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Soft Skills Engineering — 527 episodes

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Episode 526: Why can't I get promoted so quickly after my last promotion and I got hired as a software engineer but ended up doing ops

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Episode 525: How do I save my company of 500 people and my new company is insane with AI

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Episode 524: My CTO AI-codes big piles of slop and early mornings, late meetings

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Episode 523: (Rerun of 331) Prickly ticket and title downgrade

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Episode 522: I stayed too long at my first job and should I get a masters degree

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Episode 521: negotiating . . . now? and doing good work is not enough for promotion?

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Episode 520: I came back to my former team and was shocked by AI and my team does not care at ALL about the code

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Episode 519: Why does my team not have a tech lead and rumors!

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Episode 518: stuck at startup and is my employer mistreating me because I'm on a visa?

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Episode 517: Is it good for my career to work at a SaaS company and why am I being asked to manage two teams?

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Episode 516: Not a baby and my product manager doesn't know the product

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Episode 515: My junior team member won't listen to me and will I be the dumbest employee at a quantum computer company?

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Episode 514: Trust issues and underperformers and my coworker resents me for being faster

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Episode 513: Forgotten employee and what skills actually matter in the AI world

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Episode 512: Can non-engineers really contribute code with AI and not sharing

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Episode 511: Should I take a temporary management position and performance-based bonuses

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Episode 510: Old and behind and how do I hang on for the last few years until retirement?

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Episode 509: I hate AI software dev, so should I become a manager and leading, not doing

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Episode 508: My company is an unethical spammer and my coworkers take so much sick time

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Episode 507: I got fired unexpectedly and breadth and depth

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Episode 506: I hate my job with AI and my team-mate thinks I suck

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Episode 505: Called to the principal's office and my team leads are super dogmatic

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Episode 504: Should I quit my AI job before my first day and professional button-clicker

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Episode 503: Hardware is hard and my PMs are pushing AI slop code

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Episode 502: Management keeps leaving and I hate using AI to code

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Episode 501: Vibecoding CEO and doing to teaching

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Episode 500: Am I the only one not getting raises and firing my whole team

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Episode 499: Should I quit my solo dev job with a sports team and senile seniors

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Episode 498: Testing in big corporations and how to get my first management job

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Episode 497: Patronizing perf reviews and can't get anything done as a tech lead

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Episode 496: Passing non-technical interviews and my internship with only other interns

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Episode 495: What to do when my boss quits and moving to Romania?

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Episode 494: Am I interviewing all wrong and leaving old team chats

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Episode 493: My boss one-ups my negativity and football engineering

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Episode 492: Fresh grads and startups or the goog

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Episode 491: Re-arranging deck chairs on the Titantic and my boss leaks private info

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Episode 490: How do I break into software dev from QA automation and underselling

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Episode 489: Ethical dilemma for a gambling app dev and ethical employers

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Episode 488: How do I survive in a culture of optics and jira slacker

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Episode 487: My manager ignores me during 1:1's and I am required to work in an empty office

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Episode 486: No one on my team talks and skip level meetings

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Episode 485: I'm terrible at hiring decisions and my coworker spams us with AI-generated memes

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Episode 484: How to get a raise after slacking off for YEARS and my PM won't stop DM'ing me

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Episode 483: My team hated me from day one and should I stack PTO before my resignation

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Episode 482: I got a promotion, but a tiny raise and an imposter interviewed for my team

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Episode 481: I'm bored and will I ever find out why I was fired?

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Episode 480: Do I just coast until I quit and going back to work after a long time

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Episode 479: Contractors to the rescue and dinged for delay

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Episode 478: Can you coach self-awareness and my boss is an llm

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Episode 477: Four months and I already hate my job and grumpy and fuzzy

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Episode 476: How much help is too much help and guarding against slop

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Episode 475: Am I too loyal to my big tech job and politely preserving time

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Episode 474: I hate the idea of firing a low performer and cheaper context switching

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Episode 473: Mental health support and overcoming FOMO of taking a break from work

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Episode 472: Should my junior dev use AI and thrown in to ETL

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Episode 471: Why does my junior engineer do so little and I fell asleep in a Zoom meeting

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Episode 470: I said something stupid in a meeting and just want to code

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Episode 469: Passed over for lead role and perhaps I'm the jerk

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Episode 468: Should I take a mini-retirement and doubling down on anachronisms

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Episode 467: I can't get promoted if I do my job and should I get a degree to get a job in this economy

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Episode 466: Bad performance review and moving in to the caves

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Episode 465: Talking to your report's previous manager and how to replace a 30-year-old ticketing system

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Episode 464: Rehiring an overpaid boomerang and AI has taken over my teammate's brain

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Episode 463: CTO w/ weak resume and I tried management and it was TERRIBLE

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Episode 462: Supporting laid-off employee and how to rebuild culture after layoffs

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Episode 461: How to do side projects with a family and demanding job and my company promised me a raise, but didn't give it

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Episode 460: Losing autonomy and I got skipped for a promotion even though I'm awesome

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Episode 459: Am I cutting edge and how to compliment someone who went from super jerk to super nice

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Episode 458: Infinite tech debt hack and figuring out what is going on

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Episode 457: How do I get off the on-call rotation and "big tech" == "big leagues"?

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Episode 456: Will I look bad on the job market if I'm a crypto developer and struggling to go from management back to dev work

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Episode 455: UX designer without a mentor and I get bored too easily and stressed too easily

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Episode 454: Tracking productivity? and my CTO is ChatGPT

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Episode 453: Why did my company build an internal LinkedIn and how do I not get stagnant in my skills?

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Episode 452: Consulting refactor and extra work, extra scrutiny

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Episode 451: Un-collaborative architect and who is my boss?

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Episode 450: I'm terrible at behavioral interviews and time zonessssssss

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Episode 449: My tech lead ignored my warnings and I don't know what my leadership style is

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Episode 448: Title over salary and from figure skater to software developer

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Episode 447: Overleveled at FAANG and accidental draft feedback

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Episode 446: Wading through AI slop and they don't get git

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Episode 445: Staying at my first job and my coworker is insulting other departments

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Episode 444: Surrounded by apathetic coworkers and put it on my resume?

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Episode 443: Does my PM hate me? and My coworker has anxiety when I help

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Episode 442: Improving communication skills and how to break my job hopping habit

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Episode 441: Will working in healthcare hurt my reputation and precious wisdom

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Episode 440: How do I help my boss not burn out and should I tell people I'm older than I am?

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Episode 439: Harried VP of Eng and first startup job

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Episode 438: Software job after prison and working 60 hours per week at age 20 and feeling unfulfilled

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Episode 437: My company canceled all one-on-ones and moving to a single backlog

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Episode 436: Paralyzed by checkboxes and I'm on a "must keep happy" list

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Episode 435: How to make my boss actually do something and kindly shooting down

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Episode 434: Forgetful boss and nothing to say

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Episode 433: My teammate pretends we decided, but we didn't and my team is getting worse and worse

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Episode 432: As an LLM, how can I be more emotionally smart and when to use I vs we?

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Episode 431: Stinky.js and power hungry friend

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Episode 430: Should I quit this job I'm underqualified for and honestly torpedoed my promo chances

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Episode 429: Should I quit my job for free hoodies and manager to IC

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Episode 428: Interim tech lead and asking for a raise when a peer leaves

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Episode 427: Under to over-employed and wibbly wobbly timey wimey

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Episode 426: I got too many promotions and I have anxiety about getting fired

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Episode 425: Org chart bait and switch and ole' reliable

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Episode 424: Bragging without ego and how to predict layoffs

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Episode 423: freedom from deadlines and Actual firefighting to software firefighting

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Episode 422: Moving in to big tech and building support

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Episode 421: Hitting the level cap and getting credit for behind-the-scenes work

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Episode 420: New grad getting boring work and busy manager

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Episode 419: Yoda or Han Solo and I swear I'm senior

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Episode 418: Should I "rest and vest" and how do I avoid 3-hour agile meetings?

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Episode 417: Should I tell my boss I'm checked out and how do I deal with a PM who has no idea what he's doing?

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Episode 416: My boss wants me to build dark patterns and getting promoted without writing code

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Episode 415: I got a low raise and merging teams

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Episode 414: Hot-headed PM and leaving without downgrading

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Episode 413: Is my interview candidate cheating and my product owner is getting WRECKED by the client

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Episode 412: Work-life-team balance and getting code-sniped

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Episode 411: We have a secret org chart and I'm a big fish in a little pond

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Episode 410: Guaranteed cost-of-living raises and my manager doesn't like me

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Episode 409: Fancy title to IC and CRUD is crud

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Episode 408: Terrible retrospectives and "hard to work with"

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Episode 407: I'm too territorial and should I quiet quit?

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Episode 406: Acquired taste and limited mentorship

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Episode 405: Scaled agile pain and top-heavy team

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Episode 404: Interview comedy and talking pay while new

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Episode 403: Massaging the software and career never-never-land

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Episode 402: It's all on fire and title inflation

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Episode 401: I AM the superstar and pro-rated raise

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Episode 400: Underperforming intern and upskilling

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Episode 399: Higher paid than my boss and crossing over to management

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Episode 398: Tech lead for contractors and how to detach my ego from my work

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Episode 397: Skunkworks and too much work/life balance

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Episode 396: Enthusiastic scope creep and human search engine

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Episode 395: Super star teammate and Getting better with no financial incentives

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Episode 394: Scrum master, weapons master and minimum tenure to not look bad

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Episode 393: Soft skills for interns and intern to QA

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Episode 392: Old code and choosing my annual reviewers

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Episode 391: Post-staff and direct or a jerk

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Episode 390: Fixing typos and Cassandra

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Episode 389: Sleepy and bureaucracy

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Episode 388: Money not compliments and principal engineer coding guidelines

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Episode 387: No juniors and manager forced to return to office

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Episode 386: Stuck with toil and how to get a dev job as a self-taught career-switcher in 2023

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Episode 385: Attention to detail and sabbatical

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Episode 384: EM missing code and non-location pay

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Episode 383: In the trenches without writing code and how to close a social skill gap

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Episode 382: Mentors for managers and mob programming

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Episode 381: Doing less and bad reference

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Episode 380: Overruled by non-technical manager and describing technical stuff to non-technical people

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Episode 379: Someone fixed my ticket and is tech debt bad for my career

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Episode 378: Too much leadership and awkward zoom silence

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Episode 377: Short Tenure Promotion and too much free time at work

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Episode 376: Return to office and quitting tech

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Episode 375: visa woes and Bob does everything wrong

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Episode 374: Secret burnout and no room for failure

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Episode 373: I have no vision and not-so-positive environment

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Episode 372: Equity and getting interrupted in Zoom meetings

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Episode 371: After Mary Poppins and credit denied

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Episode 370: Fake imposter syndrome and opposite ends

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Episode 369: Staying at a sinking ship and behavioral interview questions

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Episode 368: Manager in crisis and cutting costs

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Episode 367: Hybrid denier and recovering from crying

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Episode 366: No FE work and my co-worker is a parrot

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Episode 365: Rerun of 307, side hustles and telling me when you are stuck

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Episode 364: EMs doing technical tasks and too soft?

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Episode 363: Future impact of tech stacks and async communication

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Episode 362: Running the clock down and updating linkedin without freaking people out

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Episode 361: Get git and non-tech ramping up

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Episode 360: Mixing up names and improving without feedback

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Episode 359: Competition and awkward in person

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Episode 358: Sticky Note Scandal and startup appeal

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Episode 357: Waiting to be paid and survivor's guilt

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Episode 356: Ummmmmmmmm and failed spikes

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Episode 355: Driving kids instead of team and jk i quit

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Episode 354: Good at circuits, bad at git and ghosts of team members past

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Episode 353: Easter outage and unethical things

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Episode 352: Exploding manager and I hate computers

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Episode 351: Senior hoarding and layabout lead dev

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Episode 350: Bombing a technical interview and background vetting

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Episode 349: Performance review dissonance and being a remote manager

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Episode 348: Making too many mistakes and low code career risk

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Episode 347: New untrusting manager and crappy project management

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Episode 346: Changing jobs with no raise and wrangling a cowboy coder

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Episode 345: Head of Engineering vs writing code and Voluntary Severance

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Episode 344: Showing impact without hiring and over over over engineering

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Episode 343: Tech lead/manager and discouraging seniors

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Episode 342: Losing my job to AI and bad review season

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Episode 341: Offer rescinded and layoff stuff

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Episode 340: Productivity lulls and code review showdown

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Episode 339: Coworker double-dipping and building toxic community

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Episode 338: I am the golden handcuffs and Staying in management

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Episode 337: Helping the principal and Manager conflict

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Episode 336: Roadmap roadkill and returning to office

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Episode 335: Senior questions and overly optimistic

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Episode 334: Personal brand and awkward silence

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Episode 333: Unsure about management and I shall decline the offer

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Episode 332: Layoff + baby survival and 18-year-old CS graduate

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Episode 331: Prickly ticket and title downgrade

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Episode 330: Mixed signals and not ready for senior

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Episode 329: Falling behind and can't get a management job

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Episode 328: Fear of sudden firing and reducing the lottery factor

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Episode 327: Remote with onsite team and undercover refactor

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Episode 326: Good perks, bad code and paper shredder suggestion box

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Episode 325: Surprise PIP and salary leak

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Episode 324: Understanding accents and mega soft skills

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Episode 323: Shopping offers and returning equipment

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Episode 322: Cover blown and no one cares

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Episode 321: Politely, no and participation at scale

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Episode 320: Hot and less hot and no privileges

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Episode 319: Steve's babysitter and these uncertain times

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Episode 318: Staff and part time dev

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Episode 317: Process renegades and hiding my disgrunteledness

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Episode 316: Skills reboot and quitting the perfect job

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Episode 315: Poor feedback recipient and rubber duck

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Episode 314: "That guy" and how to skip level

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Episode 313: Parents are fighting and hat-removal

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Episode 312: Nit-picking and Promo raises

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Episode 311: (rerun of 207) Unclear career goals and garbage code

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Episode 310: Flip flop and architecture astronaut

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Episode 309: Missing boss support and new manager, who dis

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Episode 308: FAANG to startup and Google interview prep

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Episode 307: Side hustle or new job and tell me when you're stuck

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Episode 306: Sabbaticals and betray my team

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Episode 305: About that raise and *you're* not fired

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Episode 304: My subordinate is smarter than me and confused in meetings

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Episode 303: Should I stop coding and off to the field

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Episode 302: Bad boss movies and well-written emails

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Episode 301: I forced the framework and product stealing credit

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Episode 300: Manager move and cultural or personal

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Episode 299: Neophyte estimates and forced framework

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Episode 298: Thanks, and goodbye and fessing up

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Episode 297: Flat decisions and pointy-haired boss

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Episode 296: Low performer and frantic manager

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Episode 295: Underleveled at FAANG and lazy tech lead

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Episode 294: Unqualified internal applicant and speculative specs

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Episode 293: Moving TOO fast and following my manager

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Episode 292: Haunted by former co-worker and awkward manager endorsement

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Episode 291: Hyper-productive team lead and hyper-unproductive senior engineer

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Episode 290: Past offers and from QA to PM

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Episode 289: Sharing wisdom nicely and too many raises?

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Episode 288: Too excited about learning and furious boss when quitting

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Episode 287: Informal favoritism and post-hoc finger pointing

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Episode 286: I don't care about borkchain and morning procrastination?

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Episode 285: Staying technical as a manager and skill over seniority

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Episode 284: Slow mentee ramp-up and quit before new job?

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Episode 283: Jealousy and burnout

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Episode 282: Setting boundaries late and junior joy

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Episode 281: Contractor is sus and too much job hopping?

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Episode 280: Async communication and how to quit not nicely

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Episode 279: (Rerun of 220) Premature leadership push and credit and status

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Episode 278: PM to engineer and pressure to stay after quitting

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Episode 277: Super long code reviews and replacement laptop

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Episode 276: Startup or big company and negotiating your exit?

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Episode 275: Take-home tests and doing my own recruiting

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Episode 274: Announcing resignation too early and why are my ideas rejected?

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Episode 273: Influencing people and getting a raise in a flat org

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Episode 272: Consistent or shiny

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Episode 271: Too quiet and quitting too much?

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Episode 270 (rerun of 227): Junior expectations and manager flakiness

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Episode 269: A bad product and running the meter down

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Episode 268: Title inflation and solo remote engineer

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Episode 267: Cheap promotion raise and live coding blues

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Episode 266: Switching tech stacks and awkward zoom silence

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Episode 265 (rerun of 216): One-on-ones and inter-team power struggles

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Episode 264: Finger pointing and getting recognition

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Episode 263: Why am I bored and ver-boss-ity

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Episode 262: I'm too popular and too much turnover

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Episode 261: Anxious about work and senior imposter

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Episode 260: Pay cut after hired and new job ramp-up

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Episode 259: Moving up to meetings and will remote work stay a thing?

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Episode 258: Addicted to scrolling and underpaid with equity

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Episode 257: Oops I didn't negotiate and really another raise question

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Episode 256: No degree ceiling and reverse whippersnappers

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Episode 255: Only positive feedback and overworked and siloed

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Episode 254: Code makes my body hurt and level madness

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Episode 253: Not coding after 2 years and fake data scientists

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Episode 252: Impossible documentation and unexcited coworkers

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Episode 251: Working with real live developers and the royal we?

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Episode 250: The management track and active listening

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Episode 249: Settling the Wild West and credit for self-study

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Episode 248: Non-private slack channels and expectations

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Episode 247: Estimates and hotdesking

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Episode 246: Humanitarian salary conundrum and family benefits

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Episode 245: Sweating the small stuff and quit my first job?

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Episode 244: Quitting telephone and recommendontion

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Episode 243: Saying no and conference

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Episode 242 (Episode 131 re-run): Stinky feet and high salary expectation

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Episode 241 (Rerun of 184): Indispensable and IT cold war

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Episode 240: Under-leveled in the big leagues and pushing back

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Episode 239: Hustle and patents and toxicity

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Episode 238: Naughty team and quitting after 2 weeks

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Episode 237: Salary vs tech stack and how to quit an ad agency

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Episode 236: Making mistakes and Lowball offer

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Episode 235: Bus factors and toxic time bomb

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Episode 234: Job hopping and untenable counter-offers

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Episode 233: Manual unit testing and WFH demotivation

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Episode 232: "Junior" developer and NDA'd

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Episode 231: Freedom for me not for thee and optimizing for growth

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Episode 230: Not seeking promotion and taking code

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Episode 229: Other people's code and moving into product management

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Episode 228: Unpaid team lead and banking hours

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Episode 227: Junior expectations and manager flakiness

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Episode 226: Declining job offers and being the outside hire

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Episode 225: Stuck on the ladder and can't say no

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Episode 224: Bad review from conflicted boss and questioning my career choices

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Episode 223: Feedback rage and making up for lost time

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Episode 222: Cowboy CTO and underpaid after promotion

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Episode 221: Current boss reference and getting paid to do nothing

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Episode 220: Premature leadership push and credit and status

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Episode 219: Remote crickets and Manager Careering

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Episode 218: Referral underperforming and take a tech lead role

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Episode 217: Quitting words and double COVID internship

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Episode 216: One-on-ones and inter-team power struggles

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Episode 215: Many jobs in one and junior git stickler

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Episode 214: Jumping ship and saying "I can't"

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Episode 213: Interviewing your future boss and screwed by private equity

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Episode 212: Turnover and self-inflicted complexity

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Episode 211: Biorhythm and coworker roommate

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Episode 210: Study time and caring less

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Episode 209: Glue and Covid ghost job

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Episode 208: Toe-stepper-on-er and high leverage work

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Episode 207: Unclear career goals and garbage code

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Episode 206: Micromanaging WFH and vaguely tech lead

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Episode 205: Old code outage and questions leaking

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Episode 204: Remote work and ghosting your employer

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Episode 203: Downturns and conflict

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Episode 202: Can't stand up and new team, new me

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Episode 201: Too soon for a raise and management, masters, maybe?

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Episode 200: Crazy work work stories

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Episode 199: Offshore team influence and time zone fun

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Episode 198: Stinky manager and VP overhaul

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Episode 197: Rambling co-worker and awkward resume leak

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Episode 196: "Offshore resources" and ageist layoffs

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Episode 195: Ad-hoc promotion and quitting a huge company with Charity Majors

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Episode 194: Leveling up through speaking and negativity

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Episode 193: Playing the field and paying for speaking

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Episode 192: Giving feedback and messaging a team change

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Episode 191: Overshadowed and demos and credit

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Episode 190: Disorganized startup and leveling up the team

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Episode 189: Building relationships and handling negative feedback with speical guest Jeff Leiken

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Episode 188: Drama overload and agile ouroboroses

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Episode 187: Interview insanity and making up for lost time

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Episode 186: First job negotiation and am I a senior engineer?

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Episode 185: Fragile coworkers and soft demotion

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Episode 184: Indispensable and IT cold war

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Episode 183: Terrible boss code and peer-to-peer mentorship

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Episode 182: Lunch and switching to product management

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Episode 181: Blocked by back-end and tired of coding

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Episode 180: Inspiring attention to detail and moving

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Episode 179: Pushing preemptive promotion and de-motivated by promotion

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Episode 178: Procrastinating colleague and working remotely for an on-site company

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Episode 177: Work life vertigo and work life interviews

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Episode 176: Afraid to disappoint and tech co-founder advice

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Episode 175: Famous devs at conferences and becoming obsolete

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Episode 174: Bottleneck manager and how to tech lead

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Episode 173: Newbie burden and getting a 25% raise

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Episode 172: Contracting and American email etiquette

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Episode 171: Unwilling mentorship and tortoise vs hare DevOps

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Episode 170: Code rage and code review etiquette

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Episode 169: Conspiracy theories and flexible schedules

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Episode 168: Self-snooping and work from home jeopardy

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Episode 167: Foosball culture and giving feedback to geniuses

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Episode 166: Not the intern and fighting at work

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Episode 165: I don't play videogames and quarter-career burnout

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Episode 164: Fear of firing and disengaged teammates

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Episode 163: Sounding a warning and negative Glassdoor reviews

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Episode 162 (rerun of episode 113): Quitting Your First Job and Too Many Responsibilities

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Episode 161: Trapped as a QA engineer and trapped as a generalist

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Episode 160: Non-manager 1:1s and throwing away dev learning

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Episode 159: Rejecting candidates and corporate image obsession

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Episode 158: I accepted a counter-offer and stayed and dealing with engineers who exaggerate their contributions

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Episode 157: How to deal with a consistent low performer and my architect wants me to switch from Ruby to Java

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Episode 156: How to move from web development into other software engineering roles and dealing with slow code review processes

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Episode 155: What do you think about employee monitoring software and how do I get un-demotivated after losing interest in software dev?

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Episode 154: Why am I terrible at picking candidates and how soon can I quit my job?

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Episode 153: Informal Leadership and Dealing With Burnout (rerun of episode 71)

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Episode 152: How to pair program as an introvert and being mistreated as a contractor?

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Episode 151: Where are all the old developers and Do I not ask enough questions?

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Episode 150: How to fight imposter syndrome as a technical lead and Getting in to meetups

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Episode 149: How to get my engineering career back on track and how to thrive in a heavy process environment

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Episode 148: In the orbit of a Rock Star Programmer and Should I share my salary with my coworkers?

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Episode 147: How to grow in a flat organization and how to get references when job hunting in stealth mode?

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Episode 146: What to do with sick co-workers who come into the office and dealing with weird performance review feedback

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Episode 145: What to do with a bad manager who is loved by upper management and should I include detecting major security vulnerabilities on my resume?

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Episode 144: Job hunting while employed and how to start my first technical lead role

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Episode 143: Dealing with meeting interrupters and setting work limits

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Episode 142: Can I get hired above my level even though I look inexperienced on paper and should I be brutally honest in peer performance reviews

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Episode 141: A Rampant Rewriter and Dealing with an Overexplainer (rerun of episode 73)

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Episode 140: Should I apologize for my bugs after I quit and should I become a project manager

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Episode 139: How to deal with badmouthing and how to survive in a loud open office

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Episode 138: Should I ask for a raise before my annual review and how to keep up with young, single, overtime-working co-workers

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Episode 137: How to get answers to technical questions and Should managers also be technical

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Episode 136: My family thinks I'm over paid and Is a 10% raise good

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Episode 135: Publicly Correcting Speakers and Forced Into a Dev Role as a Product Manager

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Episode 134: Boredom vs Money and Agile vs Long-Term Schedules

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Episode 133: Herding Linter Cats and Surviving Until Severance Time

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Episode 132: Should I tell my boss I'm planning to quit and keeping tech talks going

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Episode 131: Coworkers with stinky feet and Was my salary expectation too high

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Episode 130 (rerun of episode 87): Stand up and fight! and Metrics

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Episode 129: Office romance and What to say during one-on-ones

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Episode 128: Finish The Degree In Poverty? and Hiring Insecurity

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Episode 127: Leaving a Job I Love and My Role Is Being Eroded

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Episode 126: I'm underpaid and Game Industry Bonuses

402

Episode 125: Brainstorming sessions and Slack Ettiquette

403

Episode 124: Pair Programming Pain and Side Hustle CEO

404

Episode 123: Salary Promise Fail and Slacker Coworkers

405

Episode 122: Too Much Process and Negotiating Salaries with Multiple Companies

406

Episode 121: Working Remotely Without Hating It and Managing Rotating Engineers

407

Episode 120: Layoff Decisions and Overworking Peers

408

Episode 119 (rerun of episode 77): My boss wants me to speak at conferences and how to get better than a 2% raise

409

Episode 118: Asking For Help and Speaking Up

410

Episode 117: Defense Industry Stigma and Responding to Negative Feedback

411

Episode 116: Weekend Warrioring and Reaching the End of the Career Ladder

412

Episode 115: Sharing Your Salary When You Leave and Hiring Decisions Overruled

413

Episode 114: Story Point Commitments and Measuring Productivity (Episode 79 Rerun)

414

Episode 113: Quitting Your First Job and Too Many Responsibilities

415

Episode 112: Disinterested Interviewing and Layoff Fallout

416

Episode 111: Dogma Rehab and Getting a Co-worker Fired

417

Episode 110: Team Spirit and Half-hearted Recruiting

418

Episode 109: Critical Junior Dev and Introducing New Tools

419

(Rerun) Episode 35: Attracting Talent and Quitting Responsibly

420

Episode 108: An Insecure Teammate and Disclosing Past Ratings

421

(Rerun) Episode 40: Office Visibility and New Tech

422

Episode 107: Silence After Interviews and Newsletter Politics

423

Episode 106: Working From Home Without Rotting and Meetup Etiquette

424

Episode 105: Interviewing for Management and Annoying Noises

425

Episode 104: Interviews With VPs and Hiring a Tester

426

Episode 103: Team Dynamics and Bad Code

427

Episode 102: Correcting English and Tyranny of the Urgent

428

Episode 101: Style In Code Reviews and How To Thank My Manager

429

Episode 99: Developer Health and Whiteboard Interviews

430

Episode 98 (Rerun of Episode 57): Disliking Management and Difficult Co-workers

431

Episode 97: A Quiet Intern and Hearts and Guts

432

Episode 96: Teaching Burden and Unknown Unknowns

433

Episode 95: Paying For Help and Scared of Recruiters

434

Episode 94: Dodging Recommendations and Full Sleeve Tattoos

435

Episode 93: Negotiating Annual Raises and Part-Time Work

436

Episode 92: Career Death by Friction and New Job Woes

437

Episode 91: Job Requirements and Teams of Misfits

438

Episode 90: Upper Management Dislikes Me and Undeserved Job Offers

439

Episode 89: Departed Engineers and Employment Contracts

440

Episode 88: How To Dress For Interviews and Learning To Interview

441

Episode 87: Pushover Coworkers and Productivity Metrics

442

Episode 86: Sharing Salaries and Offensive Words

443

Episode 85: Annoying Know-it-alls and Company Headshots

444

Episode 84: Shy Developers and Outsourced Architecture

445

Episode 83: Gaps In The Resume and Moving To Business

446

Episode 82: Blow Ups and Job Security

447

Episode 81: Unwilling To Grow and Forced Out During Two Weeks Notice

448

Episode 80: New Team Leads and Constant Follow Up

449

Episode 79: Story Point Misses and Measuring Productivity

450

Episode 78: Endless Rewrites and Fake Deadlines

451

Episode 77: Boss Wants Me To Speak and The 2% Raise

452

Episode 76: Writing Goals and Firing Jokes

453

Episode 75: Self-Promotion For Wallflowers and Moving in a Year

454

Episode 74: Switching Languages Without A Pay Cut and A Missed Negotiation

455

Episode 73: A Rampant Rewriter and Overexplainers

456

Episode 72: The Micromanaging CEO and The Only Developer

457

Episode 71: Informal Leadership and Dealing With Burnout

458

Episode 70: Appraisal-Driven Development and Meeting Creep

459

Episode 69: A Know-It-All Lead and Selling Your Boss on Remote Work

460

Episode 68: Paying Your Dues and Non-technical Hobbies

461

Episode 67: Graduate School and Asking Good Questions

462

Episode 66: Nepotism and Minimum Junior Requirements

463

Episode 65: Left In The Dust and Imposter Syndrome

464

Episode 64: Negative Peer Reviews and On Call

465

Episode 63: (Rerun) Management Snobs and Two Bosses

466

Episode 62: Many Meetings and Surviving an Acquisition

467

Episode 61: Product Managers and Notifications

468

Episode 60: Office Arrangements and Disarming A Code Owner

469

Episode 59: Buying Training and Unrelated Experience

470

Episode 58: Dropping Out and Interview Prep (Rerun)

471

Episode 57: Disliking Management and Difficult Co-workers

472

Episode 56: Keeping Meetings On Track and Designer-centric Culture

473

Episode 55: Ng-Conf Live Episode

474

Episode 54: Sneaky Contractors and Job Titles

475

Episode 53: Bait and Switch and Informing Your Manager

476

Episode 52: Slowness Guilt and I Have No Side Projects

477

Episode 51: Junior Scrum Master In Trouble And Jamison Has No Degree

478

Episode 50: I Didn't Quit and Manager of Zero People

479

Episode 49: Candidate Plagiarism and a Tightwad Employer

480

Episode 48: Quitting a Death March & Am I Underpaid

481

Episode 47: Speaking Up In A New Job and Personal Issues

482

Episode 46: My New Crappy Job and Youth vs the Status Quo

483

Episode 45: RAPID FIRE and Micromanagers

484

Episode 44: Discussing Firing and Writing Job Postings

485

Episode 43: Internship Costs and CS Interview Questions

486

Episode 42: Bootcamp Job Hopping and Cultural Reliability

487

Episode 41: Management Snobs and Two Bosses

488

Episode 40: Office Visibility and New Tech

489

Episode 39: Brilliant Jerks and One on Ones

490

Episode 38: Going Over Heads and Firing Just After Hiring

491

Episode 37: VC Funding and Internal Presentations

492

Episode 36: Unlimited Vacation and Enforcing Best Practices

493

Episode 35: Attracting Talent and Quitting Responsibly

494

Episode 34: Do Certifications Help and How Can I Avoid Avoidance?

495

Episode 33: Damaging Your Credibility and Meeting Potential Employers In School

496

Episode 32: Why Would You Do Contracting?

497

Episode 31: Going In To Management and Knowing If A Job Is Worth Applying To

498

Episode 30: Reaching Consensus and Code Editing Etiquette

499

Episode 29: What Should I Do When Starting A New Job?

500

Episode 28: How Long Should I Stay At My Job and How Do I Help Junior Developers Improve

501

Episode 27: Writing Great Resumes and Pushing Back on Non-Engineering Tasks

502

Episode 26: Communicate Your Efforts and I Told You So

503

Episode 25: Understanding the Business and Managing Without Being a Developer

504

Episode 24: Should I be a generalist or specialist developer?

505

Episode 23: Joining a startup as a CTO and asking for a raise

506

Episode 22: Health insurance and contributing to open source projects

507

Episode 21: Giving work to interns and dealing with "dead weight" developers

508

Episode 20: Stories from people who got fired and doing effective code reviews

509

Episode 19: Firing someone for a coding mistake and getting demoted

510

Episode 18: Dropping out of college and preparing for interviews

511

Episode 17: Side project ideas and getting fired

512

Episode 16: Dealing with recruiters and learning new things without frustration

513

Episode 15: Working with non-technical people and keeping up with the latest technology (with Brad Green)

514

Episode 14: Web developer prejudice and legacy code

515

Episode 13: Dealing with a 'yes' boss and the difference between contract and permanent positions

516

Episode 12: Making friends at work and how to be good at being managed

517

Episode 11: Negotiating offers and dealing with an oblivious boss

518

Episode 10: Mentors and Stock Options

519

Episode 9: Deadlines and Titles

520

Episode 8: Work life balance and on-boarding new engineers

521

Episode 7: Finding meaning and quitting your job

522

Episode 6: Speaking at Conferences

523

Episode 5: Developer Compensation

524

Episode 4: Should I build my personal brand?

525

Episode 3: What to look for in a dev team

526

Episode 2: Influencing your team and dealing with anger

527

Episode 1: Startup Opportunities and Switching Jobs