Christian Life Coaching for Women with Terry Deason | Healthy Relationships, Personal Awareness, Biblical Encouragement, Betrayal, Trusting God

In today's episode, Terry takes one verse from each chapter of the Bible and conducts an experiment to see if there is a thru-story.  What she finds is that there is a pattern that repeats throughout the Bible. Throughout all of recorded history, man continues to cycle through this pattern: Death / brokenness God speaks People drift Warning Judgment Preservation Humility Faith Hope Victory The Good news is that through it all, God calls a broken, prideful humanity into humility and faith.  He preserves them through discipline and judgment.  He gives them new life, hope and identity in His Son and through His Spirit.  He brings final victory through Jesus. The scriptures Terry uses in this episode are all Chapter 5, verse 5 of the book she mentions. Join Terry for an eight week journey to your true self, through a more intimate understanding of the trinity….. God the Father, God the Son and God the Holy Spirit Being Known Virtual Workshop....coming in June/July Who’s it for? Whether you have been in church your whole life or you are new to this church thing, “Being Known” will give you an opportunity to experience God personally, in a fresh, new way. And, in the process of knowing Him, come to know more of who you are as His child. What’s different about this workshop? Each week we will focus our attention on different attributes of God and then utilize painting to express how we are experiencing this in our relationship with Him. For more details go to.... https://www.illuminatethepath.com/workshop   Resources & Next Steps: 💛 Schedule a coaching session with Terry STEP 1:  Visit Terry's website.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book your first session. https://www.illuminatethepath.com/services STEP 3:  Join Terry's closed FB page, it's a safe place! https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1H5wUdnwab/ STEP 4: Do your work.....you've got this! Support the Podcast: Download this episode Share the link with a friend! Leave a review or a comment Your support helps this message reach women around the world!      

  Today’s episode is part two of Terry’s interview with Mike Vaughn, LCMHCS, CSAT, a therapist, national conference speaker, podcast co-host and author Mike leads Bethesda Workshops as its Executive Director. He is an accomplished business leader and therapist; specializing in the areas of sex addiction recovery, intensive therapy, marriage therapy and trauma. Mike has over 20 years of experience as a therapist. He began his work at Bethesda Workshops as a small group therapist in 2017 and later moved into a leadership role before becoming Executive Director. Mike shares important information with Terry about sex addiction and betrayal trauma.  There is a key connection to God and others in this healing process.  We need others in order to heal.   If you didn’t hear Part one of this interview, which covered information about individual, intensive and group therapy please go back and listen to episode #23!  To learn more about Mike’s work, go to www.bethesdaworkshops.org and www.counselingpracticecoach.com To contact Mike directly, email him at: [email protected] Mike mentioned Pure Desire Ministries in this episode.  If you want more information their website is www.puredesire.org Resources & Next Steps: 💛 Schedule a coaching session with Terry STEP 1:  Visit Terry's website.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book your first session. https://www.illuminatethepath.com/services STEP 3:  Join Terry's closed FB page, it's a safe place! https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1H5wUdnwab/ STEP 4: Do your work.....you've got this! Support the Podcast: Download this episode Share the link with a friend! Leave a review or a comment Your support helps this message reach women around the world!    

Today’s episode is part one of Terry’s interview with Mike Vaughn, LCMHCS, CSAT, a therapist, national conference speaker, podcast co-host and author Mike shares important information for those who are not familiar with what a therapist does and why one might seek a therapist.  He also provides some helpful insights on how to find a therapist who is right for you.    We discuss individual therapy, intensive therapy and group therapy.  The focus for each is healing in a safe environment.  Be sure to listen to Part 2 of the Mike Vaughn Interview to learn more about the Bethesda Workshops and the amazing work they do.  That episode will air on Friday of this week.  To learn more about Mike’s work, go to www.bethesdaworkshops.org and www.counselingpracticecoach.com To contact Mike directly, email him at: [email protected]   Resources & Next Steps: 💛 Schedule a coaching session with Terry STEP 1:  Visit Terry's website.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book your first session. https://www.illuminatethepath.com/services STEP 3:  Join Terry's closed FB page, it's a safe place! https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1H5wUdnwab/ STEP 4: Do your work.....you've got this! Support the Podcast: Download this episode Share the link with a friend! Leave a review or a comment Your support helps this message reach women around the world!    

In This Episode Terry offers encouragement for listeners who feel broken or alone.  She focuses on Jesus’ mission to bind up the brokenhearted and the Psalmist’s reference that God desires truth in my innermost being.  The Japanese art of Kintsugi as a picture of God’s restoration of our brokenness.  Quick fixes and self-sufficiency don’t bring lasting healing.  However, allowing Jesus to restore us slowly and thoughtfully give us a new heart.  The comfort we receive will allow us to then provide comfort to others.  Ultimately our value increases through the process!  Key Scriptures Isaiah 61:1— Bind up the brokenhearted Psalm 51:6—Behold, you desire truth in my innermost being 2 Corinthians 1:3–5. God comforts us so we can comfort others Key Takeaways God restores broken hearts carefully and intentionally Healing is a slow process — but a meaningful one Quick fixes don’t hold; God’s restoration does Your brokenness does not reduce your value — it increases it God comforts you so you can comfort others Prayer Focus Ask God to: Gently hold your broken places Restore your heart Fill missing pieces with His grace Use your story to comfort others Recommended Worship Amazing Grace — Shane & Shane https://youtu.be/W-gpQzLUgwE?si=fyJ0xgWKVKOBvy4h   Spring Reset and Refresh:  Emotions and Thought Patterns Join Terry for a group coaching experience looking at identifying your emotions and transforming your thought patterns!  You'll participate via Zoom and receive a handout for each evening.   Three sessions for $37 April 29 thru May 1 @ 7pm central time.   Sign up here: https://www.illuminatethepath.com/workshop-1 Celebrating three months of podcasting!  Thank you to my listeners all over the world!  This is your podcast, share in the comments what your takeaways are!    Resources & Next Steps: 💛 Schedule a coaching session with Terry STEP 1:  Visit Terry's website.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book your first session. https://www.illuminatethepath.com/services STEP 3:  Join Terry's closed FB page, it's a safe place! https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1H5wUdnwab/ STEP 4: Do your work.....you've got this! Support the Podcast: Download this episode Share the link with a friend! Leave a review or a comment Your support helps this message reach women around the world!    

What if the way you see the world isn’t actually clear? What if there’s been a “plank” in your eye for so long that you don’t even know it’s there? In this episode, Terry explores Jesus’ teaching about judgment, perspective, and self-awareness. Jesus challenges us to examine our own hearts before trying to fix others. But what happens when the beliefs shaping our perspective were formed in childhood? When our “plank” is made up of survival strategies we learned long ago? This episode dives into how early beliefs shape our behaviors, relationships, and sense of worth—and how God invites us to see differently. Jesus asks why we notice the speck in someone else’s eye while ignoring the plank in our own. But sometimes we don’t see the plank because it has always been there. Childhood experiences often shape: How we define safety How we handle emotions How we measure worth How we respond to conflict These beliefs become protective strategies… but eventually they can become limiting patterns. Identifying with Martha Martha in Luke 10 shows this same pattern. She was busy, responsible, and focused on meeting everyone’s needs. She believed she was doing the right thing — being a gracious host, caring for others, and handling responsibilities. But Jesus gently redirected her: “You are worried and upset about many things… but only one thing is needed.” Martha’s history shaped her priorities. Her beliefs shaped her behavior. And Jesus invited her into something different — presence, learning, and relationship. Unlearning lifelong patterns is not easy. These behaviors once kept us safe. But God invites us to something new. Romans 12:2 reminds us: We are transformed by changing the way we think. Transformation happens when we: Notice our beliefs Question old patterns Allow God to reshape our thinking Practice new responses Prioritize what truly matters This is a process. Transformation doesn’t happen overnight. But as we allow God to change the way we think, we begin to see clearly — without the plank — and walk in freedom Scripture Focus Gospel of Mark 6:37–42 Gospel of Luke 10:38–42 Epistle to the Romans 12:2 Spring Reset and Refresh:  Emotions and Thought Patterns Join Terry for a group coaching experience looking at identifying your emotions and transforming your thought patterns!  You'll participate via Zoom and receive a handout for each evening.   Three sessions for $37 April 29 thru May 1 @ 7pm central time.   Sign up here: https://www.illuminatethepath.com/workshop-1   Resources & Next Steps: 💛 Schedule a coaching session with Terry STEP 1:  Visit Terry's website.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book your first session. https://www.illuminatethepath.com/services STEP 3:  Join Terry's closed FB page, it's a safe place! https://www.facebook.com/share/g/1H5wUdnwab/ STEP 4: Do your work.....you've got this! Support the Podcast: Download this episode Share the link with a friend! Leave a review or a comment Your support helps this message reach women around the world!  

NOTE:  Just in cast you're wondering about the numbering being off on this episode, it was posted last week and never showed up on distribution channels.  I'm trying again!  Hope you enjoy this episode! Waiting is one of the hardest parts of life. Whether we are waiting for answers, healing, direction, or change, the waiting season can feel long and lonely. In today’s episode Terry discusses the uncertainty of so many things we face in our day to day lives.  God cares about all those things, whether they are BIG or small.  She reflects on what Scripture teaches about waiting and how God often provides in unexpected ways. Through biblical examples and practical encouragement, she reminds us that waiting doesn’t mean God is absent — it is often the place where He is quietly at work.   Scripture References: I Peter 5:7 Give all your worries and cares to God, for He cares about you! Psalm 27:14. Wait for the Lord, be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord 1 Kings 17:16  Ravens bring Elijah Food Exodus 16         Israelites in the Wilderness Galatians 6:9  do good, don’t become weary Romans 12:11 serve the LORD with zeal 1 Corinthians 16:13 stand firm in the faith Ephesians 6:19 pray and be alert 2 Timothy 4:5 keep your head in all situations, endure hardship, do the work of an evangelist Isaiah 40:31  Those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength.  They will soar on wings like eagles, they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.  Resources & Next Steps: 💛 Schedule a coaching session with Terry STEP 1:  Visit Terry's website.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book your first session. https://www.illuminatethepath.com/services STEP 3:  Do your work.....you've got this! Support the Podcast: Download this episode Share the link with a friend! Leave a review or a comment Your support helps this message reach women around the world!   Suggested Listening…..Songs for Seasons of Waiting Wait by Matt Maher https://youtu.be/sn23I2-AP7w?si=heIEGH_YSzWszYI1 Don’t Be Afraid by Brandon Heath https://youtu.be/ONPoSGyk-SA?si=Wv-hJHwKag46lN3K New Wine by Hillsong https://youtu.be/QbJaM_EneMw?si=uAvoN7EzGsmXz6qc

I am posting scripture each day this week that align to what happened the final week of Jesus' life here on earth.   Today's audio, John 20: 1-23, 30-31, is John's description of what happened on Resurrection Day or Easter Sunday.  He describes the women finding the tomb empty and encountering angels in the tomb.  Also Mary being asked "why are you weeping?"   John chapter 20 ends with his own description of why he wrote this gospel...."so that you may believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God and that believing you may have life in His name." This is my prayer for you as you listen to these Passion Week audios.  May you know Jesus the risen Christ!   Regular podcast releases will resume on Tuesday. Support the Podcast: Download this episode Share the link with a friend! Leave a review or a comment Your support helps this message reach women around the world!   Resources & Next Steps: 💛 Schedule a coaching session with Terry STEP 1:  Visit Terry's website.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book your first session. https://www.illuminatethepath.com/services STEP 3:  Do your work.....you've got this!    

I am posting scripture each day this week that align to what happened the final week of Jesus' life here on earth.   Today's audio is very short because not much happened on Saturday, which is the Jewish Sabbath.  The laws required Jews to do no work on this day.  Yet we find the Pharisees in Matthew 27:62-66 meeting with Pilate to make sure Jesus' tomb was secured appropriately.  This is in contrast to the disciples who rested according to the law.  Luke 23:56 As you listen to these two short passages, I ask you to consider if your heart is aligned to Jesus' teaching as you approach Easter Sunday. Regular podcast releases will resume next Tuesday. Support the Podcast: Download this episode Share the link with a friend! Leave a review or a comment Your support helps this message reach women around the world!   Resources & Next Steps: 💛 Schedule a coaching session with Terry STEP 1:  Visit Terry's website.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book your first session. https://www.illuminatethepath.com/services STEP 3:  Do your work.....you've got this!      

We're walking together from Palm Sunday to Easter Sunday.  I am posting scripture each day this week that align to what happened the final week of Jesus' life here on earth. Good Friday is an important day in Passion Week.  Today's scripture is from the gospel of John.  John's gospel is the only eyewitness account of Jesus death on the cross.  Terry reads John 18:28-19:30.   Regular podcast releases will resume next Tuesday. Support the Podcast: Download this episode Share the link with a friend! Leave a review or a comment Your support helps this message reach women around the world!   Resources & Next Steps: 💛 Schedule a coaching session with Terry STEP 1:  Visit Terry's website.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book your first session. https://www.illuminatethepath.com/services STEP 3:  Do your work.....you've got this!    

Thursday is an important day in Passion Week.  In today's scripture reading, Matthew 26:17-75, you will hear about the passover meal Jesus shared with his disciples.  We use his words from this scripture when we take communion today.   Jesus prays in the Garden of Gethsemene and Judas betrays Jesus with a kiss.  You'll also hear Peter deny Jesus three times, exactly what Jesus had predicted earlier.   Let's all make sure we aren't betraying or denying Jesus in the way we engage in the world this week or any week.   I will be posting scripture each day this week that align to what happened the final week of Jesus' life here on earth.  Regular podcast releases will resume next Tuesday. Support the Podcast: Download this episode Share the link with a friend! Leave a review or a comment Your support helps this message reach women around the world!   Resources & Next Steps: 💛 Schedule a coaching session with Terry STEP 1:  Visit Terry's website.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book your first session. https://www.illuminatethepath.com/services STEP 3:  Do your work.....you've got this!    

Wednesday of Passion Week has two notable events.  One is the anointing of Jesus ( Mark 14:1-9) and the second is Judas agreeing to betray Jesus (Luke 22:1-6).  This is a short episode, but should give you a lot to think about! Regular podcast releases will resume next Tuesday.  Hope you have a blessed Easter! Resources & Next Steps: 💛 Schedule a coaching session with Terry STEP 1:  Visit Terry's website.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book your first session. https://www.illuminatethepath.com/services STEP 3:  Do your work.....you've got this! Support the Podcast: Download this episode Share the link with a friend! Leave a review or a comment Your support helps this message reach women around the world!      

Tuesday's Passion Week Reading is from Matthew 22-23:12.  Jesus continues to teach and to respond to queries from the Sadducees and Pharisees who are trying to trap him with words.....spoiler alert....it doesn't work!!! Terry also shares a bit about the "Woes" or charges Jesus brings against the Pharisees.  He calls them hypocrites and blind guides.  Chapters 24 and 25 are Jesus' overview of what his second coming will be like.  I hope you'll find time to read these chapters before the week is out.   I will be posting scripture each day this week that align to what happened the final week of Jesus' life here on earth.  Regular podcast releases will resume next Tuesday. Support the Podcast: Download this episode Share the link with a friend! Leave a review or a comment Your support helps this message reach women around the world!   Resources & Next Steps: 💛 Schedule a coaching session with Terry STEP 1:  Visit Terry's website.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book your first session. https://www.illuminatethepath.com/services STEP 3:  Do your work.....you've got this!    

This week Terry will read scripture each day and have a brief discussion of what happened that day in the final week of Jesus' life on earth.   We begin today with a reading from Matthew 21:18-46.  Jesus gets in the faces and in the heads of the chief priests and Pharisees with some parables that call them out.  We'll pick up here tomorrow! Regular podcast releases will resume next Tuesday.   Support the Podcast: Download this episode Share the link with a friend! Leave a review or a comment Your support helps this message reach women around the world!   Resources & Next Steps: 💛 Schedule a coaching session with Terry STEP 1:  Visit Terry's website.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book your first session. https://www.illuminatethepath.com/services STEP 3:  Do your work.....you've got this!  

Terry shares a story about a damaged tree crashing in her yard to teach spiritual preventive measures for believers.  When our roots are damaged or not fed, we may eventually be unable to stand under the weight of stress or the storms that come our way.  This episode aired on March 17…..St. Patrick’s Day.  Terry also shared a bit about St. Patrick, who he was and what we know about his life.  The words he wrote on his breastplate are included at the end of the show notes to further encourage you in your walk.  Scripture References: I Peter 5:8 Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Matthew 6:13 And lead us not into temptation,  but deliver us from the evil one Ephesians 6:11-12 Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes.12 For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Support the Podcast: Download this episode Share the link with a friend! Leave a review or a comment Your support helps this message reach women around the world! Resources & Next Steps: 💛 Schedule a coaching session with Terry STEP 1:  Visit Terry's website.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book your first session. https://www.illuminatethepath.com/services STEP 3:  Do your work.....you've got this!   St Patrick’s Breastplate Written centuries ago by St. Patrick, this is a profound and simple prayer for protection. We find ourselves returning to again and again: I arise today  Through a mighty strength, the invocation of the Trinity.  Through belief in the threeness,  Through confession of the oneness,  Of the Creator of Creation. I arise today  Through the strength of Christ's birth with His baptism,  Through the strength of His crucifixion with His burial,  Through the strength of His resurrection with His ascension,  Through the strength of His descent for the judgment of doom. I arise today  Through the strength of the love of cherubim,  In the obedience of angels,  In the service of archangels,  In the hope of resurrection to meet with reward,  In the prayers of patriarchs,  In the predictions of prophets,  In the preaching of apostles,  In the faith of confessors,  In the innocence of holy virgins,  In the deeds of righteous men. I arise today, through  The strength of heaven,  The light of the sun,  The radiance of the moon,  The splendor of fire,  The speed of lightning,  The swiftness of wind,  The depth of the sea,  The stability of the earth,  The firmness of rock. I arise today, through  God's strength to pilot me,  God's might to uphold me,  God's wisdom to guide me,  God's eye to look before me,  God's ear to hear me,  God's word to speak for me,  God's hand to guard me,  God's shield to protect me,  God's host to save me  From snares of devils,  From temptation of vices,  From everyone who shall wish me ill,  afar and near. I summon today  All these powers between me and those evils,  Against every cruel and merciless power  that may oppose my body and soul,  Against incantations of false prophets,  Against black laws of pagandom,  Against false laws of heretics,  Against craft of idolatry,  Against spells of witches and smiths and wizards,  Against every knowledge that corrupts man's body and soul;  Christ to shield me today  Against poison, against burning,  Against drowning, against wounding,  So that there may come to me an abundance of reward. Christ with me,  Christ before me,  Christ behind me,  Christ in me,  Christ beneath me,  Christ above me,  Christ on my right,  Christ on my left,  Christ when I lie down,  Christ when I sit down,  Christ when I arise,  Christ in the heart of every man who thinks of me,  Christ in the mouth of everyone who speaks of me,  Christ in every eye that sees me,  Christ in every ear that hears me.   

In this episode, Terry explores the powerful—and often hidden—beliefs we form about ourselves through life experiences. These “agreements” shape our decisions, relationships, and sense of safety. Using Scripture, neuroscience, and personal reflection, Terry invites listeners to examine whether their beliefs align with God’s truth—or if they’ve been living under a lie. You’ll Learn: What “agreements” are and how they form Why beliefs often begin in early adolescence How old agreements become automatic responses Why some beliefs feel true—but aren’t biblical A step-by-step process for breaking unhealthy agreements How Scripture helps renew your mind and restore freedom Key Scriptures: Psalm 139:14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. Proverbs 15:22 Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed. Matthew 7:7 “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. Romans 12:2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Reflection Questions: What do I believe about myself? Where did that belief come from? Does it align with Scripture? What truth does God want me to agree with instead? Key Takeaway: You cannot live in freedom if you are agreeing with a lie—but you can begin again today. Listener Invitation: Share what God is asking you to do. Leave a comment or message so Terry can walk with you and pray with you. Support the Podcast: Download this episode Share the link with a friend! Leave a review or a comment Your support helps this message reach women around the world! Resources & Next Steps: 💛 Schedule a coaching session with Terry STEP 1:  Visit Terry's website.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book your first session. https://www.illuminatethepath.com/services STEP 3:  Do your work.....you've got this!  

In this episode, Terry unpacks what boundaries really are—and what they aren’t. Using Scripture, personal reflection, and practical examples, she walks listeners through how to identify unsafe situations, understand their needs, and set healthy, Christ-centered boundaries without guilt or fear. You’ll Learn: A clear, definition of boundaries Why boundaries are your responsibility How the Pool of Bethesda story applies to healing and self-awareness What physical, emotional, and spiritual safety feel like A step-by-step framework for setting a healthy boundary Why resistance is normal when you begin to change Key Scripture: John 5:1–9 — Healing at the Pool of Bethesda Key Takeaway: Boundaries are not walls—they are pathways to safety, healing, and freedom Listener Invitation: Share what God is asking you to do. Leave a comment or message so Terry can walk with you and pray with you. Support the Podcast: Download this episode Share the link with a friend! Leave a review or a comment Your support helps this message reach women around the world! Resources & Next Steps: 💛 Schedule a coaching session with Terry STEP 1:  Visit Terry's website.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book your first session. https://www.illuminatethepath.com/services STEP 3:  Do your work.....you've got this!      

Do you find yourself shutting down, running away, or reacting the same way every time you feel emotionally unsafe? In this episode, Terry explores how our brains learn safety, why old coping mechanisms can keep us stuck, and how faith, awareness, and intentional choices can help us create new pathways going forward. You’ll learn: Why your body reacts before your mind catches up How emotional responses are formed—and why they repeat Why what once kept you safe may no longer serve you Practical steps to pause, reflect, and choose a new response How Scripture and the mind of Christ can guide your decisions A gentle introduction to boundaries (with more coming next week) Key Takeaway: You did the best you could with what you knew—but today, you have new options. Reflection Questions: Where in my life do I consistently feel unsafe or unsettled? How do I usually respond in that situation? What might a new, healthier response look like? How would Christ respond here? Coming Next Week: A deeper conversation about boundaries—what they are, what they aren’t, and how they help you stay safe without building walls. Listener Invitation: Share what God is asking you to do. Leave a comment or message so Terry can walk with you and pray with you. Support the Podcast: Download Share Leave a review Your support helps this message reach women around the world Resources & Next Steps: 💛 Schedule a coaching session with Terry STEP 1:  Visit Terry's website.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book your first session. https://www.illuminatethepath.com/coaching-calendar STEP 3:  Do your work.....you've got this!    

In today's episode, Terry shares a parable from Mark about a seed planted by man growing in the soil.  The man has no control over the seed, but it grows in the dark.  God is in control of what is produced.  Not us!   We're getting back to basics by focusing on being still and listening to God.   Scripture Focus: Mark 4:28. Parable of Growing Seed Psalm 46:10 "Be Still and Know that I am God" John 10:27. "My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me." Support the Podcast: Download Share with a friend! Leave a comment or review Did you know your comments and reviews help this message reach women around the world? Resources & Next Steps: 💛 Schedule a coaching session with Terry STEP 1:  Visit Terry's website.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book your first session. https://www.illuminatethepath.com/coaching-calendar STEP 3:  Take your next step.....you've got this!  

In today's episode Terry unpacks how we can follow the example set by the prophet Daniel as we are intentional in our prayers.  She shares how her personal obedience to what God told her in a 2:17 am wake up call resulted in today's podcast. How Daniel Prayed: Praise, acknowledge God Repent for self and others Ask, petition God Yield, listen and obey--Be quiet to receive insight and understanding Scripture References: Proverbs 3:5-6  Trust in the LORD with all your heart, lean not on your own understanding.  In all your ways acknowledge him and he will direct your paths. Daniel 9:1-23 I Corinthians 6:19  Do you now know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? I Chronicles 23:30  They are to stand every morning to thank and praise the LORD   Resources mentioned in today's podcast: One Minute Pause App:  https://wildatheart.org/pause Lectio App: https://lectio365.com  You Version Bible App:https://www.youversion.com/bible-app Bible Gateway Website: https://bibleproject.com   Support the Podcast: Download Share Leave a review Your support helps this message reach women around the world Resources & Next Steps: 💛 Schedule a coaching session with Terry STEP 1:  Visit Terry's website.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book your first session. https://www.illuminatethepath.com/coaching-calendar STEP 3:  Take your next step.....you've got this!    

Episode Description: Jesus’ words, “Do not throw your pearls to the swine,” can feel confusing—until we understand what He was really saying. In this episode, Terry shares a deeply personal story about loss, hidden treasure, and the surprising value of what we carry every day. Together, we explore how faith, like a pearl, is formed through discomfort—and why we must take that pain to God.  That pain might be Treasure!   Key Topics Covered: The cultural meaning behind “pearls” and “swine” Why Jesus used this powerful metaphor A personal story of loss and unexpected treasure Recognizing the value of your pain Wearing your faith daily—not hiding it Understanding who you can trust Key Scripture: Matthew 7:6 – “Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs…” Reflection Questions: What do you treasure most right now? Do you recognize the value of your relationship with God? Are you taking your pain to God daily?  Are you wearing your faith daily—or hiding it away? Who are you trusting with your spiritual treasure? Closing Thoughts: Your faith is precious. Handle it with care. Wear it daily. Trust God to turn what once hurt into eternal TREASURE.   Listener Invitation: Share what God is asking you to do. Leave a comment or message so Terry can walk with you and pray with you. Support the Podcast: Download Share Leave a review Your support helps this message reach women around the world Resources & Next Steps: 💛 Schedule a coaching session with Terry STEP 1:  Visit Terry's website.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book your first session. https://www.illuminatethepath.com/coaching-calendar STEP 3:  Do your work.....you've got this!    

Today’s podcast episode is an interview with Vanesa Alcantara.  Vanesa Alcantara is a writer, speaker, and faith-based mentor passionate about helping women face hard realities, heal what’s broken, and walk in freedom through biblical truth. She is the founder of Soul Scan, a women’s ministry and annual conference focused on emotional healing, spiritual growth, and inner alignment with God’s Word. Through her teaching, storytelling, and lived experience, Vanesa creates space for honest conversations around identity, obedience, healing, and what it means to live led by truth rather than feelings. She is the author of Soul Scan: Facing Hard Realities to Heal What’s Broken, and her heart is to equip women to deal with what they’ve avoided, heal with God, and grow into who He’s called them to be. Soul Scan Links: www.soulscan.org www.soulscanconference.com   The Soul Scan Women’s Conference is a 2-day conference taking place February 27–28 in Mansfield, OH! Expect great people, good snacks, and most importantly a powerful, faith-filled experience focused on healing, restoration, and transformation.   Purchase the book on Amazon:  https://www.amazon.com/Soul-Scan-Facing-Realities-Broken/dp/1958978094/ref=sr_1_1?crid=GZJ565VS9EQ&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.ncOOl05z11_DTt4P24r0Ag.nOM3dA2K6zERYlZSeiCIs-Y7l8GkfOguSVY8-BNyvco&dib_tag=se&keywords=soul+scan+vanesa+alcantara&qid=1768854502&sprefix=soul+scan%2Caps%2C235&sr=8-1   Tune in to Christian Life Coaching for Women with Terry Deason for more GREAT interviews!  You’ll find weekly episodes that provide encouragement and tools for growth.  For personal Life Coaching… 💛 Schedule a free coaching consultation with Terry STEP 1:  Visit Terry's website.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book a complimentary session.https://www.illuminatethepath.com/coaching-calendar STEP 3:  Do your work.....you've got this! Until next time…..Be gentle with yourself. Take one step. You are not alone.  

In this episode, Terry talks about obedience—why it matters, how God equips us in advance, and how He uses what we already have. She shares her personal journey of launching this podcast as an act of obedience and reflects on biblical stories that remind us God is the one who brings victory. Scriptures Referenced: Ephesians 1 Ephesians 2:10 Exodus 4 1 Samuel 17 John 6 Judges 7 Reflection Question: What has God placed in your hand that He wants you to use? Listener Invitation: Share what God is asking you to do. Leave a comment or message so Terry can walk with you and pray with you. Support the Podcast: Download Share Leave a review Your support helps this message reach women around the world Resources & Next Steps: 💛 Schedule a free coaching consultation with Terry STEP 1:  Visit Terry's website.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book a complimentary session.https://www.illuminatethepath.com/coaching-calendar STEP 3:  Do your work.....you've got this!  

In today’s episode, Terry builds on last week’s conversation about organizing your life with God by introducing a simple, faith-centered tool to help you prioritize your energy and responsibilities. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: Why taking on too much keeps us stuck and overwhelmed How Jesus’ “light burden” applies to everyday life A practical 3-circle tool to identify what you can control, influence, or release How prayer fits into what we cannot control Resources & Next Steps: 🎧 Listen to last week’s episode (January 7) 💛 Schedule a free coaching consultation with Terry STEP 1:  Visit Terry's website.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book a complimentary session.https://www.illuminatethepath.com/coaching-calendar STEP 3:  Do your work.....you've got this! Be gentle with yourself. Take one step. You are not alone.

The beginning of a new year often comes with big resolutions—and just as much pressure. In this episode, Terry invites you to step away from unrealistic expectations and instead center your year with intention, clarity, and God’s guidance. Rather than trying to change everything at once, you’ll learn how to release what no longer serves you, refocus on what truly matters, and take one faithful step at a time toward the life God is calling you into. This episode offers practical tools, reflective questions, and spiritual encouragement to help you move into the new year grounded, focused, and at peace. HOMEWORK—WHAT MATTERS MOST?   Terry suggests you take one day for each of the topics below.  Spend some time alone with God asking for His insights around each topic.  Your spiritual walk—are you spending time with God daily? Are you loving the Lord with all your heart, mind, soul, and strength? Your family—the people closest to you? Your resourses—are you stewarding what God provides with intention? How are you spending your time? Is it aligned with your values? How are you spending your money? Does it reflect what’s truly important to you? Your health—physically, emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually? What about your environment—is your home peaceful, functional, and safe? Your social life—who are you sharing the journey with? Your hobbies and creativity—are you creating the way God designed you to? Want to work with Terry? STEP 1:  Visit Terry's website. www.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book a complimentary session. https://www.illuminatethepath.com/coaching-calendar STEP 3:  Do your work.....you've got this!  

In this powerful episode Terry shares how God used a plastic Christmas tree to reveal patterns of perfectionism, fear and judgment---not just toward objects, but toward people.  Through a late-night conversation with God and a tool called "Emptying the Jug", she uncovers anger, sadness, fear and ultimately joy.  In the end, the "magical plastic Christmas tree" becomes a symbol of grace, acceptance and the true focus of Christmas! Want to work with Terry? STEP 1:  Visit Terry's website. www.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book a complimentary session. https://www.illuminatethepath.com/coaching-calendar STEP 3:  Do your work.....you've got this! Until next time, Remember.....YOU are loved, YOU are seen, YOU are never alone!    

In this podcast Terry talks about difficult days and how we can still focus  on gratitude on those days.  Life is hard.  Let's walk together Join me here each week for new podcast episodes!   Want to work with Terry? STEP 1:  Go to Terry's website. www.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book a complimentary session. https://www.illuminatethepath.com/coaching-calendar STEP 3:  Do your work.....you've got this!    

Welcome to Christian Life Coaching for Women with Terry Deason.  This mini-episode provides an overview of Terry's passions and plans for the podcast series.   I look forward to meeting you here each week for new podcast episodes!   Want to work with Terry? STEP 1:  Go to Terry's website. www.illuminatethepath.com STEP 2:  Book a complimentary session. https://www.illuminatethepath.com/coaching-calendar