All Episodes

Episode 331: Grappling with Grace: When Your Doctor and Your Priest Disagree

Episode 330: NFP: The Unplanned Pregnancy Program

Episode 329: 50 Shades of Grave Matter. Can Catholics read sexy stories?

Episode 328: The Extreme Wounds of Theology of the Body.

Episode 327: Is Theology of the Body a House of Cards? Christopher West strikes again.

Episode 326: "Reverse that Vasectomy!" Christopher West, ThD, MD, JCD.

Episode 325: Guarding the Garden: Christopher West's Fix for Premature Ejaculation

Episode 324: Stop blaming all your problems on the devil.

Episode 323: More Terrible Advice From Theology of the Body Experts?

Episode 322: Christopher West Says Reverse the Vasectomy. Is this bad advice?

Episode 321: If Marriage Doesn't Need Sex, Does It Really Need Anything?

Episode 320: Catholic Sexual Rules for Converts: what they didn't mention in RCIA.

Episode 319: Theology of the Body's elephant in the room.

Episode 318: The Marital Debt is Gone. What else can the Pope Change?

Episode 317: Does Traditional Catholic Morality Breed Neuroticism?

Episode 316: Kids that believe in Santa grow up hating NFP?

Episode 315: She Said What About the Immaculate Conception?!!!

Episode 314: Real Patriarchy in Catholic Marriage?

Episode 313: Lila Rose angers all the Trad men. Is Christopher West just making stuff up?

Episode 312: Do Catholic couples need a valid "excuse" to be intimate?

Episode 311: 10 things every Catholic couple needs to know.

Episode 310: NFP is like a circus, but without the fun.

Episode 309: Does NFP and Abstinence Get Easier with Age?

Episode 308: Interview with Mrs. Uncharted Catholic Man!!!

Episode 307: Can a Catholic Man Detach Himself From Sex? And Should He?

Episode 306: Believe As We Say Or Else: Why Many Catholics Struggle.

Episode 305: What Would St. Augustine Say About It? And Should We Care?

Episode 304: Christopher West's No Fail Cure for Masturbation?

Episode 303: Why do Catholics freak out about pleasure?

Episode 302: Procreation + Unity. Is Church Teaching Backwards on Marriage?

Episode 301: Does Regular Intimacy Make Marriage Stronger?

Episode 300: Happy Catholic Marriage: Is there a Secret Recipe?

Livestream: From Marital Debt to Mutual Submission. Has the Church changed?

Episode 299: Is Sex a need in Catholic marriage?

Episode 298: Is Your Spouse Your Biggest Cross In Life?

Episode 297: Why Don't Catholics Trust in God's Mercy?

Episode 296: Sex, Lies, and Drones. How Far Will Catholic Men and Women go for Love?

Episode 295: Where Art Thou Song of Songs? Singing the NFP Blues.

Episode 294: Speak Now or Abstain Later: The Five Languages of Catholic Marriage.

Episode 293: The Key to an Amazing Catholic Marriage

Episode 292: Catholic Mutual Submission: Hot, Holy, and Practical--or Modern Heresy?

Episode 290: Romancing Your Wife's Imagination: Literary Foreplay for Faithful Catholics?

Episode 289: Should Catholics Pray For the Church to Change?

Episode 288: Crisis of Faith and Threats of Hell. What are Struggling Catholics To Do?

Episode 287: May You Suffer Happily Ever After: Reality Check for Catholic Marriages.

Episode 286: For Pete's Sake. Can gay couples have happy relationships and raise happy kids?

Episode 285: My Conscience Says Yes… But the Church Says NOPE. Now What?

Episode 284: Honeymoon’s Here… and So Is Her Period. Now What, Catholics?

Episode 283: TOB at High Speed: Christopher West beats masturbation.

282: Catholics Hate NFP. What Should Do We Do About It?

281: Newly Wed Wife Panics When Marriage Isn't What She Expected.

Episode 280: Mark Wahlberg: Inspiration for Catholic Men or Unrelatable Mad Man?

279: Are Catholics Required to Follow Humanae Vitae?

278: Did We Really Invent "Other Acts"? (SORRY FOR THE CHOPPY AUDIO)

277: "Catholic Marriage rules are a Hard Sell". Gee, You Think?

276. Clogged Drains and Marital Gains: Flushing Abstinence Woes Down the Drain

275. NFP Gets Wild and Soapy: Navigating Menopause as Catholics

Episode 274. Abstinence Reloaded: Navigating the Matrix of NFP in Catholic Marriage

Episode 273: P*rn in Catholic Marriage: Are We Going About It All Wrong?

The Conflicted Catholic: Navigating Faith Struggles With Your Kids.

Is Catholic Morality The Cure Or The Culprit For Sexual Wounds In Marriage? (episode 271)

Should The Church Ordain Gay Priests? + NFP Mile High Adventures | Episode 269

Episode 268: This One Time, at Catholic Camp: Talking to Kids about the Birds, the Bees, and NFP

Episode 267: Natural Family Planning: So Easy a Caveman Could Do It.

Episode 266: Confession Dilemmas, Christmas Miracles, and Abundant Abstinence.

Episode 265: Are Women Treated Unfairly in Confession?

Surviving The Desert Of Desire: Navigating NFP With A Relentless Toddler. (Episode 264)

Episode 263: The Great Catholic Abstinence Experiment: Will He Make It to the End?

Episode 262: NFP: Path of Sacrifice or Cult of Suffering?

Episode 261: The Great Celibacy Challenge - Is It Even Worse Than NFP?

Episode 259: The Truth About Contraception, NFP, And Conscience: A Candid Discussion With A Priest

Episode 258: Fasting or Abstinence: Which is Easier in Marriage?

Episode 257: Intimacy, Ice Cream, and Angry Neighbors: The Unfiltered Truth About Marriage

Catholic Marriage Survival Guide: Duct Tape, Death Stares & Afternoon Delights (Ep. 256)

Is the Church driving people away with all the sex rules?

Confession Line: Why Women Take Their Time And Men Can't Wait To Escape - Episode 255

Unraveling The Mystery Of Primacy Of Conscience: Livestream Playback

Confessions of a Melancholic Catholic: Constant Quest for Joy and Belief. Episode 254.

Birth Control Battle: Candid Catholic Chat About Contraception and NFP

NFP: The Art of Dodging Kids and Conjugal Acts (Episode 253)

Ice Cream, Intimacy, and the "Fertile Window": Do we actually agree with Timothy Gordon on NFP?

Episode 252: Tied Up in Guilt: The Church's Endless War Against "Self-Abuse"

Episode 251: From Covenant Church to Boston College: A Wicked Good Journey of Faith

Episode 250: Holding Firm: A Stimulating Look at the History of Masturbation in Catholic Thought.

Episode 249: Magic Wands and Marital Debt: Speculative Theology Or Heresy?

Episode 248: "Give Me Intimacy Or Give Me Death". Tales from the Heart of the Uncharted Catholic Man

No regular UCM episode this week

Episode 247: Inquisition of Catholic Man Before His Wedding. Mortuus Ambulans

Episode 246: Why Men Crave Intimacy And Does Church Teaching Make the Conjugal Act a Need?

Episode 245: Talking Hell, Confession, Scrupulosity, Judgment, and Hope with Catholic Priest.

Episode 244: Talking NFP, Intimacy, and Happy Catholic Marriage with Ordinary Catholic!

Episode 243: Does Your Catholic Marriage Feel like a Minefield or a Farmfield?

"Souls Must Be Able to Go To Hell Because of Free Will". The Fundamental Problem with this Argument.

Rant Against The Fake NFP Apologists. Update on UCM's Sickness

ONAN DOWN: No UCM Video this week

Episode 242: The Problem of Natural Law in Catholic Sexual Ethics

Episode 241: Which is Worse for Marriage: Other Acts Between Spouses or Soul Crushing Abstinence?

Episode 240: NFP Gone Wild: Camping During The Infertile Window.

Episode 239: Can a Man Thrive if his Wife is Unhappy? Catholic Marriage and Grappling Hooks.

Episode 238: Is it Sinful for Catholics NOT to use NFP? NFP goes from Bad to Worse.

Episode 237: Is Hell Empty? Jordan Daniel Wood Discusses Hope vs. Heresy and Universalism.

Episode 236: Marital Wager: Would You Go Back In Time Machine and Start Over or Stay Put?

Episode 235: Lord of the Scruples. A Catholic's Journey to Trad and Back Again.

Episode 234: Catholic Teaching Based on Bad Biology or Good Theology?

Episode 233: Adventures in Babysitting: How Should Catholics Make Time for Intimacy?

Episode 232: NFP High Stakes. Was the Gamble Worth It?

Episode 231: Secret to a long and happy Catholic marriage: cheat code or heresy?

Episode 230: Are you not entertained? Does Catholic media have to be boring?

Episode 229: Being chaste, overcoming loneliness, and forming your conscience as a gay Catholic.

Episode 228: No Pope No Problem! Talking papacy, intimacy, and end times with a Sedevacantist.

Episode 227: Onan's Last Stand. Trads call in the big guns. Then block me anyway.

Episode 226: Mining for Catholic truth: Is there more to sex than Procreation and Unity?

Episode 225: 🎵 Let's get Metaphysical! 🎵 What would Aquinas say about Only Fans?

Episode 224: Planes, Trains, and Abstinence Periods. Why big Catholic families don't go on vacations

Episode 223: Is abstinence harmful to your health? Is body building an occasion of sin?

Episode 222: Can you really abuse NFP? We respond to Harrison Butker speech controversy.

Menopause and what it means for us Catholics. Craig and Jeannie Part 2.

Episode 221: "Don't scratch every itch" and other silly stuff good Catholics say about sex.

Episode 220: The Agony of the Garden and other mysteries of women and marriage.

Episode 219: Does Natural Family Planning make your marriage better? It's a thorny issue!

Episode 218: More kids? If I were a rich man. Ya ba dibba dibba dibba dibba dibba dibba dum.

Episode 217: John Michael Talbot interview. Talking community, chastity, and discernment.

Episode 2 (C&J): An ugly husband makes a happy wife. What can turkeys teach these podcast turkeys?

Episode 216: Captain John Farrell returns and tries to chart us back to the nature of marriage.

Episode 1 (C&J): From Mountain Dew addict to Podcast model: a true tale of redemption.

Episode 215: Bond. James Marriage Bond. The trials and tribulations of Natural Family Planning.

Episode 214: Coitus Inoculus: Not even rabies can keep this podcaster down.

Episode 213: NFP & Catholic marriage is really hard. That's what she said!

Episode 212: Jonah agrees to wrestle Taylor Marshall, the Whale of Traditional Catholicism.

Episode 211: Divine Mercy controversy: Lord have mercy on those naughty swing dancers.

Episode 210: Taylor Marshall blocked us, Swing Dancing is evil, & Uncharted Catholic Matrix update!

Episode 209: Celibacy vs. Catholic marriage. Which is actually tougher? And is NFP sinful to use?

Episode 208: Former Trads debate NFP Catholic swingers, Other Acts, and other pressing topics.

Episode 207: Uncharted Catholic Matrix: Have we been looking at Marital Intimacy all wrong?

Episode 206: What came first, the chicken or scrupulosity? This is no laughing matter!

Episode 205: Marital Debt Collectors Unite! Are you even Catholic if you don't love Marital Debt?

Episode 204: There's no place like home: doggy style

Episode 203: NFP is just like contraception and that’s why almost nobody uses it. 🤷‍♂️

Episode 202: Chasing cats and fleeing concupiscence! Lie WITH your wife, not TO your wife!

Intermission: recapping Episode 200 and looking ahead for the Uncharted Catholic Man

Episode 201: Theology of the Body and female pleasure--where do we go from here?

Episode 200: "Other Acts" in marriage: What do Catholics believe and why?

Intro to Episode 200: "Other Acts" in marriage: What do Catholics believe and why? (link below)

What does Christopher West say about "Other Acts" Part 2 (previously 166)

Episode 199: Why are Catholics leaving the faith? Talking love and lust with former Catholic.

Countdown to Episode 200: What does Christopher West say about "Other Acts" Part 1 (previously 164)

Episode 198: When conscience collides with Catholic teaching. Interview with "Essence-tial Catholic"

Episode 197: Most NFP Catholics would use birth control if the Church allowed it.

Episode 196: Personal conscience vs. Catholic teaching. Interview with former NFL chaplain.

Episode 195: Traditional Catholic morality and the 21st Century--friends or foes?

Episode 194: Conceivable! The moral dilemma for faithful Catholics and responsible parenthood.

Episode 193: 2352 Shades of Gray--quest for clarity on the biggest theological issue of our time

Episode 192: The Catholic voter now that Roe v. Wade is gone. Thomas Polega returns to discuss.

Episode 191: Rebels with a just cause: Saving marriage with ice baths and living marital debt free.

Episode 190: St. Joseph vs. St. Peter: which is the better model of chastity for Catholic men?

Episode 189: Shipwrecked again in the Uncharted waters of NFP and abstinence still sucks.

Episode 188: Traditional Catholic orders his household. Master of his domain or red pilled menace?

Episode 187: Uncharted Catholic News: Brittany Spears and Cardinal Burke walk in to a shoe store

Episode 186: Amish having more whoopee and is exercise an occasion of sin? Thomas Polega joins us!

Episode 185: Letter vs Spirit. Are Conservative Catholics defenders of truth or modern Pharisees?

Episode 184: Adventures in abstinence, Confession scares, and Communion line alibis.

Episode 183: Corn flakes and soccer a day keep the solo away. And when that fails, go to confession.

Episode 182: Catholic Shades of Gray: Is Theology of the Body just Catholic purity culture?

Episode 181: Nocturnal eviction: fact or fiction? Hopefully the NFP instructor doesn't see this.

Episode 180: Confessions from Down Under. A listener from Australia shares his struggles and triumph

Episode 179: To Chaste or not to Chaste, eh? Unravelling Catholic morality with Canadian podcaster

Episode 178: Tough NFP conversations: the No Fly List continues for the Uncharted Catholic Man

Episode 177: Abstinence, sleepless nights, and flying monkeys Just another day in the life of NFP.

Episode 176: Interview (Part 2) with TikTok phenom, the Christian S_xpert

12.1.23: Stop worrying about whether sex is a "need" for your husband. Ask this instead.

11.30.23 Catholics Guys: If you want better marriage intimacy, you have to isolate the porn first.

Episode 175: Interview (Part 1) with TikTok phenom and intimacy coach, the Christian S_xpert

11.29.23: Is Theology of the Body the Catholic version of Purity Culture?

11/28/23: Catholics will struggle with sin and bad habits and that's okay. We want your stories.

11.27.23: Reflections and hope for an amazing marriage

Episode 174: Stop playing hooky in your marriage and go learn from the Happy Wife School.

Episode 173: Solo Scripturo: Do our tricks even work on non-Catholics?

Help wanted: We're looking for 2-5 hours per week of behind the scenes help on the podcast.

Any volunteers for Uncharted Catholic Mastermind?

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Episode 172: Natural family planning rules are made to be broken, named, and baptized.

Alert! Big improvements (changes) coming to podcast soon!

Episode 171: 4 steps to better and more frequent intimacy in your Catholic Marriage

Episode 170: Nocturnal Transmission: can Elon Musk save Catholic men?

Episode 169: A listener threatens to call our bishop, but pulls out and calls in to the show instead

Episode 167. From Occam to Galileo, weird dreams to white lies, why do all roads lead back to Onan?

ALERT: changes coming to podcast channel and help wanted!

Episode 166. Christopher West answers our tough questions. Or does he? (Part 2)