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Playing With Fire — 265 episodes · page 2 of 3
167 Unfuck Your Monomind, Part 2
E166 Q&A Quickie: How do I deal with my anxiety when my partner is on a date?
165 Monogamy, In This Economy? with Laura Boyle
164 I HATE THIS: Get Unstuck with Existential Kink (A shadow work method)
E163 Playfulness, Vulnerability, and Parenting with Abbey & Liam from Evolving Love
162 Non-Monogamy & Community: Real Stories from YOO
E161 Adopting a Polyamorous Lens with Alex Alberto, Author of Entwined
E160 Getting Your Needs Met
E159 Q&A Quickie: How can I handle my resentment that my partner isn’t into what I want?
158 Desire Discrepancy: What to Do When Your Wants Don’t Align
157 What Is Compersion? with Author Marie Thouin
156 Betrayal Trauma & Non-Monogamy
155 Q&A Quickie: How do we rebuild from lost trust?
154 Research-Backed Therapy for Non-Monogamous People with Dr. River Farrell
153 Limerence vs. New Relationship Energy
152 How to Take Intentional Relationship Breaks
151 Justice Jealousy
E150 Asymmetric Agreements: How much balance should we strive for?
149 Relationship Agreements 101
148 Can my attachment style do non-monogamy?
147 How to Build Healthy Differentiation
146 Will non-monogamy make it possible to stay together?
145 How can I handle dysregulation in my relationships?
144 Handling Polyamory Problems: Q&A with Polywise Authors Jessica Fern and David Cooley
143 Consent, Stronger Relationships, and Hotter Sex in a Changing World with Author Dr. Eric FitzMedrud
E142 Enmeshment: Are you over-functioning in your relationship?
141 Being Polywise with Jessica Fern and David Cooley
140 [Replay] Balancing Individuation & Secure Attachment with Polysecure Author Jessica Fern
139 Hinge Skills Part 2: How to Go From Squeaky Hinge to Skilled Tapestry Weaver
138 How can I be a better hinge partner?
137 Handling the Stress of Relational Growth
136 Help, I got poly-bombed!
135 Veto Power: The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly
134 Agreements, Boundaries, and Consequences
133 Doing the Relationship Work
132 Why am I not enough?
131 De-Escalating Relationships with Care
E130 Turn Your Toxic Attractions Into Psychological Growth with Sunny Megatron
E129 Imago Dialogue: Transforming Conflict into Connection
128 Unfuck Your Mono-Mind
E127 Comperstruggle: When Jealousy & Compersion Collide with Dr. Marie Thouin
126 Finding Your People with the Hosts of Normalizing Non-Monogamy, Emma & Fin
125 The Jealousy Roadmap
124 Are you ready to bring your whole quirky self to your relationships? with Rachel Wright
123 Weasel Words and Creating More Intimacy in your Relationships
122 Get The Skills to Build your Own Relationship - With Guest Expert Carrie Jeroslow
121 Am I cut out for non-monogamy? Finding safety during your exploration
E120 How do I break through relationship stagnation?
119 Soft Cock Week with guest expert Michelle Renee
E118 Are there quick and easy ways to manage stress? A: Yes. With guest experts Elisabeth Kristof, Melanie Weller, and Matt Bush
117 Business and pleasure with Beth Hankes
116 Mindful Dating with guest expert Marie Thouin
115 The Nature of Relating with guest expert Megan Bhatia
114 Non-monogamy is a psychological growth lab: Are you ready?
113 How to do hard things & build exceptional love with Neuro-Somatic Intelligence expert Elisabeth Kristof
112 Sex clubs and more with Ashley Weller from What's Your Position podcast
E111 Build Your Relationship Toolkit with guest experts Dedeker, Emily & Jase of the Multiamory podcast
110 How surrogate partner therapy works with guest expert Brian Gibney
109 We Opened Up & EEK! What to do when exciting beginnings turn scary
108 What would you do with your full power? A conversation about kink, power exchange, and everyday life with Mollena Williams-Haas
107 Power dynamics for non-kinksters (part 2) How to share power when you were raised to be an entitled jerk & a martyr
106 The conversation that will change your life: Power dynamics for non-kinksters
105 Shadow work: What if your monsters were trying to help you live the life you always wanted?
E104 Help! What can I do with all my feelings when my partner is on a date?
103 How to successfully ask your partner to explore non-monogamy
102 How to find, create, and enjoy non-monogamous community with guest expert Libby Sinback
101 Three ways of being polyamorous
100 Finding relationship happiness through creative projects
99 Balancing individuation & secure attachment with Polysecure author Jessica Fern
98 You're *too much*
97 Jealousy and sexual arousal: getting off on the green-eyed monster!
96 Which is better: To open from the start or to establish couplehood first?
95 Envisioning Your Dream Relationship
94 Romantic Friendships: Subversive & Awesome
93 [MOST POPULAR EPISODE replay] Relationship agreements in the wild
92 Finding help and hope during your shift from monogamy to polyamory
91 How to deal with criticism so it doesn't ruin your relationships with Dr. Jessica Higgins
90 How to make exciting relationship changes less scary
89 Which relationship style is right for you? Learn the taxonomy of non-monogamy
E88 How do I build sensual & sexual desire?
87 Is polyamory practical? with guest Laura Boyle
86 Stop compromising in your intimate relationships.
85 How can I feel more compersion? with Dr. Marie Thouin
84 How to have happier relationships using Neuro-Somatic Intelligence
83 How to heal from jealousy and envy
82 Choosing an individuation relationship with or without your partner
81 Here's why we are Playing with Fire!
80 Creating conscious, compassionate, open relationships with guest author Kate Loree, LMFT
79 Expansive Intimacy with Jim Young, The Centered Coach
78 How, When & Why to Visit a Pleasure-Centered Shop with Beth Hankes from Earth & Salt
77 Naturally attract the partners you long for with guest Allana Pratt
75 Leaving purity culture for a life you love - with guest Lauren Elise Barnes
74 Why is my partner so weird? Wait, why am I so weird?
73 How to start building a designer relationship
72 How to be a classy visitor to a strip club with expert guest Elle Stanger, CSE
71 Doing what you said you'd do: When accountability works and when it doesn't
70 Guest Expert Megan Bhatia: Choosing Polyamory While Raising a Family
69 The Year Of Opening
68 Train Your Nervous System to Transform Your Relationships with Elisabeth Kristof
67 Exploring **Potential** Kinks