Whimsy World

In 2022, I started The Board Walks with zero evidence it would work. No proof. No data. No guarantee.And now we're in 15+ cities.This episode is about that exact energy – showing up before the evidence does – and why it's the only way anything real ever gets built.What you'll learn:✨ The (longer) origin story of The Board Walks and how it started with a woman and a PowerPoint ✨ Why your favorite creator is magnetic and you can't explain why – and what that means for you ✨ The cruise ship analogy that explains why one degree of distortion ruins everything ✨ How I built my first newsletter on a website called Stardoll in elementary school ✨ Why 500 resonant views will always outperform 50 million shallow ones✨ “Are you actually getting what you want?” A ruthless question that will change your lifeShow up before the evidence does. That's it. That's the whole thing.xoxo, Elle✨ Apply for The Board, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: www.theboardwalks.com ✨ Subscribe to The Friday Debrief for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle:✨ Elle’s newsletter HERE ✨ Elle’s social media Explore Whimsy World, My Show with Cam:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms✨ Watch & Subscribe on Youtube✨ Buy us a spring water if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Host:Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She curates stories and insights from these communities in The Friday Debrief newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in The Elle Diaries. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.YOU ARE LOVED AND YOU ARE ENOUGH! 🤍

Cam’s office inherited every piece of furniture we didn't know what to do with. Bookshelves. An extra couch. All of it ended up in his office. And none of it was chosen by him.And that's where this episode started.What you'll learn:✨ Why the items in your space that you didn't consciously choose are creating subtle energetic drag✨ Feng Shui principles I’m loving right now✨ How scanning a room and landing on the wrong thing pulls you completely out of flow ✨ Why I removed 70% of my wardrobe in one afternoon and felt immediately lighter ✨ The bad first date that lived in a pair of leopard pants for years ✨ How to audit your space, your closet, and your front door with intention and gentlenessThis is your sign to love yourself enough to create the right conditions in your environment for you to thrive.It's time. xoxo, Elle✨ Apply for The Board, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: www.theboardwalks.com ✨ Subscribe to The Friday Debrief for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle:✨ Elle’s newsletter HERE ✨ Elle’s social media Explore Whimsy World, My Show with Cam:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms✨ Watch & Subscribe on Youtube✨ Buy us a spring water if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Host:Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She curates stories and insights from these communities in The Friday Debrief newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in The Elle Diaries. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.YOU ARE LOVED AND YOU ARE ENOUGH! 🤍

This one started with a plot twist I did not see coming.I sat down, meditated, and recorded what I genuinely believe was my best diary yet. An hour of pure flow. Jokes that made me laugh at myself. Insights I'd never said out loud before. And then I looked at the screen.55 seconds. That's all that recorded. 😳In this reflection: ✨ Why expressing yourself authentically is never a waste, even when no one sees it ✨ The bass drop visualization I've been getting in meditation that changed everything ✨ What it feels like when the engine gets going and the signal starts flowing ✨ The personality hire theory, and why being the vibe will always beat being the workhorse ✨ How to let your heart drive your entire day, task by task. I call it heart-based living!This one went everywhere. From the depths of frustration to pure joy, play, and flow. I talked for over an hour and I genuinely have no idea what I said half the time. That's my favorite part.Drop a comment and tell me if you've ever lost something you created. I'd love to hear from you.If you enjoyed this episode, please rate us 5 stars and share with a friend who'd resonate. 🥰Explore My Work:✨ Apply for The Board, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: www.theboardwalks.com ✨ Subscribe to The Friday Debrief for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle:✨ Elle’s newsletter HERE ✨ Elle’s social media Explore Whimsy World, My Show with Cam:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms✨ Watch & Subscribe on Youtube✨ Buy us a spring water if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Host:Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She curates stories and insights from these communities in The Friday Debrief newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in The Elle Diaries. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.YOU ARE LOVED AND YOU ARE ENOUGH! 🤍

I'm back. After nearly a year away, I sat down, meditated for 30 minutes, and recorded whatever came through, just like I always have. And wow, did a lot come through.In this reflection:✨ Why I disappeared and what "the forest" of inner work actually looked like✨ The $50K salesman story that explains the glass ceiling on my nervous system✨ How I healed an unhealthy relationship I was too embarrassed to even look at✨ Why reducing inputs is the only way to increase your outputs✨ How The Board Walks went from 2 cities to 14 (and where we're going!)This past year was an initiation. Deep inner work, shadow integration, forgiveness practices in the bathtub, nervous system resets. I stepped down from hosting the walks in July 2025. I went off social media entirely. I gave myself the space I'd been refusing to give myself my entire life.And I came into 2026 like a ROCKET.The walks are now in 14 cities. The Friday Debrief newsletter has thousands of readers. The Board is being built. And I feel more like myself than I ever have.If you're in the forest right now, keep going. This one's for you.Drop a comment and tell me where you are in your journey. I'd love to hear from you.If you enjoyed this episode, please rate us 5 stars and share with a friend who'd resonate. 🥰✨ Apply for The Board, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: www.theboardwalks.com ✨ Subscribe to The Friday Debrief for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle:✨ Elle’s newsletter HERE ✨ Elle’s social media Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms✨ Watch & Subscribe on Youtube✨ Buy us a spring water if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Host:Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She curates stories and insights from these communities in The Friday Debrief newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in The Elle Diaries. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.YOU ARE LOVED AND YOU ARE ENOUGH! 🤍

We asked someone at The Board Walks: "What does self-love mean to you?" His answer? Volunteering. Helping others. Doing for everyone but himself. And it hit us. most people think self-love is selfish. Or they think it's bubble baths and face masks. But what it actually is? Boundaries. Self-love is making rest a priority. It's turning off work mode at a certain time. It's saying no to things that drain you, even if it disappoints people you care about. It's alone time to recharge so you can actually show up for the world. We live in a culture that glorifies breaking your back to create a table for others to eat off of. But here's the truth: you can't give from an empty cup. And when people serve others while avoiding themselves, they're often running from something, their own dreams, their potential, the uncomfortable work of sitting with themselves. In this episode, we break down what self-love actually looks like in practice. We talk about the relaxation crisis, why discipline is self-love, how to send your body gratitude, the importance of pausing between tasks, and why being in your head all day is destroying your nervous system. ✨ Thank you for listening!Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for The Board, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: www.theboardwalks.com ✨ Subscribe to The Friday Debrief for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter HERE ✨ Cam’s newsletter HERE✨ Elle Beecher’s social media ✨ Cam Hogan’s social mediaExplore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms✨ Watch & Subscribe on Youtube✨ Buy us a spring water if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She curates stories and insights from these communities in The Friday Debrief newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in The Elle Diaries. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

This is the story Cam has been holding close for two years. The day before we met: February 18, 2024, he was at mile 8 of the Austin Marathon, completely empty. No energy left. Undertrained. Ready to quit. And in that moment, he prayed for the first time in his life. What happened next defies logic: his tank refilled with a different kind of energy, he finished the race pointing at strangers saying "thank you God, I love you," and that night, sobbing in a tiny bathtub with his knees to his chin, he fully surrendered.He asked for everything he was ready for. His purpose. His family. His wife. Less than 24 hours later, an intuitive voice told him to go to the sauna. He walked into the meditation room. And there Elle was, writing on her phone in a pink sweatshirt. We're recording this on our two-year anniversary, at the exact time we met. This episode is about divine timing, emptying the vessel, fork-in-the-road moments, and what happens when you fully surrender to something bigger than yourself. Thank you for listening! ✨Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for The Board, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: www.theboardwalks.com ✨ Subscribe to The Friday Debrief for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter HERE ✨ Cam’s newsletter HERE✨ Elle Beecher’s social media ✨ Cam Hogan’s social mediaExplore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms✨ Watch & Subscribe on Youtube✨ Buy us a spring water if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She curates stories and insights from these communities in The Friday Debrief newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in The Elle Diaries. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

The no contact trend is everywhere. People are cutting off family members, ghosting old friends, and walking away from relationships that used to be non-negotiable. Why? Because we've reached a point in human evolution where you don't need your family to survive. For the first time ever, people have the freedom to consciously choose who gets access to their energy.In this episode, we talk about “Obligation Town” – the place where most people live their entire lives doing things they don't want to do just because they "should." We share why obligation breeds resentment, what unconditional love actually means, and the flashlight analogy that changed how we think about boundaries. If you've ever felt guilty for setting boundaries with family, this conversation will give you permission to choose yourself.Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠The Board⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠The Friday Debrief⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠HERE⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠HERE⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠social media⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠social media⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠all platforms⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠Youtube⁠✨ ⁠Buy us a spring water⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠The Board⁠.⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠The Board Walks⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠The Board⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠The Friday Debrief⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠The Elle Diaries⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

What happens when you're doing everything "right" but still feel like you're not doing enough? Cam shares his journey with enoughness: a feeling that's plagued him since childhood. Despite accomplishing incredible things, he'd end every day feeling like he fell short. This pattern didn't just affect his self-worth; it affected his relationships. People he loved couldn't function around his energy. Good people ghosted him. And he didn't understand why until recently. In this vulnerable episode, we explore the high achiever trap, why urgency and impatience push people away, the difference between the two, and how to finally break the cycle. Whether you're the Fortune 100 CEO or working 9-5 in corporate, if you feel like what you're doing isn't enough, this conversation will resonate. Healing is possible. Enoughness is available. And you're worthy right now. 🤍Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠The Board⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠The Friday Debrief⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠HERE⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠HERE⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠social media⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠social media⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠all platforms⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠Youtube⁠✨ ⁠Buy us a spring water⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠The Board⁠.⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠The Board Walks⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠The Board⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠The Friday Debrief⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠The Elle Diaries⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

We sit down in our signature big shirts to talk about something that looks odd from the outside: our life. We don't travel. We don't take vacations. We work from morning to midnight some days. And we love it. Why? Because we've stepped into our purpose. This episode is for anyone who's multi-passionate, tired of being told to "pick one thing," or wondering what it actually means to live in your purpose. We share why we rebranded Listen Before Love to Whimsy World at the height of the pod’s success, how to know when your energy is waning, and why discovering your purpose happens through action, not thought. If you're on the verge of stepping into something bigger, this conversation will give you permission to experiment, pivot, and build the giant pool instead of the tiny red solo cup.Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠The Board⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠The Friday Debrief⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠HERE⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠HERE⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠social media⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠social media⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠all platforms⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠Youtube⁠✨ ⁠Buy us a spring water⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠The Board⁠.⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠The Board Walks⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠The Board⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠The Friday Debrief⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠The Elle Diaries⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

After crying on the pod a few weeks ago, something switched. This past month became the most productive of our lives.Elle unblocked a 2.5-year creative backlog, got completely off social media, started a weekly newsletter for The Board Walks, created the onboarding experience for hosts, and built an entire content ecosystem. Cam started his weekly newsletter after years of half-assing his creations, automated nutrition and multiple areas of the business, started a rigorous “dunk” program, and found a daily flow for peak embodiment and creativity. We share the pattern of emotional dips leading to creative breakthroughs, the "prolific cranking season" that changed everything, and why 2026 feels like the Phoenix rising from the ashes. This is about devotion to the present moment, structured art, simplifying ruthlessly, and finally letting go of over-complication.If it doesn't feel incredibly simple, it's not in its final form yet. This episode is about seasonal rhythms, emotional maturity, and trusting that every dip leads to a rise.Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for The Board, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: www.theboardwalks.com ✨ Subscribe to The Friday Debrief for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter HERE ✨ Cam’s newsletter HERE✨ Elle Beecher’s social media ✨ Cam Hogan’s social mediaExplore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms✨ Watch & Subscribe on Youtube✨ Buy us a spring water if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She curates stories and insights from these communities in The Friday Debrief newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in The Elle Diaries. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

I sat down to record and realized I didn't want to. I was on my period, low energy, but pushing myself to keep our weekly streak alive. Cam stopped me and said: "You don't need to do anything ever again." What unfolded was a raw conversation about the core wound I've been carrying my entire life: sacrificing my natural rhythm to meet others' needs. We didn’t plan to share this episode, which is why there are moments where we speak so quietly that the mic doesn’t pick it up, but we decided that someone out there may benefit from this conversation.We explore the difference between being in your rhythm versus sacrificing it for productivity, masculine and feminine energy polarity (especially with entrepreneurial couples), and how resting might actually be the highest contribution you can make. This is for anyone who's been conditioned to believe their worth comes from constant productivity.Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠The Board⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠The Friday Debrief⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠HERE⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠HERE⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠social media⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠social media⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠all platforms⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠Youtube⁠✨ ⁠Buy us a spring water⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠The Board⁠.⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠The Board Walks⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠The Board⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠The Friday Debrief⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠The Elle Diaries⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

We stepped down from hosting daily calls, weekly communities, and monthly events… all at once. It felt abrupt from the outside, but inside we were learning something crucial: life isn't meant to be expansion all the time. Just like nature has seasons, we do too. This episode is about honoring contraction, what happened when we took two weeks offline, and how brand new paths appear when you stop avoiding what needs to be felt. Elle cries about losing her creative magic on Twitter. Cam realizes he's lacking structure.Together, we solve our blocks live on camera. 🤍Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠⁠all platforms⁠⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠✨ ⁠⁠Buy us a spring water⁠⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠⁠The Elle Diaries⁠⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

What if weight loss didn't require restriction, punishment, or hating yourself? After gaining 30 pounds together and loving our bodies more than ever, we're testing a radical approach: releasing weight from joy, not force. We share our DEXA scan results, the moment it took an hour for Elle to say the number on the scale out loud, and how discovering “set point weight” changed everything. This conversation covers Orange Theory burnout, eating ice cream daily, nervous system regulation, and why transparency about weight is the most liberating thing we've ever done. If you've ever struggled with the scale controlling your life, this one's for you.Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠⁠all platforms⁠⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠✨ ⁠⁠Buy us a spring water⁠⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠⁠The Elle Diaries⁠⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

What if most relationship problems aren't about compatibility… they're about space? Not physical space, but the mental and emotional bandwidth each person has to notice the nuances of life and love.This conversation dives deep into why men often operate in binary mode (good/bad, on/off, working/broken) while women are juggling a dozen different variables at once. Cam shares the provider mindset that keeps men focused on survival-level needs, even when everything "seems fine." Elle explains why indirect communication, thinking you're being clear when you're actually speaking in code, leads to the surprise divorces men never see coming.We break down the house-fire metaphor (there's smoke... one room is burning... half the house is on fire... and he still didn't move), explore the Love is Blind example that perfectly captures this dynamic, and talk about how to actually bridge the gap without resentment on either side.This is real talk about partnership, presence, and what it actually takes to meet each other where you are.Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠⁠all platforms⁠⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠✨ ⁠⁠Buy us a spring water⁠⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠⁠The Elle Diaries⁠⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

Ever notice how much energy you spend just trying to look "acceptable"? Elle opens up about recording herself walking around her room to check her back fat, waking up early every day to “put on her face," and the invisible prison most women live in without even realizing it.In this raw conversation, Elle and Cam unpack the 128-point inspection women put themselves through daily, why the beauty standard is a game no one can win, and what happened when Elle started going to McDonald's without makeup on.If you've ever felt trapped by your own reflection, dimmed by the need to look "acceptable," or like you're fooling everyone with your appearance, this conversation might feel like an exhale.Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠⁠all platforms⁠⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠✨ ⁠⁠Buy us a spring water⁠⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠⁠The Elle Diaries⁠⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

 "If you wouldn't let them through your front door, they're not getting in the community."In the final part of this raw 2.5 hour conversation, we completely redefine what friendship means in 2025, and why the old rules are making everyone miserable.Elle and Cam break down why feeling obligated to respond to every text, show up to every event, or maintain weekly check-ins is actually preventing real connection. They share why the best friendships operate on spontaneity and flow rather than rigid expectations.What we explore: • Why "I haven't posted since 2011" people don't understand the attention differential • The evolution of friendship from obligation-based to flow-based connection • Why real friends can disappear for 6 months and pick up where they left off • How we're building a community where healthy attachment is the default • The passive-aggressive friendship texts that signal unhealthy attachment ("Did you fall off the Earth?") • Why you don't owe anyone your time, energy, or immediate response • How redefining "friend" makes room for actual depth and presenceThis isn't about being a bad friend. It's about building friendships that don't drain you, where you show up because you genuinely want to, not because you're obligated to.If you've ever felt exhausted by friendship expectations, guilty for not texting back, or suffocated by people who need constant validation... this conversation will set you free.Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠⁠all platforms⁠⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠✨ ⁠⁠Buy us a spring water⁠⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠⁠The Elle Diaries⁠⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

Have you ever left a conversation feeling completely drained... even though the other person thought it was amazing?Or walked into a room full of people and felt utterly alone?In Part 2 of this raw 2.5 hour conversation, Elle and Cam unpack why that happens, and what we're building to solve it.We dive deep into the energetic differential (why you end up coaching people without realizing it), the consciousness gap (why most relationships feel misaligned), and the philosophy behind The Board: a curated community for people who are tired of settling for surface-level connections.What we explore: • Why the person with more space always ends up giving in conversations • The "full cup" vs "empty cup" dynamic and how it affects all your relationships • Why over-inclusivity has made most communities mediocre (and how ruthless curation creates magic) • The consciousness differential: why conversations always center around the least free person • How we're building The Board for high-consciousness, high-competence people ready to rise together • Why feeling lonely in a crowd is actually a sign you're ready for the next level • The real reason you can't answer DMs (it's not what you think)This is about finding your frequency. Your people. Your home.If you've ever felt like you're walking through a dark hallway waiting to find the light, or if you're tired of being the one who always holds space while no one pours into you... this one's for you.Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠⁠all platforms⁠⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠✨ ⁠⁠Buy us a spring water⁠⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠⁠The Elle Diaries⁠⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

In episode 3 of Hot Seat, Akaash explores his lifelong struggle with authority figures, and discovers his higher self has become the latest one he's rebelling against.Growing up with a commanding mother who dictated every decision and an absent father who prioritized career over family, Akaash learned early that complying meant survival. He never knew he could choose. Teachers, coaches, even white males in general, he felt himself shrink around anyone he perceived as having power over him. For years, alcohol was the only thing that let him feel "normal" around people.Fast forward to today: Akaash has transformed nearly every area of his life. He left toxic relationships, quit his corporate career, moved cities, built a spiritual practice. But there's still one domain where he feels paralyzed, approaching women when his heart tells him to. And in this conversation, the pattern becomes crystal clear.His higher self is giving him directions (intuitive hits to talk to someone), and he's treating those nudges like orders from an authority figure he doesn't want to obey. The same rebellion that protected him as a child is now the thing keeping him from his deepest desires. Cam breaks down how the final 5% of reclaiming your power isn't about healing wounds from external authority, it's about trusting yourself enough to follow your own inner knowing without resistance.This episode goes deep into compliance vs. choice, masculine devotion, leading with compassion, and why the same wound that made you empathetic might be the thing blocking you from stepping fully into your power.Don't forget to leave us a 5 star review, they help more people find the pod and remember their magic. Please screenshot and email your 5 star reviews to [email protected] along with 1-3 questions you’d like us to answer on the pod. This enters you to win a meeting with our hosts, Elle and Cam! The next giveaway will happen when we hit 111 5 star reviews on both Spotify and Apple Podcasts. 🥳Connect With Us:✨ Apply for The Board, a high-trust collective for people who love meaningful conversations✨ Subscribe to Elle’s newsletter HERE✨ Subscribe to Cam’s newsletter HERE✨ Weekly walks for deep chats & newsletter HEREExplore Our World:✨Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms✨ Watch & Subscribe on Youtube✨ Elle Beecher’s social media✨ Cam Hogan’s social media✨ Buy us a spring water if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak at conferences, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder and leader of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in multiple cities with over 16,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She writes openly about her experiences and 2 AM revelations in The Elle Diaries newsletter. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

What happens when you try to force something that isn't ready yet?In Part 1 of this raw 2.5 hour conversation, Cam "cooks" on Elle about the block that's been keeping her from creating the final piece of our biggest project yet: The Board, a premium community for renaissance people who crave meaningful conversations and everyday magic.Everything is ready. The systems are built. The team is waiting. Dozens of people are signing up. But Elle can't seem to complete the one crucial piece that only she can create. And despite knowing logically that this will make her life easier, something in her body won't let her move forward.This isn't about procrastination. It's about what happens when your nervous system perceives the next level as a threat, even when your mind knows it's aligned.What we explore: • Why emotional readiness matters more than logical deadlines • The baby/pregnancy metaphor for creative projects (you can't force labor) • How past experiences of being "at capacity" create invisible blocks • Why "it's all downhill from here" is the best possible thing (momentum, not decline) • The difference between force and flow in creation • How the energy you create from gets imprinted into what you buildCam breaks down why Elle's been hesitant despite this being everything she's ever wanted, and what it means to build a business from pure alignment instead of deadlines and pressure.If you've ever felt stuck waiting for the "right time" or struggled to force yourself to do something you know is aligned, this conversation will give you permission to trust your own timing.Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠⁠all platforms⁠⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠✨ ⁠⁠Buy us a spring water⁠⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠⁠The Elle Diaries⁠⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.💌 CHAPTERS0:00 - Introduction & Setup0:53 - The Download: "It's All Downhill From Here"10:37 - The Board: What We're Building27:52 - Cam's Surrender & Waiting28:31 - Elle Asks: What Has This Taught You?36:47 - Balancing Creative & Logical41:59 - The Pregnancy Metaphor57:23 - What Cam's Most Excited About

In episode 2 of Hot Seat, our guest Akaash Prasad gets vulnerable about the one area of his life where he still feels completely stuck: approaching women.After years of self-improvement, meditation, and massive life changes, Akaash has transformed everything – except this. He's left toxic relationships, quit his corporate job, moved cities, and found his power in nearly every domain. But when it comes to talking to someone he's attracted to? Total paralysis.What makes this conversation different is that Akaash isn't avoiding it out of fear of rejection. He can literally feel his future partner's energy – recognizes shards of her in people he meets. The universe keeps sending him signs. So why can't he move? We explore the gap between logical knowing and emotional readiness, why "just getting reps" isn't always the answer, and how sometimes the resistance isn't about the action itself, it's about what comes after.By the end, Akaash walks away with permission to trust what he already knows.Don't forget to leave us a 5 star review, they help more people find the pod and remember their magic. Please screenshot and email your 5 star reviews to [email protected] along with 1-3 questions you’d like us to answer on the pod. This enters you to win a meeting with our hosts, Elle and Cam! The next giveaway will happen when we hit 111 5 star reviews on both Spotify and Apple Podcasts. 🥳Connect With Us:✨ Apply for The Board, a high-trust collective for people who love meaningful conversations✨ Subscribe to Elle’s newsletter HERE✨ Subscribe to Cam’s newsletter HERE✨ Weekly walks for deep chats & newsletter HEREExplore Our World:✨Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms✨ Watch on Youtube✨ Elle Beecher’s social media✨ Cam Hogan’s social media✨ Buy us a spring water if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak at conferences, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder and leader of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in multiple cities with over 16,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She writes openly about her experiences and 2 AM revelations in The Elle Diaries newsletter. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

After a year of hosting Listen Before Love, we realized we'd put ourselves in a box. We were only talking about dating and relationships when 70% of our conversations were about everything else: consciousness, community building, business, Human Design, truth-seeking on a wide range of topics, and just being human on this floating rock.That’s why we’re thrilled to share: Listen Before Love is evolving into Whimsy World, a playground for curiosity, deep conversations, and exploring what lights us up.We're breaking all the rules we created for ourselves, consolidating our scattered energy into one giant container, and finally unleashing the 70% that didn’t quite “fit” into Listen Before Love.In this conversation, we dive into: what led to this evolution, the lesson of half-heartedness, and why we're choosing to follow our excitement and record all the REAL conversations we’re having offline.If you've ever felt stuck in a container you created, struggling with too many projects, or wondering when to pivot… this conversation is your permission slip.Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠⁠all platforms⁠⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠✨ ⁠⁠Buy us a spring water⁠⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠⁠The Elle Diaries⁠⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.💌 CHAPTERS0:00 Welcome to Whimsy World: Our New Era Begins1:45 Why We Felt Blocked Talking Only About Relationships4:14 The Pile of Conversations That Didn't Fit the Box7:12 The Lesson of Half-Heartedness and Pivoting8:20 Breaking All the Rules We Created for Ourselves11:50 Elle: The Next Generation's Oprah, Fully Unleashed13:54 Sharing from the Present Moment, Not Past Tense15:54 The Energy Equation: One Mile vs One Inch18:56 16,000 People at the Walks Without Marketing21:13 Following Sparks Within One Giant Container23:18 What Series Are We Most Excited About?27:14 Human Design as a Living Experiment31:36 Creating Tools for Our Younger Selves37:42 Hot Seat: A New Model for Public Coaching42:19 Hot Seat Topics: From Twitter Triggers to Approaching Women44:44 Why Authenticity is Magnetic (The Akaash Wife Theory)50:47 The Quality of People Who Listen to This Show54:32 Cam's Superpower: Radical Honesty Without People-Pleasing1:01:38 It's Gonna Feel Whimsical1:06:58 Gratitude for the Listen Before Love Chapter

Welcome to Hot Seat – a new series where we invite friends, community members, and internet strangers to have honest conversations about what they’re dealing with right now.In this episode, Cam and our first series regular Akaash Prasad explore the gap between knowing how you “should” respond versus how you actually feel.Akaash posted something heartfelt on Twitter. Five minutes later, someone logically dismantled it. What followed was a spiral through anger, shame, and self-judgment that led to this honest conversation about seeking validation online. By the end, Akaash goes from "I want to deactivate everything" to "I feel like I'm gonna float away." Don't forget to leave us a 5 star review, they help more people find the pod and remember their magic. Please screenshot and email your 5 star reviews to [email protected] along with 1-3 questions you’d like us to answer on the pod. This enters you to win a meeting with our hosts, Elle and Cam! The next giveaway will happen when we hit 111 5 star reviews on both Spotify and Apple Podcasts. 🥳Connect With Us:✨ Apply for The Board, a high-trust collective for people who love meaningful conversations✨ Subscribe to Elle’s newsletter HERE✨ Subscribe to Cam’s newsletter HERE✨ Weekly walks for deep chats & newsletter HEREExplore Our World:✨Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms✨Watch on Youtube✨Elle Beecher’s social media✨Cam Hogan’s social media✨Buy us a spring water if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak at conferences, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like The Board.Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder and leader of The Board Walks, a global movement of weekly walks in multiple cities with over 16,000 attendees, and its premium extension called The Board. She writes openly about her experiences and 2 AM revelations in The Elle Diaries newsletter. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.

Ever notice how exhausting it is to do things out of obligation? We spent the last few months systematically removing every "should" from our lives, and it completely transformed everything.This conversation covers: why Elle got off social media and what happened to her anxiety, Cam's journey from OCD-level routines to intuitive living, how we handle relationships without obligation, the surprising reason most friendships fall apart, why being "selfish" is actually the most selfless thing you can do, and what happened when we started honoring only what feels genuinely exciting.We're not coaches telling you what to do, we're just two people experimenting with what it means to be completely free. Join us for this unscripted exploration of modern life, relationships, and finding your own path.Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠⁠all platforms⁠⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠✨ ⁠⁠Buy us a spring water⁠⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠⁠The Elle Diaries⁠⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building..💌 CHAPTERS0:00 Introduction: Packers Blanket and Setting the Vibe 1:17 Meeting With Psychic Susie and Following Intuition 7:06 Living in Our Own World Without External Noise 11:52 Elle Gets Off Social Media - The Immediate Difference Cam Noticed 17:11 Social Media as "Clocking In" and Consuming Consciousness Soup 27:29 Screen Time as the New Secret Life 32:24 When Actions Come From Coping Mechanisms vs Pure Joy 38:30 Where Does Your Energy Go? ChatGPT vs Creating for Others 43:33 Our Next Level: Allowing Ourselves to Fully Express the Journey 49:31 When You Literally Can't Find Energy for Anything Misaligned 54:37 Cam's Lifelong Search for the Right Way to Live 1:00:04 Rejecting All the Templates - "All You Motherfuckers Are Wrong" 1:07:52 Creating a New Template for Modern Life and Relationships 1:13:11 Being Proud of Yourself and Celebrating What You've Accomplished 1:20:26 Letting Go of Lying and Exaggerating Completely 1:29:42 Honoring Your Highest Preference in All Relationships 1:45:00 The Honesty of "When It Feels Right" in Relationships 1:52:56 Using This Space for Pride Infusion and Celebration 1:55:00 Pause Here: What Are YOU Proud of Yourself For? 1:57:21 New Style of Recording - Just Riffing and Talking

What happens when two people drop ALL the masks and talk for 2.5 hours straight, uncut? Elle starts crying, Cam gets called out for "performing," and we explore why we've been terrified to show up exactly as we are - no makeup, straight out of bed, pajamas and all.This isn't polished content. It's us finally breaking through our biggest barrier: the need to look perfect before we share our truth. We dive deep into sharing from "the wound" versus "the scar" and why most people (including us) wait until everything is pretty before getting vulnerable.If you've ever struggled with authenticity - whether on camera or in life - this marathon conversation might change how you show up in the world.Join Our Communities:✨ Apply for ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠, a curated global network for people who have everything except the right room.✨ Walk with us for 5 miles and meaningful conversations, now in 10+ cities: ⁠⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠⁠ ✨ Subscribe to ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ for lightbulb moments from The Board WalksConnect With Elle & Cam:✨ Elle’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s newsletter ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠✨ Elle Beecher’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠ ✨ Cam Hogan’s ⁠⁠social media⁠⁠Explore Whimsy World:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & ⁠⁠all platforms⁠⁠✨ Watch & Subscribe on ⁠⁠Youtube⁠⁠✨ ⁠⁠Buy us a spring water⁠⁠ if you enjoy our episodesAbout Your Hosts:⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who helps high-performers shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. He is CEO of High Vibe Ventures, where he’s evolving work and business practices to match the planet’s rising consciousness. Cameron loves to write, speak, solve major life problems via courses, and build communities for meaningful connection like ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠⁠ helps people find community and fall in love with their lives. Elle is founder of ⁠⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠, a global movement of weekly walks in 10+ cities with over 18,000 attendees, and its premium extension called ⁠⁠The Board⁠⁠. She curates stories and insights from these communities in ⁠⁠The Friday Debrief⁠⁠ newsletter, and shares her personal reflections in ⁠⁠The Elle Diaries⁠⁠. She was awarded Forbes 30 Under 30 for her expertise in community building.💌 CHAPTERS0:00 Introduction: "This is probably the biggest video we've ever recorded"3:15 Why We've Been Afraid to Show Up Authentically on Camera8:45 Elle's Emotional Breakdown - Starting Vulnerable and Exposed12:20 The "Prison" Misunderstanding - Clarifying Our Dynamic18:30 Society's Conditioning Around Appearance and Performance25:40 Sharing From the Wound vs. From the Scar32:15 Why Most People Can't Handle Seeing Raw Emotions38:50 Our Rapid Evolution and Shedding Limiting Beliefs Every Week45:20 The Sauna Story - Processing Emotions in Real Time52:30 How Movies Program Our Relationship Patterns and Desires1:02:45 Why We Can't Fathom People Being This Vulnerable Online1:10:20 The Reality of Helping People vs. Being Drained by It1:18:35 We're Not Coaches - Understanding Our True Role1:25:40 Why People Are Magnetically Drawn to Our Energy1:32:15 Cam Gets Called Out for "Performance Mode"1:35:50 Dropping Into Completely Authentic Conversation1:42:20 The Food Obsession Discussion and Neurodivergent Patterns1:48:30 Why We Don't Need Traditional Friendships Anymore1:56:45 Creating Reciprocal Energy Exchanges vs. Free Advice2:05:20 Why People Don't Understand Our Lifestyle Choices2:12:40 Elle's Reflection on This Being Her "Worst Case Scenario"2:18:15 Cam's Vision for Their Massive Future Impact2:23:45 The Emotional Weight of Their Life Purpose

Have you noticed how "Are you okay?" after a fight makes everything ten times worse?Most people handle relationship conflict completely backward, turning small moments into relationship-ending blowouts.Cam and Elle get vulnerable about their real fight over email automations (yes, really) and break down exactly what happens when you upset your partner. From the physical fight-or-flight response to why women disappear to bathrooms, they reveal the hidden dynamics destroying relationships.Learn the exact words that heal instead of harm, why taking responsibility beats playing detective, and the breathing technique that stops emotional flooding in its tracks. Plus, discover how to avoid the "HR Rep" response that kills intimacy.This episode transforms conflict into connection—because the couples who handle fights well are the ones who last. ✨We're picking questions from our 5-star reviewers for future episodes; DM us a screenshot of your review to @listenbeforelove on IG along with your question or situation. ❤️🌟Our communities:✨ Our free monthly workshop to kick off your month with intention✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations (and newsletter sign up)More from us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms HERE✨ Listen Before Love youtube✨ Elle’s socials and links HERE & Cam’s socials and links HERESupport our work:✨ Send us a tip if you receive valuable insights from our episodes✨ Donate to The Board Walks to bring weekly connection around the world✨ Buy us a spring water to keep us hydrated in Texas heatWho are these people? 👀⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 ⁠⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a monthly gratitude call alongside Elle called ⁠⁠Great Morning⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, hosts a monthly ⁠gratitude call⁠⁠ alongside Cam (230+ so far), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads 4 communities – for women in love, deep talk lovers, and spiritual seekers. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠.💌 CHAPTERS0:00 Reading The Signs: How To Tell When Your Loved One Is Upset5:11 A Real Example: When Cam Upset Elle14:17 What NOT To Do: "Are You Okay?" vs Taking Responsibility23:43 The Woman's Side: Self-Regulation and Avoiding The "HR Rep"29:46 How To Get Your OWN Dedicated Listen Before Love Episode!

Ever notice when someone says "I'm fine" but their energy screams otherwise? You're picking up on real signals—and it's time to actually do something about it.Cam is an absolute MASTER at reading the room and voicing what everyone sees but no one brings up. Not only that, he navigates uncomfortable conversations that ensue with incredible skill too.In this episode, Elle and Cam break down exactly how he does it through real-time roleplay scenarios.From handling a partner's sudden energy shift to creating space for difficult emotions, they reveal the magic phrase that changes everything: "How can I help you feel that more?" They also explore why presence truly is spelled L-O-V-E and how emotions are just energy that can never truly be hidden.If you're ready to close the gap between noticing and speaking up—and transform your relationships in the process—this episode is your roadmap! ✨We're picking questions from our 5-star reviewers for future episodes; DM us a screenshot of your review to @listenbeforelove on IG along with your question or situation. ❤️🌟Our communities:✨ Our free quarterly workshop to reflect and reset your intentions alongside growth-oriented humans✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations (and newsletter sign up!)More from us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms HERE✨ Listen Before Love youtube✨ Elle’s socials and links HERE & Cam’s socials and links HERESupport our work:✨ Send us a tip if you receive valuable insights from our episodes✨ Donate to The Board Walks to bring weekly connection around the world✨ Buy us a spring water to keep us hydrated in Texas heatWho are these people? 👀⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 ⁠⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, and speaks at conferences.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, created a ⁠⁠weekly walk⁠⁠ for meaningful conversations that’s in 10 cities (more soon!), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠.💌 CHAPTERS0:00 The Art Of Reading The Room (And Voicing The Truth Masterfully)5:59 Closing the Gap Between Seeing and Speaking8:38 The Myth Of Hiding Emotions—Energy Never Lies14:40 "How Can I Help You Feel That More?”21:31 How to Hold Space Without Adding Drama29:26 Presence is Spelled L-O-V-E

Ever feel exhausted from constantly "showing up" no matter how you actually feel?Elle and Cam get vulnerable about the hidden cost of extreme consistency and why our productivity-obsessed culture is burning everyone out.After hosting 156 weekly walks with less than 10 missed sessions, Elle discovers through human design that her true gift isn't consistency—it's teaching people to follow their natural rhythms. 🌙They dive into the difference between feminine "being" energy and masculine "doing" energy. From showering in silence to breathing from your belly instead of your chest, they share real ways to reconnect with your intuition.Plus, they announce their radical 14-day tech detox where they're literally putting all devices in a closet. 📱Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is absolutely nothing.If you're tired of feeling like a human doing instead of a human being, this episode will give you permission to finally rest!We're picking questions from our 5-star reviewers for future episodes; DM us a screenshot of your review to @listenbeforelove on IG along with your question or situation. ❤️🌟Our communities:✨ Our free monthly workshop to kick off your month with intention✨ Elle’s dating community for high-achieving women ready to shift from exhaustion to excitement✨ Cam’s community for men with big visions who want to keep up momentum✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations (and newsletter sign up)More from us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms HERE✨ Listen Before Love youtube✨ Elle’s socials and links HERE & Cam’s socials and links HERESupport our work:✨ Send us a tip if you receive valuable insights from our episodes✨ Donate to The Board Walks to bring weekly connection around the world✨ Buy us a spring water to keep us hydrated in Texas heatWho are these people? 👀⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 ⁠⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a monthly gratitude call alongside Elle called ⁠⁠Great Morning⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, hosts a ⁠⁠weekly walk⁠⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (131 so far), hosts a monthly ⁠gratitude call⁠⁠ alongside Cam (120 so far), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads 4 communities – for women in love, deep talk lovers, and spiritual seekers. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠.💌 CHAPTERS0:00 Balancing The Feminine And Masculine Energies4:55 Why We Need To Balance Doing And Being13:49 Why And How To Reconnect With Your Feminine Energy22:44 What Elle's Exploration Of Human Design Revealed About Her Gifts29:43 Elle's Consistency Docket (And What She Realized About Burnout)38:23 Permission To Rest (Yes, Really—It's Okay)43:03 Moving Cyclically Between Rest And Action Cycles For Greatest Impact45:03 Our 14 Day Technology Detox Experiment (And Why We Decided To Do It)

Ever feel like you're only showing a fraction of who you really are? Cam and Elle dive deep into the performance we all do without realizing it.From the "wind up" people do in grocery stores to the masks we wear on camera, this episode exposes the ways we hide our authentic selves. They share Cam’s breakthrough moment about unconsciously going into “militant mode” and why playing more might be the answer.Things get real when they discuss how even fart shame reveals our deepest fears about being truly seen. 😂 Sometimes the most authentic moments happen when we stop trying to be perfect.If you want to stop performing and become fully expressed (farts and all), this episode is for you!We're picking questions from our 5-star reviewers for future episodes; DM us a screenshot of your review to @listenbeforelove on IG along with your question or situation. ❤️🌟Our communities:✨ Our free monthly workshop to kick off your month with intention✨ Elle’s dating community for high-achieving women ready to shift from exhaustion to excitement✨ Cam’s community for men with big visions who want to keep up momentum✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations (and newsletter sign up)More from us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms HERE✨ Listen Before Love youtube✨ Elle’s socials and links HERE & Cam’s socials and links HERESupport our work:✨ Send us a tip if you receive valuable insights from our episodes✨ Donate to The Board Walks to bring weekly connection around the world✨ Buy us a spring water to keep us hydrated in Texas heatWho are these people? 👀⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 ⁠⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a monthly gratitude call alongside Elle called ⁠⁠Great Morning⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, hosts a ⁠⁠weekly walk⁠⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (131 so far), hosts a monthly ⁠gratitude call⁠⁠ alongside Cam (120 so far), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads 4 communities – for women in love, deep talk lovers, and spiritual seekers. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠.💌 CHAPTERS0:00 When Your Team Calls You Out on What's Really Going On 👀5:12 What Happens When You Show Only Your "Militant Side"12:20 Why It's Important To Allow ALL Of Who You Are To Be Fully Expressed19:57 Breaking Free From What You Think People Want to See28:13 Why Authenticity Is The Ultimate Cancel-Proof Strategy36:55 What Happens When People Go Into Performance Mode49:43 The Fart Conversation: Breaking Down Our Last Walls of Shame1:01:20 Your Farts Are Enough (THIS Is What True Embodiment Means) 😂1:05:46 How Can YOU Become More Of Who You Truly Are?

We’re pulling back the curtain on how our relationship actually works day-to-day, sharing the specific practices that make love feel effortless, joyful, and deeply fulfilling. 👀From Cam's vulnerable story about his aunt's life-changing advice on mutual service to Elle's insights on building genuine compatibility, this episode delivers the blueprint for relationships that feel like heaven on earth.If you've ever wondered what it takes to create a love without drama, scorekeeping, or constant friction — this is your roadmap.Ready to stop settling and start creating your version of heaven on earth? Perfect. Let's show you how to do exactly that. ✨We're picking questions from our 5-star reviewers for future episodes; DM us a screenshot of your review to @listenbeforelove on IG along with your question or situation. ❤️🌟Our communities:✨ Our free monthly workshop to kick off your month with intention✨ Elle’s dating community for high-achieving women ready to shift from exhaustion to excitement✨ Cam’s community for men with big visions who want to keep up momentum✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations (and newsletter sign up)More from us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms HERE✨ Listen Before Love youtube✨ Elle’s socials and links HERE & Cam’s socials and links HERESupport our work:✨ Send us a tip if you receive valuable insights from our episodes✨ Donate to The Board Walks to bring weekly connection around the world✨ Buy us a spring water to keep us hydrated in Texas heatWho are these people? 👀⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 ⁠⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a monthly gratitude call alongside Elle called ⁠⁠Great Morning⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, hosts a ⁠⁠weekly walk⁠⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (131 so far), hosts a monthly ⁠gratitude call⁠⁠ alongside Cam (120 so far), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads 4 communities – for women in love, deep talk lovers, and spiritual seekers. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠.💌 CHAPTERS0:00 Why Our Relationship Feels SO GOOD7:27 Prioritizing Each Other's Needs13:14 Is Your Partner Capable Of Reciprocity?19:14 Committing To Telling The Truth In The Moment26:04 The Freedom To Be Yourself In A Relationship34:17 Why Compatibility Requires That You Don’t Settle46:05 Your Inner Worth Attracts Your Outer Relationships57:02 Separating Yourself From The Negative Voice In Your Head1:01:37 Creating Heaven On Earth In Your Relationships Is Possible (We Are Proof)

We respond to a juicy DM about a topic many struggle with: how to keep faith that the love you long for is out there.In this deeply personal conversation, we share the ONE thing that changed everything in our love lives — and it's not what you think. If you've ever had those 2 AM moments wondering "will it ever happen for me?" this episode is your permission slip to feel it all and transform it into MAGNETIC energy.Ready to go from dating despair to dream love? Your person is out there. Let's help you call them in. ✨We're picking questions from our 5-star reviewers for future episodes; DM us a screenshot of your review to @listenbeforelove on IG along with your question or situation. ❤️🌟Our communities:✨ Our free monthly workshop to kick off your month with intention✨ Elle’s dating community for high-achieving women ready to shift from exhaustion to excitement✨ Cam’s community for men with big visions who want to keep up momentum✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations (and newsletter sign up)More from us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms HERE✨ Listen Before Love youtube✨ Elle’s socials and links HERE & Cam’s socials and links HERESupport our work:✨ Send us a tip if you receive valuable insights from our episodes✨ Donate to The Board Walks to bring weekly connection around the world✨ Buy us a spring water to keep us hydrated in Texas heatWho are these people? 👀⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 ⁠⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a monthly gratitude call alongside Elle called ⁠⁠Great Morning⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, hosts a ⁠⁠weekly walk⁠⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (153 so far), hosts a monthly ⁠workshop alongside Cam, and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads 4 communities – for women in love, deep talk lovers, and spiritual seekers. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠.CHAPTERS0:00 “I Want To Believe That I Will Find Love But Will It Ever Happen For Me?”8:34 How To Go From Toxic Positivity To True Belief (Hint: Feel Your Feelings Fully)13:51 Breaking “The Woman of Steel” Mask19:27 You Don’t Need To Logically Understand Your Emotions25:23 How Moving Through Your Feelings Initiates Breakthroughs27:55 How To Help A Loved One Feel Their Emotions Fully33:11 THIS Is What Will Magnetize Your Dream Person To You41:45 How To Be The Permission Slip For Others To Be Authentic47:46 Prioritize Your Feelings To Unlock A New Reality53:35 Practical Tools for Feeling Your Emotions58:40 Life After Emotional Freedom

We're diving deep into one of the most controversial topics in relationships: what to do when you're out of alignment with your partner.I know what most relationship coaches tell you: "work through it," "compromise," "relationships take work." But here's our honest take: if you're truly out of alignment with someone, they're not your person. Period.In this episode, Cam and Elle break down:Why we believe the person you marry should NOT be "the person you fight with most" (this old-school relationship advice is toxic!)The two types of alignment that actually matter in relationshipsHow your limiting beliefs about dating are literally repelling your dream personWhy your energy is either a magnet or a repellent for high-value partnersThe voice note exercise that will expose every limiting belief sabotaging your love lifeHow Elle went from having "resting misery face" to magnetizing incredible relationshipsIf you're tired of settling, tired of the "dating is hard" narrative, and ready to attract someone who's actually aligned with the highest version of yourself - this episode is for you.Drop a comment below with your biggest takeaway, and don't forget to rate the show! We're picking questions from our 5-star reviewers for future episodes; DM us a screenshot of your review along with your question or situation.Our communities:✨ Elle’s ⁠dating community⁠ for high-achieving women ready to shift from exhaustion to excitement✨ Cam’s ⁠community⁠ for men with big visions who want to keep up momentum✨ Our free ⁠gratitude community ⁠to embrace “feel good” emotions✨ ⁠Weekly walks⁠ for meaningful conversations (and newsletter sign up)More from us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms ⁠HERE⁠✨ Listen Before Love ⁠youtube⁠✨ Elle’s socials and links ⁠HERE⁠ & Cam’s socials and links ⁠HERE⁠Support our work:✨ ⁠Send us a tip⁠ if you receive valuable insights from our episodes✨ ⁠Donate⁠ to The Board Walks to bring weekly connection around the world✨ Buy us a ⁠spring water⁠ to keep us hydrated in Texas heatWho are these people? 👀⁠⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100⁠⁠ ⁠newsletters⁠⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called⁠⁠ ⁠Great Morning⁠⁠⁠.⁠⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle⁠ ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠⁠ every day, hosts a⁠⁠ ⁠weekly walk⁠⁠⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (151 so far), hosts a daily⁠⁠ gratitude call⁠⁠⁠ alongside Cam (220 so far), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads 4 communities – for women in love, deep talk lovers, and spiritual seekers. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with⁠⁠ ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠⁠.CHAPTERS 0:00 Welcome Back & Some Toxic Relationship Advice 2:38 You Don't Need To Be Perfect To Find Love (But You Need To Be On The Path) 5:38 The Two Types Of Alignment That Actually Matter In Relationships 10:26 Why We're Being Bombarded With Negative Dating Stories (And It's Not An Accident) 12:54 The Voice Note Exercise That Will Expose All Your Limiting Beliefs 19:33 The "Good Men/Women Moments" Assignment 24:23 Why Extremely Attractive People Can Still Be Repulsive30:38 How Choosing Differently Creates A Completely New Reality35:38 The Secret: You Can't Misalign With Someone Who Shares Your Core Values

Friend breakups are so painful and awkward… but no one talks about them. 👀Let’s dive into 4 different kinds of friend breakups and how to approach each one with love and kindness. We got dozens of messages after our last episode asking how to handle friend breakups, so we hope this gives you an easy road map AND a permission slip to let go.We have no obligation to keep people in our lives who make us feel drained, exhausted, or too afraid to play bigger. It’s on US to have these conversations and unlock a new friendship destiny. You got this. ❤️If you received wisdom gems from this episode and want to send us a tip, make our day here.Reminder: We lead monthly live meetings about all these topics, useful tools and resources to integrate, and MORE in our communities for men and women. Join us below or tell a friend!Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we may even feature your question or situation in an upcoming episode. 👀Our communities:✨ Elle’s dating community for high-achieving women ready to shift from exhaustion to excitement✨ Cam’s community for men with big visions who want to keep up momentum✨ Our free gratitude community to embrace “feel good” emotions✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations (and newsletter sign up)More from us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms HERE✨ Listen Before Love youtube✨ Elle’s socials and links HERE & Cam’s socials and links HERESupport our work:✨ Send us a tip if you receive valuable insights from our episodes✨ Donate to The Board Walks to bring weekly connection around the world✨ Buy us a spring water to keep us hydrated in Texas heatWho are these people? 👀⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100⁠ ⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called⁠ ⁠Great Morning⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, hosts a⁠ ⁠weekly walk⁠⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (151 so far), hosts a daily⁠ gratitude call⁠⁠ alongside Cam (220 so far), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads 4 communities – for women in love, deep talk lovers, and spiritual seekers. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with⁠ ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠.CHAPTERS 0:00 Welcome Back & Why Do We Forget Friend Breakups? 3:48 Friend Breakup #1: The Mutual Slow Fade 10:53 It’s Okay To Not Send The Birthday Text 14:18 Change Your Circle 21:43 You Have No Obligation 28:13 Friend Breakup #2: The One-Sided Drift 32:20 Women and Men Accept Proactive Truth Differently 39:33 Friend Breakup #3: The Formal Ending 47:03 We Don’t Need to Say Why 50:23 Breakups Are a Gift of Self-Reflection 55:55 Friend Breakup #4: The Ghost 1:00:18 It’s Time to Have Fun

Break ups are in the air… romantic, platonic, professional. Oh my! 👀Let’s dive into all the nitty gritty about why, when, and HOW to end a relationship the right way. Cam is a jedi master at break ups and leads these conversations better than anyone Elle has met… so much so, that she sits in the room and absorbs his approach when he breaks up with people. And you’re in for a treat today… we’re bringing you into 3 LIVE breakup examples!This conversation will give you a dose of clarity to realize why you’re drained, and the courage to change things up. Happy shifting. ❤️Reminder: We lead monthly live meetings about all these topics, useful tools and resources to integrate, and MORE in our communities for men and women. Join us below or tell a friend!Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we may even feature your question or situation in an upcoming episode. 👀Our communities:✨ Elle’s dating community for high-achieving women ready to shift from exhaustion to excitement✨ Cam’s community for men with big visions who want to keep up momentum✨ Our free gratitude community to embrace “feel good” emotions✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations (and newsletter sign up)More from us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms HERE✨ Listen Before Love youtube✨ Elle’s socials and links HERE & Cam’s socials and links HERESupport our work:✨ Buy us a spring water if you received valuable insights✨ Donate to The Board Walks to bring weekly connection around the worldWho are these people? 👀⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100⁠ ⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called⁠ ⁠Great Morning⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, hosts a⁠ ⁠weekly walk⁠⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (131 so far), hosts a daily⁠ gratitude call⁠⁠ alongside Cam (120 so far), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads 4 communities – for women in love, deep talk lovers, and spiritual seekers. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with⁠ ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠.💌 CHAPTERS0:00 Welcome Back & Breakups Are In The Air3:00 Elle Ended A Relationship This Week9:25 Givers Vs Takers14:55 What Creates A Taker?21:00 This Is Why Some People Drain You26:30 “It’s Not You, It’s Me” = Living In A Different Reality38:54 Why Do We Feel Resentment After A Relationship?47:00 Example #1: Employee Not Performing Well59:20 Example #2: Ending Relationships Off Vibe Alone1:08:53 Example #3: Break Up After 4-Year Relationship1:25:35 Don’t Ask Why & Focus On The Feeling

Let's talk about the *heavy* dating app fatigue that our single friends are feeling right now.This episode is inspired by one of my favorite creators, Danielle Walter aka The Carrie Bradshaw of SF!Danielle said in a recent reel that "dating apps are like a full-time job" and "the pace of online dating is too fast for me right now."This sparked today's conversation: why are people feeling so worn out by dating apps?!We dive into how the apps can create rushed intimacy, exploit scarcity mindsets into settling for people we aren't jazzed about, and how our own upfront energy investment (aka stalking them on socials) might be contributing to the dread.This is one of my favorite conversations to date and will cause some lightbulb moments for people who don't get why they delete and re-download Hinge every few months. 👀Reminder: We lead monthly meetings about all these topics, useful tools and resources to integrate, and MORE in our communities for men and women. Join us below or tell a friend!Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we may even feature your question or situation in an upcoming episode. 👀Our communities:✨ Elle’s dating community for women:⁠ https://highvibe.mn.co/landing/plans/1507076 ✨ Cam’s dating community for men:⁠ https://highvibe.mn.co/landing/plans/1507080 ✨ Our free daily gratitude community to embrace “feel good” emotions:⁠ https://highvibe.mn.co/landing/plans/1505242 ✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations (and newsletter sign up): www.theboardwalks.com More from us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms: ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/listenbeforelove⁠ ✨ Listen Before Love youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@ListenBeforeLove ✨ Elle’s socials and links: ⁠⁠https://stan.store/ellebeecher⁠⁠✨ Cam’s socials and links: ⁠⁠https://stan.store/thecameronhogan⁠⁠Support our work:✨ Buy us a spring water: ⁠https://buymeacoffee.com/ellebeecher⁠✨ Donate to The Board Walks: ⁠https://donate.stripe.com/3cs7vi5GdcUT6goaEG⁠Who are these people? 👀⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100⁠ ⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called⁠ ⁠Great Morning⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, hosts a⁠ ⁠weekly walk⁠⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (15K people have joined), hosts a daily⁠ gratitude call⁠⁠ alongside Cam (205 hosted so far), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads 4 communities – for high-achieving women and deep talk lovers. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with⁠ ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠.💌 CHAPTERS0:00 Welcome Back & Shoutout to Danielle Walter For Inspiring This Episode 2:07 Context on Danielle Walter, The Carrie Bradshaw of SF 7:06 Why Dating Apps Make Things Too Fast and Intense 11:41 Scarcity Mindsets & Elle’s Unhealthy Relationship 21:41 If It Feels Rushed, It’s Not Right 26:41 How We Create Our Own Pressure In Dating 30:41 Don’t Stalk Them Beforehand (Law of Reciprocity In Dating) 36:23 Reject People Sooner 44:31 Don’t Settle 48:01 Commitment Timelines For Men vs Women 55:41 How Cam Got Specific About His Person 1:02:41 We’re Frustrated With Misalignment… But We Can Change It

We are BACK after a two month hiatus, baby! ❤️So, where did we go and what did we learn in our time away?! Let's talk about it.This episode is a behind the scenes look into an entrepreneurial couple's day to day. Juicy insights and stories, galore! 👀Reminder: We host monthly meetings about all these topics, useful tools and resources to integrate, and MORE in our communities for men and women. Join us below or tell a friend!Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we may even feature your question or situation in an upcoming episode. 👀Our communities:✨ Elle’s dating community for women:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://highvibe.mn.co/landing/plans/1507076⁠ ✨ Cam’s dating community for men:⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://highvibe.mn.co/landing/plans/1507080⁠ ✨ Our free gratitude community to embrace “feel good” emotions:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://highvibe.mn.co/landing/plans/1505242⁠ ✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations (and newsletter sign up): ⁠www.theboardwalks.com⁠ More from us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms:⁠ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/listenbeforelove⁠⁠ ✨ Listen Before Love youtube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ListenBeforeLove⁠ ✨ Elle’s socials and links: ⁠https://stan.store/ellebeecher⁠✨ Cam’s socials and links: ⁠https://stan.store/thecameronhogan⁠Support our work:✨ Buy us a spring water: https://buymeacoffee.com/ellebeecher✨ Donate to The Board Walks: https://donate.stripe.com/3cs7vi5GdcUT6goaEGWho are these people? 👀⁠⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100⁠⁠ ⁠newsletters⁠⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called⁠⁠ ⁠Great Morning⁠⁠⁠.⁠⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle⁠ ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠⁠ every day, hosts a⁠⁠ ⁠weekly walk⁠⁠⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (148 so far), hosts a daily⁠⁠ gratitude call⁠⁠⁠ alongside Cam (205 so far), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads 4 communities – for women in love, deep talk lovers, and spiritual seekers. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with⁠⁠ ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠⁠.💌 CHAPTERS0:00 Welcome Back & Where We’ve Been4:20 Behind The Scenes of A Conscious Entrepreneurial Couple14:32  Permission to Pivot21:02 Letting Your Creations Change (A Story From The Board Walks)28:42 Owning Your Value & The Law of Reciprocity38:32 Takers vs Givers47:32 How The Founder’s Consciousness Blocks Growth1:02:50 It’s Okay To Uphold Boundaries Passionately

Cam and Elle revisit boundaries because this is a BIG topic.We break down Boundaries 101 using a story, how to send and receive boundaries, and why extreme reactions are a sign of childhood wounds (with Elle explaining her most recent breakthrough)... this is an insight-packed episode. Take your time with it and be gentle with yourself.Reminder: We lead weekly live meetings about all these topics, useful tools and resources to integrate, and MORE in our communities for men and women. We are having a blast so far and are somehow attracting the best people on the internet. If you could use a lifeline to hope and good relationship advice in your life, join us below or tell a friend!Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we may even feature your question or situation in an upcoming episode. 👀Our communities:✨ Elle’s dating community for women:⁠ https://highvibe.mn.co/landing/plans/1507076 ✨ Cam’s dating community for men:⁠ https://highvibe.mn.co/landing/plans/1507080 ✨ Our free daily gratitude community to embrace “feel good” emotions:⁠ https://highvibe.mn.co/landing/plans/1505242 ✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations (and newsletter sign up): www.theboardwalks.com More from us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms: ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/listenbeforelove⁠ ✨ Listen Before Love youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@ListenBeforeLove ✨ Elle’s socials: https://stan.store/ellebeecher✨ Cam’s socials:⁠https://stan.store/thecameronhoganWho are these people? 👀⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100⁠ ⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called⁠ ⁠Great Morning⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, hosts a⁠ ⁠weekly walk⁠⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (138 so far), hosts a daily⁠ gratitude call⁠⁠ alongside Cam (160 so far), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads 4 communities – for women in love, deep talk lovers, and spiritual seekers. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with⁠ ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠.💌 CHAPTERS0:00 Welcome Back & A Boundary Story7:46 Boundaries 10114:26 If You Set A Boundary, Accept The Response (What People Get Wrong)20:49 How to Send and Receive Boundaries25:21 Why Our Reactions Feel Extreme31:49 Elle Has A Breakthrough42:39 Understanding & Healing Generational Trauma52:03 If You Struggle to Receive56:24 Boundaries Create Your Dream Relationships

Cam and Elle call out some spiritual folks . 👀It’s not all sunshine and roses over here… we have SEEN some verbal gymnastics to escape accountability! (Like the Twin Flames Universe cult, one of the wildest documentaries we’ve watched lately.) We talk about the concept of a mirror in relationships, how to differentiate between intuition and trauma response, why some coaches are broke, how we create space for our inner wisdom to shine through… and more!Reminder: We lead weekly live meetings about all these topics, useful tools and resources to integrate, and MORE in our communities for men and women. The best people on the internet are in there. If you could use a lifeline to hope and good relationship advice in your life, join us below or tell a friend!Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we may feature your question or situation in an upcoming episode. 👀Our communities:✨ Elle’s dating community for women:⁠ https://highvibe.mn.co/landing/plans/1507076 ✨ Cam’s dating community for men:⁠ https://highvibe.mn.co/landing/plans/1507080 ✨ Our free daily gratitude community to embrace “feel good” emotions:⁠ https://highvibe.mn.co/landing/plans/1505242 ✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations (and newsletter sign up): www.theboardwalks.com More from us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms: ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/listenbeforelove⁠ ✨ Listen Before Love youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@ListenBeforeLove ✨ Elle’s twitter:⁠ ⁠https://x.com/ellebeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s twitter:⁠ ⁠https://x.com/thecameronhogan⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ ✨ The Elle Diaries personal podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/3TZ7HJew2r38vOikKzDq8L?si=b98517f3139c4b4dWho are these people? 👀⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100⁠ ⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called⁠ ⁠Great Morning⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, hosts a⁠ ⁠weekly walk⁠⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (131 so far), hosts a daily⁠ gratitude call⁠⁠ alongside Cam (120 so far), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads 4 communities – for women in love, deep talk lovers, and spiritual seekers. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with⁠ ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠.💌 CHAPTERS0:00 Welcome Back & Our Home Studio Is Finished!2:32 Accountability In Relationships & ‘Twin Flames Universe’ Cult9:13 The Mirror Exercise12:05 Using Spiritual Concepts to Scapegoat Accountability16:18 Why Some Coaches Are Broke22:29 Do You Listen To Your Intuition?33:13 Speaking Up In The Moment36:26 Projection vs Observation43:33 Trauma Response vs Intuition

Cam and Elle read a juicy DM. 👀We’re still getting used to the whole “sharing your life online” thing… so let’s talk about it! We laugh about how Cam looked like a red flag factory when we met, how Cam usually tweets when he’s in a “meh” mood (and how it gets misinterpreted), and why our relationship is 0% toxic and 100% love.Cute reminder: We both lead communities to provide a lifeline to hope and good relationship advice. (Who knows, we may even matchmake some folks!) This is open to both single and taken friends, because we never stop dating our lover. The doors are NOW OPEN!Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we may even feature your question or situation in an upcoming episode. 👀Our communities:✨ Elle’s dating community for women:⁠https://highvibe.mn.co/landing/plans/1507076 ✨ Cam’s dating community for men:⁠https://highvibe.mn.co/landing/plans/1507080 ✨ Our free daily gratitude community to embrace “feel good” emotions:⁠ https://highvibe.mn.co/landing/plans/1505242 ✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations (and newsletter sign up): www.theboardwalks.com More from us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms:⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/listenbeforelove⁠ ✨ Listen Before Love youtube:⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ElleBeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Elle’s twitter:⁠ ⁠https://x.com/ellebeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s twitter:⁠ ⁠https://x.com/thecameronhogan⁠⁠⁠⁠ Who are these people? 👀⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100⁠ ⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called⁠ ⁠Great Morning⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, hosts a⁠ ⁠weekly walk⁠⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (135 so far), hosts a daily⁠ gratitude call⁠⁠ alongside Cam (140 so far), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads 4 communities – for women in love, deep talk lovers, and spiritual seekers. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with⁠ ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠.💌 CHAPTERS0:00 Welcome Back & Elle Got A DM  2:39 Context (Cam Looked Like A Red Flag)  9:54 Elle Reads The DM  19:24 Cam Reacts to The DM  30:46 The Gap Between Online and Offline Self  39:24 Elle Responds to Concerns  46:50 Why We Build Businesses Together  51:34 Scarcity and Abundance Dance  56:24 What Do You Do When Someone Expresses Concerns?  1:00:24 Exciting News!

Cam and Elle explore boundaries.We kick off with a story about how Elle got triggered by a “competition wound” after someone on the walk implemented strategies she freely gave, and how Cam responded to her anger – and brought it up later. This story is filled with real talk that high-achieving people may find some lightbulb moments in. 👀We talk about how to communicate boundaries in a healthy way (with a sample script), why *not* communicating boundaries causes you to suffer in silence until you get fed up, how truth telling may catapult someone into growth... and more! These tips extend to love, business, and friendship.Fun news: We're each launching communities for men and women to provide a lifeline to hope and good relationship advice. (Who knows, we may even matchmake some folks!) This is open to both single and taken friends, because we never stop dating our lover. We kick off soon; sign ups found in the links below.Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we may even feature your question or situation in an upcoming episode. 👀Our communities:✨ Elle’s dating community for women:⁠ ⁠https://stan.store/ellebeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s dating community for men:⁠ ⁠https://stan.store/thecameronhogan⁠⁠ ✨ Our free daily gratitude community to embrace “feel good” emotions:⁠ ⁠https://www.theboardwalks.com/great-morning⁠⁠ ✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations (and newsletter sign up): www.theboardwalks.com More from us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms: ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/listenbeforelove⁠ ✨ Listen Before Love youtube:⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ElleBeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Elle’s twitter:⁠ ⁠https://x.com/ellebeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s twitter:⁠ ⁠https://x.com/thecameronhogan⁠⁠⁠⁠ Who are these people? 👀⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100⁠ ⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called⁠ ⁠Great Morning⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, hosts a⁠ ⁠weekly walk⁠⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (131 so far), hosts a daily⁠ gratitude call⁠⁠ alongside Cam (120 so far), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads 4 communities – for women in love, deep talk lovers, and spiritual seekers. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with⁠ ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠.💌 CHAPTERS0:00 Welcome Back & A Story of When Elle’s Competition Wound Got Triggered4:58 How Cam Reacted to the Trigger16:00 Cam Confronts Elle At Breakfast25:40 Feeling Your (Disowned) Anger Fully37:28 Boundaries & Energy Management43:40 What To Say To a Friend Who’s Struggling50:45 Dealing With Negative Clients52:40 Why Speaking Boundaries Will Kickstart Someone’s Growth59:10 How This Ties Into Business, Love, Friendship1:03:10 Boundaries Are Preferences

Cam and Elle explore epic first dates.This is the third episode in our dating series — if you haven’t listened to the last 2 weeks (Episode 20 and 21), go ahead and do that first! These episodes are designed to give you the confidence to get back out there. We cover dating app strategy, how to stand out and secure a date, and now… how to knock it out of the park while you’re there LIVE!Fun news: We're each launching communities for men and women to provide a lifeline to hope and good relationship advice. (Who knows, we may even matchmake some folks!) This is open to both single and taken friends, because we never stop dating our lover. We kick off soon; sign ups found in the links below.Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we may even feature your question or situation in an upcoming episode. 👀Our communities:✨ Elle’s dating community for women:⁠ ⁠https://stan.store/ellebeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s dating community for men:⁠ ⁠https://stan.store/thecameronhogan⁠⁠ ✨ Our free daily gratitude community to embrace “feel good” emotions:⁠ ⁠https://www.theboardwalks.com/great-morning⁠⁠ ✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations:www.theboardwalks.com More from us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms: ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/listenbeforelove⁠ ✨ Listen Before Love youtube:⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ElleBeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Elle’s twitter:⁠ ⁠https://x.com/ellebeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s twitter:⁠ ⁠https://x.com/thecameronhogan⁠⁠⁠⁠ Who are these people? 👀⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100⁠ ⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called⁠ ⁠Great Morning⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, hosts a⁠ ⁠weekly walk⁠⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (131 so far), hosts a daily⁠ gratitude call⁠⁠ alongside Cam (120 so far), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads 4 communities – for women in love, deep talk lovers, and spiritual seekers. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with⁠ ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠.💌CHAPTERS0:00 Welcome Back & Let’s Talk About First Dates  1:13 First Date Planning  5:16  5 Day Rule & Getting Them Off The App  9:45  Should Women Make The First Move?  13:03 Intro to Polarity  22:09 How Limiting Beliefs Are Driving Us  25:49 Mock First Date  35:25 First Date Tips  38:41 Don’t Date If…  43:53 Catch This Love

Cam and Elle discuss what happens AFTER you match.This is the second episode in our dating series – if you haven’t listened to last week (Episode 20), go ahead and do that first!In this episode, we give you unconventional tips that made us very successful on the apps: voice notes, selfie videos, mentioning small details on their profile (or roasting when they give 0 info), and quick Facetime dates before meeting in person. I’ve never heard relationship coaches give these tips, but trust us on this one: authenticity saves time because people can FEEL you faster. Honestly, a lot of this advice can help you stand out in every area of life.Fun news: We're each launching communities for men and women to provide a lifeline to hope and good relationship advice. (Who knows, we may even matchmake some folks!) This is open to both single and taken friends, because we never stop dating our lover. We kick off soon; sign ups found in the links below.Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we may even feature your question or situation in an upcoming episode. 👀Our communities:✨ Elle’s dating community for women:⁠ ⁠https://stan.store/ellebeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s dating community for men:⁠ ⁠https://stan.store/thecameronhogan⁠⁠ ✨ Our free daily gratitude community to embrace “feel good” emotions:⁠ ⁠https://www.theboardwalks.com/great-morning⁠⁠ ✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations: www.theboardwalks.com More from us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms: ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/listenbeforelove⁠ ✨ Listen Before Love youtube:⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ElleBeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Elle’s twitter:⁠ ⁠https://x.com/ellebeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s twitter:⁠ ⁠https://x.com/thecameronhogan⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ Who are these people? 👀⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100⁠ ⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called⁠ ⁠Great Morning⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, hosts a⁠ ⁠weekly walk⁠⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (131 so far), hosts a daily⁠ gratitude call⁠⁠ alongside Cam (120 so far), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads 4 communities – for women in love, deep talk lovers, and spiritual seekers. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with⁠ ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠.💌 CHAPTERS00:00 Welcome Back & Let's Talk Messaging on Apps 1:37 Ask A Question & Chase The Chuckle 4:19 Strategy #1: The Art of Selfie Videos 7:52 Don't Get Stuck Texting 11:43 Authenticity Condenses Time 21:01 Strategy #2: Voice Notes 23:37 Create Story Moments 28:57 Strategy #3: Facetime Date 33:37 Don't Get Over-Give Your Time

Cam and Elle discuss The Apps.We know they might seem hopeless and there’s some folks out there who just re-downloaded Hinge for the 16th time… 👀So in this episode, we talk all about how to set yourself up for success on dating apps. We give tactical advice for photos, prompts, how to avoid icks, and some perspective-shifting advice that strikes at the heart of why a lot of fantastic women are having a hard time finding love.Fun news: We're each launching communities for men and women to provide a lifeline to hope and good relationship advice. (Who knows, we may even matchmake some folks!) This is open to both single and taken friends, because we never stop dating our lover. We kick off soon; sign ups found in the links below.Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we may even feature your question or situation in an upcoming episode. 👀Our communities:✨ Elle’s dating & relationship community for women:⁠ ⁠https://stan.store/ellebeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s community for men:⁠ ⁠https://stan.store/thecameronhogan⁠⁠ ✨ Our free daily gratitude community to embrace “feel good” emotions:⁠ ⁠https://www.theboardwalks.com/great-morning⁠⁠ ✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations: www.theboardwalks.com More from us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms: ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/listenbeforelove⁠ ✨ Listen Before Love youtube:⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ElleBeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Elle’s twitter:⁠ ⁠https://x.com/ellebeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s twitter:⁠ ⁠https://x.com/thecameronhogan⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ Who are these people? 👀⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100⁠ ⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called⁠ ⁠Great Morning⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, hosts a⁠ ⁠weekly walk⁠⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (131 so far), hosts a daily⁠ gratitude call⁠⁠ alongside Cam (120 so far), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads 4 communities – for women in love, deep talk lovers, and service-driven leaders. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with⁠ ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠.💌 CHAPTERS00:00 [Trailer] “The Biggest Ick…”1:20 Welcome Back & Let’s Talk About Dating2:50 Before You Get Dating Apps…12:30 Using Dating Apps14:09 No Catfishing or Filters, Please20:30 Profile Advice for Men30:00 Profile Advice for Women39:11 One Misstep Single Women Are Making46:44 2 Things To Make Dating Better50:55 Profile Reviews?!

Cam and Elle discuss fights.Are they a good sign? Are they necessary? How do we fight well? 👀We go particularly hard about the role of growth vs fixed mindsets in romance… because The Growth Gap has ended many couples, usually years down the line.Fun news: We're each launching communities for men and women to provide a lifeline to hope and good relationship advice. (Who knows, we may even matchmake some folks!) This is open to both single and taken friends, because we never stop dating our lover. We kick off in January 2025; sign ups found in the links below.Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we may even feature your question or situation in an upcoming Q&A episode. 👀Our communities:✨ Elle’s dating community for women:⁠ ⁠https://stan.store/ellebeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s dating community for men:⁠ ⁠https://stan.store/thecameronhogan⁠⁠ ✨ Our free daily gratitude community to embrace “feel good” emotions:⁠ ⁠https://www.theboardwalks.com/great-morning⁠⁠ ✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations: www.theboardwalks.com More from us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms: ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/listenbeforelove⁠ ✨ Listen Before Love youtube:⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ElleBeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Elle’s twitter:⁠ ⁠https://x.com/ellebeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s twitter:⁠ ⁠https://x.com/thecameronhogan⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ Who are these people? 👀⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100⁠ ⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called⁠ ⁠Great Morning⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, hosts a⁠ ⁠weekly walk⁠⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (130 so far), hosts a daily⁠ gratitude call⁠⁠ alongside Cam (115 so far), and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle leads 4 communities – for women in love, deep talk lovers, and spiritual seekers. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with⁠ ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠.💌 CHAPTERS00:00 Welcome Back & Let’s Talk About Fighting02:18 Elle and Cam Hear A Fight07:09 Our Relationship & Analyzing The Fight11:51 Is Fighting Necessary?13:09 Why Don’t We Fight?18:27 Don’t Settle, Fight Less21:47 Healthy Tension vs Incompatibility25:59 Growth Mindset29:47 Ways to Tell If Someone Is Growth Minded34:42 The Growth Gap38:57 Examples From Our Relationship46:29 Tell The Truth49:53 The Magic Bullet54:00 New Goodies For You

Cam and Elle discuss how hustle bros think women are a distraction.The tea is piping hot on this one. 👀We discuss what’s going on under the hood of “distracting” relationships, how to identify your fuel source in all areas, 2 easy steps to change your life… and more.Fun news: We're each launching communities for men and women to provide a lifeline to hope and good relationship advice. (Who knows, we may even matchmake some folks!) This is open to both single and taken friends, because we never stop dating our lover. We kick off in January 2025; sign ups found in the links below. Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we love hearing what resonated with you and may even feature your question or situation in an upcoming Q&A episode. 👀Our communities:✨ Elle’s dating community for women:⁠ ⁠https://stan.store/ellebeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s dating community for men:⁠ ⁠https://stan.store/thecameronhogan⁠⁠ ✨ Our free daily gratitude community to embrace “feel good” emotions:⁠ ⁠https://www.theboardwalks.com/great-morning⁠⁠ ✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations: www.theboardwalks.com More from us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms: ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/listenbeforelove⁠ ✨ Listen Before Love youtube:⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ElleBeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Elle’s twitter:⁠ ⁠https://x.com/ellebeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s twitter:⁠ ⁠https://x.com/thecameronhogan⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ Who are these people? 👀⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100⁠ ⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called⁠ ⁠Great Morning⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, hosts a⁠ ⁠weekly walk⁠⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (129 so far), hosts a daily⁠ gratitude call⁠⁠ alongside Cam (110 so far), leads a positive dating community for women, and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with⁠ ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠.💌 CHAPTERS00:00 Welcome Back & This Topic Is For Hustle Bros03:30 Are Women The Problem?06:16 Short-Term Thinking Is A Trap11:41 The Right Person Accelerates You14:56 What Is Your Fuel Source… And Is It Serving You?23:43 What Is Level 1 to Change Your Mind?30:12 What Is Level 2?35:26 How Do You Tell The Truth?42:19 You’re Here For A Reason45:35 Thank You & Join Us For Community Love!

Cam and Elle discuss the wild world of exes… because Elle got a few texts. 👀Should we talk to exes? Why do they circle back? Would you give closure if asked?We dive into these questions, the piping hot tea of recent reach outs, and watch Cam have a coming-to-Jesus moment where he realizes that he was projecting some of his trust issues onto Elle. HOW JUICY!Fun news: We're each launching positive dating communities to provide a lifeline to hope and good advice on your journey to love. (Who knows, we may even matchmake some folks!) This is open to both single and taken friends, because we never stop dating our lover. We kick off in January 2025; sign ups found in the links below.Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we love hearing what resonated with you and may even feature your question or situation in an upcoming Q&A episode. 👀Our communities:✨ Elle’s dating community for women:⁠ ⁠https://stan.store/ellebeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s dating community for men:⁠ ⁠https://stan.store/thecameronhogan⁠⁠ ✨ Our free daily gratitude community to embrace “feel good” emotions:⁠ ⁠https://www.theboardwalks.com/great-morning⁠⁠ ✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations: www.theboardwalks.com More from us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms: ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/listenbeforelove⁠ ✨ Listen Before Love youtube:⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ElleBeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Elle’s twitter:⁠ ⁠https://x.com/ellebeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s twitter:⁠ ⁠https://x.com/thecameronhogan⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ Who are these people? 👀⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100⁠ ⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called⁠ ⁠Great Morning⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, hosts a⁠ ⁠weekly walk⁠⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (127 so far), drinks Diet Coke, hosts a daily⁠ gratitude call⁠⁠ alongside Cam (100 so far), leads a positive dating community for women, and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with⁠ ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠.💌 CHAPTERS0:00 Welcome Back & Let’s Talk About Exes3:33 How Does Elle Feel About Cam Doing This?6:53 Would You Give Closure If They Asked?9:53 Why Exes Circle Back15:19 Cam’s Ex Reaches Out17:43 Elle Didn’t Realize That People Don’t Realize The Door Is Closed22:51 Elle Gets A Text28:03 Indirectness = Ick30:47 Why Do Men Reach Out To Exes?34:46 Being Real About Cam’s Ex44:07 Let’s Clarify Intentions49:48 Cam’s Message For Guys In The DMs52:13 Announcements & Please Support Us!

Cam and Elle discuss when people share too much, too soon.This conversation is inspired by David and Michelle, who were married as total strangers on the current season of Married At First Sight. Right after they were married at the altar, David shared that he smoked cigarettes and lived in his parents’ basement, and Michelle caught a MAJOR ick and ran to the bathroom to cry.We’ve seen this same thing happen on A LOT of first dates, where well-meaning people dump their past trauma or insecurities on their date out of anxiety… and they get ghosted on loop.If you’ve ever thought “I’m going to put it all out there on the first date, they can take it or leave it” or “I don’t want to invest time in someone only for them to leave when they find out XYZ about me”... give this episode a listen.And... BIG NEWS! We're each launching positive dating communities for men and women to provide a lifeline to faith and good advice on your journey to love. (Who knows, we may even matchmake some folks!) We kick off in January 2025; sign ups found in the links below.Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we love hearing what resonated with you and may even feature your question or situation in an upcoming Q&A episode. 👀Our communities:✨ Elle’s dating community for women:⁠ ⁠https://stan.store/ellebeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s dating community for men:⁠ ⁠https://stan.store/thecameronhogan⁠⁠ ✨ Our free daily gratitude community to embrace “feel good” emotions:⁠ ⁠https://www.theboardwalks.com/great-morning⁠⁠ ✨ Weekly walks for meaningful conversations: www.theboardwalks.com More from us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms: ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/listenbeforelove⁠ ✨ Listen Before Love youtube:⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ElleBeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Elle’s twitter:⁠ ⁠https://x.com/ellebeecher⁠⁠ ✨ Cam’s twitter:⁠ ⁠https://x.com/thecameronhogan⁠⁠ ⁠⁠ Who are these people? 👀⁠⁠Cameron Hogan⁠⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100⁠ ⁠newsletters⁠⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called⁠ ⁠Great Morning⁠⁠.⁠⁠Elle Beecher⁠⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠⁠writes⁠⁠ every day, hosts a⁠ ⁠weekly walk⁠⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (127 so far), drinks Diet Coke, hosts a daily⁠ gratitude call⁠⁠ alongside Cam (100 so far), leads a positive dating community for women, and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with⁠ ⁠The Board Walks⁠⁠.💌 CHAPTERS00:00 Welcome Back & Let’s Talk Dating Shows01:14 ‘Married At First Sight’ & Why We Love It02:49 Story of David & Michelle From Season 1807:29 Make Deposits Before Withdrawals12:09 Bum Energy17:49 How Do You Suss Out Bum Energy?23:19 People Can Smell When Words Don’t Match Actions29:03 Pretend Your Man Is Mute32:44 How Do We Overcome Bum Energy?36:39 Our Communities for Goddesses and Kings40:12 Outro & Thanks For Supporting Us

Cam and Elle discuss “The One.”We share 2 stories from The Board Walks here in Austin, a weekly 5-mile walk for meaningful conversations that Elle has hosted 126 times.We discuss a fun visualization to check whether you're choosing from love or scarcity, 2 big things to keep top of mind, the soulmate checklist (and the FEELING!), a challenge for our single friends... and so much more.And... BIG NEWS! We're each launching positive dating communities for men and women to provide a lifeline to faith and good advice while you're on the quest to find your person. Who knows, we may even matchmake some folks. We kick off in January 2025; sign ups found in the links below.Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we love hearing what resonated with you and may even feature your question or situation in an upcoming Q&A episode. 👀Connect with us:✨ Join Elle’s dating community for women: ⁠https://stan.store/ellebeecher⁠ ✨ Join Cam’s dating community for men: ⁠https://stan.store/thecameronhogan⁠ ✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/listenbeforelove ✨ Listen Before Love youtube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ElleBeecher⁠ ✨ Elle’s twitter: ⁠https://x.com/ellebeecher⁠ ✨ Cam’s twitter: ⁠https://x.com/thecameronhogan⁠ ✨ Join our daily gratitude call to embrace “feel good” emotions: ⁠https://www.theboardwalks.com/great-morning⁠ Who are these people? 👀⁠Cameron Hogan⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 ⁠newsletters⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called ⁠Great Morning⁠.⁠Elle Beecher⁠ helps people build confidence, attract love, and find soul-nourishing community. Elle ⁠writes⁠ every day, hosts a ⁠weekly walk⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (126 so far), drinks Diet Coke, hosts a daily gratitude call⁠ alongside Cam (97 so far), leads a positive dating community for women, and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with ⁠The Board Walks⁠.CHAPTERS: 00:00 [Trailer] “It Comes Down to 2 Things…”1:16 Welcome Back & Trying Something New2:20 A Story From Walk #125 in Austin5:25 Cam’s Visualization for “The One”8:10 If You’re Asking This Question…11:10 Story #2 From The Board Walks in Austin18:00 We Cling to “Explanations” to Avoid the Pain19:25 2 Things to Ask Yourself22:45 Scarcity Mindset Checker28:10 How Did Cam Know Elle Was The One?32:00 The Checklist + The Feeling36:15 Did We Sacrifice Anything?39:00 How Do They Make You Feel?42:13 Our Hype Speech44:50 Our Challenge For Our Single Friends47:00 BIG Announcement!52:20 How You Can Help Us

Cam and Elle dive deep into something that transformed our approach to relationships: celibate dating.We know this might sound old-school, but this is not about restriction (or religion of any kind) - it's about creating space to truly know someone's heart and mind without physical intimacy clouding your judgment. When you remove that element, you start noticing things you might have missed before: their energy, their values, how they handle stress, whether they truly respect your boundaries.We found that celibate dating helped us:- Focus on emotional connection first- Avoid the oxytocin "love" bond that sometimes makes us overlook red flags- Develop stronger communication skills- Really understand what we want in a partner and if the person we were dating had these qualitiesAnd on top of that... after we made that commitment to ourselves, we met each other in a yoga studio! Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we love hearing what resonated with you and may even feature your question or situation in an upcoming Q&A episode. 👀Connect with us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/listenbeforelove ✨ Listen Before Love youtube: ⁠youtube.com/@ellebeecher✨ Elle’s twitter: ⁠https://x.com/ellebeecher⁠ ✨ Cam’s twitter: ⁠https://x.com/thecameronhogan⁠ ✨ Connect with Elle: ⁠https://stan.store/ellebeecher⁠ ✨ Connect with Cam: ⁠https://stan.store/thecameronhogan⁠ ✨ Join our daily gratitude call to embrace “feel good” emotions: ⁠⁠https://www.theboardwalks.com/great-morningWho are these people? 👀⁠Cameron Hogan⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 ⁠newsletters⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men, plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called ⁠Great Morning⁠. ⁠Elle Beecher⁠ helps people build confidence and attract love. Elle coaches amazing people, ⁠writes⁠ every day, hosts a ⁠weekly walk⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (125 so far), drinks Diet Coke, hosts a daily ⁠gratitude call⁠ alongside Cam (90 so far), speaks at fun conferences, and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with ⁠The Board Walks⁠.⁠ CHAPTERS:0:00 Welcome Back & Where This Topic Came From1:38 Why Did Cam Celibate Date?9:38 Cam's Lowest Point & "I'm Ready For My Wife"14:03 A Curveball After Cam and Elle Met20:58 Signing A Contract With The Universe23:13 Casual Sex Is A Myth26:38 Dating For Love vs Dating For Pleasure28:38 Making Your Soulmate Checklist33:02 Delusion Checker35:38 Clarifying The Signal37:28 Thank You & Please Support Us!38:36 Outro & More From Us

Cam and Elle explore how to feel GOOD spending time around family.If you’re short on time and struggle with wanting to “change” certain relatives, start at 42:11 and really soak in what we’re sharing. ❤️This episode is filled with bangers, targeted advice for ambitious overthinkers who like to look smart, and funny stories about how Cam navigated time with my vegan parents as a carnivore. We also discuss how to navigate politics with family, why wanting to “win” arguments will make you lose in the long run, the best ways to ace meeting the parents, why we shouldn’t put anyone on a pedestal… and so much more. Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we love hearing what resonated with you and may even feature your question or situation in an upcoming Q&A episode. 👀Connect with us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/listenbeforelove ✨ Listen Before Love youtube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ElleBeecher⁠ ✨ Elle’s twitter: ⁠https://x.com/ellebeecher⁠ ✨ Cam’s twitter: ⁠https://x.com/thecameronhogan⁠ ✨ Connect with Elle: ⁠https://stan.store/ellebeecher⁠ ✨ Connect with Cam: ⁠https://stan.store/thecameronhogan⁠ ✨ Join our daily gratitude call to embrace “feel good” emotions: ⁠https://www.theboardwalks.com/great-morning⁠ Who are these people? 👀⁠Cameron Hogan⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 ⁠newsletters⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men (November retreat ⁠here⁠), plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called ⁠Great Morning⁠.⁠Elle Beecher⁠ helps people build confidence and attract love. Elle coaches amazing people, ⁠writes⁠ every day, hosts a ⁠weekly walk⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (123 so far), drinks Diet Coke, hosts a daily ⁠gratitude call⁠ alongside Cam (80 so far), speaks at fun conferences, and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with ⁠The Board Walks⁠.CHAPTERS: 0:00 Welcome Back & Thanksgiving Joy0:36 Let’s Kick Off With Gratitudes (Join Us Every Day!)3:36 Elle’s Gratitudes6:24 Pause And Say Gratitudes, Baby6:50 Meeting The Parents: You Choose Whether It’s Scary Or Not9:44 “What Was Your Life Like At My Age?”12:16 Cam’s Advice After Meeting 12 Families15:59 Elle’s Advice For People Who Like To Look Smart19:52 Don’t Put The Parents On A Pedestal22:38 How To Become a King or Queen24:52 When We Feel The Need To Change Ourselves27:29 How Cam Dealt With Politics and Veganism31:16 Stop Trying to Convince People34:36 You Win By Not Trying to Win Fights37:47 Tactical Advice On How to Bring Good Vibes42:11 If You Want to Change Someone…54:47 How We Navigated Politics With Elle’s Family59:22 How to Honor Your Desires in Conversations1:02:16 Send Us Questions1:03:24 Leave a Rating/Review If You Like Us

Cam and Elle gained some “happy weight.” Now what?This episode is a roadmap for navigating sensitive topics that may make your loved one feel insecure… inspired by our real life, because we’ve been indulging in pizza and ice cream since Elle quit her job!We enjoyed every meal that got us here, we have no shame, and weight gain is perfectly fine. ❤️We roleplay 3 situations – like when your partner gains weight or goes out to the club a lot – and how to explore the root of these behaviors from a place of curiosity, rather than shame or judgement. We also discuss what makes sensitive topics so difficult, how releasing shame around weight helps you get healthier faster, how excessive behavior is filling an emotional need, why you should center your own changed actions when making a request to your partner… and so much more. Note: Stay tuned for the glow up over the next few months, because we’re going to get healthy while loving our bodies at every single stage. No shame necessary, baby! ❤️Thank you for listening. Feel free to DM us, we love hearing what resonated with you and may even feature your question or situation in an upcoming Q&A episode. 👀Connect with us:✨ Listen on Spotify, Apple, & all platforms: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/listenbeforelove ✨ Listen Before Love youtube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@ElleBeecher⁠ ✨ Elle’s twitter: ⁠https://x.com/ellebeecher⁠ ✨ Cam’s twitter: ⁠https://x.com/thecameronhogan⁠ ✨ Connect with Elle: ⁠https://stan.store/ellebeecher⁠ ✨ Connect with Cam: ⁠https://stan.store/thecameronhogan⁠ ✨ Join our daily gratitude call to embrace “feel good” emotions: ⁠https://www.theboardwalks.com/great-morning⁠ Who are these people? 👀⁠Cameron Hogan⁠ is an intuitive healer who’s coached dozens of high-performers to shed their limiting beliefs and awaken. Cameron also writes (he published 100 ⁠newsletters⁠ in 100 days!), hosts men’s circles and retreats for men (November retreat ⁠here⁠), plays NBA2K, speaks at conferences, and hosts a daily gratitude call alongside Elle called ⁠Great Morning⁠.⁠Elle Beecher⁠ helps people build confidence and attract love. Elle coaches amazing people, ⁠writes⁠ every day, hosts a ⁠weekly walk⁠ for meaningful conversations in Austin (123 so far), drinks Diet Coke, hosts a daily ⁠gratitude call⁠ alongside Cam (80 so far), speaks at fun conferences, and consults companies on culture and community building. Elle worked at Meta for 7 years and was named Forbes 30 Under 30 for her work with ⁠The Board Walks⁠.CHAPTERS: 0:00 Welcome Back & Let’s Talk About Weight0:45 Elle’s Weight Journey3:16 Weight Gain Is Perfectly Fine4:22 Why Is Weight Such A Sensitive Topic?8:47 Roleplay #1: How Elle Confronted Cam About Her Own Weight Gain14:01 Release Shame Around Food16:46 We Have Control Over Sensitive Topics18:12 How to Meet Your Partner’s Insecurities With Love20:18 What Happens When You Avoid These Topics21:56 How Do You Bring Up Sensitive Topics?24:11 Roleplay #2: How to Bring Up Weight Gain27:50 Roleplay #3: Going to the Club Too Much34:40 We’re Searching For Freedom37:12 Put Yourself Into Your Request39:56 Ask Yourself: What Can I Do To Create My Dream Relationship?42:28 How to Self-Regulate Before Bringing It Up45:42 Outro & Cam Looks Like Handsome Squidward47:56 Let’s Do A Q&A Episode?!