Monday Morning Mindset Shift

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Monday Morning Mindset Shift

Welcome to the Monday Morning Mindset Shift, where I set you up for success going into the week by shifting your mindset. I share everything I've learned about mental health, self-development, productivity, mental toughness, and mindset so you can be the best version of yourself every single day.Having struggled with an eating disorder, anxiety, Daddy issues, mommy issues, and everything in between, I feel empowered and strong enough to help people who are going through the same things. Give me 5-7 minutes on a Monday morning, and I’ll give you something thought-provoking and eye-opening to start your week. I want to give you bite-sized pieces of education, entertainment, and motivation to consume in order to make you feel invincible and bulletproof for the rest of your week!This show is for anyone who's even struggled with self-esteem and self-worth, and KNOWS that they can do, be, and have more. This is for those committed to being the best version of themselves, lev

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    You Can Run a Company. So Why Can't You Run Your Own Body?

    If you're a high-performing professional who can execute flawlessly at work but can't seem to make your health stick, this episode is the missing piece. We break down the all-or-nothing fitness trap, what chronic stress actually does to your metabolism, and why your body needs a trust-based approach — not more intensity. Built for smart, successful people who are tired of starting over.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    You Can't Heal What You Don't Feel

    You Can’t Heal What You Can’t Feel: Self-Awareness, the Nervous System, and Breaking the Habit LoopIf you’ve ever wondered why you keep ending up in the same patterns — same stress responses, same self-sabotage, same cycle of starting over — this episode is the missing piece. Licensed Clinical Social Worker and psychotherapist Lisa Arrigo joins the show to talk about the one thing most fitness and wellness conversations completely skip: self-awareness as the foundational skill of physical transformation. Before your body can change, your nervous system has to feel safe enough to allow it — and before that can happen, you have to be able to see yourself clearly, your patterns, your triggers, your habit loops, without judgment. Lisa breaks down what’s actually happening in the body when high-functioning people are running on chronic stress, why emotional intelligence doesn’t protect you from disconnection, and how unresolved trauma quietly blocks physical change no matter how clean you eat or how hard you train. If you’re ready to stop starting over and actually understand the system beneath the cycle — this one’s for you.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    When You've Invested in Everything but Yourself

    You've tried the programs, the diets, the challenges — and you're still not where you want to be. In this episode, we unpack why high-performing people consistently put themselves last and what that's actually costing you mentally, physically, and emotionally. If you've ever said 'I'll deal with my health later,' this episode is for you.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

  4. 174

    Your Nervous System Is Running the Show (Not Your Discipline)

    Feel like you start strong with your workouts and nutrition… only to fall off a few days later? This episode breaks down the real reason behind inconsistency—and it’s not a lack of discipline. Jaime Filer explains how your nervous system controls your ability to follow through, why cycles of burnout and “starting over” keep happening, and how anxiety and stress directly impact your habits, motivation, and results. If you’re tired of blaming yourself for falling off track, this episode will help you understand what’s actually going on in your body—and how to finally create consistency that lasts.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

  5. 173

    You’re Not Broken, You’re Unsupported

    If you’ve ever felt like you “should be able to do this on your own” but keep struggling with consistency, motivation, or your relationship with food and fitness—this episode will change how you see yourself. Jaime Filer dives into the myth of self-sufficiency and why high-achieving women often stay stuck trying to solve everything alone. Through personal stories of eating disorder recovery, anxiety healing, and identity work, Jaime reveals why support is the missing link—not discipline—and how external guidance, structure, and new perspectives are essential for lasting transformation. You’re not broken—you’ve just been trying to do it without the support you actually need.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

  6. 172

    You Don’t Think Your Way Into Self-Worth; You Act Your Way Into It

    If you’ve been waiting to feel confident, motivated, or “ready” before you take action in your fitness, health, or life… this episode is your wake-up call. Jaime Filer breaks down why self-worth isn’t something you unlock through mindset work alone—but something you build through consistent, aligned action. Drawing from her experience with eating disorder recovery, Jaime shares how real change happens when you move before you believe, and how confidence is created through evidence—not thought loops. If you’re stuck in overthinking, self-doubt, or inconsistency, this episode will help you shift from hesitation to action.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

  7. 171

    All About Boundaries: When your growth makes people uncomfortable

    If setting boundaries makes you feel guilty, anxious, or “too much,” this episode is for you. In this powerful conversation, Jaime Filer explores the connection between self-worth and boundaries — especially for high-achieving lesbians who are used to over-functioning and people-pleasing. Learn why healthy boundaries may upset others, why that doesn’t mean you’re wrong, and how self-worth transforms your relationships, energy, and even your health. If you’ve ever felt like you only matter when you’re easy to deal with, this episode will help you reclaim your space.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

  8. 170

    The Myth of Self Sufficiency

    If you’re a burned out woman who has built a career, holds everyone else together, and still feels like fitness is the one area you “can’t get it together”, this episode is for you.In this powerful mindset shift, I unpack why trying to do it all on your own isn’t a badge of honor ... it’s often the very thing keeping you stuck. You’ll learn why self-sufficiency can mask deeper patterns, how structure reduces anxiety and decision fatigue, and why elite performers rely on systems, not motivation, to create lasting results.If you’ve ever thought, “I should be able to do this alone,” this episode will reframe everything. You don’t lack discipline. You lack design. And that’s fixable.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    What If You Acted Like You Were Already Her?

    If you’ve ever said “I’m not a high performer,” or “I just don’t see myself as someone who follows through,” this episode is for you. I dive into the identity gap between who you are and who you want to be, and how the fastest way to bridge that gap isn’t through motivation, but through embodiment. You'll learn how to shift your internal narrative, stop living by your past, and start showing up like the version of you that already exists underneath the self-doubt. If you’ve been waiting to feel ready… this is your sign to start becoming her now.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

  10. 168

    Food Isn’t a Reward. It’s Required.

    If you’ve ever tried to “earn” your food with workouts or punish yourself for indulgent weekends, this episode is for you. I dives deep into the toxic reward-and-restriction cycle so many high-achieving women are stuck in—and shows you how it's sabotaging your fat loss, hormone health, and relationship with food.Learn the science of under-fueling, how fasted workouts impact your nervous system, and what it really takes to eat like someone who wants to feel strong, calm, and energized. Ditch the diet guilt and discover how to fuel your body with intention, not shame.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    Why You’re Not Seeing Progress (Even Though You’re Doing Everything “Right”)

    Feeling stuck despite tracking your macros, lifting consistently, and doing everything right? In this episode, Jaime unpacks the real reason your progress may have stalled—hint: it's not your effort, it's your execution. Learn the difference between strategy and reactivity, the biofeedback markers you should actually be tracking (sleep, digestion, hunger, strength), and how to build a system that creates real, sustainable fat loss and muscle gain. If you're tired of second-guessing every meal and training day, this episode will give you both the mindset reset and the metrics to finally move forward.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    Strength Is the Best Anxiety Tool You’re NOT Using

    In this episode, I explores how strength training can help regulate anxiety for high-achieving women. You’ll learn why heavy lifts help calm the nervous system, what to do in the gym this week, and how to fuel for better focus and emotional relief.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    Eat Like an Athlete (Even if You Don’t Feel Like One Yet)

    In this episode, I break down the mindset shift from “I just want to be toned” to fueling like an athlete. You’ll learn how under-eating sabotages your results, how to structure training for strength, and what it actually looks like to eat for performance and body change!If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    Why Rest Feels Unsafe for High-Achieving Women

    This episode unpacks why rest feels unsafe for high-achieving women—and what to do about it. Jaime explains the physiological and emotional roots of rest-resistance and provides 3 concrete tools to rewire your nervous system so rest becomes restorative, not threatening.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    High Standards Aren't Your Problem, You Are.

    In this episode, Jaime reveals why your high standards aren’t to blame for burnout—your lack of recovery is. Learn how under-recovery sabotages fat loss, hormone health, and mental clarity. Plus, walk away with 3 tools to repair your nervous system and finally get results that last.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

  16. 162

    Your Anxiety Isn’t the Problem. Overload Is.

    In this episode, Jaime redefines anxiety as a symptom of overload, not a lack of resilience. Learn how over-functioning affects your hormones, stalls your fat loss, and keeps your body in survival mode. This episode offers a new, science-backed path to sustainable health.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    You're not fine... You're FRIED!

    In this episode, Jaime exposes the hidden toll of being "fine" while secretly fried. Learn how chronic stress and emotional suppression impact your workouts, recovery, and metabolism. Discover why your fitness plan isn't working anymore and how to rebuild from nervous system burnout.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    You Lose Motivation 10 Minutes Before You Leave the House.

    Most people think they lose motivation during the workout — but the truth is, they lose it in the 10 minutes before they leave the house. In this episode, we explore the science behind the “intention-action gap” and why nearly 50% of people who intend to exercise never actually do. You’ll learn how friction, poor preparation, and weak systems derail momentum — and exactly how to create rituals and cues that make showing up automatic. If you’re tired of relying on willpower to stay consistent, this episode will show you how to finally build a system that does the heavy lifting for you.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    Action Alleviates Anxiety - Do Hard Sh*t

    Most people think hard things are hard because they’re inherently difficult. But in this episode, we explore a deeper truth: it’s the waiting that makes them worse. Based on Seneca’s quote, “It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare; it is because we do not dare that they are difficult,” we’ll break down how avoidance multiplies fear, how procrastination creates mental mountains, and why courage isn’t a feeling — it’s a behavior. If you’ve been putting something off, this episode will help you take the first step — before hesitation turns into self-sabotage.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

  20. 158

    Change Your Environment, NOT who you are

    Most people think they need more discipline to change their life — but the truth is, your environment shapes your habits far more than your willpower ever will. In this episode, we dive into why your surroundings are either setting you up to succeed or sabotaging you behind the scenes. You’ll learn how to audit your environment, restructure your space, and finally stop relying on motivation to stay consistent with your fitness, nutrition, and mental health goals. If you’ve ever felt stuck, burned out, or like you keep starting over — this episode will show you why.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    You're not Stuck; You're Repeating a Sh*tty Story

    Most people think change takes time, pain, or a rock-bottom moment. But what if all it takes is a decision? In this episode, we unpack the wisdom of Alan Watts’ quote: “You are under no obligation to be the same person you were five minutes ago.” We explore how identity is shaped by repeated stories, how to interrupt the ones keeping you small, and how to build momentum toward the version of you that’s been waiting to emerge. If you’ve been stuck in old patterns, this is your reminder — change starts now.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

  22. 156

    When did you stop dancing? Anxiety and rediscovering yourself

    Many women with anxiety feel like they’ve lost themselves — their joy, their light, their confidence. In this episode, we explore the ancient wisdom of healing through joy, creativity, and connection. Inspired by a shamanic quote that asks, “When did you stop dancing? Singing? Being enchanted by stories?”, we uncover how reclaiming these pieces of yourself can be a powerful path back to your body and identity. If you’ve been surviving but not living, this episode is for you.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

  23. 155

    It Takes a Village (Even for You)

    You can’t do this alone — and you were never meant to. In this episode, I share a personal story about proposing to my wife, and why I didn’t just ask her dad for permission — I asked her mom and her mom’s four best friends. Because it took a village to raise her into the woman she is. And the same goes for your transformation: it takes community, support, tough love, and real accountability. If you’ve been trying to navigate your fitness journey alone, this episode is your wake-up call.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    Your entire life can change with one decision

    Your life doesn’t change when it’s easy — it changes when you make a single, powerful decision. In this episode, we break down how one choice can set off a chain reaction of better habits, stronger actions, and real transformation. You’ll learn why most people miss these moments, what they actually look like, and how to stop waiting for clarity and start creating momentum today. If you’ve been feeling stuck, this episode is your wake-up call.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    When Life Gets Hard: Go Harder, because it doesn't get easier

    The hard part doesn’t get easier just because you avoided it.This episode breaks that down in a way that’s going to land deeply if you’ve been:Avoiding the next hard step in your transformationPutting off a conversation, decision, or truthWaiting for the “right moment” to deal with something heavyIf you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    Ghosted on a Sales Call: Why We Avoid Hard Conversations

    In this episode, I share a raw, real story about getting ghosted on a 52-minute sales call, and dive deep into why so many people can’t handle uncomfortable conversations. From people-pleasing to perfectionism, we explore how our childhood, ego, and cultural conditioning have made us avoid honesty when it matters most. Whether you’re in business, coaching, or working on yourself, this episode will challenge you to stop running from discomfort and start owning your voice.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    Marriage Is the Most Underrated Decision You’ll Ever Make

    we’re getting real about the most overlooked factor in your success: Your relationship.Inspired by Alex & Leila Hormozi’s iconic quotes on partnership and marriage, we’re unpacking:✅ Why who you marry is the highest ROI decision of your life ✅ What it really means to be “both the quarterback” in your relationship ✅ How your partner affects your business, your energy, and your confidence ✅ Signs your relationship is aligned — or silently sabotaging your growthWhether you’re single, dating, or 10 years deep — this episode will challenge the way you think about love, leadership, and long-term success.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    What Happens When Fear Runs the Show

    What do you do when anxiety, money fears, or even your partner’s doubts are holding you back from investing in yourself? In this powerful episode, I sit down with Travis Dalrymple — author of How to Suck as a Leader and former America’s Got Talent finalist — to talk about what it really takes to face fear, rebuild confidence, and take the leap into a better life.We cover:Why anxiety skyrockets before big life changes (and how to calm it)How to know if “I can’t afford it” is truth or just fear in disguiseWhat to do if your spouse or partner doesn’t support your growthHow your home life and business/fitness life are deeply connectedWhy alignment is the hidden key to success in every area of lifeIf you’ve ever felt paralyzed by fear of failure, worried about money, or torn between what you want and what others expect of you, this episode will give you the courage and clarity to finally move forward.👉 Tune in, take notes, and walk away ready to trust yourself again.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    When Life Hits Hard: What I Did After My Mom’s Cancer Diagnosis

    In this episode, I share the raw story of how I turned one of the darkest seasons of my life — my mom’s cancer diagnosis — into the fuel that helped me transform. From committing to 75 Hard to earning my bodybuilding pro card, this isn’t about motivation — it’s about reclaiming power when everything feels like it’s falling apart. If you're navigating grief, chaos, or emotional overwhelm, this message will meet you where you are — and show you what’s still possible.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    Change Is Coming (Whether You Like It or Not)

    Change is coming — whether you’re ready or not. In this episode, I share the raw truth about navigating major life shifts: in relationships, identity, business, and self-worth. From personal stories of loss, growth, and emotional reckoning, to practical insight on how to stay grounded when the ground is moving beneath you — this is your permission to evolve. If you’re in a season of uncertainty or transformation, this conversation will meet you right where you are.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    Let Them Have Their Version of You

    You are a thousand stories — not a fixed identity. In this episode, I unpack what it means to evolve without apology, how to stop performing for others’ approval, and how to reclaim power in your own complexity. If you’ve ever been called ‘too much’ or felt like a stranger in your own life, this one’s for you.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

  32. 146

    How To Set Boundaries When You Have Anxiety

    In this episode, I dive deep into how to set boundaries when you struggle with anxiety. You’ll hear a raw, personal story about people-pleasing, self-betrayal, and how avoiding conflict can quietly destroy your sense of self. Learn practical tips for communicating your needs, managing the guilt, and growing real confidence — one small boundary at a time. If you’re tired of living in fear of disappointing others, this is your sign to take your power back!If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    Always Starting Over: Reclaiming Yourself After Losing Everything

    Ever feel like you’ve completely lost yourself—and have no idea how to get back?In this raw, unfiltered episode, I share the truth about how I spent 11 months self-abandoning, spiraling, and disconnecting from everything that made me me—my routines, my identity, my body— and how I’m NOW slowly rebuilding from the inside out.This isn’t about quick fixes or 5AM routines. It’s about the messy, beautiful reality of starting over after burnout, anxiety, and even identity loss.If you feel like a stranger in your own body or like you’ve drifted too far to return—this episode will feel like a deep exhale. A reminder that you’re not broken. And that it’s never too late to come home to yourself.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    No One Has It Figured Out: Trust me

    Feel like everyone else has it all figured out—and you’re the only one still struggling? You’re not alone. In this unfiltered solo episode, Jaime Filer breaks down the truth behind comparison, perfection, and why the people you admire aren’t as flawless as they seem.You’ll hear:Why “perfect people” don’t exist (and what they’re not telling you)The dangers of putting others on pedestalsHow to shift from comparison to self-trustWhy your journey is valid—mess and allIf you’ve ever felt like you’re behind, broken, or not enough, this episode will remind you: You’re human. Just like them.And what one person can do? You can do, too.🎧 Listen now and reclaim your power, your pace, and your path.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    Good to Great: Why You're Not Where You Wanna Be

    Are you showing up at a level that makes you indispensable—or just doing the bare minimum to get by? In this episode, Jaime Filer calls out the mindset and behaviors that keep people stuck in “good” and shows you what it takes to become great—in your career, your business, and your life.Inside, we unpack:Why most people play small (and don’t even realize it)The exact difference between good and great employeesHow entrepreneurs can shift from copying to innovatingWhat makes someone truly irreplaceable—and how to become oneThis isn’t just about money. It’s about leadership, ownership, and showing up in a way that commands value.🎧 Listen now and start executing at a level that no one can ignore.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    This Too Shall Pass: The Reminder We All Need

    In this vulnerable episode, I share the powerful story of the two monks and how that simple lesson — “this too shall pass” — became a lifeline during 11 of the hardest months of my life. If you’ve ever felt stuck in the storm, doubting if you’ll make it through, this episode offers raw truth, deep reflection, and a path forward. Learn how to find peace within the chaos and remember that no storm lasts forever.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    Why Waiting Is the Most Dangerous Decision You’ll Ever Make

    In this episode, I share a personal story of how “waiting until later” nearly cost me everything — me purpose, my relationship, and my sense of self. Learn how comfort becomes a trap, why habits harden over time, and how to break free from the illusion of "readiness." If you’ve been delaying action on something you know you need to do, this episode is your wake-up call. You’ll walk away with real insight, emotional fire, and a path forward. This might be the best chance you have to change — and it starts now.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    How My Ego Almost Destroyed Everything I Loved

    In this episode, I share the raw truth about how my ego was sabotaging my relationship and shutting down real communication with my wife, Katie. If you’ve ever felt like you’re pushing people away while trying to hold it all together — this one’s for you. Discover the silent ways ego can destroy connection, and what it really means to show up with strength, vulnerability, and leadership. Plus, learn how to break the cycle and start building a stronger body, mindset, and life — together.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    The Wall I Built to Keep Me Safe—That Kept Love Out

    In this episode, we explore the deep connection between vulnerability and feeling worthy of love—especially for anxious lesbians ;-)  I share my personal story of how I avoided vulnerability for years, believing it made me weak, only to realize it was building walls between me and the people I cared about the most. If you struggle with emotional walls, anxious attachment, or fear being “too much” in relationships, this episode will help you soften, reconnect, and begin healing.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    You Don't Suck at it - You're Just Avoiding it

    Struggling to stay consistent in your workouts, nutrition, or habits? You’re not broken — you’re just avoiding the hard reps. In this episode, I break down the truth behind why you’re “bad” at things, and why repetition is the only real solution. Whether it’s squats, meal prep, or building confidence, you’ll learn how to stop running and start rising. If you’ve ever felt stuck, unmotivated, or frustrated with your progress… this one’s for you.🎧 Listen now to discover how doing the thing you avoid is the fastest path to confidence, strength, and success.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    Why Excuses are SO dangerous...

    In this episode of Monday Morning Mindset Shift, we're calling out one of the sneakiest forms of self-sabotage: making excuses and calling it "valid." If you've ever said, “I didn’t have time” or “I just wasn’t motivated,” you might be unintentionally giving away your power.We’re diving into why excuses are more than bad habits—they're a way of surrendering your agency, and how to take it back. Learn how to spot these subtle behaviors, shift your language, and make more empowered decisions this week.If you’re ready to stop blaming your schedule and start owning your results—this one’s for you. 📩 Subscribe for weekly mindset tips 🎧 Listen now and step into your next level.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    The One Person I Can't Protect Myself From

    “I can protect you from everything… except me.” Those were the words I said to my wife—and they shook me to my core.In this raw and vulnerable episode, I unpack what it means to be the storm in your own love story. The one who overthinks, self-sabotages, pushes people away, then spirals in shame when they leave. If you’re a lesbian or queer woman with anxiety, attachment wounds, or a nervous system that’s been wired for survival instead of safety… this one is for you.We talk about:Being the “walking red flag” in your relationshipThe emotional cost of self-awareness without healingAnd why our coaching program is helping women feel safe—for the first time in their lives.If life has ever felt overwhelming… if you’ve ever been scared of how deeply you feel… if you’re craving safety but don’t know how to let it in—this episode will make you feel seen.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    Burnout Part 2: When the Hustle is your Hiding place

    What if the grind you’re proud of… is the thing that’s quietly burning you out?In this raw and unfiltered episode, I’m diving into the invisible burnout—the kind that doesn’t show up in your workouts, but lives in your mind. The kind that disguises itself as ambition, discipline, or “just being busy,” but is actually fear in disguise.👉 Fear of slowing down. 👉 Fear of not being enough unless you’re producing something. 👉 Fear that rest = failure.If you’ve ever said “I’m fine” with a tight chest and a tired soul—this one’s for you.🎧 Tune in now and let this be your permission to pause, breathe, and just be human for a moment.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    Burnout vs. Laziness: How to Know When You Actually Need Rest

    Burnout vs. Laziness: How to Know When You Actually Need Rest(And why taking a break won’t ruin your progress)If you’ve ever felt guilty for skipping a workout or wrestled with whether you’re actually burned out… or just being “lazy”—this episode is for you. 👇In today’s solo riff, I’m sharing the real talk I wish I had years ago: ✨ How to tell when your body is truly asking for rest ✨ The signs of physical burnout most high-performers ignore ✨ The difference between discipline and disconnection ✨ And why taking 1–2 days off won’t kill your progress—but pushing through mightThis one’s for the overachievers, the all-or-nothing girls, the queer women trying to “do it all” without burning the whole thing down.Your strength isn’t in doing more. It’s in knowing when to pause.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    When They Say No: Rejection, Redirection & Why It’s Not About You

    When They Say No: Rejection, Redirection & Why It’s Not About YouRejection sucks — but it doesn’t mean what you think it does. Whether you’re hearing “no” on sales calls or in life, this episode will shift your entire relationship with the word. I’ll share real talk from my own experience and how I learned to take rejection as information, not a reflection of my worth. If you’ve been doubting yourself lately, this is the mindset reset you need.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    Dear Virgo / Highly Sensitive Person

    This episode, "Dear Virgo" is a love letter to every sensitive soul who's ever been told they're "too much."In this episode, I open up about the moments when emotions feel too big to hold, when careless words cut deep, and when we react faster than we can calm down.If you've ever felt ashamed for caring too deeply or protecting yourself too fiercely — this is for you.I see you. You're not broken. Your sensitivity is your gift.Plus, I share 3 soft, powerful strategies for managing your emotions without losing your fire. If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    You Can't Care More Than They Do

    You Can’t Care More Than They Do (Hard Truths That’ll Set You Free)If you’ve ever tried to help someone who just wouldn’t help themselves — this one’s for you. In this episode, I’m breaking down why trying to care for or fix someone who isn’t ready only leads to burnout and resentment. You’ll learn how to lead with love without losing yourself, and how to stop wasting your energy on people who don’t want the change as badly as you do.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    Why Perfectionism Is Holding You Back

    If you’ve ever said, “I’ll start when things calm down,” or “If I can’t do it right, I won’t do it at all,” this episode is for you. Today, we’re exposing perfectionism for what it really is: fear pretending to be discipline. I’ll break down how this mindset keeps you stuck, how to rewire it, and what to do instead to finally build momentum. You don’t need to be perfect to make progress—you just need to start showing up, messy and all.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    Why People Pleasing is Getting in the way of YOUR Fat Loss

    Not everyone will clap when you start choosing yourself—and that’s not your problem. In this episode of Monday Morning Mindset Shift, we’re unpacking how to protect your peace when the people around you don’t get it. Whether it’s side comments, pressure to stay the same, or straight-up judgment, I’ll walk you through exactly how to set boundaries, stop over-explaining, and stay committed even when the support isn’t there. This one’s for anyone who’s ever felt like their growth made other people uncomfortable.If you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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    The Confidence Domino Effect: How Feeling Good Changes Everything

    When you feel good about yourself, everything else improves. This episode explores how building confidence in one area of your life can create a domino effect—improving relationships, boosting productivity, and reigniting your passions. #ConfidenceRippleEffect #FeelGoodLiveWellIf you're interested in more mindset and health hacks for overwhelmed women, find me on Instagram @jaimefilerfitness, or head to https://call.jaimefiler.com/form to learn more about the 16 week 3R Method 

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Welcome to the Monday Morning Mindset Shift, where I set you up for success going into the week by shifting your mindset. I share everything I've learned about mental health, self-development, productivity, mental toughness, and mindset so you can be the best version of yourself every single day.Having struggled with an eating disorder, anxiety, Daddy issues, mommy issues, and everything in between, I feel empowered and strong enough to help people who are going through the same things. Give me 5-7 minutes on a Monday morning, and I’ll give you something thought-provoking and eye-opening to start your week. I want to give you bite-sized pieces of education, entertainment, and motivation to consume in order to make you feel invincible and bulletproof for the rest of your week!This show is for anyone who's even struggled with self-esteem and self-worth, and KNOWS that they can do, be, and have more. This is for those committed to being the best version of themselves, lev

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