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A loss, a quick update, and a thankyou!

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A podcast milestone, a chatty catch-up, and a summer pause

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Let's Chat... Where to place our focus in grief (Karen Sutton)

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The Grief Toolshed: Chair & blanket - it's all about the self care

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Graveyard Musings: Glasgow Necropolis, Scotland

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The Grief Toolshed: Baby Bio & a hand fork - a dual-pronged attack

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The (even more) Silent Why (& the Singapore Strait)

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Loss 66/101: Loss of eyesight: Yahya Pandor

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The Grief Toolshed: Telescopic Tree Pruner - find your sharp people

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The Grief Toolshed: Swiss Army Knife - using the tools of self-awareness

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Graveyard Musings: Wolvercote, Oxford (grave of JRR Tolkien - author of The Lord of the Rings)

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The Grief Toolshed: Compost - it's all about balance (& worms)

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The Grief Toolshed: The Spade - let's dig deep into grief

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Introducing... The Grief Toolshed

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New Year, New Loss, New Schedule

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Chris & Claire's Chatty Christmas Catch-Up 2025

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Australia Update 2: Time flies. And more flies.

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Australia Update 1: Distracted by kookaburras

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Chris & Claire chat Oz, mini mics, Bin Chickens and a special form

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Loss 65/101: Loss of a friend: Hannah Rumsey

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Behind the Scenes: How I make a podcast

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BLOG REWIND: My Why: Accepting a life I don't want

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Let's Chat... Finding hope as a widow (Rachel Powell)

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Loss 64/101: Loss of a wife: Richard Smith

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The (even more) Silent Why (& the Mediterranean Sea)

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Let's Chat... Where does the love go when someone dies (with David Kelly)

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Loss 63/101: Loss through chronic illness and lupus: Olivia Abousaid

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Chris & Claire's top takeaways from 20 years of marriage

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BLOG: My Why: How to build mental muscles when you’re feeling weak

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Loss 62/101: Loss through menopause: Diane Danzebrink

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Let's Chat... The Adventure of Grief (with Bianca Neumann)

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Loss 61/101: Loss of possessions: Naomi Westerman

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Let's Chat... Writing and running through grief (with Justin Creps)

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101 LOSS COUNTDOWN: 60 down, 41 to go

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Let's Chat... How Covid-19 changed death rituals (with Natasha Mikles)

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Loss 60/101: Loss in happy life transitions: Bex Eyles

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Chris & Claire's Reflections on Christmas & New Year

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The (even more) Silent Why (& a storm)

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Chris & Claire's Chatty Christmas Catch-Up 2024

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Loss 59/101: Loss of a police career and self-worth: Ken Anderson

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Let's Chat... Grieving out loud on social media (with Rebecca Feinglos)

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Loss 58/101: Loss through precocious (early) puberty: Dannie-Lu Carr

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BONUS EPISODE: My talk on grief and hope for All Souls' Day

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Loss 57/101: Loss of a husband to suicide while pregnant: Rachel Hart

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The (even more) Silent Why (& a forest walk)

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Loss 56/101: Loss in the role of a Police Chaplain: Jared Altic

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BLOG: My Why: Is grief selfish?

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Turning August from bitter, to sweet

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Loss 55/101: Loss through a bad/complex death: Kay Backhouse

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Graveyard Musings: Moorslede, Belgium

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Let's Chat... Life in a hospice (with Maddy Bass & Kay Backhouse)

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Loss 54/101: Loss through addiction: Lisa Newman

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BONUS EPISODE: Loss 53/101 Part 2: Jonathon & Laura Burns on alopecia, dating and hope through ill health

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Loss 53/101: Loss of hair through alopecia: Laura Burns

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Loss 52/101: Loss of life for a cardiac surgeon: Mark Field

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Loss 51/101: Loss of a dad ('that I don't know if I loved'): Thea Rickard

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Graveyard Musings: Llanfair Talhaiarn, Wales

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101 LOSS COUNTDOWN: 50 down, 51 to go

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Loss 50/101: Loss of a left arm and shoulder: Stephen Downes

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Navigating Mother's Day when you're childless... again.

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BLOG: My Why: You're not the only one

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Let's Chat... Adding colour to funerals (with Jen Watson)

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Loss 49/101: Loss of life in an Emergency Department: John Cronin & Catherine Fowler

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BLOG: My Why: The story of Herman

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New Year, New... Herman!

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BLOG: My Why: Know hope

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Hopelet 5: Cherish your hope

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Hopelet 4: Letting hope be your guide

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Hopelet 3: When your hopes are high

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Hopelet 2: When your hope is weak

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Hopelet 1: When your hope is small

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Comfort on Christmas Day

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The (even more) Silent Why (& a bleak midwinter piano)

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Chris & Claire chat Christmas and Childlessness

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BLOG: My Why: Christmas, friend or foe foe foe?

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What's on the podcast this Christmas and New Year?

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Loss 48/101: Loss through anorexia & orthorexia: Julia Trehane

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Let's Chat... Funeral Directing (with Adrianne Hickey)

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BLOG: The One Where we say goodbye to Matthew Perry (aka Parasocial Grief)

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Loss 47/101: Loss through cumulative grief: Jeanette Koncikowski

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BLOG: My Why: Meet my frenemies, the clouds

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PODCAST UPDATE: Going fortnightly

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Let's Chat... Grief and belief (with Matt McChlery)

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Detecting Loss in Detectorists: A British comedy observed

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Loss 46/101: Loss through disenfranchised grief and childlessness: Jody Day

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Let's Chat... Parenting as a widowed parent (with Jeanette Koncikowski)

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The (even more) Silent Why (& Welsh waters)

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August can be tricky, so I'm doing it differently this year

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BLOG: My Why: Seeing my first dead body

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Let's Chat... How to handle grief in the workplace (with Samantha Langford)

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Come for a walk around a natural woodland burial site: The Eternal Forest in North Wales

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BLOG: My Why: Big wave grieving - how to survive

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Wales, work experience, bitey flies, chips and Dave

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Let's Chat... Funeral Celebrants II (with Sarah Boalch)

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Graveyard Musings: Tyne Cot & Ypres, Belgium

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The (even more) Silent Why (& birds)

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Loss 45/101: Loss through a late diagnosis of ADHD: Margaret Reed Roberts

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Let's Chat... ADHD (with Ned Hallowell)

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BLOG: My Why: We’ve all got triggers, but did you know you have glimmers too?

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Loss 44/101: Loss through autoerotic asphyxiation: Samantha Langford