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How To! with Mike Pesca — 393 episodes

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Beating Yourself Up? The 10-Second Play That Outsmarts Your Inner Critic

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How To Ditch Your Distractions Once and For All

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How To Get Into Wine

4

How To Connect With An Audience

5

How to Coach Your Kid

6

How To Maximize Your Credit Card Points

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How To Bounce Back From Burnout

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How To Manage Your Anger

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ENCORE How To Make a Huge Decision In 60 Minutes... Or Less

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How To Solve a Mystery

11

How To Communicate with Your Pet

12

How to Not Say "Um"

13

How To Protect The Elderly From Scammers

14

How To Take Psychedelics for Your Mental Health with Dr. Will Van Derveer

15

How To Make A How To Podcast

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How To Ghostbust The Old Fashioned Way

17

How to Emigrate as a Throuple

18

How To Be a DJ, Not a Playlist with Tom Nash

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Announcing: How To! with Mike Pesca

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How To Start Writing (w/ Anna Quindlen & John Dickerson) Encore

21

Now Is the Time to Escape Your Bad Relationship. Here's How. (Encore)

22

How To Rob a Bank (Encore)

23

How To Never Miss a Deadline (Encore)

24

How To Know When to Quit Your Job (Encore)

25

How To Confront a Vindictive Neighbor with Tig Notaro (Encore)

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Our Favorite Advice of 2025

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Quick Fix: Date Night Done Right

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How To Create 'Marriage Rules' as a Couple

29

Quick Fix: Sexual Fawning

30

How To Stop Fawning

31

How To Sing in Front of Other People

32

How To Give to a Good Cause—and Make It Count

33

How To Learn to Love Your City

34

How To Move to a New City

35

Quick Fix: The Reality of Owning a Home

36

How To Take Charge of Home Repair (with Sam Sanders and Mercury Stardust)

37

How To Talk to Contractors (With Sam Sanders and Mercury Stardust)

38

How To Stop Snoring

39

How To Survive Getting Fired

40

Quick Fix: Dismantling Male Supremacy

41

How To Harness Your Anger

42

Quick Fix: Starting Conversations About Identity

43

How To Raise a Boy

44

How To Quit IVF (and Start a New Chapter)

45

Quick Fix: The Afterword

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Update: Losing Your 'Virginity' at 43

47

Quick Fix: Carvell's Take on Hypnosis

48

How To Use Hypnosis

49

Quick Fix: How to Be an Atheist Chaplain

50

How To Quit Your Dream Job

51

Quick Fix: Meet Your Neighbors

52

How To Host With Ease

53

How To Be a Better Coach (Encore)

54

How To Declutter Your Digital Life

55

Quick Fix: Three Pillars of Parenting

56

How To Raise a Kid in a Polarized Family

57

How To Let Go of ADHD Shame

58

How To Gossip for Good

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How To Be an Ethical Hater

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Quick Fix: The Let Them Theory

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How To Get Sweet, Sweet Revenge

62

Quick Fix: Slow Down (and Try This Art Exercise)

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How To Stop Giving 110%

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How To Start Reading Books Again (Encore)

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How To Balance Mind, Body—and iPhone

66

Quick Fix: Drawing as Stress Relief

67

How To Draw Outside the Lines

68

How To Live With Chronic Pain

69

Quick Fix: Siblings Get the Freshman Blues, Too

70

How To Send Your Kid to College (and Keep Your Distance)

71

How To Repair Your Stuff

72

How To Discover Your Kink

73

Quick Fix | Challenge #4: Spring Cleaning

74

How To Get a Great Haircut

75

How To Parent With a Disability

76

Living at Odds | 4. A Quiet Fight for LGBTQ Rights

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Living at Odds | Bonus: How To Find an Ancestor

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Living at Odds | 3. Making Amends for Ancestors

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Living at Odds | 2. An Education in Opposition

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Living at Odds | 1. Two Partisans, One Corner

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Quick Fix | Challenge #3: Social Media Cleanse

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How To Replace Your Tesla

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Quick Fix: Writing a Great Sex Scene

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How To Write Your Memoir

85

How To Discover Music You'll Love

86

Supercommunicators | 3. How to Have the Hardest Conversations

87

Quick Fix: Moving 575 Books

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How To Lose Your 'Virginity' at 43

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How To Interview Someone

90

Supercommunicators | 2. How to Communicate Without Words

91

Quick Fix | Challenge #2: Sleep Hacks

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How To Protect Your Parents From Fraud

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Supercommunicators | 1. How to Talk to Anyone

94

How To Outsmart Your Student Loans

95

How To Have the Best Sex of Your Life (Encore)

96

Quick Fix: Letting Go of Guilt

97

How To Rebuild Your Life After a Wildfire

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Quick Fix | Challenge #1: Make Every Day Exciting

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How To Set Limits With an Ex

100

How To Harness Your Citizen Superpowers

101

How To Switch Careers in Midlife

102

Quick Fix: Moving to Portugal 101

103

How To Become an Expat

104

How To Talk Politics With Your Dad (Without Yelling) Pt 2 - Encore

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How To Talk Politics With Your Dad (Without Yelling) Pt 1 - Encore

106

Quick Fix: Stuff We Loved in 2024

107

Our Favorite Advice of 2024

108

How To Exorcise Your Fitness Demons

109

How To Plan an Estate (Before It's Too Late)

110

How To Throw a Party They'll Remember (Encore)

111

Quick Fix: Finding the Perfect Mattress

112

How To Face the Future (Gen Z Edition)

113

How To Man Up About Male Birth Control

114

How To Lead Your Local Nonprofit

115

How To Face Your Fear of Dying (Encore)

116

How To Cope With Forever Parenting

117

How To Be Less Judgy

118

Quick Fix: Pick the Perfect Plant

119

How To Stop Killing Your Plants

120

How To Care for an Aging Parent

121

How To Grow Your Podcast

122

How To Rethink Screen Time

123

Quick Fix: Building Trust in an Emergency

124

How To Survive a Disaster

125

How To Cook at Home Like Sohla El-Waylly

126

How To Fall Out of Love (Encore)

127

How To Be a Family (and Still Be You)

128

How To Do Housework (and Not Hate It)

129

How To Put a Toxic Job Behind You

130

How To Be Funny (5th Anniversary Edition)

131

How To Date With a Disability

132

How To Be a Mindful Grandparent

133

How To Take a Sabbatical

134

How To Survive a Shark Attack (Encore)

135

How To Make Bank at a Yard Sale

136

How To Start Strength Training

137

How To Move Past Your Toxic Ex

138

How To Be Lonely

139

How To Take a Gap Year

140

How To Confront a Vindictive Neighbor with Tig Notaro (Encore)

141

How To Handle Feedback at Work

142

How To Flirt With Confidence

143

Carvell Wallace on Another Word for Love

144

How To Find Your People After a Mental Health Diagnosis

145

How To 'Do the Work' of Racial Justice

146

How To Bring a Big Idea to Life

147

How To Crack Up Your Coworkers (Encore)

148

How To Make Humor Your Superpower (Encore)

149

How To Help a Loved One With Dementia

150

How To Say What You're Thinking

151

How To Rethink Retirement

152

How To Let Go of a Friendship

153

How To Evolve a Friendship

154

How To Find Friends in Unexpected Places

155

How To Be a Mindful Drinker

156

How To Plan Your Next Adventure

157

How To Be Free Of Body Shame

158

How To Stop Snoring and Breathe Easier (Encore)

159

How To Make Small Talk Feel Big

160

How To Keep Caring Amid Endless Crises

161

How To Age Like an Elite Athlete

162

How To Cook One Perfect Meal (Rerun)

163

Our Favorite Advice of 2023

164

How To Transition From Soldier to Civilian

165

How To Carve Out Creative Time

166

How To Grieve an Estranged Parent

167

How To Talk Politics Without Wrecking Relationships (Encore)

168

How To Get Through Menopause

169

How To Build a Marriage That Lasts

170

How To Hit "Reset" on Your Career

171

How To Let Go of Kid Clutter

172

How To Build Trust With Co-Workers

173

How To Find Love Where You Least Expect It

174

How To Get Out of Debt Faster Than You Think (Encore)

175

How To Say Goodbye to Your Pet

176

How To Follow Your Small Business Dream

177

How To Learn Any Language Fast

178

How To Find Your People

179

How To Navigate Adult Autism

180

How To Fill an Empty Nest (Encore)

181

How To Live Anywhere in the World

182

How To Cope With Climate Anxiety

183

How To Show Up For a Friend With Cancer

184

How To Deal With a Difficult Parent

185

How To Make Aging Easier for Everyone

186

How To Hack Any Bureaucracy

187

How To Stop Finding Your Self-worth Through Your Job (w/ Gloria Chan Packer)

188

How To Find Genuine Happiness

189

How To Find the Gems in All Your Junk

190

How To Quit Your Calling

191

How To Help Teachers Thrive

192

How To Sleep Apart to Save Your Relationship

193

How To Sleep Like a Champ

194

How To Deliver Bad News Better

195

Dear Prudie: My Husband Wants Our 9-Year-Old Son to Play Tackle Football. Help!

196

How To Raise Kids in a Nation Full of Guns

197

How To Face the A.I. Revolution

198

How To Start Reading Books Again

199

How To Breathe Like a Navy SEAL

200

How To Succeed at Social Media

201

How To Bounce Back From a Layoff

202

The Upside of Stress: A Slight Change of Plans with Dr. Maya Shankar

203

How To Make Imposter Syndrome Your Superpower

204

How To 'Chaos Cook' With Samin Nosrat

205

How To Style Your Home Like a Pro

206

How To Manage Your Precious Time

207

Encore: How To Find Your First Kiss at 38

208

How To Face Your Kid's Future

209

How To Command a Room

210

How To Love Your Face

211

How To Stick to Your New Year's Resolutions

212

How To End Political Violence (From an Ex-Gang Leader)

213

How To Prevent Another Jan. 6

214

Our Favorite Advice of 2022

215

How To Forgive Someone Who Isn't Sorry

216

How To House Everyone in Your City

217

How To Throw a Party They'll Remember

218

How To Know When to Quit Your Job

219

Encore: How To Write a Bestseller

220

How To Make a Huge Decision In 60 Minutes... Or Less

221

How To Parent Your Depressed Teen

222

How To Talk Politics With Your Dad (Without Yelling) Pt 2

223

How To Talk Politics With Your Dad (Without Yelling) Pt 1

224

Encore: How To Not Be Scared

225

How To Put Your Town on the Map

226

How To Do Divorce Right

227

How To Be Yourself in an Interracial Relationship

228

How To Pick a College (And Actually Afford It)

229

How To Make the Leap to Your Dream Job

230

How To Have a Healthier News Diet

231

How To Unbreak the News

232

How To Survive a Silent Retreat

233

How To Restore Nature in the Heart of a City

234

How To Save the Planet, Starting With Your Yard

235

How To Be an Artist and Not Starve

236

How To Stop Being an Emotional ATM

237

How To Parent Less

238

How To Become a Parent Overnight

239

How To Orgasm

240

Encore: How To Get Your Dog to Stop Eating Your Daughters' Underwear With Jenny Slate

241

How To Dress with Confidence

242

How To Run for Office Without Being an A**hole

243

Encore: How To Stand Up for Your Kid When Society Won't

244

How To Raise a Future College Athlete

245

How To Ditch the Apps & Actually Find a Date

246

How To Make Sexual Consent Sexy

247

How To Be a Lazy Genius

248

How To Bounce Back From Burnout

249

How To (Really) Help Refugees

250

How To Change a Mascot Without Tearing Apart Your School

251

How To Solve Your Own Medical Mystery

252

How To Start Writing (w/ Anna Quindlen & John Dickerson)

253

How To Speak Up So Others Listen

254

How To Stand Up To a Workplace Bully

255

How To Make Friends... Like a Man

256

How To Have Happy Regrets

257

How To Stop 'Having It All' (Before You End Up With Nothing)

258

Encore: How To Win Gold Without Losing Yourself

259

How To Fight With Your Parents

260

How To Beat Hackers at Their Own Game

261

How To Crack Up Your Coworkers (Without Being Offensive)

262

How To Make Humor Your Superpower

263

Encore: How To Succeed When Everyone's Mad at You

264

How To Squash Your Fear of Bugs (and Other Phobias)

265

How To Eat Whatever You Want

266

How To Break the Spell of Social Media

267

How To Save a Friend from a Bad Relationship

268

Our Favorite Advice of 2021

269

When To Say Goodbye to a Difficult Dog

270

How To Get Your Dog to Stop Barking (Without Barking Back)

271

How To Embrace Your Anti-Vax Family This Holiday Season

272

How To Advance Your Career by Quitting Your Job

273

How To Get Your Book Published

274

What To Do When Your Husband Becomes Your Boss

275

How To Beat the Dreaded Midday Slump

276

How To Make Friends as an Adult

277

How To Keep Cool in a Crisis

278

How To Stop a Fight Before It Starts

279

How To Coach Squirrelly Kids (and Screaming Parents)

280

How To Fill an Empty Nest

281

How To Crack Your Kid Like a CIA Operative

282

How To Live With a Dirty Family Secret

283

How To Succeed When Everyone's Mad at You

284

How To Beat Your Hidden Biases

285

How To Repair a Broken Relationship Before It's Too Late

286

How To Reconnect with Your Kid After a Nasty Divorce

287

How To Never Miss a Deadline

288

How To Ditch Your Distractions Once and For All

289

Congrats, You Won the Olympics. Now What?

290

How To Make a Big Purchase Without Panicking

291

How To Fight Outrageous Medical Bills

292

How To Trick Your Brain Into Running Longer

293

I'm a Recovering Alcoholic. I'm Afraid My Kids Will End Up Like Me.

294

After a Year of Survival, How to Start Living Again

295

How To Have the Best Sex of Your Life

296

My Kid's Anxiety Is Giving ME Anxiety! How Do I Fix This?

297

The Single Most Important Thing to Know Before Becoming a Single Parent

298

How To Stand Up to Your Terrible Manager—Without Getting Fired

299

How To Have a Fight That Actually Helps Your Relationship

300

Now Is the Time To Escape Your Bad Relationship. Here's How.

301

I'm Great at My Job. So Why Do I Feel Like a Fraud?

302

How To Give a Killer Speech

303

I Was Lost at Sea for 438 Days. Here's How I Survived.

304

How To Fight Rattlesnakes and Polar Bears

305

How To Write the Perfect Obituary

306

How To Make an Exit Like Mary Poppins

307

How To Stop Snoring (And Breathe Easier)

308

How To Quiet the Chatter in Your Head

309

How To Survive a Doomsday Cult

310

How To Fall Out of Love

311

How To Start Over at 60

312

How To Leave the Church When Your Dad's the Pastor

313

How To Steal Back Your Identity

314

How To Be a Badass On and Off the Court

315

How To Get Things Done in a Divided Nation with Samantha Power

316

Our Favorite Advice of 2020

317

How To Stress-Bake with Claire Saffitz

318

How To Get Your Dog to Stop Eating Your Daughters' Underwear With Jenny Slate

319

Bonus Ep - How To Get Out of Debt Faster Than You Think

320

How To Face Your Fear of Dying

321

How To Save Your Marriage

322

How To Rescue Someone From a Conspiracy Theory

323

How To Have an Open Relationship

324

How To Be the Next Erin Brockovich

325

How To End a Sibling Rivalry With Kate & Oliver Hudson

326

How To Avoid Becoming Your Mother

327

Bonus Ep - How To Get People to Vote

328

How To Survive a Public Shaming With Katie Hill

329

How To Talk Politics Without Wrecking Relationships

330

How To Lose Weight and Keep It Off

331

How To Get Away With Murder

332

How To Win Arguments Like a Hostage Negotiator

333

Cheat Sheet: How To Survive High School & Whatever Comes Next

334

Cheat Sheet: How To Talk to Your Son About Sex

335

Cheat Sheet: How To Ace Zoom School

336

How To Become Your Own Boss with Guy Raz

337

How To! Presents: "Cheat Sheet"

338

How To Confront a Crazy Neighbor with Tig Notaro

339

How To Get That Promotion You Deserve

340

How To Survive a Shark Attack

341

Bonus Episode - 'Hello Monday' with Jessi Hempel

342

How To Write a Bestseller

343

How To Fight Racism in Your Town

344

How To Stand Up for Your Kid When Society Won't

345

How To Walk Away from an Impossible Parent

346

How To Find a New Career Before it's Too Late

347

How To Get a Stubborn Parent to Listen

348

How To Say the Right Thing at the Worst Time

349

How To Lose 155 Pounds Happily

350

How To Talk to Strangers

351

How To Actually Enjoy Working from Home

352

How To Save the Planet (And Still Use a Plastic Straw)

353

How To Stop Procrastinating

354

Quarantine Q&A: Masks

355

How To Tame a Chaotic Household

356

How To Not Go Crazy Under Quarantine

357

How To Forgive the Unforgivable

358

How To Find Your First Kiss at 38

359

How To Get Your Mom to Accept You

360

How To Vote for the Next President

361

How To Write the Perfect Breakup Song with Ben Folds

362

How To Convince People to Give You Money

363

How To Protect Yourself Against the Coronavirus

364

How To Put Your Wife's Career First

365

How To Kick a Meth Habit

366

How To Rob a Bank

367

How To Propose (to a Man)

368

How To Make Your New Year's Resolutions Stick

369

How To Give a REALLY Big Gift

370

How To Remember Everything

371

How To Sleep

372

How To Get Your Kid To Finally Grow Up

373

How To Cook One Perfect Meal

374

How To Win At Online Dating

375

How To Perform Under Pressure

376

How To Withstand Pain

377

How To Not Be Scared

378

How To Fire Your Daughter

379

How To Put Down Your Phone

380

How To Be Funny

381

How To Decide To Have a Baby

382

How To Go On a Family Adventure

383

How To Look Like a Superhero

384

How To Stress Your Kid the Right Way

385

How To Survive a Pandemic

386

How To Stop Being Anxious

387

How To Uproot Your Life

388

How To Cook One Perfect Meal

389

How To Fire a Bad Employee

390

How To Withstand Pain

391

How To Be Funny

392

How To Give Your Mom a Kidney

393

How To Rob a Bank