All Episodes

426: She's crowd-sourcing the process of finding a boyfriend! (ft. Freya Graf)

425: How weird is sex gonna get in the age of AI? (ft. Susan Bratton)

424: GuyTalk: 'This is where you get your master’s degree in men’s work.'

423: Not having the sex you want in your relationship? Reverse polarity could be involved. (ft. Jason & Violet Lange) [replay]

422: Want MORE from your love life? 3 ways to grow past Nice Guy Syndrome (ft. Jason Lange)

421: GirlTalk: Does size matter? [replay]

420: 'I know what I need to do ... I just don't do it.' (ft. Jason Lange)

419: 3 ways AI can help your love life (and 3 ways it can f*** it up) (ft. Jason Lange)

418: Her hormones: what every partner needs to know (ft. Morgan Miller)

417: Top 3 ways to NOT come off as creepy (ft. Jason Lange)

416: How do you deal with your trust issues? (ft. Violet Lange)

415: The 5 biggest reasons relationships go sexless ... and what to do (ft. Jason Lange)

414: What to do with, ‘You’re great! … I just don’t feel attracted to you.’ (ft. Jason Lange)

413: 'Is this ever going to happen for me??' (ft. Violet Lange)

412: Is perimenopause or menopause stealing her sex drive? (ft. sexual wellness physician Dr. Debra Durst)

411: 'Do I have low testosterone?' (ft. neuroscientist & urologist Dr. Kelly Morgan)

410: Does her emotional intensity overwhelm you? (ft. Jason Lange)

409: Have you ever felt adrift as a man? (ft. Scott Kaltenbaugh and Djeli Celestia)

408: What if your blocks to love aren't even yours? (ft. Violet Lange)

407: Can't get it up, keep it up, or cum when you want? (ft. Dr. Luke Adler)

406: How do you strengthen your masculine energy? (ft. Dr. Luke Adler)

405: You'll be empty nesters soon. What'll happen to the marriage? (ft. Jason Lange)

404: Do you need to let go? (ft. Luke Adler)

403: Do you really want to take the next step in your relationship -- or is it just what's expected? (ft. Amy Gahran)

402: What helps a sexually guarded woman feel safe to open? (ft. Violet Lange)

401: ‘I needed to let go of who I was in my marriage.’ (ft. Sara)

400: Do Nice Guys tend to attract volatile women? (ft. Jason Lange) [Replay]

399: What if you grew up between a bully and a bystander? (ft. Violet Lange & Sara)

398: 'No other decision has impacted my day-to-day happiness more than this.' (ft. Kubir)

397: How to work out for better sex and higher testosterone! (naturally) (ft. Mike Bledsoe)

396: Why your wife doesn't want to have sex with you (anymore) (ft. Jason Lange)

395: Welcome! Here's how to get the most out of this podcast.

394: Why is polarity so critical for attraction? (ft. Jason Lange)

393: What's it REALLY like living in community, and how does it impact your relationships?

392: Why is it so hard to quit porn!? (ft. Jason Lange)

391: 'What Relationships Would You Want, if You Believed They Were Possible?' [The Ezra Klein Show]

390: What is foreskin restoration? (ft. Bob Werner)

389: 8 reasons why it's so hard for men to let go of relationships that aren't working (ft. Jason Lange)

388: GirlTalk: The reddest, hottest sex we've ever had (as women) [replay]

387: GirlTalk: What inspires a woman to deeply trust a man? [replay]

386: GuyTalk: How do you co-parent with a challenging partner? (including Borderline Personality Disorder or Narcissistic Personality Disorder)

385: Are you in a sexless marriage? (ft. Jason Lange)

384: What's the impact of circumcision on a man? (ft. Michael Smith, Intactivist Educator)

383: How does your inner critic impact your c*ck? (PART II) (ft. Dr. Luke Adler)

382: Erectile dysfunction isn't about what you think. (PART I) (ft. Dr. Luke Adler)

381: My 5 biggest takeaways from my 10 c0ck interviews

380: What exactly IS polarity? (ft. Violet Lange) [replay]

379: Can ketamine really treat depression (and PTSD and ADHD)? (ft. Sam Mandel)

378: 'It’s never been natural for me to reach out when I’m in the sh*t’ (ft. Jason Lange & Luke Adler)

377: How do you overcome the fear of being alone? (ft. Jason Lange & Luke Adler)

376: UTIs are a gargantuan sex problem. Here’s a concrete way you can help! (ft. Meghan Blake of Good Kitty)

375: What does it mean to 'be in your masculine'? (ft. Jason Lange)

374: The 3 main archetypes of men. Which one are you? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay]

373: What's it like treating Borderline Personality Disorder (pt. 2) (ft. Setareh Vatan)

372: Are you scared of women? (ft. Jason Lange)

371: GuyTalk: What's it like doing in-person men's work?

370: Are you codependent? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay]

369: GuyTalk: Setting healthy boundaries with parents

368: Can a live retreat change everything? (ft. Jason Lange)

367: 'For some reason, I tend to attract "projects."' (ft. Jason Lange)

366: Love can, in fact, be calculated. (ft. Zoey Charif)

365: Is staying together for the kids the right choice? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay]

364: What exactly is complex PTSD, and how do you know if you have it? (ft. Setareh Vatan)

363: We women still need men. Just in a different way. (ft. Jason Lange)

362: From skeptic to believer (ft. Naushad Godrej)

361: Worried about being a late bloomer? (ft. Jason Lange)

360: GirlTalk: Striking while the iron is hot!

359: GuyTalk: Ever felt stuck?

358: Do you trust men? (ft. Jason Lange)

357: GirlTalk: What does it mean to “claim” her (and why does she love it)?

356: What does it really mean to 'be a man' -- and a warrior? (ft. Wayne Forrest)

355: ‘I thought being a good husband meant putting others’ needs ahead of mine (ft. Jason Lange)

354: What’s it like treating Borderline Personality Disorder? (Pt. 1) Ft. Setareh Vatan

353: GirlTalk: An exquisite quality of the masculine that we quite enjoy [replay]

352: Do you ever feel collapsed or hopeless? (Like nothing’s working) (ft. Jason Lange)

351: Men love to be nurtured, too (pt. 2) (ft. Scott Kaltenbaugh)

350: Weed, Porn, and Masturbation: The Trifecta! (ft. Jason Lange & Luke Adler)

349: Interested in plant medicine but don’t want to do “drugs”? Try this. (ft. Luke Adler)

348: ‘I wish we had sex more.’ (ft. Violet Lange)

347: Men’s work isn’t enough. You’ve also got to have this. (ft. Luke Adler)

346: When whining is so magical that it generates polarity! (ft. Jason & Violet Lange) [replay]

345: The 4 male "types" who partner with Borderline women (Borderline Personality Disorder) (ft. Violet Lange)

344: 3 dating myths to let go of immediately (ft. Jason Lange)

343: A quality women yearn for in relationship (but rarely talk about) (ft. Scott Kaltenbaugh)

342: Are you scared of her big feelings? This may help. (ft. Jason Lange) [replay]

341: GirlTalk: The most important relationship skill of them all

340: Top 3 traits we've seen Nice Guys develop to get what they want! (ft. Jason Lange)

339: GirlTalk: Does your woman get anxious? How to soothe her skillfully

338: What do you do if sex hurts for her? (And how do you talk about it?) (ft. Z Zoccolante) [replay]

337: GirlTalk: Ever felt like she’s testing you?

336: Why does your woman poke you sometimes? What’s that about? (ft. Jason Lange)

335: Ever felt like women had a 'list' in dating & relationships? (ft. Violet Lange)

334: Are you needy? Here’s the difference between neediness and having needs (ft. Jason Lange)

333: Are you addicted to porn? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay]

332: Ever gone into freeze? Here’s what’s actually going on. (ft. Stacy Matulis)

331: GirlTalk: Relationship lessons, growth work, and memorable men

330: GirlTalk: How to go down on her so she loves it!

329: How do you stay grounded when she's dysregulated (upset, stressed, anxious, angry, etc.)? (ft. Jason Lange)

328: Betrayal trauma. How do you recover? (ft. Rosanne Delaney)

327: Transforming shame into power. Yes, it’s possible. (ft. Jason Lange & Luke Adler)

326: GuyTalk: How do you overcome a sexual challenge (like premature ejaculation)? [REPLAY]

325: What if *every* woman had a self-pleasure practice? (ft. Violet Lange)

324: What does it mean to open a woman? (ft. Jason Lange)

323: How do 12-step programs connect to healthy relationships? (ft. Mark Wilde)

322: 5 ways to polarize a powerful woman (ft. Jason Lange) [Replay]

321: 'I’m afraid to show interest until I’m willing to commit' (ft. Jason Lange)

320: From breakdown to breakthrough: how to recover from trauma (ft. Jason Lange)

319: 'My relationship is war.' (What do I do?) (Ft. Jason Lange)

318: GirlTalk: Role play in sex. What's it like!?

317: What exactly IS codependency? (How do you know if you’re codependent?) (ft. Jason Lange)

316: Where do you find quality masculine role models? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay]

315: What happens once you’ve recovered from Nice Guy Syndrome? (ft. Dr. Robert Glover)

314: Can microdosing help you develop better relationships? (ft. David Romero)

313: GuyTalk: Life after being with a BPD partner (Borderline Personality Disorder)

312: GirlTalk: How much money do you make, and how much does that matter?

311: What does it really mean to be emotionally available? (ft. Violet Lange)

310: How do I initiate sex without coming off as demanding? (ft. me)

309: How do you know when it's time to get a divorce? (ft. Jason Lange)

308: Are you staying together for the kids? There may be another way to go. (ft. Jason Lange)

307: What's the difference between feminine storm and feminine rage? (ft. Shana James)

306: Boner shame! Let's talk about it. (ft. Jason Lange)

305: GuyTalk: Overcoming religious programming

304: What happens if you or your partner needs space? (ft. Jason Lange)

303: 'Boys have as rich an inner life as girls do.' (ft. Nat Damon of Reach Academy for Young Men))

302: 'I ask for stories about the sex that changed you.' (ft. Carly, creator of Aurore)

301: What's the difference between therapy and coaching? (ft. Jason Lange)

300: What's it like to do MDMA therapy with your wife? (ft. Lucas)

299: Matchmaking: Is it still relevant? (ft. Anika Rashaun)

298: Becoming skillful at sexual communication -- let's talk about it. (ft. Kristen Carney of Ask Women)

297: The problems with polarity (ft. Jason Lange)

296: What does it actually mean to step into your power? (ft. Jason Lange)

295: Ever 'fallen into' a relationship? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay]

294: How do I rebuild trust with a partner? (ft. me!)

293: Give it to me whining! (Ft. Jason & Violet Lange)

292: Sex life with your wife not where you want it to be? This could be the culprit (ft. Violet & Jason Lange) [replay]

291: Want to get better at dating? Here are 3 ways to practice with women (ft. Violet Lange)

290: Teaching healthy masculinity in schools! The Inspiring Men Project (ft. Scott Kaltenbaugh)

289: Do Nice Guys tend to attract volatile women? (ft. Jason Lange)

288: GuyTalk: What dating is like after getting divorced

287: GirlTalk: The either/or conundrum in sex, dating, and relationships

286: How do I “do” dating apps well? (so I don’t get discouraged) (ft. Jason Lange)

285: Depression, Anxiety, and Nice Guy Syndrome (ft. Tony Endelman & Dr. Glover’s work)

284: Is cheating (including emotional affairs) correlated with Nice Guy Syndrome? (ft. Jason Lange)

283: How to go from stuck ... to unstuck ... to THRIVING (ft. Brian Johnson of Heroic)

282: Anal sex! Yep, we’re talkin’ about it. (ft. Sara)

281: How do I say, 'I need you to have more support outside of just me?' (ft. Jason Lange)

280: How do I tell my partner I want something different? (ft. Jason Lange)

279: "You don’t have to be with someone who makes you feel like sh*t every day!" (ft. Jeff & Allison from the Love & Sex Podcast)

278: Need a breakthrough? Try breathwork. (ft. Luke Adler)

277: Want to maximize polarity? Learn to do this well. (ft. Jason Lange)

276: I may want an open relationship. How do tell my partner? (ft. Dr. Joli Hamilton)

275: What's life like as an erotica writer? (ft. Ruan Willow)

274: How do you make sure you're not coming off as creepy? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay]

273: 3 myths about self-love ... and why it matters *so much* in relationship (ft. Megan Bhatia)

272: Your woman wants you to tussle with her. Yes, really. (ft. Dr. Robert Glover) [replay]

271: GirlTalk: What makes a woman truly trust a man? [replay]

270: What is shadow work, and how does it make you sexier? (ft. Luke Adler & Jason Lange)

269: What women truly crave from men (ft. Jason Lange)

268: A woman’s biggest fear (and how you can help) (ft. Violet Lange)

267: What do you do if your masculine role models sucked? (ft. Jason Lange)

266: How do you get to breakthrough? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay]

265: What if she's got a sexual trauma background? How do you help? (ft. Violet Lange) [replay]

264: How do we learn about sex? (ft. Yuval Mann)

263: 5 ways to polarize a powerful woman (ft. Jason Lange)

262: Are you lonely? (ft. Jason Lange)

261: If I'm having doubts, does that mean she's not The One? (ft. Jason Lange)

260: How do you make consent sexy? An adult film actress shares! (ft. Tasha Reign)

259: Want her to feel safe with you, and free to be vulnerable? Learn to do this. (ft. Jason Lange)

258: Should you wait to get into a relationship in order to work on your stuff? & other popular questions (ft. me!)

257: Porn sex vs. real-life sex: a woman porn director lays it out (ft. Holly Randall) [replay]

256: How do you support her when she’s having a hard time (and also get your needs met)? (ft. Violet Lange)

255: GuyTalk: Fun with cunnilingus! 3 men share their experience of going down on women

254: The 3 common traps conscious couples fall into (and how to avoid them!) (ft. Allana Pratt)

253: Can you address erectile dysfunction with a science-based sex toy? Turns out yes. (ft. Dr. Soum of MysteryVibe)

252: How to date & have connected sex with a trauma background (ft. Michael Unbroken)

251: Dating lessons from a dating show host! (ft. Alli Goldberg)

250: How do you re-polarize a relationship (bring back the spark)? ft. Jason Lange

249: Feel like you can never get it right with her? This relationship pattern could be behind it (ft. Jason Lange)

248: Hot sexting! How & when to sext, and more on sexual communication (ft. Dr. Tara)

247: GirlTalk: Dating apps! What's it like being a woman on them? [Replay]

246: Getting to peak masculine vitality (ft. Michael Holt)

245: What's it like to be swingers? (ft. John & Jackie Melfi)

244: What if what makes me good at my job makes it harder to date? (ft. Jason Lange)

243: Why are European women more likely to speak up about sex? (ft. Guy Blaise)

242: Stepping off the 'relationship escalator' (ft. Amy Gahran)

241: What if you've ticked the big boxes in life ... but you're still not happy? (ft. Jason Lange)

240: How do we raise good men? (ft. Luke Entrup)

239: Realized I’m a "Nice Guy." Now what do I do about it? (ft. Jason Lange)

238: How do I approach a woman at the gym without bothering her? -- and other common dating questions (ft. me!)

237: Going after the women YOU want (ft. Jason Lange) [replay]

236: GirlTalk: Four women share their hottest sexual experience ever [replay]

235: "I see a beautiful woman and immediately get triggered. Why?" (ft. Jason Lange)

234: GirlTalk: Something we crave from men but rarely ask for ... [replay]

233: Creative monogamy -- how to open up a relationship strategically (ft. Dr. Joli Hamilton)

232: Love languages, conflict, connection, and repair

231: Her journey from vanilla marriage to BDSM and kink! (ft. Sara)

230: How do I inspire my woman to want more sex with me? (ft. Jason Lange) [replay]

229: Men have body image issues, too. (ft. Jason Lange)

228: Setting the mood for sensuality ... (ft. Amy Anthony)

227: How a woman can reclaim her erotic essence (ft. Violet Lange)

226: GirlTalk: When men do this, we melt. (Yes, really!) [replay]

225: We're talkin' tussling! How positive emotional tension can enhance your relationship (ft. Dr. Robert Glover)

224: What does it mean to have honest sex? (ft. Shana James)

223: Sexological bodywork, somatic sex education, and overcoming trauma (ft. Chris Muse & Alyssa Morin)

222: Are you using your woman for sex? (ft. Jason Lange)

221: What's her feminine storm, and what's abuse? (ft. Violet & Jason Lange) [replay]

220: How do I tell if she likes me? (ft. Jason Lange)

219: How do you handle it if one partner's up and the other is down? (ft. Jason Lange)

218: Lost that spark? How to get the chemistry back in a long-term relationship (ft. Alicia Davon)

217: When sex is about more than just the sex. (ft. Jason Lange)

216: Special GuyTalk: Sexual challenge, consciousness work, and relationship

215: Are you intimidated by her emotions? Here’s what to do (ft. Jason Lange)

214: How does the father wound affect a man? (ft. Jason Lange)

213: “Why isn’t my wife attracted to me anymore?” (ft. Jason Lange) [replay]

212: Have you had a disappointing love life? (ft. Dr. Thomas Jordan)

211: One of the deepest modalities I've encountered thus far (ft. Jessica Hagan)

210: Dating after 40 -- turns out it can be better than ever (ft. Jade Chang Sheppard)

209: "I knew I wanted something different, but didn't know how to get there." (Jason Lange)

208: GuyTalk: "I used to suck at girls ... and now I don't."

207: Staying together for the kids? There are things you should know. (ft. Jason Lange)

206: “Our first sex was terrible ... and here's why I married him” (ft. Anna Rova)

205: So an introvert and an extrovert walk into a bar… (ft. Jason Lange)

204: GirlTalk: Gettin' down and dirty. We're talking blow jobs! [replay]

203: Let's Get Real Bro: Is the missing piece in your relationship life bros? (ft. Weston Karnes)

202: 'Our sex life isn't working, but other things in the relationship are. What do we do?' (ft. Jason Lange)

201: 'Life was one big party I wasn't invited to': Overcoming social anxiety (ft. Ryan Black)

200: GirlTalk: What makes a man trustable?

199: Want to overcome trauma quickly? De-armoring can help (ft. Sunny Ju)

198: Want a harder cock more of the time? Screw Viagra. Do this. (ft. Brian Ayers)

197: How does fatherhood change a man? (ft. Tripp Lanier)

196: The “invisible” relationship pattern that can affect everything (ft. Jason Lange)

195: Good vs. bad couples counseling -- what to know (ft. Figs O'Sullivan)

194: The "Orgy King" who overcame crippling sexual insecurity (ft. Kenneth Play)

193: Want freedom from attachment? You can get there. (ft. Tracy Crossley)

192: Opposites attract, but can they repair? (ft. Azrya & Benjamin Bequer)

191: Supporting a woman in her sexual pleasure & healing (ft. Violet Lange & Keri Nola) [replay]

190: Responding to a woman's criticism masterfully (ft. Jason Lange)

189: GirlTalk: Does size matter?

188: Want to date well? Getting to the "hard stuff" fast can help (ft. CanWe founder Russ Haywood)

187: Sex worker talks virgins & threesomes & brothels, oh my! (ft. Alice Little)

186: GirlTalk: Approaching us in the wild (the "cold approach") [replay]

185: A Sex Journal for Couples (ft. Levina Li & Caleb Spaulding) [replay]

184: GirlTalk: Men, money, and masculinity

183: "I'm fine." Handling passive aggression with grace (ft. Jason Lange)

182: Is your partner a survivor of sexual trauma? What to expect & how to help (ft. Violet Lange) [replay]

181: What exactly is polarity? We break it down. (ft. Violet Lange) [replay]

180: Top 3 things we’ve learned after coaching men on sex & relationships for years (ft. Jason Lange)

179: Why’s it so hard for me to approach my wife/partner for sex? (ft. Jason Lange)

178: What's it like to have non-ejaculatory orgasms as a man? (ft. Cam Fraser)

177: What's it like being a "wing girl" to thousands of men? (ft. Marni Kinrys, of the Wing Girl Method)

176: Men, weed, alcohol, and love. (ft. Jason Lange)

175: Repair conversations, MDMA, and love (ft. Jayson Gaddis)

174: How knowing your "hottest sexual movie" can make for smokin' sex (ft. Celeste Hirschman)

173: Conscious Cock. What is it and how can it help you? (ft. Kristopher Lovestone)

172: Revealing my sex research, one stat at a time (ft. Robbie Kramer)

171: Adventures in cross-cultural dating (ft. Robbie Kramer)

170: How do you overcome sexual shame? (ft. Becky Carter)

169: Making after-sex cleanup awesome, one couple at a time (ft. Frances Tang)

168: From Christian pastor to stripper! How she overcame religious trauma (ft. Nikole Mitchell)

167: How do I meet women to date in real life (instead of on dating apps)? ft. Camille Virginia

166: Can psychedelics help heal you? (ft. Jason Lange)

165: From Air Force Captain to personal growth leader (ft. Bryan Reeves)

164: What exactly *is* tantra? (ft. Devi Ward Erickson)

163: Ever had red-hot sex with someone who's bad for you? (ft. Jason Lange)

162: What's the difference between porn sex and real-life sex? A woman porn director explains (ft. Holly Randall)

161: 3 common ways women try to control men in relationships (ft. Simone Milasas)

160: She went from not wanting sex at all to deep, fulfilling sex (ft. Irene Fehr)

159: It happens to boys, too. Somatic therapies to heal from sexual abuse (ft. Rahi Chun)

158: How "radical authenticity" can transform your dating & relationship life (ft. Connell Barrett)

157: How to talk dirty during sex -- while making her feel safe (ft. Ashley Manta) [REPLAY]

156: The new dating app that gets you more dates! (ft. Zach Schleien of Filter Off)

155: How to overcome anxious/avoidant attachment in relationship (ft. Dr. Matt Kreinheder)

154: Can I have female friends when in a relationship? (ft. Jason Lange)

153: Her sexual healing: How to support her *and* get your needs met (ft. Violet Lange)

152: GirlTalk: How to go down on a woman so she *loves* it

151: Curious about consent? Intimacy Coordinators for sex scenes break it down (ft. Jenifer Yeuroukis & Sarah-Jane Hill)

150: Want a happy, healthy relationship? This could be holding you back. (ft. Ben Goresky & Mark Wolynn)

149: "My wife doesn't want sex anymore." It could be time for this. (ft. Jason Lange)

148: Being a male virgin in your 20s, 30s, or beyond (ft. Jason Lange)

147: Are you afraid of her emotions? Here’s what’s important to know (ft. Jason Lange)

146: Special GuyTalk/GirlTalk: Ghosting. Let's break it down.

145: How to "do" attachment well, according to a couples therapist (ft. Ryan Ginn) [REPLAY]

144: Should you stay together for the kids? (ft. Jason Lange)

143: GirlTalk: Dating apps: Our experience (as straight women)

142: Afraid of being called creepy? This could be why (ft. Jason Lange)

141: GuyTalk: Bullying, resilience, and relationships

140: The line between her being abusive and her feminine storm (ft. Jason Lange & Violet Lange)

139: How to Not Die Alone (ft. Logan Ury & Kristen Berman)

138: GirlTalk! When should you text her vs. call her? [Replay]

137: Should you stay friends with her? (ft. Jason Lange)

136: GuyTalk: Dating after divorce

135: How being 'disrespectful' could help your sex life (ft. Jason Lange)

134: Feel let down by your partner a lot? This might be why (ft. Jason Lange)

133: GirlTalk: Masturbation!

132: What if she's not doing the work? Can it work? (ft. Jason Lange & Violet Lange)

131: Feel like you can never get it right with her? This dynamic could be why (ft. Shana James)

130: GirlTalk: The best sex we've ever had :)

129: Setting boundaries with family. 'Tis the season! (ft. Violet Lange)

128: Feel like you're walking on eggshells? Recognizing Borderline Personality Disorder (ft. Violet Lange)

127: The secret to inspiring your woman to want more sex with you! (ft. Becky Wells) [replay]

126: If you don't want sex with tons of women, is there something wrong with you? (ft. Jason Lange)

125: 2 sex coaches open up about men, love, and growth (ft. Shana James) [replay]

124: How to have the women YOU want, want you back
 (ft. Jason Lange)

123: The best therapy to help your sex & love life (might not be what you think) (ft. Z Zoccolante)

122: The 3 different kinds of female orgasm! (ft. Melanie Scott) [replay]

121: A brilliant & inexpensive alternative to couples therapy! (ft. Mark & Ayesha)

120: What if you're still a virgin (or sexually inexperienced)? (ft. Jason Lange)

119: GirlTalk: Blowjobs! What we like and don't like in oral sex on men

118: GirlTalk: Cheating. We get personal.

117: What does it look like for *women* to "do the work"? (ft. Violet Lange)

116: Dating during COVID-19: how does it work? (ft. Violet Lange)

115: Is it easier for men or women to get into a relationship? (ft. Jason Lange)

114: GirlTalk: The 1 relationship skill to rule them all

113: The sexiest vacation you can take (ft. Mario Cruz)

112: How quitting porn supercharged this man's sex life (ft. Jason Lange)

111: GuyTalk: 3 black men talk sex, dating & relationships (ft. Jules, Graze, and Ahmad)

110: GirlTalk: 3 black girls talk dating (ft. Ivy, Nina, and Amber)

109: The secret to attracting the right women (and not the wrong ones) ft. Jason Lange [replay]

108: The key to dating with ease & overcoming anxiety in sex & relationships [replay]

107: Race, Privilege, and Healthy Masculine Leadership (ft. John Wineland, Preston Smiles, Dr. Siri Sat Nam, and Connor Beaton)

106: Getting sex back in a sexless relationship (ft. Ken Blackman) [replay]

105: GirlTalk: When men do this, we get wet! (Yes, really) [replay]

104: What does it mean to "do the work"? (ft. Jason Lange)

103: Reverse polarity can kill your sex life as a couple -- unless you do this (ft. Violet & Jason Lange)

102: BONUS GirlTalk - on men being in their power

101: First-ever listener panel! on owning power as a man (ft. Ben, David & Mark)

100: Being masculine & having emotions: how to "do" it well (ft. John Schinnerer)

99: A power couple talks about power in their relationship (ft. Jason & Violet Lange)

98: How to boost your sex appeal by owning your power (ft. Kevin O'Malley)

97: Using a matchmaker: what to know (ft. Matchmaker May)

96: How do you date if you have a mental illness? (ft. Jim of NoLongerLonely.com)

95: How NLP can dramatically help your sex & love life (ft. Mark Sing)

94: Real-life sexual healing (ft. Melissa Davison, Certified Sexological Bodyworker)

93: An unexpected way to improve your dating life quickly (ft.

92.5: Dr. Robert Glover: 5 essential dating tips for men [REPLAY]

92: How to do dirty talk! (ft. Ashley Manta)

91: Need more touch in your life? Try this (ft. Soleiman)

90: 2 simple hacks to improve presence in sex (ft. Ashley Manta)

89: Tantric dating: What is it & how can it help you? (ft. Catherine Auman)

88: The Truth About Marriage (ft. Roger Nygard)

87: A fun way to help your woman feel super sexy (ft. Vixen DeVille)

86: How do you to tell someone you have an STD? (ft. Adrial Dale)

85: GirlTalk: Men & Money -- an honest dialogue

84: How alcohol affects your relationships with women (ft. Omar Pinto)

83: What's it like to host a sex party? (ft. Emma Sayle)

82: If you cultivate this 1 quality, you'll magnetize women (ft. Jason Lange)

81: Overcoming erectile dysfunction & premature ejaculation (ft. Ruwan Meepagala)

80: Ethical porn: what is it? Why should you watch it? (ft. Liz Lovely of GoodPorn)

79: GirlTalk: How to "cold approach" well (hitting on women you don't know)

78: GuyTalk: Going down on women!

77: A brilliant invention to help your woman feel FREE during sex! (ft. Emily Sauer)

76.5: Pain in Pleasure, Pleasure in Pain (ft. Z Zoccolante) [REPLAY]

76: Sex: what do you do when your woman stops wanting to have it?

75: GirlTalk: How to NOT be creepy as a dude (and help women feel safe)

74: How to generate sexual attraction skillfully: polarity in practice (ft. Jason Lange)

73: GirlTalk: Going down on women -- how to make it exquisite

72: PeopleTalk: When are you 'ready' to be in a relationship?

71: A real couple reveals what it's like to go to counseling [REPLAY]

70: GirlTalk: This skill makes us *fall in love* with a man

69: Why talk therapy doesn't always work for men, and what does (ft. Brooke Bergman)

68: Overcoming porn addiction: one couple's story (ft. The Couple Cure)

67: 'GuyTalk' response to the skill that makes us wet (ft. Jason Lange)

66: GirlTalk: When men do this, we get wet.

65: The secret to attracting the right women (and not the wrong ones) ft. Jason Lange [REPLAY]

64: How to inspire your woman to want more sex with you! (ft. Becky Wells)

63: 5 science-backed ways to boost your testosterone (ft. Jason Lange)

62: What do you do if you're not sure she's "The One"? (ft. Dr. Laura Kasper)

61: Dr. Robert Glover -- 5 essential dating tips for men

60: Masculine/Feminine Polarity (ft. Violet Lange) [replay]

59: Do you want more touch in your life? (ft. Adam Lippin)

58: The future of online dating (ft. Eve Peters)

57: How to get hot sex back into a sexless relationship (ft. Ken Blackman)

56: Helping your woman have more sexual pleasure! (ft. Violet Lange & Keri Nola)

55: A Sex Journal for Couples (ft. Levina Li & Caleb Spaulding)

54: Behind the scenes with a couples therapist (ft. Ryan Ginn)

53: How to get over your freaking ex (ft. Jason Lange)

52: GuyTalk: Have you ever led a woman on?

51: GirlTalk: We'd love for men to do this differently

50: One man's experience of polyamory (ft. Pierce Delahunt)

49: The key to dating with ease (for men)

48: Who Should Pay On A Date? (ft. Jason Lange)

47 - A love poem for you

46: GuyTalk: Men's sexual fantasies

45: GirlTalk: Real women share their sexual fantasies!

44: How a "Nice Guy" Found His Power ... and Got Into the Best Relationship of His Life (ft. Jim Cruzen)

43: How One Man Found His Purpose (ft. Neil Gordon)

42: How to Intentionally Attract Your Ideal Partner (ft. Jason Lange)

41.5: Pain in Pleasure, Pleasure in Pain (ft. Z Zoccolante) [REPLAY]

41: GirlTalk! When should you text her vs. call her?

40: Men and purpose: what's the deal? (ft. Jason Lange)

39: Navigating Personal Space vs. Togetherness in Relationship (ft. Jason Lange)

38: GuyTalk: Casual sex -- a male perspective

37: Secrets of a Sex Researcher

36: GirlTalk: Casual Sex!

35: Keeping sex hot in a long-term relationship (ft. Violet Lange)

34: Men Being Awesome: 9 More Stories

33: 10 Times Men Have Been Allies to Me

32: What to say if your woman was assaulted

31: A real couple reveals what it's like to go to counseling

30: GirlTalk: How to Flirt Like a Boss ;)

29: What it's actually like to be polyamorous

28: The Day I Outgrew Pickup (ft. Jason Lange)

27: Hacking Masculine Presence (ft. Johnny Blackburn)

26: How Men & Women Communicate Differently (ft. Rob Kandell)

25: GuyTalk: Dating apps - a male perspective

24: GirlTalk: Dating Apps -- The Good, The Bad, The Ugly

23: The 3 types of female orgasms (ft. Melanie Scott)

22: What's really up with "fear of commitment"? (ft. Dr. Laura Kasper)

21: GirlTalk: How to Soothe an Upset Woman

20: How to Attract the Right Women (and Not the Wrong Ones) (ft. Jason Lange)

19: Sex Talk With a Former Professional Dominatrix

18: The secret to being masculine isn't what you think (ft. Jeffrey Platts)

17: How to pursue women correctly (ft. Josh Klaasen)

16: The top 5 things we've learned about men (ft. Shana James)

15: GirlTalk: We crave this from men, and love when they provide it!

14: How to be a Man in Relationship Instead of a Boy (ft. Martin Hannon)

13: Advanced Sexual Practices for Men

12: How to Help a Shut-Down Woman Open Up

11: What can male strippers teach us about relationships?

10: Ghosting! We've gotta talk about it. Special GirlTalk/GuyTalk episode

9: How to date powerful women (ft. Ken Blackman)

8: How to Deal With "Issues" Fast (ft. Dr. Matt Kreinheder)

7: How Does a Man Get to Balance? (ft. Eivind F. Skjellum)

6: From "Nice Guy" to Confident With Women & Married to a Goddess (ft. Jason Lange)

5: Masculine/Feminine Polarity (ft. Violet Lange)

4: GuyTalk: 4 Men Respond to GirlTalk

3: GirlTalk: We love when men do this! Why don't they do it more?!

2: Pleasurable Sex: A Few Creative Solutions

1: Pain in Pleasure, Pleasure in Pain (ft. Z Zoccolante)

Intro: What is this and why should you care?