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it's not just you — 98 episodes

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what if we're toxic friends?

2

what if i'm not loving freshers?

3

'she's my bestie but i'm not hers'

4

why guy friends get complicated when you're single

5

stop waiting for your life to begin

6

what no one tells you about your first relationship

7

is catch-up culture killing our friendships?

8

how will i know when i'm ACTUALLY in love?

9

if you're noticing THIS in your friendship... don't ignore it

10

i keep clashing with my best mate

11

things every girl can relate to on their period

12

if you're single look out for these green flags

13

'i really struggle with body confidence in summer'

14

if you're a single girl in your late 20s, this episode is for you

15

i have no idea what i wanna do when i graduate

16

'i want more money'

17

help! he's living in my head rent free

18

my insecurity is killing my friendships

19

why does being a good friend feel like a full time job

20

i'm too busy for a relationship

21

should i argue with my bf in front of my friends?

22

the full wedding debrief (rach is now a wifey) !!!

23

thoughts every single girl in her late 20's has had

24

i'm attracted to him but he's not my type

25

why does maintaining my adult friendships feel so hard?

26

how to have the best hen do

27

will i ever get married?

28

i don't know how to comfort my friends

29

getting into a relationship after being single for so long

30

i wish i could tell my younger self this

31

i'm in my twenties and i'm worried my friendships aren't going to last

32

i've been rejected and i feel awful about it

33

life's too short to not take risks

34

how do i learn to like my unedited appearance?

35

am i where i should be at 27?

36

how do i know if he's the one?

37

our unfiltered opinions on going to the gym

38

how to survive a medium-distance relationship

39

would you rather: best friend edition

40

getting into my first relationship at 26 years old

41

the truth about university freshers

42

living through non-stop change in my 20s

43

rach is engaged !!!

44

my best mates started dating each other

45

i’m single and all my friends are getting engaged

46

no one told us we'd miss uni this much

47

would you do these things with your best mate?

48

i'm 26 and i've never had a boyfriend

49

i can't stop comparing myself to my best friend

50

i have big dreams and i feel stuck

51

i struggle to let people love me

52

everyone in the group is closer to each other than they are to me

53

i find making close friends hard

54

my birthday stresses me out

55

how to get through long distance

56

the world of skincare stresses me out

57

the reality of being single in your 20's

58

it's january and i'm struggling

59

5 questions to ask your friends before 2025

60

don't do this in front of the guy you like

61

the moment we realised our friendship had become unhealthy

62

am i actually attracted to him?

63

i'm never going on a group holiday again

64

i've realised my parents aren't perfect

65

i need to ask for help but i can’t

66

why won't he notice me

67

i need to confront them but i don't know how

68

i feel like i'm in competition for a friend

69

i feel pressure to drink

70

i've lost my friend to their relationship

71

help! i don't look good in anything i wear

72

i don't get on with my best friend's boyfriend

73

i'm never going to be beautiful enough

74

i think i'm catching feels

75

six questions to ask yourself before the new year

76

i find christmas quite hard

77

i’m in my 20’s and everything keeps changing

78

i like my friends more than they like me

79

why am i so embarrassing

80

i'm 24 and i've never had a boyfriend

81

what not to do on a first date

82

i'm tired of having fomo

83

is it weird to stalk someone on social media?

84

how do i show a guy i like him?

85

i don't want to share my best friend

86

am i the only one who feels alone?

87

what should i be doing in my twenties?

88

do i look as good as my friends?

89

i just got rejected by the guy i like

90

we used to be friends and now we’re not

91

my friend's going through a breakup and idk what to do

92

my body's changed and i don’t like it

93

how do i know if i'm in the right relationship?

94

i want to be happy for them but i just feel jealous

95

why can friendships with guys be so complicated?

96

i can't stop talking about people behind their backs

97

i just want my friends to be single

98

we have a podcast !!!