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WITH LOVE, DANIELLE
by Danielle LaPorte
A one woman show about self-realization from Danielle LaPorte, a member of Oprah's Super Soul 100 and creator of The Desire Map. How do you create a spirituality that's more rock n' roll than oppressive, turn your anxiety into power, and live more deeply but lighten up? Danielle keeps it practical while riffing on the divine—from compassion and self-help fatigue, to sex, joy, and serving the world. She is, as Eve Ensler describes, "a force field of energy, wonder, humor, and love", and her authenticity will have you feeling a little less crazy, full of possibility, and clearly part of the solution.
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We're All Being Initiated, All of the Time
You got small so you could learn how powerful you truly are. Every relationship, every betrayal, every "what was I thinking" moment… it's not punishment. It's a form of modern initiation. You are not behind. You're being initiated. You've loved people who didn't love you back the way you…
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How To Hold Space in Groups
There are people who hold space. And there are people who actually hold space. Holding space means holding shadow and holding light—and holding yourself while you hold others. This episode is Danielle's commencement speech to Xchange, a group of teachers and facilitators led by Jon Berghoff. It's…
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Physics has a crush on spirituality
Where the metaphysics meets the physics Energy follows thought. What you embrace transforms. Like attracts like. These aren't just spiritual principles. They're provable. And the physics has always backed up the metaphysics. Whether you need scientific validation or you have a deep cellular…
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Why cutting cords doesn't work
There's a better way to let go. I feel somewhat urgent about this conversation. I want to save you from the potential harm and grief that cutting cords can create. You cannot let go of something that you are aggressively trying to let go of. It's like gripping and shaking something that you...
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The most toxic question you could ever ask
Am I worthy of my desires? So gross. So harmful. So NOT how the universe works. Do you feel other people's feelings like it's your job? Overplan for outcomes you know you can't really control? Always future-tripping what could happen, brain won't rest? To my fellow control freak empaths—I've got...
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How big of a problem do you want to make this?
Winning answer: Not that big I read an interview with Madonna who said that when people came into her home in LA and they saw her Frida Kahlo collection of paintings, if they didn't like Frida Kahlo, she couldn't be their friend. If I'm hanging out with somebody who turns non-problem problems…
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What happens when you become a Super Blesser
Your capacity to forgive will amaze you What happens when you become a Super Blesser? In today's episode, I'm telling you about a music festival and an ex-partner's mistress. Not mine. Someone in my community. I have her permission to tell this story… A blessing is your focused positive…
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Dreams, divorce and birthdays
A peek into my journals Today I'm giving you a sneak peek into my Bless & Release journal. I'm talking about some divorce. I'm talking about some manifesting. It's really a celebration of owning my shit. …I was sitting at my desk, crying as I googled how to overcome heroin addiction. Except I've...
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Where does your anger come from?
And what to do when it shows up Here's the sequence: Unmet needs lead to disappointment. Disappointment gives rise to grief. Unresolved grief turns into resentment. Holding onto resentment creates anger. Welcome to Earth. Welcome to being a human. There is a 100% likelihood that to varying…
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How to have a healthy relationship with your fear.
What you push away pushes back Here's the physics principle: What you push away pushes back. And while it's pushing back, it's building its own muscle. What we push away grows stronger. We have to be in relationship with our fears, not in opposition to them. Most fear is based on past experience...
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You are not the wound, you're the healer.
This is physics. This is metaphysics. This is the power move. A sneak peek from my new book, Bless & Release… We need a new relationship with our emotions and ambitions. Because clearly, the current one is not working. Here's a radical idea: Instead of repressing, rejecting, or ignoring our...
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Want to Invest in my New Business?
I'm announcing CENTERED—my new spiritual wellness app launching April 2026. This is 10 years in the making. And it feels like holding onto a rocket right now. Think Spotify for spiritual wellness. A place to design your day based on devotion. Wake up to the energetics of the day. Build playlists...
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What We Push Away Pushes Back
The physics of letting go… and wanting what's meant for you. For a decade, I thought letting go of my worldly desires would bring me peace. I was wrong. I used spiritual perfectionism to hurt myself. I guilt-tripped myself for having "unspiritual" feelings. I romanticized renunciation while still...
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Best of With Love, Danielle: Those Are Not Your People
This episode originally aired as Episode 160 on February 7, 2025. Lean in, pay attention. This episode of With Love, Danielle is our favourite kind—raw girlfriend honesty with deep spiritual wisdom (hello Krishnamurti)! Danielle focuses on identifying the behaviours that signify someone is 'not...
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Best of With Love, Danielle: How to Turn Rejection into a Power Move
This episode originally aired as Episode 152 on January 8, 2025. You know… I've felt like an outsider most of my life. Lil' bit on the outside. And of course I've had my share of hard No's and reeejection. And… but… each rebuff and snub is taking us closer to our shadow territory, to the…
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Best of With Love, Danielle: Why You Should NOT Trust Your Gut
This episode originally aired as Episode 107 on April 3, 2024. I'm never contrarian for the sake of it. I'm good to go with the conventional flow. But not today, friends, not today! We have higher realms of consciousness to traverse. And those higher states are not in our guts. or lower chakras…
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Best of With Love, Danielle: 35 Things We Stopped Doing—From Mindset to Tech Stack
A note from Danielle: My loves, for the month of November, we are featuring the best of my business episodes from 2025. Today's run has some extra divine timing because, as you're listening to this, if you're listening to it on our drop week, we are in Mercury Retrograde. Mercury Retrograde is…
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Best of With Love, Danielle: I Hit Pause on Obsessing About Rapid Financial Growth. Here's Why…
A note from Danielle: My loves, for the month of November, we are focused on the topic of business—which so very often can extend into being more creative and lucid and heart centered in relationships and creativity in general. Today, I'm talking about my "Be Well Business" formula, where I break...
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Best of With Love, Danielle: REAL Intelligence (not AI) In Business
A note from Danielle: Hello, my loves. For the month of November 2025, we are going to focus on business-related topics, and I'm bringing out the best of my business hits. Today, we're talking about authentic intelligence—rather than, as opposed to, instead of, a better option than—artificial...
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Best of With Love, Danielle: 8 Reasons You're Overtired
This episode originally aired as Episode 152 on January 8, 2025, and it struck a chord with so many of you. We're replaying it because the conversation about emotional exhaustion and energy depletion felt especially needed—then and now. If you're feeling worn down or just want a refresh on the...
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Best of With Love, Danielle: Downsizing as a spiritual practice and how to make the best decision
This episode originally aired as Episode 169 on March 7, 2025, and became one of your favourites of the year. We're bringing it back because this conversation on letting go and making aligned decisions really resonated. If you missed it the first time or want to revisit, here we go… Loves, I'm...
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How I'm STILL Recovering From Spiritual Bypassing
Comparing your spiritual path to someone else's is crazy-making. And yet… most of us do it. Daniell talks about how she's STILL recovering from spiritual bypassing and why Because your path is your path. Your Soul isn't here to win a spiritual competition. It's here to love, to serve, to stumble,...
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How I Got My Body and Energy Back
It took three years and a blessed fortune, but Danielle feels—and looks—better than ever. This is the episode where she tells you everything. The mold that tried to kill her twice. The metals poisoning. The 12-inch worms (yes, really). The 27 pounds she lost without counting a single calorie. The...
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There's Wisdom in What you Might Think is the Worst Part of You
After a year of revelation around inner child work and shadow integration, Danielle is redefining what healing really means. It's not about conquering fear or forcing confidence. It's not about getting your inner child to "grow up." Healing is about loving every fragment of yourself, exactly as…
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I Want a Million People to Answer This Question
We're doing something different today. A survey. The world's largest survey on one simple question: What do you want to let go of? We have been asking thousands of people this, and the answers are immediate, emphatic, and HEALING. From the responses, we've been able to identify the top seven...
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Intimacy and Prayer—What Happens When You Petition the Divine
The fastest way to fall in love with people? Ask them what they're praying for. Or let them pray for you. This is a deeply personal episode. Danielle opens up about the end of her marriage and how prayer—both hers and others'—became a lifeline. She shares how carrying twelve friends' prayers...
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Is it Self-Pity or Self-Compassion?
Sometimes we confuse self pity as self Compassion. Compassion is a dignified energy. It's embracing and wise. It knows that it's highly capable of healing people and situations. Compassion is merciful. Compassion is a possibility thinker. Self-pity is like the zirconia diamond of compassion. It's...
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The RELIEF You Feel When You Make the Right Decisions
Danielle's summer was full of pivots. Some heartbreak. Decisions of depth. Phoenix vibes. Here's the thing about making the right decision: you'll know because of the relief you feel. It's the rush of light that comes with the declaration. The exhale. That clarity is all the affirmation you need....
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On Saturdays We Clean Up Our Karma (and Our Closets)
Here we are—the final episode in our 8-part series on the Energetics of the Days of the Week. We've covered Mercury Retrograde, Sunday through Friday… and now, Saturday. Saturdays are ruled by Saturn. It's that big, heavy, father energy. Structure. Rigidity. Discipline. It's also the day for...
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Thank Venus, it's Friday!
Thank Venus, it's Friday! This is part 7 of an 8-part series on the energetics of the days of the week, and today is all about Venus. Venus energy is love, selflessness, higher consciousness, Buddha nature. It rules relationships and all communication around relationships—Divine Love in action....
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Thursday is All About Expansion
This is part six of an eight-part series on the energetics of the days of the week, and today we're hookin' our wagons to Jupiter. Thursday is ruled by Jupiter—expansive, abundant, lucky (if there is such a thing). Jupiter energy is about vastness, generosity, and selflessness. When we honour...
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Forget Hump Day — On Wednesdays We Play
Every day of the week is governed by a planetary energy—and Wednesday belongs to Mercury. Mercury is spacious, fluid, and all about communication, ideas and expansion. In part 5 of an 8-part series on the energetics of the days of the week, Danielle suggests a rebrand for Wednesday: Forget hump...
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Tuesday's Fiery Energy is for Getting Sh*t Done
Every day of the week is governed by a planetary energy—and Tuesday belongs to Mars. Mars is fiery. It's strategic. It's a little spicy. And when you know how to work with that energy, Tuesday becomes a power move—not a burnout trap. This is part 4 of an 8-part series on the energetics of the…
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Monday: The Moon's Day
Every day of the week is governed by a planetary energy, and each day has its own vibration according to the planet that looks after that day of the week. The idea here is that we're aware of that energy—and we work with it. MONDAYS are ruled by the moon, and lunar energy is shadowy, emotional...
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Sunday: The Soul's Day
Every day of the week is governed by a planetary energy, and each day has its own vibration according to the planet that looks after that day of the week. The idea here is that we're aware of that energy—and we work with it. Sunday is ruled by solar energy, by SOUL energy. It vibrates at the…
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Make Mercury More Freddie and Less Retrograde
Mercury retrograde gets a bad rap, but it's actually a great opportunity for cleaning up and cleaning out. The energy supports you to clean stuff up. Instead of working against it, we use this shadowy time to clean up the emotional clutter in our own shadow and subconscious. It's brilliant! This...
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My Anxiety and the Art of Faking It
"Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle..." Behind every perfect photo is a story you don't see. (photo linked below) This week, Danielle is sharing the real story behind a polished interview with Chase Jarvis—a "successful" professional moment that, behind the scenes, was...
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The Proper Use of Denial
In this week's episode, Danielle talks about one of her favourite A Course in Miracles teachings about the proper use of denial. From toxic media to people who hate on your happiness—you'll hear how to cut off negativity's power source without turning into a spiritual bypasser. She's sharing…
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Go Where the Love Is. Because Faking It Will Drain You.
It's deeply natural to deeply desire deep connection. In fact, we are physiologically wired for it. But when our nervous system is out of whack, we struggle to find resonance—and end up in fawning, transactional patterns that drain our life force. This week, Danielle is talking about the…
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It All Started With a Ouija Board… and Went South From There
Danielle has never talked publicly about this. In her 20s, she was channelling "guides"—a term she uses very loosely. It all started with a Ouija board. Friends were messing with it, and she got in on the action. It's a story about feeling special, getting in too deep, and discovering that "just...
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We're Dropping the Judgment on Our Way to Unity Consciousness
I think judgment of others can be a byproduct of spiritual bypassing. All us self-helpers… lean in. Basically, spiritual bypassing is when we paint negative experiences as "spiritually positive" before we've actually felt the very human, negative feelings. Because we are secretly judging…
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The Most Delicious Abundance Affirmations
The theme in my Heart Centered Collective this month is prosperity consciousness. And I don't talk at all about money. And I barely touch on manifestation principles. Because… you can visualize and budget your butt off, but mental methods only work well if they ride on higher consciousness....
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35 Things We Stopped Doing—From Mindset to Tech Stack
What happens when you pause, sunset, phase out, bless + release everything that's draining your life force? More joy. More prosperity. More clarity. This episode is a full download of Danielle's Stop Doing List—two years of deep renovation inside her business and life—and how those decisions...
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I Hit Pause on Obsessing About Rapid Financial Growth. Here's Why…
Danielle loves bold goals and quantum leaps. But not at the expense of wellness—or sanity. In this week's episode, she's sharing the reason she hit pause on chasing rapid financial growth—and how she rebuilt her business around calm, clarity, and a new definition of prosperity. She introduces her...
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The Good News About "Bad" Karma
Waiting for karma to bite someone back? Here's the twist… In the final installment of the What In the Woo? series, Danielle dives deep into one of the most misunderstood concepts in spirituality: karma. Far from being a cosmic punishment system, karma is the Soul's invitation to restore…
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19 Things I Tried to Teach My Son
In some particular order, here's how I attempted to entrain my only child into higher consciousness, mostly by example, but often by preaching in the kitchen while making burritos. Turns out that the kid incarnated as a wise soul, and my hot air was just some wind beneath his wings. This is for…
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Your Inner Child Is Not the "Younger Version" of You
Today is Part 2 of the 3 part What In the Woo? Series—offering a fresh perspective on how to work with the term "Inner Child." The Inner Child is not your younger self—it's the wounded, emotional, shadowy part within, asking for healing. Your Inner Child isn't you when you were 8 years old. Inner...
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Are You Ego'ing? What IS the Ego? Do You DO It, or Does It Do You?
The ego… your shadow… is a POWER PORTAL. For years, I thought I had to punish all my ego-centric'isms—manipulating to get my needs met, constant striving to burn my karma, pretending to behave. But actually? I've needed to assimilate… embrace… and talk sweetly to my shadows. The ego is the…
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If Real Love and Artificial Intelligence Had a Baby
There's curiosity. There's concern. There's some serious side-eye. Danielle's essay, "AI IS NOT YOUR BEST LIFE COACH," stirred up a flood of responses—some celebratory, some cautionary. In this episode, she goes deeper into our growing relationship with AI—from life coaching to spiritual...
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The (Significant) Downside of Fawning
Fawning is a trauma response. And it's one we don't talk about enough. In this episode, Danielle is digging into fawning as a default stress response. Most people misunderstand it. Fawning isn't just being nice or deferential—it's a survival mechanism that many of us picked up in childhood, and…
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
A one woman show about self-realization from Danielle LaPorte, a member of Oprah's Super Soul 100 and creator of The Desire Map. How do you create a spirituality that's more rock n' roll than oppressive, turn your anxiety into power, and live more deeply but lighten up? Danielle keeps it practical while riffing on the divine—from compassion and self-help fatigue, to sex, joy, and serving the world. She is, as Eve Ensler describes, "a force field of energy, wonder, humor, and love", and her authenticity will have you feeling a little less crazy, full of possibility, and clearly part of the solution.
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A one woman show about self-realization from Danielle LaPorte, a member of Oprah's Super Soul 100 and creator of The Desire Map. How do you create a spirituality that's more rock n' roll than oppressive, turn your anxiety into power, and live more deeply but lighten up? Danielle keeps it practical...
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