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They're charming to leadership, devastating to their team, and almost impossible to catch. In this episode, Tam Callaghan sits down with workplace expert Tanya Hallett to talk about narcissistic bullies at work: what they actually are, why organisations keep missing them, and what to do if you're dealing with one.  Tanya breaks down the key difference between a standard workplace bully and a narcissistic one, why the second category is in a completely different league, and how the DAVO pattern (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim Order) leaves targets confused, doubting themselves, and unable to articulate what just happened. She also covers what gaslighting actually looks like on the ground, why documentation matters more than you think, and what your real options are if you're in the middle of this.  This is one of the most practically useful episodes on workplace harm the show has done. Whether you're a leader trying to understand what's happening in your team, or someone trying to survive a difficult situation, this conversation gives you real tools.  In this episode:  The difference between a bully and a narcissistic bully, and why it matters  The trail of destruction: what happens to teams when one arrives  Why narcissistic bullies are so hard for leaders to spot  DAVO explained: deny, attack, reverse victim order  How gaslighting erodes confidence and psychological safety  What leaders should actually be watching for  Thinking like a lawyer: how to build your evidence  Practical self-protection: documentation, written follow-ups, limiting verbal contact  Your options as a target: cope, escalate, or exit  The real cost to organisations that ignore this  Do Yourself a Favour is available on YouTube: https://linktr.ee/doyourselfafavour_podcast  Join the conversation! Do Yourself a Favour is on Facebook LinkedIn: https//www.linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan/  Do Yourself a Favour is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio  Formerly known as the 50/50 Podcast.  ———————  Chapters  0:00 Intro  0:09 What People Mean by 'Narcissistic Bully'  1:06 Trail of Destruction: Team Impact  3:14 Core Traits: Fragile Ego, Charisma, Managing Up  5:34 Why Leaders Miss Narcissistic Bullies (Red Flags)  6:42 DAVO: Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim Order Explained  9:11 Gaslighting Effects: Confidence & Psychological Safety  11:01 What Leaders Should Watch For (Patterns & Evidence)  15:33 Think Like a Lawyer: Building Your Evidence  19:21 Documentation: How to Record Incidents Safely  20:57 Limit Verbal Contact & Use Written Follow-ups  24:08 Maintain Professionalism — Don't Stoop Down  26:40 Compassion as a Coping Tool (Perspective)  29:00 The 'Ick' Factor: Confusion After Interactions  31:26 Manager Responses & Possible Outcomes  33:58 Options for Targets: Cope, Escalate, or Exit  36:28 Cost to Organisations & Leadership Accountability  39:34 Closing Remarks & Thanks  ———————  #NarcissisticBully #TanyaHallett #TamCallaghan #DoYourselfAFavour #WorkplaceBullying #PsychologicalSafety #Gaslighting #WorkplaceWellbeing #DAVO #Leadership #HRPodcast #WorkplaceCulture #Narcissism #SelfProtection #PodcastAustralia 

Do you want to be Bette or Barbara? If you know the movie Beaches, you know the question. Bette Midler's character is the star, the one in the spotlight. Barbara Hershey's is quieter, less visible, deeply loving and deeply loved. In this episode, Tam Callaghan has been wrestling with which one she wants to be, and the answer surprised her.  For most of her life Tam's ego has measured her worth through achievement, recognition and applause. But after reading a post about kindness and sitting with what she's contributed over the last 20 or 30 years, she had a genuinely softening realisation: she's been far more Barbara than she ever gave herself credit for.  This episode also covers the backup singer dream, the difference between creating from ego and creating from joy, and why peace and self-love aren't distractions from the mission. They are the mission. Plus, a practical exercise worth doing – Writing a list of 50 things you've done well since the start of the year, split across what you've achieved and what you've done for others.  Warm, honest, and one of Tam's most personal episodes yet.  In this episode:  The Bette vs Barbara question and what it revealed  Why the kindness we show others often goes uncounted in our own minds  Ego achievement vs genuine contribution: measuring life differently  The backup singer dream and what it says about wanting just enough attention  Separating worthiness from what you create  Why self-love is the mission, not a distraction from it  The list of 50 things and how to do it  Do Yourself a Favour is available on YouTube: https://linktr.ee/doyourselfafavour_podcast  Join the conversation! Do Yourself a Favour is on Facebook LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan/  Do Yourself a Favour is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio  Formerly known as the 50/50 Podcast.  ———————  Chapters  0:00 Intro — Beaches reference and audience demographics  0:51 Wrestling with Bette vs Barbara  1:45 Being performer vs supporter — personal history  3:33 The impact of kindness and being 'Barbara'  6:28 Reflection on ego, achievement, and worthiness  9:16 Distinguishing creation from ego-driven success  11:14 Personal dreams and perspective — backup singer story  12:27 Desire for self-recognition and impact  13:50 Self-care as the mission — peace and self-love  14:41 Practical exercise — list of 50 things and closing  ———————  #TamCallaghan #DoYourselfAFavour #Beaches #BetteOrBarbara #SelfLove #Ego #PersonalGrowth #Kindness #Authenticity #SelfCompassion #InnerWork #Worthiness #PodcastAustralia #MindsetShift #BeTheWindBeneathYourOwnWings

Authenticity gets thrown around constantly in workplaces, but what does it actually mean to bring your real self to work without oversharing, burning bridges, or pretending the bottom line doesn't exist? Tam Callaghan sits down with celebrity chef, LinkedIn writer and longtime friend Alvin Quah to dig into one of the most overused and underexplored ideas in modern work culture.  Alvin brings a perspective that's hard to find: someone who has lived and led in corporate environments, left them, and can now speak with honesty about what psychological safety, authenticity and values alignment actually feel like from the inside. Together, he and Tam cover what it costs when people can't be themselves at work, why a great boss can make a broken company survivable, and why soft skills are foundational, not optional extras.  The conversation also gets into culture, generational difference, introverts in the workplace, hiring for team fit, and what it looks like when trust and friendship exist in a professional setting.  Warm, thoughtful, and the kind of conversation that makes you reconsider a few things.  In this episode:  What authenticity actually means, and what it doesn't  Filters, code-switching and the layers people wear at work  Why psychological safety often lives or dies with one person: your boss  Edited authenticity: being real without being raw  Generations, culture and making space for introverts  How Alvin thinks about hiring and constructive conflict  Why soft skills are the most foundational skills of all  Values, leadership and being genuinely valuable at work  Do Yourself a Favour is available on YouTube: https://linktr.ee/doyourselfafavour_podcast  Join the conversation! Do Yourself a Favour is on Facebook  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan  Do Yourself a Favour is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio  Formerly known as the 50/50 Podcast.  ———————  Chapters  0:00 Intro — Do Yourself a Favour (Bed Edition)  0:06 Setting the Scene — First On-the-Bed Episode  0:33 Guest Introduction — Alvin Quah  0:57 What We Mean by Authenticity  1:31 Authenticity vs. Corporate Masks  2:03 Filters, Code-Switching & Workplace Layers  6:00 Psychological Safety & Leadership Umbrellas  8:16 Authenticity Isn't Rawness — Edited Authenticity  10:02 Love, Boundaries & Managing Difficult Conversations  12:01 Generations, Culture & The Power of Introverts  17:03 Hiring, Team Fit & Constructive Conflict  22:21 Trust, Friendship at Work & Psychological Safety  24:04 Soft Skills Aren't Soft — Foundational Skills  46:43 Being Valuable — Values at Work and Leadership  1:12:20 Closing Thoughts — Vulnerability, Hope & Wrap-up  ———————  #AlvinQuah #TamCallaghan #DoYourselfAFavour #Authenticity #PsychologicalSafety #WorkplaceCulture #Leadership #SoftSkills #CodeSwitching #TrustAtWork #ValuesAtWork #WorkplaceWellbeing #PodcastAustralia #LinkedInCreator #BringYourselfToWork 

What do you do when there's no plan, no clear path, and no idea if what you're doing is heading anywhere? In this episode, Tam Callaghan gets honest about the extended period of unknowing she's been living through and what she's learning from it. This one covers the ego structures we build to protect ourselves from disappointment, what happens when those structures fall away, and why the mission she thought she was on turned out to be something else entirely. Tam talks about the difference between chasing external validation and actually finding peace in yourself, why self-love isn't selfish, and what it looks like to just keep taking the next step that feels right without knowing where it leads. It also includes one of her favourite Hugh Laurie quotes, which is worth the listen on its own. Raw, personal, and genuinely useful for anyone sitting with uncertainty right now. In this episode: The ego structure of 'one day I'll be famous' and what happened when it collapsed Why external recognition will never be enough, and what to do instead The bridge of cringe: walking into the fog and staying in motion Why self-love is the foundation, not the reward Choosing a context that works for you rather than against you Doing the next right thing when there's no plan Hugh Laurie on readiness, and why now is as good a time as any Do Yourself a Favour is available on YouTube: https://linktr.ee/doyourselfafavour_podcast Join the conversation! Do Yourself a Favour is on Facebook LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan/ Do Yourself a Favour is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio Formerly known as the 50/50 Podcast. ——————— Chapters 0:00 Terrifying freedom of not knowing 0:10 Privilege and perspective 0:36 Ego: 'One day I'll be famous' 1:43 Facing uncertainty about worth 2:01 Transition, freedom and experimentation 2:26 Faith and trust challenged 2:44 Mission: peace and self-love 4:06 Doing the next right thing 4:37 Walking into the fog — the bridge of cringe 4:58 Breakthroughs, joy and presence 6:00 Choosing a helpful context 7:20 Self-love as the foundation for giving 11:00 Take steps before you're ready; now is as good as any ——————— #TamCallaghan #DoYourselfAFavour #NotKnowing #SelfLove #Uncertainty #PersonalGrowth #Authenticity #InnerWork #ExternalValidation #TrustTheProcess #Ego #Mindset #PodcastAustralia #HughLaurie #BridgeOfCringe

Tam Callaghan sits down with her friend and accredited dietitian Jess Burvill, the person behind the wildly useful Instagram page Daily Serve Nutrition, to talk about how a career in advertising, a mid-life study pivot, and a clear no-judgment voice turned into one of Australia's fastest-growing nutrition accounts.  Jess came to dietetics as a second career after years in advertising agencies, and it turns out those two worlds have more in common than you'd think. They cover how she applies advertising principles to nutrition content, why simple and useful always wins, what the growth from zero to 171,000 followers in 18 months actually looked like from the inside, and how she handles the less glamorous parts, including trolls, , From the supermarket job that helped shape her thesis focus, and what it takes to study full-time through COVID while working, to her current reality of success, opportunity and truly hard work.  Warm, honest, and a lot of fun.  In this episode:  How advertising skills translate directly into social media content  Why Daily Serve of Nutrition grew so fast and what Jess actually did differently  The IDC posts and why the no-judgment approach resonates  Studying dietetics part-time, then through COVID, while working  The supermarket job that sparked her research direction  Dealing with trolls and imposter syndrome at scale  Brand partnerships, workload, and where it all might go next  Follow Jess: https://www.instagram.com/dailyservenutrition/  Do Yourself a Favour is available on YouTube: https://linktr.ee/doyourselfafavour_podcast  Join the conversation! Do Yourself a Favour is on Facebook  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan  Do Yourself a Favour is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio  Formerly known as the 50/50 Podcast.  ———————  Chapters  0:00 Intro & Welcome  0:07 Meeting Jess Burvill  0:22 Daily Serve Nutrition — Instagram Praise  1:03 No-nonsense approach & ‘DNC’' posts  1:53 Follower milestone: 171,000 & rapid growth  3:01 Career shift: Advertising to Dietetics  5:01 Advertising skills carried into social content  11:01 Studying, COVID & juggling work  15:00 Supermarket jobs & thesis inspiration  20:03 Dean's Scholar research project  27:00 Content strategy: design, voice & no-judgment  33:00 Challenges: trolls, imposter syndrome & balance  40:00 Workload, brand partnerships & future options  46:00 Reflection on mission, impact & celebrating wins  53:00 Closing, birthday plans & sign off  ———————  #JessBurvill #DailyServeNutrition #TamCallaghan #DoYourselfAFavour #Dietitian #NutritionPodcast #InstagramGrowth #SecondCareer #NoBSNutrition #SocialMediaStrategy #ContentCreator #WomensHealth #PodcastAustralia #HealthyEating #ImposterSyndrome 

Tasha Broomhall from Blooming Minds returns to share the findings from her PhD research into how workers and leaders are experiencing Australia's psychosocial safety regulations, and the results are eye-opening.  Leaders across organisations, including very senior ones in large companies, are either unaware of their obligations or aware but left with no clear pathway to meet them. Many are DIYing it on their own time, which creates its own risks. Mid-level managers in particular are being handed responsibility without the agency, resources, or support to actually deliver it, and Tasha's research found they are burning out as a result.  Tasha and Tam cover what a genuine systems approach looks like versus a tick-box one, who should actually own psychosocial safety within an organisation, how to facilitate real cross-level dialogue, the silence problem around vulnerable workers, and some practical things leaders can do right now without waiting for organisational change.  Honest, rigorous, and genuinely important for anyone who manages people or influences how workplaces are designed.  In this episode:  What Tasha's PhD research set out to find and what it revealed  Why leaders are DIYing psychosocial safety and why that's a problem  Who should own this, and why handing it to safety or HR alone doesn't work  Building a cross-functional reference group that actually functions  The mid-level manager squeeze: responsibility without authority  Why vulnerable workers often can't report, and what organisations miss because of it  NDAs, exit processes, and the ethical concerns Tasha raises  Practical steps: the 10-minute check-in, device habits, and consultation pathway  https://www.facebook.com/share/v/1C8EfBw7yP/   https://www.instagram.com/upspiral.life?igsh=MjN6eHZkY3Y1Z3po   'Drink the Poison' Quote Info -    https://fakebuddhaquotes.com/holding-onto-anger-is-like-drinking-poison/   Do Yourself a Favour is available on YouTube: https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast  Join the conversation! Do Yourself a Favour is on Facebook  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan  Do Yourself a Favour is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio  Formerly known as the 50/50 Podcast.  ———————  Chapters  0:00 Intro & Guest Introduction  0:35 Episode Purpose & Webinar Reflections  2:31 PhD Research Focus: Psychosocial Safety  4:24 Study Method & Key Findings Overview  5:41 Leaders' Uncertainty and DIY Responses  7:28 Theories Used: Systems Thinking & SDT  9:53 Who Owns Psychosocial Safety?  11:07 Building a Cross-Functional Reference Group  13:30 Facilitating Safe Cross-Level Dialogue (example)  22:06 Mid-Level Managers: Burden, Burnout & Boundaries  28:24 Psychosocial Silence: Reporting & Vulnerable Workers  33:54 NDAs, Exit Processes & Ethical Concerns  39:19 Regulatory Duty, SDT & Simple Leadership Tips  40:48 Practical Moves: 10-Minute Check-Ins & Device Habits  45:59 Team-Level Ownership & Consultation Pathways  58:48 Closing: Make Work Better — Vision & Next Steps  ———————  #PsychosocialSafety #TashaBroomhall #TamCallaghan #DoYourselfAFavour #WorkplaceWellbeing #Leadership #MidLevelManagers #WorkplaceCulture #HRPodcast #PsychologicalSafety #WorkHealthAndSafety #SystemsThinking #ManagerBurnout #PodcastAustralia #MakeWorkBetter 

T Tasha Broomhall from Blooming Minds returns to share the findings from her PhD research into how workers and leaders are experiencing Australia's psychosocial safety regulations, and the results are eye-opening.  Leaders across organisations, including very senior ones in large companies, are either unaware of their obligations or aware but left with no clear pathway to meet them. Many are DIYing it on their own time, which creates its own risks. Mid-level managers in particular are being handed responsibility without the agency, resources, or support to actually deliver it, and Tasha's research found they are burning out as a result.  Tasha and Tam cover what a genuine systems approach looks like versus a tick-box one, who should actually own psychosocial safety within an organisation, how to facilitate real cross-level dialogue, the silence problem around vulnerable workers, and some practical things leaders can do right now without waiting for organisational change.  Honest, rigorous, and genuinely important for anyone who manages people or influences how workplaces are designed.  In this episode:  What Tasha's PhD research set out to find and what it revealed  Why leaders are DIYing psychosocial safety and why that's a problem  Who should own this, and why handing it to safety or HR alone doesn't work  Building a cross-functional reference group that actually functions  The mid-level manager squeeze: responsibility without authority  Why vulnerable workers often can't report, and what organisations miss because of it  NDAs, exit processes, and the ethical concerns Tasha raises  Practical steps: the 10-minute check-in, device habits, and consultation pathway  Do Yourself a Favour is available on YouTube: https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast  Join the conversation! Do Yourself a Favour is on Facebook  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan  Do Yourself a Favour is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio  Formerly known as the 50/50 Podcast.  ———————  Chapters  0:00 Intro & Guest Introduction  0:35 Episode Purpose & Webinar Reflections  2:31 PhD Research Focus: Psychosocial Safety  4:24 Study Method & Key Findings Overview  5:41 Leaders' Uncertainty and DIY Responses  7:28 Theories Used: Systems Thinking & SDT  9:53 Who Owns Psychosocial Safety?  11:07 Building a Cross-Functional Reference Group  13:30 Facilitating Safe Cross-Level Dialogue (example)  22:06 Mid-Level Managers: Burden, Burnout & Boundaries  28:24 Psychosocial Silence: Reporting & Vulnerable Workers  33:54 NDAs, Exit Processes & Ethical Concerns  39:19 Regulatory Duty, SDT & Simple Leadership Tips  40:48 Practical Moves: 10-Minute Check-Ins & Device Habits  45:59 Team-Level Ownership & Consultation Pathways  58:48 Closing: Make Work Better — Vision & Next Steps  ———————  #PsychosocialSafety #TashaBroomhall #TamCallaghan #DoYourselfAFavour #WorkplaceWellbeing #Leadership #MidLevelManagers #WorkplaceCulture #HRPodcast #PsychologicalSafety #WorkHealthAndSafety #SystemsThinking #ManagerBurnout #PodcastAustralia #MakeWorkBetter 

What if the parts of yourself you most want to get rid of are actually trying to help you? In this episode, Tam Callaghan explores parts therapy and why resisting any part of yourself, whether it's striving, jealousy, impatience, or anxiety, makes it louder, not quieter.  Drawing on her own experience with her striving part, and a conversation with a friend battling impatience, Tam makes a case for welcoming all parts of yourself rather than fighting them. It's the same principle as the previous episode on emotions, applied to the deeper, more persistent forces that drive how we behave.  She shares the experts and resources that have helped her most, and sets herself some homework alongside you.  A good companion episode to What You Resist Persists, but works as a standalone too.  Kim Holland - https://trulybe.au/ Usha Raman - https://usharaman.com.au/ Lachie Samuel - https://www.lachiesamuel.com/   Peter Crone - https://www.petercrone.com/   Mike Fields - https://jmikefields.com/   What is "Parts" Therapy? - https://integrativepsych.co/new-blog/what-is-parts-work-therapy-ifs#:~:text=Parts%20work%20is%20a%20type%20of%20therapy,versions%20of%20managers%20that%20act%20more%20impulsively   In this episode:  What parts therapy is and how it differs from working with emotions  Why rejecting a part of yourself just makes it fight harder  Tam's striving part and what it was actually trying to do  The jealousy example and why she couldn't be with it  Reframing impatience as a strength, not a flaw  Recommended experts including Usha Rahman, Peter Crone, Lockie Samuel and J Mike Fields  Homework: practice arriving as you are     Do Yourself a Favour is available on YouTube: https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast  Join the conversation! Do Yourself a Favour is on Facebook  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan  Do Yourself a Favour is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio  Formerly known as the 50/50 Podcast.   #AllOfYouIsWelcome #TamCallaghan #DoYourselfAFavour #PartsTherapy #InternalFamilySystems #IFS #SelfCompassion #PersonalGrowth #Striving #PeoplePleasing #Impatience #SelfAcceptance #Mindset #PodcastAustralia #MentalWellness 

Tam Callaghan sits down with author, meditation teacher and former Zen monk Stephan Bodian to talk about his new book Infinite Awakening, a guide to non-dual wisdom for people walking what he calls the pathless path, those who have found their way to awakening outside of monasteries, ashrams, or formal traditions. Stephen has spent decades as a psychotherapist and teacher at his School of Awakening, and this conversation draws on all of it. They cover why spiritual bypassing is so common and so hard to spot, the difference between awakening light and the real work, and what it actually means to rest and allow rather than push and achieve. Tam shares how Stephen's welcoming emotions meditation and the four Rs (remember, recognise, return, rest) have already changed her daily experience, and Stephen walks through his 'is anything missing?' inquiry live in the conversation. One of the most grounded and genuinely useful conversations on meditation and awareness you'll find anywhere. In this episode: How Infinite Awakening came to be and who it's for The pathless path and why it's valid without a monastery behind it What spiritual bypassing actually looks like in practice Why awakened people can still be angry, and what that really means The four Rs and how to use them throughout the day The 'is anything missing?' meditation, explained and experienced How to share this kind of practice without coming across as an evangelist What the School of Awakening offers and how it works   Infinite Awakening by Stephen Bodian:-https://infinite-awakening.org/ His series on Waking Up - https://dynamic.wakingup.com/pack/PDC04C?source=content%20share&share_id=1DEF4C54&code=SCF32EE09   His discussions with  Sam - https://dynamic.wakingup.com/pack/PKB5F28?source=content%20share&share_id=9D7E18CC&code=SCF32EE09   His interview with Sam Harris - This track called The Direct Path got me thinking. I thought you might like it, too. https://dynamic.wakingup.com/course/C4407A?source=content%20share&share_id=AB3D2ABD&code=SCF32EE09   Do Yourself a Favour is available on YouTube: https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! Do Yourself a Favour is on Facebook LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan Do Yourself a Favour is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio Formerly known as the 50/50 Podcast. #StephenBodian #InfiniteAwakening #TamCallaghan #DoYourselfAFavour #NonDual #Meditation #Awakening #SpiritualBypassing #MindfulnessPodcast #PathlessPath #SchoolOfAwakening #WakingUp #Consciousness #PersonalGrowth #PodcastAustralia

What you resist persists. It's one of those lines that's easy to nod at and genuinely hard to live. In this episode, Tam Callaghan gets into why avoiding painful emotions doesn't make them go away, and what it actually looks like to stop fighting what's there.  Drawing on Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, her own experience with 4 a.m. fear spirals before training sessions, the work of Eckhart Tolle, and Rumi's Guesthouse poem, Tam walks through what shifted for her and how you can start applying the same ideas without having to overhaul your whole inner world overnight.  She also shares the practical resources that have made the biggest difference, including Stephen Bodian's Welcoming Emotions meditation and a free month with the Waking Up app.  Honest, personal, and genuinely useful.  This track called Welcoming Emotions got me thinking. I thought you might like it, too. https://dynamic.wakingup.com/course/C0C545?source=content%20share&share_id=E9A776F8&code=SCF32EE09   I've been using Waking Up and really enjoying it. I wanted to offer you 30 days free! No credit card required. https://dynamic.wakingup.com/guestpass/SCF32EE09   Rumi Guest House https://grateful.org/resource/guest-house-rumi/   In this episode:  Why trying to push painful feelings away makes them worse  The downward spiral of self-critique and how to get off it  ACT and what acceptance actually means in practice  The 4 a.m. breakthrough that changed things for Tam  Eckhart Tolle's 'accept, then act' and why it works  Rumi's Guesthouse poem as a way of living     Do Yourself a Favour is available on YouTube: https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast  Join the conversation! Do Yourself a Favour is on Facebook  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan  Do Yourself a Favour is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio  Formerly known as the 50/50 Podcast.    #WhatYouResistPersists #TamCallaghan #DoYourselfAFavour #AcceptanceAndCommitmentTherapy #ACT #EckhartTolle #Rumi #MindsetShift #EmotionalHealth #Meditation #AnxietyTips #SelfCompassion #PersonalGrowth #WakingUp #PodcastAustralia 

What happens when a difficult situation at work gets avoided, passed around, or quietly buried? Tam Callaghan sits down with executive coach, mediator and author Tammy Tansley to talk about one of the most common and costly patterns in workplaces: the failure to address problems early.  Tammy has spent decades being called in after things have already gone wrong. In this conversation, she and Tam get into why delay makes everything harder, what psychosocial safety actually looks like in practice, and why some of the people causing the most damage in organisations genuinely don't know they're doing it.  They also cover neurodiversity and misinterpretation, the gap between workplace rhetoric and reality, what good early intervention looks like, and two practical rules that can make a real difference even if a full culture change feels out of reach.  Honest, experienced, and genuinely useful for anyone who manages people or works in an organisation.    In this episode:  Why wrapping a difficult employee in a bow and passing them on never works  The real cost of heartless leadership  Psychosocial safety vs. the bottom line  Long-term trauma from unaddressed workplace problems  Why the 24-48 hour rule changes everything  Tiny steps that actually move things forward    Do Yourself a Favour is available on YouTube: https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast   Join the conversation! Do Yourself a Favour is on Facebook LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan   Do Yourself a Favour is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio  Formerly known as the 50/50 Podcast.    #WorkplaceWellbeing #TammyTansley #TamCallaghan #DoYourselfAFavour #PsychosocialSafety #Leadership #WorkplaceProblems #ManagerSupport #Neurodiversity #EarlyIntervention #WorkplaceCulture #ExecutiveCoaching #HRPodcast #PodcastAustralia #DoWhatYouSayYoullDo 

Are you actually successful, or are you just measuring yourself against a standard someone else handed you? In this episode, Tam Callaghan gets into one of the most loaded words in the Western world and asks the question most of us are quietly afraid to sit with.  Tam introduces Barbara, the name she's given to her ego, that grasping, never-satisfied inner voice that worries about how things look and whether she's keeping up. Drawing on her own experiences living in Peru, returning to one of Perth's wealthiest suburbs, and eventually leaving a high-powered Sydney career for a $2,000 Ford Laser, she makes a case for choosing heart success over grasping success.  Funny, honest, and genuinely thought-provoking.  Healing From Self-Abandonment In this episode:  Why advertising is designed to make you feel like you're lacking  What living in Peru taught Tam about how much of our stress is environmental  Status anxiety, social media, and the Sydney chapter  What success actually looks like to Tam at 52  The Dalai Lama story that sums it all up perfectly  Do Yourself a Favour is available on YouTube: https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast  Join the conversation! Do Yourself a Favour is on Facebook  LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan  Do Yourself a Favour is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio  Formerly known as the 50/50 Podcast.  #SuccessMindset #TamCallaghan #DoYourselfAFavour #RedefiningSuccess #PersonalGrowth #StatusAnxiety #LifeCoaching #Authenticity #EgoVsHeart #SelfDevelopment #SocialMediaPressure #BeautyStandards #PodcastAustralia #MindsetShift #ChooseYourself 

In this episode Helen and Betty continue the conversation about end‑of‑life doulas: how they train, what the role actually looks like, and why continuity of care matters. They share deeply human stories of vigils, home deaths, palliative care, and supporting families through active dying and bereavement.  The hosts also discuss practical details — training pathways, costs and funding, volunteer and paid options — plus the emotional skills that make this work transformative. (Note: there’s a friendly dog cameo and a brief camera battery hiccup on the YouTube video.)    Catherine Mannix - Ted talk 'What happens as we die?' https://youtu.be/CZDDByT0Vr0?si=MHx7vOqlyCYrFnzq    Natural Grace - https://naturalgrace.com.au/warrnambool/funeral-notices/    VAD link to state law - https://www.healthdirect.gov.au/voluntary-assisted-dying    Blog from Preparing the Way - https://preparingtheway.com.au/what-the-gift-of-after-death-care-can-look-like/    Cert IV End of life doula services - government subsidy in NSW    50/50 is available on YouTube  https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast   Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook  And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan  50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio 

What would change in your life if hearing "no" didn't scare you? In this episode, host Tam Callaghan shares one of the most powerful mindset tools she's picked up in nearly two decades of coaching, and gets refreshingly honest about the moment she realised she hadn't fully been living it herself.  Tam revisits advice given to her by her Curtin University lecturer and renowned Perth therapist Peter Slocombe: just be okay with the no. Don't be attached to the outcome. It sounds simple, but the freedom it creates for you and for the other person is profound.  Whether you're in sales, pitching ideas to your boss, asking someone on a date, or just trying to get through life without needing everyone's approval, this episode will hit home. Tam explores the difference between being committed to an outcome and being attached to it, why anxiety makes us focus on ourselves instead of others, and why being okay with no actually makes people far more likely to say yes.  She also opens up about a recent realisation: she'd mastered the small no's but had been completely avoiding the big ones, especially when it came to needing people to like her. Raw, funny, and genuinely useful.  In this episode:  The advice that changed Tam's coaching career 17 years ago  What "committed but not attached" actually means in practice  Why we're all in sales, whether we like it or not  The connection between people pleasing and fear of rejection  Tam's honest confession about where she still struggles  #BeingOkayWithNo #TamCallaghan #ICUPodcast #LifeCoaching #MindsetShift #PersonalGrowth #PeoplePleasing #SelfAwareness #CommittedNotAttached #AnxietyTips #SelfDevelopment #Boundaries #Coaching #PodcastAustralia #Perth  50/50 is available on YouTube  https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast   Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook  And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan  50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio 

Helen Callanan, founder of Preparing the Way, explains the role of end‑of‑life doulas and why she frames the work around living with illness rather than dying from it. She discusses non‑medical support that restores choice, capacity and control, the importance of collaboration with palliative and medical teams, and practical options like vigils, home care, and funeral choices.  Through personal stories and training insights, Helen outlines the certification for doulas, the growing public health need for end‑of‑life support, and emerging ideas like workplace doulas — all aimed at giving people and families compassionate, informed care at life’s end.  Links -  https://preparingtheway.com.au/what-is-an-end-of-life-doula/  https://preparingtheway.com.au/5-end-of-life-myth/  https://preparingtheway.com.au/    50/50 is available on YouTube  https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast   Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook  And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan  50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio 

Exciting new direction for the podcast: this episode introduces the concept of Ask vs Guess culture—how some people ask directly while others prefer hints—and why those differences create confusion and upset. Through real examples and personal stories, the host explains both perspectives and offers simple strategies to flex toward the other style so relationships at home, work and beyond can communicate with more empathy and less friction. Source: Medium "Navigating ‘Ask’ and ‘Guess’ Cultures in a modern world"   Source: Mamamia "I was raised in a "guess family" then married into an "ask family". It blew my mind."   Source: Reddit Ask vs Guess Culture   50/50 is available on YouTube  https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast   Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook  And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan  50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio 

Tamara visits her longtime friend Alvin Quah in his Sydney apartment for a warm, candid conversation about career change, creativity and identity. They discuss Alvin’s journey from the pharmaceutical world and MasterChef to writing, public speaking and embracing redundancy as a turning point.  They also touch on migration, diversity and inclusion, the power of storytelling and how Alvin uses cooking and humour to make serious topics accessible — plus practical ways people can reach him to talk about work, reinvention or speaker engagements.  Alvin as a speaker -  https://www.claxtonspeakers.com.au/speakers_profile/2335  https://www.saxton.com.au/speakers/alvin-quah  50/50 is available on YouTube  https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast   Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook  And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan  50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio 

Tam reflects on a transformative 2025: finding self-worth, challenging painful beliefs, and learning from a silent retreat.  She outlines 2026 plans: adding her name to the podcast, changing co-host roles, moving into private coaching (ICU), and bringing clearer, more intentional episodes.  Expect honest updates, fewer polished moments, continued guest conversations, and new ways to engage, rest, and grow together.    Silent retreat mention: New Year Reflections and Retreat Discoveries | Ep #29 | Friday 50/50   50/50 is available on YouTube  https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast   Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook  And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan  50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio 

Jonah Primo joins the podcast to discuss his work with Sam Harris and the Waking Up app, his journey overcoming chronic pain through mindfulness, and his podcast The Overexamined Life. He also talks about music, creativity, gratitude, and choosing an expansive way of living. Throughout the episode Jonah reflects on practical meditation tools, the benefits of presence and gratitude, the challenges and joys of a creative career, and thoughtful perspectives on parenting and meaning. Connect with Jonah Primo Website http://jonahprimo.com/ Instagram https://www.instagram.com/jonahprimo/ YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@TheOverexaminedLife   Other Podcast’s referenced during the episode; https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/my-complete-chronic-pain-recovery/id1771620846?i=1000673795161 https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/how-this-man-overcame-chronic-pain-and-illness-with/id1569234557?i=1000710363773 50/50 is available on YouTube: https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

This Christmas edition of Friday 50/50 wraps up the year with festive stories, holiday plans and reflections on December’s pressures and pleasures. Tam and Danielle thank the guests Tam has interviewed, celebrate podcast milestones, and share personal anecdotes about parties, family and downtime. The episode also touches on mental health, reaching out for support during the holidays, and gratitude for the production team and listeners. It’s a warm, conversational send-off before a short Christmas break. 50/50 is available on YouTube https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

Tam and Danielle catch up on life changes: a glowing makeup masterclass, plans for a Mediterranean cruise to see the solar eclipse, and moving into a new home. Tam also announces a personal coaching project called “ICU (I See You)” with creative pricing ideas and on-call options. The episode covers Tam’s recent ADHD diagnosis and early experiences with medication, reflections on embracing impermanence at an upcoming retreat, and thoughts about taking time off, shifting from external validation to inner purpose, and upcoming podcast guests. 50/50 is available on YouTube https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

In this episode Tam and Danielle explore a private discovery of human design — Tam learning she’s a projector and a 3-5 profile who learns by trial and error and is seen as a problem-solver. That insight sparks a shift from frantic striving to a calmer practice of responding to opportunities. We also hear a breakthrough moment on stage with children’s improv, a hospital/appendix experience that highlights gratitude, and reflections on luck, compassion and what success really means. 50/50 is available on YouTube https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

Coach Usha Raman shares stories from her travels (including a serene tea ceremony at Koyasan) and practical ways busy people can anchor calm through meditation and simple daily rituals. She explains core coaching tools—anchoring, NLP, timeline therapy, language and identity work—and how small, sustainable changes bring lasting balance. Usha also outlines two upcoming events: a March retreat at Premalaya and a May NLP practitioner training. Connect with Usha: https://nexustraininggroup.com https://usha.club/NLP/ https://usha.club/retreats/ 50/50 is available on YouTube: https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

Tam and Danielle chat candidly about aging with pride, resilience and the funny realities of medical mishaps, sharing stories about family, reinvention and the idea of "big bloomers"—women who grow more vibrant with time. They also dive into the writing life: a whirlwind 70,000-word draft, publisher meetings, and the emotional work of releasing the need for external validation, culminating in a small personal breakthrough around jealousy and self-worth. 50/50 is available on YouTube: https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

Andy Cooke, Tam’s husband and business partner joins Tam to share his personal experience being diagnosed with attention-deficit disorder, the doubts and resistance around medication, and how a low dose of dexamphetamine changed his ability to act. They explore time blindness, shame, the tension between therapy and medication, and practical strategies—like tiny daily habits and “input not output”—that helped turn intention into action. 50/50 is available on YouTube: https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

Tam and guest Friday 50/50 host, Andy Cooke, engage in a candid, humorous conversation about authenticity, vulnerability, and the fear of putting yourself out as an expert. They touch on Elizabeth Gilbert, parasocial relationships, public speaking, preparation versus improvisation, and how personal growth comes from honest storytelling. 50/50 is available on YouTube: https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

Tam speaks to leadership-minded teenagers and shares funny behind-the-scenes moments from a quiz, DISC profile and Q&A with students. She describes coaching breakthroughs that led to daily walks, a values revelation about expression and a renewed, scared-but-curious pull toward public speaking, while juggling a tight book deadline and planning live events. The episode also explores managing the ‘monkey mind’—using acceptance, morning affirmations and practical tools to reduce resistance and keep creating. 50/50 is available on YouTube: https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

In this episode the hosts honour poet Andrea Gibson by reading "Love Letter from the Afterlife" and reflect on grief, death awareness, and how those experiences can bring comfort. They share personal stories about loss and the ways memory and presence shape how we live. The conversation shifts to acceptance commitment therapy and practical emotional work—learning to name fear beneath jealousy, welcome difficult feelings, and use practices like Rumi's "Guest House" to live more fully and compassionately. Correction: In this episode, we incorrectly used she/her pronouns when referring to Andrea Gibson. Andrea used they/them pronouns. We apologize for this error and are committed to using correct pronouns going forward. 50/50 is available on YouTube https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

Carlii Lyon joins Tamara to discuss her journey from PR and representing major figures to building a brand rooted in wellness, authenticity, and purpose. She shares lessons on courage, intentional authenticity, making space for serendipity, and balancing motherhood with career reinvention. They explore practical steps for becoming more visible, the importance of body-mind awareness, and why human connection and heart-led leadership matter in an AI-driven world. The episode highlights Carlii’s upcoming book, Courage to Be, and how small steps can lead to big life changes. Connect with Carlii: https://www.carliilyon.com.au/ 50/50 is available on YouTube: https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

In this episode Tam shares a deeply personal week of breakthroughs: confronting jealousy, using meditation to turn fear into genuine joy for a friend's success, and reconnecting through honest gratitude. She reflects on parenting, vulnerability, and the power of viewing setbacks as "progress steps" rather than mistakes. Tam also talks about practical wins — finishing book chapters, booking pitch slots at a fiction festival, and brainstorming a live podcast event — while celebrating her wedding anniversary and small daily joys. The episode mixes candid storytelling with concrete takeaways about releasing resistance and leaning into emotional honesty. Link referenced in this episode: Alain De Bottom www.theschooloflife.com  50/50 is available on YouTube https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

Part 2 continues a candid conversation with Martin Dougiamas and Usha Raman, about relationships, marriage and moving from Singapore to Australia, exploring how background shapes gratitude and life choices. Tam and Usha discuss practices like daily gratitude, loving-kindness meditation, and the power of attention to deepen connection and wellbeing. They also discuss psychometric insights for leadership and team dynamics and practical coaching experiences. Tam, Usha and Martin examine how social media and short-form content affect focus, parenting challenges for the younger generation, and why human connection remains essential amid AI advances. Practical reflections on leadership, team dynamics and staying present offer listeners ideas for personal growth and stronger workplace connection. Connect with Usha: https://nexustraininggroup.com Connect with Martin: https://dougiamas.com/ 50/50 is available on YouTube: https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

Join us on Tam's 50-50 podcast as we dive into an inspiring conversation with Martin Dougiamas, founder of Moodle and head of research, and his wife Usha Raman, a life coach specialising in mindfulness and emotional intelligence. In part one of this two part interview, Martin shares his journey from creating the globally acclaimed educational platform Moodle to exploring the future of AI in education, and how his path was fuelled by passion and problem-solving. Meanwhile, Usha offers insights into her background and how her life experiences complement Martin's technological pursuits. Together, they reflect on their unique blend of interests and the synergy of being a couple with different but intersecting passions. Discover how they approach the future of AI, the importance of community in learning, and their commitment to fostering a sustainable and equitable world. Connect with Usha: https://nexustraininggroup.com Connect with Martin: https://dougiamas.com/ 50/50 is available on YouTube https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

In this episode, we dive into the theme of impatience and the struggle to find peace in the unknown. Inspired by Carlii Lyon's reflections on impatience and progress, we explore how judgments of movement can differ from reality and the importance of trusting the timing of life events. Join us as we discuss the challenges of authentic expression, overcoming resistance, and the courage needed to walk a path that isn't yet visible. We also share insights from conversations with Lachie, focusing on the journey of being true to oneself, even when confronted with the pressure to perform and conform. As we navigate through the complexities of personal growth and professional challenges, we reflect on the power of authenticity and the necessity of being brave in pursuit of a fulfilled life. 50/50 is available on YouTube https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio  

Join us in this engaging conversation with Michelle Cowan, the head of AFLW at West Coast Eagles. In this episode, Michelle shares her inspiring journey from being a sports-loving kid in Cambelda to leading one of the most dynamic teams in AFLW. Hear about her passion for coaching, the evolution of women's football, and the impactful moments that shaped her leadership style. Michelle also dives into the importance of authenticity, mental health, and creating a supportive environment, both on and off the track. This episode is filled with insights on leadership, football, and staying true to oneself. Don't miss this chance to learn from one of the most authentic voices in sports leadership today. 50/50 is available on YouTube https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

In this insightful episode, we delve into the nuances of defining personal success and the journey of self-discovery. The conversation kicks off with reflections on past career choices, discussing the highs and lows and the importance of aligning ambition with genuine passion. We explore the challenges of overcoming internal pressure and the significance of choosing the right path, or 'hill,' to climb. A touching story of a young aspiring filmmaker highlights the pure passion that drives true success, contrasting it with societal pressures and expectations. The episode concludes with a profound exploration of forgiveness and gratitude, emphasising how these powerful tools can lead to inner peace and resolve long-standing conflicts. References: Shawn Achor, TED Talk, The Happy Secret to Better Work: https://www.ted.com/talks/shawn_achor_the_happy_secret_to_better_work 50/50 is available on YouTube https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio:https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio  

This episode dives deep into the transformative journey of personal growth and self-discovery. Through engaging conversations, the hosts explore the power of silent retreats and personal revelations, discussing how these experiences shape one's decisions and actions moving forward. Listeners will hear about the importance of continuous learning and evolving, as well as the challenges and rewards that come with facing one's own patterns and habits. The hosts share personal anecdotes and insights into navigating life's uncertainties with courage, faith, and open communication in relationships. Join us as we explore the journey of living a more conscious and fulfilling life, embracing change, and understanding the balance between personal satisfaction and making a positive impact on the world. 50/50 is available on YouTube: https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

In this episode, join us as we navigate through life's unexpected pauses and rediscover the beauty of nature during a scenic road trip to Shark Bay. The discussion begins with an amusing account of shared colds and illnesses, underlining the irony of flu shots and infections. On a brighter note, we delve into the excitement of travel and new adventures, as we plan and embark on a trip, appreciating the scenic detours and embracing unexpected travel mishaps. This episode paints a vivid picture of personal growth, introspection, and the power of self-love, all experienced during our drive through nature and while moving house. Listen in for heartfelt conversations about the challenges and joys of moving home, dealing with renovations, and experiencing the emotional revelations inspired by coaching sessions. Discover how embracing vulnerability and accepting personal truths can lead to growth and happiness, sprinkled with a touch of humour and relatable storytelling. 50/50 is available on YouTube https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

Join us as we celebrate our one-year anniversary and the release of our 40th episode! As we reminisce on a year filled with incredible guests and transformative moments, we also reflect on personal growth and the power of vulnerability, drawing inspiration from experiences of self-discovery and emotional courage. Don't miss out on this fun, heartwarming episode as we look back on an amazing year and look forward to many more exciting podcast adventures. 50/50 is available on YouTube: https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

Join Tam as she welcomes Rebecca Hannan, a workplace mental health and wellbeing strategist, on the 50-50 podcast. In this episode, Rebecca shares her passion for helping organisations implement effective mental health strategies, ensuring a safe and supportive environment for employees. Discover the whirlwind of Rebecca's recent achievements, including her online psychology degree, and gain insight into her dedicated work in suicide prevention. Explore Rebecca's personal and professional journey, marked by both challenges and triumphs. From growing up in the Kimberley to addressing mental health in prisons, Rebecca's story is one of resilience and transformation. She candidly discusses the impact of her own family experiences on her mission to create better workplace environments. This episode is a testament to the power of empathy, understanding, and human connection in the realm of mental health advocacy. Connect with Rebecca: https://www.rebeccahannan.com/ 50/50 is available on YouTube: https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

Dive into this engaging episode where Tam and Danielle reflect on a year filled with adventures, personal growth, and unforgettable moments. Tam talks about her trip to Bali, the unexpected hurdles faced, and the warmth of lifelong connections made along the way. Discover the wisdom gained from new experiences, such as participating in personal development initiatives and expanding horizons with inspiring individuals. The episode also highlights humorous anecdotes and heartwarming exchanges that underscore the value of friendship and shared laughter. Join us as we celebrate milestones, embrace change, and explore the transformative journey of self-discovery, all peppered with reflections on life’s unpredictable yet enriching path.  50/50 is available on YouTube: https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

Join us in this delightful episode as we explore the beauty of finding passion in daily routines, from the joy of visiting a beloved hair salon to the heartfelt support of a trusted Bali driver. We delve into a big book decision, wrestling with vulnerability and discipline in the world of fiction writing, and share the amusing and heartwarming adventures of planning a Bali getaway. Laugh along as we recount the playful challenges of togetherness and marital negotiations in a household move, emphasising the importance of listening and understanding. Shed light on the profound ways social media comments reflect societal behaviours and explore the nuances of encouraging kindness over visceral reactions. Embrace the journey of personal growth, whether through healing conversations or spontaneous creative pursuits, punctuated by engaging discussions with partners, friends, and podcast listeners. 50/50 is available on YouTube https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

Join us in this episode as we delve into the complexities of new beginnings, whether it be moving into a dream home or embarking on a path of personal healing. Our hosts share their experiences with physical exhaustion, spiritual renewal, and the dynamics of relationships during times of transition. Discover how healing sessions, such as those conducted by Lachie Samuel Mariu in the last episode of 5050 with Tam, are believed to connect to spiritual renewals that leave many feeling both tired and at peace. Amidst these discussions, we take a light-hearted turn into the adventures of finding the perfect house and the challenges that come with navigating relationship dynamics during significant life changes. We explore the notion of approaching old and new spaces while balancing personal desires with the views of loved ones, all whilst dealing with the everyday exhaustion of modern life. Listen to incredible insights from a recent healing session that provided a transformative experience, leaving our host rejuvenated and with a fresh perspective on life. This episode is a heartfelt mix of personal anecdotes, humour, and valuable life lessons on finding peace and joy amidst the hustle and bustle of daily living. Check out Welcoming Emotions, from the Waking Up app: https://dynamic.wakingup.com/course/C0C545?source=content%20share&share_id=6CEFB2D1&code=SCF32EE09 50/50 is available on YouTube https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

Join us in this captivating episode where Lachie Samuel Mariu, formerly known as the FIFO mental health advocate, shares his profound journey of transformation. After enduring a significant health challenge, Lachie's perspective on life, success, and personal growth has shifted dramatically. He opens up about his past struggles, emotional healing, and the unexpected stroke that became a pivotal turning point. Delve into the raw and honest conversation as Lachie discusses the importance of emotional health, the power of vulnerability, and his new path of helping others navigate their emotional journeys. This episode offers a unique insight into Lachie's world, shedding light on personal redemption, resilience, and embracing a life true to one's heart. Connect with Lachie: linkedin.com/in/lachiesamuel Instagram: @lachiesamuel   50/50 is available on YouTube https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

In this episode, we dive into the intricate web of political commentary and personal opinions, exploring the multifaceted nature of conversations around contentious topics. As Tam and Danielle engage in an open dialogue, they uncover the challenges and opportunities that arise when navigating differing perspectives in today's polarised world. From discussing the impact of psychedelics on mental health to reflecting on the dynamics of political discourse, the episode encourages listeners to consider the importance of empathy, understanding, and respectful communication. Through personal anecdotes and thoughtful insights, the conversation sheds light on the importance of finding common ground while addressing the complexities of belief systems and societal norms. 50/50 is available on YouTube https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

Kath Snell, CEO of Shelter WA, joins Tam for a candid conversation about her journey from Wales to Perth, sharing insights into her career in the non-profit sector. As they discuss the current housing crisis, Kath sheds light on the challenges and solutions being explored in Western Australia. From her personal experiences as a celebrant to her professional role in advocating for community housing, this episode delves into the complexities of social change and the importance of optimism and resilience in leadership. Tune in for an enlightening discussion on making a positive impact and the power of community engagement. Connect with Kath: linkedin.com/in/kath-snell-2b1a6133 Shelter WA: https://www.shelterwa.org.au/   50/50 is available on YouTube: https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan   50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

In this episode, Tam sits down with Tanya Hallett, a seasoned teacher and trainer with over two decades of experience, both domestically and internationally. Specialising in trauma-informed practice, Tanya is dedicated to advocating for positive mental health in organisations. She shares her unique journey, from teaching teens to facilitating mental health first aid and Lego Serious Play. Join us as we explore the critical role of emotional intelligence in leadership and the challenges of supporting mental health in the workforce. Tanya offers invaluable insights into the complexities of working with Gen Z and the necessity of creating psychologically safe environments. Our discussion delves into practical strategies for leaders to support employees dealing with trauma, grief, and mental health challenges. Tune in for an enlightening conversation that could transform your approach to workplace well-being. Connect with Tanya: https://tipt.com.au/ LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/tanya-hallett   50/50 is available on YouTube https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

In this episode, we journey from a cheerful reunion to new insights. Tam and Danielle discuss recording remotely, highlighting fashion finds, and the joys of dating younger men. They share insights about overcoming anxiety and nurturing joy, inspired by profound teachings and personal experiences. Listeners are invited to join the dialogue about balancing the frantic pace of modern life with inner peace, all conveyed through authentic stories and universal wisdom. This episode promises a blend of laughter, warmth, and enlightenment, reminding us of the importance of embracing our true selves amidst the everyday chaos. Books Tam is reading: Steve Biddulph’s WILD CREATURE MIND https://www.wildcreaturemind.com/ Martha Beck’s BEYOND ANXIETY https://marthabeck.com/beyond-anxiety/ Book Tam wants to read: Iain McGilchrist’s MASTER AND HIS EMISSARY, https://channelmcgilchrist.com/master-and-his-emissary/ Martin Shaw’s COURTING THE WILD TWIN https://www.thenile.com.au/books/martin-shaw/courting-the-wild-twin/  WEIRD acronym stands for Western, Educated, Industrialized, Rich, and Democratic. It's used in psychology to describe a lack of diversity in research samples.  (The term was coined in 2010 by Joseph Henrich and colleagues.)  David Whyte Poem, The Edge You Carry With You: https://www.facebook.com/plugins/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FPoetDavidWhyte%2Fposts%2F1216167053208478&show_text=true&width=500   50/50 is available on YouTube https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

In this episode, we delve into the inspiring journey of Bernadette McKinlay, a multifaceted performer who has lived a life full of change and passion. Born in Brisbane in the 60s, Bernadette – or Bernie as she is affectionately known – shares how she transformed her life from being an educator and working in the pharmaceutical industry to embracing her love for jazz singing and performing. Bernie recounts how she and Tam reconnected years after working together, through social media, and how this led to the support of her exciting new venture, 'Square One - the Journey to Bernie’. This captivating one-woman show tells her story through narratives and music, celebrating her personal evolution and triumphs. The discussion touches on her experiences growing up, coming out, and reconciling with her sexuality amidst conservative surroundings. Additionally, we learn about the influence of Bernie’s supportive singing teacher and life coach, Mel, and how they inspired her to fully embrace her musical journey. The episode also highlights the challenges and joys of creating and performing her show and Bernie's aspirations to tour her performance. Tune in to hear about Bernie’s plans for further expanding her musical endeavours and how she envisions spreading her story to new audiences. Connect with Bernie https://www.berniemckinlay.com 50/50 is available on YouTube https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio  

Join us on this episode as we explore the joys and reflections of the New Year, sharing heartfelt stories about holiday experiences and personal growth. As we delve into the major life-shifting realizations and experiences from a recent silent retreat, discover the profound impact of mindfulness and the journey to embrace self-worth. With moments of humour and deep emotional insights, this episode highlights the beauty and challenges of finding peace within the silence. 50/50 is available on YouTube https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan 50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio

Join us for a cheerful Christmas edition of Friday 50/50, where we explore the essence of the festive season with a touch of humour and flair. Tam and Danielle don Christmas hats, antlers, and stylish earrings to get into the holiday spirit as they dive into topics of joy, anxiety, and new beginnings for the upcoming year. Alongside lively discussions about people's quirks and the beauty of human interactions, we reflect on moments of profound joy, such as an unforgettable Crowded House concert and the magical experience of spontaneous connections. The episode also touches upon the reality of anxiety, sharing personal anecdotes and the importance of self-care during challenging times. In the spirit of the holidays, this episode emphasizes the power of conversation, kindness, and community, offering listeners a blend of entertainment and insight. As we wrap up the year, we extend our warmest wishes to all, encouraging everyone to embrace the magic of human connection this Christmas. Lifeline: https://www.lifeline.org.au/ Beyond Blue: https://www.beyondblue.org.au/   Visit Yen at Sisley David Jones for the BEST make up artist going! The intro and outro music on this episode was proudly Created With Udio.   50/50 is available on YouTube https://linktr.ee/5050_podcast Join the conversation! 50/50 is on Facebook And LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/tamaracallaghan   50/50 Podcast is recorded at Tailwind Studio: https://www.linkedin.com/company/tailwind-studio