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Secondhand Therapy — 138 episodes

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1

Toxic F*ckhead Island | #136

2

Logically Speaking, You're Being Very Emotional | #129

3

Picky in Love. Avoidant in Reality. | #128

4

I Accidentally Humanized my Mom | #127

5

Life is Good, I Should Ruin It | #126

6

Can Trauma Fuel Growth and Resilience? (with David Sussillo) | #125

7

I Don't Want to be Happy | #124

8

I'm Afraid To Be Myself | #123

9

Unplugged and Hating It | #122

10

ADHD Burnout, Executive Dysfunction & EMDR Therapy Breakthroughs | Replay

11

I Spoke to My Dead Mom Through a Psychic | #121

12

Codependency Is Controlling Your Relationships (And You Don’t See It) | #120

13

Are You Addicted to Misery? Dry Drunk Behavior, Earned Love & Why Happiness Feels Impossible | #119

14

If the World Ended in 14 Days… Who Would You Choose? | Attachment, Self-Sabotage & Seeking a Friend | #118

15

Why Happiness Feels Unsafe | #117

16

Why I Know the Right Thing — and Still Don’t Do It | #116

17

Anxiety With No Trigger, Body Image Shame & “Higher Self” | #115

18

Being "Nice" is Ruining Your Life | #114

19

Rage vs Doing the Right Thing | #113

20

Having Emotionally Immature Parents | #070 Replay

21

Coping, Eating Disorders and a Helicopter Ride | #042 Replay

22

Expressing Gratitude But Why Doesn't Dad Love Me? | #029 Replay

23

Emotional Defensiveness: Why Softness Feels Unsafe | #111

24

Emotional Numbness, Triggers & Childhood Patterns | #110

25

When Grief Finds You - Grief Part III | #109

26

Porn Addiction & Monastic Wisdom with Jeremy Lipkowitz | #108

27

Why We Struggle With Compliments, FOMO, and Accountability | #107

28

Why Men Struggle With Vulnerability | #106

29

Fawning: The Hidden Trauma Response Behind People-Pleasing | #105

30

Understanding Misogyny: Gina Martin on Compassion, Gender, and Healing | #104

31

Perfection is the Problem | #103

32

When Childhood Fear Becomes Adult Anxiety | #102

33

Do Not Have Needs. Ever. | #101

34

Brad Garrett Tells His Story | #100

35

Relational vs. Non-Relational Thinking | #099

36

Fighting Stigma & Misinformation with Sophie Nir | #098

37

Failing Is Not Okay | #097

38

Codependence, Avoidance & Heartbreak | #096

39

When Being Right Costs You | #095

40

Control, Boundaries, and My Mom | #094

41

Vulnerability Not Allowed | #093

42

Inner Critic Sounds Like... Mom | #092

43

Hobby Hunting and Identity Crises | #091

44

New Therapists, Old Patterns | #090

45

Replay - PTSD and Self-Love with Hanorah

46

I Don’t Want Help! What Even is Growth? | #089

47

Replay - Little Boy on the Beach Gave Me a Panic Attack

48

Read Receipts & The Panic Spiral of “I Miss You” | #088

49

Fake Growth. Real Talk. | #087

50

I Don’t Feel Connected to my Mother | #086

51

Grief (Part II) / Music Triggers & Healing Over Time When the World Won’t Stop | #085

52

Therapy Intake Questions, ADHD Struggles, and Starting with a New Therapist | #084

53

Sitting in Discomfort: How Therapy Is Changing Our Relationships | #083

54

Can’t Commit to Monogamy | #082

55

Replay - Family Dysfunction and EMDR with Lara Beitz

56

Live Show 001

57

You Probably Think This Story’s About You: It Started as a Love Story

58

Why Am I Scared to be Happy? | #081

59

Cheating on Your Pregnant Wife?! | #080

60

Overcoming Anxiety and Understanding Triggers | #079

61

Which Dating App is Best for Relationships? Attachment Styles & Political Climate with Jenny Zigrino | #078

62

Emotional Responsibility, Codependency & Communication Breakdowns | #077

63

Trauma, Personal Growth & Normalizing Pain | #076

64

Why Are Relationships So Hard? | #075

65

There’s a 12-Step Program for That | #074

66

I Don’t Trust Myself and I Have Anxiety (No I Don’t) | #073

67

Asking Permission to go to a Strip Club and Cheating on Vacation | #072

68

I’m Being Honest With Myself and Honestly I’m NOT Selfish | #071

69

I Had an Emotionally Immature Parent and Now I Can’t Be Vulnerable | #070

70

One Of Those Long, Intimate Kitchen Conversations | #069

71

It’s a New Year (Again) and We’ve All Missed the Point (Still) | #068

72

Let’s Talk About Our Dynamic and You Don’t Know Us Like That | #067

73

Lonely Fat Kid With a Neck Tattoo | #066

74

A Floating Task List and Struggling To Be | #065

75

My Absent Father and Closing the Door (Or Not) | #064

76

Grandiosity and The Inability to Cry | #063

77

The Election and Logging Your Feelings to Find Your Needs | #062

78

We’re Not Really Strangers | #061

79

Love, Vulnerability and Boundaries | #060

80

Replay - Grief (Part 1)

81

Perfectionism and My Dead Dad | #059

82

Cussing Out Grandma and a Bi-Weekly Shower | #058

83

Neurodivergent Life and Daytime Therapy | #057

84

Getting Rejected by a Celebrity and Dissociating During Therapy | #056

85

Am I Hot or Just Cute? | #055

86

Missing My Girlfriend and Painting My Toenails | #054

87

The Break Up... She Left Out of Nowhere | #053

88

Executive Dysfunction and Anxiety About My Ex | #052

89

A F*ck Boy and a Vasectomy | #051

90

Georgia Cabin and a Verbal One-Night Stand | #050

91

A Breakup Text and a Thirst For Vengeance | #049

92

People Pleasing and a Family Who Hates Therapy | #048

93

Old Behaviors and a Loaded Gun in Texas | #047

94

My Mom Didn’t Let Me Cry | #046

95

Parental Dynamics and ADHD Medication with Gabby Lamb | #045

96

Social Media and Mother’s Day with My Dead Mom | #044

97

Existential Dread with Omono Okojie | #043

98

Grief and Eating Disorders with Jenny Zigrino | #042

99

Unconditional Love and Scared of Hugs | #041

100

Here’s What Happened... | #040

101

Reflection, Growth and Two Men Crying | #039

102

Apologies, Forgiveness and a Weird F*cking Dream | #038

103

How Long Are People Meant to be in Your Life? | #037

104

Hating Children and One Silly Boy | #036

105

Possible Autism and Mushrooms in the Trees | #035

106

My Dead Mom and a Psychic in Salem | #034

107

Who Knew Episode Thirty Was Such a Big Deal | #033

108

My Dead Girlfriend and a New Situationship | #032

109

A Crazy Story About Getting Cheated On | #031

110

Define What ”Normal” Means Though | #030

111

Expressing Gratitude But Why Doesn’t Dad Love Me | #029

112

Disrespect and Adults Getting in Trouble | #028

113

My New Love and Panic Attacks | #027

114

Family Dysfunction and EMDR with Lara Beitz | #026

115

Setting Goals and Wanting to Cry | #025

116

Codependence and a F*cked Up Nervous System | #024

117

Daddy Issues and The Family Man | #023

118

PTSD and Self-Love with Hanorah | #022

119

Social Anxiety at the Christmas Party | #021

120

Child Abuse and Adult Entertainment with Silvia Saige | #020

121

Boundaries and the Comfort of Misery | #019

122

Rejection and the Ultimate Breakup Strategy | #018

123

Little Boy on the Beach Gave Me a Panic Attack | #017

124

Hi, I Protect Myself by Making Jokes | #016

125

ADHD with Laurie Singer | #015

126

The Correct Way to do Empathy | #014

127

Monogamy and the Idea of Having Children | #013

128

Men and Women are Different, Ya Know? | #012

129

A Small Crush and an Old Journal | #011

130

Disneyland is for Idiots, Let’s Fight | #010

131

The Anxiety of Being One Minute Late | #009

132

Grief (Part 1) | #008

133

Being Mindful and the Rage Taking Over | #007

134

My Ho Era in my Mid-Thirties | #006

135

A Thicc Boy and His Body Image Issues | #005

136

I’m Grateful but I Hate Myself | #004

137

Attachment Styles and Unconditional Love | #003

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Prologue: A Little Taste