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Sex, Here & Now — 71 episodes

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Expert Chat: Julie Labanz on Menopause and Sex

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Is it "Normal" To Never Initiate Sex?

3

Matt's Musings: Is Using AI Boyfriend or Girlfriend Cheating?

4

The 6 Principles of Sexual Health: Here's What They Got Right... and Here's What I'd Add

5

I Hate Receiving Oral Sex!

6

The Power of Responsive Desire

7

The 20-Minute No Genitals Challenge

8

Matt’s Musings: Stop Fearing Being Single

9

Gonorrhea and Syphilis Hit Record Levels in Europe. Here's Why!

10

Matt's Musings: Masturbation Is Healthy. Period.

11

I Know You Are a Kinky S.O.B.

12

Matt's Musings: Your Sexuality is a Garden

13

Let's Talk Lube

14

I Am Married!

15

What is Your Sexual Style?

16

The Power of Flirting

17

Matt's Musings: Stop Caring About What Others Do In Their Bedrooms!

18

Your Parents Love Story (or lack there of) is Not Yours To Carry

19

Nothing in Sex is Natural or Organic

20

Matt's Musings: Stop Competing Against Your Partner's Exes!

21

Why You Aren't Getting What You Want In The Bedroom

22

Put Away Your Penis & Strap-On!

23

Matt's Musings: Please, Let Them Reject You!

24

Expert on Expert: Victoria Byler Helping Men Relearn Masculinity

25

Matt's Musings: Your Friends Don't Know What's Best For You

26

When Sex Feels Out of Control

27

Listener Questions: Why Do Men Suck?

28

Matt's Musings: Just Get Pegged Already!

29

The One Activity All Couples Need To Do

30

Expert on Expert: Julie Labanz Breaks Down The Harm of Purity Culture

31

Matt's Musings: Never Stop Dating Each Other

32

What To Do When Your Sex Life Falls Apart?

33

Matts Musings: You Probably Need Couples Counseling

34

We Love Each Other, But We Don’t Have Sex.

35

Matt's Musings: Making Sex Fun Again!

36

Expert on Expert: Kristen Lilla Spills on The Importance of Sex Education

37

Matt's Musings: Bisexuality is on the Rise!

38

I Am Writing My Own Sex Vows for My Wedding and So Should You!

39

Matt's Musings: Americans Want Open Relationships

40

I Feel Sexually Neglected By My Partner. Help!

41

Matt's Musings: We Have to Talk about Soulmates

42

We Are Talking Squirting!

43

Matt's Musings: Sex Changes Over Time. Don't Freak Out!

44

Expert on Expert: Chatting with Tiffany Chin on Solo Poly and Dating

45

Matt's Musings: Sex is Awkward

46

The Apps Aren’t the Enemy: Dating for You in 2026

47

Matt's Musings: Desire is Not a Personality Trait

48

My Journey Into Polyamory. Buckle Up!

49

Bonus Episode! Valentine's Day Is Ruining Your Sex Life

50

Expert on Expert: Chatting with Julie Labanz on Porn, Masturbation, and Dating Younger!

51

Matt's Musings: Stop Waiting to Feel Ready to Talk about Sex!

52

Why You Aren't Having Sex

53

The One About Heated Rivalry

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You Don't Have to be Afraid of Polyamory

55

The Garden Analogy

56

Quotes from Sex Therapists to Live By

57

We Are Back! Top 5 Tips for a Certified Sex Therapist

58

Top 10 Myths about Sex!

59

Sex, Stress, and COVID-19

60

Where in the World is Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM)?

61

Season 2 Coming in Hot!

62

Baby It's Cold Outside!

63

Entering the World of Kink

64

'Sex,' The Supreme Court, and the LGBTQIA+ Community

65

We Are All Sluts!

66

Unwanted Arousal: "What's Turning Me On?!"

67

Know Thy Self (Love)

68

How Toxic Behavior is Destroying Gender Expression

69

The Myth of Sex Addiction

70

Heterosexism vs Homophobia: What does it all mean?

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