: Why No Mixed-Gender Sunday School Presidencies? A Gender Equality Slippery-Slope Speculation

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419: Formal Patriarchy & Inevitable Harm

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BONUS EPISODE: Women in Ward Sunday School Presidencies: Progress, Breadcrumbs, or the “Near Enemy”?”

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417: Confronting Men's Violence Against Women & Girls in the LDS Church

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415: Presenting our Utah-Based Latter Day Struggles Faith Expansion Specialist

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BONUS: How the World ACTUALLY Changes

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413: Complexity of Clark Gilbert Call to the Q12

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411: Inaugural Live Fellowship Recording

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409: The Family Proclamation: Living Document or Unchanging Doctrine?

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407: Is the Family Proclamation a Commentary or a Revelation?

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405: Announcing: Biweekly LIVE Fellowship! More Healing & New Connection

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403: A Tribute to our Former Bishop, Ken Glenn

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401: A Response to Dallin Oaks' Desire for LDS Girls to Marry Younger

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399: This Classic Episode Put Latter Day Struggles on the Map of Faith Crisis Healing

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397: What Happens When Only One Kind of Latter-day Saint is Allowed to Exist in the Church

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396: UNLOCKED for All Listeners: Shifting the Focus from Abortion to Preventing Unwanted Pregnancy!

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395: We Need to Stop Calling Growth a Sin in the LDS Church

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393: Quiet Conflict: What the Research Reveals About Active LDS Members

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391: Why Mental Health Workers Became the Black Sheep of the 21st Century Church

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389: Faith & Feminism: Valerie's Vision & Maxine’s Musings

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BONUS EPISODE: Why the LDS Church is Vulnerable to Underreporting of Child S*x Abuse & What to Do

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387: Mission Eligibility Age Dropped to 18 for LDS Young Women: A Conversation with Dr. Julie Hanks

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385: Honoring Relationships AND your Nervous System Over the Holidays

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383: Why We Care So Much about Transcending & Including Mormonism

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381: Polygamy is Having its Mormon Moment (Again) in 2025

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379: When Mormon Polygamy Comes to Primary in 2025

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377: When One's Soul has the Audacity to Grow, Right there in Church

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375: When God Refuses to Be Church-Correlated

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373: What Caterpillars Can Teach us about Blind Conformity

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371: To Find Divinity, Look No Further than the Mirror

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369: Drowning in the Shallows: Fabricated Fellowship Explored

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367: Faith on Fire: A Family’s Tragedy Becomes a Faith System’s Invitation to Awaken

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365: Soul Sisters Unite: Q&A w/ Valerie & Dr. Julie Hanks about Their Faith Journeys

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363: The Beautiful Simplicity of Minding our Own Underwear Drawers

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361: I'm Sharing My Life with This Stranger?

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359: Holy Betrayal: When Men Betray Patriarchal Privilege

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357: Hands Off My Soul!

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355: Finding Myself in the Wilderness of LDS: A Tale of Vulnerability & Bravery

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353: Introducing Latter Day Struggles 2.0: Transcending & Including Mormonism

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351: Mormon Momma Turned Maverick

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349: LIVE Q&A Recording: Val Talks Politics, Polarization & Peacemaking

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347: Public Voices: Navigating an LDS Culture of Quiet Dissent

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345: Heavenly Momma Drama: Navigating Fear & Embodying Faith

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343: Not Fragile Like a Flower, Fragile Like a Bomb

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341: Candid Conversation about Current LDS Patriarchal Structure & its Correlation to Child Abuse Risk

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339: Patriarchal Church Structures & Heightened Risk of Violence/Abuse in Marriage

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337: Patriarchy & its Connection to LGBTQ+ Violence and Abuse

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335: Patriarchy and the Deeply Embedded "Female Fear Factory"

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333: Patriarchy & Harm: Proven Connections to Abuse & Violence

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331: Why Very Few Shout: "The Emperor Has No Clothes!"

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329: The Official Faith Crisis Report: A Backstage Pass with Greg Prince

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327: Jesus Eats with "Outcasts" to Embody that HE Knows No Outcast

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325: Why Jesus Likely Couldn't Care Less about Church Handbooks & Creeds

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323: Sometimes Love Uses a Microphone

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321: The Feminine Divine in the Mormon Cosmos with Kathryn Sonntag & Taylor Petrey

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319: "Queering" Ideas about Heavenly Mother in the Mormon Cosmos

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317: Ideas on a Heaven Large Enough for All Loving Connection

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315: Forgive Them, For They Know Not What They Do

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313: Not Willing to be Burned at the Stake Center

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312: Why Gender-based Wounds Can Only be Healed in Mixed-Gender Communities

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311: By the Mouths of Four Witnesses: Community Healing in LDS Faith Crisis

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310: A "Masculine" Man's True Self Journey Home to His Healthy Feminine

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308: "I Am Not My Ability to Bear Children": A Tender Journey Towards True Self Discovery

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307: On the Process of Awakening to Our Worthiness as the Factory Setting

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306: "I Didn't Think Feeling This Safe was Possible in a Group of People"

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305: What? I Belong Here No Matter What I Believe?

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303: Alone Together: Redefining Masculinity & Femininity to Heal LDS Marriages

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301: What Patriarchies Teach Men about Weakness & Vulnerability

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299: What Happens When Collaboration & Connection are Neglected at Church

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297: Two Wings of the Same Bird: Rediscovering Masculine & Feminine Energies

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295: On LDS "Loyalists", "Leavers" & Everyone In Between! with Jana Riess

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293: How the Powerhouses on "At Last She Said It" Found Their Backbones & their Voices

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291: LDSP CLASSIC! Women Worldwide Vote "Opposed" to Institutional Claims of Female Authority

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289: LDSP CLASSIC! Feminine Visions, Divine Love, and Differentiation with Fiona Givens

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287: Why Patriarchal Men Cannot Tolerate Critique

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285: Why Patriarchal Men See the World Transactionally

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283: Patriarchy and its Connection to Low Empathy in Men

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281: A Fascinating History of Feminism in the LDS Church

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279: Strategies to Heal Mixed-Faith LDS Couples

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277: My Faith Journey Actually Made our Marriage Stronger

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275: An LDS Marriage in the Valley of the Shadow

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273: 6 Crucial Questions When Evaluating Information

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271: Introducing a NEW GROUP: Growing up in a Patriarchy!

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269: When a Family Trusts Their Mom's Faith Journey

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267: Will My Adult Children Reject Me as I Grow?

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265: Leaning into the Messy of Uncertainty in Actual Life

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263: How you Know You ARE Spiritually Growing Up!

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261: Differentiation as Key to Wise Decision Making w/ Dr Julie Hanks

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259: Not Fearing Others’ Faith Journeys: A Crucial Conversation with Faith Matters

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257: Creating Communities of Unconditional Belonging with Aubrey Chaves

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255: Returning to the Cave: Facing Inner & Outer Conflict on the Enlightenment Journey

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253: From Darkness to the Light: Plato's "Allegory of the Cave" & Latter-day Saint Faith Journeys

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251: Fostering Environments for Growth & Interdependent Thinking in the LDS Church

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249: A Modern Map for Psychological Growth in our Latter-day Saint Community

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247: Processing Former Spiritual Experiences after LDS Faith Crisis

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245: Transaction as the "Pee Wee Level" of True Discipleship with Steve Young

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243: Why a Call for Loyalty is a Red Flag

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241: How Neuroscience Validates the Need for U.S. Prison Reform with Fiona Givens

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239: How Christians Became Sinners with Fiona Givens

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237: Near Enemy Behaviors that Creep into Missionary Work & Marriage

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235: What is a "Near Enemy" & Why Exposing Near Enemies Matter

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233: How Some Religious Teachings May Cause Anxiety & Harm Self Worth

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231: Unlearning Beliefs about a Disappointed God to Heal from Scrupulosity

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229: Rewriting LDS Women’s History of Motherhood

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Bonus!

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227: The Harder the Better? with "At Last She Said It!"

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225: Finding Feminine Wisdom through the Cycles of Nature w/ Kathryn Sontag

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223: Learning to Look at a Tree & Find Both Sides of God w/ Kathryn Sontag

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221: Supporting Spiritual & Relational Wellness if Stepping Away from the Church w/ Dr Julie Hanks

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219: Challenging Sacrament Exclusion for Any Reason

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217: Sacrament Practices Across Time & Spiritual Tradition

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215: Musket Fire, Academic Freedom, & Concerns about Scientific Progress at BYU

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213: LDS Women Claim Their Worth by Not Engaging in Semantics Games

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211: Women Worldwide Vote "Opposed" to Institutional Claims of Female Authority

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209: Unshackling Shame-LDS Faith Journey Brings Se*ual Healing

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207: Healing Ideas & Harmful Ideas about the Use of Scripture

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205: Exploring Disaffiliation Family Crisis Because the LDS Church is a ‘Covenant’ Religion

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203: When Love, Faith Journeys & Fear Collide in an LDS Family

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201: The Church’s Responsibility to See Whom They have Cast Out

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199: Redefining God as Fundamental to Healing LDS Faith Crisis

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197: A Story of Humanity, Reconciliation, & Spiritual Empowerment w/ Dan Wotherspoon

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195: Expanding Truths Through Interfaith Learning w/ Jana Spangler

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193: Navigating LDS Activity, Differentiation, & Healthy Boundaries w/ Dr. Julie Hanks

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191: Temple Recommend Process as a Forum to Grant/Withhold Spiritual Privileges

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189: Temple Worship Throughout the World & in Many Faith Traditions Worldwide

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187: Demystifying LDS Hierarchy & Corporate Politics w/ Greg Prince

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BONUS: Navigating Mixed-Faith Parenting, Isolation in Faith Crisis, and Decisions to Stay or Go

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185: On Science/Faith, Prop 8, LGBTQ+ w/ Greg Prince

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183: Progress, Pretense & the Gender Politics of the LDS Chapel Seating Chart

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181: Post September Six: One Who Wandered but Was Not Lost w/ Maxine Hanks

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179: ‘Women and Authority’: A Feminist Work of Art w/ Maxine Hanks

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177: Advocating for Diligent Parents Called “Weak Links”

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175. Why Human Suffering is Not Punishment from God w/ Adam Miller

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173: Grace as the Original Intention of God-NOT the Backup Plan! w/ Adam Miller

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171: Celebrating Lavina Fielding Anderson’s Vision for a More Inclusive Church

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167: Raising Kids with a Deep & Broad Spiritual Worldview

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165: A Seminary Teacher Who "Gets" What LDS Youth Need to Thrive Spiritually

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163: Parenting Adolescents in/around the LDS Church w/ Dr. Julie Hanks

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BONUS: FREE Post-General Conference Group Processing Opportunity

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161: Young Adults Want the Hard Conversations w/ Patrick Mason

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159: LDS University Students Pressured to Not Ask Hard Questions

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157: The Spiritual Dangers of Magical Thinking w/ Christian Kimball

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155: LDS Church as Neither Magic Kingdom nor Evil Empire w/ Christian Kimball

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153: The State of LDS Faith Crisis Ten Years Post 2014 Official “Faith Crisis Report” Research

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151: In Search of Mother God w/ Carol Lynn Pearson

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149: Sociopolitical Forces that Led to Ezra Taft Benson's "To the Mothers in Zion"

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147: Protecting Those on the Margins Out Loud

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145: When & Why Diverse People Becomes Marginalized

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143: How & Why Some People Oppress Others

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141: Gender, Sexuality, & Mormonism's Participation in Modern Politics

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139: A History of the Evolving Definition of a Legitimate LDS Marriage

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BONUS: How to subscribe to Friday Latter Day Struggles Episodes

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137: When 'Quick Conversion' Leads to Attrition Rather than Growth

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135: Shrinking Missionary Force Means Shrinking LDS Church

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134: Impressive LDS Church Growth in Africa, With some Caveats

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133: LDS Growth Not Exponential as Predicted. Why?

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131: Choosing Love & Healing Over Silence & Fear

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130: More Latter-day Saint stories of overcoming queerphobia

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129: How Someone Like You Can (or Maybe Did) Overcome Queerphobia

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127: When it Feels Like Your Spouse Chooses the Church over Your Marriage

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125: Feminine Visions of Julian of Norwich w/ Fiona Givens

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123: A Study of Immature Versus Maturing Spirituality

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122: On the LDS Faith Expansion Journey & the Painful Loss of Community

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121: On the LDS Faith Expansion Journey & Cynicism Spirals

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Episode 120: The White Male’s Creation of the White Male God

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119: Is Your God Disappointed, Demanding, & Punishing?

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118: The Unbelievability of Mystic Texts Throughout Time w/ Paul Toscano

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117: The Book of Mormon Was Never about LDS "Truth Claims" w/ Paul Toscano

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116: Harm Done in Oversimplifying the Book of Mormon w/ Taylor Petrey

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115: The Book of Mormon: Myth or History? w/ Taylor Petrey

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114: Exploring Different Interpretations on "Peacemakers Needed" Address

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113: A Call for Non-Hierarchical "Grassroots" Revelation w/in the LDS Church

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112: When Past & Present Prophecy is Contradictory

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111: Processing General Conference During/Post Faith Crisis

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110: This Might be One Reason Why Second Hour at Church is Challenging

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109: The Slippery Slope of Self Justification

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108: Is Your Marriage on Life Support Due to Your Faith Journey? Listen Here for Support!

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107: Can a Marriage Survive After one Partner Departs from their Plan of Eternal Orthodoxy?

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106. Including Your Queer Self (or Loved One) in God’s Eternal Family Plan

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105: When a Too-Small Eternal Family Theology Crumbles around Your Beloved Queer Child

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104: How LDS Marriage Theology Complicates Growth Potential for the Mixed-Faith Couple

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103: A Single Woman’s Perspective on the LDS Theology of Eternal Marriage

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102: Personal Battles with Fear & Shame Due to LDS Eternal Marriage Theology

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101: The Personal & Relational Impact of Patriarchy & Eternal Polygamy Theology

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100: Unprogramming the Dependency & Gender-Role Based Model of LDS Marriage/Family

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99: Does Fear & Shame Motivate Belief & Practice?

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98: We do NOT ‘Consider the Matter Closed’—Tithing Wealth, Transparency, & Accountability

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97: The Toxic Twin Towers of Patriarchy & Polygamy

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96: A Focus on those on the Margins: Gender/Sexual Minorities & Singles

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95: Our Primary Task in Life is Not Marriage!

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94: Claiming Spiritual & Psychological Agency as Women in/around a Patriarchal Church

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93: Understanding a Healthy Dynamic Between Church Leaders & Members

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92: Closed Channels of Communication & its Impact on Some LDS Members

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91: Ways to Actively Protect & Support our Queer Youth at Church

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90: The Sacred Queerness of Dawn, Dusk, & Even Jesus w/ Blair Ostler

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89: A Queer Mormon’s Walk through the Valley of the Shadow w/ Blair Ostler

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88: God is So Tired of Being an Old White Guy

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87: On Superiority Complexes & Christian Nationalism

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86: On the Power of Money & Confronting the Cult of Innocence

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85: On Colonization, Company Men, & Christianity as an Infant Religion

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84: Christianity: Reasons to Stay & Reasons to Leave

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83: How Early Faith Crisis Divides the Human Brain

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82: The Discomfort of Seeing our Former Self Righteousness

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81: Temple Symbolism & the Hero's Journey w/ Jodi England Hansen

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80: On Your Faith Journey & Your Many Births, Deaths & Rebirths

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79: On Waking up to Constricted Intellectualism & Cognitive Biases

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78: On Maturing Spiritually as Parents & Letting Go of Control

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77: Answers to Tough Questions about Authentically Navigating LDS Membership w/ Carol Lynn Pearson

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76: Two Images of the One God

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75: Matriarchal Blessing

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74: Jesus Remembered

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73: Growing up Godly

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72: The Case of the Disappearance of our Mother God

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71: I Live in a Motherless House

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70: An Hour with Mormonism’s Own Joan of Arc, Carol Lynn Pearson

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69: BYU-Idaho Faculty Member & the Current University Climate

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68: Former BYU Professor's Arrival at Love over Loyalty

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67: Is a Mandate for Unity of Belief Helping or Hurting Us?

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66: Se*ual Thoughts, Feelings & Expressions: Tattoos, Piercings

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65: Light, Discernment, Media & Pornography Talk

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64: Expanding Concepts of Loving Self, Others, & God

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63: A Psychological Look at Combative Discourse

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62: Jesus was a Model of Christ-Centered Activism

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61: Healthy Atonement Theology & the Healing of Lifelong Se*ual Sin

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60: Imagine an Atonement Theology Free of Fear, Shame & Hustle

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59: What You'll Experience in a Latter Day Struggles Growth & Processing Group

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58: We're Not Actually More Special than "the World"

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57: Strength of Youth Time Machine

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56: Are the Young Women's & Young Men's Themes Healthy Identity Statements?

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55: On the Deep Psychological Costs of Institutionalized Queerphobia

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54: Why Science May Pressure Policy Change on Homosexuality

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53: On Patriarchy & the Feminine Face of God

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52: Recommendations to Help Those Suffering in LDS Faith Crisis

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51: The Perpetual Cycle of Disaffection in LDS Crisis

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50: A Sobering View of Stages of Crisis

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49: Who, What & Why of LDS Faith Crisis

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48: An Overview of the 2014 Official LDS Faith Crisis Report

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47: Processing the Trauma and Grief of Faith Crisis

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46: The History & Context of "The Prophet Will Never Lead You Astray"

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45: Please Stay in Your Lane, Bishop

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44: On Skepticism of Having Your Children Baptized

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43: Mormon Women's History & the ERA: A Case of Subservience Over Conscience

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42: Why Humans & Latter-day Saints are Lulled by the Status Quo

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41: On Paranoia, Misdirected Worship & Image Management

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40: On Overstepping on Personal Life Choices

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39: On Accountability Struggles, Performance Focus, & Unspoken Rules

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38: Standing up Against Chicken Patriarchy

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37: The Current Culture of Mandated Missionary Service

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36: On the Associated Press's Recent S*x Abuse Underreporting Article

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35: The Shadow of Joseph's Polygamy & its Ongoing Institutional Reverberations

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34: Sunstone Symposium: A Weekend Experiencing Big-Tent Mormonism at its Finest

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33: HIGHEST RATED EPISODE: Stages of Faith Development, Why We are Stuck, How to get Unstuck

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32: Honoring One Gay Man's Reasons for Staying

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31: On Finally Becoming an "Adult" of God

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30: On Finding Our Voices & Advocating for Christ-Like Change

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29: On Moving Away from Judgement in the Second Half of Life

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28: On the "Cafeteria Approach" to Spirituality & its Value

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27: The "If/Then" Temptation: Resisting the Urge to Oversimplify the Complex

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26: Dad's Contribution to Mom's Numbness

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25: Why Moms Might Feel Numb

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24: On Inverted Spiritual Value Systems: Facial Hair, Piercings, etc.

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23: PRIDE: On Honoring or Interfering with Another's Essential Identity

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22: On Spiritual Rigidity, Word of Wisdom, & Gandhi as a Work in Progress

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21: On Temple Marriage & the Weight of Family Tradition

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20: Dissent as the Greatest Catalyst of Systemic Integrity

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10: On Normalizing & Honoring Separate Faith Journeys in LDS Marriage

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19: On Speaking the Truth, Even When My Voice Shakes

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18: Why Consent-Only Cultures Do Not Thrive

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17: Dissent as Core to Personal Revelation

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16: Dissent as the Backbone of Our Spiritual Maturation

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15: Dissent as Fundamental to Consent

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14: Are We Really Encouraged to Use our Free Agency?

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13: Does Disaffiliation Lead to 'Spiritual Death'?

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12: Do you Speak Up? Walk Away? Suck it Up? or Check Out?

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11: On Feeling Mutual Respect & its Relationship to Strong Leadership

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9: On the Harm of Ignoring the Feminine Divine

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8: On General Conference, Complicated Feelings & LDS Faith Expansion

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7: On Church Callings...Can They be a Problem?

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6: On Patriarchy's Impact on Healthy Development

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5: On the Value of Doubting Our Doubt

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4: On Doubt as Valuable to True Belief

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3: On Owning Our Mistakes

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2: On "Bad" Thoughts

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1: Is Gods Love Contingent on Righteousness?