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Dear Shandy — 480 episodes
The Ultimatum's Blake Robertson Speaks Out - Ep 481
The Ultimatum S4: Finale & Reunion Recap & Review - Ep 480
The Ultimatum S4: Episodes 5-8 Recap & Review - Ep 479
The Ultimatum S4: Episodes 1-4 Recap & Review - Ep 478
Love Island S8: Week 6 & FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 477
Love Island S8: Week 5 Recap & Review - Ep 476
Caller 📞 Sessions! "I Let Myself Get Excited & He Promptly Dumped Me—What Happened & WHERE IS HE?!" - Ep 475
Love Island S8: Week 4 Recap & Review - Ep 474
Love Island S8: Week 3 Recap & Review - Ep 473
Q&A! "If He Wanted To, He Would": Timeless Or Outdated? - Ep 472
Love Island S8: Week 2 Recap & Review - Ep 471
Love Island S8: Week 1 Recap & Review - Ep 470
Q&A! Dating For The $$$ Lifestyle & His Secret Deepfake Stash - Ep 469
Confessions With 'Perfect Match''s Dave Hand - Ep 468
Perfect Match S4: FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 467
Q&A! Demystifying The Moody Husband & Is Timing *Really* Everything? - Ep 466
Perfect Match S4: Episodes 6-7 Recap & Review - Ep 465
Perfect Match S4: Episodes 1-5 Recap & Review - Ep 464
U Up? x Dear Shandy: Jared Freid & Jordana Abraham Unpack Modern Romance - Ep 463
Q&A! Your Boyfriend Steals Your Jokes & The Setup From Hell - Ep 462
Rewire Your Brain & Get "Unsingle" With Amy Chan - 461
Q&A! Blinded By Breadcrumbs & Does His Bad Taste Mean Bad Compatibility? - Ep 460
Temptation Island S2: Episodes 6-9 Recap & Review - Ep 459
Temptation Island S2: Episodes 1-5 Recap & Review - Ep 458
Age Of Attraction: REUNION Recap & Review - Ep 457
Age Of Attraction: Episodes 6, 7 & FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 456
Age Of Attraction: Episodes 1-5 Recap & Review - Ep 455
'The Bachelorette' With Taylor Frankie Paul Is CANCELLED—Shandy Weighs In - Ep 454
Q&A! Your Boyfriend Isn't "Obsessed" With You & Your Dad Has 2 Girlfriends - Ep 453
Love Is Blind S10: Reunion Recap & Review - Ep 452
Love Is Blind S10: Finale Recap & Review - Ep 451
The Traitors S4: Finale & Reunion Recap & Review - Ep 450
Love Is Blind S10: Episodes 10-11 Recap & Review - Ep 449
The Traitors S4: Episode 10 Recap & Review - Ep 448
Love Is Blind S10: Episodes 7-9 Recap & Review - Ep 447
The Traitors S4: Episode 9 Recap & Review - Ep 446
Love Is Blind S10: Episodes 1-6 Recap & Review - Ep 445
The Traitors S4: Episode 8 Recap & Review - Ep 444
UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 7! - Ep 443
The Traitors S4: Episode 7 Recap & Review - Ep 442
Q&A! How To Tell Your Friends They're Filthy & Finding Your Own "Andy" - Ep 441
The Traitors S4: Episode 6 Recap & Review - Ep 440
Caller 📞 Sessions! "Should I Invite My Sister On A Vacation I Know She Can't Afford?" - Ep 439
Love Is Blind Germany S2: REUNION Recap & Review - Ep 438
The Traitors S4: Episodes 4-5 Recap & Review - Ep 437
Love Is Blind Germany S2: FINALE Recap & Review - Ep 436
Q&A! Blocked Over An Emoji & My Friend's Affair With My Married Sister - Ep 435
Love Is Blind Germany S2: Episodes 5-8 Recap & Review - Ep 434
The Traitors S4: Episodes 1-3 Recap & Review - Ep 433
Love Is Blind Germany S2: Episodes 1-4 Recap & Review - Ep 432
2025 In Review + BONUS Q&A! The Year's Ups And Downs & Your Juicy Qs Answered - Ep 431
LOVE FEST! Mel Owens & Peg Munson Are Shandies And They Came With Notes - Ep 430
Q&A! Dating Despite A Dealbreaker & Was His Anniversary Gift Kinky Or Just Inappropriate? - Ep 429
LOVE FEST! Andrew Spencer & Alexe Godin Let Us Into The Chaos - Ep 428
LOVE FEST! Jeremy Simon & Bailey Taylor Brown Are Ready To Surprise You - Ep 427
The Golden Bachelor S2: Finale | AFTER THE FINAL ROSE | Recap & Review - Ep 426
The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 7 | FANTASY SUITES | Recap & Review - Ep 425
The Golden Bachelor's Theresa Nist Responds To Gerry Turner's Book Claims - Ep 424
Love Is Blind S9: Ep 13 | REUNION | Recap & Review - Ep 423
The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 6 | WOMEN TELL ALL | Recap & Review - Ep 422
The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 5 Recap & Review - Ep 421
Love Is Blind S9: Ep 12 | FINALE | Recap & Review - Ep 420
The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 4 Recap & Review - Ep 419
Love Is Blind S9: Eps 10-11 | THIRD BATCH | Recap & Review - Ep 418
The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 3 Recap & Review - Ep 417
Love Is Blind S9: Eps 7-9 | SECOND BATCH | Recap & Review - Ep 416
The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 2 Recap & Review - Ep 415
Love Is Blind S9: Eps 1-6 | THE PODS | Recap & Review - Ep 414
The Golden Bachelor S2: Ep 1 Recap & Review - Ep 413
Q&A! Admitting To Ozempic & Getting Caught Wanking - Ep 412
5 Year Anniversary Q&A! Answering YOUR Questions - Ep 411
Bachelor In Paradise S10: Finale Recap & Review - Ep 410
UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 6! - Ep 409
Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 9 Recap & Review - Ep 408
Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 8 Recap & Review - Ep 407
Perfect Match S3 Recap: Ep 10 (Finale) - Ep 406
Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 7 Recap & Review - Ep 405
Perfect Match S3 Recap: Eps 7-9 (Batch 2) - Ep 404
Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 6 Recap & Review - Ep 403
Unpacking Netflix's 'Perfect Match' With Clayton Echard - Ep 402
Perfect Match S3 Recap: Eps 1-6 (Batch 1) - Ep 401
Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 5 Recap & Review - Ep 400!!!
Q&A! Threesome Confusion & Giving Mom Dating Advice - Ep 399
Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 4 Recap & Review - Ep 398
Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 3 Recap & Review - Ep 397
Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 2 Recap & Review - Ep 396
Bachelor In Paradise S10: Ep 1 Recap & Review - Ep 395
The Ultimatum Queer Love S2 Recap: Finale & Reunion - Ep 394
The Ultimatum Queer Love S2 Recap: Batch 1, Part 2 - Ep 393
The Ultimatum Queer Love S2 Recap: Batch 1, Part 1 - Ep 392
Q&A! His Bad Oral Hygiene 💀 & How To De-Friend Your Hinge Date - Ep 391
Caller 📞 Sessions! "I'm In Love With My Married Business Partner!" - Ep 390
Q&A! Her Eyelashes Are Distracting & Whether Or Not To BLOW His Cover - Ep 389
Caller 📞 Sessions! "He Can't Be Alone—Is This A Red Flag?" - Ep 388
Q&A! Your Dad Kills Squirrels & Therapy Policing - Ep 387
The Sidebar: Sinners, Juice Inflation, Cops On Phones & Patrick Schwarzenegger - Ep 386
Love Is Blind's Joey & Sara Tell All - Ep 385
Money For Couples (& A Possible Recession) With Ramit Sethi - Ep 384
Caller 📞 Sessions! "How Do I Regain The Power In My Open Relationship?" - Ep 383
Q&A! Is Flirting A Dying Art? & Money Manipulation - Ep 382
Caller 📞 Sessions! "My Parents Don't Approve Of My Poly Lifestyle—Help!" - Ep 381
The Bachelor's Carolina Tells All - Ep 380
Love Is Blind's Meg & Mason Tell All - Ep 379
The Sidebar: Severance S2, Pretty Privilege & Andy's Worst You're Welcome - Ep 378
Bachelor Recap: Finale | Grant's Coin Toss & A Golden Surprise - Ep 377
Q&A! Prince Skid Mark Charming & Fighting Over Reality TV - Ep 376
Bachelor Recap: Ep 8 | Fantasy Suites Are Just A Fantasy - Ep 375
Bachelor Recap: Women Tell All | Carolina Vs Dina, The Battle Rages On - Episodes 374
Love Is Blind Recap: Weddings & Reunion | Daniel And Taylor Prevail - Ep 373
Q&A! Dirty Dreams = Cheating?, Group Text Hell & Being Second Choice - Ep 372
Bachelor Recap: Ep 6 | Searching For Grant Ellis, Searching For Hometowns - Ep 371
Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 10-12 | Breaking Up Is Hard To Do - Ep 370
Bachelor Recap: Ep 5 | A Lone Wolf & His Distressed Damsels - Ep 369
Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 7-9 | Dave Puts The Ass In Honduras - Ep 368
Bachelor Recap: Ep 4 | The Ladies Take Bull From Grant & Co In Madrid - Ep 367
Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 1-6 | The Pods; Love Triangles Galore - Ep 366
Bachelor Recap: Ep 3 | Grant's Mansion Of Tears - Ep 365
Keeping The Spark In Long Term Relationships With Emily Nagoski - Ep 364
Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 | Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 - Carolina & Zoe Shoot Their Villain Shot - Ep 363
LOVE FEST! Joan Vassos & Chock Chapple Talk NYC Apartment Hunting And Throw Pillows - Ep 362
Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | Lone Wolf Grant Ellis Seeks His Mate - Ep 361
Confessions With 'The Ultimatum''s Nicholas Tramontin - Ep 360
UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 5! - Ep 359
LOVE FEST! Garrett & Taylor Josemans-Krause Going A Year Plus Strong - Ep 358
The Ultimatum Recap, Finale & Reunion: Breakup City - Ep 357
2024 In Review! 🎉 Bests, Worsts & Worth The Money - Ep 356
The Ultimatum Recap, Episodes 6-8: Kiss Me Once, Shame On Me, Kiss Me Twice... - Ep 355
Q&A! His Wandering Eye For Instagram Models, Porn & Past Lovers - Ep 354
The Ultimatum Recap, Episodes 1-5: A Couple Of Coy Cuckolds - Ep 353
Love Is Blind Recap: Finale & Reunion | Breakups, Weddings & Sperm Baby-Gate - Ep 352
Q&A! Sexless Marriage And Your Friend Owes You $1000 - Ep 351
Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 7-9 | Ramses Says No To Ramses While Stephen Says Yes To Everything - Ep 350
Caller 📞 Sessions! "Did He Break The Bro Code By Telling Me About Another Guy's Cheating?" - Ep 349
Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 1-6 | The Pods To Mexico - Ep 348
Golden Bachelorette Recap: Finale | Joan, Guy & The Big Chock Block - Ep 347
Q&A! Being Direct, Burying Dreams And Playing Paparazzi - Ep 346
Golden Bachelorette Recap: Men Tell All | True Bromance + Charles Is Back In Black - Ep 345
Golden Bachelorette Ep 7 Recap: Standing Room Only In The Fantasy Suite - Ep 344
Q&A! Becoming The Mistress & Does "Pretty" Mean More Friends? - Ep 343
Golden Bachelorette Ep 6 Recap: Joan's Hometowns, A Tale Of 3 Cities - Ep 342
Golden Bachelorette Ep 5 Recap: Catch Chock If You Can - Ep 341
Q&A! Your Boyfriend Hates Your Singing & Friends Who Disappear When In Love - Ep 340
Golden Bachelorette Ep 4 Recap: It's Chock O'Clock For Joan - Ep 339
Golden Bachelorette Recap: Ep 3 | Joan & Pascal Hit The Vegas Strip - Ep 338
Q&A! How To Hit On Your Cousin, Unrequited Birthdays & Grey Hair: To Dye Or Not To Dye? - Ep 337
Golden Bachelorette Recap: Ep 2 | Joan And The Giant Leaf - Ep 336
Golden Bachelorette Recap: Ep 1 | The Arc Of Joan Begins - Ep 335
4 Year Anniversary Q&A! Answering YOUR Questions - Ep 334
Q&A! "Bad" Friends, Annoying Roommates & Confusing Gym Guys - Ep 333
Bachelorette Recap: Finale | Devin & Jenn, A Shakespearean Tragedy - Ep 332
LOVE FEST! Caelynn & Dean Bell Are Mega Yin Yang - Ep 331
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 8 + Men Tell All | Fantasy Suites & Hot Seats - Ep 330
Your Crappy Childhood Ft Anna Runkle, Aka Crappy Childhood Fairy - Ep 329
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | Hometownzzzzzzz... 😴 - Ep 328
Q&A! The Case For Fading, Judging Breastfeeding & Confronting Tardy Friends - Ep 327
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | Sam And The Case Of The Missing Adjectives - Ep 326
UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 4! - Ep 325
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | Farmer Devin & The Sheep Herders - Ep 324
Caller 📞 Sessions! Career Vs Love: "He Moved For My Dream And Now Says It's 'My Turn'" - Ep 333
Bachelorette Recap ft. Wells Adams: Ep 4 | Sam, Devin and Smoked Sam’N - Ep 332
Q&A! Bi-Curiosity, Sister Read Your Journal & Does Imitation = Flattery? - Ep 321 -Dear Shandy
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 3 | Smooth Fists, Rough Personality - Ep 320
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 2 | Devin Gets A Pearl Necklace - Ep 319
A Day In The Life Of Dave Neal - Ep 318
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 1 | Jenn Tran Makes History And A Historic Makeout - Ep 317
Q&A! Dating a Guy Who's TOO Handsome, A 14-Year Situationship, & Right Guy, Wrong Timing? - Ep 316
Caller 📞 Sessions! "Should I Avoid My Reunion Because I Feel Like An Outcast?" - Ep 315
Perfect Match Recap: Finale | How Did We Get Here & Why Did We Come? - Ep 314
Q&A! Holding Grudges, When He "Forgets" He Said The L-Word, and Big Age Gaps - Ep 313
Perfect Match Recap: Eps 7-9 | Harry Jowsey And The Bathroom Kiss Whodunit - Ep 312
Perfect Match Recap: Eps 1-6 | Shandy Pops Their Perfect Match Cherry - Ep 311
We Got A Dog!!! Shandy's Dog Adoption Story - Ep 310
Q&A! Morality Check, What To Do When Your Friend Deserves Better, & A Travel Am-I-The-A-Hole Bonanza! - Ep 309
Heal Your Attachment Pattern With Eli Harwood, Aka @AttachmentNerd - Ep 308
Q&A! Responding To Stupid Questions, Friend-less Fiancé, & To Wed Or Not To Wed? - Ep 307
Caller 📞 Session! "Is My Relationship Worth Saving?" - Ep 306
We're Officiants! Officiating Nick & Natalie Joy Viall's Wedding - Ep 305
Q&A! Too Much Complaining, The Seed Of Resentment & Is "Boring" Healthy? - Ep 304
The Genius Of Empathy With Dr. Judith Orloff - Ep 303
GOLDEN DIVORCE?! Gerry Turner & Theresa Nist's Bombshell Announcement - Ep 302
The School Of Dating With Matchmaker Maria (Part 2!) - Ep 301
Q&A! Competition In Friendship, High-Strung Low-Strung & Is "Nice" Enough? - Ep 300
LOVE FEST! Charity Lawson & Dotun Olubeko Are A Dreamy Double Date - Ep 299
Bachelor Recap: Finale | A Historic Bachelorette Crowning And The Twist That Never Was - Ep 298
LOVE FEST! Gerry Turner & Theresa Nist Share Their Post-Golden Wedding Glow - Ep 297
Bachelor Recap: Women Tell All | Pack Your Hammer & Your Olive Branch - Ep 296
Love Is Blind Recap: Reunion | Like Sands Through The Hourglass - Ep 295
Bachelor Recap: Ep 9 | Seeking The Fantasy in Fantasy Suites - Ep 294
Love Is Blind Recap: Ep 12 | One Wedding & A Funeral (The Finale) - Ep 293
Bachelor Recap: Ep 8 | Joey's Coming For Dinner (aka Hometowns) - Ep 292
Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 10-11 | Chelsea, Jimmy & The Impending Zombie Apocalypse - Ep 291
Bachelor Recap: Ep 7 | And Down The Hometown Stretch They Come - Ep 290
Love Is Blind Recap: Eps 7-9 | The Good, The Bad & The Clingy - Ep 289
Bachelor Recap: Ep 6 | Voulez Vous Faire Poutine Avec Moi - Ep 288
Love Is Blind Recap *PART 2*: Eps 1-6 | Jimmy Gets Out-Foxed - Ep 287
Love Is Blind Recap *PART 1*: Eps 1-6 | May The Pods Have Mercy - Ep 286
LOVE FEST! Brayden Bowers & Christina Mandrell On The Competition To Serve - Ep 285
Bachelor Recap: Eps 4 & 5 | Tag, You're Villain - Ep 284
Tap Into Your Intuition With Natalie Miles - Ep 283
Bachelor Recap: Ep 3 | To Bully Or Not To Bully - Ep 282
Q&A! Unrequited Generosity, The Gossip Mill, And Once Ick, Always Ick? - Ep 281
Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 | 30 Is The New 60 - Ep 280
Your Situationship Is Too Comfortable - Ep 279
Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | Everything's A Game And It's Joey's Serve - Ep 278
Q&A! Anxiety Talking On The Phone, The Middle Name, & If Shandy's Changed Their Tune On A 3-Year-Old Take - Ep 277
UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 3! - Ep 276
2023 IN REVIEW! 🎊 Your Favorites of 2023 Questions + Our Fave Q&As Of The Year! - Ep 275
Q&A! Andy's Advice To Guys On Approaching Women IRL, Phone Addiction & House Key Etiquette - Ep 274
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Finale | It's Always About The F***ing Ring - Ep 273
Golden Bachelor Recap: Finale | The Good, The Bad & The Gerry - Ep 272
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 9 | Relationships Crumble & The Dogs Come Sniffing - Ep 271
Q&A! Pre-Date Sleuthing, An F Sans The Buddy, & Red Wine Lucy - Ep 270
Will We Ruin A Good Thing By Moving In Too Soon? Help! - Ep 269
Golden Bachelor Recap: Fantasy Suites | Two Women, One Restaurateur - Ep 268
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 8 | Katie Thurston Hosts A Roast - Ep 267
Confessions With Katie Thurston - Ep 266
Golden Bachelor Recap: Women Tell All | A Tell All For The Ages - Ep 265
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 7 | The King & The Kat Burglar - Ep 264
Q&A! When A Good Guy's A Bad Kisser, "No Eggshells" Vs Shared Humor, & Having A Hot Dad - Ep 263
Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 6 | When Hometowns Hit Different - Ep 262
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 6 | The Scandal You Never Saw Coming - Ep 261
Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 5 | A Rollercoaster To Hometowns - Ep 260
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 5 | Another Cake Bites The Dust - Ep 259
Women Without Kids With Ruby Warrington - Ep 258
Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 4 | Pickle Me Pink - Ep 257
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 4 | Bacon, Eggs & A Side Of John Henry - Ep 256
Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 3 | Kathy & Theresa Take It Outside - Ep 255
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 3 | Cold Kat And Hot Sh$t - Ep 254
Q&A! Asking A Woman To Shave Her Legs, Paying For A Friend's Birthday, And Wanting A New Ring - Ep 253
Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 | Gerry, Take The Wheel - Ep 252
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 2 | Hannah Brown's Bonfire Of Bummers - Ep 251
Golden Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | It's Gerrrrrr-ific - Ep 250
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 1 | These Toes Were Made For Sucking - Ep 249
LOVE FEST! Hayley Kiyoko & Becca Tilley Are An Island & A Wave - Ep 248
I Accidentally Stoked My Boyfriend's Jealousy—Am I The A-Hole? - Ep 247
3 Year Anniversary Q&A! Answering YOUR Questions - Ep 246
Q&A! "Always A Cheater", A Locked Room In A Shared Home, & Helping A Shandy Make Friends - Ep 245
LOVE FEST! Chelsea Vaughn & Austin Tinsley On Life After Paradise Canada - Ep 244
I'm Accidentally Involved In A Cheating Scandal—Am I The A-Hole? - Ep 243
Bachelorette Recap: Finale | Charity Finds Love & Other Stuff Happens - Ep 242
Navigating Narcissism With Dr. Ramani - Ep 241
Bachelorette Recap: Men Tell All | FP and Lukewarm Tea - Ep 240
Q&A! Massively Passive, Don't Tell Me I'm Pretty & A Womp-Womp Wedding Gift - Ep 239
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | What Could Go Wrong In Fiji? - Ep 238
LOVE FEST! Alexis Waters & Tyler Fernandez Prove Opposites Attract - Ep 237
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | What's Love Got To Do With It? - Ep 236
My Parents Are Beefing—Am I Wrong To Pick A Side? - Ep 235
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | Family, Family, Family, Family, Family, Family, Family, Family... - Ep 234
UPDATES To Shandies' Questions, Volume 2! - Ep 233
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 4 | Big Stick Energy - Ep 232
Q&A! Too Much Perfume, Feeling Shallow, & The Lost Art Of Going Slow - Ep 231
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 3 | Will The Real AI Bachelorette Contestant Please Stand Up - Ep 230
He Won't Forgive Me For My Debt—Are We Doomed? - Ep 229
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 2 | Worst Spring Break Ever - Ep 228
LOVE FEST! Joe Amabile & Serena Pitt From Paradise To City Hall - Ep 227
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 1 | Undercover Brother & Operation Kiss & Tell - Ep 226
How To Be Your Own Therapist With Owen O'Kane - Ep 225
Q&A! Can "In Sight, Out Of Mind" Work, Differing Beliefs, & A Fetid Fetish - Ep 224
LOVE FEST! When Love Lands In Your Inbox With Bennett Jordan & Emily Chen - Ep 223
Do My Dating Requirements Make Me A Gold Digger? - Ep 222
Q&A! Engagement Envy, Torn Between Two Weddings, & Emotional Cheating, But... - Ep 221
We Plan To Elope But Fear His Parents Will Freak Out—Help!
The Psychology Of Reality TV Dating With Dr. Kirk Honda
Q&A! Forced Hugs, When Generosity Goes Too Far, and Who Should Have Paid?
Love Is Blind Recap: Finale + Reunion | Three Weddings & An Entertainment Funeral
How To Get Rich With Ramit Sethi
Love Is Blind Recap: Seattle Pt 2 | Countdown To Marriage-ageddon
Q&A! When Is It *Really* Over, Romance MIA, & Pickleball Fights
Love Is Blind Recap: Seattle Pt 1 | Bliss Is Back... But Not For Everyone
LOVE FEST! Ivan Hall & Tailour Roberson On Parting Ways To Grow Together (Oh, And Booking Brand Deals)
Love Is Blind Recap: Mexico | Love Less Blind Than Previously Thought
Goodbye Perfect: Overcoming Perfectionism With Homaira Kabir
Love Is Blind Recap: The Pods | Shandy's First Ever LIB Recap & First Impressions
My Ex Said He Wanted To Stay Friends—Should We?
Bachelor Recap: Finale | Love Triangle Of Sadness
Q&A! Accidental Orgy, Asking To Be The Plus-One, & The Ethics Of Tickling
Bachelor Recap: Ep 9 | Love Zachtually (Aka Fantasy Suites)
LOVE FEST! Getting Real (And Real Naked) With Danielle Maltby & Michael Allio
Bachelor Recap: Women Tell All | BIP Auditions And A "Surprise" Crowning
Bachelor Recap: Ep 8 | Pass The Syrup, Hold The Hometown Drama
I'm In A Situationship And Need To Suss Out My Next Move!
Bachelor Recap: Ep 7 | Budapest, Bathhouses, & Why We End Things
Open Relationships With Emily Gindlesparger
Bachelor Recap: Ep 6 | The Kat, The Witch & Wardrobe Optional
Q&A! Being The Mistress, Ending A Friendship, & A Hallmark Love Story
Bachelor Recap: Ep 5 | The Princess And The Tea
Chris Bukowski & Anna Redman On Being Best Friends Who Play Games
Bachelor Recap: Ep 4 | Kat’s Out Of The Bag & Fight Flub (ft. Claire & Emma Of Love To See It)
My Friends Keep Bringing Their Partners To Girls Night—Help!
Bachelor Recap: Ep 3 | Bones At The Museum & Man, Oh, Mandrell
Confessions Of A Matchmaker With Matchmaker Maria
Bachelor Recap: Ep 2 | A Latto Bad B*tches
Q&A! Statistical Likelihoods, A 28 Year Age Difference, & Sex Vs Commitment, Which Comes First?
Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | The Desperate Search For Ver-Zach-Y
We Broke Up Because Of His ED But Now He's Giving Mixed Signals—Help!
UPDATES To Shandies' Questions!
BEST OF 2022! Our Favorite Q&As Of The Year
Q&A! Considering Your Ex's Feelings, The Opposite Of Hate, And A Shandy Pep Talk
My Boyfriend Wants To Open Up Our Relationship—Help!
Q&A! Living With Mom, Mismatched In Dancing & Sending A Bad Text To The Wrong Person
Platonic: Navigating Friendships With Dr. Marisa G Franco
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Finale Part 2 | Victoria, Johnny and Greg... Oh My!
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Finale Part 1 | First Comes Fantasy Suite, Then Comes Neil Lane
LOVE FEST! Ben Zorn & Stacy Santilena On Going From Friends To More And Surviving Stagecoach
Bachelor In Paradise Recap Eps 13 & 14 | Andrew Has 99 Problems And Jessenia Is One
Q&A! Venting, Mismatched TV Tastes, And Is An Old Flame Worth Revisiting?
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 12 | Rodney, A Tragedy In Three Acts
I Broke My Ex's Heart & Think I Want Him Back—Help!
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Eps 10 & 11 | Red Flag Banquet And Boring In Stereo
How To Manifest Your Best Life With Roxie Nafousi
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Eps 8 & 9 | Shanae 1.0 Returns While A Love Triangle Brews
Q&A! Stealing Baby Names, Vocal Fry, And Refusal To Put Down The Toilet Seat
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Eps 6 & 7 | Down Goes Casey While Michael Flies First Class
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Eps 4 & 5 | Salley Finally Lands And Also... Peter
When, If Ever, Should I Disclose My "Number" In Dating? Help!
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Eps 2 & 3 | Suitcase Sagas And Fruit Fly Time
Navigating Mismatched Libidos With Sexologist Shan Boodram
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 1 | Logan Drops A Luce
Q&A! Rom-Com Scenarios, Cringey Pet Names And Sliding Into His (LinkedIn) DMs
Bachelorette Recap: Finale | A Breakup House And A Tino Kebab
LOVE FEST! Kenny Braasch & Mari Pepin On Homebody Life & Age Difference Upside
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 11 | A Kafka-Esque Battle Of Semantics
Should I Pack Up And Move My Whole Family For My Own Personal Happiness? Help!
Bachelorette Recap: Eps 9 & 10 | Fantasy Suites, Hold The Fantasy
2 Year Anniversary Q&A | Answering Our Shandies' Questions! - Ep 156
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 8 + Men Tell All | A Bewitching Hometown, Villains Gone MIA, & First Impression Rose Head
Q&A! Hot For Teacher, Turning The Other Cheek, & A 25 Year Age Difference
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | A Clown Car Of Hometowns
LOVE FEST! Blake Horstmann & Giannina Gibelli Talk DJ Life And Misconceptions
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | Did You Know Hometowns Are Around The Corner?
My Dad Won't Stop Talking About His Divorce From My Mom—Help! - Ep 150
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | The Villain Soundtrack Is On Repeat In Belgium
Parenthood Clarity With #ChildfreeByChoice Clarity Coach Keltie Maguire
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 4 | The Two Camps Set Sail In France
Q&A! Farting, Skeletons In The Apartment, & Sharleen's True Feelings On Andy's White V-Necks
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 3 | All Power Struggles Lead To A Fork In The Road
LOVE FEST! Abigail Heringer & Noah Erb On Misconceptions And Scheduled Walks
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 2 | A Villain Comes And Goes... And Comes Back Again
My Fiancé Won't Write Personalized Wedding Vows For Our Big Day—Help!
Bachelorette Recap: Two's A Crowd But So Far They're Still Friends
Q&A! A First Date Venmo, Safe Sex = Equal Effort?, & A Shandy's Love Letter
My Boyfriend Still Lives With His Ex—Help!
Bittersweet: How Sadness Is A Superpower With Susan Cain - Ep 138
Q&A! To BJ Or Not To BJ, Changing Your Date's Style, & The Women's Equivalent To Andy's "Men Are Mature At 36" Rule
LOVE FEST! Sarah Nicole & Shane Landry On Harnessing Jealousy & The Romance Of Logistics
He Wouldn't Quit Following Racy Accounts—Was I Being Too Uptight?
Unpacking Purity Culture With Blair Of @TalkPurityToMe
Q&A! In Ick We Trust, "If He Wanted To, He Would", and To Kill Or Not To Kill?
LOVE FEST! Courtney Robertson & Humberto Preciado On Instagram Vetting & Keeping The Peace
Navigating Romance When You Have Anxiety, OCD Or Depression With Allison Raskin
I Think I'm In Love With My Platonic Life Partner—Help!
Q&A! Fantasize On, Being The Other Woman, & When You Can't Find A Great Person Attractive
LOVE FEST! Dave Neal & Tasha Courtney On Grand Gestures & Being Friends First
Confessions of a Divorce Attorney ft. Nicole Sodoma
His Words And His Actions Don't Align—Should I Reach Back Out?
Q&A! When You're Annoyed By Your Partner's Hobby & How To Slide Into A Celeb's DMs
Bachelor Recap: Finale | Twists, Controversy, and Empathy... Oh My!
Parasocial Relationships With Josh Peck
My Long Distance Relationship Has Gotten Rocky—Help!
Bachelor Recap: WTA + Ep 9 | The High-Wire Act That Is Overnights
Our Wedding Story, Part 2 (aka Wedding Q&A!)
Bachelor Recap: Episode 8 | Meta Language & Outdoorsy Lessons In Hometown Week
Q&A! Returning The Ring, My BF Misses His Ex's Family, And DWI = Dealbreaker?
Bachelor Recap: Ep 7 | Couples "Therapy" And A Villain On The Side
LOVE FEST! Krystal Nielson & Miles Bowles On Opposites Attracting & The Fun Of Parenting
Bachelor Recap: Ep 6 | Undesirable "Dates", Simmering Beef, & Marionette Strings
Does My Fling Think I Moved For Him? Help!
Bachelor Recap: Ep 5 | The Art of Comedy And The No-Shame-Ae Show Heads To Toronto
Finding Purpose—With Or Without A Relationship—With John Kim, "The Angry Therapist"
Bachelor Recap: Ep 4 | BBQ Crashers & When Shrimp Cancels Cocktail Parties
Q&A! Whack-A-Mole Of Life, A Sexless Marriage, And Once Bad In Bed, Always Bad In Bed?
Bachelor Recap: Ep 3 | Loose Lips Sink Ships, High Thigh, and The Same Ol’ Playbook
LOVE FEST! Jacqueline Trumbull & Paul Seli On Overcoming Jealousy & The Art Of Making A Move
The Hunt For Red Flags
Bachelor Recap : Ep 2 | Hilary Duff, Kissing Fatigue, & Shanae-nah
Q&A! Annoyance Mitigation, Guys Who Don't Ask You Out, & Sh*tting Where You Eat
Bachelor Recap: Ep 1 | The Likeliest of Bachelors and Unlikeliest of Exits
Our Wedding Story
Bachelorette Recap: Finale | A Foregone Conclusion Wrapped With A Christmas Bow
LOVE FEST! Shawn Johnson & Andrew East On Holding Kites & Persistence Paying Off
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 9 | Official ILYs, Ziplining, and Fantasy Suites
My Boyfriend Just Broke Up With Me But Wants Shared Custody Of My Dog—Help!
Bachelorette Recap: Men Tell All | Apologies And Missed Opportunities Galore
Navigating Enmeshment and Setting Boundaries with Alyssa Mancao
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | Hometowns, Emotional Breakthroughs, & Punctual Professions Of Love
Q&A! Changing Names, Revealing FWB History, Sharing Secrets, & "Timing" Truths
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | No Tears? No Problem! A Bachelor Edit To The Rescue
LOVE FEST! Sarah Herron & Dylan Brown's Real Life Meet Cute & IVF Journey
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | Minneapolis Is For Lovers But Especially Joe & Nayte
My Boyfriend's Sister Is Increasingly Rude To Me—Should I Confront Her?
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 4 | Feeling Unseen, Teddy Bros, and D-List Villainy
Truths Bombs About Egg Freezing & Fertility with Whitney Bischoff Angel
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 3 | Petulance, Poetry, and Justice
Q&A! Number Ratings, Double Dipping, and Did He "Hit It and Quit It"?
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 2 | Basketball Bonding, Bad Spelling, and Rumors Swirling
LOVE FEST! 100 Foot Wave's Garrett and Nicole McNamara on "Knowing" and Never Settling
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 1 | If You Want To Make ABC Laugh, Tell Them About Your Plans
Should I Hold Out For Long Distance To End, Or Let Go And Enjoy Singledom? Help!
Breakup Bootcamp: Rewiring Your Heart with Amy Chan
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Finale | Breakups, Offscreen Makeups, and Proposals—Oh My!
Q&A! Everyday Annoyances, Early Stage Doubts, and Whether Or Not White Lies Equal Red Flags
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 10 | Ivan-Gate, Conspiracy Theories, and Memory Lanes
LOVE FEST! Jasmine Lorimer & Eric Johnson on Italian Accents and Love Languages
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 9 | Couples Get Serious As A *Literal* Storm Brews
My Boyfriend Just Can't Get It Right With Gifts—Help!
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 8 | Comeuppance, Universal Hypocrisy, and Palate Cleanser Dr. Joe
It's Our 1-Year Anniversary! A Special Q&A For Our Listeners, The Shandies!
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 7 | A VIP Party, Chris, & The Betrayals Continue
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 6 | Brendan & Pieper, Paradise's Bonnie & Clyde
Q&A! Fairytale Fantasies, Going Backwards, and How Many Friends With Exes Is Too Many?
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 5 | Becca Kufrin, Jewelry, and A "Strongest Couple" No More
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 4 | Strawberry Kisses, Betrayal, and Paradise "Implodes"
LOVE FEST! Chatty Broads' Jess and Evan Ambrose on Growing Together and Adapting To Parenthood
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 3 | Lance Bass, Thomas, and The Police Department
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 2 | Cat 4 Demi, Pot Meet Kettle, and The Value Of A Rose
Our Meeting Story Feels Serendipitous—But Am I Forcing This? Help!
Bachelor In Paradise Recap: Ep 1 | David Spade, Kissing Galore, and "Grocery Store" Joe's Anti-Game
How To Attract The Relationship You Want with Tracy McMillan
Bachelorette Recap: Finale | Terse Well Wishes, Aunt Lindsay, & A New Bachelor Nation Couple
Q&A! Relationship Nostalgia, Decoding FWB Situations, and Coulda Woulda Shoulda
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 9 | Greg, Greg, and More Greg (Plus Our Predictions!)
LOVE FEST! Nick Viall & Natalie Joy on How They Met and Building Trust
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 8 | Michael, Tear Analysis, and Men Tell All
My Boyfriend's Close Girl Friend Doesn't Like Me! Help!
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 7 | Katie’s an Empath, Mike P & His Mom, a Heartfelt Farewell
Relationship Astrology: Birth Chart Compatibility & Tarot Reading
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 6 | Hunter, "Operation WOWO", and Lose-Lose Situations
Q&A! First Love Lasting, Friends or More, & Money Insecurity in Dating
Bachelorette Recap: Ep 5 | Party Crasher Blake, Andrew S. 1-on-1, & Hunter
LOVE FEST! Katie Morton & James Rowe On Making Long-Distance Work
Bachelorette Recap: Episode 4 | Blake Moynes & Bachelor Thomas
In Spite Of Multiple "Wrongs", Can He Still Be Mr. Right?
Bachelorette Recap: Episode 3 | Right Reasons™ Drama, Nick Viall's Group Date, & Instagram Thomas
Demystifying Your Pelvic Health & Secret Tips For More Pleasure ft. Dr. Uchenna Ossai
Bachelorette Recap: Episode 2 | Mike's Poem, Aaron vs. Cody, & "Right Reasons" Karl
Q&A! Texting Chemistry, He's Just Not That Into You, & The One That Got Away
Bachelorette Recap: Episode 1 | First Impressions, Kayshia, & Our Predictions
LOVE FEST! Ben Higgins & Jess Clarke Reveal Why Their Relationship Works & Ben's Secret Zookeeper Past
My Long-Term Boyfriend Is Unsure About Marriage—How Long Is Too Long To Wait?
Nikki Glaser Confesses Crush on Nick Viall, Sliding Into Matt James's DMs & Secrets of Celebrity Dating
Q&A! Making the First Move & Rekindling Romance From the Friendzone
LOVE FEST! Sydney Lotuaco Reveals How Nick Wehby Slid Into Her DMs & Won Her Heart
Did I Miss My Proposal?!
Confessions of a Reality TV Dating Show Host ft. Mark L. Walberg (Temptation Island)
Q&A! Relationship Disillusionment
LOVE FEST! Desiree & Chris Siegfried On How Kids Have Impacted Their Relationship
I'm Secretly In Love With My Best Friend And Roommate—Help!
Confessions of a Family and Marriage Therapist ft. LizListens
Q&A! He's Everything I Want, But We Don't Share the Same Sense of Humor—Help!
LOVE FEST! Kaitlyn Bristowe & Jason Tartick Discuss Starting in the Friendzone
I Don't Yearn For My Partner When We're Apart—Is This A Bad Sign?!
Confessions of a Sex Therapist ft. Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy
EQ&A! Staying Connected with Exes on Social Media & Second Chances
LOVE FEST! Ashley Iaconetti & Jared Haibon Reveal How Their Love Story Is the Exception to the Rule
My Boyfriend and I View COVID Differently—Is This A Deal Breaker?!
Navigating Jealousy in Relationships & Exploring Non-Monogamy ft. Janet W. Hardy
EQ&A! Keeping the Chemistry Alive & Navigating Unhappy Marriages
ELOVE FEST! Derek Peth & Saffron Vadher Talk Love At First Sight
Did My Date Fake Sickness to Abruptly Leave Our Date?!
Our Proposal Story
Q&A! Compromising for Relationships & Leaving Lost Causes
LOVE FEST! Rachel Lindsay & Bryan Abasolo Address Marriage Rumors and Cat Plates
We're at an Emotional Stalemate—Should We Break Up?
EThe Do's and Don'ts of Managing Finances As A Couple
Q&A! Dating Leagues & Yellow Flags
LOVE FEST! Lesley Anne Murphy & Alex Kavanagh Talk Moving, Pregnancy, and Their Drone Love Story
Should I Tell My Ex Lover's Girlfriend About Our Secret Affair?
Confessions of a Divorced Man in His 40's ft. Comedian Dov Davidoff
Q&A! My Boyfriend Is Following His Ex's OnlyFans—Is This Borderline Cheating?!
LOVE FEST! Astrid Loch & Kevin Wendt Talk Meeting on Bachelor in Paradise & Dominos Love
I've Never Been in a Meaningful Relationship—Help!
Enneagram Types in Relationships ft. Certified Enneagram Coach Steph Barron Hall
Q&A! Dating Younger Men, Navigating Breakups, & Zombie Apocalypse Sex
ELOVE FEST! Vanessa Grimaldi & Joshua Wolfe Chat Poop & Poutine
My Date Doesn't Ask Questions — Is it Him Or Me?
Can You Remain Friends With an Ex? ft. Andy's Ex-Fiancée
EQ&A! Prenups, Defining the Relationship, & Playing It Cool
ELOVE FEST! Caila Quinn & Nick Burrello Talk Relationship Hurdles & Hobbit Feet
My Real-Life "The Bachelor" Dating Scenario
Welcome to Dear Shandy & How We Met