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Patterns of Possibility

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Patterns of Possibility is a education podcast hosted by Lee Hopkins. It has 69 episodes, with the latest published December 2021.

Lee (he/him/his) is a Transman who has spent several years searching for connection and community by any means. After years of disappointing drama and spectacular failures, (both before and after he transitioned) he discovered how understanding his own patterns of behavior would help him create his own community. Lee engages in conversations with thought leaders, coaches and other spectacular people, he answers your friendship and relationship questions and shares his experiences and life lessons with an energetic blend of storytelling and music.

education ·en ·69 episodes

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Why You Keep Ending Up with the Same Person

2

You're Not Meant to Do This Alone

3

What People Get Wrong About Visibility and Vulnerability

4

Don’t Fall for This Common Manipulation Tactic

5

How to be empathetic without absorbing their pain

6

How to open up slowly so you don't get hurt

7

They Ask, You Answer, So Why Are We Fighting?

8

Reading Between the Lines Without Losing Yourself

9

Tired of Trying with People

10

Small Talk Is a Safety Test

11

Reject Them Now or Resent Them Later

12

Dreading Social Interactions (Practical Steps To Stop Ruminating)

13

Create Boundaries That Actually Work

14

Stop Wasting Precious Time Trying To Be Understood

15

Are They Friends or Just Friendly?

16

Why Your Boundaries Keep Backfiring

17

They Call You Negative Because You Notice

18

The Three Things That Identify “Your People”

19

What If You’re Not a Fraud After All?

20

Stay Calm When They Push Every Button

21

Finding Your Way to Be Heard

22

The Emotionally Immature Parent Trap

23

How to Be Known Without Explaining Yourself

24

When Being Seen Feels Dangerous

25

The Trick Narcissists Don’t Want You to See

26

The Shame Hiding Inside Your "Shoulds"

27

When Their Questions Aren't Really Questions

28

The Trap of Becoming the Caretaker

29

Everyone Knows. No One Says Anything.

30

Stop Playing Their Game

31

Being Alone Is Growth

32

Why Small Talk Feels So Irritating

33

When It’s Manipulation, Not Misunderstanding

34

5 Ways to Stop Carrying Everyone’s Stress

35

Will This Get Me Uninvited Next Time?

36

We Both Said ‘Friend’ But Meant Different Things

37

The Pain of Wanting to Heal with People Who Won’t

38

How 'The Right Thing to Say' Becomes the Wrong Reason to Stay

39

Helping them almost broke me (and they still wanted more)

40

Stop Guessing If They Like You

41

The Lie You Didn't Know You Were Telling Yourself

42

Becoming the Real You After Masking (3 Truths That Help You Cope)

43

You'll Always Be the Villian in Someone's Story

44

5 Phrases That Push People Away

45

Stop Shrinking. Stop Pleasing. Start Releasing

46

When Your Friends Know The Mask, Not You

47

7 Phrases Toxic People Use to Destroy Your Confidence

48

When AI feels like a friend but leaves you lonely

49

Self Diagnosed Autism: Harmful or Healing?

50

Talking to Strangers When You’re Wired Differently

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