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Get Your Marriage On! with Dan Purcell — 305 episodes

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306: When You're Fighting Your Own Pleasure (Peggy & Steve Coaching Series, Part 4)

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305: When You Don't Know How to Like Yourself (Peggy & Steve Coaching Series #3)

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304: When You're Both Trying, But Your Sex Life is Just Stuck (Peggy & Steve Coaching Series, Part 2)

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303: When Sex Feels Like Work (Peggy & Steve Coaching Series, Part 1)

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302: She Didn't Think Sex Could Be for Her - A Sextimony

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301: What's the Difference Between "Having Sex" and "Making Love?" Part 2

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300: What's the Difference Between "Having Sex" and "Making Love"?

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299: "I'll Never Be Enough" vs. the "Try-sexual"

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298: Hormones and Libido for Women (and Men) with Shelly Wilkinson

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297: Boost Testosterone Naturally and Optimize Sexual Health with Dr. Jerry Duggar

11

296: The Nervous System Secret to Better Sex, with Morgan Starr-Reistis

12

295: Building a Sexually Intimate Marriage, Brick by Brick, with Lindsey Maestas

13

294: How to Write Erotic Stories for Your Spouse

14

293: BONUS Q&A - Anal Play, Masturbation, Not Good Enough, and Is This Ok?

15

292: From Sexual Shame to Sexual Wholeness with God's Help, with Natalie Hamblin

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291: Oral Sex Q&A: First-Time Nerves, Performance Pressure & Feeling Desired (BONUS episode)

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290: What actually gets a woman turned on, according to a sex expert? PART 2

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289: What actually gets a woman turned on, according to a sex expert? PART 1

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288: BONUS - Love Anyway: Choosing Your Spouse Even When It's Hard, with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

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287: 10 Habits for a Sexy Marriage from a Sex & Intimacy Expert

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286: BONUS: Orgasmic Meditation - Getting Into Your Body & Receiving Loving Touch

22

285: How Temperament Shapes Desire, Sex, and Intimacy in Marriage (And Why You Can't "Fix" It)

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284: How to Work Smarter on Your Marriage for Real, Lasting Change

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283: ADHD & Sex: Why Desire, Rejection, and Novelty Feel So Intense, with Kamden Hainsworth

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282: Pressure vs. Passion: How to Pursue Your Spouse That Invites Connection

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281: More Sex Didn't Fix Intimacy, But This Did Instead (Roberth & Laticia's Story)

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280: 2025's Best Black Belt Sex & Intimacy Tips

28

279: Attachment Styles, Emotional Healing, and Being a Secure Lover in Marriage

29

278: Intimate Exposure: Boudoir & the Journey to Self-Acceptance with Lindsey Burns

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277: When 'Good' Gets In The way of Good Sex: 3 Mindset Shifts

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276: Lingerie and Self-Confidence, with Melina Weekes of Dainty Lace

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275: Two Types of Intimacy You've Never Heard About

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274: The Challenge to Grow Up with Dr. Corey Allan

34

273: Financial Foreplay: The Unexpected Way to Build Trust and Turn On Intimacy, featuring Dan Ockey

35

272: Firm Erections and Keeping Mr. Happy Happy, Part 2

36

271: Firm Erections and Keeping Mr. Happy Happy, Part 1

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270: Mixed-orientation and Impossible Marriages with Laurie Krieg

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269: Q&A: Porn Alternative, Oral Sex, Sex & Spirituality, Low Desire & Discrepancies

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268: How to Love Through Your Sexuality, with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

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267: Bad Marriage & Sex Advice, with Monica Tanner

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266: When Your Spouse's Fantasy Pushes You Too Far (and When Yours Gets Rejected)

42

265: Planning a Bedroom Party Worth Going To, with Tammy Camp

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264: Sexual Arousal and Sexual Confidence

44

263: Mindset Shifts for Better Than Happy Intimacy, with Jody Moore

45

262: Masturbation: Connection or Division? A Perspective You Haven't Heard

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261: Bonus: 30 Days to a New You and a More Intimate Marriage

47

260: When the Higher Desire Spouse Stops Initiating - What to Do in Four Steps

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259: Squirting, Female Ejaculation, and The Foundation for Sexual Adventure & Novelty

49

258: 10 Game-changing Ways to Make Intercourse Awesome

50

257: Bonus - Blowjobs Aren't Just for Husbands

51

256: Eyes Open or Closed During Sex? What It Says About Intimacy

52

255: Still Waiting for Orgasm? A Loving Guide for Women Who've Tried Everything

53

254: Pornography and White Rice: Nourishing Your Marriage with Real Erotic Connection

54

253: Quickie - The New Lube Evree-one Is Talking About

55

252: Cunnilingus Mastery: 12 Tips Every Husband Should Know Before Going Down On His Wife

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251: Quickie - Frenulum Orgasms: The Clitoral Orgasm for Men?

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250: 10 Steps to Have the Hard Conversations You've Been Avoiding in Your Marriage

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249: Quickie - Why Your Spouse Avoids Affection and What to Do About It

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247: What Men Wish Women Understood about Male Sexuality, Part 1

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248: What Men Wish Women Understood about Male Sexuality, Part 2

61

246: Love Worth Making Part 2, with Dr. Stephen Snyder, MD

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245: Love Worth Making Part 1, with Dr. Stephen Snyder, MD

63

244: Q&A Sexual Fantasies

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243: Seven Sizzling Sexy Summer Date Ideas with Macey Walters from The Dating Divas

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242: Affair-proofing Your Marriage, with Andrea Giles

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241: Higher Desire Wives Aren't Alone, with J. Parker

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240: Faking Orgasms, Toys, Role of Porn, and Exploring More Intimacy In Marriage

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239: Sharing the Mental Load for Great Sex, with Dr. Morgan Cutlip

69

238: 7 Candid Answers To Prepare You For A Thriving Sex Life

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237: Menopause Shouldn't Suck, with Alisa DiLorenzo

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236: Your Adult Playground: Transforming Your Sex Life From Obligation to Desire

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235: Two Truths and a Lie: Marriage Edition, with Sheila and Keith Gregoire

73

234: Three Cringe-worthy Marriage & Intimacy Advice, According To A Therapist

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233: It's Never Too Late to Reinvent Your Marriage: A Sextimony

75

232: Why So Many Marriages Struggle with Sex (And What to Do About It)

76

231: Learning to Love Your Body: A Story of Hope from a Boudoir Photographer

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230: Upping Your Oral Sex Skills & Adding Adventure to Your Intimacy

78

229: Optimal Sexual Experiences: 8 Factors Backed By Research with Dr. Peggy Kleinplatz

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228: Why Perfect Sex is Ruining Your Love Life (And What to Do Instead)

80

227: How to Cool Down Your Nervous System to Heat Up Your Sex Life

81

226: How To Infuse Creativity into Your Sex Life with Role-Play

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225: The Secret to a Scintillating Sex Life

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224: The 5 Phases of a Sexual Relationship

84

223: An Honest Conversation About BDSM (Hint: It's Not What I Expected) - Part 2

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222: An Honest Conversation About BDSM (Hint: It's Not What I Expected) - Part 1

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221: Q&A - "Help! My Wife is Vanilla When it Comes to Sex"

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220: Black Belt Sex Tips 4.0

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219: How Playing With Your 5 Senses Opens the Door to More Erotic Connection

89

218: The Well-Sexed Wife

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217: Eroticism: What Does Your Sexuality Want? with Jessa Zimmerman

91

216: Is Wanting Sex Selfish, Dissatisfied by Erectile Dysfunction, Wife's Secret Erotica, and Dildos - Q&A Part 2

92

215: Sex After Porn, Premature Ejaculation, Discomfort Beyond Missionary Position, Wanting To Be Desired - Q&A Part 1

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214: When Wives Have The Higher Sexual Desire

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213: Does Sex Therapy Actually Work for Libido Differences? The Shocking Research Results!

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212: Create A Party Your Libido Wants To Come To with Sofia Ashley

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211: Sexual Dry Spells: When Safety Kills Passion

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210: The G-Spot Guide: How to Stimulate, Explore, and Enjoy Together!

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209: Stop Trying to Change Your Marriage. Let Your Marriage Change You Instead.

99

208: How This Couple Is Rewriting Their Scripts About Sex & Intimacy For Good

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207: Top 10 Sex Positions from the Intimately Us App (Sextember Series #4)

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206: What Are Your Yeses, Nos, and Maybes in the Bedroom? (Sextember Series #3)

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205: ForePLAY that Wins The Day (Sextember Series #2)

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204: Flirting and Initiating in Marriage (Sextember Series #1)

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203: Why Honesty, Risk, and some Fair Play Lead To Great Connection with Alyson Bullock

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202: Fatherhood and Fidelity: Men on Keeping Marriage Alive

106

201: The Art of Cherishing Your Spouse, Part 2

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200: The Art of Cherishing Your Spouse, Part 1

108

199: How to Banish Fear, Anxiety, and Boredom for a Thriving Sex Life

109

198: Q&A - Erotic literature, overweight husband, discussing trying new things, and wooing your spouse

110

197: How We Revitalized Sex and Intimacy as Busy Parents: A Sextimony

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196: Handjobs, Pegging, Mismatched Libidos, Husband Won't Let Me Initiate: Q&A

112

195: Are You a "Sexual Over-functioner?" with Dr. Kathleen Smith

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194: "Is this ok for us to do?" Seeking God's Direction In Your Sex Life

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193: The Fast and Furious: Over-Coming Premature Ejaculation, featuring Mark Goldberg

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192: Why is it Hard to Keep Sex Passionate When You've Been Married for a Long Time? with Jenn Pinkerton & Dan Purcell

116

191: What the Heck is 'Relational Self-awareness,' and How Does it Help You Be a Better Lover? with Dr. Alexandra Solomon

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190: Cultivating Healthy Eroticism in Long-term Marriages, with Dan Purcell

118

189: The Secret to Saving Our Sabotaged Sex Lives (and how they got so messed up in the first place!), with Rhonda Farr

119

188: Awesome Intercourse and Pleasurable Penetration, with Susan Bratton

120

187: How Often Are Couples Actually Having Sex & Your Other Intimate Questions Answered, with Hailey Reidhead

121

186: The Art of Dirty Talk (SPOILER ALERT: it's not actually dirty), with Melanie Studley

122

185: What Happens When Women Explore Their Own Sexuality and Other Questions Answered

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184: The Anatomy Of A Sex Date, with Dr. Glenn & Phyllis Hill

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183: The Anatomy of Emotional Intimacy & Connection Codes, with Dr. Glenn & Phyllis Hill

125

182: Intimacy Isn't Always a Walk in the Park - Answering Your Questions About Relationships, Sex, Communication, Orgasms, and Fantasies

126

181: 4 Pillars to Take Intimacy From Sub-optimal to First-Rate, Both In and Out of the Bedroom, featuring Dr. Juli Slattery

127

180: The Secret to Transforming Your Marriage Isn't So Hidden After All: A Conversation with Dan, Amy, Tammy, and Greg

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179: Having An Orgasm vs Living Orgasmically: What's the difference? with Tammy Hill

129

178: Why Christians Should Be Having the Best Sex, Featuring Francie Winslow

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177: Coaching A Couple Through Resurrecting Their Dead Sex Life, with Dan Purcell & Amy Langford

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176: Pregnancy & Postpartum Sex, Sexting, Swinging, and Meddlesome Masturbation Habits - Q&A with Dan Purcell

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174: Dirty Talk, Bondage, Masturbation and More - Q&A with Dan Purcell

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173: How to Initiate Sex Like a Pro, Featuring James Christensen

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172: Vagina & Pelvic Floor Power with Pauli, Physical Therapist

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171: Would You Rather…? Sexy Edition & Embracing Your Eroticism

136

170: Behold Your Beautiful Body Through the Lens of Boudoir Photography!

137

169: 8 Reasons Why Sex in Marriage is Hard (But Also Worth the Effort!)

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168: How Your Marital Power Dynamics Are Affecting Your Sexual Relationship

139

167: Successful Vacation Sex & Romantic Getaways, According to a Romance Consultant

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166: 12 Ideas to Make Christmastime Extra Sexy

141

165: How a Marriage Retreat Rescues, Renews, and Revitalizes Your Relationships (5 case studies)

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164: Creating Space for Moms (and Dads) to Feel Like They Are in Control Again with Ariel Finlinson

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163: Overcoming Newlywed Hesitations, Expressing Desires, Premature Ejaculation, Masturbation Views - Q&A

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162: How to Keep Your Marriage Hot in the Middle of Raising Little Kids with Kingdom Sexuality

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161: Whole-hearted Lovemaking and Stage 3 Sex, featuring Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

146

160: I Don't Need You (But I Want You), and Mindful Loving

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159: For the Men: Embracing Your God-given Sexuality for an Intimate Marriage

148

158: The #1 Limiting Factor in Your Sex Life, According to a Marriage Expert

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157: 7 Ways To Put the PLAY back in FOREPLAY and Make Sex Fun, Not Work

150

156: How the 9 Personality Types Influence Your Sex Life, According to Relationship Expert Christa Hardin

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155: Sex is Weird: Embracing the Awkward, Fetishes, Butt Stuff, and Building a Marriage for Two - Q&A

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154: Good Vibrations: How To Close the Orgasm Gap in Your Marriage Tonight, Featuring Amanda Louder

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153: How a Sexy Bedroom Game Took Our Sex Life to the Next Level with Dan & Emily Purcell

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152: Your Sexual Fantasies: Once Upon a Time in a Bedroom Far, Far Away

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151: How a "Good Girl" and Her Husband Bravely Chose a Better Sex Life: A Sextimony

156

150: Black Belt Sex Tips 3.0

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149: Afraid Your Husband Will Reject or Ignore You AGAIN tonight? Featuring Dr. Laurie Watson

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148: How Hannah Learned to Love Sex and Her Body (Next Level Sneak Peek)

159

147: The Penis Episode with Joshua Savage, PA-C

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146: Female Orgasm, Premature Ejaculation, and Why It's So Hard To Be a Higher Desire Spouse - Q&A

161

145: Yes Dear, Size Does Matter (if we're talking about your heart) featuring Dr. Clifford and Joyce Penner

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144: Learning to Love Sex, Higher Desire Wives, Sexual Imagery - Q&A

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143: How Seductive Are You? featuring Dr. Michael Sytsma

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142: Expressing Your Preferences Without Offending, Sex Ed for Your Kids, Novelty & Pleasure - Q&A

165

141: Hormones and Female Sex Drive with Cody Sanders

166

140: Entanglement and Toxic Individualism with Aimée Gianni

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139: Building Intimacy while Building a Business with Monica Tanner

168

138: 9 Sex Tips for International Lovemaking Day and Beyond

169

137: Blowjobs Aren't Just For Husbands with Danielle Savory

170

136: Sex When Aging with Natalie Wilton

171

135: Talking to Your Teenagers About Sex with Sheila Wray Gregoire

172

134: When Developing One's Sexuality Leads to a Faith Crisis

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133: Slip into something a little more authentic tonight! with Amber A. Price

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132: Praying For Your Sex Life with Dan Purcell

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131: How to Be a Power Couple with Melanie Studley

176

130: Lingerie? YES PLEASE! with Alex and Kadie of EveryLove Intimates

177

129: Retrain Your Brain with Dr. Paul Jenkins

178

128: Overcoming Pornography for Good with Sara Brewer

179

127: Cultivating "Biblical Eroticism" with Dr. Jennifer Degler

180

126: Sex Positions for Connection and Pleasure

181

125: When Past Sexual Abuse Haunts A Marriage

182

124: Dangers of Duty Sex with Dr. Cami Hurst

183

123: Next Level Sneak Preview: Getting Out Of A Rut

184

122: Narcissism and Emotional Immaturity with Tony Overbay

185

121: How I Learned to Orgasm: A Sextimony with Ashley

186

120: Squirting and Female Ejaculation

187

119: How Women "Kill Their Husbands Softly" (And How to Avoid It) with Ramona Zabriskie

188

118: When Your Spouse Doesn't Speak Your Love Language with Dr. Corey Allan

189

117: From Purity Culture to Developing One's Eroticism with Brandi K. Harris

190

116: Why "Nice Guys" Have Bad Sex Lives: A Sextimony

191

115: How to Take Your Intimacy to the Next Level in 2023

192

114: The Practice of Love with Lair Torrent

193

113: How Men Can Have Multiple Orgasms with Dan Purcell

194

112: Masturbation and Sexual Agency with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

195

111: Tantric Sex: A Wholehearted Connection with Tammy Hill

196

110: Why Men Aren't Always in The Mood with Dr. Sarah Hunter Murray

197

109: Healing from painful sex with help and faith: A sextimony

198

108: Our Story of Healing from Sexual Shame: A Sextimony

199

107: Learning to Love Sex: A Sextimony with Jeff & LeAnn Austin

200

106: Intimacy: More Will Than Skill with Dr. Dave Schramm

201

105: Uncompromising Intimacy with Alexandra Stockwell

202

104: Sexual Adventure & Male Pleasure Ideas with Keelie and Austin Reason

203

103: Normal Marriage Problems & Next Level Sex - Part 2

204

102: Normal Marriage Problems & Next Level Sex - Part 1

205

101: Overcoming Roadblocks to Intimacy & Sexual Desire with Amy Langford

206

100: Black Belt Sex Tips 2.0

207

99: Healthy Body Image with Vanessa Oly

208

98: Vaginal and Reproductive Health with Dr. Allison Rodgers

209

97: When Success At Work Doesn't Turn Into Success In Marriage with Rhonda Farr

210

96: Thoughts on Loving Well

211

95: Hormones, Periods, and Sex with Ashlee Sorensen

212

94: Masculine Leadership in Relationships with GS Youngblood

213

93: How to Fix a Sexless Marriage with Braxton Dutson

214

92: Painful Sex No More with Dr. Rose Schlaff

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91: How to Talk Dirty Without Feeling Dirty or Awkward with Melanie Studley

216

90: Healing from Sexual Trauma with Nicole Graf

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89: Foreplay Throughout The Day with Dan Purcell

218

88: Money and Intimacy with Juli and Thomas Hobby

219

87: Healing From Pornography with Zach & Darcy Spafford

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86: Initiating Sex with Dan Purcell

221

85: When Emotional Intimacy Doesn't Come Easy For Men with Randell Turner

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84: When the Higher Desire Spouse is Anxious For Sex with Dan Purcell

223

83: Q & A About Sex & Intimacy (Part 2) with Jenny Rose

224

82: Q & A About Sex and Intimacy with Jenny Rose

225

81: The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex with Sheila & Keith Gregoire

226

80: When You Don't Feel Validated By Your Spouse with Jessica Vaughan

227

79: Role Play Sex with Jon & Katie Runyan

228

78: Libido, Sexual Desire, and Food with Dan Purcell

229

77: Moving Beyond Superficial to Deeper Connection with Adam and Karissa King

230

76: Lets Ask a Sexpert with Manda Carpenter

231

75: Amazing Intercourse with Ruth Buezis

232

74: Restoring Marriage While Overcoming Porn-Fueled Shame with Clinton and Charity Munoz

233

73: Life is short. Have great sex. with Al Carraway

234

72: Date Nights and Scoring "Home Runs" with Kate and Eric MacDougall

235

71: How to Talk to Your Spouse About Sex with Amanda Ammons

236

70: What to Do If Your Spouse Isn't Interested with Dan Purcell

237

69: Overcoming Hang-ups with Oral Sex with Dan Purcell

238

68: How I Fixed My Husband with Laura Doyle

239

67: Pursuing Desire Together with Alana & Paris: Kingdom Sexuality

240

66: Developing Gourmet Sex Skills with Cami Hurst

241

65: Goals, God, and How to Have Romantic Getaways

242

64: Improving Intimacy is an Inside Job with Jeff and Tom

243

63: From Brink of Divorce to Intimate Lovers with Mark and Mindy

244

62: Sex is For Both Of Us, Not Just For Him: Maegan Denotter's Sextimony

245

61: How We Gained Confidence In The Bedroom: Faith and Brennan's Sextimony

246

60: I Took Charge of My Orgasm: Sharon Williams's Sextimony

247

59: Intimate Communication and Sex As A Language with Dan Purcell

248

58: Improving Intimacy with Sex Toys with Teresa & Blair

249

57: Finances and Intimacy with Ashlee Binderim

250

56: Commuter Marriages with Elaine & Abe Romero

251

55: When Infertility Interferes with Intimacy with Sadie Banks

252

54: Media's Impact on Sexual Desire and Intimacy with McCall Booth

253

53: Praying For Your Husband Daily with Julie Bender

254

52: Black Belt Sex Tip Roundup with Dan Purcell

255

51: How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex with Tammy Hill

256

50: Sharing your Load with Dr. Morgan Cutlip

257

49: How to Listen So Your Spouse Will Talk with Oliver & Denise Marcelle

258

48: Grief and Sex with Cecilie Ott

259

47: Self Care & the 3-2-1 Rule with Dan Purcell

260

46: Joy's Journey: Overcoming Shame, Porn, and Painful Sex

261

45: Everything Isn't Terrible with Dr. Kathleen Smith

262

44: Mindfulness & Sex with Dr. Chelom Leavitt

263

43: Is It OK to do ____ in bed? with Daniel Burgess

264

42: Religion and Positive Male Sexuality with Dr. Anthony Hughes

265

41: From Doing It Out of Duty to Desire with Dan Purcell

266

40: Dating Your Spouse After Kids with Tara Carson

267

39: What a Boudoir Photographer Taught Me About My Body with Caley Newberry

268

38: Rewriting Your Sex Script with Dr. Ian Kerner

269

37: Scheduling Sex with Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo

270

36: Desire, Fantasy, and Foreplay with Dr. Laurie Watson

271

35: More than Just a Body with Ariel Finlinson

272

34: Horizontal vs Vertical Novelty with Dan Purcell

273

33: Sexual Agency with Carlie Palmer-Webb

274

32: Purity Culture's Impact on Your Marriage, with Dr. Camden Morgante

275

31: Getting In Touch With Your Sexuality with April Davis

276

30: Fixing the Fairness Trap in Marriage with Dr. Nate & Kaley Klemp

277

29: 'I Want You' vs. 'I Want Sex' with Dan Purcell

278

28: Understanding Your Spouse using the Enneagram with Christa Hardin

279

27: For High Desire Wives

280

26: 'Maturing in Marriage with God' with Dana Che

281

25: What a Pelvic Floor Therapist Taught Me About Sex with Dr. Becky Allan and Dr. Corrie Maguire

282

24: Putting Pleasure in its Proper Place with Danielle Savory

283

23: How A Bedroom Game Changed Our Marriage with Dan & Emily Purcell

284

22: Are We Roommates or Lovers? with Dr. Chavonne Perotte

285

21: How To Do A Sexy Lap Dance with Keelie & Austin Reason

286

20: Dealing with Desire Level Differences with Jessa Zimmerman

287

19: Defying the Odds to Create a Confident Marriage with Sean and Jessica Weeks

288

18: Your Entitlement Hinders Your Intimacy with Seth & Melanie Studley

289

17: Awakening Your Sexuality with Ruth Buezis

290

16: Prioritizing Date Night with Amberly Lambertsen

291

15: Affairs, Healing, and Intense Intimacy with Geoff Steurer

292

14: Overcoming Pornography Use to Strengthen Your Marriage

293

13: Who's to Blame for Not Getting Enough Sex?

294

12: All About Lube

295

11: Why "Nice Guys" Have Bad Sex Lives, and What To Do About It with Nate Bagley

296

10: Limiting Beliefs & Intimate Breakthroughs with Amanda Louder

297

9: Closing The Orgasm Gap with Sheila Wray Gregoire

298

8: Whole Hearted Loving & Stage 3 Sex

299

7: Confidence In The Bedroom

300

6: When You Feel Like You're Always Begging For Sex & Settling For Scraps

301

5: Overcoming Female Sexual Dysfunction with Dr. Jessica McCleese

302

4: A Sex-First Approach to Strengthening Your Marriage with Monica Tanner

303

3: Being Yourself is Super Sexy, with Celeste Davis

304

2: Variety Adds Vitality with Laura M. Brotherson

305

1: Developing Deeper Intimacy for Better Sex with Rhonda Farr