Marriage of Greatness Podcast

What if two of America’s favorite pastimes are quietly sabotaging your marriage? In this eye-opening episode, Susan Money and Evan Money reveal the surprising ways “counting other people’s money” and “masking anxiety and fear” can drain your joy, connection, and intimacy. With real-life stories, wisdom from Steph Curry, and practical steps inspired by faith and personal experience, they’ll help you shift out of the comparison trap, stop numbing out, and start creating daily habits for a marriage that moves from good to great—one intentional step at a time.Ready to protect your relationship and inspire greatness? This episode will show you how to tune in, get focused, and craft lasting connection—starting today.Timestamped Overview00:00 Two American pastimes that hurt your marriage00:32 Welcome and guiding marriages from good to great01:07 Great marriages are built on habits02:16 Inspiration from Steph Curry and the “Holy Spirit download”04:08 Tuning in and listening to God05:46 American Pastime #1: Counting other people’s money07:35 How comparison drains your marriage09:05 Healthy comparisons and insights from Jordan Peterson10:48 The power of intentionality (Rolls Royce & Ritz Carlton examples)12:10 American Pastime #2: Masking fear/anxiety (binge behaviors)13:27 Personal story: Facing trauma and finding healing17:17 You have to choose into a great marriage18:18 Stop comparing, coping, and start crafting18:41 Get intentional—turn your radio on and tune in18:46 Make what you learned happen today19:06 Outro and calls to action

What if the true secret to a great marriage isn't grand gestures—but relentless, daily consistency? In this heartwarming Mother's Day special, Evan Money goes solo to serenade his bride, sharing how his marriage flourishes not through perfection, but through intentional habits, daily encouragement, and never letting romance lose its caretaker. Drawing wisdom from the Proverbs 31 woman, he reveals how his wife’s strength, faith, generosity, and unwavering support shape their lives and marriage—from convalescent ministry to 38+ weddings (and counting!). Get ready for an episode packed with inspiration, powerful stories, and the reminder that true greatness in marriage is available to all who commit—consistently.00:00 Mother's Day Special & 100 Weddings Goal00:30 Why This Episode is Solo & Mother’s Day Serenade02:46 Lessons from Proverbs 31 Woman05:09 Sacrifices for Love: The Mustang Story07:05 Delighting in One’s Work & Ministry Impact08:31 Prison Ministry and Divine Supplies09:16 Marriage Retreats in Africa10:18 Supporting Nonprofits and Family Abroad12:28 Generosity and Overcoming Fear13:33 Dreaming of a Purple Gown Wedding14:05 The Secret to Speaker A’s Success15:07 Wisdom, Laughing, and Pouring Out Love16:03 Meeting Every Need at Home16:40 The Virtuous Woman Praised—A Parade for Susan17:42 Evan’s Closing Words to His Bride18:00 Where to Follow Evan & Susan’s Journey

What if the secret to a thriving marriage is not about doing more, but about muting the world and tapping into the power of silence? Discover in this uplifting episdoe how building your "strength of spirit" can radically transform your relationship from the inside out. Evan Money and Susan Money share practical ways to cultivate spiritual resilience, the discipline of quiet, and the intentional guardrails that protect your most cherished connection. Drawing inspiration from Mother Teresa and Billy Graham, you'll learn why stillness is your greatest foundation for marital greatness—and how now is the time to bring clarity and intention to your love.Episode Highlights:00:00 Strength of spirit in marriage—what it means00:43 Great marriages built on habits, not hype01:14 Intentional inspiration & celebration of 100 episodes02:07 Galatians 5 Fruit of the Spirit—focus on strength of spirit03:23 Metaphor: the elevator & accessing spiritual fruit04:38 Why "self control" misses the mark—strength must be built05:25 How do you currently strengthen your spiritual life?06:05 Practical example—finding silence to build spirit07:44 Quote: "It's not who you listen to, it's who you mute"08:03 Definition—strength of spirit, aligning with God's will09:03 The power of stillness & listening for God's voice09:38 Clarity comes from stillness—ditch the noise11:21 Inspiration from Rolls Royce & Ritz Carlton on intentionality12:39 Lessons from Mother Teresa—prayer as deep listening14:39 Billy Graham—prayer as lifestyle17:01 Biblical wisdom—guardrails & protecting your marriage18:54 Simple guardrail strategies for marital protection20:53 Stillness over stimulation—training not neglecting your spirit22:58 In marriage—responding, not reacting; engaging, not withdrawing23:44 Action steps: slow down, tune in, and build clarity24:14 Closing encouragement & episode wrap-up

What if gentleness isn’t a weakness, but the superpower your marriage needs most? In this empowering episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan Money and Susan Money reveal how true strength is found in a “gentleness of heart”—and how both husbands and wives can access this transformative quality every day.Discover practical insights like why romance only “dies” when we stop caring for it, what it really means to send the “elevator down” for patience and kindness, and the myth that gentleness is just for women. Evan Money and Susan Money dig deep into inspirational role models from Jesus and Gandhi to Nelson Mandela and Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., showing how power under control is the key to a love that lasts and grows.Listen in for real-life stories, actionable tips, and a powerful challenge to take the first step in your own relationship—because greatness starts with going first.Timestamped Overview00:00 Gentleness of Heart in Marriage—Episode Kickoff00:18 The “100 Weddings by 100th Birthday” Vision and Intro00:44 The Power of Habits & Why Romance Needs Caretakers01:46 Inspiration from Galatians 5:22 and the Fruits of the Spirit03:14 The “Elevator” Analogy for Accessing Gentleness04:05 Gentleness vs. Strength: Man of Steel & Velvet06:01 Defining Gentleness and Its Attributes07:02 Fire Hose Analogy & Harnessing Strength for Gentleness08:11 Stories of Real-Life Gentleness in Action09:13 Practical Tips for Husbands and Wives11:10 Gentleness as a Guardrail—Preventing Escalation12:00 Ultimate Example: Jesus as Strength Under Control14:15 Modern Examples: Gandhi, MLK Jr., Nelson Mandela17:46 Intentionality—What Rolls Royce & Ritz Carlton Teach Us20:44 Takeaways: Gentleness Is Strength Under Control21:24 Challenge: Go First and Be the Example in Your Marriage22:05 Closing Words and Next Steps

What if the secret to transforming your marriage—and your life—has been inside you all along?This episode of Marriage of Greatness uncovers the life-changing power of "faith that prevails"—a fruit of the Spirit you already possess, just waiting to be unlocked. Susan Money and Evan Money share personal stories, metaphors, and inspiring real-life examples (including a remarkable remarriage after divorce!) that prove faith isn’t just a nice word on a bumper sticker—it’s continuous trust, even when hope seems impossible.Plus, hear how legendary figures like Mother Teresa and anthems like Journey’s “Don’t Stop Believin’” illustrate why your story isn’t over until you win.Ready to access your own foundation of limitless love, joy, patience, and strength? Tune in and discover how to bring more "prevailing faith" into your marriage, your family, and your legacy.Timestamped Overview:00:00 Faith that prevails—what it means00:16 Evan's quest: 100 weddings by 100th birthday00:28 Welcome & the Marriage of Greatness mission00:43 The power of habits over hype in marriage01:25 Special shoutouts: Ritz Carlton & Rolls Royce01:34 Inspiration from Galatians: Fruits of the Spirit02:22 Breaking down the Passion translation02:38 Understanding: the fruits are already within us03:05 The "apartment building" metaphor: accessing your spiritual foundation03:45 The hero’s journey: realizing you've had it all along04:45 Dorothy’s ruby slippers & what we’re standing on05:18 The unisex hero’s journey & intro to faith that prevails05:24 Love and light always win05:39 Darkness never argues with light06:11 Iconic inspiration: Les Brown & Journey’s “Don’t Stop Believin’”06:44 Journey’s secret: never making #1 but still prevailing06:57 Joshua’s story: remarriage after divorce—a true faith that prevails example08:51 Defining faith & faithfulness—the power of continuous trust10:04 How faithfulness looks in marriage: bearing delicious fruit11:13 Continual harvest: different fruits for different seasons12:15 Service elevator metaphor & parenting12:22 Ritz Carlton & Rolls Royce: intentionality and greatness13:02 Mother Teresa’s story: faith that endures obstacles14:55 The ultimate prevailing faith: Jesus’s sacrifice15:46 Will you keep choosing faith—even when it’s unseen?16:36 Action steps for your marriage16:45 Closing blessings & encouragement16:54 Outro and where to connect & subscribe

What if the secret to an unshakable marriage isn’t perfection, but the quiet, consistent choices you make when no one’s watching? In this episode of Marriage of Greatness, Evan Money and Susan Money pull back the curtain on what it truly means to build a marriage full of virtue—and why it’s not about heroic deeds, but about creating a lifestyle of moral excellence.Discover how everyday decisions, from intentionally shielding your eyes at sporting events to facing those “I have read the terms and conditions” moments, reveal and reinforce your core values. You’ll hear candid, relatable stories—including the infamous “booby girls” football tale—and learn practical tips for making virtue and goodness your marriage’s automatic, default setting. With humor, honesty, and real-life examples, Evan Money and Susan Money remind us it’s not about being perfect but about aligning your intentions, habits, and heart. Get ready to put virtue into action—and see how small choices can lead to greatness.**Timestamped Episode Overview:**00:00 Introduction & episode hook: marriages built on habits, not hype01:17 Special welcomes and inspiration behind the episode02:10 Overview of “fruits of the spirit” and virtue as a foundation03:03 Graham Cook’s analogy: accessing the “reservoir” of virtue04:01 Defining virtue and goodness in marriage06:22 The “booby girls” football story—choosing virtue intentionally10:31 Susan’s perspective: women and guarding their hearts12:00 Cross-cultural observations: water park modesty and intentionality14:47 Stories of integrity and moral excellence in business16:55 Getting real: reading terms and conditions18:52 Teaching the next generation, self-awareness, and growth20:20 Virtue as a default setting—habits over hype23:35 Action step for listeners & closing thoughts

Did you know that your kind thoughts are useless—unless you turn them into action right now?In this episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, hosts Evan Money and Susan Money make the bold claim that kindness means nothing until it’s expressed, and they show you exactly how to transform kindness from a fleeting thought into powerful action that reshapes marriages, friendships, and even communities.Discover why kindness in action—not just intention—creates greatness. Learn the true definition of kindness, how small gestures spark unexpected friendships, and why expecting nothing in return unlocks the secret to joyful relationships. Get practical examples from Susan Money and hear how the couple’s marriage retreats bring transformative impact worldwide—including Botswana. Plus, don’t miss their simple-yet-life-changing exercise to reconnect with your spouse!Timestamped Overview00:00 Introduction & bold vision for kindness00:47 Great marriages are built on habits, not hype02:34 Fruits of the Spirit—Galatians 5, "kindness in action" explained04:46 Kindness is not passive: triggering action in marriage06:28 Defining kindness: caring with no expectation of reward07:31 Examples of kindness in marriage: practical, real-life habits12:02 Expanding kindness beyond marriage—love someone, love everyone13:12 How a knock on a neighbor’s door led to unexpected joy15:20 The ripple effect of small acts of kindness16:14 Ritz Carlton & Rolls Royce: lessons in intentionality17:22 Loving everyone: marriage retreats and global impact18:43 The "two minute eye contact" exercise for couples20:09 Behind the scenes: leading a retreat in Botswana23:22 Kindness isn’t rare—just rarely executed24:36 Deploy kindness immediately: the secret to greatness25:22 Your action plan: write it down and make it happen25:41 Outro and where to follow the journeyTimestamped Overview

What if the secret to unwavering patience isn’t about waiting for it to magically appear, but about admitting that we’ve simply stopped trying? Evan Money and Susan Money reveal that our fuse is shortest with those we love most because we are lazy, not because we run out of patience. With a candid positive spin, they empower listeners to reclaim endurance by intentionally “stoking the fire” in their relationships and training patience like a muscle.Highlights include the elevator analogy on accessing limitless patience, transparent stories about marriage and parenting, and practical tips to turn impatience into a moment for growth. Listen in for wisdom on finishing strong in marriage, inspired by championship athletes and real-life experiences, and discover how those closest to you aren’t testing your patience—they’re building it.00:00 Do you want patience that endures?00:09 100 weddings by my 100th birthday00:31 Welcome and inspiration to guide you from good to great in marriage00:45 What greatness in marriage really means01:28 Shout-outs and Galatians 5:22 “fruits of the Spirit” reflection02:30 Elevator analogy for accessing patience03:15 Why our patience is shortest with loved ones—truth revealed04:04 Fireplace analogy: effort vs. laziness in relationships05:15 How to reignite patience when your “fire” has gone cold06:13 “Endure” defined and sports analogy for finishing strong07:33 Personal transparency: patience in marriage vs. parenting08:16 Running analogy: building endurance through practice10:11 Turning impatience into opportunity for growth11:02 Patience isn’t something you have—it’s something you train11:49 Endurance: rising in the moment and finishing stronger12:33 Fourth quarter mindset when patience runs low12:59 Show up bigger at home—your true greatness13:30 Take action, write it down, and make it happen13:37 Episode wrap-up and encouragementTimestamped Episode Overview

What if the power to overcome all your anxiety was already within you—without needing a single pill or external fix?On this episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan Money and Susan Money reveal the profound secret behind receiving a peace that truly overcomes anxiety. Using insights from scripture, personal stories, and wisdom from Graham Cooke, they unpack how “shalom” means far more than just calm—it’s holistic health, soundness, and wholeness available to everyone.Key highlights include:Why you don’t need to “pray for more” peace—it’s already accessible within youThe elevator analogy: how to consciously access gifts like peace, patience, and joy in everyday lifePractical strategies to rise above anxiety, fear, and negative thoughts (including the power of slowing down and deep breathing)The connection between shame, physical symptoms, and emotional health—and why true wellness is holisticHow embracing growth opportunities (instead of just “getting past challenges”) can transform your marriage and your lifeIf you’re ready to finally move from surviving stress to living from a place of wholeness, this episode is your invitation to take action—one deep breath at a time.Episode Overview:00:00 Ready to receive a peace that overcomes all anxiety? Introduction00:32 Meet your hosts and the Marriage of Greatness community01:33 The inspiration for this episode: Fruits of the Spirit and divine love02:30 Unpacking joy, peace, and other “limitless” qualities03:13 The elevator analogy for accessing the fruits within04:07 What kind of peace? “Peace that subdues”—overcoming anxiety, fear, and more06:00 Shalom, shalom—perfect peace explained06:45 Overcoming anxiety without medication: the power of breathing and letting go07:36 Shalom means holistic health, prosperity, and wholeness08:14 The dictionary definition of peace vs. the reality09:04 The interconnectedness of physical, mental, and emotional health11:01 “Shameflation” and how emotions manifest physically12:27 Shalom restores wholeness—how peace brings well-being12:50 Personal stories: how anxiety affects your body and marriage14:09 Embracing growth opportunities instead of quick fixes15:53 Your invitation: slow down, breathe, choose peace16:59 Sending your “elevator” down to wholeness—action steps17:47 How will you apply what you learned? Wrap up and next steps

What if the secret to a happier marriage came down to just three simple words?Hosts Evan Money and Susan Money share a transformative approach: "Joy, Prayer, Thanks." Discover how choosing joy—rather than expecting it—can change the atmosphere of your relationship, why making your marriage "a prayer" invites deeper connection, and how daily gratitude can create a virtuous cycle of happiness and intimacy. The episode pulls inspiration from 1 Thessalonians and offers actionable wisdom and real-life stories—even a touching moment of spontaneous gratitude shared between Evan and Susan on a sunny street. If you’re ready to move your marriage from good to great, tune in for practical tips you can start using today.Episode Overview:00:00 Welcome & The Joy-Prayer-Thanks Formula01:08 Shout-outs & Inspiration Behind the Episode02:07 The Power of Joy in Marriage04:41 Lightening Your Heart—Apology & Forgiveness05:50 Rethinking Prayer: Making Life and Marriage a Prayer08:54 Prayer as Communication & Deeper Connection10:25 The Impact of Thankfulness and Gratitude12:17 Daily Gratitude Practice & Real-Life Example14:01 Wrap-up: Putting Joy, Prayer, Thanks Into Action14:25 Subscribe & Follow Evan and Susan’s Journey

What if the secret to transforming your marriage was hidden not in grand gestures, but in the tiniest course corrections—like altering your mindset by just 2 degrees?In this uplifting episode of the Marriage of Greatness Podcast, Susan Money and Evan Money invite you to “go to a higher elevation” in your relationship by sharing eye-opening stories, wisdom-filled analogies from aviation, the value of intentionality, and actionable strategies for breaking out of old routines.Tune in as Evan Money recounts his exhilarating flight with a Top Gun-inspired pilot, learning firsthand why ground-level thinking can leave you blindsided, while higher-altitude perspective sets your marriage up for long-term success. Alongside Susan Money, they reveal how small adjustments in your habits, questions, and time together can completely change your trajectory as a couple.Highlights include:Why doing the same thing in your marriage (even just a little bit off) can land you far from where you want to beThe surprising importance of pre-flight checks—yes, even watching for birds—and what that means for your relationshipSimple yet powerful conversation starters that draw you closerHow handcrafted intentionality (with a fun twist on spoon rings!) is the key to romanceWhy creating undistracted, quality time with your spouse is non-negotiableEasily actionable tips for elevating your thinking togetherReady to take your marriage to new heights? This episode delivers motivation, laughter, and step-by-step ways to inspire greatness in your relationship—starting today.Episode Overview00:00 Going to a higher elevation: Why the right mindset matters00:46 Consistency vs. perfection and what makes romance thrive01:18 Shoutouts and inspiration for the episode02:02 Evan’s aviation adventure & Top Gun encounters03:38 Pre-flight checks, surprises, and unexpected marriage lessons06:01 The ground-level mindset vs. 16,000-foot thinking07:31 How repeating patterns affect marriage over time09:07 Transform results by asking better questions10:36 Course corrections: 2 degrees off today, a world apart tomorrow11:08 The power of intentionality: Ritz, Rolls-Royce, and handcrafted spoon rings12:40 Elevating your connection: Scheduling intentional time14:17 Conversation starters that go beyond “How was your day?”15:32 Turbulence as an invitation to go higher16:16 Take action and elevate your marriage now

What if the fastest way to solve an argument in your marriage isn’t more communication—but simply naming your emotion out loud?Evan Money and Susan Money reveal the surprisingly powerful strategy that can deliver instant breakthroughs and transform your relationship from good to great.Key highlights include:Susan Money shares a relatable story about recognizing her “ticky attitude” in the kitchen—and how identifying the real cause (she was just hot!) led to immediate clarity and peace.Evan Money dives deep on how naming the emotion without blame or victimhood releases tension and inspires positive action.The hosts discuss practical ways to break the habit of masking emotions with pleasure or distractions, and how asking better questions gets you to the root of your feelings.Evan Money opens up about his own emotional roots stemming from childhood experiences and describes how clarity leads to freeing action.The episode ends with actionable advice: how to use this tool to stay on track, avoid heated arguments, and build a marriage full of intentional romance and understanding.Timestamped episode overview:00:01: Naming the emotion for an instant breakthrough00:31: Meet Evan & Susan and the Marriage of Greatness philosophy02:06: The prehab vs. rehab mindset and introduction to emotional guardrails02:59: Susan’s personal kitchen story—identifying the emotion and shifting it04:46: Getting to the root of emotions vs. masking them06:28: Evan’s deep dive into discovering his emotional root10:37: The magic of naming emotion aloud and practical takeaways12:14: Final reminders and episode wrap-upReady for instant clarity and a more intentional marriage? Tune in now and discover the secret power of naming your emotions!

Susan and Evan dive deep into the three essential ingredients every marriage needs to move from good to great: clarity, confidence, and readiness. Drawing wisdom from mindset articles, classic movie moments (hello, Rocky III!), and their own experiences, they share practical questions and actionable steps to help you and your spouse create lasting connection and growth.Hear how intentionality—like scheduling date nights first, making bold decisions, and embracing growth opportunities—can transform your relationship. Discover why "romance doesn’t die, it loses its caretakers," and leave empowered to take your marriage to the next level, no matter where you’re starting.If you’re ready to be the best caretakers of your romance, strengthen your partnership, and grow together—this episode is for you! Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and check out MarriageOfGreatness.com for more inspiration.

"What Are Your Defining Moments," Evan and Susan dive deep into the key turning points that have shaped their extraordinary marriage journey—including their one-of-a-kind proposal, their annual tradition of remarrying in a different state or country, and their intentional pursuit of growth as a couple.Discover how embracing defining moments, cultivating a growth mindset, and choosing intentionality every day can transform your relationship. Evan and Susan share personal stories, practical tips, and heartfelt encouragement to help you go from good to great in your marriage. Whether you're newlyweds or seasoned partners, you'll find inspiration and actionable advice to create more meaningful moments together.Subscribe for more real-life stories and tools for building a Marriage of Greatness!Learn more about Evan & Susan’s journey to 100 weddings at EvanLovesSusan.com and MarriageOfGreatness.com.

What’s the one thing that Hollywood’s most enduring couple swears was never an option—and how did it shape nearly five decades of marriage?In this can’t-miss episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, hosts Susan Money and Evan Money welcome powerhouse duo Kathleen Cooke and Phil Cooke. From co-founding global media initiatives to weathering literal storms apart and together—from LA to Tennessee—the Cookes share the unfiltered truths behind 49 years of marriage, family, faith, and career hustle.Key Highlights:Kathleen Cookereveals why laughter and faithfulness are her secret weapons for a lasting relationship.Phil Cooke opens up about embracing change, selective hearing, and why intentionality matters more than fleeting emotions.The couple describes swapping Hollywood for Franklin, Tennessee, how the move redefined their identity, and the surprising perks of Southern living (think: tax breaks and church-friendly weather reports!).The most valuable marriage advice they’ve received (and the guardrails that keep them on track), plus how their family legacy shaped their view of commitment.Phil’s memorable birthday surprises for Kathleen—including hot air balloon adventures and Italian escapes.Genuine, practical encouragement for couples at any stage: Why you should never “leave the movie early” and how caring is even deeper than loving.If you’re looking for wisdom, lots of laughs, and marriage truths you won’t hear anywhere else, this episode delivers.00:00-00:36 – Meet Phil & Kathleen Cooke; setting the stage for intentional, authentic marriage conversations.00:37-02:08 – Hosts share background; Evan and Susan’s connections to Kathleen & Phil, introduction to their accomplishments.02:09-04:16 – Funny reflections on 49 years of marriage, being married longer than single, and what that milestone means.04:17-05:59 – Their professional and personal history: Salvation Army, Influence Women, and maintaining strong friendships.06:00-09:07 – Top three things they are grateful for in each other: laughter, leadership, independence, focus, and faithfulness.09:29-11:03 – Outgrowing expectations: career shifts, staying open to new ways, and learning from grandchildren.12:28-14:12 – Migration from LA to Tennessee: adapting, building new community, and processing change.14:13-15:47 – Letting go of Hollywood identity, finding purpose in the present, following God’s nudge to never look back.15:50-16:30 – Tennessee’s financial and lifestyle perks.16:37-19:32 – The marriage advice that shaped them: divorce wasn’t on the table, learning from others’ mistakes, and building guardrails.21:06-24:31 – Impactful stories from Hollywood; Kathleen’s moment with a top publicist and the power of commitment.25:01-27:46 – If their lives were a movie: “Up in the Air,” starring Jacqueline Bissett and Jack Nicholson/Barney Fife.28:03-31:21 – Bear duty in Steamboat Springs: Phil leaves Kathleen and Joel Osteen on a snowy mountain for an epic TV moment.31:39-33:14 – Best gifts given: children, hot air balloon birthday breakfast, Italian adventures, and surprise memories.35:05-39:34 – Encouragement to couples: intentionality, caring vs. loving, “don’t leave the movie early,” and becoming one over time.39:50-40:45 – Changing through marriage: how to accept and adapt to growth and physical changes with age.40:59-42:29 – Closing remarks, resources, and heartfelt thanks.Timestamped Episode Overview

What if the secret to preserving your family’s wealth is the same as building an extraordinary marriage? In this episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Susan Money and Evan Money uncover a jaw-dropping link between family wealth transition and marital success—revealing a five-step framework that impacts generations and relationships alike.Drawing inspiration from a powerful article by John Moore, a leader in faith-based financial planning, this episode dives deep into the infamous three-generation rule (where 70% of family wealth is lost by the third generation) and unpacks why the same pitfalls that sabotage fortunes also derail marriages. Evan Money and Susan Money walk you through Moore’s five steps: communicate, adjudicate (make formal decisions), communicate, activate (take action), and—once again—communicate, showing how these aren’t just for handing down assets but are essential for creating a thriving, enduring partnership.From practical tips like setting up family meetings and writing down decisions, to managing energy and intentional communication in marriage, you’ll learn how to sidestep disaster and instead build harmony and success. Hear how Susan Money and Evan Money use weekly “couch dates,” formal family contracts, and the power of daily small steps to sustain growth in both wealth and love. Plus, find out why action—no matter how small—creates momentum, and how reframing your mindset can make challenges easier to navigate.Key highlights include:The shocking three-generation wealth loss statistic and its parallels in marriageThe five-step process for successful wealth (and relationship) transition, with communication being the vital threadReal examples from the Moneys’ own marriage: weekly meetings, setting formal agreements with family, and holding space for intentional conversationA powerful mindset reframe from a foster youth on making life less hardPractical, actionable steps YOU can try in your own relationship, starting todayWant to break the cycle and become a caretaker of both fortune and romance? Start with this episode!Episode Overview:00:00:01 – Introduction: What do family wealth transition and a marriage of greatness have in common?00:02:18 – The three-generation rule—why family wealth often disappears, and what can be done00:03:07 – The five steps: communicate, adjudicate, communicate, activate, communicate—and why communication is the biggest factor00:07:07 – Applying the five steps to marriage (from getting married to living as partners)00:08:45 – Communication tools in action: holding space, managing bandwidth, and making appointments to talk00:11:17 – Making formal decisions as partners and as parents (including tenant contracts with grown kids)00:14:51 – The importance of follow-up, refining decisions, and brainstorming as a couple00:16:23 – The magic of taking action: building habits, writing a book, and embracing the marathon of marriage00:20:10 – Small daily steps for big results—why sustainability trumps drastic change00:21:36 – Step five: communicating about growth, embracing challenges, and reframing your mindset00:24:41 – Action steps for listeners: put what you’ve learned into practice today!00:25:05 – Outro and how to connect with Marriage of Greatness

What if your marriage is being sabotaged by a double standard you don’t even realize you’re buying into?In this eye-opening episode of Marriage of Greatness with Susan Money and Evan Money, the duo tackles the subtle yet powerful ways double standards can creep into and disrupt relationships—often without us knowing. From “grace for me, justice for you” moments, to classic societal issues like parenting perceptions and the lingerie shop dilemma, Susan Money and Evan Money share honest reflections and a lot of laughs as they explore how these conflicting expectations show up in their own lives and marriage.The episode pinpoints two simple but revolutionary communication tools: “How much bandwidth do you have?” and “What I heard you say is…”—practical phrases that can instantly transform your connection and turbo-charge clarity. Listeners will hear real-life stories (wait until you hear about the late-night Mandalorian helmet reveal!) and get a candid look at how even seasoned couples like Susan Money and Evan Money are always learning and growing.Key Highlights:The surprising double standards couples unconsciously upholdWhy grace is easily given to ourselves but not always to our spouseHow asking about “bandwidth” can fix most miscommunications before they happenWhy marriage doesn’t improve with age—it gets better with effortThe classic “men are assertive, women are bossy” dilemma and other double standardsReal stories from Susan and Evan’s own family, plus a fun closing challenge that could revolutionize your marriageTimestamped Overview:[00:00:01] Kick-off: Are you buying into a double standard?[00:01:35] Inspiration from Apostle Paul—grace and patience in marriage[00:02:26] Evan’s confession: Giving more grace to himself than to his bride[00:03:35] “Grace for me, justice for you” illustrated with everyday examples[00:04:22] Communication breakdowns and the power of clarity[00:05:18] The “what I heard you say…” communication technique[00:06:20] How exhaustion and low blood sugar impact couples[00:08:09] Bandwidth check-in: A life-changing question for partners[00:10:24] Little annoyances become big problems—prehab vs. rehab[00:11:35] Parenting teens: When they test your bandwidth at 1:30 am[00:12:33] Why age does NOT make you better at relationships[00:14:25] Fun with double standards: Bossy women, parenting, dinner, and lingerie[00:17:02] Closing: How will you put these lessons into action?[00:17:36] Outro and where to follow Evan and Susan’s journey to 100 weddingsReady for a marriage that’s about greatness, not just longevity? Press play—and challenge yourself to spot (and stop) the double standards in your own life.

What if the secret to a thriving marriage is hidden in a Super Bowl champion’s advice about knee surgery? Shocked? You won’t be after this episode!In MOG Episode #106 - "Get Out of Rehab Mode," Susan Money and Evan Money dive deep into how Tom Brady’s guidance to Patrick Mahomes on sports rehabilitation contains powerful lessons for couples looking to elevate their relationships—revealing why so many marriages get stuck in “rehab mode” after arguments and how to break free into joyful growth.Listeners are invited to trade the slow, painful recovery from relational hurts for an all-in commitment to clarity, responsibility, and joy. The hosts passionately explore actionable ways to stop dragging out the drama, hit the reset button, control your actions, attitude, and mindset, and step fully into a marriage of greatness. From hilarious mall-map analogies to simple, life-changing resets ("boop!"), Susan Money and Evan Money share personal stories, faith-based wisdom, and practical strategies to help you go from good to great—no perfection required, just an all-in commitment.Key Highlights:Why clarity and responsibility are foundational to marriage growthHow to stop living in the past and face your marriage’s reality—no shame, no fantasyThe game-changing difference between "rehab mode" (damage control) and "joyful growth mode"How to use tiny shifts—like stopping mid-conversation and resetting—to transform communicationThe biblical perspective on being “all in” versus perfectThe importance of a teachable heart and practical tips to let go of limiting beliefsPersonal anecdotes (yes, including cold plunges!) bringing these principles to lifeTimestamped Overview:[00:00:01] – The episode opens with a challenge: "Get out of rehab mode."[00:00:17] –Evan Moneyshares his goal of 100 weddings by his 100th birthday.[00:02:08] – Tom Brady’s advice to Patrick Mahomes inspires a conversation on marriage recovery and growth.[00:03:00] – The critical importance of clarity—"You are here…"[00:04:13] – Taking full responsibility for your marriage’s condition.[00:05:09] – Three things you can control: actions, attitude, and mindset.[00:06:12] – Prayer as action, attitude, and mindset.[00:06:58] – The difference between rehab mode and training (joyful growth) mode in marriage.[00:09:41] – Simple reset strategies to transform communication.[00:11:56] – The need for all-in commitment—not perfection.[00:14:04] – Developing a teachable heart for faster, lasting change.[00:15:28] – Cold plunge analogy: Why partial involvement isn’t enough.[00:16:14] – Action steps: Write down your takeaways and discuss them with your spouse.Ready to break out of the cycle and grow joyfully together? Tune in for this episode packed with energy, wisdom, and hope for every couple who wants more than just marriage survival—get ready for Marriage of Greatness!

What if the secret to a thriving marriage isn’t about being perfect—but about “breaking boundaries” through vulnerability, honest role-playing, and truly going all-in… no matter how different your backgrounds?In this episode of Marriage of Greatness, hosts Evan Money and Susan Money pull back the curtain for an unfiltered, deep-dive conversation with powerhouse couple Percy Thaba and Ashley Thaba—missionary leaders impacting marriages across Africa. You'll be surprised by what you'll discover about marriage, faith, culture, and perseverance.Key Highlights:The Thabas get raw about the real challenges (and sometimes hilarious realities) of navigating menopause, overwork, and marital conflict resolution strategies—including the role-playing techniques they swear by.Hear how Ashley, a Southern belle from Georgia, and Percy, a Botswana native, overcame staggering cultural and familial differences, building a ministry together that defied all odds.Discover powerful lessons on balancing personal ambition, family needs, and spiritual calling—plus why “all in” is the only way for marriages to thrive.The couples get candid about money, pride, forgiveness, and why learning to say “we” instead of “me” changed everything.Stay for the fun twist: who would play Percy and Ashley in a Hollywood film about their wild, boundary-breaking journey? (Hint: Denzel Washington makes a cameo.)Sprinkled throughout are actionable takeaways, laughter, and hope-filled wisdom for every stage of marriage—even when breaking the glass ceiling means giving it all away for a higher purpose.Episode Timestamped Overview[00:00:02] Meet Percy and Ashley Thaba—how an unexpected connection led to this powerhouse interview.[00:01:05] Welcome & vision—learn why this podcast is more than your average marriage interview.[00:02:19] The backstory—how a Southern belle and a Botswana native build a life & ministry together.[00:05:15] Top 3 things they appreciate most about each other—truth bombs and sweet surprises.[00:11:09] Discerning God’s will vs. personal ambition—lessons from the “balloon and string” analogy.[00:16:13] Real talk about resentment, role play, and conflict resolution.[00:24:09] The power of grace—why giving space to process matters in love.[00:27:06] Breaking the taboo: Navigating menopause and intimacy after 20+ years.[00:31:01] Workaholism, boundaries, and the tyranny of the urgent—finding balance for the whole family.[00:39:08] Creating rhythms for connection—mission-driven marriage and parenting through seasons.[00:43:03] Biggest marriage advice—how expecting complexity and “role playing” built a foundation stronger than their differences.[00:45:38] Finances, identity, oneness, and the power of “we.”[00:56:11] Hollywood dream cast—who’d play Percy and Ashley?[01:02:29] Where to follow the Thabas’ work and an invitation for marriage breakthroughs.Get ready for radical honesty, laughter, and a masterclass in “Marriage of Greatness.”

Brace yourself—your marriage might be struggling, and it's not for the reasons you think.In this direct and powerful solo episode, Evan Money kicks off the new year with a no-holds-barred discussion that promises crystal clarity and real, actionable steps to transform your relationship. Inspired by Super Bowl-winning coach Bruce Arians and the NFL's highest stakes moments, Evan reveals the three core reasons marriages falter—and they all start with YOU: your actions, your attitude, and your mindset.This is not your typical feel-good marriage advice: Evan calls out the excuses, the blame-game, and challenges you to seize 100% control over your happiness. He dives deep into timeless wisdom, including a radical reframing of Jesus’s "new commandment," while sharing practical stories—from parking lot encounters to Super Bowl locker rooms—that show how quickly your attitude and actions can change everything.Key Highlights:Why blaming your partner is keeping your relationship stuck—and what actually moves the needleHow extraordinary sports leadership parallels extraordinary marriagesSimple but overlooked truths about love as an action, not just an emotionThe mindset shift that unlocks lasting "happily ever after"Tactical tips to start reframing and reigniting your connection—todayWhether your marriage feels “okay” or you’re desperate to light the spark again, this episode is your wake-up call and game plan for greatness.Episode Overview:00:00:01 – Full-contact warning and episode intro00:01:05 – Why sharpening your skills as a caretaker of romance matters00:01:31 – Inspiration from Bruce Arians and an unexpected takeaway00:02:00 – The truth about who controls your marriage’s quality00:03:10 – The only three things making your marriage “suck”00:04:29 – Control versus influence: what you really own00:05:12 – New commandment: Love as an action word00:06:00 – Motion creates emotion: how actions spark love00:07:07 – The attitude adjustment: your choice every moment00:09:33 – The mindset of greatness from sports to your relationship00:12:17 – Fall in love with the journey, not just the destination00:13:13 – Making changes actionable and maintaining momentum00:14:14 – Closing and where to find more marriage greatness

What if the secret to a great marriage was hidden in the wisdom of an elephant?In this eye-opening episode of "Marriage of Greatness," hosts Evan Money and Susan Money explore how the unique features of this majestic animal reveal powerful lessons for every couple. From big ears that teach us to listen louder, to a strong trunk symbolizing the courage to toss away life’s obstacles, and to small eyes reminding us to see the big picture, this episode is packed with practical insights and candid personal stories.Key highlights include:The heartfelt journey of Evan Money's evolution from serial interrupter to celebrated listener, tracing the connection between self-love and presence in marriage.Susan Money's wise reminder that "God gave us one mouth and two ears," and how couples can intentionally put this lesson into everyday practice.A powerful mindset shift for handling life's challenges, inspired by a friend's hopeful perspective on caring for a parent with dementia.Why intentional time—like weekly couch dates and fiercely protected sacred space—can transform even the busiest relationships.A surprising principle from Song of Songs: don't let the "little foxes" sneak in and steal your love.NFL quarterback Kirk Cousins' take on non-negotiable couple time, and what that means for everyday families.The art of asking better questions, especially in an age where answers are just a click away—plus actionable prompts for envisioning your future together.Ready for a new lens on love? Tune in to discover how applying an elephant’s take on marriage can move your relationship from good to truly great.Episode Overview:00:00 – 02:13: Introduction and inspiration behind the episode: What does marriage have to do with elephants?02:13 – 04:01: The lesson of big ears—listening more and talking less; Evan Money's journey and self-love.04:01 – 05:18: Teaching kids to listen twice and talk once; “Mr. Fix It” and the trap of trying to solve everything.05:18 – 06:27: The elephant’s trunk: mindset shifts and overcoming obstacles together.06:27 – 08:49: Tossing away distractions, saying no, and creating intentional connection time.08:49 – 12:04: Guarding sacred space—stories from date nights to NFL quarterbacks. 12:04 – 15:23: Drifting vs. intentionality in marriage; actionable ideas for prioritizing relationship.15:23 – 17:54: Elephant’s small eyes—staying focused on what’s most important, perspective shifts.17:54 – 20:02: Looking at the big picture, asking great questions as a couple, planning for the future.20:02 – End: Final takeaways, encouragement, and sign-off.Listen now to level up your marriage—elephant style!

What if your biggest obstacle to a truly great marriage isn’t your partner, your past, or even your problems—but your hidden addiction to certainty?In this eye-opening episode of the "Marriage of Greatness" podcast, Evan Money and Susan Money pull back the curtain on how our deep-rooted need for predictability can quietly sabotage our happiness, growth, and connection in marriage—and life.Through candid storytelling, the Money duo reveals personal moments where their own comfort zones were holding them back, from financial “glass ceilings” to their favorite vacation routines and even movie choices. They unpack the surprising ways certainty shows up: from replaying the same arguments for years, to sticking with old habits (and coffee orders!), to resisting growth simply because the outcome is unknown. Susan Money shares how certainty creates “no-risk” environments, while Evan Money explores how breakthroughs often only happen when we let go of what’s familiar—and brave the uncertainty of what could be better.Highlights include:The powerful insight that “romance doesn’t die, it loses its caretakers”—and how certainty can lull us into neglecting our relationshipsStories of real-life breakthroughs, including the risk and reward of upgrading their lives and travel experiencesA discussion on the hidden comfort of the victim mindset, and the counterintuitive notion that we subconsciously trigger ourselves just to stay in control of outcomesPractical ways to challenge your addiction to certainty—whether it’s in conversations, routines, or the way you treat your spouseActionable steps to start releasing your grip on certainty and step into a greater marriage (and life)Ready to break out of safe but small rituals and discover what else is possible? Tune in as Evan Money and Susan Money invite you to shine “the light that always wins” on your own patterns, and give you permission to trade certainty for growth, joy, and a marriage that’s anything but mediocre.Episode Overview:[00:00:01] Introduction: Are you addicted to certainty?[00:00:31] Why marriage “greatness” requires consistency, not perfection[00:03:02] The human condition: Why we cling to limitations[00:05:06] The victim mindset: Are you really triggering yourself?[00:07:18] Daily habits, routines, and the coffee shop effect[00:09:56] Financial comfort zones and breaking through “glass ceilings”[00:13:09] Stories of certainty in travel, vacations, and big life upgrades[00:17:39] How certainty impacts kindness, communication, and connection in marriage[00:19:41] Are you addicted to busyness, conflict, or even anxiety?[00:21:15] Action steps: Try releasing just one certainty—and see what happens!Don’t miss this thought-provoking journey from good to great—one bold, uncertain step at a time.

What if the key to transforming your marriage isn’t just shifting your mindset—but actually changing your reality?On this eye-opening episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, hosts Susan Money and Evan Money reveal how moving beyond “reframes” can lead to true relational breakthroughs.You’ll hear powerful stories, from Evan Money’s real-life lessons in responsibility and forgiveness (and the surprising connection to tripling his income!), to insights inspired by LA Rams head coach Sean McVay and his radically optimistic response to setbacks. Susan Money opens up about learning to let go of unsolicited advice as a parent, while both hosts discuss how focusing on the good in past experiences can pave the way for joy in the present—and future.Other highlights include:The difference between a “reframe” and actually living in a new reality—what does it REALLY take?Practical examples for making amends, starting fresh, and creating joy in marriage (even if yesterday was rough).Why the stories you tell yourself matter, and how shifting your internal narrative changes everything.The “pony poop story”—a legendary lesson in seeing possibility (even when all you get is a pile of problems).Simple, actionable tips to apply today and start making your marriage great, right now.Discover how you can move past the definition of insanity—doing the same thing and expecting different results—and instead embrace new habits, fresh perspectives, and genuine change.Episode Overview & Key Timestamps:00:00:01 — Episode’s central theme: reframe vs. reality00:01:17 — Shoutout to romantic inspirations & show’s purpose00:02:22 — Lessons from NFL coach Sean McVay on full responsibility00:04:03 — Susan Money’s examples of responsibility in marriage & parenting00:06:24 — Why repeating old habits won’t lead to new joy00:07:13 — A fun behind-the-scenes look at SoFi Stadium and creating memories00:08:28 — Coaching stories: how reframing actually becomes reality00:10:31 — Parenting adult kids and respecting boundaries00:12:39 — The “pony poop story”: optimism & opportunity in tough circumstances00:14:18 — Forgiveness, storytelling, and making peace with the past00:18:27 — Practical takeaways: writing down your new actions and making them realTune in and discover how to stop just reframing your marriage—and truly make greatness your reality!

What if the secret ingredient to a thriving marriage was already inside you—just waiting to be unlocked? In this milestone 100th episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Susan Money and his bride take you on a heartfelt and surprising journey through the "fruits of the Spirit"—with a fresh, practical twist you’ve never heard before.Forget surface-level relationship advice. This episode dives into the real work of going from good to great in marriage by exploring how to activate virtues like overflowing joy, peace that subdues anxiety, enduring patience, kindness in action, and the often-overlooked strength of spirit. Susan Money uses powerful analogies and stories—from cold plunges to football games and even a cheerleader Halloween costume—to break down what it actually looks like to practice limitless love every day with your spouse.Key Highlights:Why romance only dies when it loses its caretakers—and how to revive it.A game-changing way to ENJOY marriage instead of just hoping it brings you joy.Faith in action: How turning away from temptation and embracing moral excellence strengthens your bond.Real-life examples of patience, support, and practical kindness (including what happens when you're about to lose your cool before Thanksgiving!).Gentle, actionable advice to help you tap into your inner resources for a marriage that not only survives—but thrives.Whether you’re looking to reignite the spark or searching for daily inspiration, this is an anniversary celebration you won’t want to miss.Timestamped Overview:00:00:01 – 00:00:47: Celebrating episode 100 & intro to the podcast’s mission00:00:47 – 00:01:50: Going from good to great; intentionality in marriage & shoutouts00:01:50 – 00:02:23: Why intentional living matters—Ritz Carlton & Rolls Royce analogies00:02:24 – 00:03:07: The episode concept & inspiration from Lou Diamond00:03:08 – 00:04:40: Introduction to the “fruits of the Spirit”; Galatians 5 passage00:04:40 – 00:05:42: The elevator analogy for accessing your inner virtues00:05:42 – 00:07:45: Fruits in marriage: Joy, peace, patience, and love in action00:07:45 – 00:13:00: Practical joy, marital connection, and the myth of happiness from “things”00:13:00 – 00:15:06: Enduring patience—tools and stories from real life00:15:06 – 00:18:10: Support through challenges; being a ‘warm blanket’ for your spouse00:18:10 – 00:23:00: Kindness in action, living a lifestyle of virtue, choosing moral excellence00:23:00 – 00:26:41: Faith that prevails, trust in one another, and boundaries for fidelity00:26:41 – 00:29:49: Gentleness of heart and strength of spirit—muscles to build daily00:29:49 – 00:31:23: Real-life self-control (including a Thanksgiving planning anecdote)00:31:23 – 00:32:00: Wrap-up, resources, and what’s next for Marriage of Greatness

What if chasing compromise in your marriage is actually hurting your relationship?In this eye-opening episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, hosts Evan Money and Susan Money welcome powerhouse couple Robert and Kay Lee Fukui, creators of the "Thriving in Tandem" program and co-authors of "Tandem: The Married Entrepreneurs Guide for Greater Work-Life Balance."Together, they pull back the curtain on real-life lessons from 19 years of marriage and building businesses together—debunking major marriage myths along the way. You’ll hear why “compromise” and “50/50” are some of the most damaging lies couples believe, and how seeking what’s best for us can transform your relationship. Discover how something as simple as a Snickers bar can spark deeper conversations about scarcity, triggers, and emotional growth, plus why business spreadsheets can never replace intuition—and how missing those “red flags” can cost more than just dollars.Other episode highlights include:Why work-life balance isn’t just a business buzzword, but a marriage lifesaver.The power of pre-dating and pre-marital counseling (yes, even before you’re officially dating!).How to escape the trap of “loyalty to your limitations” and break free from childhood mindsets.The vital role of healthy boundaries and mutual trust when making big decisions as a couple.Playful moments, like what Hollywood legends would star in the “Robert & Kay Lee” movie and what its title would be!Whether you’re married, engaged, or building a future together, you’ll leave this episode with fresh mindsets, actionable wisdom, and a lot of laughs.Episode Overview:00:00 – Meet Robert & Kay Lee Fukui; intro to their marriage and consulting work00:45 – The real meaning of greatness in marriage and caretaker mindset01:48 – The Fukuis’ backstory, their "Thriving in Tandem" program, and fun events02:44 – The top three things they appreciate about each other05:01 – The journey from criticism/defensiveness to mutual trust and growth06:46 – Real-life lessons on listening to intuition vs. spreadsheets (and learning from expensive mistakes)11:39 – Recognizing emotional decisions and justifying with logic (and why it matters)12:26 – What the Fukuis are currently “outgrowing” in marriage and mindset16:28 – How they realized their marriage was “different,” and the value of pre-dating counseling20:24 – The biggest lies entrepreneurial couples tell each other about marriage21:48 – Why the idea of “50/50” and “marriage is easy” are misleading24:02 – Making the best decision for “us,” not him or her—and the “51/49 rule”27:56 – The strength and transition from a “strong woman” to a “woman of strength”30:11 – The advice that shaped their marriage most (and hilarious “Snickers bar” conflict)36:06 – Fun finale: If Hollywood made a Robert & Kay Lee movie, who would play them?38:25 – Closing reflections and takeawaysTune in and get ready to rethink everything you thought you knew about marriage, partnership, and what it takes to truly thrive—in tandem.

What if the most powerful marriage advice you ever receive is simply to ask your spouse what they mean—before an argument even begins?In this eye-opening episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, hosts Evan Money and Susan Money invite high school sweethearts turned business partners, Chris Hernandez and Yas Hernandez, to the table to share their incredible story of personal growth, commitment, and faith. Together for 14 years and married for four, Chris and Yas have built their relationship on five foundational pillars—faith, family, fitness, finance, and fun—and they’re here to reveal how intentional choices turned their challenges into their strengths.Key highlights from this episode:Discover the surprisingly simple communication hack that saved Chris and Yas from countless arguments (and will do the same for you!).Learn how surviving a life-altering health scare transformed Chris’s views on marriage, self-love, and his relationship with Yas.Get a behind-the-scenes look at how the Hernandezes intentionally cultivate friendships and surround themselves with growth-focused couples.Uncover why “falling in love with the process” is the secret sauce for both business and marriage—and how to find joy in the journey, not just the outcome.Hear from both couples on how breaking free from sarcasm, teasing, and the victim mentality leads to healthier relationships.PLUS: What movie would best capture their story—and which A-list actors would play them?Whether you’re newlyweds or celebrating decades together, this episode will inspire you to examine what it truly means to grow with your spouse, embrace intentionality, and write your own definition of a great marriage.Timestamped Episode Overview00:00:00 – Meet Chris & Yas Hernandez: Intro and background00:01:40 – How their motto “Let’s grow together so we never have to grow apart” guides their lives00:03:31 – What Chris and Yas are most grateful for in each other00:05:25 – Their unconventional high school romance & faith journey00:08:42 – Surviving a health scare and redefining relationships00:10:05 – The values and cultural roots that shape Yas’s approach to marriage00:13:42 – Why loving yourself is critical before loving your spouse00:17:23 – Building accountability and leadership through business and community events00:21:33 – Spring cleaning relationships: transactional vs. growth friendships00:22:57 – The importance of intentionality in marriage00:28:39 – Why even joking about infidelity is toxic, and how language shapes reality00:32:15 – The marriage advice that changed everything: always define your terms00:37:11 – Most memorable gifts exchanged (hint: it’s not about the price tag!)00:41:09 – If their marriage was a movie: titles, actors, and legacy00:43:50 – Closing thoughts and where to connect with the Marriage of Greatness communityListen now to discover the habits, mindset shifts, and practical tools that can take your marriage from good to great!

What if everything you thought about winning—on the field or in your marriage—was wrong? This episode of the "Marriage of Greatness" podcast flips the script with a controversial claim: “Teams don’t win championships, families do.” Hosts Evan Money and Susan Money dive into what it truly means to build a “championship marriage,” drawing lessons from sports icons like Vince Lombardi, Michael Irvin, and John Wooden, but with a clever twist—every insight is reshaped to reveal how greatness starts at home.Key Highlights:Discover why the LA Dodgers’ World Series win wasn’t just about teamwork—it was about becoming a family, and how that energy can ignite your own marriage.Learn how practicing love daily (even through simple acts like doing the dishes!) fuels romance and turns mundane routines into relationship “foreplay.”Find out why commitment to excellence, borrowed from athletic legends, is the real game-changer in building a marriage dynasty.Explore the “his, hers, and ours” philosophy for supporting each other’s passions while staying deeply connected.Get inspired by John Wooden’s wisdom on turning every day into a masterpiece—and pick up actionable tips to make today the day you start playing for keeps in your relationship.This episode is packed with laughter, personal stories, and practical prompts—plus a birthday surprise! If you want a marriage that feels as electric as a championship parade, this is the conversation you won’t want to miss. Grab a pen, hit pause, and get ready to practice love like never before.Timestamped Overview:[00:00:00] Bold opening: “Teams don’t win championships, families do”—the episode’s theme is set[00:01:29] Inspiration from LA Dodgers’ World Series win and Michael Irvin’s championship philosophy[00:02:54] What transforms a team into a family…and why that matters in marriage[00:03:24] Unifying power of shared victories vs. divisive rivalries in relationships[00:05:05] The “championship buzz” in marriage—building excitement and using the “we” mindset[00:07:11] Vince Lombardi’s advice: Practice love, commitment to excellence, and filling your partner’s love “dialect”[00:10:22] Practical transformation: How doing the dishes became relationship gold[00:13:22] Excellence in marriage vs. excellence in hobbies—making your marriage the real priority[00:16:20] Supporting individual passions (“his, hers, ours”) and creating harmony, not friction[00:19:14] John Wooden’s Trifecta—championships, enduring love, and faith[00:20:03] Passion vs. enduring love: Why “falling in love with the process” is key[00:22:00] “Make each day your masterpiece”—taking control of actions and attitude[00:24:03] Action call: Make today count, practice championship love, and create your marriage dynasty![00:25:56] Outro and where to follow Evan Money and Susan Money’s journey toward 100 weddingsReady to turn your relationship into a true championship dynasty? Listen now and start practicing greatness today!

What if the secret to a better marriage isn’t the grand gestures—but a week of small, intentional actions? You might be shocked at how much can change, and how fast.In this deeply authentic episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Susan Money and Evan Money invite listeners to look beyond cookie-cutter advice and discover what “better” truly means for their own unique relationship. The episode kicks off with a powerful question—“What does a better marriage look like for YOU?”—and dives into why gaining clarity (not perfection!) is the actual game-changer in marriage.Key highlights include:The eye-opening story of how Susan Money and Evan Money navigated a major relationship breakthrough with the discovery of differing love languages.Practical, non-intimidating steps anyone can take today to fill their spouse’s “love tank”—no drama or awkward conversations required.The “Love Tank Fulfillment Challenge”: a simple, seven-day experiment that has the potential to transform the daily dynamic of your relationship.Strategies for getting real about what YOU want—so you don’t end up living someone else’s version of “happily ever after.”How to invite your partner into this growth—without pressure or waiting for the “perfect” time.This episode is equal parts fun, honest, and actionable. Whether you’re newlywed or decades in, you’ll finish with concrete ideas you can start using immediately. Plus, Susan Money and Evan Money guarantee—if you don’t feel the difference, you can have your “old marriage” back!Episode Overview by Timestamp:00:00:01 – Shocking question: What does a better marriage look like for you?00:01:16 – Welcome, clarity as power, and why romance needs caretakers00:02:19 – The danger of living by someone else’s definition of “win”00:04:30 – The five love languages and a personal story of missing the mark00:07:02 – Why hard conversations can actually be exciting00:08:11 – The magic of full love tanks (and why everything is harder without them)00:09:12 – Guided exercise: Defining YOUR version of better00:11:27 – The Love Tank Fulfillment Challenge explained00:13:16 – How to bring your partner along for the ride (even if you fly solo at first)00:14:22 – Resources, inspiration, and how to keep growing with Marriage of GreatnessReady for a marriage breakthrough that’s easier than you think? Listen now and rediscover what makes your relationship great for YOU.

What if the emotions you’ve been hiding—anger, insecurity, even shame—aren’t actually the problem, but your greatest teachers? In this eye-opening episode of Marriage of Greatness, hosts Susan Money and Evan Money tackle a bold new perspective: “Emotions Are Meant To Be Instructive Not Destructive.”Drawing inspiration from author Tom Holiday, Evan Money reveals his deeply personal journey of overcoming years of rage stemming from childhood pain, showing how unresolved feelings can quietly sabotage relationships, careers, and happiness. Susan Money brings relatable wisdom, sharing how our bottled-up hurts will find their way out, usually at the worst possible moment—and often over something trivial like shopping bags left in the car.Together, the couple challenges listeners to rethink their relationship with negative emotions. Are you labeling all discomfort as “bad,” ignoring pain because it feels safer, and then finding yourself caught in destructive loops of anger, greed, or insecurity? This episode uncovers how even subtle signs—fake smiles, slammed objects, or endless accumulation—are really signals from within, urging you to heal and grow.Key highlights include:Why romance doesn’t die, it “loses its caretakers”—and how daily, intentional choices matter more than perfectionGripping personal stories about forgiveness, healing, and the surprising freedom that comes from facing your emotional truthThe real reason we get stuck in cycles of suffering and comfort—even preferring pain over the unknownHow to break the “just a little more” mindset, whether it’s money, stuff, or emotional baggagePractical steps for couples to process feelings early, ask better questions, and avoid destructive blow-upsStrategies for dealing with root causes rather than symptoms, and the power of community and supportReady to step out of hiding and into healing? Susan Money and Evan Money guide you through a powerful reframing of emotions that just might transform not only your marriage, but every relationship you have.Timestamped Overview:00:00:01 – Introduction: Your heart always leaks into your actions00:01:08 – Welcome to new listeners; shout-outs and inspiration00:01:55 – Emotions leak out into actions, words, and attitudes—especially for men00:03:26 – Emotions: Instructive, not destructive;Evan Money’s story of anger and forgiveness00:07:53 – Processing emotions for healing (and why symptoms disappear when you address the root cause)00:09:34 – Comfortable suffering: Why we avoid dealing with pain until it blows up00:10:00 – The “bad knee” analogy: Delaying healing and the years wasted in pain00:12:11 – Deal with issues early; prioritize relationships over distractions00:13:44 – Symptoms beyond anger: Hoarding, greed, and the never-enough trap00:16:42 – Escalating addictions: Plastic surgery, tattoos, and culture’s insatiable demands00:18:11 – Get to the root: Release shame and guilt; emotions as indicators for growth00:19:27 – Action steps: How will you process and grow?00:19:52 – Outro: Where to follow the Money’s journey and connect furtherDon’t miss this candid, heartfelt episode that could help you turn pain into purpose, and everyday reactions into lasting greatness.

What if the real reason you keep having the same arguments in your marriage has nothing to do with your spouse—and everything to do with unresolved pain you’re carrying from way back?In this eye-opening episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan and Susan Money, joined by Quinn Lemley, pull back the curtain on the biggest Marriage Challenge nobody talks about: We’re all treating the symptoms in our relationships, instead of digging deep to heal the root cause. Using Evan’s sought-after “Get to the Root” teaching and worksheet, they guide listeners through an honest self-exploration of marital triggers, deep-seated fears, and the unconscious reasons we keep cycling through the same issues.Key highlights include:A Candid Look at Why Most Couples Stay Stuck: The hosts reveal how simply “resolving” surface-level fights is like taking a pill for every ache without ever getting well.How Your Past is Sabotaging Your Present Marriage: Hear stories about emotional wounds, like the impact of childhood rejection, and how unresolved hurts shape adult relationships—sometimes with dramatic consequences.The Trap of Treating Symptoms (and how Big Pharma is the Ultimate Example): Drawing a connection between our marriage mindsets and the “pill for every ill” culture, Evan and Susan inspire listeners to rethink quick-fix solutions.The “Get to the Root” Exercise: The episode walks you through a condensed version of their transformative exercise, challenging listeners to set meaningful goals, identify their triggers, confront fears (of failure and success!), and uncover the real reasons behind their recurring marital challenges.Personal Revelations: Susan shares honestly about parenting adult children, the fears of letting go, and the pitfalls of taking your kids’ choices personally.How Changing the Meaning Changes Everything: The hosts show how reframing adversity—by loving the challenge instead of fearing it—can help you finally create a marriage of greatness, not mediocrity.If you’re ready for actionable inspiration and a clear path to truly healing your marriage, tune in to this breakthrough episode!Timestamped Overview00:00:00 – Welcome and introduction to root causes in marriage00:02:25 – “Treating the symptom” culture in society (and marriage)00:04:39 – Why couples keep repeating the same arguments00:06:22 – How childhood wounds show up in our marriages00:10:30 – The Money’s Playboy Mansion story and what it revealed emotionally00:11:41 – Step-by-step walkthrough of the “Get to the Root” worksheet00:18:30 – “Have to” vs. “Get to”: How mindset shifts change behavior00:19:04 – The insidiousness of the victim mentality and FOMO00:23:02 – Fear of failure: Naming and facing what really holds you back00:27:07 – Fear of success: Why growing can make relationships uncomfortable00:32:12 – Why we unconsciously avoid pain, and how to break the cycle00:33:18 – Reframing adversity: “Love adversity—it makes me better”00:34:52 – Closing encouragement to take action and listen againReady to stop masking symptoms and finally heal your marriage at the deepest level? Press play, and let’s get to the root—together.

What if your marriage story isn’t over—even after divorce?In this eye-opening episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan and Susan Money share how one couple went from unhappy marriage to divorce and then back to the altar together, proving that “your marriage story isn’t over until you win.” Drawing inspiration from real-life friends and their own adventures of 100 weddings by Evan’s 100th birthday, Evan and Susan reveal the secret to reigniting your relationship, no matter where you currently stand.Key highlights include:The incredible true story of Joshua and his bride: from divorce to remarriage by choosing love over bitterness.The debate: Is “winning” in marriage really possible, or is the journey never-ending?Everyday, actionable ways to reignite the spark and fill your partner’s “love tank”—even if you don’t feel like it!Wise insights from football (and the family dog!) about effort, intentionality, and the danger of “loafing” in marriage.The story of Steven and Nicole: two people who healed, grew, and found greatness in a new beginning.Practical, hope-filled encouragement for listeners facing marital routine or difficulty—plus an invitation to claim your free vow renewal workbook.Ready to transform your marriage and prove the spark is still alive? This episode reminds you that YOU are the spark, and there’s always hope to create your own Marriage of Greatness.Timestamped Episode Overview:[00:00:01] Introduction & bold thesis: Your marriage story isn’t over until you win.[00:01:10] Shoutouts & inspiration for listeners.[00:02:06] Joshua’s story: Divorce, co-parenting, and unexpected reconciliation.[00:04:23] How “winning” is daily—Susan’s perspective vs. Evan’s mindset.[00:07:00] Growth mindsets in marriage; room for improvement.[00:09:06] Football analogies: “Loafing” vs. effort in marriage.[00:12:27] How showing up affects your spouse and relationship.[00:12:54] Steven & Nicole’s story: Second chances after healing.[00:15:45] Lost the spark? Spoiler: YOU are the spark![00:17:00] Vow renewals & practical ways to rekindle romance.[00:18:52] Action steps and encouragement for listeners.[00:19:00] Episode wrap-up and next steps.Subscribe and find out: Is YOUR marriage story just getting started?

What if the secret to an extraordinary marriage was hiding in plain sight—in the winning mindsets of Michael Jordan, Kobe Bryant, Tom Brady, and Patrick Mahomes?In this game-changing episode of the Marriage of Greatness Podcast, Evan and Susan Money dive deep into how the relentless pursuit of greatness by some of sports’ biggest legends can be applied to your marriage. Are you living your marriage like an NBA or NFL champion, or just running laps around mediocrity?Key Highlights:The “Marriage Mindset” of Champions: Discover how Michael Jordan's strive for perfection every time he steps on the court can inspire you to bring that same intentionality and effort to your relationship—every single day.Kobe Bryant’s “Mamba Mentality” in Love: Learn why greatness is for those who commit to continual improvement, and how falling in love with the process (not fearing failure or obsessing over “winning at all costs”) radically improves your marriage.Tom Brady’s Prehab over Rehab Approach: Why investing consistent effort up front prevents the blowups and “injuries” that set relationships back—and how being proactive can spare you years of emotional rehab.Patrick Mahomes’ Relentless Goal-Setting: How aiming to become the “greatest” in your marriage, and owning the work it requires, can set you on a path few even dream of.The Grocery Store Analogy: Susan’s insightful analogy on how to take only what you need from each stage of growth—without overwhelm—and why returning “for another lap” can deepen the wisdom you bring home.The Power of Environment: Why you must surround yourself with greatness, let go of “victim mentalities,” and what it really means to pursue a relationship that inspires—not just survives.Whether you’re new to the Marriage of Greatness family or looking for that next level, this episode is packed with inspiration, relatable stories, and practical takeaways that will challenge you to be the MVP in your own marriage.Timestamped Overview:00:00 – What if we applied the mindsets of Jordan, Kobe, Brady, and Mahomes to marriage?00:31 – Welcome and intro to the Marriage of Greatness philosophy02:29 – Susan’s grocery store analogy for personal growth in marriage05:46 – The “greatness mindset” and why it’s rare09:31 – The difference between mediocrity and greatness in relationships11:03 – Kobe’s “Mamba Mentality” and loving the process, not just the results15:19 – Applying championship methods to marriage (and why “switching teams” isn’t the answer)18:31 – Tom Brady: Why prehab beats rehab, in football and in love22:32 – Creating strong, positive habits for families24:23 – Addressing past hurts—how most adults (and couples) avoid what actually needs healing28:12 – Patrick Mahomes: The humility and drive behind the “greatest of all time” mindset31:04 – Evan’s commitment to becoming the greatest husband and final encouragementsReady to put championship mindsets to work in your marriage? Press play and get inspired to win together—on and off the court.

What if your marriage could be an epic adventure, complete with road trips, RV mishaps, pickleball vows, medieval feasts, and not just one, but 37 weddings—so far?In this unforgettable episode of Lou Diamond's “Marriage of Greatness” podcast, hosts Evan and Susan Money share behind-the-scenes stories from their whirlwind journey across four states, celebrating four new weddings, each with its own heartfelt (and hilarious) twist.From cozying up (or freezing!) in a conversion van, to a spontaneous pickleball-themed ceremony in Idaho, a lakeside vow exchange in the crisp air of Montana, and an immersive medieval banquet with their literary heroes in North Dakota, the Moneys’ journey is bursting with surprises, warmth, and inspiration. Discover how every wedding features new, specially-crafted vows—never repeats!—and learn why they believe that growing together means always saying “I do” in new ways.Key highlights include:The surprising difference between “vow renewals” and “having new weddings”—and why new vows matter ([00:02:09])DIY RV life, spectacular fall foliage fails, and one epic road trip for non-road trippers ([00:03:06] – [00:08:03])A pickleball wedding like no other in Coeur d’Alene, Idaho, complete with paddles and sparkles ([00:13:02])Lakeside magic and overcoming “unknowns” at Glacier National Park, Montana ([00:20:01])Meeting their literary heroes, Chuck & Andrea Black, in North Dakota for a Knights of Erithre-themed bash and family-style medieval feast ([00:23:13] – [00:32:21])Eagle’s-eye views, cowboy encounters, and history come alive at Mount Rushmore, South Dakota ([00:36:00])Readings of the personal vows from each wedding, packed with humor, heart, and creativity throughout the episodeWhether you’re looking for fresh ways to celebrate your own marriage, or just want a dose of joyful adventure, you’ll discover that “Being great does not mean that you’re perfect... It simply means choosing to do consistently what most people only do occasionally.”Episode overview:[00:00:02] Intro: Four vows, four states, four weddings—a 1,574-mile love story[00:02:09] Why not just ‘renewing vows’—the importance of new vows and wedding themes[00:03:06] The RV road trip dream (and cold reality)[00:08:03] Logistics, leaf-chasing, and wedding planning on the go[00:09:41] Idaho wedding: Pickleball, mountain metaphors, and Trader Joe’s gifts[00:15:35] Montana wedding: Unknowns, lake swims, and colorful rock beach vows[00:23:13] North Dakota wedding: Meeting the Blacks, medieval banquet, and custom-written vows[00:32:21] South Dakota wedding: History, National Treasure moments, and the surreal sight of Mount Rushmore[00:36:00] Keystone cowboy tales and helicopter rides[00:38:32] Final reading: Custom-written Mount Rushmore vows and closing inspirationReady for a love story that spans the states and the imagination? Hit play and get inspired to make every day—and every vow—count!

What if the secret to transforming your marriage—and even your whole life—was as simple as deciding, right now, how you’ll respond to any situation? Prepare to be surprised by the revolutionary concept Evan and Susan Money unpack in this episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast: you can determine in advance to respond with love, no matter what.In Episode 90, "Determine in Advance to Respond with Love," Evan and Susan dive deep into the power of making intentional choices before you face tough moments—whether that’s in your marriage, with your kids, coworkers, or even the people who test your patience the most. Drawing inspiration from author Tom Holladay, they reveal why responsibility (your ability to respond) is the true superpower for healthy, thriving relationships.Key Highlights:Discover why the tool belt mentality doesn’t always work—and the magic that happens when you stop trying to “fix” and simply show up for your spouse.Real-life stories: Susan shares how a 20-year journey transformed the way she supports Evan in moments of stress, and how “verbal processors” in the family get exactly what they need.The life-changing impact of a 30-second greeting—and why Evan’s dog will never out-love him at the door!The science (and ease!) behind responding with a smile instead of a frown, and how a simple morning phrase can set your whole day—and marriage—on a path toward greatness.Tips for couples who work from home and practical, playful ways to make showing love a habit, not a chore.Plus: Why answering “How are you?” with “tremendous!” might just change the energy of your entire day.Ready for simpler, more loving connections? Tune in to see how predetermining your responses can reset your marriage and relationships—one loving choice at a time.Timestamped Episode Overview:00:00 – Evan introduces the concept: you can choose in advance to respond with love01:10 – Welcome, new listeners; a special shoutout and episode inspiration01:58 – The groundbreaking advice from Tom Holladay: decide to respond with love, always03:32 – Cold plunge analogy: embracing discomfort by predetermining your mindset05:03 – Susan’s 20-year journey to healthier responses with Evan and their children08:12 – Why men should ditch the “Mr. Fix It” mindset until asked09:49 – Proactive communication: “Prehab is better than rehab”10:27 – How to clarify what your spouse really needs after a long day11:49 – Setting the tone: morning routines and gratitude12:56 – Greeting your spouse: why Evan will always out-love the dog15:27 – Loving greetings when you both work from home16:40 – The male mindset and “mission mode”—how men can stop and show love18:41 – Infusing fun into your marriage habits19:51 – The power of positive answers to “How are you?” and the sacredness of enjoying life20:58 – Why smiling beats frowning—literally21:44 – Action steps: How will you put love into action this week?21:56 – Outro and where to follow Evan & Susan’s 100 weddings journeyDon’t just listen—decide today how you’ll show up for the people you love. Your marriage (and your mood) will never be the same!

What if the best marriage advice you've ever heard was "Separate bathrooms… and unwavering respect"? In this episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, hosts Evan and Susan Money sit down with Sharon and Mike Lechter—a powerhouse couple celebrating 45 years of marriage, immense financial success, and resilience through unimaginable loss—to reveal what it truly takes to build a marriage of greatness.Sharon Lechter, entrepreneur, bestselling author, and financial literacy advocate, and her husband Mike, an attorney, licensing authority, and cowboy-at-heart, pull back the curtain on their real-life love story—from a literal “love at first sight” meeting (in the middle of legal discovery!) to blending families, building empires, and even navigating the grief of losing a child.Key Highlights:The quirky and powerful practices that have kept their marriage thriving for over four decades (hint: it involves kissing, intentional living, and yes, those separate bathrooms!)How “intentionality” shaped their business success and their family lifeCandid advice on handling money as a couple—combining entrepreneurial and “stingy” mindsetsTheir journey through family blending and navigating religious and cultural differencesSurviving tragedy—from the abrupt loss of their son to rediscovering joy togetherLittle-known romantic gestures, plus a hilarious take on communication ratios in marriage (1 word for every 100!)Whether you’re newly married, “on round two,” or feeling stuck in a marital rut, this episode is packed with wisdom, authenticity, and inspiration to reignite your own marriage of greatness.Episode Overview & Timestamps:00:00 – Meet Michael & Sharon: Real-life love at first sight (even during legal discovery!) 02:05 – Who are Sharon & Mike? 44+ years, blended family, and their impressive bios04:43 – Realizing their marriage was “different”—and why05:54 – Their whirlwind nine-month courtship and blending families08:38 – Early marriage lessons: handling inevitable differences & “growth mindset”10:39 – Faith and family: tackling religious differences and parental acceptance13:29 – The power of intentionality in marriage and business success16:41 – Navigating finances as a couple, “money dates,” and blending family money philosophies24:58 – Why retirement is a myth: passion, purpose, and “refiring”26:25 – The most impactful marriage advice (“separate bathrooms” and that all-important respect)34:52 – Weathering loss: grieving the death of a child and finding joy again41:03 – Best gifts ever given (including buying a ranch together!)45:21 – If their life was a movie… who would star?47:41 – Advice for newlyweds and couples stuck in a rut (keep hugging, keep talking, keep loving)51:47 – The “little things” that make a great marriage: poems, serenades, and the permission to be yourself53:20 – Closing: final thoughts and blessings from Sharon and MikeDon’t miss this heartfelt, often hilarious, and deeply insightful conversation with Sharon and Mike Lechter—you’ll walk away with practical wisdom and a renewed sense of what’s truly possible in marriage.For more info and inspiration, visit Marriage of Greatness on Instagram and check out marriageofgreatness.com.

What if choosing “the right one” for marriage is actually the wrong question?In this eye-opening episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan and Susan Money upend one of the most common questions about relationships: “How do I choose the right one?” Their surprising answer reveals why this mindset could set you up for disappointment—and how it’s rooted in irresponsibility and a victim mentality. Instead, the secret isn’t about finding the right person, but becoming the right person. With candid personal stories (did you know Susan didn’t even have a “growth mindset” when she met Evan?) and practical wisdom, they share the mindset shifts and character traits—like integrity and accountability—that create marriages that thrive, not just survive.You’ll also hear:Why “growth is happiness,” and how a growth mindset can magnetically attract amazing people into your lifeThe myth of “the one” and how the journey of marriage is about continual growth, not arriving at a destinationWhy taking responsibility (not blaming) is the real path to a pain-free marriageHow Susan surrendered her list of partner qualities—and what happened next might surprise youA bold, actionable tip: the best interview question to ask a potential spouse before saying “I do”What Rolls Royce has to do with passion and commitment in marriageThe bonus question—“How do I know I’m ready for marriage?”—and Evan’s game-changing answer about readiness as a decision, not a circumstanceFull of encouragement, humor, and raw “aha!” moments, this episode is perfect for anyone seeking to elevate their marriage, or those preparing for that pivotal lifelong commitment.Timestamped Overview: 00:00 – A shocking take on “How do I pick the right one?” 01:09 – Welcome and introduction to the Marriage of Greatness philosophy 02:48 – Why searching for “the right one” is rooted in victimhood 04:50 – Attracting what you are, not what you want 05:19 – The myth of “the one” and the journey of becoming 06:06 – Susan’s growth mindset story 07:08 – The #1 trait to look for in a partner, and practical character traits 10:11 – Susan’s “list” and surrendering outcome in finding a spouse 13:11 – Growing versus dying: thriving versus surviving marriages 14:05 – The metaphor of Rolls Royce, and outworking the average 15:31 – Practical tips: screens in the bedroom & healthy boundaries 16:59 – Bonus Q: How do I know I’m ready for marriage? 17:31 – The only decision you need to be ready—for marriage or for happiness 19:27 – Challenge to listeners and closing thoughtsTune in for a fresh and empowering take on love, growth, and what it really takes to build a marriage of greatness!

What if the key to peace in your marriage isn’t about solving every problem—it's about embracing do-overs, ditching perfection, and literally seasoning your relationship?In this eye-opening episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan and Susan Money dive deep into the profound secret of “preserving the peace in your union”—not by striving for perfection, but by consistently choosing actions and attitudes that foster love, healing, and growth. Inspired by a timeless lesson from the Book of Mark, they reveal how to keep the “flavor” alive in your relationship and avoid the silent pitfalls that erode marriages from within.Key highlights from this episode:The Salt Metaphor: Discover what it means to "season and preserve" your marriage, and why losing your unique flavor can spell trouble.Growth Begets Growth: Hear how Evan and Susan challenge each other (and you!) to outdo each other in self-improvement—without unhealthy competition.The Power of Do-Overs: Learn why “resetting” after a blow-up is not just for kids, and how it can instantly restore connection.Speaking Your Partner’s Love Language—For Real: Find out how filling your partner’s “love tank” the wrong way is like trying to put gas in an electric car… and what to do instead.Listening Louder: Uncover the magic of giving your spouse the greatest present—your full, undivided presence—and why two eyes and two ears trump any screen.Actionable Challenges: Get practical, surprising ways to promote healing in your marriage, starting with a life-changing question and a simple pen-and-paper exercise.Plus, don’t miss the rapid-fire references to past episodes on stopping toxic teasing, ending pointless fights, and uncovering what really drives money arguments. Evan and Susan wrap up with a powerful reminder that the joy is in the journey—not the destination—and they dare you to take real action today.Episode Overview with Timestamps:00:00 – Introduction: “Preserve the peace in your union”—kicking off with wisdom from the Book of Mark02:23 – The salt metaphor & why your unique flavor matters in marriage03:44 – Healthy self-improvement competitions and following each other’s example05:26 – Salt as currency, promoting healing, and how to “determine in advance” to respond in love07:59 – The power of hitting the reset button—why do-overs work for adults too10:05 – Speaking your spouse’s love language: why it’s NOT about you (and hilarious real-life examples)14:43 – Listening louder: how your undivided presence can “fill your partner’s love tank”17:14 – The pen-and-paper healing challenge: actionable homework for couples19:29 – Highlight reel: recapping past episodes on teasing, fighting, fear, and money20:59 – Joy in the journey: avoiding “destination disease” in marriage21:49 – Final thoughts, next steps, and a heartfelt sign-offReady to transform the peace, passion, and partnership in your marriage? Hit play and jump in now!

What if your marriage could achieve the same level of greatness as a Shark Tank business deal?In this eye-opening episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan and Susan Money dive deep into surprising marriage wisdom gleaned straight from the Shark Tank set—specifically from Robert Herjavec and Mark Cuban’s 14-year partnership. Discover how business principles like purpose-driven growth, relentless optimism, and making the most of every single day can supercharge your relationship.Get ready for Evan and Susan’s trademark transparent storytelling—from the rollercoaster of their wedding vow renewals (over 100 and counting!) to Susan’s muddy, inspiring journey in her first Spartan Race, and Evan’s unforgettable lesson about forgiveness and the return of a prized Mustang. Through laughter, heartfelt moments, and actionable insights, this episode proves that striving for excellence and expecting to win isn’t just for the boardroom—it’s the secret sauce for an extraordinary marriage.Key Highlights:The #1 question every couple should ask: “What is the real purpose of our marriage—right now?”Why you should constantly renew your vows (and yourselves)How expecting the best (even amid setbacks) leads to unexpected victories—complete with a wild redemption storyThe surprising power of consistency over intensity for couplesReal talk on living with less, being present, and embracing life’s unplanned moments togetherGrab your spouse, take notes, and get ready to bring some Shark Tank brilliance into your own love story!Episode Timestamp Overview:[00:00:01] Marriage lessons from Shark Tank—intro & why business wisdom matters to couples[00:03:05] Lesson 1: “There is no greatness without great purpose”—defining your marriage’s mission[00:06:03] Lesson 2: “Expect to win”—shifting your mindset, real stories of victory vs. setbacks[00:12:29] Strive for Excellence—Susan’s Spartan Race journey and how it mirrors marriage challenges[00:20:08] Lesson 3: “Make the most of your day every day”—the value of less is more, and quality time[00:24:33] Practical tips for taking action & episode wrap-up

What if your marriage could follow the same gripping, transformative path as Hollywood’s greatest heroes?In this episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan and Susan Money reveal the powerful, often-unseen stages of the “Hero’s Journey” hiding within every committed relationship—using Top Gun: Maverick as their cinematic guide. Buckle up as they walk you through each phase: from the initial “call” to marriage, through the valley of reality checks and self-doubt, the invaluable role of guides and mentors, to ultimately slaying the dragon of self and rediscovering your partner as your greatest treasure.Prepare to laugh, nod knowingly, and maybe even be shocked as Evan and Susan lay bare deeply personal stories—like using “I am enough” as a daily reminder, struggling to pay for groceries in their first year, and the moment when trying to change each other nearly derailed their happiness. They share the wisdom of guides like Gary Chapman's Five Love Languages, reveal the vital difference between a merely “good” marriage and a “great” one, and offer actionable steps to ignite your own hero’s return—plus the one “hero’s welcome” most couples miss out on!Whether you’re just married or deep into your adventure together, this episode will challenge you to see your marriage as the epic journey it truly is… and inspire you to choose greatness every single day.Episode Overview[00:00:01] Have you taken the hero’s journey in your marriage?[00:00:39] Welcome and introduction to the “hero’s journey” in marriage[00:02:24] Why Top Gun: Maverick? Using a single film as a lens[00:03:43] Stage 1: The Call—and why most people hesitate[00:07:29] Stage 2: Answering the Call—decisions, proposals, and committing[00:10:24] Stage 3: The Adventure Begins—honeymoons, excitement, and new starts[00:11:41] Stage 4: Reality Sets In—when dreams meet tough circumstances[00:15:22] Stage 5: Finding the Guide—books, mentors, corner-men, and why they matter[00:22:25] Stage 6: Slaying the Dragon of Self—ownership over blame and growth[00:27:16] Stage 7: The Treasure Is Revealed—discovering each other anew[00:29:20] Stage 8: The Return—the importance of coming home changed, renewing vows, and celebrating your journey[00:33:39] How will you put what you’ve learned into action?[00:33:46] Outro and resourcesTune in for practical inspiration, movie magic, and a new way to look at the adventure of marriage!

What’s the one belief most couples bring into marriage that could set them up for heartbreak?Find out in this can’t-miss episode, where hosts Evan and Susan Money have a full-circle moment with their own premarital counselors—and uncover transformational truths about love, expectations, and the true secret to a thriving marriage.In this heartfelt and revealing episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan and Susan sit down with Gene and Teri Engle, the couple who guided them before their wedding over 25 years ago. Now, with 46+ years of marriage and decades of wisdom between them, Gene and Teri share candid insights about what most couples get wrong (and right!) about relationships.Highlights include:Why letting go—of souvenirs, expectations, and “perfect” traditions—may be the key to happiness at any stage of life.The gift Gene considers more precious than autographed Super Bowl helmets and NFL memorabilia.The single most dangerous lie couples believe about marriage (hint: it’s about mindreading).How the Engles have helped countless couples, and the warning signs that made them realize some relationships wouldn’t last.The myth of “happily ever after” and what fairy tales forgot to tell us.The importance of constant growth: why even marriage counselors go to couples therapy!Behind the scenes at Wimbledon, and how play and prayer continue to bring Gene and Teri together after more than four decades.Whether you’re newly engaged or decades into marriage, this episode will leave you inspired to invest in your relationship, ditch unrealistic expectations, and create meaningful, joy-filled traditions with your spouse.Timestamped Overview: 00:00 – Evan & Susan introduce Gene and Teri Engle, their premarital counselors02:00 – The significance of outgrowing attachment to things and embracing giving08:20 – The most memorable gifts exchanged in nearly five decades of marriage10:55 – What made the Engles’ marriage “different” from the start—and how their friends noticed15:35 – The biggest lies couples tell themselves and each other about marriage19:46 – Where do unrealistic expectations in marriage come from?23:07 – Love languages, communication, and why your spouse "doesn’t just know"26:48 – If your marriage was a movie… what would its title be?29:08 – How the Engles process seeing couples thrive—or not—after counseling32:11 – Why every couple, even the “strong” ones, need continued support34:39 – Dream trips, Wimbledon, and the value of “we” time throughout marriage38:41 – Keeping marriage the center: covenant, kids, and carving out couple time40:34 – The Engles’ final wisdom for staying connected, playful, and prayerful41:41 – Outro and how to follow the Marriage of Greatness journeyListen in for real talk, real laughs, and real hope from two couples committed to helping you move from good to great in your marriage!

What if you could look at your life today and know what you’d regret not doing before it’s too late?In this deeply personal and inspiring episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan and Susan Money crack open their “deathbed regrets” lists—and urge you to do the same. Inspired by their last episode’s exploration of regret, they share not just the big, once-in-a-lifetime dreams they refuse to leave undone, but also the smaller, joy-fueled adventures and experiences that make life together truly great.Key highlights you’ll hear in this episode:Susan reveals her top must-do experiences (like witnessing the Northern Lights and walking where Jesus walked in Israel)—and the power of finally seeing fireflies for the first time at age 53.Evan shares his lifelong dream to visit Christ the Redeemer in Rio and the ultimate Disney “jet-set” tour across the world—all while explaining how making a list gets you closer to living boldly.The Moneys open up about their not-so-ordinary wish list items: sleeping in castles, custom Rolls Royces as “mobile sculptures,” gondola rides in Venice, dog sledding, and climbing the pyramids in Egypt.Practical inspiration: why writing your dreams and regrets down—and sharing them—makes it real, and how to turn “maybe someday” into “we did it, together.”An invitation: Join Evan and Susan on their journey to 100 weddings, and discover why doing, not just dreaming, builds a marriage of greatness.Whether you’ve just met the Marriage of Greatness family or are a returning listener, this episode is your call to reflect, connect, and finally make your own list—because the sooner you write it, the sooner you can start living it.Episode Overview[00:00:01] – Regrets: The pain and what we’d miss most[00:02:09] – How the “deathbed regrets” list was born[00:03:24] – Susan’s must-do list: Northern lights, Israel, and more[00:05:03] – The firefly experience & awe at natural wonders[00:06:30] – Walking where Jesus walked; travel styles and making it meaningful[00:08:22] – Dream list: castles, gondolas, the Panama Canal, volcanoes, and Niagara Falls[00:11:41] – Evan’s must-do dreams: Christ the Redeemer & Disney’s global adventure[00:17:44] – Culinary dreams, cultural adventures, and the magic of sharing travel[00:20:06] – Why it’s about doing life together[00:22:31] – “Interesting but not regrets”: Singapore, fine art, and the ultimate Rolls Royce[00:26:49] – A charge to listeners: Make your list, commit, and start living your dreamsYour adventure starts with a list. Are you ready to make yours?

What if the greatest pain at the end of your life isn’t failure, but regret?In this transformative episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan and Susan Money tackle the gut-wrenching reality of living a life filled with “somedays” and “what ifs.” Drawing inspiration from a powerful quote by Deshauna Barber—“Do not fear failure, but rather be terrified of regret”—Susan shares heartbreaking stories from decades of convalescent ministry, witnessing firsthand the agony of dreams deferred.The conversation dives into why we put off what matters most, the destructive “rules” we invent for ourselves, and how embracing imperfection can spark real joy and adventure in your marriage and your life. Evan and Susan recount personal stories of their 100-wedding journey, question why our culture glorifies destination over journey, and reveal moving takeaways from true tales like the man who wished he’d given his wife a flower every morning while she was alive.Key highlights include:How our “someday” mentality robs us of fulfillment—and concrete steps to break free from it.The myth of the perfect moment and why starting messy beats waiting for ideal conditions.“Living funerals” and celebration-of-life parties before death—how and why to honor loved ones NOW.Candid confessions about digital distractions and practical advice for being fully present with those you love.Uplifting and actionable takeaways to eliminate regret—beginning today.Are you building memories or collecting regrets? Don’t miss this heartfelt, motivating episode that might just change the way you approach your one beautiful life—and your most treasured relationships.Timestamped Overview:00:00:01 – Susan opens with the episode’s powerful theme: “A life of regrets is no life at all.”00:01:08 – Welcoming new listeners and celebrating milestones in the Money’s 100 weddings journey.00:02:16 – The spark for this episode: why fearing regret is more important than fearing failure.00:02:51 – Susan shares insight from years in convalescent ministry—regrets at life’s end.00:04:35 – Debunking “the rules”: Creativity and love vs. manufactured wedding “perfection.”00:05:13 – Pandemic weddings: Small is beautiful—unexpected joy from breaking tradition.00:07:37 – Letting go of self-imposed limits and embracing the journey, not just the destination.00:09:04 – True stories: Heartbreaking and inspiring lessons of regret and cherishing now.00:10:09 – Screens vs. presence: The epidemic of distraction and how to reclaim connection.00:11:15 – Celebration of life: More meaningful sharing while you’re alive, not just after you’re gone.00:13:16 – The risk of regret: If you don’t risk, you don’t gain. Colorful lessons from sports and film.00:15:32 – Living funerals, “Tuesdays with Morrie,” and the power of reimagining life celebrations.00:19:45 – Breaking the cycle: Action steps to release regret and live intentionally now.00:20:48 – Episode wrap-up: A challenge to listeners—pause, reflect, and take action today.Listen, reflect, and take your first step toward a life—and marriage—without regrets.

What if everything you thought you knew about marriage—the struggles, the myths, the “happily ever after” fairytale—was only scratching the surface of what’s truly possible?In this life-changing episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan and Susan Money welcome Rachele and Emilio, the visionary duo behind Relationship Renegades, for a candid, deeply inspiring exploration of love, growth, and breaking free from limiting relationship narratives.Relationship Renegades Emilio + RacheleKey Highlights:Debunking Marriage Myths: Discover why being “married and miserable” isn’t inevitable, and how Rachel and Emilio have redefined what a thriving marriage looks and feels like—starting from the very first days they met.The Three (or Four!) H’s of Relationship Success: Learn how the principles of being healthy, happy, harmonious (and creating a little bit of heaven on earth) have helped them transform years of pain and toxic cycles into a model for conscious partnership.Alchemizing Your Relationship: Uncover the power of radical self-awareness, breaking generational patterns, and making inner work a daily, joyful journey rather than a grind.Practical Tools to Try at Home: Rachel and Emilio reveal their fun, game-changing techniques, like “owning your stuff” as a couple, playful reset buttons (“Take Two!”), and intentional communication to dissolve tension and boost intimacy.The Real Secret Ingredient: Hear why placing spirituality or a higher power at the center of their relationship—the “triangle” that includes self, partner, and God (or whatever you choose to call the divine)—has kept their connection strong through every season.Put This Episode Into Action:Create Your Relationship Vision: Reflect with your partner (or yourself) on what you truly want to create together. Remember, your marriage can be whatever you decide to make it—don’t settle for society’s defaults.Daily Gratitude: Practice appreciating even the smallest joy or act of connection in your relationship. As Rachel and Emilio share, the “journey is the joy”—there’s no arrival point, just daily opportunities to choose each other.Try the Reset: Next time you hit a rough patch, call for a playful “Take Two” or “Reset Button”—break out of negative patterns by starting the moment over with intention and lightness.Make Self-Work a Game: Shift from seeing personal growth as a chore to embracing it as a joyful, ongoing adventure. Challenge yourself to “own your stuff” first and watch the positive ripple through your dynamic.Connect with a Higher Purpose: However you define it, anchor your partnership in something greater than yourselves. Explore what spirituality, purpose, or shared values look like for your relationship.Ready to rebel against limiting love stories and become a true Relationship Renegade? Listen now and start creating your very own marriage of greatness—one intentional, joy-filled day at a time.Links & Follow-Up:Check out Relationship Renegades on Instagram @relationship.renegades and get inspired by their anniversary videoDiscover more at evanlovesusan.com and marriageofgreatness.comSubscribe to Marriage of Greatness on your favorite podcast platform to never miss an episode full of actionable wisdom and real-life relationship breakthroughs

What if money isn’t actually the root of your relationship arguments?In this eye-opening episode of the Marriage of Greatness Podcast, Evan and Susan Money dive deep beneath the surface of couple’s financial disputes to reveal the true causes—and, more importantly, the real solutions. Are you ready to finally end all money arguments with your partner? Get ready, because this conversation might just transform the way you see money, security, and love forever.Key Highlights from Episode #80:It’s Not About the Dollars: Evan and Susan reveal that money arguments are rarely about the cash itself. Instead, they're rooted in deeper needs—like women’s desire for security and men’s quest to prove they “have what it takes.”Role Reversals & Spending Habits: Whether it’s “spender vs. saver” or vice versa, listen as our hosts unpack the emotional voids we try to fill through shopping or saving, and how these habits are reinforced in our society.Practical Tools for Peace: The Moneys share their life-changing monthly budget meeting ritual—a simple, handwritten approach that brings clarity, security, and unity without the spreadsheet headaches.Generosity Breaks the Cycle: Discover how shifting from scarcity to generosity can free couples from the “wolf” of greed and anxiety, and hear about the transformative Journey of Generosity (JOG) experience.Faith, Love & True Security: Find out why lasting security and self-worth can never be found in money or things, but in something much deeper and more enduring.Take Action—How Listeners Can Grow this Week:Start Your Monthly Money Meeting: Grab a pen, paper, and your partner—ditch the spreadsheets and phones. Outline all monthly expenses together and review honestly, adjusting as you go.Put On Your CFO Hats: Approach your financial conversation as business partners; take the emotion out and focus on clear, honoring communication.Find the Leaks: Review subscriptions and spending; cut or consolidate where needed to stop financial “leaks.”Experiment with Generosity: Increase your giving—even just by 1%—and watch what shifts in your outlook and relationship.Reflect on Your Security: Take time to consider where your sense of security really comes from. Is it money, things, or something deeper?Share Your Wins: Let Evan and Susan know how you’ve put these principles into action—reach out on Instagram (@MarriageOfGreatness) or through their website.Ready to break the cycle and build a marriage that’s not just good—but truly great? Dive into this episode, and take your next step toward financial peace and relational greatness today.Don’t forget! For inspiration throughout the week, follow Marriage of Greatness on Instagram and check out EvanLovesSusan.com for their 100 weddings adventure, plus resources, budgeting templates, and more ways to connect.Subscribe now on Apple, Google, Spotify, GoodPods—or wherever you listen!

What if the biggest difference between a lousy, good, and great marriage isn’t what you think?In this eye-opening episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, hosts Evan and Susan Money reveal the real, transformative factors that separate struggling relationships from thriving ones. Drawing inspiration from John Gordon’s “7 Commitments of a Great Team” and real-life stories, they unpack why most couples get stuck—and how you can break free.Key Highlights:The Three Levels of Marriage: Discover the simple yet powerful shift from ignoring issues (lousy), to addressing issues (good), to actually getting stronger because of issues (great).The Elephant in the Room: Learn why couples avoid tough conversations—whether it’s for peace, denial, or getting caught in the shame/guilt cycle—and why doing so is emotionally exhausting.How to Address Issues Effectively: Get practical tips on holding healthy, distraction-free conversations using “I feel” statements and the art of laughing at yourself.Moving from Good to Great: Hear how real couples turned their deepest challenges into the foundation for an even better marriage, including insights from Montell and Kristin Jordan and Nicole and Steven Torres.Embracing Growth as a Couple: Shift your mindset—learn to love the process of improvement, see issues as opportunities, and make your “weak links” the strongest part of your marriage.Action Steps for Listeners:Reflect: Where in your relationship are you ignoring issues, just addressing them, or using them to get stronger as a couple?Schedule a Talk: Hold 20 minutes of undistracted, honest conversation with your partner—phones away, eyes and ears open!Apply the Reset Button: When things go sideways, pause and “reset” instead of spiraling into blame or defensiveness.Growth Plan: After addressing an issue, don’t stop there—ask, “What did we learn? How can we make sure this strengthens us moving forward?”Write it Down: Take one thing you learned from this episode and commit to putting it into action this week.Want even more inspiration? Download Evan & Susan’s free Vow Renewal Handbook at evanlovesusan.com and follow their journey to 100 weddings. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast so you never miss an episode!Step into greatness in your marriage—starting today.Timestamped Overview00:00 Romantic Vow Renewal Inspiration04:44 Cluttered Spaces and Awkward Visits08:45 The Tipping Point of Suppression12:33 "The Biggest Room: Self-Improvement"13:27 Undistracted Communication in Marriage18:40 R&B Legends Turn Marriage Healers20:34 "Strengthening Bonds: Beyond Repair"23:48 Choose Love Over Fear26:11 Avoiding Travel Stress28:53 Resistance Training for Mental Growth

What if everything you thought you knew about respect in marriage was wrong?In this episode, we’re breaking the old myths wide open and redefining what respect truly means between spouses—and it’s more powerful (and practical) than you might think.In “Let’s Talk About R-E-S-P-E-C-T” (MOG Episode #78), hosts Evan and Susan Money take you on a transformative journey to reshape your understanding of respect within marriage. Inspired by insights from Tim Ruffalovich, this episode dives deep into how respect isn’t something that can be demanded or handed out—it must be earned through intentional, consistent action.Through their signature warmth and real-life anecdotes, Evan and Susan unpack their own unique acronym for RESPECT, offering you a fresh, actionable framework:R: Relate – Go beyond surface-level connection. Learn your partner’s love language, personality type, and strengths. And don’t forget: No one is a mind reader!E: Emotional Connection – Make intentional space to share and listen, even in life’s chaos. Discover the power of “couch dates” and genuine, agenda-free presence.S: Spiritual Growth – Lead by example in your faith journey and let your actions (not nagging) speak volumes.P: Physical Touch (Non-Sexual) – Bring back affectionate, non-sexual touch and ask your spouse how they want to be touched. Affection isn’t just for newlyweds!E: Encourage – Find out how your partner wants to be cheered on, and learn why praising the change you wish to see works better than nagging or “informing.”C: Consistency – Moody mates make for murky waters; consistency fuels trust. Learn strategies to keep negativity in check and fuel positive habits.T: Truth in Love (to Your Mate & Yourself) – Embrace self-awareness and honest conversations, and leave the masks behind for true depth and transparency.Key Highlights:Why respect cannot be forced—and what truly earns it in marriageHow understanding your partner’s unique wiring transforms closenessThe secret to relating better: genuinely sharing what’s on your mind, rather than expecting psychic powersFresh ideas for connecting emotionally—even in a packed scheduleThe role of spirituality (and why leading by example grows both partners)Debunking physical affection myths that sabotage intimacyThe counterintuitive magic of encouraging what you want, not criticizing what you dislikeHow to handle moodiness, inconsistency, and ways to reset after slip-upsThe importance of truth-telling, both with your spouse and with yourself for growth and healingFor more tools, inspiration, and to follow their journey to 100 weddings, be sure to check out marriageofgreatness.com and find Marriage of Greatness on Instagram.Subscribe, listen in, and start raising the bar in YOUR relationship—respect isn’t a finish line…it’s a daily choice.Timestamped Overview00:00 "Marriage and Respect Insights"03:51 "Understand Love Languages"09:14 Improving Marital Communication12:05 "Creating Space for Connection"16:08 "Spiritual Growth by Example"19:45 "Respectful Touch in Relationships"20:34 Consent and Comfort in Touch25:51 Consistency Empowers Personal Growth26:56 Truth in Love: Self-Reflection32:02 Be a Truth Teller34:23 From Honesty to Transparency37:02 "Marriage of Greatness Podcast"

What if the biggest breakthrough in your marriage wasn’t about changing your partner—but shifting your own mindset?In this energizing episode of the Marriage of Greatness Podcast, hosts Evan and Susan Money reveal the hidden power behind lasting change in relationships: your mindset. Prepare to be surprised by why New Year’s resolutions, grand romantic gestures, or even willpower alone won’t sustain growth or joy in your marriage. Instead, Evan and Susan break down the “frameworks” (not formulas!) that real couples have used to shift their thinking—and how these small mental tweaks create huge behavioral transformations.Key Highlights:Mindset Before Behavior: Susan opens with a powerful truth—sustainable behavior change in marriage starts with a changed mindset, not the other way around.Lessons From Real Couples: Dive into insights from six inspiring couples, including a fighter pilot who had more confidence in the cockpit than in his marriage, a couple who turned gratitude into a movement, and Montel and Kristen Jordan who share the life-changing practice of “daily dating your mate.”Replace to Renew: The episode challenges you to reconsider “sacrifice” by swapping out old habits—just like swapping unhealthy foods for nourishing ones—to make space for growth in your relationship.Intentionality and Growth: Evan and Susan discuss why it’s less about grand gestures and more about daily, intentional actions—think tiny notes, meaningful eye contact, or simple acts of service—that piece together the “puzzle” of a great marriage.Quality Questions: Learn powerful self-coaching techniques like asking “What am I afraid of?” or “Where is this coming from?” to break free from old patterns and choose a new path forward.Put It Into Action:Reflect: Which mindset from the featured couples resonates most with you? Write it down and explore how you might apply it today.Experiment: Replace one small, unhelpful habit with a positive action for your spouse—no matter how tiny.Ask: Use the “quality questions” discussed to flip self-defeating loops into empowering dialogues.Connect: Try “daily dating” by finding a new way each day to show love or appreciation—think outside the box!Stay Inspired: Follow Marriage of Greatness on Instagram and revisit the highlighted episodes for deeper dives.Listener Challenge:Susan closes with a practical call to action—how will you put these mindset shifts into practice? Jot down even one change you want to make and take that step today.For more, subscribe to the Marriage of Greatness podcast and follow Evan and Susan’s journey to 100 weddings at evanlovesusan.com and marriageofgreatness.com.Timestamped Overview00:00 Marriage: God's Design for Greatness03:14 "Couple Mindset Frameworks"09:04 "TEDx Marriage Renewal"12:16 "Creating Your Marriage Puzzle"15:14 "Recalibration Through Lent"16:40 "Filling Dietary Voids Healthily"20:01 Thriving Beyond Adversity23:38 Navigating Relationship Challenges27:47 Achieving Greatness in Marriage

What if the secret to an extraordinary marriage wasn’t found in romance or passion, but in something most people overlook—companionship?In this powerful and uplifting episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan and Susan Money sit down with Tim and Janet Rafalovich, a couple who have been married for 38 years and have spent much of their life mentoring and counseling other couples. What makes their marriage unique? It’s not just their love for each other or their picture-perfect stories—it’s the intentional, day-in, day-out practice of choosing each other as companions, partners, and best friends.Episode Highlights:Redefining Companionship in Marriage: Tim and Janet share how they’ve built their marriage around the concept of companionship, making each other the core team and never letting their children or outside relationships divide them.What Thriving Couples Do Differently: Hear their insights from counseling hundreds of couples—their relationship hacks, what distinguishes thriving marriages from struggling ones, and why being “unoffendable” is crucial.Roles, Respect & Responsibility: Discover Janet’s wisdom on respecting your spouse, building a legacy of laughter and love, and how to build up your home with intention.Practical Tools for Husbands: Tim breaks down his R.E.S.P.E.C.T. acronym—a practical guide for men to connect emotionally, lead spiritually, and show love with consistency and truth.The Power of Laughter & Hope: Learn why being able to laugh at yourself matters and how hope plays an essential role for any couple, regardless of where they are on their journey.Take Action: Putting Lessons Into PracticePrioritize Companionship: This week, look for ways to be your spouse’s #1 fan and teammate. Greet them with genuine enthusiasm, check in during the day, or plan something that celebrates just the two of you.Build Your House on Respect: Assess your roles and contributions in the marriage. Are you respecting, appreciating, and building up your partner—or silently poking holes in your own “life raft”?Master the Art of “Unoffendability”: Next time conflict arises, see it as an opportunity for deeper understanding and connection, not as a threat.Reflect on Your Emotional Investments: Notice what you get most emotional about—is it your spouse, your golf game, your work? Realign your daily habits to ensure your marriage gets your best attention.Share Hope: Know that wherever you are, tiny steps of intentionality can transform your relationship. Tap into the hope and inspiration shared in this episode, and keep moving forward—together.For more inspiration, make sure to follow Marriage of Greatness on Instagram, check out evanlovesusan.com, and subscribe to the podcast on your favorite platform. If you loved this conversation, share it with a couple who could use a dose of hope and practical wisdom!Timestamped Overview00:00 "Marriage and Generosity Journey"05:51 "Janet: Lively Companion and Support"07:28 Companionship Strengthens Our Marriage12:00 "Commitment and Communication in Marriage"13:35 Prioritize Spousal Love Over Kids19:14 Family First, Church Second22:11 "Build, Don't Dismantle Relationships"26:06 Emotions Reveal Our Values27:36 "Faithful Partnership and Growth"33:02 "Sarcasm's Hidden Truth in Relationships"33:46 Respect: Relate, Connect, Lead, Care37:01 Thriving Together Against the Current

What if the greatest breakthrough in your marriage happens when you least feel like being loving?Welcome to Episode #75 of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, “What Would Love Do?” with Evan and Susan Money! In this eye-opening and heart-centered episode, our hosts unpack a deceptively simple question that has the power to transform your marriage—especially during those tough moments when love feels hardest to choose.Episode Highlights:What Would Love Do? Inspired by a question modeled by Jesus and echoed by thought leaders, Evan and Susan dig deep into the real meaning of “acting in love”—not just when times are good, but especially when you're hurt, angry, or just don’t feel like it.Game-Changing Reminders: Learn the powerful mindset shift from “I’ll forgive someday” to “Why not forgive now?” and discover how this “6G speed forgiveness” leads to faster restoration, more joy, and less pain in your relationship.Letting Go of Shame, Guilt, and Fear: Explore why clinging to these destructive emotions sabotages intimacy and what it means that they were “cancelled” for you over 2,000 years ago.Practical Examples & Uplifting Stories: Hear how Evan and Susan use everyday choices—like swapping out dinner for a healthy salad or leaving love notes—to nurture consistency, connection, and personal growth.Transformative Tools: Get actionable steps for inviting your spouse into growth with you (“Will you help me?”), plus a memorable hands-on visual for breaking out of “pushing and resisting” and into hand-in-hand teamwork.Put This Episode Into Action:Ask the Golden Question: This week, when a conflict or frustration arises, pause and ask yourself “What would love do?”—then take one loving action (even if you don’t feel like it).Forgive Fast and Fully: Practice speedy forgiveness with your spouse and yourself—don’t let pain linger, and notice how quickly your connection improves.Daily Mindset Reset: Follow Evan and Susan’s advice and make a daily habit of “renewing your mind”—choose encouragement, write a love note, or replace a negative response with a loving one.Lead by Example: Don’t force change on your partner; instead, be the example of the habits and attitudes you want to see, and invite them to join you—no guilt or shame.Share Your Wins: Write down one thing you learned and how you’ll apply it. You might even DM Marriage of Greatness on Instagram to share your story!Don’t forget: For ongoing inspiration and to follow Evan and Susan’s journey to 100 weddings, check out evanlovessusan.com and their Instagram @marriageofgreatness.Are you ready to act in love before you feel like it? Listen in, take action, and watch greatness unfold in your marriage!

What if the biggest lie about marriage is something you tell yourself every single day?In this powerful episode of the Marriage of Greatness podcast, Evan and Susan Money sit down with legendary R&B artist Montell Jordan and his incredible wife Kristin Jordan for a deeply honest conversation about love, loss, legacy, and the relentless pursuit of a “marriage of greatness”—even when the road gets unimaginably tough.Key Highlights:From the Stage to Serving Marriages: Discover how Montell and Kristin transitioned from music stardom to helping couples transform their relationships through The Jordan River and their Merit Masterpiece Academy.The Lies We Tell Ourselves in Marriage: The Jordans break down the most damaging myths about wedded life—including the belief that you can “fix” your partner or that marriage should be “easy.”Real Talk on Loss and Reconciliation: With heartfelt transparency, the couple shares their journey through infidelity, financial hardship, the loss of a child, and the rebuilding of faith—offering hope and wisdom for those facing similar battles.Daily Habits for a Great Marriage: Learn the Jordans’ “first things first” approach and the importance of out-serving each other, prioritizing relationships, and putting God and your spouse above all else.The Power of Transparency: Find out why hiding your struggles can torment you—and how sharing your story can set you (and others) free.Ready to Put These Lessons Into Action?Prioritize Your Relationships: Take a moment today to reflect—are you putting “first things first”? Where does your spouse fall in your daily priorities?Practice Daily Dating: Don’t just save romance for big occasions. Look for little ways to “date” and serve your spouse each day.Open Up Your Story: Take a step towards transparency. Sharing your own struggles (even with just one trusted friend or partner) can be liberating.Press In, Not Away: If you're going through pain or loss, lean into each other and your faith, rather than withdrawing.Guardrails, Not Perfection: Embrace the guardrails that keep your marriage on a healthy path—no relationship is perfect, but intentional habits make all the difference.Want More?Visit evanlovessusan.com and marriageofgreatness.com for resources, stories, and to follow the Money’s journey to 100 weddings.Check out the Jordans’ Merit Masterpiece Academy online and follow their work at The Jordan River if you’re ready to take your marriage from good… to truly great.Timestamped Overview00:00 Healing Marriages at Jordan River04:56 Letting Others Learn Independently08:16 Marriage's Biggest Lie: Good vs. Great09:46 "Selflessness in Marriage"15:47 "Faithful Love's Journey"19:08 Coping with Child Loss in Marriage22:53 Unimaginable Journey of Loss24:28 Reuniting with Lost Loved Ones28:05 "Emotional Moment at McKendrick's"32:05 "Communicating Needs in Relationships"35:11 "Sharing Stories of Marriage Resilience"37:17 Prioritize Over Balance in Relationships40:52 "World-Changing Wedding Enthusiasts"44:46 Daily Renewal, Lasting Love47:30 From Sympathy to Empathy48:59 Nature-Inspired Fashion Statement