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Secondhand Therapy — 137 episodes

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Logically Speaking, You're Being Very Emotional | #129

2

Picky in Love. Avoidant in Reality. | #128

3

I Accidentally Humanized my Mom | #127

4

Life is Good, I Should Ruin It | #126

5

Can Trauma Fuel Growth and Resilience? (with David Sussillo) | #125

6

I Don't Want to be Happy | #124

7

I'm Afraid To Be Myself | #123

8

Unplugged and Hating It | #122

9

ADHD Burnout, Executive Dysfunction & EMDR Therapy Breakthroughs | Replay

10

I Spoke to My Dead Mom Through a Psychic | #121

11

Codependency Is Controlling Your Relationships (And You Don’t See It) | #120

12

Are You Addicted to Misery? Dry Drunk Behavior, Earned Love & Why Happiness Feels Impossible | #119

13

If the World Ended in 14 Days… Who Would You Choose? | Attachment, Self-Sabotage & Seeking a Friend | #118

14

Why Happiness Feels Unsafe | #117

15

Why I Know the Right Thing — and Still Don’t Do It | #116

16

Anxiety With No Trigger, Body Image Shame & “Higher Self” | #115

17

Being "Nice" is Ruining Your Life | #114

18

Rage vs Doing the Right Thing | #113

19

Having Emotionally Immature Parents | #070 Replay

20

Coping, Eating Disorders and a Helicopter Ride | #042 Replay

21

Expressing Gratitude But Why Doesn't Dad Love Me? | #029 Replay

22

Emotional Defensiveness: Why Softness Feels Unsafe | #111

23

Emotional Numbness, Triggers & Childhood Patterns | #110

24

When Grief Finds You - Grief Part III | #109

25

Porn Addiction & Monastic Wisdom with Jeremy Lipkowitz | #108

26

Why We Struggle With Compliments, FOMO, and Accountability | #107

27

Why Men Struggle With Vulnerability | #106

28

Fawning: The Hidden Trauma Response Behind People-Pleasing | #105

29

Understanding Misogyny: Gina Martin on Compassion, Gender, and Healing | #104

30

Perfection is the Problem | #103

31

When Childhood Fear Becomes Adult Anxiety | #102

32

Do Not Have Needs. Ever. | #101

33

Brad Garrett Tells His Story | #100

34

Relational vs. Non-Relational Thinking | #099

35

Fighting Stigma & Misinformation with Sophie Nir | #098

36

Failing Is Not Okay | #097

37

Codependence, Avoidance & Heartbreak | #096

38

When Being Right Costs You | #095

39

Control, Boundaries, and My Mom | #094

40

Vulnerability Not Allowed | #093

41

Inner Critic Sounds Like... Mom | #092

42

Hobby Hunting and Identity Crises | #091

43

New Therapists, Old Patterns | #090

44

Replay - PTSD and Self-Love with Hanorah

45

I Don’t Want Help! What Even is Growth? | #089

46

Replay - Little Boy on the Beach Gave Me a Panic Attack

47

Read Receipts & The Panic Spiral of “I Miss You” | #088

48

Fake Growth. Real Talk. | #087

49

I Don’t Feel Connected to my Mother | #086

50

Grief (Part II) / Music Triggers & Healing Over Time When the World Won’t Stop | #085

51

Therapy Intake Questions, ADHD Struggles, and Starting with a New Therapist | #084

52

Sitting in Discomfort: How Therapy Is Changing Our Relationships | #083

53

Can’t Commit to Monogamy | #082

54

Replay - Family Dysfunction and EMDR with Lara Beitz

55

Live Show 001

56

You Probably Think This Story’s About You: It Started as a Love Story

57

Why Am I Scared to be Happy? | #081

58

Cheating on Your Pregnant Wife?! | #080

59

Overcoming Anxiety and Understanding Triggers | #079

60

Which Dating App is Best for Relationships? Attachment Styles & Political Climate with Jenny Zigrino | #078

61

Emotional Responsibility, Codependency & Communication Breakdowns | #077

62

Trauma, Personal Growth & Normalizing Pain | #076

63

Why Are Relationships So Hard? | #075

64

There’s a 12-Step Program for That | #074

65

I Don’t Trust Myself and I Have Anxiety (No I Don’t) | #073

66

Asking Permission to go to a Strip Club and Cheating on Vacation | #072

67

I’m Being Honest With Myself and Honestly I’m NOT Selfish | #071

68

I Had an Emotionally Immature Parent and Now I Can’t Be Vulnerable | #070

69

One Of Those Long, Intimate Kitchen Conversations | #069

70

It’s a New Year (Again) and We’ve All Missed the Point (Still) | #068

71

Let’s Talk About Our Dynamic and You Don’t Know Us Like That | #067

72

Lonely Fat Kid With a Neck Tattoo | #066

73

A Floating Task List and Struggling To Be | #065

74

My Absent Father and Closing the Door (Or Not) | #064

75

Grandiosity and The Inability to Cry | #063

76

The Election and Logging Your Feelings to Find Your Needs | #062

77

We’re Not Really Strangers | #061

78

Love, Vulnerability and Boundaries | #060

79

Replay - Grief (Part 1)

80

Perfectionism and My Dead Dad | #059

81

Cussing Out Grandma and a Bi-Weekly Shower | #058

82

Neurodivergent Life and Daytime Therapy | #057

83

Getting Rejected by a Celebrity and Dissociating During Therapy | #056

84

Am I Hot or Just Cute? | #055

85

Missing My Girlfriend and Painting My Toenails | #054

86

The Break Up... She Left Out of Nowhere | #053

87

Executive Dysfunction and Anxiety About My Ex | #052

88

A F*ck Boy and a Vasectomy | #051

89

Georgia Cabin and a Verbal One-Night Stand | #050

90

A Breakup Text and a Thirst For Vengeance | #049

91

People Pleasing and a Family Who Hates Therapy | #048

92

Old Behaviors and a Loaded Gun in Texas | #047

93

My Mom Didn’t Let Me Cry | #046

94

Parental Dynamics and ADHD Medication with Gabby Lamb | #045

95

Social Media and Mother’s Day with My Dead Mom | #044

96

Existential Dread with Omono Okojie | #043

97

Grief and Eating Disorders with Jenny Zigrino | #042

98

Unconditional Love and Scared of Hugs | #041

99

Here’s What Happened... | #040

100

Reflection, Growth and Two Men Crying | #039

101

Apologies, Forgiveness and a Weird F*cking Dream | #038

102

How Long Are People Meant to be in Your Life? | #037

103

Hating Children and One Silly Boy | #036

104

Possible Autism and Mushrooms in the Trees | #035

105

My Dead Mom and a Psychic in Salem | #034

106

Who Knew Episode Thirty Was Such a Big Deal | #033

107

My Dead Girlfriend and a New Situationship | #032

108

A Crazy Story About Getting Cheated On | #031

109

Define What ”Normal” Means Though | #030

110

Expressing Gratitude But Why Doesn’t Dad Love Me | #029

111

Disrespect and Adults Getting in Trouble | #028

112

My New Love and Panic Attacks | #027

113

Family Dysfunction and EMDR with Lara Beitz | #026

114

Setting Goals and Wanting to Cry | #025

115

Codependence and a F*cked Up Nervous System | #024

116

Daddy Issues and The Family Man | #023

117

PTSD and Self-Love with Hanorah | #022

118

Social Anxiety at the Christmas Party | #021

119

Child Abuse and Adult Entertainment with Silvia Saige | #020

120

Boundaries and the Comfort of Misery | #019

121

Rejection and the Ultimate Breakup Strategy | #018

122

Little Boy on the Beach Gave Me a Panic Attack | #017

123

Hi, I Protect Myself by Making Jokes | #016

124

ADHD with Laurie Singer | #015

125

The Correct Way to do Empathy | #014

126

Monogamy and the Idea of Having Children | #013

127

Men and Women are Different, Ya Know? | #012

128

A Small Crush and an Old Journal | #011

129

Disneyland is for Idiots, Let’s Fight | #010

130

The Anxiety of Being One Minute Late | #009

131

Grief (Part 1) | #008

132

Being Mindful and the Rage Taking Over | #007

133

My Ho Era in my Mid-Thirties | #006

134

A Thicc Boy and His Body Image Issues | #005

135

I’m Grateful but I Hate Myself | #004

136

Attachment Styles and Unconditional Love | #003

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Prologue: A Little Taste