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Dear Shandy — 460 episodes

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1

Rewire Your Brain & Get "Unsingle" With Amy Chan - 461

2

Q&A! Blinded By Breadcrumbs & Does His Bad Taste Mean Bad Compatibility? - Ep 460

3

Temptation Island S2: Episodes 6-9 Recap & Review - Ep 459

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Temptation Island S2: Episodes 1-5 Recap & Review - Ep 458

5

Age Of Attraction: REUNION Recap & Review - Ep 457

6

Age Of Attraction: Episodes 6, 7 & FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 456

7

Age Of Attraction: Episodes 1-5 Recap & Review - Ep 455

8

'The Bachelorette' With Taylor Frankie Paul Is CANCELLED—Shandy Weighs In - Ep 454

9

Q&A! Your Boyfriend Isn't "Obsessed" With You & Your Dad Has 2 Girlfriends - Ep 453

10

Love Is Blind S10: Reunion Recap & Review - Ep 452

11

Love Is Blind S10: Finale Recap & Review - Ep 451

12

The Traitors S4: Finale & Reunion Recap & Review - Ep 450

13

Love Is Blind S10: Episodes 10-11 Recap & Review - Ep 449

14

The Traitors S4: Episode 10 Recap & Review - Ep 448

15

Love Is Blind S10: Episodes 7-9 Recap & Review - Ep 447

16

The Traitors S4: Episode 9 Recap & Review - Ep 446

17

Love Is Blind S10: Episodes 1-6 Recap & Review - Ep 445

18

The Traitors S4: Episode 8 Recap & Review - Ep 444

19

UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 7! - Ep 443

20

The Traitors S4: Episode 7 Recap & Review - Ep 442

21

Q&A! How To Tell Your Friends They're Filthy & Finding Your Own "Andy" - Ep 441

22

The Traitors S4: Episode 6 Recap & Review - Ep 440

23

Caller 📞 Sessions! "Should I Invite My Sister On A Vacation I Know She Can't Afford?" - Ep 439

24

Love Is Blind Germany S2: REUNION Recap & Review - Ep 438

25

The Traitors S4: Episodes 4-5 Recap & Review - Ep 437

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Love Is Blind Germany S2: FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 436

27

Q&A! Blocked Over An Emoji & My Friend's Affair With My Married Sister - Ep 435

28

Love Is Blind Germany S2: Episodes 5-8 Recap & Review - Ep 434

29

The Traitors S4: Episodes 1-3 Recap & Review - Ep 433

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Love Is Blind Germany S2: Episodes 1-4 Recap & Review - Ep 432

31

2025 In Review + BONUS Q&A! The Year's Ups And Downs & Your Juicy Qs Answered - Ep 431

32

LOVE FEST! Mel Owens & Peg Munson Are Shandies And They Came With Notes - Ep 430

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Q&A! Dating Despite A Dealbreaker & Was His Anniversary Gift Kinky Or Just Inappropriate? - Ep 429

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LOVE FEST! Andrew Spencer & Alexe Godin Let Us Into The Chaos - Ep 428

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LOVE FEST! Jeremy Simon & Bailey Taylor Brown Are Ready To Surprise You - Ep 427

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The Golden Bachelor S2: Finale | AFTER THE FINAL ROSE | Recap & Review - Ep 426

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The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 7 | FANTASY SUITES | Recap & Review - Ep 425

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The Golden Bachelor's Theresa Nist Responds To Gerry Turner's Book Claims - Ep 424

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Love Is Blind S9: Ep 13 | REUNION | Recap & Review - Ep 423

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The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 6 | WOMEN TELL ALL | Recap & Review - Ep 422

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The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 5 Recap & Review - Ep 421

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Love Is Blind S9: Ep 12 | FINALE | Recap & Review - Ep 420

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The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 4 Recap & Review - Ep 419

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Love Is Blind S9: Eps 10-11 | THIRD BATCH | Recap & Review - Ep 418

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The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 3 Recap & Review - Ep 417

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Love Is Blind S9: Eps 7-9 | SECOND BATCH | Recap & Review - Ep 416

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The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 2 Recap & Review - Ep 415

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Love Is Blind S9: Eps 1-6 | THE PODS | Recap & Review - Ep 414

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The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 1 Recap & Review - Ep 413

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Q&A! Admitting To Ozempic & Getting Caught Wanking - Ep 412

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5 Year Anniversary Q&A! Answering YOUR Questions - Ep 411

52

Bachelor In Paradise S10: Finale Recap & Review - Ep 410

53

UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 6! - Ep 409

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Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 9 Recap & Review - Ep 408

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Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 8 Recap & Review - Ep 407

56

Perfect Match S3 Recap: Ep 10 (Finale) - Ep 406

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Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 7 Recap & Review - Ep 405

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Perfect Match S3 Recap: Eps 7-9 (Batch 2) - Ep 404

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Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 6 Recap & Review - Ep 403

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Unpacking Netflix's 'Perfect Match' With Clayton Echard - Ep 402

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Perfect Match S3 Recap: Eps 1-6 (Batch 1) - Ep 401

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Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 5 Recap & Review - Ep 400!!!

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Q&A! Threesome Confusion & Giving Mom Dating Advice - Ep 399

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Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 4 Recap & Review - Ep 398

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Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 3 Recap & Review - Ep 397

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Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 2 Recap & Review - Ep 396

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Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 1 Recap & Review - Ep 395

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The Ultimatum Queer Love S2 Recap: Finale & Reunion - Ep 394

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The Ultimatum Queer Love S2 Recap: Batch 1, Part 2 - Ep 393

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The Ultimatum Queer Love S2 Recap: Batch 1, Part 1 - Ep 392

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Q&A! His Bad Oral Hygiene 💀 & How To De-Friend Your Hinge Date - Ep 391

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Caller 📞 Sessions! "I'm In Love With My Married Business Partner!" - Ep 390

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Q&A! Her Eyelashes Are Distracting & Whether Or Not To BLOW His Cover - Ep 389

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Caller 📞 Sessions! "He Can't Be Alone—Is This A Red Flag?" - Ep 388

75

Q&A! Your Dad Kills Squirrels & Therapy Policing - Ep 387

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The Sidebar: Sinners, Juice Inflation, Cops On Phones & Patrick Schwarzenegger - Ep 386

77

Love Is Blind's Joey & Sara Tell All - Ep 385

78

Money For Couples (& A Possible Recession) With Ramit Sethi - Ep 384

79

Caller 📞 Sessions! "How Do I Regain The Power In My Open Relationship?" - Ep 383

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Q&A! Is Flirting A Dying Art? & Money Manipulation - Ep 382

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Caller 📞 Sessions! "My Parents Don't Approve Of My Poly Lifestyle—Help!" - Ep 381

82

The Bachelor's Carolina Tells All - Ep 380

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Love Is Blind's Meg & Mason Tell All - Ep 379

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The Sidebar: Severance S2, Pretty Privilege & Andy's Worst You're Welcome - Ep 378

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Bachelor Recap: Finale | Grant's Coin Toss & A Golden Surprise - Ep 377

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Q&A! Prince Skid Mark Charming & Fighting Over Reality TV - Ep 376

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Bachelor Recap: Ep 8 | Fantasy Suites Are Just A Fantasy - Ep 375

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Bachelor Recap: Women Tell All | Carolina Vs Dina, The Battle Rages On - Episodes 374

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Love Is Blind Recap: Weddings & Reunion | Daniel And Taylor Prevail - Ep 373

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Q&A! Dirty Dreams = Cheating?, Group Text Hell & Being Second Choice - Ep 372

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Bachelor Recap: Ep 6 | Searching For Grant Ellis, Searching For Hometowns - Ep 371

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Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 10-12 | Breaking Up Is Hard To Do - Ep 370

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Bachelor Recap: Ep 5 | A Lone Wolf & His Distressed Damsels - Ep 369

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Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 7-9 | Dave Puts The Ass In Honduras - Ep 368

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Bachelor Recap: Ep 4 | The Ladies Take Bull From Grant & Co In Madrid - Ep 367

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Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 1-6 | The Pods; Love Triangles Galore - Ep 366

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Bachelor Recap: Ep 3 | Grant's Mansion Of Tears - Ep 365

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Keeping The Spark In Long Term Relationships With Emily Nagoski - Ep 364

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Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 | Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 - Carolina & Zoe Shoot Their Villain Shot - Ep 363

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LOVE FEST! Joan Vassos & Chock Chapple Talk NYC Apartment Hunting And Throw Pillows - Ep 362

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Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | Lone Wolf Grant Ellis Seeks His Mate - Ep 361

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Confessions With 'The Ultimatum''s Nicholas Tramontin - Ep 360

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UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 5! - Ep 359

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LOVE FEST! Garrett & Taylor Josemans-Krause Going A Year Plus Strong - Ep 358

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The Ultimatum Recap, Finale & Reunion: Breakup City - Ep 357

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2024 In Review! 🎉 Bests, Worsts & Worth The Money - Ep 356

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The Ultimatum Recap, Episodes 6-8: Kiss Me Once, Shame On Me, Kiss Me Twice... - Ep 355

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Q&A! His Wandering Eye For Instagram Models, Porn & Past Lovers - Ep 354

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The Ultimatum Recap, Episodes 1-5: A Couple Of Coy Cuckolds - Ep 353

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Love Is Blind Recap: Finale & Reunion | Breakups, Weddings & Sperm Baby-Gate - Ep 352

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Q&A! Sexless Marriage And Your Friend Owes You $1000 - Ep 351

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Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 7-9 | Ramses Says No To Ramses While Stephen Says Yes To Everything - Ep 350

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Caller 📞 Sessions! "Did He Break The Bro Code By Telling Me About Another Guy's Cheating?" - Ep 349

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Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 1-6 | The Pods To Mexico - Ep 348

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Golden Bachelorette Recap: Finale | Joan, Guy & The Big Chock Block - Ep 347

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Q&A! Being Direct, Burying Dreams And Playing Paparazzi - Ep 346

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Golden Bachelorette Recap: Men Tell All | True Bromance + Charles Is Back In Black - Ep 345

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Golden Bachelorette Ep 7 Recap: Standing Room Only In The Fantasy Suite - Ep 344

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Q&A! Becoming The Mistress & Does "Pretty" Mean More Friends? - Ep 343

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Golden Bachelorette Ep 6 Recap: Joan's Hometowns, A Tale Of 3 Cities - Ep 342

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Golden Bachelorette Ep 5 Recap: Catch Chock If You Can - Ep 341

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Q&A! Your Boyfriend Hates Your Singing & Friends Who Disappear When In Love - Ep 340

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Golden Bachelorette Ep 4 Recap: It's Chock O'Clock For Joan - Ep 339

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Golden Bachelorette Recap: Ep 3 | Joan & Pascal Hit The Vegas Strip - Ep 338

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Q&A! How To Hit On Your Cousin, Unrequited Birthdays & Grey Hair: To Dye Or Not To Dye? - Ep 337

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Golden Bachelorette Recap: Ep 2 | Joan And The Giant Leaf - Ep 336

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Golden Bachelorette Recap: Ep 1 | The Arc Of Joan Begins - Ep 335

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4 Year Anniversary Q&A! Answering YOUR Questions - Ep 334

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Q&A! "Bad" Friends, Annoying Roommates & Confusing Gym Guys - Ep 333

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Bachelorette Recap: Finale | Devin & Jenn, A Shakespearean Tragedy - Ep 332

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LOVE FEST! Caelynn & Dean Bell Are Mega Yin Yang - Ep 331

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 8 + Men Tell All | Fantasy Suites & Hot Seats - Ep 330

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Your Crappy Childhood Ft Anna Runkle, Aka Crappy Childhood Fairy - Ep 329

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | Hometownzzzzzzz... 😴 - Ep 328

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Q&A! The Case For Fading, Judging Breastfeeding & Confronting Tardy Friends - Ep 327

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | Sam And The Case Of The Missing Adjectives - Ep 326

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UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 4! - Ep 325

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | Farmer Devin & The Sheep Herders - Ep 324

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Caller 📞 Sessions! Career Vs Love: "He Moved For My Dream And Now Says It's 'My Turn'" - Ep 333

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Bachelorette Recap ft. Wells Adams: Ep 4 | Sam, Devin and Smoked Sam’N - Ep 332

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Q&A! Bi-Curiosity, Sister Read Your Journal & Does Imitation = Flattery? - Ep 321 -Dear Shandy

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 3 | Smooth Fists, Rough Personality - Ep 320

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 2 | Devin Gets A Pearl Necklace - Ep 319

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A Day In The Life Of Dave Neal - Ep 318

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 1 | Jenn Tran Makes History And A Historic Makeout - Ep 317

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Q&A! Dating a Guy Who's TOO Handsome, A 14-Year Situationship, & Right Guy, Wrong Timing? - Ep 316

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Caller 📞 Sessions! "Should I Avoid My Reunion Because I Feel Like An Outcast?" - Ep 315

148

Perfect Match Recap: Finale | How Did We Get Here & Why Did We Come? - Ep 314

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Q&A! Holding Grudges, When He "Forgets" He Said The L-Word, and Big Age Gaps - Ep 313

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Perfect Match Recap: Eps 7-9 | Harry Jowsey And The Bathroom Kiss Whodunit - Ep 312

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Perfect Match Recap: Eps 1-6 | Shandy Pops Their Perfect Match Cherry - Ep 311

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We Got A Dog!!! Shandy's Dog Adoption Story - Ep 310

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Q&A! Morality Check, What To Do When Your Friend Deserves Better, & A Travel Am-I-The-A-Hole Bonanza! - Ep 309

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Heal Your Attachment Pattern With Eli Harwood, Aka @AttachmentNerd - Ep 308

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Q&A! Responding To Stupid Questions, Friend-less Fiancé, & To Wed Or Not To Wed? - Ep 307

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Caller 📞 Session! "Is My Relationship Worth Saving?" - Ep 306

157

We're Officiants! Officiating Nick & Natalie Joy Viall's Wedding - Ep 305

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Q&A! Too Much Complaining, The Seed Of Resentment & Is "Boring" Healthy? - Ep 304

159

The Genius Of Empathy With Dr. Judith Orloff - Ep 303

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GOLDEN DIVORCE?! Gerry Turner & Theresa Nist's Bombshell Announcement - Ep 302

161

The School Of Dating With Matchmaker Maria (Part 2!) - Ep 301

162

Q&A! Competition In Friendship, High-Strung Low-Strung & Is "Nice" Enough? - Ep 300

163

LOVE FEST! Charity Lawson & Dotun Olubeko Are A Dreamy Double Date - Ep 299

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Bachelor Recap: Finale | A Historic Bachelorette Crowning And The Twist That Never Was - Ep 298

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LOVE FEST! Gerry Turner & Theresa Nist Share Their Post-Golden Wedding Glow - Ep 297

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Bachelor Recap: Women Tell All | Pack Your Hammer & Your Olive Branch - Ep 296

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Love Is Blind Recap: Reunion | Like Sands Through The Hourglass - Ep 295

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Bachelor Recap: Ep 9 | Seeking The Fantasy in Fantasy Suites - Ep 294

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Love Is Blind Recap: Ep 12 | One Wedding & A Funeral (The Finale) - Ep 293

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Bachelor Recap: Ep 8 | Joey's Coming For Dinner (aka Hometowns) - Ep 292

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Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 10-11 | Chelsea, Jimmy & The Impending Zombie Apocalypse - Ep 291

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Bachelor Recap: Ep 7 | And Down The Hometown Stretch They Come - Ep 290

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Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 7-9 | The Good, The Bad & The Clingy - Ep 289

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Bachelor Recap: Ep 6 | Voulez Vous Faire Poutine Avec Moi - Ep 288

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Love Is Blind Recap *PART 2*: Eps 1-6 | Jimmy Gets Out-Foxed - Ep 287

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Love Is Blind Recap *PART 1*: Eps 1-6 | May The Pods Have Mercy - Ep 286

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LOVE FEST! Brayden Bowers & Christina Mandrell On The Competition To Serve - Ep 285

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Bachelor Recap: Eps 4 & 5 | Tag, You're Villain - Ep 284

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Tap Into Your Intuition With Natalie Miles - Ep 283

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Bachelor Recap: Ep 3 | To Bully Or Not To Bully - Ep 282

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Q&A! Unrequited Generosity, The Gossip Mill, And Once Ick, Always Ick? - Ep 281

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Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 | 30 Is The New 60 - Ep 280

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Your Situationship Is Too Comfortable - Ep 279

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Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | Everything's A Game And It's Joey's Serve - Ep 278

185

Q&A! Anxiety Talking On The Phone, The Middle Name, & If Shandy's Changed Their Tune On A 3-Year-Old Take - Ep 277

186

UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 3! - Ep 276

187

2023 IN REVIEW! 🎊 Your Favorites of 2023 Questions + Our Fave Q&As Of The Year! - Ep 275

188

Q&A! Andy's Advice To Guys On Approaching Women IRL, Phone Addiction & House Key Etiquette - Ep 274

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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Finale | It's Always About The F***ing Ring - Ep 273

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Golden Bachelor Recap: Finale | The Good, The Bad & The Gerry - Ep 272

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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 9 | Relationships Crumble & The Dogs Come Sniffing - Ep 271

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Q&A! Pre-Date Sleuthing, An F Sans The Buddy, & Red Wine Lucy - Ep 270

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Will We Ruin A Good Thing By Moving In Too Soon? Help! - Ep 269

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Golden Bachelor Recap: Fantasy Suites | Two Women, One Restaurateur - Ep 268

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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 8 | Katie Thurston Hosts A Roast - Ep 267

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Confessions With Katie Thurston - Ep 266

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Golden Bachelor Recap: Women Tell All | A Tell All For The Ages - Ep 265

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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 7 | The King & The Kat Burglar - Ep 264

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Q&A! When A Good Guy's A Bad Kisser, "No Eggshells" Vs Shared Humor, & Having A Hot Dad - Ep 263

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Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 6 | When Hometowns Hit Different - Ep 262

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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 6 | The Scandal You Never Saw Coming - Ep 261

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Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 5 | A Rollercoaster To Hometowns - Ep 260

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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 5 | Another Cake Bites The Dust - Ep 259

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Women Without Kids With Ruby Warrington - Ep 258

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Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 4 | Pickle Me Pink - Ep 257

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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 4 | Bacon, Eggs & A Side Of John Henry - Ep 256

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Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 3 | Kathy & Theresa Take It Outside - Ep 255

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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 3 | Cold Kat And Hot Sh$t - Ep 254

209

Q&A! Asking A Woman To Shave Her Legs, Paying For A Friend's Birthday, And Wanting A New Ring - Ep 253

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Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 | Gerry, Take The Wheel - Ep 252

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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 2 | Hannah Brown's Bonfire Of Bummers - Ep 251

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Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | It's Gerrrrrr-ific - Ep 250

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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 1 | These Toes Were Made For Sucking - Ep 249

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LOVE FEST! Hayley Kiyoko & Becca Tilley Are An Island & A Wave - Ep 248

215

I Accidentally Stoked My Boyfriend's Jealousy—Am I The A-Hole? - Ep 247

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3 Year Anniversary Q&A! Answering YOUR Questions - Ep 246

217

Q&A! "Always A Cheater", A Locked Room In A Shared Home, & Helping A Shandy Make Friends - Ep 245

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LOVE FEST! Chelsea Vaughn & Austin Tinsley On Life After Paradise Canada - Ep 244

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I'm Accidentally Involved In A Cheating Scandal—Am I The A-Hole? - Ep 243

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Bachelorette Recap: Finale | Charity Finds Love & Other Stuff Happens - Ep 242

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Navigating Narcissism With Dr. Ramani - Ep 241

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Bachelorette Recap: Men Tell All | FP and Lukewarm Tea - Ep 240

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Q&A! Massively Passive, Don't Tell Me I'm Pretty & A Womp-Womp Wedding Gift - Ep 239

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | What Could Go Wrong In Fiji? - Ep 238

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LOVE FEST! Alexis Waters & Tyler Fernandez Prove Opposites Attract - Ep 237

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | What's Love Got To Do With It? - Ep 236

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My Parents Are Beefing—Am I Wrong To Pick A Side? - Ep 235

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | Family, Family, Family, Family, Family, Family, Family, Family... - Ep 234

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UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 2! - Ep 233

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 4 | Big Stick Energy - Ep 232

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Q&A! Too Much Perfume, Feeling Shallow, & The Lost Art Of Going Slow - Ep 231

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 3 | Will The Real AI Bachelorette Contestant Please Stand Up - Ep 230

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He Won't Forgive Me For My Debt—Are We Doomed? - Ep 229

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 2 | Worst Spring Break Ever - Ep 228

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LOVE FEST! Joe Amabile & Serena Pitt From Paradise To City Hall - Ep 227

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 1 | Undercover Brother & Operation Kiss & Tell - Ep 226

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How To Be Your Own Therapist With Owen O'Kane - Ep 225

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Q&A! Can "In Sight, Out Of Mind" Work, Differing Beliefs, & A Fetid Fetish - Ep 224

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LOVE FEST! When Love Lands In Your Inbox With Bennett Jordan & Emily Chen - Ep 223

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Do My Dating Requirements Make Me A Gold Digger? - Ep 222

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Q&A! Engagement Envy, Torn Between Two Weddings, & Emotional Cheating, But... - Ep 221

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We Plan To Elope But Fear His Parents Will Freak Out—Help!

243

The Psychology Of Reality TV Dating With Dr. Kirk Honda

244

Q&A! Forced Hugs, When Generosity Goes Too Far, and Who Should Have Paid?

245

Love Is Blind Recap: Finale + Reunion | Three Weddings & An Entertainment Funeral

246

How To Get Rich With Ramit Sethi

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Love Is Blind Recap: Seattle Pt 2 | Countdown To Marriage-ageddon

248

Q&A! When Is It *Really* Over, Romance MIA, & Pickleball Fights

249

Love Is Blind Recap: Seattle Pt 1 | Bliss Is Back... But Not For Everyone

250

LOVE FEST! Ivan Hall & Tailour Roberson On Parting Ways To Grow Together (Oh, And Booking Brand Deals)

251

Love Is Blind Recap: Mexico | Love Less Blind Than Previously Thought

252

Goodbye Perfect: Overcoming Perfectionism With Homaira Kabir

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Love Is Blind Recap: The Pods | Shandy's First Ever LIB Recap & First Impressions

254

My Ex Said He Wanted To Stay Friends—Should We?

255

Bachelor Recap: Finale | Love Triangle Of Sadness

256

Q&A! Accidental Orgy, Asking To Be The Plus-One, & The Ethics Of Tickling

257

Bachelor Recap: Ep 9 | Love Zachtually (Aka Fantasy Suites)

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LOVE FEST! Getting Real (And Real Naked) With Danielle Maltby & Michael Allio

259

Bachelor Recap: Women Tell All | BIP Auditions And A "Surprise" Crowning

260

Bachelor Recap: Ep 8 | Pass The Syrup, Hold The Hometown Drama

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I'm In A Situationship And Need To Suss Out My Next Move!

262

Bachelor Recap: Ep 7 | Budapest, Bathhouses, & Why We End Things

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Open Relationships With Emily Gindlesparger

264

Bachelor Recap: Ep 6 | The Kat, The Witch & Wardrobe Optional

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Q&A! Being The Mistress, Ending A Friendship, & A Hallmark Love Story

266

Bachelor Recap: Ep 5 | The Princess And The Tea

267

Chris Bukowski & Anna Redman On Being Best Friends Who Play Games

268

Bachelor Recap: Ep 4 | Kat’s Out Of The Bag & Fight Flub (ft. Claire & Emma Of Love To See It)

269

My Friends Keep Bringing Their Partners To Girls Night—Help!

270

Bachelor Recap: Ep 3 | Bones At The Museum & Man, Oh, Mandrell

271

Confessions Of A Matchmaker With Matchmaker Maria

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Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 | A Latto Bad B*tches

273

Q&A! Statistical Likelihoods, A 28 Year Age Difference, & Sex Vs Commitment, Which Comes First?

274

Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | The Desperate Search For Ver-Zach-Y

275

We Broke Up Because Of His ED But Now He's Giving Mixed Signals—Help!

276

UPDATES To Shandies' Questions!

277

BEST OF 2022! Our Favorite Q&As Of The Year

278

Q&A! Considering Your Ex's Feelings, The Opposite Of Hate, And A Shandy Pep Talk

279

My Boyfriend Wants To Open Up Our Relationship—Help!

280

Q&A! Living With Mom, Mismatched In Dancing & Sending A Bad Text To The Wrong Person

281

Platonic: Navigating Friendships With Dr. Marisa G Franco

282

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Finale Part 2 | Victoria, Johnny and Greg... Oh My!

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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Finale Part 1 | First Comes Fantasy Suite, Then Comes Neil Lane

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LOVE FEST! Ben Zorn & Stacy Santilena On Going From Friends To More And Surviving Stagecoach

285

Bachelor In Paradise Recap Eps 13 & 14 | Andrew Has 99 Problems And Jessenia Is One

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Q&A! Venting, Mismatched TV Tastes, And Is An Old Flame Worth Revisiting?

287

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 12 | Rodney, A Tragedy In Three Acts

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I Broke My Ex's Heart & Think I Want Him Back—Help!

289

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Eps 10 & 11 | Red Flag Banquet And Boring In Stereo

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How To Manifest Your Best Life With Roxie Nafousi

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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Eps 8 & 9 | Shanae 1.0 Returns While A Love Triangle Brews

292

Q&A! Stealing Baby Names, Vocal Fry, And Refusal To Put Down The Toilet Seat

293

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Eps 6 & 7 | Down Goes Casey While Michael Flies First Class

294

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Eps 4 & 5 | Salley Finally Lands And Also... Peter

295

When, If Ever, Should I Disclose My "Number" In Dating? Help!

296

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Eps 2 & 3 | Suitcase Sagas And Fruit Fly Time

297

Navigating Mismatched Libidos With Sexologist Shan Boodram

298

Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 1 | Logan Drops A Luce

299

Q&A! Rom-Com Scenarios, Cringey Pet Names And Sliding Into His (LinkedIn) DMs

300

Bachelorette Recap: Finale | A Breakup House And A Tino Kebab

301

LOVE FEST! Kenny Braasch & Mari Pepin On Homebody Life & Age Difference Upside

302

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 11 | A Kafka-Esque Battle Of Semantics

303

Should I Pack Up And Move My Whole Family For My Own Personal Happiness? Help!

304

Bachelorette Recap: Eps 9 & 10 | Fantasy Suites, Hold The Fantasy

305

2 Year Anniversary Q&A | Answering Our Shandies' Questions! - Ep 156

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 8 + Men Tell All | A Bewitching Hometown, Villains Gone MIA, & First Impression Rose Head

307

Q&A! Hot For Teacher, Turning The Other Cheek, & A 25 Year Age Difference

308

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | A Clown Car Of Hometowns

309

LOVE FEST! Blake Horstmann & Giannina Gibelli Talk DJ Life And Misconceptions

310

Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | Did You Know Hometowns Are Around The Corner?

311

My Dad Won't Stop Talking About His Divorce From My Mom—Help! - Ep 150

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | The Villain Soundtrack Is On Repeat In Belgium

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Parenthood Clarity With #ChildfreeByChoice Clarity Coach Keltie Maguire

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 4 | The Two Camps Set Sail In France

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Q&A! Farting, Skeletons In The Apartment, & Sharleen's True Feelings On Andy's White V-Necks

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 3 | All Power Struggles Lead To A Fork In The Road

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LOVE FEST! Abigail Heringer & Noah Erb On Misconceptions And Scheduled Walks

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 2 | A Villain Comes And Goes... And Comes Back Again

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My Fiancé Won't Write Personalized Wedding Vows For Our Big Day—Help!

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Bachelorette Recap: Two's A Crowd But So Far They're Still Friends

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Q&A! A First Date Venmo, Safe Sex = Equal Effort?, & A Shandy's Love Letter

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My Boyfriend Still Lives With His Ex—Help!

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Bittersweet: How Sadness Is A Superpower With Susan Cain - Ep 138

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Q&A! To BJ Or Not To BJ, Changing Your Date's Style, & The Women's Equivalent To Andy's "Men Are Mature At 36" Rule

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LOVE FEST! Sarah Nicole & Shane Landry On Harnessing Jealousy & The Romance Of Logistics

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He Wouldn't Quit Following Racy Accounts—Was I Being Too Uptight?

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Unpacking Purity Culture With Blair Of @TalkPurityToMe

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Q&A! In Ick We Trust, "If He Wanted To, He Would", and To Kill Or Not To Kill?

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LOVE FEST! Courtney Robertson & Humberto Preciado On Instagram Vetting & Keeping The Peace

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Navigating Romance When You Have Anxiety, OCD Or Depression With Allison Raskin

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I Think I'm In Love With My Platonic Life Partner—Help!

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Q&A! Fantasize On, Being The Other Woman, & When You Can't Find A Great Person Attractive

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LOVE FEST! Dave Neal & Tasha Courtney On Grand Gestures & Being Friends First

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Confessions of a Divorce Attorney ft. Nicole Sodoma

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His Words And His Actions Don't Align—Should I Reach Back Out?

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Q&A! When You're Annoyed By Your Partner's Hobby & How To Slide Into A Celeb's DMs

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Bachelor Recap: Finale | Twists, Controversy, and Empathy... Oh My!

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Parasocial Relationships With Josh Peck

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My Long Distance Relationship Has Gotten Rocky—Help!

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Bachelor Recap: WTA + Ep 9 | The High-Wire Act That Is Overnights

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Our Wedding Story, Part 2 (aka Wedding Q&A!)

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Bachelor Recap: Episode 8 | Meta Language & Outdoorsy Lessons In Hometown Week

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Q&A! Returning The Ring, My BF Misses His Ex's Family, And DWI = Dealbreaker?

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Bachelor Recap: Ep 7 | Couples "Therapy" And A Villain On The Side

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LOVE FEST! Krystal Nielson & Miles Bowles On Opposites Attracting & The Fun Of Parenting

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Bachelor Recap: Ep 6 | Undesirable "Dates", Simmering Beef, & Marionette Strings

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Does My Fling Think I Moved For Him? Help!

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Bachelor Recap: Ep 5 | The Art of Comedy And The No-Shame-Ae Show Heads To Toronto

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Finding Purpose—With Or Without A Relationship—With John Kim, "The Angry Therapist"

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Bachelor Recap: Ep 4 | BBQ Crashers & When Shrimp Cancels Cocktail Parties

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Q&A! Whack-A-Mole Of Life, A Sexless Marriage, And Once Bad In Bed, Always Bad In Bed?

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Bachelor Recap: Ep 3 | Loose Lips Sink Ships, High Thigh, and The Same Ol’ Playbook

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LOVE FEST! Jacqueline Trumbull & Paul Seli On Overcoming Jealousy & The Art Of Making A Move

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The Hunt For Red Flags

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Bachelor Recap : Ep 2 | Hilary Duff, Kissing Fatigue, & Shanae-nah

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Q&A! Annoyance Mitigation, Guys Who Don't Ask You Out, & Sh*tting Where You Eat

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Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | The Likeliest of Bachelors and Unlikeliest of Exits

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Our Wedding Story

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Bachelorette Recap: Finale | A Foregone Conclusion Wrapped With A Christmas Bow

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LOVE FEST! Shawn Johnson & Andrew East On Holding Kites & Persistence Paying Off

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 9 | Official ILYs, Ziplining, and Fantasy Suites

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My Boyfriend Just Broke Up With Me But Wants Shared Custody Of My Dog—Help!

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Bachelorette Recap: Men Tell All | Apologies And Missed Opportunities Galore

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Navigating Enmeshment and Setting Boundaries with Alyssa Mancao

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | Hometowns, Emotional Breakthroughs, & Punctual Professions Of Love

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Q&A! Changing Names, Revealing FWB History, Sharing Secrets, & "Timing" Truths

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | No Tears? No Problem! A Bachelor Edit To The Rescue

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LOVE FEST! Sarah Herron & Dylan Brown's Real Life Meet Cute & IVF Journey

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | Minneapolis Is For Lovers But Especially Joe & Nayte

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My Boyfriend's Sister Is Increasingly Rude To Me—Should I Confront Her?

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 4 | Feeling Unseen, Teddy Bros, and D-List Villainy

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Truths Bombs About Egg Freezing & Fertility with Whitney Bischoff Angel

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 3 | Petulance, Poetry, and Justice

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Q&A! Number Ratings, Double Dipping, and Did He "Hit It and Quit It"?

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 2 | Basketball Bonding, Bad Spelling, and Rumors Swirling

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LOVE FEST! 100 Foot Wave's Garrett and Nicole McNamara on "Knowing" and Never Settling

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 1 | If You Want To Make ABC Laugh, Tell Them About Your Plans

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Should I Hold Out For Long Distance To End, Or Let Go And Enjoy Singledom? Help!

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Breakup Bootcamp: Rewiring Your Heart with Amy Chan

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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Finale | Breakups, Offscreen Makeups, and Proposals—Oh My!

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Q&A! Everyday Annoyances, Early Stage Doubts, and Whether Or Not White Lies Equal Red Flags

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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 10 | Ivan-Gate, Conspiracy Theories, and Memory Lanes

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LOVE FEST! Jasmine Lorimer & Eric Johnson on Italian Accents and Love Languages

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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 9 | Couples Get Serious As A *Literal* Storm Brews

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My Boyfriend Just Can't Get It Right With Gifts—Help!

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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 8 | Comeuppance, Universal Hypocrisy, and Palate Cleanser Dr. Joe

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It's Our 1-Year Anniversary! A Special Q&A For Our Listeners, The Shandies!

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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 7 | A VIP Party, Chris, & The Betrayals Continue

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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 6 | Brendan & Pieper, Paradise's Bonnie & Clyde

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Q&A! Fairytale Fantasies, Going Backwards, and How Many Friends With Exes Is Too Many?

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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 5 | Becca Kufrin, Jewelry, and A "Strongest Couple" No More

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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 4 | Strawberry Kisses, Betrayal, and Paradise "Implodes"

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LOVE FEST! Chatty Broads' Jess and Evan Ambrose on Growing Together and Adapting To Parenthood

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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 3 | Lance Bass, Thomas, and The Police Department

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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 2 | Cat 4 Demi, Pot Meet Kettle, and The Value Of A Rose

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Our Meeting Story Feels Serendipitous—But Am I Forcing This? Help!

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Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 1 | David Spade, Kissing Galore, and "Grocery Store" Joe's Anti-Game

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How To Attract The Relationship You Want with Tracy McMillan

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Bachelorette Recap: Finale | Terse Well Wishes, Aunt Lindsay, & A New Bachelor Nation Couple

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Q&A! Relationship Nostalgia, Decoding FWB Situations, and Coulda Woulda Shoulda

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 9 | Greg, Greg, and More Greg (Plus Our Predictions!)

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LOVE FEST! Nick Viall & Natalie Joy on How They Met and Building Trust

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 8 | Michael, Tear Analysis, and Men Tell All

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My Boyfriend's Close Girl Friend Doesn't Like Me! Help!

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | Katie’s an Empath, Mike P & His Mom, a Heartfelt Farewell

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Relationship Astrology: Birth Chart Compatibility & Tarot Reading

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | Hunter, "Operation WOWO", and Lose-Lose Situations

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Q&A! First Love Lasting, Friends or More, & Money Insecurity in Dating

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Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | Party Crasher Blake, Andrew S. 1-on-1, & Hunter

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LOVE FEST! Katie Morton & James Rowe On Making Long-Distance Work

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Bachelorette Recap: Episode 4 | Blake Moynes & Bachelor Thomas

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In Spite Of Multiple "Wrongs", Can He Still Be Mr. Right?

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Bachelorette Recap: Episode 3 | Right Reasons™ Drama, Nick Viall's Group Date, & Instagram Thomas

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Demystifying Your Pelvic Health & Secret Tips For More Pleasure ft. Dr. Uchenna Ossai

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Bachelorette Recap: Episode 2 | Mike's Poem, Aaron vs. Cody, & "Right Reasons" Karl

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Q&A! Texting Chemistry, He's Just Not That Into You, & The One That Got Away

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Bachelorette Recap: Episode 1 | First Impressions, Kayshia, & Our Predictions

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LOVE FEST! Ben Higgins & Jess Clarke Reveal Why Their Relationship Works & Ben's Secret Zookeeper Past

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My Long-Term Boyfriend Is Unsure About Marriage—How Long Is Too Long To Wait?

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Nikki Glaser Confesses Crush on Nick Viall, Sliding Into Matt James's DMs & Secrets of Celebrity Dating

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Q&A! Making the First Move & Rekindling Romance From the Friendzone

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LOVE FEST! Sydney Lotuaco Reveals How Nick Wehby Slid Into Her DMs & Won Her Heart

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Did I Miss My Proposal?!

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Confessions of a Reality TV Dating Show Host ft. Mark L. Walberg (Temptation Island)

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Q&A! Relationship Disillusionment

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LOVE FEST! Desiree & Chris Siegfried On How Kids Have Impacted Their Relationship

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I'm Secretly In Love With My Best Friend And Roommate—Help!

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Confessions of a Family and Marriage Therapist ft. LizListens

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Q&A! He's Everything I Want, But We Don't Share the Same Sense of Humor—Help!

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LOVE FEST! Kaitlyn Bristowe & Jason Tartick Discuss Starting in the Friendzone

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I Don't Yearn For My Partner When We're Apart—Is This A Bad Sign?!

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Confessions of a Sex Therapist ft. Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy

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Q&A! Staying Connected with Exes on Social Media & Second Chances

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LOVE FEST! Ashley Iaconetti & Jared Haibon Reveal How Their Love Story Is the Exception to the Rule

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My Boyfriend and I View COVID Differently—Is This A Deal Breaker?!

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Navigating Jealousy in Relationships & Exploring Non-Monogamy ft. Janet W. Hardy

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Q&A! Keeping the Chemistry Alive & Navigating Unhappy Marriages

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LOVE FEST! Derek Peth & Saffron Vadher Talk Love At First Sight

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Did My Date Fake Sickness to Abruptly Leave Our Date?!

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Our Proposal Story

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Q&A! Compromising for Relationships & Leaving Lost Causes

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LOVE FEST! Rachel Lindsay & Bryan Abasolo Address Marriage Rumors and Cat Plates

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We're at an Emotional Stalemate—Should We Break Up?

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The Do's and Don'ts of Managing Finances As A Couple

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Q&A! Dating Leagues & Yellow Flags

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LOVE FEST! Lesley Anne Murphy & Alex Kavanagh Talk Moving, Pregnancy, and Their Drone Love Story

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Should I Tell My Ex Lover's Girlfriend About Our Secret Affair?

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Confessions of a Divorced Man in His 40's ft. Comedian Dov Davidoff

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Q&A! My Boyfriend Is Following His Ex's OnlyFans—Is This Borderline Cheating?!

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LOVE FEST! Astrid Loch & Kevin Wendt Talk Meeting on Bachelor in Paradise & Dominos Love

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I've Never Been in a Meaningful Relationship—Help!

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Enneagram Types in Relationships ft. Certified Enneagram Coach Steph Barron Hall

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Q&A! Dating Younger Men, Navigating Breakups, & Zombie Apocalypse Sex

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LOVE FEST! Vanessa Grimaldi & Joshua Wolfe Chat Poop & Poutine

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My Date Doesn't Ask Questions — Is it Him Or Me?

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Can You Remain Friends With an Ex? ft. Andy's Ex-Fiancée

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Q&A! Prenups, Defining the Relationship, & Playing It Cool

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LOVE FEST! Caila Quinn & Nick Burrello Talk Relationship Hurdles & Hobbit Feet

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My Real-Life "The Bachelor" Dating Scenario

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