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Girl Out of Order Podcast
by Christine Gale
Girl Out of Order is not just a podcast—it’s a call to action for the woman who's done shrinking, contorting, and apologizing for who she is. Hosted by Christine Gale, attorney, speaker, identity coach, and unapologetic girl-mom, this show is your go-to space for fierce conversations, gut-level honesty, and radical permission to reclaim the woman you were always meant to be.Girl Out of Order challenges the belief that women must play small to belong. No topic off-limits and no mask required.Through solo episodes, powerhouse guest interviews, and Christine’s signature blend of humor, truth-telling, and challenge, you’ll be inspired to drop your sword, stop the self-abandonment, and rise in your worth. Because fitting in is overrated—and being out of order might be exactly what sets you free.If you’ve ever felt like too much and never enough at the same time, pull up a seat. This is your home.
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Ep. #139 - Building a Couple Identity- Love, Faith & the Power of Polarity with John & Annie Meng
"If you don't have any storms in your relationship, find some. Because if we did not have the obstacles we had, we would not have this relationship." John and Annie MengWhat does it look like to build an identity as a couple — not just as two individuals sharing a life? In this rich, raw, and deeply personal conversation, Christine sits down with John and Annie Meng, founders of Love Jaam, to explore what it truly takes to create a shared identity in a relationship — and why the hardest seasons are often the ones that make you.Annie — Wharton graduate, former Miss Arizona, Wall Street finance veteran, and expecting mama — opens up about what it meant to be disowned by her family for choosing love. Death threats. Wedding day absences. And ultimately, the slow, intentional work of reconciliation that changed her from the inside out.John, a serial entrepreneur, business exit advisor, and relationship coach, shares how watching the woman he loved walk toward a potentially dangerous confrontation with her father — while he sat quietly in the car — became one of the most spiritually defining moments of his life.Together, they unpack:✦ Why opposites don't just attract — they complete ✦ How to use the DISC profile to understand your couple dynamic ✦ What Tony Robbins' four seasons of relationship reveal about where you are right now ✦ The moment John realized love — not ego — had to lead ✦ Why Annie's estrangement from her family became the catalyst for her greatest personal growth ✦ The "Three C's" of lasting love: Chemistry, Commitment, and Compassion ✦ How to create a couples vision — the one exercise Christine is writing down mid-conversationThis episode is for the woman who wants a great relationship but sometimes wonders if what she sees in other couples is even attainable. Spoiler: it is. And behind every great couple is usually a powerful, hard-won story.Connect with John & Annie Meng: 🌐 events.lovejaamm.com 📱 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annielimeng/ https://www.instagram.com/johnpmeng/
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Ep. #138 - The Room That Reminds You Who You Are: How the Right Women Help You Stop Shrinking and Start Expanding
“Who you surround yourself with will often dictate the altitude you achieve.”What happens when you finally find the room that calls you back to yourself? In this episode, I share a raw, heartfelt recap of the spring retreat with the True Legacy Collective — and why the tribe you choose can either cage you or completely transform you.This isn't about FOMO. It's about possibility.We break down what it really means to belong — not fitting in, but being fully seen, fully held — and why your identity expands fastest when you're in the right room with the right women.In this episode:What a mastermind really is (and why most people misunderstand it)The difference between fitting in and true belongingWhy your dreams need witnesses, not just your journalHow the women around you set the altitude of your life5 things the right tribe will always do for youIf this episode reminded you of a woman who needs a better room, a braver tribe, or a reminder of who she really is, send it to her. And if Girl Out of Order is speaking to your heart, please take a moment to rate and review the podcast so more sisters can find their way here.Join the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe!https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/christine-d-gale-esq-0b899b204/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/
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Ep. #137 - Embodying Your Worth - The H.E.R. Method for Healing, Identity & Rising with Anita Karadalian-Girgis
"Going back would mean selling for an older version of myself. And I'm no longer in that identity." — Anita Karadalian-GirgisWhat happens when the person whose love you craved the most doesn't have the capacity to give it — and you spend years accepting breadcrumbs? In this raw, deeply moving episode, I am privileged to sit down with women's empowerment coach and somatic healing guide Anita Karadalian-Girgis to talk about the healing work that actually changes you from the inside out.Anita opens up about growing up with an absent father, the moment she drew a hard line in the sand, and why neutrality in the face of old triggers is one of the most underrated wins in personal development. She also breaks down her signature HER Method — Heal, Embody, Rise — and explains why vision boards and affirmations fall flat when your body doesn't feel safe enough to receive what you're asking for.This episode is for the woman who's been outsourcing her worth to someone who was never going to give it back.Connect with Anita:https://www.arisewithanita.com/https://www.instagram.com/arisewithanita/https://www.facebook.com/anita.karadalian.7Let's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/christine-d-gale-esq-0b899b204/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/
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Ep. #136 - Just Drive Up the Driveway - Finding Unexpected Healing in the Places You've Been Avoiding
“Healing does not mean erasing what happened. Sometimes healing means becoming anchored enough in who you are that you can look back and finally see the whole story.”Have you been proverbially driving around the hard places in your life instead of through them? Last week, I got to return to the farm where I grew up, a place full of both beauty and pain. And I was unprepared for what happened when I finally drove up the driveway.What I found wasn't the weight of trauma I had expected. Instead, I discovered something I hadn't anticipated: sweet healing.This episode is about so much more — selective memory, the necessity and the danger — of locking away painful chapters, and what it truly means to be a fully integrated, embodied woman. Through an unexpected encounter with the family now living on my childhood farm, I was beautifully reminded that the magic is often laced within the hard memories, not in spite of them.In this episode, you'll explore:Why we selectively remember and what it costs usHow staying disembodied from painful experiences dims your entire beingThe power of borrowing someone else's courage to face what you've been avoidingWhy you can't be grateful and bitter — or grateful and traumatized — at the same timeWhat it means to embody all of your identity, not just the easy partsWhether it's a childhood home, a past marriage, a failed business partnership, or a parenting moment you're not proud of — this episode is your invitation to tiptoe back in, take another look, and reclaim the parts of yourself you thought were better left locked away.You are a fully integrated woman. It's time to light up every room.Join the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe!https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/christine-d-gale-esq-0b899b204/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/
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Ep. #135 - Be the Doctor of Your Own Life — Rewire Your Mind, Heal Your Body with Dr. Anna Marie Frank
"Your brain is the strongest pharmacy on planet Earth. You get to activate that inner pharmacy. You are the doctor of your life — and you are prescribing to yourself every single day." — Dr. Anna Marie FrankWhat if your body has been trying to tell you something for years — and you just haven't known how to listen? In this powerful episode, we sit down with Dr. Anna Marie Frank, traditional naturopath, herbalist, and author of Stop Bullying Yourself, to explore the profound connection between mindset, biology, and healing.Dr. Anna Marie Frank shares how she healed her own depression and chronic health challenges through natural medicine, energy work, and radical mindset shifts — without relying on pharmaceuticals. She breaks down why your thoughts literally change your biochemistry, how epigenetics proves your genes are not your destiny, and why most people are "asleep at the wheel" of their own lives.Whether you're navigating divorce, recovering from injury, struggling with anxiety, or simply ready to take back control of your health and happiness — this episode will leave you empowered, energized, and armed with tools you can use TODAY.Connect With Dr. Anna Marie:Instagram: @dr.anna.marieWebsite: happyholeyou.comBook: Stop Bullying Yourself — available now Dr. Anna Marie Frank—known as The Mindset Doctor™—helps successful professionals get unstuck, conquer mental barriers, and create extraordinary lives by rewiring the brain and reconnecting to the body’s wisdom. Through her signature 6R’s Success Rewire Method™ and Activate Your Inner Pharmacy™ keynote, she blends neuroscience, natural medicine, and mindset transformation to help individuals and organizations improve performance, mental health, and productivity—without sacrificing joy or purpose.She is also host of The Happy Whole You™ Podcast, author of Stop Bullying Yourself! and the upcoming Activate Your Extraordinary, and a sought-after keynote speaker helping leaders activate clarity, confidence, and sustainable success.
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Ep. #134 - 2 Minutes Can Change Your Life - Stop Waiting for Ready
"Waiting until you feel ready is just fear dressed up a little fancy."What if two minutes could literally change your life? This week, I am packing my bags and heading to Indianapolis for Mic Drop Live! I get the privilege of giving a two-minute talk in front of real booking agents. Does I feel ready? Absolutely not. Am I going to storm the sage with confidence anyway? Absolutely!In this quick-fire episode, I'm sharing the three truths that will help you stop waiting and start doing — whether your moment is on a stage, in a boardroom, or in your own living room.In this episode:Why "ready" is a myth (and what to do instead)Why your 2-minute moment won't wait for youHow small brave equals a big lifeThe world needs the biggest version of you. Go grab your moment. Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a woman who needs to hear it.Join the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe!https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/
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Ep. #133 - Rising From the Ashes -Leia Baez on Sobriety, Survival, and Becoming a Voice of Hope
"As a Latina, we're taught to persevere and be strong and keep going — but nobody tells you to get help." Leia BaezTrigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of childhood sexual abuse — please listen with care.In this raw, powerful, and deeply personal episode of the Girl Out of Order podcast, I sit down with my friend and fellow speaker sister Leia Baez — Omaha-based author, keynote speaker, communications director, and self-described overcomer. Leia opens up about the childhood abuse she buried for over two decades, how she turned to alcohol as a coping mechanism starting in her teenage years, and how that addiction spiraled through college, marriage, career success, and eventually a devastating divorce and year-long custody battle over her daughter.But this is not a story of loss — it's a story of relentless return. Leia's message is simple and profound: the path back to yourself is possible, no matter how many years you've spent running from your truth.Connect with Leah: https://www.leiabaez.com/https://www.amazon.com/Star-Stella-Mothers-Journey-Overcome/dp/1637307098https://www.leiabaez.com/5-lessons-from-my-oprah-interview/Keep being a girl out of order because the world needs what only YOU can provide! xoxo--Christine
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Ep. #132 - Rewrite What's Possible - Breaking Your Own Invisible Ceilings
“If your identity is outdated, your future will be too.”What if the life you’ve been calling realistic… isn’t actually what’s possible for you?In this powerful Season 1 finale of Girl Out of Order, we challenge you to stop living inside invisible limits and start expanding what you believe is available—for your life, your relationships, your finances, and your future.Because most women don’t stop dreaming overnight. They slowly stop believing.1. You cannot create a life beyond what you believe is available to you. Your limits aren't your circumstances — they're the invisible ceilings you've accepted as reality. Bust through them.2. Your identity sets your ceiling. Everything traces back to how you answer the question: Who am I? You don't get what you want — you get what aligns with who you believe you are.3. Take aligned, messy action. Clarity doesn't come before the action — it comes from the action. Stop waiting to feel ready. Done is better than perfect.If you’ve been playing small, settling for “comfortable,” or waiting until you feel ready—this episode is your wake-up call.It’s time to rewrite what’s possible.Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a woman who needs to hear it.Join the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe!https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/
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Ep. #131 -"Forever Blooming” - The Radical Act of Becoming Yourself with Alyson Hoag
"We are women that don't look our age, act our age, or identify with our age. We are curious, we mentor others, and we are forever blooming." Alyson HoagWhat if the way you show up in the mirror is the deepest form of identity work? This week, we sit down with Alyson Hoag, makeup artist and beauty entrepreneur and newly promoted Tony Robbins trainer — for a wide-open conversation about what it truly means to author your own image. Alyson explores how visual identity, authentic self-expression, and midlife reinvention are inseparable — and why beauty for women over 50 is not about the makeup at all.This isn't about lipstick. It's about excavating who you are and letting her show up fully.Connect with AlysonBeauty: genuisbeauty.comStudio: myimagejourney.comSocial @AlysonHoag — Instagram · Facebook · LinkedInSubscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a woman who needs to hear it.Join the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe!https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/
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Ep. #130 - I Love Money and Money Loves Me: 3 Steps to Rewrite Your Financial Identity
“Avoiding money doesn’t make you safe—it keeps you small.” What if the problem isn’t your finances… but the story you’ve been telling yourself about money?In this deeply personal and powerful episode of The Girl Out of Order Podcast, Christine Gale opens up about her lifelong relationship with money—marked by shame, avoidance, and the belief that there would never be enough—and how that story quietly shaped her choices, her confidence, and her freedom.If you’ve ever said: “I’m not good with money” “I don’t understand finances” “I’ll deal with it later” …this episode is for you.Because here’s the truth: You don’t have a money problem—you have a money identity problem.This is not a financial strategy episode. This is an identity shift.We walk through 3 simple, actionable steps to help you: Identify and break the unconscious beliefs shaping your financial life Rewrite your internal narrative around money (without forcing fake positivity) Take one aligned action to begin building confidence, clarity, and control Through storytelling, real-life examples from her work as a family law attorney, and her own journey from avoidance to ownership, Christine invites you to stop playing small and start engaging with your financial life in a whole new way.Because money isn’t just about numbers.Money is freedom. Money is access. Money is choice. Money is impact.And avoiding it? That doesn’t make you safe. It keeps you small.Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a woman who needs to hear it.Join the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe!https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/
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Ep. #129 - When Your Body Sends the Bill - Radical Reinvention with Lawyer and Leader Lauren Wu
“Your body will whisper… until it forces you to stop.” Lauren WuIn this episode, I sit down with Lauren Wu — attorney, former ballerina, and pulmonary embolism survivor — whose life changed in an instant during a work training when hidden blood clots were discovered in both lungs.Her recovery was long and brutal: months in a wheelchair, relearning to walk, and rebuilding her mind and nervous system from the ground up.Out of that season, Lauren created Heart Lead Leadership, a framework redefining how we lead, work, and live — rooted in humanity, alignment, and trust.This conversation will challenge everything you think about stress, success, and resilience — and invite you to rewrite your story from the inside out.Key Takeaways:Burnout is often a systems issue — not a personal failureYour identity can be rewritten, even after crisisTrue leadership starts with humanity, not performanceConnect with Lauren:http://linkedin.com/in/lauren-foster-wu/https://www.heartledleadership.org/Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a woman who needs to hear it.Join the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe!https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/
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Ep. 128 - “This Is Not The End” - The Power to Rewrite the Narrative of Your Life
"You don't have to know the whole story to refuse the one being written for you."What if the story that was written for you isn't the story you have to live? In this powerful episode, Christine kicks off the Rewriting phase of Season One with a raw, honest, and deeply personal reminder: wherever you are, whatever you've been through — this is not the end.Drawing from her own journey of childhood neglect and abuse, public professional humiliation, marital betrayal, and the challenges of raising children through mental health crises, Christine makes the case that your trauma is not your identity — and your past is not your final word.We explore 5 powerful Steps to Rewriting Your Narrative:Interrogate the story — Is it actually true, or was it given to you by people in pain?Separate your identity from your experiences — You are not what happened to you, and you are not the worst thing you've ever doneLook for the gifts — Even strangely wrapped ones, even the ones that take time to findWrite new evidence — Every act of courage and self-respect builds a new proof of who you're becomingStay a student of yourself — Stay curious, keep evolving, because the you that got you here isn't always the you that gets you thereSubscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with a woman who needs to hear it.Join the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe!https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/
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Ep. #127 - From Armor to Alignment: Reclaiming Your Feminine Power
"When you can balance your strength with your softness, it's game freaking on."This episode is tender. Honest. And long overdue.For years, many of us have lived in survival mode—learning to be strong, independent, and hyper-capable in order to succeed… and stay safe. And while that strength has served us, it has also come at a cost.Exhaustion. Disconnection. A quiet longing for something more.In this deeply personal and thought-provoking episode, Christine opens up about her own resistance to femininity and softness—and the moment everything began to shift. Through storytelling, reflection, and powerful reframes, she invites you to consider a new possibility:What if your softness isn’t weakness… but your greatest source of power?This is not about becoming less strong.It’s about becoming whole.Join the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe!https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/
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Ep. #126 - Death of the Good Girl - Reclaiming Your Voice After a Lifetime of Compliance
"The good girl survived. The grounded woman leads."For generations, women were praised for being agreeable, accommodating, responsible, and easy to be around. In other words… a “good girl.”But what happens when the very strategy that helped you belong begins to silence your voice, suppress your truth, and leave you emotionally exhausted?In this powerful episode, Christine explores the quiet but transformative moment many women experience in midlife—the realization that compliance may have kept you safe, but it also kept you small.This conversation is not about judgment, rebellion, or blowing up your life. It’s about something far more powerful: evolution. Because reclaiming your voice isn’t about becoming louder. It’s about becoming truer.Join the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe!https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/
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Ep. #125 - 5 Pillars to Reclaim Your Health & Vitality
“Reclaiming your health is not about aesthetics — it’s about agency.”Midlife is not decay. It’s recalibration.In this episode, Christine delivers a powerful love letter to the midlife woman — reminding her that reclaiming her health is not about dieting or shrinking.It’s about agency.Because when you neglect your body, you weaken your leadership.Christine breaks down five essential pillars for midlife vitality:Muscle is medicineProtein is not optionalSleep is a hormone strategyNervous system regulation is non-negotiableYour language shapes your healthYour body isn’t betraying you. She’s asking to be led differently.Reclaiming your health is how you reclaim your identity.The world needs you strong, rooted, and energized for what you are here to build.Let's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale
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Ep. #124- When “Yes” Turns to “No”- Reclaiming Your Balance After the Door Closes
“Disappointment is human. Self-betrayal is optional.”What happens when the yes you felt so certain about becomes a no?In this episode, Christine shares a recent, very real leadership setback — a job offer she believed was aligned that unexpectedly fell through — and how quickly doubt crept in.But this isn’t just about disappointment.It’s about what happens inside your brain, your nervous system, and your identity when expectation collapses.You’ll learn:Why rejection activates the same part of the brain as physical painHow dopamine drops create the “gut punch” feelingWhat identity threat really is — and why it shakes confident womenThe difference between disappointment and self-betrayalHow to reclaim hope, focus, passion, energy, and self-trustClosed doors don’t mean you were wrong.They mean life involves other humans with agency.Reclaiming is not about avoiding the sting.It’s about recalibrating without collapsing.If a door recently closed in your life — this conversation will help you move forward grounded, steady, and aligned.🎧 Listen in — and if it resonates, share it and leave a review to help us grow.Let's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale
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Ep. #123: Reclaiming The You That Was Always Yours — The Fire Horse Within
"The fire horse energy — she's not quiet. She's not timid. She's about movement and conviction and choosing her own direction, even if that means leaving the familiar behind." Today marks the first day of the Year of the Fire Horse — and whether you love astrology or have never given it a second thought, this episode is for you.It’s about powerful imagery to anchor your transformation. It’s about a relatable archetype. It’s about reclaiming the woman you were always meant to be.After completing the Releasing phase of Season 1, Christine opens the door to the next chapter: Reclaiming.This episode invites you to Stop: shrinking, performing, postponing the aligned decision. It's an invitation to start intentionally choosing the life you know you are called to live.Let's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale
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Ep. #122 - Releasing the Projections That Were Never Yours
“If we do not release the stories that were projected onto us, our lives will be stunted and our impact blunted.”Sister, today’s episode is the heartbeat of why Girl Out of Order exists. We’re closing out the releasing portion of Season One by going back to the very beginning — the moment I realized how much of my life had been shaped by expectations, stories, and projections that were never actually mine.In this conversation, I walk you through how unexamined beliefs — especially those handed to us by people we love or authority figures we trust — quietly become cages. I share how projections live not just in our minds, but in our bodies… and why midlife often becomes the moment we simply refuse to contort ourselves any longer. This episode is an invitation into clarity, freedom, and the deep self-respect that comes from choosing a truer story for your life.No spoilers here — but if you’ve felt restless, exhausted, or like you’re outgrowing an identity that once helped you survive, this message will meet you right where you are.Let's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale
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Ep. #121 - Build Your Dream Without Abandoning Your Life - What Sustainable Growth Looks Like in a Busy Season
“You don’t need to burn your life down to build something meaningful. You need patience, integrity, and a pace your life can hold.”What if the call to more doesn’t mean something is missing?In this deeply personal episode, I'm speaking directly to the woman who loves her life—and still feels a persistent tug toward something more. Recorded during the Releasing phase of Season 1, this conversation invites you to let go of guilt, comparison, and unrealistic expectations about pace, especially when you’re building a dream inside a full, beautiful life.This episode is for the ambitious woman who refuses to choose between presence and purpose—and wants to know what sustainable growth actually looks like in a busy season.In this episode, you’ll hear:Why feeling called to more does not mean something is missing in your lifeHow guilt and comparison quietly keep women stuckWhy pace matters when your life is already fullThe difference between sacrifice and self-abandonmentHow small, repeatable actions compound over timeWhy sustainable growth happens in circles, not silosTune in for inspiration and practical wisdom to help you release pressure, honor your season, and keep building—without abandoning your life or yourself.Join us inside the Girl Out of Order Facebook community - https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderBecause we are always stronger—and braver—together.Let's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale
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Ep. #120 Ask Better Questions, Create a Better Life
“You don’t have to muscle your way into a new life. You just have to change the question.”What if the anxiety you feel, the pressure you carry, and the burnout you’re battling aren’t coming from your circumstances—but from the questions you’re asking yourself every day?In this deeply personal and powerful episode, we unpack one of the most life-changing concepts I've ever applied: the Primary Question—the unconscious question shaping your mindset, emotional state, decisions, and ultimately, the quality of your life.Through heartfelt stories from her own life, her work as a family law litigator, and a vulnerable conversation with her daughter, Christine reveals how poor-quality questions like “Am I doing enough?” or “What will they think?” quietly fuel anxiety, scarcity, self-judgment, and overwhelm.This episode is part of the releasing season—letting go of patterns that no longer serve you—and it offers practical, grounded tools to help you wake up, get honest, and rewrite the question running your life.In this episode, you’ll learn:What a primary question is and how it silently governs your thoughts and choicesWhy anxiety often isn’t about what you’re doing—but what you’re checking forHow poor-quality questions create pressure, judgment, scarcity, and burnoutWhy awareness is the key to releasing what no longer serves youHow to upgrade your questions to create calm, clarity, and agencySimple daily practices to create a true mind shift, not just positive thinkingJoin us inside the Girl Out of Order Facebook community - https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderBecause we are always stronger—and braver—together.Let's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale
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Ep. #119 You Don’t Need a Bigger Vision — You Need a Clearer One
“Overwhelm isn’t a capacity problem — it’s a clarity problem.”January is loud — full of goals, strategies, vision boards, and pressure to “start strong.”But for many women, January doesn’t bring inspiration. It brings overwhelm.In this episode, I offer a radical reframe for the new year: You don’t need a bigger vision — you need a clearer one.Clarity isn’t created by urgency, hustle, or perfectly mapped plans. Clarity emerges through honesty, timing, and feminine discernment — and it changes everything.We explore: ✨ Overwhelm vs clarity (and why they’re not the same) ✨ Why traditional planning burns women out ✨ How midlife invites alignment over achievement ✨ How to reduce noise and listen for truth ✨ The surprising power of intuition + timing ✨ Why clarity is the gateway to next-level growthTune in for 3 simple, practical tools to move toward clarity in 2026 — without force, pressure, or perfection. If you’re craving direction without the noise, urgency, or comparison — this conversation is for you.Join us inside the Girl Out of Order Facebook community - https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderBecause we are always stronger—and braver—together.Let's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale
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Ep. #118 There’s Still Time to Shed - Release Before Renewal
“A snake can’t grow new skin while clinging to the old one — and neither can you.”What if the new year didn’t require you to sprint?What if clarity, motivation, and vision don’t arrive on command January 1st — but show up after you let old versions of yourself fall away?In this powerful episode of the Girl Out of Order Podcast, Christine challenges the pressure women feel in early January to plan, manifest, vision-board, and “get it together.” Instead, she introduces a new frame:It’s still the Year of the Snake — there’s still time to shed.Drawing from spiritual symbolism, identity work, and her own year of expansion, Christine talks about how releasing old roles, relationships, expectations, patterns, and stories is required before you can design a new season with intention.This episode will help you:Exhale and stop rushing your becomingUnderstand why shedding precedes clarityNormalize slow, tender seasons of transitionLet go of what no longer serves who you’re becomingTrust your timing instead of forcing a timelineIf you’re still tender, unsure, grieving, re-evaluating, recalibrating, or quietly clearing old energetic closets — this episode will make you feel seen, normal, and right on time.Join us inside the Girl Out of Order Facebook community - https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderBecause we are always stronger—and braver—together.Let's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale
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Ep. #117 I’m Back - The Vision for Girl Out of Order in 2026
“Sometimes the most responsible thing a woman can do is stop talking long enough to hear herself again.”After a two-month pause, I am back behind the mic—and this episode explains why the silence mattered.This wasn’t burnout. This wasn’t quitting. This was a conscious, soul-led pause.In this powerful relaunch episode, Christine shares what happens when a woman stops long enough to truly listen—to herself, to God, and to the deeper call on her life. She recasts the vision for Girl Out of Order, clarifies what this space is and is not, and unveils an intentional, seasonal structure for 2026 designed to support women through real life transitions, identity evolution, and embodied growth.This episode is an invitation—not to rush, not to reinvent yourself—but to come home to who you are becoming.❤️ If This Episode Resonated…Share it with a woman who might need permission to pauseLeave a review to help this community growJoin us inside the Girl Out of Order Facebook community - https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderBecause we are always stronger—and braver—together.Let's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale
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When Your Why Shows You the Way: From Vision to Reality with Keisha Watkins of Wrenwood Ranch
"You don’t have to know it all to get started. You just have to answer the question in front of you, and then move on to the next." Keisha Watkinsn this deeply inspiring episode of Girl Out of Order, I sit down with the extraordinary Keisha Watkins — a woman who turned a crystal-clear wedding-day vision into Wrenwood Ranch, a stunning 14-acre boutique retreat in the heart of the Texas Hill Country. But this story isn’t just about building cottages or starting a business — it’s about building a life, brick by brick, rooted in purpose, persistence, and personal growth.Keisha opens up about the decade-long journey of chasing a dream she couldn’t shake — from the back-porch "what if" conversations to clearing trees with snake boots and a chainsaw. Along the way, she shares raw truths about failing forward, investing in herself (even when it didn’t pay off right away), and embracing the discomfort that always comes with expansion. She reminds us that you don’t need to know the whole path — you just need to keep taking the next right step. If you’ve ever felt like your dream was “too big,” or your timing “too late,” Keisha’s story will remind you that your why is the compass — and it’s never too late to follow it.Links & Resources🏡 Book your stay or event at Wrenwood Ranch: https://www.wrenwoodranch.com/📱 Follow Wrenwood Ranch on: Instagram https://www.instagram.com/wrenwoodranch/Facebook https://www.facebook.com/wrenwoodranchTikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@wrenwoodranch LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/keisha-wrenwoodranch/Timeline Summary[00:28] – Meet Keisha: a woman of many roles, but above all, a dreamer who refuses to quit.[02:08] – The “aha” moment at her own wedding that sparked the idea for Wrenwood Ranch.[05:54] – It took nine years to take the plunge — but every nudge and setback had a purpose.[07:15] – Keisha talks openly about investing in a failed business and how it became her best teacher.[12:39] – Building the ranch by hand: two people, one trailer, and an unwavering dream.[20:25] – What building something together taught her about marriage, roles, and respect.[34:22] – How the journey reshaped her identity: from expectations to appreciation, from control to trust.[40:11] – What’s saving her life right now? Radical self-acceptance.Join the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe!https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale
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Ep. #115 - "I'm So Tired of Being Strong."
“You weren’t designed to carry everyone and everything. You were designed to connect, contribute, and co-create.” Christine GaleSister, if you’ve ever whispered to yourself, “I’m just so tired of being the strong one”, this episode is your soul's deep exhale. As we push through the final quarter of the year—juggling holidays, deadlines, and demands—I’m inviting you to take a sacred pause. In this episode, I share a deeply personal exploration of what it means to carry the weight of performative strength and why it's time we start redefining what it means to be "strong."We talk about the generational patterns that teach us to power through, the costs of constantly holding it all together, and—most importantly—how we can begin to surrender with grace. I offer you tangible, gentle strategies to lay down your sword and make space for softness, support, and genuine strength. This conversation is an invitation to choose curiosity over control and connection over exhaustion.Episode Summary:[1:56] - The epidemic of strength: Why women everywhere are feeling emotionally and physically depleted [4:17] - Generational strength: The toxic cycles passed down from mother to daughter [6:45] - Survival mode: The root of always needing to be strong and how it shows up in our lives [12:41] - The real cost of holding it all together: Peace, joy, and connection [18:21] - Four steps to dropping your sword and embracing micro-surrenders [22:13] - How to practice receiving and shift from control to curiosity [26:52] - Create your “peace protocol” for those moments you’re tempted to take over everything againJoin the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe!https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale
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#114 - The Nudge You Can’t Ignore - 3 Easy Steps for Answering the Call
"Your compelling life does not exist in the comfort zone—it lives on the other side of the nudge."In this powerful and heartfelt episode, I’m speaking directly to that quiet little voice inside you—the one that’s been gently (or maybe not so gently) nudging you toward change. Whether it's in your health, your career, or your relationships, that nudge isn’t random. It’s divine guidance calling you to step out of your comfort zone and into alignment with your truest self.I share my own journey of ignoring the nudge for far too long—staying stuck in a law firm that drained me—and the freedom and joy that came when I finally said yes to that persistent inner pull. I’m here to be the voice in your ear saying: it’s time. Your compelling life is waiting, but only if you’re willing to listen to the nudge and take bold, messy, beautiful action.If this episode lit a fire in you or gave you that aha moment, I’d be so grateful if you’d take a moment to rate, follow, share, and leave a review. Let’s keep growing this beautiful community of bold, brave, out-of-order women together. 💖Your compelling life awaits, sister. Let’s go get it.🕒 Episode Timeline Highlights[1:10] - A heartfelt call to grow our Girl Out of Order community and how you can help [2:18] - What is “the nudge,” and why we often resist it [4:30] - My personal story of ignoring the nudge—and the cost of staying too long [6:45] - How listening to that voice led to building my dream law firm [9:12] - A real-time example of taking bold action at a farmer’s market [10:14] - Why the last quarter of the year is your time to “bring it home” [12:00] - 3 powerful ways to honor and act on the nudge in your life [15:00] - Celebrating your bravery: the essential step women often skipJoin the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe!https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale
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#113 Conversation with Besa Martini, the Tony Robbins Master Coach Who Transformed My Life
“Dare to do that action. Dare to go for what you've been holding yourself back. Because passion never comes like a scream. It's always a whisper.” Besa MartiniI am thrilled to share this deeply meaningful episode of Girl Out of Order with you — one of the conversations I lean on the most when I think about growth, identity, grit, and what it means to get unstuck from old stories. I sit down with my coach, Master Coach Besa Martini (of Tony Robbins fame), who has transformed my life in ways I never saw coming. Together we explore how she moved across continents, wrestled with identity, leaned into possibility, and how we women can do the same — especially when our “shitty committee” (you know what I mean) is telling us to shrink.In this episode, we dive into: the power of story (the ones we tell ourselves vs. the ones we can write), the triad — physiology, focus, language — as a tool for becoming the person you want to be before the evidence is there, and the courage to fail, to invest, to believe. If your heart has ever been saying, “there’s got to be more,” this episode is a love letter for you.Timeline HighlightsTimeMoment & Why It Matters[6:43] | Besa shares what it was like arriving in America 23 years ago, and how she navigated being an immigrant, having an accent, and holding onto her roots while daring to grow.[12:30] | She describes the moment she decided “things have to change” — how witnessing suffering led her to re-evaluate what she was accepting in her own life.[20:45] | A powerful reframing: certainty doesn’t precede action — it’s action that creates certainty. How she moved forward even without knowing the full roadmap.[25:00] | The triad (physiology / focus / language): how we’re constantly choosing who we show up as, moment by moment; what changes when we shift those three things.[36:00] | Besa speaks directly to the strong, fiery women (Enneagram 8s, Dynamo DISC, etc.) who have been told they are “too much” — and what it really takes to reclaim and embody your power.[46:30] | Sowing seeds, patience, momentum: the metaphors that remind us growth is messy, slow, full of “no visible results,” yet unfolding behind what we see.[50:40] | For the woman at the threshold — the one grieving an emptied nest, unsure who she is without her “roles” — Besa offers the first little actions to step toward possibility.Join the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe!https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale
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#112 - Period. A Call for Humanity in Divisive Times
“Put a period at the end of the sentence. Evil is evil. Period.”This week’s episode is deeply personal, raw, and filled with reflection. Originally, I had planned to bring you an inspiring conversation with my coach, Bessa Martini, but after the heartbreaking events in Utah, I felt compelled to speak directly to you from the depths of my soul. This episode is a call for unity, a reminder of our shared humanity, and a challenge to choose love, curiosity, and grace in a time where division is screaming louder than ever.I invite you into a space of deep contemplation—about how we react to tragedy, how we treat one another in disagreement, and what it means to truly live as a Girl Out of Order. Whether you’ve felt confusion, anger, or heartbreak over recent events, I ask you to walk with me in this episode as we re-center ourselves around compassion, connection, and bold, bridge-building love. No politics. Just humanity. Period.Join the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe!https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale
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#111 - Letting Go of Old Stories Keeping You Stuck - Pt. 4 - "Letting Go When the Heart Wants to Hold On"
"When we treat old stories like safety blankets, we forget they’re actually straight jackets—suffocating our potential and robbing us of joy."Sisters, this one’s personal. This final episode in the Letting Go When Your Heart Wants to Hold On series may be the most important message I’ve ever shared on the Girl Out of Order podcast. We're peeling back the layers and diving into something that touches every single one of us—our stories. The ones we whisper to ourselves when no one else is listening. The ones that keep us stuck, small, and safe... or so we think.In this episode, I'm inviting you into a raw and real conversation about the old stories we hold onto like safety blankets, even when they’ve become straight jackets. I walk you through how to identify the BS narratives that no longer serve you, how to challenge them, and most importantly, how to rewrite them. This isn't just about motivation—this is about transformation. You’re holding the pen, sister. So let’s write a new story together.Timeline Summary: [2:22] - Why our old stories feel safe—and why they’re secretly suffocating us [6:45] - From comfort to captivity: How “safety blankets” become straight jackets [9:38] - The whispers that define our destiny—recognizing the subtle lies we believe [13:19] - Real-life role models and the power of rewriting your story [20:28] - Why your story shapes your identity and your possibilities [24:42] - Tactical tools to name, reframe, and replace your limiting beliefs [26:57] - Finding mirrors, not echoes: Building a tribe that reflects your greatness [29:14] - How to audit your internal stories and take action toward the life you deserveLetting go isn't easy, but it is essential. If this series moved you, helped you, or fired you up—please rate, review, follow, and share the Girl Out of Order podcast. Let’s grow this bold, beautiful community of women rewriting their stories and reclaiming their power.Join the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe!https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale
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#110 - Letting Go of Friendships that No Longer Fit - Pt. 3 - "Letting Go When the Heart Wants to Hold On"
"Not all friendships are meant to last forever. Some are meant for a season, a reason, but not for life." Christine GaleThis episode of the Girl Out of Order podcast is one that comes straight from my heart to yours. In Episode 3 of our "Letting Go When the Heart Wants to Hold On" series, we're diving into a topic that many women avoid, yet nearly all of us face: letting go of friendships that have simply run their course. These are the losses that rarely come with closure, but often carry deep emotional weight. This conversation is about honoring your evolution, protecting your peace, and embracing the brave act of choosing yourself.Whether it's a decades-long friendship or a bond that once felt like soul-sisterhood, there comes a time when we have to assess if a relationship still aligns with who we are and where we're headed. I share raw, real stories from my own life, including a powerful reunion after a painful friendship break, and invite you into a space of courageous self-reflection. If you’ve ever felt torn between nostalgia and necessity, this one's for you.Next week, we’ll wrap up this powerful series with an episode that will challenge you deeply—we’re letting go of our old stories. Until then, keep being the girl out of order the world needs. Love you, sister.Timeline Summary:[2:19] - Unpacking the unspoken grief of fading friendships[4:44] - A neighborhood party sparks honest reflections on female friendship[7:08] - The power and pain of women's friendships across generations[9:20] - A personal story of friendship fracture, alignment, and awakening[13:41] - Are you clinging to who you were, not who you are now?[17:03] - When a friendship dims your light, it might be time to let go[18:15] - Grieving the loss of a friendship with grace and honesty[22:26] - Three steps to evaluate and release relationships that no longer serve youIf this episode touched your heart, please follow, rate, and share it with another parent walking this bittersweet path. Let’s remind each other — letting go is not the end, it’s a new beginning.Join the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe!https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale
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#109 - Letting Go of an Intimate Relationship - Pt 2 - "Letting Go When the Heart Wants to Hold On"
“Build a vision for your life that is bigger than your fear, and watch your courage rise to meet it.”In part two of our deeply personal series, “Letting Go When the Heart Wants to Hold On,” I’m leaning into one of the most tender, complex, and courageous conversations yet: letting go of an intimate partnership when your heart still clings to love. As a divorce attorney, a wife of nearly 32 years, and a woman who’s been doing the messy, beautiful work of self-discovery, this topic isn’t theoretical for me—it’s lived.In this episode, I’m not giving you advice or telling you what to do. I’m offering heartfelt invitations—to get honest with yourself, to stop gaslighting your intuition, and to build a courageous vision for the life you truly want. Whether you're questioning your relationship, supporting a friend, or simply evolving into a new version of yourself, this conversation is about choosing alignment over obligation, truth over fear, and growth over stagnation.This episode is tender. It’s real. And it’s here to remind you that your life is yours to design. If it resonated with you, please rate, follow, review, and share the podcast—it helps us grow this beautiful community of women walking courageously through change. And don’t miss next week’s conversation: letting go of friendships when your heart wants to hold on. It's going to be another soul-deep session.You are not alone. You are doing amazing. Keep being a Girl Out of Order. 💛Timeline Summary: [2:24] - Why I felt compelled to speak on letting go of intimate partnerships [5:30] - The power of radical honesty: What are you really holding on to? [9:36] - Stop gaslighting yourself: Listening to your inner knowing [13:40] - Love vs. alignment: Can you still grow in your current relationship? [17:46] - Building a vision for your life that’s bigger than your fear [21:52] - Create a courage container: Why you shouldn’t walk through this alone [28:33] - A powerful reminder: “I don’t have to decide today”If this episode touched your heart, please follow, rate, and share it with another parent walking this bittersweet path. Let’s remind each other — letting go is not the end, it’s a new beginning.Join the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe!https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/https://www.tiktok.com/@thechristinegale
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#108 - Letting Go When They Fly The Nest - Pt 1 - "Letting Go When the Heart Wants to Hold On"
“Letting go doesn’t mean losing them. It means trusting that the love you’ve poured into them will carry them farther than your arms ever could.”The 1st episode in the new 4-part series, "Letting Go When Your Heart Wants to Hold On" is timely and touching. Letting your college kiddos go is gut wrenching AND a beautiful opportunity to reimagine your gorgeous life.Over these next few episodes, we’ll explore what it really takes to release the people, relationships, and stories that no longer fit who we are becoming — even when every fiber of our heart wants to cling to the familiar. From relationships to stories, this series is an honest and tender look at how to let go without losing yourself in the process. In this opening episode, we’re diving into one of the most universal and emotional rites of passage for a parent — sending your child off to college. I share my own journey of navigating the swirl of emotions: the deep pride in who they’re becoming, the ache of their absence, and the surprising ways this transition can awaken a new version of you. Together, we’ll talk about the difference between holding on and staying connected, how to honor your feelings without being consumed by them, and why letting go can be an act of profound love. Buckle up because this series is going to be a gorgeous wake-up call and invitation to own your true identity as you navigate letting go when your heart doesn’t want to. Your compelling life is waiting for you!If this episode touched your heart, please follow, rate, and share it with another parent walking this bittersweet path. Let’s remind each other — letting go is not the end, it’s a new beginning.Join the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe!https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/
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#107 - How to Save a Life- Surviving Terror Sparked a Life-Saving Legacy with Lauren Finkelstein
"God kept me alive, and I’m going to use that gift to make a contribution on this planet." Lauren FinkelsteinWhat would you do if you stood just steps away from a suicide bombing… and lived? For my friend and fellow badass leader, Lauren Finkelstein, that moment changed everything. In this raw, unfiltered conversation, Lauren shares how surviving both the Sbarro bombing in Jerusalem and the attacks of 9/11 ignited her mission to “Save One Person” — a nonprofit connecting people in need with life-saving organ donors.From MTV dreams to deep grief, from near-death experiences to matching an 11-year-old girl with the kidney that saved her life, Lauren’s story is a testament to the truth that you don’t have to be perfect to live your purpose. This episode will challenge you to rethink how you show up, how you use your unique skills for good, and how to keep going… even when life gets messy.Lauren Finkelstein is the founder of SaveOnePerson.org, a nonprofit that uses media to help save lives by connecting people in urgent need of medical miracles and living organ donors with those who can help. With a background in television production and a passion for purpose-driven storytelling, Lauren has turned her skills into a global mission of compassion and impact.Timeline Highlights: [1:10] – Recording from a college library: the reality of showing up messy but committed [2:50] – “A mess with a mission”: Lauren’s raw self-introduction [7:45] – Surviving the Sbarro suicide bombing — the slow-motion moments and haunting realizations [16:10] – Declaring a new life purpose… just weeks before witnessing 9/11 firsthand [22:55] – Why Lauren’s mission focuses on living organ donation [26:05] – The 11-year-old girl whose life was saved — and how God weaves the details [31:56] – A “wink from the universe” from MTV’s Kurt Loder [34:35] – What’s saving Lauren’s life right now: connection, creativity, and communityFind Lauren in ALL the places:SaveOnePerson.orgTikTok: saveonepersonInstagram: Save1personTwitter (personal): @LaurenFinkelstTwitter (non-profit): @SaveOnePersonFacebook: Lauren Finkelstein and SaveOnePerson
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Ep. #106 Tammy Quist - A Woman on a Mission to Rewrite the Rules
“Agency is confronting the false narrative that says you’re not enough—and choosing to show up anyway.” – Tammy QuistIn this deeply moving and powerful episode of Girl Out of Order, I sit down with my soul sister and transformational change agent, Tammy Quist. She is not just an educational consultant; she is a catalyst for transformation with over three decades of experience in education, leadership, and team development. Tammy has woven a rich tapestry of impact across diverse settings—from rural classrooms to bustling urban schools as a teacher, mentor, principal, consultant, business owner, community leader, and school board member.From the moment we met at the True Voice Intensive, I knew Tammy had a message our community needed to hear. What began as an uncertain first impression blossomed into a beautiful friendship built on authenticity, shared purpose, and mutual respect.Together, we dive into what it truly means to develop agency in our lives—in our kids, our classrooms, and most importantly, ourselves. Tammy brings her wisdom as an educational consultant and leader to illuminate how we can shift from being passive observers of life to active participants. This conversation is a call to action for anyone ready to reclaim their voice, own their worth, and empower others to do the same.Tammy Quist is the very definition of a Girl Out of Order—bold, unapologetic, and fiercely committed to disrupting the status quo. With over three decades of experience in education, leadership, and team development, Tammy has led transformational change across rural classrooms, urban districts, and boardrooms alike. From teacher to principal, from consultant to community leader, Tammy has worn many hats—but her mission has remained the same: to empower others to rise. In 2025, Tammy was selected as the BES Fellow for Arizona, where she’s currently designing a revolutionary new high school—set to open in 2027—that will reimagine what’s possible for the next generation of student leaders.Tammy’s story, her voice, and her vision are a powerful call to women everywhere: Own your power. Lead with heart. And never settle for staying in line when you were born to stand out.Join the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe!https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/
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#105 - From Cocoon to Comeback: Re-Engaging With Purpose and Grace
Hey sister, I'm back—and oh, how I've missed this space! In this deeply personal solo episode, I'm sharing where I’ve been for the past two months and what it means to intentionally cocoon during life’s wildest transitions. From unforgettable mountaintop moments with my daughters to full-blown celebratory chaos (yes, we graduated three kids in 14 hours!), I’ve been living deeply and cocooning with purpose. But now? I’m waking up—and I want to help you do the same.If you've ever needed permission to pause or felt stuck on how to re-engage with your life, your mission, or your spark—this episode is for you. I walk you through five heart-centered principles to help you transition out of a cocooning season and re-enter your world with clarity, energy, and grace. Let's wake up together.⏳ Timeline Summary[1:08] - Why I went silent for two months and what cocooning really meant for me [3:20] - Sacred time with Chloe in Zion: the unexpected start of a transformative season [5:15] - Jet-setting, FOMO, and three unforgettable family graduations [10:22] - Partying like rockstars and the crash that followed: my three-week illness [14:06] - My declaration: This is my summer of serenity and surrender [16:35] - Facing the empty nest with both fear and excitement [17:48] - Waking up from the cocoon: five steps to re-engage with your life [26:35] - Honoring the pause and giving yourself grace [28:22] - What’s coming next for the Girl Out of Order podcastJoin the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe!https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/
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#104 - When the Unexpected Arrives - Rising with Grace Through Life’s Storms
“The unexpected will arrive, sister—but it doesn’t have to break you. It can build you.”In this deeply personal and raw conversation, I open up about something every single one of us has experienced—or will: the arrival of the unexpected. Whether it's a sudden loss, a devastating diagnosis, a dream deferred, or even something as frustrating as a surprise tax bill, life has a way of knocking us off balance. But here's the truth—I believe with every fiber of my being that we get to choose what it means AND we ge to choose what we do next.If you're walking through pain right now, or still healing from a storm that hit you out of nowhere, this episode is for you. I share pieces of my own story—my miscarriage, financial setbacks, the loss of my parents, betrayal, and more—to show you that rising is possible. Together, we talk about sacred curiosity, how to stop fighting reality, how to reclaim your power, and why sitting in the suck is sometimes the most healing thing we can do.This isn’t just an episode—it’s a lifeline. A call to reconnect with your body, ground yourself in what’s still true, and take small but powerful steps toward healing. I’m here with you, sister. Always.xoxo - Christine 🥰⏱️ Episode Timeline Highlights:[2:18] – Big podcast updates: a revamp is coming and I’m inviting you to be a guest [4:36] – Two ways you can help grow our Girl Out of Order community [7:03] – Shifting into today’s soul-stirring topic: when the unexpected arrives [9:42] – Personal story: the miscarriage that shattered my illusion of certainty [13:47] – Why we struggle so deeply with the unexpected—and how to shift the meaning [17:39] – Rising from betrayal, loss, grief and choosing transformation over victimhood [20:48] – What still remains after loss? Reclaiming power through radical acceptance [24:21] – 3 powerful practices for when life crashes in: feel, reconnect, get curious [27:25] – Grounding questions to help you take one courageous step forwardJoin the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe!https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/
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#103 - 3 Tips for Finding Calm in Chaos
“Fear screams, but truth whispers. Choose to listen to the whispers.”I’m back after a much-needed breath, and in today’s episode, I’m diving into a topic that couldn’t be more timely: finding calm in the chaos. Life right now feels like a wild storm — uncertain news, unpredictable relationships, and just straight-up overwhelm. If you're feeling it too, you’re not alone. This episode is my heart-to-heart gift to you — a moment to pause, breathe, and reconnect with what’s true.I’m sharing three powerful, practical tools I’ve been using to stay grounded when everything around me feels like it’s spinning. These aren’t just cute quotes or fluffy affirmations — they’re rooted in experience, energy, and a whole lotta love. You’ll walk away with real strategies to anchor your mornings, shift your mindset, and silence the noise so you can move forward with confidence and peace. You’ve got this — and I’ve got you.xoxo - Christine 🥰⏱️ Episode Timeline Highlights:[0:02] - Why I took a week off — the power of pausing to process[2:24] - The chaos we’re all feeling and how I’m navigating it right now[4:50] - The truth about what we can control (hint: it’s between your ears)[6:57] - Tip 1: Anchor your morning — Why how you start your day changes everything[11:40] - Tip 2: Name what’s true, not what’s loud — How to silence fear and listen to truth[14:43] - Tip 3: Practice daily incantations — Embodying empowering beliefs through movement and energy[17:07] - How I’m grounding myself daily, even as the world swirls with chaosJoin the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe!https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/
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#102 - Deep Breath - 5 Tips for Navigating the Spring Hustle Without Losing Your Mind
"You are allowed to disappoint someone else before you betray your beautiful self." Me :)Spring is blooming, and so is your calendar—and if you’re anything like me, you’ve looked at your upcoming schedule and thought, “What the heck… how am I going to do it all?” This episode is a soul-centered pep talk and a practical strategy session rolled into one. Whether you’re a mom juggling end-of-year madness, a woman navigating life transitions, or someone simply trying to breathe through the chaos, this one’s for you.I’m sharing raw, real moments (yes, including peeing my pants at a soccer game) to remind you that you’re not alone—and more importantly, you don’t have to sacrifice yourself to survive the spring season. From emotional overwhelm to overloaded to-do lists, I’ve been there—and I’m giving you the exact tools that are helping me thrive right now. It’s time to reclaim your peace, protect your presence, and actually enjoy this crazy, beautiful life.If this episode gave you a breath of fresh air, do me a favor—follow, rate, and review the podcast. And please share it with a fellow sister navigating the beautiful chaos. Because when women live in alignment with their truest selves, the world shifts. And we need that more than ever. 💛Until next time, keep showing up. You’re not alone—and you’ve got this.🌸 Episode Timeline & Highlights[1:20] – The reality of spring: Not just blooming flowers—bursting calendars and overloaded expectations. [4:10] – A full house of kids reminds me just how much strength it took to survive the early parenting years. [9:00] – The wake-up call: Ignoring my body’s basic needs to serve everyone else (and what that cost me). [13:10] – Five sanity-saving strategies for spring—starting with bookending your days with intention. [16:45] – Name the noise: How to separate internal alignment from external pressure. [17:47] – Sacred pauses aren’t optional—they’re your lifeline. Schedule them in. [20:57] – Say “no” with love… and ban the guilt. Disappoint others before betraying yourself. [24:45] – Choose soul-nourishing connection over surface-level obligations. Quality > quantity. [27:00] – The emotional weight of “the lasts”—and why you don’t want to miss the richness of now. Join the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe!https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/
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#101 - From Clearance to Priceless - Owning Your Worth with Kara Vaval of the Laptop Lawyer Lifestyle
"You'll never know what you're truly made of if you stay in a situation that forces you to dim your light." Kara Vaval - Laptop Lawyer LifestyleHave you ever felt stuck in a life that no longer fits who you are? In this powerful episode, I sit down with the unstoppable Kara Vaval—lawyer, coach, author, and unapologetic powerhouse—who shares her journey from heartbreak and struggle to building a life of abundance, freedom, and purpose. From losing her father at a young age to breaking free from an unfulfilling marriage, Kara opens up about how she rewrote her own story, ditched the victim mindset, and stepped into her power.We dive into the importance of trusting your gut, shedding limiting beliefs, and embracing the discomfort of change. Kara shares how she went from practicing law to selling Mary Kay to fund her dreams, proving that success is never a straight path. If you're feeling stuck, uninspired, or afraid to step into the unknown—this episode is your wake-up call.Kara Vaval is a visionary advocate for balanced living and personal fulfillment. With over 16 years of experience in the legal field, she brings a wealth of expertise to her role as a personal injury lawyer, entrepreneur, and business coach. Her “Laptop Lifestyle Lawyer” brand is just one way that she advances her unwavering mission and dedication to promoting balance and financial independence for all, especially for women. Kara continually empowers others to live life on their terms, creating lives full of memorable quality experiences that bring them true joy and satisfaction.⏳ Episode Timeline: [3:25] - Tragedy & transformation: Kara’s early years and the loss that shaped her [9:32] - The unexpected twist: Passing the bar and a pregnancy test at the same time [15:47] - From law firm to lipstick: How Mary Kay helped Kara build her law practice [30:06] - From clearance to priceless: The moment Kara chose to stop playing small [39:24] - The power of saying "no" and making space for what aligns with your worth [45:53] - Why fear of the unknown is holding you back from the life you deserve [53:41] - What Kara is doing now & how you can work with her!FIND KARA IN ALL THE PLACES:https://karavaval.com/https://www.instagram.com/karavavalesq/https://www.facebook.com/karavavalCheck out here podcast too! https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/laptop-lifestyle-lawyer/id1558701867
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#100 - Who Is Girl Out of Order Now? Celebrating 100 Episodes!
"When you're feeling like you want to quit, like you don’t know why you keep going—go back to your why. Because what you focus on gets bigger, and your purpose will always bring you back home." Christine Gale - Girl Out of OrderWOW. We made it, my friends! 100 episodes! I am feeling ALL the feels right now—excitement, pride, gratitude, and just sheer amazement at this journey. Nearly 4 years in the making, this milestone represents resilience, passion, and an unwavering commitment to showing up—even when it’s hard, even when doubt creeps in, even when the path feels uncertain. So today, we’re diving back into the heart of what this podcast is all about. We’re going back to the beginning, reflecting on where we started, why this movement exists, and what’s coming next. Because, my sisters, this is just the beginning.This isn’t just my celebration—it’s our celebration. Because YOU are Girl Out of Order. You are the woman who refuses to shrink, who steps into her power, who is DONE conforming. And sister, the world needs you now more than ever.So let’s keep going. Let’s keep growing. Let’s keep saying HELL YES to the life we are meant to live.💜 If this podcast has touched your heart, if it has lifted you up when you needed it—please take a moment to rate, review, and share. Your support is what fuels this movement.Here’s to the next 100 episodes. Here’s to YOU.Episode Highlights:🎙️ [00:01] – Broadcasting live from the Worry Studios in Las Vegas—only TWO of these studios exist in North America!🔥 [02:17] – Why this milestone is so emotional for me & what it took to get here.🌟 [04:27] – Girl Outta Order isn’t just a podcast—it’s a movement. Who is she? Who are WE?💡 [06:41] – The phrase that keeps me going when self-doubt tries to take over: Just serve the one.💥 [08:49] – How saying YES—again and again—has changed my life and why it will change yours too.💫 [13:18] – A special moment with Simone Prince—proof that your voice reaches further than you ever know.🚀 [17:37] – Looking ahead: 100 episodes down, 100+ MORE to come! What do YOU want to hear next?
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#99 - Don't Ignore the "Nudge" - What I Know For Sure Pt. 2
“Your compelling, beautiful, exciting life is waiting right on the other side of the nudge.” Christine D. GaleWe’re one episode away from 100, and I am fired up! 🎉 In this milestone moment, we’re diving into something I know for sure: we cannot ignore the nudge. You know the one—the whisper, the tug on your heart, that feeling in your gut telling you there's more. But too often, we push it aside, rationalize it away, and stay stuck in lives that don’t fulfill us. Today, I’m breaking down why listening to that nudge is the key to unlocking the life you were designed to live.Here’s the truth, sister: your most exciting, purpose-filled life is waiting just on the other side of action. If you’ve been feeling restless, stuck, or like something’s missing, this episode is for you.🔥 Sister, the world is waiting for you. Stop ignoring the nudge and start building that gorgeous life! If this episode spoke to you, please share, rate, and review. Let’s get this message into the hearts of more women who need it. 💕Episode Highlights:[1:30] - Almost 100 episodes—celebrating this incredible global community! 🌍[4:50] - The one thing I know for sure: We cannot ignore the nudge[7:15] - My very unexpected thrill-seeking moment & what it taught me about fear[11:35] - How we rationalize away our dreams (and why that needs to stop)[16:55] - The real reason you feel stuck—it's not what you think[19:10] - Your next step: Get curious, listen, and take actionJoin the Girl Out of Order Facebook Tribe!https://www.facebook.com/groups/girloutoforderLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/
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#98 - You Only Fail When You Quit - What I Know For Sure Pt. 1
"The only way you can guarantee failure is to quit. But you, sister? You are a Girl Out of Order. You are not a quitter. The world needs what only you can provide."I cannot believe we are closing in on 100 episodes of Girl Out of Order! This journey has been nothing short of incredible, and as I reflect on the past few years, I’ve been feeling all the feels—nostalgia, gratitude, and a deep sense of purpose. But I’ve also been stuck in a bit of a creative rut, wondering what I wanted to talk about next. And then, it hit me.Inspired by Oprah Winfrey’s book What I Know for Sure, I’m kicking off a special three-part series where I dive deep into the lessons I’ve learned on this wild ride of creating Girl Out of Order. And in today’s episode, I start with the biggest truth I’ve uncovered: the only way you can fail is to quit. Whether it's a podcast, a marriage, a business, or a dream that feels impossible—when self-doubt creeps in and you feel like throwing in the towel, that’s when you need to reconnect with your why. This episode is for every woman who has ever felt exhausted, discouraged, or on the verge of giving up. So if you need a reminder that your mission matters, hit play now, because sister, I promise—you're not alone.Episode Highlights[2:24] – Kicking off a powerful three-part series inspired by Oprah Winfrey’s What I Know for Sure[4:45] – The biggest lesson I’ve learned from nearly 100 episodes: The only way to fail is to quit[6:52] – When self-doubt hits, this is what you need to do to stay the course[9:42] – Reconnecting with my why: Why I created Girl Out of Order and why it still matters[13:57] – A powerful reminder for every woman who feels like she’s struggling to fit in[15:41] – The life-changing story of a listener who reminded me why I can’t stop this mission[17:16] – Success is what you define it to be—so don’t let quitting be an option.Let’s Keep Building This Community!If this episode spoke to you, please share it with a fellow Girl Out of Order! Leave a review, subscribe, and help us reach even more women who need this message. Because sister, the world needs what only you can provide. See you next time! 💜
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#97 - You Are Not a Stray - Dr. Renaisa Anthony on Knowing Your Worth and Living It Out
"You are not a stray. You are a full package, and we are no longer accepting crumbs." Dr. Renaisa AnthonyIn this powerful episode, I sit down with the incredible Dr. Renaisa Anthony—Harvard-trained physician, public health advocate, and fierce champion for women and mothers. From growing up in Detroit to leading life-changing initiatives through Momentum Park, Dr. Ren shares her inspiring journey of resilience, identity, and purpose. We dive into what it truly means to embrace every part of our story, the power of community, and why you are not a stray—you are a full package.Join us for a heartfelt, eye-opening conversation that will challenge the way you see yourself, your past, and your potential.About Dr. Ren:Dr. Renisa Anthony is a Harvard-trained physician, also trained at the University of Chicago. She's a public health practitioner and an innovator. This woman, as if that wasn't enough, has founded this incredible organization called Momentum Park as her proclaimed soul work and labor of love after working two decades in the traditional healthcare and academic sectors. Dr. Anthony was born premature to a single mama in one of the poorest zip codes in Detroit and is personally and professionally dedicated to advancing equity and justice. She is also a proud and active fur mama of three Yorkshire Terriers. Episode Highlights:[3:15] - Growing up in Detroit & the realities of being a latchkey kid[7:46] - The life-changing opportunity that shifted her path at 13[10:59] - Embracing every version of yourself and honoring your journey[24:20] - A profound lesson on self-worth from a dear friend[41:12] - A humbling perspective shift from an unexpected teacher[50:01] - How Momentum Park is redefining support for moms & babiesResources & Links:🔗 Learn more about Momentum Park: https://momentumpark.org/ https://www.instagram.com/momentum_park/🔗 Connect with Dr. Renaisa Anthony: https://www.instagram.com/drrenabossbae/https://www.facebook.com/renaisa.anthonyLoved this episode? Rate, review, and share with someone who needs to hear this message! 💛✨
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#96 - SPECIAL EPISODE - Supporting Our Jewish Sisters and Uniting Against Terror
“Evil is not some grand, supernatural force. It’s the small moments of inhumanity, the quiet choices to look away, the subtle dismissals of suffering. That is where evil thrives.”— Susan Neiman, moral philosopherI am showing up today with a broken heart and a fierce, unwavering spirit. If you’ve been paying attention, you know that on October 7, 2023, Hamas terrorists invaded Israel, massacring over 1,200 innocent men, women, and children and taking hundreds hostage. Women were raped, tortured, and dragged through the streets. Babies were ripped from their mothers' arms. And yet, the world has largely remained silent.Let me very clear: this is not a political statement—this is a human statement.I refuse to stand by while Jewish women in my life are suffering, not just from the horrific attacks but from the deafening silence of their non-Jewish friends and from the world. These women—our sisters—are grieving, terrified, and questioning why so few are checking in, offering support, or even acknowledging their pain.What is happening in Israel and in the tunnels of Gaza is pure evil. And if this doesn’t break your heart, if it doesn’t ignite righteous outrage, I urge you to check yourself.This episode is a call to action for every woman who believes in the dignity of human life. I implore you to:✅ Break the silence—reach out to Jewish friends, acknowledge their pain, and stand with them.✅ Recognize evil when you see it—do not minimize or excuse acts of terror.✅ Reject selective outrage—if we stand for women, we must stand for all women.✅ Take action—use your platform, speak out, and refuse to be complicit in silence.Never again...
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#95 - Owning It & Staying True With Loren Lahav
"Owning it means embracing every part of your journey—the messy, the magical, and everything in between." Loren LahavWhat does it truly mean to own it—your story, your mission, your worth? Today, I’m joined by the incredible Loren Lahav, a powerhouse speaker, mentor, and all-around beautiful badass who has spent decades empowering women to step into their greatness. Loren and I first crossed paths in Fiji, and from that moment, I knew she had to be in my life and on this podcast. In this powerful episode, we dive deep into the journey of self-discovery, the power of intuition, and the importance of surrounding yourself with the right people.Loren shares her fascinating backstory—from her unexpected introduction to Tony Robbins, to her years of leadership within his organization, to the creation of OWN IT, her life-changing event designed to help women fully embrace who they are. We talk about learning to listen to life’s whispers, making bold moves before you feel “ready,” and the evolution of self-worth. If you’ve been waiting for permission to step up and claim your space in this world, this is it!Episode Highlights:[3:15] - Loren’s first introduction to Tony Robbins and how it changed the trajectory of her life[9:40] - The whispers we ignore—how intuition can guide us to our next chapter[16:00] - Conducting a “life audit” and why certain relationships no longer serve you[27:45] - The power of your inner dialogue and how it shapes your reality[39:10] - Why true connection matters: Building a tribe that lifts you higher[45:30] - The story behind OWN IT—and why it's so much more than an eventLinks & Resources:🔹 Join Us at OWN IT (March 7-9, 2025) – Get all the details and grab your spot: https://incredevent.com/own-your-worth-experience-2025-nevada-1479825718?pv=662a9b87b771115dae0c7213🔹 Connect with Loren Lahav: [Website] https://lorenlahav.com/ | [Instagram] https://www.instagram.com/iamlorenlahav/ | [Facebook] https://www.facebook.com/IAmLorenLahav🔹 Get Loren’s book Stay True on Amazon or at your favorite retailer 🔹 Follow & Connect With Me: https://www.thechristinegale.com/, https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale, https://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/🔹 Want a FREE Virtual Ticket to OWN IT? Use the coupon code TLCFREERate, Review & Follow!If you loved this episode, please take a moment to rate and review the podcast—it helps more women like you find these conversations. Don’t forget to hit follow so you never miss an episode! And if this episode spoke to you, share it with a friend who needs to hear it.
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#94 - When Life Hits Hard - How to Find Strength in the Storm
"When Life Feels Unfair, Remember Who You Are."This special Thursday episode is straight from the heart, because I know someone out there—maybe even you—needs to hear this. Life threw a series of unexpected and painful challenges my way this week, and I found myself grappling with anger, fear, and injustice, especially when it came to protecting my child. But here’s the truth: No matter what happens, we always have a choice in how we respond.In today’s episode, I’m sharing a deeply personal story about what happened to my daughter, how I handled it (and how I wanted to handle it), and the mindset shifts that kept me from spiraling. If you’ve ever faced unfair treatment, betrayal, or situations that rocked you to your core, this episode will remind you of the power you have within you to rise above, find the gifts, and stand strong in who you are.Episode Breakdown:🔹 [2:22] – When life feels like it’s happening to you instead of for you🔹 [5:35] – My daughter’s car was vandalized—here’s how I chose to respond🔹 [7:55] – The moment my mama instincts kicked into high gear🔹 [12:07] – Facing injustice: My husband's unexpected job loss🔹 [15:36] – Then life threw another curveball… injury, fear, and resilience🔹 [19:50] – “You're my rock”: The words that changed everything🔹 [22:10] – How to shift your focus, control your reactions, and find the gifts🔹 [24:31] – Three powerful steps to navigate any challengeLet's Connect!https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.thechristinegale.com/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygale/
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#93 - Rejection, Resilience, and Radiating Joy with Erin Nunweiler
“You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.” Maya AngelouGet ready for a deep, uplifting, and fun conversation with the radiant Erin Nunweiler, founder of Spread More Love and Joy! In this episode, Erin shares her powerful journey of self-discovery and resilience, including the challenging decisions that cost her a career of nearly 30 years and strained family relationships. Through it all, Erin's relentless positivity and focus on gratitude became her guiding light.We explore how moments of adversity shaped Erin’s mission to ignite joy in others and inspire them to live authentically. From life lessons learned as a flight attendant to the importance of stepping into your story, Erin reveals how a mindset of gratitude, bold choices, and radical self-acceptance can shift everything. Plus, hear all about her colorful clothing line that’s designed to spark joy and invite others to be their unapologetic selves. Whether you’re facing a tough season or just need a boost of positivity, this episode will empower you to see your struggles as opportunities to rise and thrive.Who is this incredible human?Erin Nunweiler is an energetic, joy-filled entrepreneur, content creator, and world traveler dedicated to spreading love and positivity. With over 28 years as a flight attendant, Erin has explored the globe, embracing adventure and connection. She is the CEO of Spread More Love and Joy, a brand focused on uplifting others through inspiring content, creative workshops, and vibrant, self-expressive products. Passionate about creativity, she loves painting, hosting unforgettable events, and helping people reignite their spark for life. Whether through her daily adventures, Erin’s mission is to help others say yes to life, have more fun, and live boldly.Where to find Erin:https://spreadmoreloveandjoy.com/ https://www.facebook.com/SpreadMoreLoveandJoy https://www.facebook.com/erin.nunweiler https://www.instagram.com/spreadmoreloveandjoy/ https://www.instagram.com/erinbabykitty/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/erinnunweiler/Join the Girl Out of Order Community on Facebook for updates and inspiration: https://tr.ee/AyfdMcIrI2The Girl Out of Order Podcast is now on YouTube! Please subscribe so we can share this message with more women and build up our tribe of incredible women creating compelling lives! Click here: https://tr.ee/Q2OQ2dxfFkLet’s connect! We want to hear from you!Email me at [email protected]://thechristinegale.comhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/christine-d-gale-esq-0b899b204/https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygalehttps://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/
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#92 - You Are NOT Your Trauma - Redefining Identity and Creating Lasting Healing with Jeanette Lira
I'm a firm believer of following the energy. If you have to pound on a closed door to get it to open, it's not meant for you. Jeanette LiraIn this episode, I sit down with the inspiring Jeanette Lira—licensed professional counselor, business owner, and single mama—whose story is a powerful testament to the strength it takes to rebuild and redefine your life. From the life-changing loss of her brother to stepping out of a marriage and job that no longer served her, Jeanette shares how small, courageous decisions helped her embrace a new, authentic identity.We dive deep into how to balance healing and growth, why failure is a necessary part of the journey, and the importance of surrounding yourself with a supportive tribe. Jeanette also shares how her heritage as a Mexican-American woman influences her mission to empower others. Plus, we talk about her journey to starting multiple successful businesses (and a few that didn’t work out!)—all while navigating motherhood and a deeply personal healing journey.This conversation is rich with vulnerability, wisdom, and practical tools for cultivating bravery and creating a life on your terms. Whether you're at a crossroads or seeking inspiration, this one’s for you.Where to find the amazing Jeanette Lira:https://jeanettelira.com/https://www.instagram.com/jeanettenlira/https://www.facebook.com/jeanette.lira.94https://auraviatherapy.com/Episode Highlights[00:01] – Welcome to the show, Jeanette Lira![02:03] – How Jeanette and I met: shared experiences in Fiji and our True Legacy Collective sisterhood[03:20] – Jeanette’s story: From school counselor to entrepreneur, overcoming grief, and finding herself[06:15] – Breaking free from chaos: How loss shifted Jeanette’s identity and became a catalyst for change[09:33] – “Pole-dancing moms and climbing mountains”: Breaking out of societal roles and embracing self-expression[16:05] – The power of small shifts: Focusing on survival needs like movement, sleep, and nourishment[22:27] – Facing fears: How Jeanette started with small acts of bravery like going to the movies and concerts alone[25:19] – Knowing when to quit: The catalyst that led Jeanette to leave her job and follow her intuition[36:50] – “You are not your trauma”: Separating your identity from the worst things that have happened to you[41:51] – Jeanette’s mission to empower Hispanic women and navigate dual identities[50:52] – Final question: What is saving your life right now? Jeanette’s answer may surprise you!Let’s connect! We want to hear from you!Email me at [email protected]://thechristinegale.com https://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygalehttps://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/https://www.linkedin.com/in/christine-d-gale-esq-0b899b204/
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#91 - Finding True Belonging- Lessons from the Dominican Republic
"True belonging doesn’t require us to change who we are; it requires us to be who we are." – Brené BrownIn this deeply personal episode of Girl Out of Order, I’m sharing the powerful lessons I learned about belonging during my recent trip to the Dominican Republic. From a young age, I’ve struggled to find my place in the world, feeling like a square peg in a round hole. Can you relate? Whether it was at the dinner table, in classrooms, or social groups, the feeling of not quite fitting in has been a lifelong challenge. But this journey to the Dominican Republic with my True Legacy Collective sisters opened my eyes—and my heart—to the true meaning of belonging in ways I never expected.Join me as I take you through an unforgettable experience of service, self-discovery, and connection. I'll share how a moment in a beautiful labyrinth—surrounded by women who inspire me—helped break down my walls and finally allowed me to embrace the power of belonging. If you've ever struggled with feeling like you don't fit in or questioned where you truly belong, this episode is for you. Together, we’ll explore what it takes to create belonging in our own lives and how we can cultivate it for others.Episode Highlights:[4:40] – My lifelong struggle with belonging and why it still impacts me today.[7:02] – Eye-opening lessons from my trip to the Dominican Republic and how I prepared for the experience.[10:01] – The moment I realized I was still holding back and questioning my place within my tribe.[13:54] – Walking the labyrinth: releasing, manifesting, and the surprising shift that changed everything.[20:15] – The powerful moment of surrender and the words that finally made me feel at home.[27:03] – Lessons learned: How you can create belonging right where you are.[31:13] – Practical ways to cultivate a sense of belonging through vulnerability, community, and contribution.Join the Girl Out of Order Community on Facebook for updates and inspiration: https://tr.ee/AyfdMcIrI2The Girl Out of Order Podcast is now on YouTube! Please subscribe so we can share this message with ore women and build up our G.O.O.O. tribe of outstanding women creating compelling lives! Click here: https://tr.ee/Q2OQ2dxfFkPlease share my course called Demystifying Divorce for Women where I lead women to the goal of having an empowered divorce experience:https://bit.ly/DemystifyingDivorceLet’s connect! We want to hear from you!Email me at [email protected]://girloutoforder.comhttps://www.facebook.com/christine.salsberrygalehttps://www.instagram.com/thechristinegale/
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#90 - Unveiling Your True Self: Dawn Taylor on the Journey to Personal Mastery
"Let's be honest: Showing up as your true self – flaws and all – can be scary as hell. But it's also where the greatest growth happens." Dawn TaylorWelcome to this transformative episode of the Girl Out of Order podcast, where we sit down with the inspiring Dawn Taylor, the creator of Personal Mastery, to explore the profound significance of identity work for women. This candid and empowering conversation dives deep into the challenges many women face in embracing their evolving identities and the importance of continuous personal growth. Dawn reminds us that identity is not a fixed destination but a continuous journey of discovery. Whether you're just starting out or well into your path, this episode is packed with insights to inspire, uplift, and challenge you to take intentional action toward the life you desire.Key Takeaways for YOU!Discover why identity work is a cornerstone of women's empowerment and how it fuels personal mastery.Learn how embracing the idea of being a "work in progress" can open the door to new possibilities and growth.Explore how education and intentionality create opportunities for designing a life that aligns with your true self.Uncover the power of curiosity in navigating life's complexities and reclaiming permission to explore your identity, no matter your age.Hear why community and sisterhood are essential for fostering growth and supporting transformation.Gain insight into the role of vulnerability and frameworks in creating a safe space for exploring your full potential.It's time to find your way home to YOU, to your most authentic self so you can begin to create the life you dream of about deserve. We are in this together! ✨ Stay out of order,xoxo - ChristineFebruary 4th is THE beginning of an important journey. Will you join us? The Who Are You Really Mastermind, A Journey Through the 5 Phases of Identity Creation is launching and spots are filling up fast! If you're ready to find the way home to your true self and design the life of your dreams, join this supportive sisterhood here: https://whoareyoureallymastermind.com/offerFollow Dawn Taylor:https://personalmastery.podbean.com/https://www.facebook.com/dawn.taylor.562329Dawn Taylor is the founder of Personal Mastery and creator of the transformative program, The 5 Steps to YOU. A seasoned professional in education, Dawn is a passionate advocate for lifelong learning and personal growth. Drawing from her deep understanding of cognitive behavior and the science behind why we do what we do, she empowers women to break through limiting beliefs, design meaningful goals, and take purposeful action. Navigating her own journey through perimenopause and life transitions, Dawn believes every stage of life holds immense value. She champions the power of sisterhood and connection, creating supportive spaces for women to evolve and thrive. Dawn’s work bridges reflective self-discovery with practical strategies, helping women step into their authentic selves and lead fulfilling, purpose-driven lives.
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Girl Out of Order is not just a podcast—it’s a call to action for the woman who's done shrinking, contorting, and apologizing for who she is. Hosted by Christine Gale, attorney, speaker, identity coach, and unapologetic girl-mom, this show is your go-to space for fierce conversations, gut-level honesty, and radical permission to reclaim the woman you were always meant to be.Girl Out of Order challenges the belief that women must play small to belong. No topic off-limits and no mask required.Through solo episodes, powerhouse guest interviews, and Christine’s signature blend of humor, truth-telling, and challenge, you’ll be inspired to drop your sword, stop the self-abandonment, and rise in your worth. Because fitting in is overrated—and being out of order might be exactly what sets you free.If you’ve ever felt like too much and never enough at the same time, pull up a seat. This is your home.
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Christine Gale
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