Her On Top

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Her On Top

Join Kayla, a licensed sex therapist, in normalizing and embracing sex and relationships. With expertise and grounded empathy, Kayla creates a space for women to feel normal, learn, and reclaim their relationship to sex and intimacy. Episodes will include real life examples, tangible take-aways, and the occasional interview with other incredible experts you need to know about! New episodes out biweekly on Friday mornings.

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    I'm Done With Healing (And Here's Why)

    What if everything you've been trying to fix, heal, or perfect about yourself is actually keeping you stuck?In this episode, Kayla shares the six things she's DONE with — the patterns, beliefs, and patriarchal conditioning she's ready to burn away after weeks of intense Aries fire energy. From the pressure to be "fully healed" before you're worthy, to believing you have to solve the world's problems on your own, to worshiping idols instead of remembering your own divinity.This isn't about bypassing or giving up. It's about releasing what's keeping you small and stepping into sovereignty.Kayla also shares a huge announcement: she's birthing Walk as Love Temple — a free Telegram community for like-hearted souls ready to walk as love, hold each other through the messy emotions, and co-create the new Earth together. This is the beginning of her dream to build an actual physical temple where community, vulnerability, joy, and vision-holding can thrive.This episode is for anyone tired of playing small, tired of perfectionism, tired of being told they're broken. You are sovereign. You are divine. And it's time to remember.In this episode, we explore:The 6 things Kayla is DONE with (and why you might be too)Walk as Love Temple announcement — free Telegram community (co-ed, all welcome)Why she's done with "healing" as a prerequisite for worthinessReleasing scarcity and trusting the universe is holding youStop solving the world's problems individually — demand systemic changeMoving out of victim mentality and into sovereigntyPerfectionism as a patriarchal tool (you don't have to be perfect)Celebrity worship vs. remembering YOU are divine tooWhy humans are the "royalty of the cosmos"You are just as divine as Jesus, Mary, any idol you worshipAs within, so without — holding abundance for the collectiveThis is Liberation Wisdom. You are sovereign. You are divine. Always choose love.Join Walk as Love Temple (free Telegram chat):Take Your Seat in the Circle HERE!!If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:Join my Newsletter Community + Get My FREE Sacred Body Workbook: A Guide to Healing Body Image and Embracing PleasureSupport this podcast and leave me a tip!Book your Liberation Wisdom SessionBook 45 minute FREE consultation

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    From God-Fearing to God-Loving: How Patriarchal Religion Harms Relationships

    What does it really mean when someone says they want a "God-fearing" partner? And what harm does that language do to how we show up in relationships?In this episode, Kayla unpacks the phrase "God-fearing" — where it comes from, what it reveals about patriarchal religion, and why conflating fear with love creates unhealthy relationship dynamics. She explores how externalizing our connection to the divine through gatekeepers (priests, pastors, religious leaders) disconnects us from our own divinity and reinforces hierarchy and control.Kayla shares the difference between Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine energies (fire and container, not dominance and submission), and reveals the sacred partnership between Jesus and Mary Magdalene that patriarchy erased from history. She invites us to shift from "God-fearing" to "God-loving" — choosing unconditional love over fear, connection over separation, and co-creation over control.This episode is a call to remember: God is love. Not fear. And healthy relationships — with the divine, with each other, with ourselves — are built on love, safety, and sacred union.In this episode, we explore:What "God-fearing" really means (and why it's harmful)How patriarchal religion externalizes our connection to the divineWhy conflating fear with love creates unhealthy relationship dynamicsThe difference between patriarchal masculinity and Divine MasculineDivine Feminine as fire, Divine Masculine as container (not control)The Great Mother: unconditional love with no conditionsJesus and Mary Magdalene as sacred union (the lost teachings)How Jesus embodied love for the marginalized, not fear and separationWhy "God-loving" is the shift we needWe are all divine — we came from a womb, our souls chose to be hereSacred Fire Circle announcement (April 12, Gig Harbor WA)This is Liberation Wisdom. Always choose love.Sacred Fire Circle (In Person Women's Circle) - Sunday, April 12 10am - 12pmGig Harbor, WA | A Touch of Meraki - Gather RoomAlchemize grief and rage into joy and visionFinally release your grief and rage without drowning in it or carrying the weight of the world alone! Link in show notesCLICK HERE TO JOIN!Kayla will be taking a 3-week break from the podcast (spring break + prep time). Back in late April!If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:Join my Newsletter Community + Get My FREE Sacred Body Workbook: A Guide to Healing Body Image and Embracing PleasureSupport this podcast and leave me a tip!Book your Liberation Wisdom SessionBook 45 minute FREE consultation

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    The Patriarchy Is the Problem (And Love Is the Answer)

    The patriarchy isn't just about men versus women — it's a system that's harming everyone. And it's crumbling.In this episode, Kayla breaks down what the patriarchy actually is, where it came from, and why fighting it with love (not more violence) is the only way forward.She explores the difference between patriarchy (hierarchy, domination, extraction) and matriarchy (community, circle, care for women and children at the center). She traces how we got here — from the Roman Empire to the Industrial Revolution to right now, this moment where the wheels are coming off and the system is in its extinction burst.But here's the thing: they want us divided. They want us blaming each other — immigrants, neighbors, anyone but the system itself. Because when we see each other's humanity, when we link arms and say "no more," we become unstoppable.Kayla also shares about Sacred Fire Circle — her new in-person offering where we alchemize grief and rage into joy, pleasure, and a collective vision for the new Earth. And she invites listeners to join the No Kings Day protest as an act of love, community, and resistance.This episode is a call to step outside the patriarchal playbook and choose something different: love over fear, community over division, joy over greed.In this episode, we explore:What the patriarchy actually is (and what it isn't)The difference between patriarchy and matriarchyHow the patriarchy has only existed for ~5,000 years (we lived differently before)Why division is the patriarchy's greatest weaponHow the system harms everyone — even the people at the topWhy we're in the "extinction burst" of patriarchy right nowFighting corruption and greed with love (not more violence)Seeing the humanity in people — even those we disagree withHarry Potter, Voldemort, and the power of love (yes, really)Sacred Fire Circle: alchemizing grief and rage into visionWhy protests are joyful, family-friendly acts of loveSmall acts of kindness as revolutionary resistanceThis is Liberation Wisdom. Always choose love.Sacred Fire Circle - In-Person EventSunday, April 12th | 10am-12pm PDTA Touch of Meraki, Gig Harbor, WA - Gather RoomSIGN UP HERE!!If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:Join my Newsletter Community + Get My FREE Sacred Body Workbook: A Guide to Healing Body Image and Embracing PleasureSupport this podcast and leave me a tip!Book your Liberation Wisdom SessionBook 45 minute FREE consultation

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    Your Needs Matter Just as Much as His

    What if taking your power back isn't selfish — it's sacred?In this episode, Kayla explores a core wound many women carry: the belief that we must put others — especially men — before ourselves. This conditioning shows up everywhere: carrying the mental load, prioritizing partners' rest over our own, believing pleasure is only for them.Kayla shares her own journey of unlearning generational programming that taught her to coddle men and treat them as incapable. She explores how this pattern shows up in motherhood, relationships, and especially sexual healing — where clients have been taught their bodies should follow a blueprint instead of being honored as variable and alive.But here's the truth: when women step back from over-giving, it doesn't just free us — it empowers everyone. It invites men to actually step up and creates space for true co-creation.This episode also grounds us in the Aries Equinox — the astrological New Year and a powerful portal for renewal. We're in a karmic burn, clearing old cycles to birth the new Earth. And it starts with healing these core wounds within ourselves first.Always choose love.If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:Join my Newsletter Community + Get My FREE Sacred Body Workbook: A Guide to Healing Body Image and Embracing PleasureSupport this podcast and leave me a tip!Book your Liberation Wisdom SessionBook 45 minute FREE consultation

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    Liberation Wisdom: Walking as Love in a World of Chaos

    What if the shift you've been waiting for is already happening — and it starts with choosing love over productivity?Welcome to Liberation Wisdom, a new iteration of this podcast where Kayla steps fully into her path as a Sacred Feminine priestess. This isn't about bypassing the darkness or pretending everything is fine — it's about walking as love in the face of chaos, and bridging galactic wisdom with the very real, tangible shifts happening in our collective consciousness right now.In this first episode, Kayla introduces what it means to be a priestess (spoiler: it's walking as unconditional love), explains the sacred symbols guiding this work, and dives into a major shift she's witnessing in the collective: people are waking up to the truth that productivity culture is killing us. From parents rejecting the 40-60 hour work week to colleagues stepping back from burnout, to her own husband choosing family over corporate ladder-climbing — the ick is spreading. And it's creating the new Earth.This episode explores how our disconnect from natural rhythms (especially in winter), the rise of AI, and a growing collective awareness are forcing us to redefine success, time, and money. The American Dream is dead. What comes next is up to us — and it starts with choosing love, rest, creativity, and connection over extraction.In this episode, we explore:What it means to be a priestess and walk as loveThe sacred symbols of Liberation Wisdom (sapphire blue, the solar cross)Bridging galactic channeling, astrology, and psychology to understand collective shiftsWhy winter depression is about more than SAD — it's about stolen time for rest and reflectionThe collective "ick" spreading around productivity and corporate cultureHow people are starting to reject work that treats them as numbers, not humansWhy you can be replaced at work but never at homeThe role of AI in dismantling (and rebuilding) our relationship to workCo-creating the new Earth through choosing family, creativity, and connection over capitalismHow internal shifts create collective change (as within, so without)This is Liberation Wisdom. This is the path of the priestess. Always choose love.If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:Join my Newsletter Community + Get My FREE Sacred Body Workbook: A Guide to Healing Body Image and Embracing PleasureSupport this podcast and leave me a tip!Book your Liberation Wisdom SessionBook 45 minute FREE consultation

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    From Victoria's Secret to the Sacred Body

    What if the key to reclaiming pleasure starts with reclaiming your body?In this episode, Kayla explores how patriarchal systems have weaponized body shame to keep women distracted, disconnected, and disempowered. She traces the cultural programming many of us absorbed growing up — the mall brands, the impossible beauty standards, the male gaze we internalized — back to predatory systems designed to make us feel unsafe in our own skin.Kayla shares her own moment of reckoning while dancing alone in her kitchen, realizing she was still judging herself through someone else's eyes. She invites listeners to shift their relationship with their bodies from one of scrutiny to one of reverence — honoring what your body does for you, not just what it looks like.This episode offers pathways to body reclamation through gratitude, cycle awareness, rest, and witnessing the beautiful diversity of real bodies in real life.In this episode, we explore:How patriarchy uses body shame to control and distract womenThe insidious influence of mall culture and brands designed to prey on young girlsRecognizing and releasing the male gazeShifting from appearance to function: what does your body do for you?Creating new narratives and identifying whose voices are in your headTracking your cycle with the moon and honoring restThe power of witnessing real bodies in their natural habitatThis is for anyone ready to stop shrinking and start reclaiming their sacred body.If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:Join my Newsletter Community + Get My FREE Sacred Body Workbook: A Guide to Healing Body Image and Embracing PleasureSupport this podcast and leave me a tip!Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire courseBook your Liberation Wisdom sessionBook 45 minute consultationEmail me at [email protected] with any questions

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    Men - What She Really Means When She Says "I Need More"

    What if the key to more intimacy isn't asking for more — but showing up differently?In this candid episode, Kayla speaks directly to men (and the partners who want to share this with them). If you're a loving partner who's trying hard but still hearing "I need more from you" — especially around sex and desire — this episode offers a compassionate roadmap for understanding what's really being asked of you.Kayla explores why so many heterosexual relationships have a desire discrepancy, how patriarchy has disconnected men from their emotions and the feminine within them, and why women often carry the emotional weight of entire households. She explains what it means when your partner says they need more emotional connection before physical intimacy — and why that's not about blaming you, but about healing a system that's failed both of you.This isn't about shame. It's about understanding how we got here and what it takes to dismantle those patterns from the inside out. The work starts with you doing your own inner work: learning to name and regulate your emotions, understanding how you've participated in patriarchal culture (even unintentionally), and showing up to your partner from a place of wholeness rather than need.In this episode, we explore:Why 90% of men have physical touch as their love language (and what that really means)How patriarchy stripped the feminine from everyone — including menWhat "carrying the emotional load" actually means in relationshipsWhy men often put all their emotional needs into the "sex bucket"The difference between coming to your partner from need vs. from wholenessHow to hold the container of safety for your partner to finally release and receiveWhy it's not your job to "make everyone happy" sexuallyWhat it means to reconnect with the divine feminine within youHow doing your own work automatically lightens the burden on your partnerSupporting your partner in her journey to reclaim pleasure (without pressuring her)This is an episode for men ready to show up differently — and for the partners who want to understand why this inner work matters so much.If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:Join my Newsletter CommunitySupport this podcast and leave me a tip!Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire courseBook your Liberation Wisdom sessionBook 45 minute consultationEmail me at [email protected] with any questions

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    Stop Chasing the Orgasm (And Start Here Instead)

    What if the key to reclaiming pleasure isn't trying harder — but offering yourself radical compassion?In this solo episode, Kayla explores the Goddess of Compassion and how compassion — love in action — is essential to healing our relationship with pleasure. For many women struggling with low desire or sexual dissatisfaction, shame and self-blame run deep. Kayla invites listeners to bring compassion to where they are now, trust divine timing, and remember that pleasure isn't about perfection or chasing orgasm — it's about meeting yourself where you are and letting go of judgment.In this episode, we explore:The difference between love (the Great Mother) and compassion (the Goddess of Compassion)Bringing compassion to shame, guilt, and grief around sexual dissatisfactionWhy orgasm doesn't have to be the goalHow compassion softens rigid boundaries and invites safetyLetting go of judgment to reclaim pleasureThis is an episode for anyone who's been too hard on themselves in their pleasure journey.If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:Join my Newsletter CommunitySupport this podcast and leave me a tip!Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire courseBook your Liberation Wisdom sessionBook 45 minute consultationEmail me at [email protected] with any questions

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    Cultural Catalyst: Eros, Resonance, and the New Wave of Leadership with Jaclyn Orent

    In this powerful conversation, Jaclyn Orent—a cultural catalyst and frequency architect—shares how consciousness-level transformation creates lasting systemic change in business and beyond. Discover why pleasure and intrinsic motivation are essential for exponential growth, how peer communities fuel sustainable change, and what it really means to be a "cultural catalyst" in today's world.This episode is for founders, visionaries, and change-makers ready to build something more alive, resonant, and revolutionary.In this episode, we explore:Why high-level founders won't pursue growth unless it's pleasurableThe difference between "push" (masculine force) and "pull" (feminine desire) in businessHow consciousness shifts in a leader transform their entire systemThe loneliness of leadership and why founders need actual peersWhat resonant leadership really means: shared vision, compassion, and energyReframing eros as pure life force — not just sexual energyThe being vs. doing paradox: how to stop controlling and start surrenderingWhy women especially struggle with control as a trauma responseWhat it means to identify as a "cultural catalyst" and why it starts the change processThis is a conversation for those ready to lead differently and scale consciously.Connect with Jaclyn OrentMasterclass 'The Science-Backed Secrets to Activate Your Highest Impact as a Cultural Catalyst Without Burning Out' - https://www.culturalcontribution.com/masterclassInstagram: @jaclynorentFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/kova.orentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jaclynorent/If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire courseBook your Liberation Wisdom sessionJoin my Newsletter CommunitySupport this podcast and leave me a tip!Book 45 minute consultationEmail me at [email protected] with any questions

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    When Receiving Feels Hard: Priestess Wisdom for Pleasure & Intimacy

    In this solo episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, Kayla explores what it truly means to receive in a culture that conditions women to over give and stay in control. Drawing from priestess wisdom, nervous system healing, and the Great Mother archetype, she shares how safety — not effort — is the foundation of pleasure and intimacy. Anchored in the liminal energy of Imbolc, this episode is an invitation to soften, release control, and remember the body’s innate capacity to be held. A grounding listen for anyone longing to reconnect with pleasure, presence, and embodied trust.If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire courseBook your Liberation Wisdom sessionJoin my Newsletter CommunitySupport this podcast and leave me a tip!Book 45 minute consultationEmail me at [email protected] with any questions

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    Pleasure as a Blueprint: Ethics, Community & the Future We’re Being Asked to Build with Andrew Phipps

    What if pleasure isn’t just personal — but political, ethical, and communal?In this expansive and soul-stirring conversation, Kayla is joined by Andrew Phipps for a wide-ranging dialogue that bridges pleasure, ethics, community, nervous system safety, power, and what it means to live a truly fulfilling life in a rapidly changing world.Together, they explore how modern systems — from capitalism and politics to productivity culture and individualism — have shaped how disconnected we feel from our bodies, from one another, and from pleasure itself. This episode invites listeners to zoom out and ask bigger questions:What are we actually working toward? Who does our success serve? And what would change if pleasure, ethics, and connection were central rather than peripheral?Andrew offers a global perspective on ethics, politics, and climate responsibility, naming how short-term decision-making and insular thinking have created collective harm — while Kayla brings the conversation home to the body, the nervous system, intimacy, and the longing for community many of us feel in our daily lives.Together, they imagine a future rooted in shared resources, communal care, ethical leadership, and pleasure as a measure of quality of life — not just productivity or profit.This episode is an invitation to soften, to question, and to remember that pleasure isn’t indulgent — it’s connective. It’s how we attune to one another, find our people, and come back into right relationship with ourselves and the world.In this episode, we explore:Why ethics are largely absent from politics — and why that mattersHow arbitrary systems and borders shape disconnection and inequalityThe difference between longevity and quality of lifePleasure as a shared, relational experience — not a solitary oneWhy community, not individualism, is the antidote to burnout and despairHow comparison culture erodes fulfillmentThe role of nervous system safety in intimacy and connectionReimagining success through rest, connection, and shared careTuning into “frequency” — and how resonance creates belongingWhy pleasure may be the most radical blueprint for the futureThis is a conversation for those who feel the old ways crumbling and sense something more humane, connected, and pleasurable trying to be born.Connect with Andrew PhippsInstagram: @theintimacyinquiry and @empathyunboundListen to The Intimacy Inquiry PodcastYoutube: The Intimacy Inquiry PodcastListen to Empathy Unbound PodcastIf you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire courseBook your Liberation Wisdom sessionJoin my Newsletter CommunitySupport this podcast and leave me a tip!Book 45 minute consultationEmail me at [email protected] with any questions

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    From Over-Functioning to Receiving: Pleasure, Power & Nervous System Safety with Dr. Jordin Wiggins

    In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m joined by Dr. Jordin Wiggins —naturopathic doctor, author, coercive control clinician, and dominatrix-trained pleasure strategist—for a powerful, nuanced conversation about desire, power, and why so many successful women feel disconnected in their intimate lives.Jordin works with women who have done “everything right” on paper—careers, families, achievements—yet feel numb, exhausted, and unseen in their relationships. Together, we explore the concept of “super traits”: extreme empathy, loyalty, forgiveness, and over-functioning, traits that often lead women into relational dynamics where desire disappears and intimacy becomes extractive rather than nourishing.We unpack why traditional therapy and common relationship advice often fails women with super traits, how power imbalances go unaddressed in patriarchal models of intimacy, and why pleasure is not the reward for healing—but the reset that makes real connection possible.This conversation also dives into:How over-functioning and under-functioning dynamics erode desire and safetyWhy scheduling sex, “just setting boundaries,” or trying harder often backfiresThe role of sexual coercion and invisible power contracts in long-term relationshipsHow patriarchy harms everyone—including men—and why more men are now seeking this workPleasure as a nervous system capacity, not a performanceThe importance of learning to tolerate sensation—both pleasure and painFeminine and masculine energy, safety, and the ability to truly receiveWhat BDSM teaches us about consent, power, desire, and embodied choiceJordin shares how her own journey—from chronic health issues and a sexless marriage to pleasure-centered healing—led her to integrate functional medicine, trauma awareness, and embodied power work into a method that helps women move from survival-based intimacy into true receiving.This episode is an invitation to question the stories you’ve been told about love, sex, and responsibility—and to remember that desire must be freely chosen, not managed, negotiated, or earned.Pleasure is not indulgent. It is information. And it is a pathway home.Connect with Dr. Jordin WigginsInstagram: @drjordinwigginsTake the Super Traits Quiz Listen to The Pleasure Principles PodcastIf you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire courseBook your Liberation Wisdom sessionJoin my Newsletter CommunitySupport this podcast and leave me a tip!Book 45 minute consultationEmail me at [email protected] with any questions

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    Unfurling in the Wild: Pleasure, Body Acceptance & the Courage to Be Seen with Wren Morrow

    In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m joined by Wren Morrow, an outdoor boudoir and erotic adventure photographer based in the Pacific Northwest. Wren guides individuals and couples through deeply embodied, sensual experiences in wild places—using photography as a portal back into the body, pleasure, and belonging.We explore how Wren’s work emerged organically through van life, nature immersion, and embodiment practices, and why outdoor boudoir is about so much more than taking photos. What’s being offered is an experience—an invitation to slow down, shed shame, and remember what it feels like to belong in your body and on the earth.Wren shares her powerful perspective on boudoir as fluorescence—the unfurling of a human being willing to be seen. We talk about shame as the instinct to close back into the bud, and pleasure as the courage to open, soften, and take up space. Together, we unpack how body image, motherhood, trauma, and cultural conditioning disconnect us from our sensuality—and how play, nature, and sensation help restore it.This conversation also dives into:Why embodiment and pleasure are birthrights—not reserved for “perfect” bodiesHow nature mirrors our own “imperfections” as stories of resilience and becomingThe reclamation and bravery involved in being nude in wild spacesHolding consent, safety, and boundaries during outdoor erotic art sessionsGroup shoots, feminine friendship, and the healing power of shared experienceMen, shame, vulnerability, and the complexities of holding erotic space across gendersNavigating power dynamics, safety, and tenderness with integrityWe close with reflections on the divine feminine and masculine, the harm patriarchy has caused everyone, and the importance of moving toward a future rooted in embodiment, pleasure, responsibility, and collective healing.This episode is an invitation to soften, unfurl, and remember:Your body is not wrong.Your scars are stories.And pleasure begins with presence.Connect with Wren Morrow:Website: https://www.wrenmorrow.com/Social Media: @_wrenmorrowIf you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire course - Beta starts January 21st 2026!Book your Liberation Wisdom sessionJoin my Newsletter CommunitySupport this podcast and leave me a tip!Book 45 minute consultationEmail me at [email protected] with any questions

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    Closing the Orgasm Gap: Big Clit Energy, Sexual Health, and the Orgasm Revolution with Eve Hall

    In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m joined by Eve Hall — pelvic floor physical therapist, intimacy coach, and host of the Please Me Podcast — for a powerful conversation about sexual health, orgasm equality, and women reclaiming their pleasure.We explore why the orgasm gap exists, how cultural conditioning and misinformation about women’s bodies impact intimacy, and why penetrative sex alone is rarely enough for most women. Eve breaks down female arousal, the importance of time, blood flow, and clitoral stimulation, and why pleasure is something that can be learned, expanded, and reclaimed.We also talk about Big Clit Energy — the confidence and vitality that comes from knowing your body and owning your desire — and how closing the orgasm gap benefits everyone, not just women.This episode is educational, affirming, and deeply empowering for anyone ready to stop settling and start experiencing pleasure as a vital part of wellbeing.Connect with Eve Hall:Website: https://pleaseme.onlineContact Page and Social Media: https://pleaseme.online/get-in-touch/Substack Newsletter: https://pleaseme.substack.comPatreon (Ad-Free & Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcastShameless Care: https://shamelesscare.com/If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire courseBook your Liberation Wisdom sessionJoin my Newsletter CommunitySupport this podcast and leave me a tip!Book 45 minute consultationEmail me at [email protected] with any questions

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    January 2026: Why Everything Feels So Heavy Right Now

    In this episode, I begin by pausing.Before diving into today’s conversation with my guest, I wanted to hold space for the emotional weight so many of us are carrying right now. This is the first full week of January 2026, and everywhere I turn — with my clients, in my community, and in my own body — I feel the grief, anger, fear, and exhaustion moving through the collective.I speak honestly about what it’s been like to witness this moment as a former therapist and as someone stepping more fully onto the priestess path. I share why I am moving away from the medicalized lens of diagnosis — not because suffering isn’t real, but because so much of what people are experiencing is a natural response to living in a world that does not support human life, rest, connection, creativity, or safety.In this reflection, I explore:Why anxiety, depression, burnout, and numbness are often symptoms of systemic failure — not individual brokennessWhat it means to hold collective grief and rage without collapsing into hopelessnessThe priestess role of holding duality: honoring the collapse of old structures while still tending the vision of what comes nextWhy feeling our feelings fully is not indulgent — it’s essentialHow rage and grief can be alchemized into clarity, courage, and creative powerI talk about the necessity of fierce love — love that is tender and boundaried, compassionate and unwilling to accept what is dehumanizing. I reflect on the fear that comes with imagining an entirely different way of living, and why change will not come all at once, but through sustained courage, heart, and collective imagination.This episode is also a reminder of why I created this podcast in the first place: to help seed new blueprints for how we live, love, heal, relate to money, steward technology, and care for the earth and one another. The change we are longing for does not come from outside authority — it comes from within us, and then between us.Toward the end of the episode, I share about my upcoming eight-week beta course Sacred Desire, and why I believe reclaiming desire, pleasure, and embodied truth is deeply radical work in times like these. I speak to how women reconnecting with their desire, boundaries, and inner fire is not escapism — it is world-changing.Join the Sacred Desire Waitlist Here! Inside Sacred Desire, we focus on:Reclaiming your relationship to sexuality, intimacy, and pleasureUnderstanding the barriers that have disconnected you from your desireHealing in community rather than isolationRising together, supported and witnessedIf you feel a pull toward this work, I invite you to join the waitlist. When you do, you’ll receive:My FREE Sacred Body Workbook: A Guide to Healing Body Image + Embracing PleasureA FREE 45-minute Desire Discovery Call with meSpace to discern, without pressure, whether this container is right for youAbove all, this episode is an offering of presence. A reminder that you are not alone, that your feelings make sense, and that even in the heaviness, something new is trying to be born.Hold your grief. Honor your rage. Do not abandon hope.We are still creating what comes next — together.Join the Sacred Desire Waitlist Here! The course begins January 21st, 2026. If you cannot make this round AND want to be on the waitlist for future launches of this course, please also join the waitlist and we can begin your reclamation journey through a free desire discovery call and being in my newsletter community before future launches.Please send this to a friend that you think may benefit from this work as well. I am so grateful to anyone that is spreading the word about this sacred work and helping those that are ready step into the divine fire and collective love and liberation.

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    Remembering the Sacred Feminine & Reclaiming the Divine Masculine: Birthing a New World

    In this solo episode, I explore a conversation that has been rising again and again in my work and my life: the remembering of the Sacred Feminine and the reclamation of the Divine Masculine — not as genders, but as energies that live within all of us.I share why this feels like a pivotal moment, personally and collectively, as I deepen into my priestess path and continue weaving sexual healing, desire, and pleasure into spiritual remembrance. I talk about how patriarchy didn’t just distort the masculine — it violently erased the feminine, forcing all of us into hyper-masculine survival modes that were never meant to sustain us.In this episode, I unpack:What the Sacred Feminine and Divine Masculine actually are as energetic archetypesHow patriarchy fractured both, leading to domination, hyper-vigilance, burnout, and disconnectionWhy reclaiming the Sacred Feminine is the first step toward true balance and healingHow pleasure, rest, intuition, and embodiment are foundational to feminine remembranceWhat it would mean for the masculine to hold safety, integrity, and sacred containment rather than controlI reflect on how women have been forced to lead from trauma and over-functioning, and how healing the feminine allows us to soften, receive, and create from truth rather than survival. I also speak to the grief, anger, and rage many women carry — and why those emotions must be honored rather than bypassed as part of this reclamation.This episode is also deeply connected to the current energetic moment. I speak about the new moon in Sagittarius, the winter solstice, and the womb-space of the dark — a zero point where death and rebirth meet. This is a time of reflection, rest, and conscious birthing, not pushing or proving.I share my long-term vision for this work: beginning with healing the Sacred Feminine through sexuality, desire, and pleasure, and eventually moving toward Sacred Union work — where both partners are supported in embodying healed feminine and masculine energies together, free from patriarchal scripts.I also talk about why community and sisterhood are essential in this process, and why healing the feminine must happen collectively, not in isolation. This is why my work continues to center women gathering together — witnessing, resourcing, and remembering side by side.At the end of the episode, I share an update about the upcoming beta launch of my newly renamed course Sacred Desire (formerly Not Broken). This foundational container is a death-rebirth journey designed to help women shed shame, reconnect to their bodies, reclaim pleasure, and remember who they are beneath conditioning. I explain how joining the waitlist includes:My Sacred Body WorkbookA free call with me to explore your personal barriers to desireA gentle, no-pressure entry into the circleThis work feels essential to birthing a new world — one rooted in embodiment, pleasure, reverence, and truth. I believe this remembering is not optional anymore. It’s the foundation of what comes next.I’ll see you in the new year, beloveds.If you’re feeling called Join Sacred Desire starting on January 21st, 2026Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire courseStay in touch with Kayla: Book your Liberation Wisdom sessionJoin my Newsletter CommunitySupport this podcast and leave me a tip!Book 45 minute consultationEmail me at [email protected] with any questions

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    Spinal Energetics and Shamanic Healing with Tiffanie Miner

    In this episode, I sit down with Tiffanie Miner, a shamanic healer, spinal energetics practitioner, and intuitive guide. We dive into her journey from chronic illness and trauma to discovering her gifts in energy healing, ancestral work, and shamanic medicine.We explore spinal energetics—how releasing trapped emotions and tuning into our bodies can transform nervous system patterns, deepen intuition, and open us to guidance from our ancestors and spirit allies. Tiffany shares how group work, couples sessions, and ancestral healing ripple out to transform families and communities.We also talk about collective shifts and intuitive downloads happening right now—how gratitude, connection, and reciprocity are reshaping the way we show up for ourselves and each other. Plus, we dive into Celtic goddess guidance, warrior energy, and star-beings, and what it means to remember our power while moving toward love, softness, and leadership.This episode is full of wisdom, activation, and inspiration for anyone ready to reclaim their body, their intuition, and their inner strength.Connect with Tiffanie Miner:Website: https://rootedrevivalholistics.com/Sign up for Tiffanie's December Energetic DetoxDive in and Check Out Tiffanie's Bringing Yourself Home -Nervous System Healing packageSee Tiffanie in action and follow her on Instagram: @intentiallyrootedinhealingIf you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire courseBook your Liberation Wisdom sessionJoin my Newsletter CommunitySupport this podcast and leave me a tip!Book 45 minute consultationEmail me at [email protected] with any questions

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    Forbidden Alchemy: Reclaiming Desire, Pleasure, and Spiritual Mastery with Sharon Marie Scott

    In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I sit down with Sharon Marie Scott, author of Forbidden Alchemy: Transmuting Taboo into Erotic Medicine, to explore the transformative power of pleasure, play, and conscious sexuality. Sharon shares her journey from trauma and shame to sovereignty, choice, and spiritual mastery through pleasure.We dive into:Discovering your pleasure: How deciding that you’re worth falling in love with yourself—and exploring what truly excites you—can be playful, freeing, and life-changing.From shame to sovereignty: Why shame around desire is imposed, not inherent, and how conscious sexual exploration can help you move from need to choice.The “sandbox” of sexual play: Sharon’s book includes exercises ranging from mild to wild—primal play, polarity play, power exchange, and rope—designed to help beginners and seasoned explorers alike expand their pleasure safely.Kink, trauma, and natural desires: How fetishes and preferences can arise from innocence, generational inheritance, or curiosity—not just trauma—and how awareness transforms compulsions into conscious choices.Pleasure as spiritual practice: Sharon explains how pleasure operates at higher frequencies than love alone, and how sex magic and erotic alchemy can accelerate manifestation and conscious creation.Pain and pleasure as transformative tools: How shifting the story around sensation allows us to access higher states of consciousness and integrate both pleasure and challenge into personal growth.Community and co-creation: The role of regenerative, pleasure-focused communities in supporting growth, exploration, and collective manifestation.Sharon also shares her upcoming work, including her 12-week course The Pleasure Frequency Atelier, which blends online activation, in-person embodied practice, and integration to guide participants through sex magic, erotic alchemy, and conscious pleasure.Whether you’re just beginning to explore your sexuality, seeking to heal from shame, or ready to integrate pleasure into spiritual mastery, this conversation offers a roadmap to reclaiming desire, deepening your sensual and spiritual connection, and raising your frequency.Connect with Sharon:Website: sharonmariescott.comInstagram: @sharonlifetunredonYouTube: Life Turned OnTikTok: Life Turned OnUpcoming Course: The Pleasure Frequency AtelierBook: Forbidden Alchemy: TransmutingTaboo into Erotic Medicine Coming Soon: Flesh and Flame: Pleasure as the Portal to Divine Mastery (Feb 2025)If you’re feeling called to stay in touch with Kayla:Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire course (launch sometime in late winter to early spring 2026)Book your Liberation Wisdom sessionJoin my Newsletter CommunitySupport this podcast and leave me a tip!Book 45 minute consultationEmail me at [email protected] with any questions

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    We Couldn’t Have Predicted This: Integrating the SHED Retreat with Shauna Stewart

    In this intimate and heartfelt episode, Kayla and her co-host sit down—one week after returning from the SHED Retreat—to reflect on what truly unfolded inside this powerful container.After a full season exploring what it means to shed through the lens of the Year of the Snake on Shauna's podcast Life Turned On, the retreat was the culmination: 10 women, two facilitators, one island, and a weekend that cracked all expectations wide open.Here, they share: What surprised them the most about the group dynamic and the depth of transformationWhy the retreat felt like a womb space—a cocoon of safety, softness, and feminine frequencyHow quickly the women bonded, supported one another, and dropped into profound vulnerabilityThe behind-the-scenes moments—the lodging mix-ups, the “meat hook” underworld meditation, the spontaneous tattooThe power of the singing circle, the ceremonies, and the shared ritualsWhat it felt like to re-enter real life after living in community, connection, and sacred feminine energyTheir favorite moments, from spoken-desire rituals to witnessing women see and honor one another fullyThis episode is a love letter to the women who showed up, the magic they created together, and the reminder that transformation happens fastest when we are willing to be witnessed.If you’ve ever wondered what actually happens inside a transformational retreat—or if you’re craving deeper sisterhood, community, and embodied healing—this conversation will open your heart.Resources: Join the SHED RETREAT 2026 WAITLIST!!!!Check Out Shauna's Podcast Life Turned OnCheck Out and Join the The Living Temple If you’re feeling called:Join the waitlist for the Sacred Desire course (February 4th, 2026 start)Book your Liberation Wisdom sessionJoin my Newsletter CommunitySupport this podcast and leave me a tip!Book 45 minute consultationEmail me at [email protected] with any questions

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    When Desire Feels Hard: Building Intimacy Outside the Bedroom

    In this episode, I’m coming to you on the heels of the New Moon in Scorpio and fresh from the deeply transformative SHED Retreat—still riding the emotional and energetic high of what was created there. My scheduled guest didn’t make it, so Spirit made it clear that today needed to be a solo episode, and honestly… I think this conversation wanted to come through.I start by sharing an exciting announcement: the Not Broken course is officially launching this January, 2026. This 8–9 week live experience is for women who feel disconnected from their sexual desire, struggle to access pleasure for themselves, or simply feel lost inside their own intimacy. It’s a beta round, meaning it will be the lowest energy exchange it will ever be, and I’m calling in founding members who want to co-create this sacred container with me. You can join the waitlist through the link below.I also share that I am renaming my spiritual guidance sessions to Liberation Wisdom Sessions—a more aligned reflection of my priestess path and the soul-level support these one-on-one sessions offer. These sessions are for anyone needing grounding, clarity, or guidance as you unravel what’s no longer yours and root deeper into your becoming.From there, I shift into a conversation inspired by so many stories that surfaced during the SHED retreat—stories about relationships, intimacy, disconnection, and the longing to feel seen, held, and understood by a partner. Although I typically speak directly to the individual, today I offer wisdom from years of working with couples and from witnessing the patterns that consistently shape relational intimacy.I talk about:Why so many couples feel like intimacy only happens inside a sexual contextHow emotional intimacy forms the foundation for desireWhy women often need emotional safety before accessing physical pleasureHow men are conditioned to seek closeness through sex, not emotional connectionDaily and weekly practices that build deeper emotional intimacyThe role of non-sexual touch and why your body needs itHow 20-second hugs literally rewire your nervous system for safetyWays to offer alternate forms of connection when you’re not available for sexReconciling different intimacy needs without shame or pressureHow to reestablish closeness when the relationship feels like “roommates”What it means to advocate for yourself in partnershipWhy pleasure work begins with YOU, not your partnerI also share more about the dynamic of working with couples, and how partner support containers can be added to the Not Broken course or my 1:1 coaching to help bring your new embodiment into the relational space.And of course, I reflect on the power of community and what unfolded during the SHED retreat—the transformation, the sisterhood, the courage, and the frequency we built together. Next week, Shauna and I will be releasing a full retreat recap on her podcast Life Turned On, which I’ll link below.I’ll be taking next week off in honor of Thanksgiving here in the U.S., as well as the National Day of Mourning as we honor Indigenous lives lost in the making of this country. After that, I’ll be back with more guests, more wisdom, and more conversations devoted to reclaiming sexuality, desire, and intimacy on your own terms.If you’re feeling called:Join the waitlist for the Not Broken course (January 2026 start)Book your Liberation Wisdom sessionReach out if you and your partner want support at [email protected] this podcast and leave me a tip!Other ResourcesListen to our processing of the SHED Retreat next week and get first access to the waitlist for next years retreat on Shauna's Life Turned On PodcastUntil next time, my loves—take gentle care.

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    Holding the Frequency: Creating the New Earth Through Love, Energy, and Consciousness

    In this episode, I’m diving deep into energy, frequency, and the collective awakening that we’re living through right now. I’ve spoken about these things before, but this time I’m weaving together the threads — my personal understanding, what the spiritual and scientific communities are seeing, and why this truly is the foundation of my mission and of the Connected Pleasure Podcast.I start by exploring how energy creates reality — how everything, from our bodies to the stories we consume, vibrates at a frequency. When we focus on fear, shame, and despair, we reinforce those frequencies in our lives and in the collective. But when we orient toward love, pleasure, and joy, we literally help shape a new earth — one grounded in compassion, freedom, and peace.I speak about what’s happening in our world right now — the political unrest, the fear narratives, and how easy it is to fall into doom scrolling — and I share how I’ve learned to step back and shift my vibration from fear into faith.Then I explore what many in the spiritual community and scientific realms are noticing:The energetic significance of 3I Atlas, a comet-like celestial body said to be carrying new frequencies of love and consciousness to Earth.The ancient prophecies that align with this exact moment in history — and the idea that we are in the gestation period of the “new human.”How this cosmic energy may be activating healing, heart opening, and evolution in both humans and the planet herself.I also touch on AI and the Pluto-in-Aquarius era, where technology is advancing at light speed. I reflect on how AI could either amplify scarcity or completely dissolve it — and how our consciousness, the frequency we hold, will determine which way it goes.Throughout, I bring it back to the heart of my work: holding the frequency of love, joy, and connection — not as a way to bypass what’s happening, but as an act of revolution. This is the deeper meaning of Connected Pleasure — finding the pleasure that comes from true human connection, empathy, and collective healing.I close by introducing my new Spiritual Guidance Sessions — one-on-one, one-hour sessions where I hold space for you to remember your own frequency and come home to yourself. Whether you’re in transition, feeling alone in your awakening, or simply longing to hold your light amidst the noise, this is a space to be held, seen, and guided in love.If you’re ready to deepen into this work, you can Book a Spiritual Guidance Session and if this episode resonates, please share it with someone who might need these reminders right now.Together, we are holding the frequency of love and weaving the new world. Connect with Kayla:Book a Spiritual Guidance Session — $111Join my newsletter and get my FREE Sacred Body WorkbookJoin the Waitlist for my Not Broken Course starting in January Support this podcast and leave me a tip!Resources:Pam Gregory

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    Rest as Revolution: Returning to the Body, the Seasons, and the Sacred Feminine

    In this episode, under the Taurus full moon and the deep waters of Scorpio season, I explore the sacred reclamation of rest—not as a reward, but as a birthright.I open by sharing how this particular full moon is inviting us into grounding, slowness, and embodiment. With earth and water energies swirling, our nervous systems are craving stillness. I talk about how collective conditioning—capitalism, productivity culture, and generational patterns—has taught us that rest must be earned, and how deeply our bodies are asking us to unlearn that.I share vulnerably about my own relationship to rest as a mother, a business owner, and someone who has carried the belief that I must always be “doing” in order to deserve downtime. I walk you through the emotional labor of asking for help, carving out time away from family, and the courage it took for me to claim three days completely to myself.I also explore the deeper spiritual aspect of rest:✨ the feminine cyclical nature of energy✨ how rest mirrors the seasons and moon phases✨ why pleasure lives in the rest-and-digest state✨ how rest expands our capacity for intimacy, spirituality, and connectionWe talk about rest as resistance, inspired by the teachings of The Nap Ministry, and how reclaiming rest is part of dismantling systems that profit from our exhaustion.And then, I share some big news.On this full moon, I announce the opening of Spiritual Guidance Sessions — one-hour, one-on-one sessions where I hold space as healer, priestess-in-training, and sacred disruptor. These are intuitive sessions rooted in somatic presence, grounded spiritual guidance, and deep listening. The investment is $111, and the link to book is below.Schedule a Spiritual Guidance Session here!I also share that there is one final spot open for The Shed Retreat — November 14–16 on Vashon Island — a sacred weekend for women in transition, ready to cross a threshold together.If this episode touches something in you — a whisper that says “I need rest” or “I want support” — trust it.Rest is not the pause before the real life begins.Rest is the portal.Connect with Kayla:Book a Spiritual Guidance Session — $111Join the final spot of The Shed RetreatJoin my newsletter and get my FREE Sacred Body WorkbookSupport this podcast and leave me a tip!Resources:The Nap Ministry

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    The Collective Awakening: Pleasure, Politics & the Power of the People

    In this episode, I’m weaving together the threads of sacred embodiment, Samhain magic, and the collective awakening that’s unfolding across our world right now.I begin by sharing about my experience inside The Living Temple—a global space of devotion, ceremony, and remembrance—and how it’s been guiding me to see the body as both a sacred vessel and a reflection of the larger collective body we all belong to. As we move through Samhain, the festival that honors the thinning of the veil between worlds, I explore what it means to tend to both our inner and outer worlds: the ancestors we carry within, the stories ready to be shed, and the new frequencies of consciousness that are coming online.From there, I follow the thread into our shared reality—what’s happening in the U.S. right now with the government shutdown, the slashing of healthcare, and the potential loss of food assistance programs like SNAP and WIC. It might sound like a big leap, but for me, it’s all connected. When we talk about the sacred body, we’re also talking about the collective body. When we talk about nourishment and pleasure, we’re also talking about access, care, and the right for every being to thrive.I share the lay of the land politically, not from a place of division but to help us see the larger story unfolding—and how this moment is asking us to rise in community care, compassion, and collective action. I offer tangible ways to get involved, from donating to local food banks to organizing small neighborhood giving efforts, and I reflect on how this kind of grassroots care is part of the new world we’re weaving together.This conversation is about awakening to the truth that pleasure, politics, and the sacred are not separate. They are threads of the same tapestry—calling us home to our humanity, our power, and our responsibility to one another.Learn More:The Living Temple WebsiteEmail me at [email protected] to share your interest in coming to the Samhain ceremony at my house in Gig Harbor, WA and I will help to get you all signed up for that. Politics: Heather Cox Richardson is my go-to for all my politics information. Listen to her latest Politics Chats for all the up to date information. Donate to My Local Food Bank or Find One in Your Area to Donate to. ALSO PLEASE VOTE IN THE UPCOMING ELECTION!! ELECTION DAY IS NEXT TUESDAY (11/4) AND WE NEED TO TURN OUT!!! GET BALLOTS IN AS EARLY AS POSSIBLE!!Kayla's Resources: SHED Retreat (ONLY 1 SPOT LEFT - Nov. 14-16 2025 on Vashon Island, WA) - Click Here to Grab the last spot and learn more.Schedule your free 45-minute consultation call to explore 1:1 coaching with me and step into your own sacred reclamation.Or start by joining my newsletter, where you’ll receive my FREE Sacred Body Workbook—the perfect place to begin your healing journey before our work together.You can email me at [email protected] - Leave me a tip if you would like to support the podcast

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    The Shed Retreat: A Journey into Pleasure, Power & Renewal with Shauna Stewart

    In this episode, I’m joined by intimacy coach and dear friend Shauna Stewart to weave together the story, spirit, and sacred purpose behind our upcoming Shed Retreat on Vashon Island.We explore what it means to shed as a collective act of liberation—how our personal unraveling and release becomes part of the wider transformation happening in the collective consciousness. Each woman who remembers her pleasure and her body becomes a thread in the great weaving of the new world we’re co-creating.This conversation is about the wisdom of shedding—of dissolving what’s outdated, oppressive, or numbed—and allowing what’s true, alive, and sacred to rise in its place. We talk about how pleasure isn’t just a personal experience, but a collective medicine, a vibration that calls us back to our wholeness and our creative power.Shauna and I also share how the retreat has been intentionally crafted as a womb space—a place to be witnessed, to soften, and to reconnect with the body’s natural rhythms of release and renewal. We speak about the through-line between pleasure, grief, and rebirth—and how embodying these cycles helps us live as conduits of healing for the greater whole.In this episode, we explore:The collective and personal symbolism of shedding and rebirthPleasure as the through-line that reconnects us to creation and truthHow emotional alchemy transforms grief and rage into life forceThe role of sacred space and ritual in anchoring healingThe ripple of liberation that happens when women return to themselvesRetreat Details:When: November 14–16, 2025Where: Vashon Island, WashingtonOne final shared room remaining (king bed with closed door for privacy)Join us for Shed—a sacred weekend of embodiment, emotional alchemy, and collective renewal. Together, we’ll release what’s heavy, remember what’s holy, and rise into the full expression of our feminine power.Click HERE to Learn More! We will see you there! Guest Resources:Shauna Stewart: Linger Boutique Listen to our original episode on the SHED Retreat on Shauna's Podcast Life Turned On. I highly recommend listening to all her other episodes this season as well to hear more stories of women shedding what no longer serves them and fully embracing their power and pleasure. InstagramKayla's Resources: Schedule your free 45-minute consultation call to explore 1:1 coaching with me and step into your own sacred reclamation.Or start by joining my newsletter, where you’ll receive my FREE Sacred Body Workbook—the perfect place to begin your healing journey before our work together.You can email me at [email protected] - Leave me a tip if you would like to support the podcast

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    Collective Consciousness, AI, and the Return to Community: A New Moon Reflection

    In this episode, I’m reflecting on the shifts happening in our collective consciousness — the ways we are being called to wake up, remember, and reorient ourselves toward love, community, and embodied truth.I share the threads I’ve been weaving together lately — from AI and the numbing of our senses, to the hunger for deeper connection and the re-emergence of feminine wisdom on the planet. I talk about how attention has become our most valuable currency, and what it means to reclaim that attention as sacred — to root it back into pleasure, presence, and purpose.This episode is an invitation to notice the through line that runs beneath everything — the way consciousness is evolving through us, how grief and pleasure are both portals to awakening, and how we each play a role in co-creating a world that honors the body, the Earth, and the sacred feminine.As I speak, I’m not just analyzing these patterns — I’m living them, feeling them, and weaving them together into something coherent, something hopeful. This is the work of remembering that we are not separate from the collective story. We are the story.✨ Join me in the journey:Schedule your free 45-minute consultation call to explore 1:1 coaching with me and step into your own sacred reclamation.Or start by joining my newsletter, where you’ll receive my FREE Sacred Body Workbook—the perfect place to begin your healing journey before our work together.You can email me at [email protected] Empire of AI by Karen Hao

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    No Kings Day: Showing Up for Democracy, Love, and Collective Joy

    In this bonus episode, I’m reflecting on the upcoming No Kings Day rallies happening across the U.S. and beyond this Saturday, October 18th, 2025. This is a powerful moment to show up for democracy — to stand for human rights, freedom, and community — and to do it with love, joy, and pleasure.I share how I’ll be attending my local rally in Gig Harbor, WA, and how I’m weaving joy, music, and even motherhood into activism. Whether you’re marching, driving by to honk in solidarity, or creating art and song from home, you are part of this movement.This isn’t about fear — it’s about choosing love over control, unity over silence, and the belief that our collective energy can change the world.🌕 Let’s rise together in joy, sovereignty, and action.Click Below to Find a Rally Near You:https://www.mobilize.us/

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    The Embodied Path to Power with Cheryl Stelte: Healing, Pleasure & Feminine Rising

    Welcome back, my loves, to the Connect to Pleasure podcast. In today’s conversation with Cheryl Stelte, we explore what it truly means to return to our power — not the performative kind that seeks validation or control, but the embodied power that radiates from deep within.Cheryl shares her ACE Method for empowerment — Awareness, Choice, and Embodiment — and we dive into how these steps help us reclaim sovereignty over our bodies, our relationships, and our pleasure. We talk about the difference between masculine “doing” energy and feminine “being” energy, and how the balance of both is essential for healing and wholeness.We also explore how our individual reclamation weaves into the greater tapestry of collective healing — how every woman who returns to her body, her truth, and her pleasure helps shift the consciousness of the world.If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your sensuality, your boundaries, or your own power, this episode is an invitation to come home — to yourself, to your body, and to the sacred wisdom within.✨ Ready to dive deeper?Schedule your free 45-minute consultation to explore if my 1:1 coaching container is the right fit for youJoin my newsletter to receive sacred reflections, podcast updates, and my free Sacred Body Workbook.Resources & Links Mentioned with Guest:Learn more about Cheryl Stelte: https://starofdivinelight.com/Schedule a Call with Cheryl: https://www.callwithcheryl.comPowerful Meditations: https://cherylstelte.kartra.com/page/powerful-mediationsLinkedinFacebookInstagramYoutube

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    The Final Hours — A Collective Prayer for Pleasure and Trust

    Welcome back, my loves, to the Connected Pleasure Podcast. I’m Kayla, your host (she/her), and this is it — the very last episode of open cart week for my 1:1 coaching container, Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life.By the time this episode airs, there are just 12 hours left to step into this sacred work. I’m offering a final-day gift — $100 off per month for the Core Coaching package 4 month payment plan (that’s $400 total) and $200 off per month for the VIP coaching package 4 month payment plan ($800 total).But instead of another pitch, I want to end this launch with something deeper: a collective prayer — a moment to come home to our bodies, connect with the Earth, and align our energy with what we most desire for ourselves and for the collective.Together, we ground into the womb of the Earth, stretch into the heavens, and breathe into the vision of who we’re becoming. I invite you to sit with me, breathe, and feel what it would look and feel like to live from pleasure, ease, and embodied truth.Whether you join my coaching container or continue your journey elsewhere, this episode is an offering of gratitude, trust, and remembrance: what you desire is already written on your timeline — it’s simply calling you home.Doors Close at Midnight Tonight Pacific Time! ❤️ Enroll Now in the LAST DAY DISCOUNT for the Core Coaching Package 4 month payment plan❤️ Enroll Now in the LAST DAY DISCOUNT for the VIP Coaching Package 4 month payment planAll details for my 1:1 coaching container are below.What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching ContainerThere are two ways to work with me:🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,9998 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamationPersonalized practices and between-session support toolsPayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)Enroll Now: Core Coaching PackageCore Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option (LAST DAY DISCOUNT)🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999Everything in the Core Package plus:Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidancePayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice supportEnroll Now: VIP Coaching PackageVIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option (LAST DAY DISCOUNT)🌕 Bonuses ✨ Included for All Participants:Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformationOptional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life15% off add-ons at check out, including:The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)🌸 Click below to purchase your package! Its your time!👉 Core Coaching Package👉 VIP Coaching Package👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option (LAST DAY DISCOUNT)👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option (LAST DAY DISCOUNT)You can email me with any lingering questions at [email protected] More About the Offers:❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your LifeJoin My Newsletter:Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

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    We’ve Arrived — The Final Day to Step Into Pleasure

    Welcome back, my loves, to the Connected Pleasure Podcast. I’m Kayla, your host (she/her), and we’ve finally arrived — it’s the last day of open cart for my 1:1 Connected Pleasure Coaching program.In this episode, I’m walking you through what it actually looks like to enroll and begin your journey inside my one-on-one container — from your welcome email and first intake questions, to how we move through our eight sessions together.I break down the flow of each teaching session — from Gathering the Threads (your sexual history and story) to Guarding the Loom (boundaries, consent, and sacred self-advocacy). You’ll also hear about the integration sessions, your bonus options, and how I hold space for you to weave pleasure back into your body at a pace that feels safe and supported.And since it’s our very last day of open cart, I’m offering something special:✨ $100 off per month for the Core Coaching Package 4 month payment plan ($400 total)✨ $200 off per month for the VIP Coaching Package 4 month payment plan ($800 total)This is your final invitation to join me before doors close tonight at midnight. Take a deep breath, feel into your body, and ask yourself — what would I love? If your answer whispers “pleasure,” I would be honored to walk beside you in this work.❤️ Enroll Now in the LAST DAY DISCOUNT for the Core Coaching Package 4 month payment plan❤️ Enroll Now in the LAST DAY DISCOUNT for the VIP Coaching Package 4 month payment planAll details for my 1:1 coaching container are below.What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching ContainerThere are two ways to work with me:🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,9998 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamationPersonalized practices and between-session support toolsPayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)Enroll Now: Core Coaching PackageCore Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option (LAST DAY DISCOUNT)🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999Everything in the Core Package plus:Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidancePayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice supportEnroll Now: VIP Coaching PackageVIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option (LAST DAY DISCOUNT)🌕 Bonuses ✨ Included for All Participants:Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformationOptional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life15% off add-ons at check out, including:The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)🌸 Click below to purchase your package! Its your time!👉 Core Coaching Package👉 VIP Coaching Package👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option (LAST DAY DISCOUNT)👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option (LAST DAY DISCOUNT)You can email me with any lingering questions at [email protected] More About the Offers:❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your LifeJoin My Newsletter:Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

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    Weaving Pleasure as Resistance

    Welcome back, beloveds. In this episode, I’m grounding us in why I do this work — why weaving pleasure back into the fabric of our lives is not just personal healing, but collective resistance. I share a story about the imbalance of modern work culture and how deeply it disconnects us from softness, rest, and embodiment — the very places where pleasure lives.I explore how our society’s obsession with productivity and “proving ourselves” keeps us in constant fight-or-flight, far from the nourishment our bodies crave. And I speak to the bigger web — how personal pleasure, body reclamation, and feminine energy are intricately woven with systemic healing and global change.As I close out the early bird period and we enter the final stretch of open cart for Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back into the Fabric of Your Life, I invite you to reflect on what could shift if pleasure became your non-negotiable. What might it look like to slow down, soften, and live from the truth that your pleasure is sacred — and revolutionary?Join me in this conversation on reclaiming ease, rest, and embodied resistance.All details for my 1:1 coaching container are below.What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching ContainerThere are two ways to work with me:🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,9998 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamationPersonalized practices and between-session support toolsPayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)Enroll Now: Core Coaching PackageCore Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999Everything in the Core Package plus:Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidancePayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice supportEnroll Now: VIP Coaching PackageVIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option🌕 Bonuses ✨ Included for All Participants:Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformationOptional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life15% off add-ons at check out, including:The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)🌸 Click below to purchase your package! Its your time!👉 Core Coaching Package👉 VIP Coaching Package👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan OptionYou can email me with any lingering questions at [email protected] More About the Offers:❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your LifeJoin My Newsletter:Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

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    The Descent of Inanna: She Removed Her Armor — Will You?

    In this episode, I share one of my favorite sacred feminine myths — the story of Inanna, the goddess who descended into the underworld.As Inanna journeys downward, she is asked to remove one layer of her power at each of the seven gates — her crown, her jewelry, her robes — until she stands completely bare. It’s in that vulnerable place that she dies… and is reborn.This story has lived in my bones for years because it mirrors the feminine path of healing and reclamation.We, too, are asked to shed the armor that once kept us safe — the perfectionism, the shame, the “good girl” conditioning — so that we can meet ourselves again, whole and holy.Inside my 1:1 Coaching Container, this is exactly the work we do together.We descend through your story, through the gates of your conditioning, and you emerge with your power restored — embodied, sovereign, and free.If you’ve been feeling the pull, this is your invitation to begin.✨ Early Bird ends today at noon Pacific — and this is the final opportunity to save $500 on your journey.✨ Early Bird Discount: You’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full. Click Below to Purchase Now!👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird SpecialWhat’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching ContainerThere are two ways to work with me during open cart week:🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,9998 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamationPersonalized practices and between-session support toolsPayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999Everything in the Core Package plus:Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidancePayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support🌕 Bonuses ✨ Included for All Participants:Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformationOptional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life15% off add-ons at check out, including:The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)🌸 Click below to purchase your package! Its your time!👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan OptionYou can email me with any lingering questions at [email protected] More About the Offers:❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your LifeJoin My Newsletter:Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

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    You Belong Here: Inclusivity, Pleasure, and the Feminine

    Welcome back, my loves. In today’s episode, I wanted to take a pause from the logistics of open cart week to speak from the heart — about inclusivity, belonging, and the feminine.I often get asked if I’m LGBTQIA+ friendly, and the answer is a wholehearted yes. While my 1:1 coaching container focuses on women, that includes anyone who identifies as a woman or femme. This space is open to all identities, orientations, and relationship structures — queer, polyamorous, monogamous, kinky, or anywhere in between.My work is deeply sex-positive and grounded in consent, curiosity, and connection. I believe that healing the feminine is not about exclusion, but about remembering — the energy that longs to be seen, heard, and held within all of us.So if you’ve been listening and wondering, “Is there space for me here?”, this is your reminder: yes, there is. You belong here.✨ Early Bird enrollment for my 1:1 coaching container ends Saturday (Oct. 11th) at noon Pacific — so if you’ve been feeling the pull, this is your sign to step in.✨ Early Bird Discount: You’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full. Click Below to Purchase Now!👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird SpecialWhat’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching ContainerThere are two ways to work with me during open cart week:🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,9998 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamationPersonalized practices and between-session support toolsPayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999Everything in the Core Package plus:Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidancePayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support🌕 Bonuses ✨ Included for All Participants:Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformationOptional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life15% off add-ons at check out, including:The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)🌸 Click below to purchase your package! Its your time!👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan OptionYou can email me with any lingering questions at [email protected] More About the Offers:❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your LifeJoin My Newsletter:Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

  33. -7

    You Deserve Pleasure — Claiming Your Right to Feel Good

    In this episode, I’m diving into one of the most tender and transformative truths of all — that you deserve pleasure. Whether you’ve ever wondered if sex or sensuality is really “for you,” or felt that your role was to give rather than receive, this conversation is for you.I share how deeply ingrained beliefs about women’s worth, love, and sexuality have shaped our connection to our bodies — and how we can begin to unlearn those patterns. This is about reclaiming your relationship to desire, remembering that your pleasure is sacred, and allowing yourself to receive the nourishment and joy that are your birthright.I also share details about my one-on-one coaching container, where we move beyond the self-help mindset and into embodied transformation. The Early Bird special closes Saturday (Oct. 11th) at noon Pacific, so if your body is whispering yes, this is your moment to listen.✨ Early Bird Discount: You’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full. Click Below to Purchase Now!👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird SpecialWhat’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching ContainerThere are two ways to work with me during open cart week:🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,9998 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamationPersonalized practices and between-session support toolsPayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999Everything in the Core Package plus:Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidancePayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support🌕 Bonuses ✨ Included for All Participants:Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformationOptional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life15% off add-ons at check out, including:The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)🌸 Click below to purchase your package! Its your time!👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan OptionYou can email me with any lingering questions at [email protected] More About the Offers:❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your LifeJoin My Newsletter:Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

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    Saying Yes to Your Pleasure: Navigating Partner Support and Investing in Yourself

    Welcome back to the Connected Pleasure Podcast, my loves. In this episode, I’m talking about a topic I know can feel tricky—how to say yes to your own healing and pleasure work when you have a partner. I share my perspective on why investing in yourself is worth it and how to navigate those conversations with your partner if money or support feels like a potential barrier.We also dive into the ripple effects of prioritizing yourself—how rising in your own love, safety, and pleasure actually benefits everyone around you. I reflect on the history of women and money and why it’s still common for women to feel hesitation around spending on themselves. I offer tips for making your case to your partner and ways to communicate that this work supports both your growth and your relationship.Finally, I give a reminder about the early bird spots, what’s included in the coaching container, and the bonuses you can choose from—an extra integration session, a ritual session, or additional VIP support. I also share details about the free Sacred Feminine playlist and add-on discounts.If you’ve been curious about stepping into your pleasure, your power, and your body in a deeper way, this episode is here to support you in making that decision for yourself.What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching ContainerThere are two ways to work with me during open cart week:🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,9998 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamationPersonalized practices and between-session support toolsPayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999Everything in the Core Package plus:Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidancePayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support🌕 Bonuses + Early Bird Special✨ Early Bird Discount: You’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full.✨ Included for All Participants:Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformationOptional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life15% off add-ons at check out, including:The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)🌸 Click below to purchase your package or schedule your free 45-minute consultation call:👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan OptionIf you’re craving personalized support before saying yes, I’m also offering free 45-minute consultations this week - Today is the last day — so you can feel into whether this container is right for you.You can also email with questions at [email protected]🌕 Schedule Your Optional FREE 45 min Consultation Call Here (Today is the Last Day)Learn More About the Offers:❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your LifeJoin My Newsletter:Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

  35. -9

    The Sacred Feminine and the Journey Back to Pleasure

    Welcome back, my loves.In this episode, I wanted to offer you something a little different — a moment to pause, breathe, and come home to your body.I know there’s been a lot of information shared this week as I open the doors to my 1:1 coaching container, so today I’m guiding you through a grounding practice — an invitation to feel your feet on the earth, your breath in your body, and the safety that already lives within you.I also share more about how my work weaves together my background in sexuality and intimacy with the sacred feminine path that has been unfolding in my own life. This journey has shown me that pleasure is not separate from the divine — it’s one of the most powerful ways we can return to ourselves and remember who we are.If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your body or uncertain about your own relationship to pleasure, I invite you to listen with curiosity. What happens in your body when you imagine feeling truly at home, safe, and alive within yourself?And if something inside you stirs — if your body whispers yes — I would love to walk alongside you in this sacred work.✨ There are still two early-bird spots available in my 1:1 coaching container. This journey is for women ready to heal, soften, and reclaim their pleasure and power.What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching ContainerThere are two ways to work with me during open cart week:🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,9998 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamationPersonalized practices and between-session support toolsPayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999Everything in the Core Package plus:Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidancePayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support🌕 Bonuses + Early Bird Special✨ Early Bird Discount: You’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full.✨ Included for All Participants:Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformationOptional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life15% off add-ons at check out, including:The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)🌸 Click below to purchase your package or schedule your free 45-minute consultation call:👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan OptionIf you’re craving personalized support before saying yes, I’m also offering free 45-minute consultations this week - Today is the last day — so you can feel into whether this container is right for you.You can also email with questions at [email protected]🌕 Schedule Your Optional FREE 45 min Consultation Call Here (Today is the Last Day)Learn More About the Offers:❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your LifeJoin My Newsletter:Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

  36. -10

    Why “Spicing It Up” Isn’t the Solution

    Have you tried everything to bring back your desire — the toys, the books, the lingerie — and still feel like something’s missing?In this episode, I talk about why quick fixes and “upping the ante” often don’t address what’s really blocking your pleasure. Together, we explore how disconnection in intimacy is often rooted in safety, shame, and old beliefs — not a lack of effort.You’ll learn how to move beyond surface-level solutions and begin healing from the inside out, with compassion, awareness, and sacred curiosity.✨ Explore Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back into the Fabric of Your Life, my 1:1 container designed to help you reclaim your pleasure, remember your power, and come home to your body.What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching ContainerThere are two ways to work with me during open cart week:🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,9998 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamationPersonalized practices and between-session support toolsPayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999Everything in the Core Package plus:Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidancePayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support🌕 Bonuses + Early Bird Special✨ Early Bird Discount:If one of the two early bird spots is still available, you’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full.✨ Included for All Participants:Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformationOptional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life15% off add-ons at check out, including:The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)🌸 Click below to purchase your package or schedule your free 45-minute consultation call:👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan OptionIf you’re craving personalized support before saying yes, I’m also offering free 45-minute consultations this week — Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday only — so you can feel into whether this container is right for you.🌕 Schedule Your Optional FREE 45 min Consultation Call Here (Available Oct. 7-9th)Learn More About the Offers:❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your LifeJoin My Newsletter:Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

  37. -11

    You Deserve More Than “It’s Fine”

    Many women have been taught to settle for “fine.”Fine relationships. Fine sex. Fine intimacy.But what if fine is actually a form of self-abandonment?In today’s episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I explore one of the most common barriers to healing our relationship with sex and intimacy — the belief that pleasure isn’t important, or that life can go on just fine without it.You’ll be invited to question what “fine” has cost you, and to imagine what might open if you gave yourself permission to want more — not more to do, but more to feel.This is about coming home to your body’s natural aliveness, desire, and connection to the sacred — not as a luxury, but as your birthright.In this episode, I share:Why so many women dismiss pleasure as “not a priority”The difference between being asexual and feeling disconnected from desireHow reclaiming your erotic energy transforms every part of your lifeThe sacred invitation to explore what you would love — without shameWhy healing your relationship with pleasure creates ripples across generationsWhat’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching ContainerThere are two ways to work with me during open cart week:🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,9998 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamationPersonalized practices and between-session support toolsPayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999Everything in the Core Package plus:Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidancePayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session, a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group), or another week of text + voice support🌕 Bonuses + Early Bird Special✨ Early Bird Discount:If one of the two early bird spots is still available, you’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full.✨ Included for All Participants:Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformationOptional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life15% off add-ons, including:The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)🌸 Click below to purchase your package or schedule your free 45-minute consultation call:👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan OptionIf you’re craving personalized support before saying yes, I’m also offering free 45-minute consultations this week — Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday only — so you can feel into whether this container is right for you.🌕 Schedule Your Optional FREE 45 min Consultation Call Here (Available Oct. 7-9th)Learn More About the Offers:❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your LifeJoin My Newsletter:Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

  38. -12

    Creating Space for Pleasure and Presence

    In this episode, I’m speaking to one of the most common hesitations I hear when women are considering deep, embodied healing work:“I just don’t have time for this."We live in a world that glorifies busyness — that rewards production and punishes rest. But here’s the truth: your healing requires space.This journey isn’t about adding another thing to your overflowing to-do list. It’s about creating room to breathe, to feel, to reconnect with your body and your pleasure.In this episode, I explore:✨ Why slowing down is the medicine your nervous system has been craving✨ How time scarcity often masks feelings of unworthiness✨ What it looks like to make space for your pleasure, even in a full life✨ The ripple effect of one woman choosing to rest, receive, and rememberIf you’ve been telling yourself, “I just can’t make time for this right now,” I want you to hear this:You deserve to take the time.You deserve the slowness.You deserve to come home to your body.About the 1:1 Coaching ContainerDoors are now open for my private coaching container, Connected Pleasure, where I guide you to:🌹 Reclaim your pleasure🌹 Remember your power🌹 Come home to your bodyWhat’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching ContainerThere are two ways to work with me during open cart week:🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,9998 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamationPersonalized practices and between-session support toolsPayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999Everything in the Core Package plus:Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidancePayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)🌕 Bonuses + Early Bird Special✨ Early Bird Discount:If one of the two early bird spots is still available, you’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full.✨ Included for All Participants:Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformationOptional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life15% off add-ons, including:The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)💫 If You’re Feeling the Fear...This work might feel scary — but if something inside you is whispering “I’m ready,” even through the fear, that’s your invitation. You don’t have to have it all figured out. You just have to be willing to show up and take the first step.If you’re ready to be witnessed, to normalize your desires, and to finally feel safe in your body — I would be honored to hold this space with you.🌸 Click below to purchase your package or schedule your free 45-minute consultation call:👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan OptionIf you’re craving personalized support before saying yes, I’m also offering free 45-minute consultations this week — Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday only — so you can feel into whether this container is right for you.🌕 Schedule Your Optional FREE 45 min Consultation Call Here (Available Oct. 7-9th)Learn More About the Offers:❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your LifeJoin My Newsletter:Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

  39. -13

    The Fear of Being Vulnerable: Opening Up to Sexual Healing

    Welcome back to the Connected Pleasure Podcast. I’m Kayla, your host (she/her/hers), and this is Day 2 of Open Cart Week — where I’m opening six spots for my 1:1 Coaching Container, available from October 6–12.Today’s episode is about something that comes up for so many of the women I work with: the fear of being vulnerable — especially when it comes to talking about sex.For many of us, sex was either never talked about growing up or it was actively shamed. So opening up about it — even with a compassionate, nonjudgmental professional — can feel terrifying. I get it. I’ve seen it over and over again in my practice: that initial hesitation, that nervous-system contraction when we start to approach conversations about desire, pleasure, or pain.But here’s the truth: healing requires vulnerability.And when you allow yourself to be gently witnessed, normalized, and supported in these conversations, everything starts to shift.In this episode, I share what it’s like to move through that fear inside my 1:1 coaching container, how I help you feel safe and seen in the process, and how even just talking about sex begins to heal your relationship to it.What’s Included in My 1:1 Coaching ContainerThere are two ways to work with me during open cart week:🌸 Core Coaching Package — $2,9998 total sessions over 3 months (6 teaching + 2 integration)Deep guided support through sexual healing, embodiment, and pleasure reclamationPersonalized practices and between-session support toolsPayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $750BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999Everything in the Core Package plus:Text and voice note support via Telegram between sessions for continued guidancePayment plan: 4 monthly payments of $1,250BONUS: Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformation (either individually or potentially as a group)🌕 Bonuses + Early Bird Special✨ Early Bird Discount:If one of the two early bird spots is still available, you’ll receive $500 off either package when you pay in full.✨ Included for All Participants:Your choice of either an extra integration session or a personalized closing ritual session to anchor your transformationOptional group closing circle if this cohort desires to come together in sacred space at the end✨ Pay-in-Full Bonuses:A personalized sacred feminine playlist, curated by me to help you embody sensuality and self-love in your daily life15% off add-ons, including:The Ongoing Support Package (2 sessions per month, $750)The Partner Support Container (4 sessions, $1,499)💫 If You’re Feeling the Fear...This work might feel scary — but if something inside you is whispering “I’m ready,” even through the fear, that’s your invitation. You don’t have to have it all figured out. You just have to be willing to show up and take the first step.If you’re ready to be witnessed, to normalize your desires, and to finally feel safe in your body — I would be honored to hold this space with you.🌸 Click below to purchase your package or schedule your free 45-minute consultation call:👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option🌕 Schedule Your Optional FREE 45 min Consultation Call Here (Available Oct. 7-9th)Learn More About the Offers: ❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your LifeJoin My Newsletter: Connected Pleasure Newsletter + FREE Scared Body Workbook

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    You Don’t Need a Partner to Reclaim Your Pleasure

    Welcome back to the Connected Pleasure Podcast. I’m Kayla, your host (she/her/hers), and this is the second episode of day one in our open cart week for my 1:1 Coaching Container — which officially opened today under the Full Moon in Aries (how divine is that?).In this episode, I’m talking about one of the biggest myths I hear from women:“I need a partner before I can do this kind of work.”The truth is — you don’t need a partner to begin reclaiming your pleasure. This work is actually meant to begin within you. Whether you’re single or partnered, your healing, sensuality, and embodiment come from creating safety and trust in your own body first.When we begin here, we enter intimacy from wholeness — not from seeking completion. We begin to attract or deepen relationships that are rooted in authenticity, openness, and pleasure rather than fear or performance.In this episode, I talk about:Why you don’t need a partner to start your sexual healing journeyHow self-sourced pleasure builds trust, confidence, and safetyThe difference between doing inner work solo vs. in partnershipHow my 1:1 Coaching Container helps you come home to your body1:1 Coaching Container DetailsThere are two ways to work with me during this open cart week (October 6–12):🌹 Core Coaching Package — $2,999Includes:6 teaching sessions + 2 integration sessions (8 total over 3 months)Deep guided support through sexual healing, pleasure reclamation, and embodimentAccess to guided practices and journaling prompts🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999Includes everything in the Core Package plus:Text and voice note support with me via Telegram between sessionsExtra guidance and accountability as you move through your healing processPayment plans available:Core: 4 monthly payments of $750VIP: 4 monthly payments of $1,250🌕 Early Bird BonusesThere are ONLY TWO Early Bird spots available. When you claim one, you’ll receive:$500 off either package when you pay in full15% off the following add-ons:A one-month couples container (4 sessions for you and your partner)Two additional integration sessions for deeper supportA free sacred feminine playlist — curated by me to support your healing, sensuality, and embodimentOnce those two spots are gone, pricing returns to the regular rate.If you’re feeling the pull to step into this work — to soften into safety, reclaim your sensual power, and experience sex without pain or shame — this is your invitation.🌸 Click below to purchase your package or schedule your free 45-minute consultation call:👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option🌕 Schedule Your Optional FREE 45 min Consultation Call Here (Available Oct. 7-9th)Learn More About the Offers: ❤️ Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your LifeYour pleasure is your liberation.

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    Open Cart Week Begins: Connected Pleasure Coaching

    The doors are officially open for Connected Pleasure Coaching, my sacred 1:1 container for women ready to reclaim their pleasure, remember their power, and come home to their bodies.In this episode, I address one of the biggest questions that may be on your mind: the investment. I break down the cost, explain the value and transformation of this container, and share why a 1:1 coaching experience can accelerate your journey more than self-study ever could.There are only 6 spots available, and this week is your chance to claim yours.1:1 Coaching Container DetailsThere are two ways to work with me during this open cart week (October 6–12):🌹 Core Coaching Package — $2,999Includes:6 teaching sessions + 2 integration sessions (8 total over 3 months)Deep guided support through sexual healing, pleasure reclamation, and embodimentAccess to guided practices and journaling prompts🔥 VIP Coaching Package — $4,999Includes everything in the Core Package plus:Text and voice note support with me via Telegram between sessionsExtra guidance and accountability as you move through your healing processPayment plans available:Core: 4 monthly payments of $750VIP: 4 monthly payments of $1,250🌕 Early Bird BonusesThere are ONLY TWO Early Bird spots available. When you claim one, you’ll receive:$500 off either package when you pay in full15% off the following add-ons: A one-month couples container (4 sessions for you and your partner)Two additional integration sessions for deeper supportA free sacred feminine playlist — curated by me to support your healing, sensuality, and embodimentOnce those two spots are gone, pricing returns to the regular rate.If you’re feeling the pull to step into this work — to soften into safety, reclaim your sensual power, and experience sex without pain or shame — this is your invitation.🌸 Click below to purchase your package or schedule your free 45-minute consultation call:👉 Core Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 VIP Coaching Package Early Bird Special👉 Core Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option👉 VIP Coaching Package 4 Month Payment Plan Option🌕 Schedule Your Optional FREE 45 min Consultation Call Here (Available Oct. 7-9th)Learn More About the Offers: Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

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    Inside the Connected Pleasure Coaching Container

    Welcome back, loves. In this episode, I’m pulling back the curtain and sharing everything you need to know about my 1:1 Connected Pleasure Coaching container.Over the last six mini-episodes, I’ve explored the “why” — why someone would enter this program, what barriers it helps dissolve, and the transformations it opens up. Today, I’m sharing the “how”: the structure, the sessions, and the deep intention woven into this container.Here’s what you’ll hear:🌙 My mission of weaving pleasure back into our collective and personal lives🌙 Why this container is about more than just coaching — it’s about shaping a new world🌙 The 8-session structure (six teachings + two integration sessions)🌙 What we’ll explore together: from barriers to boundaries, anatomy to desire, and coming home to your body🌙 The details of the Core and VIP packages, plus partner and ongoing support options🌙 How to claim one of the six spots available when doors open October 6th (aligned with the Aries full moon ✨)This isn’t just about working on your pleasure in isolation — it’s about becoming one of the warriors rising to birth a new world. If your body is whispering yes, this may be your time.Next Steps:🔗 Join my newsletter for bonuses and discounts + my FREE Sacred Body WorkbookDive Deeper into the Details of this 1:1 Coaching Container Below ⬇️Connected Pleasure Coaching: Weaving Pleasure Back Into the Fabric of Your Life

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    When Sex Feels Painful: Finding Hope and Reclaiming Pleasure

    So many women quietly carry the weight of painful sex—and with it, the fear, shame, and disconnection that pain can bring. If sex feels uncomfortable, or even unbearable, it makes sense that desire feels far away.In this episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I explore how pain impacts intimacy and why it’s not your fault if you’ve struggled in this area. While pelvic floor physical therapists can support the physical side, my 1:1 coaching container creates space to gently unravel the fear, tension, and narratives that often fuel pain. Together, we work on rebuilding trust in your body, reshaping your relationship to pleasure, and opening the door to experiences that feel safe, connected, and nourishing.✨ What you’ll hear in this episode:Why painful sex is more common than many realizeHow fear and anxiety create tension that blocks pleasureThe relational impact pain can have on partners and intimacyWays to begin reclaiming safety, softness, and possibility in your bodyHow my 1:1 coaching container can support your healing journeyIf painful sex has been part of your story, take a deep breath and know there is hope. You are not broken, and pleasure is possible for you.💌 Sign up for my newsletter to receive your FREE Sacred Body Workbook: A Guide to Healing Body Image + Embracing Pleasure and stay connected for open cart week.🌿 Book your FREE 45-minute consultation to explore if one of the six spots in my 1:1 coaching program is meant for you.🌹 Share or repost on Instagram (@connectedpleasurecoaching) to receive $100 off your coaching package AND tell a friend to give them $100 when they book a coaching package + ANOTHER $100 for you!! (Thats $200+ off depending on how many friends you refer who also book a coaching package!) 

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    Living from the Neck Up: Why Pleasure Requires Embodiment

    In this mini-episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m diving into what it means to live “from the neck up”—stuck in our heads, disconnected from our bodies, and unable to fully access pleasure.So many of us have been conditioned to distrust our bodies, to push down emotions, and to operate only from the mind. But true pleasure, presence, and intimacy require embodiment. Together, we’ll explore:Why our culture keeps us in our heads and away from our bodiesThe impact of anxiety, negative beliefs, and shame on pleasureHow somatic practices help you feel safe enough to be fully presentWhy one-on-one coaching is a powerful way to shift from overthinking into embodied livingIf you’ve been longing to feel grounded in your body and reclaim pleasure as your birthright, this episode will give you insight into what’s possible.👉 Ready to go deeper?Join my newsletter and receive your FREE Sacred Body Workbook: A Guide to Healing Body Image+ Embracing PleasureShare or repost on Instagram (@connectedpleasurecoaching) to receive $100 off your coaching package AND tell a friend to give them $100 when they book a coaching package + ANOTHER $100 for you!! (Thats $200+ off depending on how many friends you refer who also book a coaching package!) Book your FREE 45-minute consultation to claim one of the six spots in my 1:1 containerLet’s move beyond living in our heads and come home to our bodies, together.

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    Coming Home to Your Body: Healing Shame & Reclaiming Pleasure

    So many women struggle with feeling disconnected from their bodies — carrying shame, anxiety, or even disgust around their appearance or pleasure. From childhood diet culture to the male gaze to trauma and dissociation, we are taught to mistrust, disconnect from, or even reject our own bodies.In this mini episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I share why body disconnection is one of the biggest barriers to pleasure and how my 1:1 coaching container helps you gently shift into safety, worthiness, and sacred embodiment. Together, we work to release shame, reclaim your body as divine, and open space for both giving and receiving pleasure.Inside this episode, you’ll hear about:Why so many women struggle to feel safe in their own bodiesHow shame, trauma, and patriarchal conditioning shape our experience of pleasureThe impact of diet culture and beauty standards on body imageWhy receiving can feel harder than giving — and how to change thatHow my 1:1 coaching program helps you reclaim your body and your pleasure🌹 Ready to begin?Sign up for my newsletter and receive your FREE Sacred Body WorkbookSchedule your free 45-minute consultation (available Oct 7–9) to see if one of my six coaching spots is yoursYour body is not broken. Your body is sacred.

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    Dopamine, Screens, and the Path Back to Pleasure with Dr. Kristin Allott

    In this expansive conversation with Dr. Kristin Allott, we explore how our modern world shapes our relationship to pleasure, attention, and our bodies — and what it takes to reclaim them.We talk about how screens hijack dopamine, why boredom is essential for creativity, and how we can shift from being consumers of life to active creators of joy and meaning. Kristin also shares her holistic approach to health and well-being, blending neuroscience, naturopathic medicine, and a deep respect for the body.Together, we dive into:✨ Why sex often feels like a chore for so many women — and how to shift it into something regenerative and nourishing✨ The science of dopamine and how our culture trains us to numb rather than replenish✨ The difference between behavioral addictions and genuine pleasure✨ Why boredom is actually the doorway to creativity and innovation✨ The unique challenges mothers and caregivers face with rest, self-care, and connection✨ Viewing your body as your most precious three-year-old — and treating it with care, love, and attention✨ The role of community in supporting health, vitality, and pleasure✨ Kristin’s practices for tracking fun and reconnecting to joy in daily life✨ The power of sexual healing work with a therapist or coach to come home to your bodyThis episode weaves science, story, and sacred practice to remind us that our bodies are not broken — they’re wise, powerful, and waiting for us to return.Resources & Links Mentioned:Learn more about Dr. Kristin Allott: kristinallott.comKristin’s book: Fuel Your Brain, Not Your Anxiety (available in print, eBook, and Audible)Join her newsletter and groups via her websiteMeetup Q&A on body and mental health (search “Kristin Allott” on Meetup)Instagram: @kristenallottStay Connected with Me, Kayla:🌹 Get your FREE Sacred Body Workbook: Sign up for my newsletter and receive your free guide to begin your healing journey🌹 Apply for 1:1 Coaching: Schedule your FREE 45-min consultation

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    You Are Not Broken: Reclaiming Pleasure & Coming Home to Your Body

    So many women come to me feeling like they are broken when it comes to desire, intimacy, or accessing pleasure. Whether it’s a sudden drop in desire, difficulty experiencing pleasure, or a lifelong disconnection from sexuality, society often reinforces the painful belief that something is “wrong” with you.In this mini episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I share how my 1:1 coaching container creates space for women to explore these barriers with compassion, safety, and softness. Together we dismantle the belief of brokenness, uncover root causes like trauma, anxiety, or life transitions, and begin rewiring the nervous system to reconnect with pleasure and embodied wholeness.💧 You are not broken. Your body holds wisdom, power, and sacredness — and you deserve to reclaim it.✨ Inside this episode, you’ll hear about:Why so many women feel “broken” in their sexualityThe societal messages that separate us from our pleasureHow life transitions and nervous system dysregulation impact desireWhat it looks like to gently reclaim pleasure in a safe, supportive containerHow to know if my 1:1 coaching is for you🌹 Ready to begin your journey?Sign up for my newsletter and receive your FREE Sacred Body WorkbookSchedule your free 45-minute consultation (available Oct 7–9) to see if one of my six coaching spots is yoursYour pleasure is sacred. You are whole. You are not broken.

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    When Sex Feels Like a Chore

    Is sex a chore? You’re not alone.In this mini-episode of the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I share one of the most common struggles women bring into my work: sex feels like another item on the to-do list. Instead of being regenerative and connective, it feels draining — another way of giving without receiving.I open up about my own experience of this during grad school, and how stress and disconnection can make intimacy feel impossible. I also walk you through how my 1:1 coaching container helps women shift from obligation to liberation — reclaiming sex as a source of pleasure, power, and deep connection.What you’ll hear in this episode:✨ Why sex often feels like a chore for women✨ How stress and body disconnection play a role✨ Why prioritizing your own pleasure changes everything✨ How my 8-week coaching container creates space to heal and reclaim intimacyIf you’ve ever thought “I should want sex, but it just feels like work” — this episode is for you.🌹 Apply for 1:1 Coaching: Schedule your FREE 45-min consultation 🌹 Get your Sacred Body Workbook: Sign up for my newsletter and receive your free guide to begin your healing journeyBecause your body is sacred. Your pleasure is yours. And you are not broken.

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    Our Tears Are Our Weapons, Our Pleasure is Our Liberation

    💧 Our tears are weapons. Our pleasure is liberation.In this special mini-series on the Connected Pleasure Podcast, I’m opening the doors to my 1:1 coaching container — an intimate 8-week journey designed to help you reclaim your pleasure, remember your power, and come home to your body.Right now, the world feels heavy. Collectively, we’re grieving, awakening, and shifting into new ways of being. This is the moment to root ourselves back into pleasure — not just for our own healing, but for the ripple it creates in the collective.In this episode, I share:✨ Why pleasure is both personal and political✨ How our grief and collective power are deeply connected✨ What my 1:1 container looks like, and who it’s for✨ Why reclaiming sexual pleasure is often the key to unlocking wholenessIf you’ve been feeling the call to heal your relationship to sex, intimacy, and your body, this container may be for you.🌹 Apply for 1:1 coaching: Schedule your free 45-minute consultation (only available during launch week) 🌹 Get started now: Sign up for my newsletter and receive my FREE Sacred Body Workbook — a beautiful first step on your healing journey.Because when we reclaim our pleasure, we reclaim our liberation.

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    Living by the Body, Dreaming of Land, and Weaving the Future with Camille A. Saunders

    What happens when we choose to honor our bodies instead of hustle culture — and dream into futures beyond patriarchy’s limits? In this inspiring conversation, I’m joined by Camille A. Saunders, a professional witch, tarot reader, and host of the Everyday Tarot podcast. Together we explore what it means to reclaim time, land, and community as sources of pleasure, healing, and resilience.Camille shares how she structures her schedule to honor her body’s rhythms, how and why she takes 12 weeks off a year, and how holding boundaries becomes sacred work. We discuss the collective consciousness and why there are so many of us witches and initiatives currently dreaming the same dream. I open up about her dream of building community on the land — with eco-homes called geoships, gardens that nourish, and spaces for retreat and ritual.We dive into the intersections of technology and the sacred feminine, reflecting on AI, free time, and how rewilding ourselves in nature can anchor us in wisdom and creativity. This conversation is a vision of what it means to weave pleasure back into our lives and the world.What You’ll Hear in This EpisodeWhy honoring rest is a radical act of sovereignty — and how Camille builds it into her workweek and yearThe power of boundaries and self-trust when no one else is holding you accountableA vision of geoships, land-based living, and community rooted in reciprocity with the earthHow tending gardens and raising children in relationship with the land is part of feminine resistanceThe role of AI in shifting work, identity, and pleasure — and why creativity will be essentialWhy women and witches have always been at the edges of society — and how that wisdom is rising againFinding constancy and wisdom in trees, cycles, and the seasons of life and deathGuest LinkWebsite: https://www.camilleasaunders.com/Podcast: Everyday Tarot (also found on all major podcast platforms) Instagram: @professional.witchCourse: Tarot for TransformationConnected Pleasure Resources & LinksGo deeper with 1:1 CoachingJoin the waitlist for Not BrokenGet your FREE Sacred Body Workbook + Join My NewsletterLearn more about the Shed Retreat (Nov 14–16, 2025)Schedule a FREE 45 minute Consultation with meFollow upcoming dates for the Sacred Feminine Singing Circle – shared in my newsletter & InstagramSupport the PodcastIf this episode touched you, please:Leave a tip through my websiteShare this conversation with a friendLeave a rating or review so more people can find their way here May you walk with softness, love, and pleasure.

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Join Kayla, a licensed sex therapist, in normalizing and embracing sex and relationships. With expertise and grounded empathy, Kayla creates a space for women to feel normal, learn, and reclaim their relationship to sex and intimacy. Episodes will include real life examples, tangible take-aways, and the occasional interview with other incredible experts you need to know about! New episodes out biweekly on Friday mornings.

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Kayla Moore

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