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Take 5 minutes to boost your spring energy!

This month is labeled as the month of LOVE.  Why not take some time and add yourself on your Valentine list.  Use this meditation to get yourself started.

Despite challenges still in place, I think we are all looking forward to saying good-bye to 2020!   Start 2021 working on your personal heart; bringing in more unconditional love.  Use this meditation to get you started.

Take just 5 minutes from your day to just sit and allow yourself to feel Love, Joy, and Peace for yourself and others.

When your world seems chaotic and overwhelming, it's time to set aside just 5 minutes to just sit down and focus on gratitude.  By finding all the wonderful things that are surrounding you, you can calm your mind, calm your personal heart and reach for more joy.  Use this meditation to get you started. 

Life is constantly changing.  Sometimes we made the changes, but sometimes we didn't.  In this meditation you will be guided to review the changes in your life and finding calm in your personal heart. 

When you have feelings of anxiety or fear, take time to connect to your Personal Heart, giving it the unconditional love it needs.  This meditation will help you shift from fear-mode to LOVE-mode.

This meditation is for you to allow optimal functioning between your open personal heart and your calm mind to work together to create the life you want to create no matter the external situation in the world.

Spring is only weeks away!  Mother Nature is beginning to show off its new growth with new grass sprouts and daffodil blooms.  You can show off your personal growth, too by focusing on more love in your life.  Here is a short meditation to get you started.  Enjoy!

February is the month Love with Cupid and all his arrows shooting Love to everyone in his path.  You, too, can be the Cupid of Unconditional Love.  Use this meditation to find the balance of giving unconditional love to yourself first, and then to everything around you.  Enjoy being Cupid!

Happy New Year!  Use his meditation to help you set an intention toward a more joyful and balanced new year.

Take time to take care of yourself so you can stay in physical, mental , and emotional balance which supports an open personal heart.  Keeping your personal heart open will ensure you will enjoy the holiday season with LOVE.

Gratitude becomes easier when you make a basic shift in your personal heart from the fear-fueled perception of “this is not enough” to the love-fueled perception of “this is enough.  Use this meditation to help you make the shift.

Every Autumn the trees gently let go of their leaves.  The leaves served a purpose, but are no longer needed.  How can you follow the beautiful example of the trees in letting go in your personal heart particularly past thoughts, old hurts, and future worries that no longer serve your highest good?  Take time today to sit quietly and allow your leaves to drop.  This meditation may help in the process. 

Use this mediation to become one with nature and recognize this sacred moment as you connect in love with Mother Earth in a moment of gratitude.

Do you feel you are living a sacred life?  It can be challenging in a culture that doesn’t seem to value or honor life; to make a personal commitment to living life in a sacred way.  Start a daily practice today that will enhance a sacred life.  These include: self-care, meditation, prayer, compassion, acceptance, forgiveness and unconditional love. Each present moment is an opportunity to make your life sacred.  Allow this meditation to help you in your new practice.

Use this short meditation to open yourself up to receive inspiration so you can Bloom in LOVE.  

With summer comes vacation!  While vacations are mostly joyous and fun, occasionally things may not go quite as planned causing undue stress.  Be sure to pack this meditation so, should undue stress fall upon you, you can take need "time-out" to get yourself back in balance.  Enjoy your summer vacation! Be sure to signup for our monthly newsletter at www.FacilitativeHealingCenter.com

Get a boost flaming the spark in your personal heart toward your Soul's Mission.  But, be careful.  Love is contagious!

Use this meditation to help you find balance when you’re feeling the pressure to please others.

As the season is shifting into spring, it feels great to get outside and breathe in the spring air. There is something special about taking in a conscious, deep breath of fresh air.  It has a way of bringing you into a deeper connection with your soul-self.  When you connect with your breath consciously, on a regular basis, you will begin to experience a life filled with inspirations.  Use this meditation to get you started.  

Creating a BIG HEART is a daily practice that involves conscious loving choices in the present moment.  Before going out and sharing your BIG HEART, use this meditation to help get you focused and in balance.

Use this meditation to help you find balance by recognizing the choices your make in the moment.

As if life isn't already filled with stress, we now hit the final days of the holiday season.  Find just 7 mins from your business schedule to take time for yourself and reconnect to YOU.  

Use this meditation to help you care for yourself while taking care of others.

My dad taught me a wonderful life lesson about how our love languages are different.  Ours were definitely different, but when he passed last month, I finally truly understood what unconditional love meant.  Enjoy this meditation to help guide you toward loving yourself and letting go of how others love you.  Because, in the end, LOVE is all that matters.  Thank you for the lesson, Dad.  I'll miss you. 

When you have the courage to open your personal heart up to fully to feel all feelings to completion and consciously receive this flow of unconditional love in your personal heart, you have the power to balance your personal heart and share this unconditional love with others no matter what the circumstances are in the moment.   Take time out of your day to use this meditation to re-charge your Love Super Power!  

The most effective way to live in the world is with a balanced personal heart.  In a balanced personal heart, you learn to feel your feelings and process them through to completion, keep your physical body in balance the best you can, create safety for yourself, love unconditionally, and do things in your community that are good for the whole.  When your personal heart is balanced, you can process through your own personal pain and the global pain in the world and still be able to function.  A balanced personal heart can set reasonable expectations for yourself and others to reduce the essential pains of living in this world.  Use this meditation to help bring you back to a calm and loving presence so you can go out into the world and become a love beacon.

Each person has a unique personal heart on one level with its own history of both positive and negative experiences.  The feelings associated with these experiences get encoded in the heart, body, and mind.  When those feelings collectively become overwhelming, the personal heart will shut down to prevent further experiences of pain and imbalance.   In order to return your personal heart to balance, the first priority is to feel safe in the present moment.  Many spiritual practices including meditation, prayer, mantras, etc. keep you dis-identified from feelings, thoughts, and beliefs.  This creates a sense of safety within the mind, body and personal heart in the present moment.   This meditation is designed to help you balance your personal heart.  

 A love-focused life is not about perfection, but connection with yourself and others in a healthy way.  When you make the commitment to love in this way, it changes how you feel about yourself and others.  Use this short meditation whenever you feel the need to let go of negative thoughts and return to a loving, balanced self.

We all have the ability to be part of a global heart field.  This meditation can help in your participation.   

Use this meditation to help you better connect to others who share the same energy frequency.

Take 5 minutes and treat yourself to to some self-love.  You'll be glad you did.    

Use this meditation practice to help you connect to your loving, soul-eyes.  Doing so will let you see the bigger picture in a stressful situation.  You will then be able to  feel and process through the essential pains of that situation to get back to balance.  This results in the ability to extend compassion to someone who might be under a lot of stress and not making the best choices.  

Finding peace can be challenging especially during the busy holiday season.  Here is a meditation tool to help you minimize your stress which, in turn, will enable you to enjoy the holidays more.  

Unconditional love toward yourself and others is created by your power to choose unconditional love over conditional love in the present moment. It has the reasonable expectation that people are not perfect and will at times disappoint  Use this meditation to create a practice of feeling uncondtional love for yourself and others.

Maintaining balance in your life is dynamic because it can change moment to moment based on your thoughts, feelings and behaviors at any given time.  External factors like life stressors, other people’s feelings and behaviors can also influence your balance depending on how you respond to the outside world. Your power is choosing how to respond to any outside situation or other people so you can stay in balance the best you can in the situation.  Use this short meditation when you feel you need a little help to get back in balance.

To be able to live a love-focused you need to feel safe in the present moment in your daily life.  Use this meditation to help generate feelings of safety.

Spending time in nature at least 30 minutes or more a week is not only good for your soul but good for your mind and physical body. It can sometimes be challenging, however, to escape the city life of black top and concrete to find soul sanctuaries nestled among forests, beaches, mountains, deserts, lakes, rivers, etc.   Here is a meditation I created while sitting in nature.  If you can't be in nature, you can visualize and imagine being there.  The mind doesn't know the difference between what is real and what is imagined.  So, take a break and join me as we reconnect with nature.  

Dreams can be quite obscure, but are actually a gateway to your unconsciousness pool of wisdom buried in images, deeper meanings, and symbolism.   It can be difficult to rememeber your dreams upon awaking.  Use this meditation to help enhance your ability to remember your dreams.  This is designed for listening just before going to sleep.

Practice standing in love each day by connecting to the flow of unconditional love through meditation, prayer, journaling, gratitude hugs, laughter yoga, listening, or just being present in the moment.  Allow it to wrap you and encase you in its warm embrace.  I promise you will feel a difference in your heart and soul.

Gratitude is defined as the “quality of being grateful, thankful or a in a state of appreciation.”  It is simply the act of looking around and seeing all the good in the world.   This meditation will help you experience a shift from the fear-based part of your brain (called the reptilian brain) up to the love-focused part of the brain (called neocortex).  This shift releases positive neurotransmitters like oxytocin into the brain which perpetuates the positive feelings of gratitude, unconditional love, compassion, and acceptance.  Enjoy!

Follow me to the Field of Miraculous as we work through the Chakras to the field where miracles happen.  

Learning to set healthy limits for yourself helps you build a sense of safety and responsibility for your own health and happiness.  The more you feel safe and secure, the easier it will be to feel more love and joy in your life.  Use this meditation practice to help you build strong limits for yourself so you may achieve and stay in balance more often.

Healthy boundaries are the healthy limits you set with other people, external situations and anything else outside of yourself.  Imagine healthy boundaries as the rail on the left side of your love bridge.  When your boundary rail is full of healthy boundaries you set with other people or situations, then it creates a sense of safety and protection from the daily stresses of being human.  If you know your authentic self (including light side and dark side), feel your feelings and take care of your needs you will know what you can and cannot do while staying in balance in the present moment.  The more you know and accept yourself unconditionally then you can easily make decisions about what boundaries you need moment to moment to stay in balance the best you can.

One of the major steps toward being in balance is clearing negative thoughts and stress loops that are distracting you from being your best self.  Here is a special meditation designed to help you stop stress loops and better.

Many of us were not modeled healthy intimacy as a child.  We were not taught, and maybe even discouraged to love ourselves. We were told it was not nice or even considered bragging.’  Loving yourself does not mean self-worship or narcissism. It means giving yourself respect, forgiveness and kindness.  So, no, self-love does not equal selfishness.   Self-love equates to your self-worth.  And when you don’t feel worthy, you begin to attract negative energy into your life.  This can come in the form of anger, jealousy, blame, criticism, and loneliness which can lead to poor relationship choices, conflicts on the job, and depression.  That’s not an enjoyable way to live.  That is why it is so important to give yourself the love you need, first.  Don’t wait for someone else to do it for you.  The best relationship you can have is the one you have with yourself.  

Compassion as defined by Merriam-Webster dictionary is sympathetic consciousness of others’ distress together with a desire to alleviate it.  Compassion for yourself is the ability to have sympathy for yourself as you experience the essential pains of life within in your mind and body.  Giving yourself compassion can come in many forms including reassuring yourself either verbally or physically, feeling unconditional love for yourself, and just being present for yourself like a healthy parent would be there for their stressed out child. 

Forgiveness is defined as the cancellation of the conditions in the mind that are blocking the full flow of love or life energy, independently of the behavior of others.  It is a free personal choice an act of will.  So these mental conditions in your mind are the egoic beliefs that you are not forgivable for what you did or didn’t do in the past.  Use this meditation to practice self-forgiveness by just asking yourself this one question:  "What do I need to forgive myself for, that I either did or didn't do in the past that I can’t forgive myself for now?   This is the first step toward being honest with yourself when you can state clearly what you did either to yourself or to someone else.